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Work Can Be a
Blessing UNDERSTANDING QUARANTINE AND ISOLATION
Something for Every Senior to Contemplate:
Is That All There Is? By Don Ardell I was recently asked if there is there more to health than not needing too many medications, not having a disease, not being overweight, not being a smoker or someone who drinks too much. Or is that what being healthy is all about? The question reminded me of a Peggy Lee song called, “Is That All There Is?” The lyrics are profound and existential. This is the haunting refrain:
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Is that all there is? Is that all there is? If that’s all there is my friends Then let’s keep dancing Let’s break out the booze and have a ball If that’s all there is.
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By Professor Abné M. Eisenberg It all depends upon how you define the word, “work.” If work is your hobby, it’s not work. Most people look forward to retirement because it means not having to do the work they did for the past 25 or 30 years. Work can be defined in more than a dozen different ways. The definition that pops up via Google is, “an activity involving mental or physical effort done in order to achieve a purpose or result.” Such a simplistic definition, however, doesn’t scratch the surface of what work can mean to a person. It often includes elements such as emotionality, creativity, satisfaction, dedication, motivation and perseverance. Beyond these, it can also provide an invisible or unexplainable joy. Confucius said, “Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your life.” In my opinion, work is the antidote to everything that ails you. Providing, of course, it is the kind of work that gives meaning to your life and to the lives of those with whom you share it. The greatest benefit of work, in my view, is that it redirects your attention away from your ego and toward what nourishes it. A well-nourished ego enables you to enjoy the moments you glean from doing the work you love. Few things in life are more gratifying to me. Work is a process. Whatever occupation or profession one pursues, it will involve some preparation, and, at times, great sacrifice. Overcoming those obstacles makes the joy of success even more rewarding. Getting up toSee WORK, Page 27
You have to decide if that’s all there is in the largest possible sense—we all have our opinions about the meaning(s) of life. One of my favorite interpretations is from Robert Green Ingersoll, a 19th-century American orator, given in tribute to his br ot her, Clark: “Life is a narrow vale between the cold and barren peaks of two eternities. We strive in vain to look beyond the heights. We cry aloud—and the only answer is the echo of our wailing cry. From the voiceless See HEALTH, Page 27
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My mother would always say that people could choose their friends but not their relatives. This comment would always come out of frustration with my Aunt Nora. Aunt Nora was in need of medical care and assistance. She lived with my grandmother, who was unable to care for, or, should I say, cope with Aunt Nora. Aunt Nora was considered stubborn, because she wouldn’t do what was necessary to allow others to care for her. Does this sound familiar? Are you trying to care for someone in your family who won’t cooperate? Are they your parent, spouse or adult child? What can you do? Well, first and foremost, I encourage people to seek outside intervention. A care manager can formulate a plan to assist not only the patient but the family support members. An outsider, especially a professional, such as a nurse, is able to look at the situation objectively. It’s always easier to care for a stranger than to help a relative, right? My nursing team recently helped a family in such a situation. The family didn’t know what to do. They couldn’t imagine how anyone could help them. They were afraid of upsetting the person who needed the help, and they were certain he’d never agree to it. Having suffered years of verbal abuse, they thought there was no way to gain control of the situation, even though they knew he had memory impairment and impaired judgment. It took patience and perseverance. The nurse took the time to fully understand the family dynamics and his medical needs. The nurse determined that many of the client’s
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Difficult times medical needs had actually gone unaddressed because he wasn’t under the care of a general practitioner; he was only seeing a cardiologist. The general practitioner was able to help the client by appropriately diagnosing and treating the cause of his anxiety. Once this was done, he was amenable to receiving the care he needed. Everyone was in agreement that it was time for him to move into an assisted living facility, and he has flourished since he made the move. There is help. I always recommend getting the primary care physician on board; sometimes a small amount of the right medication can help diffuse the situation by decreasing the anxiety. Having the help of a care manager will ensure an appropriate plan of action is put into place for your loved one while lending support to the family by advising them on how to approach each situation. As an advocate for our clients and their families, it is rewarding to see everyone relaxed, with the patients well cared for in appropriate settings, while allowing the much-needed respite time for the caregivers and family. With this holiday season already upon us, more demands are made on our time...don’t be shy. Ask for help. Make sure you get the extra pair of hands you need. Remember, take care of yourself first, or you will not be any good to anyone else. If you have a concern, viewpoint or comment with regard to this article, Let’s Talk! Provided by Ruth Fanovich, RN, LHRM, Owner, Care Placement Home Health Agency, Inc. and RMF Care Management, Inc. www.CarePlacementHH.com.
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FROM THE PUBLISHER The Complicated Holidays
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I remember growing up in the 70s it seemed that the holidays were so simple. I had one set of parents and two sets of grandparents. Each of my parents had one set of in-laws and one set of parents. Oh how easy it was to work out where dinner was and who was going to be there. Boy oh boy have times changed. Today, it gets just a bit more convoluted, doesn’t it? With so many divorces and blended families, you never know who is showing up to a holiday dinner. And as our children get married, then they are smack dab in the middle of a blended family. Where you used to have young couples that had to choose between two families, now it can be choosing between four families. And for many parents that can be very frustrating. And for the kids they are in a no-win situation. So what are we left to do? Many families, who are in this situation, have chosen to celebrate the holidays on different days so that at least they can have some time during the holiday season together. Other families, now don’t think I am crazy, have even seen the ex’s come together for a major holiday. This can be a sticky situation, but for some people it does work out. The key, I find, is that all the hatchets really need to be buried. As well, the first few times you try this you might want to have other people there so as not to force conversations that aren’t there. Sometimes the most innocuous statement can be corrupted or misconstrued. But one thing I always try and remember is something my Great Aunt taught me. She told me about how her mother would always invite in a few people that did not have anyone to celebrate the holidays with. I think this is truly one of the most important things we can do during any holiday. Take a look around at those that could be less fortunate or are on their own this year and welcome them in for the celebration. You never know the new friendship that can be developed from that. So whether it is Christmas or Hanukkah you are celebrating, all of us at Senior Voice America want to wish you a very happy holiday and a wonderful New Year. Thanks so much for your support of our publication, radio show and our advertisers that help bring these to you.
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Anticipating Christmas
Cranberry juice means Christmas to me. It’s more than the ruby-bright hue and the taste of that sweet holiday zing. It’s because cranberry juice reminds me of time spent with my family. It reminds me of good days past and somehow also the good days to come. Wherever you’ll be spending this holiday season, may your days be filled with this same sense of joyful gratitude—gratitude for the people who have loved us and whom we have been privileged to love, and assurance that the future holds more goodness for us. I have only a small poem to offer, but I pray that this holiday season wraps you round with light and love. Merry Christmas! Cranberry juice brings me back to breakfast around my grandparents’ table, sharing a kitchen crammed with six decades of meals taken and conversation over simple food that speaks to the heart of happiness. Cranberry juice brings me back to the window over the sink where morning always lends the farm a sympathetic, old and new blue hue of sunrise and tall firs tap against the glass as if to say, we know you, too. Cranberry juice brings back the mystery of long-loved land as seen through child’s eyes and how the low, satisfied hum of a refrigerator sounds like family. In cranberry juice I see glasses perched atop my grandfather’s nose while he reads the morning paper
and my grandma in a red dressing gown makes brown coffee. In cranberry juice I hear the phone ring in the day’s first tidings from a friend and the sound kitchen chairs make when moved around the floor. Cranberry juice brings me back to an oven door open for warmth as the farm speaks softly of winter and root songs rise up from underground. Cranberry juice brings back the stars snapping and crackling in a black molasses country sky. It means no more city lights, but instead a car horn in the night to say, We are here. We are home.
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Health Roundup
Understand Quarantine and Isolation
Questions & Answers
When someone is known to be ill with a contagious disease, they are placed in isolation and receive special care, with precautions taken to protect uninfected people from exposure to the disease. When someone has been exposed to a contagious disease and it is not yet known if they have caught it, they may be quarantined or separated from others who have not been exposed to the disease. For example, they may be asked to remain at home to prevent further potential spread of the illness. They also receive special care and observation for any early signs of the illness. How long can quarantine and isolation last? What is done to help the people who experience isolation or quarantine? The list of diseases for which quarantine or isolation is authorized is specified in an Executive Order of the President. This list currently includes cholera, diphtheria, infectious tuberculosis, plague, smallpox, yellow fever, viral hemorrhagic fevers (Lassa, Marburg, Ebola, Crimean-Congo, South American, and others not yet isolated or named), Severe Acute Respiratory Syndrome (SARS), and influenza caused by novel or reemergent influenza viruses that are causing, or have the potential to cause, a pandemic.
Isolation Isolation would last for the period of communicability of the illness, which varies by disease and the availability of specific treatment. Usually it occurs at a hospital or other health care facility or in the person’s home. Typically, the ill person will have his or her own room and those who care for him or her will wear protective clothing and take other precautions, depending on the level of personal protection needed for the specific illness. In most cases, isolation is voluntary; however, federal, state and local governments have the authority to require isolation of sick people to protect the public.
Quarantine
Modern quarantine lasts only as
long as necessary to protect the public by (1) providing public health care (such as immunization or drug treatment, as required) and (2) ensuring that quarantined persons do not infect others if they have been exposed to a contagious disease. Modern quarantine is more likely to involve limited numbers of exposed persons in small areas than to involve large numbers of persons in whole neighborhoods or cities. Quarantined individuals will be sheltered, fed, and cared for at home, in a designated emergency facility, or in a specialized hospital, depending on the disease and the available resources. They will also be among the first to receive all available medical interventions to prevent and control disease, including: • Vaccination • Antibiotics. • Early and rapid diagnostic testing and symptom monitoring. • Early treatment if symptoms appear. The duration and scope of quarantine measures would vary, depending on their purpose and what is known about the incubation period (how long it takes for symptoms to develop after exposure) of the disease-causing agent.
Examples A few hours for assessment. Passengers on airplanes, trains or boats believed to be infected with or exposed to a dangerous contagious disease might be delayed for a few hours while health authorities determine the risk they pose to public health. Some passengers may be asked to provide contact information and then released while others who are ill are transported to where they can receive medical attention. There have been a few instances where state and local public health authorities have imposed a brief quarantine at a public gathering, such as a shelter, while investigating if one or more people may be ill. Enough time to provide preventive treatment or other intervention. If public health authorities determine that a passenger or See Q & A on Pg. 7
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Health Roundup
Safe and Healthy Travel for Senior Citizens The retirement years can be an exciting time to see the world, and travel is easier and safer than ever before for seniors. With a little planning and some caution, seniors can safely visit almost any destination. Before travel, seniors should have information about their destination that could affect their health, such as the altitude and climate. They should be aware of whether the destination is prone to natural disasters, such as earthquakes and hurricanes, since seniors may have more problems in those extreme situations.
Vaccines Before travel, seniors should be up-to-date on routine vaccines, such as measles/mumps/rubella and seasonal flu. Some of these may be considered “childhood” vaccines, but the diseases they protect against are often more common in other countries than in the United States. More than half of tetanus cases are in people over 65, so seniors should consider getting a tetanus booster before they travel. Seniors should also receive other vaccines recommended for the countries they are visiting. These may include vaccines for hepatitis, typhoid, polio, or yellow fever. Recommended vaccines are listed by country on Center for Diseace Control’s destination pages. Use of some vaccines may be restricted on the basis of age or chronic illnesses. Yellow fever vaccine, for example, should be given cautiously to people older than 60 years, and it should not be given at all to people with certain immune-suppressing conditions. Seniors should discuss their detailed travel plans with their doctors and, if necessary, alternatives to vaccination.
Medication A doctor may prescribe medicine for malaria, altitude illness, or travelers’ diarrhea; seniors should make sure the doctor knows any other medications they take, to watch out for possible drug interactions. Travelers’ diarrhea is common and may be more serious in seniors, so seniors should also follow food and water precautions. In addition to medicine prescribed specifically for travel, seniors are likely to take other medicines regularly, such as medicines for high blood pressure, diabetes, or arthritis. They should plan to pack enough medicine for the duration of the trip, plus a few days’ extra in case of travel delays. Counterfeit drugs may be common overseas, so seniors should take only medicine they bring from the United States.
Prescription medicine should always be carried in its original container, along with a copy of the prescription, and all medicine should be packed in carry-on luggage, in case checked luggage gets lost.
Injury Prevention
Although exotic infections make the headlines, injury is the most common cause of preventable death among travelers. Seniors can minimize their risk of serious injury by following these guidelines: • Always wear a seatbelt. • Don’t ride in cars after dark in developing countries. • Avoid small, local planes. • Don’t travel at night in questionable areas. In addition, seniors should consider purchasing supplemental travel health insurance in case of injury or illness overseas. Many health plans, including Medicare, will not pay for services received outside the United States. Seniors who are planning travel to remote areas should consider purchasing evacuation insurance, which will pay for emergency transportation to a qualified hospital. For more information on healthy travel, visit www.cdc.gov/travel.
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passengers on airplanes, trains or boats are sick with a dangerous contagious disease, the other passengers may be quarantined in a designated facility where they may receive preventive treatment and have their health monitored. For the duration of the incubation period. If public health officials determine that one or more passenger on airplanes, trains or boats are infected with a contagious disease and that passengers sitting nearby may have had close contact with the infected passenger(s), those at risk might be quarantined in a designated facility, observed for signs of illness and cared for under isolation conditions if they become ill. From Q & A on Pg. 5
When would quarantine and isolation be used and by whom? If people in a certain area were potentially exposed to a contagious disease, this is what would happen: State and local health authorities would let people know that they may have been exposed and would direct them to get medical attention, undergo diagnostic tests, and stay at home, limiting their contact with people who have not been exposed to the disease. Only rarely would federal, state, or local health authorities issue an “order” for quarantine and isolation. However, both quarantine and isolation may be compelled on a mandatory basis through legal authority as well as conducted on a voluntary basis. States have the authority to declare and enforce quarantine and isolation within their borders. This authority varies widely, depending on state laws. It derives from the authority of state governments granted by the U.S. Constitution to enact laws and promote regulations to safeguard the health and welfare of people within state borders. Further, at the national level, the CDC may detain, medically examine or conditionally release persons suspected of having certain contagious diseases. This authority applies to individuals arriving from foreign countries, including Canada and Mexico, on airplanes, trains, automobiles, boats or by foot. It also applies to individuals traveling from one state to another or in the event of “inadequate local control.” The CDC regularly uses its authority to monitor passengers arriving in the United States for contagious diseases. In modern times, most quarantine measures have been imposed on a small scale, typically involving small numbers of travelers (airline or cruise ship passengers) who have curable diseases, such as infectious tuberculosis or cholera. No instances of large-scale quarantine have occurred in the U.S. since the “Spanish Flu” pandemic of 1918-1919. Based on years of experience working with state and local partners, the CDC anticipates that the need to use its federal authority to involuntarily quarantine a person would occur only in rare situations—for example, if a person posed a threat to public health and refused to cooperate with a voluntary request.
For more information www.CDC.gov.
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And the Oscar Went to... Maureen O’Hara Food, family and fun are usually part of Christmas Day celebrations for many families. The festivities may also include watching old Christmas movies, with the 1947 version of “Miracle on 34th Street” being a traditional favorite. In additional to its Christmas message, the film is remembered for its cast, including Edmund Gwenn, who won the Oscar for his role as Kris Kringle, adorable 9-year-old Natalie Wood as Susan, and feisty Maureen O’Hara, who played her mother. Although she starred in other Hollywood classics, such as “The Hunchback of Notre Dame” (1939), “How Green Was My Valley” (1941), and the original “The Parent Trap” (1961), O’Hara was never even nominated for a competitive Oscar. Last month, the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences finally recognized O’Hara’s lifetime achievement in film when the 94-year-old Irish actress was presented with an Honorary Oscar during the 6th Annual Governors Awards. “It was very exciting news and I’m so proud to be recognized by my peers,” said O’Hara, from Boise, Idaho, where she has lived with family since 2012. O’Hara remains one of the most beloved classic film actresses, often playing the lively companion to John Wayne in films such as “McLintock!” (1963), and John Ford’s “Rio Grande” (1950) and “The Quiet Man” (1952). But her first big role came in “Jamaica Inn,” a 1939 film costarring Charles Laughton and directed by Alfred Hitchcock, his last film before leaving the UK for Hollywood. Though critics slammed it, audiences flocked to theaters. “It was a tremendous success in Canada, England and the US,” O’Hara said. “Hitchcock was fabulous to work with. But he couldn’t help it. He had the gift of genius from the heavens and gave the world wonderful stories and movies.” Nor is it difficult to see why Laughton, who “discovered” O’Hara in a screen test, insisted on casting her in the film. She was the epitome of classic Hollywood beauty, yet not the typical helpless heroine or scream queen. In fact, her role as a determined and fearless leading lady in “Jamaica Inn” set the stage for the strong See O’HARA on Page 23
By Nick Thomas
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SURVIVE — And Thrive! This Holiday Season This could be your best time to put together a “survival plan” to help you stay fit during the holiday season. Moffitt Cancer Center offers practical and creative ideas to help you manage your life by reducing calories, making healthy food choices and staying active – not only during the holiday season – but also throughout the New Year. Beyond merely looking and feeling better, keeping the excess pounds off by watching what you eat and exercising regularly, especially during the holiday season, is a key strategy for good health. Such a strategy of healthy habits leads to better quality of life. So involve your family and friends in creative, fun ways to spend time together, enjoy yourself, eat healthy, stay active and help fight cancer at the same time.
#1. Get Moving! Exercise doesn’t have to be complicated. Experts say that walking 40-45 minutes a day can be just as healthy as going to a gym. Consider the benefits of walking for both exercise and quality time with your friends and family members during the busy holiday season. Staying active helps maintain a healthy weight – which is important in lowering your risk for cancer, heart disease, and stroke.
#2. Include the colors of the holidays also in the foods you eat. Include 8-10 vegetables, fruits and whole grains, rich in yellow, green, red and orange colors that signify they are full of phytochemicals, or plant chemicals. Knowledge about what causes and prevents cancer and other chronic diseases like heart disease has expanded significantly over the past decade, and we know that substances found in these plant foods are potentially preventive in terms of lowering one’s risk of cancer and heart disease. Most importantly, they contain complex carbohydrates, which are the “good carbs” – rich in fiber and naturally low in calories. For good health, the American Institute for Cancer Research recommends filling at least two-thirds of your plate with vegetables, fruits, whole grains and beans.
#3. Plan for some indulgence wisely. If you are going to be at a party, adjust your food intake during lunch or breakfast that day to allow for a special treat for yourself. For example, consider indulging in a small piece of fresh pumpkin or sweet potato pie that is filled with antioxidants. Be watchful of alcohol consumption. The American Cancer Society reports that drinking alcohol can raise the risk of developing cancer and recommends avoiding alcohol. People who drink alco-
John Wayne and Maureen O’Hara greet daughter Stephanie Powers in ‘McClintock.’
hol should limit their intake to no more than 2 drinks per day for men and 1 drink a day for women. These daily limits do not mean it’s safe to drink larger amounts on fewer days of the week. Additionally, alcoholic drinks are full of calories, and drinking them could weaken one’s resolve to eat better. If you should decide to occasionally indulge, avoid heavy holiday drinks and instead opt for a light beer or a glass of wine. Also watch out for heavy, sugary nonalcoholic drinks that are loaded with calories. Healthy beverage selections include sparkling water or hot green tea or apple cider.
#4. Do not go to the party or the dinner table hungry. Try not to skip your meals all day. Drink more water or 100% fruit or vegetable juices beforehand. Plan ahead by eating a small snack such as whole grain crackers and cheese or some walnuts or almonds before you set out.
#5. Be assertive; take charge of your eating. Keep in mind you don’t have to eat everything, nor do you have to finish your plate. It is your choice. Pick the leaner meats and plenty of vegetables and whole grain foods. Stay away from cured, salty meats and foods that are swimming in butter. At parties, limit your access to the buffet table and take pleasure in socializing and enjoying the party activities rather than the rich food. Remember, there’s more to a healthier lifestyle than simply avoiding the risk of health problems. Your “survival plan” will help you have more energy and enthusiasm for life.
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it could happen to you!
Kermit, Kermit, Where Is My Permit? If you have a handicapped-parking permit and you forget to hang it in the window when you exit your car, you could find yourself up a creek without a paddle. At least, it might feel that way. And so I have written myself a little ditty, and I searched for a little green frog to hang in my window as my memory jogger, because I don’t want to mess with the police again. You see, before I was cited, I parked my car in the main library parking lot, the library where I volunteer for 2-3 hours every Thursday, loaded down with a full bag of books from my favorite store. In my haste to improve my tardiness record, I moved quickly from the car to the building and, yes, due to my inability to multitask, I forgot to hang my permit. Along came the gendarme—maybe it was a slow day and there weren’t many violators—and, whoops, there was a car in a handicapped space, and there was no permit hanging against the windshield. So, I finished my stint in the library and there was something tucked against the windshield. If it had been an ad, all the cars would have had one, but, no, just me, and it was a citation. A $255 fine, and my heart jumped out of my chest. I knew I could have disputed it, but it was so much money and such a process. In addition, whoever issued the citation accused me of parking my car in Lot 10 at City Hall, and not in the parking lot at the public library. Everything had to be copied and sent to the DMV as proof of my having a permit. First I phoned and protested the incorrectness of the parking lot, and I was not accused of nitpicking in so many words, but that was the general idea. After all, an overloaded police department couldn’t be expected to get everything right. So I sent a copy of everything requested and I had to be sure to get everything right—and then I waited. I called for four weeks and was told it was under review. What were they reviewing? My stupidity or my inability to multitask? Also, I am only allowed to have this memory lapse once a year, so I’d better never again forget to hang my permit in the window. At last the letter came. I had been forgiven, and the citation was rescinded. I put the permit on the passenger seat, because tucking it into the glove compartment was too risky. As they say, out of sight, out of mind. I drove over to a toy store to find a little frog, small enough not to block my view, and I hung him from my mirror. I named the keeper of my permit Kermit, and now I just have to hope that I remember why Kermit is hanging from my mirror. And that Kermit rhymes with permit. Oh, and that the DMV is not tolerant of memory loss. At least not more than one time a year.
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Gimme Your Home... and Your Buffalo, Deer and Antelope, Too! By Joyce Holly
I wish I had a dollar for every instance that has come to my attention in which an aging parent has been nagged to give the family home to an adult child. Usually, for this purpose, the child will present the parent with a quitclaim deed, which is a document of conveyance that can be recorded in the county in which the home is located. The child may argue that the parent needs the child’s assistance, may promise to permanently care for the parent in the child’s home, or may threaten the parent with the involvement of adult protective services. The child may argue that the parent will be unburdened from the costs of upkeep and maintenance and property taxes. The child asks the parent to sign the quitclaim and, meekly, the parent signs. And with that, any leverage the parent may have in his or her relationship with that child vanishes. A significant risk of an aging person’s gifting his or her & home is that it can affect eligibility for public benefits that depend on E R CA AID I passing a “means test.” If, for instance, the former homeowner needs D ME EDIC TED to enroll in Medicaid, there is a lookback period, which in most states M CEP AC is five years. The lookback period means that major assets given away less than five years before one applies for Medicaid will be counted as if the applicant still owned them, and, therefore, can affect the applicant’s eligibility for benefits. A home (unless it is an extremely valuable home) is not counted in determining Medicaid eligibility, as long as the applicant still owns the home at the time of applying for benefits. The case is otherwise if the homeowner has given away the home. (There are special types of trust arrangements whereby a person may give up an interest in real property in exchange for signifLARGO ST. PETERSBURG icant financial advantages, including the possibility of preventing 111 1st Street N.W 3520 38th Avenue North Largo, FL Medicaid from putting a lien on the home at the time of the owner’s St. Petersburg, FL 33609 death, but to set up any such trust, one needs to see a specialist attorTAMPA LAKELAND 1881 W. Kennedy Blvd., Ste A & B 1619 Harden Blvd. ney.) Tampa, FL 33606 Lakeland, FL 33803 Gifting valuable real propPremierVeins.com erty during life, depending on one’s cir- Continues on next page
For most people, the family home is their largest single asset. This article is about how to hold on to that asset for your protection in later life.
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cumstances, can also have gift tax consequences. A child may alternatively ask a parent to put a home into some kind of joint ownership arrangement with the child, so that the child will become sole owner upon the parent’s death. However, depending on the type of joint ownership and the laws of the state where the home is located, yielding to this suggestion may make it possible for the child to dispose of his or her own half-interest in the home without the parent’s knowledge or consent. Many states permit a homeowner to record a beneficiary deed. A beneficiary deed is a recordable instrument that, upon the owner’s death, transfers ownership of a home to the designated beneficiary or beneficiaries. The transfer occurs outside of probate, and, in this respect, works much like a beneficiary designation in a life insurance contract or a retirement plan. A beneficiary deed is not a reliable will substitute. (For instance, suppose the beneficiary doesn’t survive the grantor, or suppose the beneficiary doesn’t want to take the property subject to property taxes or any mortgages that may exist when the grantor passes away?) However, a beneficiary deed is an infinitely safer choice for an aging homeowner than either giving away either the entire house via a quitclaim deed, or conveying away a partial interest therein by some joint ownership arrangement. Moreover, such a deed may be canceled by recording a revocation document. An even safer choice is to create a revocable living trust and retitle the home so that it is no longer owned by any individIF YOU ual, but becomes an asset of the trust. In one instance, two parents in poor health were being badgered by their only child’s husband to give their home to their child. Tired of being nagged, and needing to focus on their health issues, the parents decided to put the home in trust. This would have been sufficient in some cases, but in the instance of this particular son-inlaw, it was not a deterrent to nagging, so they took a further step: They resigned as trustees and replaced themselves with a trust company, which became the new trustee. (By the terms of the trust the couple could, while both still lived, undo this step.) The son-in-law immediately discovered that the new trustee was a lot less susceptible to his pressure than was the aging couple. Under the trust arrangement, the couple continued to maintain the home, and they could live in the home, or not, at their pleasure, but they were no longer susceptible to demands that they quitclaim it. Putting * the home in trust gave this couple peace of mind and freedom from the son-in-law’s wheedling. Putting a home into trust also has value even if no relative is trying to gain title. For instance, it is a precaution against the possibility of a swindler worming his way into a vulnerable, aging homeowner’s confidence and persuading him or her to quitclaim the home.
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Keeping Pets Happy and Healthy This Holiday Season The holiday season can mean new routines, new décor and new foods in your home. While these temporary changes can be exciting for people, they can be hazardous to pets. “The extended holiday season is no excuse to take a vacation from being a great pet parent,” said Dr. Jeff Werber, Hollywood’s vet to the stars. Keeping your dog happy and healthy this holiday season is easy, according to Werber. Here are some of his seasonal tips. • Keep curious pets focused: Most pets will be curious about the tinsel, ornaments and ribbons of the season. As most decorations are not pet- friendly, keep them beyond reach, and take necessary precautions to keep your pets focused on something they truly enjoy. If your dog begs at the table every night, chances are they’ll be begging at the holiday dinner table. With new people over and different kinds of food falling to the floor, it’ll be important to prevent distractions during dinner. Use healthy treats, such as Greenies, as a training tool to keep your dog away from guests’ dinner plates. •
Give recognizable gifts: A whopping 85 percent of pet parents buy their dog a holiday present, according to the 2014 Greenies: Dog Owners Survey. In order for your pet to be as thrilled about their stocking as you are, give them the same treat before the holiday, so that it’s more familiar and better received.
This year, consider giving a gift that promotes good health. While nearly half of all dog owners have turned away from a kiss from a dog because of its bad breath, more than a quarter say they don’t brush their dog’s teeth at all. And bad breath isn’t just unpleasant; it can be a sign of poor dental health or dental disease. Consider giving your dog a dental chew that carries the Veterinary Oral Health Council Seal of Acceptance for control of plaque and tartar, such as Greenies Canine Dental Chews. They are the No. 1 veterinarian-recom-
mended dental chews and are available in special Season’s Greenies holiday packaging around this time of year. •
Give your pet extra love: During the holidays your routine will likely change. Your dog will be able to tell, but not know why. As you are out shopping or attending a holiday party, your pet might be missing out on the usual attention. Show your pet some love by setting some time aside for daily play time or an extra walk. Or give them their favorite treat!
More pet health tips and resources can be found at www.Greenies.com.
The holidays are all about sharing time with friends and family. In the shuffle, don’t forget your beloved pet!
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Preparing Your Home and Family for an Emergency You can’t predict the future, but you can feel more confident in your ability to face unforeseen emergencies if you prepare your home and family ahead of time. Planning for all kinds of scenarios is crucial, according to experts. “In the event of an emergency, a well-thought-out emergency plan can eliminate stress, limit confusion and save a great deal of wasted time,” said Tim MacWelch, author of the new book, “Outdoor Life: Prepare for Anything.” “Different areas are prone to different risk factors. Look up your neighborhood’s flood history and seismological data to understand your risks.” Luckily, there is a lot of overlap in the supplies and preparations you need to make for many disasters. To be better prepared for anything, MacWelch recommended taking the following actions: • Create up-to-date contact information cards for each family member. • Develop communication strategies to keep in touch, even if phones are out of service. • Plan how you will assist or care for family who have mobility or medical issues, communication difficulties or special needs. • Maintain, inspect and rotate emergency supplies, such as nonperishable food, water, first aid, lighting and communication equipment. Periodically pull out all of your emergency supplies. Take inventory, check expiration dates, use older items and replace them with new supplies. Make sure you end up with more items than you started with. • Maintain specialized supplies for infants, young children and sick or elderly members of your family. • Create a plan and keep supplies for the care of pets. • Have the tools and the knowledge to shut off your utilities. • Develop basic self-sufficiency skills in the event you have to seek shelter in a place without utilities. Create a supply kit that includes drinking water, no-cook foods like protein bars and peanut butter, first-aid supplies, flash lights, digital backups of important documents and cash. • Create an evacuation plan in case you have to leave your home. • Learn basic safety skills, such as first aid, CPR and fire prevention. • Get the family ready by conducting emergency drills. For example, you can perform a classic fire drill by evacuating your home at an unexpected time. Have everyone low-crawl out of the house and meet at a planned spot outside the home. Round out the exercise with stop, drop and roll each time you have a fire drill. More information about MacWelch’s “Prepare for Anything” can be found at weldonowen.com. Take steps now to prepare yourself, your home and your family for whatever may come your way. Knowledge, supplies and a game plan can increase your family’s chances for survival.
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Christmas Town at Busch Gardens
Busch Gardens November 28 - December 31
The park is transformed into a nighttime holiday wonderland with miles of lights, special food and treats, entertainment, a bottle Christmas tree, live music and holiday shopping. This year, Christmas Town is included with daily admission. Busch Gardens is located at 3605 Bougainvillea Ave., Tampa, FL. For more information and daily schedule visit www.seaworldparks.com. Holiday Lights in the Gardens
Florida Botanical Gardens November 28 - December 31
The 14th Annual Holiday Lights in the Gardens transform the Florida Botanical Gardens into a star-studded venue of over 750,000 twinkly LED lights from 5:30 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. Stroll through the shining Gardens and be wowed by colorful lasers, animated figures and entertainers. A donation of $4 is requested for visitors 13 and over. Children 12 and under are free. Parking is available at either 12520 Ulmerton Road or 12211 Walsingham Road. For more information, (727) 582-2147 or www.flbg.org. Nights of Shimmering Lights
Hillsborough County Fairgrounds November 29 - December 30
Drive your vehicle through a light and sound show including more than 2-miles of lights with 750 larger-thanlife lighted scenes, tunnels and dancing lights. Open at dusk daily. Price: $15 Mon.-Thur., $20 Fri.-Sun./car load. The fairgrounds are located at the corner of Sydney Washer Road and Hwy. 60, Brandon, FL. For more information (813) 389-6858. City of Tampa’s Annual Tree Lighting
Curtis Hixon Park December 6
Celebrate the holiday season with the City of Tampa’s Third Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony. Enjoy live entertainment then watch Mayor Bob Buckhorn light the 30’ tree. Stroll the Christmas Market and find that perfect holiday gift or your favorite treat. Watch National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation on the lawn or take a spin on the ice at Downtown Tampa on Ice. 5:00 p.m. - 10:00 p.m. Free. Curtis Hixon Park is located at 600 N. Ashley St., Tampa, FL. For more information (813) 274-8211. Snowfest and Santa Parade
North Straub Park December 6
The day starts with the annual Santa Parade beginning at Central Ave. and Fifth St. After the parade, 65 tons of snow are blown into St. Petersburg’s North Straub Park, bringing family snow activities including “glice”-skating, toboggan rides, make-and-take crafts, climbing wall, reindeer races, cookie decorating, moon walk and kiddie land (for ages 3-5). 10:00 a.m. Price: $5 wristband. Fifth Avenue NE and Bayshore Drive, St. Petersburg, FL. For more information (727) 893-7441. Rough Riders Holiday Parade and Santa Fest
Curtis Hixon Park December 6
The waterfront park is transformed into a winter wonHPH Spring Hill is located at 12260 Cortez Blvd., derland for the holiday party. The Rough Riders parade Spring Hill, FL. steps off at 11 a.m at Morgan Street and Madison Street, Boley’s Jingle Bell Run travel west to Ashley Drive and turn north to Cass Street. The party continues at the park with crafts, a Christmas Spa Beach at the Pier approach market, ice skating and photos with Santa. 10:00 a.m. December 10 Free, $5 to ice skate. Strap on your bell and antlers and join thousands of Curtis Hixon Park is located at 600 N Ashley Drive, runners in the non-competitive one mile walk and three Tampa, FL. mile run along the waterfront with holiday themed music and entertainment along the way. Benefits Boley Center. Winter Festival 7:30 p.m. Price: $20, $15 ages 11 and younger. Lowry Park Zoo Downtown St. Petersburg : 615 Second Ave. N, St. PeDecember 6, 12, 13, 14, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 26, 27, tersburg, FL.
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The South Pinellas Retired Teachers Association Meeting The zoo closes at 5:00 p.m. and reopens at 6:30 p.m. for the annual evening winter festival with live reindeer, SanTeppanyaki Grill and Supreme Buffet ta, a million twinkling lights, rides, games, African penDecember 11 guins, animated displays and “Florida snow.” Price: $15, The SPCREA meets at 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. the second $13 ages 3-11, 2 and younger free. Thursday of each month from October through May. Lowry Park Zoo is located at 1101 W. Sligh Ave., TamMeetings are open to all who have worked in the field of pa, FL. For more information (813) 935-8552. Bradenton Blues Festival
Bradenton Riverwalk December 6
education. We enjoy lunch and visiting with each other. There are great membership benefits and discounts and advocacy for our pension.
The Teppanyaki Grill and Supreme Buffet is located at 391 34th Street N., St. Petersburg, FL. For more informaDowntown Bradenton will be filled with the sound of tion e-mail Joyce Walters at jellen1943@yahoo.com. world- class blues bands including, Doug Deming, Dennis Presents for Primates Gruenling and the Jewel Tones, EG Knight, Samantha Fish, Billy Branch & The Sons of Blues, Little Ed & The Lowry Park Zoo Blues Imperials, Jimmy Thackery & The Drivers and MarDecember 12 cia Ball. Dave Muskett will perform in between acts. Pro- Watch zoo primates open specially wrapped presents given ceeds support youth, art and music programs. 10:00 a.m. them by zoo staff. The presents contain enrichment items: Price: $30 advance, $40 day of, $25 per person groups of dried cereal, peanuts, fruit, peanut butter, children books, 10 or more, $20 students, $10 kids ages 5-12. stuffed animals, blankets, and clothing. 11:00 a.m. IncludBradenton Riverwald is located at 452 Third Ave. W., ed with daily admission. Bradenton, FL. Lowry Park Zoo is located at 1101 W. Sligh Ave., Tampa, FL. For more information (813) 935-8552. Sunset and Symphony: Holiday Concert
Bok Tower Gardens December 6
The Orlando Philharmonic Orchestra and the Singing Tower carillon join together for an outdoor presentation of holiday favorites. 6:00 p.m. Price: $20 advance, $25 day of; $8 ages 5-12 advance, $10 ages 5-12 day of. The Bok Tower Gardens are located at 1151 Tower Blvd., Lake Wales, FL. Annual Holiday Bazaar
Rocky Creek Village December 7
Hernando Beach Yacht Club Christmas Boat Parade
Hernando Beach Yacht Club December 12
The parade route will go through local canals, down to the public boat ramp. Prizes will be awarded. There will also be hotdogs, chips and chili at the yacht club. Boat check-in is at 5:00 p.m. Price: Entry fee is a donation of an unwrapped toy for Toys for Tots. No cost for spectators. The Yacht Club is located 4163 Shoal Line Blvd., Hernando Beach, FL. Jillian’s Dream: Rappel for Lung Cancer
Island Center Cafe There will be delicious bake sales, handmade crafts, a white elephant sale, raffles, pictures with Santa, lunch December 13 items and snacks on sale, vendors and stocking stuffers gaTake in the beautiful water views as you rappel 13 stolore! 9:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. ries down the side of the Island Center building in memory Rocky Creek Village is located at 8404 Waters Ave., of Jillian Miller, who lost her fight against lung cancer at Tampa, FL. the age of 28. Benefits Uniting Against Lung Cancer. 9:00 a.m. Price: $1,500 minimum through sponsorship. Palm Harbor’s 1st Pearl Harbor Day Tribute Island Center Cafe is located at 2701 N. Rocky Point White Chapel in Palm Harbor Dr., Tampa, FL. December 7
Palm Harbor Chamber of Commerce, the Palm Harbor Arts and Seafood Festival and residents will honor survivors and casualties of the surprise attack that brought the U.S. into World War II on December 7, marking the 73rd anniversary of the attack on the United States at Pearl Harbor and to honor the sacrifices of those who were there on the infamous day and every day since then protecting our freedom. 8:00 a.m. Free. White Chapel is located at 1190 Georgia Ave., Palm Harbor, FL. Holiday Grief Workshop
HPH Hospice Spring Hill December 9
St. Pete Illuminated Boat Parade
Vinoy Park December 13
Twinkling boats of all makes and sizes parade along the downtown waterfront area. Plenty of viewing spaces are available along the Vinoy Basin sea wall, at Demens Landing and on the Pier approach. 6:00 p.m. Free. Vinoy Park is located at 501 Fifth Ave. NE, St. Petersburg, FL. Madeira Beach Holiday Boat Parade
John’s Pass Village and Boardwalk December 13
Decorated boats meet at John’s Pass and travel through Bereavement workshops for grieving adults concerned the Intracoastal Waterway and canals to the an area adjaabout coping with the holidays. Led by a hospice bereave- cent to the American Legion. Traffic over the Tom Stuart/ ment counselor. No registration needed. 2:00 p.m. Free. Welch Causeway drawbridge will be delayed for up to 15
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Senior Happenings minutes while the parade cruises under the bridge between 8:00 p.m. and 8:30 p.m. Free. Parade location 150 John’s Pass Boardwalk, Madeira Beach, FL. Dinner Show
Jewish Community Center December 14
John Timpanelli and his guests present a holiday spectacular musical revue. Dinner served at 4:00 p.m. Show begins at 5:00 p.m. Price: $25, $12 show only. Jewish Comm. Center is located at 9841 Scenic Drive, Port Richey, FL. Understanding Progression in Dementia - Teepa Snow
ICA December 15
Understanding Progression in Dementia: Seeing More than Loss and Learning to Use What Remains This unique presentation is brought to you compliments of ICA. ICA is changing the course of dementia care. It will be of special interest to doctors, nurses, aids, family caregivers and family members. Sign up early as this is certain to be a full-capacity. All are welcome. 7:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m. Sign up now at https://attendee.gotowebinar.com/register/8434326570983365633. Every Kid Gets a Toy
Tampa December 18
Mangrove Software sponsors this activity for the Tampa Bay community from 4:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m., giving every kid a toy (ages 3 – 11). Activities include: pictures with Santa – they will be available for download for FREE!, ice sculptor creating beautiful lighted trees, stocking decorating and more. Enjoy the sights and sounds of the holiday lights. Free. Event will take place at 1501 S. Church Ave., Tampa, FL. For more information (813) 387-3100 ext 4811. Hanukkah Dinner and Dance
Beth Israel Sun City Center December 19
A dinner buffet catered by Orange Blossom, accompanied by the jazz stylings of the Scott Blum Trio, co-sponsored by Sisterhood and Men’s Club. A vegetarian option is available by request only. RSVP by December 12. 4:00 p.m. Price: $30, $25 members. Beth Israel Sun City Center is located at 1115 Del Webb Blvd. East, Sun City Center, FL. Jingle Ball
Amalie Arena December 22
Grab your Pharrell hat and get Happy, as the rapper/ singer headlines the sixth annual celebration of pop music featuring Demi Lovato, Summer DJ, Calvin Harris, Bang Bang singer, Jessie J, EDM sensation, Kiesza, Fancy’s Charlie XCX, R & B singer and newly single Jason Derulo and Magic!. Free pre-show on Ford Thunder Alley. 6:30 p.m. Price: $41-$151. Amalie Arena is located at 401 Channelside Drive, Tampa, FL. For more information (813) 301-2500. Swing Dance Friday
Largo Community Center December 26
Savoy Swing provides the music to keep you swingin’ around the dance floor. Come early for a pre-dance lesson. 7:00 p.m. Price: $8, $7 with rec. card. The Largo Community Center is located at 400 Alt Keene Road, Largo, FL. Holiday Light Dog Parade
Florida Botanical Gardents December 28
Dogs are invited to show off in the holiday light dog pa-
rade. Canine competitors will be judged in the following at 615 Channelside Dr., Tampa, FL. For more information categories: best costume, best adult, best puppy, best se- (813) 223-4250. nior, most glamorous, and best vocal performance. RegisSwingin The New Year Celebration tration is $10 and is open to the first 100 dogs. Begins at 1 p.m. Coliseum The Florida Botanical Gardens are located at 12520 December 31 Ulmerton Road, Largo, FL. For more information (727) 582-2100 or www.flbg.org/foundation.htm. Ring in the new year with a celebration for all ages. This dress to impress event includes party favors, champagne Largo New Year’s Eve Party toast, midnight celebration with balloon drop, dancing to Largo Community Center music by Mitch Woods and his Rockett 88’s band, prizes December 31 and cash bar. Swing dance lessons 8 p.m. to 9 p.m. New Adults and seniors can celebrate the New Year early Year’s and vintage attire encouraged. From 7:30 p.m. with an afternoon of dancing, door prizes, cookies and Price: $26 advance, $30 after Dec 10th. punch. 2:00 p.m. Price: $3 advance, $5 at the door. The Coliseum is located at 535 Fourth Ave. N, St. PeThe Largo Community Center is located at 400 Alt tersburg, FL. For more information (727) 669-7830. Keene Road, Largo, FL. First Night St. Petersburg
Outback Bowl
Straub Park (Center) December 31
Raymond James Stadium January 1
St. Petersburg rings in the New Year with this annual alcohol-free event. Music, lights, dance and two fireworks displays (8:00 p.m. and midnight). Free, but you need a button to participate in activities and enter venues. Buttons help fund the annual event, which relies heavily on volunteers. From 4:00 p.m. Price: $10, $5 ages 6-12, 5 and younger free (advance); $15, $10 ages 6-12, 5 and younger free (day of). Straub Park is located at Beach Drive and Fifth Avenue NE, St. Petersburg, FL. For more information (727) 823-8906. Apollo Beach New Year’s Eve Bash
Waterfront Restaurant December 31
Typically played on New Year’s Day, event features teams from the SEC and Big Ten Conference (3rd pick from each). The Outback Bowl has played host to some great match-ups over the years, and therefore has hosted some of the sport’s best players and coaches. Kickoff 1:00 p.m. Admission: $80 each. Raymond James Stadium is located at 4201 N Dale Mabry Hwy., Tampa, FL. For more information (813)8742695.
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Channelside Bay Plaza December 31
Channelside cranks up their annual New Year’s Eve event with live music and DJ’s in the courtyard, dancing, a ball drop and fireworks set off as the clock strikes midnight. 6:00 p.m. - 3:00 a.m. Free. No personal coolers or chairs permitted. Channelside is located
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Ten Tips to Save Money Inside Your Home Whether you’re a homeowner or a renter, savvy approaches to running your home can save you money, according to house-smart experts. These simple tips from Homes.com, a leading online real estate destination, and its sister site, ForRent.com, won’t take much time or effort to execute. • Programmable Thermostats: Available for about $50-$100, programmable or “smart” thermostats can save hundreds of dollars yearly on electricity bills, taking the guesswork out of finding a comfortable temperature for your home. Some models even come equipped with Wi-Fi, so you can turn down the thermostat remotely. • Low-Flow Shower: Don’t wash money down the drain. By taking the environmentally friendly step of replacing outdated showerheads with new low-flow models, you can reduce your water use in the shower by 25 to 60 percent, as well as increase hot water efficiency, according to U.S. Department of Energy statistics. • Extra Payment: Over the course of a 30-year loan, one additional mortgage payment yearly can save thousands on annual interest payments. • Unplug: Many gadgets and appliances consume power even when turned off, a phenomenon known as “phantom power.” Unplug or use a smart power strip to save an estimated five to 10 percent on electric. • House Plants: With air pollution levels increasing, improving indoor air quality is im
portant. But air purifiers can cost hundreds of dollars. Consider house plants to remove toxins from the air and add color, warmth and comfort. • Dodge the Draft: As a house ages, hot and cold air from outside often creeps in. Weatherproofing is an in expensive, simple task that can save up to 15 percent on heating and cooling costs. There are a variety of weatherproofing products, including V-strip, felt and foam tape. Research what your home needs. You can also get a home energy audit to discover ways to improve your home’s interior quality. • Do-it-Yourself: Redecorating can make a home feel new. However, professionals often come with a hefty price tag, so use online resources to jump on the DIY bandwagon or check out free DIY workshops at hardware stores like Home Depot and Lowe’s. • Ceiling Fans: An air conditioner uses 3,500 watts of energy, while a ceiling fan only uses 60 watts. Ceiling fans can even be useful during winter. Set the fan to run clockwise and the reverse motion will push warm air down from the ceiling. • Shop Your Home: Before buying new home accessories, look for budget-friendly tweaks you
can make. Rearrange furniture and lighting to change the feel of any space, or switch decorations between rooms to make both feel different. • Laundry: Consider washing most clothes (except towels and linens) in cold water. Use the dryer efficiently by filling but not overfilling the machine. Some energy-efficient appliances can qualify your family for an additional tax credit. For more money-saving tips, visit the Idea Gallery at Homes.com and the ForRent.com Apartment Living blog. Exploring ways to reduce home expenses can help you save for important upgrades down the line.
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A Baby Boomer Remembers: The Day Santa Went South It was a cold, cold Ohio day in early December. My four siblings and I had exhausted ourselves playing in the snow after school and were drying our socks and mittens on the radiators throughout the house. That’s when Mom extended an invitation to one of us to go grocery shopping with her and the neighbor lady. “Me!” I yelled, “Take me!” I grabbed my damp mittens, pulled on a dry pair of socks and flew out the door, my cheeks still red from the winter temperatures. I loved shopping, even as a child, and for me, the local A&P grocery store was just as exciting as being in a five and dime, the Toys R Us stores of my day. I loved sauntering down the aisles and checking out displays. While my Mom was filling her grocery cart with yucky things like broccoli and brussels sprouts, I wandered off from her and the neighbor lady who had driven us. In a matter of seconds, I found myself standing, awe-struck, in front of a display featuring a very tall red and white pole supporting a snow-covered mailbox with the words “NORTH POLE” on it. On the table beneath were piles and piles of letters that folded to form their own envelope. I could see that each envelope was already pre-addressed to none other than . . . Santa Claus! The NORTH POLE postmark on the forms “guaranteed” that these letters would get to Santa BEFORE Dec. 25, and, best of all, there was another sign just below the towering mailbox that said, “Take One.’’ I hurriedly removed my mittens and took the precious letter into my hands. I had never written to Santa before. My heart raced as I thought about his elves going to work on my request. Santa, of course, was already a wonderful person in my eyes, but for him to provide this sure way of reaching him before Christmas . . . well, I can’t even describe what that meant to a little girl who already believed. I knew my three brothers and sister would each want a letter, so I snatched four more forms from the bin. My Mom and the neighbor lady were just finishing up at the checkout when I caught up with them. They did not see the Santa letters tucked under the arm of my bulky jacket. We all headed to the car. I climbed into the back seat, next to a brown paper bag filled with broccoli and brussels sprouts, but it didn’t bother me. I had five pre-addressed, North Pole-postmarked letters to Santa in my possession, and I was on top of the world. That is, until the neighbor lady, while backing her car out of the A&P parking lot, saw the spread of letters in my lap. “Honey, where did you get those?” she asked. I failed to hear the interrogation in her voice, but I did see that “uh, oh” look in my Mom’s eyes. The letters that I thought were free (“Take One!”) were actually a quarter apiece. A quarter! This wasn’t exactly back in the Great Depression, but 25 cents was HUGE to a kid who grew up in an alcoholic home and whose family often depended on the charity of neighbors. I didn’t have the $1.25 to salvage my mission. A disillusioned little girl returned the clutch of letters to the store. The neighbor lady explained to the manager that I had thought the letters were free. I sat quietly in the back seat, my mind trying to comprehend why Santa would charge money to write to him. There was a distance put between my noble hero and myself after that episode, although it took a couple more Christmases before I realized that it was commercialism and not Santa himself who had destroyed my joy in the magical. I often think about kids today, and the rampant commercialism surrounding Christmas, and wonder if their hearts would even flutter at the thought of writing to an old man in a red suit with a fictitious address. At least I had that experience, if only for a moment.
By Jean Mlincek
J e a n Mlincek is a freelance writer living in St. Petersburg, Fla.
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Earlier this month, brave, thrill-seeking senior residents of a retirement community called Friendship Village took a “dive” at iFLY Chicago in Rosemont to experience indoor skydiving. They had a great time bonding over the adrenaline rush. iFLY is an indoor skydiving experience that creates true free fall conditions, just like skydiving, without one having to jump out of an airplane. iFLY’s vertical wind tunnel generates 1600 horsepower from four powerful fans, creating a wallto-wall cushion of air on which you can safely float. There’s no parachute, no jumping and nothing attaching you to Planet Earth. Jeff Rose, lifestyles manager of Friendship Village, said that the residents of the senior retirement community are involved in a large number of very diverse events and activities. For instance, last year the residents took to the slopes, embraced the snow and went tubing. “More traditional programs include fitness, book club, arts and crafts and yoga. However, the residents are often seeking more adventurous and unusual pursuits. Friendship Village residents are active and young at heart,” Rose said . Friendship Village is a leading Chicago continuing care retirement community offering independent living garden homes and apartment homes, as well as assisted living, memory support, skilled care and short- and longterm rehabilitation services. For additional information, visit http://www.FriendshipVillage.org.
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FINANCES
Don’t Let the Grinch Ruin
Your Christmas in Retirement! The holidays are here, and we will be completing our Christmas shopping for our families with visions of sugarplums running through our heads. However, Black Friday not only refers to the shopping break-even profits day for businesses, but also that Friday in October 1987, when the stock market crashed and Sam Walton lost more than 30 percent of the value of the Wal-Mart stock that he owned. Don’t fail to act to protect your retirement assets—the market volatility Grinch is still lurking and waiting to strike! Recently, the stock market has had a profitable increase due to low interest rates supported by the Federal Reserve Board’s determination to keep interest rates artificially low. Don’t forget about the late 1970s, though, when rates increased to more than 20 percent during President Jimmy Carter’s term in office. Bank CDs and Money Market accounts offered earned interest rates to savers in double digits of more than 10 percent, which attracted many clients. However, many clients invested in lower interest rate government bonds actually lost money if they needed to sell bonds to maintain their lifestyles. Now that we have taken action and voted in the midterm election, our government officials have realized that we citizens are quite concerned about the declining state of the economy and our government’s multi-trillion-dollar debt that ultimately incurs the citizens’ responsibility to pay. However, despite all of the numerous advertisements and articles on retirement planning options and the need for retirement investors to take action, very few of us have done so. As a retirement advisor, I have only spoken to a small number of people who have read my articles or attended my seminars and wish to further explore their options to protect their retirement assets from a potential major loss when economic changes occur. They are unwilling to make changes, even though they acknowledge the likely possibility of loss exists in the future. After the fact, it is too late! The time to contact your advisor is now! Understand all of your options for retirement investments, not just where you are currently invested. If your advisor
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doesn’t discuss annuities, talk to one who will. Annuities, such as fixed and index annuities, offer current gains and contractually protect your monetary gains from loss. Unlike stocks, gold and real estate investments, which we have seen rise and fall in value, annuities are protected by the company and the Florida Department of Financial Services. If your advisor doesn’t specialize in annuity products, feel free to contact me and avoid the Grinch. Many of my clients have referred their family and friends to me over the years when other investments dropped and their annuity assets did not. You only need to protect the assets that you can’t afford to lose. Have a safe and merry Christmas and happy holiday time, and a prosperous New Year now and in the future! Jon Lynn can be reached at (813) 774-1862 or via email at clynnlutz@aol.com.
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Retirement Plan Tips for Conservative Savers Whether you’re a risk-taker or a more conservative saver, retirement planning should be a top priority. Taking charge of your savings, regardless of your life stage or savings style, can help to ensure you get to and through retirement and live the lifestyle you think is right for you. According to experts, if you have an employer-sponsored retirement plan, you can benefit by taking a closer look at your account to explore ways to combat risk and protect savings for the future. “No matter what kind of saver you are, connecting with a retirement consultant or financial professional can help restore confidence in your retirement plan,” said Chuck Cornelio, president of retirement plan services at Lincoln Financial Group. “These individuals will review your risk preferences, as well as what’s available within your plan, to help you map out a path to retirement that is right for you.” Consider the following five tips that can help you manage risk and volatility within an employer-sponsored account, like a 401(k) or 403(b): • Know your plan: Many options within an employer-sponsored plan are designed to offer capital protection and volatility management. Some can accommodate changing market conditions, seeking to protect growth as the market fluctuates and defend against losses. Knowing what investment options are available to you is the first step toward protecting your savings.
steady income stream in retirement while also offering protection against downturns in the market.
• Review your investments: Ask your employer about retirement planning education, online tools or one-on-one support to get a better handle on whether your investment strategy is in line with your overall retirement goals, as well as your risk tolerance. Take advantage of all the resources available to you. • Stay the course: A common mistake people make is letting their emotions lead to actions. Resist the temptation to move out of your investments into areas you think are more stable. The best way to prepare for retirement is to ride the market’s waves and remain invested for the long term.
• Consider lifestyle options: Your risk tolerance may change over time based on how many years away you are from retirement. For example, investments known as target date funds are designed to manage risk over time without moving assets out of a retirement portfolio, so More retirement planning information and tools can be found at www.lin participants always stay invested. The flexibility of these funds can cover colnfinancial.com. a broad range of risk tolerance. If you’re enrolled in your company’s retirement plan, remember to stay on track to be better prepared for the years ahead. • Explore in-plan guarantee options: Some features in today’s retirement plans include guaranteed income options that can provide savers with a
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A SHINE Volunteer Couple, Bill and Marianne Ferrari How do two retired executives spend their time after full careers? This was our challenge. After Bill’s 27 years and my 23 years, we decided to take early retirement from PepsiCo. Bill retired several months prior to me and noticed an ad in the local newspaper for SHINE volunteers. SHINE stands for Serving the Health Insurance Needs of Elders, a program of the Florida Department of Elder Affairs, where volunteers are committed to helping others make informed choices regarding Medicare insurance benefits. Bill completed the comprehensive training requirements and started to counsel individuals regarding Medicare enrollment and health plan choices. As I was still working at the time, I couldn’t help but notice Bill’s passion about this SHINE program. I chuckled to myself because during our careers we had this ongoing rivalry since I was a Human Resources professional and he was an Operations professional. After he retired, I marveled at his interest in health insurance counseling for elders. He’s treading on my territory! Needless to say, several months later when I retired, I knew which organization I wanted to support—SHINE. I thought it was right down my alley since my work expertise was employee benefits. While my work background is most helpful, I was surprised by how much I didn’t know. I immediately recognized the significant amount of technical and community resource information that one needs to understand to add value. I loved
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the challenge! Lifelong learning was one of my retirement goals and this service was certainly going to fulfill this objective. Since Bill and I are both volunteers, we will sometimes discuss challenges and help each other with creative solutions. We do this in very general terms so as not to divulge confidentiality of cases. Our health insurance system is complex and many of our clients are low income and in need of financial and other assistance programs. At times it takes teamwork to identify opportunities to provide the appropriate assistance. It also requires patience, compassion, and a relentless quest to resolve issues. Finally, SHINE has given back to me much more than I ever expected. I learned that my job will always be important to me and will always be a source of self- identity. But I’ve learned to define “job” as more than labor for dollars. My job is helping seniors with their healthcare needs. The feeling of contribution and learning is much more fulfilling than any job I’ve ever held. Learn more about volunteering at www.floridashine.org or 1-800-963-5337.
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day Gala, sponsored by the Abilities Guild will take place on Sunday, Dec. 14 at the Belleair Country Club. Starting at 6:30 p.m., you will enjoy a wonderful evening including cocktails, silent and live auctions. Dinner will be served at 7:30 p.m., followed by live music entertainment and dancing. This event benefits Abilities Inc, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit founded in 1983 to raise, invest and distribute funds for the benefit of Abilities, Inc. of Florida.(DBA ServiceSource Florida Regional Office.) Tickets are $100 per person. Please RSVP. For more information, please contact Deb Jordan at (770) 329—8318 (cell) or (727) 559-2786. The Bellair Country Club is located at 1 Country Club Ln., Belleair, FL 33756.
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holiday time Local Attractions Dress Up with Holiday Spectaculars This holiday season, all the major attractions and amusement parks invest great time and finances to turn their establishments into magical wonderlands of lights, decorations, entertainment and even “winter fun.” Two local parks belonging to the same franchise are embarking in grand holiday spectaculars. Sea World and Busch Gardens are both transforming themselves and are ready to show visitors from near and far, the wonders of the season. Sea World’s celebration takes place on select days from Nov. 22 - Dec. 31. Stunning new Christmas shows packages include the Santa’s Fireside Feast, Shamu’s Christmas Miracles, O Wondrous Night and Winter Wonderland on Ice, this last one with skaters dazzling spectators on a stage of ice, accompanied by towering fountains of dancing waters and fireworks at the end of the last ice show. The Polar Express Experience will create wonderful memories and fun for the entire family with this magical trip to the North Pole. Lots of lights adorning more than 100 trees, decorations and musical tunes make this visit one to remember! At Busch Gardens Christmas Town, a similar array of wonderful decorations, millions of twinkling lights and musical attractions to please all. Special entertainment will include the Christmas Time Terrace Tree Show which brings to life a 50-foot tree every ten minutes, Madagascar Live!, Christmas on Ice which features ice skaters and lively holiday tunes, local choir showcases and the Christmas Celebration with a visit from Santa himself. A chilled attraction will bring guest face to face with penguins, the park’s steam locomotive is transformed into the Christmas Town Express which will take you for a ride filled with traditional Christmas sing-a-longs. Come for the lights, the music, the entertainment, special shopping for that last minute gift, come taste goodies ranging from peppermint hot chocolate to pumpkin funnel cakes, cranberry-glazed turkey legs or warm cookies at Santa’s house and make memories that will last forever! Christmas Town will run Nov. 28 through Dec. 31, mostly on weekends after the park closes at either 8:00 p.m. or 9:00 p.m.
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Merry Bronxmas Tour
Ruth Eckerd Hall welcomes The Bronx Wanderers as they present “The Merry Bronxmas Tour” on Sunday, Dec. 14 at 1 p.m. One part oldies, two parts rock ‘n’ roll, The Bronx Wanderers are “the perfect musical storm,” effortlessly creating the perfect level of synergy between generations and the music, the family and the rockin’ band that pulls it all together. Like their new CD title states, this is a father and two sons that “dare to dream.” United by their passion for great music, former gold record producer Yo’ Vinny and sons Vinny “The Kid” and Nicky “Stix” form the heart and soul of this pitch-perfect band that delivers a nonstop barrage of hit after delicious hit. Yo’ Vinny’s years of producing chart-topping hits gives The Bronx Wanderers’ live performance that rarely-achieved, authentic recording studio sound-with the momentum and flow that only the expertise of an experienced record producer can craft. Vinny “The Kid” and Nicky “Stix” create a musical firestorm with the joyful intensity that they bring to these oldies hits. The family’s rockin’ band round out this euphoric journey through time with the lineage and prowess that still set the heart on fire. When the 20-year-olds in the crowd are jumping to their feet and yelling right alongside the 70-year-olds, you know that this is not just another normal day in the music business. With favorites like “Sherry,” “Runaway,” “We Gotta Get Out of this Place,” “Teenager in Love,” “There’s a Kind of Hush,” “Tie a Yellow Ribbon,” “Put Your Head on My Shoulder,” “Looking for an Echo” and even Coldplay’s “Viva la Vida,” this show positively dazzles the listener with a nonstop powerhouse of hits, right from the word “go” (“go, Johnny, go, go go”)! Tickets start at $18 and are on sale now and can be purchased at www. RuthEckerdHall.com.
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female characters she would play throughout her career. “It would have been hard for me to be anything else because I am close in character to the women I played,” O’Hara said. “While I love being sentimental, I am a hardheaded woman, too!” Which probably explains why O’Hara was determined to perform many of her own stunts throughout her career. After being rescued from the gallows by Charles Laughton in “The Hunchback of Notre Dame,” his stunt double lifts her high over his head atop the church tower. “It scared the hell out of me,” O’Hara said. “With no protective netting and I would have been killed if I’d fallen. But I’m pretty tough, and probably would have cracked the cement! It was rather silly risking permanent injury or death for the sake of a movie, but there was a thrill in it.” On November 8, however, Maureen O’Hara received one of her greatest thrills at the Los Angeles Hollywood & Highland Center when she collected her Oscar, in what was a sentimental journey for all fans of the Golden Age of Hollywood. “Thank you…thank you,” O’Hara said, when I concluded our conversation by congratulating her on the Oscar. Thank YOU, Ms. O’Hara. See you on Christmas Day! From O’HARA Page 8
Nick Thomas teaches at Auburn University in Montgomery, Ala., and has written features, columns and interviews for more than 450 magazines and newspapers.
Top: The Hollywood legend at 94 years old. Above: O’Hara looks from behind Charles Laughton in ‘The Jamaican.’ Left: with Edmund Gwenn in ‘Miracle on 34th Street.’
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Entertainment South Pacific
Asolo Theater December 2 - 28 (Tue. - Sun.)
This Rodgers & Hammerstein classic, and winner of 10 Tony Awards and the Pulitzer Prize for Drama, “South Pacific” tells the sweeping romantic story of two couples on a remote island in the Pacific - a U.S. Navy nurse and an expatriate French plantation owner, and a Marine Corps lieutenant and a young local girl - and how their happiness is threatened by the realities of war and their own prejudices. Tickets: $26 - $77. National Acrobats of China
Van Wezel Perf. Arts Hall December 4 - 7:00 p.m. $15 - $45 Ruth Eckerd Hall December 7 - 1:00 p.m. $35 - $75
Performing “Cirque Peking” one of the longest running and most distinguished circus troupes in China perfectly display their high flying acrobatics. These precision performers will mesmerize adults and children of all ages! Will & Anthony: Broadway, Our Way
The Straz Center December 6
With leading-man looks and superstar charm, the brother-buddy twin powers of Will & Anthony deliver a dazzling night of entertainment and songs. In fact, “a night out with Will and Anthony is the best damn show in town!” (Bruce Pomahac, VP & Director of Music, The Rodgers & Hammerstein Org.) 7:30 p.m. Jim Brickman
Capitol Theatre December 7
Jim Brickman has revolutionized the sound of Adult Contemporary music with his heartwarming and romantic performances. His pop-style piano playing, platinum-selling albums and frequent public radio performances have earned Brickman a huge international following. His best-known compositions include the chart-toppers ‘Valentine,’ ‘The Gift,’ ‘Love of My Life,’ and ‘Peace.’ 7:00 p.m. Tickets $35-$100. The Capitol Theatre is located at 405 Cleveland St., Clearwater, FL. For more information (727) 791-7400 or www.rutheckerdhall.com. Lakeland Concert Band
The Lakeland Center December 7
The Lakeland Concert Band is an all-volunteer community band with musicians of all ages, from teens to 90s. Join us for sleigh bells, Christmas carols, and other holiday favorites. Pre-show 1:45 p.m. Concert 2:30 p.m. Free admission. The Lakeland Center charges a parking fee. ISO - Sounds of the Season
The Lakeland Center December 9
Enjoy this holiday spectacular concert by the Imperial Symphony Orchestra of Masterworks Concert #2 - Sounds of the Season. Celebrate and enjoy your favorite holiday classics. 7:30 p.m. Tickets $25 - $40. Free
admission for students. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus
The Straz Center December 11 - 13
Men are from Mars – Women are from Venus LIVE! features Peter Story in a one-man fusion of theater and stand-up based on John Gray’s New York Times No. 1 best-selling book of the last decade. Moving swiftly through a series of vignettes, the show covers everything from dating and marriage to the bedroom. It will have couples elbowing each other all evening as they see themselves on stage. Sexy and fast paced, this show is definitely for adults, but will leave audiences laughing and giggling like little kids! (Warning: Mature Content.) 8:00 p.m. Rockapella Christmas
Capitol Theatre December 11
magically through the air, filling the theater!)Sat. 2:00 p.m. & 7:00 p.m. Sun. 2:00 p.m. Tickets $20.50 $70.50. Trans-Siberian Orchestra
Amalie Arena December 13
Trans-Siberian Orchestra (TSO) will wrap up 2014 by performing their rock opera The Christmas Attic live for the first time in arenas across the nation. While 1998’s The Christmas Attic features one of the band’s most popular songs “Christmas Canon,” surprisingly, it is the only album of The Christmas Trilogy never to be performed live. The Amalie Arena will host two spectacular shows at 3:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m. Tickets $30 $69. As in all previous years, a portion of all ticket sales will go to benefit select local charities. Manhattan Transfer Christmas
Capitol Theatre December 13
The world’s most loved five-man contemporary pop vocal phenomenon is known for its astonishing live performances and Rockapella’s holiday show is a “must see” event! With their completely original take on the holidays, Rockapella creates a lighthearted and unforgettable holiday experience as they travel the country spreading musical holiday cheer. From unique takes on classic favorites to brand new originals destined to become classics, audiences of all ages can expect to be charmed by a holiday performance like no other. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $59, $45, & $30. Performance is at the Capitol Theatre, 405 Cleveland St., Clearwater, FL.
World-renowned harmony group will be performing holiday classics. With numerous Grammy awards under their belt and millions of albums sold worldwide, The Manhattan Transfer is arguably the most successful vocal harmony group of all time. Some of the Manhattan Transfer’s biggest hits include Operator, Chanson D’Amour, Twilight Zone, Birdland, The Boy from N.Y.C., Spice of Life, Ray’s Rockhouse, The Shaker Song and Mystery. The group celebrates the 40th Anniversary of their first recording in 2015! 8:00 p.m. Tickets are $78, $58, & $48.
Kenny G Christmas
The Phantom of the Opera
Ruth Eckerd Hall December 12
The Straz Center December 17 - January 4
In a recording career that spans almost three decades and 23 albums, Grammy award-winner saxophonist Kenny G has grafted elements of R&B, pop and Latin to a jazz foundation solidifying his reputation as the premiere artist in contemporary jazz. Since the early ‘80s, his combination of unparalleled instrumental chops and indelible melodies has resulted in sales of more than 75 million records worldwide. 8:00 p.m. Tickets priced at $49.50 - $150* (*$150 Dinner Package includes a premium seat, pre-show dinner and a voucher for free valet parking. Valet service begins 15 minutes before pre-show dinner doors open.) Enjoy a sumptuous buffet prior to the performance for only $25 per person (includes tax). Doors open two hours prior to the performance. Due to limited seating, we suggest advance purchase.
Following an acclaimed sold-out tour of the United Kingdom, Cameron Mackintosh’s spectacular new production of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s phenomenal musical success comes to Tampa. Bigger and better than ever before, this Phantom features new scenic design, award-winning original costumes, new choreography by Scott Ambler, new special effects and a new staging by director Laurence Connor. The beloved story and thrilling score - with songs like “Music of the Night,” “All I Ask Of You” and “Masquerade”. Tickets $25 - $128.50.
Next Generation Ballet’s Nutcracker
Rock in the holidays with host Jon “Bowzer” Bauman (co-founder of Sha Na Na) and a legendary artist lineup including Herman’s Hermits Peter Noone (Mrs. Brown You’ve Got a Lovely Daughter, There’s A Kind Of Hush [All Over the World], I’m Into Something Good, I’m Henry the 8th) and more! 7:30 p.m. Tickets $35 $125* (*Dinner package ticket is priced at $125 and includes a premium seat, pre-show dinner and a valet parking voucher. Valet service begins 15 minutes before pre-show dinner doors open.) Enjoy a sumptuous buf-
The Straz Center December 13 & 14
From the moment the lights dim, audiences are transported to a magical place filled with marching toy soldiers, a growing Christmas tree and giant mice. Miguel Anaya (Cavalier) and Maki Onuki (Sugarplum Fairy) of The Washington Ballet perform along with the award-winning dancers of Next Generation Ballet (NGB) and a cast of nearly 175 dancers and gymnasts. (New this Year: snowflakes fall
Bowzer’s Holiday Party
Van Wezel Perf. Arts Hall December 16
8:00 p.m. Tickets $45 - $75.
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Entertainment fet prior to the performance for only $25 per person (includes tax). Doors open two hours prior to the performance. Due to limited seating, we suggest advance purchase. Blue October - Rock, Acoustic
St. Petersburg December 19
Blue October is a five-piece rock band that was formed in 1995 by brothers Justin and Jeremy Furstenfeld along with multiinstrumentalist, Ryan Delahoussaye. 8:00 p.m. Tickets $25. 200 First Ave. N., St. Petersburg, FL. For more information (727) 565-0550 or www.blueoctober.com. Fleetwood Mac
Amalie Arena December 20
All five Fleetwood Mac members on the road for the first time in 16 years. It’s official! After a 16-year absence, Christine McVie will be re-joining Fleetwood Mac band mates Mick Fleetwood, John McVie, Lindsey Buckingham and Stevie Nicks as they launch the On With The Show Tour. Exclusively promoted by Live Nation, the tour makes a stop at Amalie Arena on Saturday, December 20 at 8:00 p.m. Be a part of the reunion of the multi-Grammy awardwinning, Rock and Roll Hall of Fame inductees and one of rock’s most beloved bands. Tickets $46.25 - $176.25. Trace Adkins
Ruth Eckerd Hall December 21
Trace Adkins’ The Christmas Show 2014 Tour is a reverent, family-friendly theatrical production, featuring songs from his Celtic Christmas album, The King’s Gift. The show combines fireside story-telling with performances of classic carols. Adkins’ historical and humorous narration, loving delivery of time-honored Christmas classics and the lush instrumentation make for a truly special holiday event. 7:00 p.m. Tickets priced at $50.75 *$150. (*$150 Dinner Package includes a premium seat, pre-show dinner and a voucher for free valet parking.) Enjoy a sumptuous buffet prior to the performance for only $25 per person (includes tax). Doors open two hours prior to the performance. Due to limited seating, we suggest advance purchase. Nebraska Thtr Caravan - A Christmas Carol
Van Wezel Perf. Arts Hall December 21
A true Sarasota favorite! The Nebraska
Theatre Caravan annually tours an original adaptation of Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol across the nation. From Alaska to Virginia, this Victorian rendition of the beloved tale, complete with traditional Christmas carols and a spinning bed, has delighted thousands of audience members each year. 7:00 p.m. Tickets $15 - $55. A Christmas Carol
Ruth Eckerd Hall December 22
A cherished tradition, this is the longest-running production of A Christmas Carol in the United States. In this beloved Dickens classic, ghosts of Christmases past, present and future guide Scrooge on a journey of redemption as he discovers the spirit of Christmas and a new life filled with joy and love. 2:00 p.m. & 7:00 p.m. Tickets $38.00 - $78.00. Enjoy a sumptuous buffet prior to the performance for only $25 per person (includes tax). Doors open two hours prior to the performance. Due to limited seating, we suggest advance purchase. Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical
The Lakeland Center December 24
The beloved stop-motion classic Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer: The Musical soars off the screen and onto the stage this holiday season. From fleeing the Abominable Snow Monster to saving Christmas, join Rudolph and his friends Clarice, Hermey the Elf, and Yukon Cornelius as their adventures teach us that what makes you different can be what makes you special. Don’t miss this wonderful holiday tradition. 1:00 p.m. Tickets $27.50 - $57.50. Shen Yun Performing Arts
Van Wezel Perf. Arts Hall December 29
This show features traditional Chinese culture as it was meant to be experienced, capturing the spirit of ancient China, recalling the grandeur of a culture long lost. The show moves quickly from one story, region, and dynasty to the next. Dozens of dancers in dazzling costumes move in seamless, flowing patterns. China’s ethnic and folk dance styles fill the stage with color and energy. A journey from ancient legends to contemporary tales of courage, from the highest heavens to the dusty plateaus of the Middle Kingdom. Gorgeous backdrops extend the stage, transporting the au, an orchestra, combining Western and Chinese instruments like no other, plus soul-stirring scores. 7:30 p.m. Tickets
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$55 - $205. Moscow Ballet Great Russian Nutcracker
Van Wezel Perf. Arts Hall December 27 - 3:00 p.m. & 7:00 p.m. Mahaffey Theater December 28 - 12:00 p.m., 4:00 p.m. & 8:00 p.m. The Lakeland Center December 30 - 7:00 p.m.
Give your family an unforgettable Christmas gift this year! Moscow Ballet’s spectacular Great Russian Nutcracker is the must-see event this holiday season! Celebrate the beloved Christmas tradition with the whole family as forty world-class Russian artists bring this charming classic to life. The New York Times raves “KnockOut!” Experience Tchaikovsky’s master score this Christmas with the magic of larger than-life-puppets, growing Christmas tree and life-sized Matrushka Dolls! More at www.nutcracker.com. Guys and Dolls
The Lakeland Center December 29 - 7:30 p.m. $45 - $50. Van Wezel Per. Arts Hall December 30 - 8:00 p.m. $45 - $70.
This oddball romantic comedy - considered by many to be the perfect musical comedy-soars with the spirit of Broadway a it introduces us to a cast of vivid characters who have become legends in the canon: Sarah Brown, the upright but uptight “mission doll,” out to reform the evildoers of Times Square; Sky Masterson, the slick, high-rolling gambler who woos her on a bet and ends up falling in love; Adelaide, the chronically ill nightclub performer whose condition is brought on by the fact she’s been engaged to the same man for 14 years; and Nathan Detroit, her devoted fiance, desperate as always to find a spot for his infamous floating craps game. ringling bros & barnum & bailey circus
Amalie Arena January 1 - 4
Prepare to be astonished and amazed by some of the coolest acts that can only be seen at The Greatest Show On Earth’s “Circus Extreme!” Children of all ages can let their imagination go wild in an exhilarating adventure with extraordinary circus artists and exotic animals. Explore a world of extreme beauty, flexibility, strength and dexterity in ways you’ve never seen before. Tickets $16 - $70. www.ameliearena.com.
Asolo Theater 5555 North Tamiami Trail, Sarasota, FL 34236 (941) 351-8000 www.asolorep.org Midflorida Credit Union Amphitheatre 4802 N. US Highway 301 Tampa, FL 33610 Telephone: (813) 740-2446. www.midflorida.com/amphitheatre The Historic Capitol Theatre 405 Cleveland Street Clearwater, FL 33755 Telephone: (727) 791-7400. www.rutheckerdhall.com The Lakeland Center — 701 W. Lime St. Lakeland, FL 33815. Telephone: (863) 834-8100 www.thelakelandcenter.com The Mahaffey Theater — 400 1st. St. South, St. Petersburg, FL 33701. Telephone: (727) 892-5798. www.themahaffey.com Ruth Eckerd Hall — 1111 McMullen Booth Rd. Clearwater, FL 33759. Telephone: (727) 791-7400. www.rutheckerdhall.com The Straz Center — 1010 North Macinnes Place, Tampa, FL 33602. Telephone: (813) 229-7827. www.strazcenter.org Amelie Arena 401 Channelside Dr. Tampa, FL 33602. Telephone: (813) 301-6500. www.ameliearena.com American Stage Theatre 163 3rd Street North St. Petersburg, FL 33701 Telephone: (727)823-7529 www.americanstage.org Improv Comedy Theater 1600 E 8th Ave C-112 Tampa, FL 33605 Telephone: (813) 864-4000 www.improvtampa.com
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Senior to Senior Woman Seeking Man NS ND 71, Christian, good figure, seeks intimacy for special man, LTR SOH ISO possible marriage. Largo. (727) 754-4195. W W F ISO Christian W M, at least 5’7”, 65+ for church, travelling, dancing, some travel, LTR, marriage possible for right man. Largo. (727) 247-9253. Attractive, short, perky blonde, young 65, healthy, loves beach, outdoors, motorcycles, dancing, ping pong, travelling, LTR, good cook, love cuddling, spoil each other. Largo. Scooterrider101@yahoo.com. W F ISO LTR, young 61, eye to eye contact. Walk hand in hand, no sugar coating, long blonde hair, blue eyed gal, loves to dance, karaoke, communication, personality a plus. Lakeland. (248) 860-3008. S W F NS SD C looking for same in male, 65+ for church, dancing, some travel, enjoy life, LTR. Largo . (727) 247-9253 or cooperrose8@aol.com. S W F ISO senior to go to daytrips with, travel, fun tour, swim, baseball games, tv, use walker for distance. St. Petersbueg. (727) 368-7151. S W F NS SD Seeking male that likes life and wants a partner for movies, plays, beach, sports, baseball, bowling, dinner, cruises, travelling, and more, LTR. Trinity. (727) 843-1697. Ages 70-80. S WD W F looking for a special W M NS ND, likes dining in or out, and travel. Age 82-84. I live in Condo, St. Petersburg before Gandy bridge. St. Petersburg. (727) 578-4018. D W F 50 ISO a good sincere man, honest, loveable, likes going out or staying home, holding hands. If that’s you, call me. Tampa. (813) 802-5640. Little blonde, green eyes, loves life, sweet kind W F, SOH. Happy, would love companionship. Loves animals, very fair with people and fun loving. (727) 326-7084.
man Seeking WOMan Successful, tall, slim S B C M, former science instructor & education consultant, seeking intelligent, romantic, slender, Christian, mature, Caribbean woman
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fishing. ISO romantic, retired, driving female, healthy. Madeira/Seminole area (727) 501-4093. ISO W F who needs love. I’m 5’11”, 209 lbs., W Virginia boy, lives on own farm, 7.9 acres, ex navy for 9 years, 23 days VA, SD, no drugs. I need an honest, lovable woman. Plant City (813) 986-2145. 1 woman man. S W M 6’ 180 lbs., NS ND likes fishing, baseball, pool, ISO S W F SOH, good looking passionate, NS. Please no players. Largo (727) 580-5848. Seeking spiritual minded non-religious lady, 3060, for good life with an honest man, 70. Write to me about yourself. PO Box 1022, Port Richey, FL 34673.
Meet that Someone Special with a FREE listing in Senior to Senior for conversation, dating, Christian fellowship, leading to LTR. Tampa. mjc1744@netzero.net. WD W M 73, looking for female in 70s. St. Petersburg area. Lets enjoy our time. St. Petersburg. (313) 334-0693. S M 53, down to earth ISO a S W F with a good SOH for a LTR. New Port Richey. (201) 294-7579. S W M tall, slim, active healthy 60s, ISO attractive, honest, sincere NS lady for friendship, phone conversation, nature walks, etc. Friendly personality a plus. St. Petersburg. (727) 322-6197. Classic gentleman, 6’2” 183 lbs., athletic build, works out daily, considered handsome, college degree, ISO tall very slender female for LTR. Enjoys concerts, antiquing, day trips and fun times. Dunedin (561) 512-9150. Retired D M 6’ slim, fit, NS ND outdoorsman, enjoys camping, road trips, swap meets, lake and river
friend Seeking friend WD H F NS ND ISO American M/F for walks, coffee, occasional movie,, Bradenton/Ellenton area, I screen calls. (941) 776-2517. Fishing friend to fish florida with. Will teach M/F if willing to follow directions. Call after 5. Salt water only. St. Petersburg. (727) 642-1566. WD W F ISO friendship, honest and open to anything, dancing, eating out, 75 yrs. of age, must drive. St. Petersburg. (727) 826-0145. Retired, English teacher W C S M offers practice in English to French, Spanish, Italian native speakers. Only interested in friendship and conversation. St. Pete rsburg. (727) 217-4936. Hello I’m in good shape, 50 yrs. old, ISO 50-60s W/M in good shape. Please be discreet and no mind games. Tarpon Springs. (727) 550-7928.
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morrow morning and having nothing to do can weigh heavily on heart and spirit. Without purpose, life loses its meaning. In my opinion, work you enjoy satisfies that purpose. Associate with those who passionately love the work they are now doing or the work they used to do. Avoid those who do not. People who dislike what they do are contagious; I believe that they infect others with their disappointment and discontent. Selfish work cannot compete with work that improves or enriches the lives of others. Self-centered work is a hollow victory. Our history books are filled with people whose work gave others hope, faith, joy and courage. As a result, they have never been forgotten. I believe that we must see the biblical version of work in a more contemporary light. In my interpretation, the Hebrew belief system viewed work as a curse devised by God to punish the disobedience and ingratitude of Adam and Eve. Throughout history, work has not been perceived as a pleasurable or comfortable experience. Even today, for most people, work is not a luxury, but rather a “necessary evil” in their struggle to survive. Many people today find themselves in dead-end jobs, or in work they feel is purposeless and frustrating. A recent poll suggested that only about half of American workers are satisfied with their jobs. How you feel about the job you are now doing, formal or informal, is not open to debate. It is purely a subjective opinion. Hence, for the title of this article to have meaning, it is essential that work be viewed as a blessing, not a hardship. From WORK Page 1
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lips of the un-replying dead there comes no word. But in the night of Death, Hope sees a star and listening Love can hear the rustling of a wing.” There’s a great deal more to health than the conditions listed in the first sentence of this essay. I think you will realize that an understanding of attainable positive health, greater than the absence of negative conditions, is vital for the American economy, as well as your own prospects for enjoying life, liberty and happiness. You must consciously appreciate that health is well beyond the need for meds, the absence of disease, the avoidance of obesity and freedom from destructive addictions. From HEALTH Page 1
The Art of Fine Italian Cuisine
What Positive Health Beyond the Margins Looks and Feels Like Health is about happiness, joy and exuberance. It is about thinking critically, having passions and causes, feeling great about life and being fit physically and mentally. We are all affected by genetic, environmental and cultural factors and the vicissitudes of random fortune. But Peggy Lee was right: Life really is about dancing, mentally as much as physically, at every chance. Ingersoll said, “Nobody should fail to pick up every jewel of joy that can be found in his path.” That’s part of what health is about—being as able as you can be to experience life fully, to the very end. Health beyond the margins of non-sickness consists of ever-changing and positive physical and psychological states. These states of high-level functioning cannot be diagnosed or assessed in the manner that illness and disease states are scientifically assessed for treatment purposes. Positive health is not like a game or race that can be scored or timed. Exercise physiologists can measure excellent physical states, such as lean body mass relative to fat, or composition ratios, oxygen capacity and so on. In addition, agegraded performance measures are available for assessing strength, flexibility, balance and endurance. Finally, psychologists can administer batteries of tests to assess effective mental functioning. Yet in the most important ways, that’s not all there is to health beyond the margins of mediocrity. The person who feels joyful, knows love, exudes kindness, feels valued and enjoys community is modeling and enjoying health of the highest level. Unfortunately, this is a standard not much taken into account in the medical or so-called “health care” system. But that does not mean you can’t set and realize a positive, enriched dimension of positive well being. Don’t look to doctors, drugs or other agents to guide you along the way. Positive health is not a function of medicine—positive health is a lifestyle challenge, a responsibility that rests on your shoulders. It’s worth the effort. There is no need to measure it.
Summary Is that all there is? With regard to the meaning of life, why we’re here and what it’s all about, I don’t know, but I’m satisfied, as was Ingersoll, that “the highest philosophy is to enjoy today, not regretting yesterday and not fearing tomorrow. So let us suck this orange of life dry, so that when death does come, we can politely say to him, ‘You are welcome to the peelings. What little there was we have enjoyed.’” Be well and keep on dancing.
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