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I recently read an article titled, “Overkill,” written by Atul Gawande and published in The New Yorker. It validated for me that I’m not the only person who believes the medical community oftentimes unnecessarily orders tests, performs procedures and sometimes even surgeries on our patients. For years, as an advocate for my clients, I have closely managed their health issues, and, when necessary, I have questioned any invasive procedures suggested by their well-meaning physicians. Several years ago, I was the health-care surrogate for a client with multiple sclerosis. She wanted and requested constant testing for one thing or another. Now I knew (and so did her physician) that what she was really looking for was the magic solution to her MS. Not like me, however, the physician never discouraged her or denied her requests. I would directly address her fears and concerns about her given situation, which wasn’t always easy. The truth is, she was fairly well tuned, and her general health was “as good as it gets.” The doctor, I feel, took the easy way out by ordering the tests requested and by going along with what she had to say, as opposed to offering a professional opinion. Sadly, against my strong recommendation, she requested a hospital admission for procedures that I felt were life threatening and totally unnecessary. As requested, she was admitted for evaluation and received multiple tests—by multiple doctors, I See MEDICAL, Page 11
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WARNING: Four Things You Must Know When Selling a House inflated values for your house in an attempt to secure a By Ben Souchek provide listing.
DEAR YUPPIES: I AM YOUR GUY
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Thinking of selling your house? There are a few things you must know to navigate the sometimes-unknown road of selling a house. Four of the most important considerations are real estate agents, appraisers, home-buying companies and real estate valuation websites.
Real estate agents Just like any industry, there are good agents and not-so-good agents. When an agent is competing for your listing, ensure that he or she is giving you realistic selling prices. Some agents tend to
Make sure agents are showing you good comparables from your neighborhood. Just as importantly, make sure the agents are showing you pictures, so that you can see the quality of interior and exterior of the comps compared to your house. Know that buyers are not going to place as much value for your house if kitchens and bathrooms have not been updated recently, especially if the comps in your area have been updated. Also, know that the price the agent says he or she can list your house for is a much different number than what you will net from the sale of the house if the house sells. A seller will typically net only 75-85 percent of the sale price of the house, and the final sale price will typically be lower than the original asking price. One important question to ask an agent: Will you guarantee what I will net from the sale of my house?
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Health Roundup
The ABCs of Choosing the Right Dentist By Dr. Anthony J. Adams Choosing the best dentist involves many factors. In the next few articles, I will try to cover the real issues. Price is often cited by the patient as the reason they chose the dentist that they did. Price is not the same as value. How valuable, throughout a lifetime, is a healthy, beautiful, functional mouth? Oral health affects every social interaction from job opportunities to spousal choices. Your oral health affects how others see and judge you. Poor oral health contributes to poor total body health and has even been called a cause of heart disease, diabetes and even cancer. Again, how valuable is good oral health? The ability to properly chew food can be significant in your food choices. Those choices are a huge factor in how you feel. Food choices are a major factor in the health of your gastro-intestinal tract and, therefore, your immune system. Price should not be the determining factor when you consider value in your choices. Choosing the right dentist can and will affect much more than your immediate finances. Price may be a limiting factor; however, it should never be the deciding factor in your choice of the dentist serving you. Price is not even a reliable indication of a good or not-so-good dentist.
How skilled is your dentist? How skilled is the dentist you are considering? This person will be making choices that will make a difference in your health and wealth throughout your lifetime. You may only see this person once or twice a year. Yet what happens at those visits will have a profound effect on your total health as well as oral health. What will be the real cost if your dentist does not have the skill, training, education and expe-
rience to make the best decisions for you? You should always seek a dentist that loves being a dentist. A dentist that never becomes complacent, never bored, one who seeks to learn new knowledge, and blends new and old techniques and approaches in the provision of good treatment for you. The skillset of the dentist includes but is not limited to knowledge. Skillset includes the ability and willingness to listen to all that makes you who you are, including past and present medical and dental history. Skillset includes compassion for people and the desire to help them be the best they can be, whatever the circumstances. For one to be a good clinician, one must be nonjudgmental, knowing that the present is where we can make things better. Experience is invaluable to the clinician. It is the battlefield. It is where one has put together action leading to the desired result. One learns what works and what does not. You want a seasoned veteran of dentistry to be your dentist. Experience counts after all your vetting is done. After all considerations, go to the dentist who, in your heart, you totally trust. Dr. Anthony J. Adams is available at (727) 799-3123. Learn more at www. healthybodydental.com. Visit Healthy Body Dental at 25877 US Highway 19 N, Clearwater, FL 33763.
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Health Roundup
Aging Americans Need Eye Care Most, but Do They Have Benefits? Julie Beall might be a cancer patient, but she’s truly defined by any number of other titles. She’s a registered nurse, a real estate professional, an MBA graduate, a small business owner, a public speaker, a wife and a mother. She owns a glass art studio. She regularly volunteers at a medical clinic in Africa. The 50-something is nowhere near retired, although she is nearing retirement age. And she has a message for people of her generation and older. Get annual eye exams. Your life might depend on it. John Lahr, OD, EyeMed Medical Director and a fellow baby boomer, concurred. “The single most important thing anyone 50 years or older can do for their vision and eye health is to book an annual eye exam,” Lahr said. “Once you pass the 50-year mark, your risk for several serious eye diseases increases, and the odds of you requiring vision correction also climbs. What’s more, your optometrist may see signs of a serious physical health condition you never associated with an eye exam.” Nobody knows better than Beall. Two years ago, she went for a routine eye exam near her home outside Dayton, Ohio, not knowing that her life was about to change forever. “I didn’t really suspect anything was wrong,” Beall said. “Maybe I was getting a little older. I thought I might need reading glasses; maybe my eyes were getting a little tired.” Beall’s optometrist noticed an area off the side of the retina that looked unusual. After dilating her eyes, he noted what he thought was a detaching retina. Considering it an ocular emergency, her optometrist referred her to an ophthalmologist who specialized in retinal diseases. She saw that doctor later the same day and was told she had choroidal melanoma, a potentially fatal form of cancer. Doctors treated Julie with radioactive plaque therapy. According to Lahr, Beall’s story of uncovering a serious health concern at the optometrist is not unusual. In addition to preserving eyesight, annual exams can be a window to serious medical conditions like high blood pressure, diabetes, heart disease and high cholesterol. “The average optometrist sees 2,500-3,000 patients annually. And it’s not uncommon for there to be hundreds of times each year you have someone in the op-
tometrist’s chair who hasn’t had a physical in a while. You take a look at the back of their eye and you see early signs of something potentially serious,” said Dr. Lahr. “More often, eye doctors recognize symptoms of serious eye disease when it’s early enough to correct the condition or manage long-term vision issues.” Ironically, for many aging Americans, an annual eye exam becomes harder to access at a time in life when they most need to see an eye doctor regularly. According to The Vision Council, less than half of Americans age 65 or older have vision benefits. Studies show that this aging population will double to 71.5 million by 2030. Regular adult eye health and vision care is not provided through original Medicare or the Affordable Care Act. Plus, an increasing number of Americans in their 50s and early 60s are without access to employer-sponsored health benefits due to self-employment or circumstances. This gap sparked an idea from EyeMed, and they began working on an insurance product for AARP members. “There is a certain segment of the target population that might just say, ‘Why should I get an eye exam every year if I don’t have a vision benefit to help with the costs?’” said Lahr. “I even talk to people who have the means to cover vision care costs out-of-pocket and are interested in an individual vision benefit.” AARP MyVision Care from EyeMed, the first vision See VISION, Page 5
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Growing up, I was always told that there were two things you should never discuss: politics and religion. Throughout my life, I found that I could actually talk about both of these topics. Now, there were times talk would teeter on the edge of danger, but it never really spilled over. Unfortunately, both of these topics have become veritable landmines. And that is not good for our country. Remember that pesky thing called the Bill of Rights? You know, that little note about freedom of speech? Our country has become so polarized that it is nearly impossible to have an open and constructive conversation on the politics and management of our country. In the current climate, one is not allowed to have an opinion without being looked on as an idiot or fool for believing what one believes. And it doesn’t matter whether it is religion, politics, sexuality or lifestyle: someone has an opinion, and if yours differs, you are going to have an argument and maybe even lose a friend. One of the most unfortunate byproducts of today’s environment is that once you have a political label--Republican, Conservative, Liberal, Democrat--it seems that you carry all the “stigmas” attached to that label. And this is just foolish. I know plenty of socially liberal people and Democrats who are sick of allowing someone to be born into, live on and finally die on public assistance. I also know plenty of conservatives or Republicans that believe that gays should be able to marry, and that the government needs to provide some sort of (not what it is today) financial safety net to those that fall on hard times. I know, like myself, Republicans that were not fans of George Bush (Jr.) and Democrats that can’t wait for Obama’s term to be finished. Today, we have families and friendships that have disintegrated over differing political views. This is just downright foolish. Our country needs rational political discourse. Without differing opinions, we will be nothing more than automatons with little chance of change or growth. We need political leaders that care about the citizens they represent as well as the rest of American citizens. And we need political leaders that are open minded and can work across the aisle. Both sides have good ideas, and both sides have valid points. Both sides have bad ideas and invalid points. It is our job as citizens to get educated on the important topics and force the parties to work together.
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From VISION Page 3 plan with features to meet the specific vision needs of senior consumers, launched in February in California, Illinois, Ohio and New Jersey. For more information, go to https://aarpmyvisioncare.net/. Today, Julie Beall has added a new role to her ever-expanding list of titles: eye exam advocate. “If I could just get everybody in the country to get an eye exam,” Beall said. “Do it. It may save your life.”
Isn’t vision loss just part of getting older?
Worsening vision is an inevitable part of aging, but according to AllAboutVision.com, lifestyle and vision care impact the rate and degree of deterioration. • If your diet includes zinc, lutein and zeaxanthin, vitamin C, vitamin E and Omega-3 fatty acids, you may delay cataracts and control the progress of age-related macular degeneration. • If you smoke, stop. The odds of developing cataracts and macular degen- eration increase 400 percent if you’re a smoker. • Presbyopia, a natural part of the aging process, makes it difficult for you to focus on close objects. Optometrists can prescribe contact lenses, reading glasses, bifocals or even progressive lenses (no-line multifocals). Lens technology allows you to wear multifocal glasses without the traditional look of multifocals. • Advancements in lens technology can correct and enhance your vision in ways unimaginable a decade ago. Cataracts can be removed efficiently with accurate focus outcomes. Glaucoma, in its early stages, can be treated with eyedrops and lasers. Lasik treatment continues to evolve.
Ask the doctor EyeMed Medical Director John Lahr, OD, answers some questions about eye exams for aging patients: Q: When optometrists look into the eye, what are they looking for? A: We see important eye structures and signs of glaucoma or cataracts or other diseases. But what’s most important is the ability to see blood vessels. The blood vessels tell us important early-identification signs for diabetes, hypertension and high cholesterol — three of the most costly diseases we face today. Q: Aren’t those things that should be picked up by primary care physicians? A: Unfortunately, some people don’t engage in general healthcare. They might only go to a doctor for specific issues. They kind of get lost in the system. Is their medication up to date? Are they doing what they’re supposed to do to be healthier? Are they monitored? Because many of these people come in annually to get their eyeglass or contact lens prescription updated, we have opportunities to diagnose them when they might not be otherwise. Q: What advances in technology have changed vision care for older patients? A: Just look at cataracts. Cataract surgery has gotten very sophisticated. And the outcomes have been fantastic. You’re taking out a cloudy lens and putting in an artificial lens. And with that lens, you can literally pick your prescription. It’s amazing what can be done with that procedure.
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Health Roundup
Take Small Steps to Better Health Staying healthy doesn’t have to mean overhauling your lifestyle. Sometimes small changes can have big impacts. Take it from celebrity fitness trainer, Latreal “La” Mitchell: “Everyone can reach his or her health and fitness goals. It’s all about setting attainable goals and staying motivated to see results.” To look, feel and live better, Mitchell is offering tips for small lifestyle changes you can make that can inspire you to make more in the future:
Get Moving If exercise is not a part of your life now, don’t worry. “In a short time, you can be doing quality exercises,” Mitchell said. “The key is to start small.” Try short sets of push-ups, planks, squats and lunges, and work your way up. Ten minutes can make a real difference. Remember, little things like taking the stairs instead of the elevator will keep you feeling great all day. Just be sure to make exercise non-negotiable. Life is busy, and it’s easy to find any number of reasons to skip a workout. Make yourself a fitness schedule and stick to it—and then don’t let anyone or anything stop you from staying on track.
Eat Right The small goal of adding more fiber to your diet can lead you to better nutrition choices. Aim to get 25-38 grams of fiber every day. In addition to upping your fruit and vegetable intake and swapping out processed white bread and pasta for the whole-wheat variety, fiber supplements can help you meet your fiber goals. Choose wisely, as some options have additional benefits beyond supporting digestive health. For example, Meta offers products made with psyllium fiber, which has multi-health benefits. Try adding Metamucil powder to a morning smoothie. Also, try new MetaBiotic probiotic supplement. For many people, snacking can be a downfall, especially during a busy workday. Try substituting your usual temptations with healthier options. For example, almonds and light popcorn are a good substitute for chips and are more satisfying. If you have a sweet tooth, ditch the afternoon pastry that’s high in calories but won’t actually help you feel full. Instead, look for a delicious, easy-to-pack snack like a Meta Health Bar that helps satisfy hunger as a healthful snack. Last, stay hydrated. Skip sugary sodas and sports drinks, and opt for water throughout the day. If you need a boost of flavor, add a lemon wedge, cucumber slice or some fresh herbs. Water helps you feel full and process fiber while helping to keep you hydrated. More tips can be found at www.metawellness.com. Bad habits are hard to break. By making small changes one at a time, you can overcome your hurdles for a healthier lifestyle.
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10 Things Everyone Should Know About Planning Cremation Services
It Is My Wish
Taking care of your pre-arrangements is a wise decision that shows you care. Planning a cremation service isn’t the easiest thing in the world. Nor is it the easiest subject to talk about. That’s why we compiled this information. It answers some of the more common – and more difficult – questions that people have. It planned and coordinated, and this can be a complicated task, especially if not also tells you why many people find pre-arranging a cremation service to be a thought through in advance. Also, final expense insurance does not protect against inflation. It is just an insurance policy designed to deliver a predetersensible decision. mined lump sum. Our trusted prearranged plan guarantees cremation service 1. Cremation service arrangements need to be documented. and price. Many people think they have taken care of everything by writing a will, establishing a living trust or even purchasing their cemetery plot. That’s not the case. A will simply leaves instructions for the handling of an individual’s finan- 9. Consider planning and prepaying arrangements. cial affairs, while a living trust usually only clarifies certain general wishes re- Planning a cremation service can take care of the details. It also relieves garding medical treatment. The cremation service itself still remains to be loved ones of the worry or making assumptions about the deceased’s wishes. But planned. You should make sure that your wishes are shared in writing with sev- only pre-funding can take care of the actual expense of the cremation service. eral people you can trust – family members, friends and your pre-arrangement And it’s a sensible financial decision. If you decide to plan and prepay for cremacounselor. tion service arrangements, be sure to let your family know. Also, keep your prearrangement documents in a safe place. Check with your bank before placing 2. Find out what government benefits are available. Unfortunately, most government benefits are severely limited. Regardless, copies in a safety deposit box to make sure that the box is not sealed at the time these benefits should be collected. However, most people find that additional of death. funding is necessary for the type of cremation service they deem appropriate. 3. Decide the final disposition. Burial, scattering at sea or keeping the urn at home with a family member is a very personal decision influenced by an individual’s faith and beliefs. It should be specified in the will and with prearrangement documents, as well as clearly discussed with family members and loved ones. Whatever your decision, there are government forms to be processed, fees to be paid and perhaps a celebration of life service to be planned.
10. Talk with a local pre-arrangement counselor. Arranging a cremation service can seem complicated, but there’s always someone who can help you. Pre-arrangement counselors are trained professionals who can be a vital and supportive resource for you. With years of experience, they can explain all the options available and help you make informed decisions. They can also guide you through the process.
4. Be informed about the choices available. At time of loss, there are many practical decisions to be made. Unfortunately, this National Cremation Society holds seminars monthly. To register for a is often the time when we’re least able to approach the subject rationally. That’s seminar or for more information, please call National Cremation Society ® why you should find a pre-arrangement counselor you can trust, someone you at (727) 536-0494. feel is absolutely the right person to handle the arrangements. The best time to do this is before it becomes a necessity. 5. Incorporate the wishes of family members if appropriate. A cremation service is an important part of the grieving process. For family members and loved ones alike, the cremation service allows them an opportunity to express their sadness, share memories and pay their last respects. A cremation service is a time when the opinions of the family should be considered. Prearranging is an excellent way to discuss and resolve these issues. Ultimately, however, this is a personal decision and should be made by you. This is one instance where you can have it your way. 6. A prearranged cremation service and Medicaid assistance. If you’re planning on applying for Medicaid assistance, for yourself or a loved one, a prearranged funeral agreement can be extremely beneficial in meeting your needs. In most states, a prearranged cremation service is treated as an exempt asset for Medicaid qualification purposes when ownership of the policy is irrevocably assigned. This allows you to prearrange the cremation service you desire while maintaining assistance eligibility. Many states have no maximum limit to the cost of a prearranged cremation service. Please consult with your attorney before applying for Medicaid assistance to learn more about your state’s requirements. 7. Don’t be afraid to ask about prices. The costs of arranging a cremation service can vary considerably from company to company. Be careful to choose a funeral home which presents its prices – the cost of the service, cemetery plot or cremation, memorialization, and so on – clearly and simply. Unfortunately, cremation service costs are also subject to inflation. Making your own prearrangements allows you to compare prices and freeze the cost against inflation. 8. Why final expense insurance may not be enough. Insurance provides a lump sum benefit. Keep in mind, however, that even with this insurance in place, the actual cremation service itself still needs to be
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Julie Newmar Still the Cat’s Meow
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Focus on Men’s Health very year, more than 300,000 E men in America lose their lives to cancer, so make your health a top priority. There are many easy ways to improve your health and stay strong. Some tips include:
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This summer, Julie Newmar turns 82, but it seems like yesterday that she was prowling across our TV screens as the original Catwoman supervillainess in the ‘60s TV se-
ries, “Batman.” In addition to her acting career, Julie has long taken an interest in gardening, beauty and health. “If something bothers me, I try to live on top of it,” Newmar said from her home in Los Angeles, Calif. “Just let the joy in you come out, and stay in love with life. That’s the secret to aging well.” Newmar also gives inspirational talks to women on how to enhance one’s overall image, including tips on make-up, hair, dress and voice. “Beauty has a lot of connotations to it, and loving yourself is a very good place to start. We can all be more marvelous.” Aside from Catwoman and numerous other TV roles throughout her career, Newmar appeared in more than 30 films, working with greats such as Kirk Douglas, Gregory Peck and James Mason. In “Mackenna’s Gold” (1969), she was cast as a young Native American girl. “I’m of Swedish descent, so having a Swedish girl play an Indian could only have been done in Hollywood 40 years ago,” Newmar said, recalling an unexpected visitor to the set. “We spent two months on location in Arizona and Utah. At the time, Robert Kennedy was running for president, and he and his entire entourage dropped in one night and had dinner in a tent with us. I sat next to him and remember his wife trying unsuccessfully to convince Gregory Peck to read some poetry.” Eight years earlier, in “The Marriage-Go-Round,” Newmar was cast closer to her ancestry—as a teenage, Swedish blonde bombshell attempting to seduce James Mason. “He was a glorious actor, extremely generous and helpful. He looked out for me in my close-ups, making sure the light was on my face and shadows didn’t fall on me.” But it was her role as the exotic feminine feline nemesis to the “dynamic duo” in some dozen “Batman” episodes where Newmar’s sex appeal sizzled on ‘60s TV screens. Her image still haunts many today. “I still get a lot of fan mail from men,” Newmar See NEWMAR on Page 15
Above: Publicity shot of Julie Newmar as Catwoman. Left: Julie Newmar on her 80th birthday at Goo Salon, as salon owner, Molly Scargall looks on. Photo provided by Molly Scargall.
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Exercise daily Know your family history Eat healthy Don’t Smoke Manage stress Drink plenty of water Ray, prostate cancer survivor
Facts About Cancer and Men ome of the most common types of S cancer among men in the U.S. are skin, prostate, lung and colorectal cancers. If you’re diagnosed, it is essential to seek the right treatment plan to ensure the best possible outcome. Moffitt provides a multispecialty team approach to personalized patient care. We bring together experts from a variety of oncology specialties to determine the best treatment plan for each patient while linking together the cancer center’s extensive array of medical and cancer support services.
A Choice That Can Mean Everything I n 2010, Ray was diagnosed and treated for stage 1 prostate cancer. In 2014, Ray’s cancer was back and his diagnosis was stage 4. Ray knew that his second attempt at treatment would need to be completed at Moffitt Cancer Center, where he would receive the comprehensive care and personally optimized treatment for his disease. Ray completely trusted Dr. Lodovico Balducci and his support staff with his care. “I am aware that I have a serious illness, but I know that my Moffitt family will focus on my survival which has been handled with professional compassion, excellent skill and great care,” said Ray. At Moffitt, patients benefit from an in-
dividualized treatment plan which may include the latest advancements in clinical trials. Through groundbreaking research and treatments, Moffitt continues to improve survival rates and enhance our patients’ quality of life. “We have a plan in place that is personalized to Ray’s disease and care,” said Dr. Balducci. “We are being aggressive upfront and will take a more conservative approach once we see a response to his treatment.” When it comes to cancer, your treatment is a choice that can mean everything. Moffitt Cancer Center is your best chance for beating cancer.
Recommended Health Screenings Early detection through screening can ensure a proper diagnosis quickly. • Skin Cancer: Periodic skin exams are important • Prostate Cancer: Start initial screening at age 50 • Lung Cancer: Screenings for current or former smokers between the ages of 55-80 • Colorectal Cancer: Start initial screening at age 50 To schedule an appointment, call 1-888-MOFFITT (663-3488) or visit MOFFITT.org.
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Out in the Cold in Ohio My sister, bless her heart, is a sophisticated, shop-atMacy’s type of woman, so you can imagine how she felt when her sister—moi—arrived at Cleveland Hopkins International Airport at the end of May in shorts and a khaki “Army” jacket—the ONLY idiot in shorts at Delta’s curbside pick up. I pretended to be an ice sculpture but still got negative looks from just about everyone, including my sister. Hey, I grew up in Ohio! I was expecting May flowers and robins bob-bobbobbing along! I could tell my sister was embarrassed by me, because she acted like she was on a homeless person rescue, asking, “Are these your bags, ma’am?” She threw my suitcase in the back of her car, and we were out of there so fast, I swear we could have beat the Boeing 757 just lifting off for Atlanta if I were going back that way. Okay, so I’m exaggerating a little, but I did have to try and convince her all the way to her house that a Floridian, even if a transplant from Ohio, cannot comprehend cold, and that’s why I had on shorts. When we arrived at her house, even her husband looked askance at my shorts and Army jacket, and he’s not even a Macy’s aficionado. Nor is he sophisticated. I climbed to the top of the stairs and put my luggage in a spare bedroom. How could I tell my host and hostess that my suitcase contained seven pair of shorts and 12 sleeveless blouses (two turtle doves and a partridge in a pear tree)? I bore a significant resemblance to a Slinky as I descended the stairs to ask my sister if she had a pair of jeans and a sweatshirt I could borrow. Come to think of it, I don’t recall EVER having seen my sister in a pair of jeans and a sweatshirt. Or shorts and an Army jacket. She, on the other hand, has never seen me in Macy’s-type fashions. (Yes, we had the same mother.) She suggested we go shopping, but I protested. “I’m not paying $100 for a pair of jeans when I have six pairs at home!” We eventually headed to Wal-Mart, per my insistence. However, at the front of the Wal-Mart parking lot was another of my favorite stores—a thrift shop, where I was positive I could find a really cheap pair of jeans. I dragged my sister into the thrift store against her will. She HATES thrift stores, ever since my mom used to hit seven shops in a row, with us in tow, every time we visited my grandma on the West Side of Cleveland. My sister swears mom bought “other people’s underwear.” No wonder she was mortified to revisit that memory. I don’t recall my mom buying any panties or bras, but that was because, even back then, I was busy checking the racks for Army jackets or other super finds, such as Davy Crockett coonskin hats or magazines featuring Elvis Presley. My sister made me pledge that if I mentioned her horror at the thought of thrift shops, I would say that it is not because she is snooty, but because she still has visions of a yellowed bra and a bin full of other people’s underwear. OK, sis: I’ve kept my promise. Now, let me tell you this. Whenever I have bought jeans before, it always involves three hours and 10 minutes in the dressing room, trying on every style Levi Strauss could ever have imagined. However, while I was looking through
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the rack of sweatshir ts, my sister approached me with a dark blue, almo s t-ne wlooking pair of jeans. The size will not be disclosed to protect my dignity, but, wonder of wonders, that one pair was a perfect fit! And it was hand-selected by my sister, no less! “Is it OK if I wait out in the car while you pay for your things?” My sister asked. She looked pale. It was the least I could do in return for her bravery amid a sea of hand-medowns. “Sure!” I said. I was very happy with my $3 purple sweatshirt and my $7 jeans. As we drove away, I wished we hadn’t been so rushed, because I love to explore every aisle and examine every knick-knack in a thrift store, but I couldn’t bring myself to ask if we could return the next day—I love my sister.
Jean Mlincek is a freelance writer who resides in St. Petersburg, Fla.
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opinion
Freedom By Carolyn Shockey
While it is easy to
become disgruntled with the status of affairs here in the United States, one
just needs to look around to see that we are living in the best country in the world. Yet it is certainly disconcerting to see the daily news with the turmoil in the Middle East, capturing of innocent girls in Africa, our servicemen being killed or wounded, and dangerous plots by ISIS all over the world, helped largely by social media on the Internet. Here at home, we see cases of racial profiling, police brutality, senseless shootings and corrupt government. We have elected officials who use their positions for personal agendas and do not serve the interests and will of their constituents. How easy it is to be caught up in it all after an hour of the dooming evening news that seems to savor the sensational or negative reporting. Then, of course, we hear about whatever it was with followups for weeks. All this can infringe on our peace of mind and sanity if we let it. The first thing we ask is, what can I, as one person, do? We are blessed with our amendment for free speech, so we can make our concerns known. We can take a stand and get involved for the betterment of our communities, and we can support legislation that works. We can know our candidates and vote for the one who has interests other than his or her own, and hold him or her accountable. We need to stop complaining if we haven’t done any of the above. As a young person, I was always fighting a cause or two. Now, I personally feel it’s too stressful to try to make a change in the large picture, but I can support others who want to carry the ball awhile. I am free, however, to make changes personally, knowing that the power of one
does work. So, I’m going to be selective in what newscasts I watch and not get personally caught up in them, knowing that the things we give energy to thrive in our minds. I’ll mark my TV-control channel changer to remind me to move on before listening to the story a second time. I’ll selectively read the newspaper for the same reason. I’ll have good information on all the candidates running for office so I make a good choice at the voting booth, not just mark a box for someone who sounds good or has name recognition. I’ll get involved in my community issues to make it a safer place to live. I will try to be the best example of a good citizen I can be. I will not turn my head and pretend I do not see. I will not forward character assassinations of elected officials and/or politicians in or running for office that I get in emails (remembering the energy comment above). Our continued freedom depends on each of us doing our part, trying to find, encourage and support the good instead of the negative. Will you join me? “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” – Mahatma Gandhi
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might add. One of said tests was an endoscopic procedure that caused an inflammatory process in her already fragile lungs. After being placed on a ventilator for several days, I had to make the tough decision to have her removed from the ventilator— “pull the plug,” as they say—consequently allowing her to pass on. I was, to say the least, devastated—but also angry. Her primary care doctor should have acknowledged her neurosis and discussed the consequences of the multiple procedures with her. Overkill and over-diagnosing lead to unnecessary procedures that can kill a person prematurely. Healthcare is a business, and, many times, hospitalizations and medical billing come into play. This can lead to “overkill—an avalanche of unnecessary medical care” and can be detrimental for the patient. Please be proactive with regard to your healthcare, and be sure that what is being ordered relates to your diagnosis and is necessary. Example: You do NOT need an EEG for headaches; that is overkill. EEG testing is for seizure disorders. All of the tests we receive are usually very costly, and we all eventually pay for this, one way or the other. Over-testing contributes significantly to the rising cost of health care. It can also cost you your well-being. Be proactive: 1) Ask your ordering physician if what he or she is ordering is necessary (and why it is necessary). 2) Be sure he or she is not biased. For many years, I have said that if you go to a surgeon, he or she will probably want to do surgery. If you go to an oncologist, he or she will probably order chemo; GI doctor/endoscopy of sorts—you get the picture. So, get informed and become educated with regard to your health. Ask questions, do research and get second opinions if necessary. Become conservative with your health. Have direct conversations with your primary care physician, and look for more natural solutions when at all possible. What are your thoughts? Do you have a story to share? Let’s talk!
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Senior Happenings This off-road course is roughly 3.6-miles and has added deira Beach, FL. challenges that may include getting your feet wet, crawling Summer Salons: Luncheons with Music under a cargo net and jumping or climbing over obstacles. Register online. Race starts at 6:45 p.m. Price: $31; Day of The Field Club race $35. July 14 Race location is at 7404 Picnic Island Blvd., Tampa, FL. The event features a lunch followed by a musical program. Reservations must be made five days prior to Cancer Patient Fundraiser each event. 11:30 a.m. Tickets: $39, $105 for all three. Madeira Beach The Field Club is located at 1400 Field Rd., Sarasota, FL.
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Parkinson’s Support Group The party for Sofia Anderson, a young girl fighting Neuroblastoma cancer, includes a raffle, vendors, live music Hale Senior Activity Center Shark Week at the Aquarium and a Kids Painting Corner. All artwork created will be July 14 taken to Sofia at All Children’s Hospital. Free. From 7:00 Florida Aquarium Group meetings help people with Parkinson’s, caregiva.m. July 6 - 12 ers and families to foster self-empowerment, coping skills, Event’s location is 14601 Gulf Blvd., Madeira Beach, FL. and socialization in a non-judgmental and encouraging atThe Aquarium splashes into Shark Week with themed activities including viewing of six different species of mosphere, including physical, occupational and speech Shark Con 2 sharks through out the aquarium. Included with regular exercises. 1:00 p.m. Free. Florida State Fairgrounds admission. Price: $23.95, $20.95 seniors, $18.95 ages 3-12, The Hale Senior Activity Center is located at 330 DougJuly 11 & 12 2 and younger free. Prices are generally about $2 cheaper las Ave., Dunedin, FL. This event has something for everyone who loves the if you buy them online at the aquarium’s site. Grandeur of Renaissance Art workshop The FL Aquarium is located at 701 Channelside Drive, ocean including, speakers from Discovery Channel, NaTampa, FL. For more information (813) 273-4000 or tional Geographic, water sports clinics, over 80 vendors, Pasco-Hernando State College, North Campus exhibits from the Florida Aquarium, Mote Marine Laborawww.flaquarium.org. July 14 tory Mobile exhibit, SeaWorld and much more. From 9:00 Find out why the Renaissance was a time of beautiful Community Night Happy Hour a.m. both days. Tickets: $15, $5 ages 2-16. things, including homes, gardens, paintings and sculpThe FL State Fairgrounds are located at 4802 U.S. 301 NOVA 535 ture, fine books, and lavish theatre, during this, the secN., Tampa, FL. For more information (941) 539-0833 or July 7 ond workshop in the art history series. 1:00 p.m. Tickets: Enjoy a cash bar and music by Tori Fuson and the Bay www.shark-con.com. $12 for each workshop. Kings Band as you explore downtown St. Petersburg’s P. H. State College is located at 11415 Ponce de Leon Dig the Beach eclectic special events hall. Free. Blvd., Brooksville, FL. Siesta Key Beach Hall is located at 535 Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. St. N., July 11 - 12 Lifestyles After 50 Fun Fest St. Petersburg, FL. The beaches are hot and beautiful and it is time for Clubhouse at Strawberry Ridge Ask a Master Gardener some sport and fun... can you dig it? The Dig The Beach Siesta Key Volley Ball Classic bounces back in for another July 16 West Pasco Library weekend of excitement. Competition starts at 8:30 a.m. at Come be a part of this After 50 Fun Fest – Choo Choo July 7 the Siesta Key public beach volleyball courts. Free specta- Walk to Benefit the Humane Society. Fun walk, live music, Find out what’s bugging your plants, and how to grow a tor admission. entertainment and free bingo. Also free health screenings, better garden, as experts answer questions and diagnose free coffee and goodies, prizes and giveaways. Free parkplant problems the first Tuesday of the month. In library Mid-Florida Summer Home Show ing and admission. 8:00 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. lobby. 5:30 p.m. Free. Strawberry Festival Grounds The Clubhouse at Strawberry Ridge, 3419 ST 60 East, Library is located at 8012 Library Road, Hudson, FL. Valrico, FL. For more information (813) 653-1988. July 11 & 12 7th Annual Sarasota Improv Festival More than 100 home improvement vendors will be on Main Street Bartow Friday Fest hand with tips for interior and exterior home improvement, Florida Studio Theatre Downtown Bartow redecorating and landscaping. Sat. only also includes the July 9 - 11 Taste of Plant City. From 10:00 a.m. both days Free. July 17 Due to its growing popularity in recent years a third Festival grounds are located at 2202 W Reynolds St., Main Street Bartow’s Friday Fest is a downtown block day has been added for the 7th Annual Sarasota Improv Plant City, FL. For more information (727) 674-1464. party featuring live music, vendor booths, children’s fun Festival for even more unpredictable and hysterical comeactivities, great food, beer and other drinks. Included is dy. Also brand new to the weekend lineup are two internaOpen House Wine Tasting the Friday Fest Cruise-in Car Show with dash plaque tional groups, bringing their wacky, worldly improv acts to Michael’s On East Wine Cellar awards for the first entrants. 6:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Sarasota along with our own Florida homegrown troupes. The event takes place at 200 Main Street, Bartow FL. July 11 Rounding out the festival are many other troupes from Walkabout wine tasting of more than 50 vintages, no For more information (863)519-0508 or www.mainChicago, Boston, Austin, Miami, Atlanta, New York, Tamstreetbartowfl.com. pa, Orlando, and everywhere in between. The festival will reservations needed. 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $10. Michael’s On East Wine Cellar is located at 1283 S. also feature workshops taught by the professional improSavory Sounds visers attending the festival. Tickets: weekend pass $59, Tamiami Trail, Sarasota, FL. Amore by Andrea Restaurant nightly at $49, and individual shows at $10 each. Thursday Premier Boxing Championship July 17 July 9th’s Florida Sampler Party tickets are $20 and FeaUSF Sun Dome tured Act tickets are $15. An evening of delectable Italian antipasto paired sideFestival’s location is at, 1241 N. Palm Sarasota. For July 11 by-side with exquisite music! “Savory Sounds” presents tickets (941-366-9000 or www.floridastudiotheatre.org. Undefeated boxing superstar Keith “One Time” Thur- the Fiati Five, a musical program including works by Italman take the ring to face former world champion Luis Col- ian and American composers, including Verdi, Rossini, Cocktails @ the Collection lazo for ESPN’s Premier Boxing Champions live from the Nathan, and Gershwin. Tickets: $20 (includes admission Sun Dome. The co-main event features prospect Tony to the concert and appetizers by Chef Andrea). Drink spe400 Beach Seafood & Tap House Harrison against Willie Nelson. 6:30 p.m. Tickets: $27.75- cials at 4:30 p.m., Concert at 5:00 p.m. July 10 Amore by Andrea is located at 555 Bay Isles Pkwy, In honor of the Chihuly Collection’s fifth anniversary, $202.75. Longboat Key, FL. Sun Dome is located at 4202 E. Fowler Ave., Tampa, FL. the event will feature exclusive after-hours access to the collection plus food and beverages. The celebration continTampa Bay Home Show Madeira Beach Craft Festival ues all weekend, with special $5 admission Saturday and Tropicana Field Madeira Beach Sunday. 6:00 p.m. Tickets: $20. July 17 - 19 July 12 400 Beach Seafood & Tap House is located at 400 Beach Drive NE, St. Petersburg, FL. The largest home show in Florida’s west coast brings This juried craft showcase will feature a wide variety of original handmade crafts. A Green Market will showcase the area’s top home improvement experts, along with Picnic Island Adventure Run orchids and exotic plants as well as gourmet dips and spic- more than 500 exhibits with everything related to Florida homes, home improvement, home entertainment and es, and many other distinctive items. 10:00 a.m. Free. McDill Area landscaping. Also includes live entertainment, seminars, Festival’s located is at15004 Madeira Beach Way, MaJuly 10
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Senior Happenings demonstrations, giveaways and do-it-yourself ideas from experts. From 10:00 a.m. all three days. Free. Tropicana Field is located at 1 Tropicana Dr., St. Petersburg, FL. For more information (727) 893-8523 or www.tampabayhomeshows.com. The Chocolate Sundae Run
Florida State Fairgrounds July 18
Run or walk in this family friendly 5K race at the Florida State Fairgrounds. Registered participants will receive T-shirt and finisher’s medal. Includes kids zone, music and entertainment and ice cream. 7:30 a.m Tickets: $40. The Florida State Fairgrounds are located at 4802 U.S. 301 N, Tampa, FL. Snooty the Manatee’s 67th Birthday Bash
South Florida Museum July 18
Snooty, the oldest known manatee in captivity, turns 67 and celebrates with children’s games, art activities, food and a display of his birthday cards. 10:00 a.m. The South Florida Museum is located at 201 10th St. W., Bradenton, FL. Americana Fest
Skipper’s Smokehouse July 18
WMNF found the best of Florida and Georgia Americana, ranging from bluegrass and roots rock to punk-infused folk, and everything in between. Bands include, Will Quinlan and Holy Slow Train, Passerine, Big Shoals and many more. 4:00 p.m. Tickets: $12 advance, $15 at the door. Skipper’s is located at 910 Skipper Rd., Tampa, FL. Meet the Stars of Dolphin Tale
Clearwater Marine Aquarium July 19 - 28
The actors who portray Hazel Haskett, Sawyer Nelson and Phoebe will be available for meet and greets and photos. Included with admission. 9:00 a.m. Tickets: $21.95, children 3 - 12 $16.95, senior $19.95. The Clearwater Marine Aquarium is located at 249 Windward Passage, Clearwater, FL. Annual Mystic Faire
Sarasota Municipal Auditorium July 25 - 26
Come and enjoy the 5th annual celebration of this event featuring everything metaphysical. Billed as the largest psychic fair in southwest Florida it will feature over 75 exhibitors and more than 25 psychics. Hear free lecturers and see psychics, healers and vendors of many kinds. Admission: $7 for one day or $10 for both days. Under 12 are free. 10:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. The Sarasota Municipal Auditorium is located at 801 N. Tamiami Trail, Sarasota, FL. Return the Preserve Day
Brooker Creek Preserve July 25
Join Friends of Brooker Creek and help rid the preserve of exotic, invasive vegetation and nuisance plants; bring work gloves, clippers, shovels, hand saws and loppers. Best for adults. Water and snacks provided. 8:00 a.m. Free. Brooker Creek is located at 3940 Keystone Road, Tarpon Springs, FL. Our Wildest Place Hike
Brooker Creek Preserve July 25
Take a guided walk along the trails to discover why the preserve has been called “Our Wildest Place’’; wear closed toe shoes, hat, bring water. Children younger than 16 must be accompanied by adult, and younger than age six may find the hike challenging. 9:00 a.m. Free. Brooker Creek is located at 3940 Keystone Road, Tar-
pon Springs, FL. History of Organized Crime in the Bay Area
Weedon Island Preserve July 25
Nationally acclaimed author Scott Deitche will discuss our area’s history of organized crime including Charlie Wall, the first boss of Tamps’s underworld, and Charlie Williems, who oversaw St. Petersburg’s illegal gambling rackets. 2:00 p.m. Free. Weedon Island Preserve is located at 1800 Weedon Drive NE, St. Petersburg, FL. Taste of the Beaches
Madeira Beach July 25
Festivities for the seventh annual benefit include auctions, raffles, live music from The Hamiltones and Eagles Tribute Band, and, of course, food from more than 30 local restaurants. Proceeds benefit local non-profit organization. 4:00 p.m. Price: $10 admission, or $35 admission plus drink wristband; plus food and beverage costs. 300 Municipal Drive, Madeira Beach, FL. Tampa Bay’s Best Margarita
TPepin’s Hospitality Centre July 30
Approximately 15 mixologists from high-profile area restaurants compete to create “Tampa Bay’s Best Margarita.” Includes 15 margarita samples, voting and Mexican inspired food. Upgrade to VIP for an extra hour of linefree sampling, a Margarita Wars tote bag and two draft beers. 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $40 advance, $50 after May 31, $60 day of (general); $65 advance, $75 after May 31, $85 day of (VIP). TPepin’s is located at 4121 N. 50th St., Tampa, FL. The Lakeland Boat Show
The Lakeland Center July 31 –August 2
All the latest in boats and equipment. Come to admire all boating accessories, fishing gear, apparel and more! Seminars from experts and hands-on learning. Participants rig lures, tie knots and learn how to throw a cast net. Fri.: 10:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m., Sat.: 10:00 a.m. – 6:00 p.m., Sun.: 10:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Tickets: $5 for Adults, children 12 & under Free. Parking is Free. The Lakeland Center is located at 701 West Lime Street, Lakeland, FL. For more information Jim Scilligo (727)894-3644 or info@lakelandboatshow.com. Florida State DanceSport Championships
Ritz-Carlton Sarasota July 25 - 26
Enjoy the beauty and be dazzled by the professionalism at the Florida State DanceSport Championships. Their motto for the 43rd Anniversary of the Triple Crown Dance Sport Event is: “Expect the unexpected!” This year we have a very special professional dance show on Fri. and Sat. evenings. Dance Champions, World and National Rhythm Champions, Emmanuel Pierre - Antoine & Liana Churlova. Wednesday Or Thursday at the Beach Club Featuring Music For Listening and Dancing Pleasure By “Daniel Fugazzotto.” Tickets vary depending on the event and date. Seating at The Florida State DanceSport Championships
is reserved on a first-come-first serve basis, with Package Holders receiving first priority. Call Headquarters (941) 753-7940 or www.flstatedance.com. The Ritz-Carlton Sarasota is located at 1111 Ritz-Carlton, Sarasota, FL. For more information (941) 309-2000 or (941) 753-7940. Merry Jerry Day
Fogartyville Community Media and Arts Center August 2
Join the friends and fans of the late Jerry Garcia of the band The Grateful Dead at the 7th annual Merry Jerry celebration. Community radio station WSLR sponsors the annual commemoration and is bringing in live music. Bands include Must Be Jelly, Not Tuna, Kid Red and Friends (covering New Riders of the Purple Sage era), and Steve Arvey and Friends. Admission: $10. 4:00 p.m. Fogartyville Community Media and Arts Center is located at 525 Kumquat, Sarasota, FL. GOLF TOURNAMENT TO BENEFIT GULFSIDE HOSPICE
Cypress Run Golf Club August 29
Wells Fargo Advisors of Trinity is hosting its second annual golf tournament and all proceeds will benefit Gulfside Hospice. The four-person scramble tournament starts at 2:00 p.m. The tournament costs $125 for individual golfers and $500 per foursome and includes lunch, dinner, auction and more. There will also be a special hole-in-one prize and contests including longest drive, closest to the pin and beat the pro. Day of registration and check-in for the tournament begins at 12:30 p.m. at the course. Pre-registration is available now at firstgiving. com/gulfsidehospice/golf or by calling Gulfside’s special event coordinator Erin Labbe at (800)561-4883. Sponsorships are also available for the tournament and start at $150. The Cypress Run Golf Club is located at 2669 St. Andrews Blvd., Tarpon Springs, FL. For more information (727) 938-3774 or Ashley Juno (727)845-5707. “Volunteer Reunion & Tribute to Jeannette Malouf, Library Founder”
Palm Harbor Library September 20
ATTENTION: Looking for all who have worked or volunteered at Palm Harbor Library! A “Volunteer Reunion & Tribute to Jeannette Malouf, Library Founder” is being planned. This is a once in a lifetime event. Your presence will help make it a day to remember! 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. The library is located at 2330 Nebraska Ave., Palm Harbor, FL. For more information (727)784-3332 x 3006 with your R.S.V.P. by September 1, 2015.
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Loss of Transportation Funding Could Hurt Local Communities From private and public sector job losses to deterioration of infrastructure, local communities and their economies stand to lose significantly if federal funding for public transportation is eliminated, according to a new analysis developed by the American Public Transportation Association (APTA). Experts say many suburban and rural communities could be particularly hard hit. Congress is considering changes that could cut funds for local improvements in communities nationwide. There are two proposals in Congress that eliminate public transit funding from the Highway Trust Fund. The analysis from APTA shows that both scenarios would result, on average, in a 43 percent reduction in a community’s capital improvement funding and would put at risk more than $227 billion in economic activity over six years. According to the report, the loss of federal funds would impact the reliability and safety of bus and train service as well as jeopardize new services and projects. Specifically: • 38,000 buses or 57 percent of the nation’s public transit bus fleet would not be replaced. • Overall, 66 new public transit projects could be stalled. Many of these projects serve as a catalyst for economic development in every region of the country. • Rail maintenance, expansion and rail car replacement would be significantly impacted. • Small and rural communities would be adversely affected because a greater percentage of their total funding is from the federal government. At a time where public transit ridership is growing, many experts say eliminating federal funding for transportation would be disastrous to communities big and small, rural and urban. In fact, some states with the highest proportions of rural residents will see the greatest percentage of their total funding eliminated for their local public transportation systems. To spur Congress to take action, more than 360 organizations, community groups, elected officials, business leaders and citizens in nearly every state throughout the U.S. recently participated in “Stand Up For Transportation Day” to highlight the urgent need for Congress to invest long term in our transportation infrastructure and renew funding for the federal transportation program. The current funding program, called Moving Ahead for Progress in the 21st Century Act (also known as MAP-21), is set to expire on May 31. To read the analysis and see the local impacts of the loss of federal funding, go to www.apta.com. To get involved, visit www.standup4transportation.org. “It is time to stand up for our transportation infrastructure,” said Michael Melaniphy, APTA President and CEO. “Congress must act now to continue to fund public transportation and to pass comprehensive, long-term federal legislation that provides for repairing, maintaining and expanding public transportation, roads, bridges and rail systems.”
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said, quoting an excerpt from an online post: “Julie Newmar is the fruit of one of those moments when God must have thought, ‘I’ll give them a girl who will define female perfection so well that they will always know what beauty is all about.’” “Oh my,” Newmar added, sounding quite touched by the tribute. “That’s so endearing.” Newmar is now endearing herself to another generation of fans since the “Batman” TV series was released on DVD last November after being held up for years by legal wrangling. She also recorded commentary for the DVD’s special features. “Doing the interview caused me to focus on what the Catwoman character meant for my life,” Newmar said. “It’s really a joy to have created something that people still remember me for. I never got any royalties from the series, but the popularity of the show over several generations has more than paid me back.” As for her memorable body-gripping Catwoman costume, Newmar says she acquired the original IF YOU “after a lot of hoopla” and donated it to the Smithsonian Institution. “It was like a longsleeved, long-legged leotard made from black Lurex,” Newmar recalled. “It clung to the body, but was very easy to get in and out of. It really looked smashing!” As she continues to share some personal, general lessons of life and beauty tips on her web site, julienewmar.com, Julie hopes her advice will help others to look and feel “smashing,” too. “The importance of looking and feeling well is clearly important to an actor,” Newmar said. “With the right attitude, you can be a great beauty at any age.”
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We have had it drilled into our heads that seniors should age gracefully. What exactly does that mean? Keeping quiet and accepting second-rate status because we are getting older and are therefore less important in the scheme of things? “Living Beyond Our Sell-By Date,” the new book from Evelyn Marder Levin, Ph.D., answers, no, no and no! We have the maturity and wisdom to break the rules and we should. I’m not advocating that you all become lawbreakers. What I’m referring to are society’s often meaningless rules, predicated on some lines on our face and some gray in our hair. Although many of us have raised families and devoted our lives to others, this should be our time, the time to think about ourselves without feelings of guilt. We should let our hair grow down to our butts, if it pleases us, and slather on tons of eye makeup if it makes us happy, and wear shorts if we feel good about our legs – or not. We should laugh and make these the best years of our lives. Think about it. That means “growing older disgracefully.” You can’t get a better mantra than that. “Living Beyond Our Sell-By Date” is the book of “someday” for those of us who have chosen to grow older disgracefully. Living beyond your sell-by date has to be experienced. It cannot be imagined. In these pages, you’ll find words from someone who is living that time now. Words that will make you laugh, words that will jog your memory, words that will warm your spirit, and words that will show you that the way we age can be shaped by the way we view life. “Living Beyond Our Sell-By Date” is available on Amazon.com for $14.95 and as a Kindle ebook. It’s formatted with a happy medium font—smaller than large print and larger than the typical microscopic paperback text. As baby bear says, it’s “just right” for tired or senior eyes.
By Evelyn Levin
Visit Evelyn Levin online at www.grrouch.com (growing older disgracefully). If you’re nice, she might even offer you a senior discount on the book.
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opinion
Grieving Doesn’t Mean Leaving Where do people go after they die? We know their physical bodies are no longer with us, but is there more to the afterdeath experience than we know? Each religion provides its believers with an answer. In Christianity, it is heaven or hell. In Judaism, it is a place they call Gehenna. All notions of an afterlife are speculations. Survivors are traditionally left with only treasured memories. In the supernatural realm, many people claimed they were able to communicate with a departed loved one. Since such an experience is subjective, it cannot be disproven. However, if it provides survivors with solace and a cushion of emotional comfort, it should not be dismissed as witchcraft or sorcery. A human being consists of a mind, body and spirit. While the existence of mind and body are self-evident, the spiritual component remains an enigma. People often confuse spirituality with religion. People can be both religious and spiritual, but it is also possible to be religious without being spiritual, or to be spiritual without being religious. Spiritual individuals respect the quality of life, are kind and always willing to do things for others, are not judgmental, are open-minded and tolerant, have an holistic and altruistic approach to life and look at things from different perspectives. Houdini, the world-famous magician, said that he would try to communicate with his wife after he died. Although he was unsuccessful, there are many ordinary people who genuinely believe they succeeded in communicating with a deceased loved one. The deceased appeared and behaved as if they were still alive. In recent years, clinicians have come to recognize the value of a continuing connection with the deceased. Experts now believe that moving forward with one’s life does not necessarily require letting go of one’s relationship with the deceased. To those who grieve the loss of a loved one, the credibility of postmortem communication is an indisputable experience. Communication with the deceased can take many forms, including an overwhelming sense of the loved one’s presence, the visual appearance of the de-
By Professor Abné M. Eisenberg
ceased, or the physical sensation of being touched, held or kissed. People who have not experienced any communication with their deceased loved ones are quite upset about it. One man said, “I long for contact with my wife. I would give anything to see her again or to hear her voice.” Those who grieve could benefit greatly from knowing how frequently these communications occur. It would be comforting for them to know that they are not alone and that their sanity is not playing tricks on them. Again, grieving doesn’t mean leaving. As long as a loved one remains in our heads, hearts and memories, they will be with us as long as we live. Professor Eisenberg was born in New York City and now lives in Belleair Bluffs, Fla. He served in the U.S. Marine Corps in WWII. His career consisted of teaching various aspects of interpersonal communication for 60 years at leading universities. Send comments on his articles to aeisenberg3@tampabay.rr.com.
Health Roundup
Stopping Diabetes Can Begin with a Single Step Do you or a loved one have diabetes? Have you lost someone close to you to diabetes? If you or a loved one suffer from diabetes, or if you’ve lost someone close due to the disease, you know just how important it is to take strides to stop diabetes. “Step Out: Walk to Stop Diabetes” is the American Diabetes Association’s signature fundraising walk and every year, thousands of families touched by diabetes and members of nationwide business communities pledge their support to the event. Millions have been raised through the walks to support the association’s mission to prevent and cure diabetes and to improve the lives of all people affected by diabetes. This year’s event in the Tampa Bay Area is on October 17 at the Amalie Arena. Step Out is a great way to show support for the nearly 26 million children and adults in the U.S with diabetes and the 79 million more who are at risk. Every 17 seconds, someone new is diagnosed with diabetes. People with diabetes can choose to walk as a Red Strider. A Red Strider is someone who has diabetes — type 1, type 2 or gestational — who can proudly walk as an individual or create a team and walk with friends, family and co-workers. The many benefits of walking, for those with and without diabetes, include: • Burning calories. By walking just an extra five minutes a day you can burn an additional 24 calories per workout. That may not seem like much, but over the course of one year it adds up to a total of 8,760 additional calories burned. • Improving blood fats. Exercise can raise good cholesterol and lower bad cholesterol and triglycerides. These changes are heart healthy. • Relieving stress. Work out or walk off daily stress. • Improving blood glucose management. Activity makes your body more sensitive to the insulin you make. Activity also burns glucose. Both actions lower blood glucose. Step Out takes place in 95 cities nationwide. With more than 100,000 walkers who are walking for so many, there are so many stories, and so many who have been touched by diabetes. It’s your turn to share your story. By walking in a Step Out event in your area, you are joining the American Diabetes Association’s movement to stop diabetes and helping to change the future of diabetes. For more information or to register for a Step Out event in your community, visit www.diabetes.org/stepout or call (888) DIABETES, which is (888) 342-2383.
STEPOUT TAMPA October 17, 2015 Amalie Arena - 401 Channelside Dr, Tampa, FL For more information: Heather Figueroa, Event Coordinator Email: hfigueroa@diabetes.org • Phone: (813) 885-5007 x3066 Please mail checks to our local office: American Diabetes Association ATTN: Step Out 1511 N Westshore Blvd., Suite 980 Tampa, FL 33607
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real estate
Is It Time to Sell My Large House and “Rightsize” My Living Space? Should I Clear the Clutter? most of that stuff anyway. Handling it once and now means you’re free of an obligation to do so later, or to live in a smaller house with walls of boxes awaiting your attention, or pay for storage space to keep these items. Why go through all that when there’s a better way? We consulted a few professional organizers for advice. Here are some great ways to jump-start your plan to declutter and get ready to move. 1. Set goals. Be specific about what you want to accomplish and put the list in writing. 2. Identify tiny projects that will give you a lot of satisfaction. Do what you can in about half an hour. Increase your time every time you get started. 3. Compartmentalize as you go through your stuff. Take five boxes and label them, “Rehome” (give to family member or friend), “Trash,” “Donate,” and “For Sale.” Use these for sorting as you de-clutter, and then expedite bringing them to their final destinations. 4. Get rid of things that are broken or that you don’t want or need immediately. Since you won’t be sorry to let those things go, get them out of your house first. Diminishing visual clutter makes us feel less chaotic. 5. Share what you no longer need. Many people could use slightly used items. 6. Clear horizontal surfaces. Just seeing a cleared-off kitchen counter or dresser or desktop will motivate you to do more. 7. Schedule a home pickup date from a charity. Having a firm Affordable Home Care You Can Trust date will motivate you to move ahead quickly. A quick word about “saving things for the kids”: As baby boomers start cleaning out attics and basements, many discover that their children are not so interested in the lifestyle trappings or nostalgic memorabilia with which they were so lovingly raised. • Companions/Homemakers Downsizing experts and professional organizers are comforting parents • Live-In Home Care whose children appear to have lost any • Meals/Housekeeping sentimental attachment to their adorable • Transportation/Errands baby shoes and family heirloom quilts. • Respite Care Hourly or by the day Millennials are living their lives digitally • Available 24/7 through Instagram and Facebook and • Medication Reminders YouTube, and that’s how they are capturing their moments. Their whole life is on a • One Hour “Peace of Mind” Visits computer; they now prefer to live simpler lives with less. Eight times out of 10, kids Call for a Free Consultation don’t want the parents’ furniture, family silver or other memorabilia from their childhood or family history, and that’s a hard thing to come to grips with, and, at www.CareBridgeHC.Com first, parents can be insulted. It can create Serving Pinellas, Pasco, and Hernando Counties hurt feelings. It’s not that they don’t love you. They don’t love your stuff. Millenni-
There are many considerations when you are planning to sell your home and move. The longer you have lived in a house, the more difficult your job will be. Staging will not only help you sell your home faster and for more money, but it will also help you to claim your own personal freedom. Eliminating clutter is the hardest part of the moving and staging process. It’s better to do it before than after you move. Many people are held captive by their belongings. They stay in too-big houses, carry too much insurance, clean, tend and store these items, heating and cooling all these “things” they feel compelled to keep. They are prisoners of their stuff. You can break free! Every single item in your house will need to be evaluated, especially if you are planning to move to a smaller dwelling. Start in a single room. Trying to do all the rooms at once will be overwhelming and may leave you feeling defeated. Start with a little-used room, a closet, even a junk drawer, and begin! The trick is to never handle an item more than once during this process. Once you pick it up, evaluate it for one of the following categories, and act accordingly. Evaluate it all. If you decide to deal with it later you will have to pack it, haul it, store it, and have it hanging over your head until you unpack it and evaluate it. Chances are, you won’t want to keep
By Susan Daddono
als have stuff on discs and flash drives. Don’t be insulted if they don’t want their first-grade drawings or boxes with seashells glued to them. They made these things and gave them to you, and you enjoyed them. The gift-giving cycle is now complete.
I know these things firsthand. I am now, for the
second time, in the clearing-out stage. I should have let go of most of the stuff 10 years ago when we moved from Chicago to the Tampa area. Now, as empty nesters looking for the right-size space to live, we have the job of sorting through all that stuff I moved here because I thought one day the children would want it. Well, they don’t. I realize I kept it for me. Now I am facing the fact that life will not be the same. The memories are always in my heart, and some are now in digital form on my computer. I am ready to move on and live these next chapters of life with less in tow and more in my heart. Getting rid of those drawings was hard, but the feeling of freedom in letting go is priceless.
If I can do it, so can you. My team and I will help
you. Just give us a call: Susan Daddono, (727) 5194215.
727-835-7852
(727)519-4215 www.SusanDaddonoHomes.com sjdaddono@gmail.com
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Dear Yuppies: I’m Your Guy News item: At some corpora-
By Garrett Mathews tions, young urban professionals too busy with careers and stock portfolios to follow sports have hired consultants to brief them on the subject so they can make good impressions on clients who follow bats and balls. Dear yuppies, Look no more. I’m your guy. I know crackback blocks, the low block and how to put on a jock without tripping over the straps. I know blitz packages, bloop singles and which layer of the outer atmosphere an ammonia capsule will send your head into. I know resin bags, tight ends, high-sticking, fair catch, double-headers, pass interference, possible concussion— must I go on? It’s a perfect fit. You’ve spent your lives wearing trendy clothes and being seen at all the right places with the dream of earning enough money to buy a gold-encrusted crown to put on your iPod. I’ve spent mine wearing dirty sweatsuits and watching sports on TV with the dream of earning enough money someday to afford a six-pack of the beer advertised at halftime. For a one-time fee of $5,000, I’ll provide all the information you need to fool sports fans into thinking you’re one of them. It starts with slang. I’ll be your teacher as you learn “beanball,” “shooting the rock,” “throwing aspirin tablets,” “foot in the bucket,” and my favorite hockey expression for a player who suffered a blow to the face that caused him to lose teeth—“spitting
Chiclets.” I know you yuppies. You’ll want to talk about debenture, convertible bonds and hedge funds. Not in my class. I require total concentration. You give me mortgagebacked securities and I’ll high-stick your cranium. Guys who are into sports like to throw out names. Koufax. Drysdale. Ozzie. Stan the Man. Elway. Unitas. Ditka. I’ll give you some names of your own. Wally Moon. Jerry Lumpe. Marty Keough. Spider Lockhart. Del Shofner. Babe Parelli. Your fellow money-grubbers will be amazed that you know some of the lesser lights who haven’t had car dealerships named for them. At the very least, they’ll worship you. With any luck, they’ll share insider information that will make you even richer. Important note: If this happens, I’ll require a special bonus of lifetime free sports cable. Finally, you’ll learn strategy. I’ll impart the following: When to ice the shooter. When to blitz. How a wide receiver pretends to be unconscious so the referee will stop the clock. The proper antidote to administer when an ammonia capsule is mistakenly put into your Seven and Seven. Other sports consultants are mere pretenders. For no extra charge, I’ll take you into a real locker room for bonus instruction. You’ll get personal insight into how to snap a towel at another man’s private parts. How to apply a pink belly. How to undress slowly after a game so you get to shower alone. Don’t delay, yuppies. Call today before a bloop single costs you a commission.
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Entertainment Summer Circus Spectacular
Asolo Repertory Theatre Wed. - Sat. until August 1
The on-stage exhibition of circus artistry will feature acrobatics, juggling, comedy and aerial work. Shows at 2:00 p.m. and 5:00 p.m. Tickets: $15, $12 children. Asolo Theater is located at 5401 Bay Shore Road, Sarasota, FL. For more information (941) 360-7399 or www. ringling.org. Metropolitan Opera: Summer Encores: La Traviata
Carmike Royal Palm 20 - Cinema July 8
A series of four greats performed by the Metropolitan Opera and presented in the newly renovated theater. 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $12.50. Theatre is located at 5125 26th St. E., Bradenton, FL. American Idol Live!
Van Wezel Perf. Arts Hall July 8
Returning for it’s 14th consecutive national tour, American Idol Live! will give fans an opportunity to get up close and personal with the Top Five IDOLS from Season 14. In addition, 19 Entertainment, Inc. has also confirmed that select IDOLS from Season 14 will join the tour in various cities as special guest performers. To kick things off, Top 10 favorite Joey Cook will be at the Van Wezel! This show will give fans an opportunity to get up close and personal with the Top Five IDOLS from Season 14, showcasing their individual artistry and talents all set to a live band. 7:30 p.m. VIP packages available. Tickets: $41.64 - $76.55. Six Guitars
FL Studio Theatre July 7 - 9, 11 & 12
Chase Padgett becomes six different guitar players, each with their own voice, views and musical style, including blues, jazz, rock, classical, folk and country. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $32-$36. FL Studio Theatre is located at 1241 N. Palm Ave., Sarasota, FL. For show times (941) 366-9000 or www.floridastudiotheatre.org. Imagine Dragons
Amalie Arena July 10
Grammy Award-winning rock band Imagine Dragons are bringing their electrifying live show with the SMOKE + MIRRORS TOUR in support of their new album, Smoke + Mirrors, released on February 17. As on their double-platinum full-length debut Night Visions, the band works with sharply crafted beats and grooves to dream up rhythmdriven rock music that’s artful yet visceral. Also revealing the band’s dedication to keeping it homespun, Smoke + Mirrors marks the first release recorded in their new selfbuilt home studio. 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $26.25 - $56.25. WMNF Presents: Heatwave Deja Vu
Skipper’s Smokehouse July 10
Take a trip down Tropical Heatwave memory lane, with funk bands, Come Back Alice and Trae Pierce and T-Stone Band. They will each play a set, ending with a grand finale where they perform together. 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $12-$15. Skipper’s is located at 910 Skipper Road, Tampa, FL. One Act Plays Festival
West Coast Players Theatre July 10 - 12
Approximately 26 area actors present new plays from playwrights all over the world. Fri. 8:00 p.m., Sat. 2:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m. and Sun. 2:00 p.m. Tickets: $19. West Coast Players is located at 21905 U.S. 19 N, Clearwater, FL. For more information (727) 437-2363 or www.wcplayers.org. Delta Rae
Capitol Theatre July 11
Metropolitan Opera: La Fille Du Regiment
Carmike Royal Palm 20 - Cinema July 15
A series of four greats performed by the Metropolitan Opera and presented in the newly renovated theater. 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $12.50. Theatre is located at 5125 26th St. E., Bradenton, FL. The Pirates of Penzance
Francis Wilson Playhouse July 16
The classic Gilbert and Sullivan operetta has it all - comedy, adventure, romance and music on the high seas. 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $26, $15 students. The Francis Wilson Playhouse is located at 302 Seminole St., Clearwater, FL. wendy williams
Mahaffey Theatre July 18
Though the six-piece rock band found success in the release of their albums, Carry The Fire and After It All, performing live is where they flourish. Live is where Delta Rae truly flourish, having spent the last year and a half playing to sold out venues from coast to coast, even sharing the stage with First Lady Michelle Obama when they performed during a Democratic rally at UNC Chapel Hill. They’ve played pretty much every festival under the sun, including Lollapalooza, Bonnaroo, Austin City Limits and this spring they are returning to the Capitol Theatre for the thrid time! 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $25-$30.
The Wendy Williams Show is a reflection of its star and host; the vibrant colors and upbeat soundtrack matches Williams’ own personality and spirited sense of humor. The focus on entertainment and pop culture reflects Williams’ passion for those topics. Williams interviews countless celebrity guests from the perspective of a fan, as she asks the questions that her audience wants to know. PS: It’s Wendy’s BIRTHDAY! Come celebrate at The Mahaffey! 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $39 - $79.
Drew Thomas Magic’s Materialize
Brit Floyd
Mahaffey Theatre July 11
The America’s Got Talent finalist breaks all the rules of traditional magic by combining original illusions, comedy and music from a live DJ. 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $25.50 $37.50. Carlos & Carlos
Bok Tower Gardens July 11
Bok Tower Gardens’ popular Live at the Gardens! Summer Music Series returns with great concerts to enjoy all summer long! Summer is here, and so is a HOT new series of live music inside the COOL air-conditioned comfort of the Gardens’ Visitor Center. Carlos & Carlos bring a blend of Latin American folk genres, Flamenco techniques, and jazz improvisations. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: concert only: $22.50; concert and dinner: $45. Bok Tower Gardens is located at 1151 Tower Blvd., Lake Wales, FL. For more information (863)676-1408 or www. boktowergardens.org. Rascal Flatts
Midflorida Credit Union Amphytheatre July 12
The pop, country rock trio have been making music together since 1999. Special guests, Scotty McCreery and RaeLynn open. Tickets also available through Country Megaticket. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $25 - $54.75.
Ruth Eckerd Hall July 18
Having performed to more than one million fans around the world since its first show in Liverpool, England in January 2011, Brit Floyd - The World’s Greatest Pink Floyd Show, returns including performances from all of Pink Floyd’s legendary albums. Brit Floyd will take you on an amazing musical journey, featuring the best moments from the incredible Pink Floyd back catalogue, and combine the latest state-of-the-art sound and light technology to create a performance that is as sonically perfect as it is visually awesome. 8:00 p.m. Tickets are priced at $35.75 - *$125. *$125 Dinner Package includes a premium seat, pre-show dinner and a voucher for free valet parking. Valet service begins 15 minutes before pre-show dinner doors open. Artist does not appear at dinner. Enjoy a sumptuous buffet prior to the performance for only $25 per person (includes tax). Doors open two hours prior to the performance. Due to limited seating, we suggest advance purchase. 3 Doors Down & Seether
Ruth Eckerd Hall July 22
3 Doors Down has garnered 3 GRAMMY® nominations, 2 American Music Awards. The band’s debut album, The Better Life, which is now certified 6 times platinum, featured the smash hit Kryptonite. Their sophomore album, Away from the Sun, saw similar success with its radio mainstays When I’m Gone and Here Without You. Their subsequent efforts platinum certified Seventeen Days and
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Entertainment self-titled album debuted at #1 on the Billboard Hot 200 Chart. In 2012, they released The Greatest Hits, a collection of 9 #1 hits and 3 new songs, returning to the Top 5 on radio with One Light. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: $47.75 - *$120. *$120 Dinner Pkg includes a premium seat, pre-show dinner and voucher for free valet parking. Valet service begins 15 min. before pre-show dinner doors open. Artist does not appear at dinner. Enjoy a sumptuous buffet prior to the performance for only $25 per person (includes tax). Doors open two hours prior to the performance. Due to limited seating, we suggest advance purchase. Idina Menzel World Tour
Ruth Eckerd Hall July 28
Hot on the heels of a remarkable year that included performing the smash hit Let It Go from Disney’s Frozen at the 86th Annual Academy Awards, a triumphant return to Broadway in the musical If/Then, a Best Actress Tony Award nomination and the release of this season’s must-have Christmas album Holiday Wishes, superstar Idina Menzel, called “the Streisand of her generation” by The Denver Post, comes to the Tampa Bay area as part of her world tour. She has captivated audiences at sold-out concerts around the world and will lead audiences through a special journey of classic pop, musical theater favorites and her own personal catalogue. 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $58.75 - *$175 . *$175 Dinner Package includes a premium seat, pre-show dinner and a voucher for free valet parking. Valet service begins 15 minutes before pre-show dinner doors open. Artist does not appear at dinner. Enjoy a sumptuous buffet prior to the performance for only $25 per person (includes tax). Doors open two hours prior to the performance. Due to limited seating, we suggest advance purchase. Sam Smith
Amalie Arena July 21
Capitol Records recording artist Sam Smith returns to North America this summer for his second arena/theatre tour of 2015. Smith’s four Grammy wins set a record, marking the most awards ever received by a U.K. artist following the release of a debut album. Gavin James will be a very special guest. 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $32.50-$96.50. Metropolitan Opera: The Merry Widow
Carmike Royal Palm 20 - Cinema July 22
A series of four greats performed by the
Metropolitan Opera and presented in the newly renovated theater. 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $12.50. Theatre is located at 5125 26th St. E., Bradenton, FL. Smashing Pumpkins and Marilyn Manson
MidFlorida Credit Union Amphitheatre July 24
For fans of gothic ‘90s rock, it’s a powerful twin bill, bringing together two of rock’s brainiest singers. Smashing Pumpkins were, for a time, one of the biggest bands in America, with hits including 1979, Today and Bullet With Butterfly Wing. Manson, of course is known for his pale face, dark make-up and hits like Sweet Deams. 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $29.50-$69.50. www.livenation.com. Summer Fantasy
Straz Center - Ferguson Hall July 24
Next Generation Ballet will feature emerging dancers from around the Nation in a performance representing both classical and contemporary work. 200 dancers selected from a 25-city audition tour of more than 800 hopefuls will be highlighted. The first act features contemporary dances choreographed by Susan Downey, former Rockette Kelly King, and Philip Neal. Neal is the newly appointed artistic director of NGB is an acclaimed choreographer in addition to being a repetiteur for both the George Balanchine and Jerome Robbins trusts. Act II features suites from romantic classics Giselle, Le Corsaire, and Paquita. 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $15 - $22. Shreya Ghoshal
USF Sun Dome July 25
One of the most prominent voices of India’s popular movie music industry, she has recorded hundreds of tunes across a dozen languages and won India’s prestigious National Film Award four times. The concert benefits the nonprofit Sri Ayyappa Society of Tampa. 7:00 p.m. Tickets: $50 - $250. Sun Dome is located at 4202 E Fowler Ave., Tampa, FL. Kenny ‘Babyface’ Edmonds
Mahaffey Theatre July 25
Eleven-time Grammy Award-winning singer, songwriter and producer Kenny “Babyface” Edmonds virtually defined urban contemporary music throughout the 1990s and beyond. Although he’s logged a
string of hits as a crooner (“When Can I See You,” “It’s No Crime,” “Every Time I Close My Eyes,” “Someone to Love”), Babyface achieved stratospheric success as a writer/ producer for artists including Whitney Houston, Boyz II Men, Beyonce, Mariah Carey, Madonna, Eric Clapton, Mary J. Blige, Michael Jackson and other artists. His 2014 duets album with Toni Braxton, Love, Marriage & Divorce, won the Grammy for Best R&B Album. Through his impeccably-crafted explorations of love, romance and relationships, Babyface has made an indelible imprint on the evolution of contemporary pop music. 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $32.50 - $72.50. The Vagina Monologues
American Stage Theatre July 26
Obie Award winner Eve Ensler’s smash hit introduces a gathering of female voices, including a six-year-old girl, a septuagenarian New Yorker, a vagina workshop participant and others. 6:00 p.m. Tickets: $15 advance, $10-$20 suggested donation at the door. The American Stage Theatre is located at 163 Third St. N, St. Petersburg, FL. Good Time Jazz Band
Bok Tower Gardens August 1
Bok Tower Gardens’ popular Live at the Gardens! Summer Music Series returns with great concerts to enjoy all summer long! Summer is here, and so is a HOT new series of live music inside the COOL airconditioned comfort of the Gardens’ Visitor Center. Good Time Jazz brings a laugh in every line and a memory in every tune. Patriotic, spiritual and classic American pop songs. 7:30 p.m. Tickets: concert only: $22.50; concert and dinner: $45. Bok Tower Gardens is located at 1151 Tower Blvd., Lake Wales, FL. For more information (863)676-1408 or www.boktowergardens.org. Floetry
August 5 Straz Center - Ferguson Hall
Marsha Ambrosius and Natalie Stewart are the funky divas behind the neo-soul duo Floetry. Formed in 1997, Floetry started on the performance poetry stage. Their debut album, Floetic, appeared in October 2002. Their 2005 follow-up, Flo’Ology, included the Grammy®-nominated single “Supastar” featuring Common. The group released a live album titled Floacism in 2003 that included the single “Wanna B Where U R” featuring Mos Def. 8:00 p.m. Tickets: $38 - $48.
VENUE ADDRESSES AND CONTACT INFORMATION FL Studio Theatre 1241 North Palm Ave., Sarasota, FL 34236 (941) 366-9000 www.floridastudiotheatre.org Midflorida Credit Union Amphitheatre 4802 N. US Highway 301 Tampa, FL 33610 Telephone: (813) 740-2446. www.midflorida.com/amphitheatre The Historic Capitol Theatre 405 Cleveland Street Clearwater, FL 33755 Telephone: (727) 791-7400. www.rutheckerdhall.com The Lakeland Center — 701 W. Lime St. Lakeland, FL 33815. Telephone: (863) 834-8100 www.thelakelandcenter.com The Mahaffey Theater — 400 1st. St. South, St. Petersburg, FL 33701. Telephone: (727) 892-5798. www.themahaffey.com Ruth Eckerd Hall — 1111 McMullen Booth Rd. Clearwater, FL 33759. Telephone: (727) 791-7400. www.rutheckerdhall.com The Straz Center — 1010 North Macinnes Place, Tampa, FL 33602. Telephone: (813) 229-7827. www.strazcenter.org Amelie Arena 401 Channelside Dr. Tampa, FL 33602. Telephone: (813) 301-6500. www.ameliearena.com American Stage Theatre 163 3rd Street North St. Petersburg, FL 33701 Telephone: (727)823-7529 www.americanstage.org Van Wezel Perf. Arts Hall 777 N. Tamiami Trail, Sarasota, FL 34236 (941) 953-3368 www.vanwezel.org
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Senior to Senior Woman Seeking Man S W F NS ND looking for M NS 58-65, likes to walk, flea markets, dining, relaxing at home. Only sincere reply, I’m 55+, 5’3”, 125 lbs., LTR. Feel free to leave a message. Pasco County (813) 782-7174. I’m looking for a heart of gold. I’m a tall german born, like cruising, music, travel, widow. Must be healthy and fit. 56-65, if you’re lonely, call me. Tampa (813) 598-6743 D W F M NS ND 55 looking for my last man, go out to eat or shopping, or just stay home, watch movies and hold hands. If that’s you, call me. Tampa (813) 802-5640. Just moved to area, D B F, professional ISO C M sincere, 58-70 yrs. For good conversations, travels, shows, dancing, dining and cooking. Financially secure and can drive. Healthy, race unimportant. Only sincere apply. Brandon (516) 728-0085. Young 70, D W F NS ISO W M, Christian, 62-70, SOH, likes movies, walks, dining in or out, reading, for LTR. Prefer lives in Tampa area. (813) 362-2427. Oriental Christian lady, seek forever serious love. Same interest man, intimacy possible. I’m NS ND, travel, enjoy life together. Reply serious only, age 70+. Largo (727) 754-4195. D W F NS SD 62, ISO LTR, must have SOH, loyal, honest, must love animals. Enjoy dining out, bingo, flea market, movies. Tampa (813) 270-2932. S W F, would like relationship w/ S W M, likes dancing, dining, dogs and sports, especially tennis, and fun times. I am in late 70s, in good shape. Widowed. New Port Richey (727) 848-7948. S W F NS SD 60s ISO healthy, active, caring, SOH, M. 58-75. Likes walking, outdoors, music, dancing, just enjoying each other. North Tampa Area. (813) 312-7647. S W F late 50s, seeking a NS active, caring man between 50-55 yrs. Not any older. For exciting times, dining, dancing, travelling on occasion. Live in downtown St. Pete area, professional and classy. St. Petersburg (813) 770-2434.
man Seeking WOMan M 95 WD NS ND 5’ 4” 160 lbs Good health ISO F share mobile park home, US 19N, Curlew cuddle up to music, Christian values, NOT for SEX (727) 223-9064. 74 yy SM very young at heart but feels very lonely. I am a tea totaller,Graduate level professional ISO lonely woman for LTR preferably ND, NS and similar level of education. Don’t like pets. Largo (630) 201-5862. SWM looking for an old fashioned single white woman 80+ that enjoys a little romance as well as companionship. Please be a nonsmoker, in good physical shape and MUST HAVE YOUR OWN VEHICLE AND DRIVE. Prefer you live in Greater St. Pete area as I do. Please call (727) 803-6190. I am a lonely widower, looking for a lonely woman
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cise. Enjoys fine dining, theater, and hiking. I am 6’2”, 64, medical professional, for LTR. Dunedin (561) 512-9150. Very handsome and fit, 60something, financially secure, retiree, look 15 years younger, 5’11” 175 lbs., blue eyes, gray hair. Seeking attractive, fit female for fun, travel and romance. Tarpon Springs (727) 481-2358. S W M 71 yrs., 6’1”, 185 lbs., NS ND retired pro polo player, likes basketball, baseball, soccer, ISO S W F, under 55, NS, height-weight proportional, nice looking. Largo (727) 452-5676. S W M 76, homeowner, healthy, NS ND ISO S W F for adventure, travel. Road trips, cruises, social gathering. Platonic companions or romantic partners, possible share expenses. Serious only. Madeira Beach (727) 501-4093.
friend Seeking friend Beginner guitar player, looking for people to practice with. Clearwater (727) 386-5199. D W M NS, a good honest friend to do what man do for a good time and what we can go and play. St. Pete (727) 200-9977. F S W ISO a garage to have a garage sale at. Get rid of your treasures and we will have lots of fun. Clearwater (727) 319-8899. I am looking for a friend to go shopping or go to yard sales with me, as I don’t drive anymore. Someone to talk to as I don’t have any friends where I live. I don’t drink or smoke. I don’t have a phone now, but will soon. 2848 61st Avenue N., St. Petersburg, FL 33714.
to share the good life and times. Sarasota (941) 350-3132. M, 80s, SOH, ISO F 70s. M W WD NS SD SOH a must to deal with this antique. I miss a partner for dinner, theater, friendship. If interested, please call. Sun City Center (813) 633-3685. 66 yrs. young, looking for slim lady who appreSenior to Senior™ ciates loving, intimacy, and Mail to: Senior Voice America enjoys laid back easy life. Age open, Tarpon Springs P.O. BOX 1379, Lutz, FL 33548-1379 Area. (727) 938-6990. Email: sr2sr@seniorvoiceamerica.com D W M 65 ISO special Fax: (813) 422-7966 lady with a SOH, NS. 5565 SD for LTR. Pinellas Park (727) 460-4113. S W M ISO tall, very thin active female who takes pride in her appearance by keeping fit through exer-
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When you have your house appraised, the appraisal may or may not be accurate. An appraiser should get the comparable properties for his or her appraisal from the same multiple listing service that an agent accesses, but not always. Ensure that the comparables that the appraiser is using are good comparables from your neighborhood and not from a neighborhood that would artificially inflate the value of your house. Also, ensure that you understand if the appraiser is valuing your house in its “as is” condition or if they are valuing your house as if it were updated, like some of the comparables they are using are updated. If the comparables have updated kitchens and baths with granite countertops, new appliances, etc. but you do not, you cannot expect a potential buyer to think they are of the same value. A potential buyer will most certainly not place as much value on your house as on the others. Knowing the true value of your house is critical so that you do not have unrealistic expectations when selling. I have seen countless examples of a seller being told by agents and appraisers that his or her house is worth a certain amount, only to be “taught by the market” that the real value in the “as is” condition was much less. Knowing the difference between “gross” and “net” is also critical. Many sellers have unrealistic expectations of what they will receive from the sale of their houses because agents and appraisers talk in “gross” terms. An agent will say that he or she can list a house for $100,000, for example. Or an appraiser will say a house is worth $100,000. However, if a person wants to sell a house, there are transaction costs that have to be taken into account. Know that no matter how you sell a house, the net amount that you “put in your pocket” from the sale of the house will typically be 75-85 percent of the actual sale price. This is a reality that you need to be aware of when selling. One question you will want to ask an appraiser: Will you guarantee what I will net from the sale of my house? From SALE Page 1
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Home-buying companies As above, there are good companies and not-so-good companies. Ensure that the price a company gives you is the real price and not a number from which they start subtracting fees and expenses. Ensure the company actually has funds to purchase your house and doesn’t have to secure funding in order to purchase the house. You don’t want to be told you can sell your house when you want to sell, only to find out that the purchase of your house is subject to the buying company having to secure financing, like a typical buyer would. You should ask the question, “If I wanted to sell, do you have funds that you can wire today?” Also, be cautious about companies that want to make offers for your house without seeing the house. There are companies that try to purchase houses and make offers without seeing the house. Their “offer” is likely to change, most likely not to your advantage, when they actually do see the house and any deficiencies that they were not aware of without actually inspecting the house. Has the company been in business for years, or did they just start “buying houses” recently? Do they really know what they are doing? Can they actually do what they say they can do? Are they a member of the Better Business Bureau with a great rating? Do they have excellent references? Some companies even offer to assist with moving and related expenses. Is the company willing to be flexible with closing and possession dates to make the sale and your move as easy and stress-free as possible? If you decide to sell your house to a home-buying company to provide you the benefits that a fast, stress-free sale can give you, make sure you are working with a company that can perform as you should expect.
Real estate valuation websites There are several websites that people sometimes use in an attempt to check the value of their homes. A couple of the most common sites are Zillow and Trulia. Although these sites attempt to compile the most accurate information they can, a seller needs to realize this is all automated information. It may or may not be accurate. There is virtually no way for these sites to know and compare the quality of finish and upgrades one house has with another, or how they compare with your house. I have spoken with numerous sellers who say something like, “I checked Zillow, and my house is worth X amount.” This is often a meaningless and unrealistic value that creates unrealistic expectations for a seller. The only realistic and most accurate way to determine valuation is to have recent comparables with pictures (from the last 6-12 months) from your neighborhood, of similar houses, to determine how a potential buyer would compare your house with those comparables. Remember to put yourself in a potential buyer’s shoes and think about how he or she would see and value your house. For more details of what you must know if you are considering selling a house, go to www.DownsizeMyHouseBook.com.
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