XYZ Topeka Summer 2013 by seveneightfive magazine

[ everything for Topeka families ]

walls that talk Two organizations promote peace one can of paint at a time p 34

upcycle Take your old tires to the next level p 10

nursing by nature The controversy about nursing in public? p 18

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XYZ Magazine | Vol. IV • Issue I | Summer 2013

[ what’s inside ]

f ca IN EVERY ISSUE 9 cool kid’s room

10 environmental parenting

24 calendar 27 F.A.B.

32 day trip

features

34 walls that talk

Learn how two organizations are promoting peace one paint set and color at a time.

36 art project 39 tweenage

foodie review

40 retrofun

42 spring reads

6 tee-for-all

14 kids’ jam

Young ballplayers get their first chance at bat and hilarity ensues.

One local tavern is showcasing talent of all ages with an open mic night the whole family can enjoy.

10 upcycled tires

Sometimes an old tire and a little sweat labor can create a world of backyard fun.

12 critter encounters Fox, deer, and even rare lizards are not just featured at the zoo. Learn what to do when you encounter wildlife in your own backyard.

18 nursing by nature XYZ explores the taboo of breastfeeding in public.

21 building community Local teens are giving back and restoring the community one day at a time.

43 keen eye

44 d.i.y. sewing

46 heard + noted

[ letter from the editor ]

[ everything for Topeka families ]

sibling bonds b y J a n i c e Wa t k i n s

“I assumed what lay ahead of me could only be years of quarrels. What I got instead was a beautiful and amazing friendship that brightens my every waking moment.” Brother and sister, together as friends, ready to face whatever life sends. Joy and laughter or tears and strife, holding hands tightly as we dance through life. ~ Suzie Huitt Over four years ago, while I was lying in a cold, dark room of the hospital, fighting back every urge to pee all over the table as the sonogram technician rolled her cold, sticky goo over my bulging belly, I photo by Megan Rogers | Megan Rogers Photographie nervously waited to hear the gender of my baby, and had a mini panic attack as I considered the possibilities. First and foremost, my children are nearly a decade apart – Gabe surprised me way too young, but I carefully planned Eden after the college education, the fairytale wedding, and the white picket fence. Secondly, and not to be overlooked, when that technician pointed out the three blurry lines on the screen and announced to us with 100 % certainty that my second child was indeed a girl, I thought for sure we were in trouble. I assumed what lay ahead of me could only be years of gender quarrels, marked with major disputes over baby stuff versus teenage stuff. What I got instead was a beautiful and amazing friendship that brightens my every waking moment. My children are self-described “best friends.” At ages 12 and 4, the two are everything I could never have imagined they would be and more. Eden lovingly searches out her “Gabey” first thing in the morning, and he is the last face she often wants to see each night. In fact, many nights, during my last minute check-in, I’ll find she has snuck into his bed and is curled up beside him with her Dreamlight casting stars across the faces of the sports icons on Gabe’s bedroom walls. They are always quick to hug and kiss each other goodbye, exchanging sweet “I love yous” before they part. I envision them standing steadfastly next to each other throughout all of their future life challenges. I can see Gabe being more protective than Dad when Eden starts to date, and Eden wiping away Gabe’s tears after the heartbreaking last-secondloss of a basketball game. They would easily be the first to partner with each other on unique missions like growing giant vegetables or searching out rare wildlife in our urban neighborhood. Their love speaks to me, much like the rainbow exterior of Equality House, and I see their ability to advocate on each other’s behalf in the face of adversity in their gleaming and wondrous eyes. Their bond is something I hope never falters, and it makes me cherish my own relationships with my three amazingly strong sisters and my delightful, one-of-a-kind brother. It makes me look sweetly upon this summer season, and face each day with joy and hope. — Janice

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the XYZ gang keeps on growing! Introducing the newest creations from XYZ staffers, with congratulations to their moms and dads:

Olive Drake (born 6/11/13) Congrats, EJ and Tabitha Drake!

LEARNING TO

READ IS

FUN Your kids (3-5) will get so wrapped up in our stories and songs they won’t even realize they are learning. Join pre-reading classes at 10am Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays Stories, art, crafts, science & fun surprises, every Saturday at 10am. It’s more fun than watching cartoons! Musical Storytime for Everybody, with Kyler at 10am every 3rd Friday

Willow Grace Long (born 3/15/13) Congrats, Sarah and Jason Long!

Lila Helen Brock (born 2/19/13) Congrats, Annie and Jared Brock!

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tee-for-all by Annie Brock p h oto s by A my Cy p h e r s | Wi l d C hi l d P hoto g raphy

bustling baseball field on a breezy June evening sets the scene for what will be the first of many games for a young crop of ballplayers. The team of four and five-year old boys

and girls in matching navy blue shirts assembles before their game against the purple-shirted team to discuss what they are most looking forward to about their very first tee ball game, and, more importantly, to size up the post-game snack situation. The kids point to all sorts of reasons they love to play ball. Pierson Cyphers says “hitting the bat on the ball” is his favorite thing, while young Lili Tanking prefers “catching the ball and getting a medal at the end of the year.” “What about snacks?!” pipes up Evan Adams, which initiates a conversation about the relative merits of granola bars: “I don’t like granola bars,” said one team member. “They have some with honey on top,” offered another. “I heard that honey is good for you from my dad,” said a third. And so the conversation adorably went. “I had a dream last night that I hit twenty hits over the fence,” Lili intimated about her pre-game premonition of a big win for the blue team. By the end of the game, however, everyone would be a winner, including anyone who had the pleasure of watching these enthusiastic newbies have their (somewhat confused) run of the field for the first time. Just before the game begins, Coach Mike Tanking asks the group

the same pre-game question they do in the big leagues. “Does anyone have to go to the bathroom?” There are a few takers, and when the team is ready to hit the field they cluster around Coach Mike awaiting their assignments. Coach Mike and his colleagues direct the players to their positions. Though staying put will prove a bit of a challenge for the restless players, they begin the game a formidable semi-circle extending from first base to third creating a line of defense that any ball would have difficulty penetrating. In the interest of expediency, only half of each team (five to six players) bats per inning. This is a good thing, as it quickly becomes apparent there are no such things as “outs” in tee ball. And, frankly, what fun are outs anyway? An adult pitcher offers a few regular pitches to give the novice batters a chance to practice, and, if no connection

is made, the tee is brought out to give the players an opportunity to get on base. The first hit of the game results in the batter making a run to the pitcher’s mound, but he quickly corrects and veers back toward first base making it safely due to an overthrow. There will, in fact, be many errant runs to the pitcher’s mound. There will be many overthrows. There will be two runners on second base. There will be deep conversation between the first baseman and any player willing to talk to him. There will be a five-player pile up on an infield grounder. There will be frantic sprints off the field and into the restroom. There will be facing the wrong way, and forgetting a glove, and a serious crisis over a misplaced hat. This is the stuff of tee ball, and this stuff is pretty great to watch. There aren’t really errors in tee ball – it’s an “anything goes” environment which lends itself to as much sky-gazing and

Just before the game begins, Coach Mike Tanking asks the group the same pre-game question they do in the big leagues. “Does anyone have to go to the bathroom?”

dirt-drawing as it does to actual ball playing. Jonnathan Lemon, the game’s most prolific dirt-digger, managed to fill up his entire glove before being caught and instructed to dump the dirt and return the dusty glove to his hand. When asked about his dirt-digging exploits, Jonnathan explained, “I just like to dig the dirt and find some worms or a frog or somethin’.” Kennedy Smith lucked out getting on the purple team because purple is her very favorite color – she’s a diehard K-State Fan. Decked out in rhinestone-bedazzled animal-print sneakers, Kennedy said her favorite things about playing tee ball include hitting the ball, running the bases, and exercising, and wisely points out that time in the dugout should be spent “drinking lots of water and making sure you are hydrated.” She ought to tell that to the blue team, whose time in the dugout is mostly spent literally hanging from the ceiling, and where one player was overheard announcing, “I can burp my whole ABCs!” Clearly, there’s not so much emphasis on focus on the game, but as parents and coaches will tell you, that isn’t really the point. “It’s about learning the basics: listening, following instructions, and getting along with other kids,” said Coach Mike, “and if we can teach them some fundamentals along the way, that’s great.” continued on the next page >>

Whether they know it or not, these children are beginning to learn one of life’s most vital lessons – the importance of teamwork.

For many of the children, this is a first attempt at organized sports. “He’s learning how to get along with other kids,” said Lisa VanDonge of her son Noah, “and it’s a good experience to learn rules and discipline.” At this age, children are beautifully unaffected having none of the insecurity and self-doubt that can plague their older counterparts. “I AM PIERSON! AND I AM GOING TO HIT THE BALL,” Pierson loudly and proudly announces to the crowd before his turn at the bat. “That was AWESOME!” exclaimed Evan coming into the dugout off the field, “I almost made a catch!” The unabashed self-confidence and can-do attitudes of these players is refreshing, to say the least. At the end of the game, after the teams have swapped congratulatory high fives, Coach Mike commends his players on a job well done. In this very moment, whether they know it or not, these children are beginning to learn one of life’s most vital lessons – the importance of teamwork. And as they huddle up, stack their dirt-covered hands one atop the other, count to three, and scream “TEAM!” in unison at the tops of their lungs, it’s clear they are starting to get the hang of it. XYZ TOPEKA

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Seuss on the loose b y J a n i c e Wa t k i n s • p h o t o s b y S a r a h L o n g | J o y f u l P h o t o g r a p h y

In a quiet house, near the end of the street, There’s an amazing room where the grandkids meet. Filled with monkeys, and delightful sayings from books, This room is a Seussical adventure, causing delightful looks.

n a sunny June evening, Winter Ball opens the door to her parents’ home giving way to a grand living room with cathedral ceilings and décor from the pages of a designer homes magazine. Just past the plush armchairs and glass-topped table, a door is opened – a semi gateway to a whole new world – the world of Dr. Seuss. A self-described Dr. Seuss fan, Ball mentioned the idea for a Seuss-themed room after her parents, Jan and Earl Kemper, moved into the home and encountered a small, strange, dreary office of sorts. The idea to transform the room into a playroom/ nursery for the eleven grandkids that visit the house was an easy sell. With a scanner, a computer and a projector in hand, the pages of the iconic childhood books were scanned, stenciled and came to life in color over three hardworking days. With everyone from the Cat in the Hat to Horton, the room welcomes even the youngest of grandkids with a crib and a Seuss-themed mobile. Ball notes that the room even held the attention of the youngest of the brood, a 5-month old who won’t stay in his own crib often, but will sit content, taking in the charm and sights of this unique playroom. The room carefully reminds the children that “P is for Papa in a Pail” and “N is for Nana in a Nightshirt”, shying away from the traditional ‘grandma’ and ‘grandpa’ labels. There are even eleven monkeys bouncing across Horton’s back, matching easily with the eleven grandchildren of the proud papa and nana. For Ball, however, her work as the redecorator is not quite done, as she is being encouraged to add another monkey to the wall, with the impending arrival of the twelfth grandkid. Twelve monkeys on a wall, Twelve monkeys having (and created by) Ball! Follow Winter Ball and her other room transformations, as she is being swept up in redecorating rooms for friends and family on her blog at dailybalancedliving. com. XYZ TOPEKA

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upcycled tires

environmental parenting

by Annie Bro ck • photos by Amy Cyphers | Wild Child Photography

id you know the life of your tires usually doesn’t end when you swap them out for new ones at the tire shop? The rubber from worn tires can be recycled into products like fill for playgrounds, belts, shoes, and brake pads. They can even be retreaded and put back on the road.

When tires are improperly disposed of they become a burden to the environment. If tires are buried in a landfill (though many landfills are not permitted to accept them) they can release toxins into the soil as they break down. When a tire is disposed of by burning, it can send some seriously funky stuff into the atmosphere. And if tires sit unused and uncared for they can become a breeding ground for mosquitoes and other rodents who harbor disease. Tire waste is so burdensome, in fact, that most state legislatures have enacted strict laws dictating requirements for disposal. Auto shops pay big bucks to have their customers’ old tires recycled at the end of each month, and many are happy to give them away for free, which makes them an excellent candidate for an inexpensive upcycle.

Tire Swing The tire swing is probably the most common tire-to-toy upcycle, and definitely the most fun. To make your tire swing more festive, give it a quick paint job before you get started. Spray, latex, and oil-based paints will all get the job done, though you will likely need to retouch them yearly if they’re left out in the elements. Using a brush or an air-powered paint sprayer are the most environmentally-friendly painting techniques. (Pro tip: Many recycling centers accept used cans of paint and then give them away – ideal for small upcycling projects.) This tutorial is for an old-school tire swing using just a tire, rope, and tree, but there are tons of ways to make a tire swing using alternate methods and materials. First, drill several holes in the bottom of the tire so that any rainwater will easily drain away. This is an essential step to prevent your tire from collecting stagnant water and becoming a mosquito haven. Next, drill a hole in the top of your tire, thread a strong, unfrayed rope through the hole, and attach the rope to a large nut with a sturdy knot. Then select a burly branch and tie another durable knot (i.e. square knot) to attach the swing to the tree. Test out the swing to make sure it will easily hold the weight of an adult and that the rope is secure before allowing a child to take a ride. For the safest swinging, remember to periodically check the rope for rips or frays and replace when necessary. 10

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Flower Planter Flowers have a way of making anything look lovely – even an old tire. To make this upcycle a family affair, give your kiddos a paint brush and let them play Picasso with the tire planters to turn them into creative masterpieces before filling them with flowers.

Old tires can be repurposed for backyard beauty and fun

To make a tire planter, first line the bottom of the tire with plastic sheeting or a wire screen which will help prevent the soil from falling out of the bottom. Then it’s time to start getting dirty. Fill the tire with dirt, potting soil, or compost. Make sure to fill the tire completely, as the dark recesses of the tire’s walls are the perfect home for snakes and other creepy crawlies. Then choose your flowers and plant according to their specifications. Although it’s possible to grow other plants in tire planters, many people recommend against planting edibles (like vegetables and herbs) in them because small amounts of toxins from the tires could leech into the soil and potentially into your food. Make sure that you put your tire planters in a spot that gets lots of sunshine, and water and weed your planters regularly to get the longest life out of your flowers. Have your children get in on the gardening game too. It’s never too early to learn the importance of growing and nurturing plants. Rock Box Whether it’s throwing pebbles or skipping stones, there’s no getting around the fact that kids love rocks. Believe it or not, playing with rocks is actually an excellent sensory activity for little explorers, and a “rock box” is a great way to encourage that sensory exploration while containing the mess. To make a rock box from a used tire, first clean the tire thoroughly and decorate to your desired taste. Place the tire where you can easily watch your children at play. Drill a few holes to promote drainage, and then line the bottom of the tire with plastic sheeting. Fill the tire completely (to avoid creating a place for pests to nest) with pea gravel or larger stones if you choose. Pea gravel is easy for tiny hands to play with, though the spillover is a little more difficult to clean. Then sit back and watch your kiddos spend hours digging, scooping, pushing, loading, and dumping. If none of these tire upcycles suits you, there are a hundred more ways to put your old rubber road warriors to use. Or, for a small fee, you can have them sent for recycling at any tire retailer. Whatever you do, don’t let your old tires sit around when they could be doing so much more. XYZ TOPEKA

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critter encounters by Cale Herreman • photos by Megan Rogers | Megan Rogers Photographie

Do you know your neighbors? You ought

to know the human ones, but who else is scurrying past your home? This time of year, when the birds are singing and the squirrels and rabbits are everywhere, it doesn’t take much to be reminded that we share our space with a lot of critters who are working hard every day to feed their families. Kind of like us. Along with the easily-noticed animals, some more skittish types have been spotted in Topeka. Deer can be found in many wooded areas, and foxes have been sighted by sharpeyed citizens. The southwest part of the city even has a large colony of European lizards. Brandi Gillaspie, a teacher at Children’s Day Out, says the children and the lizards who live near the playground have an interesting relationship. “[The lizards] sit on the wood planks under the bridge, and kids go over the bridge, and they just sit there,” said

Gillaspie. “But if you get off the bridge and come close, they run.” “They disappear into the cracks in the concrete,” adds fellow teacher Kim Soldani. As long as the animals are just going about their business, everyone gets along fine. But what should you do when an animal is injured or orphaned? Should nature take its course, or should people step in to help? One Topeka resident heard a young bird screeching and saw it frantically trying to fly out of a stack of rubber tubs in her yard as the bird’s mother swooped protectively overhead. When the resident looked closer, she noticed the bird had what appeared to be a broken leg. She and her family created a makeshift bed from an old shoebox and rushed it to Stone House Animal Hospital on 10th and Fairlawn. Stone House, which is open 24-hours for just these sorts of emergencies, has relationships with many animal groups, and is a good place to take wild animals in need of help.

Kirstyn Cummings of Northeast Kansas Wildlife Rescue said it’s best if people who find injured animals call their hotline for information on how to proceed. The hotline gets busy in the spring and summer months when baby animals are newly learning to navigate the world and people become concerned for their well-being. A common worry is over the parenting skills of bird mothers. “They can be gone for up to three or four hours from the nest without returning,” said Cummings. While these bird mothers forage for food for their young, people sometimes notice the unattended nest and start to become concerned. Some even go so far as to “rescue” what they believe to be orphaned chicks. “They take them, the mom comes back, she doesn’t have her babies anymore, they don’t have their mom, and they end up dying,” said Cummings. A good way to prevent this is to visit Wildlife Rescue’s website or call their hotline for advice before any rescue attempts. Another common occurrence concerning birds is finding a baby bird without feathers. “It probably accidentally fell out of the nest; it is okay to put that bird back in the nest if you can reach it,” said Carol Morgan, president of the Topeka Audubon Society. Touching a baby bird will not cause its parents to reject it, she points out, which is a common misconception among humans. If you find a baby bird with feathers on the ground, it is probably just fine. The parents are likely nearby, watching several youngsters, and teaching them how to survive. Deer also leave their young for periods of time, so finding a baby deer without a mother should not be cause for alarm. “If a fawn is truly orphaned, Wildlife and Parks now recommends that people let nature take its course,” said Morgan. This may sound unkind, but large wild animals that are picked up are often euthanized due to injury or disease. The best course of action, in general, is to leave animals to their business, but do not be afraid to call on the expertise of local animal experts with any questions. XYZ TOPEKA Northeast Kansas Wildlife Rescue: northeastkswildliferescue.com Hotline: (785) 575-1991

kids’ jam At Speck’s, kids with musical talent get together to share the spotlight and wow a supportive audience.

b y J a n i c e Wa t k i n s photos by Megan Rogers Megan Rogers Photographie

The sun is setting across the patio of Specks Bar & Grill on a Sunday evening. As a group of patrons exit the infamous Topeka hamburger spot, they stop and take in the engaging tune of the dulcimer floating through the air, along with the lyrics: “Potatoes are so nutritious. Potatoes are just like Christmas.” You are just as likely to hear something like The Potato Song, an original by 11-year old songster Skylar Kendall, as you are the familiar Jimmy Buffet classic Margaritaville during the Open Jam event for all ages every Sunday at Specks. When local kid-centric musician Kyler Carpenter first attended a planned jam at the tavern, he knew, without a doubt, that it had “open mic night written all over it.” He reached out to owner Debbie Maichel, and the pairing just “made sense.”

Dance, and later picking up a ukulele and the dulcimer. “I saw Kyler playing at the library, and I had heard that he shared the stage really well, so I just asked him if it was cool if we jammed sometime. He told me about his gigs, and later about this,” said Skylar.

“We have always been a family-friendly location,” said Maichel. “It’s a good thing to be able to bring my kids to work with me,” she smiles, gesturing to her teenage daughter, who has helped out around the family-owned business since she was a toddler.

Open Jam, however, takes Kyler’s familiar Saturday morning sing-a-longs at the library to a whole new level. The stage is set with a drum kit and lighting by Mokan Sound and Lighting Productions, which are used primarily in the adult-portion of the jam hosted by Jake Hodge at 9 p.m. Instruments are available for the budding artists to use, or they can bring their own axe (or dulcimer). It’s not uncommon for someone to just hop in and start playing back-up or leaning in for support vocals during another’s song.

Carpenter hosts the family-friendly portion of the jam beginning at 5 p.m., and has fostered a group of regulars, including Skylar, playing back-up percussion on the bongo drums, jumping in on the melodica during a cover of Moon

16-year old Reece Bartron timidly sits on the sideline of the patio tuning his guitar, when Kyler throws a head nod in his direction. Reece hops in and joins the jam session – his first time playing for people besides his mom and dad. He had

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heard about Open Jam in passing and decided to give it a shot. “I’m nervous, yeah, but I hope I can get more comfortable playing in front of a crowd,” said Reece. Seeing all of the newcomers joining in the fun, 6-year old Lilly Miller finally musters up the courage, with a little pushing from powerhouse-vocalist 11-year old Shawna Wilson, to grab the mic for a crowd-stirring rendition of the ABCs. The all-ages crowd bursts into applause, and Lilly’s smile stays plastered across her face for the rest of the evening. Not long after the crowd settles down from Lilly’s performance, Adison Stallons, 14, takes the stage with her side braid shining in the sunlight, and her cobalt blue guitar a stark contrast to her timid demeanor. She strums on her guitar and belts out a popular song by Pink, with her mom standing in the back, informing another jam attendee that she “just learned this song Thursday.” “I’m just letting loose and doing what I love,” Adison said of her opportunity to take part in Open Jam. Kyler watches Adison finish her three-song set like a proud father, and lets out an ear-shattering whistle. “This family-themed event, it’s really just grown a life of its own,” Kyler beams. “It’s a beast.” XYZ TOPEKA

join the jam Join the fun at Open Jam every Sunday starting at 5 p.m. at Specks Bar & Grill (21st and Gage). Kyler Carpenter hosts the jam until 9 p.m., when Jake Hodge takes the helm and parents can put the kids to bed and come out for an opportunity to pick up that dusty guitar and take the stage. Kids 12 and under eat free, if they complete a song. Also, catch Kyler every Monday at Via’s from 6 – 7 p.m.

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cool kid’s bday

discovery birthday

by Nicole Huckins • photos by EJ Drake | edrake photog raphy

aaand they’re off! That’s what most parents think aloud the moment they enter the Kansas Children’s Discovery Center (KCDC) with their kids. Hence the reason why it is so appealing as a birthday party spot- there are numerous exhibits that intrigue and captivate children (and adults) of all ages. In this issue we visited the KCDC to explore all of their party options, and have a little kid fun too.

free to continue exploring all that the Discovery Center has to offer, including the outside attractions that are perfect in the warmer months, and a worthwhile visit in the chillier months.

On a recent Sunday at the Kansas Children’s Discovery Center, the excitement was building in a dashing piratethemed party room, complete with a pirate treasure cake, eye patches and skull party hats. The birthday boy, Kamden, giggled with anticipation as his 4th birthday party guests began to arrive.

“Everything is customizable,” explained Anna Serene, the Kansas Children’s Discovery Center’s Birthday Coordinator, as any theme can be accommodated. Serene highlighted an upcoming party with a “Bubble Guppies” theme, in which the attendees will inspect tadpoles with microscopes and be able to see and feel them.

“The birthday party was a first experience for some of the guests,” Kamden’s mom, Courtney Partridge, explained.

As Kamden’s pirate party illustrates, one of the most appealing options of the KCDC is the ability to customize your party.

“We really try to make everything interactive,” expressed Serene. Additionally there are extra features that can

cool kid: Kamden, age 4 Upon arrival, the kids were free to roam and explore the center. Partridge pointed out that the guests were of varying ages, which made the KCDC really an ideal match for Kamden’s party. Shortly after, a special announcement introducing Kamden as a “very special visitor” to the other guests could be heard over the loudspeaker. Partygoers returned to the swashbuckling room from their explorations, where they worked on an arts and crafts project using stickers to spell their name and build robots. The busy guests were offered a healthy snack of PB&J sandwiches and strawberries while working on their creations. Afterwards the party guests were

accommodate the birthday theme, such as face painting or a dance party in the black light room. For Kamden and his guests, the party was certainly a success. “I would definitely recommend the Discovery Center to other families,” Partridge professed. “It is a great way for parents to slow down from their busy work schedule and connect with their children through creative play and imagination, all while complimenting various learning styles.” Birthday party packages start at $125 for up to 20 people, including an hour use of the party room, unlimited play, plasticware, and cleanup. For more information regarding a birthday party at Kansas Children’s Discovery Center, please visit their website at kansasdiscovery.org XYZ TOPEKA XYZ xyztopeka.com

nursing by nature

a glance at nursing in public b y J o r r i e Va r n e y • p h o t o s b y S a r a h L o n g

f you are a parent, or have ever been around a hungry baby, you know that when a baby wants to eat it’s best for all involved if the baby gets fed as soon as possible. Babies get hungry at restaurants, grocery stores, shopping malls, and many other public places, and a nursing mother really has no choice but to stop what she’s doing and feed the baby. “I breastfed my daughter in public, at church, at the pediatrician’s office, in the car, and at restaurants,” said Elena Sanchez of Topeka, who nursed her daughter, Ellie, for a year. “I never really had any negative attention, or if I did I wasn’t even aware of it because I wasn’t looking around to see how others would react to me feeding my child.” While the most common negative public reaction reported by nursing mothers is awkward stares, some mothers have been asked to take their children to a restroom or, even worse, leave the establishments in which they are breastfeeding. These “cover up or leave” ultimatums have sparked a form of protest known as a nurse-in. During a nurse-in demonstration nursing mothers fill the establishment that has challenged breastfeeding rights. They nurse their children in public, together, to gain attention for the cause and show resistance to opposition of public breastfeeding. The overall goal of a nurse-in is to normalize the idea of breastfeeding as something natural and non-threatening. More women than ever are choosing to breastfeed their children, as breast milk is considered the optimal form of nutrition for a new baby. The American Association of Pediatrics recommends children breastfeed for a year or longer, and the Center for Disease Control and Prevention credits breastfeeding with a reduction in the risk of SIDS and protection from illness and infection. 18

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There are perks for moms, too. It has been reported that mothers who breastfeed have a decreased risk of developing breast and ovarian cancers. And because widespread breastfeeding is a boon to the overall health of a society, there are many positive economic impacts in terms of health care

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In this culture and this culture alone, people are not comfortable with a woman feeding her baby, doing what her breasts are biologically meant to do.” - Dr. Libby Rosen

spending and employer costs. Given the overall benefit, it’s not surprising that 80.2% of Kansas mothers made the choice to breastfeed their children in 2012.

Dr. Libby Rosen has been an obstetrical nurse for more than 35 years and is an advocate for breastfeeding rights and mothers. She is a lactation consultant and a member of High 5 for Mom & Baby, which is a hospital-based program designed to support, encourage and foster a healthy start for breastfeeding mothers and babies. Rosen believes much of what stirs breastfeeding controversy is culturally driven. “In this culture and this culture alone, people are not comfortable with a woman feeding her baby, doing what her breasts are biologically meant to do”, said Rosen. She notes that other countries lack the stigma attached to public breastfeeding; when a mother nurses in public it is not viewed as awkward or uncomfortable because it is the cultural norm and what is expected. Despite the collective cultural discomfort with public breastfeeding, the Kansas law dictates that a mother may breastfeed her child in any place she has a right to be. Kansas is one of 34 states with laws related to breastfeeding, which is one of many ways to raise awareness and gain public acceptance. continued on the next page >> XYZ xyztopeka.com

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Breastfeeding in public doesn’t bother me, but it is a decision for the mother to make. A baby has to eat and that is going to happen no matter where your location.” - Topeka mom

Another Topeka mother, who wishes to remain anonymous, did not breastfeed her child, but is supportive of mothers who do. “Breastfeeding in public doesn’t bother me, but it is a decision for the mother to make. A baby has to eat and that is going to happen no matter where your location.” she said. For some onlookers, it’s not the act of breastfeeding that causes discomfort, but the exposure of skin that is not normally displayed in public. Most mothers will tell you they reveal as little as possible when nursing, and that it can be done fairly discreetly. But there is a chance you may see more than you bargained for. “We want to be respectful of all people at any time. Getting the baby latched on sometimes is more difficult to do without showing more of the breast. Always be respectful in any environment.” said Rosen. Some mothers toss a blanket over their shoulder to limit visibility, while others are mostly covered by their nursing child. In any circumstance, respect of all parties involved should be the priority. So what can be done to increase acceptance of public breastfeeding? Raising awareness of the benefits of breastfeeding and the law regarding it will help. However, like with everything else, the more you see it, the less unusual it becomes. Breastfeeding is not offensive or perverse. There are enough challenges in parenting; when, where, and how you feed your child shouldn’t be one of them. XYZ TOPEKA

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ver summer vacation, many students seize the opportunity to sleep in, catch up with old friends, and maybe see the latest Hollywood blockbuster on the big screen. Seventeen-year-old Chestina Conner, however, can be found polishing used light fixtures and dusting shelving units. The one-of-a-kind teenager does this willingly and for free as a volunteer at the Habitat for Humanity ReStore. “Before I moved here, I volunteered at an animal shelter in Missouri. I wasn’t old enough for a job, and I can’t sit still. I always have to be doing something,” said Chestina. At fourteen, Chestina was too young to volunteer at the Habitat ReStore (29th and Topeka Boulevard) by herself, as the minimum age to volunteer is sixteen. So she convinced her mother, Elsie, to volunteer with her. Three years later, both Chestina and Elsie Conner are regular volunteers at ReStore. “A lot of people here I consider family,” said Chestina. “You get close to people and don’t want to leave. It’s a really good environment.” According to Michelle De La Isla, Executive Director for Topeka Habitat for Humanity, volunteers are the lifeblood of the ReStore, but she emphasizes that the ReStore is only part of a bigger mission. Individuals and businesses donate household furnishings and fixtures to the ReStore, which are then sold. The profits from the ReStore fund Habitat building projects in the community. Habitat for Humanity is a non-profit organization that builds homes for those in need. The organization has found a way to accomplish this goal while also providing vocational opportunities for local high school students. Habitat partners with Seaman, Shawnee Heights and Washburn Rural high schools. Students from these schools spend the school year constructing Habitat houses on their respective campuses. Once the houses are ready to be moved, Habitat relocates the homes to their foundations, and adult volunteers finish any

remaining work. “We run on a very lean budget,” said De La Isla. “Volunteers make it possible for us to keep costs down.” Chestina, who will be a senior next school year at Washburn Rural, has helped to build two Habitat houses so far. She was responsible for the inside welding and wiring of the houses before the electricity was hooked up. As part of her training, Chestina became OSHA certified and educated in the safety practices of working on a building site. Potential homeowners are also required to contribute to the funding and building of their homes through sweat equity hours at the ReStore. A husband-wife team is required to log 300 hours, while a single parent is asked to contribute 200 hours. Volunteers at ReStore restock merchandise, provide customer service, work the cash register, price items, and unload donated items on the dock. According to Alarie Kennedy, Volunteer Coordinator, 109 volunteer hours is equal to $2,398 saved that can then go toward the building and moving of Habitat houses. continued on page 22 >> XYZ xyztopeka.com

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For high school or college students, volunteering is a good opportunity to discover yourself and develop your skills and build connections.” - Murtadha Alali, volunteer at Habitat ReStore

“We recently had our Spring Day of Caring,” said Kennedy. “Hills Pet Nutrition employees volunteered their time, and saved us $10,417.”

Information for those interested in volunteering at the Habitat for Humanity ReStore: -Must be 16 years old to volunteer alone, but adults and children under 16 can volunteer together. -Must complete an orientation, training and minimal paperwork.

ReStore volunteers include individuals and groups such as Veteran’s Administration employees who volunteer the first Wednesday of every month, residents from The Villages, members of the Young Lions Club, Topeka Bible Church, Aviva, and Del Monte. Volunteers are teenagers, retirees, the disabled, college students, and business professionals. Kennedy stresses that there is a place for anyone who wants to help out. “They are the ones who hold the place together,” said Kennedy. Murtadha Alali, a junior in business at Washburn University recently started volunteering with Habitat ReStore.

-Cannot have a criminal record that includes crimes against children, violent offenses, or theft.

“I wanted to give the community and people of Washburn University back what they have given to me; to exchange services,” said Alali. Alali, who is from Greece, had prior knowledge about Habitat for Humanity before coming to the United States.

-Individuals or groups interested in volunteering can contact Alarie Kennedy, Volunteer Coordinator at (785) 234-4322.

“I’ve heard about Habitat internationally, not just in America, but all over the world,” said Alali. He enjoyed his volunteer experience so much that he is now doing an internship with Habitat for Humanity.

Information for those interested in donating items to the Habitat ReStore:

“For high school or college students, volunteering is a good opportunity to discover yourself and develop your skills and build connections,” said Alali.

-Contact Marshall Orton, Procurement Manager at (785) 234-4322 or individuals may drop off donations during business hours. -Those making donations will receive a receipt for tax write-off purposes.

Once a home is complete, Habitat has a home dedication ceremony for the family receiving the house. Many of the ReStore volunteers and those who helped to build the house attend to witness the happy occasion. Both Alali and Chestina have been present at a home dedication and seem to find their motivation for continuing their service to Habitat from this experience. “When I went to the first drop off of the house, I saw how happy the family was and their faces,” said Chestina. “We didn’t do that much, but it completely changed their entire life having that house.” XYZ TOPEKA

Summer 2013 b y J a n i c e Wa t k i n s

Catch a Concert Grab your family and tap your toes to the beat. There are plenty of chances to catch a concert (or more) over the summer.

The Cover Girls Concert Monday, July 8, 2 – 3p, Topeka and Shawnee County Public Library Choral Showcase Friday, July 12, 7:30 – 10 p, Grace Cathedral (701 S. 8th) Evening Concert in the Park Every Sunday 7 – 9p, Gage Park Amphitheatre Summer Sunset Concert Saturday, July 27, 6 – 9 p, Old Prairie Town, Ward Meade Park Open Mic Night Wednesday, June 26 and July 21, 4 – 5:30 p, Topeka and Shawnee County Public Library, The Edge (11-18 years)

Festivals and Special Events Tykes on Bikes Saturday, June 22,9a – 12 p, Topeka West High School | Join the carnival with a silent auction, children’s bicycle/tricycle races, a bike rodeo and child safety activities, such as free helmet fittings and safety inspections.

Spirit of Kansas Blues Festival Thursday, July 4, 12 – 9p, Lake Shawnee | Celebrate the spirit of Independence Day with live entertainment, arts and crafts, and more.

Fiesta Mexicana Tuesday, July 9 through Sunday, July 13 4 – 9p, Our Lady of Guadalupe Church | Celebrate Topeka’s Mexican culture during these five nights of food, music and dancing in the Oakland neighborhood.

23rd Annual Shawnee County Allied Tribes, Inc. Traditional Powwow Friday, August 30, Lake

Shawnee | Join the local tribes as they celebrate their heritage. Food, demonstrations and educational opportunities make this event a must-attend.

Sunflower State Games

Friday, July 12 through Sunday, July 28, locations throughout Topeka | Let the games begin! Bring out your competitive spirit with a competition for nearly every age and skill level.

6th Annual Topeka Railroad Festival Saturday,

August 17, 9:30a – 4:30p, Great Overland Station | Chug-achug-a-choo-choo! Food, activities and entertainment for the whole family will be provided during this spectacular, annual event.

Huff-N-Puff Balloon Rally Friday, September 6 (6p) through Sunday, September

8 (12p), Tinman Circle, Lake Shawnee | The Great Plains Balloon Club of Topeka will present its annual and ever popular rally with free parking, concessions and lots of fun.

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Fun for the Whole Family International Mud Day! Saturday, June 29, 11a – 3p, Kansas Children’s Discovery

Center | Celebrate International Mud Day with the staff of the KCDC and Mud Day! Pack an extra set of clothes and prepare to get dirty!

Big Screen Under the Stars Saturday, August 10, 9 – 11p, Lake Shawnee | Pack up the family and bring your lawn chairs, blankets and family-bonding attitude for an outdoor screening of movie (under the stars).

Family Night on the Ranch Saturday, August 24, 6 – 9p, Shawnee North Community Center Enjoy a hayrack ride, a storyteller’s rendition of the Oregon and California trails, take in the breathtaking Topeka skyline and head back to the Dancing Star Ranch for horseshoes and a country-style hotdog cookout!

End the Summer In Style End of Summer Bash Friday, August 2, 6 – 8p, Shawnee North Community Center | End the summer with a massive celebration, including dancing, face painting a snowball fight and more!

End of Summer Blast Saturday, August 8, 11a – 3p, Kansas Children’s Discovery Center

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XYZ spied on its big sister magazine, seveneightfive to find the best upcoming events for you and your partner or for a Girls or Guys Night Out (GNO) in Topeka. Call the babysitter, get a cab on standby, and have a F.A.B. time!

First Friday Art Walk | Various locations | Visit artsconnecttopeka.org for a map and listing of special monthly art events all over Topeka!

Ad Astra Theatre Ensemble | adastratheatre.com for details and reservations

Edges | May 9 -12 | Edges is not a traditional musical; it is an exciting new show about four burgeoning adults asking classic coming-of-age questions.

The 24 Hour Play Festival | June 15 | The 24 Hour Play Festival is back for its 3rd Year. 24 Actors, 6 Playwrights, and 6 Directors get together to create 6 new 10 minute plays in 24 Hours.

Break Room Theatre Events | breakroomdowntown.com for details and reservations

Dale Easton’s The Drunkard | June 14-29 | Step back in time to the Vaudeville stage! Directed by Karen

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Spank! The Fifty Shades Parody | June 27, 7:30p. The hilarious new comedy that brings all the naughty fun of the best-selling book to life.

Grape Escape | August 2. This annual fundraiser is THE event of the year for oenophiles and auction-seekers alike. Sample wines from around the world and delicious foods from local restaurants and caterers and bid on fabulous donated items while raising funds for the Topeka Performing Arts Center’s educational and entertainment programs.

Special Events

Friday Night Concert Series | Kick back after work with a couple of drinks and good friends at 8th &

Jackson. Westar Energy, Downtown Topeka Inc., the Celtic Fox Irish Pub and the Office Bar invite you to the outdoor beer garden for live music every Friday. Shows begin at 7:30p although you might catch an opening act beginning at 5:30p.

Tap That Topeka | June 29. Sample American Craft Beer from all over the United States, enjoy food vendors and live music under a big (shady!) tent at 6th & Jackson. For tickets contact Downtown Topeka Inc. at 2349336.

Brew at the Zoo | July 16, 6-10p. | Enjoy food, games and beers from a variety of Kansas breweries at the Topeka Zoo. For tickets, call 272-7595 or visit topekazoo.org.

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unger” is a dramatic word. For those who work at preventing it, there is a more precise term. “Food insecurity” is not knowing where the next meal will be coming from, or when. For a parent who must provide for children, this is a terrifying prospect. Adding to this anxiety is a sense of shame that many have about asking for help. But honestly, this could happen to any of us. Most families are one layoff away from food insecurity. A sense of shame by those who are hurting, and a sense of judgment by those who are not, will not serve this community well. What does serve, is the community of people working hard to help anyone who needs it. Unfortunately, the ranks of those who need a hand are growing. Harvesters Community Food Network, working with hundreds of partner agencies, serves 66,000 individuals every week. Jannett Wiens, its Constituent Relationship Manager, puts it bluntly: “Honestly, I can tell you, if I lose my job, I’ll be on the other side of the line, and

I think that’s why it’s emotional for me. I’m not that far from being on the other side.” Help is needed all over town. One of Harvesters’ programs to feed children is the BackSnack initiative. Some kids don’t get much food between school lunch on Friday and school breakfast on Monday. This program gives a backpack filled with food items that don’t require refrigeration or cooking to elementary school kids to take home over the weekend. Forget about any assumptions that could be made about which schools would need this program; it’s all over town. Wiens said, “There’s not one public school in Topeka that’s not receiving these.” continued on the next page >> XYZ xyztopeka.com

Likewise, forget assumptions about what people who would ask for food assistance should look like. Plenty are from two-earner families and many have been recently laid off. “Someone could come to one of our mobile food pantries in a nice car, because that’s the lifestyle they’ve had,” Wiens said. One of eight people in the area are food insecure, and that number says nothing about the clothes in their closet.

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Harvesters has a large warehouse full of donated food. Lining the walls are boxes of cans, stacks of jars, and coolers full of fresh produce. Jeff Gartin, Logistics Manager of Harvester’s, pointed to containers of pasta salad on a high shelf. “Reser’s [Fine Foods] is awesome, they don’t just give us food that’s about to expire.”

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The warehouse has an ever-changing assortment of foods, sees millions of pounds come in and go out each year, and has few paid staff members. “Without volunteers, this place could not function,” Gartin said. Recalling his first day on the job, he said, “I thought this was going to be small-scale. It was eye-opening.” Most of Harvesters’ food is distributed to other institutions that provide help through food pantries. One that is mere yards from Harvesters’ warehouse is Catholic Charities of Northeast Kansas, at 3rd and Kansas. Jody Bolivar explains that their pantry is new, but, “It has grown like crazy. Last Friday, we served 86 families in about two hours.” She says that they are always in need of food and personal hygiene items. Shelly Lowery of Let’s Help, on the same block, also says that they need food donations.

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All these institutions report the need for food is growing in our community: each year has found them giving more food than the previous year. But there is a comfort in knowing that there are people who are eager to help, and not judge, those who need it. “You find out that people are pretty good, when you surround yourself with the right people,” Gartin says. XYZ TOPEKA

teachers gone wild! what some local teachers are up to during summer vacation by Shanna Sloyer • photo contributed

indy Cummings, like millions of other Americans, will hit the open road this summer. But unlike most of us, Cummings plans to travel across the country on her motorcycle and to many of her students, her summer plans will come as a huge surprise. Cummings, a science teacher at Seaman Middle School, has been riding motorcycles for 33 years and has been making cross-country trips on her bike since 2003. Along with her husband Tom, Cummings has ridden to Northern California, visited the Western-most point of the continental United States in Washington State, and cruised along the coastal highways. Two years ago, Cummings went well beyond the confines of her science classroom and the couple traveled to the Northeastern-most point of the U.S. in Maine. “You feel like you experience it more because you’re part of it,” said Cummings. “You’re not caged in like in a car. You’re out there with nature, and you experience the elements.” This summer, Tom and Cindy are planning a true adventure, much like their previous wind-in-the-air-and-saddle-bagat-the-feet-summers, as they will ride from Topeka to Front Royal, Virginia to explore Skyline Drive. They will travel through Shenandoah National Park, which connects to Blue Ridge Parkway. From there, they will head south and ride through Great Smoky Mountains National Park on the border between North Carolina and Tennessee. “It’s a thrill. The scenery is just beautiful. We like to find fun, curvy roads; not necessarily the Interstate,” said Cummings. When they travel, they really travel – sometimes for 15-16 days at a time, riding rain or shine and up to 5,000 miles each trip. The teacher by fall and rider by summer, recalls traveling up to 700 miles in one day on a trip to Wyoming. “We don’t have a communication system when we’re on the motorcycles, so when we get to where we’re going, we talk about everything we saw along the way,” said Cummings. The riding explorers have known the occasion to spot a rare find, including a brown bear running across the coastal highway in Washington State, a cow moose with her twins over Cameron Pass near Walden, Colorado, and wild burros in north central Oregon. Cummings is able to use her experiences during the summer in her science classroom with her students.

they’re surprised because they don’t think I look like a motorcycle person.” But Cummings ensures to always stress the importance of safety, along with her “wild” biker side. “My head hit the pavement once with my helmet on,” said Cummings. “I always wear my helmet.” XYZ TOPEKA

summer plans -“I am taking 3 trips this summer…a cruise to the western Caribbean, Spain to see my sister, and Gulf Shores, Alabama for a road trip/beach time.” Holly Robertson, 3rd grade teacher, Logan Elementary School -“I’ll be raising butterflies with [my son]!” Gena Mathes, 1st grade teacher, Elmont Elementary school -“Nate McAlister and I are taking some of our [students] and parents to Europe this summer. We will be in London, Paris, Lucerne and Munich.” Barb Williamson, Librarian, Royal Valley High School -“We are doing a 19 day road trip-- in a Toyota Matrix-- with 5 people. Going to Indy, Philly, DC, somewhere in Virginia, North Carolina, and Nashville. Wild? Or just insane????” Bailey Marable, Art teacher, Royal Valley High School -“My husband and I will be going to Paris and Rome this summer. It’s our first time out of the country, and we’re very excited!” Amanda Jeffries, FACS teacher, Seaman High School

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day trip!

Rossville b y J o r r i e Va r n e y

ust northwest of the capital city the town of Rossville offers small town charm and outdoor attractions for all ages – making it a great choice for some day trip fun. One of the best parts about a day trip to Rossville is the quick car ride. In just under 30 minutes you are arriving in town and ready to seize the day! That’s less time than it takes to watch an episode of Doc McStuffins and the kids will barely have time to squeeze in one, “Are we there yet?” A must-see attraction is the Rossville Rain Garden. Located on Main Street, the Garden is not only a great place to take a scenic stroll, but is eco-friendly too. Rain gardens are slight depressions in the landscape and can be natural or man-made. These depressions are filled with flowers and other plants, largely due to the water runoff from streets and lawns that is drawn to these low-lying areas. Rossville was fortunate enough to receive a grant to fund the Rain Garden, and by 2008 it was a welcomed part of the small community.

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If playgrounds are your thing, you will definitely want to stop by Rossville’s City Park. Don’t let the guise of “City Park” mislead you. The playground equipment at this park is fantastic! The equipment was designed by the children of Rossville and features swings (tire and original), a rock wall, slides, a chin-up bar, a tree house, fire pole, chain bridge and the piece de resistance, the “Dawghouse.” Built completely by volunteers, the playground is fully accessible and even has a special play area for our littlest loves called the Tot Lot. In the Tot Lot children ages 2-5 can play safely without getting in the way of the big kids. The City Park also offers a basketball court, tennis court and a sand volleyball pit. Of course no small town would be complete without a water feature. The Rossville pool doesn’t disappoint when it comes to splashing the afternoon away. With varying depths the pool accommodates kids big and small and even has a large water slide. Admission is just $3 for adults and $2 for the kiddos. It would be hard to talk about all the fun to be had in Rossville without mentioning the Tall Corn Festival. Each summer Rossville hosts a summer festival that is fun for all ages. While there are activities and events to suit every interest, a featured event is the one for which the festival is named, The Tall Corn Contest. To become Tall Corn King or Queen, all you need to do it grow the tallest corn. Last year the winner was Topekan, Casey Perkins. While growing tall vegetables is not the most common hobby, for Perkins it started when he was in college. “It was a good distraction to help me stay out of trouble. After I did it once I was hooked.” Perkins’ very first garden yielded a tomato that was more than a bit oversized.

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“It was almost as big around as a Frisbee!” The tomato was the catalyst that sent Perkins on a mission to see just

Tall Corn Festival This year the Tall Corn Festival will span two weekends. August 2 and 3 Rossville will host the BBQ competition, which is a new addition to the Tall Corn festivities. Friday night the fun begins when the competitors start cooking! There will be music, entertainment, a homerun derby and a horseshoe tournament. Sunday the fun continues as the judges crown a BBQ champion. Picking up again the following Friday, August 9t and running through Sunday, the traditional Tall Corn Festival activities get underway. The Festival features a 4-H petting zoo, corn-on-the- cob eating contest, talent show, volleyball tournament, pancake breakfast, 5k run, parades, softball tournament, crafts, silent auction, bingo, a street dance and even a tractor pull.

CHILDREN CAN EXPERIENCE ANXIETY TOO.

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Excessive worry…unreasonable, overriding fear… unexplainable physical aches and pains. These may be signs of a serious anxiety disorder.

how large garden produce could become. He had heard about the Tall Corn Festival but had never been a part of it.

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“I thought, the Tall Corn Festival has tall corn. I have a garden. Let’s try it,” said Perkins. It paid off and last year Perkins’ corn took first place at the Festival with a height of 17 feet 4 inches. So if you are in the neighborhood and looking for some family fun check out what Rossville has to offer. From the city attractions to a specialized Tall Corn Festival, you won’t be disappointed. XYZ TOPEKA

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walls that talk Equality House lands in Topeka in a spectrum of color & proves that visual statements can send a very powerful message b y J a n i c e Wa t k i n s • p h o t o s b y M e g a n R o g e r s Megan Rogers Photographie

very parent of a reader has felt pride when their toddler excitedly reads a word on a road sign or billboard from their car seat for the first time. For Topeka parents, however, the ability of youngsters to read from the backseat will likely mean, at some point, an uncomfortable conversation about the hateful handmade signs held by a local group of infamous picketers. “I recently visited with a couple with a nine-year old child saying they didn’t realize how hard it was to explain the Westboro Baptist Church to a child,” said Davis Hammet, Director of Operations for Planting Peace and co-founder of Equality House. Equality House is adding color to a neighborhood that hasn’t always given Topeka the best reputation. The rainbow-colored dwelling all but glows in the sunlight and sits in stark contrast to the dreary messages posted on the church sitting across the street. The Equality House’s interesting choice of real estate and brilliant rainbow paint job received national attention that 34

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Equality House • 1200 S.W. Orleans • Topeka, KS

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Public art can inspire discourse, community pride and a sense of unity.”

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inspired and invigorated the LGBTQ activist community here and abroad becoming emblematic of their messages of demanding fairness, ending discrimination and intolerance, and advancing equal opportunity for all people. Enter ArtsConnect, a local non-profit organization that works to promote the arts through building community connections and broadening the concept that arts enhance the quality of life in the community, and a colorful partnership was formed. “ArtsConnect stopped by the first week of the project when we had over a thousand visitors to the House,” said Davis. “They had a goal of also keeping Topeka colorful and expanding the arts, and it just made sense.” ArtsConnect coupled with Equality House to provide awareness of the project to local children through the sale of Paint Equality kits containing the same twelve colors that were used to paint Equality House. “At ARTSConnect, we strive to celebrate things that are new, interesting, and inspiring in our community,” said Sarah Carkhuff Fizzell, Executive Director. “The Equality House is a powerful example of how public art can inspire discourse, community pride, and a sense of unity. Its colorful presence reassures many in our community and beyond that a message of understanding and acceptance has the power to overcome the negative.”

^ Davis Hammet, Director of Operations for Planting Peace and co-founder of Equality House

The goal of the ARTSConnect and Equality House partnership is to inspire artists of all ages to create something beautiful – something that tells the world about each individual’s own definition of family, community, love, tolerance, and acceptance. “It has been really awesome because I’ve had a lot parents say that they had their children cover their eyes every time they drove past the Westboro Baptist Church, and now they let them uncover their eyes and say, ‘This is what it looks like to stand-up to bullying,’” said Hammet. All funds raised from the sales of the Paint Equality kits will benefit both organizations, and Equality House’s portion will be directed toward anti-bullying programs and prevention in the local school districts. The message is clear – spread love and spread art. ArtsConnect is even asking artists to send a copy of the images they create with the paint kits for a future community project or collage. XYZ TOPEKA

For more information on ArtsConnect and the paint kits, visit www.artsconnecttopeka.org. For more information on Equality House, visit www.plantingpeace.org.

art!

markers as watercolors project by Blake Zachritz • photos by Megan Rogers | Megan Rogers Photographie

id you ever want to get creative, but not get messy? And at the same time not have to use every art supply in the house? Me neither, which is why this activity is perfect for a quick and easy to clean-up project with limited supplies needed. This project is perfect for the single, thriving artist or to occupy a group. The example shown is a simple still life of a bowl of fruit but this project is very versatile and can be done in many ways.

What you need • Crayola Markers - Crayola Washable markers work best for this activity • Small brush, such as those found in student watercolor sets • Glass of water • White drawing paper, any variety of art paper that has some thickness (standard copy paper will not work well for this activity)

What you do You will first need to determine the theme or subject matter for your drawing. Bowls of fruit or whimsical bouquets of flowers are popular still life themes and work well for this activity. The subject matter and items within the picture must be large and free of a lot of detail in the first step. The detail, such as tiny flowers, apple stems and busy bees, can be added after your artwork dries. See what you can come up with! Draw your entire artwork as an outline drawing using the markers in the appropriate color. Do not color any object solid, but simply draw the line for the object. The larger the object is, the thicker the line. For instance, in a fruit bowl drawing, the orange would have a thick line while the grape would have a thin line. You can lay your marker at a lower angle to the paper to achieve a thick line. Areas that have no lines, such as sky, might be textured with thin lines of color or by drawing clouds in a thick line of blue and reverse painting outward which would make the sky blue and the cloud white. You must draw your entire artwork with your markers before beginning to add the water because markers that get wet become ruined quickly. 36

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When you have completely added all of the lines to your artwork, look it over to see if you have drawn everything you need to fill your paper, you do not want to leave a lot of white or empty space. Next, it is important to put your markers away so that you will not be tempted to use them while your paper might be wet. Now, reach for your brush and water and begin to paint. The process uses a damp brush, especially for smaller objects that don’t have room for a lot of water. You will not be brushing water OVER the entire work; you will be brushing only on one side of each object line allowing the line to fade away while leaving the outside of the object visible with a hard edge. If there are any tiny items that you want to add to your picture such as bugs, birds’ nests, leaf texture, or seed pods, they can be added after the drawing has been painted and dried using tiny marker accent lines. Have fun with this easy and fun activity. It is a very versatile way to paint without having to get out the whole set. Try to come up with more fun ways to use this process such as a greeting card or back-to-school bookmark. I bet you can come up with more ideas, and most importantly, don’t forget to write your artist signature on the front of your work when you are finished. XYZ TOPEKA Blake Zachritz, Art Teacher Topeka Collegiate School, Topeka, Kansas

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ollege Hill Pizza Pub is one of the newest additions to the College Hill area. There, they create the most amazing made-to-order pizzas I’ve ever had.

Local food reviews by food aficionado Grant, age 11. photo by EJ Drake

The Basics: College Hill Pizza Pub 1418 SW Lane St. (785) 232-8882 Open every day 11 a.m.-3 a.m.

Made-to-order pizzas with a plethora of topping options.

When you walk in, you are greeted by signs telling you which way you need to go, but basically it’s a Subway-style restaurant with just about every pizza topping choice you can think of. You start off with a large, personal-sized pizza crust and choose your own sauce. The choices range from buffalo, pesto, chunky marinara and just about everything in between. Then, you choose your meats, vegetables and even your cheese. In a few minutes, your pizza arrives just out of the oven and steaming hot. Be careful, that bubbling cheese will burn your mouth! My personal favorite is buffalo sauce, chicken, white onion, five cheese blend all topped with crushed Cool Ranch Doritos. The first time I visited Pizza Pub, I learned of this creation by a very helpful pizza artisan and boy was he right! I’ve eaten there at least four times now and I get it every time. One time they were out of Doritos so I opted for Chili Cheese Fritos. Pretty good, but I still prefer the Doritos. They add the perfect crunch to my delicious pizza. My mom and Dad usually choose the more traditional pizza toppings— pepperoni, peppers, olives, etc. on regular marinara, but my raving about the buffalo chicken pizza caused my Dad to give it a try on our last visit. He agreed that it was delicious. They also have a delicious concoction called Joey Sticks. Basically, it’s two pizza crusts with cheese sandwiched between them and on top. They are delicious, but it’s a lot of food (and cheese) if you’re also getting your own pizza. The décor is a nice change of pace from the traditional sit-down restaurants in Topeka. The tables each have their own television, which are all on Sports Center, which doesn’t bother me. The simple, friendly atmosphere provides an amazing eating experience. You can get a simple one-topping pizza for $5, but it’s hard to choose just one topping. In fact, it’s really easy to go overboard and end up with a pretty expensive meal when you see all of those topping choices. Still, if you stay in control and make good decisions, you can come away with a reasonably priced meal that tastes great! Pizza Pub is a great place to eat with your friends and family! I’m getting hungry right now just thinking about it. XYZ TOPEKA

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From banana clips to bolo ties and toe rings to belly chains, the children of the 80s and 90s knew how to rock an accessory, and, perhaps, no body part was as excessively embellished as the wrist. Where now might rest a single gold bangle or a classic leatherbanded watch there once was an arm so loaded down with fad jewelry it’s a wonder there aren’t rampant shoulder problems among today’s thirty-something set. FRIENDSHIP BRACELETS Friendship bracelets were perhaps the most ubiquitous and enduring of all Gen X jewelry trends. Many among us spent our tweenage Saturdays begging mom to hit up the local quilting shop so we could raid the embroidery section. Consisting of just three colored strands of embroidery floss – more, if you had the enviable skill of creating intricate designs – these teeny-tiny bracelets packed a huge fashion punch. And, good news, the friendship bracelet is still alive and well. You can buy a lot of 40 bracelets for twenty bucks on Etsy. Better yet, grab your kiddo, head to the nearest craft store, and spend a rainy day making friendship bracelets together. If you forgot how to make one, no worries: a quick search for “friendship bracelet tutorial” on YouTube yields some 50,000 results. Once you get the hang of it, braid the day away while you regale your progeny with stories of yesteryear about mythicallymonstrous bangs and how you basically invented skinny jeans by way of tight rolling. 40

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SWATCH WATCHES There is a photo in existence in which I am posed by a tree in my parents’ yard – my silken Umbro shorts glinting in the sunshine, eyes bleary from what was likely an all night Sweet Valley High read-a-thon, and my left arm akimbo proudly displaying not one, not two, not three, but FOUR wrist watches stacked one atop another from wrist to elbow. Was I some kind of financial prodigy needing to know when the markets opened in London, Tokyo, and Beijing, you ask. Not even close. I just wanted to look rad, and the quickest route to rad was on the Swatch watch express. Because today’s kids rely on a more modern form of time-telling – the check-yourphone method – it’s doubtful Swatches will ever make a substantial comeback. But you might want to unearth your old ones from your parent’s attic – some rare editions of the plastic timepieces can go for upward of a hundred dollars on Ebay. SLAP BRACELETS I imagine the inventor of the slap bracelet waking up one morning, putting on her jewelry, and saying to herself, “If only my bracelets were more painful.” And, thus, the slap bracelet was born. The thin, flexible, cloth-covered metal bracelets reflexively wrapped around the wrist when they slapped against it, and anybody who was anybody had at least five of them snaked up their arm at all times.

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I imagine the inventor of the slap bracelet waking up one morning, putting on her jewelry, and saying to herself, “If only my bracelets were more painful.” School principals across the nation were quick to rain on the violent jewelry parade, putting the kibosh on wrist slapping for sport after a 1990 New York Times article reported that, “a pupil who had removed the cloth covering required three stitches in her hand after she was cut with an exposed bracelet edge.” From then on slap bracelets were doomed to an eternity in the bottom of the vice principal’s confiscation drawer alongside a pile of undetonated stink bombs and dust-covered Chinese finger traps. JELLY BRACELETS If your kids are wild about Silly Bandz, it’s time you told them the truth: Silly Bandz are nothing but a poor man’s jelly bracelet. In true go-big-or-go-home 80s style, it was not uncommon to see a girl rocking 30 or 40 of the thin rubber bracelets at once. Madonna was credited with starting the jelly bracelet fad after wearing them in a series of music videos – a trend far more accessible than her famed conical-shaped bras. Jelly became such a hot material, in fact, that jelly purses and jelly shoes quickly followed. Lucky for you, the bracelets are still available! So why not teach your kids to shake it like a true Material Girl? Spend a few bucks on some new jellies (or dig out your old ones), queue up Madonna on your IPod, and teach them to strike a pose – there’s nothing to it. Fashion trends are cyclical. Just when you thought neon, leggings, and shoulder pads were dead, they started showing up on Kardashians, in shopping malls, and in your teenager’s closet. Sharing pictures and waxing nostalgic about your teen style is a great way to bond with your kids. Sure, they’ll probably laugh at you, but in examining your fashion artifacts from days gone by they’re sure to appreciate that, like them, you were once just a kid trying to develop your own sense of style. XYZ TOPEKA

by Brianna LaRouche – age 8 When you go to the pumpkin patch, what do you see? Because I see some pumpkins staring at me. When you walk around, what do you do? You look around for a pumpkin that’s perfect for you. When you’re at the pumpkin patch, what do you touch? You touch pumpkins that are nice, not pumpkins that are crushed. When you’re at the pumpkin patch, what do you ride? A tractor filled with grass and hay and pumpkins on the side. Our day at the pumpkin patch is finally done, I don’t want to leave, but geez that was fun!!

I Am Little by Tori Mendoza Hartley – age 7 I am little but i can do the fitte de de do de do I am little but i can wake and walk you too ooo ooo de do t t too do yes you ooo k koo I am little but I am Dan

* This is a poem my daughter, Tori, wrote in February. It

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rom learning to read to reading to learn, the library is your best source for books. Break out your library card and bring the kids in for a visit before the summer is over. We’ve got the air conditioning blasted and many, many cool books to pick from. Here are a few to get your family started.

Board/Picture Books Hop, Hop, Jump! by Lauren Thompson (ages 0-8) Get up and get moving! Join the summer camp kids in this energetic read-aloud. They’ll have you hopping, jumping, and learning new action moves. Rhyming text and exuberant pictures keep it lively. Summer Days and Nights by Wong Herbert Yee (ages 0-8) Follow a little girl as she explores the world around her during the summer months. Warm days and nights offer special ways to experience nature. Peter Spit a Seed at Sue by Jackie French Koller (ages 0-8) Summer is the season for watermelon. But it gets out of hand when two kids get into a seed-spitting contest that spreads through the entire town. Early Readers Annie and Snowball and the Book Bugs Club by Cynthia Rylant (ages 5-8) Annie and Snowball are back for more fun! Annie tries reading during the summer—outside! And at the end-of-summer picnic, Annie gets to hang out with Sarah and all her neat frilly things. 42

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Flip Flop! by Dana Meachen Rau (ages 5-8) Summer is the time for flip-flops—or is it better barefoot? It’s the time for swimming in the pool—or is it better in the ocean? Two friends find out about these and other fun summer experiences. Summer by Alice Low (ages 5-8) Revisit a summertime classic for beginning readers. Follow a boy, girl and their dog as they do all the most fun summer pastimes. Chapter Books Trout Summer by Jane Leslie Conly (ages 9-12) A brother and sister escape their parents’ failing marriage by going to a river. There they befriend an old man with much to offer, and they come to terms with their family and their own future. Ten Good and Bad Things About My Life (So Far) by Ann M. Martin (ages 9-12) In her summer scrapbook, Pearl recounts her dad losing his job and her big fight with her best friend, James. But her summer is more than peril as she rescues a cat and starts a business with her BFF after they make up. My Life As a Book by Janet Tashjian (ages 9-12) Summer vacation means one thing: summer reading. But what

if you hate reading? Derek finds out in this funny comic/novel hybrid that has mystery and suspense too. Books For Your Teen The Summer I Turned Pretty by Jenny Han (ages 12-18) 15-year-old Isabel, a.k.a. Belly, has spent every summer at the beach. But something’s different this summer. Belly has an interest in one boy, while another has an interest in her. Three Songs for Courage by Maxine Trottier (ages 12-18) It’s the summer, 1956, in the small town of Erie View on Lake Erie in Ontario. Gordon has the car, the girl, and the friends. Yet this summer will be an intensely dark one for him. Tragedy and humor, friends and family will help Gordon keep his head above water. Swim the Fly by Don Calame (ages 12-18) Matt and his two best friends set an ambitious goal for this summer as they do every summer. But this year’s goal will take quite a lot of courage. And Matt’s personal summer goal of swimming the 100-yard butterfly might take even more. XYZ TOPEKA

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ake the kids on a road trip this summer. Keep them stocked with books, toys and snacks with this handy car organizer!

1/2 yard: Medium to Heavy-weight Cotton/Linen or Laminated Fabric 1 yard: Lightweight to Medium-weight Cotton Print 1 yard: 1”-wide Medium-weight Webbing Front & Back Organizer – Cut 2 15” x 20 1/2” (finished 14”w x 19 1/2”h) Front Pockets – Cut 1 each Lower Pocket (1): 18”w x 12”h (finished 14”w x 5 1/2”h) Back Lower Pocket (2): 15”w x 18”h (finished 14”w x 8 1/2”w) Middle Pocket (3): 18”w x 8”h (finished 14”w x 4”h) Left Upper Pocket – Water Bottle (4): 8”w x 14”h (finished 4”w x 4 1/2”h) Right Upper Pocket (5): 10”w x 10”h (finished 6”w x 4 1/2”h) Use 1/2” seam allowance. 1. To create a self-lining, fold Back Lower Pocket (2) in half lengthwise. Press fold. 2. Fold Lower Pocket (1) in half lengthwise. Press fold. 3. Create two ½” pleats (A) on left side of Lower Pocket. Press pleats in place. 4. Position Lower Pocket on top of Back Lower Pocket, aligning lower edges and sides. Attach pockets together using long basting stitches. 5. Divide width of Lower Pocket, stitching down along centerline on Lower Pocket only.

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6. Attach both Lower Pockets to Front Organizer (B) using long basting stitches. 7. Fold Middle Pocket (3) in half lengthwise. Press fold. Fold in lower raw edges ½” to the wrong side to enclose. Stitch lower edge to Front Organizer. 8. Baste Middle Pocket to Front Organizer (B) along sides. 9. Fold Left Upper Pocket (1) in half lengthwise. Press fold. Fold in sides and lower raw edges ½” to the wrong side to enclose all edges. 10. Create two ½” pleats (A) at center of Left Upper Pocket. Press pleats in place.

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11. To create box bottom, find 2” positions (C) from lower corners. Right sides together, stitch lower corners together along stitching line. Trim seam allowance. Turn box bottom to right side. Repress pleats. 12. Stitch Left Upper Pocket to Front Organizer (B) along sides and lower edge. 13. Fold Right Upper Pocket (5) in half lengthwise. Press fold. Create two ½” pleats (A) at center of Right Upper Pocket. Press pleats in place. 14. Fold in sides and lower raw edges ½” to the wrong side to enclose all edges. Stitch Right Upper Pocket to Front Organizer (B) along sides and lower edge. 15. Cut Webbing in half, creating two straps. Line up raw edges of webbing to raw edge of Front Organizer (B). Webbing tails hang towards bag. Baste each strap to Front Organizer 2” from each side along top edge. 16. Right sides together, stitch Front Organizer to Back Organizer along all four edges. Leave a 5” opening along the bottom edge. Press seam allowances towards bag. Make sure to press corners. Turn bag right side out through opening. (A) See Pleating Chart on Middle Pocket (3) for pleating instructions. (B) See Organizer Layout for pocket positioning and webbing placement. (C) See Left Upper Pocket (5) for instructions. XYZ TOPEKA

While eating Fun Dip together, my seven year old just called me her “Fun Dip Buddy” and I said “I thought you were Daddy’s Fun Dip Buddy (because that is something they do together occasionally.) And she quickly corrected me, “No, he’s Fart Buddy.” – submitted by Megan Sophia, do you know what you want to wear to Jimmy’s birthday party? “My birthday suit,” Sophia (age 5). – submitted by Melissa

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Natalie started crying the other night when she was supposed to be going to sleep. I asked her what was wrong-she said, “I just don’t think Kyndol and Tristan can be my bff ’s anymore!” I said “What? Why is that?” “well, my name has three syllables and they only have two! We have nothing in common!!!” She was dead serious! I think she MIGHT be a little dramatic. – submitted by Adrianne I was in the bathroom at Gage Park Train depot this weekend with my 3-year old. We had finished washing our hands and as I turned to get a paper towel, I hear: “Mom, I accidentally licked the sink.” Horrified, I asked him how his tongue got out of his mouth. He told me “It just popped out of my mouth” – submitted by Barbara “I’d hate to live in a house made of candy, ‘cause I bet the toilet is pretty gross.” Finnegan (age 8) – submitted by Shannon My four-year old tends to never allow my wife to use the bathroom by herself EVER. At an inopportune time of the month, my wife waved me away with her hand and my daughter defiantly replied “Leave us alone, Daddy! The girls have our periods!” – submitted by Travis At a recent trip to the zoo, I inquired to my 4-year old, Willie if he was ready to go. He looked at me with a sight and said “I guess as ready as I’ll ever be…” - submitted by Eileen

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