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Imani Rupert-Gordon Shares Vision for NCLR

In the News SF First in Nation to Fund Services for Transgender Older Adults and Adults with Disabilities San Francisco on February 10 became the first city in the nation to fund services specifically for transgender and gender-nonconforming (TGNC) older adults and adults with disabilities, according to a press release from the SF Human Services Agency that was shared with the San Francisco Bay Times by columnist and Openhouse Co-Founder Dr. Marcy Adelman. The services will focus on providing programming and social services for these populations in a supportive and gender-affirming environment.

The Department of Disability and Aging Services (DAS) has granted approximately $1 million over three years to create programs centered on fostering community, creating social connections, and addressing unmet social service needs for TGNC seniors and adults with disabilities.

“We are proud that San Francisco continues to lead the country in providing comprehensive programs and policies that support our LGBTQ community,” said Mayor London Breed. “This first of its kind program will provide much needed support tailored for trans seniors and adults with disabilities who often experience higher rates of discrimination and isolation.”

The DAS conducted a Community Needs Assessment that found LGBTQ+ populations participate in DAS services at lower rates than the overall population. Participation in these services is even less for the City’s older and disabled TGNC residents.

For TGNC older adults and adults with disabilities, there is an added layer of complexity in accessing services. Experiences of stigma or discrimination have contributed to an environment of mistrust, especially in health and social service settings.

People often feel safer and more comfortable participating in services with other TGNC community members or at organizations that employ TGNC staff.

The DAS is partnering with nonprofit community providers Openhouse and Curry Senior Center to create these vital support programs.

“We are so excited to be able to provide services for transgender communities of older people and adults with disabilities,” said Shireen McSpadden, Executive Director of the DAS. “These programs will help bring our neighbors into supportive services and connect them with resources that will help them age with dignity within their communities.”

“Trans rights today are due to the efforts of our trans seniors who paved the way for equality,” said Clair Farley, Director of the Office of Trans Initiatives. “We owe it to them and the future of our movement to ensure our communities can age with dignity and joy. Our elders deserve to age connected with their chosen family, in San Francisco, the city they love and call home.”

“We hear from TGNC seniors that the current system of care does not meet their needs or support aging in community,” said Dr. Karyn Skultety, Executive Director of Openhouse. “We are grateful to DAS and the City of San Francisco for investing in change, and we intend to better serve TGNC older adults by listening and following the leadership of the TGNC community.

We are deeply fortunate to have trans-led organizational partners working beside us, and we are beyond thankful to the TGNC communities and seniors who are giving us a chance to better serve the community.”

“We are grateful for the City’s ongoing investment in our trans community,” said Toni Newman, Executive Director of the St. James Infirmary.

“Together with Openhouse, Curry Senior Center, and our partners, we are working to ensure trans and gender-nonconforming seniors and trans adults with disabilities have access to inclusive housing and vital resources so our communities can thrive at any age.”

For more information, please visit: DAS Benefits and Resource Hub: https://bit.ly/2H9DWPl Openhouse: https://openhouse-sf.org/ Curry Senior Center: https://curryseniorcenter.org/ AIDS Memorial Quilt Panels Arrive in Bay Area, Volunteers Needed Numerous panels from the AIDS Memorial Quilt are being transported from Atlanta to the Bay Area this month and will be stored at a warehouse near the Oakland Airport. Kelly Rivera Hart for the National AIDS Memorial shares that “some strong, able-bodied, and energetic folks” are needed “to help unload and shelve it. There are three big trucks coming over the next three weeks and we will have teams of four volunteers doing two shifts each day that trucks are scheduled to arrive.” The dates are: 2/14, 2/15, 2/16, 2/18, 2/19, 2/20, 2/21, 2/22, and 2/23. The shifts will be from 10 am–2 pm and from 1pm–5 pm. Be a part of history in welcoming the Quilt back home! The panels sent back to the Bay Area will go on display at Golden Gate Park April 3–5.

If interested in volunteering, contact Hart at angelhart47@gmail.com Governor Newsom Posthumously Pardons Bayard Rustin, Announces Clemency Initiative Governor Gavin Newsom on February 5 launched a new clemency initiative to pardon people who were prosecuted in California for being gay. The move was inspired by a legislative call to pardon Bayard Rustin, a humanitarian and civil rights leader who was convicted of a misdemeanor vagrancy offense for consensual adult sexual activity. In launching the new clemency initiative, Governor Newsom issued Rustin a posthumous pardon. “In California and across the country, many laws have been used as legal tools of oppression, and to stigmatize and punish LGBTQ people and communities and warn others what harm could await them for living authentically,” said Governor Newsom. “I thank those who advocated for Bayard Rustin’s pardon, and I want to encourage others in similar situations to seek a pardon to right this egregious wrong.” On August 8, 2013, then President Barack Obama posthumously awarded Rustin, who died in 1987, the Presidential Medal of Freedom, describing him as “an unyielding activist for civil rights, dignity, and equality for all.” The full clemency initiative executive order may be viewed at https://bit.ly/2w0uOdJ SF Pride Names New Executive Director Following a nationwide search for a new leader, the San Francisco Pride Celebration Committee on January 31 named longtime member Fred Lopez as its newest Executive Director. Lopez joined the organization in 2016, working as a contractor with the SF Pride Parade Team. In 2017, he became a staff member as Communications Manager and last July was named (continued on page 26) S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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Photos courtesy of NCLR and Imani Rupert-Gordon

Welcome NCLR’s New Executive Director at the 2020 Anniversary Celebration NCLR’s Anniversary Celebration for 2020 will be on Saturday, May 30, at the Marriott Marquis in San Francisco. There guests will be able to welcome the organization’s newly named Executive Director, Imani Rupert-Gordon, at her first such celebration in this leadership role. The evening will begin with a 3-course seated dinner for 1500 guests, followed by a party at the Metreon City View (ages 21+). For sponsor and ticket information, go to: https://bit.ly/3bn0xWP

Imani Rupert-Gordon Shares Plans for NCLR Ahead of Organization’s New Era On March 16, Imani RupertGordon will assume leadership of the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR), launching a new era for the 43-year-old LGBTQ legal organization. The announcement of her selection on December 17 of last year came after a lengthy search during interim leadership by Cindy Myers preceded by San Francisco Bay Times columnist Kate Kendell’s 22 impressive years at the organization’s helm.

Expectations are high for the talented Rupert-Gordon, who currently serves as the Executive Director of Affinity Community Services, the nation’s oldest social justice organization serving the needs of Black LGBTQ people with a particular focus on Black women. She previously served as the Director of the Broadway Youth Center, a division of Howard Brown Health in Chicago, which has served more than 1,500 LGBTQ youth experiencing homelessness and housing instability. She has been widely recognized for her visionary leadership in the LGBTQ community. Most recently, the Illinois Human Rights Commission presented her with its 2019 Activism Award.

“NCLR could not ask for a stronger leader to take the helm at this critical moment in our movement’s history,” said NCLR Legal Director Shannon Minter. “I have known and admired Imani for many years. I am thrilled to have this chance to work directly with such a brilliant and compassionate advocate who understands the complexity of the issues facing LGBTQ people and the need for creative and sophisticated new strategies to address them.”

NCLR Founder Donna Hitchens shares Minter’s view. “When I founded NCLR in 1977, I never could have imagined the leadership it would have,” Hitchens said. “I cannot wait to see what Imani RupertGordon does for the organization.

She has my full support and I know she will likewise take NCLR to new heights with ever greater relevance, impact, and consequence.”

Billy DeFrank LGBT Center in San Jose.

Although RupertGordon is busy with work and preparations for her and her wife Derah’s move to the Bay Area, she generously took time for an interview.

San Francisco Bay Times: Congratulations on being selected as the new Executive Director for the NCLR. What is your first memory of conFrom speaking at major events to bringing her leadership skills to staff meetnecting with the ings, Imani Rupert-Gordon brings wide-ranging experience to NCLR. organization?

Imani RupertGordon: Although I’ve been familiar with the organization for years, my most significant memory of NCLR was when my sister Maya started working there. Maya was the Policy Director at NCLR from 2010– 2015. Through my sister, I began to have a more nuanced appreciation and respect for the work that NCLR does. I continued to be astounded by NCLR’s conviction and leadership— all while managing to work so effectively in coalition. They bring people in, and I just love that. And then I went to the gala affectionately known as Lesbian Prom. I was sold.

San Francisco Bay Times: Who are some of your mentors and role models, and how did they help to inspire your life and work?

Imani Rupert-Gordon: Oh, my goodness, I have too many role models to name. I feel very fortunate; so many people have invested in me, and taught me something. I believe in having mentors at all ages, and one of my mentors is 15 years younger than me. In the most beautiful ways, she’s inspiring me how to be more present. This is changing my perspective in everything that I do.

Rupert-Gordon is no stranger to California and to the Bay Area, given that she earned her bachelor’s degree in sociology from UC Santa Barbara, and later worked for 8 years as a lecturer and developed campus-wide programming at UC Santa Cruz. There she co-founded the Social Fiction Conference, a co-curricular program at the university’s Crown College that helped students to dismantle biases and to examine issues of social justice through science fiction, gaming, and fantasy.

She also completed a fellowship at the Rockwood Leadership Institute in Oakland, and served as a board member and lead grant writer for the

Another mentor once taught me to treat everyone like you have something to learn from them. When you treat someone like they have something to teach you, they usually do.

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These things help me to create space in my life so that I have the capacity to lead with grace and I think that is important.

San Francisco Bay Times: The prior NCLR leadership all came from legal backgrounds.

You bring unique experience, coming more from social work, but also having plenty of legal savvy through that. How do you hope your life and work experi-

ence will help to evolve NCLR and its projects?

Imani Rupert-Gordon: I think something that will be recognizable is how we set the organization up for success. I plan to support a strong infrastructure at NCLR so that we will be in the best position possible to support our community.

In addition, I’m of course excited to bring a new perspective to the way that NCLR supports our community.

NCLR is known for high impact litigation, but given my experience, I think I’ll be able to provide a value add by deepening the impact of our public education, strengthening our policy agenda, and helping to support strategic legislation to benefit our community. I want to see our movement do a better job at representing all of us, so I will be invested in creating a more intersectional approach to all of our work.

San Francisco Bay Times: We understand the inherent importance of intersectionality. But with so many other organizations already devoted to various LGBT and social justice issues, how can NCLR continue to embrace intersectionality while still keeping the particular needs of lesbians as a focus?

Imani Rupert-Gordon: This is a question I get a lot. In my current position as the Executive Director for Affinity Community Services, we serve the entire LGBTQ+ community with an emphasis on serving Black LGBTQ+ women.

Organizations like Affinity, NCLR, and more are at the core our movement. Systematic discrimination is pervasive, so if organizations aren’t intentionally highlighting the experience of the most underrepresented individuals within an already underrepresented community, then our fights won’t include their most

salient needs. Many of us have been left out of the LGBTQ+ movement and we are terrified of being erased.

Organizations like NCLR are making sure that doesn’t happen.

It is also incredibly important to recognize and acknowledge the shared ideologies and perspectives that we have with other people and organizations. Our work at NCLR is inextricably linked with everyone doing work to prevent discrimination. Reproductive justice is a lesbian issue. When someone is discriminated against on the basis of gender, that is a lesbian issue. Access to safe, affordable, accessible, and affirming health care is a lesbian issue. People living in poverty, or the wage gap preventing people from receiving a fair wage, are all very much lesbian issues. And there are organizations doing all this work. But that doesn’t mean it’s not our work too. So often we’re asked how we are going to support the LGBTQ+ community. I think this is how we are going to do it. Our work has always been intertwined and working in coalition to get to our collective liberation is how I think it will happen.

Finally, I want to mention that the work of NCLR has always, and will always, support the needs of lesbians.

Using an intersectional approach to the work doesn’t work to the detriment of lesbians. We’re all better when we’re all better, and NCLR will be part of achieving liberation for all of us.

San Francisco Bay Times: Racism, sexism, ageism, and issues related to income inequality still exist within our LGBT community, much less in society as a whole. How do you hope that the LGBTQ community will evolve such that these problems are minimized and addressed?

Imani Rupert-Gordon: We fall into a trap when we assume that discrimination based on identity doesn’t happen in the LGBTQ+ community. We have to address this structural oppression because it prevents LGBTQ+ people who also experience discrimination related to another part of their identity from achieving equity. It is my hope that while we recognize that every issue is an LGBTQ+ issue, that racial justice, gender justice, economic justice, and other forms of justice have to be part of LGBTQ+ liberation. Our movements are inherently linked and part of our work will be making sure we are finding ways to include more people in our victories.

San Francisco Bay Times: 2020 promises to be a roller coaster year politically. How do you plan to direct NCLR, given all of the political unknowns ahead of us that can affect legal and other outcomes?

Imani Rupert-Gordon: I think it will be important to remain nimble (continued on page 5)

NCLR’s New Chapter and a Great Future

By Kate Kendell, Esq.

In October 1994, I moved from Utah, a state I’d lived in for most of my life, to take the job as Legal Director at the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR). From the jump, this town welcomed me, embraced me, supported me, challenged me, and gave me some of the most awe-inspiring moments of my life.

From 1996–2018 I was Executive Director of NCLR; it was and always will be the job of a lifetime. But after 22 years and a million amazing moments, it was time to move on to other adventures.

I left behind a brilliant and dedicated staff. In the year since I left, NCLR has continued to do incredible, groundbreaking legal and policy work.

The Board launched a search for a new leader and two months ago announced that Imani RupertGordon would be the new NCLR Executive Director.

When I heard the news shortly before it was public, my heart swelled. Imani is a good friend and colleague, and will be an inspiring new leader for both NCLR and the entire LGBTQ+ movement.

Washington, D.C., office for many years before she joined the Obama administration in his second term.

I’ve had a chance to both observe and work with Imani many times. From my own experience, I’ve long believed that the key attributes for successful leadership are humility, transparency, and courage. Imani possesses all of these in large amounts.

The future success of our movement will require an unprecedented level of collaboration and confronting the challenges of race and racism.

When I started at NCLR, our founder and iconic leader Donna Hitchens and her beloved successor Roberta Achtenberg embraced me with open arms. They both made clear to me that they believed in me and were my champions. Their support was the secret sauce to my belief in myself and my early success. I intend to pay that support forward both for the success of Imani and the ongoing growth and success of NCLR. Donna and Roberta would often tell me they never imagined NCLR would become the organization it did and how proud they were.

In this issue of the San Francisco Bay Times you will read more about Imani, her life, and journey, and how lucky we and our movement are to have had her make the move from Chicago to San Francisco to lead NCLR.

Likewise, I cannot imagine the inspiring ways NCLR will, again, change and challenge our movement and the impact it will have. I know under Imani’s leadership NLCR will be a force to be reckoned with. I cannot wait to support and wildly cheer this new, needed, and fantastic leader.

Imani is no stranger to the Bay Area or to NCLR. She has roots in Northern California and a longtime association with NCLR. Imani’s sister Maya was NCLR’s Federal Policy Director in our

Kate Kendell, Esq., is the former Executive Director of the National Center for Lesbian Rights and now works with Take Back the Court and the Southern Poverty Law Center.

Imani RupertGordon interviewing the author at a book launch event

(continued from page 4) in our approaches and steadfast in our convictions. We may find ourselves in a situation where the most strategic ways to provide protections for our community are not through traditional avenues. One of the reasons that NCLR has been able to be effective for so long is that we rely on different strategies to meet the needs of our community. More than an ever, it will be important for us to utilize creative and innovative approaches to support our community.

San Francisco Bay Times: Will you be based out of San Francisco?

We know that you already have strong ties to the Bay Area and California.

Imani Rupert-Gordon: I will be moving back to the Bay Area in early March. My wife and I fell in love in San Francisco, so this move feels a bit like coming home. We’re excited to visit some of our old favorite spots! My wife and I met at Mango, the tea dance, so we’re thrilled to hear that it’s still happening.

My mom lives in southern California, so it will be nice to be closer to her as well.

San Francisco Bay Times: Outside of work, what are some of your favorite things to do here in the Bay Area?

Imani Rupert-Gordon: So many things! My wife and I love stand-up comedy. It’s fun to follow the careers of local comedians and then see them on larger stages. We also love the food in the Bay Area. We have some great memories at Swan’s Oyster Depot, and this small place with the best duck noodle soup–I can’t think of the name, but I know exactly where it is! I’ve lived in Chicago for 9 years now, so I’m also excited about some warm weather!

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March 3 Primary: The Second Most Important Election Day of Your Life

Well-Behaved Women Seldom Make History Louise “Lou” Fischer November 3, 2020, will be the most important Election Day ever for every living, breathing human being in the United States and probably the world. The second-most important day is California’s upcoming Primary Election on March 3, 2020. After 3+ years of sheer powerlessness, on March 3, we finally get a teeny-tiny modicum of control (for however much longer this country remains a democracy) to pick a candidate, such as Elizabeth Warren, who will hopefully topple the lying, cheating, scheming, “impeached for life” megalomaniacal demagogue who is our current president.

If you live in San Francisco, local and state elections comprise the usual uncontested races, a few sleepy ballot measures and a “once every four years” crazy extravaganza for the little-known Democratic County Central Committee—known as the “D-triple-C” or DCCC—in which political nerds fight it out on a woefully unlevel playing field for the prize of “representing the Party.” If you are registered as a “Decline to State” voter, make sure to request a Democratic crossover ballot, otherwise you won’t be able to vote for Elizabeth Warren for president or for candidates running for DCCC. ( https://sfelections.sfgov.org/ ) Here are my suggestions and some predictions for San Francisco. And as I say before every election, don’t blow this off. Every vote counts.

U.S. President I like Elizabeth Warren; she’s a brilliant policy wonk, former teacher, and professor, so she knows how to explain things. However, I think

California will go either to Bernie Sanders or Joe Biden—dramatically different ends of the Democratic spectrum, but this country still loves old, white men. I love my 89-yearold father; he is old, white, and even though he too is a brilliant academic at Yale University, I wouldn’t vote for him for president. Although if it meant beating Trump, I’d vote for a rodeo clown for president with a barrel-man for a running mate. So, go ahead Dad; if the deadline hasn’t passed to get on the Connecticut ballot, I totally support you!

U.S. Congress Vote for Nancy Pelosi if you live in congressional district 12 (and then grab the nearest sheaf of papers and rip them up ceremoniously with glee) and Jackie Speier if you live in CD 14.

California State Races Former Alice B. Toklas Co-Chair State Senator Scott Wiener has 2 opponents: one is a Republican and the other is a young (25) Native American, Mexicana, progressive queer educator and organizer. I’m all for young, radical women jumping in and running for office, but I’m going to stick with Scott, who holds one of the most progressive records in the entire State Legislature. Also, I’m a networking and power nerd and Senator Wiener’s record on net neutrality and his plan for public takeover of PG&E appeal to me. I also believe in “dancing with the one that brung ya,” and I’ve been dancing (cheek to belt buckle) with Scott for over 20 years.

In the Assembly, vote for David Chiu (AD 17) and Phil Ting (AD 19). They are running unopposed so there’s no suspense in those races.

Superior Court Judge (3 seats) This race is San Francisco’s “made for TV” moment—6 telegenic, intelligent and well-spoken women, 5 of whom are women of color, running for 3 open seats. The last time I was this excited about a woman becoming a judge was when Supreme Court nominee Elena Kagan cut off Senator Lindsey Graham’s incessant questioning of her whereabouts on Christmas by proudly stating that “like all Jews, I was probably at a Chinese restaurant.” I’ve met with all 6 candidates and I wish I could vote for all of them, but that’s not how an election works.

Seat #1, I like Maria Elena Evangelista; Seat #18, I like Dorothy Chou Proudfoot; and for Seat #21, I like Kulvinder “Rani” Singh. I might be writing more about them in October, because if no candidate receives more than 50% of the votes, the top 2 candidates (in this case, the only 2 in each race) compete in a runoff in the general election in November.

State and Local Propositions Proposition 13: Bonds for Public Schools - Vote YES This authorizes $15 billion in state bonds for construction and modernization of public education facilities.

Have you seen the condition of California public schools, community colleges, and universities? Don’t ever vote against education.

Prop A: City College Facilities Bond - Vote YES Sure, it’s a lot of money ($845 million sale of bonds), but upgrades and investment in new facilities are long overdue. Don’t ever vote against education.

Prop B: Earthquake Bond Vote YES This authorizes $628.5 million in bonds to retrofit emergency facilities and infrastructure. I work on Emergency Measure proceedings for a State regulator and it’s a conflict of interest to say much more, other than you should vote YES because a big earthquake is coming, so <redacted> and also <redacted> and furthermore, <redacted> <redacted> <redacted>, you get my drift.

Prop C: Retiree Health Care Benefits for Former Housing Authority Employees - Vote YES Short story is that 25 mostly lowincome and at-risk residents will get screwed out of health benefits because of an idiotic rule in the City Charter that can only be modified by a ballot measure. Vote Yes. Prop D: Vacancy Tax - Vote YES This is a tax on neighborhood commercial vacancies; it isn’t perfect, but we have to start somewhere. The measure is written to protect small

businesses and landlords and will allow for amendments as circumstances change. I was in the Castro last week and was appalled and saddened by all the empty storefronts.

Maybe this will help.

Vote the Grassroots Slate (* Indicates LGBT Candidate) Assembly District 17 (East Side) Kristen Asato-Webb* Nima Rahimi Mike Chen Austin Hunter* Tyra Fennell Victor Olivieri Mick Del Rosario Carole Migden* Bivett Brackett Tami Bryant Vallie Brown Steven Buss Nancy Tung

Prop E: Limits on Office Development - Vote NO This is a controversial measure; it links the approval of new office development to the construction of affordable housing.

As a housing advocate, I was originally going to vote Yes, until I studied the impact and saw that it was a big Catch-22. The proposition’s sponsors are delusional if they think that limiting job growth will make San Francisco more affordable. It is the “George Costanza opposite theory” of housing policy, because reducing office development would also reduce impact fees that pay for the affordable housing and therefore would produce less affordable housing, not more. Don’t be swayed, vote No.

Assembly District 19 (West Side) Cyn Wang* Jane Natoli* Kat Anderson Mary Jung Mawuli Tugbenyoh* Nadia Rahman Seeyew Mo Suzy Loftus

ing on the DCCC. Vote for the following grassroots candidates: By the Numbers 19 - Days until the March 3 primary (from publication date) 20 - Democratic candidates for president on the SF ballot 9 - Well-known candidates that are still running (as of this writing) 6/22 - June 22, Elizabeth Warren’s birthday (vote for Elizabeth)

Democratic County Central Committee

35 - AD 17 DCCC candidates on the Ballot

The DCCC’s purpose is to register voters, raise money, organize voters; generally the work of hardworking grassroots organizers who want to participate in Democratic politics. It’s not supposed to be taken over by elected officials with big name recognition who use the DCCC as a slush fund to raise unlimited contributions and set themselves up for future endorsements.

14 - Seats available

In this election, there are 56 candidates running for 24 seats (14 seats in AD-17 and 10 in AD-19). In AD-17 (east side of the city), 11 candidates out of 35 are either current or former elected officials; that leaves 3 seats for the “regular folks.” This is demoralizing for the grassroots candidates who know they can’t win against a sitting Supervisor. I’m not going to name names, but 4 candidates represent some of the most challenging districts in the City, and I’d sure rather have them focusing on openair drug dealing, homelessness, and car break-ins rather than volunteer-

6 - Elected officials holding other offices that are running for DCCC in AD 17 5 - Former elected officials with big name recognition running in AD 17 21 - Total number of AD 19 DCCC candidates on the Ballot 10 - Number of seats available 6 - Elected officials holding other offices who are running for DCCC in AD 17 Louise (Lou) Fischer is a Former Co-Chair of the Board of Directors for the Alice B. Toklas LGBT Democratic Club and has served as an appointed and elected Delegate for the State Democratic Party. She is a proud graduate of the Emerge California Women’s Democratic Leadership program, was a San Francisco Commissioner, and has served in leadership positions in multiple nonprofit and communitybased organizations.

A City, and a Party, Worth Fighting For justice activist, drawn to this countercultural, idealistic little city that seemed hell bent on being one thing and one thing only: itself. In an instant, I knew it was for me.

To the Left, To the Left Peter Gallotta If someone had told me 15 years ago that one day I would be living in San Francisco and running for elected office, I would have told them they had the wrong person. For a million reasons, I never thought this would be my life story. Yet in October of last year, I found myself in the basement of City Hall officially pulling papers to run for the San Francisco Democratic County Central Committee (DCCC).

Not long after, I found myself showing up every Wednesday afternoon for my first volunteer gig: handing out literature to passersby at the Castro Farmers’ Market. Weeks before, I had met a man named Rafael Mandelman, who I quickly learned was running for Supervisor in the Castro District for the first time. I had never met an LGBT politician before, much less a candidate for office who was talking about the need for social and economic justice. I decided to help out.

I moved to San Francisco ten years ago because I wanted to be a part of creating social change. I came, like many before me, as a queer social

Like clockwork, every Wednesday, myself and another volunteer, Donna, would set up an ironing board with literature and campaign signs and we would talk to voters.

I knew very little about San Francisco politics, other than some notable names: Willie Brown, Dianne Feinstein, Harvey Milk (of course).

In between solicitations, Donna, who was also a New York transplant and had lived in San Francisco for a long

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time, would school me on who was who in progressive politics. During one of her lessons, I remember her talking about this thing called the “D-triple-C.” I had no idea what it meant.

I realize it now, but being at that farmers’ market every week, I got to do something that I loved: talk to people about the issues they cared about. Standing out there on those cold, windy afternoons, I listened and I learned. I pitched people on my ideas. And I heard theirs, too. I savored every “Yes, I’ll vote for him” response. And picked myself back up after every stern “No.” I registered countless friends and strangers to vote, and armed them with voter guides and directions on where and when to vote. I stood out there, week after week, not because it was particularly fun or easy, but because I believed it mattered. I believed the San Francisco I loved was worth fighting for.

Last Saturday morning, I found myself standing on the periphery of the Noe Valley Farmers’ Market on 24th Street. No ironing board this time, but just with campaign literature in tow, I greeted the morning

passersby. “Hi, I’m Peter Gallotta, and I’m running for the San Francisco Democratic County Central Committee.”

While it’s still hard for me to believe that I’m a candidate now, what hasn’t changed all these years later is my belief that every election, and every vote, matters.

The “D-triple-C,” as I now know, is one of those elected bodies that few voters are readily familiar with or even aware of. One of the most common questions I have been asked by friends and family during this campaign is, “What are you running for again?”

The Democratic County Central Committee is better known, colloquially, as the San Francisco Democratic Party or “the Party.” Every county in California actually has local “county committees” for established political parties. When Democratic candidates are running for local office and want the endorsement of the Democratic Party, the 24 elected members of the body, who collectively represent over 280,000 Democrats, get to vote on who gets endorsed. In a deep blue city like San Francisco, that’s a pretty big deal, but it’s not all the DCCC does.

The San Francisco Democratic Party is about our values. What do we stand for as San Francisco Democrats? Do we stand with profitdriven developers and the real estate lobby, or do we stand with tenants and communities at risk of displacement? Do we stand up to big corporations like JUUL, or do we let them try to buy an election? Will we look the other way, or will we hold the wealthiest corporations accountable and ask that they pay their fair share for housing, homelessness, and supportive services for those who need them?

That is why I’m running for the DCCC on March 3, 2020. I believe we need a San Francisco Democratic Party that’s beholden to the community, not to corporate interests. We need a Party that is going to stand up to the status quo and push for bold, transformative change for our city, and our country.

In 2017, I had the honor of being appointed to the DCCC by thenChair Cindy Wu, and I have relished this opportunity to serve. Over the past three years, I am proud to have sponsored or co-authored over 40 resolutions ensuring that our Party (continued on page 27)

We Are So NOT in Iowa Anymore down the road to kick off the primary picks. What’s wrong with Michigan?

How about Ohio?

Seriously. We are so not in Iowa anymore. We haven’t been for a long, long time, and most certainly not in the past 3–4 years. The top arguments for a move out of Iowa are obvious, painfully tiresome even, but warrant to be heard, and I quote:

Cross Currents Andrea Shorter Yes, we are still in an ad nauseam whine-a-thon loop about the total breakdown in Iowa’s long awaited Democratic Presidential Primary Caucus vote pick last week. Yes, it was and reverberates as a spectacular disaster for the Democrats’ Primary race. Yes, it could not have occurred at a worse time—one day after the closing arguments in the Senate impeachment trial, the day of the most disgraceful State of the Union Address/Reality TV/Game Show in history, the day after Trump was expectedly acquitted by his goosestepping cultish allegiant Republican majority Senate.

And, yes, even with Iowa’s pretty impressive track record of picking Democratic candidates who would go on to be the Party’s nominee— and a few notably became president, like one Senator Barack Hussein Obama—it’s time that Democrats pack up the big tent caucus circus in the Hawkeye State, and move on

“Iowa hardly represents the diverse demographic trends of the Democratic Party.”

“The state is one of the whitest states with 91% white population, barely 4% African American, barely 3% Asian, and apparently no Hispanics.”

racist? I don’t think so. Does its lack of a pronounced LGBT center or movement make it wholly homo- or transphobic? Probably not.

After all, Mayor Pete landed in a tight, neck-in-neck drawn-out virtual tie with Bernie to claim the first-place mantle. Still, even as the population gravitates towards more college town and urban center dwelling, that doesn’t necessarily translate into the inherent diversity that the Democratic Party purports to represent.

“In all of the media coverage in Iowa, I didn’t see a singular person of color, or anyone LGBTQ identified, well, other than (Presidential Candidate) Mayor Pete,” et cetera.

In addition to racial and ethnic diversity that reflects burgeoning demographic minority-majority population trends, it would be great to hold the first Democratic presidential primary and caucus events in a midwestern pace that also has a healthily represented LGBTQ community. It won’t be California for a good long while, if ever. So, again, what’s wrong with Michigan? If we have to go southward, what about Florida?

For five decades when Iowa caucusing became the first stop along the primary voting season, the grassroots, folksy, kick-the-tires appeal of meeting candidates up close and personal in living rooms, school gymnasiums, and county fairs was as nostalgic as it was idealistic.

Look, I suppose after 3 years in waiting and 2 years of presidential campaigning, lack of training on newfangled technologies, and just plain ditching newfangled apps by mostly elder caucus and precinct leaders can happen to anybody at such a critical, high stakes vote tally, right?

Historically, Iowa has actually been a fairly progressive midwestern agrarian state on civil rights, women’s rights, and, as the third midwestern state to permit same sex marriage in 2009. However, Iowa has never been anywhere close to being racially diverse, and doesn’t appear to become so anytime soon. Does that make the majority white state overtly

If so, this was the most daunting time in American electoral history for this unacceptable blunder to have occurred. Given the suppression tactics and anxieties abounding about the integrity and security of our local, state, and federal election processes during this particularly lawless, careless, and vindictive President’s welcome of foreign interference in

“Does anyone really understand the bizarre byzantine caucus process?”

elections—for which he is now impeached, forever!—the nostalgic folksy, coffee klatch caucusing days of Iowa should be no more in 2024.

We are now in the Stranger Things upside down with an impeached, but not removed, dangerously unbound President who managed to bend the will of the Constitution to as close as possible to a snap into a monarchical rule, with an early yet, but wobbling, cast of presidential hopefuls to defeat him in November.

The primary campaign train has moved on to New Hampshire, soon to Nevada, California, and so on. Let’s hope Democrats can get back on solid track for a confident, solidly diverse coalition to finally knock his majesty off his golden throne.

Moving onward and upward, thank goodness, we are not in Iowa anymore.

Andrea Shorter is a Commissioner and the former President of the historic San Francisco Commission on the Status of Women. She is a longtime advocate for criminal and juvenile justice reform, voter rights and marriage equality. A Co-Founder of the Bayard Rustin LGBT Coalition, she was a 2009 David Bohnett LGBT Leadership Fellow at the Harvard Kennedy School of Government.

Negotiating Meiwaku and Getting Your Fair Share of Rice substantive legal rights, they hold symbolic value not just for the couples themselves but also as a signal to the nation of growing governmental support for LGBT rights.

Activists are pressing hard in the lead up to the 2020 Tokyo Summer Olympics to increase the number of places that offer certificates.

6/26 and Beyond Stuart Gaffney and John Lewis We’ve just returned from a wonderful two weeks in Japan, where we gave talks on marriage equality, HIV/AIDS, and LGBTIQ rights, and met with fellow activists. We spoke to hundreds of students, professors, activists, and businesspeople, who showed great interest. The New York Times recently reported a “‘boom’ in LGBT awareness” in Japan, citing recent polling showing that nearly 80 percent of Japanese under age 60 now support marriage equality.

The “boom” was immediately evident to us. When we first gave marriage equality talks in Japan seven years ago, we asked a class of university students whether they personally knew someone LGBT. Barely anyone raised their hand.

When we asked the same question two weeks ago, many hands popped up, with one woman telling the class that she knew an LGBT person because, in fact, she was one herself.

Seven years ago, nowhere in Japan offered partnership certificates to same-sex couples. During our trip, Osaka Prefecture, with a population of nearly 9 million people, began issuing certificates, meaning that 20 percent of Japanese now live in places that offer certificates.

Although the certificates offer few

And a year ago, a diverse group of same-sex couples filed marriage equality lawsuits across the country.

The influential Japan Federation of Bar Associations, a legal regulatory authority, opined that the country’s current laws excluding same-sex couples from marriage violate the Japanese Constitution.

Last week, the plaintiffs and lawyers in the lawsuits held public events to mark the anniversary. We were delighted to meet some of the plaintiff couples in Tokyo, to discuss our shared journeys, and to provide inspiration to each other. We also met with Kanako Otsuji, the first openly LGBTIQ elected member of the Diet ( Japanese Parliament), who last year introduced marriage equality legislation in the Diet.

But substantial barriers to winning equality remain. The conservative government led by Prime Minister Shinzo Abe has shown no indication that it would give Otsuji’s marriage equality bill a hearing in the Diet. The Japanese Supreme Court is considered a conservative institution that historically has rarely invalidated legislation as unconstitutional.

In the U.S., the fact that millions of LGBTIQ people have come out has been foundational to the victories our community has won. In Japan, the route to winning equality may differ because coming out remains personally challenging to many Japanese LGBTIQ people.

Japanese women face parallel struggles to that of LGBTIQ people.

Photos courtesy of Stuart Gaffney and John Lewis

Although Japan boasts the third largest economy in the world, it ranked a lowly 110th out of 149 countries in the World Economic Forum’s 2018 Gender Gap Index.

And the country ranked 165th out of 193 nations in terms of women members of representative national legislatures, according to a 2017 study. A few years ago, Otsuji told us that, in some respects, it was more difficult for her to run for the Diet as a woman than as an LGBT person.

On our last night in Japan, we dined with two Japanese friends, who are both successful professionals: one a man, and the other a woman. We ate at a cozy vegetarian Japanese restaurant, tucked away on a winding alley in central Osaka, with just two tables and a few seats around the counter behind which the young owner prepared set meals for his customers. When the owner presented our set meals at our table, an animated conversation in Japanese between the owner and our Japanese friends ensued.

When the flurry of words ended, we asked our friends what had transpired. They explained that the owner had brought our woman friend a smaller serving of rice for the meal, explaining that female customers received less rice than male customers because they needed less food (even though, we note, we all paid the same price for our meals). Despite our friends’ protestations, the owner insisted. Our friends decided not to escalate the disagreement further and simply let it go, leaving our female friend to internalize the anger and frustration she felt.

Earlier, she had explained to us the Japanese term meiwaku. We understand it translates roughly as being an annoyance or causing disturbance to others. Japanese children are taught from an early age not to

John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney (center) with two of the Japanese marriage equality lawsuit plaintiff couples

assert themselves in ways that are perceived as disturbing or troubling to other people. Doing so is considered selfish in a society that values group harmony above all. Our friend confided to us that even though she was completely in the right when it came to receiving the same amount of food as male customers, she, in fact, felt guilty for Stuart Gaffney; Kanako Otsuji, the first openly LGBT member of raising the issue even the Japanese Diet (parliament); John Lewis; and Professor Miya Suga of Gakugei University to the limited degree she did. participation in society is not meiAnother female Japanese friend told waku may be key to personal, political, and professional success—and us this type of disparate treatment both metaphorically and literally to of women at restaurants is a thing getting a fair share of rice. of the past in Tokyo. But this profound societal value of not being John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney, meiwaku seems to pose a great chaltogether for over three decades, lenge to LGBTIQ people coming were plaintiffs in the California out and to women’s professional and case for equal marriage rights political advancement. decided by the California Supreme Court in 2008. Their leadership We do not profess expertise in in the grassroots organization Japanese societal norms, but it Marriage Equality USA contribseems that the ability to which uted in 2015 to making same-sex LGBTIQ people and women can demonstrate that their full and open marriage legal nationwide.

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3 Suggestions for Expressing Your Love care you do and don’t want, means your loved ones don’t have to shoulder the burden of making these decisions for you. Is that not love?

So, if you have not done so already, I urge you to make an honest commitment to take care of these four things: 1. a basic will; 2. healthcare power of attorney; 3. financial power of attorney; 4. revocable living trust.

Money Matters Brandon Miller Contrary to the stream of advertising you see this time of year, flowers and chocolates are not the only ways to express your love. In fact, I have some suggestions that don’t wilt in a few days or rot your teeth.

You may not think of financial planning as a vehicle for love, but when done right, it actually can be. An infusion of cash at just the right moment or expressing your wishes explicitly so no one has to make a painful decision on your behalf shows way greater devotion than a dozen de-thorned roses.

Rather than resorting to the expected this year, why not opt for a more caring and thoughtful way to show your love? I have three suggestions for you: Don’t leave behind a mess.

Kobe Bryant’s untimely death is just another reminder that anything can happen to any of us at any time. So please, please, please, for the sake of your loved ones, take care of some basic estate planning.

This is really just a way of formalizing your wishes—for yourself, as well as your assets—and has nothing to do with the size of your “estate.” A living trust may avoid having your assets go to probate, where the government might take a way bigger chunk of your estate than they’ll get if your requests are legally documented.

Designating specific people to act on your behalf if you become incapacitated, and expressing the types of

You can easily find forms and instructions online.

Put on your own mask first.

Some of my clients have trouble putting themselves first when it comes to money. It’s particularly difficult for those in the sandwich generation, caught between taking care of kids and parents. Women, especially, generally bear the brunt of competing demands. Many people say they feel selfish not helping out when someone they love is in need. Giving money is one way they can show they care.

But this is often shortsighted thinking.

If you don’t take care of your own financial needs, then you’re increasing the likelihood of becoming a yoke on someone else in the future. Is that the legacy you want to leave your children or friends? Probably not.

The hard truth is that kids have student loans they can pursue to pay for school, plus many more years than you to build up a nest egg. And Medicare or local community resources may be available to help defray support costs for elderly parents.

Stepping back to make sure you’re not sacrificing your future for someone else’s present is not selfish, but rather respectful of those who will be in your life years from now.

Give money when it will do the most good.

On the other side of the coin, if you’re financially set for the rest of your life, think about how and when you want to distribute your assets. Most people default to providing an inheritance after they’re gone, often because they fear they’ll need that money at some point. But think of how much more helpful your cash could be right now

to a young relative looking to start a business or to buy a house. That “inheritance” can go a lot further now than it will decades from now when you’re gone and that young person is well-established.

Same with giving money to charity.

You can have an impact today, not at some future date when your nonprofit may not be around due to lack of funds.

If there’s no way you can spend everything you have, why not have fun right now helping out your friends and family?

To recap, you can show an enormous amount of love through basic estate planning, putting yourself first financially, and giving your money sooner rather than later. And sure, throw in a box of chocolates for good measure.

The opinions expressed in this article are for general informational purposes only and are not intended to provide specific advice or recommendations for any individual or on any specific security. Brio does not provide tax or legal advice, and nothing contained in these materials should be taken as such. To determine which investments may be appropriate for you, consult your financial advisor prior to investing. As always, please remember that investing involves risk and possible loss of principal capital; please seek advice from a licensed professional.

Brio Financial Group is a registered investment adviser. SEC Registration does not constitute an endorsement of Brio by the SEC nor does it indicate that Brio has attained a particular level of skill or ability. Advisory services are only offered to clients or prospective clients where Brio Financial Group and its representatives are properly licensed or exempt from licensure. No advice may be rendered by Brio Financial Group unless a client service agreement is in place.

Brandon Miller, CFP®, is a financial consultant at Brio Financial Group in San Francisco, specializing in helping LGBT individuals and families plan and achieve their financial goals.

Two Sporty Coupes for Fun the Subaru BRZ; it is a coupe from the ground up.

This difference in origin is apparent in the first walkarounds. Though they are the same length, the 86 is more than four inches shorter than the Veloster. It has about 1.5 inches less width and 250 pounds less weight, and the 86 more evenly distributes its weight front to rear. So, the 86 has a lightness of being that the Veloster N can’t match.

Auto Philip Ruth Sporty coupes have survived the crossover-SUV onslaught better than sedans. While those trendy tall station wagons expand on the functionality of family cars, they can’t stand in for the low-slung swagger a coupe provides.

If you select a U.S. nameplate, you’d be choosing between muscle cars.

Apart from them are many sizes and shapes—from the classic Audi TT to the burly Lexus RC and the lithe Jaguar F-Type and up into the exotics from there.

At the more affordable end are the two coupes we’ll examine here: the Hyundai Veloster N and Toyota 86 Hakone Edition. Both have base prices close to $28,000. The Veloster is based on the Elantra sedan, so it is front-wheel drive. The rear-drive 86 shares its dedication platform with 10

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OK, but the Veloster N has its own talents. Start with 70 more horsepower from its turbocharged, 2.0liter engine. The Toyota’s 205 horses—from a same-sized engine minus the turbocharger—are willing, but there are many more of them lassoed by the Hyundai. Torque reveals an even wider gap, where the Veloster N whomps the 86 with its 260 lb/ft peaking at a low 1,450 rpm.

It’s a broad reserve of pulling power you can access just after launch.

Compare that to the 86’s 156 lb/ ft measurement, and you can visualize the Veloster N accelerating away from the 86, especially since the Toyota’s much lower torque isn’t realized until the engine is revved up to 6,400 rpm. The 86’s lighter weight can’t prevent it from being caught flat-footed on occasion, when a stab at the throttle yields not much result, until it does.

But brute force was never a part of the 86’s mission. Instead, this coupe allows you to use a deft touch to precisely trace your path. The Veloster N—especially when you push the N

Hyundai Veloster N

Toyota 86 Hakone Edition

button and shift the engine, suspension, and exhaust to extreme mode— is eager to deliver, but can become overwhelmed by the task at hand.

No one ever said it would be easy throttling all that torque through the wheels that also steer the car, and so it pays to dial in your direction before the power comes on.

Inside, both are set up for enthusiastic driving, with bolstered sport seats (the Hyundai’s are softer) and enough room to work (the 86 is tighter).

Outside, the Veloster N’s Sunset Orange paint grabbed more eyes than the subtler Hakone Green on the tested special-edition 86. But both coupes succeed in providing their own unique kinds of fun.

Philip Ruth is a Castro-based automotive photojournalist and consultant ( www.gaycarguy.com ). Check out his automotive staging service at www.carstaging.com

Black History Month Celebration at San Francisco City Hall Photos by Rink On Friday, February 7, Mayor London Breed and the SF African American Historical Society welcomed city officials, civic leaders and guests to the 2020 Black History Month Kick-Off Celebration held at City Hall.

The theme this year, “African Americans and the Vote: The Movement Lives On,” was selected to reflect, the Mayor said, in part, “the critical role that African-Americans play in our country’s continued fight for social justice, democracy, and equality.”

She continued, “Throughout history, African-Americans have spearheaded the civil rights movement, and this year, with the presidential elections and the 2020 Census, it is especially important that we continue to lead the effort for positive change. Every San Franciscan, whether an elected-official, community leader, or a concerned resident, has the power to make a difference.”

Speakers representing the Historical Society included Marisa Williams and Al Williams. Minister Marvin K. White of GLIDE presented the Invocation, and a performance of the Black national anthem, “Lift Every Voice and Sing,” was presented by Vernon Bush. Additional speakers included Supervisor Shamann Walton and Alicia Garza, Co-Founder of Black Lives Matter.

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An LGBTQ Community Forum on Avoiding Fraud, Scams, and Other Abuse

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We honor our history and the paper’s ability to build and strengthen unity in our community.

The Bay Times is proud to be the only newspaper for the LGBT community in San Francisco that is 100% owned and operated by LGBT individuals.

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Aging in Community Dr. Marcy Adelman

Mary Twomey, one of the forum presenters, has worked in the field of elder abuse prevention for more than 25 years. She is the former codirector of the National Center on Elder Abuse. In a previous Aging in Community guest column, Mary wrote, “Our reluctance to face the consequences of our aging can mean we put ourselves at risk not only for the typical challenges of aging, but also for the possibility of abuse, neglect, or domestic violence in later life.”

Dr. Marcy Adelman, a psychologist and LGBTQ+ longevity advocate and policy adviser, oversees

It is time for the community to have this conversation.

“A friend, an older single gay man, struck up a relationship with a man in his 20s. Within a month, the younger man moved into my friend’s home. The younger man was fully affectionate and saw to the older man’s needs, e.g., grocery shopping, driving him to doctors’ appointments. My friend woke up one morning three months after the move-in to find the younger man gone, along with his electronics, wallet & credit cards and other valuables and his car.”

Daniel Redman, also a forum presenter, is an attorney at Sideman & Bancroft, LLP. Daniel was Chair of the LGBT Aging Policy Task Force’s Legal Committee that prioritized the protection of vulnerable LGBT people in nursing homes and other longterm care facilities. He worked closely with State Senator Wiener to translate the Task Force’s recommendation into legislation, The LGBT Senior Long-Term Care Facility Bill of Rights, which passed in the Spring of 2015.

For Tom Ammiano and Tim Wolfred, this was just one story too many of a friend victimized by a younger predator. Ammiano, a former California State Assemblyman, and Wolfred, a former City College Trustee, researched the issues and decided to do something about them by organizing an educational forum to inform the older LGBTQ community about fraud, scams, and other forms of abuse.

“We know that lots of people don’t know about elder abuse or they don’t think it will happen to them,” said Tom Ammiano. “That’s what we thought until it happened in our group of friends.”

Redman will be speaking on abuse and discrimination in longterm care facilities and also about what estate planning documents can do to ensure that wishes are carried out and protected. In an email to me for the San Francisco Bay Times, Redman wrote: “Senator Wiener’s law aimed to do three things: to give LGBT people a crystal clear definition of their rights in long-term care facilities, to empower advocates and allies both within facilities and in residents’ families to stand up against mistreatment, and to warn facilities of what their obligations are to root out discriminatory behavior when it crops up. This conference is crucial because it helps accomplish that mission.”

Wolfred added that the best way to avoid becoming a victim is to know the warning signs, plan ahead, and to know where to get help for yourself or your loved ones. “If people come to our forum,” Wolfred said, “they’ll leave with lots of information and tools. We want people to leave empowered.”

Other presenters will include Tamari Hedani, Associate Director, Elder Abuse Prevention Program of the Institute on Aging; Melissa McNair, Victim Advocate, San Francisco District Attorney’s Office; and a Representative from Adult Protective Services for the City and County of San Francisco.

IN MEMORIAM Jimmy White (1963–2020) From the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus: “We remember and celebrate the life of SFGMC member of 20+ years— Jimmy White—whom we lost yesterday [Sunday, Feb 9].

If you’ve seen Gay Chorus Deep South, then you know Jimmy. If you sang with SFGMC, you know Jimmy. If you spent any time with SFGMC singers, you know Jimmy.

As the Gay Chorus Deep South documentary team began its research for the film, there was one story they knew they had to film— Jimmy White’s. Jimmy grew up in the South. He had left it behind, his father telling him on his 50th birthday he wished he had never been born.

But in 2017, Jimmy returned, with 300 of his Chorus brothers, to the places he had left behind. We sang in his hometown—Jackson, Mississippi. His father came to the concert. The door opened a crack. It was followed a year later by Jimmy visiting all of his family, father included. They found common ground in the music.

Jimmy battled liver cancer for many years, fighting a brutal diagnosis with determination, focus, and a wicked sense of humor. He would go from chemotherapy treatments to play tennis. He did yoga, was an avid music fan, and lived his life to the absolute fullest. He was—and is—an inspiration to all of us.

Jimmy continued to fight until two weeks ago when he made the decision it was time to stop. He moved back to Mississippi to be with family and start hospice care.

Jimmy was a rock in the Chorus. His voice and his story live on.

We are grateful today, and every day, to have known Jimmy White.”

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The forum will take place on Thursday, March 5, 9:30 am to 1 pm at the SF LGBT Community Center, 1800 Market Street, San Francisco.

Community co-sponsors from the Department of Disability and Aging Services, Openhouse, Institute on Aging, and the LGBT Community Center will be present to answer questions and to provide resources.

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the Aging in Community column. She serves on the California Commission on Aging, the Governor’s Alzheimer’s Prevention and Preparedness Task Force, the Board of the Alzheimer’s Association of Northern California, and the San Francisco Dignity Fund Oversight and Advisory Committee. She is the Co-Founder of Openhouse, the only San Francisco nonprofit exclusively focused on the health and well-being of LGBTQ+ older adults.

Alegre Home Care is proud to support Dr. Marcy Adelman’s Aging in Community column in the San Francisco Bay Times.

Carole Joyce Morton (1945–2020) Carole Joyce Morton died peacefully in her sleep early Saturday morning, February 8, after a long struggle with breast cancer. She was a licensed integrative psychotherapist, a lifelong political and social activist, and a writer.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, she spent some of her childhood living with her grandparents, and it was then that she developed a deep sense of tikkun olam, the Jewish concept of healing the earth and making the world a better place. While raising her beloved son Terry Morton, she came out as a lesbian and founded the group Dykes and Tykes before the concept of lesbian mother was even recognized. She had a lifelong commitment to community organizing and activism on behalf of poor women, gay parents, and children.

For a few years she had her own television show that featured interviews with prominent LGBT individuals living in New York.

Morton in 1976 then moved to the Bay Area to continue her education. After earning an M.A. in communications, she earned a second M.A. in psychology and, more recently, worked towards a Ph.D. in integrative and natural medicine.

She was a gifted therapist, combining meditation, spirituality, and psychology in her practice. She taught others to become therapists when she served as a faculty member at the Western Institute for Social Research in Berkeley.

While living in San Francisco, she continued her altruistic work on behalf of women and lesbians, and co-founded the City Sisters Club, a place where lesbians could meet, network, and socialize. In 2008, she moved to the Rossmoor Senior Community in Walnut Creek, and founded the Rossmoor Lesbian Social Club, which now has over 100 members. It was also her idea to start the Rossmoor Lesbian Resist Group to actively oppose abuses on the present-day national political scene.

She authored the book Entering Your Own Heart: A Guide to Developing Self Love, Inner Peace and Happiness (Balboa Press, 2014). In this inspirational work, she guides the reader on a spiritual journey to heal, grow, and awaken, just as she did.

Plans are underway for a memorial service at Rossmoor sometime in April.

GLBT Fortnight in Review

By Ann Rostow It’s My Party and I’ll Cry If I Want To I write to you on the morning of the New Hampshire primary having decided to vote for Mike Bloomberg on Super Tuesday. I’m sorry. As my family toggles between Warren and Sanders, I have gone rogue. I want the billion-dollar ad campaign, the several thousand staffers around the country, the strategic intelligence of his top advisors, the massive get out the vote, and the parallel effort to win the senate. I am encouraged by Bloomberg’s increasing support from the African American electorate. I like his anti-Trump attacks. I don’t care about his health care plans; indeed I don’t even know what they are. Not only do I think he can win, but I think he is best positioned to reverse Trumpism with fast and efficient action once in office.

All I care about is winning in November. And yes, sure there’s a chance that Bernie or Pete could beat Trump. But I don’t simply want a chance. I want the best chance. It’s like facing a life or death medical decision. Do you want the operation that has the 52 percent survival rate? No! You want the 65 percent survival rate even if you might lose the use of your big toe. Hell, I’d give up my thumb and an ear if necessary because we cannot survive another four years of this world-shattering disaster.

Finally, I am tired of incompetence.

That s--t show in Iowa? It was apparently worse than we thought. Arrogant state Democratic Party leaders combined with the indifferent crew at the national level and hapless tech contractors to screw up every aspect of the caucus procedure. Instead of the months of hard work and tedious preparation that was required to pull this off, self-important officials preened on TV shows, hobnobbed at dinners, and left the details to others, who dropped the balls in turn.

Once the lightly tested technology failed, local captains were told to call results into a secure center, but the volunteers in that room could not access the system either because it required the user to input a PIN code that was sent to their smartphones. Their smartphones, however, were not allowed in the room for security reasons. Someone “solved” this problem by passing around an iPad, but, of course, once people entered the program they encountered errors and other unforeseen problems.

And don’t blame the old folks at the caucus locations. For God’s sake, you had to jump through ten hoops to even download the app, let alone deploy it.

At some point, the state party gave up on the modern world and told everyone to email photos of results to headquarters. But apparently, those emails were allowed to pile up into the hundreds.

Later in the week, Democratic Party lawyers announced that math errors and other blatant inaccuracies on the precinct sheets could not be corrected because the original documents were part of the official record. or something like that. It was Kafka-esque.

Don’t Get Me Started Did I mention that Troy Price, the chair of the Iowa Democratic Party, was previously in charge of the GLBT state organization One Iowa?

“Just know this,” Price told a dinner audience in August, pointing his finger at the crowd. “On February 3 of 2020, caucuses will take place in this state. We will be first. And they will be, without a doubt, the most successful caucuses in our party’s history.”

According to The New York Times, Price spent the eve of the caucus chatting with MSNBC, posing with Donna Brazile, and going to a Super Bowl party with Amy Klobuchar. Meanwhile, the looming technical problems had been evident all week.

As the Iowa caucus devolved Monday night, I googled “Iowa Democratic

Party leaders,” and I know it’s absurd, but my first thought was: “Why did it have to be a gay guy?” Just as Pete makes me proud of my community, Troy makes me wince with embarrassment. And before I finish my tirade, let me add that Pete Buttigieg is a damned incredible candidate and his performance on the hustings has been nothing short of amazing. He has singlehandedly given the country a lesson in the diversity of the GLBT community. We are activists and artists. But we are also the nice young man next door who goes out of his way to mow the lawn for your Nana, goes to church every Sunday, volunteers for active duty in a combat zone, and wins a Rhodes scholarship.

That said, I still want us to survive our surgery this November. I’ll vote for Pete next time after he has eight more years of public service under his belt.

Blocker Blockers Blocked in South Dakota I was done with this subject until my wife sent me an op-ed by longtime progressive activist Steve Villano, informing me as well that her candidate toggle now includes Bloomberg and maybe even leans that way. Google “Steve Villano” for the commentary titled: “Why This Progressive Likes Mike.”

Note that while Villano refers to “500 staffers,” a Politico article reports that Bloomberg now has over 1,000 on payroll and is still hiring. Now I’m done.

Moving along, I was pleased to see that the anti-transgender bill that passed the South Dakota House just got shelved and killed in the state senate.

This was one of several state legislative proposals around the country that would ban puberty blockers for transgender kids. As we discussed last issue, these blockers are used all the time on kids who start puberty early, and they are reversible.

Again, for kids questioning their gender identity, it’s profoundly difficult to go through puberty and should they move forward with a transition as young adults, their path becomes far more difficult. We are not talking about surgery or hormones. We’re talking about postponing the onset of potentially damaging physical changes at a time of life when transgender kids contemplate suicide and face harassment at far higher rates than others.

In other trans news, we are still slogging along in our four challenges to Trump’s ban on transgender troops.

I say “slogging” because Trump and company’s legal strategy is to delay, drag out, appeal, and file motion after motion in order to stall the litigation.

For a time, the federal courts had prevented the ban from being enforced during the court challenges. But once General Mattis issued an official policy, the Supreme Court lifted these injunctions and we have been fighting uphill ever since.

In the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit, the appellate judges have ruled that the government has the burden of proof to provide a compelling reason for the transgender ban.

That sounds good, but the Trump administration is refusing to provide the documents that will (presumably) expose the paltry underpinnings of the Mattis policy. On February 7, Judge Marsha Pechman, who oversees one of two cases within the Ninth Circuit’s jurisdiction, ordered the government to cough up the documents by February 14. I’m not clear on what happens if they miss this deadline. We’ll see.

Shark Eyes, Sad Dogs, and Bent Penises One of the cryptic notes on my list of column ideas reads: “I want to rewind reality.” This phrase has kind of haunted me for months. Every time I see it, I wonder what the heck it actually meant. Did I read it somewhere? (continued on page 26) S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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This Month at the Castro Farmers’ Market Eating Local Made Easy with Farmers’ Markets

By Debra Morris

CITRUS, AVOCADO AND RED ONION SALAD Handful fresh mixed salad greens or spinach 1 orange, peeled and segmented ½ avocado, peeled, sliced ¼ red onion, thinly sliced 3 tablespoons extra virgin olive oil 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar Salt and pepper, to taste

As a result of our population becoming increasingly urbanized, going to the grocery store has become part of most people’s weekly routine. Because of that, we have lost touch with where our food comes from. Recent informal polls have shown that almost half of all children surveyed don’t know that carrots grow in the ground!

Teaching children—and their parents— to eat seasonally and to learn where their food comes from should be made a priority. Farmers’ markets are an excellent place to make them aware of this, as well as the importance of eating healthy and its connection to local farmers. Eating in season means purchasing and consuming fruits and vegetables as they naturally become available, directly after harvest—oranges during the winter months; peaches, tomatoes, and corn during summer; winter squash, grapes, and apples in the fall; and asparagus and peas in the spring.

Produce tastes better.

Why shouldn’t I buy a tomato in winter or an apple in spring? Fruits and vegetables just taste better when they’re freshly picked. A

Plate salad greens. Add orange segments, avocado, and red onion.

Mix olive oil, balsamic vinegar, and salt and pepper together and drizzle on salad. harvested to your farmers’ market, which costs less than purchasing produce that’s been stored when not in season. Wait until produce is in season and your enjoyment will be sweeter. luscious ripe tomato, fresh off the vine; spring peas just plucked from their pods; or a crisp apple fresh off the tree have better flavor and nutrition than produce that has been stored for several months.

You’re helping the environment.

We need to reduce the energy—and carbon emissions—needed to transport food.

Be aware of “food miles” when making your produce choices. A food mile is the distance food travels and the energy consumed to get it from the place of production to our tables. A local farmer can bring you a far fresher product while producing fewer carbon emissions.

It costs less.

Food purchased when it’s in season costs less because the fruits and vegetables are readily available. Farmers bring what’s recently been

You’re supporting the local economy.

Local farmers bring to the farmers’ market what they grow, directly from the farm to you, the consumer. From farm to table should be your motto with most everything you consume. The local economy, your community, and your local farmers all benefit from your seasonal purchases.

Reconnect with the seasons.

Be aware of the seasons and the passage of time. Connect with your local farmers at your farmers’ market, talk to them about their produce, enjoy the seasons as they pass and the produce that they provide.

Visit your farmers’ market throughout the changing seasons and you’ll be surprised at what’s available. Teach your children where their next meal comes from. Just

think, when one product goes out of season, another delicious one comes in!

The month of February features amazing citrus, flowers, and root vegetables. Right now, Jacob’s Farm has organic vegetables of all kinds. Sunrise Nursery has amazing fresh-cut flowers for your special Valentine.

Miss Bee Haven has pure local honey, and Beckmann’s Bakery has freshly baked sourdough and wheat breads, pies, and sweet treats.

Shopping the farmers’ market assures you a quality and flavor that you won’t find anywhere else—and you’re supporting your farmers and local community!

Debra Morris is a spokesperson for the Pacific Coast Farmers’ Market Association (PCFMA). Check out the PCFMA website for recipes, information about farmers’ markets throughout the region and for much more: https://www.pcfma.org/

Please note: The Castro Farmers’ Market returns on Wednesday, March 11!

Until then, please visit the nearby Divisadero Farmers’ Market at the DMV parking lot, 1375 Fell St., San Francisco. It’s there year-round on Sundays from 10 am to 2 pm.

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Sports John Chen Zac Stein, a multi-sport athlete, loves good food and aspires to build a loving and trusting community in our Bay Area. “I believe the foundation in building a strong community is through two parts of our society that are time-tested traditions: food and art,” he recently told me for the San Francisco Bay Times.

A former gymnast, soccer goalie, volleyball pin hitter, quarterback, and collegiate Lacrosse attacker, he is a jock in every sense of the word. But Stein is more than just an athlete.

He’s well educated, well versed, and well-traveled, including having studied abroad in India. Through his experiences, Stein developed a taste for spices, cultures, diversity, and a strong appreciation for various forms of art.

A little over two years ago, Stein and his now partner Gina Connolly started hosting a weekly dinner, called Gina Dinner, at their home in Oakland for 10 people celebrating food, people, art, and the community. Stein enthusiastically said, “Our initial private offering was to bring friends together, eat great food, and hold meaningful conversations about life in both general and specifics.

Connolly is a sous chef and has worked for some of the more wellknown restaurants in the Bay Area, including Pearl in San Francisco and Boot & Shoe Service (the restaurant “Sister” is now at that Oakland site).

Stein said, “She would create and serve diverse and cultural flavors for all of us to enjoy, and I would plan, organize, market and manage the dinners.”

He continued, “Last year [2019], we parlayed Gina Dinner from a small private dinner group to a much larger public fundraising offering called An Art Tasting. We got the idea from Lexa Walsh’s event called Oakland Stock. We bring together people who love art and food, and believe in community as a concept and framework for life. Just as importantly, we wanted to provide some financial support and a platform for local Bay Area artists to showcase their talents. Our first two Art Tastings by Gina Dinner were held at the Humanist Hall in downtown Oakland, and saw half a dozen artists performing their craft to nearly one hundred enthusiastic food lovers and supporters. At our dinners we’ve featured musicians, writers, dancers, and visual artists. We’re proud to have raised several thousands of dollars at An Art Tasting to help our local artists.”

As a fellow foodie, this writer absolutely supports any community-oriented event feathering gourmet dining, especially one that benefits local artists in pursuing their dreams.

Stein tells me that Connolly meticulously designs a multi-course gourmet meal showcasing flavors from local farms, all in an effort to support our local Bay Area growers.

Gina Dinner also takes great care in selecting the artists they support at An Art Tasting. Stein explained, “We first and foremost look at the artist’s ability to put on an entertaining experience for our dinner guests. We also take into consideration diversity in performance and performers as well as artists who are deserving and in need of financial support. Finally, we want our artists to pitch and discuss the meaning and significance of their work with their audience. I try to make the application process simple and transparent. In our future Art Tastings, we hope to expose out guests to more diverse art forms such as aerials, impersonators, and exotic and cultural musical instruments, etc.”

Gina Dinner strives to create an unforgettable evening featuring everything food and art from the Bay Area. This is how Stein and Connolly envision building and supporting our community. If you would like to attend a future An Art Tasting by Gina Dinner, receive more information on how to support Gina Dinner artists, or become An Art Tasting artist, please follow Gina Dinner on Instagram @GinaDinner and “like” their Facebook page: https://bit.ly/2UIpCpg

Zac Stein serving a volleyball

John Chen, a UCLA alumnus and an avid sports fan, has competed as well as coached tennis, volleyball, softball and football teams.

Zac Stein and Gina Connolly presented their menu selection at An Art Tasting

Take Me Home with You!

Candy

“My name is Candy! I’m as sweet as my name suggests and I was recently a mom. Now that I’ve got an empty nest, I’m ready for a new home. I’m very energetic and my perfect match would be someone who enjoys being active.

I’m also very affectionate, so after a day of romping around, prepare yourself for an evening lovefest! I might be 52 pounds, but I like to think of myself as a lapdog.”

Candy is presented to San Francisco Bay Times readers by Dr. Jennifer Scarlett, the SF SPCA’s Co-President. Our thanks also go to Krista Maloney for helping to get the word out about lovable pets like Candy.

To meet Candy, as well as other pets seeking their forever homes, please visit: San Francisco SPCA Mission Campus 250 Florida Street San Francisco, CA 94103 415-522-3500

Dr. Jennifer Scarlett and Pup

Aside from major holidays, the adoption center is open Mon–Fri: 1–6 pm and Sat–Sun: 10 am–5 pm. Free parking is available for those wishing to adopt!

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40th Annual Academy of Friends Oscar Night Fundraiser: Ruby Red Gala

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Celebrating their 40th anniversary this year, the Academy of Friends (AOF) presented the Academy Awards night gala for 2020 at The Commonwealth Club on Sunday, February 9. The event is a glamorous Oscar night party supporting Bay Area LGBT organizations providing educational and direct HIV/AIDS services.

Held during the Red Carpet pre-event show and the live broadcast of the Oscars program, the Gala provides a unique experience featuring gourmet food and beverage offerings to enjoy in a festive, convivial environment while watching the show and the AOF’s famous Golden volunteers.

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For 2020, AOF selected The LGBT Asylum Project as its beneficiary partner in support of the Project’s work providing legal representation for LGBT asylum seekers who are fleeing persecution due to their sexual orientation, gender identity, and/or HIV status.

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Congratulations to AOF’s Michael Myers, Adam Sandel, AOF founder Kile Ozier, and the entire team of volunteers and supporters on the success of this year’s gala.

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By Donna Sachet

“Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time.

We are the ones we’ve been waiting for.

We are the change that we seek."

–Former President Barack Obama

riends sometimes say that we’ll cut the ribbon for the opening of a garage door! Well, we think the opening of any new or rejuvenated business is exciting news, especially lately in the Castro. So, when we were invited to join in the festivities surrounding the opening of Eureka Sky, a new cannabis business in the heart of the Castro, we happily obliged. This sleek new shop is right on 17th Street, just past Orphan Andy’s, and features gorgeous marble floors, beautifully detailed walls and ceilings, sparkling lighting, and expansive showcases displaying the various products for sale. You’ll think you are in an upscale nightclub! We attended with our sweet puppy Peanut, who noticed an etagere with cannabis items for dogs! Along with co-owners Ray Connolly, Desmond Morgan, and Chris Callaway, we cut the ceremonial ribbon with City Supervisor Rafael Mandelman, Masood Samereie, Andrea Aiello, and others, as customers swarmed in. Opening festivities also included a traditional Lion Dance in recognition of Chinese New Year with colorful dancers and booming drums that echoed throughout the neighborhood. With so many empty store fronts and shuttered businesses nearby, we have high hopes for Eureka Sky and wish them great success!

The highly anticipated 40th Anniversary Academy of Friends Gala Sunday night was located in the sprawling Commonwealth Club Building with sweeping Embarcadero views. The Ruby Red theme brought out gorgeous gowns and colorful jackets on hundreds of guests, many of whom spent more time ogling each other than watching the Academy Awards. As with any change of venue, there were challenges, but everyone seemed in high spirits and ready to party.

Among the crowd were Juanita MORE!, Tita Aida, Donna Persona, Heklina, D’Arcy Drollinger, Sister Roma, Sister Dana Van Iquity, Gary Virginia, Patrik Gallineaux, Richard Sablatura, Eddy Skees & Nelson Otero, Matthew Denckla, Patty McGroin, Kevin Lyle, Khmera Rouge, Kylie Minono, Supervisor Rafael Mandelman, State Senator Scott Wiener, and even Founder Kile Ozier. Organizers Adam Sandel, Cip Ciprano, and others were everywhere. Perhaps your favorite didn’t win an Academy Award that night, but beneficiary LGBT Asylum Project was a big winner as the sole beneficiary, successfully addressing important immigration cases right here at home.

This Saturday, it is time to vote! No, not in the California Primary, but for the next Emperor and Empress of San Francisco, continuing a 54-year legacy of charitable work, special event production, and leadership development. With proper ID proving your residency in San Francisco, Marin, or San Mateo County, you can vote in the Castro at the MUNI station, noon–6 pm, in the Polk Street area in front of Project Open Hand, 11 am–4 pm, and in SOMA in front of Powerhouse, 1 pm–5 pm. By now, you know who the candidates are; perhaps you’ve met them out on the campaign trail for the last several weeks: Bill Bulkley is running for Emperor and Migitte Nielsen and Mimi Osa are running for Empress. Take the time to learn a little about them and then vote your choice!

The following Saturday, February 22, the winners will be announced and crowned at Imperial Coronation: Disco in the Jungle, 6 pm, at the Park Central Hotel, 50 Third Street. The Reigning Emperor Terrill Grimes and Reigning Empress Baby Shaques complete their reign that night and have a spectacular night planned for us, full of musical entertainment, charitable funds distribution, grand ceremonies steeped in tradition, and elegantly swathed attendees from across the United States, Canada, and Mexico. Use the adjacent calendar of events to guide you through the full week of activities, many free and all enjoyable.

Amid the myriad Imperial activities, for a truly unique San Francisco experience, join us Sunday morning, February 23, as we travel to Woodlawn Cemetery in Colma to visit the gravesites of Emperor Joshua Norton and Empress José Sarria. Yes, it is an early morning, but join us at the Rainbow Honor Walk plaque honoring José Sarria in Jane Warner Plaza in the Castro at 8:30 am and then hop on the bus to Colma. The whimsical ceremony there will truly amaze you, giving proper respect in a generous spirit of humor to these iconic and historic San Francisco figures. Emperor John Weber joins us as co-emcee for this year’s festivities.

Finally, at a time when it seems that bad news streams into our lives on a constant basis, let’s all celebrate the recent action of our Governor Gavin Newsom who posthumously pardoned civil rights activist Bayard Rustin for conviction of a misdemeanor violation based on outdated laws targeting homosexual behavior. Moreover, the Governor announced a new program specifically designed to facilitate pardons for others wrongly targeted by such laws and resulting in disastrous labeling as sex offenders. This action, heralded across the country by civil rights activists, can be directly tied to a conversation between Queen Mother Nicole Murray-Ramirez of the International Court System and State Senator Scott Wiener right here in San Francisco, witnessed by this columnist. Senator Wiener’s efforts to bring the Governor’s attention to past injustices resulted in this vindication. Yes, we can be proud that our LBGTQ Community played a pivotal role in the U.S. Postal stamp and the U.S. Navy ship honoring Harvey Milk and now the posthumous pardon of Rustin. Never doubt that the actions of individuals and united groups of like-minded people do matter and do produce results!

Calendar a/la Sachet Saturday February 15 Voting Day for Emperor & Empress of San Francisco Castro MUNI Station, Noon–6 pm Project Open Hand, 11 am–4 pm Powerhouse, 1 pm–5 pm Free! www.imperialcouncilsf.org Wednesday, February 19 Imperial in Town Show Local performers and Imperial thank you’s Hamburger Mary’s, 531 Castro Street 7 pm Free! www.imperialcouncilsf.org Thursday, February 20 Imperial Anniversary Monarchs’ Reception Hosted by Emperor John Carrillo and Empress Misty Blue The HA-RA Club, 875 Geary Street 7 pm Free! www.imperialcouncilsf.org Friday, February 21 Imperial Out of Town Show Entertainers from across the continent Park Central Hotel, 50 Third Street 7 pm $25 www.imperialcouncilsf.org Saturday February 22 SF’s 55th Imperial Coronation: Disco in the Jungle Spectacular pageantry, luxurious costumes, generous charity Park Central Hotel, 50 Third Street 6 pm $70 www.imperialcouncilsf.org Sunday, February 23 Imperial Pilgrimage to Colma Campy visit to the graves of Emperor Norton and Empress José Sarria Emceed by Emperor John Weber and Empress Donna Sachet Woodlawn Cemetery, Colma Bus from Park Central Hotel, 7 am Free! www.imperialcouncilsf.org Sunday, February 23 Imperial Victory Brunch Final thanks from Emperor Terrill Grimes & Empress Baby Shaques Park Central Hotel, 50 Third Street 11:30 am $40 www.imperialcouncilsf.org Tuesday, February 25 Fat Tuesday Bar Crawl Krewe de Kinque’s traditional mayhem Bus ends at 440 Castro 5–7 pm $20 https://www.facebook.com/groups/202756774136/ Saturday, March 7 Krewe de Kinque’s Bal Masque XVII: Diners, Divas, & Dives Fabulous New Orleans style party benefits Compton’s Transgender Cultural District The Café, 2369 Market Street 6–9:30 pm $20 & up https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/4512891

Donna Sachet is a celebrated performer, fundraiser, activist and philanthropist who has dedicated over two decades to the LGBTQ Community in San Francisco. Contact her at empsachet@ gmail.com

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Beach Blanket Babylon Star Renée Lubin to Perform and Serve as Grand Marshal at SF Mardi Gras Benefit San Francisco’s Krewe de Kinque (KDK) Mardi Gras club is gearing up for “Diners, Divas & Dives,” the theme for Bal Masque XVII, to be held at The Café on Saturday, March 7, 6–9:30 pm. Known for its elaborate costumed shows and creative decor, KDK has raised funds to cover production costs so that 100% of ticket sales and silent auction income will go to the Compton’s Transgender Cultural District.

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Renée Lubin

Kicking off the festivities as Grand Marshal and performing at the masked ball will be Renée Lubin, the local actor who performed for 33 years in the longestrunning musical in the world, Beach Blanket Babylon. The campy show known for elaborate costumes, huge hats, and wigs, and skits exploiting politics and pop culture, recently ended its 45-year run at Club Fugazi in San Francisco’s North Beach district. Directed by Kenny Mazlow and created by the late Steve Silver, the hilarious show was enjoyed by 6.5 million people.

A native of San Francisco and mother, Lubin has portrayed about a dozen characters in Beach Blanket Babylon, including Glinda the Good Witch and Tina Turner (wearing a two-and-a-half-foot-tall wig.) “What kept me there was the fact that the show remained fresh,” Lubin said. “We made it new every time.”

Renée Lubin with members of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus at City Hall for the 40th Anniversary of Beach Blanket Babylon

Not long after the passing of Aretha Franklin on August 16, 2018, there was a huge swelling of fans honoring Franklin in the Castro. That night, Lubin and a group of women musicians and singers, including Dr. Dee Spencer of San Francisco State and vocalist Deborah Coley, performed Franklin’s songs in a heartfelt tribute at Beaux on Market Street.

Lubin debuted as feature soloist for Jazz Faire IV with Quincy Jones and her theatrical performances include For Colored Girls ..., Jesus Christ Superstar, Ain’t Misbehavin’, Tintypes, They’re Playing Our Song, Eubie, Twelfth Night, and Merry Wives of Windsor. A native San Franciscan who studied Environmental Biology at San Jose State University, she currently directs the SFSU Jazz Choir as Vocal Jazz Coach. She provides private vocal and audition coaching with Dr. Dee Spencer and is honored to have worked with X-Factor semi-finalist Jason Brock. Other credits include voiceover work in radio and television.

Renée with Dr. Dee Spencer

Founded in 2017, the Compton’s Transgender Cultural District is the first legally recognized transgender district in the world, encompassing six blocks in the southeastern Tenderloin area and crossing over Market Street to include two blocks of 6th Street in San Francisco. Its mission is to create an urban environment that fosters the rich history, culture, legacy, and empowerment of transgender people and its deep roots in the southeastern Tenderloin neighborhood. The district aims to stabilize and economically empower the transgender community through ownership of homes, businesses, historic and cultural sites, and safe community spaces.

Krewe de Kinque, founded in 2004, has raised more than $100,000 for 28 charities and causes locally and In character for the Holiday version of Beach In character as Whoopi abroad. Benefits have included $20,000 raised for Goldberg Hurricane Katrina relief (2005), $10,000 raised last year Blanket Babylon for The LGBT Asylum Project - Center for Immigrant with the crowning of King and Queen Protection, as well as thousands of dollars raised for victims of recent fire and XVIII. General admission tickets are flood victims in Northern California and earthquake relief in Japan and Peru. $20 advance and $25 at the door.

Club founder Gary Virginia stated, “We’re thrilled to return to The Café for Limited Gold VIP Host tickets ($100 this year’s ball after its major renovation that now features an elaborate light and advance) offer all benefits of the VIP sound system, and huge video technology on two levels. The entire cast of Beach Hosts plus reserved seating, and top Blanket Babylon has been invited and recognition in the printed program. we’re thrilled to have Renée Lubin as Costumes, masks, and beads are Grand Marshal.” encouraged in the Big Easy or “Diners, Divas & Dives” theme. Laissez les bons The current KDK King and Queen temps rouler!

XVII, Aja Monet-Ashton and drag persona Kelly Rose, will preside Tickets: https://bit.ly/39sioK1 over festivities including the national The Café, 2369 Market St, San anthem performed by trumpeter Francisco, CA 94114 Aaron Priskorn, a traditional Second Handicapped accessible. Call numLine Parade, a Southern/Creole bufber below by February 22 if purchasing fet & Stoli drinks for VIP guests ($40 tickets and requesting ASL interpreting. advance), the costumed tableaux show by club members and special guests, More info: Gary Virginia, KDK go go dancers, photo booth by Garaje Founder, ( MrSFL96@aol.com ); Gooch, hurricane drink special, beads, 415-867-5004. and more. The evening will culminate Honored by Mayor London Breed

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In character singing “Am I Blue?”

In character as Oprah Winfrey

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This Human Rights Campaign (HRC) survey annually rates cities and towns based on how inclusive their laws, policies, and services are for the LGBTQ people who live and work in them.

Karin Jaffie, aka Kit/Kitty Tapata, won the title of Mr. Gay San Francisco in 2011 and has earned many other honors since.

Connect with Jaffie via Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/pg/ktapata

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Lesbian Romance Is Full of Quiet Passions young women slowly get to know one another, Marianne studies her subject intently, stealing away to sketch Héloïse’s hands to paint later. She also plays piano (Vivaldi’s “The Four Seasons”) for Héloïse as a way of bonding with her. These scenes build the sexual tension between the women.

Film Gary M. Kramer Out lesbian director Céline Sciamma’s Portrait of a Lady on Fire, opening February 14 in the Bay Area, is an exquisite, exceptional romantic drama. Set in the 1700s, the film opens at an art school where Marianne (Noémie Merlant) is teaching drawing. Her attention, however, is suddenly arrested by the titular painting, and the film flashes back to the time when Marianne was commissioned to paint Héloïse (Adèle Haenel).

As Marianne arrives, she slowly comes to understand the dynamics of her family and her situation. Sophie (Luàna Bajrami), the servant of the household, explains that Héloïse has recently returned home from a convent because her sister has passed. As Marianne comes to learn, the death may have been a suicide. Moreover, Héloïse’s mood is glum as she is engaged to be wed to a Milanese man; she has no interest in the wedding. As a condition of the marriage, Héloïse’s mother, La Comtesse (Valeria Golino), wants her daughter’s portrait painted—without her daughter’s knowledge.

While Marianne is up to the challenge, she comes to observe Héloïse by escorting her on walks along the cliffs and shoreline. As the two

Marianne is transfixed by Héloïse’s beauty, and yet, the artist does not act on her attraction. She expresses her desire in her work. However, Héloïse, upon learning the truth about Marianne’s role as a portrait artist and not her companion, dislikes the painting and requests another be done. La Comtesse leaves for five days, and the painting is required to be completed by her return. Of course, the women fall in love.

Portrait of a Lady on Fire is a sparse, elegant, and seductive period drama, where the characters slowly, and subtly, reveal themselves to each other.

There is more said by what the women do not express to each other than what they actually say. When Héloïse asks Marianne if she’s ever known love, her curiosity is coded.

Likewise, a discussion of the myth of Eurydice and Orpheus is a metaphor that plays out in the film.

Sciamma’s drama is as much about how others see us as it is about the images we project, the image of ourselves that we control, and what we show others about ourselves. Once Marianne is bewitched by Héloïse, she fantasizes about the object of her affection in a flowing white gown.

When the two women finally kiss, it is electrifying; the desire between them burns slowly over time.

The filmmaker is also attentive to the roles of women in society in the era. Marianne explains how she cannot paint nude men because of her

gender, and Héloïse appreciates convent life because there is an “equality” living among women. A subplot involves Sophie, who is pregnant, trying to lose her baby through some drastic actions and with the help of an abortionist (a compelling, if hard to watch, sequence.)

The emphasis on gender roles helps to generate the sympathy for the characters, who try to assert their desires. Thankfully, the film does not rely on the hoary plot device of the lovers being discovered. Their relationship is finite, given the arrangements made by La Comtesse. That creates sufficient drama.

There is considerable pleasure in watching the women kiss and cuddle in mildly sensuous scenes, or when Marianne gives Héloïse a drink of water by passing the liquid from mouth to mouth. And as in every good romance, the lovers fight, causing minor tension in their relationship.

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Making Out: A Literary Journey doesn’t know I’m kissing her with insects on my mind. Something is making our lips astir. Something somewhere flutters, making me wish I could trap a few of these kisses under glass ... .

Words Michele Karlsberg Michele Karlsberg: Kissing can feel fabulous, but are we trying to do something more through this common expression of affection? For Kathryn Bond Stockton, making out is a prism through which to look at the cultural and political forces of our world: race, economics, childhood, books, and movies. The following is an excerpt from Making Out, Kathryn Bond Stockton’s memoir about a nonbinary childhood before that idea existed in her world:

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Tonight, I’m determined she will melt from kisses, delivered in a pattern (clever, irresistible) I am going to improvise. (Don’t ask me how.) She

All the political forces of our world are at our lips. Fragments of the world embedded in a kiss. Kissing takes me deeply into politics and thought, race and economics, sexual childhood. How does something sensual swell so dramatically into these dimensions?

Kissing itself is just plain strange. Kissing is neither hetero nor homo; trans nor cis. Children do it, too—even with adults. Asexuals and celibates may partake. But is kissing sex? Odder still, is reading? For adults and kids? Kissing, in this book, is strange, fertile, inefficient, treasured, tonally various, related to reading, beautifully unknowable.

There’s a story here about my kissing and my reading, how I’ve read kissing, made myself out in the kisses I’ve encountered. I am revealed in kisses I bend to.

Take back “revealed”: strewn is more like it; I, whoever I may be, am strewn, splayed across my memories. Memories I love as I distrust them. Thus, in all that follows, I recall kisses from across my life: the “Hollywood kiss” I request when I’m six, raising thorny issues of gender identity; Devin trying to kiss me as Fred bullies me; the chairlift kiss, with God in tow; “interracial kisses” (bs term); the accidental kiss we mean and desire during a haircut that will out me—the kiss and haircut blowing my cover; The Kiss, which can never be repeated or rendered; my kissing “marriage” (as a queer concept) while

I’m against it; the don’t-share-yourday kiss changing my love.

The trail of varied kisses described in what’s to come makes for a layer cake of words through which I made myself out: “girl” turning “gay” feeling “trans” under “white” facing “God” soaked in “shame,” having a “blast.” An arc of heated memory curves across this book.

Kathryn Bond Stockton is Distinguished Professor of English, former Associate Vice President for Equity and Diversity, and inaugural Dean of the School for Cultural and Social Transformation at the University of Utah. Two of her books—”Beautiful Bottom, Beautiful Shame: Where ‘Black’ Meets ‘Queer’” and “The Queer Child”—were national finalists for the Lambda Literary Award in LGBT Studies. Her newest book is entitled “Making Out.” Stockton has received the Presidential Teaching Scholar Award and, in 2013, was awarded the Rosenblatt Prize for Excellence, the highest honor granted by the University of Utah.

Michele Karlsberg Marketing and Management specializes in publicity for the LGBTQ+ community. This year, Karlsberg celebrates 32 years of successful book campaigns. For more information: https://www.michelekarlsberg.com

Four Fabulous Films in the Oval Office and then watch this powerful film. A journalist discovers a down home singing philosopher and puts him on her TV show. His awshucks style, personality, and humor land him a large following. Soon he has ratings, power, and prestige.

Off the Wahl Jan Wahl Wonderful movies stay wonderful, deep, rich and unforgettable.

Whether you are seeing a movie for the first time, discovering new pleasures, or revisiting old friends ... good films only get better as time goes by (sorry, Casablanca!). Four perfect examples are:

My Favorite Year (1982) A young writer on a popular live TV show of the 1950s is asked to keep a watchful eye on the show’s guest star that week. The star is a bona fide movie superstar, but gone to seed with drink, womanizing, and everything else decadent. The star is the swashbuckling hero of our young TV writer, and through a series of bizarre adventures must find out that even feet of clay might be hiding a true-life hero.

Peter O’Toole should have won the Oscar for his nominated portrayal of Alan Swann, a character based on the legendary Errol Flynn. Mel Brooks has constantly said that this is his recollection of having to keep Flynn sober and upright while he (Brooks) was working as an assistant/ gag writer on Sid Caesar’s Your Show of Shows. An absolutely terrific movie with a most satisfying ending.

Off the air, he becomes vengeful, power mad, and intensely political. Soon, his megalomania forces his original discoverer to pull the plug, if it is not too late. Director Elia Kazan and writer Budd Schulberg capture what can happen when this kind of dangerous man becomes the one who pulls the political strings. Nobody expected Andy Griffith to play Lonesome Rhodes, but his performance is surprising and altogether too real.

Auntie Mame (1958) Flamboyant and eccentric Mame Dennis informed my life and those of many of my friends. Based on the Patrick Dennis novel about his life with his Auntie Mame, this film features a young boy who is brought up by his only surviving relative: a madcap and wealthy woman.

Rosalind Russell is perfectly cast in the lead, with colorful character players surrounding her. If it’s possible to pull focus from the divine Miss Russell, Coral Browne manages to do so as Mame’s best friend Vera Charles. The clothes by Orry Kelly are some of my favorites, with my own BFF Donna Sachet someday modeling some of these glorious fashions. That may be only in my dreams, but this movie is perfect for those of us looking for a role model or relishing the one onscreen for all these years. After all, “life is a banquet and most poor suckers are starving to death.” Mame, you go, girl!

Network (1976) As relevant now as it was then, this scathing indictment of the television news industry lives with us in every newscast at present. I’ve worked much of my life in this world, always concerned that the news division would be overwhelmed by the entertainment departments since showbiz brought with it money and ratings, and diffused all that is crucial to the world stage.

It happened, and this movie shows us the details and beginnings of it. A famed newscaster’s mental breakdown turns him into a national celebrity as the network exploits his behavior. Each individual character is startingly realistic.

Many Oscars went to this one, though never enough since it remains one of the best films of all time.

There are many films to see right now at one of our local theatres, via cable, or streaming. Please check out: Parasite, Bombshell, Jo Jo Rabbit, 1917, The Irishman, Once Upon a Time in Hollywood, Gay Chorus Deep South, Little Women, and The Peanut Butter Falcon.

Emmy Award-winner Jan Wahl is a renowned entertainment reporter, producer, and teacher. A member of the prestigious Directors Guild of America, she is regularly featured on KCBS AM & FM, KRON TV, and other media outlets.

A Face in the Crowd (1957) How relevant can you get? Remember who is

Spotlight Film for SF Pride 50: Big Eden (2020)

By Jan Wahl You can go home again! This sweet and romantic film tells the story of a young artist living in New York City. His grandfather has a stroke and he goes home to his small town in Montana. Everyone he knows seems to want to play matchmaker, finding another young man for this troubled out of towner.

He himself rekindles a crush on a former high school chum. He is a shy general store/post office manager who turns this into one of the sweetest, most touching romances ever. Directed and written by Thomas Bezucha, the film is one that I originally saw at Frameline and never forgot.

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Rikki Streicher: Champion of Individual Freedoms and LGBT Rights From the start, Maud’s bar was a home base for Streicher’s political activism. The 1974 edition of Girl’s Guide noted that it was “Very Gay Lib oriented,” its walls filled with public notices for events and benefits for the women’s community, gay and straight. Even so, the focus at Maud’s, according to The Advocate Guide (1982), was on playing pool and listening or dancing to music on the jukebox.

Faces from Our LGBT Past Dr. Bill Lipsky Legendary entrepreneur, community business leader, and passionate sports activist Elizabeth “Rikki” Streicher was a leader in the movement to gain human rights for LGBT people in San Francisco. As the owner of three bars for women, she recognized early on that the city’s bar-based communities, mostly overlooked by the assimilationist homophile organizations of the time, could become informed local voters and organized for political action to overturn the legalized discrimination against them and their ways of life.

Streicher opened Maud’s, her first bar, at 937 Cole in 1966. The former site of The Study, also a bar, it was called Maud’s Study for a while, “the name being a sort of lesbian code for its patrons,” wrote Jane Chamberlin in The Great and Notorious Saloons of San Francisco (1982). If overheard in public, women “going to ‘The Study’ were women likely to be going to the library.”

Maud’s became a popular, then legendary, watering hole in the HaightAshbury, serving as a place where women could meet, find each other, discover community, gossip, hug. At the time it opened, California law forbade women from being bartenders in clubs they did not own, so the honor of pouring drinks in the early years went to men from nearby gay establishments. When it closed in 1989, it was the longest surviving lesbian bar in the country.

Streicher believed early on in bar culture. She joined the Tavern Guild and served on its board of directors.

Formed in 1962 in response to ongoing raids by police of lesbian and gay establishments, it was the first LGBT business association in the United States. It defended the rights of its members, their employees, and their patrons; retained legal assistance for anyone arrested near a gay or lesbian bar; and raised money for important work. Early on, it began inviting politicians to its meetings. Recognizing the possibilities, they attended.

The year Streicher opened Maud’s was a momentous one for the city’s expanding LGBT communities.

Although Fin Alley at 834 Irving, with its go-go girls on the bar, closed in 1966, two other bars for women opened. The Parkwood Lounge at 2001 Irving had limited success, but Peg’s Place at 4737 Geary lasted until 1988. Fin’s owner Charlene Scott launched Highlander the next year, then Scott’s Pit in 1970, which became “the closest thing to a lesbian leather bar in San Francisco.”

In addition, 1966 saw new bars for men open in four of the city’s LGBT neighborhoods: the Lucky Club at 1801 Haight, Off the Levee at 527 Bryant near the Embarcadero, the Tower Lounge at 1488 Pine in Polk Gulch, and both FeBe’s at 1501 Folsom and the Stud at 1535 Folsom, contributing to what was well on the way to becoming leather’s “Miracle Mile.”

Two of the city’s earliest public protests by LGBTs about discrimination against them also occurred in 1966.

On Armed Forces Day, May 21, gay men rallied on the steps of the Federal Building in San Francisco’s Civic Center to protest their exclusion from the military, this at a time when the draft was still in force and the war in Vietnam was rapidly escalating.

The following August, the Compton’s Cafeteria in the Tenderloin became a battleground between the LGBT communities and police when police tried to evict a group of noisy customers, many who were drag queens. Not

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only was it a bumpy night, but it was also the first notable time when LGBTs forcibly resisted their oppression in San Francisco.

Streicher opened Amelia’s at 647 Valencia Street in 1978 (the building originally housed a mortuary). Advertising itself as a “woman’s bar and disco,” it also had a pool table, but was, reported The Advocate in its 1981 Guide, “especially recommended if you love to dance.” The second floor, which featured a stage, was often used for community events and benefits.

Named for pioneer aviator Amelia Earhart, the space previously housed businesses that had not lasted long. The Gaslight, which opened there in 1972, survived for about a year; it featured drag shows, then gay melodramas, then nude go-go boys before being raided and closed in 1973. In 1977, it became the Gay 20’s Speakeasy, which closed in 1978.

Streicher’s establishment retained its popularity for 13 years, finally closing in 1991.

Olive Oil’s Bar and Grill, Streicher’s third establishment, opened at Pier 50 in 1982. The next year, when Queen Elizabeth and Prince Philip concluded their visit to San Francisco, Mary Ann Singleton, according to Armistead Maupin, writing in Babycakes (1984), watched their yacht, the Britannia, sail off toward the Golden Gate while sitting on a stool in the bar. Promoted as a lesbian drinkery, it also attracted many gay men.

Rikki was a passionate sports enthusiast and she sponsored women’s sports teams for bowling, volleyball, pool, and basketball.

Baseball, however, remained her favorite, an enthusiasm rewarded in 1976 when Maud’s team won the first-place championship in the Bay Area Women’s Softball League.

Streicher helped to organize the Gay Games in San Francisco in 1982, and then went on to co-found the Federation of Gay Games, its successor organization.

At the fourth annual Games in New York in 1994, Streicher received the Dr. Tom Waddell Award for her contributions to gay athletics. Rikki Streicher Field, in the heart of the Castro, also recognizes her contributions to LGBT sports. In 2018, she was saluted with a plaque on the city’s Rainbow Honor Walk as an “entrepreneur and sports advocate who brought San Francisco’s bar-based communities into the city’s movement for LGBT rights.”

Bill Lipsky, Ph.D., author of “Gay and Lesbian San Francisco” (2006), is a member of the Rainbow Honor Walk board of directors.

Sister Dana Sez: Words of Wisdumb from a Fun Nun

By Sister Dana Van Iquity Sister Dana sez, “Every year I wonder: why do we make such a big deal over VALENTINE’S DAY? A day named after Saint Valentine, a 15th century martyr, who on February 14th was beaten to a pulp with clubs, then stoned, finally beheaded, and unceremoniously buried. How romantic?!

Puhleeeze!”

On February 4, Presidense Trump delivered his lying, hateful, pompous State of the Union Address.

But that same day, award-winning actor Billy Porter gave his awesome, inspirational, fabulous LGBTQ STATE OF THE UNION, which you simply must hear at https://bit.ly/2SgrT9z THANKS TO HANK: A MOVEMENT, A PLAGUE, AN UNSUNG HERO was a night at the GLBT HISTORICAL MUSEUM on February 6 featuring the biopic about AIDS activist Hank Wilson. In the 1970s San Francisco, activist Hank Wilson (1947–2008) co-founded the first gay teachers’ union, the first gay community self-defense project, the first gay comedy club, and the first gay film festival. Wilson also worked to draw attention to the problem of gay youth suicide, and after the emergence of AIDS, he spent 20 years running a 150-room residential hotel as an informal hospice for homeless people dying of the disease. Thanks to Hank (2019) is a loving, cinematic portrait of this extraordinary man by director and composer Bob Ostertag, featuring gorgeous handmade scissor-and-paper animation by animator Jeremy Rourke and the music of the Kronos Quartet and the Tin Hat Trio. Some of us Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence are also in the film. Following the screening, Ostertag and longtime activist and elected official Tom Ammiano responded to questions and comments from the audience.

Also on February 6, earlier at 1 pm, Senator Scott Wiener hosted a festive LUNAR NEW YEAR PARTY with entertainment and refreshments to celebrate the Year of the Rat with Assemblymembers David Chiu (D- San Francisco) and Phil Ting (D- San Francisco), Board of Equalization Member Malia Cohen, and Treasurer Fiona Ma in the Great Hall of the Ronald M. George State Office Complex.

Council plans NBHAAD each year. The 2020 theme is “We’re in This, Together.” This observance is an opportunity to increase HIV education, testing, community involvement, and treatment among black communities. The first National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day (NBHAAD) was marked in 1999 as a grassrootseducation effort to raise awareness about HIV and AIDS prevention, care, and treatment in communities of color. https://bit.ly/37cqRPW VIVA LA FEMME VARIETY SHOW was a free night of original music offered to the community in the Eureka Valley Rec Center auditorium on February 7. The show featured an amazing lineup of four incredible San Francisco musicians: Kitten on the Keys (Suzanne Ramsey, who tickles the ivories and squeezes the accordion regularly at the Madrone Art Bar, Flower Piano, and the Rite Spot— who was just the right amount of risqué that night); Paula Frazier (whose music is frequently described as melancholic alternative country, but with an eclectic mix of folk, blues, and pop, and whose range and runs were nothing less than astonishing); Stephanie Woodford (a young African American jazz pianist, singer, and composer); and Nancie Mallon (with evocative originals who claims to be «in the musical joymaking-machine,» Macerator). The evening was sponsored by ARTSAVESLIVES and produced by Thomasina DeMaio and Mia d’Bruzzi. This was just another in a series of delightful visual art and live performance art shows that comes to us thankfully somewhat monthly in the Castro.

Also on February 7, there was a reception at STRUT for QUEER COMICS SAVES LIVES, a show featuring the comic art of cartoonist Lawrence Lindell. The exhibit gives an inside look into some of the pages in Lindell’s life, brain, and how he sees the world. Through the art of comics, Lindell explores queerness, blackness, and mental health. There are multitudinous pieces on view, but two particularly stood out for me: “Queer Love Saves Lives; Queer Love Heals; Queer Love IS Love.”

And my second fave: “To Hear Means to Listen.” All these evocative pieces will remain on display through the month of February. https://bit.ly/2SxpQN5 Sister Dana sez, “On Groundhog Day, it was a real nail-biter at the SuperBowl; but, sadly, our Niners lost 20 to 31 Chiefs at the end. Waaahhh. Can we possibly call upon The Almighty (continued on page 26)

NATIONAL BLACK HIV/ AIDS AWARENESS DAY #NBHAAD was held across the country on February 7.

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Sister Dana sez, “Mitch McConnell’s Repugnican majority has acquitted DarnOld Trump. Only one Republican senator, Mitt Romney, had the courage to defy Trump and McConnell and to stand up for the rule of law against a wannabe dictator. Republican senators are complicit in covering up a crime, and a reckoning is due. The entire Republican Party—not just Trump—must be defeated in November!!!”

Dennis McMillan (aka Sister Dana) with Empress Emma Peel at the Academy of Friends 40th Anniversary Gala held at the Commonwealth Club on February 9.

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Held at the Festival Pavilion at Fort Mason on Saturday, February 8, the Bay Area American Indian Two-Spirits (BAAITS) Powwow was conducted in honor of missing and murdered Indigenous women.

The pavilion was filled with information booths and vendors offering a variety of traditional merchandise. The processional area was the site of the honor guard presentation of flags, which was followed by traditional music and dancing. Congratulations to Roger Kuhn and the BAAITS members, friends, and volunteers on a record-setting year for this much anticipated event.

Fingersnaps Media Arts Allows DJ Lamont to Mentor Next Generation of Music Masters

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DJ Lamont Bransford-Young for decades has been one of our community’s best loved, and busiest, spinners. DJ Lamont has played at a multitude of community events including SF Pride, Sunday Streets, Mission Community Market, SF Juneteenth, and for the San Francisco Bay Times and “Betty’s List.” He has spun at nightclubs, restaurants, cafes, corporate events, and family celebrations, such as weddings, birthdays, and retirement parties.

“Spinning music is my way to share myself and connect with society,” explains DJ Lamont, whose interest in LPs grew when his mother gifted him a “Close N’ Play” record player for his fifth birthday in 1969. He says that he has been playing with records, cassettes, CDs, DJ Software, and DJ Controllers ever since.

He shares his experience and love of spinning via Fingersnaps Media Arts, which on March 1 will be celebrating one year of operation. The anniversary acknowledges over 300 individual DJ lessons given by the talented DJ Lamont.

“I would have never thought teaching would be so rewarding—the connection, encouragement, responsibility, and creativity that is shared between me and my students is a precious and rare gift,” he says.

His studio, located at the corner of San Carlos and Mission Streets, contributes to the neighborhood’s still present creative vibe.

At street level, the studio has big picture windows that create a sunny, open atmosphere for all.

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DJ Lamont says, “The fact that people can see in, and we can see out as DJ lessons are being taught inspires the neighborhood.”

Fingersnaps Media Arts is both an educational and artistic space. In addition to offering students a chance to learn to DJ and record a mix, the business sets the stage for formal talks, workshops, and symposiums. Also on tap are DJ entertainment services, DJ memberships, co-working, artist showcases, and participation at various community gatherings.

2019 was an especially busy year for Lamont. In addition to all of the aforementioned, during the summer and fall, he and his crew taught free weekly DJ lessons at Salesforce Park. For twelve Sundays sprinkled throughout the year, Fingersnaps students played music beyond their bedrooms, spinning in various energetic community environments.

Currently, DJ lessons are taught to youth at Breakthrough SF, an after-school enrichment program. Lamont’s experience shines through, as he has taught at the SF YMCA, San Francisco Unified School District, Hunters Point Family, Hamilton Family Center, Oakland Unified School District, The African-American Arts & Cultural Complex, The Jewish Community Center, and the City of Richmond Police Auxiliary (PAL).

For more information: https://fingersnaps.net/index.html

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This month, he will be giving free DJ lessons at the Noise Pop Festival Pre-Party at the Cal Academy of Sciences on February 20. The next day, he will be at Oakland’s Generations: Black LGBT History Experience.

On February 29, he will be spinning at the Black LGBT History Month Closing Party at the SF LGBT Center.

This spring and summer, he will be giving free DJ lessons at the SF Public Library’s Mission Campus.

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He is also a volunteer and host of The Fingersnaps Salon, a live dance music and conversational program on community radio KPOO 89.5 San Francisco, which airs Wednesdays from midnight to 6 am. “I utilize music and poetic philosophical concepts,” he says, “to uplift my listeners; to encourage and affirm them to imbue their personal potential.”

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Interim Executive Director. “I am grateful to be able to help steer San Francisco Pride into 2020,” Lopez said.

“On the cusp of this landmark 50th commemoration, we are tasked with acknowledging the incredible history of LGBT strength in San Francisco and with looking to the future and what it holds. I look forward to being a part of it.” Lopez’s activism goes beyond SF Pride and the Bay Area, given that he previously spent more than 14 years serving the LGBTQ and HIV/AIDS communities. http:// www.sfpride.org/ Horizons Foundation Announces New Slate of Grantee Partners The world’s first LGBTQ community foundation, Horizons Foundation, on January 30 announced its latest slate of grantee partners through its flagship Community Issues Funding Program.

They are as follows: ABO Comix, Ahead of the Curve, AIRspace for New Queer Performance, AlterTheater (Alternative Theater Ensemble), APIENC (API Equality - Northern California), Bay Area Old Lesbians Organizing for Change (OLOC), California Coalition for Women Prisoners, Caminar, CoastPride, Colectivo Acción Latina de Ambiente, Community United Against Violence, Compton’s Transgender Cultural District, Dolores Street Community Services, Drag Queen Story Hour - SF Bay Area Chapter, East Bay Sanctuary Covenant, Face to Face: Sonoma County AIDS Network, Foglifter Press, Gay Asian Pacific Alliance Foundation, Health Initiatives for Youth, HealthRIGHT 360, Homeless Youth Alliance, HOMOBILES, In Lak’ech Dance Academy, Lavender Seniors of the East Bay, Louise Lawrence Transgender Archive, Oakland LGBTQ Community Center, Oasis Legal Services, On the Move, Peacock Rebellion, Positive Images, Queer LifeSpace, Queer Rebels Productions, Rainbow Women’s Chorus, Reclaim UGLY: (U)plift (G)lorify & (L)ove (Y)ourself, RYSE, San Francisco Trans March, San Francisco Transgender Film Festival, San Mateo County Pride Center (a program of StarVista), Sins Invalid, Solano Pride Center, Somos Familia, Sunny Hills Services dba Side by Side, Swords to Plowshares Veterans Rights Organization, Texas Rose, The LGBT Asylum Project, The Sisters of Perpetual Indul-

gence, Inc., TurnOut, and the Vallejo Stonewall Film Festival. Together, the organizations received $415,734 in funding. Horizons’ total grantmaking since 1980 now exceeds $48.6 million. “As the foundation celebrates 40 years, these grantee partners—across the nine counties of the Bay Area, across many facets of LGBTQ life and identity—exemplify the work our community needs to live freely and fully,” said Horizons’ President Roger Doughty. https://www.horizonsfoundation.org/ OurTownSF Nonprofit Expo 2020 Canceled For the past four years, OurTownSF— a program of the Richmond/Ermet Aid Foundation (REAF) and directed by Paul Margolis—has annually hosted the OurTownSF Nonprofit Expo. The event was always held at the Eureka Valley Recreation Center a few weeks after the Castro Street Fair. Members of the San Francisco Bay Times team were looking forward to the 2020 Expo, but on February 4, Margolis announced that the event has been canceled. He shared, “We were excited to hold OurTownSF Nonprofit Expo for its 5th year but the staff at Eureka Valley Recreation Center feel that they can no longer collaborate due to increased workloads. Due to this, we must now adhere to new rules and fees imposed

by SF Rec’s and Parks.” Margolis added that the rules require that he and his team must hire a Certified Waste Diversion provider, involve the Health Department if they are to serve food or beverages even if the items are pre-packaged, and must pay “several thousand dollars in new fees.” He continued, “They have also denied us from holding this event on the same schedule as in previous years. We have requested sustained financial support from the City to help cover our costs for years but we have received none. It has therefore been decided that it is not viable to hold OurTownSF Nonprofit Expo this year.” OurTownSF will continue to handle reservations for the Nonprofit Window at Walgreens and will publish its website that promotes over 330 groups serving the San Francisco LGBTQ community. Margolis concluded, “We at OurTownSF apologize for any inconvenience this causes you. We are evaluating whether to hold an Expo in the future and investigating other means in which to promote our beloved nonprofits.” https://bit.ly/31D1mGd

Did someone say that? Is it simply a metaphysical emotion?

Needless to say, it hardly qualifies as a GLBT news suggestion, but I dared not delete it for reasons unclear.

and to outlaw hate speech against our community. The referendum was forced by conservatives who objected to the legislature’s efforts to protect gays and lesbians back in 2018.

This week, I finally recalled the impulse that made me write it down. Something happened.

Someone said something or did something and for one fleeting nanosecond I was going to rewind and replay whatever it was because I missed it.

This was not an action I simply mused about. It was identical to the thought process that I use when I prepare to replay a nifty transition play while watching basketball. Of course, I quickly forgot about the entire incident and could not summon up this freaky mental quirk even with my reminder note. In fact, it’s hard to describe how odd it felt.

Normally, I’d use this news as a springboard to defend our country’s First Amendment, which protects even the vilest speech against government censorship. Here in America, I would write proudly, hate speech is overcome at the marketplace of ideas, where civility and respect for all defeats ignorance and cruelty. I’ve written similar pronouncements many times, usually after authorities in Canada, England, or France nail some homophobic ranter for violating one of these “un-American” rules and regulations. I always have to google and remind everyone of the proposed Nazi parade in Skokie when the ACLU went to bat for the Nazi’s constitutional right to march in the streets. And I usually pontificate about the obvious notion that the right to Free Speech means little if it only protects commonly accepted ideas.

Rereading this, I am tempted to delete this entire story, but I won’t. First because of my Omar Khayyam column writing policy. (“The moving finger writes and having writ, moves on: Nor all your piety nor wit shall lure it back to cancel half a line.”) Second, because I want it off the list. Third, because there’s something to it. I’m not sure what.

While I’m editing old list items, I am also getting rid of some other unused topics. These rejected subjects include: the observation that Devin Nunes has dead eyes like sharks, my dislike of the commercial with sad dogs, the phenomenon of men with bent penises, and “Pink!” whatever that means.

See? I do have some standards.

I think I’ll just make these into a sub-headline.

Off the Fence in Switzerland So, Switzerland is on my list this week because citizens of the Neutral Ski Country voted two to one to ban discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation,

So, I was kind of stunned this time when my inner self second-guessed my usual self and wondered whether or not hate speech isn’t turning into a form of violence. I wondered whether the “marketplace of ideas” is still operating on a level playing field. Swiss proponents argued that the national courts have a track record of using a high bar to punish hate speech, which made me wonder whether or not our policy of “no bar at all” is misplaced.

After all this wondering, I still come down in favor of the First Amendment and the free flow of hateful ideas and the proverbial marketplace as judge and jury. But I’ve never had to think about it in the past. What say you, dear readers?

And what else is new, you ask?

Well, how about the two dads who hired an Uber to take them and their infant son to their hotel in San Diego? Shortly after they settled in, the police arrived to question whether or not they were legitimate fathers or perhaps baby smugglers. It seemed the Uber driver had called the cops because there was no mother in sight. Luckily, the men had the baby’s passport and the police were polite and left, but can you imagine?

Check out the twitter thread of James Moed for the details.

Then we have the news that seven facilities in England have refused or cancelled bookings

by Franklin Graham due to his antigay diatribes, or what the council chief in Sheffield called his “repellent” views on the GLBT community. Graham is planning a summer tour this June, but as far as I can gather, no one is allowing him to reserve an arena. I must add that Great Britain’s ban on antigay hate speech might contribute to his status as persona non grata.

Finally, there’s a justice of the peace in Texas, Dianne Hensley, who is suing the state authorities for the right to refuse to marry gay couples. The sick thing about this story is that the state attorney general, Ken Paxton, refuses to defend the State Commission on Judicial Conduct because he agrees with Hensley. Hensley operates out of Waco, and so far has defied the law by marrying straight couples but not gay men or lesbians.

In Texas, officials are allowed to opt out of marrying anyone. But they can’t pick and choose.

Okay everyone. I am now off to turn on MSNBC and bury myself in Democratic primary politics. Bartender! arostow@aol.com

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SISTER DANA (continued from page 24) Groundhog to soothe our sad mad souls?!”

However, here’s a bit of history to chew on: On Super Bowl Sunday in 1989, Sisters Vicious (Kenneth Bunch), Blanche de Roote ( Joanna Castle), Dana Van Iquity (Dennis McMillan), Luscious Lashes (the late Norman Schrader), and Roma (Michael Williams) went out in habit to bar hop and cheer on the 49ers.

Near the end of the 4th Quarter, the Bengals took the lead with less than 4 minutes remaining in the game. The clock was ticking, and San Francisco needed a miracle. So, we Sisters fell to our knees in the middle of the bar and prayed for victory ... and the rest is Sistory: The San Francisco 49ers drove 92 yards in the final minutes and scored a touchdown

with 34 seconds left to defeat the Cincinnati Bengals, 20–16, in Super Bowl XXIII! Are The Sisters miracle workers? Maybe.

Sister Dana sez, “How bizarre is it to see parts of Market Street free of cars? As a former motor scooter guy, I would be bummed; but now as a full-time pedestrian, this is wonderful!”

From a seed planted in San Francisco 55 years ago by Empress I José Sarria and nurtured by the IMPERIAL FAMILY of San Francisco, the INTERNATIONAL COURT SYSTEM grew into a Royal Oak tree that now has branches in 70 cities in United States, Canada, and Mexico. Here in America, our priority focus will be the 2020 elections promoting

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HRC’s Municipal Equality Index rates more than 500 municipalities. The latest report heralded 88 cities with a perfect score of 100, and many of the index’s high-scoring municipalities can be found in states not typically thought of as being inclusive to LGBTQ people.

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SF IMPERIAL VOTING DAY is Saturday, February 15, 11 am–6 pm, at three convenient polling places: Castro Muni Station, Noon to 6 pm; Project Open Hand, 11 am to 4 pm; and Powerhouse, 1 pm to 5 pm. Must have valid photo ID showing residency in Marin, San Mateo, or San Francisco Counties. Sister Dana is just gonna give one hint: “Run with the Bull!” https://bit.ly/2Se5b1z And the Oscar goes to ... THE ACADEMY OF FRIENDS for their supporting role of LGBT ASYLUM PROJECT as beneficiary at AOF’s 40th anniversary RUBY RED GALA. The elegant red-carpet affair was held at the Commonwealth Club on Oscar night, February 9, with giant screens everywhere to show the live broadcast to all us film aficionados attending. There were even living golden Oscar statues to lend film awards ambiance.

Sister Dana sez, “There are plenty more LOVELY events after Valentine’s Day that you will want to attend!”

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registering to vote and to GET OUT THE VOTE and dump Trump.

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RADICAL is the latest in playwright John Fisher’s thought-provoking pieces, now playing through March 1 at Spark Arts Gallery, 4229 18th Street and Castro. Jack thinks you should stop paying to ride MUNI, pick up trash off the street,

and pee wherever and whenever you need to—that’s why he’s running for Supervisor. Diana and Plant are trying to get him elected even as they are falling in love. But does Jack even stand a chance? And can Diana even trust him?! Find out for yourself and get your ticket at https://bit.ly/3brvJE8 Based on the cult hit film of the same name, THE FULL MONTY, a tentime Tony Award nominee, is filled with honest affection, engaging melodies and the most highly anticipated closing number of any show.

The powerhouse team of Terrence McNally (Ragtime) and David Yazbek (The Band’s Visit) cooks up an electrifying book and score that rocks with soul and still has plenty of heart. This is rated PG-18 (contains mature language, stripping, and partial male nudity—ingredients Sister Dana really enjoys). Now through March 15, Victoria Theatre, 2961 16th Street. https://bit.ly/2UFlnKU The Imperial Council of San Francisco, Inc., proudly announces CORONATION 55: DISCO IN THE JUNGLE” as the Celebration and Step Down of TMIM Emperor Terrill Grimes Munro and Empress Baby Shaques Munro as we crown the next Imperial Monarchs of San Francisco. Saturday, February 22, 6–11 pm, Park Central Hotel, 50 3rd Street. https://bit.ly/2UzpCI2 Join KREWE DE KINQUE and get on the BUS for the FAT TUESDAY BAR CRAWL on Mardi Gras night, Tuesday, February 25. We’ll be starting with a Meet & Greet Happy

Hour at The Edge from 5–7 pm then board the bus at 7 pm & make 3 bar stops, then return to 440 Castro at 11 pm for a finale party there. Tickets will be $20 with drinks & snacks on board. You must pre-register: https://bit.ly/2vhRHJd I am pleased to announce that The SF Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence have just chosen a theme for our annual Easter in the Park: HINDSIGHT 20/20: An Easter You Can Get Behind! So, pad those buttocks and bring out your buns this Easter!

Ross, Rachel, Monica, Chandler, Phoebe, and Joey are hangin’ at the Oasis stage with FRIENDS LIVE to perform two brand new parodies of your favorite TV Friends episodes. This is “The Other One Where Everybody’s in Drag!” This witty send-up features San Francisco drag stars: Caleb Haven Draper, Carol Ann Walker, Emily France, Emily Dwyer, Titus Androgynous, Sue Casa, Paul Grant Hovannes, Cassie Grilli, Kirk Saraceno, L Ron Hubby, and Anne Norland. The Oasis temporarily becomes Central Perk for this “reunion” at 298 11th Street, Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays, 7 pm, now through March 14. https://bit.ly/31GY0SO Sister Dana sez, “For those who choose Mike Bloomberg (and I cannot imagine why), just know that he said trans rights are about ‘some man wearing a dress using a locker room with girls.’ Nice. You will NOT be my president, pal!”

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GARY KRAMER (continued from page 20) elements, which is why her film is so compelling. The story may unfold at a leisurely pace, but that is part of its charm. The characters are so well developed that there is anticipation in Marianne finding a way to make Héloïse smile. And it is clear why a scene of Héloïse “on fire” is so vivid for Marianne.

The performances are also strong, with Merlant doing standout work as Marianne. Her expressions through the film convey her burgeoning desires. Her release once she and Héloïse connect is palpable. In support, Haenel gives a lovely performance as the enigmatic Héloïse. She also has a remarkable final scene (although it echoes Call Me by Your Name).

The film’s costumes are fabulous, and the cinematography is crisp. Sciamma artfully frames her shots, from Marianne naked in front of a fireplace to the first time Héloïse is seen, from behind—a mysterious woman in a vibrant blue cape.

Portrait of a Lady on Fire is an exceptional drama that creates tremendous emotions as it depicts the relationship that develops between these two women. The film’s coda, which recounts an episode later in the lives of the characters, is also highly satisfying. © 2020 Gary M. Kramer Gary M. Kramer is the author of “Independent Queer Cinema: Reviews and Interviews,” and the co-editor of “Directory of World Cinema: Argentina.” Follow him on Twitter @garymkramer

GALLOTTA (continued from page 8) takes a progressive and vocal stance on climate justice, workers’ rights, healthcare, and reproductive rights, especially as Trump continues to attack everything we stand for.

As a grassroots activist, I have been committed to making the Party more visible, relevant, and accessible in the lives of San Francisco Democrats. I’m proud of the work we did in 2018 alongside House Speaker Nancy Pelosi to open the Red to Blue SF headquarters and galvanize hundreds of San Francisco Democrats to make phone calls and texts to flip the House of Representatives blue and send the most diverse Democratic majority in history to Washington.

If elected in March, this is exactly the kind of work that I want to continue to do: grow our grassroots engagement, build greater awareness

of the Party’s work, and get more Democrats engaged in the political process locally and nationally.

But having a Party that’s active and effective is not enough. The San Francisco Democratic Party must reflect our communities and be represented by working people, immigrants, people of color, women, and LGBTQ+ people.

And that is why I’m proud to be running alongside 23 Democratic Party activists and leaders who reflect the diversity of San Francisco.

Together, we are the Social Justice Democrats, and we are fighting for a more affordable, equitable, and just San Francisco that puts the needs of everyday San Franciscans first.

We are: John Avalos, David Campos, Bevan Dufty, Peter Gallotta, Matt Haney, Frances

Hsieh, Anabell Ibanez, Jane Kim, Honey Mahogany, Rafael Mandelman , Sophie Maxwell, Hillary Ronen, Shamann Walton, and Shanell Williams for Assembly District 17 (vote for up to 14). And Keith Baraka, Queena Chen, Kelly Groth, Leah LaCroix, Janice Li, Li Mao Lovett, Gordon Mar, Faauuga Moliga, Mano Raju, and AJ Thomas for Assembly District 19 (vote for up to 10).

Look for our names on your ballot and please join me in voting for Democrats up and down the ballot on March 3rd. We need a local Democratic Party that’s committed to rolling up its sleeves and doing the work it takes to stop Trump and inspire San Francisco Democrats to take action.

No matter what happens on March 3rd, I’ll still be out there—at bus stops, at BART stations, and at farmers’ markets—making sure you get out to vote. Thank you, San Francisco, for this opportunity to do what I never imagined I could. To run, to be me, and to continue to fight for what I believe in.

Learn more: https://petergallotta.org/ Peter Gallotta is a 30-something LGBT political activist holding on to the city that he loves thanks to rent control and two-for-one happy hour specials. He is a former President of the Harvey Milk LGBTQ Democratic Club and currently serves as an appointed member of the San Francisco Democratic County Central Committee and an elected delegate to the California Democratic Party.

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13 Thursday An Evening with Kronos Quartet; A Thousand Thoughts @ Cal Performances, Zellerbach Hall, UC Berkeley. Celebrating Kronos Quartet’s 45-year legacy and composer Terry Riley’s 85th birthday. Sound, image, and live performance merge in Kronos Quartet’s collaboration with filmmakers Sam Green and Joe Bini. 8pm. http://www.calperformances.org Polythene Pam/Shawna Virago/Scorpio Moon/soft vowel sounds @ El Rio, 3158 Mission Street. This is a Thursday night queer band night folk/antipunk/Americana mashup with catchy tunes about the life and times of trans folks, true crime heroes and more topics. 8-11:30pm. http://www.elriosf.com The Homobiles, Pls Pls Me (Brooklyn) Single Release, Lafemmebear @ Ivy Room, 860 San Pablo Avenue, Albany. The queer party punk supergroup featuring Lynn Breedlove sings about cars and babes, crimes and change, bathhouses and ballot measures.

8pm-12am. http://www.ivyroom.com

14 Friday VALENTINE’S DAY Valentine’s GAY @ 924 Gilman, Berkeley. The evening features a lineup of Bay Area queercore punk groups: Lolly Gaggers, Copyslut, Middle-Aged Queers, Cozmo of Pointless Endings and HOTSALT. 7:30pm. https://bit.ly/2tallzy Jai Uttal and The Pagan Love Choir @ Freight & Salvage, 2020 Addison, Berkeley. Grammy nominee and World Music pioneer Jai Uttal, accompanied by four amazing singers, will present an intimate acoustic performance of inspiring songs and devotional chants. 7pm. http://www.thefreight.org Drag Show to End Homelessness @ El Rio, 3158 Mission Street. Some of the Bay Area’s best talent will perform at this drag show to benefit advocacy for our most vulnerable SF population.

7-10pm. http://www.elriosf.com King & Queen Drag-O-Licious @ Ginger’s, 86 Hardie Place.

The Drag-O-Licious show presents a benefit featuring the contestants for the Grand Ducal Council’s King & Queen of Hearts and more.

8-11pm. http://www.gingersbar.com

15 Saturday Toshi Reagon & Be Steadwell @ Freight & Salvage, 2020 Addison Street, Berkeley. The two awardwinning performers, who have been collaborating since meeting in 2012, will present a special duet concert “in exploration of musical possibilities.” 8pm. http://www.thefreight.org Drag Voices @ PianoFight, 144 Taylor Street. Hosted by Elsa Touche and featuring some of the Bay 28

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Area’s favorite drag artists, the drag variety show will feature comedy, live singing, performance art and more. 10-11:30pm. http://www.pianofight.com Bluewater Venture’s Women’s Paddle, The Love Life of Sea Creatures @ Pillar Point Harbor near Half Moon Bay. Join naturalist Kim Powell for this kayaking outing open to all ages and skill levels. 10am-3pm. bluewaterventuressc@gmail.com

16 Sunday San Francisco Gay Softball League New Players Evaluation Clinic @ Moscone Field, 1800 Chestnut Street. This clinic is required for new players and those who haven’t played in two years to make sure everyone is rated properly. 11am. htthp://www.sfgsl.org Little Miss Nasty Rock n’ Roll Burlesque @ Jolene’s Bar, 2700 16th Street. This ongoing monthly event continues. 7pm-8am. https://bit.ly/2HaqWcz L Word at Lez Rio @ El Rio, 3158 Mission Street. Loud booing and popcorn throwing for questionable writing and cheering for hot make outs are strongly encouraged.

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17 Monday PRESIDENT’S DAY Bombshell @ Castro Theatre, 429 Castro Street. Based on the real scandal, Charlize Theron, Nicole Kidman, and Margot Robbie are at the top of their game in this revealing look inside the most powerful and controversial media empire of all time—Fox News. Continues on February 18 at multiple times. http://www.castrotheatre.com President’s Day Recovery @ Lookout, 3600 16th Street. Hostess Pollo Del Mar will welcome you and offer her infamous Jello injectors while DJ Andrew Gibbons will spin tunes. 1-9pm. http://www.lookoutsf.com

18 Tuesday Radical @ Spark Arts Gallery, 4229 18th Street. Theatre Rhino presents John Fisher’s play about Jack who is running for Supervisor and Diana and Plant who are trying to get him elected while falling in love. Check times through March 1. http://www.therhino.org

19 Wednesday Screening of Harriet @ Openhouse, 55 Laguna Community Room. RSVP is required and lunch will be provided for this event presenting the film about the extraordinary life of Harriet Tubman.

11:30am-2:30pm. faire@openhouse-sf.org Democratic Debate Watch Party @ Manny’s, 3092 16th Street. Watch the debate with friends and like-minded neighbors.

5pm. https://bit.ly/3bqOsQj

Leslie Jordan @ Feinstein’s at the Nikko, 222 Mason Street. The show offers a charming and hilarious look at his life experience as a flamboyant youth raised as a Southern Baptist and more. 7pm and again on Feb. 20 at 8pm. http://www.feinsteinssf.com

20 Thursday 2020 Orchids in Focus: 68th Annual Pacific Orchid Exposition @ Hall of Flowers, Golden Gate Park. Thousands of orchids will be on display and for sale from members of the San Francisco Orchid Society and more than 23 international nurseries. Multiple dates and times. http://www.orchidsanfrancisco.org The Full Monty @ Victoria Theatre, 2961 16th Street. Bay Area Musicals presents this awardwinning work by Terrence McNally and David Yazbek. Multiple performances through March 15. http://www.bamsf.org We Shall Overcome - A Celebration of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. featuring Damien Sneed @ Cal Performances, Zellerbach Hall, UC Berkeley. Composer and pianist Damien Sneed’s stirring tribute to the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. celebrates a living lineage of African-American music and culture that ranges from gospel, spirituals, and classical music to jazz and Broadway. 8pm. http://www.calperformances.org SFJAZZ Gala Presents Dianne Reeves: Nights in Brazil with Ivan Lins @ SFJAZZ, 201 Franklin Street. SF Jazz’s resident artist Dianne Reeves and her Brazilian band will present the first in a four night run including additional featured artists. Check listings. http://www.sfjazz.org

21 Friday Manny’s Civic Trivia: Black History @ Manny’s, 3092 16th Street. In honor of Black History Month, Manny’s is hosting a civic trivia night dedicated to Black History. 6pm. http://www.welcometomannys.com Black Power Ball @ SF LGBT Center, 1800 Market Street. Featuring MC Sir JoQ from Vogue and Tone and MC and DJ Spiider, this event will celebrate TLGB Black History Month and the mothers and fathers of Ball Culture. 8pm. http://www.sfcenter.org

22 Saturday Nevada Democratic Primary Watch Party @ Manny’s, 3092 16th Street. Watch the results coming in with friends and likeminded neighbors. 5pm. http://www.welcometomannys.com Frozen II Sing Along @ Castro Theatre, 429 Castro Street. Venture into the unknown alongside Anna and Elsa when the Walt Disney Animation Studio hit comes to the Castro Theatre for multiple

nights and times. http://www.castrotheatre.com Imperial Court’s Coronation 55: SF Imperial Disco in The Jungle @ The Park Central SF, 50 3rd Street. The Council’s annual Coronation gala event. 6pm. krislippincott@gmail.com

23 Sunday SF Imperial Brunch and Cemetary Pilgrimage to Colma @ The Park Central San Francisco, 50 3rd Street. The Imperial Council of San Francisco, Inc welcomes everyone to join in at Victory Brunch after returning from the cemetery pilgrimage. Meet the new Monarchs as they celebrate the stepping down Monarchs of San Francisco.

11:30am-1:30pm. http://www.imperialcouncilsf.org Behind the Curtain @ National LGBTQ Center for the Arts @ 170 Valencia Street. San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus launches a new series of events with this one featuring cast members from Hamilton in conversation with SF Chronicle’s Tony Bravo. 5pm. http://www.sfgmc.org Salsa Sunday with Danilo Y Orquestra Universali! @ El Rio, 3158 Mission Street. An afternoon party, benefiting Coalition on Homelessness, of live Salsa, Merengue and Cumbia bands; on the patio every 2nd and 4th Sunday supporting nonprofit groups. 3-8pm. http://www.sfaf.org

24 Monday Do Ask Do Tell @ SF LGBT Center, 1800 Market Street. A weekly support group for LGBTQ+ community members who were in the military. 6-7pm. http://www.sfcenter.org

25 Tuesday Democratic Debate Watch Party @ Manny’s, 3092 16th Street. Watch the debate with friends and like-minded neighbors.

5pm. https://bit.ly/3bkHpbM Grace Cathedral’s Carnivale @ Grace Cathedral, 1100 California.

The 10th annual year for this elegant evening that includes a gala reception and dinner followed by late night revelry Mardi Gras style.

6pm-12am. https://bit.ly/2Sw8lwN On Common Ground: Overcoming What Divides Us @ Exploratorium, The Embarcadero.

KQED’s Sasha Khokha will lead a discussion in this KQED series event on how we can turn the tide against the prevailing “us versus them” mindset.

7pm. http://www.kqed.org Carnival 2020 at The Freight Hosted by Tammy Hall @ Freight & Salvage, 2020 Addison, Berkeley. The popular performer and composer Tammy Hall will be joined by a lineup that includes Carolyn Brandy, and many more in a performance honoring lemanja (Yemaya) with some old fashioned New Orleans dancing and partying.

8pm. http://www.thefreight.org

26 Wednesday An Evening of Art and Elegance @ Strut, 470 Castro Street.

Join Trans Life, Black Brothers Esteem (BBE), DREAAM, Positive Force and QTPOC at Strut for a Black History Month evening celebrating and promoting local Black artists and their work. 2-6pm. http://www.sfaf.org Find More Calendar Items at www.sfbaytimes.com S AN F R ANC IS C O BAY T IM ES

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Swirl wine shop’s Valentine’s window display Vanessa Lovato displayed options for Valentine’s Day at Polk Street Florist shop.

“Love Is Love” was the theme of the window display at Castro Village Wine Company.

49er fans were on hand on Sunday, February 2, for the Gay Super Bowl Party held at Cinch bar on Polk Street.

Emcees Dana Hopkins and Larrybob Roberts welcomed featured performer Fureigh (center) at Manny’s for the Smack Dab Open Mic on Sunday, February 2.

Servers Annie Tillis and Ryan Jones welcomed customers on February 1 to the opening day of the new Hot Cookie shop on Polk Street.

A timely sign is posted in the window of the First Congregational Church on Polk Street.

Chatz of Love and Ray Famora of the group Tell the Bees performed during the Smack Dab Open Mic at Manny’s on February 2.

San Franicsco Department of Public Health staffers Vincent Fuqua, Susan Buchbinder, Tracy Parker and Gavin Morrow-Hall enjoyed the National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day at the SFDPH offices on February 8.

Husbands Uber Morales and Jean Chaux were married at San Francisco City Hall on February 8.

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Ken Jones

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“Gavin Morrow-Hall and Vincent Fuqua”

“Veronika Fimbres”

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A holiday buffet and entertainment along with speeches by City officials comprised the program of the Lunar New Year celebration.

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Lion dancers from LionDanceMe troupe surrounded Miss Asia Photogenic (3rd from left) during the 2020 Lunar New Year kickoff celebration held at San Francisco City Hall on February 3.

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Swiss Consul General Julius Fidelis Anderegg and Swiss film director Barbara Miller walked down the red carpet prior to the screening of Miller’s film Female Pleasure during the Berlin & Beyond Film Festival on February 8.

Berlin & Beyond Festival director Sophoan Sorn and honored actress Christiane Paul were at the Festival’s VIP Party on the evening of the Festival’s opening night.

Mayor London Breed and Chinese Consul General Wang Donghua at the Lunar New Year celebration at City Hall

February is a great time for bonding with our family unit, and what better way than with a good meal. We love the Zavor line of Multicookers. They serve as a Pressure Cooker, Slow Cooker, Rice Cooker, Yogurt Maker, and Sousvide all in one. They are programmable and can reduce cooking times dramatically while reducing stress in your busy day.

VHEAT Vintage Heater The often cold days of February sometimes need a little boost of heat in just the right area. The VHEAT whole room vintage heater form Vornado is the perfect heater for your drafty San Francisco bachelor pad. It’s the classic Vornado technology encased in a stylish metal casing that looks like something Jimi Hendrix kicked around his Haight Street flat.

Larkin Street Youth Services’ Sherilyn Adams, District 8 Supervisor Rafael Mandelman and St. James Infirmary’s Toni Newman were speakers at the Trans Home forum held at the SF Public Library’s Main Library on January 29.

2020: What a great number!

This past decade we saw a lot of changes in our neighborhood and the city as a whole. For us that translated into tremendous support from our regular customers and visitors from around the world. We thank you all for your support and hope that 2020 brings us clarity on our path forward and a much more inclusive and prosperous year ahead for all San Franciscans. –Terry

Frank Vollbehr and his partner Hans-Ulrich Südbeck, the German Consul General, at the Berlin & Beyond Film Festival on February 7.

Janie Frank and Sherri Martin were dressed in 1940s style attire for the Noir Film Festival at the Castro Theatre on January 31.

German Consul General Hans-Ulrich Südbeck (left) with film stars, festival staff, sponsors and others who judged the films gathered for a group photo at the German Consulate’s reception honoring the 25th Berlin & Beyond Film Festival on February 6.

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