LGBTQIA+ Survey Results
Results Now Available From Groundbreaking Survey of LGBTQIA+ Midlife and Older Adults in California
Aging in Community
The first state-funded study of LGBTQIA+ midlife and older adults in Californian is nearing completion. It is a two-part study on LGBTQIA+ aging that includes both an online survey and data from a series of focus groups with some of the hardest to reach LGBTQIA+ midlife and older adults. The results of the study’s online survey have been released! The second part of the study, concerning the focus groups, is still in progress.
The survey was designed and administered by research partners from CITRIS Health and the Center for Advanced Study of Aging Services at the University of California, Berkeley; Openhouse, a San Francisco LGBTQIA+ senior serving nonprofit; and the University of California, San Francisco; with assistance from a coalition of LGBTQIA+ community-based organizations. Funding support was provided by the California Department on Aging. I am proud to have taken part in this effort. It was an honor and privilege to work with so many dedicated researchers and community leaders.
This California state survey, with over 4000 LGBTQIA Californians 50 years of age and older from every region throughout California, is a game changer. For far too long, the lack of robust data has been a major obstacle to reducing health disparities in our aging LGBTQIA+ communities (see my January 2024 San Francisco Bay Times article). For the first time, state and local governments, philanthropic foundations, and LGBTQIA+ senior-serving nonprofits will have the comprehensive and consistent information they need to fund more and more effective LGBTQIA+ aging services to meet the growing and changing needs of LGBTQIA+ Californians as we age.
The 2024 survey does have some limitations as an online survey. For example, the participants are limited to people who have access to technology. Nonetheless, the California survey is a baseline for future surveys that will usher in a new era in data collection, and potentially, a new era in the health and well-being of LGBTQIA older adults.
“This survey marks an important step in understanding the unique needs of
LGBTQIA+ older adults, allowing us to take meaningful steps in shaping services that truly reflect and respond to this community,” said California Department of Aging Director Susan DeMarois. “We’re proud that so many respondents feel California offers a high quality of life, and we are committed to building on these strengths by addressing barriers and creating a more inclusive, supportive future for all older Californians.”
The state used a community-based model to develop the survey. Openhouse’s former executive director, Dr. Kathleen Sullivan, was instrumental in ensuring that there was community input by creating a coalition of LGBTQ+ providers throughout the state to share information and to be thought leaders in every step of survey development. Openhouse brought on Jupiter Peraza as Openhouse’s Manager of the Statewide Coalition. Openhouse hopefully will continue the coalition after the survey has ended. The coalition could play a critical ongoing role advocating for California’s LGBTQIA aging communities.
Survey Respondents
quality of life, and among transgender/gender expansive respondents, 22% reported fair or poor quality of life.
Almost a quarter (23%) of respondents reported their physical health as fair or poor. Seventeen percent of respondents were people living with HIV.
Most survey respondents were white (78%). The second largest race/ethnicity category after white was Latino or Hispanic (9%), followed by those who selected more than one race/ethnicity category (8%), and similar percentages of Black or African American (4%), Asian or Pacific Islander (4%), American Indian or Alaska Native (3%), and Middle Eastern or North African (2%) respondents. Most respondents also identified as cisgender (89%), that is having a gender that aligns with the sex assigned at birth (male or female). A series of focus groups are being conducted by Dr. Angie Perone from the School of Social Welfare at UC Berkeley to ensure that in-depth information is collected from some of the hardest-to-reach LGBTQIA+ midlife and older adults.
(Watch this column for the focus group results in the early part of 2025.)
Economic and social well-being were challenging for LGBTQIA+ older adults. About one in four (26%) reported financial insecurity or concerns about financial insecurity. Almost one in five (19%) transgender and gender expansive respondents reported an income of $20,000 or less, compared to 9% of cisgender respondents. Over a quarter (28%) reported fair or poor satisfaction with social activities and relationships. About one in eight (13%) of survey participants reported rarely or never receiving the emotional and social support they need.
Nearly one quarter of respondents (24%) had symptoms consistent with post-traumatic stress disorder. Mental health was one of the top five services where needs were not met. Twenty percent of respondents reported their mental health as fair or poor, one in ten (11%) reported serious thoughts of suicide within the past year. Across the board,
the rates were higher among transgender/gender expansive respondents and transgender women, in particular. Survey respondents reported that mental health services were among the top five types of service they avoided because they were not considered LGBTQ+ friendly.
Discrimination, trauma, and stigma were common among all LGBTQIA+ older adults, with experiences of trauma, abuse, and discrimination higher among people of color and transgender and gender expansive people. Almost half (49%) of respondents experienced a traumatic life event in their lifetime.
While it is heartening to know that 86% of LGBTQIA older adults report a high quality of life, there is much in this final report that is sobering and disquieting and that calls us to act by developing policies and programs to improve the health and well-being of California’s LGBTQIA+ older adults.
To read the complete survey report, go to https://bit.ly/3B5v9Of
Dr. Marcy Adelman, a psychologist and LGBTQ+ longevity advocate and policy adviser, oversees the Aging in Community column. She serves on the California Commission on Aging, the California Behavioral Health Task Force, the Board of the Alzheimer’s Association of Northern California, and the San Francisco Dignity Fund Oversight and San Francisco Advisory Committees. She also serves as a Senior Advisor to the LGBTQIA+ Older Adults in California survey and is the Co-Founder of Openhouse, the only San Francisco nonprofit exclusively focused on the health and well-being of LGBTQ+ older adults.
Highlights From the Survey
Most survey respondents (86%) gave a high rating to their quality of life. Among people of color, however, 18% reported fair or poor
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Recommended Actions at Local and State Levels to Help LGBTQIA+ Older Adults LGBTQIA+ Survey Results
By 2030, just a few years from now, over 10 million Californians will be 60 or older. Approximately 5% of these midlife and older adults identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex, asexual, or sexual and/or gender minority (LGBTQIA+), yet relatively little is known about their health and well-being. What is known suggests significant health disparities—disparities that are difficult, if not impossible, to address without more comprehensive, accurate data.
To begin filling these data gaps, the California Department of Aging (CDA) spearheaded the first statewide survey to explore the current and future health and well-being of California’s midlife and older LGBTQIA+ population. The 2024 baseline survey, From Challenges to Resilience, aligns with the goals of California’s Master Plan for Aging, a blueprint for state and local governments and their philanthropic and private-sector partners to prepare for California’s growing population of older adults.
Services designed to promote healthy aging for LGBTQIA+ older adults require specific investments to make them feel safe, seen, and
deserving of care. At both local and state levels, consistent with action steps and goals outlined in California’s Master Plan for Aging, the From Challenges to Resilience study team calls for the following:
1. Increasing the number of LGBTQIA+affirming health care providers, first responders, caregivers, and caseworkers by promoting and providing LGBTQIA+ competency training, continuing education units, and other incentives.
2. Developing implementation guidance and standards of care that address the underlying causes of disparities for LGBTQIA+ older adults who are people of color.
3. Encouraging multilingual and transgender/gender expansive-affirming design of services, resources, and research, paired with tailored service outreach, to build trust.
4. Bringing new voices and experiences into the service area, by encouraging multilingual, people of color, and transgender/gender expansive people with expertise in community-focused outreach and care to serve as patient advocates, researchers, caseworkers, and providers.
5. Investing in organizations that have already earned trust and are led by LGBTQIA+ community members (via grants, operating support, and consultancies, among other mechanisms) and routinely seeking and responding to their input (as the survey design did).
6. Intensifying data collection efforts that include LGBTQIA+ populations to increase understanding of both gaps and progress. Specifically, this means:
• collecting sexual orientation/gender identity (SOGI) data across state-level data collection forms (with input from community-focused experts on how to ask for this information);
• tracking progress with specific metrics that are focused on disparities, including specific health and well-being outcomes of programs and policies for LGBTQIA+ older adults’ well-being and service gaps.
7. Increasing accountability for making progress by reporting back to LGBTQIA+ organizations and partners across California on the status of these initiatives, particularly:
• community outreach that includes those
less represented in the current survey and findings so that they can participate in future data collection efforts and have their voices and experiences reflected (i.e., “Nothing about us without us.”);
• participation of all LGBTQIA+ voices in policy solutions to address racism and discrimination;
• outcomes of research and program/service changes that result from community participation in research initiatives.
These action steps and goals are included in From Challenges to Resilience: Findings and Implications From California’s First Statewide Survey of LGBTQIA+ Older Adults For More Information
The LGBTQIA+ Older Adult Survey Report https://bit.ly/3B5v9Of California’s Master Plan for Aging https://mpa.aging.ca.gov/
The California Department of Aging https://aging.ca.gov/ Openhouse https://www.openhousesf.org/
Lavender Seniors of the East Bay 30th Anniversary
Photos by Sandy Morris
The Lavender Seniors of the East Bay, with a mission to improve the quality of life of older LGBTQ residents of Alameda and Contra Costa counties, celebrated the organization’s 30th Anniversary on November 22, 2024. The Center’s Elder Services Director, Jessie Spivey, and Elder Services Coordinator, Maya Organ, organized the ceremony.
San Leandro Mayor Juan Gonzalez issued a proclamation to mark the occasion. Silin Huang, who is the District Director of the Alameda County Board of Supervisors, and Alameda County Supervisor Lena Tam also extended congratulations to the longstanding organization.
Tam additionally shared via social media: “Congratulations to Lavender Seniors of the East Bay on celebrating 30 years of incredible service to the LGBTQ+ older adult community! Your dedication to advocacy, social support, and education has enriched the lives of seniors in Alameda and Contra Costa counties, fostering a sense of belonging and dignity. Thank you for your unwavering commitment to ensuring a brighter, more inclusive future for LGBTQ+ elders!”
To view a slideshow of images from the event: https://bit.ly/4ikDZIz
For more information about Lavender Seniors of the East Bay: https://lavenderseniors.org/
Radical Acts of Joy
In Case You Missed It
Joanie
Juster
For months I’ve been writing about the election, and warning of the potential consequences. Much of what I’ve written about is dark and serious stuff. Since November 6, many of us have been experiencing fear, anger, depression, anxiety, and, frankly, exhaustion. Many of us poured all our time and energy into an election that didn’t produce the results we had hoped for, and are now justly fearful of what will happen to our country come January 21, especially those among us who are directly under attack.
I’m reminded of the term “anticipatory grief,” an intense feeling of grief or loss prior to the actual loss. That feeling is getting worse with each passing day that brings news of yet more wildly inappropriate and unqualified cabinet appointments, and the incoming administration’s eagerness to follow the Project 2025 playbook.
Well, enough is enough. It’s time to flip the switch.
Those feelings of fear and hopelessness that are weighing us down are exactly what they are hoping for. They want us to feel afraid. They want us to feel intimidated, and exhausted, and they want us to feel hopeless. They want us to forget our own power.
To which I say, hell no. I’m not letting them rob me of my joy. In the face of such a blatant attack on our hopes and dreams, joy is a radical act of resistance. Spreading joy becomes our patriotic duty.
Let us dive headlong into this holiday season with more love, more festivity, more generosity, more glitter, than ever before. Celebrate the season, and lift up those around us. Joy is our secret strength, and love and kindness are our superpowers that will get us through the difficult times ahead. Our joy is our greatest defense against their barrage of hate and fear.
Practicing Radical Kindness Every Day
In 2017, I started supporting a local organization whose work seemed particularly relevant during an administration that was actively sowing division and hate between people of different races, faiths, and countries of origin. The San Francisco Interfaith Council (SFIC) stood up against the Muslim bans, and other actions taken by that administration that were discriminatory and harmful. But looking into their history revealed an even broader mission:
“Celebrating our diverse faiths and spiritual traditions, the San Francisco Interfaith Council brings people together to build understanding and serve our community.”
That part about serving our community is simply stated, but profoundly lived. SFIC was born out of civic crises. Starting with organizing emergency homeless shelters in 1988 in response to the city’s burgeoning homelessness crisis, then coordinating relief efforts after the 1989 Loma Prieta earthquake, the SFIC by 1992 incorporated as a nonprofit. Their ongoing community work includes working closely with local government and civic agencies to respond to emergencies and health crises, in addition to working with over 800 congregations, and faith-based social service agencies. They
work hard every day to provide comfort and support to the most vulnerable among us, centering their work on civil rights, housing affordability, disaster preparedness, and immigration defense. They are also a welcoming organization, with LGBTQ+ congregations and leaders well-represented in their membership.
On November 26, I attended their annual Interfaith Thanksgiving Prayer Breakfast, an inspiring morning where San Francisco’s diversity and strength were on full display. Speakers, including Mayor London Breed and Speaker Emerita Nancy Pelosi, spoke of SFIC’s history of helping our city during times of crisis, and also honored one of SFIC’s founders, Rita Semel, who, at 103, is still actively engaged in its work.
their important work: https://tinyurl.com/SFIC24
While celebrating SFIC’s 35 years of service, Executive Director Michael Pappas also brought up “the elephant in the room”—the looming crisis of the incoming administration. Bishop Jeff Johnson, of the Sierra Pacific Synod of Evangelical Lutheran Church of San Francisco, put it bluntly: “There is a storm coming.” The closing prayer was given by the venerable Rev. Dr. Amos C. Brown of the historic Third Baptist Church. At 83, Rev. Brown, who studied and marched with his friend Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., has weathered many such storms. Thus, his words carried the weight of hardlived experience when he admonished us, “Make sure each of us becomes a first responder.”
To learn more about SFIC and to support
Code Tenderloin: Joy to the City
More joy! Come to Chase Center’s Thrive City (1725 3rd Street, San Francisco) on Saturday, December 7, from 2–6 pm for Code Tenderloin and Assemblymember Matt Haney’s second annual toy drive and celebration, Joy to the City. The holiday festivities will also include free ice skating, live performances, and holiday family photos. And, of course, they need volunteers to help create the holiday magic for all the families who will be attending. Sign up to attend or to volunteer here: https://tinyurl.com/CTJTTC24
Wishing you all radical joy this holiday season.
Joanie Juster is a long-time community volunteer, activist, and ally.
SFIC Executive Director Michael Pappas with Mayor London Breed, SFIC Co-Founder Rita Semel, age 103 (center), and friends at the SFIC’s Thanksgiving Prayer Breakfast held on November 26.
Christine Pelosi, Rev. Dr. Amos Brown, Speaker Emerita Nancy Pelosi
Dr. Amos Brown
Rev. Martin K. White of GLIDE Memorial Church
Photos by Alain McLaughlin
How to Face a Trump Presidency as a Trans Person
have come into question.
The election of President Trump has stirred up a maelstrom of fear and uncertainty for many Americans, and amongst those most worried about the future are members of the transgender community. Our community has spent the last few decades fighting for equity in healthcare, legal recognition, and increasing visibility and representation. Across the country, many trans people have been able to find support and community, even a sense of safety, stability, and the promise of a brighter future.
But as the reality of a second Trump presidency takes hold, that safety and security
President-elect Trump and MAGA Republicans’ targeting of the trans community has resulted in threats to our safety and civil rights including trans healthcare, bathroom, and sports bans, threats to revise legal recognition, and even bans from military service. While we do not know how many of these threats will become law, or exactly how these policies will manifest or be implemented, what we do know is that there are things we can do to weather the coming storm. And here in San Francisco, we have the privilege of access to a diverse network of service providers that are already gearing up to help our community navigate the times ahead.
The number one piece of advice I have seen mentioned, time and time again, is how important it is for trans people to update their legal documents as soon as possible. This includes making sure that your social security card, birth certificate, driver’s license, and passport all match and that they display your correct name and
gender marker. The incoming administration is likely to try and restrict, or complicate, the process of updating these documents, so getting all your documents in order is one of the most important things you can do, especially since the deadline for obtaining a REAL ID, which will be mandatory for all air travel starting May 7, 2025, is rapidly approaching. By ensuring that all necessary changes are made to their IDs before this critical date, transgender people can safeguard their ability to freely and seamlessly navigate air travel, even in the face of a hostile federal administration.
often complex and daunting bureaucratic process of name and gender changes. Additionally, mutual aid networks and fee waiver programs are available to help alleviate the financial burden associated with these identity document updates.
Here in San Francisco, we have a variety of resources available to assist trans folks in updating their legal documents. The Transgender District, the SF LGBT Center, and Trans Thrive all host regular transfocused legal clinics dedicated to providing expert guidance and support throughout
With the uncertainty surrounding healthcare access and protections for transgender individuals under a Trump presidency, it’s crucial to take proactive steps to safeguard your ability to receive gender-affirming care. Identify trans-friendly healthcare providers
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Trans Action with Honey Mahogany
Honey Mahogany was among the participants at the San Francisco Transgender Immigrants Day commemoration on November 18, 2024. A press conference took place at noon that day on the steps of San Francisco City Hall.
Photos courtesy of Honey Mahogany
Honey Mahogany and other transgender leaders and community members observed the global Transgender Day of Remembrance on Wednesday, November 20, with a rally at San Francisco City Hall followed by a march and program at the SF LGBT Community Center. (See page 10)
Time for Sarah McBride and Her Colleagues to Stand Strong for Trans People
6/26 and Beyond
Stuart Gaffney and John Lewis
We were shocked and horrified two weeks ago when Republican provocateur and Congressmember Nancy Mace launched a transphobic broadside against Sarah McBride, who in January will make history as the first transgender member of Congress. Even before McBride’s swearing in, Mace introduced a House resolution to bar her soonto-be colleague and indeed all trans and gender nonbinary people from using bathrooms that correspond to their gender identity at the U.S. Capitol and House office buildings.
Openly LGBTIQ Representative Becca Balint from Vermont immediately called out Mace’s brazen attack as “petty” and “hateful,” adding that there was “no bottom to the cruelty” of such Republican firebrands. Conservative Republican House Speaker Mike Johnson initially showed a degree of restraint in responding to Mace’s attack. Although Johnson parroted baseless assertions about the nature of gender, he declared: “We don’t look down upon anyone. We treat everybody with dignity and respect.” And he promised that Congress would act “in a deliberate fashion with member consensus on it, and we will accommodate the needs of every single person.”
The next day, Johnson quickly changed his tune, proclaiming a new written rule that: “All single-sex facilities in the Capitol and House Office Buildings—such as restrooms, changing rooms, and locker rooms—are reserved for individuals of that biological sex.” Jettisoned overnight were acting in a “deliberate fashion” and seeking consensus, much less input from House members, congressional employees, and countless visitors to the Capitol. Treating everyone with dignity and respect gave way to blind transphobia.
The new House rule, of course, cannot withstand critical scrutiny for many reasons. Did Johnson and Mace even consider that the new rule would mean that trans men with completely traditional masculine appearance will be using the women’s room?
Very tellingly, neither Johnson nor Mace cited even a single incident of an actual problem with bathroom usage ever having taken place at the Capitol in their urgent pronouncements about the issue. That’s because innumerable trans and gender nonconforming people have already been using bathrooms in the Capitol (and indeed all over the country) without incident and with-
out most people even knowing it.
Openly gay Representative Mark Pocan, chair of the LGBTQI+ Congressional Equality Caucus, highlighted who will really suffer—trans and gender nonconforming people—because the “cruel unnecessary” ban “puts countless staff, interns, and visitors to the United States Capitol at risk.” He asked scornfully: “How will [the ban] even be enforced? Will the Sergeant at Arms post officers in bathrooms? Will everyone who works at the Capitol have to carry around their birth certificate or undergo a genetic test?”
How should our community respond to these attacks? The issue is not going away. In January, the newly constituted House will vote on rules for the next two years. Mace has filed legislation to impose a trans bathroom ban in all federal buildings and federally funded schools. We know that anti-LGBTIQ Republican forces have other attacks in the offing, too.
We have appreciated some of McBride’s own responses to date, but some of what she has said has disappointed us. We agree with McBride’s characterization of the ban as “mean-spirited” and “a blatant attempt from far right-wing extremists to distract.”
She rightly pointed out that there was no issue about bathroom use at the Capitol until a “small Republican conference majority decided to get headlines and to manufacture a crisis.” We admire the aspiration McBride articulated: “I would like my grace to contrast with the grandstanding that we’re seeing right now. I would like my approach of respecting everyone to contrast with the disrespect that we are seeing right now.”
But we were taken aback when, within hours of Johnson’s proclaiming the ban, McBride announced that she, in fact, would comply with it. In explaining her position, McBride declared, in part, “I’m not here to fight about bathrooms. I’m here to fight for Delawareans.” Our immediate reaction was: What about trans Delawareans?
No LGBTIQ person seeks to fight about bathrooms, but when legislatures, government officials, and school boards take away our rights, we have to resist. We’re confident that, several years ago, trans student Gavin Grimm did not go to high school to fight about bathrooms. However, when his school district restricted his ability to use the restroom, the vulnerable 15-year-old stood up with extraordinary courage and grace and fought for himself and thereby trans students everywhere. Grimm’s lawsuit challenging the district’s actions went all the way to the 4th Circuit Federal Court of Appeals, where he won a victory improving the lives of numerous trans youth. McBride walked back some of her words when she told The Advocate the next day:
“I’m here to represent my constituents, including LGBTQ constituents,” which “means fighting for them” and “continuing to work to guarantee that the Capitol complex is safe for all staff, interns, and visitors.”
But three days later on CBS’ Face the Nation, McBride returned to her talking points, making no specific mention of her LGBTIQ constituents or the horrific realworld consequences of Republican antitrans policies, such as denial of gender affirming care, devastating trans mental health outcomes, and anti-trans violence. She further claimed that how she was “being treated does not matter.” But as the first trans member of Congress and one of 535 people empowered to craft our nation’s laws, McBride is now the human face of trans people in our government. How she is treated and how she responds to that treatment has immense importance. McBride stands on the shoulders of Marsha P. Johnson, Sylvia Rivera, the “screaming queens” who rioted at Compton’s Cafeteria, Gavin Grimm, and myriad other trans leaders and visionaries who came before her. McBride can draw on their inspiration to meet the moment.
As out Congressmember Balint said, “We have an obligation to push back. When we allow attacks on someone’s basic human dignity, we’re all made more cruel.”
It’s not too late. Now is the time for
McBride, other trans and nonbinary elected officials, trans federal employees, trans activists, the Congressional LGBTQI+ Equality Caucus, and supporters and allies everywhere to map out effective new strategies and to collaborate together—and for all of us to join them.
John Lewis and Stuart Gaffney, together for over three decades, were plaintiffs in the California case for equal marriage rights decided by the California Supreme Court in 2008. Their leadership in the grassroots organization Marriage Equality USA contributed in 2015 to making samesex marriage legal nationwide.
Congressmember Elect Sarah McBride (D) Delaware
Congressmember Mark Pocan (D) Wisconsin
Congressmember Becca Balint (D) Vermont
Congressmember Nancy Mace (R) South Carolina
Speaker of the House Mike Johnson (R) Louisiana
Transgender Day of Remembrance 2024
The Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is held globally on November 20, and was observed this year in San Francisco starting with a rally on the steps of San Francisco City Hall, which was lit for the evening in blue, pink, and white lights.
Following remarks by community leaders at the rally, participants marched to the San Francisco LGBT Community Center for a program and reception. The San Francisco Office of Transgender Initiatives, following the event, shared:
“Yesterday, in commemoration of Trans Day of Remembrance, our community rallied in front of City Hall despite heavy rainfall to honor our past trancestors we’ve lost to the ongoing epidemic of anti-trans violence.
This year, the Trans Murder Monitoring Project reported at least 350 trans and gender non-conforming people worldwide lost their lives to violence, suicide, or unknown causes. At least 36 of them were lost here in the United States. 9 in 10 of the reported cases were Black and Brown trans people.
Although the grief we hold as a community is deep, so is our passion to show up for our community and fight for change. In light of violence, and faced with an openly transphobic incoming federal administration, our community remains steadfast. Yesterday was a testament to our strength and resilience, in a beautiful gathering in honor of our trancestors.”
California Governor Gavin Newsom issued a proclamation on November 20 concerning the observance. Governor Newsom said, “California joins people across the country and around the world honoring the Transgender Day of Remembrance today. As we commemorate the lives tragically lost to bigotry and violence against trans people, we reaffirm our commitment to fighting for the safety, equality, and inclusion of our LGBTQ community.”
The TDOR was founded in 1999 by Gwendolyn Ann Smith—a trans woman who is a graphic designer, columnist, and activist— to memorialize the murder of Rita Hester in Allston, Massachusetts. Since its inception, the TDOR has been held annually and quickly evolved from a local gathering started by Smith into an international day of action. By 2013, it was observed in over 200 cities throughout more than 20 countries.
Goodbye and Thank You
Assemblymember Phil Ting
My time as your Assemblymember representing the Westside of San Francisco has come to an end, after reaching the maximum twelve years dictated by term limits. I appreciate your support, reelecting me at every opportunity. It has been an honor of a lifetime to serve you. I never had ambitions to be a state lawmaker, and I was as surprised as my immigrant parents that a career in government is where I ended up.
After my father came to America, he worked as a lighting technician at CBS Studios in Los Angeles. He thought this was the most amazing place in the world. And it is.
Having been born and raised in California, I owe everything that I’ve become to this great state. I’m a product of public education— from grade school all the way through college.
I sought public office because I wanted the
same opportunity for all Californians and to make the lives of 40 million people better. I came to Sacramento on the heels of the Great Recession, and I remember reading The Economist’s cover story, asking “if the California Dream is over.” Clearly, no.
Since then, the Golden State went from eighth largest economy in world to number five. Among the highlights that strengthened our standing are the following:
LGBTQ+ Community: Creation of California’s Same-Sex Couple Tax Fairness Act; Implementation of the nation’s first single-user restrooms mandate, making them accessible to all; state funding for the LGBTQ Museum of History and Culture, the GLBT Museum, and Harvey Milk Plaza; additional health resources to address Mpox, HIV, and Hep-C cases; more support for LGBTQ+ students in public schools.
Education: K–12 per-pupil spending is now approaching $24,000, the highest in state history; creation of transitional kindergarten; universal school meals, regardless of income; thousands more slots for California students at U.C. and Cal State schools; increased financial aid or stipends through CalGrants, the Middle Class Scholarship program, and the nation’s largest service corps.
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The History of the Mai Tai Evidences Oakland’s Spirit of Innovation
Out of the Closet and into City Hall
Oakland City Councilmember At-Large, Rebecca Kaplan
In September 2024, we celebrated the remarkable legacy of Bruce Lee in Oakland, acknowledging the city’s pivotal role in shaping his martial arts and film journey with a ceremonial street renaming. I am also proud to have authored legislation that recognizes another gem of Oakland’s history: the Mai Tai cocktail. The Mai Tai was created 80 years ago at Trader Vic’s restaurant, which once graced San Pablo in Oakland, California. The legislation not only showcases the rich hospitality heritage of our city, but also highlights Oakland’s spirit of innovation across all sectors of the economy.
The Mai Tai cocktail has fascinated the world of spirits and cocktails since it was first created at that original Oakland-based Trader Vic’s. The tropical concoction, featuring a balance of bitter and sweet flavors with a base of rum, played a crucial role in popularizing tiki drinks in the 1950s and 1960s. At the peak of its popularity, the world’s rum supply was in high demand. Victor J. Bergeron, a restaurateur, invented the cocktail, and it became the signature drink at Trader Vic’s. Today, Trader Vic’s is a well-known name with locations worldwide and is closely associated with tiki bar culture. In 1934, with an investment of $500, Bergeron opened his initially small
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46th Annual Milk Moscone Vigil
Held on the evening of Wednesday, November 27, the 2024 Milk Moscone Vigil began with a rally at Harvey Milk Plaza. The candlelight vigil included music, featured speakers, and a march to Harvey Milk’s Castro Camera shop location at 573 Castro Street.
Speakers included GLIDE Memorial Church’s Minister of Celebration, Marvin K. White; Milk Club Vice President and activist Melissa Hernandez; San Francisco Bay Times founding editor Randy Alfred; tenant rights activist Tommy Avicolli Mecca; and San Francisco AIDS Foundation Director of Aging Services, Vince Crisostomo. Carol Ruth Silver, a former San Francisco supervisor and friend of Milk, also gave inspiring remarks.
The march portion of the observance could be viewed live on the Castro Street Cam’s Cam #1 and #2.
The vigil is sponsored annually by the Harvey Milk Democratic Club. To view a related video: https://bit.ly/3OEHITE
Among those attending this year from the San Francisco Bay Times, in addition to Alfred, were lead photographer Rink and columnists Joanie Juster and Sister Dana Van Iquity (aka Dennis McMillan).
GLBT Fortnight in Review
Hear No Evil, See No Evil
I already told you that I had decided not to think about Trump or politics until after the inauguration, affording myself a pleasant holiday season free of stomach-churning news and dystopic speculations. Well, I’ve kept to that, and I’ve even gone further. No more obsessive MSNBC watching. I skim through the “national” section of The New York Times, which I still get delivered because a) I am a baby boomer, b) I understand more when I have access to the whole paper, and c) I always do the “two not touch” puzzle, which is not available online.
Now, I no longer ace the weekly Times news quiz. Where once I was awash with current events trivia, I have become mystified and ignorant. The less I read, the less I want to read. It’s like going on one of those diets where you can’t eat or drink “X.” Once the diet is over, you can’t stand “X” anymore. This is just to warn you that my observations may be lacking a certain je ne sais quoi.
Pardon?
Snippets of information still reach me. The guy Trump lined up for Defense Secretary is a falling down drunk who can’t keep his hands to himself and uses administrative money to fund parties and trips. The president of South Korea has declared martial law because he can’t work with the opposition-led legislature. And not only did Biden pardon his son Hunter, but also a whole bunch of Democrats whined about how he
By Ann Rostow
(Biden) was breaking a promise. Really? Does anyone think Hunter would have been facing relentless investigations if his father wasn’t a powerful politician? And does anyone think the Trumpies in the incoming Justice Department won’t start a whole new round of Hunter bashing, this time with new “evidence” that none of us have seen before?
Biden sat back when Hunter was facing several criminal prosecutions; lying about addiction on a gun sales document, and failing to file taxes during a period of heavy drug use. Hunter returned the gun after 11 days and paid back the IRS in full. Still, his father expects Trump’s FBI Director, possibly Kash Patel, to initiate new attacks targeting Biden via his son. Of course the president pardoned Hunter! I’m not sure exactly what Joe “promised,” but these are exceptional circumstances that demand action from a father.
What bugs me are the pundits who criticized Biden for his decision. No, I didn’t read their explanations, but in the context of a sadistic Trump-led American government, you can no longer condemn Democrats for minor missteps.
The Dead-End Dynamics of Transgender Fights
By the time you read this, the Supreme Court will have begun to hear oral arguments in the challenge to Tennessee’s law against transgender medical care for kids
and teens. The case is centered on the Equal Protection Clause, since many of the banned trans treatments are still available for cisgender kids with cisgender medical needs. Is this a constitutional violation? Or does the state have a good public policy reason for the separate standards?
Let’s take a step back. You saw how the political campaigns we just experienced included crazy talk about trans kids and adults. The Republicans’ 30-second ads featured hefty boys bashing cute little girls on the soccer field. Trump warned that you could send your son to school one day and (surprise!) your “daughter” comes home to you. Vice President Harris was quoted out of context in a clip advocating for transgender prisoners to receive something, maybe transition surgery? It was a collection of exaggerations that made us look dangerously out of step with the rest of the country. And because it was based on the truth, it was effective and we had a hard time responding without looking transphobic ourselves.
In late November, Democratic Congressman Seth Moulton of Massachusetts wrote an op-ed in The Washington Post titled: “I’m Done With Democratic Purity Tests.” Usually, an editor writes the headlines so I won’t label that a direct quote from Moulton, but the gist of his opinion gets to the root of our transgender dilemma. As I’ve written many times, as long as we are trapped in a blackand-white fight over a complicated issue, we will not make progress.
Moulton wrote that he recently announced that he does not want his two daughters to have to play sports with biological boys. Well, no one wants that. I don’t consider most transgirls to be biological boys, but the question of when and under what circumstances transgender girls can join a team is not a yes or a no, and it can’t be answered without figuring out many factors: How old are these girls? Has the transgirl gone through male puberty? Any hormones at issue? Are we talking about having fun on the playground, or training for a state track meet?
That said, there should be room for a proven champion of trans rights to make a comment like Moulton’s. Instead, the movement watchdogs came down on him as if he had questioned marriage equality.
“The blowback, which was swift,” wrote Moulton in the Post, “included the chair of a local Democratic committee calling me a Nazi ‘cooperator’ and about 200 people gathering in front of my office to protest a sentence. My unimpeachable record of standing up for the civil rights of all Americans, including the trans community, was irrelevant.”
This is wrong. Save the Nazi accusations for some of those white power types defending Confederate statues. As for the 200 protesters, can they not find a truly evil target in this day and age?
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Castro Tree Lighting 2024
Our Wild Sleigh Ride These Past 10 Years
TLC: Tears, Laughs and Conversation
Dr. Tim Seelig
The holidays are here. Again.
Once upon a time, not so long ago and not far away, there was a holiday when holly jolly jingles were hard to come by. We did all the things, but we smiled through clenched teeth. That was holiday 2016. By December, we were still in shock at the election that had just happened. Along with a double eggnog, we vowed never to let that happen again.
Surprise and happy holidays, it did happen again. Here we are donning our gay apparel and wondering if we should tone it down a bit. But we’ll still commemorate, celebrate,
and come together. We need the together. In December 2016, SFGMC (the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus) was already deep into planning for our tour to the Deep South to lift and inspire our siblings. We went to sing and give them courage. We sang about things getting better. Here we are again, clenching more than teeth.
But the holidays come around every year. We can’t change that. They provide an exciting time to look ahead and behind. The reminiscing happens because we have a little extra time to slow down. It also happens because our memories of holidays past come into focus as we celebrate once more.
We remember special holidays—joyous and difficult. We mark the passing of friends and loved ones who are no longer with us at the holidays: “This is the 10th year Mom won’t be with us for Christmas.”
Rather than write about this upcoming holiday season, I thought it best to look in the rearview mirror. I did that by going back to see what I wrote in some of my December articles for the San Francisco Bay Times. The holiday article in 2014 was about, wait for it, the holidays. With good and bad, ups and downs, it’s been quite the wild sleigh ride. I’ll just hit a few highlights.
In 2014, SFGMC celebrated 25 years of Home for the Holidays at the historic Castro Theatre. The first one was Christmas Eve, December 24, 1990. It was at the peak of
the AIDS pandemic. The chorus decided to rent the theater, open the doors, and sing for its big, hurting family. It grew and grew. The tradition has continued every year since then. SFGMC has missed only three years: 2020 and 2021, thanks to COVID; and 2024 due to the renovations of the Castro Theatre. Only missing three out of 35 isn’t bad.
World AIDS Day is not a holiday, but a hugely important day for all of us. December 1, 2018, marked the dedication of SFGMC’s Artist Portal at the National AIDS Memorial Grove (NAMG). This is a beautiful memorial to artists and warriors in the fight. It includes names of individuals and organizations across the country. John Cunningham, Executive Director of the NAMG said, “This project of love was inspired by the spirit of some of the most creative souls to walk beside us. The memorial has long stood as a space dedicated to heroes, for remembering those we loved, for honoring those who fought and survived, for reminding us of the force and resilience of community.”
As we celebrated in 2019, we were lucky not to know what lay just around the corner. We were just living on borrowed time, as it were. I challenged readers to make a list and check it twice. I suggested asking all your friends at your holiday parties to name the following: best gift, worst gift; best holiday, worst holiday, best holiday song, and worst holiday song (without using Mariah Carey). Extra credit was given for the worst regifting experience. The following holiday would be hands down the worst holiday ever.
Then the bottom fell out. We got to experience the second pandemic of our lives. December 2020. No live music! We learned a new acronym: SIP (Shelter in Place), and we did just that. We “celebrated” with a virtual holiday concert. We still pulled out all the stops and filmed segments outdoors. A group of singers filmed our signature “Silent Night” in masks at locations around town. The San Francisco Philharmonic filmed playing in the parking lot of Mission Dolores. The full chorus recorded pieces from our homes, putting them all together in The Brady Bunch (Hollywood Squares for elders) blocks. We did our best. We were desperate to be together and perform for an audience, but this was the best we could do. It was pretty darn good. We were literally at our own homes for the holidays.
By December 2021, we were back! We began rehearsing for holidays in August. We set up the chairs in rehearsal 6 feet apart. We sang in masks. Vaccinations were required. It wasn’t the same, but it was something. We performed our usual performances at the Nourse Theater, Greene Music Center, Freight & Salvage, and then started getting ready for our 3
sold-out Home for the Holidays shows at the Castro Theatre. Then, the worst possible thing happened. A few singers came down with COVID. Then a few more. And more. Less than a week before the Castro concerts, we had to cancel them. It was heartbreaking for everyone—singers and the 4000+ people who had already bought tickets. It was also my last holiday concert series as Artistic Director.
One year later, December 2022, I was done. It was over. What would the holidays be like for the first time not being involved with a Christmas production of some kind for 70 years? Don’t tell anyone, but it was heaven! Since I didn’t have a show to put on, I penned an article titled “Camels and Lasers and Loin Cloths, Oh My.” It was a romp through my first 35 years of putting on extravaganzas in mega Baptist churches. Best of all, being retired, I got to see five queer chorus holiday concerts! I now know why you all show up!
Here we are in 2024. Yes, we’re scared. Yes, we’re going through the motions. Sometimes, just doing that can be enough. What shall we do in 2025? I think something new is called for: “Ask Dr. Tim.” You can ask anything (except medical questions—not that kind of Dr.). Just email your questions to askdrtims@gmail.com for a chance to get your answer in the newspaper! I’m excited to hear what’s on your mind!
Here’s to the holidays. Here’s to the beginning of a new year and new chapter. Try to unclench—at least for a bit.
Dr. Tim Seelig is the Conductor Laureate of the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus. http://www.timseelig.com/
WORLD AIDS DAY
December 1, 2024
Biden Administration Displays AIDS Memorial Quilt at The White House
AIDS activist Mike Smith described the significance of the first-ever display of the AIDS Memorial Quilt on the lawn at The White House and the ceremony that was held there on Sunday, December 1, World AIDS Day 2024:
“It’s World AIDS Day, and after 38 years of waiting, today we were finally invited inside The White House grounds for an AIDS Quilt display.
[There have been] thirty-eight years of displays on the Mall or the Ellipse, but never inside. [There have also been] die-ins on the sidewalk outside the fence, throwing fake blood outside, [and] pouring ashes of dead loved ones through the fence.
I was 26 when we started the Quilt and I’m now a few months from Medicare. A lifetime. Finally, today, the hundreds of thousands of people memorialized on the Quilt, the largest community art project in the world, have been heard by power, seen by power, and can rest in peace. Not that we are done. The fight goes on with the incoming new administration.
But today, after laying out 1000 panels on the southern lawn, having a few moments in the Oval Office with my husband Steven Clay by my side, to teach and thank the president, and being publicly acknowledged by the president for our world-changing effort, I am renewed, recharged, and ready for future battles. [It was] the most wonderful day of my life, but one that ignites my passion to do more.”
10th Annual Inscribe on World AIDS Day
The community sidewalk chalk art event Inscribe marked its 10th anniversary this year when it took place on Castro Street on Friday, December 1, 2024, World AIDS Day. Created and coordinated by community activist George Kelly, Inscribe is sponsored by Cliff’s Variety and Crayola in partnership with the San Francisco AIDS Foundation’s Elizabeth Taylor 50-Plus Network, and Shanti Project’s Honoring Our Experience program.
For Inscribe each year on World AIDS Day, students from the Harvey Milk Civil Rights Academy, a neighborhood elementary school in the heart of the Castro, join with adults to inscribe the names of loved ones lost to AIDS in brightly colored sidewalk chalk. Inscribe provides an activity for students to participate in a celebration of life and an opportunity to learn, and to honor neighbors and community.
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Housing: Affordable housing projects are prioritized on surplus public lands; made it more difficult to delay residential construction once CEQA requirements are met; assisted first-time home buyers with down payment assistance; lessened bureaucracy for building backyard units called ADUs; tax incentives for developers to convert empty commercial spaces in Downtown San Francisco into housing.
Safety Net Programs: Expansion of Medi-Cal to cover healthcare for lower-income Californians, regardless of immigration status; mental health services for students, as schools reopened from the pandemic; financial assistance to distressed hospitals, including Seton Medical Center in Daly City; refrigeration grants to corner markets, enabling them to sell fresh produce in neighborhoods lacking grocery stores.
Equity & Fairness: Legacy admissions coming to an end, banning private universities and colleges from giving preferential treatment to applicants related to alumni and wealthy donors; single-user restrooms must be accessible to all; allow unjustly long incarceration periods to be reevaluated for resentencing; unprecedented investment in AAPI communities during the pandemic to stop Asian hate attacks.
Environment: Clean car tax incentives to ramp up California’s transition away from fossil fuels and necessary charging
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restaurant at 65th Avenue and San Pablo, serving comfort foods for lunch and dinner and beers and whiskeys. As his clientele grew, so did his restaurant, expanding space and menu options. After visiting this establishment, famed San Francisco Chronicle columnist Herb Caen proclaimed that the “best restaurant in San Francisco is in Oakland.”
In August 1944, while experimenting with tropical flavors, Bergeron developed the concoction we know today as the Mai Tai. It received its name from a friend of Bergeron who, after trying the experimental cocktail, shouted, “Mai Tai roa ac,” Tahitian for “out of this world the best.”
As the Mai Tai’s reputation grew, clientele worldwide sought Trader Vic’s innovative tropical cocktails, renowned rendition of Polynesian food, and kitschy South Pacific theme.
The Mai Tai has established itself as a beloved cocktail in bars globally. Trader Vic’s is a family-run brand with over 25
infrastructure; shortened the timeline for school districts to change over to electric buses; kept the Golden Gate Bridge and state-owned bridges toll-free for bicyclists and pedestrians; created a mobile recycling center for beverage containers; banned harmful PFAS chemicals from food wrappers, household fabrics, and outdoor wear.
In California, we have always written our own story, forging ahead before most states—even countries. And I’m proud of the work we did. I could not have done it all without my staff, past and present, who have helped me along the way—whether it was in San Francisco or up at the State Capitol. They worked hard, and I am appreciative of their efforts that resulted in so many accomplishments.
I have yet to decide what I will do next. However, you can follow my non-state accounts, such as at X (formerly Twitter) ( https://x.com/philting ), at Facebook ( https://bit.ly/3OvyFEG ) and at LinkedIn ( https://bit.ly/3Z9iW2W ) to keep up on my professional endeavors. To stay in touch, my email is now info@philting.com
Phil Ting represents the 19th Assembly District, which includes the west side of San Francisco along with the communities of Broadmoor, Colma, and Daly City, as well as part of South San Francisco and San Bruno.
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“What has amazed me, though,” Moulton continued, “is what’s happening behind the scenes. Countless Democrats have reached out, from across the party—to thank me. I’ve heard it again and again, from union leaders to colleagues in the House and Senate; from top people from the Obama, Biden, and Harris teams to local Democrats stopping me on the street; from fellow dads to many in the LGBTQ+ community: ‘Thank you for saying that!’”
And don’t be confused. These are not secretly transphobic people. They are people, like me, for example, who want to have serious investigations about transgender health, who want to understand at what age parental responsibility for a kid’s medical needs should give way to the child or teenager’s own sense of self. What kind of tests should doctors provide to help the process? Should it make a difference if a child has spoken up about his or her gender from toddlerhood? How about a girl who decides she’s a transboy at age twelve? Is that gender dysphoria? Or fear of becoming a woman and/or a sexual being?
It’s time for the thought police in our own community to ease up and give us the flexibility to have a real debate on some aspects of trans rights. We want to be able to oppose irreversible surgery for children, without being called a Nazi by our own allies. We want to ask about new, more cautious trans health policies instituted by the health authorities in Norway and England. Why the hesitation? What have the European scientists determined?
GenZ kids have decided they are transboys, and as GenZers in general don’t think of themselves as straight, it seems as if fear has set in across the land. What if everyone changes their gender? What if anyone can use any bathrooms? What if everyone turns gay? We have to confront this fear, but we have to confront it with logic, science, and compassion—not by calling our opponents Nazis, let alone our friends.
The bottom line is that real analysis of transgender development is so new that we don’t have the longitudinal studies to inform us. Are puberty blockers good or bad? If the best research involves 56 people from three years ago (and I made that up), we really can’t answer that question.
What Might Have Been
Here are a few of the headlines that I am skipping over this week: “The nonstop gay sex party on the Mexico City subway,” “Ohio governor requires trans to use birthsex facilities at schools, universities,” “Walmart, nation’s largest retailer, dumps HRC, DEI and trans merchandise ... Joins Ford, Toyota, Harley-Davidson, John Deere, Home Depot, Jack Daniel’s, Lowe’s, Tractor Supply, Molson Coors,” and one of my favorites: “U.S. Sen. Roger Marshall introduces bill to define male and female.”
“In human beings,” Marshall wrote, “there are two—and only two—sexes: male and female ... . In no case is an individual’s sex determined by stipulation or self-identification.” I had no idea you could take a personal opinion and enact it into law. What’s next?
locations, including cities like Munich, Tokyo, and Dubai. Excitingly, Trader Vic’s is set to make a comeback in Oakland, with plans to open a new restaurant at the Oakland International Airport in 2025, marking another chapter in its storied legacy.
Oakland is a vibrant, diverse, and creative community that deserves to be celebrated as the birthplace of the Mai Tai. I am proud to have championed the legislation that honors its creation and the city’s legacy of innovation and hospitality.
As we continue to honor the importance of building culture and community in Oakland, the effort should also include celebrating, uplifting, and growing our hospitality industry, entertainment, and iconic foods and drinks that have a strong history in Oakland. Honoring and supporting our innovators helps expand our economy, jobs, opportunity, and revenue, and uplifts the community.
Councilmember At-Large Rebecca Kaplan was elected in 2008 to serve as Oakland’s citywide Councilmember; she was re-elected in 2016 and 2020. She also serves on the Alameda County Transportation Commission (ACTC). Follow Councilmember Kaplan on Twitter @Kaplan4Oakland ( https://tinyurl.com/2dtjmazc ) and Facebook ( https://tinyurl.com/2p9dd5ta ).
No, we’re not going to ban transwomen, like incoming Delaware Congresswoman Sarah McBride, from using the ladies’ room. But should a woman who went through puberty as a male be allowed to swim on an Olympic team? Maybe, maybe not!
By the way, McBride was most gracious in announcing that she would abide by the House majority’s anti-trans rules, but does that mean she has to join the guys in the men’s room? Or perhaps she will have to make a long trek to some single use facility. I, for one, hope she uses the men’s room and stands right next to the urinals putting on her makeup.
Finally, a big part of the reason transgender issues are complicated is that we do not have much of a historical perspective. Just a couple of decades ago, it was rare to encounter transgender men and women. The gay community wanted to drop the T and promote GLB civil rights legislation that would cover gays and lesbians but stay clear of the hot potato transgender community. Some transgenders weren’t even gay, people said! Others seemed confused over the difference between drag queens and transgender women.
In this century, we started to move towards general acceptance. Do you remember when someone asked Donald Trump if Caitlyn Jenner could use the ladies’ room in Trump Tower back in 2016? He said yes, of course. “I’d have no problem with that” (I paraphrase). But in the last few years, as more
“Resolved: In the United States education department, public schools will adopt the following premise: ‘Beauty is truth, truth beauty that is all we know on earth, and all we need to know.’ Failure to promote this lesson will carry a misdemeanor charge.”
But the one headline I cannot just skip is a holiday recipe for “Chocolate Lamb Chile.” I know this is the season for recipes. I have received dozens, many with cranberries or yams or ideas for leftovers. Many involve cookies.
But “Chocolate Lamb Chili?” No, no, no, no. Lamb deserves special treatment. You don’t just chop it into chunks and throw it into a pot with beans, odd spices, and chocolate. You just don’t. You don’t put any chocolate into a lamb dish, period. And I really don’t like the chili idea, with or without chocolate. The spices in chili take over a dish, and would overpower the subtle taste of lamb.
Plus, it’s one of these deliberately artful dishes, fashioned for those people who can’t pull off a simple rack of lamb or roasted chicken. Hey! Let’s try jumbo shrimp with persimmon and soybean paste topped with sweet beaten egg whites. No one will accuse you of screwing up these dishes because no one has tried them before. And no, it’s not as if I myself have mastered the classics. It’s just that I myself have mastered eating them. arostow@aol.com
Speaking to Your Soul
Astrology
Elisa Quinzi
Humanity is at a critical stage. Individually, and therefore collectively, we have given up our highest creative aspirations for safety, pleasure, and comfort. Lacking the fulfillment that comes from utilizing the soul’s potentialities, we are overly concerned with survival and driven to seek money, power, status, fame, security, and likes. We fail to pursue our creative ideals and, as such, settle for what Viktor Frankl calls “compensatory goals.”
The planet Neptune, whose influence is magnified now, casts a kind of hypnotic fog over our eyes and the world, in response to our laissez-faire attitude. As such, we seem to be slowly circling the drain. What’s needed is for each of us to imagine our soul’s highest creative desires and to commit to actualizing them. For it is then, in the act of carrying out our ideals, that Neptune responds with magic. As we live in accordance with our soul rather than by the dictatorship of the ego, Neptune lifts our wings and opens the gate to higher dimensional living. Otherwise, we blot out our consciousness and waste our precious lifetime, perhaps even extinguishing humanity altogether.
ARIES (March 21–April 19)
Take an honest appraisal of yourself and acknowledge the ways you’re attempting to escape reality. Turn toward the light, cut away the dead weight now, and make a decision to trust a higher power. Listen with your inner senses and you will be guided.
TAURUS (April 20–May 20)
A portal is open for you to receive a vision of your future. Look with pure eyes so you can see it clearly. This is no time for cynicism.
GEMINI (May 21–June 20)
Your mission, should you accept it, involves a higher calling. If you feel unclear about what that is, cut away the static, get quiet, and pay attention to your dreams.
CANCER (June 21–July 22)
Traditional beliefs might give way to a personal mystical experience. Signs and synchronicities point you down a more vital, nourishing path. The familiar falls away to reveal a new horizon.
LEO (July 23–August 22)
Your intuition is heightened. The veil is thin between dimensions. You must release attachments and old emotional patterns. Trust that what is left is your true essence.
VIRGO (August 23–September 22)
Guard against sacrificing too much of yourself. Disentangling from enmeshment allows the space for real soul connection to deepen. Consider the words of Khalil Gibran, who wrote, “Let there be spaces in your togetherness. And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.”
LIBRA (September 23–October 22)
If you find you’re having trouble with routine tasks or the daily mundane necessities of living, perhaps you can benefit from reading Thich Nhat Hanh’s classic book, Peace Is Every Step. It’s not that you need to work harder, but that you need to feel your aliveness in every moment.
SCORPIO (October 23–November 21)
Artistic inspiration is heightened now. Sensitivity to the divine muse gives a needed boost to your imagination. You need a creative outlet to give your great passion form.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22–December 21)
Make of your home a sacred space. The meaning of life that you are seeking can be discovered in the center of your being. Be still and you will find it right where you are.
CAPRICORN (December 22–January 19)
Thinking, details, and communication might be messy and unclear now. Take it as an invitation to utilize your psychic senses. Hits of information come in unexpected ways, such as signs and synchronicities. Significant downloads come in a flash of insight, or in dreams.
AQUARIUS (January 20–February 18)
Material possessions and financial success may feel less fulfilling as your values shift. Without a strong spiritual compass, you might feel lost or prone to escaping into binge-shopping or too much comfort foods. Don’t lose hope, but rather trust that you are awakening to your higher self.
PISCES (February 19–March 20)
The birth of a new earth depends on you, Pisces, fully valuing yourself and what you bring to the stream of life. Grant yourself the freedom to fully actualize as never before. All of the Universe is supporting your authentic nature. All you need to do is trust.
Elisa Quinzi is a certified professional astrologer who brings a strong spiritual perspective, as well as over 20 years of experience, to her work with clients. Contact her at futureselfnow@gmail.com or at 818-530-3366 with your exact birth time to schedule or to ask questions. For more information: www.elisaquinzi.com
Me Home with You!
Star Wars Fans, Meet Your New Best Friend: Boba Fetch!
Do you have the Force in you to give Boba Fetch a forever home? This charming canine, inspired by the galaxy’s favorite bounty hunter, is a professional sniffer who loves exploring the world with his keen nose. Smart, treat-motivated, and already mastering commands like “sit,” Boba Fetch is eager to learn more with the right guidance. While he enjoys his daily walks, his balanced energy level means he’s just as happy lounging by your side for neck scratches—his favorite kind of affection.
Foster-to-Adopt Opportunity
Think you might be Boba Fetch’s perfect match but want a trial run first? The SF SPCA’s Foster-to-Adopt program lets you take him home for a week with the goal of adopting. If it’s not a match, you can return him without any commitment. Contact us to learn more: adoptions@sfspca.org
Ready to meet Boba Fetch? Visit the SF SPCA Mission Campus, open Wednesday–Sunday from 11 am–6 pm and Tuesday from 1 pm–6 pm (closed Mondays). Adoption fees for animals 5 months and older are waived through December 31, 2024.
While you’re at it, swing by the 38th annual Macy’s Holiday Windows at Union Square. From adorable adoptables to festive cheer, you won’t want to miss this iconic San Francisco tradition!
https://www.sfspca.org/adoptions/
Here are two of the many pets now available for adoption at Oakland Animal Services (OAS): Jam
Introducing Jam, the sweetest 6-month-old puppy ready to fill your home with love! At 33 pounds, this gentle cuddle-monster is a perfect mix of playful and calm. Jam thrives on affection and will melt your heart as she leans into you for snuggles. Jam has been living happily in a foster
home with a toddler, proving she’s a fantastic family companion. She’s eager to please, super gentle, and loves to show off her wiggly personality! While she’s still perfecting her potty-training skills, she’s making great strides and is always excited for a little adventure.
Cardamom
Meet Cardamom, a sweet and gentle bunny who loves affection and companionship! Her calm, friendly nature makes her a joy to be around, and she’s always ready for quality time with you.
The OAS adoption process focuses on matching you with a pet who is a good fit for you and your family. Come by during open adoption hours Thursdays 12–7 pm and Fridays/Saturdays/Sundays 12–3 pm to adopt your new best friend, or to learn more about the OAS adoption process. Please see the OAS website to learn more about how you can help by adopting, fostering, volunteering, and donating: www.oaklandanimalservices.org
Tenderloin Tessie Thanksgiving Holiday Dinner 2024
Host Michael Gagne welcomed guests on Thursday, November 28, 2024, to the annual Tenderloin Tessie Thanksgiving Holiday Dinner, which was held at the First Unitarian Universalist Congregation.
Guests enjoyed a free dinner meal and entertainment.
To support the Tenderloin Tessie events or serve as a volunteer: TenderloinTessie@gmail.com or call 415-584-3252.
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in your area who are committed to respecting your identity, and if that isn’t possible, consider some of the many telehealth options that can provide remote access to supportive clinicians.
If you’re already receiving gender-affirming care, you may be considering stockpiling medication in case access becomes restricted in the future; however, if you choose to do this, please consider first talking to a trusted medical professional, preferably your provider, about your concerns and what your options might be should your access to medication be restricted in the future. If you do choose to stockpile, make sure to take into consideration the shelf-life and post puncture viability of any medications you are stockpiling, and ensure you are storing that medication correctly.
For those seeking healthcare access, LyonMartin Community Health Center in San Francisco is a queer and trans-led and run health clinic and an excellent resource that
offers sliding-scale healthcare including gender-affirming care to those in need. The San Francisco Community Health Center and the San Francisco AIDS Foundation are two other excellent resources with a long history of LGBT led and culturally competent services including genderaffirming care. Planned Parenthood also provides gender-affirming care services, and there are many online resources for genderaffirming care including Folx, Plume, and Trans Clinique that offer fee-for-service healthcare or monthly membership services.
One of the most important things we can do for ourselves during this especially challenging time is to take care of our mental health. Seeking out local support groups like Trans Thrive, the SF LGBT Center, and Queer Life Space (which also offers sliding scale 1-on-1 counseling) is a way to connect with others who understand what you’re going through. Engaging in support groups and counseling can be an important way to fight
off feelings of isolation and despair, and can prove to be an opportunity to share advice and resources as well as a way to build new and stronger connections with community.
Finally, if you’re able, you may want to consider establishing legal safeguards in the case you become incapacitated, or in the case of your death. This includes end of life planning and having health care proxies and living wills in place that clearly communicate your wishes regarding your gender identity and expression.
I know that a lot of this may feel daunting, and that some folks may be feeling overwhelmed right now, but my hope is that this article will be reassuring because you don’t have to face this alone. There are a myriad of organizations and queer and trans folks out there that are eager to help you. If you are struggling, please reach out to one of these organizations listed for help. We’re here for you. And I hope that, regardless of what happens post January 20, 2025, that
you will remember that trans people exist. We have always existed, and we will always exist.
*If you’re able, please consider making a donation to one of the nonprofit orgs listed in the article today, as they will need your support now more than ever.
Honey Mahogany, a San Francisco native with a Master’s in Social Welfare from UC Berkeley, is a performer, small business owner, and activist. Her work has earned recognition from the City of San Francisco and various organizations. Mahogany co-founded the San Francisco Transgender District, is a founding queen of Drag Story Hour, co-owner of the Stud Bar, and a singer with nu-metal group Commando. She currently serves as Director of the Office of Trans Initiatives, Chair-Emerita of the San Francisco Democratic Party, and Delegate to the Democratic National Committee.
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Round About: All Over Town During the Holiday Season
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“When people I like smile when we are together”
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“Children in my class were sitting quietly in a row after being especially rambunctious the day before, as an apology; I burst into tears”
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Thanksgiving Day - Tommy’s Joynt
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The National AIDS Memorial Light in the & World AIDS 2024
In observance of World AIDS Day, the National AIDS at the grove’s location in Golden Gate Park. Held annually Light in the Grove has been described as a “one-of-a-kind evening
During this unique occasion, the grove’s landscaped space guests experience a candlelight reflection at the Circle of Redwood Grove accompanied by musical and choreographed the grove to a warmly-lit tent to enjoy cocktails, hors d’oeuvres,
John Cunningham, the National AIDS Memorial Grove and recognized the significance of the occasion. Drag activist gence served as emcee.
Dan Bernal, longtime former chief of staff for Congresswoman mitment Award for 2024. Bernal, who serves as UCSF’s Relations, is also a dedicated HIV/AIDS patient advocate.
On December 1, the World AIDS Day ceremony included panels from the AIDS Memorial Quilt. Honored this year Unsung Hero Award was the San Francisco Crisostomo, whose decades of work have Crisostomo shared his observations during tious disease expert Larkin Callaghan, throughSF tutor Percy Vermut, and Kimberly and is an activist, advocate, and mother.
State Senator Scott Wiener also spoke, providing health care for people who are https://www.aidsmemorial.org/
National Memorial the Grove AIDS Day 2024
Memorial Grove is the site of two annual observances annually on November 30, the eve of World AIDS Day, evening of remembrance, renewal, and reunion.”
space is artistically illuminated with light displays, and of Friends as well as a walk through the illuminated choreographed performances. Participants progress through d’oeuvres, and a buffet dinner.
Grove CEO, for this year’s observance welcomed guests activist Sister Roma of the Sisters of Perpetual Indul-
Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi, received the Lifetime of ComVice Chancellor for Community and Government advocate.
included the presentation of a selection of year as recipient of the Thom Weyand Francisco AIDS Foundation’s Vince have touched countless lives.
during a discussion moderated by infecPhD. Also participating were BreakKimberly Canady who is HIV positive mother.
recognizing the challenges still faced in are at risk for HIV/AIDS.
Lippa @ 60: A Birthday Benefit for TheatreWorks to Celebrate Broadway Legend Andrew Lippa
TheatreWorks Silicon Valley has announced that Tony Award-nominated composer Andrew Lippa (The Wild Party; The Addams Family; Big Fish; A Little Princess ; You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown - revival) will celebrate his 60th birthday in style with Lippa @ 60 : A Birthday Benefit for TheatreWorks. This special benefit performance will commemorate the illustrious career of the multi-hyphenated Broadway titan and raise funds to support TheatreWorks Silicon Valley, where Lippa has developed and premiered several new musicals.
Joined onstage by special friends and with musical direction by TheatreWorks Resident Musical Director William Liberatore, Lippa will perform Monday, December 16, 2024, at Lucie Stern Theatre, 1305 Middlefield Road, Palo Alto. The festivities will kick off at 6 pm with an elegant preshow party including bountiful hors d’oeuvres and a hosted bar, with an appearance by Lippa. The concert will start at 7:30 pm, followed by a post-show reception with a toast to the birthday boy and dessert. Ticket packages ($125–$175) including concert and special events are now on sale, along with concert-only tickets ($75).
Andrew Lippa
A Tony-nominated composer, lyricist, book writer, performer, and producer, Lippa first became known to TheatreWorks audiences
20 years ago, when the company gave the World Premiere of his musical adaptation of A Little Princess. He has developed several works in TheatreWorks’ New Works Festivals, including The Man in the Ceiling, Jerry Christmas, and Asphalt Beach, and personally appeared on TheatreWorks main stage in his musical revue, The Life of the Party
The Wild Party received the Drama Desk and Outer Critics Circle awards. The Addams Family received a Tony Award nomination for Best Original Score. Big Fish was nominated for the Drama Desk Award for Outstanding Music.
Lippa wrote and starred in the theatrical oratorio I Am Anne Hutchinson/I Am Harvey Milk that received its New York premiere at Lincoln Center starring Kristin Chenoweth. His concert work Unbreakable had its World Premiere with the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus (SFGMC). He also wrote the music for Aaron Sorkin’s Broadway play The Farnsworth Invention and the song “Evil Like Me” for Disney’s Descendants
Other musicals include John & Jen (music/ book) and the revival of You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown (additional music/lyrics and arrangements). During his career, Lippa has been honored with Tony and Grammy Award nominations, a shared Emmy for Nickelodeon’s The Wonder Pets, the SFGMC Vanguard Award; the Gilman/Gonzalez-Falla Theatre Foundation Award, ASCAP’s Richard Rodgers New Horizons Award, the Drama Desk Award, and Outer Critics Circle Award. He serves as the President of the Board of The Dramatists Guild Foundation.
TheatreWorks Silicon Valley
TheatreWorks Silicon Valley, led by Artistic Director Giovanna Sardelli and Interim Executive Director Criss Henderson, presents a wide variety of contemporary plays and musicals and revitalizes great works of the past. Founded in 1970 by Robert Kelley, TheatreWorks has grown from a truly original Silicon Valley startup to become one of the nation’s leading professional nonprofit theatre companies.
TheatreWorks was honored as the recipient of the 2019 Regional Theatre Tony Award. TheatreWorks also champions new work, offering artists support and a creative home as they
develop new stories for the American theatre. Offstage, TheatreWorks’ arts education programs in local schools and arts engagement programs in Silicon Valley neighborhoods uplift its audiences and strengthen community bonds. Onstage and off, TheatreWorks welcomes the mosaic of people who embody the Bay Area and beyond, celebrating the transformative power of theatre to ignite imagination, inspire conversation, and enliven souls.
Lippa @ 60 : A Birthday Benefit for TheatreWorks
Monday, December 16, 2024
Lucie Stern Theatre, 1305 Middlefield Road, Palo Alto
Ticket Packages now on sale:
$125 – Concert plus post-show reception
$175 – Concert plus pre-show party & postshow reception
$75 – Concert only
For information and to order tickets: call 877662-8978 or visit https://theatreworks.org/
Andrew Lippa with TheatreWorks founder Robert Kelley at the company’s 50th Anniversary Gala.
TheatreWorks’ World Premiere of Andrew Lippa’s musical adaptation of A Little Princess (Anniversary Gala).
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RuPaul’s Drag Race Star Lady Camden to Host LGBTQ+ Night 2024 for Smuin’s The Christmas Ballet
This holiday season, make the Yuletide gay with drag queens and feather boas! Smuin Contemporary Ballet’s annual show, The Christmas Ballet, will take place at the Blue Shield of California Theater in San Francisco on December 13–24. Smuin will offer a clever twist on this holiday classic for one night only, The Christmas Ballet ’s LGBTQ+ Night, on Friday, December 20.
After her dazzling performance last year, beloved local drag queen Lady Camden— the drag persona of former Smuin dancer Rex Wheeler—will return to the stage, hosting both the event and the Afterparty Through a lively set of performances in an array of genres, this show will celebrate Christmas, the arts, and the queer community. What better way to toast the holi-gays?
The Christmas Ballet was established in 1995 by the company’s founder, Tony and Emmy Award-winning choreographer Michael Smuin. He wanted to create a show that could be enjoyed by everyone—featuring a range of multi-denominational songs and multi-genre dances that would get anybody in the spirit. Thirty years later, this show has been established as a holiday favorite in
San Francisco, with thrilling new acts every year.
This season, Smuin Artistic Director Amy Seiwert has taken the reins on the holiday tradition, bringing a fresh perspective to a beloved tradition. Lady Camden and the rest of the cast are sure to “serve” up an exciting show, with acts including Christmas classics like “Ave Maria” and “Joy to the World,” as well as cheerful contemporary numbers like Wheeler’s “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas,” and the iconic “Santa Baby” featuring the “world’s longest feather boa.” The LGBTQ+ Night performance is packed with special programming and casting that highlight the San Francisco LGBTQ+ community.
Lady Camden is most well known for her unforgettable appearance on season 14 of RuPaul’s Drag Race. Wheeler’s training at the British Royal Ballet School gave him grounding in classical repertoire and his skill set was later broadened at Smuin, where he danced a variety of contemporary works by choreographers including Jiří Kylián, Trey McIntyre, Val Caniparoli, Helen Pickett, and Michael Smuin,
among others. Wheeler’s performing arts career set him up to become an acclaimed drag queen, performing around San Francisco at cornerstones such as Hamburger Mary’s, Oasis, and Beaux. After a successful run on RuPaul’s Drag Race, Lady Camden toured worldwide as a featured performer in RuPaul’s Drag Race: Werq the World
Audiences will also want to don their best gay apparel for the official Afterparty in the Grand Lobby of the Yerba Buena Center for the Arts. Co-hosted by Lady Camden, The Imperial Council of San Francisco, and Friends of Smuin, the Afterparty will feature tequila cocktails and tastings donated by Casa San Matias. During this night of queer community, attendees will enjoy drag performances, photobooths, and dancing—all while supporting queer artists.
Twenty-five percent of the evening’s ticket sales will be donated to organizations that support the queer community. “The holidays are an important time to come together so we can celebrate and give back to the organizations that support the queer community and celebrate queer artists,” says Seiwert.
This year, Smuin Contemporary Ballet will continue to partner with Project Open Hand, an organization originally founded in 1985 to deliver meals to people with AIDS, which has expanded to serve seniors and people with other acute and chronic conditions. Funds will also go towards the Imperial Council of San Francisco, which supports diverse community-based charitable organizations, as well as The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and the Queer
Cultural Center, which offer grants to underfunded queer artists.
The LGBTQ+ Night performance of Smuin’s The Christmas Ballet will take place at 7:30 pm on Friday, December 20, 2024, at the Blue Shield of California Theater at Yerba Buena Center for the Arts (700 Howard Street, San Francisco). Smuin’s The Christmas Ballet will run from December 13–24 in San Francisco. Tickets for the LGBTQ+ Night and the Afterparty are available at the Smuin Ballet website ( https://www.smuinballet.org/ ) or by calling 415-912-1899.
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Bay Area Holiday Events to Lift Your Spirits
Off the Wahl
Jan Wahl
The holiday spirit can be elusive these days, so I have two fabulous events that I go to in order to find the glittering, positive, candy cane world of this time of year.
The Great Dickens Christmas Fair
The first one takes us to a Victorian Christmas by way of the Cow Palace. It is immersive fun: a historical reenactment of all things Dickens. Shop, play, and feast in “London”—the pubs, food, amazing shops, theatre, and music—it is the 40 th anniversary of the Dickens Fair!
Producer Kevin Patterson is a key visionary of this annual tradition. Ever since he was a little boy growing up in the Bay Area, he was immersed in historical reenactment. His parents were amazing people who began the Renaissance Fair. He was involved in the Renaissance Fair, from building sets to making costumes to acting out characters of the time. Forty years forward, his brilliant theatrical parents passed and Patterson took the reins of The Dickens Fair, with his own son working alongside him. But it is not work for him; it is a passion to get everyone in the holiday spirit over acres of Victorian London. It really works for me!
Patterson told me for the San Francisco Bay Times : “There are hundreds of performers, set builders, designers, prop masters, new experiences like the Jekyll and Hyde mystery, Sherlock
Holmes pub crawl, Mad Sal’s girls with rowdy period music, a waltz floor for the classier folk, merry-go-round and creativity for kids, wandering carolers, and remarkable Dickens characters in costume.”
A place always to find me, after I buy some fish and chips, is the Athenaeum Club, a destination for “notables of the day” to meet and speak. There is Oscar Wilde, Ann Lister (Gentleman Jack), H.G. Welles, and Edgar Allen Poe. They can all answer questions about their characters, from the LBGTQ presence at the time to women’s rights to politics of the period. This year I bought some Celtic jewelry, a cat ornament, feather pins, and a gorgeous man’s scarf. Unique Christmas present heaven!
The Great Dickens Fair is weekends now through December 22, 10–6 pm. It is $45 dollars, and $25 for ages 5–12. It is a fair price for a remarkable Fair experience. Log onto https://dickensfair.com/
Holidays at the Fairmont Hotels and Resorts
For over a century, the Fairmont San Francisco has enchanted guests with its amazing holiday gingerbread house and
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Queer Is a Sensory Cinematic Experience
and his desperation. Guadagnino captures Lee’s ennui well, as does Craig in a performance that should secure him his first Oscar nomination.
Luca Guadagnino’s Queer, adapted from William S. Burrough’s novel, is a dark, and at times surreal, drama about addiction. The director’s films are nothing if not achievements in style, and this richly colored film is full of textures—from the fabulous period clothes (the film is set in the 1950s) to its strange, hallucinatory images. Lee (Daniel Craig) is a gay junkie and a “man of independent means.” He is living in Mexico, where he mostly looks for drinks and sex. “Are you queer?” he asks a possible companion for the evening. He is turned down as often as he succeeds. A seductive encounter with a young Mexican (Omar Apollo) provides an erotic tryst in a hotel room. But it also suggests both his despair
When Lee catches sight of Allerton (Drew Starkey), a tall drink of water who frequents his favorite bar, Lee is smitten, especially when Lee later eyes Allerton at a cockfight in the street. The moment is transfixing. Is Allerton queer? Lee sure as hell hopes so. He becomes addicted to this guy as if Allerton is the drugs Lee also craves. Lee’s goofy lovesick expression when Allerton passes by him indicates just how gone Lee is.
The way Craig purses his lips throughout the film indicates so much longing and disdain; is he admiring or silently criticizing? When the two men actually spend some time together, Lee imagines reaching his hand out and stroking Allerton’s face in a scene of fabulist intimacy.
As Allerton spends more time with Lee, however, it is unclear if Allerton is just flirting or really interested. That frisson propels the film to a night when Lee invites Allerton back to his apartment. Guadagnino’s intentional direction focuses on the doorknob signaling that things are going to get intense. And once Lee ushers Allerton into the bedroom, they do. Queer features an erotic sex scene between the men that will likely send viewers into ecstasy.
But after this encounter, Allerton is more aloof, and Lee wonders if there is a way to catch this “cold, slippery fish”—as Lee’s friend Joe (a portly and amusing Jason Schwartzman) calls the possibly straight Allerton. Lee invites the man he is besotted with to join Lee on a trip to South America as Lee is keen to secure some hallucinogens. In exchange, all Allerton needs to do is to be “nice” to Lee—”twice a week.”
Queer shifts gears in its second act as the men become traveling companions. Their trip starts off rockily as Lee gets junk sick and requires a visit to a doctor to handle his addiction to opiates. The men do spend some time in bed together, cuddling when Lee is cold, and to have sex after Lee is cured. Again, Lee’s hand reaching out to Allerton expresses so much unspoken desire. While Guadagnino cuts away from the bodies in bed to show the outdoor landscape (something he also did in his gay romance, Call Me by Your Name) he does cut back to show Lee and Allerton having sex.
The scenes of Craig and Starkey being intimate are admirable. But the next morning, over breakfast, Allerton is far less pliant when Lee strokes his head and neck. The hot and cold relationship is frustrating for Lee who starts to pursue his other passion—the Yage drug—in the jungle.
The action shifts again as Lee and Allerton meet Dr. Cotter (Leslie Manville) to “explore the properties of the drug.” Lee’s interest in Yage is as baldly concealed as his interest in Allerton. He turns on the naughty charm for Dr. Cotter, but he is so transparent she applauds him—just as long as he doesn’t have ulterior motives.
Lee is only interested in sensory pleasures and Queer gets trippy as Lee and
Allerton imbibe the drugs and have out of body experiences. Literally. One scene of the men naked and embracing features their hands under each other’s skin. It is an especially arresting image. But these scenes have less emotional impact than the film’s seductive first act. The relationship between the men has changed, and as it plays out through a series of increasingly surreal moments, the film becomes opaquer. Queer even includes a game of William Tell where Lee tries shooting a glass off Allerton’s head, echoing an infamous moment in Burroughs’ life. But fatigue sets in before this episode occurs.
Gaudagnino lards his film with wondrous images, such as a snake eating its own tail, to convey Lee’s self-destructive tendencies, but it is Craig’s moody, desperate performance that makes Queer so rapturous. The actor throws himself into the role with abandon, hungrily pursuing his desires of sex and drugs. In what may be the film’s greatest scene, Lee prepares to inject himself with heroin and just sits waiting for the drug to take effect. It’s shot in real time and Craig’s demeanor reflects both his anticipation and release. It is a remarkable performance.
Drew Starkey is also impressive as Allerton, but he is best when he keeps an air of mystery about him. Watching Lee try to figure out what Allerton will allow is engaging; Allerton is less interesting as the film progresses, because his character feels underdeveloped.
Queer certainly enthralls as it maintains a hypnotic pull on viewers, but it may also lose some folks along the way.
© 2024 Gary M. Kramer
Gary M. Kramer is the author of “Independent Queer Cinema: Reviews and Interviews,” and the co-editor of “Directory of World Cinema: Argentina.” He teaches Short Attention Span Cinema at the Bryn Mawr Film Institute and is the moderator for Cinema Salon, a weekly film discussion group. Follow him on Twitter @garymkramer
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Leave Signs
I recently learned that, in Paris, Halloween is not a widely celebrated holiday as it is here in the states. That was a bit of a surprise to me during a recent visit, but I’m not complaining—hey, it is Paris! When I was there, all those frisky, healthy Olympians had already left to go back home to their respective nations, leaving actual Parisians—who, like New Yorkers, are, in fact, friendly. It’s been said before, but Parisians also dress better than any humans I’ve ever met on a public street who are not going to a gala or a runway.
Our visit was to the French premiere of the documentary about moi. It was being presented by Cineffable, a lesbian/feminist film festival now in its 36th year ( https://bit.ly/4fQH0P3 ). The festival boasted four days of film programming
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Liberty Equality Sorority
and live entertainment. This included the singing, roller skating, French/African rap artist Lirose ( @lirose.officiel ) It’s so magical to go into a space dedicated to women. (Yes, there were transwomen in attendance.) The festival was all the more miraculous given the sharp turn to the right many nations have taken.
Predictably, the French food was extraordinary; I could do a column on just pastries, not to mention Paris’ museums, which remain the most extensive and impressive repositories of Western art, including “primitive” art they’ve stolen from other countries. We decided to visit new places like the Salvador Dali Museum so we could see one of the dripping watches in person.
The Grand Palais featured the 27th annual Paris Photo, a huge,
international exposition of photography— hundreds of exhibitors from corporate collections to the Black woman-owned Jenkins Johnson Gallery, displaying splendid work by Gordon Parks and Ming Smith ( https://bit.ly/3OwPoaH ).
The architecture and urban design of Paris are inestimable in their elegance and endur-
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ance. Even if the U.S. survives for a thousand years (we’re less than 250 years old now), it doesn’t have the basic, historic bones or devotion to conservatorship to match the French; not to mention being cursed by the attempted extermination of Native American people.
The French, of course, have been brutal colonizers like most European countries, and so are under their own curse. I’m not repainting history, but just observing how the physicality of a city can shape fashion, thinking, and politics. I enjoy reframing the slogan of the French Revolution (a prime example of overkill) “Liberty Equality Fraternity” to suit the reality of who lives on this planet. It’s a valuable sentiment to try to live up to, much like the one adopted by the United States: E pluribus unum, meaning, “Out of many, one.” In high school civics class, it sounded like something valuable to strive for. Recently, it’s been ignored or twisted by the totalitarian right. But I’m still suffering from PETS— Post Election Trauma Syndrome—so I digress.
The central revelation of the trip for me was a reminder of the resiliency of women. Much of the Parisian
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The City and Its Uncertain Walls (fiction - hardcover) by Haruki Murakami
This is a love story, a quest, and an ode to books and libraries, set in a surreal town where shadows untether from selves and a Dream Reader reviews dreams. Murakami delivers a masterful novel filled with ceaseless mystery and change.
The Last Dream (fiction - hardcover) by Pedro Almodóvar
Filmmaker Pedro Almodóvar makes his English-language debut with The Last Dream, a collection of twelve stories blending memoir, autofiction, and gothic fiction. Spanning decades, these tales offer a glimpse into Almodóvar’s artistic evolution and obsessions, from a love story between Jesus and Barabbas to a repentant vampire.
Roman Year: A Memoir (non-fiction - hardcover) by André Aciman
André Aciman, author of Call Me by Your Name, brings us a memoir of his adolescence in Rome. After being expelled from Egypt, Aciman finds solace in literature and the Eternal City. Through his reflections, he transforms personal upheaval into a profound connection with Rome’s culture.
Upcoming Events
Saturday, December 7 @ 4 pm (non-ticketed - Corte Madera store) Robert Holmes, author of Passages
Passages is a memoir and photo collection from photographer Robert Holmes, offering a glimpse into his extraordinary career and life. Featuring over 270 images, it spans his
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Masquerade by Mike Fu
Set in Shanghai and New York, Masquerade is replete with odd strangers and strange disappearances, eerie coincidences, and potential ghosts. What’s not to love?
If you’re looking for a queer holiday rom-com, here’s one to check out.
Selected Amazon Reviews by Kevin Killian
The late, beloved San Francisco author Kevin Killian wrote literally thousands of Amazon reviews, some hilariously satiric, some incisive and heartfelt, and all of them worth reading.
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Nightmare Before Kissmas by Sara Raasch
Sally! Sex and Revolution!
By Susan Berston
When award-winning filmmaker Deborah Craig was making her short documentary A Great Ride (2018), about lesbians and aging, she received a tip from aikido sensei Penny Sablove about a woman in her 80s who lived in the woods in Northern California and still cut her own firewood with a chainsaw! The visual was compelling for Craig, and she had to see it for herself. “I wanted that on film,” she said. Little did she know at the time what a big adventure she was in for— documenting the life of brilliant lesbian feminist teacher and spokeswoman Sally Gearhart.
In the summer of 2014, Craig and her camerawoman Silvia Turchin charged down a dirt path in Willits, CA, 2-1/2 hours north of San Francisco, trying to keep up with Gearhart. The video footage she ended up with while careening around in a battered-up Isuzu Jeep with Gearhart and her dog Bodhi covered themes ranging from aging to feminism and separatism to gay rights and academia to environmentalism. According to Craig, who teaches at San Francisco State University as Gearhart once did, “Everybody who saw the footage was like, ‘Who is this? She’s so amazing. You’ve got to make a film about her ... . You shouldn’t do a film about aging; you should just do a feature length film about Sally.’”
Craig and her Co-Directors/Co-Producers Jörg Fockele and Ondine Rarey took six years to complete Sally!, a documentary about lesbian feminist trailblazer and activist Sally Miller Gearhart (1931–2021). The film had its World Premiere at the Frameline 48 San Francisco International LGBTQ+ Film Festival in June of 2024. Sally! is currently on a global festival tour, and has won four audience awards, one jury award for best documentary, and a Best Director award.
Sally Gearhart’s Achievements
At San Francisco State University in the 1970s, Gearhart and a group of other feminists helped establish one of the nation’s first Women Studies programs. She rose to
prominence when she campaigned alongside Harvey Milk in 1978 to defeat Proposition 6, the anti-gay (John) Briggs initiative, which would have banned gay and lesbian teachers from California public school classrooms.
She was a Renaissance woman with expansive interests. Besides teaching and activism, she also wrote the cult classic fantasy novel The Wanderground, about a utopian women’s community in the hills, and appeared in the classic film Word Is Out (1977), which normalized gay life.
Help Support Sally!
Sally! is screening on Wednesday, December 18, at 6:30 pm at the Rialto Cinemas Elmwood theatre in Berkeley. While completed, the documentary still very much needs your generous tax-deductible contributions of any size, as the filmmakers forge ahead with festival submissions and an impact campaign to help schools and community-based organizations use the film to increase awareness and encourage activism. Learn more at our website ( https://www.sallygearhartfilm.com/ ) and contact us via email at SallyGearhartFilm@gmail.com or call me at 415-596-4900.
Craig remarks: “I’ve been scrambling ever since to fully understand the brilliance, warmth, complexity, humor, theatrics, contradictions, engagement, connectedness, imagination, and 110% humanity of this truly one-of-a-kind human being. Thank you, Sally, for the privilege. Thank you, Sally, for the adventure.”
Susan Berston is a Producer of the documentary-in-progress “The Day the Curtains Came Down,” about the last years of lesbian and social justice activist Phyllis Lyon, and Lyon’s team of caregivers. Berston has also been actively supporting other film projects, such as “Sally!” She is an Instructor in the School of Business at City College of San Francisco and is the author of several acclaimed business textbooks.
Deborah Craig, Jörg Fockele and Ondine Rarey
This Month at the Farmers’ Market
Citrus
By Debra Morris
(Editor’s Note: This article will be the last for the column authored by Debra Morris, who recently retired “after 55 years of nonstop work”! She is looking forward to putting her feet up with a good book, taking a cruise to Alaska, planting flowers in her yard, and volunteering at an animal shelter. Hopefully she will also now have proper time to savor all of the delicious foods she has been writing about for the San Francisco Bay Times. She is a thoughtful professional—and a fabulous cook! Please join us in wishing her all the best as she begins a new chapter.)
The cold winter months are here and with them come delicious California citrus. There are many varieties at your local farmers’ market that you won’t find at the grocery store, and they’re brought to you fresh from the orchards of the farmers who grew them.
You’ll find tangerines and mandarins, sunny yellow lemons, lovely green limes, big grapefruits and even bigger pomelos, and many varieties of oranges such as the blood orange and the Cara Cara orange. New varieties are being developed each year, so you might see something you haven’t seen before.
Citrus was once king in California with vast rolling hills of orange and lemon trees. It was first brought to the state by Franciscan friars to plant at the missions in the late 1700s, then planted and grown in the 19th century as the “Second Gold Rush.” Citrus then spread to the rest of Southern California in the early 20th century with field after field of oranges, grapefruits, and lemons.
The acreage is far less now, with housing becoming a more profitable “crop,” but Ventura and San Joaquin counties
still have citrus trees covering rolling hills and flat expanses of land. Smaller farms across the state grow wonderful specialty citrus such as kefir limes, Golden Nugget tangerines, kumquats, pomelos, blood oranges, tangelos, and other up-and-coming varieties. They grow mandarin oranges against the northern foothills, lemons near Santa Paula and Fillmore in Ventura County, and oranges on the flats of Fresno and Merced.
Citrus is the perfect accompaniment for heavy winter meals with its bright fresh flavor, abundant nutrition, and versatility of use. Fresh citrus salads, tangy dressings and marinades, and delicious sauces can lighten any winter meal. Try Candied Orange Slices Dipped in Dark Chocolate for a decadent treat worthy of this festive season.
Debra Morris, prior to her recent retirement, was a longtime spokesperson for the Pacific Coast Farmers’ Market Association. For more information and recipes: https://www.pcfma.org/
Candied Orange Slices Dipped in Dark Chocolate
2 blood oranges, sliced crosswise into 1⁄4-inch-thick pieces
5 ounces good-quality dark chocolate (preferably 70% cocoa), chopped
1 1/2 cups sugar
1 cup water
Maldon salt for garnish
In a saucepan, combine 1 1/2 cups sugar and water and bring to a boil over high heat, stirring constantly, until the sugar has dissolved completely, about 5 minutes. Reduce the heat to low, add the blood orange slices, and simmer until translucent, about 20–30 minutes. Remove pan from heat and let cool completely, about 2 hours, in a cool spot.
Place waxed paper over a sheet pan. Using tongs, remove the slices, shaking off any excess syrup. Place on the rack in a single layer. Let the slices dry overnight. Reserve the syrup for another use.
Line a baking sheet with parchment paper. Put the chocolate in a heatproof bowl placed over simmering water in a saucepan. Melt the chocolate, stirring until smooth. Remove from the heat.
Drag half of the candied blood orange slice through the chocolate, then place on the parchment in a single layer to dry. Leave until the chocolate has set, about 1 hour. Garnish with Maldon salt.
holiday tea. Lovingly built with a complete edible exterior, this two-story wonder takes the holidays to a new level. The culinary team, led by Executive Chef Chad Bayless, gives us 22 feet high and 23 feet wide of wonderment. Next to the gingerbread house and behind the huge lighted tree is the Make-a-Wish Greater Bay Area display, giving a deeper sense to this time of giving. While at the Fairmont, enjoy a holiday Mai Tai in the Tonga Room. And dance to their live music!
There’s East Bay magic at the Claremont Hotel (now also part of the global Fairmont chain) with their holiday teas and one of my favorite restaurants, Limewood. I still dream of their sour cream chive Parker House rolls. Their spa and pools might be perfect for that holiday hangover.
The Fairmont Sonoma Mission Inn and Spa is also in on the festive act, with gorgeous décor, delicious food, and wine at Santé, and spa treatments galore. The Fairmont hotels kindly allow dogs, at least in most cases and following their pet policy, so my little girl gets to enjoy the holidays, too!
The Festive and Fabulous
And, of course, we have the festive and fabulous traditions. These include the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus holiday concerts, The Golden Girls Live at the Curran Theatre, and even snuggling in with what Hallmark is calling their first LBGTQ Christmas film: The Christmas House. Maybe there’s hope yet! Let’s stay as positive as possible. Happy holidays, everyone!
Jan Wahl is a Hollywood historian and film critic on various broadcast outlets. She has two Emmys and many awards for her longtime work on behalf of film buffs and the LGBTQ community. Contact her at www.janwahl.com
municipal and personal treasury must have gone to the Olympics; still, the all-volunteer staff has kept the Cineffable festival completely accessible, rekindling the heat of feminism with every meal served in the café, every painting hung in the little gallery, and every embrace between women known and unknown.
I received so many embraces. Regan Kramer, originally from Brooklyn, translated the documentary from my words into French (damn, I’m impressive in French!)) and who also bought me beer when I needed it most. Christine Lemoine gave me a copy of one of my really early poems she’d translated for a French edition of a book about Joan Nestle and the Lesbian Herstory Archives. The organizers, on learning the film screening was on Diane’s [Diane Sabin] and my wedding anniversary, gave us roses in the middle of all the details they were managing. At each turn, the women were efficient, buoyant, resourceful, and caring, as we can be!
Following the results of having a fascist returned to power in the U.S., it is urgent we’re reminded of the power of women. So, the motto of Paris is even more meaningful for us to remember: “She is rocked by the waves but does not sink.”
Jewelle Gomez is a lesbian/feminist activist, novelist, poet, and playwright. She’s written for “The Advocate,” “Ms. Magazine,” “Black Scholar,” “The San Francisco Chronicle,” “The New York Times,” and “The Village Voice.” Follow her on Instagram and Twitter @VampyreVamp
childhood in post-war Britain to his adventures as an international photojournalist.
Sunday, December 8 @ 1 pm (non-ticketed - Corte Madera store) Candice Jalili, author of Finding Famous: A Mashad Family Novel
This story follows Josie Lawrence, whose life is upended when she discovers her biological father is the late patriarch of a famous reality TV family. Suddenly thrust into a world of fame, Josie must decide if she’s brave enough to embrace her new life as a Mashad.
Saturday, December 14 @ 11 am (non-ticketed - Corte Madera store) Laura Pavlov, author of Always Mine
Always Mine is a friends-to-lovers romance that will have you hooked from start to finish. Josie, a self-proclaimed “relationship girl” and newly single, turns to her long-time best friend Niko to explore what she’s been missing. Pavlov will be joined by romance author Liz Tomforde.
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“Just hear those sleigh bells jingling, Ring ting tingling too Come on, it’s lovely weather For a sleigh ride together with you” —”Sleigh Ride” by Leroy Anderson
It’s that time of year again. It might not be snowing or jingling, but the holidays are right around the corner. And The Gay Gourmet is here to help you with foodie gift ideas, specials, and promotions—all to help you celebrate Holiday 2024 in culinary style.
For those in the South Bay, Visit San Jose is launching A Very San Jose Holiday. The citywide campaign includes numerous fun-filled attractions and promotions, including: the downtown Winter Wonderland, with a 60-foot Ferris wheel, and a new winter gift market along Paseo de San Antonio; Christmas in the Park, which transforms Plaza de Cesar Chavez with 40+ animated displays, a towering community giving tree, and festive nightly entertainment; Downtown Ice, a skating rink set amid the picturesque Circle of Palms Plaza; and seasonal performances of A Christmas Carol at the Montgomery Theater, Mannheim Steamroller Christmas by Chip Davis at the Center for the Performing Arts, and the San Jose Nutcracker at the California Theatre. And, don’t miss Miracle on 1st, San Jose’s holiday pop-up bar at Paper Plane.
You can embark on a journey through California’s sun-soaked vineyards with a beautifully illustrated puzzle from Water & Wines Featuring the state’s renowned wine regions, such as Napa Valley, Sonoma County, and Paso Robles, you’ll explore the thriving Californian wine industry and its flagship grape varieties, including Cabernet Sauvignon, Zinfandel, and Chardonnay. Water & Wines plants one tree for every puzzle sold and donates to improve global access to safe drinking water.
A ntonina’s GlutenFree Bakery offers gluten-free cakes that are both decadent and delicious, making them perfect for the holiday season, or just to treat yourself. The single-layer gluten-free cakes come
in an elegant and beautiful jewel box container. Available in two flavors, either chocolate or vanilla, the gluten-free cakes feature real buttercream frosting with a piped trim and topped with chocolate decorations.
Drizzle on the holiday spirit with Sweet Chaos, whose drizzled popcorn is the perfect mix of your favorite sweet & salty snacks. Their seasonal popped corns include hot cocoa, black & white sugar cookie, iced gingerbread, and peppermint crunch. Sweet Chaos Drizzles are gluten free, made with non-GMO popcorn, and have no artificial colors or flavors. Their mouthwatering popcorn is popped in coconut oil, with just the right amount of cane sugar and sea salt.
Looking for the perfect holiday gift for brunch lovers? Grab an Early to Rise ceramic mug from the newish Nopa restaurant, handmade with love by West Oakland ceramicist Katie Gibbs. Each classic diner-style mug is meticulously crafted over the span of a month, giving it that special, nostalgic touch. Sip your coffee from one of these custom-made mugs, and you’ll swear your brew tastes better— because it’s not just a cup; it’s a work of art that brings warmth to your morning! Perfect for cozying up during the holidays or gifting a little slice of handmade goodness. You can also throw in a package of this restaurant’s house-cured & smoked thickcut bacon, and a bag of Signal coffee beans for a complete breakfast-centric gift.
The Public Market Emeryville invites dog owners and their furry friends to The Public Barket (Holiday Edition) to enjoy an afternoon of shopping a curated selection of dog-focused goodies. These pet-friendly gifts include homemade dog treats, bandanas, and leashes from local
makers and artists who have a passion and love for dogs. Fun activities include a live dog portrait drawing from Artist Sophie Diao (only available on Saturday, December 7) and a mini photoshoot session with dog portrait photographer, Ellen Shershow Photography (only available on Sunday, December 8). Available spots for the dog-portrait drawing and mini photoshoot sessions are limited and first-come firstserve. Berkeley Humane will be hosting an adoption booth to help provide a loving home for some of their pups in time for the holidays. The event is free to attend for the public.
Eataly in San Jose has a mouthwatering panettone collection for 2024 . Produced in one of Italy’s finest artisan bakeries, Eataly’s panettoni are the ultimate holiday desserts. The collection includes four flavors that are made with the highest quality ingredients, perfect to gift or to simply just enjoy the flawless Italian dessert with loved ones. The flavors include: classic, pear and dark chocolate, white chocolate and pistachio, and limoncello. There’s also the classic panettone packaged in Eataly’s iconic red tin, leavened with sourdough and enriched with raisins, candied orange, and bourbon vanilla.
LGBTQ-owned Equator Coffees has a new holiday blend collection, curated to capture the spirit of community. 5% of all sales will directly support Equator’s partners at Suke Quto, a coffee farm in Ethiopia’s Guji region with beans from there featured in this blend. Funds support the Suke Quto School Project , which helps local schools by providing muchneeded desks for students. Equator’s holiday treats include: the brand’s special holiday blend coffee; a holiday mug; a red
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bag ornament; a “Mill Valley Mornings” candle with hints of redwoods, spice, sea salt, and citrus; tiger socks; and the TCHO dirty chai chocolate bar.
David Titmuss’ The Big Gay Cocktail Guide combines humor, history, and the art of mixology with a unique gay-rating system, How Gay Is Your Cocktail? It categorizes cocktails from “Super Straight” (1/5) to “Absolutely Fabulous” (5/5). Each rating, such as “Sassy Not Flashy” (4/5) and “Ritzy Rebel” (3/5), is designed to spark conversation and perhaps even a playful debate among friends. The Big Gay Cocktail Guide also includes: online 1-minute “how-to” videos, calorie counts, alcohol strength, and a story about each cocktail’s origins.
One of the magical wonders of the holidays is enjoying how cultures globally celebrate the season. European Deli is a one-stop gourmet destination for delicious specialties from Germany and nearby countries and imports Lebkuchen-Schmidt (gingerbread cookies and pastries) fresh from Deutschland.
New York Times bestselling author Danielle Walker’s newest cookbook, Make It Easy, makes meal-prep simple and weeknight dinners less stressful. Danielle shares how to eat healthfully without spending hours in the kitchen. With delicious recipes like enchilada-stuffed sweet potatoes, sweet and spicy chicken stir-fry, “Breakfast-for-Dinner” sheet-pan pancakes and bacon, and magic meatball pasta, Danielle has created easy dinnertime solutions for home cooks, hoping to relieve mental load, reduce dinnertime stress, and ease decision fatigue.
ekuBox has partnered with Le Creuset to create luxe holiday gift boxes for the foodie in your life. The Gourmet Kitchen Essentials box is the perfect hostess gift for those who appreciate the finer elements of cooking. Included are essentials such as a Le Creuset spoon rest and spatula, olive wood spoon , Turkish Fueta kitchen towel, olive wood salt cellar, Fleur de Sel
sea salt, and YiaYia and Friends gourmet extra virgin olive oil from Greece. Let’s Glow SF is coming back to downtown San Francisco, thanks to the Downtown SF Partnership. This fourth annual event takes place from December 6–15. This year, the largest holiday projection mapping show in the U.S. is expanding even further. The free, 10-night outdoor event will feature animated light shows on even more iconic San Francisco buildings, including the Ferry Building and the top of Salesforce Tower, visible throughout the Bay Area. With artwork from 13 local and internationally renowned artists, Let’s Glow SF offers an immersive holiday experience. Attendees can enjoy festive-themed drinks (including spiced cider, hot cocoa, and autumn spritz cocktails), bites, and branded merchandise from participating retailers, while experiencing the magic of cutting-edge projections, lasers, and large-scale visuals that transform the city into a vibrant, illuminated wonderland.
Hi Neighbor Hospitality Group’s Winter Wonderland at The Vault Garden returns for the 5th year in a row, with more festive decor, new all-electric heating, and more themed cocktails created to ensure a fun and festive holiday celebration. With a fully tented, expansive outdoor space, all-new lounge seating, and outdoor bar, Winter Wonderland is this season’s must-visit destination for all things holiday. Sip on seasonally-inspired, festive cocktails, and nibble on menu favorites as you enjoy the unparalleled views of the legendary 555 California Christmas tree at San Francisco’s Bank of America Plaza.
On New Year’s Eve, guests of Anomaly SF can plan to ring in 2025 with Chef Mike Lanham’s exciting multi-course dining experience with lots of tastes,
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textures, and presentations—all with a bit of Southern-inspiration. A special sparkling wine pairing will be offered plus a few surprise presentations, including caviar supplements. With a reasonably priced tasting menu that accommodates all palates, it is a fine dining experience to kick off the New Year that feels like a splurge but doesn’t break the bank.
I f you’re celebrating Hanukkah, One Market has you covered with a threecourse dinner that includes traditional matzo ball soup, 12-hour smoked beef brisket, and sufganiyot—a beloved jelly-filled doughnut.
The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco’s beloved Teddy Bear Tea returns for children ages 2–11, offering an enchanting afternoon of holiday fun. Each child will receive a teddy bear of their very own while they enjoy lively entertainment from animated elves, whimsical photo opportunities, and more seasonal magic. Families can indulge in hot chocolate, scones, teddy bear-themed treats, and sandwiches. Guests are encouraged to bring an unwrapped toy to donate to UCSF Benioff Children’s Hospitals.
Share the gift of aloha with Honolulu Cookie Company’s 2024 Holiday Collection. This year’s assortment
features playful designs from Hawaiʻi artist and designer, Jana Lam. Inspired by a tropical holiday, the designs feature bold splashes of color and motifs that capture the fun and beauty of the islands, adding a vibrant touch to every holiday. This collection has various sizes and styles of boxes, tins, and ornaments, filled with delicious holiday flavors accompanied by some of their classic cookies. According to the company, “You’ll fa la la in love with the new Holiday Confetti flavor for the holiday season. The joyful sprinkles of holiday confetti add the perfect dash of sweetness to the classic shortbread macadamia cookie. Savor the return of some of the popular, seasonal holiday classics—peppermint macadamia, dark chocolate peppermint macadamia and white chocolate ginger spice.”
Castro favorite and lesbian-owned Kokak Chocolates has two new holiday selections this year. The Secret Santa collection features classic dark chocolate truffle flavors with a tropical twist, featuring kalamansi alongside apple spice, sea salt caramel, blueberry, and raspberry. The Noche Buena Chocolate collection is a tribute to Kokak’s Filipino heritage. It features not just Filipino fruits and desserts, but also feast-worthy dishes usually served at every Filipino table during the holidays. These include new recipes that you don’t
typically see in chocolate truffles, bars, and confections—like kare-kare and adobo.
Join the Palace Hotel San Francisco for a festive and fun gingerbread house-making workshop at the Pied Piper, designed exclusively for adults. Led by the hotel’s talented pastry chef, this workshop will allow guests to learn the art of crafting the perfect gingerbread house while enjoying a glass of wine, or warm mulled wine, for something with a holiday twist. Gather your friends, get creative, and let your imagination (and frosting) run wild. It’s a merry way to celebrate the season, with plenty of laughs and, of course, a masterpiece to take home—if it survives the night.
Sausalito Liquor Company’s new Unsinkable Chocolate Liqueur is made with TCHO Chocolate. Available online, it’s the perfect ingredient for your holiday concoctions. You can mix it into a wicked chocolate martini: add a whisper of chocolate to your Old Fashioned for a rich new layer of flavor; drizzle into your finest baked goods (decadent brownies, a chocolate bread pudding, a splash in your whipped cream topping); or pop a glug into your hot chocolate.
T he 32nd Annual Kung Pao Kosher Comedy: Jewish Comedy takes place Tuesday, December 24, through Thursday, December 26, 2024, with two shows a day, in-person at the Imperial Palace Restaurant in San Francisco’s Chinatown and live-streamed on YouTube Live. The comedian lineup includes: Canadian Ophira Eisenberg (NPR’s Ask Me Another), British Matt Kirshen (Late Show With Jimmy Fallon), Alaskan Becky Braunstein (Unprotected Sets), and Lisa Geduldig (Kung Pao Producer and emcee). The menu includes: Kung Pao chicken, sweet and sour flounder filet, Kosher walnut prawns, and fortune cookies with Yiddish proverbs. Partial proceeds benefit Shalom Bayit and the Chinatown YMCA food pantry.
A nd, finally, courtesy of chef Dustin Valette of The Matheson and Valette in Healdsburg, is a suggestion for a delicious holiday treat: Chocolate Chip Rolo Cookies. A recipe similar to his family’s favorite for these cookies—highlighting
classic Rolo candies—is at https://bit.ly/3ViW2oL
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Sweet Chaos Drizzles: https://sweetchaos.com/ Early To Rise: www.earlytorisesf.com/ The Public Market Emeryville: https://tinyurl.com/3c7jvckt Equator Coffees: www.equatorcoffees.com/
The Big Gay Cocktail Guide: https://tinyurl.com/yc228n3n European Deli: https://europeandeli.com/ Danielle Walker’s Make It Easy: https://tinyurl.com/4fcp95bk ekuBox: https://ekubox.com/ Let’s Glow SF: https://tinyurl.com/bdd64ry2 The Vault Garden: www.vaultgarden.com/ The Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco: https://tinyurl.com/ntdnd9rp Honolulu Cookie Company: www.honolulucookie.com/ Kokak Chocolates: www.kokakchocolates.com/ The Palace Hotel San Francisco: www.sfpalace.com/ Sausalito Liquor Company: www.sausalitoliquor.com/ Kung Pao Kosher Comedy: www.koshercomedy.com/ The Matheson: www.thematheson.com/ Valette: www.valettehealdsburg.com/ Anomaly SF: https://anomalysf.com/ One Market: https://onemarket.com/ Eataly panettone: https://tinyurl.com/3wvbtbz5
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Rebels in a Glass: The Cocktail Revolution
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For 13 long years, the 18th Amendment prohibited the buying or selling of alcohol. But the ban unwittingly sparked a transformation of the industry still felt today. December 5, 1933, now known as National Repeal Day, marked the end of that dry spell and the return of spirits to the public sphere. But it wasn’t just the legal flow of alcohol that returned; there was a reinvention of bars, pubs, and breweries, with new innovations and culture.
During Prohibition, clandestine establishments known as speakeasies were the birthplace of the modern cocktail. The harshness of illegally distilled spirits forced speakeasies to concoct inventive recipes to make the drinks more palatable with bitter, sour, sweet, and herbaceous flavors. These hidden spaces paved the way for the modern cocktail bar. The gathering for a drink became tasting an art and experiencing a social ritual. During the month of National
Corpse Reviver No. 2
1 teaspoon absinthe, to rinse
3/4 ounce Crop Farmer’s Organic Gin
3/4 ounce Lo-fi Aperitifs Dry Vermouth
3/4 ounce triple sec
3/4 ounce lemon juice, freshly squeezed orange twist, for garnish
1. In a chilled cocktail glass, add absinthe. Swirl to coat the interior of the glass, and discard excess.
2. In a cocktail shaker filled with ice, combine gin, triple sec, lemon juice, and Lo-Fi Aperitifs Dry Vermouth. Shake for 12–15 seconds until well chilled. Double-strain through a fine mesh strainer into the prepared glass.
3. Garnish with an orange twist.
Repeal Day, let us honor the enduring legacy of these speakeasy pioneers.
Today, bartenders continue to draw inspiration from the Prohibition era, emphasizing quality and creativity with fresh, local ingredients—a nod to the resourcefulness of that time. Just as speakeasy mixologists turned limited and sometimes questionable supplies into timeless creations, modern bartenders craft innovative drinks that embrace sustainability and the minimalistic approach of the era. From crafting syrups in-house to reducing waste with zero-waste cocktail programs, this spirit of inventiveness lives on, nowadays reflecting a thoughtful balance between flavor and environmental responsibility.
Book that was published in 1930. Harry was a renowned bartender who fled the United States during Prohibition to England to continue his craft, at which point he compiled his iconic cocktail manual. This drink’s name also hints at how it was crafted to revive the spirit of conviviality in an era when gathering over alcohol was both risky and rebellious.
Two Prohibition-era cocktails that are near and dear to my heart are the Corpse Reviver No. 2 and Scofflaw Cocktail. The Corpse Reviver No. 2, as suggested by the title, revives the palate with a lacing of herbal, citrus, and slightly bitter. This cocktail was made famous by Harry Craddock, who compiled recipes for The Savoy Cocktail
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2 ounces Michter’s Rye Whiskey
½ ounce Lo-fi Aperitifs Dry Vermouth
¾ ounce grenadine
¾ ounce fresh lemon juice orange twist, for garnish
1. Combine all ingredients except garnish in a cocktail shaker filled with ice.
2. Shake vigorously for 15–20 seconds until well-chilled and strain into a chilled coupe.
3. Garnish with an orange or lemon twist.
Similarly, the Scofflaw Cocktail was created in 1924 at Harry’s New York Bar (a haven for American expatriates in Paris) by Harry MacElhone. The Scofflaw Cocktail gained notoriety quickly, because it directly mocked Prohibition and celebrated those who “scoffed” at the law. The cocktail is elegant and balanced; it combines rye whiskey, dry vermouth, lemon juice, grenadine, and orange bitters. The way the tartness, sweetness, and spice intertwine is an artful approach to a balanced cocktail.
A s we gather with family and friends, let us reflect on how far we’ve come—from secret gatherings and makeshift spirits, to vibrant bars that celebrate both the art of the cocktail and a more sustainable future. Share a Corpse Reviver No. 2, or the Scofflaw Cocktail, not just as a toast to the past, but as a celebration of the creativity, resilience, and community that define cocktail culture today.
San Francisco-based Dina Novarr enjoys sharing her passion for fine wines, spirits, non-alcoholic craft beverages, and more with others.
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Sister Dana Sez: Words of Wisdumb from a Fun Nun
By Sister Dana Van Iquity
Sister Dana sez, “Each year on TRANSGENDER DAY OF REMEMBRANCE, we have paused to remember, honor, and mourn the lives of transgender people lost to violence in the last year. In 2024 alone, at least 426 transgender and gender non-conforming individuals have been lost—the majority due to anti-trans violence—with potentially more lost but unknown.
In 2019, the A MERICAN MEDICAL ASSOCIATION categorized these trans losses as an “epidemic”—and it is one that has only continued to spread.
But within days of November 20th’s TDOR , the issue of transgender people and restrooms was blowing up on Capitol Hill. Sarah McBride became the first trans
person elected to the U.S. House earlier last month. The Delaware lawmaker will take office in January ... prompting Republicans to go into a moral panic over bathrooms. Transphobic extremist Rep. Nancy Mace (R-SC) introduced a bill reserving Capitol Hill’s female-only spaces for “biological” women only. The news-hungry Republican has since given multiple interviews misgendering McBride and blasting trans people as mentally ill. She has also been on a social media rampage (so far, more than 262 times on “X”) over the issue. Sister Dana sez, “Isn’t it about time to dump Musk’s nasty ‘X’ and join the libs over on ‘Bluesky’?”
Anti-LGBTQ House Speaker Mike Johnson issued a statement (ironically on the very same TDOR ) saying anyone working on Capitol Hill must use public restrooms in fitting with their sex assigned at birth. McBride has previously called the bathroom issue a Republican-led diversion from the issues at hand. She posted a response to Johnson’s words online, saying she’d abide by the ruling: “I’m not here to fight about bathrooms. I’m here to fight for Delawareans and to bring down the costs facing families. Like all members, I will follow the rules outlined by Speaker Johnson, even if I disagree with them.” She continued, “This effort to distract from the real issues facing this country hasn’t distracted me over the last several days, as I’ve remained hard at work preparing
to represent the greatest state in the union come January. Serving in the 119th Congress will be the honor of a lifetime—and I continue to look forward to getting to know my future colleagues on both sides of the aisle.”
Meanwhile Sen. Roger Marshall (R-KS) introduced a bill last week to legally erase transgender people, entitled the “Defining Male and Female Act of 2024.” He claimed that the bill would stop what he called the Biden administration’s attempt to “replace biological sex with dangerous radical gender ideology.” Sister Dana sez, “Well, so much for ‘colleagues on both sides of the aisle,’ riiight?!”
Senator Scott Wiener made a most encouraging statement, saying, “Here in California, my LGBTQ colleagues and I have spent years laying the foundation for strong protections against attacks on the transgender community. We’ve secured funds to provide legal aid to transgender immigrants, worked to address the unique health needs of trans people, and created a refuge for trans kids and families fleeing states that criminalize their health care.” He added, “I will never stop fighting against attacks on the transgender community’s basic dignity and existence. Thank you for your commitment to building a safer, more inclusive future for trans people—and all people—across California.”
PROJECT OPEN HAND held its 32nd Annual HAND TO HAND GALA on November 22 at The Hibernia. Reserved for exemplary community members who embody Project Open Hand’s founder Ruth Brinker in their selfless dedication and generosity, POH bestowed its highest honor, “The Ruth Brinker Visionary Award,” to WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN, the frontline organization that provides food relief to communities impacted by natural disasters and humanitarian crises. Last month, Project Open Hand emerged as a leader in the Food Is Medicine Coalition (FIMC), advancing public policy that supports access to food and nutrition services as well as providing life-saving nutrition to thousands of people in the Bay Area every day. POH received accreditation from FIMC with comment by POH CEO Paul Hepfer, noting, “Trust is a critical ingredient in all we do. For the last forty years, our clients, volunteers, and stakeholders have trusted us not only to serve meals with love, but to do so with the highest quality of food and service in mind. This accreditation is a recognition of this hard work, and a way to signal to our
community that this will continue to be our priority.” Speakers for the event included POH’s VP of Programs Ana Ayala and Wendy Escobedo of World Central Kitchen.
“ President Biden should order background checks of Trump’s Cabinet picks,” said Frank Figliuzzi, former FBI Assistant Director for Counterintelligence. “The FBI has conducted background investigations of White House nominees since at least the tenure of President Dwight Eisenhower’s time in office.” Sister Dana sez, “But Trump would rather use private investigators to NOT do their job—while eventually eliminating the FBI entirely!”
Trump has picked for Secretary of Treasury Scott Bessent , who is a married gay man with kids. If approved by the Senate, Bessent would be the first openly gay Cabinet secretary in a Republican administration. That’s the good news. The bad news is that he has no misgivings about working in the most anti-LGBTQ Cabinet ever—and that he donated over $3 million to Republicans and Trump’s campaign during that election cycle.
This community has always been about grassroots activism, accountability, and refusing to compromise on our values. We don’t play games with the truth. Sister Dana sez, “Unfortunately the usually progressive ‘Morning Joe’ political show on MSNBC-TV has quickly kissed the Trump ring. So how many more ordinarily democratic Cable TV news media programs will be suddenly smooching Trump’s hiney?!”
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Dennis McMillan (aka Sister Dana) with Sister Roma at the National AIDS Memorial Grove’s annual Light in the Grove gala in Golden Gate Park held on Saturday, November 30.
Hand to Hand Gala 2024A Benefit for Project Open Hand
Photos by Rink
The 2024 Hand to Hand gala, a benefit for the organization Project Open Hand, was held on Friday, November 22, at The Hibernia. It was an evening of fun, food, and fundraising to celebrate the nonprofit’s achievements, honor community members, and support Project Open Hand’s vision for a healthier California through nutrition.
Honorees for Most Outstanding Community Partner included The Alameda Alliance for Health, serving more than 400,000 residents; and San Francisco Health Plan, providing affordable health care for vulnerable communities.
The Jon Borset Award for Service went to Lisa Erdos, who has volunteered more than 2,400 hours at Project Open Hand since 1993. She joins a group of regular volunteers every Sunday to chop vegetables, package food, and lend a hand wherever needed in the kitchen.
The World Central Kitchen, the frontline organization founded by Chef José Andrés that provides food relief to communities impacted by natural disasters and humanitarian crises, received the Ruth Brinker Visionary Award.
Golden State Warriors arena broadcast host Franco Finn served as emcee. The event included a silent auction and raffle, photo booth, and live entertainment.
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Lesbian Game Changers Update
“Celebrating Trailblazing Lesbians,” a short film premiere party, was hosted by author Robin Lowey on Saturday, November 16, at Manny’s, the popular café and meeting space located at 3092 16th Street.
The evening featured three trailblazing queer women—Kate Kendell, Olga Talamante, and Crystal Jang—who have united their diverse communities to foster queer culture and ensure its survival. Their efforts illustrate overcoming the challenges that intersectional identities have and the importance of community building in navigating through these obstacles.
The event benefited Our Family Coalition and the Lesbian Game Changers program, which develops educational resources for lessons on LGBTQ+ inclusive history. Included were a panel discussion, networking reception, and complimentary copies of the book Lesbian Game Changers
Following the event, participants were invited to an afterparty held at Mother, a lesbian bar located across the street from Manny’s. https://lesbiangamechangers.com/
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Hosted by the HARVEY MILK LGBTQ DEMOCRATIC CLUB, the 46TH ANNUAL MILK/MOSCONE VIGIL in honor of assassinated Supervisor Harvey Milk and Mayor George Moscone (November 27, 1978) took place in Harvey Milk Plaza on November 27 this year. We remembered Milk, Moscone, and those who have passed who were a part of Milk’s movement—which has been committed to fighting the police and military industrial complexes—as well as advocating for LGBTQ youth, immigrant rights, housing rights, and reproductive rights since it began. For decades, they have been fighting for these rights; and doing so during these next four years will be as important as ever. As Milk famously said, “We are here to recruit you!”
This year, the Milk Club centered on community members—not politicians—dedicated to fighting for our communities over the coming four years. Following a gorgeous musical prelude, speakers in Milk Plaza included Rev. Marvin K White, Minister of Celebration at Glide Memorial Church, with an extremely stirring poem; dear friend of Harvey and past SF Supervisor Carol Ruth Silver; Melissa Hernandez, strong socialist activist and VP of Membership at Milk Club; Randy Alfred, founding member of the Milk Club and founding news editor of the San Francisco Bay Times ; Tommy Avicolli Mecca , longtime journalist, poet, and tenant-rights activist; Per Sia , drag artiste and co-founder of Drag Story Hour (which proudly started in The Castro); Angie Fa , past president (1992) of the Milk Club; and Vince Crisostomo, Director of Aging Services at the San Francisco AIDS Foundation and HIV Caucus. A truly motivating speech, a big thank you to all the previous speakers, and then a Moment of Silence was led by former VP of the Milk Club, Stephen Torres. We all boldly marched two blocks down the middle of Castro Street to Harvey Milk’s old Camera Shop (now Queer AF art gallery) for hot tea and brownies inside the cozy, warm studio.
Created by the WORLD HEALTH ORGANIZATION, WORLD AIDS DAY since 1988 has been dedicated to raising awareness of the AIDS pandemic and acknowledging HIV as the cause, having infected more than 85.6 million people globally and taken the lives of more than 40.4 million men, women, and children since the first cases were reported in 1981.
On November 30, the eve of the Wo rld AIDS Day National Observance, I always delight in attending this unique and inspiring event: LIGHT IN THE GROVE This was a magical outdoor celebration of Love, Community, and Remembrance in the NATIONAL AIDS MEMORIAL GROVE in the heart of historic Golden Gate Park. The evening provided beautifully illuminated pathways with brilliant light displays (I loved the disco mirror spinning heart—so very LIT for the night!) highlighting enchanting dance and musical performances; and, of course, a moving candlelight reflection at the “Circle of Friends,” inscribed with the names of those who have lost their battle with AIDS. Inside the heated tent was a stunning nighttime display of the now official SF home of the A IDS Memorial Quilt Amazing emcee Sister Roma introduced guest speakers delivering sincerely motivational speeches during a short but stirring program including National AIDS Memorial CEO John Cunningham and Gilead executive (presenting partner) Larkin Callaghan Speaker Emerita Nancy Pelosi introduced via video our guest of honor, Dan Bernal , to receive the Lifetime of Commitment Award for his many contributions in the fight against HIV/AIDS. Over the decades, Dan’s accomplishments include serving as UCSF’s Vice Chancellor for Community and Government Relations, HIV/AIDS patient advocate on the Independent Citizens Oversight Committee of the California Institute for Regenerative Medicine, and former San Francisco District Chief of Staff for Speaker Emerita Pelosi.
On December 1, WORLD AIDS DAY, the GLBT HISTORICAL SOCIETY opened Focus on Living: Portraits of Americans with HIV and AIDS , a powerful photography exhibition by San Francisco-based photographer Roslyn Banish. “My goal has been to humanize HIV/AIDS, to get beyond the stereotypes and statistics,” said Banish. “In the end, I hope we are all more knowledgeable about the disease. I especially hope we are more compassionate and understanding of those brave souls who, despite enormous challenges, have managed to stay focused on the business of living.” The exhibition will be featured at the GLBT Historical Society Museum in the Castro at 4127 18th Street through March 2025.
Also on World AIDS Day, 9 am–9 pm, once again the always creative George Kelly hosted the 10th annual INSCRIBE on the sidewalks of Castro Street. This was the yearly opportunity for us to remember those we have lost to HIV/AIDS by inscribing their names in provided chalk on the sidewalk.
Kick off the 2024 holiday season with the SAN FRANCISCO PRIDE BAND at the DANCE-ALONG NUTCRACKER
“Mission: Nutcracker!” It’s part comedy musical, part dance-it-yourself ballet, and part symphonic concert. This year, audience members will hear music from James Bond, Pink Panther, and the Tchaikovsky Nutcracker Ballet— while they help junior detective Clara and spy-in-training Fritz work to find the stolen Golden Nutcracker. Yerba Buena Center for the Arts—Forum, 701 Mission Street, Saturday, December 7 at 3 pm & 7 pm and Sunday, December 8 at 11 am & 3 pm. https://sfprideband.org/
“SONGS OF THE SEASON” is back for its 32nd year, bringing enough cheer to light up all eight nights of Hanukkah and the 12 days of Christmas! Join me at Feinstein’s at the Nikko, 222 Mason Street on December 10 and December 11, doors at 7:30 pm with show at 8 pm for two unforgettable nights of music, laughter, and good
cheer. Expect heartwarming carols, laughout-loud holiday skits, and dazzling performances by local favorites and international talent. Founded by drag personality Donna Sachet and produced by Billboard recording artist Brian Kent as a benefit for PRC, these singing stars are joined by Leanne Borghesi, Brian Justin Crum, Charles Jones, Kippy Marks, Kenny Nelson, Sister Roma, Dr. Dee Spencer, and Roberta Drake https://prcsf.org/
KATYA, A HOLIDAY SPECTACULAR , one of San Francisco’s most beloved and cherished holiday traditions, returns for an unprecedented 17th year as the Countess Katya Smirnoff-Skyy makes her annual appearance down Feinstein’s chimney on December 13 and 14, 8 pm. Katya will make your Yuletide GAY with her drag madcap melodies and mirth—songs ranging from classic holiday fare to full-on disco! Feinstein’s at The Nikko, 222 Mason Street. https://www.feinsteinssf.com/
CIRCUS BELLA is back and invites you to its Big Top Tent with KALEIDOSCOPE , San Francisco’s newest Holiday Tradition. Performed in the round under a Colorful Big Top Tent for a limited engagement of 29 performances, the show runs from December 13–January 5. Located at the intersection of Beale and Howard Streets.
https://www.circusbella.org/
President Biden finally pardoned his son, Hunter Biden , on December 1. Sister Dana sez, “It’s the perfect ‘effyou’ to Trump and his Repugnican MAGA maggots making such an absurd fuss over the ‘Biden laptop’!!!”
And as more and more votes are counted, they prove that Trump has now won less than 50 percent of the popular vote. That’s the narrowest popular vote victory margin in decades. Sister Dana sez, “I really don’t believe in so-called ‘mandates.’ But a man TO DATE is a good thing!”
Featured guests at “Celebrating Trailing Lesbians” included (left to right) Mimi Demissew and Shane Kennedy, Our Family Coalition; Robin Lowey; activists Crystal Jang and Olga Talamante; and LGBTQ advocate and former NCLR executive director Kate Kendell. Jang, Talamante, and Kendell are featured in the short film series in our Queer History Lesson Plan, an educational resource for high schools.
