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AMY SCHNEIDER’S HISTORIC WINNING STREAK ON ‘JEOPARDY!’ COMES TO AN END

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AT ONE POINT IT LOOKED LIKE SCHNEIDER WOULD ONCE AGAIN EASILY CRUISE TO VICTORY WITH $24,400 TO TALSMA’S $5,800.

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Jason Parsley angladesh. That’s the answer that took down 40-day “Jeopardy!” Champion Amy Schneider, the history-making trans contestant on the long-running game show.

It came down to the final round — a true nail-biter.

The category was countries of the world, with this clue: “The only nation in the world whose name in English ends in an H, it’s also one of the 10 most populous.”

In most of the games Schneider has won she was so far ahead of the competition her victory was assured.

But on Wednesday Chicago librarian Rhone Talsma was within striking distance going into the final round, getting the right answer, wagering $12,000 for a total of $29,600.

Schneider failed to provide an answer and lost the game.

“This is my favorite show. I was so excited to be here and I just wanted to do my best,” Talsma told TVline. “I did not expect to be facing a 40day champion, and I was excited to maybe see someone else slay the giant. I just really didn’t think it was going to be me, so I’m thrilled.”

In a statement provided to the Chicago Tribune from the show, Schneider said, “I had thought that Rhone was going to be tough

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going into it. I loved hanging out with him. We had a great conversation before the taping, but I could tell that he was here to play and that he was going to be good. I still came very close to winning, but I did feel like maybe I was slipping a little bit. And once it was clear that he was fast on the buzzer, I knew it was going to be a battle all the way.”

At one point it looked like Schneider would once again easily cruise to victory with $24,400 to Talsma’s $5,800.

But it was a Daily Double that gave Talsma enough money to even have a chance at winning the game. During the second round he found the second Daily Double, a question in the game that allows a contestant to bet as much as they have. Talsma bet all of his $7,800 and got it right, doubling his score. But more importantly it put him within striking distance of Schneider.

Schneider, a 42-year-old engineering manager from Oakland, California, ends her “Jeopardy!” run with $1,382,800, which places her in fourth place for the highest winnings in regular-season play.

Two weeks ago Schneider topped $1 million in winnings on the show becoming the fourth person, and first woman, to win more than $1 million during regular season play.

Schneider was already a history-making contestant. She is the first transgender contestant to qualify for the tournament of champions, a yearly tournament featuring players who won the most games from the past season.

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BY KENNEDY MCKINNEY

IT’S NOT ALWAYS ABOUT THE G Asexual

‘LEGENDS OF TOMORROW’ INTRODUCES ASEXUAL SUPERHERO DC’s “Legends of Tomorrow” has introduced another LGBT character named Spooner, who identifies as asexual.

In a scene where Spooner is talking to Zari, Spooner is asked if she likes men to which she replies that “they’re not really her thing.” Zari then asks if she likes women and Spooner again isn’t sure. When one character suggest that Spooner is “messed up,” Zari explains that Spooner might be asexual.

With the addition of an asexual character, “Legends” now has a total of three characters who are LGBT. Fans are loving the continued representation this show celebrates and are happy to see that many are people of color.

The show also joins the shortlist of shows that have acknowledged asexuality behind “Emmerdale,” “Sex Education,” and “BoJack Horseman.”

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SWEDISH CEO COMES OUT AS TRANS

Caroline Farberger, CEO of Swedish insurance company ICA, has come out as transgender, noting that the person who held her back the most was herself.

For years, she was known under a different name and was a high-powered executive.

“I had a high socioeconomic position, a large house, a family, [three] children,” Farberger, 54, said. “The full package.”

But as CNBC reported, starting at the age of 8 she felt like a character in an on-stage play.

“Being a boy was my character, my role,” she said.

It wasn’t until 2017 that Farberger gained the courage to openly identify as a woman.

“Finally, at 49 years of age, I felt authentic,” she said. “But later, when I reflected, there was also a terrifying feeling, because I understood that there couldn’t be any way back.”

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In 2018, she told her staff that she now identifies as Caroline. While it was nervewracking, she is happy to finally be living her truth.

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BLACK LESBIAN PLAYWRIGHT DEBUTS PLAY ABOUT AFRO-QUEER IMMIGRANTS

Playwright Estelle Chout, an AfroCaribbean queer actress, attempts to show the world what it means to be a Black, gay immigrant living in Tāmaki Makaurau in her new comedy “Po’ Boys and Oysters,” a play loosely based on her life.

The comedy follows Mission Bay locals Flo and her wife Jo, who are in the final stages of adopting a child and are ready to share the big news with Flo’s highly conservative big sister.

“I rarely see someone like myself — a proud Black queer mother — represented on the stage,” said Chout. “I’m a French-speaking Caribbean, so there have never been many roles available for my accent. I wrote ‘Po’ Boys and Oysters’ to give these characters a voice and provide a platform to a group that have rarely been seen or represented in our theater.”

The inspiration for the play was a family Zoom call that took place in 2020 during the first big lockdown.

“During this troubled time, my family came

Playwright Estelle Chout. Photo via Facebook.

together [digitally], and very quickly things went pear-shaped,” she said.

The play deals with family strife and the struggle of acceptance in a world that discriminates against people like Chout.

“The problem when the world tries to discriminate against so many groups — the Blacks, the gays — the world deprives itself of so much beauty and so much talent.”

“Po’ Boys and Oysters” debuted at the Auckland Pride Festival and will run as a show in BCA’s theater production.

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LGBT COMMUNITY RALLIES AGAINST

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he LGBT community is, again, under attack by Gov. Ron DeSantis and Republicans in the Florida Legislature. This time, the community is fighting back.

On Tuesday LGBT people and allies hand to support the community. Rev. Patrick gathered to rally against a pair of bills Rogers of UCC Fort Lauderdale wanted to moving through the legislature at alarming represent so that people, especially young speed. HB 1557 and SB 1834 say schools people, know there is support in the religious “may not encourage classroom discussion community. about sexual orientation or gender identity “We should be here today so that people in primary grade levels or in a manner that know that not all of the faith community is not age-appropriate or developmentally backs a bill like this. Homophobia comes appropriate for students.” from the faith community. That’s where it About 300 people gathered started.” outside The Pride Center Before the rally, Queer News at Equality Park to protest Tonight did its evening show the bills. If passed, teachers live from The Pride Center, wouldn’t discuss anything and the entire panel was made LGBT, Gay/Straight Alliance up of teens who are very close Clubs would be threatened, to this issue. and schools would cease PRISM founder and CEO, to be a safe place for 19-year-old Maxx Fenning, led students dealing with sexual the discussion. orientation and gender “It speaks to just how dire identity issues. a situation queer youth face.

“This definitely makes We need this platform and bullying and being platforms like it to create a exclusionary to other people, world that meets the needs of concrete,” Bryanna Turner, young people as a collective.

- Rev. Patrick Rogers a 21-year-old trans college We say that youth are the UCC FORT LAUDERDALE student, said after the rally. future. Let’s ensure our “It’s the government giving a generation has the resources green light to all the bullying and exclusion to make that future bright.” and denying your identity.”

Defeating the proposals is an uphill battle.

She said these bills will even make HB 1557 already passed out of one committee schools that appear friendly, hostile to LGBT by an overwhelming vote of 15-5. Last year, students, and cites her own experience as a bill preventing trans youth from playing anecdotal proof. school sports passed and became law.

“Although the school was, on paper, DeSantis is running for reelection this good with LGBT rights, I still had teachers fall and may run for the White House that would say transphobic stuff. That run in 2024. He’s made scoring cheap legitimized all the bullying and homophobia political points off of LGBT youth a that was happening.” signature policy of his administration.

Clergy from several local churches were on

“WE SHOULD BE HERE TODAY SO THAT PEOPLE KNOW THAT NOT ALL OF THE FAITH COMMUNITY BACKS A BILL LIKE THIS.”

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BY GILLIAN MANNING

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MAYOR DEMANDS REMOVAL OF LGBT BOOKS

Mayor Gene McGee is withholding $110,00 from Mississippi’s Madison County Library System until the system begins to remove all LGBT-related books.

According to the Mississippi Free Press, McGee is allegedly motivated by his personal religious beliefs.

McGee did not inform the libraries about this demand. Tonja Johnson, executive director for the Madison County Library System, said that she contacted the mayor after they did not receive the first quarterly payment of the year.

“He explained his opposition to what he called ‘homosexual materials’ in the library, that it went against his Christian beliefs, and that he would not release the money as the long as the materials were there,” Johnson said. “I explained

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that we are a public library and we serve the entire community. I told him our collection reflects the diversity of our community … He told me that the library can serve whoever we wanted, but that he only serves the great Lord above.”

McGee has not commented on the matter but did confirm he has withheld funds. The library board stands firmly by the materials it offers.

WEST VIRGINIA LESBIAN WOMAN SUES AIR FORCE

Tech Sgt. Kristin Kingrey has worked for the West Virginia Air National Guard for 14 years and is now suing the U.S. Army and Air Force.

Kingrey, who is gay, was allegedly told by her commander, Col. Michael Cadle, to change her appearance and look more “feminine.” The Hill reported that Kingrey, who has her hair cut short and does not wear makeup, was made to believe her career was on the line because of her appearance.

The lawsuit alleges that this isn’t the first time Kingrey was harassed; supposedly a rumor was spread that she was undergoing a gender transition.

“This is about what they think a lesbian female should look like,” Kingrey said.

“They have made this my life. Whenever I discuss it I am at a loss for words.”

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Sgt. Kristin Kingrey. Screenshot via Fairness West Virginia.

Soon after Kingrey filed a complaint with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, an investigation was opened against her for “fraternizing” with two other women — something Kingrey said men do all the time without punishment.

In December, the West Virginia National Air Guard said that it “is fully committed to an inclusive and diverse workforce free from harassment.”

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MARYLAND GAY MAYOR DIES BY SUICIDE

The city of Hyattsville, Maryland, announced that Mayor Kevin Ward, 44, died by suicide. He had a husband and two sons.

Ward, who was gay, was president of the Hyattsville City Council before he took office in 2020. His body was found by police in Fort Marcy, a park in Virginia that is also known as a gay cruising area, the Advocate reported.

The city and out-of-state political leaders expressed their condolences on social media.

“Mayor Ward was a valued and trusted leader and a fierce advocate for all the people of Hyattsville. We are heartbroken at this loss and extend our deepest sympathy to his family,” the city wrote in a statement. “The City knows that Mayor Ward was a well-connected

Hyattsville Mayor Kevin Ward. Photo via Twitter.

member of our tight-knit community and that this is difficult news.”

While his death was ruled a suicide, Ward’s loved ones don’t agree.

“Please, they need to look into this.

[Kevin] would not have committed suicide. This could be a murder,” a member of the family said.

IDAHO BILL INTRODUCED TO BAN YOUTH CONVERSION THERAPY

The state’s House introduced a bill that would ban licensed therapists from offering conversion therapy to minors — the bill does not apply to clergy, religious counselors, parents, or grandparents.

Rep. John McCrostie proposed the legislation and explained to the House that the American Medical Association, American Psychological Association, American Academy of Pediatrics, American Counseling Association all oppose conversion therapy because it lacks scientific support and is harmful.

“The danger in being exposed to conversion therapy is the damage it causes to mental health,” McCrostie said.

The House Health and Welfare Committee agreed to put the bill forward with one Republican member voting no, U.S. News said.

Idaho State Capitol. Photo credit: Elwood J Blues, via Wikipedia.

McCrostie introduced it as a personal bill, which means it’s unlikely that it will move forward in the House or gain a committee meeting.

The Idaho legislature hasn’t been particularly favorable towards LGBT-related legislation. In the past, they have rejected protective bills for sexual orientation and gender identity and have previously rejected bills banning conversion therapy.

They have, however, banned transgender girls from participating in athletics.

NEWS INTERNATIONAL

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THE WORLD AROUND

EXPLORING LGBT NEWS EVENTS ACROSS THE GLOBE

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LGBT UKRAINIANS READY TO DEFEND IF RUSSIA INVADES

FRANCE TO CRIMINALIZE CONVERSION THERAPY

As tensions between Ukraine and Russia rise, LGBT people in Ukraine are fearful of what is to come.

According to PinkNews, Ukraine and Russia have been at odds since 2014, but there are worries the situation may escalate after Russia has moved tens of thousands of troops to Ukraine’s border.

Since then, the United States has placed 8,500 soldiers on alert in Ukraine in case the crisis develops, and NATO has announced the deployment of ships and fighter planes to Eastern Europe in preparation for a possible battle.

Many are prepared to fight if necessary — they have a patriotic feeling of duty to their nation — but they are also acutely aware that the struggle for LGBT rights may be pushed to the back burner.

“On this point we are united,” said

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the Director of Kyiv Pride Lenny Emson.

“It doesn’t matter what your gender identity is, your sexual orientation — all together, we are stepping forward.”

A new legislation in France has made it illegal to conduct so-called “conversion therapy” to try to change LGBT people’s sexual orientation or gender identity.

According to BBC, the bill was unanimously approved by the National Assembly, with 142 votes in favor and 0 votes against.

Anyone found guilty under the new rule faces fines of up to €30,000 ($33,693.45) and up to two years in prison.

President Emmanuel Macron applauded the decision, writing on Twitter that “being oneself is not a crime.”

The measure had previously received overwhelming support in France’s upper chamber, the Senate, where it was enacted by a vote of 305 to 28, with

President Emmanuel Macron. Photo via Facebook.

only the conservative Republicans party voting against it.

After Macron signs the measure, it will go into effect in the following 14 days.

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BOTSWANA PRESIDENT TO DECRIMINALIZE HOMOSEXUALITY

CHRISTIAN COLLEGE DEMANDS PARENTS SIGN CONTRACT ON STUDENTS’ GENDER IDENTITY

After losing an appeal to reverse a court verdict decriminalizing homosexuality in the landlocked southern African country, Botswana’s president promised to fully execute the ruling.

According to Africa News, President Mokgweetsi Masisi invited LGBT community representatives to assure them that he would uphold the court’s verdict and preserve their rights.

During his meeting with members of the Lesbians, Gays, and Bisexuals of Botswana, he declared, “We ask and expect everyone to follow the rulings of our court.”

He informed them that his court appeal, which was denied in November 2021, was driven by political considerations rather than hostility toward them.

The verdict, which has been praised

President Mokgweetsi Masisi.

Photo via the Office of the President of Botswana.

as “historic” throughout the world, was eagerly expected in Africa, where homosexuality is still banned in more than half of the continent’s countries.

A teacher and mom at Brisbane’s Christian college is searching for another school for her child after the institution required parents to sign a contract declaring that pupils identify as their birth gender and that homosexuality is “sinful.”

According to ABC, Citipointe Christian College on Brisbane’s south side emailed families a contract, stating that parents must sign it or their kid will be removed from the school.

More than 26,000 individuals have signed an online petition asking that the college recall the enrollment contract, with organizers claiming that the institution is “using their religious beliefs to openly discriminate against queer and trans students.”

“As an educator whose priority it is

Citipointe Christian College. Photo via Facebook.

to look after a child, and as a parent wanting to bring up a young [child] to be a functioning member of this society, I knew I was in trouble as to whether I could sign this document,” said the anonymous parent and teacher at Citipointe.

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hasten Buttigieg, the husband of Transportation Secretary Pete Buttigieg, is speaking out against the latest attempts by the Florida GOP to silence and erase LGBT youth.

On Jan. 31, he went on Equality Florida’s Twitter Spaces, with host Brandon Wolf, to rally support against SB 1834 and HB 1557, a pair of bills working their way through the legislature, which say schools “...may not encourage classroom discussion about sexual orientation or gender identity in primary grade levels or in a manner that is not ageappropriate or developmentally appropriate for students.”

He immediately called out the bills, and their supporters, including Gov. Ron DeSantis, for what they are.

“I think this is a very, very easy thing to do. I like to call it lazy leadership. You pick on marginalized communities, you punch down. You pick on them. It gets flashy in the news. People who pay attention to how mean you’re being. And of course, now everyone is talking about how mean Ron DeSantis is, and I think he sees that as a bonus. He sees that as a plus.”

DeSantis, who is running for reelection this year, has made using the LGBT community to score cheap political points a signature policy in his administration.

“I don’t want to get into too much punditry, but I think we all understand why he’s doing that and the LGBT community has been used as a scapegoat.”

Chasten said this is nothing new and is about going back to the days when schools pretended gay didn’t exist.

“I think it’s really simple. I think when we boil it down to what’s stated in the bill, the bill says that the discussions of our families, our communities, are inappropriate for the classroom. Most of us grew up reading books only about straight people. We were taught by straight people. We grew up in homes with only straight people.”

His childhood is behind him, but he’s using his platform and experience to help the next generation of LGBT and their families have an easier time.

“For 18 years I only grew up knowing that that thing inside me that made me different was bad and it’s really traumatic. When kids grew up in an environment like that. If

Chasten Buttigieg (right) walks with Pete Buttigieg.

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this is about parents’ rights, I want to ask: which parents? It seems like this is a straight parents rights bill. I think it seeks to erase all of us, discussions about us, our families, and you know, as a new parent. I’m just thinking about my kids and the world. I want them to grow up and I definitely want them to be in a classroom where they themselves affirm that it’s okay to talk about their dads. And, you know, we’re making sure that this world is a safer place for LGBTQ youth and not harmful.”

Also in the discussion was Equality Florida Executive Director Nadine Smith. She is all too familiar with Republican tricks.

“The legislative slate is a divisive and dehumanizing roster of bills. It is an absolute shout out to the most extreme in the Republican primary base.”

Last year DeSantis and his Republican enablers passed an attack on trans athletes, banning them from school sports. Defeating this year’s attacks is an uphill climb, but Chasten wants the community to know he’s working alongside them.

“I’m going to continue fighting alongside you, doing what I can to help out down there and across the country. I think things like this are just absolutely reprehensible. It’s just lazy. It does nothing for the people of Florida.

It does nothing for families. It actually does nothing for kids except to inflict harm. And it’s not what we should be focusing on.”

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he Stonewall National Museum and Archives (SNMA) announced that it has engaged Aspen Leadership Group, an executive search firm, to assist in the search for a new executive director. SNMA’s current executive director, Hunter O’Hanian, announced last November that he would be leaving, following a short tenure that saw SNMA close its Wilton Manors gallery.

Board Chair Jacki Bennett said, “All who love and support SNMA believe it is

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O’Hanian will remain in his role to help assist in the transition. Bennett said, “The Board of Directors wishes Hunter all the best as he moves on to his next chapter.”

“I’ve found my time working with the Stonewall collections to be exhilarating,” said O’Hanian. “So much gay history in one place.

I look forward to learning how the collections continue to diversify and grow under the next leadership!”

Those interested in the position should submit credentials to Aspen at aspenleadershipgroup.com.

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SOUTH FLORIDA MAYORS ADDRESS COMMITMENT TO LGBT COMMUNITY AT MDGLCC EXPO Jose Cassola

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he Miami-Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce presented its 10th annual “State of Our Community” EXPOsure & Awards on Jan. 27 at the Miami Marriott Biscayne Bay, 1633 N. Bayshore Dr., Miami.

During the beginning of each year, the mayors of various municipalities and leaders of Chamber conducts a networking luncheon local organizations defending LGBT equality. where key leaders of the community talk about Those in attendance were Miami-Dade County their upcoming plans and potential impact Mayor Daniella Levine Cava, City of Miami to the LGBT community. Speakers consist of Mayor Francis Suarez and Miami Beach Mayor the mayors of the main cities in South Florida Dan Gelber.

(Miami-Dade County, City of Miami, Miami When addressing the South Florida mayors Beach, Coral Gables, etc.) and leaders of two and guest speakers, Adkins said, “one of the human rights and political organizations in the things that we’re most proud of all three of you LGBT community (SAVE, Equality Florida). is your dedication to our community, especially The event is an opportunity for attendees the LGBT business community. Each of you have to network with each other and to listen to been involved in either establishing or helping speakers talk about their 2022 plans impacting elevate the LGBT community by forming the LGBT community. The luncheon usually advisory boards that guide you on discussions, attracts around 150 guests and is preceded by decisions and policy.” Adkins proceeded to ask a business expo, showcasing the mayors “what are some of the up to 20 MDGLCC members things your groups are working on THE EVENT IS AN promoting their products and [pertaining to LGBT issues] and if OPPORTUNITY services. not that, what would you like to Chamber CEO Steve Adkins have them work on?”

FOR ATTENDEES said the pandemic may have Gelber replied: “When it comes TO NETWORK forced the MGLCC to move to LGBTQ social justice issues, we WITH EACH OTHER do not check boxes. The obligation into a different direction, but AND TO LISTEN TO of my city is to create the boxes its multiple networking events a year, such as the “State of Our that other cities check. With my SPEAKERS TALK Community,” are still a mainstay city, we’re only constrained by our ABOUT THEIR for its members. imagination, honestly. Last year, 2022 PLANS “When COVID happened, we we did Harvey Milk Way outside IMPACTING THE pivoted to a virtual directory.

Pride Park underneath our new It has become more successful LGBT COMMUNITY. Pride flag. We do that kind of stuff than the print version from an [in Miami Beach] every day.” advertising perspective. That As the parent of a lesbian book is up online and we will take that book daughter married to a woman, Cava considers virtually to every single event we have,” Adkins herself a supportive LGBT ally. She said the said. “This chamber has 110 networking events county was the first to raise the first-ever Pride a year. Please support our members always. and Progress flags and added Miami-Dade That’s what SOMA stands for and that’s what works closely with its LGBT advisory board to our book represents — the membership in this address several problems facing the community, organization.” among them a concern for the treatment of the Adkins added: “We have just north of 500 trans population in county jails. companies who belong to this organization.

“We also have the first ever office of equity We’re the second largest LGBT chamber in the and inclusion in county government,” which United States. And we represent a $9 billion is soon designing an LGBT community needs local economy. That’s the number of LGBT assessment in partnership with SAVE and other people times the personal GDP. Those numbers organizations. “We want to know what the are verified by a national report that came out community needs and it will be the first of its a few years ago. Please support our members. kind,” said Jason Smith, director of diversity and They support you.” inclusion for Miami-Dade County Government.

Guest speakers at the luncheon included the Cava said Miami-Dade is committed to do

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Left to right: Miami-Dade County Mayor Daniella Levine Cava, City of Miami Mayor Francis Suarez and Miami Beach Mayor Dan Gelber. Screenshot via the MDGLCC, Facebook.

“everything that we can to elevate the voice of this community, ensure that our policies and practices are equitable and that we address any kind of bias or discrimination” against the LGBT community. “Anything we can do to move the needle, we’re here.”

Suarez said he was very proud to sponsor the creation of an LGBTQ advisory board in the City of Miami.

“We’re focusing on the youth, we’re focusing on some marginalized populations like the homeless, older adults and individuals living with AIDS and HIV,” Suarez said. “I think people need to know what treatments are available.

I was surprised to know what treatments are available.”

Suarez said he wants to start a campaign called HIV-Free Miami and go from being number one in the nation with incidents of HIV to being HIV-free.

“I’m often talking about all the statistics and all the times Miami is ranked number one. This is not one I want to be ranked number one,” he said.

Suarez said the City of Miami is also working with the transgender community, “which, to me, I feel are very much under attack. We’re working with our advisory board to come up with policies that will try to restore some of the dignity that’s been taken away from that community.”

Suarez announced he sponsored an anticonversion therapy legislation in the City of Miami, which passed by a narrow 3-2 margin.

“We looked at statistics, we brought in experts, and it only passed 3-2 when it should’ve been unanimous. There’s still work to be done.”

Suarez, however, is proud that for the last four years as mayor, Miami’s LGBTQ score increased from 73 to 89. “But I’d like it to be closer to 100, go from an 89 to 95,” he said.

Adkins said the Chamber wants to work with South Florida cities and counties to help accomplish their goals.

“Where barriers exist, let us as a community help you come up with workable solutions in the areas of diversity and inclusion,” Adkins said.

Courtesy of Miami Gay News.

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‘ALL BOYS AREN’T BLUE’ BANNED FROM SCHOOLS, LIBRARIES IN 15 STATES Everitt Rosen Sen. Marco Rubio. Photo via Facebook.

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hen a Florida House Committee for publicly stating their religious beliefs passed a “Don’t Say Gay” bill, that may conflict with secular trends. We Sen. Marco Rubio said nothing. believe that, regardless of whether Finnish However, he’s protecting Christians who prosecutors agree with the religious beliefs are accused of violating a hate crimes that MP Räsänen and Bishop Pohjola have law for their religious beliefs in another expressed, all people have a fundamental country. right to the freedoms of religion and United States Senators Rubio, Josh speech, which should be upheld without Hawley (R-MO), James Lankford (R-OK), fear of government interference.”

Jim Inhofe (R-OK), and Mike Braun (R-IN) The two Christians in question are Paivi sent a letter to Rashad Hussain, the U.S. Rasanen, a government official in Finland, Ambassador for International and Bishop Juhana Pohjol.

Religious Freedom, criticizing They are accused of breaking RUBIO REMAINS Finland for prosecuting two the hate crimes law over antiSILENT REGARDING Christians who expressed gay statements, according to their religious beliefs in Yahoo! News.

THE “DON’T tweets and past statements.

Rasanen described SAY GAY” BILL, “It is our understanding homosexuality as a WHICH WOULD that Finnish authorities “psychosexual developmental BAN CLASSROOM believe that these actions disorder” and said that DISCUSSIONS constitute hate speech, even homosexual people are ABOUT SEXUAL though these statements “dysfunctional.”

Pohjola ORIENTATION reflect a conception of is accused of publishing marriage and sexuality that is Rasanen’s writings on the AND GENDER upheld not just by hundreds website of Finland’s Luther IDENTITY IN PUBLIC of millions of Christians, but Foundation.

SCHOOLS. also by many Muslims and However, Rubio remains Jews worldwide,” the senators silent regarding the “Don’t wrote.

Say Gay” bill, which would ban classroom “We are greatly concerned that the use discussions about sexual orientation and of Finnish law is tantamount to a secular gender identity in public schools, erasing blasphemy law. It could open the door for LGBT identity, history, and culture — as prosecution of other devout Christians, well as LGBT students themselves — Muslims, Jews and adherents of other faiths if passed.

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ver the past several months, schools and libraries across the nation have banned books dealing with sexuality, gender identity and race, due to increasing pressure from parents worrying about what knowledge their children can access.

One such banned book, “All Boys Aren’t Blue,” has been the center of attention. On Jan. 25, the author of this memoir, George M. Johnson, tweeted the book had been removed from schools and libraries in 15 states. Despite this ban, the book is about to enter its eighth printing.

According to The Advocate, this young adult novel is described as a memoirmanifesto, detailing Johnson’s experiences as a young Black queer person navigating the world as they grew. It is organized as a collection of essays.

Author George M. Johnson reading his book, “All Boys Aren’t Blue.” Photo via Facebook.

While the book was published in 2020, the backlash against it has only recently reared “I really wanted to give the youth ... its head. In Florida, a school board member of Flagler County School went so far as to specifically Black, queer youth and LGBTQ file a criminal complaint, saying the book youth a resource guide,” Johnson said to The violated obscenity laws. The case has since Advocate.

While this book’s target audience was been dismissed.

“We knew that at some point, once the young adults, it can also be a valuable resource for parents and pandemic shifted [schools] to guardians to better understand more in-class [instruction], IN FLORIDA, A what life is like for queer where parents could get a hold adolescents. on what was going on in the SCHOOL BOARD “The reality is there is no curriculum and the reading MEMBER OF topic that is too heavy for a list and everything that this FLAGLER COUNTY child who could experience said moment would probably SCHOOL WENT topic. If a child can experience come,” Johnson told The sexual abuse at the age of 7, a Advocate. “A book isn’t held SO FAR AS TO child should understand what that long before people start FILE A CRIMINAL sexual abuse looks like, how to to make these particular types COMPLAINT, handle it, how to discuss it, and of attempts at it. So yeah, it is SAYING THE how to talk about it,” Johnson interesting.” said to CBS News.

Despite the book’s BOOK VIOLATED According to CBS News, widespread removal, Johnson OBSCENITY LAWS. Gabrielle Union, the actress and is trying to guarantee queer film executive, has reportedly youths have access to copies at LGBT resource centers and Little Free Library signed an agreement with Sony Pictures TV to adapt the book into a series. On Twitter, sites around the country.

While Johnson had worked on his story she expressed her displeasure with the throughout his former journalistic career, criminal complaint against the book stating, the project came to a point when young “You cannot stop the truth … I stay ready to fight.” queer deaths kept appearing in the news.

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Bona Italian Restaurant owners Mark Byrd and Glen Weinzimer.

Herb Sosa, director and CEO at Unity Coalition, with Melba De Leon, board member of Unity Coalition and Legends Honors Award recepient.

Proud Society’s Pride Leader Robert Brice and Proud Advisor David Quinones.

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our South Floridians who have helped build bridges in the LGBT community will be honored at the sixth annual 4Ward Gala and Pa’Lante Awards on Thursday, Feb. 10, at the Biltmore Hotel, 1200 Anastasia Ave., in Coral Gables.

The event, an exclusive fundraiser for 4Ward Miami that promotes diversity and inclusion, is also recognizing the awardees for their dedication to the movement, Movimiento San Isidro, which amplifies the voices inside Cuba that remain silenced by its military regime.

“While we work to bring the many different parts of South Florida together for [the Gay8 Festival] — one day of extraordinary live music, food, art, entertainment and family fun — this year we will be highlighting the Movimiento San Isidro and amplifying all the voices inside Cuba seeking freedom,” said Damian Pardo, CEO of the Gay8 Festival — the largest diversity and inclusion festival in the nation, produced by 4Ward Miami, with more than 80,000 attendees.

This year’s honorees at the 4Ward Gala and Pa’Lante Awards include: Leroy Jones, executive director of Neighbors and Neighbors Association and lead organizer for the Circle of Brotherhood; Judge Victoria Sigler, elected the first openly gay judge in Florida 1994 and appointed to President Bill Clinton’s LGBT policy issues committee; Rosa Maria Paya Acevedo, founder of the citizen platform Cuba Decide and named one of the 25 Most Powerful Women by “People Magazine en Español”; and Grecia Ordonez, an activist for Cuban Liberation, who uses her platforms in support of the Cuban people and political prisoners.

Pardo said this year’s gala and awards, now more than ever, highlight the importance of freedom, democracy and civil rights for “all those voices in Cuba that have no voice without us on the outside of a brutal communist and totalitarian system that denies its citizens their most basic human rights.”

“This year’s festival is dedicated to those fighting in and outside Cuba and to the many divided families and those before them that have experienced so much pain and suffering for over 62 years,” Pardo added. “Gay Ocho has always advocated for those experiencing repression of any kind, including people in countries like Venezuela and Nicaragua and including domestic struggles on race and

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PALM BEACH COUNTY LGBT COMMUNITY LOSES THEIR ‘HAUS’ John Hayden WITH MORE THAN 1.5 MILLION PEOPLE, PALM BEACH COUNTY HAS A LARGER POPULATION THAN 11 STATES. BUT DESPITE BEING A BOOMING METROPOLIS WITH MILES OF GORGEOUS BEACHES AND MALLS FILLED WITH HIGH-END SHOPS, THE LGBT SCENE IS SORELY LACKING. The closing of Haus Lounge is the latest LGBT business to shut its doors. Owner Adam Sessa announced the closing on social media, saying, “It is with a heavy heart that we announce that our Lake Worth Beach will be closed permanently as of February 1, 2022. Unfortunately due to the ongoing pandemic, many of our employees have contracted the virus.

Although our establishment followed all CDC recommendations, the virus still found its way through our doors.”

Haus Lounge was closed the last week of the year and canceled its New Year party as well. The business had been having issues with its neighbors and had held a fundraiser to keep its doors open. Add COVID to the mix, and it appears it was too much for the young business to overcome. SFGN reached out to Sessa for comment, but he has not replied to the requests.

JUST THE LATEST The loss of Haus Lounge is the latest blow to Palm Beach County’s LGBT social scene.

Last summer, Penny’s at the Duke closed.

That was a popular bar in Lantana that was very involved in the community, hosting fundraisers and supporting local nonprofits.

Drag Bingo and karaoke nights would pack the house.

But running an independent business, especially a neighborhood bar, can be exhausting. The owner eventually sold the

THE LOSS OF HAUS LOUNGE IS THE LATEST BLOW TO PALM BEACH COUNTY’S LGBT SOCIAL SCENE. LAST SUMMER, PENNY’S AT THE DUKE CLOSED.

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The Haus Lounge. Courtesy of Adam Sessa.

liquor license, closed the physical location, and moved on.

Before that, H.G. Rooster’s, the oldest gay bar in the state in West Palm Beach, was forced to shut down when its building was ravaged by a fire in May of 2020. The business is in the process of a renovation with no concrete timeline of when it will reopen.

FEW CHOICES So where is Palm Beach County’s LGBT community to go now? There are still a few options. Mad Hatter Lounge in Lake Worth appears to be the only LGBT-dedicated bar in the area.

There are a few businesses that aren’t LGBT owned but are not only welcoming to the community, but are actively seeking their patronage. Howlin Owl in Lake Worth hired some staff from Penny’s at the Duke and has been thrilled to welcome new LGBT customers. Last fall they hosted a fundraiser for a participant in the SMART Ride.

Lilo’s Streetfood & Bar, located in the same block as Haus Lounge, has long been a supporter of the community. Among other things, they host a drag show on their patio that literally stops traffic, and have Pride icons that stay up well beyond June.

Where will the Palm Beach County LGBT community go from here? It’s hard to say.

Liquor licenses are expensive, and starting a bar or restaurant is a risky venture. For now it seems like blending in with the heterosexual community is the most obvious option, while much of South Florida’s LGBT continues to coalesce around Wilton Manors and Broward County.

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ith the addition of a number of new ambassadors and partners throughout North American racing, Racing Pride has announced a substantial expansion of its world-leading campaign to actively promote LGBT inclusiveness via motorsport.

According to Sports Media, Racing Pride began in June 2019 with a group of U.K.-based ambassadors and partners with the goal of providing visible role models and support for the LGBT community in the sport, as well as allyship education.

“I’m absolutely delighted that we are now able to launch this expansion of Racing Pride with a terrific line-up of inspiring ambassadors and carefully selected partners who both believe in and will be able to further our core mission to positively promote LGBTQ+ inclusion through motorsport from grassroots to elite professional level

earing a blue swim cap, Lia Thomas dived into the pool for the final home competition of her collegiate career, and nothing could slow down this University of Pennsylvania swimmer.

In two races this season, Thomas has set school records and produced the fastest times of any female collegiate swimmer.

According to the New York Times, Thomas, a trans woman, owns the best marks in the nation among female college swimmers in the 200 and 500 freestyle. Even while fans within and outside the sport dispute her place on the pool deck, she’ll almost certainly be a favorite at the NCAA finals in March.

Photo via Racing Pride HQ, Facebook.

However, some of her teammates have Lia Thomas. Photo via Penn State. expressed displeasure with sharing a locker internationally,” said Racing Pride Coroom with someone who is undergoing founder and Driver Ambassador Richard gender transition. testosterone criteria set by the sport’s Morris.

“It’s definitely awkward because Lia still national governing body. has male body parts and is still attracted to “Many of the policies are in flux,” said women,” one swimmer on the team told Amy Wilson, the NCAA’s managing director DailyMail.com. of inclusion, to the New York Times. “It’s a Thomas had told her teammates that she continually evolving space.” dates women.

Wilson noted that the ambiguity stems Thomas had been a member of Penn’s from a lack of scientific evidence, which men’s swimming team for three years. is exacerbated by the fact that there are so Thomas now competes for the school’s few transgender athletes among the almost women’s team after more than two years 500,000 NCAA players. of hormone replacement therapy, though Though, the NCAA has different her quick times have ignited controversy guidelines from the Olympics for Offered: ServicesServices Offered: O from the starting blocks to internet message transgender athletes. boards to cable news networks.

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DR. RISHI PATEL APPOINTED PERMANENT PRESIDENT & CEO AT CAN COMMUNITY HEALTH CAN Community Health

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AN Community Health recently appointed Rishi Patel, PharmD, MBA, AAHIVP as president and chief executive officer. Dr. Patel joined the healthcare nonprofit as chief pharmacy officer in 2015 and was appointed interim president and CEO in July 2021. Dr. Patel holds a Doctorate of Pharmacy from Nova Southeastern University, an MBA from Florida Gulf Coast University, and a Bachelor’s Degree in Microbiology from the University of Florida.

“IT IS REALLY OUR TEAM OF PROFESSIONALS HERE AT CAN WHO DESERVE THE CREDIT. THEY INSPIRE ME EVERY DAY WITH THEIR DEDICATION AND ENTHUSIASM.” - DR. RISHI PATEL PHARMD, MBA, AAHIVP

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In making the announcement, Jackie Rogers, chairwoman of the CAN Board of Directors, said, “Within the short seven months of his Interim leadership, Dr. Patel has inspired our CAN family to increase commitment to their roles, improve communication, increase workflows and productivity, and think more creatively. We believe he is an incredible selection to lead CAN into our next 30 years.”

In accepting the appointment, Dr. Patel said, “It is really our team of professionals here at CAN who deserve the credit. They inspire me every day with their dedication and enthusiasm. As we reach out to communities in need, they keep us on course and discover new and innovative pathways with which to deliver, expand and refine our services.”

Since July 2021, new patient visits have increased to 4,755 in 2021 from 1,830 in 2020.

CAN received additional funding this year for comprehensive prevention services in Columbia, South Carolina, Arlington, Texas, and Jacksonville, Florida. This funding will further enhance the current services offered within these communities. CAN also was awarded a renewal of their Ryan White contract in Sarasota, North Port, and Cape Coral locations. Additionally in Phoenix, Arizona, CAN was awarded funding to provide harm reduction services.

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‘WE’VE BEEN TALKING ABOUT THIS FOR YEARS’ Commissioners Fed Up With Slow Progress of Wilton Drive Landscaping

By John McDonald Projects that have long been waiting in the $5.3 million in ARPA funding and Henderson wings may soon spring into action in Wilton said dipping into those funds is possible.

Commissioner Gary Resnick inquired as Manors.

Commissioners discussed, at length, to the possibility of including broadband in several projects during the Jan. 25 regular the conduit piping. Newton said sometimes meeting. Leading the way was the Wilton Drive contractors cannot put electrical and broadband wiring in the same landscaping and irrigation conduit. project. Mayor Scott Newton “We missed a real opportunity said residents are frustrated to do that when Wilton Drive the project has yet to be was narrowed,” Resnick said. completed.

Echoing Newton, “We’ve been talking about Commissioner Mike Bracchi this for years and years and I’m called for action. done,” Newton said. “We’re “We’re all tired of talking gonna get it done this year. about this and the residents are Find the money and let’s move tired of seeing a treeless street,” on.” said Bracchi. “Whatever it takes City Manager Leigh Ann to get it done — I’d like to know Henderson reported a what the total cost would be and $243,000 funding shortage let’s find the funds and prioritize in the project’s budget. A it.” qualified bid of $707,000 was Other projects discussed submitted for the project. Vice were Kiwanis Club, Site 92, Mayor Paul Rolli asked that - Scott Newton Mayor of Wilton Manors Colohatchee Park and the electrical wiring be included former Center for Spiritual in the bid.

Living church property.

“The bid that we have includes trees, repairs and maintenance, OTHER NOTES FROM THE irrigation and conduit pipe for the electrical,” JAN. 25 MEETING INCLUDE: Rolli said. “I know in that bid we did not include the actual electrical wires used to light A proposal passed unanimously on first the trees from the power outlets. I would like to see if we can move forward with the whole reading to bring a ballot referendum on package this time and not leave the electrical term limits. Voters will get to decide if 12 years is enough for elected city officials. for some later date.”

County surtax funds will provide $280,000 Commissioners would be allowed a maximum for the project. Commissioner Chris Caputo of three four-year terms and the mayor allowed asked if funds from the American Rescue Plan to serve a maximum of six two-year terms.

Commissioners appointed Scott McCoy to Act could be used. Wilton Manors received

“We’re gonna get it done this year. Find the money and let’s move on.”

Wilton Manors City Hall. Photo credit: Carina Mask.

the Civil Service Board. McCoy, a civil rights attorney at the Southern Poverty Law Center, is married to Mark Barr, Equality Florida’s Broward County Development officer. McCoy was Utah’s first gay state senator, serving from 2004 to 2009. He also chaired Salt Lake City’s police civilian review board.

Commissioners re-appointed Constance Ruppender and appointed Stephen Mumby to the Budget Review Advisory Committee (BRAC). Ruppender is a past president of the Central Area Neighborhood Association.

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Commissioners also approved repealing the BRAC and replacing it with a newly created Financial Advisory Board.

The city’s 2021 annual video report was released. Entitled “A Vision For Growth,” the video, narrated by Newton, touts the city’s continuing efforts to grow smart and highlights improvements to infrastructure, development regulations, community programming and safety measures.

The next regular commission meeting is scheduled for Feb. 8.

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THE YEAR OF THE TIGER Tonight, as I write this week’s article, the New Moon welcomes a new year for many around the globe. Lunar New Year celebrations have begun welcoming in the Year of the Tiger, one of 12 zodiac animals associated with each year in a rotating cycle. This joyous 15-day celebration welcomes in new energy and new beginnings, a time to put the past behind and look forward to a fresh start.

Perhaps we need to take a similar approach here in our Island City, a time to look past how things have been done in the past and look to make a fresh start. We need to leave the word “NO” out of the vocabulary for a change.

“No,” the county will not allow landscaping along NE 26th Street. “No,” FDOT will not put a pedestrian crosswalk on Powerline by Mickel Park or lower the speed limit to 35 mph or clearly mark the bicycle lanes. “No,” Leisure Services cannot fund a new children’s playground at Hagen Park. “No,” for Impact Fees to support Public Art. “No,” to a municipal parking facility by City Hall. “No” seems to be Photo via Pixabay. the answer to many issues that keep resurfacing here in our Island City.

Perhaps we can look to the Year of the Tiger three issues that this community would like to new Vice Mayor of Broward County Lamar see addressed are 1: lower the speed limit to 35 Fisher. West of Andrews now falls under the for some guidance as we move ahead.

The tiger is associated with bravery, mph. Two: install a crosswalk by Mickel Park. newly appointed County Commissioner Jared courage and strength. These are definitely Three: improved roadway stripping with clearly Moskowitz. Also in the mix is the newly elected marked bicycle lanes. These Fl. House Representative Daryl Campbell. characteristics our community improvements and public safety Perhaps all this new leadership eager to make a needs if we are to overcome measures are for the stretch of difference will be just what is needed to finally the obstacles of the past I am hopeful that Powerline Road from Sunrise bring about the changes we deem essential as and to achieve the goals we Blvd in Fort Lauderdale to NW we move ahead to the future, leaving the “NOs” are seeking. Why can’t we our community 29th Street in Wilton Manors. of the past behind us. have streetscaping, proper will succeed in The Florida Department of Transportation A stretch of roadway that is bike lanes, safer streets for recently revisited the many concerns of the almost entirely residential, with pedestrians and bicyclist? advocating officials a school and park facilities, not surrounding communities along Powerline Courage and strength for on a local, regional the commercial or industrial Road with a Road Safety Audit. In the coming the many in our community corridor believed by many. weeks some outcomes from that audit along will be what is required to go and state level These safety concerns have with specific initiatives by FDOT should be head-to-head with outdated been asked for many times, forthcoming. Let us remain hopeful that regulations, a culture that to address public over and over for years now, the concerns of our community have been does not embrace the power to safety concerns all are still left undone, all heard. Let us also remain steadfast in our dream, and those who are all have been told “No” over and determination to bring about the results we too quick to say “NO” it can’t be along Powerline over. Yet the community still are seeking through community organization, done that way. hopes, still asks, still continues outreach to elected officials, and public The tiger is also viewed Road. to meet with city, county and awareness. as an uplifting animal that This time of celebration for many, a time for state officials. Perhaps this gives people hope. Hope is a good thing — hope lets us dream of a year, the Year of the Tiger, will be the year for a new beginnings and new energy, shall offer us better tomorrow. Hope inspires us, it reduces fresh start, for a new beginning, to make these hope that we can make a difference here in our home we call the Island City. Let the spirit of the feeling of helplessness and drives us to changes finally happen.

This community looks to new leadership the Tiger guide us with courage and strength succeed. Hope leads to action.

I am hopeful that our community will on the county and state level to join with us as we seek to make our community a better succeed in advocating officials on a local, to bring about the changes we are looking and safer place for all. This hope for a better regional and state level to address public safety for. County redistricting has placed most tomorrow is what makes life just better here. concerns along Powerline Road. The main of Wilton Manors within the district of the

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WILTON MANORS MARKS BLACK HISTORY MONTH

By John Hayden

Construction on the sidewalk begins. Photo via Vice Mayor Paul Rolli, Facebook.

WILTON MANORS PLAZA GETS LONG AWAITED WALKWAY

By John McDonald The sight of an excavator digging into the slowed development plans for the plaza, but dirt of the Shoppes of Wilton Manors was a the sidewalk installation is the first step in upgrading the site. long time coming for the Island City.

“Wilton Manors has potential Comments to a picture of to be a 24-hour city,” Espinal the construction posted on said.

Facebook by Wilton Manors A building permit was Vice Mayor Paul Rolli ranged issued to M.A. Construction from “long overdue” to Group on November 17, 2021, “Hallelujah” to “Dreams really said Evangeline Kalus, Wilton do come true!”

Manors City Planner. In its While Rolli’s camera permit with Broward County, captured the first dig, the the job value is listed at project is not funded by the $118,000. city. Grass River Property, a The Shoppes of Wilton Coconut Grove real estate Manors is home to popular investment and services gay nightclubs Georgie’s Alibi company that owns the and Hunters. Mark Hunter, Shoppes of Wilton Manors, one of the owners of Hunters is constructing a pedestrian Nightclub, applauded the walkway. When completed installation of concrete and the walkway will allow Development Manager for Grass River asphalt repair work. pedestrians to access and exit “First and foremost it will the plaza via Wilton Drive. be safer for our pedestrian “We’re building a sidewalk so all our patrons can safely walk to and patrons to enter and exit the plaza,” Hunter from Wilton Drive,” said Jorge Espinal, a said. “Second, it will increase visibility for a safer entry by car. Plus it gives a renewed development manager for Grass River.

Espinal said the COVID-19 pandemic walkability factor to Wilton Manors.”

“We’re building a sidewalk so all our patrons can safely walk to and from Wilton Drive.”

- Jorge Espinal

Jameer Baptiste. Photo via LinkedIn.

You’re invited to The Cookout. You should feel very honored.

“There’s a saying [in the Black community], ‘You’re invited to the cookout,’” Jameer Baptiste said. “It literally doesn’t mean that you’re invited to a cookout. It’s a way of Black people saying ‘You’re invited into our communities.’”

To mark the start of Black History Month, Hotspots! Magazine and WMEG is hosting the inaugural The Cookout: A Black History Month Field Day Fundraiser. Plans are to hold a Town Hall discussion early then get to a fun day of activities and games, Baptiste said.

“The town hall will be more serious with political individuals and businesses, people that have dealt with discrimination and racial tension in Wilton Manors.”

Money raised will benefit AHF and Afro Pride, a relatively new organization that is quickly becoming a staple in South Florida’s LGBT community. The event’s Facebook page says The Cookout’s goal is “building community in a town where race relations have been stranded for some time ... We’re working closely with city officials and local businesses to show that Wilton Manors sees and cares enough to address the issue.”

Baptiste said the importance of engagement and community buy-in can’t be overstated.

“We’ve been aggressively appealing to the city so they become enveloped in the process and become part of it.”

The Pub is providing food and LeBoy is the liquor sponsor. The visibility of these specific businesses is noteworthy, as they were the sites of disturbing racist attacks late last year. At The Pub, LeNora Jaye and Antonio Edwards were verbally attacked by a customer shouting racial slurs. The man was quickly ejected and banned for life. At LeBoy, customers would badger dancers with racial slurs, and new management told SFGN that anyone caught

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Plans are to hold a Town Hall discussion early then get to a fun day of activities and games, Baptiste said.

doing that would face lifetime bans at the club.

“It’s bittersweet that such a horrible incident happened at their establishment [The Pub].

At the same time it’s a chance for us to build a unified front to be able to say we’re all working together to combat these issues,” Baptiste said.

The Cookout is Saturday, Feb. 5 in the courtyard at the Pride Center, at 2040 N. Dixie Highway in Wilton Manors, from 1-6 p.m. A $10 donation gets you food and a soft drink. A cash bar will be taking donations for alcoholic beverages.

“It’s an event that’s never been done in Wilton Manors. It’s a lighthearted, fun, celebratory experience.”

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By Christiana Lilly The Broward Sheriff’s Office arrested a 16-year-old student Jan. 19 after he brought a loaded gun to school.

The agency reported that the Northeast High School student was called into the front office to discuss his grades. When he arrived, staff said he smelled like what they believed to be marijuana so they searched his bag. Inside, they found a gun with ammunition.

BSO’s Threat Management Unit arrived at the school and arrested the teen. He told investigators “he had no intentions of using Photo via Facebook.

BSO’S THREAT MANAGEMENT UNIT ARRIVED AT THE SCHOOL AND ARRESTED THE TEEN.

the firearm on school grounds and that it was for protection on his walk home from school.”

He was taken to the Juvenile Assessment Center and faces a felony charge of possessing a firearm on school property, BSO said.

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Ken Kelley is being remembered as a community-minded man who supported Wilton Manors and LGBT causes with unwavering support. Kelley passed away at the age of 70 in January after a brave battle with cancer.

Tributes on social media are pouring in from friends, customers, and former employees. They remember Kelley as a loyal and generous employer — for years, he owned Scandals Saloon in Wilton Manors and the Stable Bar in Oakland Park. Scandals, a longtime area favorite, is known as a place where patrons could enjoy country music and line dancing.

“Nice people, cheap drinks, and fun conversation,” recalls friend Dan Larrimore. “That was the whole idea.”

It opened before Wilton Drive was the entertainment capital of Wilton Manors.

Kelley’s charm was also a big draw for patrons. So were Sunday T dances and the oncea-month Gospel Jubilees, both put on at Kelley’s suggestion.

“You’ve never heard such a sound in all your life,” said Larrimore. “We were there to appreciate gospel music, not make fun of it.”

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remember Kelley for his kindness and generosity.

“He always had something funny to say and never had a negative word about anybody,” said friend Jeremy Pettus.

“Ken Kelley never met a stranger,” said Chad Thilborger. “He was kind and would step up to the plate for charities.”

“He was a huge community supporter,” said Terrence Smalley. “He helped raise tons of money for charity.

He had a big heart and a great sense of humor. It’s a big loss for many of us.”

Kelley also made an impact by being one-half of a power couple. He and his husband Lloyd Pagels were one of those “it” couples that many people admired. “They were that storybook,” Larrimore said.

“They were made for each other.”

In 2018, Kelley sold Scandals, known as a place where patrons could enjoy country music and line dancing. For Kelley, running the business had become too challenging after Pagels’ death eight years ago. Kelley’s battle with cancer was also getting more challenging to fight.

In recent years, Kelley moved back to the Florida panhandle where his sisters helped care for him.

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because I wasn’t an undocumented immigrant.

THEN DESANTIS CAME FOR BLACK PEOPLE, AND I DIDN’T SPEAK UP

because I wasn’t Black.

THEN DESANTIS CAME FOR TRANSGENDER PEOPLE, AND I DIDN’T SPEAK UP

because I wasn’t transgender.

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THE CANCER CHRONICLES RANTS AND RUMINATIONS FROM A MEDICAL BED

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t’s time for your righteous raconteur’s journey into meaningless rants and revelations that may light up your life, give you a little laughter, or your parakeet cage a tabloid bed.

I was thinking lucid thoughts last month until I invested in a stock by that name. Now I am thinking I had a lot more fun and less worries playing penny ante poker as a kid than the stock market as an adult.

The truth is I would rather be playing flag football with my ZBT college fraternity team at Hofstra University in Hempstead, Long Island, New York. When, 50 years later, you are sitting inside a medical complex looking out at a quiet lake in Plantation, Florida, waiting for doses of chemotherapy to populate your veins, you think about that. Nice lake, though, here at the Sylvester Comprehensive Cancer Care Center. Not Sheepshead Bay, but I wonder if I can go fishing.

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If I succumb to this journey with 2 cancer, please don’t say or write that I “lost” my battle with cancer. I would hate that. As others before me have said, when you die, it does not mean that you “lose” to cancer. There is a ninth inning to all our lives.

It may come with a slow certainty or sudden catastrophe. All of us, not just the athletes you hear about on ESPN, are “day to day.”

There is no sense in rehearsing for tragedy. Even in the face of your worst adversity, you can stare back at it as your greatest challenge. As others before me have said, you beat cancer by the way you live. I am guessing more broccoli and less chocolate pudding might help though.

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One of my favorite lines is I want to learn patience, and I want to learn it now. Episodes of “road rage” nightly on the news are so disturbing. We have all got to just chill. Slow your roll. Take a deep breath.

Time does not speed up the more you check the clock. Just because the speedometer says your car can go 95 mph does not mean you have to. That is supposed to be the name of the highway, not your speed.

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Speaking of road rage, and all the years I was a traffic judge, everyone expected I would be lenient, because I was “liberal.” No. Traffic laws do not change because you are late for work, your husband is in the hospital, or you are 20 minutes away from a movie that starts in 15. Red and green lights exist because everybody has got to get a chance to stop and go. We are mandating mutual respect so we can all survive. Dogs need leashes. People need rules. But maybe I’m being unfair to dogs.

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Did I miss something here? We all grew up learning about “Typhoid Mary” being a contagious carrier of a horrible

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My view of the lake at Sylvester Cancer Care Center in Plantation. With the chocolate-chip-flavored chemotherapy, it makes for a Pleasant Valley Thursday. Credit: Norm Kent.

disease, infecting others because she was sick with salmonella poisoning. She was forced into quarantine in 1886. But here it is 2022, and there are still people questioning that science? The next thing you know the Supreme Court will roll back Roe v. Wade, 50

NAZIS IN ORLANDO? Last week was National Holocaust Remembrance Day, and it’s hard to believe sometimes that it really is the year 2022.

Here is an anecdote I first read in 1967 by a remarkable author, the late Jewish humorist Sam Levinson. He was responding to anti-Semitism, and this, below, is arguably the most accurate version, verified by a Tulane University medical student researcher in 1981.

“It’s a free world. You don`t have to like Jews if you don’t want to, but if you are going to be an anti-Semite you should be consistent and turn your back on the medical advances that Jews made possible.

I am talking about the vaccine for hepatitis discovered by Baruch Blumberg, the Wasserman test for syphilis developed by August von Wassermann, and the first effective drug to fight syphilis developed by Paul Ehrlich. Bela Schick developed the diagnostic skin test for diphtheria,

and Dr. Selman Abraham Waksman one for streptomycin.

Insulin would not have been discovered if Dr. Oskar Minkowski had not demonstrated the link between diabetes and the pancreas. It was Dr. Burrill Crohn who identified the disease that bears his name. Alfred Hess discovered that vitamin C could cure scurvy. Casimir Funk was the first to use vitamin B to treat beriberi. Dr. Jonas Salk developed the first polio vaccine. Later, Dr. Albert Sabin developed the oral version.

“Humanitarianism,” Levinson said, “requires that we offer these gifts to all people of the world, regardless of race, color or creed. So, the anti-Semites and fanatics who don’t want to accept these gifts can go ahead and turn them down, but I’m warning you, you aren’t going to feel so good.’’

To all of you in this time of the COVID, stay safe, stay healthy, stay well.

years old this year. That’s older than Chris Caputo.

The toughest part about being a boss is that if you keep on making exceptions to the rules is that the exceptions become the rules.

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Pleasure? You will find more of it in moderation than hedonism. When you leave something wanting a little more, there is always a reason and urge to go back.

Drain something dry and it becomes a useless throwaway.

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This one is dedicated to my friends at SAGE, who were kind enough to make a generous year-end donation to SFGN. Although we did not mention it, last week, on Jan. 25, SFGN celebrated its 13th anniversary.

Thank you for helping keep the journey alive.

And remember what Billy Crystal used to say on Saturday Night Live: “It’s not how you feel. It’s how you look… and you guys look mahvelous!”

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The meanest thing you can do to yourself is hate someone else. Hate consumes the hater, not the person you hate.

It’s like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die. Someone tell the Proud Boys that. They have nothing to be proud of.

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MICHAEL CAMP, DADDYSNAPS, DIES Denise Royal

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ike Camp is being remembered as a loyal friend, an avid photographer, and a man treasured by many. The longtime area resident passed away recently. He was better known to many as Daddy Snaps, an ode to his love of photography and being a part of the leather community.

But there was much more to Camp. He was a former Deacon at Church of the Holy Spirit, now Sunshine Cathedral. He also had a career in healthcare, working as a hospice nurse.

“He was a good person,” said longtime friend Joel Slotnick. “I never saw him discount anybody. He was true to himself and his passions.”

As a photographer, Camp took photographs for many publications over the years. “He was an excellent photographer,” recalls Slotnick.

Michael “Daddysnaps” Camp.

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Camp battled an illness but never let that stop him from making time for the people and things that he held dear.

“On his faith side, I know that he is whole and happy,” said Slotnick. “I know that he’s an angel and with some of our mutual friends that have since passed.”

Michael Camp was 66 years old.

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Guest Column

A LOOK BACK AT LGBT PROGRESS THROUGHOUT PALM BEACH COUNTY IN 2021 Palm Beach County Human Rights Council

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alm Beach County has made LGBT history in 2021.

DECEMBER 2021

At PBCHRC’s request, State Senator Tina Polsky and State Representative Emily Slosberg filed legislation to extend hate crimes protections to include those committed against government-owned properties.

NOVEMBER 2021 PBCHRC Board Member Sean Conklin is appointed to the Boynton Beach Recreation and Parks Board.

The Village of Wellington earns a perfect score on the annual Human Rights Campaign Foundation’s Municipal Equality Index.

The City of West Palm Beach earns a perfect score on the annual Human Rights Campaign Foundation’s Municipal Equality Index.

SEPTEMBER 2021 The Village of Royal Palm Beach designates all singleoccupancy restrooms in the soon-to-be constructed Village Hall as Gender Neutral

JUNE 2021 Progress Pride colors illuminate Nancy Graham Centennial Square and Fountain and the surrounding buildings at a special Clematis By Light display on June 1 to kick off LGBTQ Pride in West Palm Beach.

Palm Tran rolls out a bus wrapped in a Progress Pride color design with PBCHRC and Compass logos for Pride Month. The bus runs on the system’s longest route, from Palm Beach Gardens to Boca Raton.

PBCHRC Charitable Foundation establishes the W. Trent Steele Legal Advocacy Awards — scholarships for second- and third-year law school students from Palm Beach County.

The City of Boynton Beach installs an LGBTQ Progress Pride intersection streetscape near City Hall and illuminates the city’s water tower in Progress Pride colors.

Palm Beach County Commissioners establish an Office of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion.

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Progress Pride colors illuminate Nancy Graham Centennial Square and Fountain and the surrounding buildings at a special Clematis By Light display on June 1 to kick off LGBTQ Pride in West Palm Beach. Photo via PBCHRC, Facebook.

The City of Delray Beach installs an LGBTQ Progress Pride intersection streetscape in the Pineapple Grove Arts District.

MAY 2021 The City of West Palm Beach installs four LGBTQ Pride Rainbow crosswalks in Northwood Village.

The 2021 Daniel S. Hall Social Justice Awards are presented to graduating seniors Sol Lima of Jupiter Community High School, Ekko Greenbaum of Alexander W. Dreyfoos School of the Arts, and Vanessa Whittle of Royal Palm Beach High School.

APRIL 2021 By unanimous vote, the West Palm Beach City Commission voted to designate H.G. Roosters as a Historic Preservation Site.

At the request of Boynton Beach Vice Mayor Ty Penserga and PBCHRC, the Boynton Beach City Commission approves the creation of an LGBT Pride public art.

FEBRUARY 2021 The Town of Lake Park enacts an LGBT-inclusive civil rights ordinance.

The School District of Palm Beach County requires public schools to require gender-neutral caps and gowns for graduations.

PBCHRC Board Member Jasmin Lewis is presented the Palm Beach County Democratic Party Black History Community Award.

JANUARY 2021 Palm Beach County amends its Equal Opportunity Ordinance by extending protection from discrimination to employees working for small businesses (those with 5-14 employees).

PBCHRC Vice President Meredith Ockman is appointed to serve on the Palm Beach County Housing Authority’s Family Self-sufficiency Program Coordinating Committee.

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IS IT TREASURE OR JUNK? Brian McNaught

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he beloved, wood-handled hair brush that I use daily will get dropped into a black plastic garbage bag after my death, unless I die before Ray. Then, he might keep it, but maybe not. Everything in our medicine cabinet will eventually get tossed. There will be three piles of our belongings: junk to throw away, things to give away or sell, and treasures to keep. I think of this as I imagine my nieces and nephew now going through my sister Kathy’s belongings, from the piano to the cookie sheet.

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As I took down the Christmas decorations house would have a one-dollar price tag, this year, I imagined our family members even the fine China and silver. She’d delight going through them when they one day come in how quickly things sold as opposed to to clean out our house. The red velvet horse getting a proper price. I doubt my nieces and and elephant, our first ornaments, have a nephew will have a garage sale with their story that makes them treasures for us, but mother’s things, but if they do, some people not to surviving family and friends. I can tell would dismiss her treasures as junk. you the tale behind every item in our home I like nice things, and I can get more and garden, but that doesn’t mean you’ll personally attached to them than is good for treasure them as Ray and I do. Why would me. But I’m pleased with how far I’ve come in our family members keep a silver-framed not fussing if something breaks. I remember picture of us as an ornament for their tree? clearly the time Ray and I helped Aunt Joan Toss the picture, and keep the dig through the charred frame. rubble of what the day I clearly recall cleaning out before had been the deeply THAT EXPERIENCE OF my parent’s home in Sarasota loved family cottage. Some SEEING PERSONAL in order to sell it. My sisters unknown person callously TREASURES LOST were initially focused on started the fire midwinter, Mom’s jewelry and scarves. breaking my grandmother’s TO A HOUSE FIRE My brother and I looked at heart, as well as those of all HELPED ETCH Dad’s cufflinks, hoping there of us who spent childhood INTO MY SOUL would be something there summers there. In our sifting that we’d wear, or might through the remains of the THE LESSON THAT like to have as a reminder fire, we managed to find a EVERYTHING WE of him. I went home with few pieces of cheap porcelain OWN WILL BE GONE the handmade music box that survived but we found in which my father used to nothing of intrinsic value.

TOMORROW, IF collect his valuables. Its tune Nevertheless, what was NOT BY ARSON, instantly carries me back to found was treasured by my the time of joy when as a child grandmother and my aunt THEN BY DEATH. I’d hear the box open. until they died.

I don’t recall seeing any of That experience of seeing my parents’ Christmas decorations during personal treasures lost to a house fire helped our cleaning out of their possessions. Maybe etch into my soul the lesson that everything they went to Goodwill. I do remember sitting we own will be gone tomorrow, if not by on the kitchen floor going through the pots arson, then by death. That is, in fact, what and pans and kitchen utensils. I couldn’t happened when debt from an unpaid loan believe what a hodgepodge they were. But forced us to downsize, and sell or give away my folks felt quite comfortable with the well over half of our fine art, antiques, and hodgepodge because it worked for them, treasured artifacts. Prior to doing so, I took and Mom could probably tell you how that pictures of every item so that I’d have a spatula melted and why she kept it. My junk visual to go with all of my fond memories was their treasure. of going to antique shops and auctions with Ray and I always laughed about how my Ray, each of us excitedly admiring the item, sister, Kathy, would have a garage sale if we and deciding to buy it. died before her, and that everything in our It is the story behind the item that often

LIFESTYLE TWO GUYS AND A DOG determines its value. I wanted my father’s music box because it had meaning as something my dad enjoyed. But when I die, if no one knows the story, the box will have little value beyond the song it plays.

A former neighbor ran into Ray recently, and said his wife, who reads my Facebook posts, senses sadness in my writing of late. She is right. I haven’t felt centered and jubilant in a while. When I shared that observation with another friend, she said, “No one is centered. Everyone is trying to find themselves in the midst of this Photo via PxHere. pandemic and the emotional, political strife in the country.” She’s right, too, although my sister’s death, the unpaid loan, and reflecting on the end of friendships also add to my “Keep,” “Give Away,” and “Junk.” feelings of loss. It all underscores for me the How can we not feel sad when we become transitory nature of life. Everything changes. aware of how our lives have been upended?

That’s not a sad thought, despite few of us What do we do when we feel fear about the loving change. It’s simply an observation of future, when we worry whether we’ll be something that’s been apparent to me for safe, whether we’ll become sick, whether many years. we’ll have enough to live on, whether our What is there to do about the circumstances friendships will last forever, and about what’s of our sadness? Coincidentally, I had two to happen to our hairbrush and Christmas conversations with friends over coffee at ornaments?

Stork’s in the past week. Specifically, we Acceptance with gratitude of what is real at were brainstorming about how people who this very moment is the guidance given to us embrace Love and avoid judgment can by the esteemed, recently transitioned, great respond to the emotional, Buddhist teacher, Thích Nhất political, civil strife we feel Hạnh. If we’re truly present in in our lives. With COVID, the moment, we’ll brush our EVERYTHING we know how to protect hair joyfully without thinking CHANGES. THAT’S ourselves, and we can see about what’s going to happen NOT A SAD the end of the shut down in to the brush. Instead of living sight. The grief we feel from with resentment of how THOUGHT, DESPITE everyday losses, such as the long COVID is going to be in FEW OF US LOVING death of a loved one, or the our lives, our treasure lies end of a friendship, we know CHANGE. IT’S SIMPLY in accepting the reality of will pass with time. But what it, taking precautions, and AN OBSERVATION OF about living long term among saying, “I’m just here.” The SOMETHING THAT’S people who have come to beloved Vietnamese spiritual hate us because of our beliefs BEEN APPARENT guide told us that we all are about the role of government, one body, inseparable from TO ME FOR MANY and about everyone’s right to each other, so that when we YEARS. life, liberty, and the pursuit feel hate for others because of happiness? We can vote, of their beliefs or how they donate money, and write vote, we are actually hurting ourselves and or call our representatives in Washington, trashing our treasure.

D.C., but that doesn’t heal the rift between My sadness is real but it is not debilitating. neighbors.

I can be silly and laugh while still missing One friend yesterday told me that he and family and friends. I can function fully and his husband were preparing to immigrate to live with gratitude, regardless of my losses.

Portugal if American democracy dies as they When fear creeps into my consciousness, I believe it is now doing. Their treasures in can thank it for its concern but refuse to let this life will be found elsewhere. The things it take me out of the present to a time that they once valued, such as their home and hasn’t happened. At this very moment, my neighbors, will be divided into three piles: life is in the pile of treasures to keep.

Brian McNaught has been a leading educator on LGBTQ issues globally since 1974. He has made his many books and DVDs available for free at Brian-McNaught.com. The New York Times named him “The Godfather of gay diversity training.” Brian has a weekly YouTube/FaceBook podcast called, “Are You Happy Without the Movie?” His new book, "On Being Gay And Gray," was profiled in last week's edition of SFGN.

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LOVE IS IN THE AIR

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alentine’s Day is one of the hospitality industry’s busiest days. If you plan to dine out, there are plenty of special events, just be certain to make your reservations well in advance.

BONA ITALIAN will be offering its regular menu as well as a featured special of herbcrusted ribeye, warm tortellini salad, prosciutto wrapped asparagus, and truffled hollandaise.

Guests will receive a complimentary glass of champagne at the end of their dining experience. The room will be reset for a comfortable but more upgraded romantic setting with candles at every table and fresh roses on each table. 2468 Wilton Dr., Wilton Manors, 954-565-7222, bonaitalian.com.

Feb. 11. Dinner specials come with a black satin eye mask and chocolate truffles, while supplies last. 800 E. Las Olas, Fort Lauderdale, 954-314-6500, CubaLibreRestaurant.com/en/ fortlauderdale.

Take to the sky at SPARROW on the top floor of the Dalmar. The trendy rooftop bar features sweeping views of Fort Lauderdale from its coastal-chic patio or through the floor-toceiling windows inside the bar’s 1960s-inspired space. Nibble on the Asian bar snacks (sushi, bao buns, lobster mac and cheese, and dumplings) and sip a tropical-themed classic cocktail. 299 N. Federal, Fort Lauderdale, 954945-9100, sparrowbar.com.

Seminole Casino in Coconut Creek offers a couple of options for lovebirds. NYY STEAK, the property’s fine dining steakhouse, will present a variety of special dishes. While 1ST STREET DELI will offer a three-course special for $40 per person. State Road 7 and Sample Road, 954-977-6700, CasinoCoco.com.

It may not be the most romantic dinner, but if you can get 6-10 folks together and don’t mind heading up to Coral Springs, you can book the Nonna’s Kitchen private dining room at TAVOLINO DELLA NOTTE. Enjoy authentic Italian American fare in a recreated family kitchen circa 1950. 10181 W Sample Rd., Coral Springs, 954-509-0046, tavolinorestaurant. com.

UNION KITCHEN & BAR will offer several aphrodisiac-inspired dinner specials.

Highlights include an oyster trio, caviar for two, lobster, and a homemade strawberry panna cotta. These specials are available in addition to the restaurant’s regular dinner menu. 2309 N. Dixie, Wilton Manors, 754-2160143, unionkb.com.

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LIPS will offer a free glass of champagne as part of its three-course prix fixe dinner and show for $40 per person. Seating starts at 7 p.m. 1421 E. Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park, 954-567-0987, FlaDragShow.com.

NO MAN’S LAND is all about aphrodisiacs this Valentine’s Day. Get in the mood at this speakeasy-themed spot with a dozen oysters and a bottle of champagne for $100. 666 N. Federal, Fort Lauderdale, 954-368-2616, nomanslandftl.com.

PIZZA CRAFT is the place for lovebirds seeking a special experience: an indulgent three-course dinner for two showcasing specialty Italian dishes that feature truffles.

Available Feb. 11-14, the dinner is $99 per couple. 330 Himmarshee St., Fort Lauderdale, 954-616-8028, pizzacraftpizzeria.com.

If you’re still a little unsure about dining out, there are some terrific options for a romantic meal at home. WILD FORK, with eight locations in South Florida, offers a cook-at-home meal bundle with menus including filet mignon, lobster tails, and escargot, wildforkfoods.com.

DORIS ITALIAN MARKET & BAKERY is offering a special dinner for two packages at all locations, Feb. 5-15, dorismarket.com.

SIDE DISHES NEW PLACES NEW FACES Chef Timon Balloo, the James Beard semifinalist who launched Miami’s Sugarcane a decade ago, has opened KATHERINE, a new pescatarian-focused spot in downtown Fort Lauderdale at 723 E. Broward.

TheKatherineRestaurant.com.

Parkland restaurateur Doug Zeif (former senior vice-president of the Cheesecake Factory) has opened a new restaurant in Coconut Creek. TRULI features build-your-own pasta bowls (with 10 pasta types and nine sauces), build-your-own pizzas, and classic dishes such as chicken Parmesan and steak tagliata. 4443 Lyons Rd Coconut Creek; 954-399-7677, TruliItalian.com.

YA MAS! TAVERNA, a new Mediterranean eatery from Memphis Garrett’s hospitality group (No Man’s Land, Poke House, Blue Wave Sushi) will bring an indoor/outdoor taverna focusing on classic and modern interpretations from Greece, Turkey, and Israel. 1103 E Las Olas, yamastaverna.com.

Also coming to Las Olas, side by side, are BIG BUNS DAMN GOOD BURGERS and MATCHBOX. Matchbox already has a location in Sunrise, while Big Buns is first entering our market from Arlington, Virginia.

TOPS IN THE NATION? Yelp just released its list of the country’s top 100 restaurants. We’re not certain which algorithm is used to make the selections, but DELRAY’S WINE ROOM KITCHEN and Bar ranked 31st, while neighboring DADA came in 45th. SASSAFRAS in West Palm captured the 56th spot. Not one place in Miami or Fort Lauderdale made the list. Care for a grain of salt with that info?

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LIFESTYLE READING WITH PRIDE

‘BOTH SIDES NOW’ Aurora Dominguez

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ost LGBT people have a hard time blending into society. Therefore, author Peyton Thomas wrote “Both Sides Now” about a transgender teen finding his place in the world.

WHAT WAS YOUR INSPIRATION BEHIND YOUR MOST RECENT NOVEL? Well, I fell in love! Simple as that. It didn’t feel simple at the time, though. Throughout my early 20s, I identified as a nonbinary lesbian. I wasn’t expecting to fall in love with a man — let alone as a man. I had to re-evaluate my entire concept of myself. It was hard! And I had no mirrors, none, to show me what life as a queer trans man might look like. I wrote “Both Sides Now,” in large part, to imagine a future for myself.

I drew on my past, too. I’d been a huge debate nerd in high school, the captain of my school’s team. I wanted to return to that ecosystem to explore the purpose of debate, especially in the lives of trans people. Why is debate valuable? What happens when bad faith actors abuse open dialogue?

When does an intellectual exercise come at the expense of someone’s real humanity?

If I could answer all of these questions and throw in some heart-stopping spit-swapping, I figured I’d have done my job.

WHAT CHARACTER IN THIS NOVEL DO YOU MOST RELATE TO AND WHY? There’s a lot of me in Finch, the protagonist; no question.

But as I progressed through early drafts, I found myself very drawn to Ari, Finch’s sworn enemy, the pampered princess captaining the debate team at an elite private school. Ari grapples with her own beliefs even more, maybe, than Finch does. He winds up with certainty, and she doesn’t, quite. I can relate to that. I’m a Libra. I’m told we’re indecisive.

WHY DO YOU FEEL NOVELS WITH POWERFUL AND UNIQUE CHARACTERS ARE SO POPULAR AND HAVE SUCH A VOICE RIGHT NOW? I worked in a local bookstore when I was in high school. This was the late 2000s. The entire Teen section was composed of three distinct groups: •Twilight, and rip-offs thereof; •Gossip Girl, and rip-offs thereof; •The Hunger Games, and rip-offs thereof.

That section looks very different now! There is so much less rigidity now, no iron-clad notion of what a YA novel has to be. Much more diverse, of course, in terms of the characters represented, but also in the types of stories being told. I have to say I’m grateful for the shift — even though God knows I wore a Team Edward pin to school.

I’m grateful, too, that in the years since I began writing “Both Sides Now,” a number of books about trans teens have begun popping up. So many mirrors! It gives me profound joy to think that trans kids will have these books, and befriend these characters, and be less lonely as they become themselves.

PLEASE DESCRIBE THE CONTENT OF YOUR LATEST BOOK AND WHAT CAN READERS EXPECT FROM IT.

about a trans teen finding his place in the world perfect for fans of Red, White and Royal Blue.

This is what it’s about: There’s only one thing standing between Finch Kelly and a full-blown case of high school senioritis: the National Speech & Debate Tournament. Taking home the gold would not only be the pinnacle of Finch’s debating career, but the perfect way to launch himself into his next chapter: college in Washington, D.C., and a history-making career as the first trans congressman. What could possibly go wrong?

Well, for starters, Finch could develop a teeny tiny crush on his very attractive, very taken, and very gay debate partner, Jonah. Never mind that Finch has never considered whether he’s interested in more than just girls.

And that dream of college in D.C.? Finch hasn’t exactly been accepted anywhere yet, let alone received the full-ride scholarship he’ll need to make this dream a reality.

Worst of all, though, is this year’s topic for Nationals: transgender rights. If he wants to clinch the gold and get into college, Finch might have to argue against his own humanity.

People say there are two sides to every argument. But, as Finch is about to discover, some things — like who you are and who you love — are not up for debate.

WHAT’S NEXT FOR YOU IN THE BOOKISH WORLD? I believe I’m sworn to secrecy, but I’m still thinking very hard about trans teens finding their way in the world, I can tell you that. Finding their way in the world throughout history, even.

WHO IS YOUR CURRENT FAVORITE WRITER? WHY? This is an impossible question, so I’ll just tell you about the last great book I read: “The Undocumented Americans” by Karla Cornejo Villavicencio. Part memoir, part polemic, all heart and soul -- it was so completely captivating and such a challenge to the entire history of writing on the subject of immigration. I inhaled Karla’s book in a single afternoon.

Can’t wait to see more from her.

ANY WRITING ADVICE FOR ASPIRING WRITERS? Write bad first drafts on purpose! Treat your first drafts the way a painter treats a pencil sketch! Write the simplest possible version of your story: “He said this. They went there.

I felt bad.” You won’t have the Mona Lisa when you’re done, but you’ll have a lightly etched canvas you can paint it on.

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Conductor Jeri Lynne Johnson will lead Florida Grand Opera in the upcoming production of Handel’s “Agrippina.”

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Florida Grand Opera (FGO) has been awarded an Opera America 2022 Opera Grant for Women Stage Directors and Conductors. A part of Opera America’s initiative to encourage the hiring of women in key artistic roles, the award will support conductor Jeri Lynne Johnson’s FGO debut with Handel’s “Agrippina” in May. A survey of recent opera seasons revealed that women make up less than 30% of the stage directors and less than 15% of the conductors working on American opera productions.

Johnson is a barrier-breaking conductor, founder and director of Philadelphia’s Black Pearl Chamber Orchestra. She is the first Black woman to win an international conducting prize, the 2005 Taki Alsop Conducting Fellowship, and has frequently claimed a historic spot as the first Black woman to take the podium at many orchestras. She has conducted the Philadelphia Orchestra, Dallas Symphony Orchestra, Bournemouth Symphony Orchestra (U.K.), and Weimar Staatskapelle (Germany).

Tickets to FGO’s production of Handel’s “Agrippina,” May 14-17 at the Scottish Rite Temple, are available at FGO.org.

CAN I GET AN ‘AMEN’?

The Broadway at LPAC season continues at the Lauderhill Performing Arts Center, 3800 N.W. 11th Pl., with MNM Theatre Co.’s production of the Broadway hit “Sister Act,” Feb. 18 to March 6.

Based on the 1992 film and featuring original music by Tony and Oscar winner Alan Menken, this uplifting musical was nominated for five Tony Awards, including best musical.

When disco diva Deloris Van Cartier witnesses a murder, she is put into witness protection at a convent.

Disguised as a nun, she finds herself at odds with the rigid lifestyle. Using her singing talent to inspire the choir, Deloris breathes new life into the church and community, but also blows her cover. Soon the gang is giving chase, only to find them up against Deloris and the power of her newly found sisterhood.

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Tickets are now on sale for the final performance of the Seth Rudetsky Broadway Concert Series at the Parker in Fort Lauderdale. On March 26, Laura Benanti, Tony winner for “Gypsy” on Broadway and a fivetime nominee, will join the SiriusXM On Broadway host for an evening of music and banter.

Equally comfortable on stage or screen, she is currently in production for HBO Max’s “Gossip Girl” reboot and recently reprised her role on the final season of the hit TV series “Younger,” starring opposite Sutton Foster and Hilary Duff.

Tickets start at $37 at ParkerPlayhouse.com.

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FGO’S ‘STREETCAR NAMED DESIRE’ STOPS AT ARSHT JW Arnold

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hen was the last time you saw an opera singer undress on stage?

Hunky Kiwi baritone Hadleigh Adams does just that twice — revealing rippling pecs, tight abs and bulging biceps — in Florida Grand Opera’s production of “A Streetcar Named Desire,” the company’s first full production since COVID-19 shut down arts venues and presenters nearly two years ago.

Cast as Stanley Kowalski, the role made famous in the movies by Marlon Brando, Adams’ smoldering good looks are only rivaled by his commanding baritone voice. You may want to bring your opera glasses to get a better look, but you’ll certainly have no trouble hearing him, especially as he belts out, “Stella!” (He’ll also be starring in the company’s upcoming LGBT-themed opera, “Fellow Travelers,” later this spring.)

This 1998 operatic adaptation from composer Andre Previn and librettist Phillip Littel sticks pretty closely to the familiar plot of Tennessee Williams’ classic 1947 play: a troubled young school teacher, Blanche DuBois, leaves smalltown Mississippi to move in with her sister and brother-in-law in New Orleans. Tension erupts as she upends the lives of Stella and Stanley.

In addition to Adams, the production features sopranos Elizabeth Caballero as Blanche and Rebecca Krynski Cox as Stella. Caballero is a beloved regular on the Arsht stage, most recently having performed as Donna Elvira in “Don Giovanni” (2019) and Mimi in “La Boheme” (2018).

The chemistry among the three is indisputable as they effortlessly tackled a contemporary score infused with jazz and blues riffs and performed lustily by a large orchestra conducted by Gregory Buchalter; but, there is a fundamental disconnect between the gritty characters and nuanced story concocted

by Williams and the grand operatic idiom that even this talented trio cannot transcend.

Soaring lines and vibrato actually seem to make a jerk like Stanley sound noble and sophisticated, even as Stella considers him to be “common.” Caballero and Krynski Cox both offer stunning moments, leaving audiences yearning for a more traditional aria to just luxuriate in their voices. Nicholas Huff,

New Zealand baritone Hadleigh Adams stars as Stanley Kowalski in Florida Grand Opera’s production of “A Streetcar Named Desire.” Credit: Daniel Azouley.

portraying Stanley’s friend and Blanche’s love interest, is the only cast member to inflect with a noticeable Southern twang, if such a thing was possible. “Streetcar” is accessible, primarily because it is sung in English and based on a familiar story, but it’s still opera.

Where Previn’s score is most successful is in establishing the orchestra as a “character” in its own right, an active voice in every piece of dialogue, punctuating those unforgettable lines from Williams. At times, his music is reminiscent of Copland and Bernstein, but a little more “Sondheim” might have been ultimately successful in transporting audiences to the Big Easy, along with the late composer’s skill with song lyrics.

Despite the obvious challenges with the material, FGO acquitted itself well and it was good to return to the Arsht Center for worldclass music-making from singers and orchestra alike.

If it’s been a while since you’ve been to the Arsht Center, note that there has been major construction to the I-395 freeway around the Center (that will continue for the foreseeable future) and traffic on I-95 remains unpredictable and frustrating. Allow extra time to arrive. With construction in the area, parking is scarce, also, and the closest lot now charges $30 for six hours. Inflation has clearly not been confined to fuel and groceries. You’ll also want to remember to bring proof of a negative COVID test or vaccination to enter the facility.

Florida Grand Opera presents Andre Previn’s “A Streetcar Named Desire” at the Broward Center in Fort Lauderdale, Feb. 3 and 5 at 7:30 p.m. Tickets start at $23.94 at BrowardCenter.org.

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‘ARMATURE’ AT ISLAND CITY: WTF?!?

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Michael Ford (left) and Matthew Salas star in the world premiere of “Armature” at Island City Stage through Feb. 27. Credit: Matthew Tippins.

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ours after leaving Island City Stage in Wilton Manors, I’m still trying to unpack all the issues that playwright Andrew Kramer tackles in his world premiere thriller “Armature.”

Racism, political tribalism, violence, sexual orientation, internalized homophobia, gender roles, adoption, youthful defiance, addiction, ageism and “daddy” issues are just a few of the demons that surface in the headspinning two-hour drama.

It’s a long list, and it gets worse, but elaborating further would spoil some key plot developments. Honestly, I was exhausted from the unrelenting onslaught of twists by the time the lights finally came up and the cast took their bows.

The Armature is a seedy gay nightclub and the bar is manned by Mama, a jaded queen who remembers the days a generation or two earlier when police raids were commonplace.

“Armature” — the play — involves two very different “families” whose lives intersect in shocking ways: Evan and Shod, gay men who connect at the bar, and Blythe, an African American politician, and her husband and daughter.

Evan (Matthew Salas) is a naïve, selfabsorbed (and annoying) Millennial blogger who ran away after his sugar daddy suffered a heart attack. He also has a slight meth problem. Shod (Michael Ford) is the dark, handsome and mysterious trick who quickly asserts command of his life.

Blythe (Karen Stephens) is idealistic, ambitious and career-driven, while her husband Denson (Keith Wade) has compromised his standing in their marriage to support her aspirations. Monica (Yesenia Ozuna) is their adopted daughter, who

naturally acts out whenever possible, while pushing every one of Blythe’s buttons.

Mama (Kent Chambers-Wilson) not only serves Evan and Shod in their scenes at the bar, but also serves as a sort of narrator, announcing the timeline and conducting “interjections” that halt the action in order to offer backstories for each of the characters.

Given the convoluted plot and overly complicated characters, these theatrical devices offer much needed structure to Kramer’s play. In reality, he has two worthwhile plays forcibly stitched together.

There’s so much material in both stories that could be explored and refined in a more meaningful way.

Island City Stage and co-directors Andy Rogow and Michael Leeds offer the work a sincere production. Robert F. Wolin’s abstract set, accentuated by lighting from Preston Bircher, serves the many scene changes well, while David Hart’s sound design helps the audience jump back and forth from the Armature bar.

Surprisingly, even on the third night of the show, the cast frequently stumbled over their lines. Some playwrights are just better at constructing dialogue than others, so that may be partially to blame. And Carbonellwinner Stephens, one of the region’s most lauded actresses, seemed especially ill at ease and often underutilized. “Armature” is not an easy play to perform or watch, as noted earlier, and hopefully the cast will quickly relax into their roles for future performances.

There’s a lot for everyone to consider in “Armature” and, with a little more work and editing, Kramer’s play could find a life in LGBT and mainstream theaters across the country.

The world premiere of Andrew Kramer’s “Armature” is being performed through Feb. 27 at Island City Stage, 2304 N. Dixie Hwy. in Wilton Manors. Tickets are $35 at IslandCityStage.org.

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