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“Any death associated with a case a syphilis or congenital syphilis is a public health failure and shouldn’t happen.”

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15 years,” said Matthew Prior, Director of Communications for the NCSD. “When you adjust for inflation it’s really a 40 percent reduction in buying power from 15 years ago.”

Chlamydia, which makes up the lion’s share of infections, increased 3 percent over last year to more than 1.7 million cases – the most ever reported to the CDC. “The rates of STDs we see nationally are a disaster for our collective health and an expensive lesson in the need for consistent, non-judgmental and effective public health services,” said Whitney Engeran-Cordova, senior director for public health for AIDS Healthcare Foundation.

The numbers also include a 19 percent increase in chlamydia since 2004; 63 percent increase in gonorrhea since 2004; a 71 percent increase in primary and secondary syphilis since 2004; and a 185 percent increase in congenital syphilis (babies born with syphilis) since 2004.

Congenital syphilis rates are especially alarming to public health advocates.

“Any death associated with a case a syphilis or congenital syphilis is a public health failure and shouldn’t happen,” Prior said.

There are many factors involved in why STD rates are increasing.

Here are the reasons the CDC listed in a press release announcing the dire STD numbers.

• Drug use, poverty, stigma, and unstable housing, which can reduce access to STD prevention and care • Decreased condom use among vulnerable groups, including young people and gay and bisexual men • Cuts to STD programs at the state and local level – in recent years, more than half of local programs have experienced budget cuts, resulting in clinic closures, reduced screening, staff loss, and reduced patient follow-up and linkage to care services

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But many public health advocates cite the decrease in federal funding as the main cause.

Gay and bisexual men are disproportionately affected by the STD crisis.

According to the CDC report men who have sex with men (MSM) made up 54 percent of all syphilis cases in 2018, while gonorrhea diagnoses have nearly doubled among men over the past five years (the CDC fact sheet doesn’t state how many of those cases are MSM).

“We are in the midst of a public health crisis. For too long our nation’s public health programs on the frontline of these epidemics have been underfunded and understaffed,” Harvey stated in the press release. “We thank the members of Congress for recognizing that STDs are a worthwhile investment and we look forward to working with them to build on this momentum.”

More specifically NCSD is calling on Congress to support an increase of $82 million – $62 million to fill the gap left due to the loss of spending power, and $20 million for direct service funding.

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Jason Parsley TDs in the U.S. are at all time highs and a big infusion in cash is needed to stop infection rates from climbing further, SFGN reported last week.

This week congressional leaders agreed on a new federal budget that includes a $3.51 million increase in STD prevention – the first increase in more than 2 decades. The House passed the budget Tuesday. The senate is expected to vote later this week.

That number though, while being applauded by some public health advocates, is not near enough to put a dent in the crisis.

A recent report from the Centers for Disease Control showed in 2018, about 2.4 million cases of STDs were diagnosed. It marks the highest number ever reported, by more than 100,000 (the record previously set in 2017).

“With millions getting sick and billions in health care costs each year, our nation is seeing the results of short-changing the health of American citizens,” David C. Harvey, executive Director of the NCSD, said in a prepared statement. “This funding increase is a first step and a down payment towards supporting our nation’s health.”

The National Coalition of STD Directors has said it would take at least $70 million to start addressing the epidemic.

“That’s a fraction of less than one percent of the entire CDC budget. STD funding has remained pretty stagnant over the past

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reater Fort Lauderdale is proud to be the host destination for the firstever Pride of the Americas on April 21-26, 2020. This historic and transformational event brings two continents and 53 nations together, welcoming everyone under the sun. Pride of the Americas will be hosted

by Pride Fort Lauderdale with the Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention & Visitors Bureau serving as the presenting sponsor.

“Greater Fort Lauderdale/Broward County is different countries will share their expertise the perfect launch destination for Pride of the at life-changing conferences and symposiums Americas 2020 as we are world-renowned for on human rights, business, travel, health and our open embrace of the LGBT+ community and wellness, education and more. to all visitors from across the globe,” said Stacy Although Greater Fort Lauderdale is close in Ritter, CEO and president of the Greater Fort proximity to Latin America and the Caribbean, Lauderdale Convention and Visitors Bureau. “We they are a far distance apart regarding the are excited for Pride of the Americas’ attendees treatment and acceptance of the LGBT+ to experience our cosmopolitan destination, as individuals in their communities. The event well as our beautiful melting pot of cultures.” hopes to bring international attention to these Six days of events will begin with opening inequalities while improving education and ceremonies on Tuesday, April 21 in downtown understanding of the LGBT+ community on a Fort Lauderdale, and culminate on Sunday, April global scale.

26, with an epic beach festival and fireworks “Greater Fort Lauderdale is a community display. Pride of the Americas will that celebrates diversity and include social events throughout inclusion in every way, each the destination, a parade, and every day, where Pride Six days of events beach party, arts festival, is our daily way of life,” will begin with opening A-list entertainment, sunset said Miik Martorell, concerts, top DJs and drag president of Pride Fort ceremonies on Tuesday, brunches. A glamorous Lauderdale. “Pride Fort April 21 in downtown Fort fashion show will feature Lauderdale and the Lauderdale, and culminate designs by Bravo’s “Project Greater Fort Lauderdale on Sunday, April 26, with an Runway” alumni and local Convention & Visitors designers – modeled by Bureau are committed epic beach festival and male, female, transgender and to leveraging Pride of the fireworks display. drag models – at the Seminole Americas to strengthen the Hard Rock Hotel & Casino in LGBT+ communities and the nearby Hollywood.

Pride movement in the Caribbean “Greater Fort Lauderdale is home to a thriving and Latin America.”

LGBT+ community, and we are very much Welcoming 1.5 million LGBT+ visitors looking forward to welcoming hundreds of annually spending $1.5 billion, Greater Fort thousands of LGBT+ visitors and allies to our Lauderdale is well-suited to host Pride of destination where diversity shines brightly,” said the Americas. With hundreds of gay-owned Richard Gray, senior vice president of Diversity and operated businesses and the highest & Inclusion at the Greater Fort Lauderdale concentration of same-sex couple households in Convention and Visitors Bureau. the country, the destination is one of the most Pride of the Americas will draw attention to diverse and welcoming in the world. the shared issues LGBT+ individuals, families, “As the business voice of the LGBT youth and seniors face in Latin America and community, the National LGBT Chamber of the Caribbean. Key thought leaders from Commerce is elated to partner with the Greater

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The Greater Fort Lauderdale Convention Fort Lauderdale not only offers a thriving LGBT & Visitors Bureau has been reaching LGBT+ scene, but it also offers event organizers and travelers since 1996, when it became the first attendees with stunning beaches and a variety Convention & Visitors Bureau with a dedicated of exceptional museums, culinary experiences LGBT+ marketing department. Since then, Two continents. 35 countries. One love. and unique attractions that celebrate diversity.

Greater Fort Lauderdale hasfirst continued Greater Fort Lauderdale invites everyone under the sun to the very Pride of the to break Americas. Join hundreds of thousands of individuals who together will bring global This is also the perfect opportunity for our down barriers and facilitate visibility for the attention to LGBT+ advocacy. All are welcome to fly your flag high, make an impact NGLCC Global affiliate chambers throughout LGBT+ community atMake large, and radiate life – because who you are is worth celebrating. youracting plans at as a pioneer sunny.org/PrideAmericas the Americas to convene. This collaboration in the hospitality industry and ensuring that is timely and& Parade exciting as• Fashion we Show are• Business thrilled to Conference the destination is• LGBT+ inclusive andConference welcoming Beach Party • Arts Festival of the Americas • Transgender Summit Health & Wellness bring our 2021 NGLCC International Business with a diverse, safe and open community for all & Leadership Conference, the largest LGBT travelers. business event in the world, to the Greater Fort Four years ago, it became the first destination Lauderdale area once again. NGLCC’s 2015 in the world to create a transgender marketing conference in Fort Lauderdale left behind at campaign. Now the Greater Fort Lauderdale $4-million-dollar impact and elevated the LGBT Convention & Visitors Bureau includes trans, inclusivity of businesses large and small in the lesbian, gay and straight people in all its region,” says Justin Nelson, Co-Founder and mainstream marketing initiatives. It was also President of the National LGBT Chamber of the first to celebrate same-sex marriage in the Commerce. state of Florida with an imaginative and awardGreater Fort Lauderdale is also the LGBT+ winning “Love is Love” wedding ceremony for capital of Florida and is home to one of the 100 couples. largest Pride Centers in the country, the world’s To learn more about Pride of the Americas first AIDS museum, the global headquarters and for a schedule of events, go to www. of the International Gay & Lesbian Travel PrideOfTheAmericas.org and Association, and the Stonewall Museum, one of www.sunny.org/prideamericas. the only permanent spaces in the U.S. devoted to exhibitions relating to LGBT+ history and On social media, follow culture. The LGBT+ Visitor Center is co-located @prideofamericas and #PrideAmericas. with the Greater Fort Lauderdale LGBT Chamber

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he U.S. Senate voted 53 to 40 on Tuesday afternoon to confirm an openly gay man to the nation’s largest federal appeals court.

Patrick Bumatay’s confirmation to the jurisdiction over 20 percent of the nation’s Ninth Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals makes population, covering California and eight him the second openly gay person to be western states. appointed to a federal appeals bench seat.

The U.S. Court of Appeals for the The first was Todd Hughes, appointed by Federal Circuit, which has 12 judges, President Obama to the U.S. Circuit Court deals specifically with disputes involving for the Federal Circuit and confirmed by the international trade, government contracts, Senate in 2013 by a 98 to 0 vote. and federal personnel, among other things.

Charles Moran, managing director of the Bumatay’s nomination was opposed national Log Cabin Republicans, said the by California’s two U.S. senators, Dianne group was “heartened” by the confirmation, Feinstein and Kamala Harris. During adding that it makes Bumatay’s October 31 Bumatay “the highestconfirmation hearing, ranking LGBT jurist in the Feinstein said she appreciated nation. the diversity Bumatay would “He is an accomplished bring to the bench but that prosecutor with solid she did not think he has the experience, and we’re experience necessary for the thankful to President job. Feinstein voted against Trump for pushing confirmation; Harris was not forward with Patrick’s present for the vote. nomination and the Bumatay worked in the Senate confirming him,” White House Office of Legal said Moran. “I know all Counsel under President Americans will welcome George W. Bush and worked Patrick’s arrival on the as a federal prosecutor in San - Charles Moran Ninth Circuit, bringing Diego since 2012.

Managing director of some sanity back to During his opening statement the national log cabin republicans at his confirmation hearing, the circuit most known Bumatay introduced the for being out of the committee to his parents, mainstream.” his sister, his brother-in-law, The vote on Bumatay was along strict party lines, with 53 two nephews, and Alex, “my husband.” He Republicans voting for confirmation, 40 noted he and Alex also had with them their Democrats and Independents voting against, two daughters, who were born in April. and seven senators not voting. The Senate’s The daughters prompted a remark from two openly gay senators — Tammy Baldwin Louisiana Republican Senator John Kennedy, (D-Wisc.) and Kyrsten Sinema (D-Ariz.) — who called them “precious.”

Bumatay’s confirmation hearing and voting against confirmation.

The Ninth Circuit is the nation’s largest his confirmation were overshadowed by federal appeals court, with 29 seats and controversy surrounding another Trump

“I know all Americans will welcome Patrick’s arrival on the 9th Circuit.”

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nominee to the Ninth Circuit: U.S. Deputy Assistant Attorney General Lawrence VanDyke. LGBT groups opposed VanDyke’s nomination and the American Bar Association expressed concern that VanDyke might not be “fair to persons who are gay, lesbian, or otherwise part of the LGBTQ community.” During his confirmation hearing, VanDyke said he was shocked by

that criticism but later he implied that he had worked to help an LGBT group when, in fact, he had represented a group that sought to bar LGBT members.

The Senate took up debate on the VanDyke nomination after it confirmed Bumatay.

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he USNS Harvey Milk is a ship whose board of supervisors in 1978, was assassinated time has finally come.

10 months later by an ex-supervisor, Dan Construction on the ship, a fleet White, who shot Milk to death along with oiler named for the slain LGBT icon, began San Francisco Mayor George Moscone. He Friday at General Dynamics NASSCO in had been a Naval dive officer based in San San Diego. It will be the second ship in the Diego nearly 30 years before being elected, new John Lewis class of fleet oilers, which but was forced to resign from the Navy in the are ships used to replenish fuel oil and dry 1950s after being caught in a San Diego park goods to Navy ships at sea. The future John known as a cruising spot for gay men.

Lewis, named for the late civil rights leader According to Stuart Milk, the late LGBT and congressman, is also rights pioneer’s nephew, his being built at the San Diego uncle always knew he would shipyard. die as a result of his advocacy.

According to the San Diego “I think people should Union Tribune, the Harvey know it’s not Hollywood,” the Milk was so-named after younger Milk said. “He did a deliberate push by LGBT know that he was going to be equality advocates following killed. He didn’t know who, the repeal of “don’t ask, don’t and he didn’t know when, tell” in 2010. A leader in this but it gave him the courage to campaign was Nicole Murray continue doing what he was Ramirez, the chairman and doing.”

- Stuart Milk executive director of the “He dreamed of a day Nephew of Harvey Milk San Diego International like today,” Milk continued, Imperial Court Council, an “when not only would we LGBT organization, who said, “When ‘don’t have the military honoring LGBT, but we ask, don’t tell’ was lifted, I researched, and have a mayor from the Republican party and one guy picks all these [ship] names — the we have everyone that represents the San Secretary of the Navy.”

Diego community coming out. This would The Court Council, which has chapters have been un-dreamable for people back in nationwide, subsequently began a national 1978. [It] sends a global message of inclusion letter-writing campaign, pushing then-Navy more powerful than simply ‘We’ll tolerate Secretary Ray Mabus to name a ship for Milk. everyone. [It says] ‘we celebrate everyone.’”

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ne might argue that 2019 was a pretty good year for LGBT people.

An openly gay man rose to the top tier of a large field of Democratic presidential candidates. A second openly LGBT person was sworn into the U.S. Senate. A record number of openly LGBT candidates won office to Congress Lesbian icon Ellen DeGeneres shared a box seat with former Republican President George W. Bush at a football game. And Republican President Donald Trump issued a statement to “celebrate LGBT Pride Month.”

Others might argue that 2019 was a year of looming and unresolved battles over the heart and soul of American democracy and the harbinger of uncertainty about the future for the political and legal movements for LGBT equality. However, one assesses the year in LGBT news, here are some of the year’s most headline-grabbing news stories to consider: 1. BUTTIGIEG SURGES TO THE TOP: Pete Buttigieg’s success with his long shot bid to win the Democratic nomination for president could probably take up all 10 slots of any “LGBT Top Stories” list for 2019. He became not only the first openly gay person to seek the Democratic presidential nomination, he raised enough support to participate in the first official Democratic debate, quickly surged to a top five slot in a field of more than 20 viable candidates, and held onto to that position while candidates who were much better known fell away. His success continued throughout the year, helped by an early staking out of a moderate position just as progressive candidates were taking heat for appealing for dramatic changes, such as Medicare for All. Buttigieg pitched “Medicare for All Who Want It,” spoke openly about how his religious faith informs his views, and proved to be a respectful but formidable contender in debate. By December, he held first place in Iowa polling, second place in New Hampshire polling, and fourth place in national polling. But with success in any presidential bid comes additional scrutiny and challenge. In May, two Republican operatives tried to promote a false accusation that Buttigieg had sexually assaulted two men, but both of those men denied the claims.

In October, he was criticized for being too straight-looking and derided as “Mary Pete.”

And at year’s end, Buttigieg was still struggling

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to prove he could win support from African American voters and fending off suggestions that his post-graduate work for a conservative management consulting firm, McKinsey, included work that led to the loss of jobs for many. So far, he has astutely navigated a daunting landscape and blown through a wall that most LGBT people expected would block a path to the White House for any gay person in their lifetimes. Win or lose, he could well become 2020’s top story, too.

2. SUPREME COURT TACKLES TITLE VII: The U.S. Supreme Court in October heard oral arguments about whether existing federal law—Title VII of the Civil Rights Act—already prohibits discrimination in employment based on two things: sexual orientation and gender identity. The court’s eventual ruling on each issue, expected by next June, will have profound consequences for LGBT people everywhere in the U.S.

Pete Buttigieg. Photo via Pete Buttigieg, Facebook.

And it could be a mixed outcome: The court could rule one way for sexual orientation and a different way for transgender status.

Conservative Justice Neil Gorsuch articulated that he was “really close” to seeing how the law already protects each category, but he said he was worried about the “massive social upheaval” that might take place if the court rules for either. Because Gorsuch is seen as being part of the conservative five-person majority on the court, media attention riveted to him following oral argument. But even progressive Justice Sonia Sotomayor hinted she was concerned about what the court’s ruling might have on the “raging” bathroom issue. Those who fear change will argue that a “No” from the Supreme Court on either or both questions will simply preserve the status quo. But that status quo prohibits discrimination based on an employee’s LGBT status in only 21 states and provides little likelihood of passage for the Equality Act that seeks to provide protection nationwide.

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So far, has astutely navigated a daunting landscape and blown through a wall that most LGBT people expected would block a path to the White House for any gay person in their lifetimes.

3. HOUSE IMPEACHES PRESIDENT TRUMP: The Democratically controlled U.S. House began impeachment proceedings late this year against President Trump, unleashing a torrent of partisan fighting for the very soul of the country. The two charges are that: 1. Trump abused the power of his office to pressure a foreign government, Ukraine, to announce that it was investigating a rival 2020 presidential contender (lead Democrat Joe Biden), and 2. that he obstructed Congress by deliberately interfering with the ability of the House to interview crucial witnesses and examine documents. There were a few openly LGBT players during the proceedings, including openly gay U.S. Reps. David Cicilline and Sean Patrick Maloney who serve on the key committees involved in the impeachment proceedings. And Stanford law professor Pam Karlan was a key witness before one committee, serving as an expert on constitutional law regarding impeachment. At deadline, the full House was expected to approve both articles of impeachment by Christmas, sending the charges to the Senate for trial. That Republicandominated body is expected to address the issue in January and vote, along party lines, to acquit the president. That much is known and essentially predictable. What remains to be seen is how the U.S. voters will respond in next November’s presidential election.

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Last summer, the AIDS Healthcare Foundation presented the greater Fort Lauderdale community with a bold initiative to address the low-income housing crisis in the city.

Partnering with a coalition of nonprofit organizations, including the United Way, AHF announced plans to break ground on a housing complex for low-income residents in Fort Lauderdale. SFGN saluted the effort then, and stands by it today.

The LGBT community is a part of our city, not apart from it. There are gay and lesbian men and women in our midst who struggle to pay their rent and meet their needs. We are not all affluent. Our sunny shores radiate opportunity, but not everyone prospers and tans. Some of us get burnt.

Nearly a year has past, and AHF should have been able to launch their project. But the city staff is blocking them, neighbors are blacklisting them, and city officials, including the mayor, are retreating inexcusably and unconscionably. We won’t have it.

These are the toxic effects of the perverted “Not-In-My-Backyard-You-Won’t Syndrome,”— we love you, we love you, we love you — as long as you don’t move in next door.

The truth is that this project is not even “next door.” The housing complex proposal is for a parcel of land near many other small apartments and office buildings, not far from the county courthouse, accessible to public transportation.

Last week, the city attorney rendered an opinion that the new development should be classified as a ‘social services residential facility.’ This makes the complex a ‘non permitted use.’ I take exception to that finding. In my judgment, it is flawed. While there is a lot of legalese involved, we think it is subject to a broader interpretation, permissible under local zoning codes.

In other words, the city attorney is playing with words to tie a noose around AHF’s neck. But what is being hung instead is Justice.

One day, a vote will be cast in the public record. One day, our elected commissioners will have to put their money with their mouth is. They can’t speak out for hope and opportunity in one breath while denying it with the other.

Over 789,000 Floridians spend more than half of their income on rent each month. There is little left over for health care and insurance needs. Low-income housing frees up money for financially challenged families to use on basic necessities.

AHF is a leader in health care for our community. They understand good health starts with people having a good home, and a place to hang your hat; to be sheltered from the storm. Common sense dictates we move the project forward, not slow it down.

A caring community should embrace the opportunity to create a place where less wealthy residents find and secure clean and safe housing. A concerned city commission would endorse the AHF proposal, not run from it.

Over a history of decades, Fort Lauderdale officials disgraced themselves by subordinating the needs of its disenfranchised populations. We once even had a mayor who encouraged citizens to pour bleach in their garbage cans to discourage desperate people from poaching for food. In 2019, can we please move to a higher moral plateau?

Across America, from NY to LA, we are witnessing a growing tide of homelessness in urban communities. Tent cities are being set up. We do not have to let this happen here. We can lead the way by providing modest accommodations for those who can afford low-income housing.

The employable residents of this proposed complex would have easy access to mass transit and those scooters popping up on every corner of downtown. There will be downtown jobs in the hospitality industry and on the beach within their reach.

The Fort Lauderdale project is specifically targeted to families, along with assisting low-income and chronically ill individuals, focusing on sustainable rental-toownership models. It is designed to be a home, not a hospital.

This project will not hurt Rio Vista, but it will help those who can’t afford to live there. We can’t let the false concerns of the rich deny the legitimate concerns of those not so blessed with such good fortune.

AHF has been working to address the housing needs of the chronically ill for 30 years. They were once in the forefront of advocating ADAP housing in Miami. This is not their first rodeo. They have fought this fight before.

They should be applauded, not accosted.

An affordable roof over your head creates and fosters self-esteem. No matter how small, it gives you something you can call your own. We are all but a step away from walking in soles that are torn. But let our souls be full, caring for those who need help.

What is right is not always popular, and what is popular is not always right. The city commissioners and our mayor, particularly, should embrace this project. They cannot afford to do less.

You can’t help but notice that the city of Fort Lauderdale is redoing its Andrews Avenue Bridge. Build one low-income families can cross as well.

We bill ourselves as the Venice of America. Let’s make sure everyone has a gondola to row and paddle just above the tides, not to sink under them.

Let’s make sure Mayors who drive Mercedes-Benz Maybachs do not forget the citizens who can’t afford scooters. They are his constituency as well.

Don’t just give them your voice through lip service. Give them your vote.

Editorial published in South Florida Gay News, September 25th, 2019.

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4. HHS SEEKS TO DENY HEALTH CARE: The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services announced in May that it would “substantially revise” language in the Affordable Care Act to eliminate protections against discrimination based on gender identity in health care. The announcement came just three days after HHS published a final rule that enabled health care providers to refuse to provide certain services by claiming they had religious or moral beliefs that compelled them to refuse. Such “Denial of Care” rules have been primarily aimed against women who seek an abortion or emergency contraception, terminally ill patients wanting to accelerate a painful dying process, and LGBT people generally. But by year’s end, three different federal district judges ruled that the finalized regulations were unconstitutional.

5. RELIGIOUS STORM CLOUDS GATHER: The long-standing legal battle continues to escalate. Laws which prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation are being continuously challenged by churches and business owners who claim the First Amendment to the constitution gives them a religious liberty to violate those nondiscrimination laws. The U.S. Supreme Court dispensed with two such cases in 2019 (refusing to hear Aloha v. Cervelli and sending back Klein v. Oregon), but more have arrived. The latest is Fulton v. Philadelphia, which asks the high court to overturn a Third Circuit opinion that a local government can refuse funding to a Catholic run foster care agency because the agency refuses to abide by a city ordinance that prohibits sexual orientation discrimination.

6. HATE CRIME NUMBERS HAUNT At least 22 transgender people of color were murdered in 2019, a statistic that has haunted the LGBT community and drawn Rep. Katie Hill. Photo via Katie Hill, Facebook.

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the notice of many Democratic presidential candidates. It’s not that the number itself was so different than in previous years (which averaged 22 per year), noted the Human Rights Campaign in its now annual report on violence against transgender people. It’s that they are now seen to reflect “intersections of racism, sexism and transphobia” in the United States that is “sometimes ruthlessly endorsed and enforced by those at the highest level of our government,” said Alphonso David, HRC’s new president. The Hate Crimes Statistics report filed annually by the Federal Bureau of Investigation showed a 34 percent increase in the number of victims of anti-transgender crimes in 2018, compared to 2017. During that same time period, there was a nine percent increase in crimes against gay, lesbian, and bisexual victims, but a decrease in hate crimes victims overall. The significance of these numbers is dependent in part on how well law enforcement agencies identify and report specific hate crimes. But there’s no denying that, if there is any inaccuracy in the reporting, the true incidence of hate crimes against LGBT people is likely higher and increasing every year.

7. SENATE CONFIRMS GAY MAN TO NINTH CIRCUIT: The U.S. Senate in December voted to confirm Patrick Bumatay, an openly gay prosecutor from San Diego, to a seat on the nation’s largest federal appeals court.

National LGBT legal groups said nothing, but Log Cabin Republicans hailed the appointment, noting that it makes Bumatay the “highest ranking LGBT jurist in the nation.” The only other openly gay person on a federal appeals court is Todd Hughes, who was confirmed to the Federal Circuit in 2013.

Meanwhile, the confirmation of Bumatay in December and a lesbian, Mary Rowland, to a U.S. District Court seat in Illinois, were overshadowed by confirmations of federal appeals court nominees vehemently

opposed by LGBT groups, including Steven Menashi to the Second Circuit and Lawrence VanDyke to the Ninth.

people (See “Denial of Care” above), the Department of Justice took sides against LGBT people in important cases before the U.S. Supreme Court regarding the reach of employment protections under the Civil Rights Act’s Title VII. The Department of Labor this year proposed a rule change to “clarify” that religious organizations could require employees to “share” their religious beliefs, a move that LGBT legal activists say gives a green light to discrimination against LGBT people. The list goes on and includes the Departments of Education, Homeland Security, and State. It is a concerted effort to eliminate and/or diminish protections for LGBT people and it will almost certainly continue in 2020—and beyond, should Trump be elected to a second term.

8. TWO LGBT PRESIDENTIAL FORUMS:

10. KATIE HILL FORCED OUT:

Openly gay Jurist Patrick Bumatay.

Photo via the Dept. of Justice.

While LGBT issues were not an especially Openly bisexual U.S. Rep. Katie Hill was prominent topic during the nationally a rising super star among the first-term televised Democratic debates in 2019, there Democrats entering the newly minted were two national presidential forums Democratic majority in the U.S. House in devoted to LGBT issues January. She was one of only this year. Both involved 14 Democratic members Openly bisexual Democratic candidates only, of the House to be voted U.S. Rep. Katie Hill and one was nationally by colleagues to the House was a televised on CNN during Democratic leadership team, prime time hours. The first and she was designated vice forum was livestreamed from chair of the House Oversight Cedar Rapids, Iowa, and most committee which was helping of the major Democratic with the impeachment among the firstcandidates showed up. The investigation against President term Democrats CNN town hall in October was Trump. But by October, a entering the the first national television right-wing website targeted newly minted broadcast by a major media her with claims that she had Democratic outlet of LGBT-specific sexual relationships with discussion with presidential a former campaign staffer majority in the candidates. The latter was and a current Congressional U.S. House in an opportunity for voters staffer. The website illustrated January. to hear how the candidates its report with photos of Hill mostly agreed on a variety of nude in private settings. And LGBT issues and support equal rights and the House Committee on Ethics initiated protection for LGBT people. It was also a an investigation into whether Hill had a chance for straight voters to see and hear prohibited relationship with a Congressional from a wide diversity of LGBT audience staffer. Hill denied the charge but resigned members, asking their questions, expressing her seat within days, saying she believes the their concerns, and telling their stories. attack had been helped by her estranged and “abusive” husband and “because of the 9. TRUMP V. LGBT COMMUNITY: thousands of vile, threatening emails, texts, and calls that make me fear for my life and The Trump administration has continued the lives of the people I care about.” In an apace in its efforts to undermine rights op-ed essay for the New York Times Hill and protections for LGBT people through made clear that House Speaker Nancy Pelosi the federal government. In 2019 alone, did not force her to resign but rather “told the Department of Defense was able to put me I didn’t have to” resign. Hill said that, the trans ban into effect while it is being ultimately, she felt she needed to resign “for challenged in court, and the Department of me, my family, my staff, my colleagues, my Housing and Urban Development proposed community.” But in her farewell speech on rules to allow homeless shelters receiving the floor of the House, Hill vowed, “We will federal funds to turn away transgender not stand down. We will not be broken, We people. In addition to HHS’s rules to allow will not be silenced. We will rise, and we will health care providers to deny care to LGBT make tomorrow better than today.”

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ABOUT FACE Hallmark Reverses Course on Same Sex Ad

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nger and protests from LGBTQ groups, along with public calls to boycott the network, has led the owner of the Hallmark channel to apologize for removing an ad featuring two brides kissing.

In a statement, Hallmark Cards CEO Mike Perry said the company has been “agonizing” over the decision to pull the ad as they’ve “seen the hurt it has unintentionally caused” and apologized.

Instead, Hallmark has now announced that it would reinstate the commercials from wedding-planning startup Zola.

Forbes magazine and the gay press picked up the story, and Mike Chi, Zola’s chief marketing office, told the national business magazine that “We were deeply troubled when Hallmark rejected our commercials for featuring a lesbian couple celebrating their marriage, and are relieved to see that

decision was reversed.”

The controversy erupted because the conservative group, One Million Moms had protested the original ad of two brides kissing. The result was a hashtag #Boycott Hallmark campaign, coupled with Democratic presidential candidate Pete Buttigieg and other gay leaders denouncing their decision.

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Dems Debate in Jeopardy Labor dispute could cancel LA event

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he sixth Democratic party primary debate is in doubt due to a labor dispute with the local food service union in Los Angeles.

Scheduled for Thursday, Dec. 19, the debate could likely be canceled if the union, Unite Here Local 11, deploys a picket line.

In a statement, the union said negotiations will resume this week over levels of support for Sodexo workers on the campus of Loyola Marymount University. Unite Here 11, an international labor union, is representing the food service workers at Sodexo, a Maryland food, energy and design firm.

“We want to thank the nine candiates for the Democratic presidential nomination who have expressed their support for Sodexo workers at Loyola Marymount University fighting for a fair contract with better wages and affordable healthcare,” said Susan Minato, Unite Here 11 co-president in statement released Dec. 15.

Unite Here 11 claims to represent 30,000 hotel, restaurant, convention center, sports arena and airport workers in southern California and Arizona.

All of the eligible candidates said they would not cross the union’s picket line and threatened to pull out.

Other candidates, such as Representative Tulsi Gabbard (D-HI) and former New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg, have already bypassed the debate in its entirety. With less than 70 days until the first votes are cast in Iowa, the race for the Democratic party’s nomination remains as competitive as ever.

“We’re at a make-or-break moment, and there’s a growing movement of Americans who see it. They’ve joined our fight to turn the page and win a fresh start,” wrote Pete Buttigieg, in a fundraising letter to friends this week.

The mayor of South Bend, Indiana, one of the early front-runners in Iowa, is running a historic campaign as an openly gay married man. In his pitch to supporters, Buttigieg notes his campaign has opened more than 20 field offices and hired more than 100 organizers in Iowa, where caucus polling places him behind only Warren in support.

Meanwhile, President Donald Trump, with an impeachment trial hanging over his head, confirmed he will participate in three general election debates. The president does have primary opposition for the Republican party

Banners announcing the debate. Photo via Loyola Marymount University, Facebook.

nomination in 2020. Former Massachusetts governor Bill Weld is campaigning in New Hampshire and jabbed at Trump last week in a tweet, “Poor @realDonaldTrump -- can’t drain the swamp, can’t flush the toilet!”

The tweet was a response to Trump’s complaining of American bathroom standards.

LGBT Notes: Fort Lauderdale resident Elijah Manley has filed campaign paperwork to seek the state representative seat in Florida’s house district 94. Manley, 20, a queer activist of color, is challenging incumbent Democratic representative Bobby DuBose.

Manley most recently ran for Broward school board. He switched from the Green party to the Democratic party and has been a staunch supporter of Sen. Sanders. In tweets over the weekend, Manley proposed a ban on banks charging overdraft fees and demanded a U.S. healthcare system which offers Medicare to all.

“I’m so damn sick of hearing people die because they can’t afford healthcare in the richest country in history. We need Medicare for all.

That’s the answer,” Manley tweeted Dec. 15.

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Where are you from, and where do you consider home?

I was born in Brooklyn in 1952, and grew up on Long Island. In the 1970s I moved to Cambridge, Massachusetts to come out and also to get involved in the women’s movement. I met my wife Barbara in 1986, then moved back to New York in 1989. In 2011, I retired and moved to Fort Lauderdale where I now consider home.

When did you first begin giving, and what inspired you to do so? What was the first organization you gave to?

When my sister, Judy, was in high school she would sell her baked goods for fundraisers. I tried to promote her causes in my elementary school. She is still a fundraiser and community activist in Ithaca, NY. She was, and still is, my role model. In 1971, I started giving to the newly formed Cambridge Women’s Center that evolved after the Women’s Takeover Of 888 Memorial Drive (see the documentary “Left On Pearl”).

I was inspired by The Women’s Center’s community outreach initiatives that helped all women advance themselves through support groups, women friendly service providers (health care, emotional and professional support), safe social spaces for lesbians and all women.

Which causes and organizations do you support with your time and resources?

Currently I have served as co-chair for Equality Florida’s Broward Gala for the past three years, and served on the Host Committee for four years. I helped drive the initiative to create Point Foundation/Equality Florida college scholarship for South Florida students. Legacy Giving — organizations that make sure our community lives on beyond my lifetime: Our Fund Foundation, Equality Florida, Lambda Legal, and Planned Parenthood. I also donate to the Southern Poverty Law Center. I support other local projects and attend as many local events, including but not limited to: Thou Art Women,

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Great Escape Local trans activist shares her story after thru-hiking the Appalachian Trail Brendon Lies

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he road of life has many detours – not all of which are paved. For one local, Katelyn Rigby, the Appalachian National Scenic Trail became one of those detours.

Rigby started her outdoor thru-hike – defined as hiking the entire length of the trail in less than 12 months – on March 18.

Her journey began in the Southern Terminus of the trail on Springer Mountain in Georgia at an elevation of 3,782 feet.

She then headed north on a journey that would end up being 2,192 miles long. It took until Sept. 27 before she reached the Northern Terminus atop Mount Katahdin, the highest mountain in the state of Maine at 5,267 feet.

Rigby at the Mt. Washington Summit.

Photo courtesy of Katelyn Rigby.

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“I got to experience the tail end of winter all through spring,” Rigby said, recalling the seasons throughout the length of her long journey. “There I got to experience the full gamut of seasons.”

The Appalachian Trail is no cakewalk, but everyone has their own reason to get out there and try. For Rigby, she was partially motivated by a change of scenery.

“I love Florida, but I miss the mountains,” she said. “And they were calling.”

Rigby herself is no stranger to the North.

She grew up in Delaware, but now lives in Fort Lauderdale, where she has worked with the HRC at Pride and other local events.

Yet even out on the trail, Rigby said she met others from the LGBT community – including other trans people.

“I wouldn’t say a large, but there was a noticeable LGBT presence on the trail,” she said, elaborating on the diversity. “Most of the trail culture is open, accepting of people in general. Regardless where you come from or who you are, it’s more about the trail than who you are – and what the trail makes you when you’re out there.”

Still, her presence made a notable impact for some.

“I met a lot of people on the trail who told me that I was the first trans person they had

Sitting upon a throne of rock.

Photo courtesy of Katelyn Rigby.

ever met,” she said. “They told me that it was “It was something that was very difficult, a good experience, which makes me happy.” not only physically but mentally,” Rigby Committing to the trail, whether or not said. “The trail teaches you a lot about it’s a thru-hike, involves a great deal of yourself, what you can endure physically preparation. Rigby said she had to be able and emotionally.” to carry everything she would need during Rigby shared that it’s incredibly important that time on her back. For her, that included to have a good support structure to food, water, her camping gear, cook stove, encourage you and maybe even send care and other various essential items. packages to you throughout your journey.

In fact, Rigby said she went through three “That person is my partner,” Rigby shared, different pairs of shoes by the time she bringing up her partner who spent those had reached the Northern Terminus, and months waiting for her back in Florida. “probably should have gotten a “I could feel her love even fourth pair.” thousands of miles away.” “...it’s more “You really learn what’s For as much as Rigby essential and what’s not enjoyed the trail, she said she’s about the when you’re out there,” Rigby grateful to be back in South trail than who Florida and focus on her next said. “When you’re carrying everything, everything counts.” of helping people vote in you are – and goal In fact, it was her clever the upcoming election cycle camping setup that earned her what the trail – especially those who may the nickname Jingles while have just regained their voting makes you out on the trail – a common rights. practice among thru-hikers.

When asked whether she when you’re “My trail name was Jingles would thru-hike a trail again, out there.” because I had my tent stakes Rigby said she couldn’t be sure hung off my pack and they what the future held.

- Katelyn Rigby made a little noise,” Rigby said, “I probably wouldn’t thruexplaining that she did so in hike the Appalachian Trail order to scare away bears that might wander again,” she elaborated. “One, I’ve already near the trail whenever she was hiking done it, and two, there are so many other alone. “I like bears, they’re fun… but I don’t beautiful trails.” want to see them.”

However, Rigby insisted that a thru-hike is Of course, the preparations don’t end something that anyone should consider. there. A great deal of the preparation was “I recommend anyone try it,” she said. “It psychological, despite the joy that the trail is definitely a fantastic experience, and it itself brings. will teach you a lot about yourself.”

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GMCSF Sparks Up Hard Rock More than Santa Claus Comes to Town

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ith pop artist Jordin Sparks lighting the fire, the Gay Men’s Chorus of South Florida held its fourth consecutive Christmas concert at the Hard Rock Live in Hollywood, its first in the dynamic, newly opened hotel Sunday evening.

Celebrating its 10th anniversary, the popular chorus now features over 100 participants, and they were enthusiastically received by an appreciative audience.

The spacious new venue is an acoustical marvel, easily accessible and aesthetically pleasing.

Designed by Scéno Plus, the Hard Rock’s new auditorium is a 225,000 square-foot facility, equipped with state-ofthe-art in-house sound and lighting, multiple 30’x17’ HD viewing screens and mobilestage technology.

“We are beyond thrilled to have had the chance to do our ‘Holidays’ show at the new Hard Rock Live,” remarked Mark Kent, the Executive Director of the GMCSF. Artistic director Harold Dioquino assembled and performed some of the chorus’s most festive pieces of the past decade, including a well received “Jingle Bell Rock.”

It was a joyous concert, with lots of laughter and levity, but touches of love and loss.

From sing-alongs and tap dancers bobbing

up and down on the stage, the Yuletide spirit was gaily celebrated. Every emotion had a “shot,” even showcasing a touch of “Hamilton” rap and Broadway salutes.

“That’s ingenious,” said the very loud person sitting next to me. But it truly was.

From carols to jingle bells, the chorus stirred special moments and precious memories, pausing to acknowledge in song and speech the scourge of early stage Alzheimer’s and other diseases impacting our LGBT community. This year the chorus paid homage to Ed Patterson, who has championed the cause of Alzheimer’s, living with his diagnosis. He was honored with the chorus’s 2019 community service award, accepting with his husband David by his side.

The mood turned even more sober and somber when the audience participated in one of the evening’s final numbers, holding up candles during a rendition of Silent Night.

Sparks, who is known for winning American Idol season six, returned to the stage to deliver a riveting performance of

It was a joyous concert, with lots of laughter and levity, but touches of love and loss.

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Photo via the Gay Men’s Chorus of South Florida, Facebook.

“Oh, Holy Night,” partnering with the cast of the full chorus. It received a standing ovation.

“We are dedicated and devoted to social change and making an impact,” says Michael Valdez, the president of GMCSF. “We are committed to living our mission. Open minds change hearts.”

The chorus has grown exponentially, in ten years becoming the largest gay men’s chorus in the Southeast. Nearly 2,000 people attended Sunday’s concert.

Its executive director is Mark Kent, and it

was a busy weekend for him and the chorus.

The night before they had performed a sold out and memorable show for over 600 people at the Sunshine Cathedral.

They have a busy schedule ahead of them next year as well, with shows planned during the Fanfest at next month’s Super Bowl in Miami, a concert during the Pride of Americas’ celebration this spring on the Fort Lauderdale beach, and a “Homecoming” anniversary presentation scheduled at Fort Lauderdale’s Amaturo Theater in June.

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THE THIRD THIRD Fred Fejes

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hen I moved to South Florida over 30 years ago, I encountered a delightful column in The Miami Herald called “The Third Third.”

Written by Claire Mitchel, a sixty-something Jewish grandmother, it chronicled the daily joys, challenges, and insights of a woman who lived through economic depression, war, the horror of family members lost in the holocaust, a growing family, prosperity.

She was now entering the “third third” of her life.

Now years later, like Claire Mitchel, I am now in the third third of my life. I’ll be turning 69 in a few months. This is a milestone.

The first third of your life is devoted to growing up, going to school, learning about life and relations, and overall figuring out who the hell you are; the second third to pursuing your ambitions, putting down roots; and perhaps reevaluating the decisions made about relationships and goals when you on more serious hue. First we became the special targets of the newly emerging religious right. We saw how homophobic were younger and knew everything.

Coming into the third third, you’re coming into the home America could be.

And then there was AIDS. stretch. You are the person you created, you have the life you I remember in the 70s how friends in the bar joked: “Live made. The future is no longer a land of limitless possibilities.

For people like me, gay, straight, or whatever, “It Doesn’t Get fast, die young, and leave a beautiful corpse.” In the 1980s the line became very painfully ironic as many of the beautiful Better.” faces quietly disappeared from the scene.

But this is what Claire taught me: don’t Still in that decade, many of us learned about despair. Rather than look to the future, you Today as many of caring, compassion and courage. For many of now have the precious opportunity to really us during those plague years Gloria Gaynor’s gratefully appreciate the present. You have us in the Stonewall disco hit “I Will Survive” became a personal time now to look around and see the world in anthem that we sang and danced to with a all its craziness and beauty.

Generation have special fervor.

Your most valuable asset is your entered our “third And we did survive, individually and as experience: the people you knew, the people community.

Indeed, the obituaries written for you loved, the things you’ve done, the events third” and we are our community in the mid 1980s by right wing you witnessed – all now tinged with a bit of politicos and religious bigots only seemed to nostalgia but also a deeper meaning and living in a world far fuel our energy and determination. appreciation. more different than AIDS and the attacks on our community gave For me, one thing I am really grateful is how us the desperate anger to tear down the closet much my life, and the lives of people close anything we could and “Come Out” with a vengeance. And by the around me have been shaped by our being 1990s, it seemed we were winning; we sensed members of the Stonewall generation, that have imagined in our that history was on our side. Not only would we cohort of people who came into their own in youth. survive, but we would flourish. the 1960s and 1970s.

Today as many of us in the Stonewall Our formative years were defined by the explosive political and sexual revolution of Stonewall and Generation have entered our “third third” and we are living the era of Gay Liberation. It was a unique time of discovery, in a world far more different than anything we could have imagined in our youth. pleasure and hope.

A hometown friend of mine, who became part of the To quote Wordsworth: “Bliss was it in that dawn to be 1970s scene in San Francisco, recently visited me. As we were alive, But to be young was very heaven.”

Such euphoria was relatively short and our lives soon took walking through Wilton Manors, noting the openly gay and

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relaxed, home-like character of the place, he said to me: “This is the vision of the promised land we had back in the Castro.”

Yes I know it is not perfect, just as our lives are not perfect. After 60 we especially become mindful of the losses, the regrets, the disappointments, the unfulfilled hopes, ambitions and loves. We realize that our body, once our glory, is now more of a relic.

But hopefully we can still contribute to bettering our lives and the lives of those around us. Hopefully we have reached a state of equanimity to realize that to avoid sorrow is not to have lived life.

We of the Stonewall Generation are blessed. To use Oliver Wendell Holmes words for an earlier generation, “Through our great good fortune, in our youths our hearts were touched with fire. It was given to us to learn at the outset that life is a profound and passionate thing.”

Claire Mitchell died at the age of 89. Writing her column till the end she completed over 1,000 weekly items.

In spite of our differences – she a proverbial Jewish grandmother, me a goy gay man – I now sense in her weekly the musings a fellow pilgrim soul.

We both lived in interesting and turbulent times. The world was changing in ways unimaginable. We were part of that change. More importantly, we both viewed ourselves and others with compassion and good doses of humorous irony.

But most importantly we both realized how lucky we were.

Not just because of the things we experienced, the people we knew, the people we loved. No, we are lucky because we also have front row seats to the greatest and most interesting show on earth – our own lives.

Enjoy it!

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LISTINGS All Souls Episcopal Church 4025 Pine Tree Drive. Miami Beach Sundays at 8am and 10:30am.

305-520-5410 | allsoulsmb.org Congregation Etz Chaim 2038 N. Dixie Hwy (Pride Center Building B), Wilton Manors 954-564-9232 - etzchaimflorida.org RabbiNoahKitty@etzchaimflorida.org Friday Night Shabbat Service 8p.m.

Holy Angels Catholic Community 2917 NE 6th Avenue Wilton Manors 954-633-2987 - HolyAngelsFL.net Sunday Mass at 11AM Christ Lutheran Church 1955 E. Oakland Park Blvd., Ft. Lauderdale (954) 564-7673 - christlutheranfl.org pastordeborah@christlutheranfl.org Worship: Sunday 10:00am

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DARSHAN CENTER FOR SPIRITUAL EVOLUTION 1410 NE 26th Street Wilton Manors, Fl 33305 917-579-3750 www. darshancenterwiltonmanors.org RevDrGTelesco@gmail.com Interfaith Spiritual Services on Sundays 6:30PM Spiritual Study Group Thursdays 7PM

Church of our Savior, MCC Church of Our Savior, MCC 2011 S. Federal Hwy. Boynton Beach. churchofoursaviormcc.org | 561-733-4000 Sunday Service 10AM Fountain of Love Ministries 5481 FL-7, Tamarac, FL 33319 954-486-5959 fountainofloveonline.org Pastor Dallas Walker-Green Worship: Sunday Mornings at 11:00 am St. Nicholas Episcopal Church 1111 E. Sample Road, Pompano Beach 954-942-5887 - stnicholasfl.org office@stnicholasfl.org Sundays 8:00AM & 10:30AM (9:30AM only from Memorial Day through Labor Day) First Congregational United Church of Christ 1415 North K Street, Lake Worth 561-582-6691 - fcclw.org office@lakeworthchurch.org Service Time: Sunday 10:30AM United Church of Christ Fort Lauderdale 2501 NE 30th Street, Fort Lauderdale (954)563-4271 - uccftl.org revpatrickrogers@gmail.com Service Times: Thursdays 10:30AM (Elliot Hall) & Sundays 10:30AM (Sanctuary)

FAITH & PRIDE spirituality

Holiday Reflections

The Rev. Deborah L. Geweke, Pastor Christ Lutheran Church

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t Christ Lutheran Church we are not just a congregation, we are family, a family that is borne of the Holy Family—Mary, Joseph and our Lord Jesus. Every Christmas we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ. For Jesus, while born the babe of Bethlehem, is with us always as our Lord and Savior. While we celebrate the birth of Jesus, we continue to abide in his presence within each of us and, indeed, within all of us. Come and join the Christ of Christmas.

Rev. Rick Rhen-Sosbe, Pastor Church of Our Savior MCC

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hen I was a little boy I loved all the lights at Christmas. Now as an adult, my Christmas celebrations have changed but one of my favorite aspects of the season is still the lights! We celebrate Jesus, the light of the world. There is a lot of darkness in the world today. May we let our light shine for goodness, hope, peace, joy and love and dispel some of the darkness.

Fr. Jamie Forsythe Holy Angels National Church

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nd there were a multitude of angels proclaiming peace on earth and goodwill towards all.” May that proclamation of the angels fill your hearts with the gifts of peace, joy and love this holiday season. From Holy Angels National Church, we send you wishes for a Merry and Blessed Christmas!

Rabbi Noah Kitty Congregation Etz Chaim

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he flickering lights of the Hanukkah candles remind us that miracles can happen when we act in faith. The single cruze of oil that was found when the Maccabees recaptured the Temple in Jerusalem was only expected to last one day of an eight-day holiday. The miracle was not only in the oil itself, but in the faith of those who lit it even as they were told it couldn’t last. As long as we remember we can be a light for others we need not feel condemned to walk through life as though we are stumbling around in the darkness. The light is there for those who will strike the match.

Languish in Love this Christmas!

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The Reverend Timothy P. Carr “Father Tim” All Souls’ Episcopal Church in Miami Beach

n the first day of Christmas my true love gave to me….a partridge. Huh? You know what. Keep it. This Christmas I ask you to please take a moment to languish in the greatest gift that you have ever been given. Love. Take a moment to feel; to remember and to cherish. That is what Christmas is all about. Your greatest love. Your greatest gift.

Merry Christmas!

The Rev. Johan Johnson, Ph.D. Interim Rector, St. Mark’s Church and School I believe in God, but not as one thing, not an old man in the sky. I believe that what people call God is something in all of us. I believe that what Jesus, Mohammed and Buddha and all the rest said was right. It’s just that the translations have gone wrong.

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hether one believes in Jesus, Mohammad, Buddha, or perhaps not really sure about any particular religious tradition — the important thing is to recognize a greater force in our lives and act accordingly.

On behalf of St. Mark’s Episcopal Church and School it is my fervent wish that we all work toward getting “the translation right.”

Christmas Blessings & a Healthy New Year.

The Rev. Mark Andrew Jones, BSG Rector, St. Nicholas Episcopal Church

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ur culture loads into Christmas false expectations as retailers try to define for us the “perfect Christmas.” Think back, however, to the first Christmas; it was anything but perfect. Mary’s pregnancy was cause for shame and Joseph violated social convention by not divorcing Mary. Joseph trusted in the message that God was doing wonderful, life-giving things. In Christmas we celebrate not only that God is with us in the less than perfect moments of life but also that God uses those moments to do something remarkably new and refreshing. Come, Oh Emmanuel (GodWith-Us), bring newness to our lives. Merry Christmas!

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he season of Christmas is a time to remind us to be more Christ like. May we choose to allow the light within each one of us to shine. We live in a torn and hurting world and the invitation of this holiday is for us to choose “love” as our lifestyle all year long.

Last year, Rabbi Marc Labowitz and the congregation from his Temple brought the food to our church so we could feed those who were hungry and in need together.

Before the meal we shared a joint worship service where we praised, sang, and prayed together and shared our love and passion for God. I have no doubt that the unity of our community pleases Jesus. We don’t judge, we love.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah and Seasons Greetings!

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Easter Service Schedule April 20, 2019 – Great Vigil of Easter @ 7pm

– Festival of the Resurrection @ 10am April 21, 2019

The Rev. Deborah Geweke, D. Min., Pastor J.W. Arnold, Director of Music and SFGN Arts/Entertainment Editor

Christ is Risen, Indeed!

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LGBT Friendly Housing Complex Breaks Ground

Construction underway and moving fast

By Denise Royal

The Residences at Equality Park is the 55 and older with a disabling condition first of its kind in Florida — an affordable who need on-site supportive services in housing project with supportive services order to maintain their housing. Fortythree units will be available to residents for LGBT seniors.

The 48-unit development is slated earning 60% or less of Broward County’s for completion in 2020. The project Area Median Income (AMI) – which would has broken ground and construction is equate to a maximum annual income of about $35,400 per year for underway. a one-person household, Carrfour Supportive "Our work and about $40,400 per Housing, Florida’s largest year for a two-person nonprofit affordable will decrease household. housing developer is isolation, The remaining five units teaming up with The Pride promote aging will be available to those Center at Equality Park for in place and earning 33% or less of the the new development. The increase the AMI – which would equate Residences at Equality Park to a maximum annual are located at 2040 North overall quality Dixie Highway adjacent to of life for LGBTQ+ income of about $17,700 per year for a one-person the Pride Center. older adults in household, and about The Residences at South Florida." $20,200 per year for a twoEquality Park will provide person household. permanent affordable - Robert Boo Monthly rents will be housing and on-site CEO of The Pride Center based on income, ranging supportive services for from approximately $350 low-income senior adults living with disabling conditions – such to $1,029. Construction is expected to be as physical illnesses or disabilities due to complete in 2020.

“There’s not a week that goes by when complications from diseases including HIV/AIDS – with a special focus on I don’t receive multiple phone calls from community members wanting to know members of the LGBT community.

The units range in size from studios to when they can get on a wait list,” said two-bedroom apartments – 34 of which Robert Boo, CEO of The Pride Center, will be set aside as permanent supportive in a press release. “The Pride Center housing for low-income seniors ages started this journey seven years ago. The

Progress at the construction site in front of The Pride Center. Photo via The Pride Center, Facebook.

Residences at Equality Park is the culmination of a multi-year process of community assessment and strategic planning in which we’re responding to direct, communityrequested, prioritized need. We have the opportunity to help meet this great need. Our work will decrease isolation, promote aging in place and increase the overall quality of life for LGBTQ+ older adults in South Florida. We have many reasons to celebrate.”

Nearly half of LGBT seniors in the U.S. live with a disabling condition, according to the Institute for Multigenerational Health. This is the reality The Pride Center faces every Tuesday morning when 200 seniors gather in their main hall for coffee and conversation.

According to both SAGE USA and The Equal Rights Center, older LGBT adults in particular face a variety of unique challenges in securing

housing with higher rates of discrimination and bias and sometimes even hostile treatment from landlords as well as fellow tenants.

Last year, more than 35,000 adult and youth attended activities at The Pride Center.

The Center hosts more than 65 groups that meet regularly each month. Support, social and educational groups, programs and events focus on HIV, seniors, people with transgender experience, communities of color, recovery, women, young adults, men, health, the arts, athletics, spirituality, games and more. Outreach activities over the past year directly impacted over 250,000 residents and visitors to South Florida. Between one and two thousand people utilize the Equality Park campus daily. WMG

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WMG So this is Christmas…

December 18, 2019 • Volume 6 • Issue 23 2520 N. Dixie Highway • Wilton Manors, FL 33305

By Sal Torre

Phone: 954-530-4970 Fax: 954-530-7943

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Now don’t you go and get distracted for just one second, cause you might just miss Christmas as the year races by at a faster and faster pace. I haven’t even gotten rid of Halloween candy and Thanksgiving decorations yet and Christmas is just a week away.

Holiday festivities are all around us here in the Island City. Breakfast with Santa, neighborhood holiday parties, concerts and so much more are keeping us all very busy the past few weeks. Hopefully one day in the near future we will see more holiday lights up and down Wilton Drive, transforming our main corridor into a holiday spectacular. Perhaps the Wilton Drive Improvement District and the Wilton Manors Business Association can come up with a strategy to make this dream of many residents more of a reality next holiday season.

So, what have we done here in our Island City, another year over with a new one soon to begin? This past year has seen a lot of action throughout our Island City. Much still a work in progress. Hopefully we will begin to see some of the projects finalized and in place before we reach this time next year. Major zoning and Land Use changes for the Andrews Avenue/Oakland Park Blvd corridor, wayfinding signs throughout the city, streetscaping along Wilton Drive, public art installations, Colohatchee Park improvements, Westside drainage projects, and changes in our city’s code will all continue to make our city a better and better place for all of us.

Here on the Westside of town, many are grateful for the city’s continued support for our community.

The multi-million-dollar redevelopment of Mickel Park a few years back transformed a long unused park facility into a sparkling gem treasured not just by Westside residents but by our entire city!

Over the last two to three years we have seen an equal commitment by our city to bring about necessary zoning changes along the vital corridor of Andrews Avenue and Oakland Park Blvd. Such changes do not happen overnight and might take a bit

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Sales & Marketing longer than most of us would like, however it is still a work in progress that one day soon will start to yield much needed improvements along this vital corridor. The city has also continued with approving the use of certain grant funding sources for much needed drainage projects throughout the Westside to the satisfaction of many residents living within and around such problem areas.

Not everything is peachy keen. There are many problems that need to be dealt with. Certain properties consistently offer challenges for the surrounding community with issues such as property upkeep, cleanliness and usage. However, this is not unique to just the Westside of town. Empty storefronts plague Wilton Drive and other areas of our city. Trash bins left overflowing after busy weekend nights in front of popular nightspots.

The boarded-up deteriorating church property on the Eastside of town along NE 26th Street as well underutilized shopping plazas in the area are daily nuisances to all driving by each day.

Our city is only two square miles and we are all in this together. This does not mean we should just accept these problems, turning a blind eye as we drive past them every day. No, we must be vigilant and demand action, but we must do it together as concerned residents of our Island City.

Pointing fingers, creating hatred and stoking fear seems to be the norm in the

Our city is only two square miles and we are all in this together.

world we live in today. Keeping such behavior from penetrating the borders of our island city might be just the greatest gift we can give ourselves this holiday season.

There is nothing wrong in demanding attention or answers to your questions, but please do it respectfully of others around you, of hardworking city staff, and without pointing accusatory fingers at others.

We can continue to create the most spectacular Island City together as a community that works together, not always in agreement but always respectful and understanding of one another and the process we call democracy.

So, don’t hesitate to complain and report problems in our community such as code violations, suspected criminal activity, illegal door to door solicitors, and illegal rental properties. Join your neighborhood association, attend city meetings, contact your elected officials, call city management, and especially talk with your neighbors.

At a time in world history that we are faced with global challenges such as climate change, concentration of wealth in the hands of just a few, global expansion of powerful corporations, and costly healthcare issues, we find ourselves living in a more fractured world of Brexit, trade wars, powerful oligarchs, and the demise of global cooperation, full of hate driven rhetoric and false news.

We have our work cut out for us — but in the end, only by working together respectfully can we continue to make life just better here…

So… A very Merry Christmas, and a happy New Year; let’s hope it’s a good one, without any fear…

Happy Holidays. WMG

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FALL Festival

On November 16 in Wilton Manors, the New Presbyterian Church’s Fall Festival saw residents and guests from around Wilton Manors gather for food, games and even a hay ride!

Julie Carson Announces Bid for Re-Election Photo via Julie Carson, Facebook.

WMG Staff

By Carina Mask

Wilton Manors City Commissioner Julie Carson will run for re-election in 2020.

In her announcement she promises in focus on diversifying the city’s economic base in and incentivizing the business community. One of Carson’s goals is to to bring a small hotel to the city.

The re-election announcement notes Carson has never missed a regular city commission meeting during her tenure. WMG

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First Time Home Buyer Program Off to Slow Start

By Sallie James The city is offering first-time homebuyer for buyers to get into Wilton Manors. I assistance to those who qualify, but so far, the applaud the members of the Wilton Manors Commission for doing this. Most of these program has received few nibbles.

“We have not had a lot of people programs have an income cap of 80 percent of applying,” said Suzanne Weiss, manager the area’s median income,” Weiss said.

“They moved that up to 140 percent of the of the HomeOwnership & Repair Section of the Broward County Housing Finance & media income. It means funds are available for higher income people.”

Community Redevelopment Weiss said the income Division. parameters were adjusted The city initially “This interest-free because the home values in earmarked $100,00 from its loan assistance Wilton Manors are so high.

Affordable Housing Trust Under the revised income Fund for the initiative, is perfectly guidelines, a household of one but later upped that sum designed to person could earn a maximum to $161,000, according to a of $82,000 annually and report from Assistant City provide financial qualify; a household of two, Manager Pamela Landi. Of incentive so that $94,350; a household of that amount, $24,000 will be the dream of home three, $106,120; a household paid to Broward County to of four, $117,880; a household administer the program. ownership can of five, $127,400; a household The city estimates it become a reality.” of six, $136,780; a household can assist approximately of seven, $146,300; and a five eligible, first-time - Julie Carson household of eight, $155,680. homebuyers by providing a Commissioner Buying a home in Wilton maximum deferred payment Manors requires a lot of loan of $40,000 per eligible homebuyer. According to a city memo, eligible money. According to the Broward County costs include direct purchase assistance, Property Appraiser’s website, the average down payment, closing costs, mortgage price of a home in Wilton Manors is $432,604. principal reduction, interest rate buy down A brief review of recent home sales in the city showed homes selling anywhere from and housing rehabilitation.

“I think it’s an extraordinary opportunity $297,000 to more than $800,000.

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Commissioner Julie Carson said she’s happy the funds will be put to good use.

“Over the years, I have advocated for implementing a program which utilizes the Affordable Housing Trust Funds in a way that benefits those who want to live in Wilton Manors. The Homebuyers Purchase Assistance Program is a meaningful way for a new homebuyer to purchase a principle residence in the Island City,” Carson said.

“This interest-free loan assistance is perfectly designed to provide financial incentive so that the dream of home ownership can become a reality.”

• Potential homeowners must qualify and obtain a first mortgage that meets County guidelines • Homeowner may not have owned a home in the previous three years

• Buyer most complete a homebuyer education class from a HUD-approved counseling agency • Property may be a single family home, townhome, villa, or condominium in Wilton Manors “We have not had a lot of people applying,” Weiss said. “We have had a number of applications that have come in and fallen through. For one reason or another the sellers are reluctant. The sale is contingent upon getting funds from the City of Wilton Manors.

Sellers are reluctant when they can get a cash deal from someone else.

“It is a great program but I think we just haven’t been able to pierce the market for people at a higher price point. Some people who are in middle management this would be the ideal for,” Weiss said. WMG

To find out if you qualify, contact Patrick Parker Graham at pgraham@broward.org.

Wilton Manors City Hall. Photo via the City of Wilton Manors, Facebook.

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Readers Slam Letter Opposing ‘Pig Week’ Many online blast SFGN for even printing it SFGN Staff

Last week SFGN ran a letter to the editor, “All Men Are Not Pigs,” from Wayne Whitson in West Palm Beach. The story created a stir on social media. Here are few of the comments on Facebook.

Chris Caputo This article is incredibly disappointing, Norm Kent. The “pig” community is hardly the epicenter of the crisis — which I know you’re smart enough to know — and we need to focus our energy on supporting communities that need access to testing, PrEP, and linkage to care.

This isn’t even a thought provoking piece of opinion journalism.

I’m hardly a member of the pig community, but I’m definitely upset that you thought this was worthy of print. It’s so disappointing that instead of using your platform for good, you are promoting hatred within our communities.

Steve Johnson

Poorly researched article, unsupported accusations, come on folks, doing this right is not rocket science.

Mike Dinwiddie This article is horribly written. Doesn’t

even know name of event or anything about it. WTF? Shame on SFGN for printing this.

Thomas Burant Why would SFGN publish such a letter

when it is clear he has the facts wrong? His issue is rubbers, saying “if they were not included” when all who attended know they were given to everyone on day one?

Let’s hear SFGN excuse for this screwup.

Stephen Michael Fox Jr

Wow, no need to read the article when the bias and judgement is clear from the intro.

What ever happen to minding ones own and letting consenting adults make their own choices?

Thomas Burant How ignorant can SFGN be about its own gay community? Of course condoms were available and given to everyone one in their goodie bag when they registered. Smh.

Hans Garcia

Wow what crap is this! You don’t even do research on the event, your sex shaming individuals who choose to go to the event.

You’re also having the audacity to say it’s the epicenter? Look, you gotta be more responsible than that, this is our community, there are things we like and don’t like about it, but instead of writing something beneficial like organizations that give condoms, lube, info on prep. Your acting like a bitter queen that didn’t get invited to the party. SHAME ON YOU!

Dennis Carreiro First of all, Mr. Whitson...it’s Pig Week, not

PigFest. Secondly, your blatant attempt to pin the “new HIV infections” on the members of this group, which is not a “select few,” by the way, is disgusting. I don’t expect the people at Nicks Pizza to supply me with pizza for free on the off chance that I may be hungry after I get drunk. It’s my responsibility as a grown ass man to be sure that I am prepared with $$ to pay for my pizza, no one is going to give it to me.

You cannot hold someone accountable for the choices and actions of others. It’s called adulthood...try it sometime. Oh, and I didn’t go to “Pig Week” or to “PigFest”...why? Because I am an adult and CHOSE not to.

Oh, and shame on SFGN for printing such manure. Stay in West Palm, Mr. Whitson, we’ve got enough of our own judgmental assholes to deal with.

Michael Juhlin “PigFest” There’s no such event in Fort Lauderdale.

It’s called “Pig Week” and it brings hundreds of thousands of tourist dollars to the Fort Lauderdale area, and raises funds for local charities!

Get off your moral high horse. If you weren’t there, then you have zero idea of the availability of condoms at the events (which, by the way there WERE at every event). Slut shaming is so 1990, and not a pretty face for SFGN. Daily workshops were held with subjects including safe bondage and kink play, PrEP and TrAP. Suggesting that individuals aren’t able to be responsible for their own sexual decisions is Puritanical and archaic thinking. Grow up and accept that gay men have sex with each other, even if you’re not getting any!

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Convictions

Scourges of the Republican Right

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he year approaches an end, and once again the LGBT is fighting for its rights.

A corrupt White House scandalized by the worst American president in the nation’s history has led an all-out assault on the civil liberties of minorities, persons of color, children, Muslims, the gay community, and anything not Aryan or looking like Wonder Bread.

It would be one thing if the issue was policy and principle. But with a traitor living in the Oval Office, we have seen the nation’s heart and soul wrenched asunder.

The President is a disgusting man with a filthy mouth. He disgraces our nation hourly, with his infantile tweets and moronic remarks.

The Republican party leadership on Washington is hostage to his hostility, fearing they are the next target of his tyrannical tirades. And they cower instead of show courage. It is shameful.

From environmental regulations which are being eviscerated to shockingly unqualified judicial appointments that are being confirmed, Donald Trump has turned back the clock on social progress, justice and equality. He is an abomination.

The Democratic House of Representatives will not prevail with its impeachment, but it has at least saved this nation’s honor.

Last week, SFGN addressed in a feature

article one of the regressive bills the Republicans would have become a nation’s law. It’s frightening, a scandalous reversal of progress we have made. The Fairness for All Act is anything but.

This proposed bill is justly opposed by the vast majority of civil rights advocacy groups within the LGBT community. It adversely impacts our rights as a community, along with setting back decades of progress for minorities, women, and persons of color.

The law would not end or counter discrimination. It would legalize it.

SFGN recognizes this law is not on your radar this week.

It is Christmas week, and you would rather be shopping or decorating the tree.

Understood. But understand this. In a democracy, freedom is stolen not by a sword, but rather by laws passed in the dark of night and then enforced in the light of day.

Forget the battles we won yesterday. They do not matter now. We are being engaged today, from shore to shore, with a tidal wave of hate, empowered by a White House that has tarnished our dignity and shamed our country. So, we must once again roll up our sleeves. We have work to do again.

The LGBT community has been called upon before. We will meet the challenges again.

Within our midst, we will find leaders to rise and speak out, fight the good fight, and win the battles that we need to win. I hear and see

The Democratic House of Representatives will not prevail with its impeachment, but it has at least saved this nation’s honor.

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Contestants line the stage!

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Miami, Nice lifestyle food

Check out these offerings south of Broward

Chef Franco at House of Food Porn.

Photo via House of Food Porn, Facebook.

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e’ve been spending a lot of time in Miami lately. That seems to happen whenever we have visitors from up north and the early snows up there have caused an increase in visitors. After we spend the day showing them the beauties of Fort Lauderdale, the next day usually entails a drive down to Miami to take in Wynwood and the South Beach area. I truly don’t mind chauffeuring folks around, because we end up discovering lots of new places.

House of Food Porn 197 NW 62nd St., Miami 305-788-0137 HouseOfFoodPorn.com

You know a dining place is different when you buy a ticket instead of making a reservation. It’s located in a run-down section of Little Haiti. The cinderblock building, with parking in back, doesn’t give you a clue to the jewel box of a dining room that awaits inside. You’ll sit at a u-shaped dining table which can accommodate up to a dozen folks.

Your host, Nicky (wife of coowner/chef Franco), is charming and explains the concept and makes introductions between the various diners. Franco not only makes all the food himself; he presents and describes each dish.

The dining experiences are for either a four, six of eight-course tasting menu. For the four-course menu you are asked to inform the restaurant of your dining restrictions/preferences and the menu for your visit is tailored accordingly. The larger meals are prepared by the chef with only one option for each course. It’s great for adventurous diners, those with allergies and picky eaters would be better to attend the four-course dinner.

The four-course tasting, which lasts approximately an hour and a half is $88 a ticket, the six-course meal is $111 while the eight-course runs $133. All of these

include unlimited wine and are subject to tax and gratuities are accepted online and at the event. All sales are final, however you may reschedule 24 hours prior to your reservation.

For our visit, we informed Nicky and Franco that my husband is a lacto-ovopescatarian (meaning he eats fish, dairy and eggs, but not meat) and the meal (for not only us, but all diners) was tailored accordingly.

Our meal began with a “sushi” roll of fried corvina in a ceviche marinade wrapped in sweet plantains and baked. The second course featured seared bluefin tuna which had been marinated in a tamari sesame oil mixture.

Sushi rice mix with tricolor quinoa wrapped in pink soy paper topped with wasabi paste and black tobiko caviar completed the dish.

We continued with another baked “sushi” roll. French puff pastry stuffed with with smoked corvina, red snapper and smoked ahí tuna, aged swiss cheese and baby arugula. The final course is a little more traditional, a flourless chocolate cake with a scoop of house-made vanilla ice cream topped with a guava “caramel” sauce.

If you’re worried that you’ll go home hungry, I can assure you that you will not.

ShuShi House of Food Porn is expensive to be certain, but you get a bang for your buck.

It is a dining-experience you’ll remember for a long time.

If you’re worried that you’ll go home hungry, I can assure you that you will not.

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Here are some other dining options to consider while visiting Miami.

Il Giardino at Mr. C Hotel

Hutong

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600 Brickell Ave., Miami 786-388-0805 hutong-miami.com

Il Giardino screens a classic film on its patio every Wednesday starting on October 30, to enjoy along with your meal. Reserve your $35 seat for the prixfixe menu, which includes dinner, cocktails and freshly popped popcorn and sweets. The season kicks off the Bette Midler camp classic “Hocus Pocus” on Oct. 30 and continues through the end of the year with “White Christmas” on Christmas night.

This is the Miami outpost of the famed restaurant with locations in Hong Kong, London and New York. Chinese ‘yin’ meets Miami ‘yang’ at Hutong, where the renowned and occasionally fiery Northern Chinese cuisine meets artisanal dim sum and exotic signature cocktails. Try the dim sum dumpling sampling platter; peppercorn prawns, marlin, prawn & black truffle and wild mushroom with spinach. For a heartier meal, check out the Peking duck with pancakes or Kurobuta pork in char siu sauce glaze.

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concert The TEN Tenors, one of Australia’s most popular musical groups, comes to the Parker Playhouse, 707 N.E. 8th St. in Fort Lauderdale, tonight at 8 p.m. with “Home for the Holidays,” a program of holiday classics infused with just a little bit of Aussie cheekiness. No chestnuts roasting on an open fire, these handsome guys celebrate Christmas on the beach in board shorts. Tickets start at $37.50 at ParkerPlayhouse.com.

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comedy Award-winning writer and actress Renée Taylor (“The Nanny”) looks back on a life of memorable Hollywood roles and just as many fad diets in the autobiographic comedy, “My Life on a Diet,” Dec. 18 – 22 at the Kravis Center in West Palm Beach. A diet junkie who used to think that if she ate like a star, she just might look like one, Taylor offers diet tips from Hollywood legends. Tickets start at $50 at Kravis.org.

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Cirque du Soleil is back in the Grand Chapiteau at Hard Rock Stadium in Miami Lakes with a reimagined production of “Alegría.” The 1994 classic takes its name from the Spanish word for “joy” and offers audiences a “baroque ode to the energy, grace and power of youth.” Many of the dazzling acts are new, but all offer the unique perspectives of creator Franco Dragone and composer René Dupéré. The show will be in South Florida through Feb. 17. Tickets and more information at CirqueDuSoleil.com.

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“The Italian Jewish Christmas Show” is one-part Jewish comedy, twoparts Italian singing and three-times the holiday guilt. Internationallyacclaimed singers and songwriters Will and Anthony Nunziata join Comedy Central fan favorite Jessica Kirson for one performance only, tonight at 8 p.m. at the Aventura Arts & Cultural Center, 3385 N.E. 188th St. in Aventura. Tickets start at $62.50 at AventuraCenter.org.

Need a little help getting into the holiday spirit? The “Christmas Wonderland Holiday Spectacular,” tonight at 6 p.m. at the Broward Center in Fort Lauderdale, will get you in the mood with sensational singers, high-kicking dancers, glittery costumes and a visit from Santa Claus, himself. You won’t want to miss this nostalgic celebration of beloved holiday traditions. Tickets start at $35 at BrowardCenter.org.

In the slightest chance that you have all your holiday shopping done, make this Movie Monday, instead. Advance tickets for “Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker” were pretty much sold out all weekend, but you probably will have some luck for today. Also, musical theater queens won’t want to miss the big screen adaptation of Andrew Lloyd Webber’s “Cats.” Check local listings for theaters and show times.

It’s Christmas Eve and the nice boys (and girls) will be in tucked in their beds with visions of sugar plums dancing in their heads. Meanwhile, the bad boys will undoubtedly be out the bars, hoping to get their stockings stuffed later by a jolly elf…er, bear.

“Ho, ho, ho,” indeed. Seriously, SFGN wishes all of our readers— wherever they may be—a safe and joyous holiday season and a Happy New Year.

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Nineteen singers and dancers perform in a festive holiday reviewing coming to the Broward Center on Dec. 22. Credit: Christmas Wonderland Holiday Spectacular.

Touring Review Brings Christmas Magic to Broward Center J.W. Arnold

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re you in danger of having a “blue” Christmas? Has the Grinch stolen your holiday cheer? Did your Grandma get run over by a reindeer? If you answered yes to any of these questions, there’s a festive review coming to the Broward Center that is guaranteed to solve all of your holiday woes.

“Christmas Wonderland Holiday Spectacular” features glittering costumes, a dazzling cast and the highest kicking chorus girls this side of the North Pole. Start Christmas in style as Santa and his merry helpers take audiences on an unforgettable nostalgic journey on Sunday, Dec. 22 in AuRene Theater.

Cast member Ryan Stutz said, “It’s all about Christmas cheer and spirit, first and foremost. We are singing and dancing a lot of Christmas classics and some new ones, and I think it will get anyone in the holiday spirit.”

Stutz, an openly gay singer originally from Indiana, said the musical review offers a hit parade of holiday favorites, including “White Christmas,” “Winter Wonderland,” “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas,” “The Christmas Song,” “Jingle Bells,” “Away in a Manger,” “O Come, All Ye Faithful,” “Let it Snow,” “Silent Night,” “Hark the Herald Angels Sing,” “Deck The Halls,” “Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree,” “O Holy Night,” and many more.

“Everywhere we go, we’re hearing Christmas songs and I was wondering if I would get tapped out,” he said. “It’s a testament to the audiences, seeing the

smiling faces puts me in the best mood. I genuinely love the music…and I love the holiday season. People are more mindful and kind to others. I can say that I have not been ‘Christmassed’ out.”

The production opens with a medley of Christmas carols, but soon audiences are transported to Santa’s workshop on the North Pole.

“You can’t have Christmas without Santa Claus. You get to meet his elves and see what he’s up to before he brings the toys to the little girls and boys,” Stutz said.

The cast of 19 includes high-kicking dancers, singers and even a gospel choir.

After just two weeks of rehearsal (“We knew most of the songs,” Stutz pointed out), the company hit the road earlier this fall, visiting cities in Iowa, Michigan, Ohio and New Jersey, before concluding the tour in sunny South Florida.

All along the way, they have been accompanied by unusually cold and snowy weather.

“We’re actually excited to be headed to Fort Lauderdale. We’re in Warren, Ohio right now and when we came out of the theater, it was snowing,” Stutz said. “It was magical, but a little warm weather will be appreciated.”

The young singer, a veteran of Royal Caribbean and Norwegian cruise lines productions, has spent some time in Broward County before and looks forward to the warm welcome.

“Christmas Wonderland Holiday Spectacular” will be presented at the Broward Center in Fort Lauderdale on Sunday, Dec. 22 at 6 p.m. Tickets start at $35 at BrowardCenter.org.

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Slow Burn’s ‘Christmas Story’ a Sweet Holiday Treat J.W. Arnold

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lip through the channels on Christmas Day and it’s almost impossible to miss “A Christmas Story.” Since 1997, TBS has aired the nostalgic 1983 film for 24-hours straight beginning on Christmas Eve. I’ve never watched the movie from start to finish, but I’m certain that I’ve seen every scene at least a dozen times over those 21 years.

Now, if you have that perfect family and don’t need an escape to the television on Christmas (right!), here’s the gist of the story: Told through a series of a vignettes, adult Ralphie Parker reminisces about Christmas 1940, when he was 9 years old. All he wants for Christmas is a Red Ryder Carbine Action 200shot Range Model BB gun. Ralphie’s desire is rejected by his mother, his teacher and even the Santa Claus at the local department store, all delivering the same warning, “You’ll shoot your eye out.”

Along the way, he shares encounters with his classmates, the neighborhood bully and “the old man,” who reveres the kitschy “leg lamp” he wins in a mail order contest.

It should come as no surprise that this classic, like so many films, would eventually be adapted for the stage. In 2009, playwright Joseph Robinette and composers Benj Pasek and Justin Paul (“Dear Evan Hansen,” “La La Land”) brought “A Christmas Story” to Broadway. A seasonal national tour has followed since 2014 and the musical was broadcast live on Fox in 2017.

Slow Burn Theatre Co. won the rights for the Southeast regional premiere, which opened last weekend at the Broward Center, and fans of the original will not be disappointed.

Robinette, Pasek and Paul stick pretty closely to the movie storyline, inserting big dance numbers at the most opportune times. Armed with his Red Ryder Carbine Action 200-shot Range Model rifle, the lad rescues his teacher from imaginary rustlers in “Ralphie to the Rescue.” The Old Man takes a turn with a high-kicking chorus line sporting shining leg lamps in “A Major Award.” The children demonstrate professional tap dancing skills in a speakeasy setting during “To the Nightclub.” And, we can’t forget the cynical department store elves, eager to go home after a long day, in “Up on Santa’s Lap.” Director and choreographer Patrick Fitzwater’s dance numbers are clever and

Michael Norman stars as Ralphie Parker in Slow Burn Theatre Co.’s production of “A Christmas Story” at the Broward Center.

Credit: Rodrigo Balfanz.

campy and perfectly suited to the abilities of his ensemble, especially exceptionally talented children in the 27-member cast.

Michael Norman, a national tour vet, easily carries the production as Ralphie. He’s bears little resemblance to Peter Billingsley (star of the film), but he displays the requisite poise and charisma to easily command the Amaturo Theater stage. Watch out for this young man with the outsize voice and nimble dance moves because he has a promising future in the theater.

Slow Burn co-founder Matthew Korinko has settled in supporting roles in recent years, but he’s the bedrock of this production as the adult Jean Shepherd (Ralphie). His performance is warm and he relishes the role of storyteller in every scene. Amy Miller Brennan (Mother) is one of the most talented musical theater performers in South Florida and her warm soprano elicits goosebumps every time she comforts her sons in song.

The role of “The Old Man” offers perhaps the biggest departure from the character originally depicted in the film. He’s not quite the gruff, stern bear and in Tony Edgerton’s hands, he’s also likeable and nurturing.

Edgerton, who also has a soaring voice, entertains in “A Major Prize.”

The show isn’t without its flaws. The writers could and should have taken more license with the story, but Fitzwater and his team don’t allow any innate shortcomings to hinder them. Slow Burn Theatre Co.’s “A Christmas Story” is an elaborately wrapped present that doesn’t disappoint after that paper is torn away. Tickets would make a perfect stocking stuffer, if you can wait until after Christmas.

Slow Burn Theatre Co. presents “A Christmas Story: The Musical” through Dec. 29 at the Broward Center in Fort Lauderdale. Tickets start at $49 at BrowardCenter.org.

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broward county *Once

December 18 to 22 at the Lauderhill Performing Arts Center, 3800 NW 11th Place, Lauderhill. This gorgeous and uplifting show strikes an unforgettable chord with outstanding performances and magical songs. Tickets available at LPACFL.com.

Women’s Choral Group

Thursday, December 19 at 7:30 p.m. at the Sunshine Cathedral, Fort Lauderdale.

Bring in the holidays with songs that you love as well as some new ones sure to bring Holiday cheer. Admission is free, visit SunshineCathedral.org for details!

Friday Night Sound Waves Music Series

Fridays from 5:30 to 8:30 p.m. at The Hub, Las Olas Boulevard and A1A in Fort Lauderdale. Enjoy live, outdoor music spanning genres and tributes every Friday evening through November. Free. Visit FridayNightSoundWaves.com

palm beach county *Jill & Rich in Concert

Tuesday, December 31 at 2 p.m. and 8 p.m. at the Delray Beach Playhouse. Fans of the deliciously delightful co-hosts of The Morning Lounge on Legends 100.3 FM, now have a great opportunity to enjoy them live when JILL & RICH perform A Standard Affair: The Best and Most Enduring Classics from the Great American Songbook. Tickets &50. Visit DelrayBeachPlayHouse.com

Ordinary Americans

December 6 to December 29 at the Don & Ann brown Theatre, 201 Clematis St, West Palm Beach. Ordinary Americans pays tribute to an extraordinarily talented, innovative, and courageous artist and businesswoman, Gertrude Berg. Her television show fostered the idea that, regardless of who we are, where we come from, or how we worship, people are basically the same and fundamentally good.

But then she and her wonderful, big-hearted ensemble are threatened by the Red Scare, and life is never quite the same. Tickets $52 to $92. Visit palmbeachdramaworks.org.

Phillip JazzDad Thomas was a recent guest at the Free Friday Concert Series in Delray Beach.

Stop by (for free, of course) any Friday to see who will star next! Photo via Free Friday Concert Series, Facebook.

Free Friday Concerts

Fridays at 7:30 p.m. at the Delray Beach Center for the Arts, 51 N. Swinton Ave. in Delray Beach. Enjoy live music from the comfort of your picnic blanket or lawn chair every week, for free!

Returns in October. Call 561-243-7922 or visit DelrayArts.org.

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Free with museum admission. Call 305-3753000 or visit PAMM.org.

The Big Show

Fridays and Saturdays at 9 p.m. at Just the Funny Theater, 3119 Coral Way in Miami. A collection

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Broward Support Services PFLAG

Tuesdays in Fort Lauderdale, Coral Springs and Southwest Ranches. A support group for parents of LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com for dates and locations.

SunServe Youth Group

Tuesdays and Thursdays in Fort Lauderdale, Southwest Ranches, Coral Springs and Hollywood. A support group and night of fun for LGBT youth 13 to 21. Free. Visit SunServeYouth.com for dates and times.

Survivor Support

First and third Wednesdays from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the Broward Health Imperial Point Hospital cafeteria, 6401 N. Federal Highway in Fort Lauderdale. Find support from counselors and peers who have lost loved ones to suicide. Call the Florida Initiative for Suicide Prevention at 954-384-0344 or visit FISPOnline.org.

broward county *Opera Society Mixer

Tuesday, January 7 from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at Rosie’s Bar and Grill, 2449 Wilton Dr. Enjoy one free drink and appetizer and enjoy this meet-and-greet social with the opera society!

Tickets $20, RSVP and mail check payable to The Opera Society, mail to Ruth Molina, 12390 NW 7th St. Plantation Fl 33325.

In Deep Waters Art Exhibit

December 7 to January 3 with reception on December 14 at 6 p.m. at the Claudia Castillo Art Studio, 2215 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors.

Enjoy and explore the abstract art by Ilyas Kirkan as you enjoy wine, bites and music.

SafeT Support Group

Every Wednesday from 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. at SunServe, 2312 Wilton Dr, Wilton Manors.

SunServe Mental Health Services & Midway Specialty Care Center Presents: SAFE T A weekly drop in group for anyone who identifies as transgender and or gender variant. Visit SunServe.org/SafeT for details.

Nonbinary and Gender Variant Support Group

Every Thursday from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. at SunServe, 2312 Wilton Dr, Wilton Manors.

A group limited to self-identified gender marginalized & gender questioning peoples.

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Trans-Scend Trans and Allies Spiritual Group

First Tuesday of every month from 8 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. at 1419 E Commercial Blvd, Ste B, Oakland Park. Enjoy spirituality, uplifting music, food, drinks and community!

Hall of Heroes

July 3 to September 2 at the Museum of Discovery and Science, Fort Lauderdale. This comic book superhero exhibit immerses you in the action as soon as you enter, with fullscale statues of biggies such as Superman, Iron Man, Batman (and his Batmobile) and The Hulk. At interactive stations, visitors can see how they match up against the superheroes.

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palm beach *Jews of Florida: Centuries of Stories

Wednesday, Jan 22 from 7 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. at the Lifelong Learning Auditorium at FAU’s Boca Raton campus. Marcia Jo Zerivitz has written the first comprehensive history of the Jews of Florida from colonial times to the present. It is a sweeping tapestry of voices spanning centuries. Visit fau.edu for details.

*School’s Out

December 23 to 27 a the Norton Museum of Art, 1450 S. Dixie Hwy, West Palm Beach.

Free admission for children 18 and under as well as their accompanying adults! Enjoy all the Museum has to offer, including drop-in family activities and kid-friendly tours.

The Body Says I Am A Fiesta — Art Installation

October 4 to March 1 at the Norton Museum of Art, 1450 S. Dixie Hwy, West Palm Beach. This exhibition addresses ideas about the body and its symbolic and societal implications in modern Latin American cultures through the paintings, photography, sculpture, and works on paper by artists active in Latin America and the United States between the early 1900s and the present.

Art After Dark

Fridays from 5 p.m. to 10 p.m. at the Norton Museum of Art, 1450 S. Dixie Hwy, West Palm Beach. View an exhibition, attend a talk, participate in an art activity, enjoy a performance, concert, or film, sip cocktails, and dine in the Museum’s elegant new bar and restaurant. Free admission. Visit Norton. org.

Palm Beaches Prime Timers

Second Saturdays at 3 p.m. at Compass GLCC, 201 N. Dixie Highway in Lake Worth.

An active fraternal and social organization dedicated to bring together mature gay and bisexual men for friendship, activities, support, and personal growth for the best times of our lives. Free. Call 561- 533-9699 or visit CompassGLCC.com.

Coffee Clatch at Compass

First Monday of each month from 10 a.m. to noon at Compass, 201 N. Dixie Hwy, Lake Worth. A social group focusing on the mature LGBT+ community in Palm Beach County, providing a relaxed environment for meeting friends, discussing interesting topics, and engaging in community projects. Free to attend, email joekolb@compassglcc.com fir details.

Family Nights with Food Truck Invasion

Every 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. at the Sunset Cove Amphitheater, 8802 Boynton Beach Blvd, Boynton Beach. The event features rotating entertainment activities and a large collection of Food Trucks on site! Admission is free.

miami-dade Winter Zoo Camp!

December 23, 26 and 27; December 3031; January 2-3 at Zoo Miami. Two camps with two winter wonderland themes for children to explore and enjoy with all of their favorite wintertime animals! Learn about hibernation, color and coat changes that some animals go through or explore the arctic habitat! Register now at ZooMiami.org.

Arsht Center Farmers Market

Mondays from 4 to 8 p.m. at the Parker and Vann Thomson Plaza for the Arts, 1300 Biscayne Blvd. in Miami. Purchase fresh food from local farmers, including fruits, vegetables, meats, prepared foods, as well as chefs, live music, and cooking demonstrations. Tickets $45 to $75. Free.

Visit ArshtCenter.org/en/Visit/Dining.

key west Hot Naked Sundays

Sundays from noon to 4 p.m. at Island House, 1129 Fleming St. in Key West. A pretea pool party. Call 305-294-6284 or visit IslandHouseKeyWest.com.

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