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Local News

MetLife Sponsors LGBT Visitor Center

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he Miami-Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce Foundation, Inc., and MetLife recently celebrated the grand opening of the new LGBT Visitor Center at 1130 Washington Avenue, Miami Beach. This new venue, the only one sponsored by MetLife, provides a one-stop-shop for visitors and residents to learn about LGBT and allied businesses where they can stay, shop and dine on Miami Beach. “MetLife is so excited to sponsor

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Miami Beach’s LGBT Visitor Center. The company has long-supported the LGBT community by providing financial services and solutions to help individuals and couples plan for their unique financial concerns. This sponsorship is another example of

MetLife’s commitment to diversity and equality,” said Gregory Stott, AAMS, financial representative, New England Financial Miami, a MetLife company. “As a leader in the financial services industry, MetLife is proud to take part in this momentous initiative. Our agency has served the South Florida market since 1957, and we welcome the opportunity to reach the LBGT community through the new Visitor Center,” said Carlos F. Suarez, managing partner, New England Financial Miami. The LGBT Visitor Center grand opening celebration took place on Thursday, October 14. Among the special guests in attendance were HGTV’s David Bromstad; Greater Miami Convention and Visitors Bureau CEO Bill Talbert; Director of MetLife’s Diverse Markets, US Business Marketing, Robert Constantine; and MetLife’s brand ambassador, Snoopy. Steve Adkins, president of the Miami-Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce Foundation, Inc., said, “This is a perfect fit for the Foundation and a spectacular way to show the community how much Miami Beach welcomes its LGBT residents and visitors. We look forward to partnering with MetLife on this groundbreaking initiative.” For more information about the LGBT Visitor Center, please call 305-673-4440.

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Legal News

Court Will Televise Gay Marriage Hearing in California

n upcoming appeals court hearing on the constitutionality of California’s same-sex marriage ban will be televised. The 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeal announced Wednesday that it had granted C-Span permission to carry the Dec. 6 proceedings in San Francisco live. Supporters of the voter-approved ban are appealing a federal trial judge’s August decision that struck down Proposition 8 as a violation of gay and lesbian Californians’ civil rights. The January trial that resulted in that decision had been slated for broadcast on

YouTube and other federal courthouses. But the ban’s backers objected and the U.S. Supreme Court blocked the plan.

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ADAP Update

ADAP Waiting List Becomes ADAP ‘Drop List’ Agencies Make Their Presence Known

he AIDS Health Care Foundation sponsored a forum on the AIDS Drug Assistance Program in Florida last Wednesday, and the turnout was very strong, with activists asserting their concern about the diminishing availability of meds in the federal drug treatment program. “350 People will be removed from the program on February 1st,” said Joey Wynn, a well known AIDS advocate. “That’s the earliest it could happen so if you’ve heard that it would happen this week, that’s not true.” Wynn was speaking to about 75 people who came to Wilton Manors for the HIV/ ADAP town hall discussion. Participants were mostly from the Wilton Manors area, but a few travelled from Miami and other cities to gather information.

Wynn has been doing work and advocacy for people with HIV/AIDS for more than a decade but tonight he’s just trying to motivate people to be proactive in the face of frightening cutbacks to the AIDS Drug Assistance Program in South Florida. “So I just want everybody to know there are programs here to help […] and there are people out there who are fighting for this cause. It’s not hopeless.” There was no panic, chaos or yelling at this meeting as there had been at other public discussions earlier in the year. Still, attendees listened attentively and asked plenty of questions. Although Wynn had said at the beginning that he didn’t want to get too partisan or political, it became apparent after the first question was raised that it flicr / blissfuldyke

By Jarrett Terrill

New Rules Grant Greater Medical Rights For Same-Sex Partners

he Centers for Medicaid and Medicare has issued new rules which require all hospitals that participate in Medicaid and Medicare to allow patients to designate who shall be allowed to visit them and make medical decisions on their behalf. The order allows for same-sex partners to have the same rights as other immediate family members. The new rules were published in the Federal Register on November 19. “We are thankful that the administration has acknowledged that everyone should have the right to be with their loved ones in their times of need,” said James Esseks, Director of the ACLU Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Project. “Nobody should have to suffer the indignity of having to justify who should be at their hospital bedside.” The rules follow a directive issued by President Obama to the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) in April

in which he noted that LGBT people are “uniquely affected” by being “unable to be there for the person they love, and unable to act as a legal surrogate if their partner is incapacitated.” Upon announcing the rules yesterday, HHS Secretary Kathleen Sebelius said, “Basic human rights - such as your ability to choose your own support system in a time of need - must not be checked at the door of America’s hospitals.” “Same-sex couples deserve the same respect during life’s most difficult moments as anyone else,” said Robin Bodiford, a local attorney who has fought for human rights in South Florida for thirty years. The rules require hospitals to have written policies and procedures to explain to patients that they have the right to choose who can visit them. For more on the ACLU’s work on LGBT rights, please visit: www.aclu.org/lgbt-rights

would be an unavoidable outcome. When a participant from Red Hispana (another HIV-related advocacy group) asked about contacting legislators, multiple participants answered that they could provide this information. Methods of imploring Florida and Federal legislators to help middle and lower-income HIV positive persons seemed to be a major theme throughout questions and answers. “We just want to make sure our federal legislators go up to Washington and do what’s best for our state, not their party,” said Wynn to much applause. Congressman Alcee Hastings sent a representative to the town hall meeting to take notes and make sure that participants knew that he was aware of the issue of funding and working on it. If any other government officials were present, they did not make themselves known. Some participants were agitated at suggestions that things would be ok in the long run. One young man told the audience that he was cut off of ADAP while he was hospitalized and struggled to get back on the program, only to be removed again one week later. Other ADAP recipients shared that they were taken on and off of computerized records, and had trouble collecting their medication, although most are still unclear whether or not they had been removed from the actual program. Meanwhile, AHF announced it is planning a new rally at the Federal Building downtown on the Tuesday after Thanksgiving. Stated Ron Weston, an AHF representative, “The reason we’re going to the Federal Building is because, like Joey said, it’s the

Federal Government that gets the money and gets the access that the state governments lack.” AHF has had rallies at the Federal Building in downtown Ft. Lauderdale before, as well as some eyecatching demonstrations outside the offices of House Speaker Nancy Pelosi’s office in California. “We are just advocating that Congress allocate more funding to our state,” said Jason King, a patient advocate with AHF, “because we have, in fact, the highest number of people on our waiting list in the country. We are disproportionately affected by this disease.” King is correct. While Florida had not had a waiting list for 13 year, it already has more than 1700 patients waiting for needed meds. 11 other states had waiting lists earlier this year but at least two have begun to enroll patients again after a recent funding increase. Both Democrats and Republicans have bills languishing in committees to increase emergency funding for ADAP but with slight differences. The Republicans want to see ADAP money drawn from the stimulus package. Democrats see that as a partisan move and point out that some states need to contribute to their own healthcare needs with more vigor. Confusion and anger in the political realm have kept the people who are most concerned about ADAP funding from seeing the raw facts. The state of Florida is also expected to contribute to their own ADAP program as ADAPs are meant to be a “partnership.” Currently Florida contributes 10% of the funds going into its ADAP. The national average for states contributing to their ADAP is 20% of the program. Some states like California contribute a far greater share to their own healthcare needs in general. “The ability for Florida to make an increase to ADAP is limited,” said Jason King, “as you know, we’re a southern state with no state income tax and limited revenue even for things like infrastructure.” Overall, since 2005, ADAP funding has gone up about $13.3 million dollars per year, while national AIDS funding has gone from $6.3 billion in 2005 to $7.6 billion for the 2011 fiscal year. There were small increases in the Bush years, and a little bit larger ones during Obama’s term.

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INDICATIONS ISENTRESS is an anti-HIV medicine used for the treatment of HIV. ISENTRESS must be used with other anti-HIV medicines, which may increase the likelihood of response to treatment. The safety and effectiveness of ISENTRESS in children has not been studied. It is important that you remain under your doctorâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s care. ISENTRESS will NOT cure HIV infection or reduce your chance of passing HIV to others through sexual contact, sharing needles, or being exposed to your blood.

IMPORTANT RISK INFORMATION A condition called Immune Reconstitution Syndrome can happen in some patients with advanced HIV infection (AIDS) when anti-HIV treatment is started. Signs and symptoms of inflammation from opportunistic infections may occur as the medicines work to treat the HIV infection and strengthen the immune system. Call your doctor right away if you notice any signs or symptoms of an infection after starting ISENTRESS. Contact your doctor immediately if you experience unexplained muscle pain, tenderness, or weakness while taking ISENTRESS. This is because on rare occasions muscle problems can be serious and can lead to kidney damage. When ISENTRESS has been given with other anti-HIV drugs, side effects included nausea, headache, tiredness, weakness, trouble sleeping, stomach pain, dizziness, depression, and suicidal thoughts and actions. Rash occurred more often in patients taking ISENTRESS and darunavir together than with either drug separately, but was generally mild.

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I am outgoing. I am on the go. I am a newlywed. I am HIV positive. You are special, unique, and different from anyone else. And so is your path to managing HIV. When you’re ready to start HIV therapy, talk to your doctor about a medication that may fit your needs and lifestyle. In clinical studies lasting 96 weeks, patients being treated with HIV medication for the first time who took ISENTRESS plus Truvada:

Experienced less effect on LDL cholesterol (“bad” cholesterol) — Cholesterol increased an average of 7 mg/dL with ISENTRESS plus Truvada versus 21 mg/dL with Sustiva plus Truvada

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People taking ISENTRESS may still develop infections, including opportunistic infections or other conditions that occur with HIV infection. Tell your doctor about all of your medical conditions, including if you have any allergies, are pregnant or plan to become pregnant, or are breast-feeding or plan to breast-feed. ISENTRESS is not recommended for use during pregnancy. Women with HIV should not breast-feed because their babies could be infected with HIV through their breast milk. Tell your doctor about all the medicines you take, including prescription medicines like rifampin (a medicine used to treat infections such as tuberculosis), non-prescription medicines, vitamins, and herbal supplements. You are encouraged to report negative side effects of prescription drugs to the FDA. Visit www.fda.gov/medwatch, or call 1-800-FDA-1088. For more information about ISENTRESS, please read the Patient Information on the following page.

Need help paying for ISENTRESS? Call 1-866-350-9232 ISENTRESS is a registered trademark of Merck Sharp & Dohme Corp., a subsidiary of Merck & Co., Inc. Copyright © 2010 Merck Sharp & Dohme Corp., a subsidiary of Merck & Co., Inc. All rights reserved. 21052250(19)(110)-10/10-ISN-CON Sustiva is a registered trademark of Bristol-Myers Squibb Truvada is a registered trademark of Gilead Sciences, Inc.

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Had a low rate of side effects — The most common side effect of moderate to severe intensity (that interfered with or kept patients from performing daily activities) was trouble sleeping — This side effect occurred more often in patients taking ISENTRESS plus Truvada (4%) versus Sustiva plus Truvada (3%)

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Patient Information ISENTRESS ® (eye sen tris) (raltegravir) Tablets Read the patient information that comes with ISENTRESS1 before you start taking it and each time you get a refill. There may be new information. This leaflet is a summary of the information for patients. Your doctor or pharmacist can give you additional information. This leaflet does not take the place of talking with your doctor about your medical condition or your treatment. What is ISENTRESS? • ISENTRESS is an anti-HIV (antiretroviral) medicine used for the treatment of HIV. The term HIV stands for Human Immunodeficiency Virus. It is the virus that causes AIDS (Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome). ISENTRESS is used along with other anti-HIV medicines. ISENTRESS will NOT cure HIV infection. • People taking ISENTRESS may still develop infections, including opportunistic infections or other conditions that happen with HIV infection. • Stay under the care of your doctor during treatment with ISENTRESS. • The safety and effectiveness of ISENTRESS in children has not been studied. ISENTRESS must be used with other anti-HIV medicines. How does ISENTRESS work? • ISENTRESS blocks an enzyme which the virus (HIV) needs in order to make more virus. The enzyme that ISENTRESS blocks is called HIV integrase. • When used with other anti-HIV medicines, ISENTRESS may do two things: 1. Reduce the amount of HIV in your blood. This is called your “viral load”. 2. Increase the number of white blood cells called CD4 (T) cells. • ISENTRESS may not have these effects in all patients. Does ISENTRESS lower the chance of passing HIV to other people? No. ISENTRESS does not reduce the chance of passing HIV to others through sexual contact, sharing needles, or being exposed to your blood. • Continue to practice safer sex. • Use latex or polyurethane condoms or other barrier methods to lower the chance of sexual contact with any body fluids. This includes semen from a man, vaginal secretions from a woman, or blood. • Never re-use or share needles. Ask your doctor if you have any questions about safer sex or how to prevent passing HIV to other people. What should I tell my doctor before and during treatment with ISENTRESS? Tell your doctor about all of your medical conditions. Include any of the following that applies to you: • You have any allergies. • You are pregnant or plan to become pregnant. - ISENTRESS is not recommended for use during pregnancy. ISENTRESS has not been studied in pregnant women. If you take ISENTRESS while you are pregnant, talk to your doctor about how you can be included in the Antiretroviral Pregnancy Registry. • You are breast-feeding or plan to breast-feed. - It is recommended that HIV-infected women should not breast-feed their infants. This is because their babies could be infected with HIV through their breast milk. - Talk with your doctor about the best way to feed your baby. Tell your doctor about all the medicines you take. Include the following: • prescription medicines, including rifampin (a medicine used to treat some infections such as tuberculosis) • non-prescription medicines • vitamins • herbal supplements Know the medicines you take. • Keep a list of your medicines. Show the list to your doctor and pharmacist when you get a new medicine. How should I take ISENTRESS? Take ISENTRESS exactly as your doctor has prescribed. The recommended dose is as follows: • Take only one 400-mg tablet at a time. • Take it twice a day. • Take it by mouth. • Take it with or without food. Do not change your dose or stop taking ISENTRESS or your other anti-HIV medicines without first talking with your doctor.

If you fail to take ISENTRESS the way you should, here’s what to do: • If you miss a dose, take it as soon as you remember. If you do not remember until it is time for your next dose, skip the missed dose and go back to your regular schedule. Do NOT take two tablets of ISENTRESS at the same time. In other words, do NOT take a double dose. • If you take too much ISENTRESS, call your doctor or local Poison Control Center. Be sure to keep a supply of your anti-HIV medicines. • When your ISENTRESS supply starts to run low, get more from your doctor or pharmacy. • Do not wait until your medicine runs out to get more. What are the possible side effects of ISENTRESS? When ISENTRESS has been given with other anti-HIV drugs, side effects included: • nausea • headache • tiredness • weakness • trouble sleeping • stomach pain • dizziness • depression • suicidal thoughts and actions Other side effects include rash, severe skin reactions, feeling anxious, paranoia, low blood platelet count. A condition called Immune Reconstitution Syndrome can happen in some patients with advanced HIV infection (AIDS) when combination antiretroviral treatment is started. Signs and symptoms of inflammation from opportunistic infections that a person has or had may occur as the medicines work to treat the HIV infection and help to strengthen the immune system. Call your doctor right away if you notice any signs or symptoms of an infection after starting ISENTRESS with other anti-HIV medicines. Contact your doctor promptly if you experience unexplained muscle pain, tenderness, or weakness while taking ISENTRESS. This is because on rare occasions, muscle problems can be serious and can lead to kidney damage. Rash occurred more often in patients taking ISENTRESS and darunavir together than with either drug separately, but was generally mild. Tell your doctor if you have any side effects that bother you. These are not all the side effects of ISENTRESS. For more information, ask your doctor or pharmacist. How should I store ISENTRESS? • Store ISENTRESS at room temperature (68 to 77°F). • Keep ISENTRESS and all medicines out of the reach of children. General information about the use of ISENTRESS Medicines are sometimes prescribed for conditions that are not mentioned in patient information leaflets. • Do not use ISENTRESS for a condition for which it was not prescribed. • Do not give ISENTRESS to other people, even if they have the same symptoms you have. It may harm them. This leaflet gives you the most important information about ISENTRESS. • If you would like to know more, talk with your doctor. • You can ask your doctor or pharmacist for additional information about ISENTRESS that is written for health professionals. • For more information go to www.ISENTRESS.com or call 1-800-622-4477. What are the ingredients in ISENTRESS? Active ingredient: Each film-coated tablet contains 400 mg of raltegravir. Inactive ingredients: Microcrystalline cellulose, lactose monohydrate, calcium phosphate dibasic anhydrous, hypromellose 2208, poloxamer 407 (contains 0.01% butylated hydroxytoluene as antioxidant), sodium stearyl fumarate, magnesium stearate. In addition, the film coating contains the following inactive ingredients: polyvinyl alcohol, titanium dioxide, polyethylene glycol 3350, talc, red iron oxide and black iron oxide.

IMPORTANT: Take ISENTRESS exactly as your doctor prescribed and at the right times of day because if you don’t: • The amount of virus (HIV) in your blood may increase if the medicine is stopped for even a short period of time. • The virus may develop resistance to ISENTRESS and become harder to treat. • Your medicines may stop working to fight HIV. • The activity of ISENTRESS may be reduced (due to resistance).

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Broward House Holds 3rd Annual World AIDS Days Vigil Hundreds to Walk in Candlelight Vigil Down Wilton Drive By Joey Amato

n Wednesday, December 1, nearly 1,000 people are expected to will descend on Wilton Drive to remember those who have passed away from HIV/AIDS. The event intends to give hope to those currently living with the disease. Beginning three years ago, “Our Memories Burn Bright” candlelight vigil and rally has

steadily increased in size each year with last year having over 950 participants. This year the event is sponsored and underwritten by Broward House, The Pride Factory, Broward Health Department, Walgreens, Geovax Pharmaceuticals and Commcare Pharmacy. “The response so far this year leads us to believe the event will be even larger than ever,” said Terry DeCarlo, the events pro-

Feds Support New National Lgbt Youth Suicide Prevention Task Force By Dana Rudolph

and greater funding opportunities specifically for the LGBT community.” He said he national task force dedicated to participated in a similar effort in California suicide prevention among LGBT and was able to ensure that LGBT youth were included in the plans youth will be part and that county grants were of the new National Action LGBT inclusive. Alliance for Suicide PrevenThe Alliance will, howevtion. The Alliance, launched er, act as a coordinating body by Secretary of Health Kathand not have independent leen Sebelius and Secretary grant-making authority, said of Defense Robert Gates in Dr. Richard McKeon, Suicide September, is a public-priPrevention Branch Chief at vate partnership supported SAMHSA, in an interview by the U.S. Department of October 19. Health and Human Services’ Hyde’s letter was in reSubstance Abuse and Mental Pamela S. Hyde sponse to an October 26 letHealth Services Administrater from U.S. Reps. Jerrold Nadler (D-NY), tion (SAMHSA). Pamela S. Hyde, administrator of SAMH- Barney Frank (D-MA), Tammy Baldwin SA, revealed the plan for an LGBT youth (D-WI), and Jared Polis (D-CO). They task force in a five-page letter sent Novem- had written to Hyde to urge the agency to ber 5 in response to an inquiry from leaders take “immediate action… to better protect of the U.S. House’s LGBT Equality Caucus. LGBT youth and prevent further tragedies.” The task force will be led by Charles Their letter also questioned SAMHSA’s reRobbins, head of The Trevor Project, which cent draft plan, Leading Change, and asked operates an LGBT youth suicide prevention whether the agency is putting enough emprogram nationwide, and Kevin Jennings, phasis on “specific suicide prevention efthe Department of Education’s Assistant forts” aimed at LGBT youth. They asked Deputy Secretary for the Office of Safe and to be informed of SAMHSA’s current and Drug-Free Schools. Jennings, an openly gay planned activities in this regard. In her response, Hyde, another of Presiappointee, founded the Gay, Lesbian, and dent Obama’s openly LGBT appointees, Straight Education Network (GLSEN). Robbins said in an interview that he said SAMHSA “recognizes that LGBT thinks the Alliance could have a “broad youth face unique risk factors that make impact” and “provide greater awareness them vulnerable to suicide” and that the

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ducer and public relations and marketing director for Broward House, “We put out a blanket email this year asking for community partners to join us and have been overwhelmed by the outpouring of support.” With support from the City of Wilton Manors, the City of Oakland Park and the Broward Sheriff’s Office, this year’s event will prove to be greater than ever. “In the past, we have had problems with so many people showing up to the rally that people could not hear

or see what was happening,” states DeCarlo. This year, the City of Oakland Park has donated a large stage and professional lighting and sound system, ensuring the event will be enjoyed by all who attend. Beginning at 7:30 p.m., the candlelight procession will begin in Hagen Park (2020 Wilton Drive, behind Wilton Manors City Hall) and proceed east on Wilton Drive ending in the parking lot of the Shoppes of Wilton Manors, where a celebration of life will be held. The vigil is planned to end at approximately 9:00 pm. For more information on the event or on Broward House, please visit BrowardHouse.org.

agency “will use its programs and initiatives to ensure a focus on LGBT youth.” Specific SAMHSA efforts for helping LGBT youth, Hyde wrote, include the SAMHSA-funded Suicide Prevention Resource Center, which “includes LGBT youth as one of its priority populations.” The agency has also “produced publications and trainings geared toward improving awareness and capacity for suicide prevention for LGBT youth.” SAMHSA’s National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Hyde noted, “routinely refers youth to The Trevor Project.” The agency also directs funds to state, tribal, and campus suicide prevention programs through its Garrett Lee Smith grants, Hyde wrote, noting that currently nearly half of the 32 state grantees and nearly a third of the 68 campus grantees reported activities focused on LGBT youth. Hyde said materials from the Human Rights Campaign’s Welcoming Schools program—designed to address family diversity, gender stereotyping, and bullying in elementary education—are included in resources given to grantees of SAMHSA’s Child, Adolescent, and Family Branch. SAMHSA’s Annual Children’s Mental Health Conference this coming March will hold a workshop using the Welcoming Schools materials as well as anti-bullying resources developed by the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network (GLSEN). And a toolkit being developed by SAMHSA to help schools create suicide prevention programs will include materials from Trevor. Additionally, Trevor will be invited to participate in SAMHSA’s National Workgroup

on the behavioral health of LGBT youth and their families. The YES Institute, a Miamibased organization that trains providers, families, and others about suicide-related behavior in LGBT youth, is already taking part. The Workgroup, according to its Web site, will “help identify specific strategies and interventions” for caregivers and communities. SAMHSA has also disseminated to staff and grantees recommendations from the Family Acceptance Project, a major academic study showing the connections between family rejection of LGBT youth and mental health problems, including depression and suicidal behavior. Answering the representatives’ question about SAMHSA’s immediate next steps, Hyde wrote that she and leaders of the agency’s Sexual Gender Minority Interest Group recently met representatives of the National Coalition for LGBT Health, including Trevor, to plan ways of working together and including Trevor in some federal anti-bullying efforts. To the representatives’ question about whether SAMHSA might need additional resources or legal authority to help with its efforts around LGBT youth, Hyde said no. She noted, however, that the attention on LGBT youth suicides has “mobilized SAMHSA staff and leadership across multiple Federal agencies to renew their commitment to these youth.” Rep. Nadler, in a statement about Hyde’s reply, thanked SAMHSA for its “comprehensive response.” He called the agency’s “recommitment” and “increased focus” on suicide prevention among LGBT youth “encouraging.” He said he looked forward to seeing the “concrete steps” SAMHSA will take, and to working together with SAMHSA and other partners in the Obama Administration to ensure that they “achieve results.”

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pany, according to bankruptcy documents. against students who burned a gay pride flag Chapter 11 bankruptcy allows companies at the school last month. unable to pay creditors to reorganize and According to the Associated Press, a stateMark Anton, the executive director make arrangements to pay off the debt over ment from Albion president Donna Randall of Palm Springs, Calif.’s AIDS Assistance an extended time period without going out said that a student contacted college officials Program, happily received a $150,000 check of business. Movahedi has said he intends on October 19 to report that other students for his organization from Wells Fargo Bank, had burned presented by executive Gary Hall this week. to keep his Mova bars open in the flag. The money will help provide food vouchboth venues. “The Michiers for 500 HIV-positive people in the Palm The bankruptgan school’s Springs area. cy filing shows Campus Safety “Wells Fargo has really come through for department us in a time of great need, and their support that Logan Circle Spectrum, which investigated encourages others to give,” Anton said in a is headquartered and identified press release. in South Miami the students involved,” Gay Bar Mova Files for Beach, has liabilities totaling reports the AP. Bankruptcy in Miami “Randall says The Washington Blade reported this week $874,817 and Michigan Campus of Albion College assets totaling investigators that the owner of the D.C. gay bar Mova $72, 507. The largest single creditor is PNC determined that the students found the flag filed for Chapter 11 bankruptcy protecin a trashcan and decided to burn it.” tion last month in U.S. Bankruptcy Court in Bank, which is owed more than $560,000, according to the filing. Randall said that “appropriate action” was Miami, Fla. taken against the students for their conduct, Mova owner Babak Movahedi filed the but that privacy laws prevented her from bankruptcy documents through Logan Circle Pride Flag Burned revealing any details of the action. Spectrum, LLC, the company that owns Mova at College The private four-year university is located bars in both Washington and Miami Beach. The president of Albion College in MichiMovahedi is the sole shareholder of the com- gan said that “appropriate action” was taken in Albion, Mich.

Mexico Backs Benefits for Couples The Mexican House of Representatives voted Tuesday to amend rules governing social security benefits for gay and lesbian couples, the Associated Press reports. In a 232 to 58 vote, the house endorsed a rule change for the Social Security Institute, which provides benefits to both private and government employees. The senate has yet to vote on the measure. In August the Mexico Supreme Court upheld a law granting marriage equality in Mexico City. Unions performed in the Mexican capital must also be recognized in all 31 Mexican states, the court ruled, though no state is required to sanction gay marriages performed outside Mexico City.

Arrested at the White House According to the Advocate, 13 activists calling for the repeal of “don’t ask, don’t tell” have been arrested for handcuffing themselves to the White House fence last week. Among those arrested by the U.S. Park

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SFGN BRIEFS Police were former Army lieutenant Dan Choi and the Reverend Geoff Farrow, a Catholic priest who has spoken in favor of marriage equality, CNN reports. The group chanted, “I am somebody! I deserve full equality!” and “Let us serve!” throughout the protest. The group is calling on the Senate and president to act on a campaign promise, which has been repeatedly reiterated, to repeal the law barring gays and lesbians from serving openly in the military. Choi has been arrested for similar protests, as he cuffed himself to the fence in April with Capt. Jim Pietrangelo, Petty Officer Larry Whitt, Petty Officer Autumn Sandeen, Cadet Mara Boyd, and Cpl. Evelyn Thomas. The previous month, he was arrested with Pietrangelo for the same act.

Croatia Football Official Investigated for Antigay Slur The head of Croatia’s Football Association has been summoned to a disciplinary hearing after saying he would exclude gay players from the national team.

The Union of European Football School Deletes Op-Eds Association has opened a case against A free speech debate rages at a Catholic Vlatko Markovic, citing an article in the school in Minnesota after a student newssoccer authority’s disciplinary code call- paper deleted two op-eds that generated ing for sanctions if someone “insults the controversy for being critical of the Catholic human dignity of a person or group of church and supportive of gay teenagers. persons.” According to Minnesota Public Radio, the The UEFA’s op-eds in the disciplinary Knight Errant panel will newspaper hear the case at Benilde-St. November Margaret’s 25. Markovic, school in St. who is seeking Louis Park reelection as accompanied president of an article the Croatia about the association Preserving Vlatko Markovic in December, Marriage in could be stripped of all duties. Minnesota DVDs sent by bishops to the During an interview last month, Marstate’s Catholics prior to the recent eleckovic said a gay player “certainly” will tions. Senior Bernardo Vigil called the DVD not play for Croatia as long as he heads “unsubstantiated.” the federation. When asked if he’d ever A piece by Sean Simonson about the worked with a gay soccer player, he said, struggles of life as a gay teenager touched “No. Fortunately only healthy people off the fiercest debate. He said he was play soccer.” moved to write by the recent series of

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Economic News

Retail Sales Rise but Holiday Outlook Bleak South Florida Residents Plan to Spend Less By Joey Amato

espite a greater than expected rise in retail sales in October, many local South Florida residents are still hesitant to spend more this holiday season. Sales rose more than expected in October to post their largest gain in seven months, further evidence the economy is regaining strength. The overall report offered hope for the holiday but many people were quick to note they would spend the same, if not less, compared to last year. According to CNBC, Total retail sales increased 1.2 percent, boosted by purchases of motor vehicles and building materials, after advancing by 0.7 percent in September. The rise last month was almost double market expectations for a 0.7 percent gain. In a separate report, the New York Federal

Reserve’s “Empire State” general business conditions index fell to 11.1 in November from 15.7 in October. Economists had expected a tick down to 14 this month. Analysts were quick to note the survey was not a bellwether for the rest of the U.S economy. Recently, the Federal Reserve debuted a controversial $600 billion round of bond buying, known as quantitative easing, to provide additional stimulus. This round of stimulus became known as QE2. Michael Woolfolk, senior currency strategist at BNY Mellon in New York, states, “If the

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iday period is going to be a good one for retail sales,” said Tim Ghriskey, chief investment officer at Solaris Asset Management in Bedford Hills, N.Y. Here in South Florida, pessimism is high. Local businessman, Kimber White of United American Mortgage is planning on spending the same, if not, less than last year. “I plan on being more frugal than last year,” he states. “I will spend more wisely, even though I have the capability to spend more.” Another local resident, Gerri Vidal-Rosa agreed with White. “No way will I spend more this year. In fact I may go back to making gifts out of construction paper and glitter,” she says jokingly. With the increase in personal dept, Susan Caplan of Pompano Beach is also keeping a tight hold on her wallet. “I am more broke than I was last year,” states Caplan. “Everything seems to be piling up, medical bills, car repairs, etc. The raise I received this year is barely worth talking about.” Notwithstanding the local outlook, we will need to wait until after Black Friday figures are released to get a true gauge of how this year’s holiday spending will compare to years past.

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lives of countless gay men and women, including mine, through their selfless dedication to our community,” Places tells us. To overcome any challenges, Place has entrenched himself in the senior LGBT community, serving on advisory boards, aligning with elder law attorneys and speaking to health care professionals and caregivers on LGBT cultural diversity and sensitivity Bill Adkins and Christopher Place training. “My platform is a gay business man promoting health care equality, so By Joey Amato outh Florida resident Christopher I encourage cultural diversity challenges as a Place is a foremost expert in LGBT way to educate the mainstream health care senior care. The Annapolis, Mary- industry,” states Place. Recently, Place wrote an article for The land native has spent the majority of his career in the health care industry and is Pride Center’s Assisted Living Guide on now a Senior Care Manager with Alterna- LGBT cultural diversity in the health care tive Care Solutions, a company which he industry. He has also established a volunteer based “Stay Connected Program” that owns and operates. A registered nurse, Place specializes in reaches out to LGBT seniors who are facing providing home health services, medical ad- financial hardship. The Stay Connected Program has two vocacy, home safety remodeling, legal and financial referrals, insurance guidance and al- components; volunteers make scheduled ternative housing placement. “I can assist se- calls to seniors to ensure safety and decrease alienation through peer support, and secniors with all their health care ondly, the program assists caregivers needs,” Place tells SFGN. with complete care manageOne of four siblings, ment and resourcing for Place decided to pursue a their loved one. career in health care for two “I am proud to say that reasons. First, he describes Alternative Care Solutions himself as a natural caregiver. and the Stay Connected Program, re“The second reason is to establish health care resources for the LGBT senior community. ceived national recognition by the Dorland My goal is to increase cultural awareness of Peoples Awards.” The award honors excelour community’s diverse needs and decrease lence and dedication among health care professionals. mainstream health care prejudice.” “I also speak with LGBT social and Inspired by industry veterans and founding members of SunServe: Ron English, philanthropic groups to raise awareness Dino Georgiou and Herb Rosenberg, who of our community- based senior resource were all intricate in establishing the first fed- availability.” Place and his partner of 18 years, Bill erally funded LGBT senior and youth community service organization, Place is ani- Adkins enjoy gardening, boating and barmate about providing services that increase bequing by their pool when they are not out the quality of life, dignity and independence helping LGBT seniors. They are also active supporters of SunServe, Noble A. McArtor for aging seniors. SunServe is a grassroots not for profit adult day care, Lambda Legal, and the Pride organization providing youth services and Center. “I support these organizations besenior adult day care in Fort Lauderdale. cause I see the difference that one person “These three gentlemen helped change the can make.”

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November 24, 2010

‘Thank God I’m Gay’ By Rabbi Greg Kanter

omedian Bob Smith said that when he came out over Thanksgiving dinner he said, “Mom, could you please pass the mashed potatoes to a homosexual?” “So,” he adds, “She passed the potatoes to my Dad.” I don’t recommend coming out over Thanksgiving dinner; not unless you want to be subject to years of, “You ruined Thanksgiving for me forever!” But I do recommend coming out. And this Thanksgiving, while we might not make an announcement over dinner, we all have plenty of reasons to give thanks that we are gay. “Thanks for being gay?” you ask. Yes, indeed! And I’m not talking about the stereotypical tongue-in-cheek responses – all the great clothes, fabulous sense of style, hot guys, etc. I’m talking about real bona fide reasons we can thank God we were created just as we are. Thank God for letting me know who I really am. Because I know I am gay and don’t hide it (anymore) either consciously or subconsciously, I have a better grasp of the person I really am. Consider all the people who wander through life not really understanding deep parts of their own psyche, people who live lives that are so repressed that they have no concept of themselves. Because God helped us to understand ourselves just as we were created, we have a huge advantage over all those poor souls. No doubt there is still much for us to learn about who we are, but we already have a tremendous headstart when we understand that we are gay. When we accept ourselves totally, we are even further ahead in the game. Thank God for the self-awareness that comes with knowing I am gay. Thank God I can understand and appreciate what it means to be on the margin of society. But why would one want to understand those unfortunate individuals who

live on society’s margins? What good can come from that? As I see it, we are better human beings when we have a better grasp of what the world is all about. Sure, we could go through life in a shiny little bubble never knowing what it means for people to suffer. But when we understand our own suffering, we can better relate to the suffering of others and we are more inspired to do something about it. You can live in an ivory tower if you’d like. I prefer to see life as it is, warts and all. Because God made me this way, I see the world differently, better. I thank God I have inspiration to fight for the rights of the oppressed. Thank God for my GLBT friends. When I wandered through life in the closet, I had few if any gay friends. Subconsciously I must have been keeping our community at arm’s-length; not in a hateful way, but in a way that reflected a tremendous fear of guilt by association. Now, that the fear and the closet are behind me, my world is opened up to a world of beautiful people I never would have known; people who love and support me for the person I am, not the monster they fear or imagine. Thank God for beautiful GLBT friends who make life more rich and meaningful. Thank God for passion, love and sexuality. In the Jewish tradition, even for the most Orthodox Jews, sex is not something we are supposed to be ashamed of. Rather, sex is a gift from God given to us so that we might enjoy life even more. Too many people associate sex with shame. They live afraid of the feelings God gave us. They punish themselves and others for daring to have sexual thoughts, to speak about sex, to express themselves at all in a sexual way. Now, God doesn’t want us to use sex as a weapon anymore than God wants others to use the Bible as a weapon. Both are gifts

meant to make life more meaningful. Unfortunately, not everyone sees it that way. Fortunately, we in the GLBT community can learn to love ourselves just as God made us – feelings, emotions, attractions and all. Thank God for letting me know what it means to be attracted to another man. Thank God I can change the world. Because we are different from the mainstream, we can stretch the edges of the envelope. We can create new definitions of marriage, of family, of values. Many people fear change and anything unlike themselves. By virtue of our being different from the start we can change the world to think about life in new and better ways. We can be parents. We can be mentors. We can be husbands and wives – even if it’s not in the way most people think about the world. By doing so we expand peoples’ minds about the possibilities this world offers us. Because God made me gay, I can show other people that the world does not exist in black in white; that there is a rich rainbow of colors on the palette from which to choose. Thank God for giving me the gifts with which I can change the world for the better. This year on Thanksgiving, let us count our blessings. We may want to wait a few days before telling Mom what she always suspected anyway. But let us not forget that life is so rich and rewarding if we open our eyes to the possibilities. Whoever thought being gay was a curse wasn’t thinking hard enough. May God bless us and keep us – Amen! For Jesse Monteagudo’s profile of Rabbi Kanter, go to: SouthFloridaGayNews.com/kanter

Letters, We Got Letters Comment on: ‘Strike Up the Band’ (10/27) DEAR EDITOR: I can’t thank you enough for the article of the Lambda Chorale and Krop High joint concert in this weeks paper. Yeah, it will be an exciting program and important to the success and continua-

tion of both my high school program and Lambda AND making a contribution to the Komen Foundation. But mixing the lgbt and straight supportive chorus with my kids is also a really big deal. With a high school arts program, the recent issues with gay men committing suicide has been a class discussion often instead of music theory or learning the next song. And why not because that has been real education. I know that when I share the article with my students tomorrow, and with Lambda Chorale tomorrow night before the concert, it will give them a great feeling of support and confidence. Again, I can’t thank you enough. Sincerely,

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The Dream Catchers By Pier Angelo Guidugli “The Earth is the mother of all people, and all people should have equal rights upon it.” Chief Joseph,1879

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tives who lived here before them. Historians, writers and moviemakers told and retold it, in a variety of ways, arousing, each time, feelings and opinions often different and conflicting with each other. Before the world became “politically correct,” before we had 150 TV channels of crap to choose from, before HBO, before Clint Eastwood and Dances with Wolves, the “cowboy and Indian” films solidified the Western myth for Americans. The cowboys were the champions of civilization, the Indians the ferocious savages intent upon killing whites and civilization itself. Little attempt was made to portray the Indian view that they had the right to protect themselves, their lands and way of life from the encroaching wagon trains.

laws cannot eliminate hate crimes. We must recognize that law is an important but a weak tool of social change. It is only through a change of hearts and minds that we can substantially change the grim Courtesy of dot429.com reality that greets many members of our community as they try to make their way in a still-hostile society. But what law can do is that helps educate health care and social service to send a signal to those who would comproviders, corporations, government agencies, mitdiscrimination and hate crimes. In addition to proand community-based orviding legal recourse to ganizations about the perthe victim, law sends vasive discrimination and a signal to a potential violence faced by transgenperpetrator as to what dered and gender-variant society finds acceptable people in this society. or unacceptable, and On a solemn occasion so enactment of transsuch as the Transgender gender-inclusive statutes Day of Remembrance, can powerful influence when we remember those we have lost to violence Kelly O’Neil with her son Dominic the governing discourse Pierce during the International of social relations with and hate, it is important Transgender Day of Remembrance regard to how to treat to understand what legislation and law can and cannot do. Non-dis- transgendered and gender-variant people. NYAGRA’s philosophy is to view law as a crimination laws can help protect us from discrimination, but they cannot eliminate tool to educate the public as well as a means discrimination. Hate crimes laws can help of providing transgendered and gender-varireduce hate crimes against transgendered ant people with legal redress. Just as we must people – at least those that include gender pursue legal change – such as the addition identity and expression, but hate crimes of gender identity and expression to human

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Transgender Day: A Journey for Social Change he Transgender Day of Remembrance was started by activist Gwen Smith to mark the death of Rita Hester, a transgendered woman murdered in Boston in November 1998. This year, the 12th annual TDOR is observed in hundreds of cities and towns around the country and around the world, from Poughkeepsie to Perugia, from Salt Lake City to Sydney, from Tacoma to Tel Aviv. In November 2009, I was honored to give the keynote speech in observance of the first TDOR in the state of Iowa, standing with members of the Iowa transgender community in front of the state capitol in Des Moines. I spoke about the work of the New York Association for Gender Rights Advocacy, an organization that I lead and that I co-founded in 1998. NYAGRA is best known for its legislative work, some of the most important work that we do is the transgender sensitivity training

Who were the Good? Who were the Bad? It was certainly Ugly. It was ambition vs desperation. It became genocide. An entire culture was wiped out, a culture that in many ways was ahead of its time and

perhaps ahead of our present time. They were spiritual people, at peace with their world, respectful of mother nature. They were the original “greens,” conservationists continued on page 38

rights law – to protect transgendered and gender-variant people from discrimination, we must use legislation and litigation to educate the public so that members of the public understand the pervasive discrimination and violence that transgendered and gender-variant people still face, even in those cities, counties and states with transgender-inclusive nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws. The challenge for us is not only a political challenge of getting legislation through city councils, county and state legislatures, and Congress; it is also the challenge of winning the hearts and minds of our family members, friends, neighbors, colleagues, and fellow citizens. And so when we commemorate the Transgender Day of Remembrance, we must join together in re-committing ourselves to the task of transforming society’s understanding of gender in order to make our world a safe one for all people regardless of gender identity or expression. Pauline Park is chair of the New York Association for Gender Rights Advocacy (NYAGRA), vicepresident of the board of directors of the Transgender Legal Defense and the subject of “Envisioning Justice,” a 32-minute documentary about her life and work which premiered at the New York LGBT Film Festival (NewFest) in 2008.

November 24, 2010 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com

Senate to Vote Again on Military Gay Ban By ANNE FLAHERTY Associated Press

WASHINGTON (AP) – The U.S. Senate’s top Democrat said Wednesday that he will call for a vote later this month on legislation that would allow gays to serve openly in the military. Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid’s announcement makes good on his pre-election promise to resurrect legislation that would repeal the 1993 law known as “don’t ask, don’t tell.’’ But it remains far from certain whether the legislation would have enough votes to pass. Several leading Republicans, including Sen. John McCain, have said they oppose lifting the ban. “We need to repeal this discriminatory policy so that any American who wants to defend our country can do so,’’ Reid said in a statement. The legislation would, for the first time,

allow gay troops to acknowledge publicly their sexual orientation. However, the repeal of the current law would take effect after the president and his top military advisers certify that doing so would not hurt the military’s ability to fight. The bill emerged from a deal struck earlier this year between more liberal Democrats eager to change the law and the White House, under pressure by the Pentagon to give it more time to determine how to repeal the law without causing any backlash. The provision is tucked into a broader defense policy bill that includes such popular programs as a pay raise for the troops, which gay rights groups hoped would help its chances of passing. But when the bill reached the Senate floor in September – just weeks before the

midterm Congressional elections – Republicans united in objecting to its debate on procedural grounds. Reid insisted that few amendments be considered in the interest of time; Republicans said restricting debate on such a wide-ranging policy bill was unfair. Jim Manley, a spokesman for Reid, said Wednesday that it had not been decided yet how many or which amendments might be

considered for debate. A wild card in the upcoming debate will be a Pentagon study on gays in the military that is likely to be released just days before the Senate vote. Last February, Defense Secretary Robert Gates said he supports an eventual repeal of the law but wanted time to figure out how it should be done. He ordered a 10-month study due Dec. 1. A draft of the 370-page assessment has found that the ban could be lifted with little harm and that most troops don’t object to the change in personnel policy, according to officials familiar with its findings. But it also found that some troops had serious concerns with repealing the law. Military officials have warned that even scattered resistance to the change could pose logistical and discipline problems for field commanders. Gay rights groups see the lame-duck session of Congress, before newly elected Republicans are sworn in, as their best chance at repealing the law. The House has already passed the bill. But come January when the new Congress is seated, Republicans will take control the House and the Democratic majority in the Senate will be narrowed by six seats.

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ers – lawyers, journalists or demonstrators working on the behalf of subjugated groups. The amendment removing the sexual orientation reference was sponsored by Benin on behalf of the African Group within the United Nations General Assembly. A startling 79 votes were in favor of removing the clause protecting sexual orientation. Sara Perle, a spokesperson for the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission (IGLHRC) based in Manhattan kindly clarified what this action means. Needless to say the IGLHRC is deeply disappointed in the actions of the Third Committee. “The amendment removed the words ‘sexual orientation’ from a paragraph in the resolution that listed particularly vulnerable groups of persons who are targeted by killings, including all groups targeted for discriminatory reasons. The resolution is voted on every two years and in the past has included this language noting the vulnerability of people targeted because of their sexual orientation, language which reflects the understandings of the Special Rapporteur on extrajudicial, summary and arbitrary executions, an independent human rights expert,” Perle explained. The IGLHRC noted that all people have a right to life free from extrajudicial, summary and arbitrary executions. However, it is disturbing that States of this amendment do not see the frequent killing of individuals because of their actual, or perceived, sexual orientation. “The resolution is important in international efforts to end violations on the most important human right – the right to life,” said Perle. “It’s tragic that the lives of LGBT people have been used to garner support around this human rights instrument, but in trying to get more governments to support this and in trying to make it seem less controversial, we cannot accept the sacrifice of the human rights of LGBT people.” Fortunately, this resolution is brought before the UN for a vote every two years. Unfortunately, there are countries whose LGBT citizens might not be able to wait for the amendment to be overturned in favor of

Locke Delivers gay chamber Keynote WASHINGTON – U.S. Commerce Secretary Gary Locke addressed lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) business owners and entrepreneurs at the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC) 7th Annual National Business and Leadership Conference. SFGN was represented at the Conference by Managing Editor Joey Amato, whose interviews will appear in future issues. Locke emphasized the strong partnership between the Obama administration and the NGLCC to advance issues important to the LGBT community, and highlighted a Memorandum of Understanding that he will sign to deepen the relationship between the Department of Commerce and the Chamber and expand opportunities for all LGBT businesses. To read the complete address by Sec. Locke, go to : SouthFloridaGayNews.com/locke

their protection. “[The ruling] essentially removes the important recognition of the particular vulnerability faced by LGBT people – a recognition that is crucial at a time when 76 countires around the world criminalize homosexuality, five consider it a capital crime and countries like Uganda are considering adding the death penalty under their laws criminalizing homosexuality,” said Cary A. Johnson, Executive Director of IGLHRC. British equality advocate Peter Tatchell called it a “shameful” decision. What is also surprising are some of the countries, which voted to strip the language protecting LGBT citizens. “South Africa and Cuba claim to support human rights, yet they voted to remove sexual orientation,” Tatchell stated in a press release. “Both countries have allied themselves with tyrannical, violent, homophobic regimes, like Saudia Arabia and Iran.” For more information please visit, IGLHRC.org

November 24, 2010 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com

Texas Teen Burned, Bludgeoned in Hate Crime

he LGBT newspaper of record in Texas, the Dallas Voice is now reporting that a young teenager was bludgeoned and burned to death in a possible hate crime. Joshua Wilkerson, 18, was missing for 24 hours from his school in Pearland, Texas, when a man who was helping with the hunt told authorities he beat the victim to death and burned his body after the victim made sexual advances toward him. Authorities now say that Joshua Wilkerson, 18, was beaten with a large wooden rod and that his body was burned. Hermilio Moralez, 19, is charged with murder in Wilkerson’s death. That is what Channel 13 in Houston reported Thursday. According to court documents, Wilkerson gave Moralez a ride home from school Tuesday and Moralez stated that Wilkerson began to make sexual advances towards him. Moralez said they got out of the truck and began to fight when Wilkerson grabbed a large wooden rod and tried

to hit him. Moralez said he took the piece of wood from Wilkerson and began to hit him with it. He said Wilkerson was not moving afterwards. The court documents state that Moralez told police he drove Wilkerson to a field along FM 521 near 518 and burned the body. Morales said he then drove Wilkerson’s pickup truck to the parking lot of a nearby strip center and threw Wilkerson’s shoes and backpack into a dumpster there.

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Dave Koz J.W. Arnold

ou won’t find jazz saxophonist Dave Koz at a Jews for Jesus rally, but he really loves Christmas music and, on Monday, Nov. 29, Koz will return to Fort Lauderdale’s Broward Center on his Smooth Jazz Christmas tour. “I grew up in a household that celebrated Chanukah, but you can’t escape Christmas music during the holidays,” Koz explains. “I think as a saxophonist, I gravitate to those melodies that I can really sink my chops into. They never go out of style, because they’re great.” Ironically, Koz’s favorite Christmas song is “White Christmas,” made popular by Bing Crosby and written by Irving Berlin, a Jewish composer. “That’s definitely one audiences will hear. I just fell in love with it years ago. It’s so ‘Christmasy’ and all the emotions of the holiday are tied up in those notes,” the multiple Grammy-nominee says. “It’s such a great irony that a lot of the most famous songs of the holiday season were written by Jewish people.” He also emphasizes that his musical celebration is about the “feelings of the season” and not so much a religious experience: “We remember who we are

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A Smooth Jazz Christmas 2010 Au-Rene Theater, Broward Center for the Performing Arts Monday, Nov. 29 at 7:30 p.m. Tickets $35-65 at BrowardCenter.org or 954-462-0222

and put our best foot forward. That’s why I like to tour this time of year, everyone’s hearts are wide open, more so than other times of the year.” Audiences at the Broward Center can expect the plenty of holiday standards, but should expect some surprises, as well. In addition to Koz, they will be treated to performances by South African jazz musician Jonathan Butler, keyboardist Brian Culbertson, and Dutch alto saxophonist Candy Dulfer. In fact, this tour marks the first time Koz has invited another saxophonist to perform on his holiday tour. He promises a high-energy, familyoriented performance that will please longtime fans and new ones alike. Koz says audience will also get a taste of his latest album, “Hello Tomorrow,” which was just released in October and holds a commanding position on the Billboard charts. The album, his first in seven years since coming out and nearly 20 years from his debut, stretched Koz creatively and became an expressive outlet after the loss of his mother. But, he says, make no mistakes, the album channels new sounds and energy. Following his South Florida performance, Koz takes the tour around the country and then he resumes a demanding international performance schedule. Ultimately, Koz is reminded of some advice he received years ago. He concludes, “It gets a little crazy, but I love it, I thrive on it. The people who come to see us are what keep us going. Somebody said to me a long time ago, the show you do for free, but you’re paid for the other 23 hours of the day. The shows make it all worthwhile.”

November 24, 2010 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com

Nightlife by J.W. Arnold Saturday, Nov. 27

Giving Thanks for a Special Weekend

ne of the biggest weekends of the South Florida nightlife scene is finally upon us as the Thanksgiving holiday approaches. Of course, all eyes will be on Miami Beach and the weekend-long festivities associated with the White Party, but across the region most bars and clubs are also planning special parties to celebrate the long holiday weekend. If you load up on too much Thanksgiving turkey, you’re likely to succumb to a tryptophan-induced food coma and sleep through the fun, but a quick trip to the gym or even that last minute trip to Publix could serve to keep you alert. Here’s a look at some of the fun to be had this weekend in South Florida: Wednesday, Nov. 24

tart your holiday weekend right. Legendary DJ Manny Lehman will be in the booth at The Manor to kick off the Thanksgiving weekend tonight.There is no cover.The Manor is located at 2345 Wilton Dr. in Wilton Manors. Thursday, Nov. 25

an into the new owner of Dudes on the Beach while he, Gannon, was enjoying a Mimosa at the Sunday Brunch in the Manor. But for male dancers, music, videos, and $5 Martinis, catch the energy and excitement at Dudes, located at 2370 NE 33rd Street, in an intimate club with virile male entertainment and friendly guests Open late nite and weekends. 3-41 daily from 4-9pm on all well and domestic drafts. Friday, Nov. 26

hile things are “white” down south, in Fort Lauderdale, black is definitely the color. The Leather Masked Ball returns this year at the Sea Monster, 2 S. New River Dr.West. DJ Paul Kraft from Dallas will provide the music for the sultry evening. Proceeds from this year’s party benefit a Pride Center program to help gay men avoid crystal meth.

ons of hunky gay softball players head into Fort Lauderdale for the Hurricane Showdown tournament and many will be heading to South Florida’s sports bar, Sidelines, tonight for one of the official tournament parties.The party starts at 9 p.m. Sidelines Sports Bar is located at 2031-A Wilton Dr. in Wilton Manors. Sunday, Nov. 28

he Bay, boasting a 2300 sq. ft. indoor/ outdoor waterfront dance space, hosts T for 2000 today from 4 – 10 p.m. NYC DJ Eddie Baez will be on hand, along with your hosts, including Adora, Chyna Girl, Asia Aviance, Kitty Meow and Pussila.There’s no cover before 6 p.m. and they’ll be running a shuttle from 12th and Ocean in Miami Beach.You’ll find the action at 1601 79th St. Causeway in North Bay Village. Monday, Nov. 29

e don’t know about you, but we think we’ll be recuperating from the weekend. Or maybe we’ll stop by the Manchester Room at Georgie’s Alibi for one of bartender extraordinaire Lisa’s thirst-quenching cocktails. After a big holiday weekend, the 2-for-1 cocktails may be in order. How many weeks until Christmas?

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Heard it on...

Cher on gays “I think gay men either love you or they don’t even notice you’re alive on the planet. And if they do love you they kind of stick with you through thick and through thin, even when you’re not popular. They recognize kindred spirits that don’t really fit into society, either. And, of course, there’s sequins.” – Cher

SFFP Holds Holiday Party South Florida Family Pride will hold its Seventh Annual Christmas and Chanukah Holiday Party for gay and lesbian parents, their families, and friends at the Pride Cen-

ter at Equality Park on Sunday, December 5 from 2:30 – 5:30 p.m. Guests will be treated to a grand “pot luck” feast, arts and crafts courtesy of Ft. Lauderdale Children’s Theatre, singing, face painting, and holiday surprises for the kids.

Slater Scores New Job

Steven Slater will put his vast experience of memorable air flights to use after signing a deal to judge travelers’ ‘craziest’ stories. The former JetBlue flight For more details, go to Southfloridafamattendant will represent the ilypride.com or call 954-463-9005. “Mile High Text Club” contest, which invites travelers to text in Details Cover Sure to their most outrageous stories. Bring Glee in December The deal is with the company Matthew Morrison, who plays Mr. behind a mobile communicaShuester on the Fox hit Glee, will grace the tion application, Line2, which cover of Details magazine for their Decemallows inflight texting on Wi-Fi ber cover. Initially they planned on a humorequipped planes. Peter Sisson, ous cover with the show’s entire cast. That CEO of Toktumi, the company was until they discovered what the behind the application, called actor looked like without his Slater “a perfect judge for a sweater vest, button down, contest concerning the current and tie on. state of air travel. “After talkHighlights from the ing with Steven, I realized that article reveal that Mordespite his dramatic approach rison feels as if he really is a young guy on Broadway.” Yet, he did not – which he regrets – he was making a statea teacher to his younger ment about the need to return civility and co-stars on Glee, whom he loose his virginity until he was 21 and even joined a Bible-study group in college. Oddly, common courtesy to flying.” refers to as “the kids,” and and modestly he claims being perceived as a The “Mile High Text Club” pushes the has taken under his wing. He cause of communicating via text on a flight says he learns a lot being on the set. sex-object confuses him. “I’m not comfortable with the idea of my sex appeal, but I so other passengers are not disturbed He also reveals that his stunning chest is know in my job I have to use it.” by loud voice calls. Slater made national in part owed to his love of paddle boarding All fans of Glee are glad you have it, and headlines in August after he made a drafor exercise. “I got my own board,” he told look forward to you using it as much as pos- matic emergency slide exit from a JetBlue reporters. “It’s a great core workout.” He also reveals some interesting personal sible! Might we suggest an episode where the plane after an altercation with a passenger cast does synchronized swimming and singing? over luggage. facts. He admits, “a lot of girls when I was

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White Party Parties

hen one thinks of Miami, it’s all about skimpy clothes on beautiful bodies and hanging out in the warm sun. So while most of the country is cold during Thanksgiving weekend it’s the perfect time for White Party Week in Florida. Even better, these week-long parties benefit HIV/ AIDS charities, making this week fun for you and good for the community. We’ve covered the main info, as well as history of the White Party itself, and now it’s time to cover the other sexy, sultry events. Highlights include: • White Heat, November 24, 9:00pm - 3:00am—NO COVER • White Journey, November 25, 10:00pm - 5:00am • White Dreams, November 26, 10:000pm - 8:00am • Heatwave Pool Party, November 27, 11:00am - 5:00pm • White Party—The Main Event—November 27, 6:30-11:30pm • Muscle Beach, November 28, 1:00 - 10:00pm • White Sunset T-Dance, November 28, 3:00 - 11:00pm—NO COVER • White Horizons, November 29, 5:00am - 4:00pm And none of that covers all the local cultural events filling up the city during this week.

November 24, 2010 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com

Miami Seaquarium:

White Party Guests Invited to Swim with Dolphins

By A. Sebastian Fortino

f you are attending the White Party this year, and were a fan of the popular TV show “Flipper” – whether in syndication or when it was new – and always wanted a chance to get up close and personal with a dolphin the Miami Seaquarium has an offer you’ll love! Judging by the beautiful photographs provided by the Miami Seaquarium the opportunity will be one you and your loved ones will cherish for a lifetime. It’s not everyone

that can claim such an experience. “Miami Seaquarium is proud to welcome all the White Party Week guests to South Florida with this special offer to get in the water with dolphins for a truly memorable experience,” said Eric Eimstad,Vice President of Marketing at the Miami Seaquarium. Guests must mention having White Party tickets when reserving their time with the dolphins. The packages must be booked and completed by December 17. Sarah Graff, Manager of Animal Training

said that the experience is always positive, for both humans and dolphins alike. Her energy and vitality clearly let SFGN know she loves her job. “We operate in small groups. It’s very intimate, you the trainer and the dolphin,” she explained. “People don’t realize these are very large animals, that weigh between 500 and 600 lbs. To interact with them is amazing, especially the dorsal tow.” Like something out of a movie, a “dorsal tow” is when the animal swims underneath you, allows you to grab onto them while they pull you to the other side of the water. The animals, however, are not forced into this kind of behavior. “Dolphins are so big we can’t make them do what they don’t want to do. They truly want to interact and play with the humans,” Graff said, and human guests seem to get very attached to the dolphins and their very distinct personalities. “Everyone says their dolphin is the best,” laughed Graff. Dolphin Odyssey, offers guests a one and a half-hour magical experience with one of the 12 Atlantic Bottlenose Dolphins that call the Seaquarium home. If you do not

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wish to swim with the dolphins the Dolphin Encounter program allows guests to wade out into shallow water to interact with them that way. This program also features an educational seminar that includes information on dolphin training techniques. The Dolphin Odyssey program costs $199 plus tax per person, while the Dolphin Encounter program costs $139 per person.Tickets for children, aged three to nine years of age are priced at $99. An adult must accompany those under 18 years of age.This special White Party package is not valid in conjunction with other discounts and incentives. If your partner or friends want to come as spectator guest tickets are $45 per adult, and $36 per child. Expectant mothers, please note, are not allowed to participate in the dolphin interaction programs. Ticket price includes same day admission to the park to see and observe how the Miami Seaquarium – an accredited member of the Alliance of Marine Mammal Parks and Aquariums – is committed to the care and conservation of these marine animals. For more information, please visit MiamiSeaquarium.com

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Gobble this on Turkey Day Sweet Potato Vichyssoise By A. Sebastian Fortino

vintage cloth napkin and send your guests home with one. Note – do not water the hanksgiving does not have to be morning of or the cloth will get damp! the traditional meal with repetiSweet potatoes are a favorite side dish at tive side dishes, rushed hosts and Thanksgiving. However, candied sweet potafall-themed centerpieces, especially here in toes frighten me! So, I have an elegant, fresh, South Florida. The home chef can today reinvigorate the Thanksgiving menu quite easily first course that will allow you to serve the sweet potatoes without the excess sugar. – especially in light of changing diet trends, It can be served warm, but I recommend and growing interests in ethnic palates. chilled as this is a great time saver for the Side dishes such as bok choy sautéed in host – simply remove from fridge, and garlic, with a touch of walnut oil is a nice when your guests arrive, ladle out! break from green beans almondine. Pureed parsnips, with turnips and fresh sage will Sweet Potato Vichyssoise impress even the most die-hard fans of 6 cups grated and peeled sweet potatoes, white potatoes. For stuffing – go Florida and consider pineapple and corn bread, or super about 7 4 leeks, white part only, sliced thin healthy and look for a quinoa-based stuffing. 4 tablespoons unsalted butter If we are lucky enough to dine al fresco, 6 cups of chicken broth, ideally low-fat, here in South Florida, I highly recommend and low-sodium small votive candles in front of each place Sea or kosher salt to taste, adjust accordsetting. Candles inside are – to me – too old fashioned! Instead, buy small rosemary, ing to broth used Fresh black pepper and sage plants, wrap in a jacquard towel or

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1 tablespoon fresh herbs of your choice: sage, thyme, or rosemary 2 teaspoons smoked paprika 1 stick of cinnamon 1pint heavy cream 2 cups of sparkling wine or champagne Melt butter in heavy-bottomed stockpot then add chopped leeks. Sautee until creamy. Add grated potatoes, then salt and pepper to taste. Stir until well combined with leek and butter mixture over medium-high heat. Then add the six cups of broth, smoked paprika, 2 tablespoons of fresh chopped herbs and small cinnamon stick. Simmer the soup for 30-40 minutes stirring occasionally. The potatoes and leeks should have broken down into a thick, creamy mixture. If you wish to puree take pot off of heat and let stand uncovered for ten minutes. Remove cinnamon, then puree in a blender or food processor.

My trick of grating the potatoes however should only require you to puree half of the soup, leaving a nice balance of creamy and rustic textures. I advise chilling the soup for 24 hours, as it allows the flavors to mature. Gently whisk in the heavy cream, and 2 cups of sparkling wine before guests arrive. Serve in oversized wine goblets as a first course with the same sparkling wine or champagne you finished off the soup with, garnished with a few leaves of the herb you chose to use. Happy Thanksgiving, from your friends at South Florida Gay News!

November 24, 2010 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com

Holiday Shopping Season 2010

Holiday Promotions to All, & to All a Black Friday By A. Sebastian Fortino

several “doorbusters” such as HDTVs, The morning after Thanksgiving and all and toys. The trend seems to be spend through the house, not a creature is stirring more and get a gift card. At Target, $10 gift cards are awarded after spending not even a mouse. Your boyfriend’s hungover by the fire pit with care, while into the $100. While Wal-Mart offers you a $50 catalogs you blankly stare. The pets are all gift card if you purchase Apple’s hot snuggled nicely in their beds, with dreams Christmas item, the iPad. Bloomingdale’s in addition to having a of turkeys dancing in their heads. But not handy $50, $100, and $250 price guide for you, you can’t rest for there are sales of gifts in 2010 ornament designer Chriswhich you are already abreast. topher Radko will donate 10 percent to Haiti in a program called “A Heart for etailers all across the country Haiti” through AmeriCares, a non-profit are banking on your dollars disaster assistance program. Their Little coming through – and staying Brown Bear, by Gund, comes with a holibehind – their doors this holiday season. day storybook, retails for under $30.00 & Internet sales oddly compete with their brick and mortar locations, but across the for every bear & book sold $8.00 will be donated to the ChildMind.org, an organiboard it seems as if extensive discounts and donations to non-profit organizations zation which works with mental healthhope to get you into the store where one care for children worldwide. They also opened a new Bloomingdale’s Outlet on is more likely to purchase on impulse. November 18, at the Sawgrass Mills Mall. The Gap, Banana Republic and Old Amid the Black Friday, post-Thanksgiving Navy does not seem to over-advertise for rush, don’t forget your local mom-andholiday sales. However, expect prices to be lower at least for Black Friday. Express pop-shops, who often carry goods, gifts, and services you can’t find anywhere else! although they are another specialty American Express offers Small Business apparel store is offering very straightforSaturday, Nov. 27! When you purchase ward sales for Black Friday. They offer 40 items from a small, locally owned business percent off before noon on Black Friday, with your American Express Card you get and 30 percent off after that, both online $25 awarded to you on your statement. and in their stores. This is a great way to support Main Street Big box stores such as Target, WalMart, and Sears are all vying for your dol- at a time when they can use all of your help to keep independent merchants alive. lars this year given the economy. While Target might not attract a large Ornaments by population of gay shoppers Christopher this year, they Radko are offering

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JustUsBoys Pledges $10,000 to Matthew Shepard Foundation

he JustUsBoys website recently made headlines when Rutgers University student, Tyler Clementi, posted on the website’s message boards asking for advice in the final hours leading up to his tragic suicide. JustUsBoys.com was referenced on CNN, Time,The New York Times, ABC News, People Magazine, Forbes and hundreds of other news programs, websites, magazines and newspapers. JustUsBoys is seeking to raise funds for a $10,000 matching donation for the Matthew Shepard Foundation, an organiza-

tion created by Matthew’s family to raise awareness and promote human dignity for everyone by engaging school, corporations and individuals. JustUsBoys provides a community and forum where young gay and questioning men can talk about their issues, fears, and day-to-day experiences living in a world that often lets vulnerable citizens slip through the cracks. Coming out issues and questions are discussed dailyon the site, from how to tell friends and family to learning selfconfidence as out productive members of society. When churches, family and schools reject or condemn, a place to turn for support is crucial. A strong voice that proclaims, “You are OK” needs to be heard but it is hard to reach vulnerable youth unless that strong supportive voice can be heard. Please join their pledge drive at www. justusboys.com/pledgedrive

Manors Porn Actor Nailed in Court

he young man who used to work the coffee counter at the Manor in real life but worked as a ‘pizza delivery boy’ in porn films now has a lot of pepperonis to deliver. A judgment has been filed in Orlando federal court against Justin Krueger, also known as performer Jake Lyons, in the amount of $54,160 dollars, and it is good for 20 years. As reported in SFGN last June, online

gay porn studio Corbin Fisher had sued Lyons for allowing copyrighted photographs it owns on the popular male escort site “men4rentnow.” Claiming copyright and trademark infringement, Corbin Fisher initially sought over one million dollars for the use of seven photos. Lyons, who has done porn films lately in various locales, left Wilton Manors and never answered the lawsuit. A default wound up being entered against him, in an amount determined by the court sufficient to meet the breach of the plaintiff’s rights. Here Justin is pictured in one of the more popular scenes from one of his films. For the complete article, go to: southfloridagaynews.com/news/ local-news/1596-between-twohard-places

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Movie Review: Tangled By Steve Fritz

or many years, the Magic Kingdom has opened its doors to the gay world.They even offer an annual Gay Week at both Disneyland and Disneyworld. For their efforts, they receive more than their share of outcries of eternal perdition from the extreme Right. At the same time, the business must be good enough to withstand the threats of banishment and damnation. Still, there’s one place the Mouseworks rarely goes, if ever. That’s the place where Uncle Walt started his entertainment empire; the animated feature film. It looks like that’s changing with their latest holiday season animated feature film, Tangled. No kids, the hero the appropriately named Flynn Ryder (voiced by Dexter’s Zack Levi) will ride into sunset with the latest—seriously female--Disney Princess, Rapunzel (Mandy Moore). Disney the Brand is way too smart to mess with THAT part

of the formula.Yet, pay attention, there are some interesting hints. The first hint is evil stepmother Goethl (Donna Murphy). She’s pulled right out of the pages of Mommie Dearest. This is the most wonderfully diabolical character since Susan Sarandon’s deliciously evil mom turn in Enchanted, and Murphy has a much better singing voice. The next clue is Tangled is on one heck of a Broadway production. It’s only a matter of time before it goes on to the Great White Way. Part of this is due to the team they’ve put together. If you examine the credits of this film you’d discover some familiar names. The producers include Don Hahn and Al Menken. Tangled’s animation director is Glen Keane. The last time these three worked together was Disney’s one feature film to earn a Best Feature Film nomination, Beauty & The Beast. The teaming of these three creative forces make Tangled an incredible achievement in its own right. Yes, the story is a Disney-fied reinterpretation of the old Grimm’s Fairy Tale. In Tangled, Rapunzel has the magical ability to heal just about anything and restore eternal youth…as long as you don’t cut her hair. Goethl kidnaps the young lass and locks her up in the infamous tower. Goethl’s scheme for eternal youth and virtual immortality probably would have worked. Except that’s when the suave uber thief Flynn didn’t give Rapunzel motivation to get out of Dodge. Now this soon-to-be classic Disney villainess has to really show how backstabbing and conniving she can be to win Rapunzel back. Until this point, the film is a mish mash of sterling moments, such as Goethl’s knock out number “Mother Knows Best,” or Rapunzel going through mood swings that should have the young thing be locked up in real life. Then it kicks into high gear when Flynn he’s had enough of the young diva with the lethal frying pan. So he takes her to the most dangerous place he knows, a low down

dive called the Snuggly Duckling. Yes, you read that right. It’s led by some of the ugliest looking ne’er-do-wells since Captain Hook’s crew. The only thing is they, like Rapunzel it turns out, have their share of dreams. The biggest, meanest looking one of them likes to

collect his own glass menagerie, especially miniature unicorns. Another wants to be a mime. A third dreams of being an interior designer. The leader, Hook Hand (Brad Garrett), dreams of being the next Liberace. Under lesser hands, this could have been incredibly insulting. Still, Keane manages to create some incredibly funny and just

plain incredible performances out of these covertly queer characters. They easily outperform Robert DeNiro’s Captain Shakespeare in Stardust. Further, with the aid of this crew of malfeasants Tangled kicks into overdrive, turning into a truly turbo-charged screwball comedy that matches some of the best work of Howard Hawks and Frank Capra. Yes, like all true Mouseworks productions, the film will move towards its inevitably happy ending. Goethl will meet an extremely satisfying death. Rapunzel and Flynn with have the big kissing scene. The thugs will all stand around them with tears in their eyes. At the same time, one could also call it an incredibly satisfying conclusion. More important, this is the most out I’ve ever seen in any Disney feature film ever. As said before, this movie’s prince charming won’t ride into the sunset with the boy of his dreams. The Magic Kingdom gets enough flack from the hell spawn of Anita Bryant as it stands. Then again, Disney World has already announced its next Gay Week for 2011. While always espousing family values, they seem to be slowly but surely moving towards a more well-rounded world view. It looks like they’ve managed to make their cake and eat it, too. Luckily, Tangled is a tasty little sucker and we all get to have a bite.

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VIEWS OF THE NEWS

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There was a proclamation from Mayor Keechl

The party was at Rising Action Theatre

Cordey Lash, John Evans, Irwin Drucker, Thomas Joseph Bryant at NGLCC Conference

Transgender Vigil at Sunshine Cathedral Jacqui Charvet from T.E.R.I & Wilton Manors Commissioner Julie Carson

VICKY KELLER PHOTOS COURTESY OF POMPANO BILL

Brian McNaught, Joey Amato and Irwin Drucker of IBM at the NGLCC Conference in Washington, DC

transgender vigil PHOTOS COURTESY OF jarrett terrill

Transgender Vigil at Sunshine Cathedral (left to right) Jean, Jodi & Brad supporters of equality

Equality Event, Broward, Nov. 14, Art Museum Equality event PHOTOS COURTESY OF carol porter

Equality Event, Broward, Nov. 14, Art Museum

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Famed Artist Daniel Goldstein Comes to Miami Exhibition held in conjunction with ArtCenter/South Florida By Joey Amato

up of everyday HIV-related objects were highlighted. His woodblock prints, collages and sculptures have been exhibited in leading galleries and museums throughout the world. “These sculptures tend to engender very strong reactions from people,” Goldstein tells SFGN. “For those with AIDS or those who have cared for people with AIDS, the pieces bring up strong emotions.” Goldstein adds: “For people who know somebody with AIDS, the sculptures give them a window into to what living with illness is like.” Permanent collections containing Goldstein’s work include The Fine Arts Museums Daniel Goldstein of San Francisco, The Oakland Museum, The Art Institute of Chicago, The Brooklyn Museum of Art and the Durban Museum of South Africa. His large public sculptures are owned by numerous American corporations and municipalities, as well as various international collectors. The cause of is a matter of “life or death” to Goldstein who has been living with HIV/ AIDS for 26 years. “I’ve lost most of my friends to this disease and have watched my Advertise in SFGN’s new classifieds: community decimated.” Goldstein hopes Brian’s Classified Ads Section. Over 30 his work will serve as a way to inspire young people to become educated about categories to promote your business; the disease. find a job or an employee; and even find love. “This collection of work speaks volumes to the way this disease has affected the Just fill out the form below and let Brian do the rest! lives of so many of our friends, family and SFGN POLICIES • SFGN is published weekly by SouthFloridaGayNews.com. The Publisher is Norm Kent. neighbors,” said Kathryn Abbate, CEO of • The sexual orientation of advertisers, photographers, writers, or any persons portrayed In SFGN should be neither Miami Beach Community Health Center. inferred or implied by their publication. • All written copy, display copy, illustrations and photo-graphs are published with the understanding that the adver“HIV/AIDS continues to be a major health trisers are fully authorized and have secured proper written consent for the use of all submitted ad materials. • Advertiser warrants that SouthFloridaGayNews.com may lawfully publish said materials and advertisers agree challenge and we’re proud to present this upon submission of any materials for publication to hold the pub-lisher harmless for all expenses stemming from

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ay, lesbian, bi, trans, straight – it doesn’t matter. If you’re an American and you watch big-time sports, you can’t avoid seeing religion too. A football player scores a key touchdown, and then points his finger to God in the sky. A winning pitcher thanks the Lord for the win. Basketball teams sponsor special “Faith Nights” for their fans. What in God’s name is going on? Tom Krattenmaker – a Portland, Ore. journalist and member of USA Today’s board of contributors who writes frequently on religion in public life – figured he’d find out. The result: Onward Christian Athletes: Turning Ballparks into Pulpits and Players into Preachers. The book – published earlier this year – is an incisive, example-filled look at the often-overlooked, seldom-examined ways

in which sports and faith converge. Krattenmaker believes that “spontaneous” displays of faith are actually part of a well-organized effort – orchestrated by “a network of evangelical chaplains and sports ministry organizations” – to unite the powerful institutions of religion and athletics. Of course, wherever religion pokes its nose, it smells homosexuality. Inevitably, athletics and Christianity converge to create a tangled homo hornet’s nest. “Anti-gay sentiment is where sports, culture and politics intersect,” Krattenmaker says. “The opposition to gay rights is part of the Christian right rhetoric. And sports as a whole can be homophobic too.” Though Krattenmaker devotes only a few of his 210 pages to specifically anti-gay examples, the ones he chooses are chilling. For example, Ron Brown – an assistant

religious right has befootball coach at the Unigun shifting its focus versity of Nebraska, and nationwide away from former statewide director social issues, to causes of operations for the Fellike environmentalism lowship of Christian AthTom Krattenmaker and AIDS.” Yet religious letes – wrote a column for the FCA magazine. The football coach fo- sports figures remain behind the curve. “The form of Christianity we see in sports is cused on women’s sports, decrying the influence of lesbianism (he called it “the elephant very skewed,” says Krattenmaker. “It’s an inin the room that needs to be addressed”). complete Christianity. When fully expressed, Brown declared that Christians in sports had Christianity is across the board. It’s not confined to one form of the political spectrum.” an obligation to fight homosexuality. Still, Krattenmaker warns, one should Or take Campus Crusade. The parent organization of Athletes in Action says that not paint the entire religious-right-in-sports “indulgence in any lifestyle or pastime that movement with one brush. Athletes in Action, he says, has recently is illegal or scripturally questionable or forbidden” – let’s say, oh, homosexuality – become “leery” of being viewed as anti-gay. “may result in termination” of its employ- “They know the culture is changing. They realize that if the Christian right focuses ees or associates. Then there’s Tony Dungy. The Indianapo- too much on that issue, they’ll be left in the lis Colts’ Super Bowl-winning coach stood dust. That’s encouraging.” And Krattenmaker is quick to trot out a front and center during Indiana’s political Christian right hero: Reggie White. struggle over gay rights. The 12-time All-Pro earned the nickname In a speech accepting an award from the Indiana Family Institute, Dungy said, “The Minister of Defense” as much for his “We’re trying to promote the family, family work as an evangelic minister as for his values, the Lord’s way. Just like I’m trying to hard-hitting play on the defensive line. He win on the football field the Lord’s way. I’m appeared in newspaper ads urging gays and on the Lord’s side when I’m on the field, and lesbians to “cease” their homosexuality, and called being gay a sin. on the Lord’s side when I’m off the field.” But, Krattenmaker says, “few people unGood lord. “It’s a complicated tangle of relationships derstand the enormity of what happened after and influences,” Krattenmaker admits, re- his career.” White said he was “prostituted” ferring to the religious right and sports. by religious people. Yet because of the “enor“Teasing out precise causes and effects is a mity of his heroism in the Christian/sports difficult exercise.” But it’s an exercise that pantheon,” Krattenmaker says, there has been little acknowledgment of that renunciamust be undertaken, he says. “So many Christian professional athletes tion of some previous statements. White died have said ignorant, harmful things,” Krat- in 2004 of cardiac arrhythmia, age 43. “I’m encouraged,” Krattenmaker contenmaker notes. (Star pitcher John Smoltz once likened gay marriage to marrying cludes. “Change is inexorable. It’s happening at a deep level. American culture is farm animals.) “It’s gotten to the point where being changing in a positive way. And sports will Christian almost means being anti-gay,” be dragged along.” Krattenmaker continues. “That’s not compassionate or smart. And it is harmful to Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer coach, both Christians and gays.” gay activist, and author of the “Jocks” series of Sports and religion are two of America’s books on gay male athletes. Visit his website at most traditionally conservative institutions. www.danwoog.com. He can be reached care of However, Krattenmaker says, “Lately the this publication or at OutField@qsyndicate.com.

November 24, 2010 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com

The Hammer and Nails of Sanctuary House By Tony Adams

ave you ever pawned your wedding rings to pay someone else’s electric bill? Have you ever sold your beloved ’02 Thunderbird to house the homeless? Have you ever exhausted your retirement cash to continue your community service? There are two guys in Wilton Manors who can answer yes to those questions and have pawned their rings twice to keep 116 NW 25th Street afloat. In a town dedicated to dazed relaxation, there is much to admire in Jared Cashner, a retired court stenographer and son of a Kentucky coal miner, and James and Jared James Sanzeri, a strikingly How and why would a retired stenograhandsome 21 year old local man wise beyond his age, who have been a couple for pher and his very young partner, neither of two and one half years and are the founders whom have formal training as counselors and operators of the two year old Sanctuary or care-givers, establish a vibrant place like House, a transitional residence providing so- Sanctuary House? Jared explains “We had a friend who was down and out but willing to ber and safe living for gay men in recovery. Sanctuary House, one of the oldest struc- do some work for us. We were hesitant about tures in Wilton Manors and recently an inviting him to live in our home but rented abandoned crack house, is now a sprawling him an apartment on NW 25th Street. He and comfortable collection of buildings on knew other men who had been through adan acre of land that is divided into apart- diction and asked us if we could help them ments each housing two or three men in as well. We kept renting more space. That is shared bedrooms with common kitchens, how it began. Now we are partners with the baths, living space, gardens and a pool. Jar- Wilton Manors police, and with the local ed and James, who operate Sanctuary House community service agencies, and with our without any other staff, live on the filled-to- residents’ case managers.” Sanctuary House has rapidly grown by capacity premises and are constantly forced to turn away applicants due to lack of space. word of mouth among gay men needing as(The size of the property would allow for sistance, and is such a desirable place to be the construction of several additional apart- that some straight men have falsely claimed to be gay trying to gain admission. ments should funds ever materialize.) Jared and James approached the owners of Jared and James are committed to helping gay men who are ready to return to the building, Steven and Andy Fisk of Citiindependence and to providing them with First Mortgage of Hollywood, who helped structure, stability and the tools and confi- them acquire it. Jared is grateful to them for dence needed to live a life without alcohol their assistance. “They told us to give them and drug dependency. The minimum stay is whatever down payment we could manage and to make whatever monthly payments we three months and there are rules.

could manage. They are extremely understanding about our circumstances, and they – and the whole neighborhood – are delighted with the transformation of the property.” Some additional prying was needed to get these self-effacing men to discuss their personal lives that are the skeleton keys to Sanctuary House. Jared fell into drug addiction following the hospitalization that led to his early retirement, and eventually was tried before a judge for whom he had once worked. She gave him back his life and he has kept his promise to stay clean. “I grew up in a very poor family. One of eleven kids. My mother was a stern woman and I guess the way I run this place makes me a lot like her. I’m strict about our rules. Mandatory 11PM curfew. No drugs or alcohol or sex on the premises. Random and regular testing. Group meetings. But my mother always put in an extra half acre of garden just to grow food to give away. She made us work that garden and taught us the value of helping those who need it.” James, who grew up in Sunrise, lost a brother to addiction and has himself been through recovery twice. He met Jarod through mutual friends and would not take no for an answer when Jarod repeatedly refused to date him. He soon brought him home to meet the folks. Sanctuary House is at a critical juncture. James is its constant operations manager and Jared who works an additional job as a package courier is close to exhaustion and not without health problems. They receive no government funds but are in line for a HOPWA (Housing Opportunities For Persons With AIDS) grant if they can make some required improvements to the prop-

erty. Their small board of directors includes police office James Nash who has been generous with his time, sometimes substituting for them as manager. (James and Jared have taken only one vacation, an overnight to a campground.) Attorney George Castrataro is providing pro bono help with the paperwork needed for 501(c)(3) certification. Every piece of furniture, all the cabinetry, tiling and plantings are donations. A brief tour of Sanctuary House with introductions to a few of its happy and hopeful residents will teach you the deeper meaning of gay pride which goes beyond waving rainbow flags to combat inequality and has more to do with the personal fight against the private demons that can ruin our lives were it not for men like Jared and James, who are not complaining when they say “We are the hammer and nails of this place, but we need some serious help.” In this season of Thanksgiving, please consider Sanctuary House. They won’t mind your visit and five minutes with these men will leave you eager to support their great work. For more information, www.SanctuaryHouse.info

November 24, 2010 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com

HS Football Player Suspended for Pink Cleats

ore than a year after a controversial inspection at the Rainbow Lounge sent protesters to the streets and vaulted the city into the national spotlight, city officials have dropped charges against four of the gay bar’s patrons. The dismissals came 2 ∏ weeks before Chad Gibson, who suffered a head injury in the June 2009 incident, and George Armstrong had been set to go to trial on public intoxication charges. Both had pleaded not guilty, and Gibson also pleaded not guilty to assaulting a Texas Alcoholic Beverage Commission agent. In a prepared statement released Friday, city spokesman Jason Lamers confirmed that the Class C misdemeanor charges against Gibson and Armstrong were dropped

high school football player is back on his team after having been suspended by his coach for wearing pink cleats in honor of breast cancer awareness month, reports USA Today. Coy Sheppard, 17, a senior at Mendenhall High School in Mississippi, has dropped the lawsuit he filed against the school district last week to protest his dismissal from the team on October 11. Sheppard had angered his coach by wearing the pink cleats during an October 8 game and was dismissed when he wore them to practice the next week, ac-

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cording to the lawsuit. Sheppard wore them in honor of his grandmother and step-grandmother, both of whom are cancer survivors, said his mother, JoAnne Sheppard.

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Thursday. Public intoxication cases against Dylan Brown, 24, and Jose Macias, 32, also were dropped. “As it is our official policy not to discuss municipal court prosecutions or litigation, the city will have no further comment,” Lamers said. Adam Seidel, criminal defense attorney for Gibson and Armstrong, said he had received the news of the dismissals Thursday afternoon in a courtesy call from a court clerk. “Their words early on were that serious mistakes were made by law enforcement and the city wanted to learn from those mistakes and move forward,” Seidel said. “I guess finally the actions are matching the words.”

esterday, Knights Out, a military and veterans advocacy group comprised of West Point graduates who are gay and their supporters, delivered an explanation of their controversial support of a proposal to go ahead with approving the Defense Authorization Bill even if it doesn’t include language for the repeal of DADT. Almost immediately after it was revealed that the Palm Center at the University of California had given the ok to drop DADT repeal from the Defense Authorization package, gay rights advocates began blogging about how the Palm Center, Knights Out, OutServe and President Obama were all conspiring to just give up on the whole issue of ending DADT. John Aravosis on AmericaBlogGay wrote of his conspiracy theory this way: “It’s pretty clear to both Joe and me that the Palm Center is doing this on behalf of some other unnamed groups (with three-lettered-names), who are working on behalf of an unnamed elected official who has a record of being rather un-fierce. You can do the math.” In their own defense, Knights Out said, “We signed on to a statement that made it

clear that we support repealing “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” during the lame-duck session and at the same time, the military mission is a priority. Funding the Defense Authorization Bill to support our troops is critical, and while some Senators are willing to play politics with the DADT issue at the expense of our troops, we are not.” “This is being misinterpreted as “surrender” on DADT, which it is not. Please understand that this is a statement of principle, and it does not let anyone “off the hook” regarding repeal of DADT. Repeal can happen in several different ways: in the original NDAA, in the amendment process for the NDAA, in a stand-alone bill - but it must happen in 2010. We are unwavering in that regard.” Knights Out’s intent, evidently, had been two-fold; one part ethics and one part strategy. Ethically speaking, Knights Out wanted to make it clear that they did not approve of tying repeal language to a spending bill which ended up depriving the military of what Knights Out believes to be essential funds. For the complete article go to: SouthFloridaGayNews.com/ knights

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and recyclers, nothing was wasted, everything had its place, use and purpose. American Indian society did not view the universe as plain absolutes of black and white, good and evil, male and female. Everything was always in fluid and constant transition. A sort of Yin and Yang, where contrary forces are interconnected and interdependent in the natural world. After they were placed in godforsaken reservations they were handed broken treaties and broken promises, forgotten and left to die. Then in the 1980’s there was a revival. Books and movies begun to rewrite the old struggle, this time from the Native-American point of view, as if there was a need and

a desire to cleanse the atrocities of the past. One thing that has not surfaced and has not been talked about, in this renewed appreciation of all things “Indian,” is how they viewed homosexuality. It is not surprising that even in this area they were light years ahead of modern society. According to Native American scholars, individuals who showed masculine and feminine traits were referred to as “Two-Spirit.” They were considered a third gender with a unique spiritual quality. The belief was that they walked with a foot in two different worlds and for this they had a special place within the tribe and acted as healers, counselors and storytellers. They were highly

regarded as having artistic and intellectual qualities. They were often inducted into the “Berdache” status marked by special clothing, privileges and obligations. Some tribes believed that homosexuality was something one was born with or that it came to a person in a dream. The dream often told them to act as a person of the opposite sex. Indian elders also believed that a human being is what nature or his dreams make him and he/she has to be accepted for what he/she wants to be. The obvious acceptance, display and prevalence of homosexuality within many tribes reinforced the belief among the invaders, that, with God on their side, they had the divine duty to de-

stroy Native-Americans and their way of life. After the settlers imprisoned them in the reservations the missionaries exposed them to the Christian views of homosexuality, teaching them homophobia and introducing new sets of taboos and sins until then unknown. In the end we can say that the white man stole “the Home of the Brave” and raped its soul. In 1805 Chief Red Jacket spoke these words to the Evangelical Missionary Society of Massachusetts, “We do not wish to destroy your religion, or to take it from you. We only want to enjoy our own.” There is profound wisdom in these words. They have much to teach, and if we are willing to listen, they may teach us, because as a nation, we still have much to learn.

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November 24, 2010 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com

Rubbers Get Papal Blessing VATICAN CITY (AP) – The Vatican on Sunday cautioned that there is nothing “revolutionary” in Pope Benedict XVI’s startling assertion that condom use in exceptional circumstances can be a responsible act in the fight against the spread of HIV. The Holy See’s chief spokesman, the Rev. Federico Lombardi, issued a statement stressing that the pope’s comment in a book being published Tuesday neither “reforms or changes” church teaching, which forbids use of condoms and other contraceptives. Neither was Benedict “morally justifying” the unbridled exercise of sexuality, Lombardi added. The pope maintains that condom use to

lessen the danger of infection is a “first assumption of responsibility,” the statement said, quoting from the book. “The reasoning of the pope cannot certainly be defined as a revolutionary turn,” the spokesman said. The pope spoke in an interview given to a German journalist. Vatican newspaper L’Osservatore Romano on Saturday published excerpts from the book, “Light of the World,” three days ahead of publication. In the interview, Benedict says that in certain cases, such as for a male prostitute, condom use could be a first step in assuming moral responsibility for stemming the spread of the virus that causes AIDS.

Lombardi noted that the pope emphasized the church’s main advice in the fight against AIDS – sexual abstinence and fidelity among married couples. He cited Benedict’s words that the church “of course does not regard it (condom use) as a real or moral solution.” “With this, the pope isn’t reforming or changing the teaching of the church, but reaffirming it, putting it in the context of the value and the dignity of human sexuality as expression of love and responsibility,” the spokesman said.

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