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New Men’s Underwear Will Make Your Booty Look Like Channing Tatum’s The back-breaking squats you do at the gym are a thing of the past. A new Italian men’s underwear maker says they can make your butt look like one of those you drooled over while watching “Magic Mike.” D. Hedral‘s lift-and-separate underwear comes in different sizes depending on how much junk in the truck you got. You pick your waist size (S, M or L) and the size of your booty, and the website calculates what pair of briefs will grant you a tush that will turn heads. According the website, the “secret” is a Y-shaped angle-fit seam in the fabric that provides perkiness and contouring. Depending on your butt size, you can choose 135° for a “slim” derriere, 115° for a medium one, or 95° for a “full” rump. Prices range between $28 to $45 dollars.

Florida Lt. Gov. Jennifer Carroll Comments Spark National Backlash It started with an accusation. A staffer working under Florida Lieutenant Governor Jennifer Carroll opened her boss’ door and found the politician in a compromising position with her travel aide, who was allegedly in between Carroll’s legs. Carroll got in front of the television cameras to deny the lesbian accusation--what she actually did was throw a match into a gas task: “black women that look like me don’t engage in relationships like that,” she said. The inflammatory comment outraged lesbians nationwide. A Twitter hashtag by the name of #ThisIsWhatALesbianLooksLike was started to repudiate the Republican politician. That actually inspired SFGN to gather lesbian couples’ photos for a spread in this issue (page 22-23).

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A group of California Democratic politicians are pushing to include support for gay marriage as part of the Democratic Party’s official platform. And Democratic National Committee Chair Rep. Debbie Wasserman Schultz (D-Fla.) is at the forefront of the effort, the Huffington Post reports. “Yes, I think that we will have a plank in the platform that reflects the President’s position on marriage equality,” she said. “I support marriage equality as a part of the platform.” Besides her, 27 members of the California Democratic congressional delegation have now signed on to Freedom to Marry’s letter urging the Democratic Party Platform Drafting Committee to adopt the position.

No Bed & Breakfast for Gay Couple? $4,500 Fine There are few places as cozy as a bed and breakfast, that is, if you’re not gay. Back in 2009, the owners of a B&B in British Columbia refused to grant a gay couple a reservation, citing their religious views prohibited them from renting the room to gays. A Canadian tribunal fined the owners $4,500 for not allowing the gay couple into their residence, which was actually a business because of the commercial activity taking place, the Vancouver Sun reported. This isn’t the first time a B&B owner’s religious beliefs spilled over into their business practices and was deemed discriminatory. In February, a Christian couple running a bed and breakfast in England was ordered them to pay a gay couple about $5,600, for refusing them service, the Guardian reported.

Gay Soldiers Parade in Uniforms, But Only This Time It’s a historic event, even if it’s a one-time event.

The Defense Department allowed gay soldiers to march wearing their uniforms during the San Diego Gay Pride parade on July 20. The Associated Press reports The Pentagon said the allowance is only for this year’s parade in San Diego and does not extend beyond that. The Defense Department policy says personnel cannot march in parades in uniform unless they receive approval from their commanding officers or other Pentagon-approved authorities.

Still, gay troops were ecstatic. “It was absolutely thrilling last year to walk down the street,” the 47-year-old Air Force recruiter Joanna Gasca said.

“But this year – to be able to march in uniform – wow! I’m speechless.” Last year, San Diego’s gay pride parade had the nation’s largest contingency of active-duty troops participate before the military lifted its ban on openly gay service members. About 200 service members last year wore T-shirts with their branch’s name.

Gay Mormon Husband Says He’s Happily Married To A Woman Josh Weed is a Mormon. He’s also gay. And his wife and three children are totally cool about it. It seems weird, but he calls himself a “traditionalist” and having a wife and children is the gay lifestyle he chose, Weed said in a “Nightline” interview. Weed came out publicly as gay in a 6,000-word blog posting on his website -- with his wife Laurel’s blessing. “I am Mormon,” wrote Josh. “I am married to a woman. I am happy every single day. My life is filled with joy. I have a wonderful sex life. And I’ve been married for ten years, and plan to be married for decades more to come to the woman of my dreams.” And he goes on: “I want to point out that because I am gay, any lifestyle I choose is technically a ‘gay lifestyle’... my hope is that other gay people will be as accepting of my choices as they hope others would be of their choices.”

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shown his support to the Pet Project with an event to raise money outside his bar, Mona’s. Last Friday he was proud to hand over a check made out for $10,000. This year there was a dunk tank, live auctions, and a Christmas in July raffle. They also weren’t short on drinks, barbeques, and drag shows to whet any and all appetites. The third annual fundraiser proved to be a good time for a good cause.

Deidra Bergmann, director of fundraising and events, couldn’t have been more pleased or more grateful. Before Mona’s stepped in with their fundraiser, the Pet Project was on the verge of having to waitlist their clients. 100 percent of the donations received Jerry Schultz passing on a check for will be going directly to their ten thousand dollars to the Pet Project directors. ever-growing client base.

By Dani Justice In short, thanks to Mona’s, the Pet Project is or ten years now,The Pet Project has back in business. set out to help the pets in the com“Our motto is to maintain the human-animunity. Its mission is to do whatever it mal bond while being a step before a shelter takes to keep the pets of people living with ter- for many animals,” says Sue Martino, executive minal illnesses happy and healthy. Most of their director. “Our sincerest thank you to Jerry, clients have HIV/AIDS or a form of cancer.The Mona’s, their wonderful staff and clientele, as project sets out to provide food, veterinary well as the community, for a profitable day assistance, and even grooming.They currently that allows us to continue what we do and support 663 pets in Broward and weren’t acnever have to say no to a pet in need.”

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By J.W. Arnold

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really don’t remember the early days of the AIDS crisis. Thirty years ago, I was barely a teenager living in a small town in Missouri. The mysterious disease was striking down gay men and there certainly weren’t any gay men in the heartland. Gay men lived in cities like San Francisco and New York City. And, at the time, even the President of the United States refused to acknowledge the problem.

Unlike me, there are many friends and neighbors in South Florida who have vivid memories of the early days forever burned in their memories. Many lived in the seemingly free world of the Castro and Greenwich Village, others were scattered across the country. All woke up each day, fearing they might be the next to succumb to the agonizing, prolonged deaths occurring around them. An entire generation was lost to the virus in that first decade.

Even as a college student, years later, AIDS was still a “gay” disease. The only straight people at risk were the morally challenged intravenous drug users who somehow deserved it, at least until an innocent child, Ryan White, was infected, creating an outcry that finally mobilized a nation.

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Coming out in Washington, D.C. in the early ’90s, HIV/AIDS became more real. Ironically, I had not lost any friend or even acquaintance to the disease until 1995. The anti-viral “cocktail” had just been introduced, and despite the challenges of a complicated schedule of pills throughout the day, there was hope HIV would become a manageable, chronic condition.

And, for relatively welloff gay men with access to health care and the services of organizations like the Whitman-Walker Clinic in Washington, Gay Men’s Health Crisis in New York and Care Resource in South Florida, among others, the disease has become manageable. But, make no mistake, it was no longer a gay disease, as the virus began to ravage sub-Saharan Africa and rip apart

Volunteers begin assembling the quilt panels on the Mall. More than 48,000 were displayed during the historic AIDS Conference in Washington, DC.

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AIDS Memorial Quilt: A Patchwork of Personal Memories

families in our own urban centers.

The AIDS Memorial Quilt became a sy mbol for t hose souls lost to the disease, a lasting—and living—tribute to the victims of HIV/AIDS. I missed the first major display of the quilt on A visitor to the AIDS Memorial Quilt locates panels the National Mall on an interactive tabletop using an app built for the in 1997 because of display, AIDSQuiltTouch.org a trip to visit my family, so it was imperative that I make the years ago, where panels were being assempilgrimage back to see it this time, an old- bled for gay friends and relatives, a group er, wiser gay man who had lost many more of African-American women was sewing new panels for their husbands and children, friends over the following years.

Washington, D.C. was abuzz over the In- many recently lost.

Technology has also transformed the externational AIDS Conference set to convene this week. Posters were everywhere (along perience as volunteers used touch screens with plenty of ads for HIV drugs) and the and an Internet app to help educate visitors entrances to the many hotels were crowd- about the history of the epidemic and locate ed with delegates from around the world, the panels painstakingly sewn in honor of many allowed to enter the U.S. for the first their loved ones. I managed to find the panels time since President Obama lifted the ban created for a couple special friends in my life on HIV-positive visitors. Most importantly, and it was a touching moment.

There were tears all around, but also a the chatter was filled with talk of hope, for the first time, sharing a vision of an AIDS- sense of optimism that a horrible disease that transformed the gay community, our free generation.

Down on the Mall, as volunteers began to nation and the world would be conquered, assemble thousands of quilt panels across especially as the clouds began to lift over the the expanse, I was reminded again how Mall and the sun finally beamed down from the situation has evolved. Washington, D.C. heaven. Most importantly, The AIDS Memo(along with South Florida) has one of the rial Quilt is the tribute to those who inspired highest infection rates in the country and, us to eventual victory.

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Nelson Bray:

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Hair Stylist by Day, Diva by Night

By J.W. Arnold

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ike I tell my clients, I charge for my hair services, but the floor show is free,” says Nelson Bray, a hair stylist at Stylistic Approach in Fort Lauderdale. “I’m always on stage. My customers always leave with a smile and a light heart…..and, of course, fabulous hair.”

But when the 32-yearold Homestead native isn’t BUSIN entertaining his clients, he’s entertaining diners on Thursday evenings at Lips, the popular drag restaurant in Oakland Park, impersonating divas like Bette Midler, Liza Minnelli, Cyndi Lauper and Madonna. He especially loves channeling the ‘80s, with outlandish costumes with lots of feathers, sequins, beads and rhinestones.

Bray, who has been cutting hair for 13 years, took up drag more than a decade ago as a result of his day job: “They go hand in hand,” he explains. “I really paid attention to

the girls around me in the salon. I learned on my own, but with their help, I became a makeup artist, also. That definitely helps.”

Sometimes Bray’s new clients aren’t sure what they’ll get when they sit in his chair for the first time.

“If they say I can do what I want to do— only if they let me—I can go a little crazy,” he says with a chuckle. “But I E S S build up trust.” And, so far none of his clients have challenged Bray’s reign on the nightclub stage after getting one of his legendary makeovers, he says with a sigh of relief.

In honor of his birthday in July, Bray is offering new customers a 50 percent discount and existing customers 20 percent off and a gift with their next service.

Stylistic Approach is located at 7802 NW 44th St. in Fort Lauderdale. Appointments can be booked by calling 754-246-9536.

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AHF Hopes March Will Reignite AIDS Activism

Michael Weinstein

By Jason Parsley

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ore than 2,000 HIV/AIDS activists from around the world gathered at Washington Monument on Sunday, July 22, for the AIDS Healthcare Foundation’s “Keep the Promise on HIV/ AIDS” rally and march — prior to the opening ceremonies of the XIX International AIDS Conference.

About eight hundred AHF-sponsored advocates made their way to Washington to take part in the march and let their voices be heard on issues such as national HIV/AIDS access, including the U.S. AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP) waiting lists. Budgets cuts have left nearly 2,000 Americans in 9 states on waiting lists to receive potentially lifesaving AIDS medications.

“It was so moving to have all of these people pouring into Union Station. The rally on the mall was an expression of tremendous unity,” said Executive Director of AHF Michael Weinstein. “I believe this is a rebirth of AIDS activism. This is really a tribute to the grassroots movement that exists. I’m proud

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to say that Florida had more representatives than any other state.”

Weinstein said he hopes to continue the activism beyond this weekend’s march. He already has a regional march planned in October in Atlanta.

“The South is the fastest growing region in the country,” he said. “It also has the longest ADAP waiting lists, smallest percentage of [HIV patients] in care, and the latest to get diagnosed.”

Weinstein then blasted President Obama and his response to the AIDS crisis.

“There is a strong sentiment that the Obama administration hasn’t had the proper response to AIDS,” he said. “He’s not providing leadership, instead he’s retreating.”

In fact, Weinstein believes President George W. Bush was better on AIDS than Obama has been.

“There were no waiting lists for up to 10,000 people under the Bush administration,” he said and noted that Bush created a Global AIDS Initiative. “There is widespread discontent with the way Obama has been handling this issue.”

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HEALTH

Empowering LBT New Online Healthcare Directory for Women

By Andrea Dulanto

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or those who watch Mad Men, the AMC drama about an advertising agency in 1960s New York, you may recall the first episode in which a young secretary, Peggy Olson, visits the gynecologist’s office. Peggy is a single white heterosexual woman trying to get contraceptive pills. During her exam, she endures the doctor’s cigarette smoke along with a lecture about how “easy women don’t find husbands.” (bit.ly/edyJzP) Thankfully, this insensitivity and lack of awareness is no longer standard. However, it hasn’t exactly disappeared.

In 2012, Peggy could be a single lesbian, bisexual or transgendered woman. She could be an LBT woman of color and/or an LBT woman who doesn’t often visit the doctor due to lack of health insurance. Instead of birth control, she wants information on how

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to prevent STDs with a same-sex partner. Yet some healthcare providers may not know how to answer her question.

This may leave her reluctant to discuss sexual orientation and/or gender identity with her doctor. As a result, many aspects of her health could be adversely affected.

The Area Resource and Referral Organization for Women (ARROW) aims to right these wrongs. Since 2009, ARROW has been the only nonprofit in Florida directly addressing the healthcare needs of LBT women.

Dr. Nan Van Den Bergh, founder of ARROW and professor of social work at Florida International University, conveyed compelling information regarding LBT women’s health: “The Women’s Health Initiative found that lesbian women had greater risks for breast cancer as well as cardiovascular disease. The Nurses [Health Study 2] also found lesbian

women [have] greater risks for several cancers and cardio-vascular disease.”

Van Den Bergh discussed how LBT women who do not bear children are often exposed to more estrogen, and this could pose the risk of breast cancer. She also mentioned that LBT women may use alcohol and tobacco to excess, and show higher rates of obesity. Furthermore, Van Den Bergh delineated several barriers to adequate healthcare for LBT women: lower income, lack of health insurance, and a fear that one will be unfairly treated due to sexual orientation.

In fact, Van Den Bergh cited the following information from ARROW surveys taken at Pride events throughout South Florida. Out of 280 respondents, 25 percent did not share their sexual orientation with their healthcare provider. Overall, LBT women under 30, A f r ic a n-A mer ic a n s and Hispanics were less likely to be out to their providers.

The ARROW web site (http://www.arrowlbt. org) offers a path around some of these barriers with extensive resources and credible research. You can stay updated with ARROW’s news feed from the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. You can explore LGBT Health Resources and locate programs for women with limited financial resources.

You can connect with local breast cancer organizations—some of which provide support groups or financial assistance.

If you are a healthcare provider, you can participate in the online training program Removing the Barriers, which presents an overview of LBT women’s health issues. Onsite sessions are also offered.

According to Van Den Bergh, professionals can show their sensitivity to LBT women’s health in a few ways: “Patient information forms will utilize inclusive terminology such as ‘partnership status’ rather than marital status. Patients can be asked as to their gender identity with choices being male, female, transgender (MTF or FTM). Sexual orientation could be asked, allowing for heterosexual, lesbian, bisexual, gay.”

Yet, the interaction between healthcare professionals and patients significantly contributes to the standard of care: “The provider would demonstrate an affirming, welcoming and accepting ‘bedside manner,’ [would] be inclusive of her ‘family’ or partner.”

At its last count in 2011, the ARROW web site reported approximately 200 healthcare professionals had completed the Removing the Barriers training.

But how can LBT women connect with professionals who are sensitive to their needs?

ARROW recently introduced an online di-

rectory of these healthcare providers. A visit to an LBT-sensitive doctor is a click away. As models, ARROW studied past directories by the Mautner Project of DC, The Gay and Lesbian Medical Association (GLMA), and the Atlanta Lesbian Health Initiative.

Data collection started in 2008. In order to compile directory listings, ARROW reached out to LBT women at LGBT events as well as to Women in Network, the Susan G. Komen for the Cure grantees, local breast health and breast cancer screening/ treatment facilities, the GLMA and the Miami Dade Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce.

Currently, there are 165 healthcare providers listed in the directory from dentists to internal medicine, from psychologists to chiropractors, even alternative medicine.

ARROW Board members and staff contacted each provider to verify information and LBT sensitivity. Grants from the Health Foundation of South Florida and the Susan G. Komen for the Cure in Miami/ Fort Lauderdale supported this work.

Van Den Bergh noted: “The receptivity of providers to be included seemed a function of [an] existing affiliation with the LGBT community. It became our impression that non-gay-affirming providers had little motivation to be included within the directory.

This was, of course, a disappointing finding.”

However, any provider who is interested in being listed in the directory can initiate the process by completing a questionnaire on the ARROW web site.

Volunteers are also welcome to contact ARROW for opportunities to help with projects. Current needs include facilitators for smoking cessation groups, social media administrators, and those who can help create support groups for LBT cancer survivors. “… ARROW Inc. is not quite three years old,” said Van Den Bergh. “[but] we have accomplished a great deal in bringing visibility to the healthcare needs of LBT women within mainstream healthcare institutions of our region, as well as within existing gay community organizations.”

ARROW Inc. PO Box 814896 Hollywood, FL 33081 954-981-1090 information@arrowlbt.org http://www.arrowlbt.org

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For Gay Black Men, HIV-infection Is a Game of Russian Roulette

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IV among gay black men is getting worse.

Actually, much worse, says Phill Wilson, founder and executive director of the Black AIDS Institute, the only organization in the country dedicated to specifically catering to HIV-positive African Americans.

“Gay black men continue to be first in line when it comes to need, but remain at the back of the line when it comes to assistance,” Wilson said, mimicking the message of a newly released report by his nonprofit.

The 75-page report, called “Back of the Line: The State of AIDS Among Black Gay Men in America,” was released this July.

Out of men who have sex with other men (MSM), a young black man has roughly a 1-in4 chance of being infected by age 25, the report shows. By the time he is 40 years old, the odds that he’ll be alive are about 60 percent.

The report got its information from different governmental agencies, like the Center for Disease Control, books and medical journals. It took four months to put together, Wilson said.

Black gay men only represent a minute part of the U.S. population—about one in every 500 Americans is a black MSM—yet they are the group with the highest risk of new infections. From 2006 to 2009, the rate of new infections among young gay black men rose by 48 percent, but why?

According to Wilson, their disproportionate risk of HIV can be traced to their poor access to health services, a high prevalence of sexually transmitted diseases, and sexual activity at an early age among gay men. He adds that governmental agencies and LGBT organizations just don’t care as much about this affected minority and thus do not allocate the necessary resources.

“The natural homes for black gay men— the black and LGBT communities— have similarly failed to prioritize the AIDS fight among black men who have sex with men.

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And the philanthropic sector, once a robust presence in the AIDS fight, has withered away, with a mere handful of funders continuing to support community-based AIDS programs,” the report reads.

California Democratic Congresswoman Maxine Waters agrees.

“Current policies do not adequately address the unique needs of Black MSM in Ameri-

for black men (straight or gay) is nearly five times the rate for white men: 1 in 31 black men in Palm Beach County had HIV or AIDS. In Broward County, 1 in 41 black men were infected; and in Miami-Dade, 1 in 29.

Numbers from 2009, specifically in terms of black MSM, state that one in 12 men in Florida has AIDS. In Miami-Dade, it’s one in eight.

The problem, Wilson says, is that available

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Wade Davis ca. Local and national leaders must remain vigilant in the fight against AIDS, especially in the Black community, which continues to carry the heaviest burden,” Waters said in a statement. “Unless we change the way we do business, we cannot reverse the epidemic.”

In addition to citing infection rates, the study ranked 25 major cities to see which addressed the needs of HIV-positive black MSM most effectively. Washington, D.C., Los Angeles, and New York hit the top of the list, while Gary, IN, Memphis, TN, and Richmond, VA, were the three worst.

While Florida didn’t make the cut for the worst cities, Wilson says the HIV prevalence among Black MSM in Florida is “unacceptably high.”

According to 2008 statistics from the Florida Department of Health , the HIV/AIDS rate

Phill Wilson resources in South Florida are not explicitly targeting gay black men.

“It makes a difference who’s delivering the message, it makes a difference who’s being targeted, and that’s why it is important that a part of the care delivery continuum be exclusive programming for black gay men,” he said.

However, Ronald Henderson, FDH’s statewide minority AIDS coordinator, thinks that progress is being made in the state.

He said that the number of new cases diagnosed among gay black men from 2002 to 2011 decreased by 34 percent; going from being the first leading cause of death among black man between the ages of 25 to 44, to being the fourth.

“You just can’t put in a sign because there’s a stigma,” Henderson said in regard to reaching out to the black community, adding FDH’s

AIDS division is working on several initiatives to try to educate and bring awareness about disease to black communities statewide.

That stigma is associated with family and community acceptance, two big factors that play a part in the spike in HIV infections among gay black men.

When a former NFL player came out to his sister seven years ago, she made a comment saying she was going to be their parents’ favorite from now on. When he approached his mother, she told him that being gay is an “abomination” and that “you already have enough being black.”

“That process was very hard; me and my mother are still evolving. I’ve been with my partner for 6 years and she’s never met him.

It wasn’t acceptable for her, and we never talk about it when we see each other,” said Davis, now 34, a former defensive back for the Tennessee Titans, Seattle Seahawks and Washington Redskins.

Davis grew up in Louisiana, where he says religion is one of the biggest pillars of the African American community.

“No one talked about sex in the church.

It was like ‘don’t ask don’t tell’,” Davis said.

“It’s not at the point where you go to a black church and they say ‘we’re going to have a talk about safe sex’.”

Davis thinks that in order to bring down AIDS cases in the African American community, we need to redefine what masculinity means.

“The idea of masculinity is something that people grew up with in the black community. That makes you question, can I grow up strong black gay man? They think you’re weak, effeminate. It’s a black community problem, not a black MSM problem.

Phill Wilson, who became infected with HIV at 24 years old, shares that sentiment: “There is a stigma in the black community that’s based on sexual orientation, and that has a damaging impact on gay men’s desires to get tested or to seek treatment,” he said.

The Institute’s study recommends several things to turn the tide against AIDS, including access to testing, treatment and prevention services; reducing sexually transmitted diseases; introducing pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEp) and building sustainable community infrastructure and the involvement of national leaders to make the fight against AIDS a priority.

But Wilson believes the implementation of the Affordability Care Act is the biggest shot gay black men have at lowering the risk for HIV infection.

“It’s going to allow us to eliminate preexisting conditions as a barrier to get HIV care, it’s going to limit the ability of pharmaceutical companies to limit or deny people care because it’s too expensive,” Wilson said.

“This is going to be very important in ending the HIV fight in America.”

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PASSAGES

Sally Ride, First Woman in Space Was a Lesbian, Came Out in Obit

By Sergio N. Candido

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Sally Ride aboard the Space Shuttle Challenger

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ally Ride, the first American woman to be in outer space came out posthumously in a letter after battling and succumbing to pancreatic cancer.

According to The Washington Post, she now makes history, not only for being the first woman to be launched into space, but she was also the first gay person to do so.

Ride has been in a relationship with a woman for the last 27 years, before that, she had been married to a man.

It is believed that she never publicly addressed her sexuality prior to her death at the age of 61, after a 17-month battle with cancer.

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COVER STORY

Scouts Won’t Accept Gays…

Even Though They Could Tri-County Area Councils Refer to National on Gay Question

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By Gideon Grudo

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e was ten years old when he joined up with the St. Rose of Lima troupe of the Boy Scouts in 2009 — and no one mentioned to him or bothered him about his two moms.

But it was more of a Don’t Ask Don’t Tell situation than anything else, according to the boy’s mother, 48-year-old Judith Williams, who shares custody of the boy with a former partner.

“Sexual orientation never came up. His other mom and I participated in a lot of it,” Williams told SFGN. “My personal feeling is that the subject was avoided. But it didn’t seem as if there was animosity towards us nor did [he] get treated any differently.”

A pack leader — Boy Scouts lingo for an adult supervisor — told SFGN that if the boy was gay and had come out to peers, she didn’t know what she would have done.

Sophie Rojas had been a pack leader and a webelos leader for seven years. The webelos make up fourth and fifth graders.

Third graders are bears. Second graders are wolves. And first graders are tigers.

“They’re just kids. What path they take as they develop is up to them. But at that age, how can you know? I would think that they wouldn’t have notions about that — whichever path they later choose,” Rojas said. “I would find that kind of strange for such a young child to be talking about that. I’ve never considered what I would do in that situation.”

Rojas repeated several times that she wouldn’t be the one making any decisions about openly gay members.

The St. Rose of Lima troupe has a committee, made up of parents and leaders.

That committee would decide what to do about an openly gay member. As for her

part, Rojas said she didn’t know if she’d report an openly gay child or not. She maintained that the matter wouldn’t be based on her own opinions and beliefs, but rather on the opinions and beliefs of others in the pack. If, however, an entire troupe pushed her to get rid of a child because of his sexual orientation, Rojas said “I don’t know what I’d do.” She later said she’d have to think about it for a few days.

Based on her experience three years prior, though, Judith Williams said she doesn’t think her son would have been kicked out if he was openly gay.

“I thought the troupe went over and beyond to help people who were in difficult situations. I think some people would have had a hard time with it, but they wouldn’t have left him out,” she said. But she added that the national ban on gays is “absolutely wrong. We boycotted them before [my son] joined up. We never bought anything from them. I’m really disappointed that they’re taking this stand so vehemently. In the Boy Scouts, it’s all about personal responsibility and being a better citizen, a better part of the community. Given that is their mission — to train boys to be good men — it’s contrary to what they’re teaching.”

St. Rose of Lima, the Miami Shores troupe, is part of the South Florida Council, a larger conglomerate of troupes and chapters that covers Miami-Dade and Broward counties and the Keys.

After SFGN was directed and redirected to dead numbers and email addresses, an assistant to the South Florida’s Council CEO John Anthony told SFGN that the council declined to comment and deferred the media request to the national headquarters. Likewise, the Gulf Coast Council, which covers Palm Beach County and counties all the way north to Indian River, responded through Devon Mayo, an assis-

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“One thing I think people are missing is that BSA is a business. They did an internal review and realized that their stakeholders want this ban, and in fact appear to be proud of the ban.

That’s business.”

– Tony Plakas

tant scout executive who said he wouldn’t be able to comment on anything, and also deferred to national.

As of press time, the national BSA has not responded to emails and phone calls from SFGN. But not every council is as silent and prejudice as the ones in South Florida. Far away, in the Midwest, the Northern Star Council is defying the national decree of the BSA. In what has resulted in a public display of proLGBT activism, whether intentional or not, Northern Star will continue to allow openly gay members into its ranks, as it has done since 1998.

Much larger than the councils in South Florida, Northern Star serves 21 counties in Minnesota and four counties in Wisconsin.

So what’s the risk to a council that defies the national BSA? None, because councils pay the BSA to be part of it — the BSA does not fund them. Rather, Boy Scout councils are funded through community donations, which might come from parents of scouts or organizations, like United Way. “We look at the people who fund us, and they fund us because of what we do. We’re part of a national organization,” said Kent York, a spokesperson for Northern Star. He told SFGN that the council interpreted the Boy Scouts mission as one that does not discriminate based on sexual orientation, and one that’s available to whoever so wants it.

“Nobody has to be a scout. It’s something they choose to do.”

York concluded, however, that the Midwestern council’s decision to allow LGBT people in shouldn’t be taken as a battle cry, but rather just as a secluded decision made by a secluded chapter.

“We’re trying hard not to be in conflict with national. We’re continuing an approach which has worked in our community. We’ve shared with national what our approach has been, and haven’t had any negative consequence. We don’t want to be an organization that’s losing our focus — which is focusing on kids. This focus on sexual orientation is really outside the scope of our mission,” he said. York said he couldn’t think of anything that national could do to reprimand the Northern Star Council. “I’m sure that there is something they could do about it, but fortunately we haven’t found out what yet.”

So is it wrong for the national BSA to ban gays? Even if it is, it’s not against the law. In a twelve-year-old Supreme Court decision, it was decided that the BSA could ban homosexuals as adult leaders because it was part of their “expressive message.” Forcing the organization to allow homosexual leaders would violate their First Amendment right of expressive association in the way of intruding into a group’s internal affairs by forcing it to accept a member it does not desire. Here, the expulsion of James Dale was held up because allowing the openly gay scoutmaster to stay in the Scouts wouldn’t allow the BSA to freely make public and private points of view, or express themselves.

“One thing I think people are missing is that BSA is a business. They did an internal review and realized that their stakeholders want this ban, and in fact appear to be proud of the ban. That’s business,” said Tony Plakas, CEO of the Palm Beach County LGBT community center Compass. “What activists often overlook is that although it would be nice for the BSA to take a different position, they don’t have to — they can base their positions solely on the wishes of the majority of the people they serve. It is the activists’ job to change the hearts and minds of BSA constituents. It is clear there is a lot of work to be done.”

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ChamberChat Monthly Column From THE GREATER FORT LAUDERDALE CHAMBER OF COMMERCE/GLBX

By Jaime Yordán-Frau,

M.S., ELI-MP- GLBX Board Member

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o state the obvious, the marketplace has changed significantly in the last few years. In general, most of us have achieved survival of our businesses through wise (and sometimes creative) “juggling” while keeping our core the same. Now is the time to move forward – and do so with gusto.To do so we must realize that to achieve the growth and success we seek, our businesses must adapt to the new marketplace.

Whenever businesses are considering change, there are three phases that must be contemplated for that change to be strong, sustainable and successful: Analysis; Deci-

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sion-Making AND Action-Taking; and lastly Review and Reinforce. Let’s concentrate on the first of these - Analysis.

Einstein defined insanity as doing the same thing over and over, expecting a different result or outcome. Sometimes when external factors suffer changes as significant as the ones our economy has experienced in the past few years, we must look deeper than just the actions we are taking. At times like these, we must question the very foundation of our businesses to ensure that from the ground up our businesses are as strong as they need to be in order to respond successfully to the new marketplace and the new

economy that is rising out of these historical times. In order to give ourselves the best chance, we must allow The Analysis Phase to be comprised of objective and unbiased analysis of three areas: the external realities; the business platform, and the internal fuel.

ness to better success – new vision, new mission, new objectives?

Strategy #3 – Evaluate and redefine your attitudes (yours, your employees’ and your business’). Give yourself and your business the gift of objectivity on this matter. It’s been evidenced that attitudes make for more than 75 percent of the indicators needed for success. It’s also a fact that this recession has hit everyone hard in the areas of how we feel about work and our jobs. Evaluating in-depth and appropriately re-aligning attitudes could do wonders for performance.

Strategy #1 – Conduct an objective and comprehensive market analysis (general market and your specific industry) that includes future impact projections of several market change scenarios. This is the portion that looks at the external realities and how these impact your business. For those of us who have been in business long These three enough to have prestrategies are a We are at a recession perforcritical starting mance records and crossroads in which point on which to market behaviors as lay the foundation small businesses a benchmark, this to build a stronger analysis will be tellorganization; one can change the ing. For those just that delivers better getting on the enresults and achieves trepreneurial train financial reality of higher profitability in is still a solid idea. today’s market conour Nation.

Some questions you ditions. We are at a must seek answers crossroads in which to are: How are tosmall businesses can day’s conditions different from those pres- change the financial reality of our Nation. ent during your “best” years? How is the Lead your business into a future that is term “best years” defined and why? What better than its past! Make this the best year percentage growth did your business ever – it will be a lot of hard work but ... experienced during these “best years”? when is it not?

What percentage of business decrease GLBX is hosting its next networking event July has your business experienced since then?

26 at 5:30 at the Pride Center at Equality Park What changes have been implemented and August 9 at “Eyes On Sunrise.” To learn since the recession started? What results more about GLBX contact Michael Faerber, have those changes achieved?

Strategy #2 – in light of your findings from strategy #1, Review your business entity (vision, mission and objectives) and structure. Are your vision, mission and objectives relevant to today’s market realities? Are your business objectives S.M.A.R.T. objectives? How will your objectives change to reflect the new information found out through Strategy #1? Has your “north” changed at all and if so, how? What must be the new direction that will take your busi-

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Jaime Yordán-Frau is a certified business and executive coach with over 20 years experience in business development and executive coaching. Jaime sits on several boards with the Gay & Lesbian Business Exchange (GLBX) within the Greater Fort Lauderdale Chamber of Commerce one of his biggest involvements. Jaime owns the firm of Integro Success Unlimited (www.integrosuccess.com) and can be reached at 954-610-4247.

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SFGN Editorial

July 25, 2012

‘Objectionable’ Pot Leaf Ad Goes ‘Up in Smoke’

Norm Kent, Publisher

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massage parlor can’t advertise on park benches in Wilton Manors — and now neither can I. Here I am, the vice chairman of the National Organization for the Reform of Marijuana Laws (NORML), and the city is telling me I can’t place an ad on a bus bench because it’s got a big pot leaf behind the text.

Here I am, a guy who has spent 40 years in the trenches as a criminal defense lawyer representing pot smokers, helping pave the way for 18 states to decriminalize marijuana, and our own little city of Wilton Manors now tells me that my ad is “objectionable.”

Hey, I did not mean to become the center of a news item. But now, a little ad that would have caught a few eyes is taking up a page in my newspaper. I guess I should thank the city, not bury them. But first, let me tell the story and the facts.

The City of Wilton Manors entered into a contract with Martin Outdoor Media a few years ago, allowing them to place 48 bus benches with professionally designed, commercial advertising on them in and about the city. No problem.

The city, however, imposed a restrictive

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condition on their contract with Martin, stating that “advertising of tobacco, firearms, massage parlors, adult book stores, adult theaters, adult escort services and pornographic or obscene matters are prohibited.

The determination of objectionable, obscene advertising shall be the right of the City, and their decisions shall be final.”

My gut reaction at looking at that statute is how dare they presume that licensed massage parlors are presumptively obscene or offensive? But wait, it gets better.

I submitted an ad to replace the SFGN ad at the epicenter of Wilton Manors, on the Drive in front of the Alibi. The ad I submitted is to promote my other career, my law practice, the Criminal Defense Law Center of South Florida.

As you can see, the ad features the word ‘Busted?’ superimposed on top of a pot leaf.

As is the nature of the industry, I am a lawyer who represents people who get busted. Note, I am advertising my law firm, not marijuana.

Nevertheless, our city, after meeting with the City Manager, the Leisure Services Director, Patrick Cann, has rejected my ad.

They told Martin Media not to place it. They deemed it “objectionable.” They courteously

and politely asked (told) me to cooperate with their advertising program, and requested me to “consider revising it.”

Cann, a nice enough guy, even added: “I greatly appreciate your consideration and would like to thank you for your support with the advertisement program.”

As I was writing this, Cann emailed me again to say the city isn’t actually saying I can’t do it, but ‘requesting’ I don’t do it.

Unfortunately, that does not hold water — they already told Martin Media they preferred not running the ad, and without the city’s approval, Martin Media won’t run it. In fact, the city said it was the “depiction of an illegal drug” in the ad, i.e., weed, that’s inconsistent with their objectives.

Well, here is the problem: I don’t agree or support the program as worded, and not just because I am bucking for a free massage from a wealth of licensed and legitimate massage therapists, who are getting screwed here, too.

First of all, I find nothing ‘objectionable’ about pot leaves. In fact, I love pot leaves. I wish I could grow them in my home in South Florida like I do in my apartment in San Francisco, where, as a surviving cancer patient, I have a grow license and medical marijuana card.

Second, the bottom line is that my ad does not violate the city’s contract. I am not posting something that is inherently ‘objectionable.’ What are objectionable for 40 years are the outdated laws that make pot illegal still. Marijuana has been decriminalized in 18 states, dozens of cities, and about 200 million Americans agree with

me, but not Wilton Manors.

If more pot smokers came out of the closet the way gay people did, there would be less laws in America restricting pot possession.

Hell, I just got back from Chicago, where their city council voted 43-3 to decriminalize the possession of small amounts of pot. As a guy who stands up for his clients, I sure as hell am going to stand up for myself. Like the country song goes, if you don’t stand for something, you will for anything. I won’t fall for this.

And I think this rule is beyond dumb that it’s almost comical.

It’s freaking 2012. There is a cable TV show called ‘Weeds.’ Presidents and pontiffs smoke the damn herb, and I bet there are plenty of residents of Wilton Manors who do as well.

Objectionable?

Please, people are going to laugh about this while smoking a joint. Instead of focusing on building a parking lot in the center of the city, engineering economic development for its small businesses, and making its epicenter more pedestrian friendly, the city is worried about a sign with a pot leaf in it?

You have got to be kidding. I wonder if we drug tested every single one of our city employees, including commissioners and cops, for marijuana this week, how many would come up “objectionable.”

You make the call. Do you find the ad offensive? Should it be on a bus bench or not?

The back-and-forth with Wilton Manors is still on going as of press time. Check back next week and I’ll let you know how it all went down.

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Jesse’s Journal

A Talk with Rodger Streitmatter: “Outlaw Marriages” Past and Present

By Jesse Monteagudo

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he current campaign for and against “gay marriage” often ignores the fact that same-sex couples are not a recent phenomenon but in fact have been around for centuries. In his new book Outlaw Marriages: The Hidden Histories of Fifteen Extraordinary Same-Sex Couples (Beacon Press; $26.95), cultural historian Rodger Streitmatter explores the public and private lives of historic couples. “For the last dozen years or so, same-sex marriage has been very much in the spotlight in this country. Numerous books have been written about the topic as a political issue. Plus there have been books about the religious aspect, as well as the legal questions involved. But there has not been much at all written about what I would call the personal dimension of the issue.”

“I have been in a same-sex relationship for the last 29 years, and so I know how important that personal piece of the story is. I know that my partner - now my husband - has supported me in some very significant ways, and I also knew that I have supported him in substantive ways, too. So I wanted that personal dimension to be part of the conversation. I am a historian — my PhD is in American history and my previous books have all been of a historical nature — so I started looking into some of the same-sex marriages from the past that I had heard about. When I discovered how rich the details about some of these relationships were, I started writing this book.”

Streitmatter defines “outlaw marriage” as “a long-term, committed relationship between either two women or two men. When I say committed I generally mean an emotional commitment. In other words, in each instance, the two people in the outlaw marriage were committed to each other’s well-being.

That does not necessarily mean they were in a monogamous relationship. The word outlaw speaks to the fact that it was against the law for these couples to engage in sexual activities. The law prohibiting sexual activity between two people of the same sex did not change until 2003, and all of the relationships in the book began long before then.”

“The subtitle for my book is The Hidden Histories of Fifteen Extraordinary Same-Sex Couples. Specifically, I wanted to write about couples who made major contributions to the American culture. The other criteria the couples had to meet involved making a contribution as a couple. In other words, I looked for couples who worked together to make their specific contribution. I eliminated couples in

which one person achieved in a major way on his own or her own, while simply being in a relationship with another person of the same sex. That is, in every chapter of the book, I show how the two people made their contribution jointly.”

the book that I really loved was digging into the details of the outlaw marriages to figure out exactly how the partners supported each other. Frankly, it was pretty easy to see how, for instance, Ismail Merchant and James Ivory supported each other because Ismail was the producer of the couple’s films and James was the director.”

“It was a lot trickier — though ultimately more gratifying — to tease out how somebody like Mercedes de Acosta contributed to the achievements generally credited to Greta Garbo. What I discovered, with that particular couple, was that Mercedes served as Greta’s unofficial tutor. Greta came from very humble beginnings.

Her father was a street

cleaner in Stockholm, Sweden. But then she was discovered by LouRodger Streitmatter in a photo by Jeff Watts is B. Meyer and brought to Hollywood to star in Streitmatter’s fifteen historic couples are: movies for MGM. Mercedes, by contrast, was Walt Whitman & Peter Doyle; Martha Car- born into a very wealthy and socially promiey Thomas & Mamie Gwinn; Ned Warren & nent New York family. It was very fortuitous John Marshall (whose photo graces the cov- for Greta, then, when she met and became roer); Mary Rozet Smith & Jane Addams; Bessie mantically involved with Mercedes in 1931.

Marbury & Elsie de Wolfe; J.C. Leyendecker The women started spending all their free & Charles Beach; Alice B. Toklas & Gertrude time together, and so Mercedes helped Greta Stein; Janet Flanner & Solita Solano; Greta learn how to speak and dress properly. MerGarbo & Mercedes de Acosta; Aaron Copland cedes even decorated Greta’s house so it was & Victor Kraft; Frank Merlo & Tennessee in keeping with the style appropriate for HolWilliams; James Baldwin & Lucien Happers- lywood royalty. Frankly, I loved figuring all berger; Robert Rauschenberg & Jasper Johns; that out and then describing it in the book.”

Streitmatter’s favorite couple was TennesIsmail Merchant & James Ivory; Frances see Williams and Frank Merlo. “When I startClayton & Audre Lorde.

Some of the outlaw couples, like Stein and ed the book, I knew about Tennessee because Toklas or Merchant and Ivory, are well-known. In he is one of America’s most admired playsome of the other cases, only one of the part- wrights, but I had never heard about Frank. ners is famous. According to Streitmatter, And yet, what I discovered is that Tennessee “one of the parts of doing the research for probably would never have written some of

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his greatest plays if it had not been for Frank, even though he was a truck driver with just a minimal education.”

“Williams and Merlo met in 1947 in a bar in Provincetown, and they had sex on the dunes that same night. Then they went their separate ways. During the next year Tennessee wrote A Streetcar Named Desire, which won the Pulitzer Prize. But he then entered what became a dramatic downward spiral. He was exhausted, so he drank huge quantities of alcohol and took lots and lots of pills - trying to make himself feel better. He also had sex with all kinds of different men.”

“Finally, in the summer of 1948, he went back to New York where he ran into Frank.

Within a matter of weeks, the two men were living together in Tennessee’s apartment.

And once Frank moved in, he became much more than just a lover, as he pretty much brought order to Tennessee’s chaotic life. Frank cooked their meals and cleaned the apartment and made sure Tennessee showed up for appointments. Even more important, Frank singlehandedly weaned Tennessee off the alcohol and other drugs. And he also put an end to the playwright’s casual sex — Frank insisted on being monogamous. Soon Tennessee started writing again.

Indeed, it was not long after Frank entered his life that Tennessee wrote what became one of his best plays Cat on a Hot Tin Roof — that won him his second Pulitzer Prize. Still later, while he and Frank were together, he wrote several other major works, including The Night of the Iguana and Sweet Bird of Youth. A very good case can be made that Tennessee would never have written any of those plays if it had not been for Frank Merlo cleaning up his act.”

Streitmatter ends Outlaw Marriages with a touching description of his own relationship with his husband, Tom Grooms. Though Streitmatter was able to marry his husband in the District of Columbia, he realizes that most same-sex relationships in America are still outlawed. Still, there is a future for samesex marriage in America: “President Obama’s recent statement in support of marriage equality was the tipping point. Public opinion has been rapidly shifting in favor of marriage equality, and young people, in particular, are very supportive. Exactly when it is going to happen is hard to say because it may come down to a vote by the nine justices on the Supreme Court. But there is no turning back now. It is going to happen.”

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John Waters ComeS Clean in Fort Lauderdale

By J.W. Arnold

COURTESY OF THE PARKER PLAYHOUSE

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hat is the secret to John Waters’ success?

The multi-talented filmmaker/writer/director/actor/ photographer/comedian will tell you it’s because he’s overly organized: “My hangovers are scheduled three years in advance,” he says without hesitation. “I don’t have a moment that isn’t scheduled. I work every day, Monday through Friday, and if I didn’t work, I’d have time to be mentally ill.”

Without a beat, he adds, “Of course, my job is to think up fucked up things.”

It’s been years since Waters made a feature film (A Dirty Shame, 2004), but he’s always got an iron on the fire, like the one-man show he’ll be bringing to Fort Lauderdale’s Parker Playhouse on Saturday, July 28.

Called This Filthy World, the filmmaker, dubbed the “Pope of Trash,” promises a show that is “part stand-up, part advice on how to be a healthy neurotic and plenty of musings on my obsessions.”

The evening also will include a screening of one of his cult films, usually “one of the ones that did less well, because you always want the ‘children’ to get ahead.” (Parker Playhouse audiences will see “Polyester” (1981), followed by a Q&A session.)

The creator of classics like Hairspray, Pink Flamingos and Serial Mom has trouble picking his favorite—they’re all his children, he reiterates—except his progeny all have brain disorders. Waters does note that Serial Mom was the only film he felt was adequately funded.

“They all say the same thing, though….like don’t judge people, mind your own business,” he explains, but, of course, Serial Mom also makes the important point not to wear white after Labor Day, all crucial life lessons.

Many of the most important lessons Waters learned as a boy in Baltimore where he made his first films on crude cameras. He befriended Glenn Milstead who would star in many of his movies as the gender-bending Divine.

Waters knew Divine’s mother, Frances Mil-

stead, who later moved to Fort Lauderdale after reconciling herself with her son’s homosexuality, drag career and success, and was a fixture at the old Bill’s Filling Station before her death.

“She reinvented herself,” says Waters. “I remember the first one, believe me,” referring to Milstead before she realized her son’s fame.

But Divine wasn’t the only regular character in Waters’ cast.

“There was Mink Stole,Vivian Pearce….a lot have died. I may be a cult director, but I can’t raise the dead,” he says with his dry chuckle.

He has cultivated a second generation troupe of day players who have appeared in every film since Cry Baby” likening them to a theater company.

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filmmakers start to talk about their “craft” or artistic “journey.”

“I take my career seriously, but you have to have a sense of humor,” Waters adds. “I don’t mind snobs if they really are better than other people, but they’re usually not.”

As for aspiring filmmakers, he urges them to really learn how the business works. Pay back the money they borrow, for instance, because if you don’t, there won’t be a second chance.

And, most importantly, Waters warns filmmakers to obtain the rights to the music used in their films: “That came back to haunt me and that’s why some of my movies will never be seen, at least the early ones.”

What does he find most humorous about the developments in the industry? “Holly-

wood spends millions of dollars to make their films look as bad as my films were, with grain and splices. It’s hilarious to me.”

In the meantime, Waters is content traveling, juggling appearances while writing his book and hoping to complete Fruitcake, a children’s Christmas adventure that’s been in the works for three years.

He concludes, “It’s like this—you throw enough shit on the wall and eventually something sticks.”

John Waters, “This Filthy World” Saturday, July 28, 6 p.m.

Parker Playhouse, 707 NE 8th St., Fort Lauderdale Tickets $36.50-125 at ParkerPlayhouse.com

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THEATER REVIEW

‘Gay Outing’ Core of Timeless Best Man

By Mary Damiano

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he more things change, the more they stay the same.

Mudslinging, personal attacks and the pursuit of power at all costs is a part of politics. We see it through political ads today, and Gore Vidal saw it when he wrote The Best Man, which premiered on Broadway in 1960.Vidal’s timeless play---a revival is currently playing on Broadway with an all-star cast---has just opened locally at the Pembroke Pines Theatre of the Performing Arts (PPTOPA).

The Best Man is set in Philadelphia during the 1960 convention of an unnamed party.

Two politicians, former Secretary of State William Russell (Jeffrey Bruce) and Senator Joseph Cantwell (Sean Patrick Kennedy) are vying for the presidential nomination.

With his intelligence, experience and levelheadedness, Russell seems like the best man for the job. His opponent, Joseph Cantwell, is young, handsome, and doesn’t appear to stand for much other than sitting in the oval office. When Cantwell threatens to release

personal information that will end Russell’s presidential bid, Russell must decide how far he will go to prevent Cantwell from occupying the most powerful post in the world.

The marvelous, yet sad, part of The Best Man is how timely the plot still is. Update the clothing and throw in some cell phones and laptops, and the play would be completely contemporary. That means it’s a great piece of timeless writing, but the down side of that, of course, is how little society has evolved regarding how we select our leaders.

The biggest societal change from 1960 to today that one can see one can see through the world of The Best Man is the role women play in politics. In The Best Man, two of the four female characters are dutiful political wives, the third is a dowager advising the candidates on what women voters want, and the fourth brings coffee and messages.

Today, of course, the women could be the politicians, or at least hold high positions on the candidates’ staff.

The PPTOPA production, under the direction of Peter Librach, admirably brings Vidal’s

Jeffrey Bruce and Alvin Entin in The Best Man at The Pembroke Pines Theatre of the Performing Arts play to life. It’s a timely choice, given that this is an election year, and the cast works hard to mine the humor in Vidal’s words.

Jeffrey Bruce delivers the stand-out performance as William Russell. His demeanor is natural and inviting, and Bruce’s expressions perfectly convey the character’s inner conflict between his desire to win and his need to do the right thing. It’s a shame that Bruce’s strong, rich voice is so overly amplified that he sounds like he’s been autotuned. The sound design is uneven throughout, which sometimes gets in the way of understanding the dialogue. Sean Patrick Kennedy looks every inch the dashing young candidate, and Jeff Canary, who looks like a

cross between Dick Cheney and Karl Rove, is completely believable as a political advisor.

Alvin Entin is the embodiment of a backslapping, southern good old boy politico.

The Best Man is the perfect play to get one ready for the upcoming presidential election, and give a wry perspective on how far we have­—and haven’t—come as a society, and as a country.

The Best Man Runs through August 12 at the Susan B. Katz Theatre of the Performing Arts at the River of Grass ArtsPark, 17195 Sheridan St., Pembroke Pines. For tickets and more information, call 954437-4884, 877-477-8672, or visit pptopa.com.

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If so send me an email at Calendar@sfgn.com.

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Theater Broward County *LOVE!

Rock Solid Entertainment Group presents one of the most dynamic stage plays to hit South Florida in years: “Love!”

It will make you laugh, cry, and slap your neighbor! More importantly, it will make you believe. At the Miniaci Performing Arts Center in Davie on July 28 at 7 p.m. Parking on 2nd floor or higher, is included in the ticket price. Visit BrowardCenter.org.

*Sister Rolls the Dice

Hairspray

Hairspray sweeps you away to 1960’s Baltimore where the 50’s are out and change is in the air. Loveable plus-size heroine, Tracy, has a passion for dancing, and wins a spot on the local TV dance program. Overnight she finds herself transformed from an outsider to teen celebrity.

Through July 29. Tickets are $23 to $35. Visit LakeWorthPlayhouse.org

Sweeney Todd – The Demon Barber of Fleet Street

This 1979 Tony award winning musical by Stephen Sondheim and Hugh Wheeler will awe you with its stunning music, dazzling images, and wickedly intriguing script. July 26-29 at FAU’s Studio One Theatre in Boca Raton.

Tickets $20. Visit www. fausweeney.com or phone 800-564-9539

Peter Pan Starring Cathy Rigby

Late Nite Catechism: Sister Rolls the Dice is the latest class in the sinfully funny Catechism series. The convent needs a new roof, so the order has decided that Sister (with her extensive gambling experience running the Church Bingo for the last 25 years) will organize a Las Vegas night! Sister will tackle topics ranging from Magicians and Show Girls to live animal acts and the dangers of drive-through marriage chapels. At the Broward Center on August 4 & 5.

Shows times vary. Visit BrowardCenter.org

Tony Award nominee Cathy Rigby takes flight in an all-new production of Peter Pan. Discover the Magic all over again of this two-time EmmyAwardwinning and two-time TonyAward-nominated production of Peter Pan starting August 1 at 7 p.m. at the Alexander W. Dreyfoos, Jr. Concert Hall. Visit Kravis.org

The Fantasticks

The Fantasticks is the world’s longest running musical and Cathy Rigby still looks great at age 59, is about captivating Baby Girl playing the part of (appropriately enough) love story about a boy, Baby GirL centers on a girl, two fathers and Ashley, described as Peter Pan at the Kravis Center. a wall, the narrator, El a spirited daydreamer, who is alienated by Gallo, creates a world her adoptive family when she comes out as a lesbian. of moonlight and magic, then pain and disillusionment, until Ashley then embarks on a journey to find love and a place the boy and girl find their way back to each other. The score, to call home. Baby GirL runs through August 5, at Empire which includes “Try to Remember,” is as timeless as the Stage, 1140 North Flagler Dr. Fort Lauderdale. Showtimes story itself! through August 5. Visit Palmbeachdramaworks. are Friday and Saturday at 8 p.m. and Sunday at 5 p.m. Call org/index.php 954-678-1496. For tickets, visit: www.smarttix.com or www. empirestage.com

Palm Beach County *Big Band Hits of the Swing Era!

Hits of the Swing Era at FAU. The FAU all-Florida college jazz band will present an evening of hits from the 30’s 40’s and 50’s. Authentic music of Big Band sensations like Count Basie, Duke Ellington, Glenn Miller and Benny Goodman will fill the air. The greatest music of the Greatest Generation lives on for this special night in the University Theatre on July 28 at 7 p.m. Visit FAUevents.com

*Confessions of a Teenage Blockhead

When CB’s dog dies from rabies, he questions the existence of an afterlife. His best friend is too burnt out to provide any coherent speculation; his sister has gone goth; his exgirlfriend has recently been institutionalized; and his other friends are too inebriated to give him any sort of solace.

But a chance meeting with an artistic kid, the target of this group’s bullying, offers CB a peace of mind and sets in motion a friendship that will push teen angst to the very limits.

Drug use, suicide, eating disorders, teen violence, rebellion and sexual identity collide and careen this dark comedy toward an ending that’s both haunting and hopeful. At FAU’s Theatre Studio One theatre on August 2 to 4 at 7 p.m. Visit FAUevents.com

Miami-Dade *I Am My Own Wife

Winner of the Pulitzer Prize for Drama and the Tony Award for Best Play, Doug Wright’s I Am My Own Wife is the astonishing story of Charlotte von Mahlsdorf, a Berlin transvestite, who survived first the Nazis and then the Communists - as a woman. With Carbonell Award-winning actor Tom Wahl portraying the elegant Charlotte and more than 30 other characters, I Am My Own Wife is a remarkable one-man tour de force - strikingly political and beautifully humane. Visit ArshtCenter.org

The Donkey Show

In the spirit of Studio 54, that epic shrine to disco, the celebrated smash hit The Donkey Show now takes Miami by storm as the city’s dreamiest pop-up club! Disco is back and better than ever with this play. The Donkey Show will be at the Ziff Ballet Opera House through Aug. 12. It’s the ultimate night fever - a crazy fun house of disco mirror balls and feathered divas, of roller skaters and hustle queens, enchanted by an ever-so-light sprinkling of Shakespearean magic. Visit Arshtcenter.org

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This season Ziff Ballet Opera House on Oct. 9 to May 12 will hold the Broadway In Miami spectacle. Experience the return of the world’s greatest musical spectacle - Les Misérables - in its lavish new 25th anniversary production, along with the Miami premieres of Broadway’s biggest fun-filled hits - including the high-stepping Mary Poppins, the outlandishly colorful Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, the awesomely cool Rock of Ages, and - the 2010 Tony Award Winner for Best Musical - Memphis, a triumph of explosive dancing and powerhouse songs.

Visit Arshtcenter.org

Community Calendar Broward County *Saturday Nite Alive 2012

Isle Casino Racing Pompano Park Presents SATURDAY NITE ALIVE: Showcasing the best of Fort Lauderdale Beach for 11 fun filled Saturday nights: through August 11. The entertainment line up includes more than 20 high-energy entertainment acts i.e. Billy Bones, Taiko Drummers, Swahili, House of Flying Cards, Rafael & Ligia and the Bahamian Junkanoo Revue. Saturday Nite Alive also teamed up with beach hotels, restaurants and bars to offer dining/drink specials and reduced parking rates. Each Saturday night, entertainers will perform on the sidewalks along the west side of AIA on Fort Lauderdale Beach from Hall of Fame Drive to Castillo Street. There’s something for everyone in this beautiful setting next to the white sands and blue waters of the Atlantic Ocean. Visit MyFortLauderdaleBeach.com

*Associates & Inspiration: The CoBrA Movement and the Arts of Africa and New Guinea

This lively and thought-provoking installation juxtaposes paintings, sculptures and works on paper by artists of the CoBrA movement. Masks, totems, and carvings created by the South Pacific island of New Guinea and the continent of Africa are also on display. Museum of Art | Fort Lauderdale June 27 - September 01, 2012. For more information visit Moaflnsu.org

STAGE DOOR

By Jason Parsley

The Fantasticks – A Fantastic Production

*Bucket List at Atlantic Hotel

Whether your Bucket List includes a trip to the Great Wall of China, an African Safari, The Military Tattoo in Edinburgh Scotland, a Ride on the Orient Express, Skiing in the Alps, Shopping in Paris, Zip Lining in Costa Rica or a Luxury Cruise - there will be someone there to inform you on how to turn your ultimate travel fantasy into reality. This amazing event will take place at the Atlantic Resort & Spa on July 26 at 5 p.m. to 8 p.m. Call (954) 966-7690 or visit posthastetravel.com

Come On, Get Happy! - Group

Come On, Get Happy! is a self-help discussion group that helps you discover the ability and power inside you to maintain & achieve happiness, harmony and wellbeing with emotional balance and stability. Led by Dr. Lewis James Jordan PHD LHMC. ‘Believe in your power to be happy. This group will take place at the Sunserve building located at 2312 Wilton Drive at 7pm-8:30pm. For more information visit Sunserve.org

GLBX Business Advantage Referral Group

GLBX Business Advantage Referral Group will be held at the chamber offices on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month from 8 to 9 a.m. The leads group is looking for additional members. If you are interested joining, please contact Ken Stollar at Kenneth.Stolar@sci-us.com to see if your category is open and to attend as a guest. Visit Ftlchamber.com/index. php?src=gendocs&ref=GLBX_home&category=GLBX

(LtoR) Barry Tarallo, Jacob Heimer, Jennifer Molly Bell and Cliff Goulet, in a scene from The Fantasticks

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he world’s longest running musical, The Fantasticks, is now playing through August 5 at Palm Beach’s longest residing professional theater, Palm Beach Dramaworks.

The musical tells the story of two fathers living next door to each other, who trick their children, Luisa and Matt, into falling in love. They believe that the children won’t fall in love unless that love is forbidden. So the fathers construct a wall between their houses, and fabricate a family feud.

The off-Broadway musical comedy features two well-known songs “Try to Remember” and “Soon It’s Gonna Rain.”

The story is simple and sweet, and both Matt (Jacob Heimer) and Luisa (Jennifer Molly Bell) give outstanding performances.

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has lasted so long. Perhaps because at the very heart of it, it’s a timeless love tale that never gets old – or loses its relevance.

According the New York Times, The Fantasticks is one of the most widely produced shows in the world, with more than 11,000 productions in 3,000 cities in all 50 states, as well as in 67 countries, including Afghanistan, Iran and Saudi Arabia. Besides being a simple story, it has the barest of sets and only a two-member band making it easy to reproduce.

The show originally opened in 1960, and ran for a record-setting 17,162 performances before it closed in 2002. It was then revived in 2006 and continues today off-Broadway.

Visit palmbeachdramaworks.org for tickets and show times.

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Tundra Gay Night

Tundra restaurant will be holding a gay mixer night every Tuesday from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. Come for the great food, drinks, and people. When you come to Tundra for the gay night try a great martini from there dozens of specialty drinks. Visit Tundralasolas.com

Queer Youth Nights

LGBTQ & allied youth 13-21 are welcome any time after 6 p.m. at the SunServe building on Wilton Drive for a great place to meet new friends, play board games and a Queer Themed Movie at 7 p.m. Email Afrosch@sunServe.org

Corporate Challenge of Florida

Opening ceremony begins August 2012. Corporate Challenge of Florida is bringing the spirit of the Olympics to Broward County. Offering many different sporting events throughout Broward. The largest sporting event in South Florida will have the opportunity to show unity, sportsmanship and camaraderie. Each company’s registration fees will support the American Heart Association, breast cancer research, Make a Wish Foundation and more local charitable South Florida organizations. Visit Ccoffl.org/ thanks.php

Wild Inspirational Gatherings

WIG is a new and exciting weekly event that will inspire and empower you to celebrate life. Imagine a gay revival mixing spirituality, disco meditation, drag divas, WIG’s Gayngster Choir and a fabulous message from Rev. Jamie! WIG seeks to empower gay youth, adults and our allies with positive energy, a fun environment and a gay spirit. Doors open at 7:30, curtain up at 8. Tickets: $10 suggested donation, VIP booth seating $30. 754-4441WIG (1944)

Latinos Salud’s programs

Multiple programs and groups for bi/gay Latino guys.

Latinos Salud’s SOMOS program is for guys 18 to 30.

All proceeds will benefit Latinos Salud in our efforts to educate on HIV Prevention and testing. Every Thursday night at 7 p.m. join the Core Group, and help plan alternative activities. Also offers Popular Opinion Leader group for guys ages 25 to 44 and a Life Coaching program for guys ages 18 to 44. Come by Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. for free one-on-one life coaching with certified CRCS coaches. Located at 2330 Wilton Drive. Call 954-533-8681 or visit Latinossalud.org

Saturday Nite Alive

The free event will showcase the best of Fort Lauderdale Beach for 11 fun filled Saturday nights: through August 11 (7 p.m. – 11 p.m.). The entertainment lineup includes more than 20 high-energy entertainment acts i.e. Billy Bones, Taiko Drummers, Swahili, House of Flying Cards, Rafael & Ligia and the Bahamian Junkanoo Revue. Each Saturday night, entertainers will perform on the sidewalks along the west side of AIA on Fort Lauderdale Beach from Hall of Fame Drive to Castillo Street.

Visit Wizard-Entertainment.com

Buddhist Meditation Classes

All the happiness there is in the world arises from wishing others to be happy. By abandoning self-centered thoughts and replacing them with the belief that others are important, we will overcome our suffering and find true happiness inside our own hearts. $10/class or $30/series includes vegetarian food after class. Call The Drolma Buddhist Center at 954-537-9191.

Intimate Partner Abuse Group

Man2Man Discussion Group meets at the Pride Center on Mondays from 7 until 8:30 p.m. Any subject may be discussed. Members regularly reassemble afterwards for ‘repast’ at The Courtyard, PeterPan Diner. Visit Glccsf.org

SunServe is offering a new weekly support group for LGBT people that are experiencing abuse in their intimate relationships, or have just left an abusive intimate relationship.

Abuse includes: name calling, put downs, slurs, humiliation, isolation, being kept from friends and family, economic deprivation, threats, intimidation, violence, sexual coercion, and sexual violence. Call 954-764-5150 extension 104.

Meditation After Work

Eating Disorder Support

Man2Man Discussion

On Mondays from 6-6:30 p.m. there will be Guided meditation w/ western Buddhist teacher Gui Passow. Looking for a way to rest and re-charge before starting your evening? Come in for a free guided meditation to clear your mind at the end of the day. This class is free at Drolma Buddhist Center. Call 954-537-9191 or visit meditationinfortlauderdale.org

Meets Friday evenings from 6 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. At Sun Serve’s Wilton Manors location at 2123 Wilton Drive, second floor.

A “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. Free. No registration required. Donations welcome. Call 954-764-5150

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SPOTLIGHT: THE ARTS

By J.W. Arnold Bored with Summer Reruns?

Head to the Web

He’s Everywhere!

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outh Florida theater audiences are going to be seeing a lot more xcept for the Olympics, the program- of Michael McKeever in the upcoming ming is pretty thin on TV these days. season. In addition to his work with the Mad Men is but a memory and even all critically-acclaimed Zoetic Stage in Mithe Real Housewives have run their course. ami, Parade Productions in Boca Raton So, if more reruns of The Big Bang Theory announced last week that McKeever will won’t cut it anymore, you might consider star in David Sedaris’ twisted Santaland turning to web for some original enterDiaries in December and in February, the tainment. There are some fun web series company will mount McKeever’s collecfrom aspiring filmmakers that have got the tions of short plays, The Whole Caboodle, Internet buzzing and will appeal to that a four week run in February. A prolific certain homosexual sensibility we share. writer, McKeever has won numerous Dumbass Filmmakers is a web series Carbonell Awards for his plays, and about just that, the kind of people who starred in many local productions. For are all heart and no brain, dedicated to more information, go to ParadeProductheir art and the desire to “inspire others tions.org. to save the environment, protest injustice and embrace bisexuality.” It’s some pretty crazy stuff, but despite the antics, some of Musician Kicks Off Organ-ic Games in Miami the cast are just plain hot. Best part:You t’s no coincidence British organist Matdon’t have to pay by the minute to get thew Steynor chose the same night at your kicks. Find out more on YouTube or the opening of the London Olympics for go to DumbassFilmmakers.com.

This one is perfect for Fort Lauderdale his annual organ recital at Miami’s Trinity Cathedral. The graduate of Cambridge audiences: Where the Bears Are. The fur has an athletic program planned, demandwill start to fly in this comedy murder ing plenty of dexterity and endurance, crime series that is hitting the Internet airways on August 1. Of course, this romp, including a transcription of Edward Elgar’s described as part Golden Girls meets Mur- Enigma Variations and some pedal pieces that would challenge the most accomder She Wrote, takes place in Silver Lake plished gymnast. The concert will be held and will include 36 four-minute episodes.

Three gay bear roommates work together Sunday, July 29 at 6 p.m. at Trinity Cathedral, 464 NE 16th St. in Miami. Tickets are to solve the murder of a party guest $15 in advance at TrinityMiami.org or $20 found dead in their bathroom. Check it at the door. out at WhereTheBearsAre.tv.

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THE REGULARS

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Dream Car Classic

Tuesday Night Eatin Meeting

Living Healthy

Gay Men’s HIV+ Long Time Survivors’ Group

Every Sunday of the month from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Pre-1980s classic cars, modern classics and custom cars from 19812012 will be showcased. $10 car registration from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m. (Show Car Entrance: 20th Avenue & Tyler Street).

People’s Choice Award - 2 Classes; Top Ten Vehicles Award.

Call 954-214-2457 Fusion in Wilton Manors will be having a free workshop on healthy choices, and healthy living on Tuesdays from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. This workshop provides interactive learning, practice and mastery techniques for a healthier and more active life, and positive changes for quality of life. Call 954-630-1655

Sex & Love Anonymous

S.L.A.A. believes that sex and love addiction is a progressive illness which cannot be cured but which, like many illnesses, can be arrested. It may take several forms -- including, but not limited to, a compulsive need for sex, extreme dependency on one or many people, or a chronic pre-occupation with romance, intrigue, or fantasy. Meets at The Pride Center at Equality Park in Bldg A, Room 200 Fridays 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. Visit Slaafws.org

Life Coaching

Latinos Salud’s Life Coaching program is for Latino gay/bi guys ages 18-44. Come by Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. for free one-on-one life coaching with certified CRCS coaches. Set your goals, and meet action steps to make them come true. Stop in for more info at 2330 Wilton Drive or call 954-765-6239. Visit Latinossalud.org

Survivor Support

A Survivor Support Group is being held on the first and third Wednesday of each month at the 211 Community Center, 250 NE 33rd Street, in Oakland Park. The Florida Initiative for Suicide Prevention (FISP) is sponsoring this free support group and is open to all family members and friends of those who have died by suicide. Call 954-384-0344 to register. Meets from 7-8:30 p.m. Visit Fisponline.org.

Sunday Jazz Brunch

Tuesday Night Eatin’ Meeting will be held at The Alternative MC Clubhouse at 4322 NE 5th Ave in Oakland Park. Fun, food, and fellowship. There will be hamburgers, hotdogs, all the fixins, cold drinks, desserts, and snacks. Meeting begins at 8 p.m. and ends at 9 p.m. Visit Alternativemc.com/events/ florida-events

A support group that gives men who have been HIV+ for a long time (5 yrs +) the opportunity to give and receive support around topics of interest and issues for concern that are raised by the members. Meets on 1st and 3rd Thursday at SunServe 2312 Wilton Drive from 6:30 – 8 p.m. No cost.

Donations welcome.

SunServe Therapy Groups

Provided for the LGBT community at SunServe on a regular basis. Groups require an intake interview. Call the Intake Coordinator at 954-764-5150 to learn which therapy groups have openings. Visit SunServe.org

Fusion Wilton Manors - Connections

Gay men’s group discussion. Different subject every week.

Dr. David Fawcett, a gay therapist, who has been in private practice in Fort Lauderdale for the last ten years, leads the event. No charge. Starts at 7 p.m. Call 954-630-1655.

Women4Women Support

A safe and loving place to explore all the concerns and topics raised by group members. This open drop-in meeting is held Wednesdays at 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the New Sun Serve Building at 2312 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Call 954-764-5150

Man2Man Discussion

Man-2-Man talk is an informal discussion group of gay men, with all age ranges and backgrounds welcomed. Bldg A, Room 206. Visit Glccsf.org/calendar/

Palm Beach County

First Sunday of every month. An ideal way to relax and enjoy Fort Lauderdale’s scenic Riverwalk. Live, outdoor concert series bringing the area’s best local jazz artists. Listen to the soulful sounds on four different stages. Well-behaved, leashed pets welcome. Plenty of room for chairs, blankets and picnic baskets.

Lake Worth Bike Night

Young Adult GLBT

PFLAG is a monthly support, coming out and rap groups for families of & for Gay, Lesbian, Bi, and Transgender people. Meeting in Palm Beach County is at 6:30 on the third Wednesday of the month. Call or email Carol at 561-716-9464 Pflag@pobox.com

A social group open to all LGBT people ages 18-35. Meets Fridays at the Pride Center in Wilton Manors from 7:15-9 p.m.

Meeting starts with a discussion on current events followed by introductions and then a group activity. Visit PrideCenterFlorida.org/contact-us

Boardwalk Friday Fest

Come out to Hollywood Beach Theatre East of A1A at Johnson St and the ocean. Admission: Free every Friday of every month. Live jazz, blues, pop and everything in between along Hollywood’s signature 2.5 mile boardwalk. Charming oceanfront cafes and restaurants serve up delicious innovative cuisine while you enjoy the best array of live music and tropical ocean breezes. Visit Hollywoodfl.org or call 954-924-2980

Toastmasters

Most Toastmasters meetings are comprised of about 20 people who meet weekly for an hour or so. Participants practice and learn skills by filling a meeting role, ranging from giving a prepared speech or an impromptu one to serving as timer, evaluator or grammarian. Toastmasters meet at the GLCC/Pride Center Monday at 7:15 p.m. Call Ted Verdone at 954-566-2074 or email: Tedverdone@comc​ast.net

Safe “T”

Safe “T” is a support group for gender variant adults.

Meets Wednesday evenings from 6:30-8:00 p.m. at Sunserve’s Wilton Manors location at 2312 Wilton Drive, second floor. A “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. Free. No registration required. Donations welcome.

Call 954-764-5150.

Gay Male Empowerment

Topic discussions include issues and concerns about being a gay man in South Florida. Meets Thursdays at the Pride Center from 7 - 8:30 p.m. Call 954-353-9155 or email info@ sunserve.org

PFLAG

Meets on the 2nd and 4th Tues. of the month at the Sunshine Cathedral at 1480 SW 9th Avenue to support the parents of LGBTQ youth in Broward. No charge. Visit Community.pflag. org/pflagfortlauderdale

The Lake Worth bike night is fun, and it’s for a cause. Join loads of people in downtown Lake Worth every Thursday from 7 p.m.-10 p.m.. The event is free and open to bikers and nonbikers. For more information visit Lakeworthbikenight.com

PFLAG

New Alternatives

Social group with regular outings and social mixers for LGBTQ ages 18 to 30. This meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Email matthew@compassglcc.com or Visit Compassglcc.com.

PBC Gender Support

All ages support group dedicated for transgender individuals. This meeting happens the 1st and 3rd Thursday of every month at 7:30 p.m. These meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Visit Compassglcc.com

Good Orderly AA

These meetings now take place at Lambda North at 18 S. J Street, and geared toward recovering alcoholics. Every Tues. and Thurs. at 7 p.m. and on Sat. at 5:30 p.m. These meetings will help recovering alcoholics cope with the stress of everyday life without the use of alcohol. Email tcamie@aol.com

Seniors vs. Crime

Seniors vs. Crime is a free service that provides help to seniors who have been victimized by businesses or service providers and need assistance. This event will take place at Mae Volen Senior Center at 1515 W. Palmetto Park Road.

By appointment only so call 561-736-3820 or 561-395-8920.

Jazz on the Palm

Jazz on the Palm - Downtown West Palm Beach Waterfront - Gather with friends and family to enjoy the diverse vibrant sounds of jazz under the stars every 3rd Friday of month at the new Downtown West Palm Beach waterfront concert series. Free and open to the public. Guests are encouraged to bring blankets and chairs. From 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. Visit Wpbgo.com/2010/06/jazz-on-the-palm

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Yoga On The Waterfront

Lake Pavilion at 101 S. Flagler Drive, West Palm Beach, FL / Yoga On The Waterfront in downtown West Palm Beach on Wednesday Evenings at 5:45 p.m. Residents $40 per 8 week session, Non-Residents $50 per 8 week session, Drop-ins $10 per class. To register, please call 561-804-4902.

YOGA Among the Orchids

It’s time for Yoga Among the Orchids at the American Orchid Society, 16700 AOS Lane, Delray Beach. Relax and replenish the flower inside with an hour of breathing exercises, toning, and yoga poses under a canopy of lush orchids. Classes are Wed. at 9 a.m. Cost is $20 and RSVP is suggested. Call 561404-2011. Visit OrchidWeb.org

Bill’s Filling Station

2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-5978.

Large bar/ nightclub, amazing drink specials in Wilton Manors! Wednesday’s after 9 p.m. $10 Miller Lite Beer Bust

Boardwalk

1721 N. Andrews Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33311.

(954) 463-6969. A Cute Little Hangout in Fort Lauderdale.

Pool-room/game room on one side and a bar/strip club on the other. Mondays $3 Well & Dom, after 9 p.m. $3 U-Call-It Shots

The Club Fort Lauderdale

Sober Sisters AA

Support group is dedicated for lesbians who are recovering from alcoholism. Meeting happens every Monday at 7 p.m. at Lambda North Clubhouse. Visit LambdaNorth.net

Sunday on the Waterfront

Sunday on the Waterfront is a free concert series, which takes place the third Sunday of most months in the beautiful downtown West Palm Beach waterfront area. Bring blankets, chairs, and coolers or purchase treats at the concert. Free parking in all city lots and at city meters. 4:30 p.m. to 7 p.m.

May through October. Visit OnTheWaterFront.com

BrothasSpeak

Bathhouse. 110 NW 5th Ave., Fort Lauderdale, FL, (954) 5253344 Good. Clean. Fun. 1/2 price rooms...Tuesday Nights and 1/2 price Lockers. Thursdays Nights. Always busy.

Clubhouse II

Bathhouse. 2650 E. Oakland Park Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida (954) 566-6750. A Private Club for Bi/Gay men. “bear and cub” Thursday $4 Off For Bear & Cub. Tuesday leather night - $4.off wear any type of leather.

Corner Pub Bar

1915 N. Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311, (954) 564-7335. Redefining what a bar should be.

Thursday’s margarita madness $4, Monday’s “Underwear Night. 2 for 1” until 9:30 p.m.

Cubby Hole

This group is a black gay men’s discussion group that is held at the Compass in West Palm Beach. Every Wednesday from 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. this group will be directed toward issues for and about black men. Visit Compassglcc.com

823 N. Federal Highway, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 7289001. The Cubby Hole is one of Fort Lauderdale’s most unique and popular Neighborhood bar for men. Underwear Wednesday’s. “Boxers n’ Briefs” get 2 for 1 drinks 9 p.m. to close

Paths

Paths is a social/discussion group held at Compass in Lake Worth. This men’s group takes place every Monday from 7:30 p.m. to 9 p.m. Paths men’s group will be discussing relationships, coming out, safer sex issues and more. Visit Compassglcc.com

The Depot Cabana Bar and Grill

Yoga

Dudes Bar

2935 N. Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 5377076. Voted the “Friendliest” Gay Bar in Fort Lauderdale.

Monday’s $1.99 Drinks and $.50 wings open to close

Yoga with Deborah will change your life. Bring a mat and get ready to stretch the stress away every Tuesday at The GLCC in Palm Beach from 6 to 7 p.m. This yoga experience will uplift and transform your life. $6 Entry Fee. You must bring your own mat. Visit Compassglcc.com

3270 NE 33rd St Fort Lauderdale FL 954-568-7777. Sexy hot men starting to shake the booty daily from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. On Sundays enjoy karaoke with Peter Petrucci. Great drink specials every Monday with $1 well drinks from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m.

Living Buddhism

2266 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 565-2526. Fort Lauderdale’s best & longest happy hour.

Wednesdays $2 Domestics & $1 Schnapps after 9 p.m.

On the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. Compass in Lake Worth will be holding a discussion group for overcoming obstacles and obtaining happiness. This group is great for getting internal enlightenment. Release your inner stress, and become free. Visit Compassglcc.com

Miami-Dade

Georgie’s Alibi

Johnny’s

1116 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 5225931. Monday Dragon with TP Lords, Daisy D. and DJ Rob Sky Some of the hottest guys around with great happy hour drink specials. Bring all your friends to this sexy Bar.

The Manor

AIDS Quilt Panel Workshops

Miami Beach Community Health Center’s “Making Memories” will assist those interested in creating an AIDS Quilt panel as a way to pay tribute to a life lost to AIDS. Workshops are held the fourth Saturday of every month through October.

1 p.m. to 3 p.m. Workshops are free. Visit Miamibeachhealth. org or 305-538-8835 or 1-800-393-1290

Lambda Dade Clubhouse

A meeting place for the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender communities and friends in recovery. Hosts Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Al-Anon, Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Debtors Anonymous (DA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), and Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), meetings. (305) 573-9608. 212 NE 24th Street. Miami. Visit Lambdadadeclubhouse.org

2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 626 0082 - Come Dine, Dance, Drink, Mingle and of course Relax. 2 for 1 happy hour Tues-Friday 3 to 9 p.m. Indoor/Outdoor Dining. Dance the night away Thursday through Sunday. Live music Wed., Fri., Sat., Sun. Visit themanorcomplex.com

Matty’s on the Drive

2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 564-1799.

Matty’s is one of the few bars in Wilton Manors that’s just that –a bar. Wild Wednesday’s $.75 Drinks, 13 Drinks for less than $10. 5 p.m.

Mona’s

502 E. Sunrise Boulevard, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 5256662. The eclectic décor and a friendly staff makes. Mona’s a great place to have fun in Fort Lauderdale. Thursday’s College Boy’s Night 8 p.m. Enjoy College Boy’s Choice 2 for 1

Monkey Business

2740 North Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311. (954) 514-7819. The Monkey Business Bar is a Small Outdoor Bar Among The Shops Just off Marina Blvd. No Frills But Comfortable and a Great Place to Stop and Meet Good People.

Happy Hour 8 a.m. to 9 p.m.

nightlife Broward County

Naked Grape Wine Bar

321-Slammer

Bathhouse. 321 W Sunrise Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida, 33311. Slammer sex club the best place to cruise for the hottest gay men. Thursday’s is leather night, Friday and Saturday night live DJs. Monday & Tuesday -- $9 entry fee

Atomic Boom

2232 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 630-3556 Best Sound & Light Show in Broward County. Mondays “porn bingo” with Desiree Dubois. $3 Margaritas, $1 Draft

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2039 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305. (954) 563-5631.

A Casual, Hip, Fun Experience and if You Have a Taste for Deliciously Unique Wines, You Need to Make This Your Next Stop! Happy Hour All Night on Thursday

New Moon

2440 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 563-7660.

Your neighborhood lesbian bar in the heart of Fort Lauderdale and just minutes from Fort. Lauderdale Beach. Wednesday All the fun, half the price 2-4-1 All Day, All Night

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Please include a brief description, address, phone number, date, time and cost.

PJ’s Corner Pocket

924 North Flagler Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 533-0257. One of The Most Diverse Bars in Fort Lauderdale. $2 Drinks Every Wednesday, Spades Every Thursday

Ramrod

1508 NE 4th Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 763-8219.

South Florida’s Leading Levi, Leather and Uniform Bar/ Club. Every night is Bear Night. Bear Happy. Hour Every Thursday. Caged Hunks Sat Night

Rosie’s Bar and Grill

2449 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-1320.

Wilton Manor’s Best Burger in Town. Try the Fat Elvis.

Happy Hour 5 p.m. to 9 p.m.

Scandals Country Western Bar

Oakland Park, FL 3334, (954) 567-2432. Scandals Gay and Lesbian Country Western. Dance Bar in Wilton Manors. Tuesdays Pool League, and Free Dance Lessons

Sidelines Sports Bar

2031 Wilton Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33305, (954) 563-8001.

Sidelines Sports Bar and Billiards is a unique, friendly, and accepting place to relax with a cold beer, great drinks and Martinis. Happy Hour M-F 4 p.m. to 2 a.m.

Smarty Pants

3038 North Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33306, (954) 561-1724. Great Local Hangout in Fort Lauderdale with Great Drink Specials. Saturday’s Free Breakfast to Order – 8 a.m.

The Stable

205 East Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park, FL 33334, (954) 565-4506 A neighborhood bar with a different theme every night, from drag shows and bingos, to bears and underwear.

Torpedo

2829 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 587-2500. Your Dance Destination Till Dawn. Open Late for You To Devour The Night. Open 7 nights a week till 4 a.m.

Palm Beach County

The Mad Hatter

522 Lucerne Ave, Lake Worth, Fl, 33414. (561) 586-0080 Great Service, Great Food, Full Stocked Bar, Great Professional Tea-Dance every Sunday

The Bar Lake Worth

The Cottage (Tea-Dance Sundays)

Fort Dix

6205 Georgia Ave, West Palm Beach, Florida 33405 Directions, (561) 533-5355. Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. Place rocks with a Fabulous DJ on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sunday T-Dance.

H.G. Rooster

823 BELVEDERE ROAD, WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33405, (561)-832-9119. H.G. Roosters is West Palms oldest gay club.

Sunday’s Complimentary BBQ 5 p.m., Hot Male Dancers 6 p.m., Karaoke 11 p.m.

Mara (Thurs-Sat)

1132 North Dixie Highway, Lake Worth FL $3 Drinks. No Cover. Open till 5 a.m. Ladies night on Thursdays and Karaoke on Fridays.

1532 North Dixie Hwy ,Lake Worth, FL 33460. (561) 547-8860.

Cheap drinks, friendly bartenders, and free pool SundayThursday. Stop by and relax at this no-attitude haunt.

2211 North Dixie Highway Lake Worth. (561) 370-3954 Thebarlakeworth.com. Men and women share this mostlylocals space as a calm and friendly watering hole. The bar often features live music which can be a nice break from thumping bass.

Tag Bar

25 Northeast 2nd Avenue, Delray Beach, FL 33483 954-8013247. Delray Beach’s only gay bar. Mon - Sun: 4 p.m. - 2 a.m.

Awesome Drink Specials.

Miami-Dade Club Space

34 NE 11th St ,Miami ,Florida, 33132,(305) 350-1956 Space Miami Voted Best U.S Club IDMA 2011. The go-to venue for any nightlife enthusiast in the nation, the club is proudly marching on into its second decade of operation.

Club Sugar

2301 SW 32nd Ave, Miami, Florida, 33145, (305) 443-7657. All the sweetness you’ll need in one club. Every Thursday “drag wars” with TP Lords. $5 house drinks & $4 Domestic beers all night.

Discotekka

950 NE 2nd Ave, Downtown Miami, Florida 33132,(305) 350-9084.

One of the best night clubs In Miami. Every Saturday the hottest DJ’s from the top performers. Drink Special Every Saturday

Johnny’s

Miami 62 NE 14 Street Downtown Miami Florida (305) 640-8749. Open Wed. through Sun. The hottest men in the universe strip shows nightly from 6 p.m. sexy from wall to wall. Free entrance. Free parking. Free VIP rooms. Featuring the Hottest Male Dancers and The Best VIP ROOMS and always $5 Drinks. Full Lineup at ed at http://www.

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17450 Biscayne Blvd, N Miami Beach, Fl 33160 954-357-2532 Tuesdays-Saturdays from 6 p.m. to 6 a.m. Come and enjoy fully nude guys dancing to the best music in South Florida.

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1057 Washington Ave, Miami Beach, Fl, 33139. (305) 538-9478.

Never a Cover…Always a Groove. Resident star DJ Mika spins tribal. Every Saturday TWIST is full of the hottest men in Miami. Muscle boy dancers taking it off in the Bungalow Bar.

Key West 801 Bar

801 Duval St., Key West, Florida,(305) 294-4737. Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV Beaumont, Margo, and others. Happy hour specials daily from 11 a.m.- 8 p.m.

The Bourbon St. Pub

724 Duval St. (305) 296-1992. Key West’s premier video bar with LIVE DJ’S nightly. A taste of N’Awlins in the heart of Old Town – Enjoy Key West’s hottest music videos on the large screen while the boys entertain on the bar. No Cover.

La Te Da

1125 Duval St. 305-296-6706 Fun Gay-Friendly atmosphere.

Cabaret entertainment during season including Randy Roberts and Chris Peterson. Enjoy great live music Tuesday thru Sunday with Lenore Troia. Cover charge may apply. Great outside bar if you just want to enjoy a cocktail and chat while people watching on Duval Street.

Club Aqua

711 Duval St.,Key West, Florida,(305) 294-0555. Monday’s Dueling Bartenders. Your Bartender’s sing, shake, and stir their way through happy hour 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

Kwest

705 Duval St. , Key West, Florida,(305) 292-8500. Key West All-Male Strip Club. Daily Happy Hour from 3-8 p.m. And a piano sing-a-long every Wednesday night.

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Happy Hour – every weekday from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. Friday’s are Extended Happy Hour 5 p.m. - 9 p.m.

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MARY’S PLACE

Your True Colors

By Mary Bondi

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or the LGBT community, “Pride” is a worldwide movement and philosophy asserting that LGBT individuals should be proud of their sexual orientation and gender identity.

It might be difficult for some of us who are able to roam free during Pride events or go to a gay establishment to imagine that this was not always the way things were. Our gay brothers and sisters in the 1950s and 1960s had many restrictions just because of their orientation.

There were gay bars in the 1960’s but the patron’s had to fear arrest from the police raiding the bars as there were laws that banned homosexuality in public.

There was one establishment located in Greenwich Village, New York, called Stonewall that would change the course of history for the LGBT community. To enter the bar patrons would pay a $3 dollar cover and sign a register under a false name. The bar manager would be tipped

off if the police were planning a raid.

On the night of June 28, 1969 when the police came to raid the bar, the patrons fought back. There are reports that state that these riots, later known as the Stonewall Riots, lasted three days. These riots are often considered to be the event that launched the modern gay rights movement.

I often write about how important it is to change our conscious beliefs in order to help improve the quality of our lives. The events of June 28,1969 were a historical movement that changed the collective consciousness of the LGBT community

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as a whole.

June 28, 1969 will forever be regarded as a landmark date in gay history. A year later, there were 1,500 gay rights groups and the nation’s first Pride events took place in three states. Now Pride and Stonewall are celebrated throughout the country and internationally.

We can all forever be grateful for those brave patrons.

Now, this was a genuine example of creating a change in consciousness. It is important to remember how those courageous customers of Stonewall Inn decided to say “Enough.”

They fought that night for their rights and

for all the rights of those that followed.

There are individuals that struggle every day on every part of this planet to come out and to learn to feel comfortable with their sexual orientation. If something has to be hidden, we can feel that it’s shameful, bad, or wrong. Thinking this can only reinforce internalized homophobia. It’s only a small step from feeling that your sexual orientation is not okay to feeling like you’re not okay altogether. Everybody wants to be loved and accepted for who they are. They don’t want to have to hide important parts of themselves, as this is a way to share their true self. Events such as Stonewall and Pride have helped the LGBT community feel more liberated to celebrate its true self.

If you are struggling with questions regarding your sexual orientation, seek support and/or a good counselor who can provide understanding, support, and helpful insights. Remember, we are all special, unique individuals brought into this world.

Celebrate your true self and as Cyndi Lauper’s song True Colors says, don’t be afraid to let your true colors show — your true colors are beautiful like a rainbow.

For more information on gay history a site you can visit is www.GLBThistory.org

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SPORTS

ESPN’s LGBT Ally Group

By Ryan Dixon

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aunching what could become one of the forefront employee resource groups (ERG), ESPN’s ESPN EQUAL is the world wide leader in sports’ LGBT ally group modeled after those in similar companies.

The forming of this ERG has come as no surprise seeing as ESPN’s parent company, the Disney Corp, is one of several high profile companies to support global and company LGBT rights. Disney’s equal rights stance has had a waterfall effect in the company from a gay couple with children on ABC’s Modern Family, holding gay marriage ceremonies at Disney Tokyo and now the implementation of ESPN EQUAL. Three years ago, ESPN launched eight different ERGs, each focused on raising understanding and awareness amongst employees from a variety of perspectives: women, African-American, Hispanic, Asian, employees with disabilities, family and work/life balance, young professionals and now LGBT. At any given time on campus throughout the year, each of these ERGs stages events that ultimately serve to enhance the culture of the ESPN family. Sometimes it’s a guest speaker.

Other times, it might be a celebration of an event like Cinco de Mayo.

Over the past couple of weeks, colleagues at all levels of the company — executives, talent and employees from across ESPN — have sat for the camera to talk about the importance of the “Allies of EQUAL” program. In a video posted on YouTube and ESPN Front Line, correspondent Trey Wingo made the most heartfelt and compelling comments as to what being an ally of ESPN EQUAL is really about.

“An ally isn’t someone who has all the answers to LGBT issues,” says Wingo. “An ally is someone who is committed to learning and educating others to help create a work environment that is free from homophobia and heterosexism. Allies believe people should be treated equally with dignity and respect.”

Chris LaPlaca has been with ESPN for 32 years and considers himself “fortunate to have been a part of many ground-breaking developments during my time. But being involved with this group as a straight ally has been one of the most rewarding professional and personal experiences I have ever had.”

All participants in the ESPN Ally program will receive a ‘safe space’ object to display on their desk signifying that their area is a place where LGBT employees can feel safe to speak openly and honestly about their sexual orientation and gender identity. The safe space object is a home plate stand with a picture of an ump making the “safe” call. Allies will also receive a sticker that says ‘Ally’ to display next to their name outside of their cubicle or office, and an ally packet with helpful information about being an ally. The first ally event was a frank discussion by straight and LGBT ESPN colleagues about the creation of the Ally program and what they hoped to achieve with it according to www.ESPNfrontrow.com. The theme, in essence, was education and inclusion. While each of the ERGs has a different focal point, they are united by a common theme: having the ability to bring your “whole self” to work every day not only makes individuals better, it makes the company better.

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P o l itic a l N E W S by J A S O N PAR S L E Y

Local Democrat Defends Controversial Anti-Gay Spending

ince Democrat Perry Thurston was elected to the Florida House of Representatives District 93 in 2006, an examination of his campaign finance records showed a pattern of expenditures to at least two anti-gay churches in Pompano Beach.

Because of redistricting this year, Perry will be running for re-election in District 94, which covers Wilton Manors.

Records show Perry’s campaign has spent more than $2,500 in donations and on advertisements. The bulk of the money was given to Mount Calvary Baptist Church in Pompano Beach.

The Sun-Sentinel reported that the pastor of that church, Anthony Burrell, was active in the 2008 effort that added the ban on same-sex marriage in Florida. Another, arguably more disturbing donation, was made last year to Rev. O’Neal Dozier Ministries.

That donation, however, was a mere $250, which paid for an ad celebrating the pastor’s anniversary and birthday.

Dozier is well-known for his anti-gay rhet-

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ally banned it in Florida. In fact, oric. In January, liberal magazine he went so far as to create and Mother Jones reported that Dozdistribute a palm card opposing ier referred to homosexuality the ban. as “something so nasty and dis“I took a lot of flack about that gusting that it makes God want in the community,” he said. “I to vomit.” was in staunch opposition of that Dozier, though, is no friend to amendment. I’ve been for gay democrats either, having served marriage as far back as 2008.” as the honorary chairman to Perry Thurston At one point in 2008, Perry Rick Santorum’s state campaign.

In an interview with SFGN, Thurston was remembered walking into a church where adamant that just because some of his cam- the pastor actually changed the sermon to paign’s money has made it into the hands of speak in opposition of gay marriage because of Perry’s palm card. anti-gay pastors, he is not anti-gay.

As for the other church mentioned above, “My record speaks for itself. I’m behind anything that expands people’s rights. I try Mount Calvary, that’s been Perry’s home to maintain that position as often as I can,” church for the past 52 years.

“I’ve been through four ministers at that he said and then referred SFGN to his voting church,” he said. “They don’t control what record.

As for Dozier, he said “I don’t agree with I vote for. These ministers are in the community.”

Dozier on much.”

Michael Rajner, a community activist, said Perry went on to say that he believes in gay marriage, and in 2008 actively cam- he’s worked with Thurston for years and paigned against the amendment that eventu- isn’t concerned with the monies Thurston’s submitted photo

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campaign spent with the churches.

“He was in a faith-based community. Those were his constituents,” Rajner said.

President of the Dolphin Democrats, Broward County’s LGBT democratic club, Tim Ross said he wasn’t familiar with the issue, but hopes to have Thurston speak to his members to explain what it’s all about.

Perry is running unopposed in the upcoming democratic primary and will face off against openly gay republican Scott Herman in the general election.

Rajner believes it’s Herman’s campaign that is stirring the pot when it comes to Perry’s campaign expenditures.

“Scott Herman’s campaign is trying to make something out of nothing,” Rajner said.

“I honestly thought Perry Thurston was an honorable individual with a few nefarious friends, but apparently his record deserves greater scrutiny from the community than I realized,” Herman said. “He has apparently put his money where his mouth is on LGBT issues.”

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TRAVEL

By Jon Fairbanks GayTravel.com Team Member

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Cape Town: Paradise in the Rainbow Nation outh Africa is a country that celebrates diversity.

It’s the only country in Africa that allows same-sex couples to marry. Cape Town, the second-largest city in the “Rainbow Nation,” is one of the most popular tourist destinations for straight and gay vacationers alike.

What makes Cape Town so appealing is the combination of a well-developed infrastructure, amazing climate and natural beauty. Several popular tourist attractions are located in “The Mother City,” including Table Mountain National Park and Boulders Beach. Whether you enjoy gazing at bronzed hotties on the beach, crave an ideal wine tasting experience or have a penchant for adventure and want to bungee jump or shark-cage dive, you’ll love this city!

Cape Town has a lot to offer LGBT travelers. There are gay beaches, gayborhoods and several LGBT-friendly hotels and businesses.

Tourism is a major industry and many business-owners are happy to accept the coveted pink dollar.

Most of Cape Town’s gay scene is divided between the Waterkant and Sea Point neighborhoods. Waterkant, situated northwest of downtown, is a haven for young queer professionals and a great place to find hip, eclectic restaurants, cafes and nightclubs. Many of the most popular gay clubs can be found on Somerset Road. Bronx is always a blast if you love to dance and watch hot go-go boys.

Beaulah, also on Somerset, is known as a lesbian bar, but it also attracts a lot of gay men.

In addition to great music and dancing, the venue also offers regular comedy nights and

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V&A Waterfront other live performances. If you’re into leather, head down to Bar Code on Cobern Street.

This joint enforces a strict dress code, so if you’re not weather leather, rubber, a uniform or jeans, you won’t get in.

Cape Town is a melting pot and the ideal destination if you want to experience diverse and exotic cuisine. There’s a variety of gayfriendly restaurants sprinkled throughout the city. In Waterkant, Cafe Manhattan is a staple of LGBT life. The restaurant was established in 1994, the same year South Africa adopted its democratic constitution. Highlights include mouth-watering burgers, a full bar and live entertainment. Andiamo is a popular venue offering a Mediterranean/California-influenced menu. There’s also a deli if you want to take a dish to go.

City Bowl is also a great area to grab a bite.

Savoy Cabbage is an upscale, bistro-style restaurant where it’s common to see affectionate gay couples sharing a meal. The vegetarian and seasonal entrees are out of this world.

Most of the locals are warm and welcoming but it must be noted that crime is still a major issue in Cape Town. If you use common sense, you shouldn’t have a problem.

Don’t wear a camera or other valuables slung around your neck or strapped to your waist.

Also, avoid traveling alone on deserted city streets at night. If you plan on visiting one of the townships, do so during daylight hours on a guided tour. These are areas where you’ll find the most extreme poverty and where tourists are the most vulnerable.

Visiting a gay beach is a must-do when you’re in Cape Town. Sandy Bay is the most popular, located about a half-hour away from

downtown. It’s clothingoptional but if you want to swim keep in mind the water is very cold most of the year. If you’re planning a trip to Sandy Bay, head there early because parking is extremely limited. Clifton 3rd is less windy than Sandy Day and attracts a mostly gay crowd. If you’re looking to experience a beautiful sunset, this is an ideal spot.

There are many similarities between Cape Town and California, and they don’t begin and end at the beautiful beaches.

Looking for another great day excursion? Go wine tasting in Stellenbosch.

The towering mountains serve as the perfect backdrop for a glorious day in the vineyards. This is also a great spot to go horseback riding or hiking.

There are great LGBT events happening no matter what time of year you plan to visit. Cape Town Pride takes place at the end of February and lasts until early March. Pink Loerie, which is held in April, is the only Mardi Gras event in Africa. There are several highlights during Pink Loerie including the Mardi Gras Street Parade, which draws thousands of revelers. The event was first held more than a decade ago and serves as a fundraiser for HIV/ AIDS charities. Free HIV testing is also offered during Pride and Pink Loerie.

Cape Town is a place like no other on earth!

It’s a city of extremes where the ridiculously wealthy live a stone’s throw away from the most destitute. Unspoiled natural beauty can be found next to state-of-the-art buildings and luxury hotels. It’s the contradictions, as well as the blending of cultures that make the jewel of South Africa the most intriguing, alluring city on the continent.

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-------------------------------------------------------------------------SCORE. Now Hiring Dancers, No House Fees, No experience needed, great personality a must. To Apply Call 786.312.0246 -------------------------------------------------------------------------JOHNNY’S MIAMI - MUSCLE WANTED $500 Sign On Bonus to Qualified 5 Star Models. No Experience Needed. Great Attitude and Personality a Must! Our Dancers make over $1500 a Week! Apply Online! email pic to JohnnysBarMia@gmail.com Apply In Person any day after 6pm. 62 NE 14th Street, Downtown Miami. Johnnysfl.com - Facebook. com/johnnysmiami -------------------------------------------------------------------------CLUB AQUA MIAMI HELP WANTED Club Aqua Miami is looking for Counter and Housekeeping Staff! Basic maintenance is a plus. Customer service and fluency in Spanish/English required. Fill in your application online www.ClubAquaMiami.com 2991 Coral Way, Miami, FL 33145 305-448-2214

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Guaranteed Issue products available. We can help. If you think you can’t get insurance, call us. www.solutionsinsserv. com 954-839-6375.

THE BRITISH POUND John Maroussas LMT Sports Massage, Deep Tissue, Neuromuscular, Trigger Point, Swedish, Salt or Sugar Scrubs. Private Studio w/ Shower. Wilton Manors Location near Bill’s Lic#MA51123 954-999-2240 -------------------------------------------------------------------------EXP. MATURE MALE WPB MASSEUR In calls only. Private studio setting by Belvedere/SR7 in quiet area.

Highly skilled, intuitive therapeutic bodywork by friendly LMT. Affordable rates but cash only. Early to late, 7 days. Call 561-254-8065 for appointment or walk-in OK. Relieve stress and tension with Magic Hands Pro Massage. (FL MA51008)

MOVERS ALWAYSS MOVING know what you’re paying before you move! Licensed & Insured MC/ Visa/ Discover Accepted Family owned 20 years.

Complete moving Services. Flat Rate& Free Estimates Call 305-650-9080

LEGAL SERVICES CREDITORS CALLING? Call Us! The Law Offices of GeorgeCastrataro, PA. Serving Clients With Integrity and Compassion 954-573-1444 -------------------------------------------------------------------------PROUDLY SERVING THE SOUTH FLORIDA GLBTX COMM. since 1993. Law office’s of Robin L. Bodiford, PA specializes in Bankruptcy, Probate, Wills&Trust. Call 954-630-2707 -------------------------------------------------------------------------SELZER & WEISS, ATTORNEYS AT LAW Last Will & Testament, Living Will. Health Care Power of Attorney (POA) w/HIPAA release, Durable Financial POA, for $399.00. PERSONAL INJURY: Free consult, if no recovery, no fee or cost to you. 954-567-4444.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------SHAWN C. NEWMAN, PA Helping you protect what matters to you. Estate Planning, Domestic Agreements, Wills & Trusts, Estate Administration, Probate Administration, Wealth Preservation, Powers of Attorney. Free initial consultation. Available weekends and evenings by appointment. Call 954-563-9160 710 NE 26th Street, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 www.ShawnNewman.com -------------------------------------------------------------------------DAVID L. JACOVITZ - ATTORNEY AT LAW Revocable Living Trusts, Last Will & Testament, Durable Financial & Medical Powers of Attorney, Cohabitation Agreements, Living Wills.

Advising the South Florida LGBT Community for 19 years. Call 954-630-8847 -------------------------------------------------------------------------RAY & KOLNER LAW Immigration, Deportation, Family Petitions, Asylum, Sexual Orientation, Divorces, Adoptions, Criminal, Sex Offenses. Call 305-377-9000 www.RayAndKolnerLaw.com

-------------------------------------------------------------------------AFFORDABLE, AWESOME MASSAGE BY JIM Offering Swedish, Deep Tissue, Sports and Lomi Lomi Massage; All in a very comfortable, relaxed and Private Massage Studio conveniently located on the SE corner of Oakland Park Blvd and Federal Highway. Nationally Certified & Licensed. Call Jim Libonati at 954-600-5843. info@ massagebyjim.com #MM22293 SPECIAL: First Time Client Rates -------------------------------------------------------------------------CHAIYA - TRADITIONAL THAI MASSAGE & MORE… ThaiMassageFlorida.com The Luxury You Deserve! 954-732-1473 MA56806 --------------------------------------------------------------------------

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-------------------------------------------------------------------------WILTON MANORS MASSAGE Swedish, Deep Tissue, Sports. $59 Swedish Hour. Call or Text Chris Tunkus 954-258-8779 1322 NE 4th Avenue Fort Lauderdale, FL www.WiltonManorsMassage.com

PERSONAL TRAINING PERSONAL FITNESS TRAINER Call/text Nick for rates @ 954-496-2174 Your gym + my training = New body! Gyms: Gables Wilton Park, Wilton Station, Island City Lofts, Wilton Tower, etc.

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BEST TRAINERS. BEST FACILITY. BEST RATES! PIANO LESSONS PIANO AND VOICE LESSONS Young, gay professional offering lessons Serving the Ft. La, Miami, SOBE area! In Your Home or my Studio. Let’s have FUN making music! Call Jonathan 646-418-4043 -------------------------------------------------------------------------PIANO LESSONS Learn from an experienced teacher who holds the M.M. Degree in Piano Performance. All ages and levels welcome. Learn to play classical, jazz, blues, rock or gospel.

Call Edwin C. Neimann 954-826-9555 www.edwinchad.com

PLUMBER BUTLER PLUMBING, INC. Residential & Commercial, Licensed & Insured, Palm Beach 561-613-7338, Broward 954-999-3315, Miami-Dade 786-999-2152 24/7 – 365days, info@ butler-plumbing.com www.butler-plumbing.com “Just tell your friends the BUTLER did it!”

REAL ESTATE SERVICES COLDWELL BANKER - In a tough market, you want a tough Realtor. In this market you need Andy Weiser. Call 954-5609667 AndyWeiser@aol.com www.AndyWeiser.com -------------------------------------------------------------------------RAINBOW REALTY Wondering what your home is worth?

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SunnyHomesForSale.com Call Keith Blackburn 305-798-5455 KeithSellsFlorida@gmail.com -------------------------------------------------------------------------CASTELLI REAL ESTATE SERVICES Main Office 954-563-9889 2227 Wilton Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33305 -------------------------------------------------------------------------ATLANTIC PROPERTIES The Dale Russell Network, 2039 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 954-608-6919 -------------------------------------------------------------------------BETTER HOMES AND GARDENS Michael McClure, Realtor 954-873-9976

RENT/LEASE - FORT LAUDERDALE MIDDLE RIVER TERRACE AREA 1BD/1BA $725/Mo. or $185/week. All tile, eat-in-kitchen & large effic $650/Mo. or $165/week. elec included w/ a 12 month lease. For more details call 954-467-2501 -------------------------------------------------------------------------3/2 REMODELED HUGE YARD $1,300/MO. Stainless appliances, granite, private fenced fully landscaped yard w/ pergola deck. Just south of Wilton Manors in South Middle River. Must see to appreciate. Call 954-599-6216 -------------------------------------------------------------------------LAKE RIDGE 1BD/1BA VILLA. 1BD/1BA Villa w/ FL RM, Nonsmoker, on lesbian owned property w/ clothing optional pool.

Near Wilton Manors, Gateway, Galleria & Beaches. HW FLRs, Tile BA, Private Gated Carport. Wtr & Trash Included. Trop paradise $1,100/Mo. + dep. Call 954-809-9754 -------------------------------------------------------------------------ONE ROOM COTTAGE - MIDDLE RIVER TERRACE Tile, central AC, full kitchen, private fenced yard and deck, laundry room. Cable, electric and Wi-Fi included. Pets OK. First and Security. Available 8/1. $695/Mo. Alan - cell/text 954-234-5770 -------------------------------------------------------------------------FURNISHED EFFICIENCY STUDIO - NORTH MIDDLE RIVER Private entrance, off-street parking, kitchenette. Premium cable, Wi-Fi and all utilities included. Looking for responsible, mature, non-smoker. Approved pet OK. Avail. immediately! $575/Mo. 954-523-6159

RENT/LEASE - WILTON MANORS 2BD/2BA WILTON MANORS New Central A/C, New SS Appliances, 1,250sqft, remodeled, W/D connection, $1,400/Mo. Pets OK. 754-300-9994 -------------------------------------------------------------------------WILTON MANORS JANETTA VILLAS HOUSE 3BD/2BA House, Completely updated, granite tops, tile/carpet, landscaped fenced yard w/ lawn-chairs, waterfront w/ priv. dock. $2,200/Mo. w/ 1 Mo. Dep. Call 954-821-0500 -------------------------------------------------------------------------WILTON MANORS HOUSE WITH POOL TO RENT House for rent 2/2 POOL with patio RENOVATED ! clean !

NICE! study Marble floors , modern kitchen granite counter tops and stainless steel appliances. includes washer and dryer 2 modern bathrooms quiet street in Wilton manors avail 1 JULY $1700/ month call 954 309 2815 811 NW 29 court -------------------------------------------------------------------------CLASSIC FLORIDA HOME WITH 3 LARGE BEDROOMS, 2 FULL BATHS With Equipped Kitchen, Florida Room and Rear Deck with Fully Fenced Yard. You won’t believe the size of the 2 car garage w/work bench. Tons of storage! Central A/C, Marble Fireplace, W/D, Circular Driveway. Quiet street in great neighborhood. Priced lower than similar sized homes. Small pets welcome! Call Denis at 954-805-8891 or Bill at 954-226-8315.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------WILTON MANORS 2/2 RENTAL HOUSE Great house quiet street, near the bowling alley, not far from the Drive. 2 bed 2 bath, porch and carport. Michael 954-270-9597

RENT/LEASE - OAKLAND PARK BRIGHT EFFICIENCY EAST OAKLAND PARK Furnished or unfurnished, minutes to Wilton Drive, Private Entrance, 4 large windows, non-smoker, no-pets, $650/Mo. + 1 Mo. Sec. Utilities included. Call 954-561-7174 -------------------------------------------------------------------------OAKLAND PARK - MINUTES TO WILTON DRIVE VERY nicely updated 2/1, private courtyard, central ac, quiet, easy access to Wilton Manors or I-95, great neighbors, laundry on premise, ONE assigned parking space. $900 first/ security. Call 954-655-2299 for appt to see.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------BEDROOM W/ PRIVATE BATH IN OAKLAND FOREST One-level/high ceilings 2 Bed/2Bath villa w/ living-dining room, kitchen w/ bar counter, private fenced patio overlooking a lake. Villa located in gay friendly gated community w/ pool, tennis court/gym. $550, $200.00/deposit includes cable, internet, electricity, washer & dryer, central air. Call (954) 295-3269, (se habla Español) Chris (clopezstudio@aol.com) -------------------------------------------------------------------------HUGE TOWNHOUSE - 3BD/2.5BA. New construction. Oversize 2 car garage, 12 ft. ceilings, 3BD/2.5BA with balconies in every bedroom. Granite, Stainless Steel Appl, W/D, Jacuzzi in master bath. 1 mile to Wilton Drive, 2 miles to beach. Small Pets welcome. Last one to go. $1800/Mo. Call 754-204-7400.

RENT/LEASE - MIAMI CONDO FOR RENT. 1BD/1BA with parking space. Gated building on Biscayne Bay. Washer/Dryer. $660/Mo. 786-547-3566

ROOMMATES - BROWARD WILTON MANORS BEAUTIFUL 3 BED POOL HOME Gay Male, professional, dog friendly, $600/mo. Utilities included. Call Gary 954-268-6547 or gwhite5@me.com -------------------------------------------------------------------------ROOMMATE TO SHARE 3BD/1BA WILTON MANORS HOME GWM seeks roommate - non-smoking (outside ok), no pets, can work on dep, all the regular stuff included, $500/month. Send a little info about you. Call 954-566-1675. 5 min walk to Boardwalk Bar and Monkey Business. 10 min walk to Wilton Drive.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------SHARE A 2BD/1BA HOME. Nice Single Guy has room for rent in his 2/1 non-smoking home. Room is furnished/unfurnished.

Price includes all utilities, sat TV, WiFi, W/D, off-street parking and house privileges. Private yard. I’m semi-retired homebody with occasional clients, so looking for someone who is neat and considerate. Perfect for FA or student. Near I95 and Oakland or Commercial; near bus routes. About 5 min drive to Wilton Drive. $500/Mo. Asking job & other references, first and deposit. No drugs, no drunks, and no drama. Call 954-298-8117 -------------------------------------------------------------------------DANIA BEACH. Furnished garden room. Private entrance. $600/Mo. Charming home with lanai. Lush tropical setting.

Safe and quiet neighborhood. Includes utilities, DirecTV, W/D. Non-smoker/no drugs. Call Ron 954-965-9060 or 315-857-7759.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------WILTON MANORS - 2BD/2BA. Seeking clean, responsible and employed person. Spacious room & closet with private bath and entrance. Central A/C, W/D. Quiet area. $675 includes utilities, cable and WiFi. $500 sec. dep. Call Lex 954-591-2158

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