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Anti-Gay Arizona Governor’s Verbal Slip Up Anti-gay, anti-immigration Republican Arizona Gov. Jan Brewer said she got distracted by the “noise and chaos of the crowd” when she publicly endorsed Barack Obama at the Republican National Convention in Tampa. Brewer made the verbal slip-up while speaking to MSNBC. “I know that if President Obama is elected in November, which I hope that he is, that he will be able to come together with all of us and come up with a solution,” she said. “I believe he will secure our borders and therefore we can resolve all those other issues, it’s a simple matter.” Once she realized her mistake (or maybe not?)

Brewer’s office released a statement to ABC15 last night saying it was accidental.

“Governor Brewer misspoke, obviously, and certainly isn’t the first official to have done so amid the noise and chaos of a crowded convention hall or rally. It happens - even to newscasters and TV pros. Regardless, given the Governor’s record of challenging President Obama, it’s a stretch to think anyone would believe she’s supporting his re-election.

The Governor stands with Mitt Romney,” the statement said.

The Gayest TV Networks Are ...

The Lesbian and Gay Alliance Against Defamation has released its sixth annual Network Responsibility Index, a study that tracks LGBT inclusiveness on television networks. The gayest network this year is the CW, with 29 percent of its programming deemed LGBT-inclusive.

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“Americans expect to see their off-screen worlds represented onscreen and today more than ever that includes LGBT people and families,” GLAAD President Herndon Graddick said in a statement. “Storylines of families like Mitchell and Cameron on ‘Modern Family’ and young people like Emily on ‘Pretty Little Liars’ are not only growing acceptance of our community, but have found praise from viewers and critics alike at a time when visibility and acceptance of LGBT people is at an alltime high.” On the other hand, CBS came in last, with eight percent of its prime-time programming deemed LGBT-inclusive.

Gang Member Robs Trans Brothel A California gang member that robbed and assaulted seven prostitutes at a transgender brothel failed to appear for jury trial on Aug. 27. A $1 million warrant was issued on Cesar Vale, 22, who faces a life term in prison if convicted of robbery, burglary and other charges, The Orange County Register reports. In 2010, Santa Ana police were dispatched to an apartment where they found “seven men dressed as women” with “several mattresses on the floor,” according to Deputy District Attorney Erik Petersen.

One of the men admitted the apartment was a transgender brothel and said three gang members stormed in, demanding a $60 “tax” per prostitute. “If you don’t pay … we will come back and kill you,” one of the men said, according to a transcript of a prior hearing. But the thugs later came back, assaulted one of the prostitutes, stole a laptop and a cell phone from a table and fled in a white sedan before police

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arrived, according to the transcript. Valle and the others were arrested three days later. He was then freed on a $100,000 bail, but failed to show up to court.

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Gay Couple Sues Airline After Dildo Prank

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United Airlines employees removed a purple dildo from a gay couple’s luggage bag, taped the sex toy on top of it, and sent it down the baggage carousel, according to a lawsuit filed by the couple and posted on The Bilerico Project website. The Virginia couple was coming back from vacation in Costa Rica and had a layover at George Bush Intercontinental Airport in Houston, Texas, where the incident took place.

“Plaintiffs experienced extreme shock and horror when they observed the above described bag and when observing the surprised and/or laughing faces of numerous onlookers in the baggage claim area,” the lawsuit reads. They are now suing for “intentional infliction of emotional distress, invasion of privacy, and negligence.” Both compensatory damages and exemplary damages are being sought.

Preacher Blames Hurricane Isaac on the Gays Author and online chaplain John McTernan wrote on his website, Defend and Proclaim The Faith, that Hurricane Isaac was the final warning for gays to rectify their ways, as first reported by Gay Star News. “The church, city and nation have not repented and the homosexual agenda is far worse than it was in 2005,” he wrote, adding that

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Charlie Crist Set to Speak at Democratic Convention

Florida’s former GOP Governor then turned independent Charlie Crist has recently announced his endorsement of president Obama for the 2012 elections. “An element of their party has pitched so far to the extreme right on issues important to women, immigrants, seniors and students that they’ve proven incapable of governing for the people,” wrote Crist in an op-ed in

the Tampa Bay Times last Sunday. “The truth is that the [Republican] party has failed to demonstrate the kind of leadership or seriousness voters deserve.” And he goes on: “President Obama has a strong record of doing what is best for America and Florida, and he built it by spending more time worrying about what his decisions would mean for the people than for his political fortunes,” Crist wrote. “That’s what makes him the right leader for our times, and that’s why I’m proud to stand with him today.”

the fact two hurricanes are striking New Orleans seven years apart is “biblically important” as God created the universe in seven days. “New Orleans is still hosting Southern Decadence with open homosexuality manifesting in the streets of the city.It could be that God is putting an end to this city and its wickedness.”

Southern Decadence was a gay event planned for Wednesday, Aug. 29.

Gay Marriage to be Legal in France by 2013 France is set join the list of countries where gay people can marry. The French government will introduce a bill in October of this year that would legalize gay marriage by next year, according to LGBTQ Nation.

“In October, we will send a bill to the National Assembly and the Senate to allow same-sex couples to marry,” Prime Minister Jean-Marc Ayrault said on Aug. 25, in an public address. “It would also allow them to form families and adopt children.

Since 2001, eleven countries (Argentina, Belgium, Canada, Denmark, Iceland, Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, Spain, South Africa, Sweden) allow gay marriages.

Some parts of some parts of Mexico and the U.S. have also legalized it. LGBTQ Nation writes that several polls indicate a majority of French people approve samesex marriage; support for adoption by gay couples is also positive but by a narrower margin.

Record-Breaking Number of Gays Expected at DNC More gays are out of the closet and on the campaign trail than ever before. According to the National Stonewall Democrats, a record-breaking 534 LGBT participants will be attending the 2012 Democratic National Convention in Charlotte, North Carolina next week. The number shows a positive difference compared to 2008, when the group identified 350 LGBT participants in Denver. “We not only set a new record for LGBT participation in a national convention, we have sent the clearest message possible that the

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Democratic Party is the party of inclusion,” said Jerame Davis, executive director of the National Stonewall Democrats, in a statement. The Democratic LGBT activists credit the increase in gay participants to various programs within the Democratic Party to increase the role of LGBT community members in politics.

“You cannot overstate the critical role presidential campaigns play in working with state parties and Democratic leaders to meet the demographic goals set by state parties,” said Rick Boylan, director of Pride in the Party, one of the programs for LGBT inclusion. “The Obama campaign understands that the LGBT community is a key constituency in the 2012 election.

Their support for the community and the issues important to LGBT Americans will help reelect the president and elect Democrats down the ballot in all states.”

BREAKING NEWS McGuigan Tabbed as New Broward House CEO Late Tuesday afternoon, as SFGN went to press, the paper was advised that Angelo Castillo has stepped down as the CEO of Broward House.

Angelo Castillo In his place, the Board promptly named as his replacement Michael McGuigan, who has served as the Vice President since 2005.

An FAU graduate who has previously worked for the City of For Lauderdale, as a HOPWA administrator, and served as the past Vice Chair of the Broward Regional HIV Health Services Planning Council, you can read more about the new appointment online at www. sfgn.com and in next week’s edition.

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NATIONAL NEWS

THE BENEFITS of Bio-Identical Hormone Therapy

New NBC Series Attracts Controversy

By J.W. Arnold

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“rude and crude” dialogue and “offensive” characterizations.

Series co-star Ellen Barkin called the

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V viewers who remember the famous 1997 “coming out” episode of “Ellen” or even the debut of “Will & Grace” a year later, know that network television has come a long way in the depiction of gays and lesbians. The two-time Emmywinning comedy “Modern Family” depicts a gay couple with an adopted daughter and next week, NBC plans to debut “The New Normal,” a series about the relationship between a gay couple, their surrogate and her mother.

While LGBT viewers across the country already are eagerly anticipating this new addition to the network line-up, the show will not be seen in Salt Lake City. NBC’s Utah affiliate, KSL-TV, which is owned by the Mormon Church, is refusing to air the new series created by Ryan Murphy and Ali Adler.

“For our brand, this program simply feels inappropriate on several dimensions, especially during family viewing time,” said Jeff Simpson, CEO of KSL’s parent company, Bonneville International, citing

The Cast of “The New Normal”

decision “blatantly homophobic” and GLAAD was also quick to respond.

In addition to “The New Normal,” the station also does not carry “Saturday Night Live” and last season dropped “The Playboy Club” for “objectionable material.”

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COMMUNITY ANNOUNCEMENT

Sunserve Now Part of United Way Campaign State Employees Can Now Designate SunServe as Beneficiary

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By SFGN Staff

unServe has been approved by the Florida State Employee’s Charitable Campaign, as well as the Combined Federal Campaign, for participation in the 2012 United Way Campaign.

This means that now all state and federal employees can designate SunServe as the beneficiary for their United Way Gift. All employees of any organization that allows beneficiary designations can now select SunServe as their recipient.

United Way donors who designate SunServe (listed as SunShine Social Services) are supporting programming for LGBTQ youth, mental health services to some of the LGBTQ’s most vulnerable and programming for the community’s shut-in/shut-off

seniors as well as day/respite care for LGBT community members over 60.

SunServe had to submit an extensive application, along with explicit financial information.

“By keeping our administrative overhead at a low 9% and by keeping current with annual audits, SunServe was able to join other well-respected, fiscally responsible non-profits around Florida in being supported by the United Way Campaign,” Executive Director Mark Ketcham said. “We are thankful to the United Way for recognizing the extensive service SunServe provides to our LGBT community.”

For more information, go to www.SunServe.org.

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September 5, 2012 • SouthFloridaGayNews.com

‘Ex-Gay’ Group to Host Palm Beach Event

By Sergio N. Candido

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eople Can Change, a nonprofit for “men who have successfully transitioned away from unwanted homosexuality” will be hosting an event in Palm Beach from Nov. 30-Dec. 2.

According to its website, the event will work like the somewhat infamous “healing therapy” sessions practiced by other “ex-gay” groups around the country.

“Journey Into Manhood is a 48-hour immersion in intensive emotional-healing work, designed specifically for men who are self-motivated and serious about resolving unwanted homosexual attractions,” they write.

“We limit the use of classroom-style lectures.

Instead, we create opportunities for you to experience healing, not just learn about it. One simple example: You won’t just talk about what it is like to look another man in the eyes - you’ll stand eye to eye with another man while we help you process whatever feelings might arise.”

The exact location of the event is only revealed after participants register.

The group has also released a survey of 474 people from 19 different countries who have tried to get the gayness away from them.

According to their “study,” more than half (55 percent) said counseling was effective in “causing the frequency and intensity of

their homosexual attractions to diminish.”

California is about to ban gay teenagers and children from undergoing such therapy on the basis that homosexuality is not a medical disorder, Reuters reported.

Other “ex-gay” groups like Exodus, are changing their opinions on the effectiveness of gay healing therapy.

“I do not believe that cure is a word that is applicable to really any struggle, homosexuality included,” Alan Chambers, the leader of Orlandobased Exodus, told The Advocate.

Rich Wyler, the founder and director of People Can Change, still disagrees.

“Hundreds of people are telling us their counseling worked, they benefited significantly, it helped them feel better about themselves -- and in some cases it even saved their lives,” Wyler said.

“Their voices have been largely silenced or ignored by pro-gay activists and mainstream media in favor of a more politically correct view, but the experience of these men and women is real. It is valid. They can tell you from firsthand experience that counseling to reduce homosexuality can be effective, even life-saving. Their voluntary choice to pursue change deserves respect.”

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NATIONAL NEWS

Microsoft Researcher Aims to Cure HIV

David Heckerman is trying to create an HIV vaccine using computer data science.

By Sergio N. Candido sergio.candido@sfgn.com

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hen you think of computer scientists working at a large company, what do you imagine them doing?

Certainly many are involved in making technology consumer products, like tablets, thinner, sleeker and faster, but not all of them.

David Heckerman, a computer researcher at Microsoft and a medical doctor, has been studying HIV for the past eight years. He’s credited with building email spam filters for Hotmail, Outlook, and Exchange. Now he’s txxrying to create a vaccine for HIV using similar techniques.

“Working with researchers at Harvard, we think there are certain spots in HIV where HIV really doesn’t want to mutate. If it mutates, it weakens the virus tremendously,” he told Fast Company last July.

“We are trying to pinpoint those spots, then vaccinate to train our immune system to attack those weak spots so that when HIV does mutate, it cripples it. We are using the same strategy of going after the weak link of the opponent.”

Heckerman’s team at Microsoft Research Labs analyses data using graphical models to track how the virus mutates. He works in partnership with the International HIV Adaptation Collaborative and the International HIV Controllers Study.

IHAC and IHCS basically provide the Microsoft team with blood samples so they can input the information into their data model and figure out where the weak links are in HIV, according to Fast Company.

In an interview for Microsoft Jobslog Heckerman said he prefers working at Bill Gates’ company rather than at a top hospital because the “access to the essential

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technology here are unmatchable.”

“The scientific community is on the verge of many dramatic breakthroughs, but it is the ability to compute on massive amounts of data that is crucial to make them all happen. This is the place to be,” he said.

“The primary goal is to prevent you from getting it in the first place, or, it you get it, to suppress the virus to the point where it not going to hurt you, you are not going to go on and get AIDS,” Heckerman told Fast Company.

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Do Ticket Sales Mean Political Donations?

By Ryan Dixon

The Yankees versus the Red Sox. The Cowboys versus the Redskins.

The Lakers versus the Celtics.

The history of professional sports in America is rich with many storied rivalries. When Christmas and Thanksgiving bring us together, the playoffs will drive families and friends apart.

The Major League Baseball season is entering its Pennant race, and an equally important race is gathering momentum as well, the 2012 Presidential Election.

With the divide that favorite teams often drive between friends and family, your support for your hometown boys could possibly help shape the future of this country.

WYNC.org, a New York radio station, compiled a list of the 2012 political contributions that team owners and presidents from Major League Baseball, the National Football League, the National Hockey League and Major League Soccer.

The owners and presidents in these for leagues have given more than $1.9 million so far in 2012. The GOP, Republican groups and Mitt Romney received $1.25 million of that cash. Seems that some of the richest men in

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professional sports, outside of the players, want to support another multi-millionaire.

The owner of the Braves, Gregory Maffei, was the most generous to the republicans, giving $157,500 to election efforts for Mitt Romney.

At least the Democrats can rest assured that HIV activist Magic Johnson and his Los Angeles Dodgers counterparts gave the most of any team with $180,000 to bolster President Obama.

The map also sheds light into how inter-state rivalries hold political meaning. The New York Jets front office gave $70,800 to Republicans while the New York Giants gave $26,300 to Democratic efforts.

Same thing out on the West Coast, where cross bay rivals San Francisco Giants and Oakland Athletics split party lines with the A’s sending $2,500 to the GOP and the Giants giving $27,900 to Democrats.

When it comes to elections, it’s hard to get much redder than Florida.

Both Jeffery Loria, owner of the Florida Marlins, and Jeffery Vinik, owner of the Tampa bay Lightning and minority owner of the Boston Red Sox, gave $2,500 in donations to Mitt

Romney, as well as $30,800 to the Republican National Convention, totaling $33,300.

Richard Devos, co-owner of the Orlando Magic, gave $2,500 to Newt Gengrich’s failed bid and $30,400 to the RNC. Micky Arison, CEO of Carnival Corporation and owner of the 2012 NBA World Champion Miami Heat played both sides, albeit not evenly by any means. His donations, totaling $12,000, broke down to $2,000 to the Democratic Congressional Campaign Committee and $10,000 to the National Republican Congressional Committee. Farther north, Jacksonville Jaguars owner Shahid Khan gave a modest $2,500 to Mitt Romney.

The biggest spender when it comes to Florida teams is the majority owner of the Miami Dolphins, Stephen Ross. Ross’ donations total the second highest from any owner or president at $133,000. He gave $2,500 to Mitt Romney, $20,800 to the RNC, $5,000 went to the NRCC, $5,000 to a pro-Romney Political action committee called Free and Strong America, and an astounding $100,000 to another PAC called Restore Our Future.

Gregory Maffei, Owner of the Atlanta Braves.

The donations to the committees are the only real interesting part of Ross’ political spending spree. Restore our Future spends donations now on anti-Obama ads across the country after using the money to help Romney win the Republican Primary, spending a total of over $28 million, $10 million in the last week alone.

Free and Strong America gave $10,000 to the National Organization for Marriage, an anti-gay marriage group, in 2008. Free and Strong also supports the efforts of a vast number of Senate and House members including Marco Rubio, who was a consideration for Romney’s Vice President position.

Does this mean you shouldn’t go to a single sporting event in South Florida if you’re a Democrat? No, but a Romney win at the polls could spill over onto the field.

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NATIONAL NEWS

More Money, Less Problems The Feds Fund Florida ADAP, Ease Pressure

By Gideon Grudo

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ugust looked good — only 31 people were on Florida’s Ryan White AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP) waiting list, according to a monthly report from the state’s department of health.

And things are only going to get better. In July, the Obama Administration announced almost $70 million in grants to ADAP programs around the country.

Florida will get $11,555,956 in total (for a list of all the states that got funding, see the sidebar), more than any other state.

“We clearly need more — but this really takes us down to where we’re under a hundred on the waiting list statewide,” said Joey

Money for Medication

Winn, Broward House’s director of public policy. “It really does solve the problem for a while.”

While August’s numbers were much better than past years, July’s were even better, sitting at 27 people. But it was as recent as September 2011 when Florida’s ADAP waiting sat at an all time high of 4,100 applicants.

“It will slowly start to creep back up,” Winn said. “It wasn’t enough money to completely make this go away.”

The money comes in two pieces.

One segment’s called Competing Continuation, which means it’s money that Florida got last year and that it’s getting again this year — that’s $6,979,996. The other segment is called New

Competing, and is new money flowing into the state — that’s $4,575,960. Together, these Florida dollar signs make up more than an eighth of the funds awarded nationwide.

Money is awarded to individuals who apply to it through the state, which has an ADAP department.

Case managers from local agencies will help individuals apply and enroll in the program. The state, which buys the drugs with funding like this, then dispenses it as if it were a pharmacy.

“It took a long time to get here,” Winn said. “HIV drugs are so expensive that working people can’t afford it.”

He’s talking about the $900 to $2500 bills that a positive person

will foot to afford the medication.

If therapy is involved, the price only goes up. In Florida, Winn said, the average yearly cost of HIV medicine is $16,000.

Asked to hold Florida’s ADAP program against other states, Winn said that each state has a different way of doing things — there’s no rule book — so comparing wouldn’t work.

To add to the funding from the federal government, Florida lawmakers in the 2012-13 Legislative Session gave the ADAP program an additional $2.5 million.

“Even one person on the list isn’t a good number,” Winn said.

“But a hundred is manageable.”

Waiting for Life Eligibility and enrollment for ADAP isn’t the only step to receiving meds.The next part is waiting, like the people in the counties below have to do, according to Florida ADAP’s monthly report for August.While this list comprises 31 applicants, in Sept. 2011 this list would have shown 4,100 applicants, an all time high for the state.

County Broward Duval Escambia Hillsborough Marion Miami-Dade Orange Palm Beach Pinellas Polk Putnam St. John’s TOTAL

The federal government is giving out almost $80 million nationwide to help states deal with ADAP waiting lists.

Here’s a breakdown of what each state got in two categories: New Competing,

New Competing Competing Continuation Total Total: $35,627,822 Total: $33,336,477 $68,964,299

Alabama Alaska Arizona California Colorado Florida Georgia Idaho Illinois Iowa Kentucky Louisiana Montana Nebraska New Jersey North Carolina North Dakota Puerto Rico South Dakota Tennessee Utah Virginia Washington Wisconsin Virgin Islands

$2,351,932 $173,614 N/A $7,000,000 $774,078 $4,575,960 $5,432,049 N/A $6,995,832 N/A N/A N/A $163,454 $811,577 $4,459,585 N/A N/A N/A $320,042 $1,120,674 N/A N/A $340,512 $125,000 $983,513

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meaning it’s brand new funding; Competing Continuation, meaning it’s funding that’s repeated from 2011. Not all states got new funding, and not all states got funding in 2011.

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$1,054,365 N/A $455,866 $2,574,357 $285,430 $6,979,996 $3,000,000 $467,373 $722,935 $587,831 $2,090,956 $3,000,000 $273,500 N/A $736,383 $3,000,000 $74,324 $2,069,536 N/A $1,021,830 $931,936 $3,000,000 $660,158 $180,263 $169,438

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$3,406,297 $173,614 $455,866 $9,574,357 $1,059,508 $11,555,956 $8,432,049 TOTAL $467,373 $7,718,767 $587,831 $2,090,956 $3,000,000 $436,954 $811,577 $5,195,968 $3,000,000 $74,324 $2,069,536 $320,042 $2,142,504 $931,936 $3,000,000 $1,000,670 $305,263 $1,152,951

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Letter From the Editor

The New York Daily News is Wrong

Jason Parsley, Editor-in-Chief

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ast week, the New York Daily News published the story “Don’t Call it Hate,” where reporter James Kirchick argues that groups like the Family Research Council shouldn’t be designated as a hate group, which is what Southern Poverty Law Center has named it.

Kirchick writes: “However passionately one may disagree with the agenda of an organization which, like the Family Research Council, uses pseudoscience to accuse gays of being prone to pedophilia, it is wrong to lump it together with explicitly racist movements espousing violent agendas.”

Really? An organization is classifying an entire group of people as pedophiles and that is not hate? Let’s think about this for a moment. If society were to actually believe this nonsense, it would most definitely lead to violence. How could it not? If I believed there was an entire group of people coming after my children to molest them, then I would demand that their behavior be criminalized, or they be exiled, or I’d take the law into my own hands.

Kirchick starts off his article with this question: “Is opposition to legal equality for gays ‘hate?’” Kirchick leads the reader to believe that that’s why the FRC has been labeled as a hate group.

But that’s just not the case. Let’s be clear: the Southern Poverty Law Center didn’t classify the FRC as a hate group because they are opposed to same-sex marriage. If that were the case, then most mainstream Christian churches would also be classified as such. That’s just what the FRC wants people to believe. Apparently Kirchick fell for it, as well.

“No we do not list groups as hate groups for opposing same sex marriage,” Mark

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Potok, Senior Fellow of SPLC, told SFGN. “That is simply a lie by Tony Perkins and his friends.”

“We list them as a hate group because repeatedly, over many years again and again, in slightly different words, they’ve said that a very high proportion of gay men are child molesters. Our criticism is strictly factual.

It’s not repeated groundless name calling,” he said. “The Family Research Council regularly portrays LGBT people as having dark perverse ways, and sordid sex lives.”

Potok went on to say that the FRC in the past has advocated for re-criminalizing gay sex, exporting homosexuals, and claiming gay people are “fundamentally incapable of providing good homes for children.”

“Our criticisms are fact based. We don’t sit around thinking of ugly names to call them,” Potok said. “We do real research and then we put facts out there.”

The SPLC identifies 1,018 hate groups in the country. Only about 27 of them focus mostly on anti-gay activism. That’s clearly a small percentage of the group’s SPLC keeps track of.

The most well known anti-gay group in the country is arguably the Westboro Baptist Church (WBC), who regularly travels the country with signs saying “God Hates Fags” and other inflammatory writings. The WBC practices have even put the church at odds with conservatives by protesting the funerals of American soldiers. No one takes them seriously. But the FRC, on the other hand, could very well be taken seriously because of stories like Kirchick’s and other news outlets like ABC News, which recently referred to the FRC as simply “one of nation’s best known conservative groups on social issues” and an organization that “promotes Christian

conservative values on issues like abortion and gay rights.”

While the FRC isn’t quite as obvious in their hatred and contempt for the LGBT community, make no mistake: they are the same.

Kirchick writes: “That being the case, gay rights supporters should understand that it is a cause whose advancement requires moral suasion, not bullying theatrics.”

Bullying theatrics? Stating the facts is now considered bullying? Below I’ve listed some quotes from the leaders of the FRC. “We believe the evidence shows … that relative to the size of their population, homosexual men are more likely to engage in child sexual abuse than are heterosexual men.”

— Peter Sprigg, “Debating Homosexuality:

Understanding Two Views.” 2011.

“Gaining access to children has been a long-term goal of the homosexual movement.”

— Robert Knight, FRC director of cultural studies, and Frank York, 1999 “While activists like to claim that pedophilia is a completely distinct orientation from homosexuality, evidence shows a disproportionate overlap between the two. … It is a homosexual problem.”

— FRC President Tony Perkins, FRC website, 2010 Now who’s the bully?

Kirchick continues: “Perhaps the gravest sin in classifying all gay marriage opponents as ‘hatemongers’ isn’t its incivility, but stupid politics.”

In America we can agree to disagree and all of us have the opportunity to make our voices heard. In the great debate of gay marriage, there are those who disagree with the gay community politely such as Mitt Romney, and then there are those, like the FRC, who refer to gay men as pedophiles, while also opposing same-sex marriage. No one has accused Mitt Romney of hate speech, but the Family Research Council has rightfully been designated a hate group.

However wrong and misguided Kirchick’s article is, he does conclude it with one resounding truth: “In the great moral drama that is the American conversation on homosexuality, the gay rights movement is the unambiguous winner. It’s long past time it started acting James Kirchick, like one.”

New York Daily News Reporter The Blender

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Brian McNaught

Grumpy Old People Like Me

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couple of years before he died, I told my father that he was a grumpy, old man. I said it as kindly as I could, because I wanted him to remember that I loved him, but his crankiness about everything was getting on my nerves. He was 80 and I was 45. Now, I wish I could tell him that I can much better understand his behavior.

My friends are all getting older and, like me, they’re getting more comfortable expressing their opinions. Younger observers might describe it as “crankiness,” or “grumpiness,” as I did with my father. Some of the so-called grumpiness represents a feeling of freedom to say anything we want without worrying about repercussions, like being sent to the principal’s office, getting fired, or not being liked. Some of the seeming orneriness is the result of the aches and pains of our bodies that we feel are falling apart before we think they should. Aging is harder than we imagined, especially the feeling of invisibility and irrelevance we have, and the sense that we better get out of the way before we’re run down by a young person who has places to go and things to do, and who thinks we just don’t get it.

A visiting friend just shared with Ray and me the Four Agreements written by Don Miguel Ruiz. I had never heard of him or of them, but each of the agreements reflects the spiritual truths I’ve learned in my nearly 65 years.

They are:

Agreement 1: Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

Agreement 2 - Don’t take anything personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality, their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.

Agreement 3 - Don’t make assumptions.

Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.

Agreement 4 - Always do your best.

Your best is going to change from moment to moment; it will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best, and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.

Agreement Number 1 is the hardest for me, especially now. I have a lot of opinions that I have kept to myself for a long time,

and like other aging people, I’m feeling the need to say them before it’s too late. But can I do it with love and not in a cantankerous manner? For instance, how can I say things such as “Tattoos are banal and ugly, and piercings are equally unattractive,” without violating the Agreement, and sounding like a judgmental, grumpy, old man? Perhaps it’s better to say, “I have no desire to tattoo or pierce my body because I don’t think my body needs adornments, should suffer unnecessarily, and eventually have a look that is way out of fashion.”

Is it lacking love to say that way too many gay men are wasting their lives by being preoccupied with sexual gratification? Big muscles are commonplace. You can buy them and have them implanted. I may sound cranky, but I think preoccupation with abs is adolescent. We’re wasting our best and brightest minds by their rat pack devotion to having a hot body and getting high on drugs.

Perhaps a more loving way to say that is that I don’t find it important to create a body that I hope will be sexually attractive to other men, and I would rather take in the moment of reality than search “Grinder” or “Man Hunt” for satisfaction I’ll never have, no matter how many encounters I line up.

I think that AIDS gets way too much special attention in the United States today.

In the 1980s, when people with AIDS were considered “untouchables,” and had a life expectancy of a few months, we needed a national campaign of awareness and compassionate service. That’s why I started the country’s first city task force on AIDS, and was trained as a “buddy” to see to the needs of dying young men. But in the U.S. today, despite the fact that people can live a “normal” life with HIV as they can with diabetes, we’re still having fundraising bike rides, walks, and runs to raise money to provide meals on wheels and car service to hospitals for people with AIDS, and we’re not doing the same for people with cancer, heart disease, or diabetes. There isn’t a “specialness” to being HIV-positive.

Educated people who contract HIV through unprotected sex in the United States today are stupid. Why do they need a volunteer to drive them to a doctor’s appointment? Why not give the ride to the lesbian with breast cancer who is so sick from chemotherapy she can’t keep a meal on wheels down? Send the money raised for AIDS to Africa where special attention is really needed. I feel love when I say that, but I fear it sounds grumpy.

If you’re offended, remember Agreement 2.

Why do so many overweight women identify as lesbian? Are they really lesbian, or is it a label they use to find comfort in community? And why do so many lesbians become overweight? Is it a reaction to the expectations of a patriarchal society that they be thin? But what about life expectancy? I don’t want to lose my sisters

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to the complications to health that being overweight represents.

And just so no one thinks I let the “T” in LGBT be silent, what is it with the attempt to get non-transgender people to refer to themselves as cis-gender? I recently recommended that a government training program drop the suggestion to potential allies that they call themselves “cis-gender” if they don’t want to cross-dress. A CEO of a major corporation is not going to read a speech that refers to every employee but the one transsexual as “cis-gender.” Where do these crazy words come from, and why would any intelligent transgender activist think he or she was helping to advance the

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cause by getting the overwhelming majority of people to identify themselves with such as stupid word? It’s as stupid as the word “gay.”

And I say that with love.

Brian McNaught was named “the godfather of gay diversity training” by The New York Times. He works with corporate executives globally, is the author of six books, and is featured in seven educational DVDs. He and his spouse Ray Struble divide their year between Ft. Lauderdale and Provincetown.

Visit Brian-McNaught.com for more information.

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Jewish & Gay: The Pianist

South Florida Man to Perform in Germany, Give Local Preview

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had studied in the 40s at the University of Michigan. Schnabel passed in 1951, but Goldberger would later study with the composer’s son, who’s also passed, and to this day stays in touch with Schnabel’s granddaughter, who told him about the German festival.

“Since I am both a musician and Jewish,

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e laughs, referring to Congressman Barney Frank’s quip on being a gay, lefthanded Jew, “I feel a little like him, except I’m not left-handed.”

Then he settles back into his chair and keeps talking composition, about which the Ph.D. in music can go on about for a while.

David Goldberger will be performing at the Pride Center on Sept. 9 — it’ll be an identical set to his concert in Germany later in the month. The event is free, but Goldberger hopes people come just because they love music.

On Sept. 9, David Goldberger, 87, will be playing at Wilton Manors’ Pride Center the same pieces he’ll be playing three weeks later in Germany. The event, hosted

by Senior Action in a Gay Environment of South Florida (SAGE), is free-of-charge and acts as a preview for Goldberger’s Festival Verfemte Musik 2012 appearance.

Verfemente means forbidden or ostracized, the German festival highlighting artists that were chased out by the Nazis in the early 1930s.

This will be Goldberger’s third appearance at the festival, which comes every two years and for the first time going to be directly financed by the German government.

Goldberger first got involved with the festival in 2008 when he learned that the featured composer that year would be Artur Schnabel, with whom Goldberger

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I’m very excited about the idea of a festival specifically in Germany devoted to the music of composers who were either killed or driven into exile,” Goldberger told SFGN. “This year, that it’s being financed by the German government is further rehabilitation of Germany.”

The Sept. 9 performance will identically mirror Goldberger’s festival performance, except he’ll be taking his time to explain his pieces and their meaning. This year’s featured composer is Hans Gál, a Viennese Jew who had great success in the 1930s and left for Vienna when the Nazis pressed down on the arts after they seized the German government in 1933. When the Nazis showed up in Vienna, too, Gál would leave for England and settle in Edinburgh, where he died in 1987.

But Gál’s exile isn’t what drew Goldberger to this year’s festival the most.

Rather, it was the composer’s expertise on Franz Schubert, about whom Gál wrote the “best book he had ever read.” And Goldberger should know — his dissertation was on Schubert.

When Goldberger was approached about playing this year, he was concerned because he didn’t exactly know how to play Gál, but would be told he didn’t have to play only Gál. Instead, he’ll be playing pieces from Schubert, Johannes Brahms and Felix Mendelssohn, too.

Goldberger is used to playing in South Florida, where he’s been part of many SAGE concerts, including the memorable “The Four Doctors,” where four Ph.D.s (two pianists, a cellist and a baritone) played Hagen Park in 2011.

“I’m thrilled to be playing for the community that I love,” Goldberger said.

“Anytime I prepare a performance, I play [at the Pride Center].”

Goldberger himself is no stranger to the LGBT movement. In 1959, he walked into the West Side Discussion Group, an under wraps think tank that met in living rooms.

“I was working in what was called the Homophile Movement,” he said, adding that the phrase had long since died out. “It was the beginning of the movement.”

The discussions revolved around everything gay. Gay as in all men. While there were women’s organizations like the Daughters of Bilitias, it wasn’t until later that LGBT activist would combine forces and go co-ed.

“We were so secret that in order to find out when and where we’d meet, you’d have to call the Mattashine office and ask,” he said, referring to one of America’s earliest so-called homophile organizations. “We were very afraid of being raided by police.

Goldberger remembers that after a 1961 trip to Amsterdam and after seeing the gay scene it offered, he returned to the States determined to make a change. And so, five years later, the West Side Discussion Group, much larger by then, opened up a gay club and met more openly.

“Men could dance together — which they couldn’t do anywhere else. Years later, in the 1970s, we tried putting up

Senior Action in a Gay Environment SAGE of South Florida will be celebrating its 20th anniversary in 2013.

Below are just some of the things the over-500 member organization does:

Monthly dinner Monthly luncheon with guest speaker Wednesday afternoon discussion groups Men’s Singles Dinner Women’s Lunch Book Club (Pride Center) Computer Club (Pride Center) Movie Club Concerts Holiday programs For more, check out their site at sagewebsite.org ads for the West Side Discussion Group in the [New York Times], but they wouldn’t have it,” Goldberger said, adding that the Village Voice was the only publications that took their ads, leading to 200-person turnouts at their events. “These days, I’m amazed that within human memory, the Times wouldn’t accept an ad for a serious organization — it’s not like we had orgies or anything.”

Goldberger left West Side in 1975 to pursue his doctorate in music at Columbia University.

If you go When:

Sunday, Sept. 9, 2:30 p.m.

Where:

The Pride Center 2040 N. Dixie Highway Wilton Manors, FL 33305

How Much: Free

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BUSINESS

LGBT Investors Confident About Retirement Goals

Wells Fargo Focuses on LGBT Customers

By Jason Parsley

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ells Fargo conducted a survey among LGBT investors and found they are more confident in regards to their retirement than their heterosexual counterparts.

The survey found that 61 percent of LGBT non-retirees felt confident they would have enough saved by the time they retire to live the lifestyle they want throughout their retirement. While only 53 percent of the general population felt the same way. Other findings include 36 percent of LGBT non-retirees expect they will need to work during retirement in order to afford their lifestyle, while 41 percent of the general population said the same thing.

In order to address the needs of financial planning for same-sex couples, Wells Fargo worked with the College of Financial Planning to develop the Accredited Domestic Partnership Advisor (ADPA). The program was opened to all advisors in late 2010. Now the company boasts about 270 accredited advisers across the country with nine being in Florida. “[The LGBT] community has a big need for advisers that have specialized skills in that area,” said a Wells Fargo South Florida

financial advisor, Melvin D. Kornegay. “Wells Fargo is highly geared to diversity in the workplace across all sectors. Diversity is very strong. There are annual conferences for the ADPA advisers.”

Kornegay said that because the Federal government does not recognize marriage, even though some states do, it creates a unique set of challenges for same-sex couples. But that may all change soon.

“There’s a court case that’s being closely watched by advisors, Windsor v. United States,” he said. “This case could have a very big impact on the benefits afforded the samesex couples.”

The case challenges Section 3 of the Defense of the Marriage Act on the basis that it unfairly forced Edith “Edie” Windsor, 83, to pay more than $363,000 dollars in estate taxes upon the death of her spouse, Thea Spyer, in 2009.

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GUEST OFF THE COLUMN WALL

Ricky Out Martin is Not Alone and proud artists abound

By Marten Weber, Huffington Post

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ut a new generation of vocal artists has more courage.

As an out gay writer, I find that one of the most rewarding developments of the last decade is the emergence of proud and out artists around the world and the amazing indie art scene they have created. No longer do greedy or timid publishers stymie individual artistic talent. Authors always had it easier, because we are ultimately recluses who do not seek the limelight. Having your book rubbished by a conservative reviewer is easier to stomach than attacks on a person, unless, of course, your name is Rushdie.

To me, the most intriguing group of artists to come out are pop singers. Songs never have to be explicitly gay; singers can always hide behind an adored “you.” Why bother with all the politics, then, and risk alienating your bigoted fans (still the majority, unfortunately)?

I am not talking about the old guard here.

Elton John, George Michael, and boyband members Mark Feehily and Lance Bass came out after they had raked in millions. That doesn’t count! In fact, I dislike people who, 10 years after they made it big, suddenly decide they are rich enough to come out and reveal their sexuality -- typically in a publicity stunt intended to kick-start their fading careers. But fine, I won’t argue. It’s a personal journey, and you are ready when you are ready, I guess.

Ricky Martin may have lost half his market value when he came out, but he is an inspiration to countless singers around the world. Out gay singers are far more popular than you would imagine. Here are a few you may not have heard of, and some who are definitely worth listening to.

First, an honorary mention: Adam Lambert apparently is the first openly gay singer to have become famous through the excruciatingly tacky selection process of American Idol (though he wasn’t technically out on the show). And he is still going strong.

More in my line is Frank Ocean. He came out before he released his first album. That’s the way to go.

The adorable Mika went through the usual charade of calling himself bisexual before saying he identifies as gay.

Well, most of us have been there. His music has a Middle Eastern touch.

If you like your men hairy and their voices dark, check out Barbzul. The music is... well, I’ll stick to my Schubert for now. But it’s nice to see the bear community handling a microphone well.

I totally approve of this message by Matt Zarley about honesty. I don’t think America is ready for a gay president, but who knows? I also approve of underwater blowjobs, especially by hunks like the one in the video.

But enough about chest hair. There are up-and-coming twink singers, too. Being gay seems to be the latest Jewish fashion craze. Alex Shane Krilov might not be your cup of tea, but seriously, who can say no to Harel Skaat? His Hebrew rendition of “Ne me quitte pas” (on the site) is marvelous. It reminds me of a young Charles Aznavour.

Israel has also given us the laryngeally talented Yehonathan, no less appealing in voice and timbre, but with a little more facial and, I assume, chest hair. His songs are lyrical and very inspiring.

I discovered that there are porn stars who were singers before they whipped out their equipment in front of the camera. German twink Carsten Andersson thinks he can make it as a pop star even after all that lustful groaning. I have my doubts, but here he is in all his glory.

Some are more subdued in their sexuality, but no less attractive. And they are keenly aware of the role the male body plays in the promotion of their art. Angelo has no problem with sexual objectification. He told me in an interview, “Any artist who tells you that they are appreciated solely for their artistic merit is lying. Everyone has something that they lean on that helps build an identifying mark of separation. Having unique or inimitable talent is one thing, but this is a business, and like any other business, both the artist and the art become a commodity.” Here is his video statement.

We spoke about sexuality and the sex object in pop music. “When you are trying to communicate urban mythology by way of NYC street pop, your shirt comes off, the tattoos are out, and you are flexing muscles you never even knew you had!” he told me. “I had the confidence to make a record that I believed in and music that I love. If people discount that effort because I have my shirt off in a photograph, they are welcome to download someone else.” Being gay and gorgeous as a career builder? What do you think? I’ll be talking to him some more in the next weeks.

I have left out quite a few gay singers (and all the lesbians, I am afraid), and I sincerely hope that there are many more you can point out to me. There is something very rewarding in supporting people outside the deafeningly boring mainstream. Anybody can be a little monster and scream “I was born this way,” but what ultimately makes the world a better place are not the sound effects and flashy costumes, or millions of dollars lining the pockets of studio executives, but our support for young and struggling talent, for individuals who go their own way and sing with pride and honesty about their dreams and motivations. I am not urging you to only support out gay singers, but try listening to creative people who are not handed to you on the platter of deadbeat commercialism.

And now I’m going back to cuddling Harel Skaat... only aurally, of course.

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OPINION

We Need More Foundations for Transgender People

By Victoria Michaels

ne of the most crucial medical needs for the transgender community is — and always has been — assistance with the financial burden of hormone therapy and surgical transition procedures that helps confirm our gender identity. The Jim Collins Foundation (JCF) is a nonprofit whose mission is to provide financial assistance to transgender people for gender-confirming surgeries, which are a necessity in order to live a healthy, normal life. The organization has spearheaded a mission to support healthy transitions by funding medical procedures that are inaccessible for most transgender individuals.

Founded in 2008, the organization operates on individual donations and is run by a board comprised of medical professionals, activists, and attorneys. Selections for grants for surgical procedures relating to transgender transitions are based on a combination of demonstrated financial need and level of preparedness. The number of grants awarded per cycle is dependent upon success in fundraising, according to the foundation’s website.

Recently, the foundation was only able to grant two applicants assistance. It’s a great starting point, but it’s just not enough yet. Although the monetary value of this foundation has not yet peeked, it’s overall worth and position in the complete spectrum is priceless.

As an advocate for the trans-community, I have been propelled and catalyzed to bring awareness to the severity of this essential need and virtuous cause. I have remained dedicated to impel our leaders in the LGBT Community and to enlighten my peers and readers of this urgent dilemma that afflicts us. This is a real, tremendous epidemic that exists and needs to be addressed because it continues to plague transgenders with a lifetime of torment and vexation. The time has come for us as a community to muster up the strength to do something about it.

While attending last year’s Broward County’s “Town Hall Meeting 2011” for transgenders at The Pride Center in Fort Lauderdale, I expressed my concerns with hopes of inciting activity from our community. I suggested at the time, perhaps a thrift store, benefit shows, and other fund raisers that would get the ball rolling. I was excited about creating awareness and help solve this haunting issue.

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Health Department led the town hall meeting; she is founder of The T-House Project. She heard my concerns and displayed similar interests in assistance for our trans-community. Ihme’s was first to report about the Jim Collins Foundation on the project’s website, and it was her report that ignited my passion for this cause. It was a great relief to learn that there is at least one organization out there addressing this inundating need for the trans-community.

I was anxious to reach out to Tony Ferraiolo, who is the co-founder and president of the Jim Collins Foundation.

Ferraiolo, a transgender male, has dedicated himself to promoting competent and respectful health care for the transgender community, and also educating providers and advocating on behalf of patients.

Since we share the same passion, Ferraiolo agreed to a one-on-one interview with me late last week, and the interview quickly turned into a wonderfully rewarding conversation that I will forever treasure as a true blessing. What I learned about Ferraiolo was compelling and it has inspired me to keep pushing forward for this cause.

“I don’t think we can ever have enough financial help as just this year alone we received 253 applications from trans-people all over the country in desperate need of surgeries or hormone therapy. Unfortunately we could only help two candidates,” Ferraiolo said.

“It’s disheartening, as we sincerely want to help all of them, and we hope over time there will be help for all of them. We are also bombarded with emails on a daily basis from people inquiring about how they can start their own foundations and organizations locally and we at JCF want to encourage that as we can’t do this alone.”

By far this requisite is the most critical because transgender people feel trapped inside the wrong body. They live a life of unbearable misery and suffering. For those who want to transition but have no ability because they lack the health insurance or costs required, they are often afflicted with the immense feelings of continual anxiety, disgust, and depression.

Before transitioning they find themselves vulnerable to ridicule or assault, so many have the desire to remain isolated when even simple tasks like going out of the house can be difficult. Loneliness accompanies sadness as it’s merely impossible to find romance or partnership, and let us not forget that we still struggle for acceptance within our

own LGBT communities.

Discrimination against transgender people is so widespread that many transgender people combat to simply just survive, never mind saving for surgery costs or hormone therapy. Society considers our lives a ridiculous joke due to lack of education about transgenders, so the idea of being provided with appropriate healthcare if you aren’t independently wealthy is impossible. Because of the high rates of suicidal cases within the trans-community we need more foundations and assistance.

Not every transgender person has a medical need for surgical procedures; hormones therapy may be enough for so many. Hormone therapy by itself can be a bit costly for some, but it’s not impossible with a little financial assistance from our community and it could be “lifesaving” for so many transgenders.

Gender transitioning is not as simple and “one-size fits all.” Clinically appropriate treatment must be determined on an individual basis.

To date, most state-funded assistance and fundraising money tossed at the trans-community is for HIV prevention programs, and although these programs are important, I speak for many of my peers in the trans-community when I express that we are “sick and tired” of condoms being the main focal need for our community.

This current issue that I am shedding light upon is more demanding and is equally important, if not more important. The time has finally come that my peers are finally speaking out and saying, “How much more HIV prevention programs do we need?” Personally speaking, I went to school way back in the 1980’s, and I learned “safe sex 101” way back then. Certainly they are still teaching it in high schools all across this nation at the cost of our tax paying dollars, and we have access to free condoms everywhere in the LGBT Community. It’s time we start thinking outside the box, and foundations like JCF have allowed this conversation to finally find its way to the table.

Near the end of my conversation with Ferraiolo, he shared a profound statement that speaks volumes about what it means to help those in need, and why we as a LGBT community should be willing and able to lend a helping hand.

He concluded: “Never in a million years when I started the Jim Collins Foundation to

help others did I ever imagine how rewarding it would be in return to my own life to see the joy it has brought to others.”

As for my advocacy for the transcommunity, I am constantly swamped with the desire to always want to help my transpeers and give something back to a portion of our community that I feel is often times left at the bottom of the totem pole.

After all, we are the last letter in LGBT, unless you throw in the “Q” now -- which still leaves us next to “questionable.” I acknowledge what a consecrating day it was for me when I was finally able to transition and escape my life of agony, so I am forever appreciative of how fortunate and advantageous I was

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to be able to afford the transition. I remain committed to recognizing the fact that not all trans-people are equally as blessed, so I consider it my responsibility to bring much needed attention to the mindful realizations for my deserving trans-peers still living a scourged livelihood.

We need an organization in Broward County to help the t-community receive safe and effective hormone therapy. It’s a goal that is within reach, and a just cause.

Victoria Michaels has been a radio show producer, Miss Pennsylvania USofA 1999, and Miss World 2000. Currently, she works as a reporter, is a board member of T-House Project, and the reigning Miss Florida F.I. 2012.

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he Greater Fort Lauderdale Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (GFLGLCC) was created “to promote business and economic opportunities for the LGBT and LGBT-friendly community; to be an advocate and resource for all member businesses that promote equality; and to promote tourism with a unified approach by working with appropriate and related organizations.” The GFLGLCC will hold its inaugural event, “Transition Solutions For LGBT Seniors” at the Pride Center at Equality Park on Thursday, September 13, from 6 to 8 pm. The Symposium is presented at no cost to the community and all community members are invited to attend.

According to Keith Blackburn, GFLGLCC Board President and CEO, issues of concern to LGBT Seniors “was an area which is often overlooked. If we are lucky, we will all grow old. Living comfortably for as long as possible is something we all want. In Transition we want to provide important information, which all us - seniors or not - will need at some point. We will focus on planning for the future and making sound decisions now.” There have already been a few conferences and symposia dealing with LGBT Seniors in South Florida, including the Miami Dade Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce Symposium on Aging and the White House LGBT Conference on Aging (also in Miami). However, according to Blackburn, “our event will focus on practical matters and planning issues.

Although there is some overlap, we will not specifically be presenting medical or

psychological-related topics.”

“Transition” will feature three expert speakers who will offer valuable information that will help the attendees plan a safe and secure future. In “Aging in Place: Adapting our space to meet our changing needs,” Wanda E. Gozdz, CAPS, eSMM, will discuss “the aspects of aging and how it impacts families psychologically, spiritually and physically.” Then in “Living Comfortably in Retirement: Financial Tools to Help You Age Gracefully,” Ryan Schultz, ChFEBC, MBA, “will cover investment strategies that will help you afford paying for care in your home, maintain your dignity as you age, and not outlast your savings.” Finally, in “Navigating the Maze: Estate and Long Term Care Planning Issues Unique to the LGBT Community,” Stephanie L. Schneider, Board Certified Elder Law Attorney, will discuss such topics as “Why plan for your future?,” “Creating a management plan for incapacity” and “Facilities visitation rights.” The three experts’ presentations will be followed by a period of questions and answers. There will also be coffee and pastries, provided by Starbucks.

According to Blackburn, “Transition is our inaugural event focusing on seniors.

We are discussing several other focused symposia for the future. We always welcome input from the community when it comes to specific event topics.”

For more information, e-mail GoGayFortLauderdale.com with specific questions.

“Transition Solutions for LGBT Seniors” will take place on Thursday, Sept. 13, from 6 to 8 p.m.

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PROFILE

Charlie Fredrickson — ‘Getting there is the real fun.’

By Donald Cavanaugh

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He fondly remembers attending a workshop given by MCC founder Troy Perry in the mid-1970s in Philadelphia. In addition to his MCC work, Fredrickson helped oversee the development of the first gay community center in Philadelphia in 1975.

He was also in Philadelphia in 1965 when early gay rights activists picketed Independence Hall demanding civil rights and job protection.

“That was an amazing experience,” he said.

“I didn’t join the march because it would have jeopardized my job and security clearances, but I did support the project and remember it well.

What brave people. I got to meet some of them, too.”

His next move was to Seattle, WA where he again engaged with the MCC in neighboring Tacoma. He held several positions with that church until he left for Florida.

The community Fredrickson documents Photo by Charlie Fredrickson

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don’t think of my life in terms of accomplishments,” said Charlie Fredrickson.

“I’d rather think about what gives me the greatest satisfaction from doing it,” he added. “And that would have to be the continually growing community I help create through networking and through my photo documentation of LGBT lives in Palm Beach County.”

Fredrickson has been a fixture in the evolving Palm Beach County gay community since moving here in October 1981, starting with the first service of the first Metropolitan Community Church in West Palm Beach a month after he arrived.

“They appointed me music coordinator shortly before the first service,” he said. “I’ve held a bunch of other positions, too, but always the satisfaction of the work was in the doing: the creation of a caring, welcoming faith community.”

A “bunch” is an understatement. In the 20 plus years since the church was born Fredrickson has been on the church advisory board; coordinated the MCCPB Singles Fellowship; served on the board of directors; held the position of treasurer; served as captain of the MCCPB participation in AIDS Walk For Life; and more, holding some positions repeatedly and for long terms of service.

In addition to his church work, Fredrickson has also served in various board positions with the Astronomical Society of the Palm Beaches; volunteered at the South Florida Science Museum; and performed with the South Florida Gay Men’s Chorus.

He also remembers the advent of AIDS and the Stop AIDS South Florida project, which evolved into today’s Compass, the LGBT community center of the Palm Beaches.

“More community building,” said Fredrickson. “Not the kind we might have wanted but it sure brought us together.”

In 2003 Fredrickson launched the WPB_ Pride photo page on the Webshots Web site (http://community.webshots.com/user/ wpb_pride). With nearly 100 albums and thousands of photos of LGBT community events, visitors can participate vicariously in almost ten years of community history.

And he did all of this while holding a “day job” as a flight test engineer at Sikorsky Aircraft where he still occasionally consults, although he retired a few years ago.

Fredrickson was born and raised on Long Island and attended college at the Polytechnic Institute of Brooklyn. Upon graduation he moved to Philadelphia to join Boeing Vertol Company. It was here that he came out and got his first taste of gay community building with the MCC movement in the City of Brotherly Love.

Charlie Fredrickson hold the 2011 Michael Brown Memorial Faces of the Community Award which he received from Compass at that year’s Stonewall Ball.

appreciates his work. In April 2006 he received the first MCCPB Cherish Award at the church’s annual Rainbow Ball. In November of that year he received an award from the MCCPB for 25 years of continuous service at the 25th anniversary weekend, and in June 2011 he received Compass’ Michael Brown Memorial Faces of the Community award at the annual Stonewall Ball.

Someone else took the pictures.

To meet the institution that is Charlie Fredrickson just attend any LGBT social gathering in Palm Beach County (and south) including the newly forming Prime Timers group he is helping create.

And remember his closing words: “Get involved. Don’t sit around and complain that there’s nothing to do. Make something happen. Help make community.”

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ChamberChat Where did the summer go?

Monthly Column From The Greater Fort Lauderdale Chamber of Commerce

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LBX just completed the joint charity campaign “Stuff The Bus,” benefiting the Broward Education Foundation. GLBX teamed up with the wonderful Pride Center, WIN (Women in Network), Varsity Club and notable businesses such as McDonald’s, Power 96.0, Waste Management, Metro Media Works, Scarr Insurance Group and others.

We have news for you: The LGBT community was the largest contributor to the “Stuff The Bus” campaign. Our community contributed approximately one-third of all raised (and necessary) school items and funds. A big “THANK YOU” and congratulation to all of you who were involved and made this happen! You Rock!

Next year is already in the planning.

GLBX’s 2012 networking calendar is all set and 2013 is close to be completed too.

We are so excited to share with you the upcoming events until end of this year.

Please mark your calendars.

Thursday, September 27 at 11:30 a.m.

GLBX is hosting their quarterly luncheon at the Tower Club in downtown Fort Lauderdale. ORKIN, a member of the Greater Fort Lauderdale Chamber of Commerce, is the presenting sponsor. As always, GLBX will provide an educational component to our members and future members during the luncheon. The topic will be “Six Steps to Effectively Analyze and Assess Your Business’ Health.” Presenter is Jaime Yordan-Frau, President of Integro Success Unlimited. The topic itself is so vital for any upcoming and existing business owners.

Get your tickets online at www.ftlchamber. com/glbx. Luncheon costs for members are $30 and for non-members $40.

On both October dates, GLBX is hosting

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its Business After Hours. Thursday the 11, Victor Florez, CEO & President of the fastgrowing company Fast Printz will host GLBX members and friends at his new location right on East Oakland Park Blvd. and Thursday October 25, Stork’s Bakery will open its doors for our members and friends.

Thursday, November 8, the Hilton Fort Lauderdale Beach Hotel is hosting GLBX on their fabulous pool deck. This will be a rather large Business After Hours - think in terms of the Pelican Grand Beach Ocean event GLBX hosted back in March with the Florida AIDS Walk. Lots of surprises are waiting for you, including the opportunity to win a 2-night stay at the Hilton Fort Lauderdale Beach Hotel and much more!

WOW. The holidays are coming up ... already? Almost. Can you believe that GLBX is celebrating its fourth anniversary?

Time flies by, and we are celebrating our anniversary Thursday, December 13 at the historic Riverside Hotel. While Las Olas Boulevard will be decked out in Christmas decorations, the Board of Governors will do its part to get us into the swing of the season. Like last year, GLBX plans a Toy Drive. The Board of Governors will have many other surprises in store for you for this event. This will be ‘must attend’ event for our community.

Curious on how your business benefits of being a member of the Greater Fort Lauderdale Chamber of Commerce and GLBX? Please contact Chairman Michael Faerber at glbx@ftlchamber.com or check the Chamber website out at www. ftlchamber.com. Don’t forget to “like us” on Facebook (GLBX). Happy Networking and enjoy the rest of the (hurricane free) summer!

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CompassPoints… biweekly column from compass in lake worth

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Get Out and Vote!

By Julia Murphy

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round this time of the year, during a presidential election, more often than not we hear the words “Why should I vote?” I have truthfully never thought about why until just recently, as voting for me was a civic duty. To be able to vote is a huge gift.

Many people in other countries fight, and even die for a right to vote. We should vote because we can, because there is too much to lose.

The moment I turned 18 years old I registered to vote and have been voting ever since. With the presidential election just 3 months away I took some time to think about why I have voted in every election for the past 9 years and why you should vote too.

The reality is that we live in a democracy and that means we get a say about how our community and our country is run. Working for a Gay and Lesbian Community Center for the past 3 years has granted me the opportunity to spend much of my time with same-sex couples. Many of these couples have been together for many years and have the healthiest, stron-

gest, and most passionate relationships that I have ever seen. The ugly truth is that their relationships are not recognized in the state of Florida and they are not permitted to have the same rights as heterosexual married couples. To me this is a travesty that voting will one day solve.

As a social worker it is my duty to promote social equality and change.

But the only way democracy works is if we are active participants of our civic duties. A government by the people, for the people just doesn’t work without the people. Not voting is like saying you don’t care how our country is run. After all, taking time to vote reflects pride in our nation and its government.

The fact is that I vote because I want my voice to be heard and I want to stand up for what I believe in. If I do not vote then I am not participating in the change that I want. There are always going to be those people that say my vote will not make a difference. My vote might seem to be little more than a rustle, but when my vote is combined with the votes of others just like me it becomes a voice and the

more like-voters there are the louder our voices grow. So this November, join me in making your voice heard, and go out and vote.

Julia Murphy is the Medical Case Management Coordinator at Compass Community Center.

She can be reached at Julia@compassglcc.com

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COVER STORY

Living Gay History Maltz Theatre’s ‘The Laramie Project’

By Donald Cavanaugh Photo by Charlie Fredrickson

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f you can imagine what it’s like to see a group of teens rehearsing The Laramie Project in a major, award winning theater, in Palm Beach County, with the full support of their parents and friends, it has to make you believe in life,” said Sarah Helen Land, a lesbian and a member of the voice faculty at the Maltz Jupiter Theatre.

Land was one of the several gay adults, many from the Metropolitan Community Church (MCC) of the Palm Beaches, invited to talk with the members of the theater’s 2012 Youth Artists’ Chair as this team of 16 youth aged 13 to 18 sought to expand their understanding of antigay bullying in preparation for their production of The Laramie Project. The play will be offered for one night only on Saturday, Sept. 8 at 8 p.m.

The Laramie Project is a unique theatric production created by Moises Kaufman and his Tectonic Theatre Company who spent a year traveling to Laramie, Wyoming, from New York, interviewing residents of the city that was torn apart when two young locals pistol-whipped, tortured and beat the 21-year old Matthew Shepard, tying him to a fence outside the city where he fell into a coma in the freezing night.

Shepard, whose skull was so severely crushed that surgery was not possible, never regained consciousness. He died several days later at a Colorado hospital. The death, burial, and trials captured global attention, and national and international news media descended on Laramie, a college town of about 30,000 inhabitants.

Kaufman and his team captured the townspeople’s sentiments about the event, the aftermath, and the media invasion. Interviewees shared their feelings ranging from anger to selfrighteousness to compassion to fear. Their personal stories became the dialogue for the play.

“I’m just 21 myself,” said Scott Sebree, from MCC. “I had never heard of the play and am dying to see it. These kids were really great. You could see their compassion as they heard some of the stories of our lives growing up in more restrictive times.”

“I was probably the oldest one there,” said Alice McCullagh. “I told them about how hard it was to find other people like us and how I used to go to this placed called ‘Kookies’ on 7th Ave. in Manhattan. Two big men in black suits watched everybody who came to the door. The kids seemed amazed.”

MCCer Dean Nussbaum said he was familiar with the play but this production will be the first time he’s seen it.

“These are pretty courageous kids to take on a project like this,” he said. “I was a school

The Laramie Project will run at the Maltz Jupiter Theatre on September 8 at 8p.m.

counselor for 30 years and worked with gay groups in the past and it’s a significant thing for young people, gay or straight, to be able to discuss these issues.”

Brian Andrews, a teacher of theater and dance at the Maltz who shared his story with the youth summed it up by saying, “The kids have gotten to see what it’s like to be in a place like the Maltz where it’s safe for everybody to be who they are. I just gave them gay history like the Anita Bryant thing and Fred Phelps and now the marriage issues. They really wanted to know, and I know their performances will be stronger because of this.”

For more information or tickets visit www. jupitertheatre.org or call the box office at 561575-2223.

“We hope members of the South Florida gay community, and the community at large, will come support this production,” said Linnea Brown, director of public relations at the Maltz. “The Matthew Shepard story from the perspective of the Laramie inhabitants is powerful and these young people are doing an incredible job.”

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If you go When:

Saturday, Sept. 8, 8 p.m.

Where:

The Maltz Theatre 1001 E. Indiantown Road Jupiter, FL 33447

How Much:

$20 for adults $15 for children

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High Holidays 5773

Congregation Etz Chaim

Our New Location: 5700 NE 94th Ave, Tamarac, FL 33321

Since 1974 LGBT Congregation Etz Chaim has been a welcoming community for Jews, our families, friends, and allies. Please join us for the 5773 High Holiday season to welcome the New Year, and renew your connection with your community, your history, and your best and highest self.

ROSH HASHANAH: Sunday, September 16th at 8pm and Monday, September 17th at 10am YOM KIPPUR: Tuesday, September 28th at 7:30pm and Wednesday, September 29th at 10am.

Concluding services begin at 5:30pm and will be held at our new location on the campus of Temple Beth Torah All services will be held at Temple Bat Yam, 5151 NE 14th Terrace, Ft. Lauderdale EXCEPT for Yom Kippur concluding services, which will be held at our new location on the campus of Temple Beth Torah, 5700 NW 94th Ave, Tamarac, FL. Services will be led by Executive Director Rabbi Noah Kitty, Hazzan Jerry Berkowitz, members of the Etz Chaim community, and feature cellist John Kaboff.

Guest tickets are available for $50 for one service, or $100 for all.

Cost of tickets may be applied to your first year membership.

Please join us for our annual Rosh Hashanah lunch, Monday, September 17th at 1pm, and our Yom Kippur Break the Fast on Wednesday, September 29th at 8pm. Cost for each meal is $25. For more information please go to www.etzchaimflorida.org or call 954-564-9232

Shana Tova u’Metucha!

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A&E

From the Inside Out Photographer Captures The Most Private Parts — Living Rooms

If you go ArtsUnited presents “Men in Living Rooms” Photographs by Jeff Larson

When:

Wednesday, September 12, 6 p.m. to 8 p.m.

Where:

Stonewall National Museum and Library 1300 E. Sunrise Blvd., Fort Lauderdale

How Much:

Photos by Jeff Larson

Free

By J.W. Arnold

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new exhibit at the Stonewall Archives and Library takes the old pastime of “people watching” one step further.

For years, Miami-area photographer Jeff Larson has been fascinated with the region’s fetish community and now, with “Men in Living Rooms,” he has taken voyeuristic tendencies even further.

Larson, an adjunct photography instructor at the University of Miami and Florida Atlantic University, describes the project as an attempt to capture the “everyman” in his own space, “using the living room and its surroundings as a reference to the person’s being.”

The project, originally part of his master’s exhibition, was definitely an evolution, he says, inspired by the nudes and fetish photography of Robert Mapplethorpe. Two decades ago, Mapplethorpe elicited shock and public outcries, a visceral response Larson admits is difficult to recreate today.

Most of the men who opened their homes to the photographer were friends or referrals. Others Larson contacted after seeing their pictures on the Internet. Many participate in the region’s fetish community.

“Once you get past the nudity or fetish, you start to recognize how these people live,” explains Larson. “People will notice they have the same coaster set or a similar rug.”

The effect is amplified because Larson uses extremely large prints that are 44 inches tall by 100 inches wide. He also

sometimes uses digital imaging to compose the large format photographs.

“Printing is part of the wow factor,” he says. “It’s so people can actually walk into the photograph.”

Larson photographs each subject and living room as naturally as possible, only staging the space in one situation: “So many people here have orchid plants sitting on their coffee tables and they tend to obscure the shot … That’s the only time I will change the room around. I just don’t tell them where to move it.”

One of the most interesting aspects of the project is how each man “fits” within his space.

“Sometimes the guy matches the living room and sometimes he doesn’t,” Larson says. “It can be a surprise.”

Since beginning the project, Larson has photographed more than 100 subjects.

Because of the large format, five of the prints will be on display at the Stonewall Archives. The library is also a public space, so none of the photos with full frontal nudity will be displayed, but he insists the effect is not lost as the photos still capture the subjects’ sexual energy.

For his next project, Larson, who just turned 51, plans to photograph 50 men who are all over the age of 50 and who are still confident, sexy and attractive.

For more information, go to www.StonewallNationalMuseum.org.

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The Good and Evil of Gay Savannah

By Jon Fairbanks, GayTravel.com

Savannah, Georgia is a charming gay oasis frozen in time. America’s first planned city boasts a thriving gay and lesbian scene and is a haven for the artistic and creative. Whether you’re looking to relocate or want a relaxing getaway, this historic city is a dream destination.

SCAD: Savannah is an Art Student’s Inspiration

One of the reasons so many artists, musicians and freethinkers love “the hostess city of the south” is because of the Savannah College of Art and Design. The campus is stretched out across the downtown area and uses more than 60 buildings, including many historic structures. It’s not uncommon to see SCAD’s trademark red double decker bus passing through one of the squares. Many of the transplant gays are drawn to the city because of SCAD and the school’s presence adds unique appeal.

For gay and lesbian art enthusiasts, there are several opportunities to get your culture on in Savannah besides the gorgeous landmarks. There are a number of galleries featuring work by local artists, the acclaimed Savannah Dance Theatre and the Savannah Music Festival, an annual soiree that highlights an eclectic mix of performers.

Savannah’s breathtaking downtown district and colorful residents became a worldwide phenomenon in 1994, when John Berendt’s iconic novel Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil first hit bookshelves. The book quickly topped The New York Times’ bestsellers list and stayed on that list for 216 weeks.

The novel tells the story of a male prostitute who is killed by his gay lover.The death took place in a home built by a relative of native singer/songwriter Johnny Mercer. During the course of the novel, readers are introduced to several iconic, real-life denizens, many members of the LGBT community.

Clint Eastwood adapted the book into a critically acclaimed film, starring Jude Law and Kevin Spacey.

One of the most notable characters in the story is reallife legendary female impersonator, The Lady Chablis. Chablis adds some comedy relief to the heavy drama of the main plot. The legendary performer played herself in the film version and continues to entertain the local masses. Chablis is a huge draw at her “home” gay club, Club One in Savannah and she also performs at gay pride events across the country.

Savannah Gay Nightlife: Club One, Club All

So you’ve shopped ‘til your bank account balance dropped and now you want to check out the gay nightlife in Savannah. The most popular LGBT venue continues to be Club One. This iconic hangout offers two dance floors, a video bar and regular drag shows and liver performances. If you’re looking for a spot that’s a little more low-key, check out Chuck’s off River Street. This is a great place to chug down cheap drinks and meet friendly locals.

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True Crime and The Lady Chablis

Tybee Island, also known as Savannah Beach, is home to the annual Beach Bum Parade.

Life’s a Beach on Tybee Island

One of Savannah’s biggest draws is the fact that it’s located on the coast. Tybee Island is the most popular local spot to find gay and straight hotties alike getting bronzed. The area, also known as “Savannah Beach,” is a great quiet getaway for locals and tourists. This is also where you’ll find the famed Tybee Island Light Station and Fort Screven Historic District.

Each May since 1987 Tybee Island has played host to the popular Beach Bum parade. This is a great event to spy scantily clad southern gents and belles in all of their glory.

Just make sure you bring your water-gun to squirt them when they roll by on their floats. The parade takes place on Butler Avenue, the main street in Tybee.

Art, music, amazing architecture and incredible LGBT nightlife, you can find it all in Savannah, Georgia. It’s a great city to relax in a rocking chair, put up your pinky and sip a mint julep in your best seersucker attire. I do declare!

To learn more about Savannah and other great LGBT travel destinations please visit www.gaytravel.com.

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Forbidden Fruit & Hilarious Lesbians

Womenfest continues to entertain

By Andrea Dulanto

M Submitted Photo Illustration

ost of the LBT women at Womenfest Key West 2012 may only be there for the sun worship and pool parties. But Womenfest also offers variety.

Throughout the week, comedian Christine

O’Leary will host events at Pearl’s, which include Speed Meeting and Pearl’s Cocktail Party and Womankind Fun-Raiser.

For O’Leary, the best female comics are

“storytelling women who tell the truth with their material” like Margaret Cho, Vicky Shaw, Jessica Kirson and Tracy Ullman. As far as being an out lesbian comic, O’Leary asserted: “My comedy is about ‘how I see the world and how the world sees me,’ so my identity and comedy is a way to tell the truth.”

Yet, O’Leary admitted that sometimes it’s difficult to connect with lesbian audiences: “I think lesbians, we can take ourselves very seriously.

We think that it is our job to take care of every minute of the Music Festival or potluck meet up. So it wasn’t until I hit Pearl’s and Key West that I found my sistahs!

Everyone at Womenfest knows that it is about being together and laughing until you tinkle fun — just no tinkling in the pool please!

On Friday, September 7, Curiously Strong Comedy 2012 features stand-up performances

by Erin Foley, Sandra Valls, and Chantal Carrere.

“I would describe my comedy as hilarious,”

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deadpanned Foley. “People spit their drinks out, snort, scream out my name during jokes, carry me around the room.

I wear a cape on stage. Total insanity.”

Foley’s perspective on being a lesbian in comedy: “I consider myself a stand-up comic, first and foremost. I also happen to be gay. It isn’t the focal point of my act. That being said, if I’m going to be labeled ‘lesbian comic’, it’s a lot better than ‘crappy comic’, ‘super ugly comic’ and/or ‘that comic who has enormous knee caps.’ At the end of the day, funny is funny and that’s my goal.”

When Valls came out as a lesbian comic, she found this brought her more material: “My big, fat lesbian life is comedic.” She admires Bette Midler, Tina Fey, Kat Williams and Dane Cook, particularly for their physical humor and for having “a grasp on silly and smart at the same time.”

Carrere first discovered comedy in a high school talent show: “I was doing something that felt right.” A self-described “unapologetic, fun truth teller,” she promised a “high-energy” performance.

Creator and director of Key West Burlesque, Christa Hunt (aka Tatah Dujour), will present Forbidden Fruit on Saturday night. She discussed how they will appeal to a Womenfest audience: “We have put together a show for women, by women, incorporating female to male drag, along with fun and sexy classic burlesque numbers.”

Hunt shared that “the focus of the show is comedy and performance—not just tearing our clothes off and spinning around a pole.” She also confirmed that women make up a large part of the fan base, and added that “the show incorporates the elegance of classic burlesque while being just risqué enough for today’s audience.”

For Foley, it’s all about the anticipation of Womenfest: “I’m counting down the days until thousands of ladies in Tevas and

cargo shorts descend upon Florida and rip it up!”

Valls expressed the same outlook: “I can’t wait to perform! Music, drinks, dancing, comedy, the ocean! What more do you need?”

Womenfest Key West, September 4-9, 2012 Hosted by the Key West Business Guild For the complete schedule of events and tickets: www.womenfest.com

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JESSE’S JOURNAL

The Tale of the Rawhide Kid C

By Jesse Monteagudo

Rawhide Kid: Slap Leather under its adult imprint Max which will feature a parental advisory label. Not that there was any need.

As an “adult” comic, Rawhide Kid: Slap Leather is rather dull.

Other critics, from our side of the fence, worried that the comic’s campy tone and smart attire would turn the Rawhide Kid into a caricature. There is nothing wrong with camp humor, especially in a genre often that takes itself too seriously. But why the ambiguity? Why couldn’t Marvel give us a hero who says that he is gay and who has a gay life and has gay friends or even, God forbid, has gay sex? Like the creators of Will and Grace, Marvel wanted to have it both ways, by

giving us a character who would attract gays without alienating straights. “The original Kid was campy and irreverent. I think they are trying to recreate that,” said Cathy Renna, News Media Director for the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD).

“There will be the same complaints we hear about Will Truman: he’s an asexual, stereotypical gay guy. Why not just go for it? It may be a lost opportunity.” The Rawhide Kid returned, as ambiguous as ever, in a 2010 miniseries written by Zimmerman and drawn by Howard Chaykin. And though the Kid’s sexual orientation is still debated, as far as I am concerned, he is always gay.

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omic books are getting gayer that his preference is men, not women.” He by the day. Archie Comics, certainly has a better fashion sense than the once notorious for its boring average cowpoke. The online gay message conservatism, shocked the bigots board Datalounge, never one to mince when it introduced Kevin Keller, an openly words, described his “broad shouldered and gay teen who joined Archie’s pals ‘n’ gals in slim hipped frame [as] lovingly outfitted 2010. Northstar, who first came out of the in a double-row sky-blue button-front Marvel closet in 1992, married his partner leather pantsuit paired with a white hat and Kyle Jinadu on the cover of Astonishing matching Beaver-skin gloves.”

X-Men # 51. Even DC Comics got into the act, as it revamped its long-time characters Batwoman and Green Lantern Alan Scott as out and proud. But a history of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people would not be complete without mentioning another gay Marvel hero, the Rawhide Kid. I was never a fan of Marvel Comics, which is probably why I never heard of the Rawhide Kid during my formative years. According to Don Markstein’s website www.toonopedia. com, the Kid first appeared in 1955, at a time when Western comics and TV shows were more popular than super heroes. Like other cowboy heroes of the day, the Kid “was a typical gunfighter, roaming from town to town and getting into trouble.” Alas, his first comic only lasted for 16 issues. In 1960, the Rawhide Kid was revived by author Stan Lee and artist Jack Kirby, who would soon make history with the Amazing SpiderMan. This time the Kid was given a name — Johnny Bart, and a history — he was The Rawhide an orphan raised by his Uncle Ben in the introduced in Kid: Slap Leather was town of Rawhide, Texas, and a motive — hero into one of 2003, turning the comic Marvel’s mo Owlhoots killed his Uncle. This version characters. st notable gay of the Kid was more successful than the last one, as he and his horse Apache fought varmints for more than 150 issues, till May Only a gay man would wear such an of 1979. He even had a mini-series in 1985 outfit, IMHO. and teamed-up with the Avengers in the gay Though as open as a pre-2012 Anderson nineties.

Cooper, the Rawhide Kid’s sly remarks and You cannot keep a good Kid down, and in innuendos made his sexual orientation 2003 the powers that be at Marvel decided clear to anyone who is in the life. For to bring the Rawhide Kid back on a regular example, in the first issue of Rawhide basis, but with a twist. The gunslinger who Kid: Slap Leather, the Kid expresses his used to be shy around women emerged as admiration for the Lone Ranger: “I think a gay man in a limited-edition comic that that mask and powder-blue outfit are Marvel titled Rawhide Kid: Slap Leather. fantastic. I can certainly see why that Though Marvel already cracked the lavender Indian follows him around.” He is also glass ceiling with Northstar, the Kid’s sexual fond of Wild Bill Hickock, who in the orientation was still novel enough to cause original draft he called a “very nice man. a sensation. The Rawhide Kid’s adventures Big — ahem — I mean bigger than life.” out of the cowboy closet were written by Unfortunately, Stan Lee, now Chairman Howard Stern’s pal Ron Zimmerman, who Emeritus of Marvel Comics, agreed with the called the Kid “an empowering character critics that the Wild Bill Hickock quip was that the gay community would be able to in bad taste and ordered that it be removed embrace,” and drawn by veteran artist John from the finished product.

Severin. Published as a five-issue miniseries, Needless to say, the religious right got into Rawhide Kid: Slap Leather was later collected a frenzy over the very idea of a gay cowboy in a trade paperback. hero. Andrea Lafferty, Executive Director Realizing how controversial the concept of the Traditional Values Coalition, went of a gay hero is, the folks at Marvel decided on CNN’s Crossfire and expressed her fears to give the Rawhide Kid a light touch and a that some young boy somewhere might cautious approach. “He doesn’t come out grab a copy of Rawhide Kid: Slap Leather and say he’s gay,” promised Joe Quesada, and immediately turn gay. Lafferty ignored Marvel’s Editor-in-Chief. “But it’s obvious the fact that most comic readers today are through his actions and the things he says adults, and that Marvel eventually published

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SPOTLIGHT: The Arts

By J.W. Arnold

By Brian Swinford

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Theater Broward County Fusion of Flamenco and Kathak

Clarita Filgueiras -- Artistic Director, Choreographer and Dancer has been designated “The Keeper of Flamenco” in recognition of her commitment to presenting authentic, traditional Flamenco; creating new works; and developing young artists. Broward Center. Sept. 8 at 7 p.m. Tickets are $20-50 dollars. Visit BrowardCenter.org

Twentieth Century Way Long before gay bars, the Internet and the invention of the ultimate modern convenience—Grindr—many gay men resorted to cruising local parks and public restrooms to fulfill their sexual desires. Tom Jacobson’s The Twentieth Century Way, takes a look at the developments that led to the new culture of cruising for sex. It details the true story of two out-of-work actors in Southern California who ended up hiring themselves out to local law enforcement agencies to entrap homosexuals soliciting sex in public places. At Island City Stage at Empire Stage, 1140 N. Flager Dr. Fort Lauderdale. Thursdays-Saturdays, 8 p.m.; Sundays, 5 p.m. through September 9. Tickets $30 at 954-678-1496 or SmartTix.com

Palm Beach County IL Volo

Coming off their acclaimed PBS TV special, Il Volo Takes Flight - Live From the Detroit Opera House, this trio of teenage tenors from Italy have become an international sensation. These three amazing singers will be at the Alexander W. Dreyfoos, Jr. Concert Hall at the Kravis Center on Sept. 13 at 7:30 p.m.

Tickets start at $39.50. Visit Kravis.org

Jethro Tull’s Ian Anderson

One of the best-known and most popular progressive rock bands of all time, Jethro Tull released the groundbreaking album Thick As A Brick in 1972. Four decades later, Jethro Tull flautist and composer Ian Anderson is revisiting the musical genre, imagining the various characters young Gerald might have become in his journey to adulthood. This concert will be Sept. 19 at 8 p.m. at the Alexander W. Dreyfoos, Jr. Concert Hall at the Kravis Center. Visit Kravis.org

Jake Shimabukuro

Renowned for lightning-fast fingers and revolutionary playing techniques, this ukulele sensation’s concerts – featuring an array of genres including jazz, blues, funk, classical, bluegrass, folk, flamenco and rock – are a high-energy, jaw-dropping musical treat not to be missed. Jake Shimabukuro will be at the Alexander W. Dreyfoos, Jr. Concert Hall at the Kravis Center on Nov. 2 at 8 p.m. Tickets start at $15. Visit Kravis.org

The Laramie Project

The Laramie Project, which details the aftermath of Matthew Shepard’s horrific murder in Laramie, Wyoming, is the second annual Youth Artists’ Chair production. The students will hold a question and answer session with the audience after the show. Tickets are $20 for adults and $15 for children. One night only on Saturday, Sep. 8 at 8 p.m. at the Maltz Theatre in Jupiter. Visit or call 561-575-2223 for more information or to purchase tickets.

Miami-Dade Rock of Ages

Rock of Ages, an arena-rock love story told through the mind blowing, face-melting hits of Journey, Night Ranger, Styx, Reo Speedwagon, Pat Benetar, Twisted Sister, Poison, Asia, and Whitesnakeand. Don’t miss this awesomely good time about dreaming big, playing loud and partying on! Oct. 9-14 at the Ziff Ballet Opera House at the Adrienne Arsht Center. Visit Arshtcenter.org

Idle Warship: Talib Kweli & Res

Talib Kweli’s buzzworthy duo act Idle Warship, with singer/ songwriter RES, will make its anticipated Florida debut at the Center’s Knight Concert Hall on Oct. 19. In 2009, the famed rapper joined longtime collaborator RES to form Idle Warship. The hip-hop/electro group released their first official album, Habits of the Heart, in November 2011. Visit Arshtcenter.org

Lenine

For his Arsht Center debut on Oct. 26, Lenine will perform hits from his highly-acclaimed career, including award-winning favorites “Ninguém Faz Idéia” and “Martelo Bigorna,” as well as new songs from his tenth album, Chão (Ground in English), produced by Bruno Giorgi, JR.Tostoi and LENINE himself.

Chão consists of ten songs marked by intriguing, unconventional sounds like a canary’s chirp, a kettle’s whistle, a child’s heartbeat, waterfalls and a hypnotic digital ping-pong noise courtesy of a Facebook chat. Visit Arshtcenter.org

Light/The Holocaust & Humanity Project

From Aug. 4 to Nov. 4, the Arsht Center is convening community organizations, in partnership with the Anti-Defamation League, in a county-wide calendar of performances, activities, education programs and public forums. This program will be a three-month, county-wide human rights collaboration that will focus attention on the work that is being done in Miami-Dade County toward the protection of human rights against bigotry and hate. Visit ArshtCenter.org

Broadway in Miami 2012-13

This season Ziff Ballet Opera House on Oct. 9 to May 12 will hold the Broadway In Miami spectacle. Experience the return of the world’s greatest musical spectacle - Les Misérables - in its lavish new 25th anniversary production, along with the Miami premieres of Broadway’s biggest fun-filled hits - including the high-stepping Mary Poppins, the outlandishly colorful Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, the awesomely cool Rock of Ages, and - the 2010 Tony Award Winner for Best Musical Memphis, a triumph of explosive dancing and powerhouse songs. Visit Arshtcenter.org

Community Calendar Broward County

GableStage Artistic Director Joe Adler always manages to snag the rights to the hottest scripts. This time, it’s Lynn Nottage’s 2009 Pulitzer Prize-winning play, “Ruined,” opening this weekend at the company’s Biltmore hotel theater in Coral Gables. Nottage traveled to war-torn Uganda to research the moving drama about the plight and hopeful resilience of women in a dark Congo brothel. Adler has tapped talented award-winning actors Marckenson Charles, Renata Eastlick and Lela Elam and the performance will be accompanied by live music featuring lyrics by Nottage. Performances run Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays at 8 p.m. and Sundays at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m., through October 7. Tickets are $45-50. GableStage is located in the eastern wing of the Biltmore Hotel, 1200 Anastasia Ave. in Coral Gables. For tickets and more information, go to www.GableStage.org.

Film Explores Man and Myth Behind Movie Legend The Fort Lauderdale Gay and Lesbian Film Festival wraps up its monthly “954 GLOW” (Gays & Lesbians on Wednesdays) series on Wednesday, September 12 at 8:45 p.m. with Matthew Mishory’s “Joshua Tree, 1951: A Portrait of James

Dean.” Described as “part portrait, part love story, part road trip expose,” the biopic projects an intimate, untold portrayal of James Dean and his closest companions, illustrated with dream-like sequences that jump back and forth through time and attempt to separate the pop culture mythology that has surrounded the actor since his untimely death. Tickets are $9 members/$11 nonmembers in advance at www.FLGLFF. com and $11/$13 at the box office. For more information, go to FLGLFF.com or call 305-751-6305.

Exhibit Captures Greats of the Jazz Age

The legends of the Jazz Age as captured on film are on display through December at the Ansin Family Art Gallery at Miramar Cultural Center, 2400 Civic Center Place on Red Road, in Miramar. “All That Jazz: Photographs of Jazz Legends” features iconic images of jazz greats including Dizzy Gillespie, Dexter Gordon, Ella Fitzgerald, Billie Holiday and Quincy Jones, as seen through the lenses of William Gottlieb and Herman Leonard, two of the genre’s best known photographers.

The gallery is open Monday and Friday from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., and on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. The exhibit is free. For more information, go to www.MiramarCulturalCenter.org.

New Times Pairings Vintage 2012

New Times Broward Palm Beach presents 5th Annual Pairings, a food and wine event held at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts. This event joins together signature culinary creations from more than 40 of the area’s best restaurants expertly paired wines from local and international wineries. Sept.

13. General Admission $40 to $100, and the VIP event ranges from $80 to $100. Party starts at 6 p.m. Visit Newtimespairings. com

Queer Youth Friday Nights

LGBTQ and allied youth group for people13-21. This Is a drop in group anytime from 6 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. This youth group will be SunServe building on 1480 SW 9th Ave on the second floor.

A Safe Space to be yourself! Queer Themed Movie showing at 7 p.m. on Friday nights. This group is a safe hangout to meet new friends, free Wi-Fi to bring your laptop or your iPad, plus board games that you can bring or play the ones that they provide at the group. Visit Sunserve.org/youth/index.htm

Associates & Inspiration: The CoBrA Movement and the Arts of Africa and New Guinea

Photo by George Schiavone

* Denotes new listing

Ravages of Civil War Grip Coral Gables Theatre

This lively and thought-provoking installation juxtaposes paintings, sculptures and works on paper by artists of the CoBrA movement. Masks, totems, and carvings created by the South Pacific island of New Guinea and the continent of Africa are also on display. Museum of Art | Fort Lauderdale through September 01. Visit Moaflnsu.org

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“Ruined” will be playing at the Gable Stage, in the Biltmore Hotel, through October 7.

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Paths Pozitive Attitudes

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GLBX Business Advantage Referral Group

GLBX Business Advantage Referral Group will be held at the chamber offices on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month from 8 to 9 a.m. The leads group is looking for additional members. If you are interested joining, please contact Ken Stollar at Kenneth.Stolar@sci-us.com to see if your category is open and to attend as a guest. Visit Ftlchamber.com/index. php?src=gendocs&ref=GLBX_home&category=GLBX

Queer Youth Nights

LGBTQ & allied youth 13-21 are welcome any time after 6 p.m. at the SunServe building on Wilton Drive for a great place to meet new friends, play board games and a Queer Themed Movie at 7 p.m. Email Afrosch@sunServe.org

Latinos Salud’s programs

Multiple programs and groups for bi/gay Latino guys. Latinos Salud’s SOMOS program is for guys 18 to 30. All proceeds will benefit Latinos Salud in our efforts to educate on HIV Prevention and testing. Every Thursday night at 7 p.m. join the Core Group, and help plan alternative activities. Also offers Popular Opinion Leader group for guys ages 25 to 44 and a Life Coaching program for guys ages 18 to 44. Come by Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. for free one-on-one life coaching with certified CRCS coaches. Located at 2330 Wilton Drive. Call 954-533-8681 or visit Latinossalud.org

Man2Man Discussion

Man2Man Discussion Group meets at the Pride Center on Mondays from 7 until 8:30 p.m. Any subject may be discussed.

Members regularly reassemble afterwards for ‘repast’ at The Courtyard, PeterPan Diner. Visit Glccsf.org

Meditation After Work

On Mondays from 6-6:30 p.m. there will be Guided meditation w/ western Buddhist teacher Gui Passow. Looking for a way to rest and re-charge before starting your evening? Come in for a free guided meditation to clear your mind at the end of the day. This class is free at Drolma Buddhist Center. Call 954-537-9191 or visit meditationinfortlauderdale.org

Buddhist Meditation Classes

Survivor Support

A Survivor Support Group is being held on the first and third Wednesday of each month at the 211 Community Center, 250 NE 33rd Street, in Oakland Park. The Florida Initiative for Suicide Prevention (FISP) is sponsoring this free support group and is open to all family members and friends of those who have died by suicide. Call 954-384-0344 to register. Meets from 7-8:30 p.m.

Visit Fisponline.org.

Eating Disorder Support

Meets Friday evenings from 6 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. At Sun Serve’s Wilton Manors location at 2123 Wilton Drive, second floor. A “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. Free. No registration required. Donations welcome. Call 954-764-5150

Sunday Jazz Brunch

First Sunday of every month. An ideal way to relax and enjoy Fort Lauderdale’s scenic Riverwalk. Live, outdoor concert series bringing the area’s best local jazz artists. Listen to the soulful sounds on four different stages. Well-behaved, leashed pets welcome. Plenty of room for chairs, blankets and picnic baskets.

Young Adult GLBT

Latinos Salud’s Life Coaching program is for Latino gay/bi guys ages 18-44. Come by Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. for free one-on-one life coaching with certified CRCS coaches. Set your goals, and meet action steps to make them come true. Stop in for more info at 2330 Wilton Drive or call 954-765-6239. Visit Latinossalud.org

Sex & Love Anonymous

S.L.A.A. believes that sex and love addiction is a progressive illness which cannot be cured but which, like many illnesses, can be arrested. It may take several forms -- including, but not limited to, a compulsive need for sex, extreme dependency on one or many people, or a chronic pre-occupation with romance, intrigue, or fantasy. Meets at The Pride Center at Equality Park in Bldg A, Room 200 Fridays 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. Visit Slaafws.org

Toastmasters

Most Toastmasters meetings are comprised of about 20 people who meet weekly for an hour or so. Participants practice and learn skills by filling a meeting role, ranging from giving a prepared speech or an impromptu one to serving as timer, evaluator or grammarian. Toastmasters meet at the GLCC/Pride Center Monday at 7:15 p.m. Call Ted Verdone at 954-566-2074 or email: Tedverdone@comc​ast.net Tuesday Night Eatin’ Meeting will be held at The Alternative MC Clubhouse at 4322 NE 5th Ave in Oakland Park. Fun, food, and fellowship. There will be hamburgers, hotdogs, all the fixins, cold drinks, desserts, and snacks. Meeting begins at 8 p.m. and ends at 9 p.m. Visit Alternativemc.com/events/florida-events Topic discussions include issues and concerns about being a gay man in South Florida. Meets Thursdays at the Pride Center from 7 - 8:30 p.m. Call 954-353-9155

PFLAG

Meets on the 2nd and 4th Tues. of the month at the Sunshine Cathedral at 1480 SW 9th Avenue to support the parents of LGBTQ youth in Broward. No charge. Visit Community.pflag.org/ pflagfortlauderdale

SunServe Therapy Groups

Provided for the LGBT community at SunServe on a regular basis. Call the Intake Coordinator at 954-764-5150 to learn which therapy groups have openings. Groups Include a Gay Men’s HIV+ Long Time Survivors’ Group, a Safe “T” support group for gender variant adults, an Intimate Partner Abuse group and others. Visit SunServe.org

Fusion Wilton Manors - Connections

Gay men’s group discussion. Different subject every week. Dr. David Fawcett, a gay therapist, who has been in private practice in Fort Lauderdale for the last ten years, leads the event. No charge. Starts at 7 p.m. Call 954-630-1655.

Women4Women Support

A safe and loving place to explore all the concerns and topics raised by group members. This open drop-in meeting is held Wednesdays at 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the New Sun Serve Building at 2312 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Call 954-764-5150

Man2Man Discussion

Man-2-Man talk is an informal discussion group of gay men, with all age ranges and backgrounds welcomed. Bldg A, Room 206.

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Alternative Life Style Show Featured guests contribute to the community. All are welcomed to call in. Many give aways and prizes including a contest for free buffets at Isle Capri Casino in Pompano. You can also listen by adding W4CYRADIO to SKYPE or call in at 561-623-9429.

Up coming spotlights on parties of interest and special events.

PFLAG

PFLAG is a monthly support, coming out and rap groups for families of & for Gay, Lesbian, Bi, and Transgender people. Meeting in Palm Beach County is at 6:30 on the third Wednesday of the month. Call or email Carol at 561-716-9464 Pflag@pobox.com

New Alternatives

Support group is dedicated for lesbians who are recovering from alcoholism. Meeting happens every Monday at 7 p.m. at Lambda North Clubhouse. Visit LambdaNorth.net

Come out to Hollywood Beach Theatre East of A1A at Johnson St and the ocean. Admission: Free every Friday of every month. Live jazz, blues, pop and everything in between along Hollywood’s signature 2.5 mile boardwalk. Charming oceanfront cafes and restaurants serve up delicious innovative cuisine while you enjoy the best array of live music and tropical ocean breezes. Visit Hollywoodfl.org or call 954-924-2980

Gay Male Empowerment

Life Coaching

The Lake Worth bike night is fun, and it’s for a cause. Join loads of people in downtown Lake Worth every Thursday from 7 p.m.10 p.m.. The event is free and open to bikers and non-bikers. Visit Lakeworthbikenight.com

Boardwalk Friday Fest

Dream Car Classic

Fusion in Wilton Manors will be having a free workshop on healthy choices, and healthy living on Tuesdays from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. This workshop provides interactive learning, practice and mastery techniques for a healthier and more active life, and positive changes for quality of life. Call 954-630-1655

Lake Worth Bike Night

Social group with regular outings and social mixers for LGBTQ ages 18 to 30. This meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Email matthew@ compassglcc.com or Visit Compassglcc.com.

Tuesday Night Eatin Meeting

Living Healthy

Palm Beach County

A social group open to all LGBT people ages 18-35. Meets Fridays at the Pride Center in Wilton Manors from 7:15-9 p.m.

Meeting starts with a discussion on current events followed by introductions and then a group activity. Visit PrideCenterFlorida. org/contact-us

All the happiness there is in the world arises from wishing others to be happy. By abandoning self-centered thoughts and replacing them with the belief that others are important, we will overcome our suffering and find true happiness inside our own hearts. $10/class or $30/series includes vegetarian food after class. Call The Drolma Buddhist Center at 954-537-9191.

Every Sunday of the month from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Pre-1980s classic cars, modern classics and custom cars from 1981-2012 will be showcased. $10 car registration from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m. (Show Car Entrance: 20th Avenue & Tyler Street). People’s Choice Award - 2 Classes; Top Ten Vehicles Award. Call 954-214-2457

Topic driven Peer lead support group for gay and bisexual men who are infected or affected by HIV/AIDS. Meets every Wednesday 7:00-9:00 pm at the Pride Center 204 N.Dixie Hwy Room 204. Refreshments, no charge, open meeting. PAHereandNow@aol.com www.PozitiveAttitudes.com

Sober Sisters AA

PBC Gender Support

All ages support group dedicated for transgender individuals.

This meeting happens the 1st and 3rd Thursday of every month at 7:30 p.m. These meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Visit Compassglcc. com

Good Orderly AA

These meetings now take place at Lambda North at 18 S. J Street, and geared toward recovering alcoholics. Every Tues. and Thurs. at 7 p.m. and on Sat. at 5:30 p.m. These meetings will help recovering alcoholics cope with the stress of everyday life without the use of alcohol. Email tcamie@aol.com

Seniors vs. Crime

Seniors vs. Crime is a free service that provides help to seniors who have been victimized by businesses or service providers and need assistance. This event will take place at Mae Volen Senior Center at 1515 W. Palmetto Park Road. By appointment only so call 561-736-3820 or 561-395-8920.

Yoga On The Waterfront

Lake Pavilion at 101 S. Flagler Drive, West Palm Beach, FL / Yoga On The Waterfront in downtown West Palm Beach on Wednesday Evenings at 5:45 p.m. Residents $40 per 8 week session, Non-Residents $50 per 8 week session, Drop-ins $10 per class.

To register, please call 561-804-4902.

YOGA Among the Orchids

It’s time for Yoga Among the Orchids at the American Orchid Society, 16700 AOS Lane, Delray Beach. Relax and replenish the flower inside with an hour of breathing exercises, toning, and yoga poses under a canopy of lush orchids. Classes are Wed. at 9 a.m. Cost is $20 and RSVP is suggested. Call 561-404-2011. Visit OrchidWeb.org

Jazz on the Palm

Jazz on the Palm - Downtown West Palm Beach Waterfront - Gather with friends and family to enjoy the diverse vibrant sounds of jazz under the stars every 3rd Friday of month at the new Downtown West Palm Beach waterfront concert series. Free and open to the public. Guests are encouraged to bring blankets and chairs. From 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. Visit Wpbgo. com/2010/06/jazz-on-the-palm

Sunday on the Waterfront

Sunday on the Waterfront is a free concert series, which takes place the third Sunday of most months in the beautiful downtown West Palm Beach waterfront area. Bring blankets, chairs, and coolers or purchase treats at the concert. Free parking in all city lots and at city meters. 4:30 p.m. to 7 p.m. May through October.

Visit OnTheWaterFront.com

Paths is a social/discussion group held at Compass in Lake Worth. This men’s group takes place every Monday from 7:30 p.m. to 9 p.m. Paths men’s group will be discussing relationships, coming out, safer sex issues and more. Visit Compassglcc.com

Yoga

Yoga with Deborah will change your life. Bring a mat and get ready to stretch the stress away every Tuesday at The GLCC in Palm Beach from 6 to 7 p.m. This yoga experience will uplift and transform your life. $6 Entry Fee. You must bring your own mat.

Visit Compassglcc.com

Living Buddhism

On the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. Compass in Lake Worth will be holding a discussion group for overcoming obstacles and obtaining happiness. This group is great for getting internal enlightenment. Release your inner stress, and become free. Visit Compassglcc.com

Miami-Dade

Fiona Apple at The Fillmore

The Fillmore in Miami Beach will have Fiona Apple performing Fiona Apple is an American singer-songwriter and pianist. Apple garnered international acclaim for her 1996 debut album, Tidal, which was a critical and commercial success. She received a Grammy Award for Best Female Rock Vocal Performance for the single “Criminal” from that album in 1998. Sept. 30. Fillmore in Miami Beach. Visit Fillmoremb.com

Ransom Mondays

Need an excuse to keep partying well after the weekend is over? The Monday-night party at the recently renovated Collins Park lounge. This amazing party will take place at Mokai in Miami Beach. The party, hosted by Mark Lehmkuhl, sort of takes now-defunct Bella Rose’s Black Sunday murder mystery theme but gives it a Patty Hearst twist. Every week, some prominent nightlife fixture gets held for ransom, and the only way it gets returned is if you party your ass off. Only $20 to attend. Visit Mokaimiami.com

Rainbow Circle

Rainbow Circle is a peer-led LGBTQ support & discussion group.

Topics covered often include coming out, relationships, bullying, peer pressure, drugs & alcohol, depression and self-esteem.

You pick and develop discussion topics and are able to express your thoughts and feelings without fear in a safe and supportive environment. This group will take place every Monday from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the University of Miami, Flipse Building #302. Visit Pridelines.org

Sex Talk

Sex Talk: Peer Health Educators are young LGBTQ adults who learn how to talk to other young adults about sex, sexuality and HIV/STD prevention. You’ll conduct outreach events, record video messages, participate in a series of performances and organize special events with a purpose. This event takes place the second and fourth Thursday every month at Pridelines Headquarters located at 9526 NE 2nd Ave #104 In Miami Shores from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Visit Pridelines.org

AIDS Quilt Panel Workshops

Miami Beach Community Health Center’s “Making Memories” will assist those interested in creating an AIDS Quilt panel as a way to pay tribute to a life lost to AIDS. Workshops are held the fourth Saturday of every month through October. 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. Workshops are free. Visit Miamibeachhealth.org or 305-538-8835 or 1-800-393-1290

Lambda Dade Clubhouse

A meeting place for the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender communities and friends in recovery. Hosts Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Al-Anon, Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Debtors Anonymous (DA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), and Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), meetings. (305) 573-9608. 212 NE 24th Street. Miami. Visit Lambdadadeclubhouse.org

nightlife Broward County 321-Slammer

Bathhouse. 321 W Sunrise Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida, 33311.

Slammer sex club the best place to cruise for the hottest gay men. Thursday’s is leather night, Friday and Saturday night live DJs. Monday & Tuesday -- $9 entry fee

Atomic Boom

2232 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 630-3556 Best Sound & Light Show in Broward County. Mondays “porn bingo” with Desiree Dubois. $3 Margaritas, $1 Draft

BrothasSpeak

This group is a black gay men’s discussion group that is held at the Compass in West Palm Beach. Every Wednesday from 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. this group will be directed toward issues for and about black men. Visit Compassglcc.com

Bill’s Filling Station

2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-5978.

Large bar/ nightclub, amazing drink specials in Wilton Manors!

Wednesday’s after 9 p.m. $10 Miller Lite Beer Bust

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The Mad Hatter

Swinging Richards

The Bar Lake Worth

Twist

Tag Bar

Key West

1532 North Dixie Hwy ,Lake Worth, FL 33460. (561) 547-8860.

Cheap drinks, friendly bartenders, and free pool Sunday-Thursday. Stop by and relax at this no-attitude haunt.

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Boardwalk

1721 N. Andrews Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33311.

(954) 463-6969. A Cute Little Hangout in Fort Lauderdale.

Pool-room/game room on one side and a bar/strip club on the other. Mondays $3 Well & Dom, after 9 p.m. $3 U-Call-It Shots

The Club Fort Lauderdale

Bathhouse. 110 NW 5th Ave., Fort Lauderdale, FL, (954) 525-3344 Good. Clean. Fun. 1/2 price rooms...Tuesday Nights and 1/2 price Lockers. Thursdays Nights. Always busy.

Clubhouse II

Bathhouse. 2650 E. Oakland Park Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida (954) 566-6750. A Private Club for Bi/Gay men. “bear and cub” Thursday $4 Off For Bear & Cub. Tuesday leather night - $4.off wear any type of leather.

Corner Pub Bar

1915 N. Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311, (954) 564-7335. Redefining what a bar should be.

Thursday’s margarita madness $4, Monday’s “Underwear Night.

2 for 1” until 9:30 p.m.

Mona’s

502 E. Sunrise Boulevard, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 5256662. The eclectic décor and a friendly staff makes. Mona’s a great place to have fun in Fort Lauderdale. Thursday’s College Boy’s Night 8 p.m. Enjoy College Boy’s Choice 2 for 1

Monkey Business

2740 North Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311. (954) 5147819. The Monkey Business Bar is a Small Outdoor Bar Among The Shops Just off Marina Blvd. No Frills But Comfortable and a Great Place to Stop and Meet Good People. Happy Hour 8 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Naked Grape Wine Bar

2039 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305. (954) 563-5631. A Casual, Hip, Fun Experience and if You Have a Taste for Deliciously Unique Wines, You Need to Make This Your Next Stop! Happy Hour All Night on Thursday

New Moon

2440 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 563-7660. Your neighborhood lesbian bar in the heart of Fort Lauderdale and just minutes from Fort. Lauderdale Beach. Wednesday All the fun, half the price 2-4-1 All Day, All Night

2211 North Dixie Highway Lake Worth. (561) 370-3954 Thebarlakeworth.com. Men and women share this mostly-locals space as a calm and friendly watering hole. The bar often features live music which can be a nice break from thumping bass.

25 Northeast 2nd Avenue, Delray Beach, FL 33483 954-801-3247.

Delray Beach’s only gay bar. Mon - Sun: 4 p.m. - 2 a.m.

Awesome Drink Specials.

Miami-Dade Club Space

34 NE 11th St ,Miami ,Florida, 33132,(305) 350-1956 Space Miami Voted Best U.S Club IDMA 2011. The go-to venue for any nightlife enthusiast in the nation, the club is proudly marching on into its second decade of operation.

Club Sugar

2301 SW 32nd Ave, Miami, Florida, 33145, (305) 443-7657. All the sweetness you’ll need in one club. Every Thursday “drag wars” with TP Lords. $5 house drinks & $4 Domestic beers all night.

Discotekka

950 NE 2nd Ave, Downtown Miami, Florida 33132,(305) 350-9084.

One of the best night clubs In Miami. Every Saturday the hottest DJ’s from the top performers. Drink Special Every Saturday

Johnny’s

823 N. Federal Highway, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 7289001. The Cubby Hole is one of Fort Lauderdale’s most unique and popular Neighborhood bar for men. Underwear Wednesday’s. “Boxers n’ Briefs” get 2 for 1 drinks 9 p.m. to close

PJ’s Corner Pocket

The Depot Cabana Bar and Grill

924 North Flagler Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 533-0257. One of The Most Diverse Bars in Fort Lauderdale. $2 Drinks Every Wednesday, Spades Every Thursday

Miami 62 NE 14 Street Downtown Miami Florida (305) 640-8749.

Open Wed. through Sun. The hottest men in the universe strip shows nightly from 6 p.m. sexy from wall to wall. Free entrance.

Free parking. Free VIP rooms. Featuring the Hottest Male Dancers and The Best VIP ROOMS and always $5 Drinks. Full Lineup at ed at www.facebook.com/johnnysMiami.

Ramrod

Score

Cubby Hole

2935 N. Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 537-7076.

Voted the “Friendliest” Gay Bar in Fort Lauderdale. Monday’s $1.99 Drinks and $.50 wings open to close

Dudes Bar

1508 NE 4th Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 763-8219. South Florida’s Leading Levi, Leather and Uniform Bar/Club. Every night is Bear Night. Bear Happy. Hour Every Thursday. Caged Hunks Sat Night

3270 NE 33rd St Fort Lauderdale FL 954-568-7777. Sexy hot men starting to shake the booty daily from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. On Sundays enjoy karaoke with Peter Petrucci. Great drink specials every Monday with $1 well drinks from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m.

Rosie’s Bar and Grill

Georgie’s Alibi

Scandals Country Western Bar

Johnny’s

Sidelines Sports Bar

The Manor

Smarty Pants

2266 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 565-2526.

Fort Lauderdale’s best & longest happy hour. Wednesdays $2 Domestics & $1 Schnapps after 9 p.m.

1116 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 522-5931.

Monday Dragon with TP Lords, Daisy D. and DJ Rob Sky Some of the hottest guys around with great happy hour drink specials. Bring all your friends to this sexy Bar. 2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 626 0082 - Come Dine, Dance, Drink, Mingle and of course Relax. 2 for 1 happy hour Tues-Friday 3 to 9 p.m. Indoor/Outdoor Dining. Dance the night away Thursday through Sunday. Live music Wed., Fri., Sat., Sun. Visit themanorcomplex.com

Matty’s on the Drive

2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 564-1799.

Matty’s is one of the few bars in Wilton Manors that’s just that –a bar. Wild Wednesday’s $.75 Drinks, 13 Drinks for less than $10. 5 p.m.

2449 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-1320.

Wilton Manor’s Best Burger in Town. Try the Fat Elvis. Happy Hour 5 p.m. to 9 p.m.

727 Lincoln Rd, Miami Beach, Florida, 33139. (305) 561-5521.

Score is located in the heart of South Beach in the thriving and infamous promenade, Lincoln Road. Bigger Saturday’s sexy male dolls.

17450 Biscayne Blvd, N Miami Beach, Fl 33160 954-357-2532 Tuesdays-Saturdays from 6 p.m. to 6 a.m. Come and enjoy fully nude guys dancing to the best music in South Florida.

1057 Washington Ave, Miami Beach, Fl, 33139. (305) 538-9478.

Never a Cover…Always a Groove. Resident star DJ Mika spins tribal. Every Saturday TWIST is full of the hottest men in Miami.

Muscle boy dancers taking it off in the Bungalow Bar.

801 Bar

801 Duval St., Key West, Florida,(305) 294-4737. Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV Beaumont, Margo, and others. Happy hour specials daily from 11 a.m.- 8 p.m.

The Bourbon St. Pub

724 Duval St. (305) 296-1992. Key West’s premier video bar with LIVE DJ’S nightly. A taste of N’Awlins in the heart of Old Town – Enjoy Key West’s hottest music videos on the large screen while the boys entertain on the bar. No Cover.

La Te Da

1125 Duval St. 305-296-6706 Fun Gay-Friendly atmosphere. Cabaret entertainment during season including Randy Roberts and Chris Peterson. Enjoy great live music Tuesday thru Sunday with Lenore Troia. Cover charge may apply. Great outside bar if you just want to enjoy a cocktail and chat while people watching on Duval Street.

Club Aqua

711 Duval St.,Key West, Florida,(305) 294-0555. Monday’s Dueling Bartenders. Your Bartender’s sing, shake, and stir their way through happy hour 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

Kwest

705 Duval St. , Key West, Florida,(305) 292-8500. Key West AllMale Strip Club. Daily Happy Hour from 3-8 p.m. And a piano sing-a-long every Wednesday night.

Pearl’s Patio Bar

525 United Street, Key West, FL(305) 293-9805 ext. 156. Pearl’s Patio is a great place to enjoy a drink and relax. Happy Hour – every weekday from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. Friday’s are Extended Happy Hour 5 p.m. - 9 p.m.

Oakland Park, FL 3334, (954) 567-2432. Scandals Gay and Lesbian Country Western. Dance Bar in Wilton Manors. Tuesdays Pool League, and Free Dance Lessons 2031 Wilton Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33305, (954) 563-8001. Sidelines Sports Bar and Billiards is a unique, friendly, and accepting place to relax with a cold beer, great drinks and Martinis. Happy Hour M-F 4 p.m. to 2 a.m.

3038 North Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33306, (954) 5611724. Great Local Hangout in Fort Lauderdale with Great Drink Specials. Saturday’s Free Breakfast to Order – 8 a.m.

The Stable

205 East Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park, FL 33334, (954) 5654506 A neighborhood bar with a different theme every night, from drag shows and bingos, to bears and underwear.

Torpedo

2829 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 587-2500.

Your Dance Destination Till Dawn. Open Late for You To Devour The Night. Open 7 nights a week till 4 a.m.

Palm Beach County The Cottage (Tea-Dance Sundays)

522 Lucerne Ave, Lake Worth, Fl, 33414. (561) 586-0080 Great Service, Great Food, Full Stocked Bar, Great Professional Tea-Dance every Sunday

Fort Dix

6205 Georgia Ave, West Palm Beach, Florida 33405 Directions, (561) 533-5355. Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. Place rocks with a Fabulous DJ on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sunday T-Dance.

H.G. Rooster

823 BELVEDERE ROAD, WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33405, (561)-832-9119. H.G. Roosters is West Palms oldest gay club.

Sunday’s Complimentary BBQ 5 p.m., Hot Male Dancers 6 p.m., Karaoke 11 p.m.

Mara (Thurs-Sat)

1132 North Dixie Highway, Lake Worth FL $3 Drinks. No Cover. Open till 5 a.m. Ladies night on Thursdays and Karaoke on Fridays.

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Annual Black Party Is a Hit

Photos by J.R. Davis

By Tony Duran

If you missed out on last weekend’s Black Fort Lauderdale Party at the Manor in Wilton Manors, we’ve got you covered.

The theme was Erotic Carnival. Not sure what that means?

Well, Gary Santis, the organizer of the event, said one of his favorite acts was the balancing act, where a performer balanced and juggled on top of piles of balls and platforms. The joint was packed Sunday night, with lines dragging around the block, and the event running into the early morning.

“It was fantastic. It was different. The music was very sexy and dark,” he said. “The entertainment was spectacular.”

Santis, a local promoter, decided to start this party in 1998 as a complement to the white party he runs.

“At the white party, we remember and pay homage to our brothers and sisters who fight or fought against HIV,” he said.

“The black party is where we let our hair loose and celebrate our diversity and sexuality.”

Here are some of our favorite photos from the evening…

An Aerial Lyra Ring Act was just one of the night’s many surprises.

Alex and Josh Two of Manor’s Bartenders

Mark Sewell, Rick Cloesmeyer and Thomas Stanley.

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Paul and James, Two of Manor’s Bartenders

Alan and Ty Lattimore with Kitty Meow.

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Wilton Drive Water Balloon Fight

By Ryan Dixon missed my chance last Labor Day to pelt people with water balloons, so I made sure I was primed and ready to get wet with the patrons of New Moon and Matty’s in Wilton Manors this year. My friend John made me the unfortunate recipient of the first shot when I wasn’t looking.The sound of that balloon smacking the back of my head brought the ladies from the New Moon patio, led by Carol Moran, across the parking lot to Matty’s

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When hit with a balloon, Frankie Watson can do nothing but share a laugh with friends.

where Matty and his cohorts were armed and waiting.

Dale Madison, the play-by-play caller for this wet war, deemed the fight a stale mate after three rounds of water bomb tossing. The rounds were determined by the two times a cease fire had to be called to reload the water balloon stashes for both bars. Balloons were bought for $1 each, with a total of $500 dollars being raised for The Poverorello Food Bank in Wilton Manors.

Matty, whose name sake bar co hosted the water balloon fight and BBQ, waits for the balloon slinging to begin.

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One of the few bar patrons to remain dry outside shows off his equally dry canine friend.

New Moon owner Carol Moran, donning a green tutu, managed to have one picture where she wasn’t dodging incoming balloons.

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By J.W. Arnold

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Miami One Act show, the duo came up with the concept of “Keeping A-Breast” as a way to feature local playwrights while observing Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

“The response was enthusiastic. I’m amazed how quickly it all came together,” recalls Chambers. “There is definitely an undercurrent of breast health and cancer survivorship, but it not entirely focuses on that.”

A portion of proceeds will be donated to breast cancer awareness programs in MiamiCharles A. Sothers and RJM

irst, there was “The Vagina Monologues,” a series of monologues celebrating—well, you get it. Now, a local theater company is premiering a new salute to boobies.

At first glance, the similarities are obvious: A series of theatrical monologues and twoperson sketches, minimal costuming and staging, an obvious tribute to female anatomy.

But, that’s where the similarities end, points out the New Theatre’s Literary Manager Ste-

Francine Burns, Carey Brianna Hart, Melissa Almaguer, Desiree, Mora, Christina PerdomoFernandez & Jessica Welch

ven A. Chambers, who collaborated with Artistic Director Ricky J. Martinez on the project.

This summer, after staging the company’s

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Dade County, he says.

In addition to both comic and serious monologues, several ensemble sketches

were submitted, as well as poetry. Six actresses were cast and the project quickly outgrew their original concept. Scheduling issues then pushed the production up a month to September.

One of the sketches features a mother who discovers her 12-year-old daughter is facing body image problems. She has started developing breasts but doesn’t want them.

The mother beautifully explains how these changes are helping her to mature into a woman.

Another piece, which Chambers describes as “abstract but a lot of fun,” is poem set in the sestima form, a riff on words. The poem extols the influence of breasts on the world and exposes the prejudices society develops as a result of looking at women’s breasts.

Among the writers who were selected for the project were Catherine Bush, Vanessa Garcia, David Caudle, James Carrey, Elly Rakowitz, Ruth Pleva, R. Kent Wilson, Peggy C. Hall and Martinez.

One of the biggest surprises for Chambers and Martinez were the submissions that came from male playwrights.

“Some of the submissions by the men were just as relevant and real as the pieces by

the women. These guys really got into women’s heads and in touch with their feminine sides,” he says.

The theatre’s press materials summed up the spirit of the production best: “Voluptuous, petite, healthy or reconstructed, we give thanks for the ‘mammaries’.”

If you go When:

Thursday to Saturday at 8 p.m., Sunday at 1 p.m. and 5:30 p.m.

Through September 16

Where:

Roxy Performing Arts Center, 1645 SW 107th Ave., Miami

How Much:

Tickets $35-40 at www.

New-Theatre.org or call 305-443-5909

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