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By Sergio N. Candido

Despite threats from hacker groups and the condemnation of the international community, Uganda is moving forward with a bill that could make homosexuality punishable by death.

A parliamentary committee approved the anti-gay bill on

Nov. 23.The next step is for the bill to come to the floor of Parliament

by Dec. 14, the Washington Blade reports.

“I heard before that they took the death penalty provision out, and it turns out that wasn’t in fact the case — or that the way did it, the wording was still ambiguous,” Mark Bromley, chair of the Council for Global Equality, told the Blade.

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“My guess is — if they really bring this up for a vote, which it looks like they’re going to — given the international condemnation, they probably will take out the death penalty, but I just think it’s a little early to say definitively that they have taken it out until we see what they’re going to vote on.”

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An iconic gay bar could soon become an official historic landmark The bravery of gay men who refused to hide who they were will be the stuff of history.

The iconic Twin Peaks Tavern in San Francisco’s Castro District is one of two historically important LGBT places to become official city landmarks.

As first reported by blogger Joe My God, the Board of Supervisor’s

Tony Adams Jesse Monteagudo Donald Cavanaugh Andrea Dulanto

famous as the first gay bar in the city to unshutter its windows in 1972, at a time when San Francisco wasn’t as welcoming of LGBTs as today.

The city will also decide on Dec. 7 whether to create an LGBT Cultural Heritage District in the leather-loving gay South of Market.

Land Use and Economic Development Committee will vote on the designation on Dec. 10.

If passed, the bar would become the third gay landmark in the city to receive official “historic” status.

Current LGBT city landmarks include the home and camera shop gay rights activist Harvey Milk and the Jose Theater/the Names Project.

The Twin Peaks Tavern became

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UN Condemns LGBT Killings, Drafts Resolution UN Condemns LGBT Killings, Drafts Resolution The United Nations has approved a draft resolution to pressure countries into investigating hate crimes and extrajudicial executions based on someone’s gender identity.

The measure was introduced by Sweden and cosponsored by 34 countries. Only

Iran opposed the bill and 65 others abstained from voting on it, according to the Gay Star News.

The idea, Sweden’s assembly representative said, is to protect LGBT people in UN-affiliated countries that have laws making homosexuality illegal and would keep countries from looking the other way when such incidents occur.

“I think it is very significant the draft resolution is including gender

Sales identity because it acknowledges that transgender people are vulnerable and for the UN to say that is very important,” Ali Jernow of the the International Commission of Juris told GSN. While UN-affiliated countries have sponsored bills protecting gays worldwide, this is the first time transgender people could get such support.

& • Three More Quickies to Wake You Up ‘Ex-Gay’ Leader of Christian Cult Accused of Murdering Wife

The death was originally ruled a suicide, now police think the Christian leader killed his wife

•Elmo Actor Kevin Clash Resigns Amid New Teen Sex Scandal

The producer of the show said Clash’s personal life was “a distraction that none of us want.”

•Gay Chicago Cop Fired for Participating in a Lube-Wrestling Event

A gay police officer was fired for lube-wrestling, violating his convalescent duty restrictions.

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STATE NEWS

First Gay Florida Legislators Sworn Into Office

By Sergio N. Candido

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he Florida House of Representatives just got a little gay. On Nov. 20, Representatives Joe Saunders and David Richardson became the first openly gay members to be sworn to the state’s legislature.

Saunders was elected to represent Florida’s District 49, while Richardson, who ran unopposed, gained the seat for District 113, which covers all of Miami Beach (per recent redistricting, the city is wholly in one district for the first time), a bit of South Beach, a bit of Downtown Miami, and a bit of Little Havana.

During the swearing-in ceremony Saunders was accompanied by his partner, artist and teacher Donald Rupe.

“Standing there with him was a dream realized and a memory I’ll have for

the rest of my life,” Saunders told the Orlando Sentinel.

For his part, Richardson said he’s a “realist” when it comes to the LGBT population he’ll be serving.

“I feel strongly about equality. We have to get there by taking small steps.

But my experience has shown me that we never make true progress until we sit at the table,” he told SFGN in a previous interview.

“You can be fired in Florida for being gay. I think that’s one of the first things that needs to be changed.” He added that he wouldn’t be spending all of his time working on LGBT issues, that there’s education and taxing and environmental issues to worry about too, but that he “won’t be afraid to bring it up.”

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Christian Lawyer Arrested on Child Porn Charges

already. She has not,” Moir told the Concord Monitor, adding that Biron was ordered by a judge to relinquish her passport last month.

Biron is scheduled for trial in January 2012. If convicted, she faces 10 years to life in prison on the transportation charge and 15 years to life in prison on each of the exploitation of children charges, according to the Concord Monitor.

In the past, Biron worked with the Alliance Defending Freedom, a group of lawyers advocating for “religious liberty, the sanctity of life, and marriage and family,” as state in the group’s website.

Lisa Biron, a Manchester, New Hampshire lawyer associated with an anti-gay Christian law group, was ‘Repeal DOMA’ Petition arrested by the FBI after breaking her Reaches Goal A petition “Repeal the Defense of bail condition as she awaited a hearing Marriage Act (DOMA)” on the White on child pornography charges.

Biron was federally charged with House’s website asking the U.S. transportation with intent to engage Government to repeal the Defense of in criminal sexual activity, possession Marriage Act as unconstitutional has of child pornography and five counts reached its goal of 25,000 signatures.

As of Monday 26,995 people signed of sexual exploitation of children, the the petition. The government has said Concord Monitor reports. that if the mark was Last October, Biron reached before Dec. took a teenage girl 5, they would act she met on listings upon it and issue website Craigslist to a response on how Canada, where she they’ll proceed. engaged in sexual “The ability to love activity with the is in a human being’s minor and filmed very DNA. It shouldn’t the act, according to matter if we want to federal indictments. be with someone of a On Nov. 16, she was different race, religion arrested by the FBI or nationality. It for posting another should definitely not advertisement matter if it’s even on Craigslist and someone of the same continuing to watch gender,” writes Lisa child pornography on Lisa Biron, a Manchester, New Hampshire C., the creator of the her computer, which lawyer associated with an anti-gay Christian law group petition. she was only allowed Reaching the to use for work. number of signatures does not A judge ordered her detained because “her release would be dangerous for the guarantee the government will take steps to repeal DOMA. The White House community.”

For her part, Biron’s lawyer, Jim Moir, will now “review it, insure it is sent to asked the judge to consider her lack the appropriate policy experts and issue of criminal history when weighing an official response,” according to its her release and assured the judge the website.

DOMA is a 1996 law that defines defendant won’t try to escape to another marriage as a union between a man and country.

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of the rights and privileges granted to heterosexual couples, like filing tax returns together and maintaining estate rights after widowing.

There are several cases currently challenging DOMA in the Supreme Court.

A similar petition on Change. org by the People for the American Way, progressive advocacy group, is also close (less than 5,000) to reaching its goal of 150,000 signatures in favor of repealing DOMA. “The federal government has no business discriminating against loving families by selectively withholding the roughly 1,300 legal protections that only legal civil marriage affords,” PFAW states in its petition.

Freddie Mercury Lego Portrait to Raise Funds A group of artists known for making toy portraits of famous people has

Sigmund Freud’s Letter on Homosexuality Goes Viral Father of psychoanalysis Sigmund Freud was light-years ahead of his time with his theories on sexuality.

That’s nothing new; however, a rediscovered letter from Freud assuring a desperate mother that her son is not sick because he’s gay is making its rounds on the blogosphere, casting new light on the neurologist’s view of gays.

According to Letters of Note, the website that originally posted the letter in 2009, Freud wrote it as a response to a mother seeking treatment for her son’s apparent homosexuality.

“Homosexuality is assuredly no advantage, but it is nothing to be ashamed of, no vice, no degradation; it cannot be classified as an illness; we consider it to be a variation of the sexual function, produced by a certain arrest of sexual development,” Freud wrote.

“Many highly respectable individuals of ancient and modern times have been homosexuals, several of the greatest men among them. (Plato, Michelangelo, Leonardo da Vinci, etc). It is a great injustice to persecute homosexuality as a crime - and a cruelty, too.”

The letter was passed by the mother on to Alfred Kinsey and reproduced in The American Journal of Psychiatry in 1951.

immortalized Freddie Mercury with its own Lego character. The Little Artists, as the group is known, has put out this November limited edition photo portraits of the singer’s Lego version to raise money in the fight against HIV/ AIDS, the Gay Star News reports.

They’ll donate 10 percent of the profits from each portrait sold to the Terrence Higgins Trust, one of Great Britain’s biggest sexual health organizations.

“The funds raised will go towards projects that either prevent the spread of HIV, or support those already living with the virus,” Genevieve Edwards, director of fundraising at Terrence Higgins, told GSN. Other LGBT icons made into plastic Lego figurines include Gilbert and George, Harvey Milk, Andy Warhol and the Pet Shop Boys.

The Little Artists said: “We are passionate about the legacies of the pioneering cultural icons featured in this portrait series, and believe it’s essential their lives and work continued to be recognized and celebrated.”

Each Lego portrait has a price tag of $436. Also available are A3 posters of Marilyn Monroe and the Pet Shop Boys for $11.10.

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What’s Homophobia Got to Do With It? Global study looks into the obstacles MSM face in getting help with HIV/AIDS

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or a third of MSM (men who have 71 MSM across five cities in South Africa, sex with men) worldwide, accessing Kenya and Nigeria. condoms, lubricant, HIV tests and The results were less than encouraging HIV treatment is easily accessible. for MSMGF, which is a network of AIDS For the rest, well, it’s not so easy. organizations, MSM networks and advocates And a new study that corroborate on ways suggests the reasons for to provide (and continue that percentage include providing) effective HIV homophobia, cultural resources tailored to the competency and comfort needs of gay and other with service providers, MSM. among other items.

“Such poor levels of This is but one of access at the global level the findings of a global are unacceptable,” said survey conducted over George Ayala, executive last summer by the director of the MSMGF. Global Forum on MSM & “Even in upper to middleHIV (MSMGF). Stretching income countries, MSM across 165 countries, still have extremely low the multi-lingual survey access to services.” asked 5,779 gay men and Of men who other men who have sex participated in the online with men about their survey, only 35 percent George Ayala, executive director of the access to treatment and reported that condoms Global Forum on MSM & HIV. preventative measures, were easily accessible, as well as hygienic items.

21 percent reported easy On top of the online survey, MSMGF shook access to lubricant, 36 percent reported hands with African Men for Sexual Health easy access to HIV testing, and 42 percent and Rights, which allowed for focused reported easy access to HIV treatment. discussions groups to take place among Reduced access to services was most

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commonly reported in lower-income countries.

The study found that, among participants living with HIV, higher access to HIV treatment was associated with less homophobia and greater comfort with service providers.

Greater access to lubricants and greater access to HIV testing were also associated with less outness (what the researchers defined as the degree to which others know of one’s sexual orientation) and less negative consequences for being out, respectively.

“As we collectively forge ahead into the new territory of treatment-based prevention, it is clear that many of the old challenges

remain,” said Noah Metheny, director of policy at the MSMGF. “Addressing structural barriers remains essential to realizing the potential of HIV interventions for MSM.” The take-away from the months-long research is that there’s yet a way to go.

“The study’s findings underscore the urgent need to improve access to essential HIV services for gay men and other MSM worldwide,” said Ayala. “Successfully addressing HIV among MSM will require a real effort to address structural barriers, and the findings from this study suggest that investing in MSM-led community-based organizations may be the best way to do that.”

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Testing Sites For World AIDS Day Find out for yourself Important Dates in HIV Testing

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n a day where we remember the ones we’ve lost due to the ongoing battle against HIV and AIDS, if you’re looking for a place to empower yourself with the knowledge of your HIV status, SFGN has compiled a list of testing sites in South Florida. We’ve broken it down by county, and cities in alphabetical order:

Miami-Dade County Aventura •King David Foundation, Inc. 17971 Biscayne Blvd. Suite 117-118

Coconut Grove •Condom USA 3066 Grand Avenue •Thelma Gibson Health Initiative, Inc. 3634 Grand Avenue

Cutler Bay •Community Health of South Florida, Inc. 10300 S.W. 216th Street

1985 First test for HIV Licensed (ELISA)

1992 First rapid test

1987 First Western Blot blood test kit

1994 First oral fluid test

•AIDS Healthcare Foundation Men’s Wellness Clinic/Out of the Closet Thrift Store 1510 Alton Road •AIDS Healthcare Foundation Out of the Closet 2900 Biscayne Blvd.

•Belafonte Tacolcy Center, Inc. 6161 N.W. 9th Avenue Camillus Health Concern 336 N.W. 5th Street •Camillus Health Concern 1603 N.W. 7th Avenue

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1996

First rapid test using finger prick

First home and urine tests; FDA approves viral load test, a new test that measures the level of HIV in the body

2004 First rapid oral fluid test

Miami Beach

•Calvary Chapel Church, Inc. 2401 W. Cypress Creek Road, #1111

•Beverly Press Health Center 1221 71st Street •Miami Beach Community Health Center 710 Alton Road •Miami-Dade County Health Department 615 Collins Avenue •South Beach AIDS Project, Inc. 306 Lincoln Road •Stanley C. Myers Health Center 710 Alton Road

Miami Gardens •More Than Conquerors Outreach Ministries Church 18350 N.W. 2nd Ave. Suite 616

•Family AIDS Coalition, Inc. 300 East 1st Avenue, Suite 112

•Center for Haitian Studies 8260 N.E. 2nd Avenue

Miami Shores

Homestead

•Empower U Inc. 8309 N.W. 22nd Avenue

•Sembrando Flores 815 N. Homestead Blvd. #616

North Miami Beach •AIDS Healthcare Foundation Men’s Wellness Clinic 100 N.W. 170th Street, Suite 208 •Miami Beach Community Health Center North 11645 Biscayne Blvd. Suite 103-104

Broward County

•Jessie Trice Community Family Health Center, Inc. 5361 N.W. 22nd Avenue

•Broward Co. Health Department Eastside Health Center 2421 S.W. 6th Avenue •Broward County Health Department 2421 S.W. 6th Avenue

•North Miami Beach Medical Center 13899 Biscayne Blvd. #132

•Miami-Dade County Health Department 18255 Homestead Avenue

•Broward County Health Department 780 S.W. 24th Street

Miami

•Union Positiva, Inc. 215 S.W. 17th. Ave. Suite 310

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•Mount Olive Development Corporation 401 N.W. 9th. Avenue

•Specialty Care Center 1111 West Broward Boulevard

Fort Lauderdale

•Broward County Health Department 900 N.W. 31st. Avenue •Broward House, Inc. 1726 SE 18th Court

•Minority Development & Empowerment, Inc. 5225 N.W. 33rd Avenue, Bldg. 5

•Red Hispana Florida 1350 E. Sunrise Blvd, Suite 108

•Helen B. Bentley Family Health Center, Inc. 3090 S.W. 37th Avenue

•University of Miami AIDS Clinical Research Unit 1800 N.W. 10th Avenue

•Compassionate Hearts-Serving Hands, Inc. 2300 N.W. 22 Street

•RCP Movement (Merit Pharmacy) 2464 North SR 7

•Pridelines Youth Services 9526 N.E. 2nd Ave. #104

•Miami-Dade County Health Department 1350 N.W. 14th. St. Suite 401

•Adolescent Counseling & Testing Site 1601 NW 12th Ave. 1st Floor-Mail Center University of Miami

•Children’s Diagnostic & Treatment Center, Inc. 1401 South Federal Highway

•Covenant House Florida733 Breakers Avenue

•Care Resource 3510 Biscayne Blvd. Suite 300

Hialeah

2012 First over the counter rapid oral in-home test kit which results are obtained at home

Hallandale •West Park Community Health Center 5801 W. Hallandale Beach Blvd.

Hollywood •Broward Community & Family Health Centers, Inc. 5010 Hollywood Blvd. Suite 100-B •Hispanic Unity 5811 Johnson Street

Miramar •Community Access Center 8910 Miramar Parkway Suite 208

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Lantana

•Care Resource 871 W. Oakland Park Blvd.

•Palm Beach County Health Department 1250 Southwinds Drive

Wilton Manors

Mangonia Park

•AIDS Healthcare Foundation -- Out of the Closet Thrift Store 2097 Wilton Drive

•Drug Abuse Treatment Association (DATA) 1720 E Tiffany Drive #102

•Latinos Salud 2330 Wilton Drive •Project Link of South Florida, Inc. 2927 N.E. 6th Avenue •The Pride Center at Equality Park 2040 N. Dixie Highway

Palm Beach County Belle Glade •Comprehensive AIDS Program (Belle Glade) 1500-A N.W. Avenue L •Minority Development & Empowerment, Inc. 136 South Main Street •Palm Beach County Health Department 38754 SR 80

Boca Raton •Jesus People Proclaim International Ministries 3200 North Federal Highway •Planned Parenthood-Boca Raton Health Center 8177 Glades Road Bay 25

Boyton Beach •Genesis Community Health, Inc. 564 E. Woolbright Road

Delray Beach •Comprehensive AIDS Program 220 Congress Park Dr. Suite 100

•Minority AIDS Initiative Network, Inc. 1216 Pioneer Road

Palm Springs •Minority Development & Empowerment, Inc. 3175 S. Congress Avenue Suite 207

Pahokee •Florida Community Health Centers 170 S. Barfield Hwy. Suite 101 •Palm Beach County Health Department 1839 E. Main Street

Riviera Beach •Heart Health & Healing Ministries 1330 W. 1st. Street •Saint James Missionary Baptist Church 1524 West 35th Street

West Palm Beach •Community Health Center 2823 N. Australian Avenue

HIV/AIDS Awareness Days While December 1 marks the 24th annual World AIDS Day there are a lot of other HIV/ AIDS awareness days throughout the year.

Here they are: February 7 – Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day March 10 – Women and Girls HIV/AIDS Awareness Day March 20 – Native American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day May 18 – HIV Vaccine Awareness Day May 19 – Asian and Pacific Islander HIV/AIDS Awareness Day June 8 – Caribbean American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day June 27 – HIV Testing Day September 18 – HIV/AIDS and Aging Awareness Day September 27 – Gay Men’s HIV/AIDS Awareness Day October 15 – Latino AIDS Awareness Day December 1 – World AIDS Day

•Comprehensive AIDS Program 2330 S. Congress Ave •Families First of Palm Beach County 3333 Forest Hill Blvd., 2nd Floor •Palm Beach County Health Department 1150 45th Street •Partnership for a Drug-Free Community of South Florida 3361 Belvedere Rd. Suite C •Planned Parenthood-West Palm Beach Health Center 931 Village Blvd. Suite 904

•Palm Beach County Health Department 225 South Congress Avenue •Palm Beach County Health Department 345 South Congress Avenue •Women of Color Rise Above Your Shame, Inc. 2605 W. Atlantic Ave Suite D-101

Jupiter •Palm Beach County Health Department 6405 Indiantown Road Lake Worth •Compass 201 N Dixie Hwy •Planned Parenthood-Lake Worth Health Center 4889 Lake Worth Rd. #109

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The Many Faces of HIV/AIDS

By Jason Parsley

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n this two-page spread we wanted to showcase some of the famous people who had, or still have HIV. Some are recognizable like Freddie Mercury, others like Reggie Williams, maybe not so much. Some are gay, some straight.

Some alive, some already passed on. Some contracted the virus through sex, others through blood transfusions or drug use. Some are known for their athleticism, others their activism. The one thing they all have in common is that they were, or are, infected with a deadly disease that has killed more than 600,000 people in the U.S. and tens of millions around the world.

Here we showcase just a few of the many faces of HIV.

Arthur Ashe

Tennis player. Straight.

Contracted the virus through a blood transfusion.

Only black man to win the singles title at Wimbledon, the U.S. Open, and the Australian Open. Founded the Arthur Ashe Institute for Urban Health (www.

ArthurAsheInstitute.org) to help address health conditions that disproportionately affect minorities. Died in 1993 at the age of 49. (www.cmgww.com).

Elizabeth Glaser

Activist. Straight. Founded the Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation.

Contracted AIDS through a blood transfusion and passed the virus to both of her children. Her daughter Ariel died in 1988. Glaser died in 1994 at the age of 47. (www.PedAIDS.org)

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GaĂŤtan Dugas

Patient Zero. Gay. He was a Canadian flight attendant who was named patient zero for the AIDS epidemic and at first was accused of spreading AIDS to many of the early victims. Later the theory was revised to include Dugas as part of a cluster of highly sexually active men who traveled frequently.

Later still the theory was debunked entirely because the average length of time between sexual contact and onset of symptoms was 10.5 months when in fact the average length of time between contact and symptoms is closer to 10 years.

Died in 1984 at the age of 31.

Randy Shilts

Journalist and Author.

Gay. He worked for the San Francisco Chronicle and closely covered the emerging AIDS epidemic. Most famous for his book And the Band Played On: Politics, People, and the AIDS Epidemic, which detailed the early days of the epidemic. Died in 1994 at the age of 42.

Freddie Mercury Singer. Gay. Lead vocalist for the rock band Queen. He was known for his flamboyant style and four-octave range. Rumored to have had HIV for years he never confirmed it until the night before his death. Died in 1991 at the age of 45.

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The Spirit Ryan White Activist. Straight. He was thrust into the national spotlight after being expelled from middle school because he had HIV. He contracted the virus after receiving a contaminated blood treatment for his hemophilia. He was diagnosed in 1984 and was given six months to live. The national attention turned him into a celebrity and spokesperson for AIDS research and public education. He surprised everyone by living five years longer than predicted but died in 1990, one month before his high school graduation. He was 18. (www.RyanWhite.com)

Reggie Williams

Activist. Gay. Former head of the National Task Force on AIDS Prevention, which focused on the plight of HIV-infected minorities. Also helped found the National Association of Black and White Men Together. He died in 1999 at the age of 47. (www.ReggieWilliams. net)

Gia Carangi

Model. Bisexual. Some consider her to be the first supermodel. After she became addicted to heroin, her modeling career declined. Also one of the first famous women to die from AIDS. She died in 1986 at the age of 26. (www.

GiaCarangi.com)

Greg Louganis

Competitive diver. Gay. Went on to win Olympic Gold at the 1988 Games despite striking the back of his head on the springboard during the preliminaries. Thirtyfive minutes after the accident and after receiving stitches to his scalp, he resumed diving.

The following day, he hit all 11 dives and easily won the Olympic Gold Medal. (www.

GregLouganis.com)

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Pedro Zamora

Activist and Reality TV Star. Gay. Most famous for his stint on The Real World: San Francisco where he was openly gay and openly positive.

His tiome on the Real World brought international attention to the AIDS epidemic.

Died in 1994 at the age of 22.

Robert Mapplethorpe

Photographer. Gay. He was known for his largescale, highly stylized black and white portraits, photos of flowers and nude men, which featured homoeroticism.

He died in 1989 at the age of 42. His work lives on through The Robert Mapplethorpe Foundation (www.

MappleThorpe.org), which also funds medical research in the fight against AIDS.

Rebekka Armstrong

Playboy Playmate.

Lesbian. She appeared in Playboy’s September 1986 issue. She’s now a competitive bodybuilder, as well as an HIV/AIDS awareness activist, safe sex educator, and a spokeswoman for several HIV-related charity groups. (www.

RebekkaArmstrong.com)

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Palm Beach County Observes World AIDS Day 2012

By Donald Cavanaugh

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Dec. 1

The Palm Beach County Community Prevention Partnership will hold a World AIDS Day Awareness event at the Delray Beach Tree Lighting at Old School Square, 51 N Swinton Ave, Delray Beach from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m.

M.A.I.N. will hold the Show You Care HIV/ AIDS Midnight Walk at 10 p.m. starting at the MLK Memorial on Flagler in downtown West Palm. The walk will be followed by a Party with a Purpose from 11 p.m. to 2 a.m. at Mystique Lounge, 114 S Narcissus Ave., West Palm Beach.

Palm Beach County Community Prevention Partnership will conduct a World AIDS Day Awareness event at the West Palm Beach Green Market from 9 to 11 a.m. at 101 South Flagler Drive.

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Dec. 1

Nov. 29

M.A.I.N. will hold a World AIDS Day reception from 6 to 9 p.m. at the HarleyDavidson showroom at 2955 45th St in West Palm Beach.

Compass will be open from 2 p.m. for tours of the quilt and viewing of films. At 6 p.m. volunteers will begin the Calling of Names represented by the quilts on display.

This will be followed by a candlelight vigil and an interfaith remembrance service at 7 p.m. Refreshments will be served.

Photo courtesy of Compass

orld AIDS Day, Dec 1, 2012, has returned to us as inexorably as the tides that caress our Atlantic shore. While we still have no cure, and too many people are still contracting the virus that leads to AIDS, progress is being made on many different fronts so World AIDS Day observances continue to be times of remembrance and times of hope.

Indeed, these emotions are embodied in the many activities being planned by Palm Beach County organizations from education to testing to films and workshops and more.

Below are dates and times for a range of activities followed by contact information for the organizations represented.

Dec. 1

CAP, the Comprehensive AIDS Program, will be at the West Palm Green Market from 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. where they will host an information table and have volunteers and staff on hand to provide HIV testing information, distribute safe-sex kits and offer HIV educational materials.

CAP’s 23rd Anniversary of the Monthly Dinner for all HIV+ persons, their significant others and family members will be held on Dec 1 with hors d’oeuvres at 6 p.m. and dinner at 7 at Holy Trinity Church, 211 Trinity Place, West Palm Beach.

CAP will have a table at the Lake Worth Farmers Market from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. at One South Ocean Boulevard.

Dec 1, M.A.I.N. will sponsor the 8th Annual Motorcycle Ride for Life & Community Health Fair and Picnic cosponsored by the Buffalo Soldiers Motorcycle Club of South Florida from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. with a ride from Riviera Beach to the Glades followed by a health fair and picnic at MLK Park in Belle Glade.

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From 8 a.m. to noon, St. John Missionary Baptist Church will hold the closing sessions of the annual Amos Project 561 All-Men’s Summit at, 900 North Seacrest Blvd, Boynton Beach.

The Summit will include a discussion around HIV prevention and CAP will have an information table with HIV/AIDS prevention resources and information on where to get tested.

Dec. 1

Dec. 1

Visitors to the 2011 World AIDS Day Quilt Display at Compass

Dec. 1

Dec. 1 MCCPB (Metropolitan Community Church of the Palm Beaches) will have two events. At 10:30 a.m. they will celebrate the one-year anniversary of the opening of the Kevin McGee HIV/AIDS Drop-In Center with a complimentary brunch. At 11:30 a.m. they will hold a service of remembrance and hope called Our Stories, Our Truth, Our Strength.

Contact information for each of the above groups follows Compass Gay & Lesbian Community Center – 561-533-9699 Comprehensive AIDS Program (CAP) – 561472-9160 MCCPB – 561-775-5900 Minority AIDS Initiative Network (M.A.I.N.) – 561-370-3363 or 561-889-7462 PBC Community Prevention Partnership – www.facebook.com/testpalmbeach St. John Missionary Baptist Church – 561-5725655

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Syke!

Broward County Observes World AIDS Day

By Ryan Dixon

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roward House, South Florida’s oldest and largest HIV/AIDS community service organization, are excited for their 2012 candlelight walk, vigil, rally & concert to commemorate this year’s World AIDS Day. “We are very excited about this year’s plans,” said Terry DeCarlo, director of development and public relations for Broward House. “Since its inception in 2010, this day of remembrance in South Florida has grown leaps and bounds to become one of the premier rallies in the nation.”

Last year, the event drew 2,500 people to the Shoppes of Wilton Manors to hear speakers that included comedian Margaret Cho. Broward House is hoping to shatter that number by bringing in comedian and movie star Wanda Sykes. This year’s walk steps off from Hagen park at 7 p.m. and concludes with a rally at 7:45 at the Pride Center.

Sykes, an out lesbian, was previously seen on several television shows, including her own late night talk show on FOX, “The Wanda Sykes Show,” her second HBO stand

up special “I’ma Be Me” in Oct. 2009, and in the CBS comedy “The New Adventures of Old Christine” as “Barb.”

Her first HBO comedy special, “Wanda Sykes: Sick & Tired,” debuted in October 2006 and was nominated for a 2007 Primetime Emmy for Outstanding Variety, Music or Comedy Special. Sykes has also appeared in the feature films “Evan Almighty,” co-starring Steve Carell, “Monster-In-Law” starring opposite Jennifer Lopez and Jane Fonda, the romantic comedy “My Super Ex-Girlfriend” with co-stars Luke Wilson and Uma Thurman, and the animated feature “Over The Hedge.” Sykes also starred in and produced the Comedy Central show “Wanda Does It,” where she tried various non-showbiz jobs.

“We are very excited about Wanda becoming a member of the Broward House family,” said DeCarlo. “She is a mega superstar and will help us bring much needed attention to the fact that HIV and AIDS are still here, people are still being infected at alarming rates, the disease is still

Blacked Out

killing, people need to get tested regularly, and need to always protect themselves.”

Sykes will also be doing a benefit concert for Broward House on Dec. 2 in the Au Rene Theater at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts.

Tickets are available at www.BrowardCenter. org or by calling the Auto Nation box office at 954-4620222.

World AIDS Day 2012 Agenda 12-1-2012 6:30 pm - 8:30 pm Attendees: Stacy Hyde, Interim CEO Broward House Robert Boo, Exec Director, Pride Center Rabbi Noah Kitty, Etz Chaim Norm Kent, Publisher SFGN Leslie Tipton, Pastor, COHSS Fort Lauderdale Michele Visage & Wanda Sykes, Special Guests David Meulemans, Performer Jack Cole, Gay Men’s Chorus of Ft. Lauderdale

7:45pm -Walkers Arrive at Pride Center

to the Gay Men’s Chorus Singing 8:00pm - Stacy Hyde welcomes and announces any dignitaries and thanks sponsors 8:05pm - Rabbi Noah Kitty 8:10pm - Pastor Leslie 8:15pm - Robert Boo 8:20pm - Michele Visage & Wanda Sykes, (speaks on importance of protecting oneself every time) 8:30pm - Norm Kent 8:40pm - David Meulemans performs 8:50pm - Event ends

World AIDS Day observed in Miami-Dade

By J.W. Arnold

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n Miami, World AIDS Day regularly falls on the heels of White Party Week and is often overshadowed by the popular circuit party fundraiser for Care Resource, one of the county’s largest HIV/AIDS service organizations. The events attract thousands of revelers from across the country and raise a significant portion of Care Resource’s annual budget.

Other local organizations, while still supporting White Party and the related events, have focused their efforts on the World AIDS Day commemoration that follows.

The fight against HIV/AIDS in inner city minority communities is the mission of Empower “U”, Inc. and the organization is

sponsoring an Empowerment Conference for Dec. 1 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. at their headquarters, 8309 NW 22nd Ave. in Miami.

The HIV/AIDS epidemic disproportionately affects minority populations throughout the country, as well as Miami-Dade County, and Empower “U”, Inc., a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization was formed to serve the needs of HIVpositive individuals who are marginally connected or not receiving medical care and services, according to Theresa Jones, the organization’s outreach coordinator.

Blacks, including Haitians, in Miami-Dade represent 51 percent of people living with HIV/AIDS, although they only represent 19 percent of the county population. Further,

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blacks have an infection rate 3x the rate among Hispanics and 6x higher than among whites, she said.

The event will include a health fair, onsite HIV testing, medical screenings, seminars and workshops, a World AIDS Day Walk and Dance Competition. While most of the events are typical fare for World AIDS Day, organizers are particularly excited about the dance competition.

Local dance groups will compete in individual and ensemble categories and will be judged by a qualified panel. HIV/ AIDS themes must be expressed in the performances and the winners will be award $1000 in cash prizes.

Also on Dec. 1, in true Miami fashion,

the Epic hotel downtown presents “De Fabulous,” an evening of glamour and beauty including a fashion show by designer Tanya Marie. The party will be hosted by Miss South Florida USA 2013, J. Fabian, along with Gianina Acevedo and author Dr. Ivan Rusilko. The event will also include a silent auction, raffles and complimentary cocktails between 9 and 10 p.m. Proceeds benefit the Unity Coalition, a local nonprofit group that advocates for the LGBT Latino community. There is no charge at the door, but guests are asked to text the words “De Fabulous” to 786-942-2097 to RSVP

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Urban League of Broward County is teaming up with the AIDS Awareness Poets to celebrate World AIDS day

By Dylan Bouscher

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lam poets, drumlines and step teams from across Broward county will perform together and celebrate the 24th annual World AIDS day.

Their performances will take place at the Urban League of Broward County in Fort Lauderdale and be sponsored by the Urban League and AIDS Awareness poets.

“We are putting this event on to educate the community about HIV through entertainment and outreach,” actor Devon T. Robinson — also known as “Egypt” — told SFGN. Aside from the performances, the Urban League’s crime prevention staff member William Jackson will be speaking on the importance of men and their absence in the AIDS fight. And to keep the momentum in the AIDS fight, the Urban League will also offer HIV testing to audience members.

“Our expectations are to have 50% of the audience tested and more youth attend the event than adults,” Egypt said.

The Nova High School step team, also known as the “Ladies of Ashante,” and Brian Poem, Butterfly, and Betrand Boyd from the Chapter 3 Poetry Troupe could help raise the youth turnout. The step team has been practicing for two months, according to Robinson.

The poetry recited will aim to educate the expected audience of 100 to 300 people about HIV. But Robinson isn’t looking forward to the performances as much as he is the inspiration they provide.

“The part I look forward to the most is the Hallandale Beach High School drumline band and Nova High School Ladies of Ashante Step Team!” Egypt said. “To see young people celebrating HIV achievements and educating through performing arts is pretty exciting. At times, even emotional.

There are many tearful moments grown courtesy of how inspirational these youth are.”

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Sewing Memories

The AIDS Memorial Quilt offers remembrance & awareness to South Florida audiences

By Andrea Dulanto

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an emotional catharsis. As The NAMES Project asserts on its website, the mission is “to preserve, care for, and use the AIDS Memorial Quilt to foster healing, heighten awareness, and inspire action in the struggle against HIV and AIDS.” Here in South Florida, Florida International University (FIU) in North Miami Beach hopes to inspire this action in their students as well as the larger community.

From Nov. 30 to Dec. 3, FIU will display one section of The Quilt. Claribel Azcona, a graduate assistant with the Office of Campus Life, shared the intended effect: “These are people just like them who lost their lives to AIDS. We want to make sure our students get tested and are aware of their status.”

FIU Campus departments such as the Wellness Center, Career Services and the Women’s Center will provide students with HIV/ AIDS information; and on Nov. 30, QUILT DISPLAY FROM 2011 Todd Murray of Hope’s Voice will speak about living with HIV. with AIDS. For the past decade, Compass, Gay For twenty-five years, The NAMES Project Foundation has been the custodian & Lesbian Community Center of Palm of The AIDS Memorial Quilt, lending 12’ by Beach County in Lake Worth has 12’ sections, receiving and adding new 3’ x presented the largest display of The Quilt in Florida.

6’ panels, and managing its conservation.

From Nov. 26 to Dec. 1, there will be Contemplating The Quilt in its entirety is an emotionally daunting experience: 22 sections with 132 panels, displayed 1.3 million square feet, 54 tons, 8,000 vertically and overhead, so the viewer sections, 48,000 panels, 94,000 names. can closely contemplate and connect The numbers, the size, the weight become with The Quilt. Some panels include the physical representation of an unending tributes to public figures such as Keith Haring and Pedro Pablo Zamora. grief.

“The AIDS Memorial Quilt is one of Individual 3’ x 6’ panels are more likely to move viewers through the process of grief, the strongest tools in raising awareness because they can be very personal. Panels and helping cope with the loss of loved are often created by a partner, friends and/ ones,” stated Tony Plakas, Compass’ or family to commemorate people who CEO. The week of events at Compass have died of AIDS. But The Quilt has always been more than features films such as Philadelphia Photo courtesy of Compass

n World AIDS Day, Dec. 1, 2012, The AIDS Memorial Quilt will be displayed in several South Florida locations: A university, an LGBT community center and a business district.

According to Care Resource statistics taken from the Florida Department of Health, Miami-Dade County has “the highest number of new AIDS cases per capita in the United States” and Broward County has the second highest. In addition, Florida counts as the third highest state in the U.S. for the number of people living

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and Longtime Companion, educational programs, a candle light vigil and an interfaith memorial service.

This is the first year that the Las Olas Boulevard Association has brought The Quilt to Fort Lauderdale.

On World AIDS Day, Dec. 1, 2012, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., the community can view the display on the Riverside Hotel Lawn.

Working with the Las Olas Boulevard Association was Jodi Ihme, President of The NAMES Project Foundation South Florida Chapter. She emphasized the urgency for HIV/ AIDS education and awareness.

“We wanted to bring The Quilt to downtown Fort Lauderdale to show our business community that we have an HIV/ AIDS crisis right here. We need our business community to encourage employees to know their HIV status,” she said.

Executive Director of the Las Olas Boulevard Association, Randi Karmin, also highlighted the significance of bringing The Quilt to the area.

“We are constantly seeking ways to give back to the community,” he said. “The

Las Olas Company and Riverside Hotel generously offered us the space. It’s a true collaboration and hopefully the first of an annual event.”

Ten sections of The Quilt are set to be displayed at the Riverside Hotel Lawn, and The NAMES Project Foundation South Florida Chapter plans to conduct a Dedication Service for new panels. One of these moving panels was created by the AIDS organization, Mothers’ Voices, which has since shut down.

No matter where one views The Quilt, the message is the same — to remember those who have been affected by HIV and AIDS, and to build a response with education and social action.

Please note: The Quilt’s Display Schedule on The NAMES Project Foundation website lists Sunshine Cathedral in Fort Lauderdale as one of the locations for The Quilt. As of press time, Sunshine Cathedral could not be reached for comment and their website does not currently list information about the display.

If you visit the quilt Where:

Florida International University (FIU) in North Miami Beach 3000 NE 151 Street North Miami, FL

Where:

Compass, Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County in Lake Worth 201 North Dixie Highway Lake Worth, FL

When:

Friday, Nov. 30 to Monday, Dec. 3, 2012

Contact:

Claribel Azcona Graduate Assistant, Office of Campus Life cazcona@fiu.edu http://bbc.fiu.edu 305-919-4841

Where:

Downtown Fort Lauderdale Lawn at Riverside Hotel 620 East Las Olas

When:

When:

Saturday, Dec. 1, 2012 10a.m. – 4 p.m.

Saturday, Dec. 1, 2012

Contact:

Monday, Nov. 26 –

Contact:

www.compassglcc.com 561-533-9699

Randi Karmin, Executive Director Las Olas Boulevard Association www.lasolasboulevard. com/world-aids-day 954-258-8382

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History & HIV

A Look Back at 31 Years of AIDS in the US

Compiled By Jason Parsley

1981

On June 5, the US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) publishes report describing cases of a rare lung infection, in five young, previously healthy, gay men in Los Angeles. This report marks the first official reporting of what will become known as the AIDS epidemic.

Within days, doctors from across the US flood CDC with reports of similar cases.

By year-end, there is a cumulative total of 270 reported cases of severe immune deficiency among gay men, and 121 of those individuals have died.

1982

CDC establishes the term Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS); refers to four “identified risk factors” of male homosexuality, intravenous drug abuse, Haitian origin and hemophilia A. First US Congressional hearings held on HIV/AIDS. “GRID” or “gay-related immune deficiency” used by the media and health care professionals, mistakenly suggesting inherent link between homosexuality and AIDS.

1983

AIDS Candlelight Memorial held for first time.

The World Health Organization (WHO) holds first meeting to assess the impact of AIDS globally, begins international surveillance.

1984

In April, the US Department of Health and Human Services, announces the National Cancer Institute has found the cause of AIDS, the retrovirus

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HTLV-III and announces the development of a diagnostic blood test to identify HTLVIII. In October, San Francisco officials order bathhouses closed due to high-risk sexual activity occurring in these venues. New York and Los Angeles follow suit within the year.

1985

First International AIDS Conference held in Atlanta.

At least one H I V/A I D S case has been reported from each region of the world.

First HIV test licensed by the FDA, detects antibodies to HIV. Ryan White, an Indiana teenager with AIDS, is barred from school; goes on to speak out publicly against AIDS stigma and discrimination.

First major play about the early days of the AIDS epidemic, “The Normal Heart,” by playwright Larry Kramer opens in New York City. President Ronald Reagan first mentions the word AIDS in public at a press conference in response to a question from a reporter.

1986

First panel of the AIDS Memorial Quilt created. Ricky Ray, a nine-yearold hemophiliac with HIV, is barred from a Florida school and arsonists burn his family’s home the following year. President Reagan mentions AIDS in his Message to the Congress on America’s Agenda for the Future on February 6

1990

1987

President Reagan finally addresses the AIDS epidemic on May 31 at the Third International Conference on AIDS in Washington.

First antiretroviral drug, AZT, approved by FDA. AIDS becomes the first disease ever debated on the floor of the United Nations General Assembly US Congress adopts Helms Amendment banning use of federal funds for AIDS education materials that “promote or encourage, directly or indirectly, homosexual activities,” often referred to as the “no promo homo” policy.

FDA adds HIV prevention as a new use for male condoms.

CDC launches first AIDSrelated public service announcements, “America Responds to AIDS.” “And the Band Played On: Politics, People and the AIDS Epidemic,” a history of the early years of the epidemic by Randy Shilts, is published. AIDS Memorial Quilt displayed on National Mall in Washington, DC for first time.

World AIDS Day declared by World Health Organization on December 1.

Surgeon General and CDC mail brochure, “Understanding AIDS” to all US households; first and only national mailing of its kind.

US Congress creates Commission on AIDS.

1991

Red ribbon introduced as the international symbol of AIDS awareness at the Tony Awards by Broadway Cares/Equity Fights AIDS and Visual AIDS.

1992

1988

1989

Americans with Disabilities Act of 1990 enacted by the US Congress, prohibiting discrimination against individuals with disabilities, including people living with HIV/ AIDS. The Ryan White Comprehensive AIDS Resources Emergency Act enacted and named in honor of Ryan White, an Indiana teenager who contracted AIDS through a tainted hemophilia treatment. He was diagnosed with AIDS in 1984 and was subsequently expelled from school because of the disease.

He became a well-known advocate for AIDS research and awareness, until his death in 1990. The act is the largest federally funded program for people living with HIV/AIDS. The act sought funding to improve availability of care for lowincome, uninsured and under-insured victims of AIDS and their families.

the

National

FDA licenses first rapid HIV test, which provides results in as little as ten minutes.

AIDS becomes number one cause of death for US men ages 25 to 44.

1993

President Clinton establishes White House Office of National AIDS Policy (ONAP).

“Philadelphia,” a film starring Tom Hanks as a lawyer with AIDS, opens in theaters, becoming the first major Hollywood movie

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The Spirit on AIDS. President Clinton signs immigration exclusion policy into “Angels in America,” Tony Kushner’s about AIDS, wins the Tony Award Pulitzer Prize.

HIV law. play and

1994

AIDS becomes leading cause of death for all Americans ages 25 to 44; remains so through 1995. FDA approves an oral HIV test, the first non-blood based antibody test for HIV.

1998

Minority AIDS Initiative created in US, after African American leaders declare a “state of emergency” and Congressional Black Caucus calls on the Department of Health and Human Services to do the same.

Ricky Ray Hemophilia Relief Fund Act of 1998 enacted by US Congress, authorizing payments to hemophiliacs infected through unscreened blood-clotting agents between 1982 and 1987.

1999

1995

First protease i n h i b i t o r approved in record time by the FDA, ushering in new era of highly active antiretroviral therapy (HAART).

President Clinton establishes Presidential Advisory Council on HIV/AIDS. First White House Conference on HIV/AIDS.

1996

The number of new AIDS cases diagnosed in the US declines for first time in history.

HIV no longer leading cause of death for all Americans ages 25-44; remains leading cause of death for African Americans in this age group. Time Magazine names AIDS researcher Dr. David Ho as its “Man of the Year.”

1997

AIDS-related deaths in the US decline by more than 40 percent compared to the prior year, largely due to HAART. President Clinton announces goal of finding an effective vaccine in 10 years.

According to the annual World Health Report, AIDS had become the fourth biggest killer worldwide.

2000

US and UN Security Councils each declare HIV/AIDS a security threat. President Clinton issues Executive Order to assist developing countries in importing and producing generic forms of HIV treatments. President Clinton creates first ever Presidential Envoy for AIDS Cooperation.

2001

June 5 marks 20 years since first AIDS case reported. Newly appointed US Secretary of State, Colin Powell, reaffirms US statement that HIV/AIDS is a national security threat.

2002

HIV is leading cause of death worldwide, among those aged 15-59. FDA approves OraQuick Rapid HIV-1 Antibody Test; first rapid test to use finger prick. OraQuick granted a Clinical Laboratory Improvement Amendments (CLIA) waiver in 2003, enabling the test to be performed outside of laboratory, allowing widespread use.

2003

President Bush announces PEPFAR, the President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief; PEPFAR is a five-year, $15 billion initiative to address HIV/AIDS, tuberculosis, and malaria primarily in hard hit countries. The William J. Clinton Presidential Foundation secures price reductions for HIV/AIDS drugs from generic manufacturers, to benefit nations.

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2004

In February, UNAIDS (the Joint United Nations Programme on AIDS) launches The Global Coalition on Women and AIDS to raise the visibility of the epidemic’s impact on women and girls around the world.

2005

United Nations General Assembly convenes high-level meeting to review progress on targets set at 2001 special session on HIV/AIDS, “UNGASS.”

2006

The CDC release revised HIV testing recommendations for healthcare settings, recommending routine HIV screening for all adults, aged 13-64, and yearly screening for those at high risk.

2007

The World Health Organization and UNAIDS recommend that “male circumcision should always be considered as part of a comprehensive HIV prevention package.”

CDC reports over 565,000 people have died of AIDS in the US since 1981.

2008

Statutory HIV travel and immigration ban ends. CDC releases new HIV incidence estimates for the United States, showing that the US epidemic is worse than previously thought.

2009

President Obama launches the Global Health Initiative (GHI), a six-year effort to develop a comprehensive approach to addressing global health in low and middleincome countries.

Obama calls for first ever National HIV/ AIDS Strategy for the US Long-standing statutory ban on the use of federal funding for

needle exchange in the US eliminated. The Obama Administration officially lifts HIV travel and immigration ban by removing the final regulatory barriers to entry, which takes effect in 2010.

2010

Obama Administration releases first comprehensive National HIV/AIDS Strategy for the US Large international clinical study (iPrEx) showed a daily dose of combination antiretroviral pill reduced the risk of acquiring HIV among men who have sex with men and transgendered women who have sex with men.

2011

June 5 marks 30 years since first AIDS case reported. US Department of Health and Human Services launches the “12 Cities Project,” focusing resources on areas with the highest AIDS burden in the country.

Federal government announces goal of an AIDS-free generation, highlighted in speeches by Secretary of State Hillary Clinton and President Obama.

2012

The XIX International AIDS Conference is held in Washington, DC, marking the first time the conference has been held in the US since 1990. FDA approves OraQuick In-Home Test, the first rapid test using oral fluid that can be bought over-the-counter; results of which are obtained at home. FDA approves the use of Truvada for reducing the risk of HIV infection in uninfected individuals at high risk, marking the first HIV treatment to be approved for preexposure prophylaxis.

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The Spirit Opinion

Everyone Has AIDS

By Ryan Dixon

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our trick from last night has number one in the nation with the highest AIDS. That guy you’ve been number of new HIV cases per capita. flirting online with for the last Broward is right behind, ranking at number few weeks has AIDS. The guy two. Florida, as a whole, ranks number three you’re thinking about hooking up with as in the nation for people living with HIV/ you read this has AIDS. You have AIDS. AIDS (125,000 people accounting for 11.7% Okay, maybe you don’t. But you better of all infections in the States) and second in wake up and treat your lovers as if they do. pediatric cases.

Every single time. No exception.

People should treat everyone as if they I’ve always been open and honest about were HIV positive when looking for sex. my status ever since I found out I was When hooking up, disclosing my status positive almost four years ago on Dec. 15, gives people the chance to make an informed 2008. I made bad choices in my sex life, so decision for themselves. now I’m trying my best to make the safest But think of this: 40,000 people are and healthiest decisions to protect myself infected with HIV every year and 10,000 of and others. them are unaware of their status. By telling Dating someone who is HIVan HIV-positive person no, and positive has relaxed the going out and hooking up worry of me possibly with a guy that doesn’t infecting my partner. tell you he’s negative The relief I feel or positive, you’re knowing for right taking the same now I won’t be risk. Not knowing contributing your partner’s (or to the HIV partners’) status statistics in is a dangerous America is very game. Do you co m fo r t i n g , really trust that but in a very guy at the bar macabre way. In when he says 2009, HIV and he’s negative, AIDS killed over when he says one million people you’ve got nothing worldwide. The CDC to worry about? You estimates that 1.1 million know you do — or at least people living in America want to. You go home, bend Photo courtesy of mrfriendly.info are infected with over and throw M r. Friendly is an anti-stigma spokesperson who promotes HIV. Since the discussing HIV without judgment, testing and letting posi- caution to the beginning of the wind. Then, you tive and negative people you’re there for them.

AIDS epidemic, have the balls to close to 600,000 tell me (someone Americans have lost their lives. who readily admits they’re positive) it’s too No pun intended, but sex in the gay risky. Good reasoning there, buddy (and a community is the butt of many jokes. thumbs up to ya).

Gay men have done nothing to suppress Change in stigma and perception has to the whorish stigma that is given to them, start at home, in the heart. Stop treating myself included. Let’s face it, I didn’t catch positive people like they’re something HIV by being a saint. I was a little bareback dirty. Everyone deserves the same respect, slut in 2008. Even then my diagnosis came no matter what they’re living with. Treat as a shock. I didn’t realize or know how bad everyone the same. Treat everyone like they HIV is in South Florida. have AIDS. Miami-Dade County currently ranks Because they do.

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HIV By the Numbers A few facts you may have not known

Compiled By Gideon Grudo

In the United States:

In

Florida:

1st Miami ranks

2nd

1.2 million

in the country in the rate of new AIDS diagnoses per 100,000.

(2010)

people in the United States are living with HIV infection.

1 in 5

•Blacks/African Americans face the most severe burden of HIV.

Reported HIV Cases in BROWARD County:

in the country in the rate of new HIV diagnoses per 100,000 (2010) Miami ranks

Around

people who have HIV are unaware of their infection.

50,000

Approximately

Americans become infected with HIV each year.

Around

1,129,127

people in the U.S. have been diagnosed with AIDS to-date Around

17,774

people with AIDS died in 2009 Almost

HIV: Jan. to July Jan. to July

2011: 523 2012: 514

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Rank within state of Florida for # of HIV cases identified:

Reported HIV Cases in MIAMI DADE County: Jan. to July

2011: 824 2012: 697 1

Jan. to July Rank within state of Florida for # of HIV cases identified:

AIDS:

Reported AIDS Cases in BROWARD County: Jan. to July

2011: 376 2012: 224 2

Jan. to July Rank within state of Florida for number of AIDS cases:

619,400 people with AIDS in the U.S. have died to-date

Reported AIDS Cases in MIAMI DADE County:

2011: 434 2012: 334

Jan. to July Jan to July

Rank within state of Florida for number of AIDS cases:

1

[Source: The Centers for Disease Control, www.cdc.gov/hiv.]

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The Spirit EDITORIAL

Marching Again for HIV

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t is 2012, but we again have to gather and march, talk and walk, lighting candles for those who are no longer with us.

As with World AIDS Days past, this Saturday we find ourselves again memorializing the lives of friends and lovers, children and brothers, mothers and fathers, who left us all too soon.

Until we find a cure, we must solemnly recommit our energy and spirit to those who have fallen but are not forgotten.

We have done so with bike rides and AIDS walks, car washes and clothing drives. We have testing centers and mobile vans, but still a pandemic steals our lives. But this is no way to fight a worldwide disease.

Some of us are old enough to remember when AIDS was called GRIDGay Related Immune Deficiency Syndrome, and there was no hope. But some of you are too young to understand there was a day with no protease inhibitors, steroid cocktails, or once a day pills.

Some of you are old enough to remember when a kid name Ryan White was booted from his school because he was HIV positive. But some of you are too young to know there was a day when people were afraid to use a public toilet seat for fear of contracting HIV. Some of us are old enough to remember Pedro Zamora, Rock Hudson, and Freddy Mercury. But for most of us, AIDS is not about celebrities like Magic Johnson who we will never meet. It is about our family members, our friends, and sometimes, ourselves.

There is no shame in living with HIV. There is only shame if we are in a position to help and do nothing; if we are able to educate and do not teach; if we are able to care but turn away.

It falls upon us to challenge those who fight people with AIDS instead of fighting the disease called AIDS. It falls upon us to respond to apathetic congressmen who look the other way as patients fall off ADAP lists.

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By Publisher Norm Kent It falls upon us to respond to religious leaders who brand HIV patients as secondclass citizens.

It falls upon us to remind America we must still care, we must still bother, and we must still persevere, because our friends are still quietly dying, out of the limelight and far from the spotlight.

Because we are called upon not to let our friends pass into a darkness we forget, we cannot let anyone go quietly into the night.

So we still light candles, lighting up the night with the memory of those we have lost, reminding ourselves there will come a day when these candles need to burn no more.

If you walk on Saturday night, whether at

the Pride Center in Wilton Manors or by the AIDS Memorial on the White Street Pier in Key West, you will not stand alone. By your side is a tall and brave spirit who once stood beside you.

We still gather in 2012 because we owe it to them to say a day will come when we gather to celebrate a cure and not commemorate a loss. That is why we stand. That is why gather. That is why we still bother.

After this somber memorial, there is still much we can all do individually to help each other collectively.

We can be the home health care aides for a patient alone in his home.

We can be the students delivering meals on wheels.

We can be the educators who teach children about HIV. We can be the readers in hospital rooms for patients who are too ill to see.

We can be the companion who helps with pets.

We can be the parents reuniting with children.

We can be the therapists counseling

against fear and the attorneys providing legal aid against discrimination.

We can be the nightclubs and bar owners sponsoring one more party, and yes another fundraiser for HIV facilities.

We can be the caller to a talk show who won’t let an announcer disseminate hate, and we can be the doctors working on new protocols.

For all so many of you have done, there is still so much more we can all do.

If 30 years into the epidemic we still have patients on waiting lines for treatment that is not justice- that is just us being abused.

We cannot let that stand. If we have to take to the streets to let our voices be heard, then so be it, to the streets we must go.

You do not have to make headlines to make a difference. You just have to make headway. Be a voice for hope instead of an apologist for excuses.

Your presence at a rally this weekend is your testimony and promise that you have not forgotten your friends, and you will fight like hell for your future.

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US NEWS

What was that, Coach?

Anti-Gay Slur Prompts Minn. College Football Player to Quit

By Jason St. Amand - EDGE

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football player for the University of Minnesota’s football team announced he quit this week after the coach allegedly subjected him to years of mental abuse and an assistant coach even hurled a homophobic slur at him, Out Sports reports.

According to a letter that was posted on the social media website Tumblr, Minnesota Golden Gophers A.J. Barker says he quit the team after his lead coach Jerry Kill subjected Barker to years of mental abuse and even called him a “faggot.”

“But don’t be confused by this explanation into thinking this is a quick/irrational decision based solely around Thursday’s event,” Barker has been reported saying.

“Last spring before the spring game I was called a faggot for my spiritual views by Coach Reeves where other players on the team heard him say it.”

Barker tweeted that he is an atheist. Out Sports noted that being an atheist “is even worse than being gay” on some college football teams.

The St. Paul (Minn.) Pioneer Press reports that Kill says he doesn’t remember using the homophobic epithet.

“The only thing that I recall, again, is about the training, that it’s important that everything you’re doing has to be on the same page,” Kill told the newspaper. “We have to answer to (head trainer) Ed (Lochrie).

It’s no different than me having epilepsy and having to go see three different neurologists;

you get so many people in the loop, you don’t know what’s what. You have to keep people in the loop.”

Kill has forcefully defended himself. He told AP, ’’I feel bad for A.J. I feel bad that that’s the way he feels about the situation,.

I’ll do anything I can to help him in the future, whatever he decides to do. I’m all in it for the kids. I want to see kids be successful and do well.’’

There’s also a controversy over an injury Barker received in a game. He injured his ankle twice in two consecutive games. Barker claims Kill forced him to practice, despite an MRI that showed ligament tears and a bone bruise. Kill denies he made Barker participate in practice and counters that Barker was disruptive. ’’I’m not here to win any popularity contests,’’ Kill told AP. He added that he ’’doesn’t treat our players any differently than I treat my two daughters.’’

The sports world has become stricter when it comes to athletes spewing anti-gay rhetoric. In September, theAssociated Press reported that Yunel Escobar, a shortstop for the Toronto Blue Jays, was suspended after wearing eye-black that displayed a homophobic slur in Spanish during a game in Boston. Although the athlete said he meant it to be a joke and as something he didn’t “intend to be offensive,” the suspension was still carried through, which resulted in Escobar losing about $82,000.

From our media partners at EDGE

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OPINION

LGBT Studies as Skewed as Presidential Election Polls

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eing wary of study results can be a valid pragmatism. A study can be skewed, and outright wrong, based on methodology. Collecting valid data is as difficult as analyzing the data collected. That said, I approach all study results with certain skepticism.

The recent presidential election proves this out. Most polls and polls of polls consistently showed the President clearly in the lead. Yet the Republicans and their news network refused to believe the polls and went out and made their own including their own website.

On election eve I made a point to tune into their network just to see what they were up to and they were predicting a landslide in unison, in their direction. When things went terribly against them they seemed stunned.

All information, and certainly all poll and study results, is preferably consumed with a good dose of skepticism.

Two recent studies pertaining to LGBT finances seem on the surface to be diametrically opposed in reporting results.

One detailing retirement resources for LGBT retirees reports that the average LGBT retiree out saves the national average while at the same time feeling they need more than the national average to retire comfortably.

Another analyzing education and economic levels finds that LGBT are less educated and poorer than the national average.

There is a rather broad belief in the general population that gays have more assets and are richer than the rest of the population. The former study seems to support the belief, the latter refute it.

Oddly, the former study reports that the average LGBT retiree has saved $450,000 (as compared to the national average $350,000).

I find both of these numbers highly questionable; my experience is a much small percentage with a net worth of that amount, and certainly not an average. The study goes on to report that those same LGBT feel they need $800,000 to retire comfortably, which is probably about right.

Recognizing that the study was conducted and reported for a financial institution, presumably in an attempt to identity potential clients, one might draw a parallel to recent election polls; look for a specific result and you’ll probably find it. While an election ultimately trumps a poll, a study can endure even with aberrant data.

The latter study referenced above seems to show that more Americans identify as LGBT in younger age ranges that also, as one might

By Ric Reily expect, earn less. As the study age ranges increase so conversely does the number who identify as LGBT decrease; also as the study age ranges increase so does the income of that smaller group who identify as LGBT. Though the study does not specifically report, one might suspect that as LGBT age and move up the economic ladder they are less likely to report being LGBT. Or perhaps because the study was conducted via telephone, data does not accurately report on higher earners as one out earning well is less likely to be available when a poll taker calls. The data reporting that as LGBT move up the economic ladder yet still earn less than the national average is absolutely no surprise and actually more closely follows earnings of women.

The latter study, called the largest single study of the American LGBT population on record, finds gays are less educated than the general population. I am no scientist, demographer or economist but I have great difficulty with that finding; we as a community just seem so much more educated, intelligent and focused. Moreover the study goes on to detail that those self indentifying as gay are skewed to younger, non-white and female; which can either be read as they didn’t count the smart white men thereby skewing the results to the less educated or they wanted to show that gays are less educated than the general population. You get your choice here.

Reporting that LGBT have a greater risk of poverty is not necessarily a surprise. If in fact the goal of society is to lift up those caught in the mire of poverty and despair then removing those barriers is an obvious step in the right direction.

After reviewing the two referenced studies what does their data actually report?

That the LGBT demographic is young, disproportionally non-white and female who don’t earn as much as the general population presumably because they are less educated, and well to do better educated gay retirees.

Maybe that can be construed; more likely these two studies don’t really show anything more than a list of maybe and probable, much like most gay surveys.

Collecting data through surveys and gleaning results from the collected data is supported by the sponsor. Knowing the data will likely support the sponsor’s goal goes a long way toward understanding survey results. A reliable LGBT survey must come from an unaffiliated group without a bias toward those being surveyed, not to who they are, where they come from or who they love.

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OPINION

Booted: Boggy, West Fired By Florida Voters

By Michael Rajner

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Photo courtesy of Michael Rajner

it became clear to West his own state party or the past several months, I despised him and set him up for failure.

West tucked his tail and ran for a have been deeply involved in a major undertaking and vowed congressional district he thought to be more not to get heavily involved in this favorable to him. A young, energetic proyear’s election. But as the campaign cycle equality Patrick Murphy was determined progressed, it became very clear I needed to to chase a cowardly homophobic West and find a way to enlist in the ranks of amazing switched races - eventually making West a advocates and find my place on the battle line one term member of Congress.

A little more than 2 years ago when to hold our ground and help our community Allen West was on his second attempt to be led to victory.

So over the last several months, I did to be elected to represent Florida’s 22nd what I could to encourage LGBT Floridians Congressional District, I ran into him at a to register to vote and become involved in a Panera Bread in Fort Lauderdale. We sat campaign that shared their values and vision down and respectfully dialogued on issues for a better and more inclusive society. In important to LGBT people that included marriage equality, the South Florida, there repeal of “Don’t Ask Don’t were two major election Tell,” and funding for victories that were very science-based HIV/AIDS personal for me. policy. It was the one and The first victory was in only time I sat down with Florida Senate District 34 West alone to discuss where incumbent State issues. Shortly after, West Senators Maria Sachs decided to act on his (Democrat) and Ellyn homophobia (and realized Bogdanoff (Republican) his campaign could fought in an ugly and financially benefit from his costly battle as a result hate speech) so he cashed of redistricting. Sachs in and showed the world has continually been a what a bigot looks like. genuine champion for the Throughout Allen West’s equality of all people and one term in office, he she defeated her opponent Senator Maria Sachs signing her limited rainbow edition campaign lawn continually polluted the - who lacked the spine to on election night after learning airwaves with hate filled advocate for the rights of ofsign her victory. This sign will be donated to Stonewall Library to be archived. manure with statements her gay child - winning 52% such as blacks and LGBT of the vote. As a gay man and a former Republican, it only affirmed people aren’t discriminated in the workplace, why I chose to leave a political party and its gays will destroy the military, and comparing leadership who continually placed equality marriage to choosing a flavor of ice cream.

West’s endless attack on LGBT people fuel for LGBT people on the alter as a sacrificial my fire last summer to silence an ignorant lamb so they can hold their grasp on power.

Given Bogdanoff’s anti-gay record on LGBT ass. Last July, I proposed a controversial equality in the Florida state legislature, this boycott of members of the Wilton Manors past Saturday at a rally in Wilton Manors, I Business Association if they didn’t withdraw publicly questioned if in 2012 if blacks did their invitation for Allen West to speak in our not have the right to vote, would Bogdanoff fair-minded city. To this day I don’t regret be a vocal advocate to fight for her adopted the decision and proudly wear it as a badge of honor for being the homosexual that African American daughter’s right to vote?

Given the clear parallel for her to fight for silenced the anti-gay Tea Party extremist.

I’m now filled with excitement that a her gay son’s equality, I thought it to be a fair young Patrick Murphy had the courage to question.

The other race that was personal to me stand up to Allen West and defeat him in the was another costly and ugly battle, but for race for Florida’s 18th Congressional District.

Maria and Patrick, I know you will both be Florida’s 18th Congressional District this time. When the Republican super majority a strong voice of leadership for all people! I in the Florida state legislature turned on can’t wait to work with you both. incumbent Tea Party extremist Allen West,

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McNaught’s Notes

A Journey without Meaning?

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y the look on his face, Ray appeared troubled. I knew that he was lost in thoughts of financial uncertainty, so I swam over and gave him a long, tender kiss.

Had I written that sentence 39 years ago, I would have been fired from my job. Actually I was.

After kissing him, and holding eye contact for a length of time that would make most straight men squirm, I asked Ray, “Are you here with me, or someplace else?”

“I’m here with you now,” he grinned.

“Do you know what I think sometimes when I kiss you?” I asked. “I think of the young guy, delightfully goofy and innocent, who I met 37 years ago. I think about painting the living room of our Boston apartment forest green, of stripping three layers of wallpaper off the walls of our home in Gloucester, of the avocado green refrigerator in the place we bought in Atlanta, and the

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By Brian McNaught view we created of the magnolia tree when we put the French doors in the kitchen in San Francisco.”

“You think about all of that when you kiss me?” Ray asked.

“I bet the worst part of having Alzheimer’s is not appreciating the significance of any moment. If I had no memory of the past, I’d be sitting here with you in the hot tub, thinking you were handsome, and that the yard is beautiful, but having no context for any of it. I wouldn’t remember our history together, or how we’ve worked to create this garden.”

Ray smiled appreciatively, as he knows my mind is constantly working to understand the significance of a moment, for me and for others. He likes talking with me about these observations, and I like taking his mind off of things he can’t do anything about, like the sale of our home in Provincetown.

Ray and I have made a journey together.

I love the word journey and the image it creates.

My parents, and his parents, probably never used the word “journey” to describe their lives.

My father would probably grumble, “It’s a life. You live it.”

“Journey” is a Baby Boomer euphemism that creates the notion we are all on our way from one place to another. We are experiencing people, places, and things which impact the direction we take in our lives. Ray and I joined hands as young men in our 20s at a time when it was illegal in Massachusetts for us to have sex. And, there were other young men like us who were being experimented upon with electric shock in mental hospitals, like the infamous Atascadero in California. That’s the context of our life journey. In the early days of our relationship, we needed to be careful about where and when we kissed.

Gay twenty-yearolds today are joining hands and kissing in the historic, cultural context of a lesbian being elected to the United States Senate, the President and Vice-President vocally supportive of marriage equality, and intercourse between people of the same sex legal in every state. These people, places, and things impact the direction of their journeys.

Not being aware of your historic and cultural context makes you like a person who has no long-term memory. You look around and see things that are nice, but you don’t know what it has to do with you.

And without knowing what it has to do with you, you are robbed of the depth of meaning when you kiss your beloved, apply for a job, walk past a Marine recruiting center, or read the marriage announcements in the Styles section of the Sunday New York Times.

That’s why I like the word “journey” to describe my life. I have been traveling a path from unawareness to awareness, from the fog of youthful goofiness to the clarity of adult goofiness. If Ray dies before me, and I enter a relationship with another person, he won’t have any feelings for the forest green paint of my living room wall when I was 28, nor will he be able to laugh about the avocado-colored refrigerator we got rid of in Atlanta. We would create new memories, but

when we kissed, we wouldn’t remember how we did so illegally in our youth.

It’s important to know why Tammy Baldwin’s victory in Wisconsin is not just wonderful, but significant. Winning all four state contests on marriage equality will impact the paths of hundreds of thousands of people, who should know that it happened in the lifetime of gay people who watched Anita Bryant and John Briggs lead campaigns to take away all gay civil rights, including the right to teach school.

It’s not just Ray and I who are on a journey from unawareness to awareness. So, too, is the LGBT community, and our allies, families, and friends. When we kiss, hug, or high five in celebration of our new “normalcy” in our country, we need to remember the context of this victory, or there will be no meaning to the moment.

I’m very grateful for my ability to remember the steps it has taken me to get to where I am today as a gay man living in America in a committed, loving relationship with another man. My memory gives my life a context for understanding why kissing Ray in the hot tub is so full of meaning. www.brian-mcnaught.com

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FEATURE

Regrets Only for The Wild Party Outre Theatre Company Debuts with Less Than Wild Results

By Mary Damiano

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tyle over substance rules in The Wild Party, the debut production from Outre Theatre Company. The musical, by Andrew Lippa, is set in the Roaring ’20s, the era of Prohibition, jazz, flappers and decadence. But it takes more than evoking an era to make a good musical.

The plot of The Wild Party goes something like this: Vaudeville performers Queenie and Burrs are in a dysfunctional relationship.

In order to exact revenge for his abuse, Queenie throws a party with the intention of humiliating Burrs. A variety of characters arrive at the couple’s bohemian garret, then spend the night drinking, dancing and flirting, culminating in a clothes-on orgy. Queenie accomplishes her mission.

Something bad happens. The end.

It’s a slight story, with zero character development and an interesting score. It’s an ambitious project and clearly Outre wanted to make a splashy debut. Unfortunately, the company took a dive into the shallow end of the pool.

The live band overpowers the performers

to the extent that lyrics are unintelligible.

Musical director Kristen Long needs to find a balance so the singers don’t have to compete with the musicians. There were other sound problems as well, during the Sunday performance, including problems with mics and a general muffled quality.

At first, the lighting design by Devon Garbus feels sexy and atmospheric, but then devolves into dark. Not the kind of dark that fits the mood of the play, but just dark.

Like, vaudeville must not be paying well because poor Queenie and Burrs can’t afford electricity. Or candles. That kind of dark.

Sean McClelland’s set is a bi-level bohemian wonder, complete with skylights and nestled in a clock tower---a nice touch, time literally hangs over these characters’ heads. The scenic design seems very detailed, but it’s hard to tell, because, you know, it’s so dark.

There are some bright spots, figuratively speaking. Sharyn Peoples is one of the few cast members who can be heard above the music, and she belts out “An Old- Fashioned

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Love Story” with panache. Mickey Jaiven and Courtney Poston, playing a fighter and his flapper, are wonderful together on the duet, “Two of a Kind.” Ben Solomor, as a pint-sized, mute dancer, packs more emotion into his lovely ballet solo, “Jackie’s Last Dance” than exists in the rest of the show.

Sabrina Gore as Queenie and Tom Anello do well individually—they have great voices and each have some spotlight moments---but they have no chemistry, so it’s hard to buy their tempestuous relationship. They are supported successfully by Christina Groom, as a boozy southern belle who wants her claws in Burrs, and less successfully

by Mark BrownRodriguez, who finds a special connection with Queenie.

By choosing The

Wild Party as their debut production Outre Theatre Company shoots for the stars, but ends up on the dark side of the moon.

The Wild Party runs through December 9 at the Mizner Park Cultural Arts Center Studio Theatre, 201 Plaza Real, Boca Raton. For tickets and more information, call 954-3002149 or visit OutreTheatreCompany.com.

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OPINION

Keep Your Gay Phone Cost Down

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By Ric Reily

martphones are now in the majority for gays who have mobile phones. LGBT businesses are catching on to the importance of cell service, in addition to ubiquitous WIFI, and are installing cell signal boosters allowing more and faster access to texting, dating apps and Facebook sign ins. This isn’t necessarily a benevolent benefit provided by business owners; business owners have come to understand that individuals have a great effect on their friends’ decisions and facilitating that communication is good for business.

The average individual cell phone bill is about $70 a month with a variety of limitations placed by the provider to control how much and how often you connect with their network. Take advantage of those plan features that allow you to control your bill, especially making sure your phone connects automatically to WIFI at work, at home and most places you visit, so you aren’t using mobile data in those locations.

The way we use our phones is changing faster than plan contracts. A smartphone is particularly valuable because it is easy to use for text and data. When the carrier is pitching a free or greatly reduced phone price, know that someone is paying for that phone and it’s you. The easy way to calculate the true cost of your phone is to multiply the monthly cost by the number of months in your contract and then add the purchase price of the phone. Committing to a two year plan to save money on the phone purchase is a false economy. Know the true cost of your phone and service. If you buy a $200 iPhone and a two year contract at $120 per month the cost of your phone is $3080. If you buy an iPhone 4S outright for $700 and a SimpleMobile plan for $40 per month the total cost for the same two year period is $1660. Or if you pick up a used or refurbished iPhone 4 for $300 and the SimpleMobile plan the total cost for two years is only $1260; even better use your out of contract phone and your two year cost is $960. That $2120 difference certainly looks better in your pocket.

Jumping off the mega-corporation bandwagon and opting for a Mobile Virtual Network Operator, or MVNO, such as SimpleMobile or H20 Wireless can save a great deal and usually without a noticeable degrade in service. MVNOs don’t operate their own networks but contract with other carriers. If you don’t demand the latest high-end smartphone, you may find the monthly rates will be highly competitive.

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SimpleMobile works on the T-Mobile network and costs $40 including all taxes and fees for unlimited voice, text and data at up to 3G speeds without a contract. Cellular data can be painfully slow so this probably only makes sense for those who can be on WIFI much of the time; which is most of us. If you insist on a top tier provider T-Mobile offers several contract plans with voice and data at a lower price for customers who either pay full price for their T-Mobile phone or who use their own phone.

Download the Skype app to your phone and use it to bypass the cellular network for some calls, particularly international. Download the Talkatone app that gives a smart phone VOIP capability using wireless data instead of cellular minutes. Linking the Talkatone app to your Google Voice number lets any phone number call you and you call any phone number unlike Skype, which though good for international and video calls, requires both parties to have Skype installed and up and running. You will also find Talkatone very convenient when you’re in a place without cell service yet with access to WIFI. You can text over the data network with both Skype and Talkatone and newer versions of Apple’s operating system have a feature called iMessage that recognizes other users and bypasses the cellular network to send a text message and is virtually indistinguishable from regular text messaging.

An unlimited no-contract plan like SimpleMobile rather than a contract with a major carrier like ATT is going to be much less costly. The phone won’t be subsidized, so your upfront cost will be a few hundred dollars more, depending on the phone.

Prepaid is also an option for light users of dumb phones. Though the rate per minute is higher, the cost per month can be lower than contract or monthly plans. Not many gays will like a prepaid plan; we have too much texting to do and data to consume.

No matter your service provider remember to inquire about family plans; many carriers are gay friendly and will happily combine your LGBT family’s phones into one family plan allowing sharing of minutes which may let you purchase fewer minutes in total, often without minute usage to call each other.

Sharing the common costs can lower the total cost for several people.

And, eliminate your land line. That phone is at home and you often are not. Drop it and save the average of $40 per month, which just happens to be the cost of the all you can use SimpleMobile service.

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FEATURE

White Hot Nite in Miami This year’s installment of the fresh celebration yet another hit Photos by JR Davis

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ouldn’t make it to the hot parties in Miami this past week? Well, as always, SFGN’s got you covered.

According to a spokesperson from Care Resource, the organization that put up the party, attendance at the three main events (Friday’s White Dreams, Saturday’s White Party and Sunday’s Muscle Beach) was up 42 percent from last year.

Attendees arrived from 39 different countries, the top five (in terms of

attendance) were Canada, Britain, Germany, Mexico (hitting the top five for the first time ever) and Scandinavia.

In the US itself, the top five cities (in terms of attendance) were Los Angeles, San Francisco, New York, Chicago and Dallas.

In all 63 percent of the attendees were out-of-towners.

From Muscle Beach to the Reset party, here are some of our favorite images.

Reset Soho

a crystal waters show

dj paulo

Muscle Beach a power infinity show

Fashion Show sam champion with partner shawn bell and care resource ceo rick siciari at muscle beach dj tracy young and dj joe gauthreaux spin at muscle beach

Pool Party

dj theresa spins friday t dance

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dj roland belmares spins at heatwave pool party

a real housewives of miami leah black, elain lancaster, george castrotaro with care resource board at first white party fashion show

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FEATURE

fire. They made promises and they need to be held accountable,” states an emphatic King.

“Our advocacy march on Washington began at the Washington Monument and we marched until near the White House there were an estimated 2,000 participants in a very peaceful protest,” said King.

“Of course here locally we always have the AIDS Walk, working with the various community partners including the Pride Center at Equality Park. Contrary to rumors that much of the money raised locally is distributed elsewhere, that is simply not true. Every dime raised here stays in our community,” as a determined King was very committed to his statement.

By Dale Madison When asked about “Out of the Closet” oes the number 179,411 mean stores and their pharmacy, King responded, anything to you? To Jason King, “The thrift stores are part of a line of the AIDS Healthcare Foundation business whose proceeds pay for services (AHF) Advocacy Manager, it does. in the communities where we’re present.

“That’s the current number of clients Our pharmacies also carry a varied number of health supplements as we are aware worldwide that that when the AHF is currently immune system is serving,” King told compromised it’s SFGN. essential that those “My job is to individuals keep constantly be their health at the watching over not optimum. We are just the legislative certainly looking part of the HIV/AIDS forward to World laws but to also be AIDS Day on Dec. directly involved in 1 to commemorate watching over the all of those who drug companies have gone but also that are providing for those that are the meds that our still surviving and clients are taking. thriving even though One of the largest they are infected protest was in Foster with the virus,” said City, California King. where the drug “In addition to the manufacturer, four Out of the Gilead, which is the Closet stores that largest HIV/AIDS we have between drug manufacturer jason king, ahf advocacy manager Broward and Miami/ is located. They Dade,” King said. have some of the highest prices, some of whose drugs cost up King reminds everyone that Miami is to $28,000 per year. That’s pretty costly for number one with HIV/AIDS cases, with Broward close behind with number two in a drug regimen,” states King.

“Now that Ryan White funding has been the United States. cut it’s really getting dicey. We have been “There are approximately 93,000 people working diligently with the AIDS Drug in the State of Florida that have been Assistance Program in conjunction with diagnosed. Those are the known numbers Ryan White to find alternatives to help but how many more have not be diagnosed?” clients. We are also working with an questions King. “That’s why we have to expansion program which will extend from be aggressive in the advocacy for all either Atlanta, to Fort Worth and Alabama, but in known or not and at our pharmacies we these economic times it’s been tough,” as also offer free HIV testing which is totally confidential.” King said.

King shakes his head. “It’s not easy.”

He said the agency won’t be stopping any If you would like more information go to www.aidshealth.org. Out of the Closet in time soon.

“We will continue our advocacy for those Wilton Manors is located at 2097 Wilton clients that we serve. We are also going to Drive, and in Fort Lauderdale at 1785 Sunrise hold the Obama administration’s feet to the Boulevard.

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SFGN sits down with Jason King of the AIDS Healthcare Foundation

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FEATURE

Money for elephants

By Regina Kaza

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starts, which is why they’re targeting such a young market at ages 5 to 8. They have also used part of their own $15,000 to create a 6-foot mascot, Ataro, which they use to

promote their books and theme song at local schools in the Fort Lauderdale area.

Now, they’re looking to raise $50,000 through self fundraising company, indiegogo. com to make their animations 3D. Billing said a 90-second trailer will cost them $27-28,000 and increase their market.

“It would give us the ability to present these to bigger companies,” Billing said.

The money they would have left over from the trailer would be used to distribute their books throughout elementary schools for free.

Steven Billing and Norman Rea created the seven Wishaphant characters as The fundraising someone for kids ages 5-8 to look up to and help prevent bullying. campaign started on Photo courtesy of Craig Strang-Thompson

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o they put the two together to get the Wishaphants, cartoon characters in children’s books who promote antibullying in grades K-2. After pulling around $15,000 out of their own pockets for t-shirts, books, and a mascot, they want to raise $50,000 to turn their animations into 3D trailers and filter their books into elementary schools. With less than half the time left, they might not meet their goal.

In that case, Billing and Rea will dip into the $9,830 they’ve raised for a traveling musical with the characters.

Rea has worked for companies like Disney and fundraised for AIDS, animal, and educational efforts for years.

“I’ve seen the power of cartoons,” Rea said. “I just thought it’s a great opportunity.

They’re spiritual animals and have a lot of inspirational qualities.”

Both bullied as kids, Billing and Rea created a team to make the seven Wishaphant characters to be used in two nutrition and anti-bullying books. Rea and Billing want to teach kids to stop the bullying issue before it

Anti-bullying program raising money for K-2 project Oct. 21 and with less than half a month left, they’re about $40,000 away from their goal.

Rea said that if they don’t raise the $50,000, he will consider extending the deadline.

“We’ll probably ask for 30 extra days. I think we knew going into it that 50,000 is really ambitious.”

If after the extra 30 days they don’t make enough money for the trailer, Rea wants to use his and Billing’s experience in their production of Tusk for the New York Theatre Musical Festival on a traveling anti-bullying musical. “Every penny of that will be utilized into the program,” Billing said.

Eventually, Billing and Rea want to expand their company internationally by developing merchandise like stuffed animals, activity sheets, and translating their books into Spanish versions.

“We just want to get these kids to the point where they don’t want to take their life,” Billing said. “They should be allowed to make mistakes and not be pushed to the side like garbage.”

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THE FITNESS GUY

Strength & Stabilization Training

By Michael Verdugo & Frankie Watson

Side Raises

Resistance Bands

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esistance training is the secret to losing weight and keeping excess pounds off. It builds lean muscle mass, which fights fat even while you are resting. Bodytek workouts use high intensity interval training to give you intense bursts of exercise coupled with moderateto-light recovery periods. The idea behind this is to constantly shock the body, which is proven to be the most efficient and effective way to improve your cardiovascular system, lose weight, and build muscle. This type of exercise allows your heart rate to fluctuate giving you more caloric burn and prevents you from plateauing. Mixing up your workouts ensures you’ll continue to challenge yourself, achieve your goals and see results.

At Bodytek we use a variety of equipment and techniques such as resistance bands.

They come in several different resistance levels, indicated by color. They are a very adaptable fitness tool with a vast number of different exercises to work out several muscle groups. You can add a second band to most workouts to challenge yourself even more. They are also very easy to travel with.

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Standing on the band place both feet shoulder width apart. Extend your forearms out with elbows at your side and palms facing up. Curl arms up and down, back to that ninety-degree angle you started in.

You can also position your arms slightly away from each other to perform a wider bicep curl.

Throughout the workout keep your elbows at your side maintaining that ninety-degree angle. The wider your stance, the more resistance you’ll achieve. If you need less resistance, take one foot off the band and place it in front of you. Complete three sets of twelve to fifteen reps, resting for ten seconds between each set.

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Standing on the band, place both feet shoulder width apart. Keep your knees slightly bent, palm of your hands towards the floor and simultaneously pull the band away from your body.

Don’t extend your arms up above your shoulders, keep them stretched out parallel to the floor. Slowly return your arms to your side, maintaining the resistance, don’t collapse them into a resting position. The wider your stance, the more resistance you’ll achieve. If you need less resistance, take one foot off the band and place it in front of you. Complete three sets of twelve to fifteen reps, resting for ten seconds between each set.

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Standing on the band, place both feet shoulder width apart. Position your hands behind your head and bend your elbows close to your ears at ninety-degree angle. Extend your arms up over your head. Remember to keep your knees slightly bent.The wider your stance, the more resistance you’ll achieve. However, to maintain good form with this exercise, change the band to a higher level if you want more resistance. If you need less resistance, take one foot off the band and place it in front of you. Complete three sets of twelve to fifteen reps, resting for ten seconds between each set.

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CompassPoints… biweekly column from compass in lake worth

World AIDS Day at Compass I

By Marsharee Chronicle

t was 25 years ago this past summer when a group of people gathered in San Francisco and began sewing mementos together to permanently memorialize loved ones who had passed away from AIDS. This gathering lay the groundwork for what we know today as The AIDS Memorial Quilt.

What started as an idea borne out of tacking up names on placards to commemorate the dead has now grown into a 54-ton work of art with over 48,000 panels containing over 94,000 names; it is described as “the largest ongoing piece of community folk art in the world.”

For the last decade, Compass has partnered with The NAMES Project Foundation to host the largest display of The Quilt in South Florida as part of a week of events surrounding World AIDS Day. Celebrated each year on December 1, World AIDS Day is a global day of remembrance to commemorate those we have lost to AIDS, honor those who are living with HIV and AIDS, and acknowledge the gains that we have made in fighting this disease.

According to the World Health Organization, The World AIDS Day theme for the next three years is “Getting to zero: zero new HIV infections. Zero discrimination. Zero AIDS related deaths.”

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For Compass, World AIDS Day is our largest outreach event focused on increasing awareness about the disease and providing educational opportunities for community members. During this time, we honor the memory of our loved ones, connect with others, and share our experiences to secure a brighter future together.

This year, as Compass celebrates its tenth year of World AIDS Day celebrations, we invite you to see The AIDS Memorial Quilt displayed like you have never seen it before.

Suspended from our ceiling in an ethereal exhibition of souls and voices from the local community as well as nationally recognized figures, Compass’ display of The AIDS Memorial Quilt is a poignant reminder of those men, women and children whom we will never forget.

Some of this year’s requested panels include: Max Robinson, the first AfricanAmerican broadcast network news anchor in the United States; American film, television, and stage actor Franklyn Seales most famous for his role on the television show Silver Spoons; fashion model Gia Carangi; artist and social activist Keith Haring, and Willi Ninja an American dancer and choreographer whose style served as an inspiration to Madonna’s hit song and music video “Vogue.”

For this World AIDS Day celebration, with a special grant from the Health Council

of Southeast Florida, Compass is offering a wide range of programming throughout the week. The schedule of events includes a ribbon cutting ceremony to open the display; 16 movie screenings including And the Band Played On: a film about the scientific community’s discovery of AIDS and the struggle to understand the disease; Paris is Burning: a late 1980s documentary about the pageantry of the ball culture in New York City; and Longtime Companion: a movie about love and friendship during the early years of the AIDS epidemic; daily HIV testing; educational and dinner programming providing “Food for Thought;” calling of names; and a closing ceremony with candlelight vigil and an interfaith memorial service.

We invite you to celebrate World AIDS Day with us. Wear a red ribbon to raise awareness of HIV and AIDS. Come to the center and tour The Quilt exhibit. Sit and watch a movie. Stay for dinner. Get an HIV test or bring a friend to get tested. Bring framed photographs of those you wish to commemorate during the interfaith memorial service. Light a candle. Share in the love and light we create during this special week.

Marsharee Chronicle is Compass’ Health Services Director. She can be reached at marsharee@compassglcc.com

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Tying it Together Mandi Hawke raises awareness for LGBT youth with her life story

By Regina Kaza Amanda, as her mother calls her, went to a Lutheran private school until the 8th grade.

“What I was taught is being gay is something you wouldn’t want to be,” Hawke said. “I wouldn’t tell my dad when I was living with him, no way.”

That’s something she tries to help high school students with when she speaks to local Gay Straight Alliances. She said she identifies as pansexual to let kids know they don’t have to be one thing or another.

When her parents split up, living with her dad in Florida wasn’t as easy as going to public high school there. She finally blended

in, turned to painting, worked backstage theater and found her support circle.

“I met some amazing people that really pulled me out of the closet,” she said. “They were like, ‘You know you’re gay, right?’”

Still she bounced between schools in Florida and Texas four times before she graduated. And while her mother was more accepting, kids at school weren’t.

“In Texas, the first thing I heard coming off the school bus in high school was ‘that’s so gay,’” Hawke said.

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andi Hawke was in the fifth grade writing “I love Stephen” in her notes, only to casually drop them off her desk for her classmates to find.

“He was the one person in the classroom that every girl liked,” she remembers. “I thought it was a safe name to write.” In a small private school classroom of about 24 kids, playground crushes grew and Hawke was suddenly accused of not dating anyone.

It wasn’t until her freshman year of high school that Hawke came out to her friends and family, only to be told it was a phase and a trend. But she didn’t know that then.

“I knew I was just being silly. Then I would get teased for liking him,” she says, “But I was okay with it. It was constant teasing and bullying.”

Years ago, she was a teenager fighting her true feelings to the point of having suicide thoughts. Today, Hawke is an event programmer at SunServe, an LGBT support agency in Broward, and author of Proud: EmPOWERment for LGBTQ Youth. She spends her days talking to kids and young adults, ages 13-24, who are going through the same things she did.

She shares her stories of being in a straight marriage for six years and turning to the arts for an escape from bullying and shame from her religious school.

“I’m a huge believer in ‘everything happens for a reason,’” her aunt Carrie Tappan told SFGN. “I feel like she would not be in the position that she’s in and moving forward in her life if she didn’t go through that.”

‘You know you’re gay, right?’

She was never invited to birthday parties.

One year Hawke remembers having two friends spend the night and staying up until 4 a.m. playing Tetris on Nintendo.

“It was always about wanting to make sure people would show up,” Hawke’s aunt said.

“It was hard to watch her go through that.”

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down the sides, a purple bow in her hair with her little sister’s plastic tiara. Hawke finished up the outfit with ripped fishnets, green Doc Martens and black makeup — lots of black makeup.

“And apparently she made a lot of friends,” her mother said.

Hawke made friends with whom her aunt Tappan calls the early stages of Goths and outcasts, but to Hawke they were just other kids who were misunderstood. Although her family acted supportive after she came out, they still thought it was a fad based on her circle of friends.

“I think in her high school years it was at that point where it was trendy to be bisexual,” Tappan said. “At first we all thought it was a phase.”

But it wasn’t a phase for Hawke.

“It was something so difficult for me to get the courage to admit to,” she said, “and then the reaction was ‘It’s the cool thing to do.’”

You’re going to do something great Hawke’s first suicidal thought was in the fourth grade.

Her best friend, and the most popular girl in school, stopped talking to her after they took a sex education class filled with gay propaganda.

“I realize now that we probably had crushes on each other,” Hawke said.

Years later, after she came out to her family in Texas, she went back in the closet for years and channeled her emotions into painting, mostly with dark blue, purple, and black hues.

“She was so uncomfortable around many family members,” her mother said. “She kind of made her friends her family.”

While in high school, a few of her friends committed suicide. She remembers having more suicidal thoughts in Texas than Florida because of the constant bullying.

“Once I was known to be bi-sexual,” she said. “I was targeted by some kids who would spit on us and called us dykes. Later at lunch

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they paid us and tried to get us to kiss.”

It was a lot for a 16-year-old to handle.

“Unfortunately it was during the time when it was really popular to cut yourself and do the whole Goth thing,” her mother said. “It was sort of like a cultural pity party.

I don’t think it’s as prevalent now as it was back then.”

Hawke said having a group of friends that were also struggling with being gay and depressed saved her.

“There was a voice that told me that no matter how hard it was, I needed to push through and that I had bigger things to do here,” she said. “It said ‘you’re going to do something great’ and that was louder than the other voice.”

Making it work for the family It took being married to a man for six years for Hawke to realize happiness wasn’t about where she lived or how much money she made.

When she married her ex husband, Jason, her family assumed her bi-sexual phase was over.

“I think that he had enough sensitivity for her that he made her feel very comfortable,” Tappan said. “And looking back on it now, I think she tried to make it work for the family.”

Her mother said Jason was very passive,

accommodating and non-confrontational.

Even then, the idea of being able to have a public relationship made Hawke happy.

“I could walk down the street holding his hand and no one would look,” she said.

“We could kiss in public and no one would whisper.”

Even though she doesn’t regret her relationship with Jason, she said she missed out on things that gave her life purpose, like the community service she does with her current partner.

“We didn’t have real true friendships, we didn’t do anything passionate like charity work or volunteering,” she said. “We waited tables. We weren’t up to anything powerful.”

After about five years, Hawke started reading motivational self-empowerment books, still searching for happiness. She decided that she needed to start being truthful to herself and not live a life of false friendships and uninspiring work.

While reading those books, she noticed there weren’t many self-empowerment books for the LGBT community, let alone the youth. About a year after divorcing her husband and working as a volunteer at Drag It Out, she started telling her life story at SunServe workshops and wrote her first novel: Proud: EmPOWERment for LGTBTQ Youth.

“I don’t say my relationship with Jason was a mistake,” she said. “Would I date

another guy again? Probably not. I was in love with him, but in a different way.”

My house is your house The first time Hawke ever brought a partner over to meet her dad’s side of the family was last June.

“I was actually really nervous,” Ian Napp said. “We pulled into the driveway and I was shaking.”

Hawke kept their relationship secret from most of her dad’s side. But after more than half a year of being together, she finally stepped forward and was welcomed with open arms.

“My family was amazing it was a pleasant surprise,” Hawke said.

“It was total shock,” Napp said. “You know they were introducing me to everyone, myhouse-is-your-house type thing.”

Hawke calls her relationship with Napp night and day compared to her six-year marriage. Hawke was working a Drag it Out, a program that puts on drag workshops, when she met Napp.

After Facebook messaging for a few weeks, Napp said she grew the courage to ask for Hawke’s number and they started dating on Nov. 11.

“We volunteer together and we don’t fight at all. We’re amazing friends. Every day is something to look forward to.”

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dina Menzel is arguably one of the most talented actresses on stage and screen. She may have become a diva with her performances in Rent and Wicked, but it’s her recurring role on the smash TV series “Glee” that’s won her millions of new fans. Need proof? The Tony Award-winner sold out the Arsht Center’s Knight Concert Hall last year and she’s returning this year to Miami and West Palm Beach with a new show featuring her favorite songs from showtunes to classic pop. Menzel appears at the Kravis Center in West Palm Beach on Wednesday, Nov. 28 at 8 p.m.

Tickets start at $25 at www.Kravis.org. She follows up at Miami’s Arsht Center at 8 p.m. on Friday, Nov. 30. Tickets start at $39 at www.ArshtCenter.org. - J.W. Arnold

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at yourself on the back, you’ve survived another Thanksgiving holiday with the family. But, chances are your dysfunctional holiday gathering resembled the chaotic abstract paintings of Danish artist Hans Petersen. Well, technically, they’re abstract paintings with styles influenced by the European, Cobra and Host movements—does that make you feel any better about your holiday experience? Seriously, NAC Gallery, located at 3325 NE 32nd St. in the emerging North Beach Arts and Design District at the intersection of Fort Lauderdale’s Oakland Park Boulevard and A1A, is hosting the first South Florida solo show by Petersen, who now calls New England home. NAC will host an opening night reception on Saturday, Dec. 1 at 7 p.m. in conjunction with the First Saturday Art Walk through the district.

For more information, go to www.NACGallery.com. - J.W. Arnold

o, we’re not talking about Christmas presents, but rather that big break in show business. Seventeen budding performers vie for a coveted role in a Broadway musical in Marvin Hamlisch’s Tony- and Pulitzer Prize-winning musical, A Chorus Line. Hamlisch passed away suddenly this year, but his music lives on, including “At the Ballet,” “What I Did for Love” and “One.” Dig out that gold lame jacket and top hat and head over to West Palm Beach’s Kravis Center for this one-night-only presentation, Monday, Dec. 3 at 8 p.m. in the Dreyfoos Concert Hall. Tickets start at $25 at www.Kravis.org. - J.W. Arnold

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Concert Pays Tribute to Legendary Local Musician Jaco Pastorius Still Among the Best

By J.W. Arnold

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he colorful mural on the Oakland Park community building at 4000 N. Dixie Highway is hard to miss, even at rush hour.

Rich purples, blues and black applied by local artist Bill Savarese converge to form the likeness of one of the greatest jazz musicians of all time, Oakland Park’s native son, bassist John Anthony “Jaco” Pastorius III. At the height of his short career, Pastorius was transforming the jazz idiom and had become the first electric bassist to distinguish himself as a solo artist.

His colleague, well known performer Pat Matheny, once said of Pastorius, “For all the caterwauling that has gone on about new musicians that have shown up in recent years being toted as the “next Miles”, or the “Duke Ellington of their generation”, or whatever, Jaco outranks all of them and all of that by being the one and the only of his kind, without predecessor; the only post-1970 jazz musician known on a first name basis with all music fans of all varieties everywhere in the world.”

Twenty-five years ago, Pastorius’ promising recording and touring career was cut short at the age of 35 after a tragic confrontation at a Wilton Manors nightclub left the musician mortally wounded. And, so many years later, he remains a popular figure among jazz lovers who have established international fan clubs, tribute websites and Facebook pages.

In tribute to his memory and musical legacy, Oakland Park Main Street presents a free concert, “A Tribute to Jaco,” on his birthday, Dec. 1, at 7 p.m. in Jaco Pastorius Park, next to the Dixie Highway community building.

“Jaco is a very important part of Oakland Park’s history and the concert is a special way to honor him and his musical legacy on his birthday,” explained Siegi Constantine, executive director of Oakland Park Main Street, the non-profit organization that promotes the city’s downtown business district.

Headlining the event is NEOLYTHYC, a young band from Coconut Grove, whose four members have been compared to the

prodigious talent displayed by a young Pastorius. While the band has developed a progressive metal sound, the high schoolers

— like Pastorius — already have drawn widespread industry interest and just

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released their first album. Also taking the stage on Saturday will be The Marcel Salas Trio.

In between performances, audiences will be treated to videos recorded by Pastorius at the height of his career in the 1970s with Weather Report and a sneak peak at a new documentary being produced

by Robert Trujillo and the Pastorius family.

Members of the Pastorius family will also be on hand at the concert, with a special musical tribute offered by Pastorius’ son, drummer Julius, and friends with the group Le Bron Jams.

For more information, go to www.oaklandparkmainstreet.com.

Performances by NEOLYTHYC,The Marcel Salas Trio and Le Bron Jams featuring Julius Pastorius When: Saturday, Dec. 1, 7 p.m. – 10 p.m.

Where: Jaco Pastorius Park 4000 N. Dixie Hwy., Oakland Park How Much: Free $5 VIP parking, free parking available nearby

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Maltz is back Seventy-six Trombones to lead the Maltz production of The Music Man

Loehr) convinces the town folk that they need a school band and should purchase the he Maltz Jupiter Theatre announced instruments and uniforms through him. the launch of its second show of In his usual scamming way, Hill was the 2012/13 Season with preview prepared to skip town after collecting his performances of The Music Man money, leaving River City with a leaderless on Tuesday Nov. 27, and Wednesday, Nov. 28. band. However, he hadn’t counted on falling Opening night is Thursday, Nov. 29. in love with the local librarian (Mandy “This show is entertaining for everyone. Bruno). And that put the proverbial monkey The tunes are irresistible, the lyrics are wrench into the tale. funny and clever, and each song pulls the When asked why he thought The Music audience in,” said Andrew Kato, the theatre’s Man beat West Side Story for Best Musical producing artistic director. “The Music Man Tony Award in 1957, Mark Martino, the is a fun-filled tale of risk and redemption, and show’s director said, “The Music Man offers I think that audience members of all ages will some of the most thrilling and innovative delight in the story’s sense of adventure and scores ever written classic American for musical theatre, sound.” including stirring The Music Man marches, gorgeous is a musical with barbershop quartets, book, music, and propulsive character lyrics by Meredith songs, exuberant Willson, based on song-and-dance a story by Willson numbers, achingly and Franklin beautiful ballads and Lacey. It opened soaring love songs. at the Majestic “All of these songs are Theatre in New supported by a book York on Dec. 19, that is populated by 1957 after years an eccentric, funny of development, and lovable group of more than 40 River City citizens drafts, and 22 – and centered by songs discarded a truly moving love from a total of story.” almost forty. It For a fun played at the night of family Majestic for three entertainment, come Matt Loehr, who will portray Professor Harold Hill years when it in the Maltz Jupiter Theatre’s production of The Music see this show and moved to The Man, surrounded by (from top left): Caiti Marlowe, Cal- be prepared to leave , Kiel Peterson, Aaron Simons, Claire Oberlin Broadway Theatre vin Bankert and Abbie Levasseur. Photo by Alicia Donelan. the theater humming and continued to any of a number of play for a total of classical theatrical songs that came out of 1,375 performances, closing on April 15, 1961 The Music Man including “Til There Was with five Tony Awards and the release of a You,” “(Ya got) Trouble,” and “Seventy-six film adaptation in 1962.

Trombones.”

The Music Man opened in the UK in 1961.

The production will run through Sunday, It had 21 performances at the New York City Dec. 16, with shows at 7:30 p.m. on Tuesdays, Center in 1980; 699 performances at the Neil Wednesdays, Thursdays and Fridays; 2 Simon Theatre in 2000. In 1987, a Chinese p.m. Wednesdays, Saturdays and Sundays translation of the musical was staged at and 8 p.m. on Saturdays. Tickets start at Beijing’s Central Opera Theater. $46 and may be purchased online at www.

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The Original Ft Lauderdale Gay Men’s Chorus Holiday Concert

By Brian Swinford

Have an event you want to list?

If so send me an email at Calendar@sfgn.com. *Cheryl Bentyne – Let’s Misbehave

Theater Broward County

*Eddie Vedder

Pearl Jam guitarist and lead singer Eddie Vedder on his solo tour with special guest Glen Hansard of The Swell Season and The Frames on Friday, Nov. 30 at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday, Dec. 1 at 7:30 p.m. in the Au-Rene Theater at the Broward Center. The concert will include songs from his Grammy nominated solo album, “Ukulele Songs.” Tickets are $79.50. At Broward Center. Visit BrowardCenter.org

*La Bohème

The Florida Grand Opera presents La Bohème on Thursday, Dec. 6 at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday, Dec. 8 at 8 p.m. in the AuRene Theater at the Broward Center. A superb blend of story and song, this opera that inspired the musical Rent recounts the joys and sorrows of four impoverished artists on the Left Bank of Paris in the early 19th century. Tickets are from $60 to $200. Visit BrowardCenter.org

*Songwriter’s Showcase

Chrystal Hartigan presents Songwriter’s Showcase on Monday, Dec. 10 at 8 p.m. in the intimate setting of the Abdo New River Room. Return to the days of 1960s Greenwich Village coffeehouses as musicians from around the world perform while an open mic segment lets hopefuls try out material in front of a welcoming audience. Admission is $10. Visit BrowardCenter.org

Gold Coast Jazz Society presents Cheryl Bentyne – Let’s Misbehave, The Music of Cole Porter on Wednesday, Dec. 12 at 7:45 p.m. in the Amaturo Theater. Bentyne is the reigning soprano of nine-time Grammy winners, The Manhattan Transfer. Blessed with a four-octave vocal range, she performs everything from swinging big band to the smooth West Coast Cool. Tickets are $40. Visit BrowardCenter.org

*Shear Madness

The longest running play in American theater history Shear Madness is cutting loose and heading to the Amaturo Theater from Thursday, Dec. 13 through Sunday, Dec. 30. The Shear Madness hairstyling salon is scandalized by the wacky murder of its illustrious upstairs neighbor and if the shop doesn’t get to the bottom of things soon someone is going to die laughing. Showtimes are Tuesday to Friday at 7:30 p.m.; Saturday at 2 and 7:30 p.m.; and Sunday at 2 and 7 p.m. Tickets are $39. Visit BrowardCenter.org

*Sister Act

Sister Act from Tuesday, Dec. 18 through Sunday, Dec. 30 in the Au-Rene Theater at the Broward Center. Visit BrowardCenter.org

Cirque Chinois

One of the oldest and most distinguished circus troupes in China, the National Circus of the People’s Republic of China will perform Cirque Chinois on Friday, Nov. 30 at 8 p.m. at the Miramar Cultural Center | ArtsPark. The award-winning acrobats will perform feats such as balancing on a teeterboard, flying on a trapeze, group contortionism, and juggling. Tickets are $35, $40 and $45. Call 954-602-4500

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The Original Fort Lauderdale Gay Men’s Chorus Holiday Concerts “In the Spirit” under the direction of the founder of the Chorus, Dr. Gary Keating. Thursday, Friday, Saturday Dec. 6, 7, 8 at 8 p.m. Fort Lauderdale Museum of Art auditorium. Tickets $25, $40. Call 954-832-0060 or visit www.theftlgmc.org

Wanda Sykes

Sykes will make her only South Florida appearance in 2012-13 in this one-night only engagement during World AID Days weekend on Dec 2, at 8 p.m. at the Broward Center Au Rene Theater as a benefit for Broward House, Broward County’s oldest and largest HIV/AIDS community service organization. Wanda Sykes is considered “one of the funniest stand up comics” by her peers and ranks among Entertainment Weekly’s 25 Funniest People in America. Visit BrowardCenter. org

Divorce Party the Musical

Still reeling from her divorce, Linda is rescued by her three friends who have come to turn her despair into a weekend of hilarity in Divorce Party The Musical: The Hilarious Journey To Hell…and Back! on stage from Tuesday, Nov. 27 to Friday, Nov.30 at 8 p.m. Tickets are $31.50 and $39. Performances continue through December. Visit ParkerPlayhouse.com

It’s A Fabulous LIfe

From Nov. 28 through Dec. 2 in the Amaturo Theater at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts. Returning for a third time, this gay musical borrows the premise of It’s a Wonderful Life to tell the story of Joe, a gay actor cast in Randolph the Rainbow Reindeer, who has a difficult holiday season filled with family tensions and backstage backstabbing that make him wonder if heterosexuals are happier. Wednesday, Nov. 28 to Friday, Nov. 30 at 7:30 p.m.; Saturday, Dec.1 at 3 and 7:30 p.m.; and Sunday, Dec. 2 at 1 and 6 p.m. Tickets are $35. Call 954-462-0222 or visit BrowardCenter.org

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*Fashion’s Fight

An Affair of the Arts Performance and Gala

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Palm Beach County *The 1940’s Radio Hour

Take a trip though time with the 1940’s Radio Hour. For some the show will be nostalgic, taking the audience back to the good ole times. For others it will be like a historical documentary, taking the younger crowd back to a simpler time before smart phones, and the Internet. The musical follows the final holiday broadcast of the struggling Mutual Manhattan Variety Cavalcade. It features hit songs from the era, holiday tunes, dancing and old time sound effects. Through Dec. 15 at the Lake Worth Playhouse. Visit LakeWorthPlayHouse.org.

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Musical Theatre Masters Series

Palm Beach Dramaworks, (201 Clematis Street/ West Palm Beach), announces new Musical Theatre Masters Series.

Modeled after PBD’s very popular Master Playwrights Series, the new series will kick off on Jan. 11-13. The series will be directed by Clive Cholerton, Musical director for Camelot is Caryl Fantel. All tickets are $35.00. Call 561-514-4042 or visit Palmbeachdramaworks.org

The National YoungArts Foundation (YoungArts) will honor director and choreographer Debbie Allen, violinist Joshua Bell and actor and alumnus Adrian Grenier at An Affair of the Arts Performance and Gala on Saturday, Jan. 12, held in Downtown Miami at the Olympia Theater at the Gusman Center for the Performing Arts and the Historic Alfred I. DuPont Building.

Contact Ellen Gray at 305-377-1140 X1208 or Email: egray@ youngarts.org

Winter Recital 2012

United Cerebral Palsy Diamond Minds Transformational Leadership Academy presents Winter Recital 2012 on Saturday, Dec. 1 at 4 p.m. This two-act production features dance numbers from The Nutcracker in the first act, and students dancing hip-hop, contemporary and jazz styles performed to popular music in the second act. Tickets are $12. Visit AventuraCenter.org

The AT&T Young Stars Showcase

Northwestern Mutual/Laser Financial Group presents The AT&T Young Stars Showcase on Sunday, Dec. 2 at 5 p.m. Tickets are $26.50 and $51.50 with proceeds benefitting Aventura Marketing Council Education Foundation. Free lap tickets are available at the box off for kids 12 months and under. All tickets include a post-show VIP reception at the Aventura Arts & Cultural Center. Visit AventuraCenter.org

My American Idols with Kimberley Locke

The inaugural season of the Cabaret by the Bay Series launches as the City of Aventura presents My American Idols with Kimberley Locke on Friday, Dec. 7 and Saturday, Dec. 8 at 8 p.m. The season two American Idol finalist will sing hits from Etta James, Judy Garland and Dinah Washington to contemporary divas Whitney Houston, Regina Belle and Gladys Knight.

Tickets are $34.50. Visit AventuraCenter.org

Jorge Luis Prats

The Miami International Piano Festival presents Cuban piano virtuoso Jorge Luis Prats on Sunday, December 9 at 5 p.m. in A Voyage from Vienna to Cuba. The program will include works such as “On the Blue Danube” by Johann Strauss-AndreSchulz, “Carmen” by Busoni-Saraste and Cuban favorites by Cervantes and Lecuona. Tickets are $30. Visit AventuraCenter. org

Gen Silent

Free public screenings of “GEN SILENT,” the critically acclaimed documentary, from filmmaker Stu Maddux, will be held on Tuesday, Nov. 27 at 7:30 p.m. - At The Miami Theater Center, 9806 NE 2nd Avenue, Miami Shores. “GEN SILENT” addresses the question, Do LGBT seniors need to go back in the closet. Screening to be followed by a panel of local experts. www.gensilent.com Call Ellen Wedner: 305-573-6477, wednerfriends@hotmail.com

The all new

Broadway in Miami 2012-13

See his assets before you hookup.

This season Ziff Ballet Opera House through May 12 will hold the Broadway In Miami spectacle. Experience the return of the world’s greatest musical spectacle - Les Misérables - in its lavish new 25th anniversary production, along with the Miami premieres of Broadway’s biggest fun-filled hits - including the high-stepping Mary Poppins, the outlandishly colorful Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, the awesomely cool Rock of Ages, and - the 2010 Tony Award Winner for Best Musical - Memphis, a triumph of explosive dancing and powerhouse songs. Visit Arshtcenter.org

Community Calendar Broward County

Did you know that LGBT people are more likely to smoke than most any other population group in the United States? Being around other Smokers can make it more difficult for people in our communities to quit. But many of us are trying, and the Quit Smoking Now Program in Wilton Manors is here to show us how to quit and stay without smoking. Visit My.vcita.com/myquitcoach QuitsmokingWM. com or call 305-942-6378

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*Island City-Wide Yard Sale

Annual Island city-wide yard sale. The Yard Sales are held at Hagen Park, 2020 Wilton Drive, on the second Saturday of the month through April 2013 from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m. The City Yard Sales spaces will be available to purchase for the Nov.10, Dec. 8, Jan. 12 and February 9. Last year, the yard sales hosted from 60 to 90 vendors, so register early while there is still space.

More info call the Leisure Services Department at 954-3902115 or 954-390-2130.

Color Vibe 5K

Color Vibe 5k run is coming to Fort Lauderdale on Jan. 5. At the Color Vibe 5k run, YOU are the color canvas, and when you’re finished with us you’ll be an exciting and vivid masterpiece.

So tag your friends and hook everybody up with the coolest 5k run to hit the streets. This is one amazing color blast you won’t want to miss! Event begins at 9 a.m. The Color Vibe Ft. Lauderdale 5k run will take place at the Central Broward Regional Park in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. Visit TheColorVibe.com

The Four Noble Truths

We all have certain things that feel to us like true sources of happiness, but which in reality have caused us no end of suffering, time and time again. It is our mind of attachment that continues to deceive us, causing us to relate to these things in mistaken ways, and leading us straight into problems and misfortune. Learn how to break this cycle. $10/class or $30/ series includes vegetarian food after class, members free. Visit MeditationInFortLauderdale.org

Pozitive Attitudes Topic driven Peer lead support group for gay and bisexual men who are infected or affected by HIV/AIDS. Meets every Wednesday 7-9 p.m. at the Pride Center 204 N.Dixie Hwy Room 204. Refreshments, no charge, open meeting. PAHereandNow@aol.com www.PozitiveAttitudes.com

Queer Youth Friday Nights

LGBTQ and allied youth group for people13-21. This Is a drop in group anytime from 6 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. This youth group will be SunServe building on 1480 SW 9th Ave on the second floor. A Safe Space to be yourself! Queer Themed Movie showing at 7 p.m. on Friday nights. This group is a safe hangout to meet new friends, free Wi-Fi to bring your laptop or your iPad, plus board games that you can bring or play the ones that they provide at the group. Visit Sunserve.org/youth/index.htm

GLBX Business Advantage Referral Group

GLBX Business Advantage Referral Group will be held at the chamber offices on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month from 8 to 9 a.m. The leads group is looking for additional members. If you are interested joining, please contact Ken Stollar at Kenneth.Stolar@sci-us.com to see if your category is open and to attend as a guest. Visit Ftlchamber.com/index. php?src=gendocs&ref=GLBX_home&category=GLBX

Queer Youth Nights

LGBTQ & allied youth 13-21 are welcome any time after 6 p.m. at the SunServe building on Wilton Drive for a great place to meet new friends, play board games and a Queer Themed Movie at 7 p.m. Email Afrosch@sunServe.org

Latinos Salud’s programs

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The Multiple Sclerosis Foundation presents Fashion’s Fight, a charity Fashion Show and luncheon. Taking place Dec. 12 at the Ritz-Carlton Fort Lauderdale. The show will feature COURAGE.b, a one-of-a-kind luxury boutique. Will feature model Shannon Rusbuldt, who has walked the runway for Giorgio Armani, and Tommy Hilfiger. Contact The TransMedia Group at 561-750-9800 x210

The 6th Annual I Care I Cure…I Run 5K and Family Fun Day! is on Sunday, Feb. 10 at 7:30 a.m. at the BB&T Center (formerly BankAtlantic Center), 1 Panther Parkway, Sunrise, Florida.

Register online at: www.icareicure.org, Adults $25 and Children $20. The I Care I Cure Childhood Cancer Foundation supports the development of, and raises public awareness about, cutting-edge research for targeted therapies for childhood cancer. Contact Sue Trilling at 800-807-8013

Multiple programs and groups for bi/gay Latino guys. Latinos Salud’s SOMOS program is for guys 18 to 30. All proceeds will benefit Latinos Salud in our efforts to educate on HIV Prevention and testing. Every Thursday night at 7 p.m. join the Core Group, and help plan alternative activities. Also offers Popular Opinion Leader group for guys ages 25 to 44 and a Life Coaching program for guys ages 18 to 44. Come by Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. for free one-on-one life coaching with certified CRCS coaches. Located at 2330 Wilton Drive. Call 954-533-8681 or visit Latinossalud.org

Man2Man Discussion

Man2Man Discussion Group meets at the Pride Center on Mondays from 7 until 8:30 p.m. Any subject may be discussed.

Members regularly reassemble afterwards for ‘repast’ at The Courtyard, PeterPan Diner. Visit Glccsf.org

Meditation After Work

On Mondays from 6-6:30 p.m. there will be Guided meditation w/ western Buddhist teacher Gui Passow. Looking for a way to rest and re-charge before starting your evening? Come in for a free guided meditation to clear your mind at the end of the day.

This class is free at Drolma Buddhist Center. Call 954-537-9191 or visit meditationinfortlauderdale.org

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Buddhist Meditation Classes

All the happiness there is in the world arises from wishing others to be happy. By abandoning self-centered thoughts and replacing them with the belief that others are important, we will overcome our suffering and find true happiness inside our own hearts. $10/class or $30/series includes vegetarian food after class. Call The Drolma Buddhist Center at 954-537-9191.

Dream Car Classic

Every Sunday of the month from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. Pre-1980s classic cars, modern classics and custom cars from 1981-2012 will be showcased. $10 car registration from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m.

(Show Car Entrance: 20th Avenue & Tyler Street). People’s Choice Award - 2 Classes; Top Ten Vehicles Award. Call 954214-2457

Living Healthy

Fusion in Wilton Manors will be having a free workshop on healthy choices, and healthy living on Tuesdays from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. This workshop provides interactive learning, practice and mastery techniques for a healthier and more active life, and positive changes for quality of life. Call 954-630-1655

Boardwalk Friday Fest

Come out to Hollywood Beach Theatre East of A1A at Johnson St and the ocean. Admission: Free every Friday of every month.

Live jazz, blues, pop and everything in between along Hollywood’s signature 2.5 mile boardwalk. Charming oceanfront cafes and restaurants serve up delicious innovative cuisine while you enjoy the best array of live music and tropical ocean breezes. Visit Hollywoodfl.org or call 954-924-2980

Toastmasters

Most Toastmasters meetings are comprised of about 20 people who meet weekly for an hour or so. Participants practice and learn skills by filling a meeting role, ranging from giving a prepared speech or an impromptu one to serving as timer, evaluator or grammarian. Toastmasters meet at the GLCC/Pride Center Monday at 7:15 p.m. Call Ted Verdone at 954-566-2074 or email: Tedverdone@comc​ast.net

Tuesday Night Eatin Meeting

Tuesday Night Eatin’ Meeting will be held at The Alternative MC Clubhouse at 4322 NE 5th Ave in Oakland Park. Fun, food, and fellowship. There will be hamburgers, hotdogs, all the fixins, cold drinks, desserts, and snacks. Meeting begins at 8 p.m. and ends at 9 p.m. Visit Alternativemc.com/events/floridaevents

Women of Ancient Greece and Rome

Griffin Gallery Ancient Art invites you to its upcoming exhibition opening of Women of Ancient Greece and Rome on Dec.13, 6 p.m. until 8 p.m. Our holdings include over five hundred authentic artifacts that reflect a spectrum of the cultures of Antiquity in addition to Contemporary fine works of art. Among our treasures are pieces from Greece, Rome, Egypt, the Far East, the Near East, the Holy Land, Pre-Columbian cultures, and pre historic Native America. Visit Griffingallery.net

Palm Beach Food & Wine Festival

Foodies have a reason to celebrate as a flood of epicurean talent descends upon the area for the Palm Beach Food & Wine Festival 2012. Award-winning chefs and culinary personalities, authors, winemakers, journalists, and mixologists are creating a culinary event of a magnitude never before seen on the illustrious island and beyond. This sixth anniversary year of the Festival includes an expanded lineup, growing from five nights of culinary delights to nearly a dozen events with both day and evening programming, including a star chef golf tournament and trade-only panel discussion. On Dec7-11 at various locations. Visit Pbfoodwinefest.com

Palm Beaches Marathon & Run Fest

Latinos Salud’s Life Coaching program is for Latino gay/bi guys ages 18-44. Come by Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. for free one-on-one life coaching with certified CRCS coaches.

Set your goals, and meet action steps to make them come true.

2330 Wilton Drive. Call 954-765-6239. Visit Latinossalud.org

Gay Male Empowerment

Topic discussions include issues and concerns about being a gay man in South Florida. Meets Thursdays at the Pride Center from 7 - 8:30 p.m. Call 954-353-9155

December in Florida and striding through tropics. Now that will impress your friends and family. Palm Beaches Marathon & Run Fest isn’t just a race or a way to keep in shape before the holiday parties and cheer; it’s a vacation onto itself. This event will start and finish on Flagler drive on Nov 20-Dec 2. Visit Runpalmbeaches.com

Sex & Love Anonymous

PFLAG

Lake Worth Bike Night

Life Coaching

S.L.A.A. believes that sex and love addiction is a progressive illness which cannot be cured but which, like many illnesses, can be arrested. It may take several forms -- including, but not limited to, a compulsive need for sex, extreme dependency on one or many people, or a chronic pre-occupation with romance, intrigue, or fantasy. Meets at The Pride Center at Equality Park in Bldg A, Room 200 Fridays 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. Visit Slaafws.org

Survivor Support

A Survivor Support Group is being held on the first and third Wednesday of each month at the 211 Community Center, 250 NE 33rd Street, in Oakland Park. The Florida Initiative for Suicide Prevention (FISP) is sponsoring this free support group and is open to all family members and friends of those who have died by suicide. Call 954-384-0344 to register. Meets from 7-8:30 p.m. Visit Fisponline.org.

Eating Disorder Support

Meets Friday evenings from 6 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. At Sun Serve’s Wilton Manors location at 2123 Wilton Drive, second floor. A “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. Free. No registration required. Donations welcome. Call 954-764-5150

Sunday Jazz Brunch

First Sunday of every month. An ideal way to relax and enjoy Fort Lauderdale’s scenic Riverwalk. Live, outdoor concert series bringing the area’s best local jazz artists. Listen to the soulful sounds on four different stages. Well-behaved, leashed pets welcome. Plenty of room for chairs, blankets and picnic baskets.

Young Adult GLBT

A social group open to all LGBT people ages 18-35. Meets Fridays at the Pride Center in Wilton Manors from 7:15-9 p.m.

Meeting starts with a discussion on current events followed by introductions and then a group activity. Visit PrideCenterFlorida.org/contact-us

Meets on the 2nd and 4th Tues. of the month at the Sunshine Cathedral at 1480 SW 9th Avenue to support the parents of LGBTQ youth in Broward. No charge. Visit Community.pflag. org/pflagfortlauderdale

SunServe Therapy Groups

Provided for the LGBT community at SunServe on a regular basis. Call the Intake Coordinator at 954-764-5150 to learn which therapy groups have openings. Groups Include a Gay Men’s HIV+ Long Time Survivors’ Group, a Safe “T” support group for gender variant adults, an Intimate Partner Abuse group and others. Visit SunServe.org

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The Lake Worth bike night is fun, and it’s for a cause. Join loads of people in downtown Lake Worth every Thursday from 7 p.m.-10 p.m.. The event is free and open to bikers and nonbikers. Visit Lakeworthbikenight.com

Alternative Life Style Show Featured guests contribute to the community. All are welcomed to call in. Many give aways and prizes including a contest for free buffets at Isle Capri Casino in Pompano. You can also listen by adding W4CYRADIO to SKYPE or call in at 561-623-9429. Up coming spotlights on parties of interest and special events.

PFLAG

PFLAG is a monthly support, coming out and rap groups for families of & for Gay, Lesbian, Bi, and Transgender people.

Meeting in Palm Beach County is at 6:30 on the third Wednesday of the month. Call or email Carol at 561-716-9464 Pflag@ pobox.com

New Alternatives

Social group with regular outings and social mixers for LGBTQ ages 18 to 30. This meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Email matthew@compassglcc.com or Visit Compassglcc.com.

Sober Sisters AA

Support group is dedicated for lesbians who are recovering from alcoholism. Meeting happens every Monday at 7 p.m. at Lambda North Clubhouse. Visit LambdaNorth.net

PBC Gender Support

All ages support group dedicated for transgender individuals. This meeting happens the 1st and 3rd Thursday of every month at 7:30 p.m. These meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Visit Compassglcc.com

Good Orderly AA

These meetings now take place at Lambda North at 18 S. J Street, and geared toward recovering alcoholics. Every Tues. and Thurs. at 7 p.m. and on Sat. at 5:30 p.m. These meetings will help recovering alcoholics cope with the stress of everyday life without the use of alcohol. Email tcamie@aol.com

Seniors vs. Crime

Seniors vs. Crime is a free service that provides help to seniors who have been victimized by businesses or service providers and need assistance. This event will take place at Mae Volen Senior Center at 1515 W. Palmetto Park Road. By appointment only so call 561-736-3820 or 561-395-8920.

Yoga On The Waterfront

Lake Pavilion at 101 S. Flagler Drive, West Palm Beach, FL / Yoga On The Waterfront in downtown West Palm Beach on Wednesday Evenings at 5:45 p.m. Residents $40 per 8 week session, Non-Residents $50 per 8 week session, Drop-ins $10 per class. To register, please call 561-804-4902.

Gay men’s group discussion. Different subject every week. Dr. David Fawcett, a gay therapist, who has been in private practice in Fort Lauderdale for the last ten years, leads the event.

No charge. Starts at 7 p.m. Call 954-630-1655.

Women4Women Support

A safe and loving place to explore all the concerns and topics raised by group members. This open drop-in meeting is held Wednesdays at 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the New Sun Serve Building at 2312 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Call 954-764-5150

Man2Man Discussion

Man-2-Man talk is an informal discussion group of gay men, with all age ranges and backgrounds welcomed. Bldg A, Room 206. Visit Glccsf.org/calendar/

Palm Beach County The Santaland Diaries

The Santaland Diaries will open Parade Productions’ second season on Dec.13, and run through Dec. 23 at the Studio Theatre at Mizner Park in Boca Raton. The Santaland Diaries hilariously relates David Sedaris’ experiences when he reluctantly worked as an elf in Macy’s Christmastime Santaland display, and offers an uproarious behind-the-scenes look at how department stores manufacture Christmas spirit. Visit ParadeProductions.org

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PhilanthroFest 2013

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YOGA Among the Orchids

It’s time for Yoga Among the Orchids at the American Orchid Society, 16700 AOS Lane, Delray Beach. Relax and replenish the flower inside with an hour of breathing exercises, toning, and yoga poses under a canopy of lush orchids. Classes are Wed. at 9 a.m. Cost is $20 and RSVP is suggested. Call 561-4042011. Visit OrchidWeb.org

Jazz on the Palm

Jazz on the Palm - Downtown West Palm Beach Waterfront - Gather with friends and family to enjoy the diverse vibrant sounds of jazz under the stars every 3rd Friday of month at the new Downtown West Palm Beach waterfront concert series. Free and open to the public. Guests are encouraged to bring blankets and chairs. From 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. Visit Wpbgo. com/2010/06/jazz-on-the-palm

BrothasSpeak

This group is a black gay men’s discussion group that is held at the Compass in West Palm Beach. Every Wednesday from 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. this group will be directed toward issues for and about black men. Visit Compassglcc.com

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Paths

Paths is a social/discussion group held at Compass in Lake Worth. This men’s group takes place every Monday from 7:30 p.m. to 9 p.m. Paths men’s group will be discussing relationships, coming out, safer sex issues and more. Visit Compassglcc.com

Yoga

Yoga with Deborah will change your life. Bring a mat and get ready to stretch the stress away every Tuesday at The GLCC in Palm Beach from 6 to 7 p.m. This yoga experience will uplift and transform your life. $6 Entry Fee. You must bring your own mat. Visit Compassglcc.com

Living Buddhism

On the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. Compass in Lake Worth will be holding a discussion group for overcoming obstacles and obtaining happiness. This group is great for getting internal enlightenment. Release your inner stress, and become free. Visit Compassglcc.com

The PhilanthroFest 2013 launch party is a wonderful gathering of philanthropists, business professionals, non-profit staff and volunteers. Includes a sponsored bar, sponsored food, music, raffles and more. Everyone is welcome to attend on Nov. 29 from 6 p.m. until 10 p.m. The goal of this event is to promote the upcoming PhilanthroFest 2013, to be held in April of 2013. Also, this will provide an excellent networking opportunity for south Florida non-profits and those interested in philanthropy. Visit Rsvp.philanthrofest.com

BIG BANG Event

Young Patrons and Big Bang Committee invite you to Kick Off our Event Season and celebrate the coming of the Third Annual Big Bang, the Museum’s premiere young professional gala event on Dec. 6, 5:30 p.m. until 8:30 p.m. Complimentary admission and Open Bar. This event will take place at the Miami Science Museum. Call at 305-646-4200

Drag Queens at Sea

Join ALandCHUCK.travel and CRUISE on Dec 1, with the largest gathering of Drag Stars ever! Join nearly 40 stars along with Celebrity Hostess Michelle Visage for an incredible 8 day cruise with cocktail parties, drag performances, comedy shows, Q&A panels and so much more. Visit Facebook.com/ events/148246971907863/.

Ransom Mondays

Need an excuse to keep partying well after the weekend is over? The Monday-night party at the recently renovated Collins Park lounge. This amazing party will take place at Mokai in Miami Beach. The party, hosted by Mark Lehmkuhl, sort of takes now-defunct Bella Rose’s Black Sunday murder mystery theme but gives it a Patty Hearst twist. Every week, some prominent nightlife fixture gets held for ransom, and the only way it gets returned is if you party your ass off. Only $20 to attend. Visit Mokaimiami.com

Rainbow Circle

Rainbow Circle is a peer-led LGBTQ support & discussion group. Topics covered often include coming out, relationships, bullying, peer pressure, drugs & alcohol, depression and selfesteem. You pick and develop discussion topics and are able to express your thoughts and feelings without fear in a safe and supportive environment. This group will take place every Monday from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the University of Miami, Flipse Building #302. Visit Pridelines.org

Sex Talk

Sex Talk: Peer Health Educators are young LGBTQ adults who learn how to talk to other young adults about sex, sexuality and HIV/STD prevention. You’ll conduct outreach events, record video messages, participate in a series of performances and organize special events with a purpose. This event takes place the second and fourth Thursday every month at Pridelines Headquarters located at 9526 NE 2nd Ave #104 In Miami Shores from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Visit Pridelines.org

Lambda Dade Clubhouse

A meeting place for the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender communities and friends in recovery. Hosts Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Al-Anon, Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Debtors Anonymous (DA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), and Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), meetings. (305) 573-9608. 212 NE 24th Street. Miami. Visit Lambdadadeclubhouse.org

nightlife Broward County 321-Slammer

2232 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 630-3556 Best Sound & Light Show in Broward County. Mondays “porn bingo” with Desiree Dubois. $3 Margaritas, $1 Draft

Bill’s Filling Station

2209 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-5978.

Large bar/ nightclub, amazing drink specials in Wilton Manors!

Wednesday’s after 9 p.m. $10 Miller Lite Beer Bust

Boardwalk

1721 N. Andrews Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33311.

(954) 463-6969. A Cute Little Hangout in Fort Lauderdale.

Pool-room/game room on one side and a bar/strip club on the other. Mondays $3 Well & Dom, after 9 p.m. $3 U-Call-It Shots

The Club Fort Lauderdale

Bathhouse. 110 NW 5th Ave., Fort Lauderdale, FL, (954) 5253344 Good. Clean. Fun. 1/2 price rooms...Tuesday Nights and 1/2 price Lockers. Thursdays Nights. Always busy.

Clubhouse II

Bathhouse. 2650 E. Oakland Park Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida (954) 566-6750. A Private Club for Bi/Gay men.

“Bear and Friends” Thursday $5 Off a room 8 p.m. to 11 p.m.

Tuesday Leather Night - $5 off for those in full leather gear.

Corner Pub Bar

1915 N. Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311, (954) 564-7335. Redefining what a bar should be.

Thursday’s margarita madness $4, Monday’s “Underwear Night. 2 for 1” until 9:30 p.m.

Cubby Hole

823 N. Federal Highway, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 728-9001.

The Cubby Hole is one of Fort Lauderdale’s most unique and popular Neighborhood bar for men. Underwear Wednesday’s. “Boxers n’ Briefs” get 2 for 1 drinks 9 p.m. to close

The Depot Cabana Bar and Grill

2935 N. Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 537-7076.

Voted the “Friendliest” Gay Bar in Fort Lauderdale. Monday’s $1.99 Drinks and $.50 wings open to close

Dudes Bar

3270 NE 33rd St Fort Lauderdale FL 954-568-7777. Sexy hot men starting to shake the booty daily from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m.

On Sundays enjoy karaoke with Peter Petrucci. Great drink specials every Monday with $1 well drinks from 9 p.m. to 2 a.m.

Georgie’s Alibi

2266 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 565-2526.

Fort Lauderdale’s best & longest happy hour. Wednesdays $2 Domestics & $1 Schnapps after 9 p.m.

Johnny’s

1116 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 522-5931.

Monday Dragon with TP Lords, Daisy D. and DJ Rob Sky Some of the hottest guys around with great happy hour drink specials. Bring all your friends to this sexy Bar.

The Manor

2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 626 0082 - Come Dine, Dance, Drink, Mingle and of course Relax. 2 for 1 happy hour Tues-Friday 3 to 9 p.m. Indoor/Outdoor Dining. Dance the night away Thursday through Sunday. Live music Wed., Fri., Sat., Sun. Visit themanorcomplex.com

Matty’s on the Drive

Bathhouse. 321 W Sunrise Blvd, Fort Lauderdale, Florida, 33311. Slammer sex club the best place to cruise for the hottest gay men. Thursday’s is leather night, Friday and Saturday night live DJs. Monday & Tuesday -- $9 entry fee

2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 (954) 564-1799.

Matty’s is one of the few bars in Wilton Manors that’s just that –a bar. Wild Wednesday’s $.75 Drinks, 13 Drinks for less than $10. 5 p.m.

Mona’s

502 E. Sunrise Boulevard, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 5256662. The eclectic décor and a friendly staff makes. Mona’s a great place to have fun in Fort Lauderdale. Thursday’s College Boy’s Night 8 p.m. Enjoy College Boy’s Choice 2 for 1

Monkey Business

2740 North Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311. (954) 5147819. The Monkey Business Bar is a Small Outdoor Bar Among The Shops Just off Marina Blvd. No Frills But Comfortable and a Great Place to Stop and Meet Good People. Happy Hour 8 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Naked Grape Wine Bar

2039 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305. (954) 563-5631.

A Casual, Hip, Fun Experience and if You Have a Taste for Deliciously Unique Wines, You Need to Make This Your Next Stop! Happy Hour All Night on Thursday

New Moon

2440 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 563-7660.

Your neighborhood lesbian bar in the heart of Fort Lauderdale and just minutes from Fort. Lauderdale Beach. Wednesday All the fun, half the price 2-4-1 All Day, All Night

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PJ’s Corner Pocket

924 North Flagler Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 533-0257. One of The Most Diverse Bars in Fort Lauderdale. $2 Drinks Every Wednesday, Spades Every Thursday

Ramrod

1508 NE 4th Ave, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, (954) 763-8219.

South Florida’s Leading Levi, Leather and Uniform Bar/Club.

Every night is Bear Night. Bear Happy. Hour Every Thursday.

Caged Hunks Sat Night

Rosie’s Bar and Grill

2449 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, (954) 567-1320.

Wilton Manor’s Best Burger in Town. Try the Fat Elvis. Happy Hour 5 p.m. to 9 p.m.

Scandals Country Western Bar

Miami-Dade Club Space

34 NE 11th St ,Miami ,Florida, 33132,(305) 350-1956 Space Miami Voted Best U.S Club IDMA 2011. The go-to venue for any nightlife enthusiast in the nation, the club is proudly marching on into its second decade of operation.

Club Sugar

2301 SW 32nd Ave, Miami, Florida, 33145, (305) 443-7657. All the sweetness you’ll need in one club. Every Thursday “drag wars” with TP Lords. $5 house drinks & $4 Domestic beers all night.

Discotekka

Oakland Park, FL 3334, (954) 567-2432. Scandals Gay and Lesbian Country Western. Dance Bar in Wilton Manors. Tuesdays Pool League, and Free Dance Lessons

950 NE 2nd Ave, Downtown Miami, Florida 33132,(305) 3509084. One of the best night clubs In Miami. Every Saturday the hottest DJ’s from the top performers. Drink Special Every Saturday

Sidelines Sports Bar

Johnny’s

2031 Wilton Drive, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33305, (954) 563-8001.

Sidelines Sports Bar and Billiards is a unique, friendly, and accepting place to relax with a cold beer, great drinks and Martinis. Happy Hour M-F 4 p.m. to 2 a.m.

Smarty Pants

3038 North Federal Hwy, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33306, (954) 561-1724. Great Local Hangout in Fort Lauderdale with Great Drink Specials. Saturday’s Free Breakfast to Order – 8 a.m.

Miami 62 NE 14 Street Downtown Miami Florida (305) 640-8749.

Open Wed. through Sun. The hottest men in the universe strip shows nightly from 6 p.m. sexy from wall to wall. Free entrance.

Free parking. Free VIP rooms. Featuring the Hottest Male Dancers and The Best VIP ROOMS and always $5 Drinks. Full Lineup at ed at http://www.Facebook.com/JohnnysMiami

Score

The Stable

205 East Oakland Park Blvd., Oakland Park, FL 33334, (954) 565-4506 A neighborhood bar with a different theme every night, from drag shows and bingos, to bears and underwear.

727 Lincoln Rd, Miami Beach, Florida, 33139. (305) 561-5521.

Score is located in the heart of South Beach in the thriving and infamous promenade, Lincoln Road. Bigger Saturday’s sexy male dolls.

Torpedo

Swinging Richards

2829 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, (954) 587-2500. Your Dance Destination Till Dawn. Open Late for You To Devour The Night. Open 7 nights a week till 4 a.m.

17450 Biscayne Blvd, N Miami Beach, Fl 33160 954-357-2532 Tuesdays-Saturdays from 6 p.m. to 6 a.m. Come and enjoy fully nude guys dancing to the best music in South Florida.

Twist *Village Pub & Piano Bar

2283 Wilton Dr. Wilton Manors, FL 33305, 754-200-5244 Villagepubwm.com Looking for a relaxing place to spend the early afternoon? Or perhaps you want to come in and “work?” We have incredibly fast WiFi, complimentary outlets for you to power up your phone or laptop AND 2-4-1 Happy Hour Monday-Saturday from 11 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Palm Beach County

The Cottage (Tea-Dance Sundays)

522 Lucerne Ave, Lake Worth, Fl, 33414. (561) 586-0080 Great Service, Great Food, Full Stocked Bar, Great Professional Tea-Dance every Sunday

Fort Dix

6205 Georgia Ave, West Palm Beach, Florida 33405 Directions, (561) 533-5355. Mostly local crowd looking to mingle and relax. Place rocks with a Fabulous DJ on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sunday T-Dance.

H.G. Rooster

823 BELVEDERE ROAD, WEST PALM BEACH FLORIDA 33405, (561)-832-9119. H.G. Roosters is West Palms oldest gay club.

Sunday’s Complimentary BBQ 5 p.m., Hot Male Dancers 6 p.m., Karaoke 11 p.m.

Mara (Thurs-Sat)

1132 North Dixie Highway, Lake Worth FL $3 Drinks. No Cover.

Open till 5 a.m. Ladies night on Thursdays and Karaoke on Fridays.

The Mad Hatter

1532 North Dixie Hwy ,Lake Worth, FL 33460. (561) 547-8860.

Cheap drinks, friendly bartenders, and free pool SundayThursday. Stop by and relax at this no-attitude haunt.

1057 Washington Ave, Miami Beach, Fl, 33139. (305) 538-9478.

Never a Cover…Always a Groove. Resident star DJ Mika spins tribal. Every Saturday TWIST is full of the hottest men in Miami. Muscle boy dancers taking it off in the Bungalow Bar.

Key West 801 Bar

801 Duval St., Key West, Florida,(305) 294-4737. Cabaret shows upstairs with nightly performances by famed performers Sushi, Kylie, RV Beaumont, Margo, and others. Happy hour specials daily from 11 a.m.- 8 p.m.

The Bourbon St. Pub

724 Duval St. (305) 296-1992. Key West’s premier video bar with LIVE DJ’S nightly. A taste of N’Awlins in the heart of Old Town – Enjoy Key West’s hottest music videos on the large screen while the boys entertain on the bar. No Cover.

La Te Da

1125 Duval St. 305-296-6706 Fun Gay-Friendly atmosphere.

Cabaret entertainment during season including Randy Roberts and Chris Peterson. Enjoy great live music Tuesday thru Sunday with Lenore Troia. Cover charge may apply. Great outside bar if you just want to enjoy a cocktail and chat while people watching on Duval Street.

Club Aqua

711 Duval St.,Key West, Florida,(305) 294-0555. Monday’s Dueling Bartenders. Your Bartender’s sing, shake, and stir their way through happy hour 5:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

Pearl’s Patio Bar

525 United Street, Key West, FL(305) 293-9805 ext. 156. Pearl’s Patio is a great place to enjoy a drink and relax. Happy Hour – every weekday from 5 p.m. to 7 p.m. Friday’s are Extended Happy Hour 5 p.m. - 9 p.m.

The Bar Lake Worth

2211 North Dixie Highway Lake Worth. (561) 370-3954 Thebarlakeworth.com. Men and women share this mostly-locals space as a calm and friendly watering hole. The bar often features live music which can be a nice break from thumping bass.

Tag Bar

25 Northeast 2nd Avenue, Delray Beach, FL 33483 954-801-3247.

Delray Beach’s only gay bar. Mon - Sun: 4 p.m. - 2 a.m.

Awesome Drink Specials.

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