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Lesbian ‘Sex and the City’ star received an LGBT award from Yale University

Actress Cynthia Nixon, who mesmerized television audiences for years as Miranda Hobbes in HBO’s “Sex and the City,” received Yale University’s first ever LGBT award.

The 46-year-old actress was given the “Artist for Equality” award on Feb. 8 as part of Yale University GALA Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender Alumni

Association’s Reunion Weekend.

Nixon is the first person to receive the accolade, which will be awarded every year to artists “who have demonstrated a strong commitment to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community,” according to Yale University.

Mickey Dobbs, co-president of the Yale GALA, said Nixon was selected for the honor for “representing the LGBT community with humor, intelligence

and enthusiasm.”

“From her political campaigning, to her editorial in Newsweek to her many speaking engagements, she has been a vigorous defender of marriage equality who has kept such an important issue in the public eye,” Dobbs added.

In a statement, the actress, who married her partner Christine Marinoni last year in New York, said she was “incredibly honored” by the award.

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Citizens United, the conservative nonprofit famous for a Supreme Court case decision that allowed for the creation of Super PACs, has filed an amicus brief in favor of the Defense of Marriage Act. On its brief, the group claims DOMA, which defines marriage as the union

‘Ex-Gay’ Therapist Jailed for Molesting Patients

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Levin’s trial began in 2010 soon after one of his patients recorded a video using a hidden camera during one of the sessions with the therapist. The video showed Levin undoing the man’s belt and jeans and appearing to fondle him.

“They came to you for help for their problems,” Court of Queen’s Bench Justice Donna Shelley said as quoted by the Canadian Press. “Instead you added to their problems.”

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Levin initially faced nine counts of sexual assault involving male patients but the jury came to a decision on five counts and acquitted him on two.

He gained the nickname “Dr. Shock,” after allegedly subjecting hundreds of gay South African soldiers and many others to shock therapy during the country’s Apartheid, according to the Gay Star News.

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South African conversion therapist was convicted for fondling his male patients A 74-year-old South African conversion therapist has been sentenced to five years in jail after sexually assaulting at least three patients in Canada.

Dr. Aubrey Levin was convicted on three counts of sexual assault on Jan. 28, Canada’s CBC News reports.

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The group writes that the Constitution’s Fifth Amendment doesn’t include any guarantees against discrimination -- for racial minorities in the public school system, or for gays and lesbians attempting to get married.

The Supreme Court is scheduled to hear oral arguments in Windsor v. United States starting March 27, and arguments on California’s Proposition 8 gay marriage ban on March 26.

between a man and a woman, is constitutional. The group’s argument centers on the “equal protection component” of the Due Process Clause of the Fifth Amendment, which was solidified by landmark cases during the Civil Rights movement regarding desegregation.

Citizens United believes the decisions on those cases to grant equality to blacks were wrong; according to Think Progress.

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Marco Rubio Doesn’t Want Immigration Reform to be a Gay Rights Issue Photo Courtesy of gage skidmore

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Senator Marco Rubio speaking at the 2012 CPAC in Washington, D.C.

lorida Sen. Marco Rubio, the charismatic young gun of the Republican Party, said in a recent interview he hopes the bipartisan immigration overhaul plan doesn’t become a gay rights issue.

“The immigration issue has so many landmines and pitfalls that it’s going to be hard enough to do, as is,” Rubio, who was dubbed the Party’s “savior” in the latest cover of Time Magazine, told BuzzFeed.

Adding in reference to bi-national gay couples: “I think if that issue becomes a central issue in the debate, it’s just going to make it harder to get it done because there’s going to be a lot of strong feelings about it on both sides.”

The Defense of Marriage Act, which defines marriage as the union between a man and a woman, prohibits a gay American legally married to an immigrant from seeking a permanent resident visa for his foreign partner.

President Obama said he intended to include gay bi-national couples in his immigration plan, according to the

Associated Press. He has even met with several immigration groups at the White House, including Immigration Equality, a group advocating for equality in immigration laws for LGBT people.

If passed, the immigration reform could affect an estimated 11-million illegal immigrants living in the U.S. Rubio has kept a conservative outlook on gay rights.

Last year, he sat down with Christianity Today discuss his faith and said that while he condemns gay marriage from a religious point of view, he left the door open about the issue from a legislative standpoint.

“It’s not a discriminatory thing. I’m not angry at anyone because of it, but I also have to be honest about what I believe marriage should be in our laws,” he said.

During the last election in November, he joined other conservative party leaders like Mike Huckabee and Minister James Dobson recording robocalls to help sway people into voting against gay marriage referendums in Maine, Maryland and Washington.

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Florida’s Tavares City Approves Domestic Partnerships

Tavares just became the first city in Central Florida’s Lake County to offer gay couples a chance at gaining some rights approaching marriage.

On Feb. 6, city council members voted 4-1 in favor of the registry, which will be set up

by May 1, according to the Orlando Sentinel.

A domestic partnership gives unmarried couples rights to, among other things, hospital visitations in case the other one’s ill, funeral and burial arrangements, and child education decisions.

The Sentinel writes that about 100 people attended the council meeting to show their support for the measure.

Only one Tavares resident, conservative blogger Vance Jochim, spoke against the creation of the registry, arguing it will now attract a large number of gays.

“You might see a migration of people of more exhibitionist behavior,” Jochim said.

Broward, MiamiDade, Orange, Palm Beach, and Volusia counties, along with several cities, already offer domestic registries in Florida.

Obama Nominates Openly Gay Judge for Court Of Appeals

Justice Department Attorney Todd Hughes could become the first openly gay judge on the federal appeals court after President Obama’s nomination on Feb. 7.

In order for Hugues to become a federal judge, he would first have to be confirmed by the Senate.

LGBT rights groups like Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund issued responses praising the president’s choice.

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“If confirmed, Todd Hughes would become the first openly gay federal appeals court judge in U.S. history. His nomination is a testament to the expanding opportunities for openly LGBT Americans who want to serve their country, and to the president’s respect for the depth of talent and experience within the LGBT community,” Victory Fund President Chuck Wolfe said in a statement.

“We look forward to his confirmation by the U.S. Senate.”

This isn’t the first time Obama has nominated an openly gay person to the Federal Circuit Court of Appeals. In 2010, the president nominated Deward DuMont, who after waiting more than 18 months for a confirmation hearing withdrew his nomination, according to Metro Weekly.

Last November, Obama nominated MiamiDade Judge William Thomas, who could become the first openly gay black man to serve as a federal judge.

A 2010 Associated Press story states that since his first term, Obama has appointed more openly gay officials than any other president in history.

Adult Trayvon Martin Would’ve Been a Gay Crack Whore, Republican Said

The former executive director of the South Carolina Republican Party has received death threats following a series of racially-charged tweets during the Super Bowl on Sunday.

“This Super Bowl sucks more dick than adult Trayvon Martin would have for drug money,” read one of Todd Kincannon’s tweets sent out on Feb. 3 at around 6 p.m.

Martin was an unarmed black teenager who was shot and killed in Sanford, Florida last year. The shooter, George Zimmerman, argued he defended himself. The case, which is still ongoing, revived issues of race and questions about Florida’s “Stand Your Ground” law.

Kincannon went on Huffington Post on Feb. 4 to defend himself, saying the tweets were “nothing more than satire.”

“The left has decided that Trayvon Martin was just this perfect little angel,” he told HuffPost. “He was a thug. He tweeted about drug use. This guy, he was a criminal, and the left has decided to make him some sort of martyr. That is what I don’t understand.”

Some LGBT media outlets, like Queerty, fired back against the outspoken politician.

“It’s like, who goes there? One minute we’re all grumbling about the blackout and the next you’re throwing shade at a murdered black youth. Way to be a buzzkill, Sir Buzz Killington … What a thug,” wrote Queerty’s Dan Avery.

According to Wonkette, Kincannon got busted sexting pictures of his penis to young ladies last October.

“I stand for free speech and I stand for honest speech, and I think more people need to use it,” Kincannon added.

‘Ex-Gay’ Christian Blogger Exposed On Grindr

The powers of religion may not have been enough to veer an “ex-gay” Christian advocate away from gay hook-up app Grindr.

Matt Moore, a blogger for the Christian Post who has said Christianity helped him to turn away from his homosexual tendencies, was exposed actively using his Grindr account, according to Freethought blog writer Zinnia Jones.

The “ex-gay” promoter admitted to using Grindr: “I am wrong in having been on grindr. I haven’t changed my views on homosexuality, the bible, etc.,” he told Jones.

He promised that this will be his last time using the gay hook-up app: “Thankfully, I believe that He forgives me for this disobedience. I believe the blood of Christ covers this disobedience. And I won’t be on grindr again….ever.”

The “ex-gay” Christian advocate had gone as far as doing interviews with Christian websites on how his homosexuality was cured through religion.

college. It will also offer lectures and training on social media, youth suicide—particularly aimed at LGBT students—bullying and cyberbullying , and understanding and promoting safe and inclusive social environments, according to the university’s website.

The New York Times reports the center will kick off its programs in March with a lecture on “growing up digital,” followed up by a conference on transgender issues in April.

“It’s bittersweet,” Jane Clementi, Tyler’s mother, told the Times. “It calls up a lot of pain and sadness, but at the same time it gives me some hope that I can be part of a better future for someone else. There are other Tylers out there, but they won’t have to go through what Tyler went through.”

In 2010, Tyler Clementi jumped off the George Wa s h i n g t o n Bridge after his roommate, Dharun Ravi, spied on him using a webcam as Clementi, who was still in the closet, kissed another man.

The video was seen by at least half a dozen other students.

Days later, Clementi posted on Facebook: “Jumping off the gw bridge, sorry.”

Ravi was convicted in 2012 of invasion of privacy, bias intimidation and other counts. He served less than a month in jail and is currently appealing his conviction.

Rutgers University to Open Center in Memory of Tyler Clementi

New Jersey’s Rutgers University announced today (Feb. 4) the creation of a center in honor of Tyler Clementi, a gay student who jumped to his death of off a bridge after he was filmed by his roommate kissing another man.

The center will serve to create programs to help students transition to

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NATIONAL NEWS

Scholarship Opportunity for LBT Women

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Aqua Foundation awarded $53,000 in 2012

Robin Schwartz, Executive Director of AFW, (left) and Shelley Freeman, Lead Region President of Wells Fargo in Florida (right) at Aqua Affair 2012

By Andrea Dulanto

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hree LBT women. Three different stories. One common denominator.

Bridget Pelaez started out wanting to be a nurse. But as she finishes nursing school, she’s decided that she wants to further her education to become a doctor of osteopathic medicine.

Charrise Alexander, a law student at the University of Miami, teaches Street Law at Breakthrough Miami, an academic enrichment program for students from disadvantaged communities in Miami-Dade. After graduation, she plans to take the Bar and work at a law firm in Washington, D.C. Kim Ehly is completing her Master of Social Work in May 2013, and intends to open a private practice as a psychotherapist and life coach. She also created her own theater company, Kutumba Theatre Project, which premiered the award-winning play, Baby GirL, a production she wrote and directed.

Those three LBT women are on three different career paths—but last year, they each received support from the same organization: the Aqua Foundation for Women (AFW).

Since 2007, AFW has offered scholarships for LBT women to attend colleges and universities in South Florida. In 2012, they presented fifteen scholarships for a total of $53,000.

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Schwartz, shared that the organization was “inspired by the model set by the Point Foundation [another scholarship program for LGBTQ students].” She also named what Aqua Scholars have in common: “the desire for higher education, proven success in previous endeavors, and a past experience and present interest in being part of the greater LGBT community through service.”

What also adds to the success of the Aqua Scholarship experience is the mentorship program.

“Each scholar is matched with a mentor,” Schwartz said. “There are monthly reports to assure the mentors and scholars are meeting the requirements of the program, [and] we hold quarterly meetings where all the mentors and the scholars get together.”

Alexander reflected on the significance of the mentorship program: “The scholarship has given me great access to LBT women who are leaders in the South Florida community… our quarterly meetings have become a great space for community and a safe space to find support for my struggles and cheerleaders for my successes.”

In addition to support, mentors encourage scholars to give something back to their communities. “[They] have shown me that as a strong lesbian woman, I cannot only achieve my own personal goals, but I may be able to help others achieve theirs,” Pelaez said. Some of her

accomplishments include organizing toy and food drives during the holidays, and establishing a Mentor/ Mentee day for new nursing students at Nova Southeastern University.

Ehly has also found value in mentors.

“The relationships I have built with the women of Aqua will continue to be a strong network of support and mutual respect long after I graduate.”

This year, in addition to the general scholarship, AFW presents two new scholarships: one for LBT women with physical disabilities, and another for LBT Latina women.

There will also be more focus on developing leaders.

“Our new Program Director Elsa Roberts is currently creating a course which will help the scholars learn vital leadership skills necessary for career advancement,” Schwartz said.

Their emphasis will be on “building a strong core of women to lead the LBT community for years to come.”

How to apply: Deadline:

Monday, February 25, 2013

Website:

AquaFoundation.org/scholarships

Contact:

Elsa Roberts Aqua Foundation for Women 4500 Biscayne Boulevard, Suite 340 Miami, Florida 33137 305-576-2782 scholars@aquafoundation.org

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NATIONAL NEWS

Murders Raise Concerns in New York LGBT Community

By Sergio N. Candido

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he similarity and proximity of the murders of four gay men in New York City has members of the LGBT community thinking they might be the target of a serial killer.

PIX11 reports that two gay men were recently killed in Queens. The murders happened one week apart, with the latest one being on Feb. 9.

Police said they found the body of 54-year-old Joseph Benzinger lying in the floor of a room in the Crown Hotel in Queens. He had been strangled.

The week before, 53-year-old David Rangel was also murdered on 91st street, according to the New York Daily News.

Police are still investigating two other murders of gay men that took place last month. On one of the murders, the victim, Lou Rispolli, a 62-year-old gay activist died after two men hit him in the head with a blunt object.

In the other murder, Charles Romo, 48, was found dead with his hands tied and a

plastic bag over his beaten head.

Daniel Dromm, a gay activists and city council member, is urging members of the gay community to be careful when using dating apps like Grindr.

The Anti-Violence Project also released a statement after the first wave of murders last month.

“AVP is deeply concerned about these homicides and our condolences go out to the friends and loved ones of the victims. We are looking into both of these homicides further to determine if they were hookup or dating violence or if intimate partner violence played a role in either of these tragic deaths,” Sharon Stapel, executive director of the New York City Anti-Violence Project, said.

“We want to make sure that LGBTQ people and all New Yorkers are aware of all forms of violence affecting our communities, including dating or pick up violence, and let them know about AVP’s safety information and support.”

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NATIONAL NEWS

Still No Benefits for Family of Deceased Lesbian Officer

By Ryan Dixon

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.S. Army Chief Warrant Officer Charlie Morgan came out on national television nearly two years ago, the day “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” was repealed. On Feb. 10, Morgan passed away after battling breast cancer, one day before Defense Secretary Leon Panetta announced that certain benefits will now be extended to openly gay service members and their partners.

“At the time of repeal, I committed to reviewing benefits that had not previously been available to same-sex partners based on existing law and policy,” Panetta said on

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Feb. 11, as quoted by The Huffington Post.

“It is a matter of fundamental equity that we provide similar benefits to all of those men and women in uniform who serve their country.”

The benefits include commissary privileges, military welfare and recreation for families, and family relocation of the officer is stationed anywhere in the world, among other things.

Since coming out in 2011, Morgan was at the forefront of challengers to the federal government’s Defense of Marriage Act. DOMA, a federal law that defines marriage

as the union between a man and a woman, denied Morgan’s wife, Karen Morgan, and their daughter from receiving Social Security, military and pension benefits.

Allyson Robinson, executive director for OutServe-SLDN, said Morgan was a courageous fighter—both for our country and gay rights—and she deserved to receive equal benefits.

“She made an indelible mark on everyone she met with her integrity, her positive outlook, and her unflinching commitment to righting the wrongs visited upon gay and lesbian military families,” Robinson said in a statement. “The fight for full LGBT equality in this country is forever changed because Charlie Morgan took up the cause.”

While Morgan’s family seems to be one step closer to achieving equality, OutServeSLDN Communication Director Zeke Stokes said it’s unclear how the Pentagon’s decision will impact the lesbian soldier’s family given the timing of death.

Unavailable to Karen Morgan and their

daughter right now are Charlie Morgan’s survival benefits, healthcare benefits and over 100 other benefits that are granted to straight military members and their families due to the restrictions of DOMA, according to Stokes.

(Are you a gay service member? Find out exactly what benefits you’ll be receiving) Stokes added that his organization is focused on helping those who are still serving and making sure they receive everything that they deserve.

Last month, gay and lesbian veterans who had been honorably discharged due to their sexual orientation while DADT was still in effect won a court settlement to receive full separation pay.

Panetta said the new benefits to service members could be implemented by Aug. 31, and no later than Oct. 1.

Stokes told SFGN: “We will be working closely with [Karen Morgan] to ensure a decision that would be beneficial to them.”

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‘Just a House’ Couple loses home to fire, takes it in stride

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ast week, Barry Feinstein and David Gilmore had to explain to their three-year-old granddaughter Zoey what happened to her newly decorated lavender and pink bedroom.

Just after midnight on Jan. 31, two explosions coming from the carport startled the couple, quickly igniting a fire. The flames burned through the main wall that connected the carport to the house and spread through the attic — including little Zoey’s room.

“She has stayed with us every weekend since she was three weeks old,” Feinstein said. “We’re lucky she wasn’t with us that night.”

Neither Feinstein, 64, nor Gilmore, 60, was injured during the fire.

“The house was filled with noxious, black, boiling smoke belching everywhere,” Gilmore explained. “The interior of the house incurred water and smoke damage immensely, and the firemen had to break holes in the ceiling of every room to fight the fire in the attic.”

So far, officials are perplexed at what triggered the blaze and the cause is still under investigation.

Despite the extensive damage, the couple is upbeat and taking the incident in stride.

“We lost nothing important, nothing heartfelt. We were able to rescue everything.

It was just fire and smoke damage,” Gilmore said. “After [the fire department] covered the house in foam, we almost threw a foam party afterwards.”

The two credit the quick response of the police, as well as the Fort Lauderdale and Wilton Manors fire departments.

“The police and fire department could not have been any nicer or more cooperative,” Feinstein said. “We were so pleased.”

Thanks to a realtor neighbor, the couple has settled into a rental while they make repairs to their damaged home, and continue to stay positive as they deal with the aftermath.

“We have been together 34 years, wherever Barry and I are together is home,” Gilmore said. “That is just a house.”

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SPORTS

The Sunshine Cup Is Back Gay flag football season kicks off

By Ryan Dixon

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he National Football League season just came to an end, but another football league is starting to get its wheels turning.

The 2013 National Gay Flag Football League season kicks off with its first tournament, the South Florida Gay Flag Football League’s Sunshine Cup. The third annual tournament takes place on President’s Day weekend, Feb. 16-17.

Tournament Coordinator Javier Cavero is excited that the tournament has almost doubled in size, with 13 amateur teams participating in this year’s tournament, many making their way to South Florida from other states.

“Who wants to be in that weather mess up north when you can be in sunny South Florida,” Cavero said. “A lot of teams plan vacations around our tournament.”

One of those teams is the Chicago Breeze, captained by Tyler Foerster .

Foerster said that the sun and the large LGBT presence has brought him and his 12-player team back for their second Sunshine Cup. “The whole feel of the Wilton Manors community has brought us back for this tournament,” Foerster said. “This tournament is a good way for our guys to get ready for the spring season up North. The beaches don’t hurt either.”

The fun atmosphere of the community and the competiveness of the Cup make are

what make it a must play according to both Cavero and Foerster.

“A lot of teams take advantage of our format,” Cavero said. “You get games in no matter what.”

Teams are broken up into three groups for Round-Robin style of play, with the top eight teams from those groups moving on to a single elimination tournament. The other teams are placed into a consolation bracket.

“Last year’s sixth place finish is something we want to improve on,” Foerster said. “We’re looking forward to being social and bonding as a team.”

Local bars have stepped up to offer some entertainment for incoming and local teams.

Things kick off on Feb. 14 at the Village Pub for those teams that arrive early.

Friday, Feb. 15 is registration day and a sort of “meet and greet” for the teams at Depot, while those that like to dance are being welcomed at the Manor Complex on Wilton Drive. On Feb. 16 after the games, players will be encouraged to compete in the “Tight End” contest where the best full back wins $100 in cash. Sunday is closing party and awards will be hosted by Sidelines Sports Bar. “Our team this year is more focused,” Foerster said. “Above all else we want to have fun.”

The competition starts on at 9 a.m. on Friday, Feb. 15 at the fields at Mills Pond Park.

For more information on the SFGFFL or the Sunshine Cup visit sfgffa.com.

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gold settings. The options are endless and I love the idea that each partner has the opportunity to set themselves apart and, yet, be true to themselves.

Guest Column

The New Rules of Engagement

By Rony Tennenbaum

IN STYLE – When it comes to style, there may be a preconceived notion that lesbians want daintier versions and the gay look is more masculine. But, in my experience, the men more often buy the glitz and sparkly, while lesbians seem more practical than the men – will this design get scratched easily or is this the right fit for my daily activities? Quite a reversal from typical sexual stereotyping! This is how I learned the valuable lesson of unisex – gender does not necessarily determine style.

FINANCE & THE FIANCE – Before beginning to shop for rings, establish a budget. Consider the potential cost of two

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ith the recent election legalizing gay marriage in three more states, there is an expected surge of same-sex couples who will tie the knot in the coming year. And now, a new set of rules come into play. For heterosexuals, the norms are wellestablished– man woos woman and buys the engagement ring, the bride wears white and they live happily ever after. But what is the new etiquette for those in a same-sex relationship?

HAPPILY EVER AFTER – I believe everyone has the right to a “happily ever after” – no matter their gender or sex. But the etiquette of engagement and rules of marriage are evolving and I find myself in the heart of this transition. As a gay jewelry designer, I have enjoyed crafting beautiful works of art that couples will enjoy wearing for generations as symbols of love. For decades, I have helped same-sex couples translate their sentiment into meaningful custom rings – and guiding them on how to maneuver and redefine some of the ‘stereotypical’ rules of engagement.

GET ENGAGED – The LGBT community

has been so focused for decades on receiving equal rights to marry; yet, I find so many couples bypass a very beautiful part of a relationship - the engagement period.

Whether the act of proposing comes from one partner or both, the joyous experience of receiving of a ring and promising to exchange vows is a sentimental part of any couple’s journey. And what better way to commit to one another if you live in a state that has not yet legalized same sex marriage?

Call it an extended engagement!

engagement rings and two wedding bands.

Once a couple sets a limit, they should stick to it and not be afraid to just say ‘no’ when bigger and larger budget items catch their eye. There are many options to keep couples within a budget and sometimes settling for just a fraction of a size smaller in diamond weight can save a considerable amount on the final ticket. Couples shouldn’t be afraid to ask for options on designs they fall in love with. (Plus, there are always anniversaries for upgrades!)

Manhattan-based fine jewelry designer Rony Tennenbaum specializes in wedding and engagement rings for the gay and lesbian community, with designs inspired by his commitment to marriage equality. His collections are available on ronytennenbaum.com as well as at Maurice’s Jewelers, 11865 S. Dixie Highway, Miami, FL

ELEMENT OF SURPRISE – Many of the

behavioral patterns and characteristics we find in heterosexual couples are also seen in same-sex couples. There is the “romantic” who wants to surprise the other partner and then there is the couple who does due diligence, planning each step together.

While I am a romantic and love the idea of one partner secretly shopping for another, I understand the discomfort that may come with a surprise purchase of jewelry that is intended to be worn for a lifetime. My advice, for any romantic, is to familiarize him or herself with the partner’s taste and let the timing of the proposal be the surprise.

THE PROPOSAL – I am often asked,

“Who proposes to whom and is there reciprocation?” Since there are as many dynamics as there are partners, there is no standard. If a couple shops together, the role of the “ring bearer” has probably been decided. In some cases, the ring exchange is mutual. In others a more dominant partner might take initiative and other times the quieter of the two steps up and surprises.

Once the proposal takes place, there may be a desire for reciprocation, which can lead to a second proposal.

MIX ‘N MATCH – The most asked

question: Are matching rings required? In my youth, I probably would have advocated for matching, but now my answer is a resolute ‘no.’ Diversity is acceptable, even laudable, and it is important that each person promote his or her individuality within the unity. For example, my Air collection offers a choice of princess cut diamonds or round, black or white diamonds, and yellow, pink or white

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Top Ten Reasons to Volunteer

By Ana Zagazeta

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ith so many people volunteering in so many different ways, the individual reasons for volunteering are almost endless. As Compass gears up for a busy season of celebrations, bigger than ever signature events, new programs and groups, we want to share why it is important to volunteer in your community.

It’s good for you.

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Volunteering provides physical and mental rewards. Experts report that when you focus on someone other than yourself, it interrupts usual tension-producing patterns. And it might also make you healthier. Being in a good mood and having happy emotions can strengthen your immune system.

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It saves resources.

No.

Volunteering provides valuable services. The volunteer hours donated to Compass throughout all of last year, if converted to comparable salary, it’s almost $150,000.

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No.

Volunteers gain experience.

8 professional Whether you volunteer

as an HIV tester/counselor, in the Case Management department, with our Youth Program, coordinating events, analyzing and entering our visitor’s data or at outreach events you can gain knowledge of a new field of expertise that might change the course of your career.

It brings people together.

No.

Many non-profits serve as a focal point for community organizing. By volunteering, you contribute to increasing the connectivity within your own community.

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Promotes personal growth.

No.

Understanding the needs of your community helps to see the value of your resources and increases positive representation within your community.

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Volunteering strengthens the fabrics of your community.

as a community educator, advocate, health services provider or promote community organizing.

No.

You learn a lot about and the world 4 yourself around you.

You can discover hidden passions and talents. Through your volunteer work, you can learn more about other resources in the community.

No.

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Giving back

People support organizations that stand up for what they believe in, serve the ones they love, and advocate for a stronger community.

No.

It encourages civic 2 responsibility.

If you look at life, every part of it

asks us to make an investment in time and often money. Volunteerism is an investment of time for our community and the people who live in it.

You make a difference.

No.

Compass always refers to its volunteers as the heart of the agency. Just like the one on your chest, every single volunteer pumps life into every single activity and program Compass provides to the community one person at a time.

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Without volunteers at Compass, there would be no PrideFest of Lake Worth and the Palm Beaches in March, no Stonewall Black & White Party in June, no Board of Directors to govern the agency, no front desk to greet visitors, no attendant at the David Bohnett cyber center to sign you in the computer, and no groups would be able to meet in our center.

So, what you get from volunteering depends on what you give. Being a volunteer enriches your life with new friends, new skills, and experiences.

Ana Zagazeta is the Communications Coordinator at Compass Community Center.

If you would like to get more involved at Compass please email us at ana@ compassglcc.com

As a volunteer you might serve

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Jesse’s Journal

A Bitter Valentine

By Jesse Monteagudo

A

s we begin the second Obama Administration, many Americans - like the President himself have “evolved” in their attitudes about same-sex couples. Though marriage equality is still a long way off - especially in “red states” like Florida - mainstream views about lesbian or gay couples have softened considerably.

To an increasing number of straight Americans, the two men or two women who live next door, contribute to the life of their community and (in many cases) take their children to the nearby school are not friends or roommates (at best) or sinners or perverts (at worst). Rather, Joe and Bob or Kate and Mary are like any other couple: two human beings who formed a long-lasting, personal partnership that carried them through good times or bad.

It wasn’t always this way. For the longest time, many a durable lesbian or gay couple collapsed because it did not have a legal leg to stand on. One of the horrors of the early AIDS epidemic was the spectacle of a surviving partner fighting a losing battle for his lover’s person or property, against said lover’s biological relatives who couldn’t care less about their gay kinsman, but who had the law on their side. Many rights that straight married couples take for granted are not shared by legally unmarried, same-sex duos, thanks to the Defense Of Marriage Act and 31 state constitutions.

For this reason, same-sex couples are encouraged to be legally prepared with long-term health care insurance and with durable powers of attorney, designation of health care surrogate and preneed guardian, and living wills drafted in addition to the standard wills that all of us should have.

After all, we never know when adversity will strike.

Though those of us who are in committed relationships promise to love our partners through good times or bad times; when bad times strike we are caught totally unaware and, all too often, totally unprepared.

This is what happened to me, when Michael, my partner of 27 years, came down with a still-undiagnosed form of dementia.

In a real sense, Michael and I were the lucky ones: We have long-term health care, power of attorney and other essential documents (thanks to our attorney, Robin Bodiford), supportive families and a circle of friends.

But this did not make the emotional pain any easier to bear; not when the man you love becomes confused, forgetful or disoriented; or when he wanders away from home only to be found the next day, miles away. (Here again Michael was one of the lucky ones.

Many mentally ill people who walk away from home are never found.) Even worse was coming to the awful conclusion that I was not prepared to be a care giver, even if I had all the time in the world. Working against my deepest feelings, I placed Michael in an assisted living facility last July, where he still lives today. Though I visit Michael several times a week - and take him out almost as often - at the end of the day I have to take him back. And then go home alone.

Though Michael and I have our share of problems, being a same-sex couple is not one of them. After all, we live in Broward, the State of Florida’s bluest, gay-friendliest county.

In addition to the already-mentioned long term care insurance and legal documents, I work for a company that provides domestic partner benefits. (Here I refer to my day

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job, not to my evening and weekend job writing for LGBT publications and blogs that are, of course, supportive.)

Michael’s biological family, which in a dystopian universe could have given us legal hell and gotten away with it, is most supportive. Finally, the assisted living facility where Michael resides has been cooperative; and treats us as a couple.

February 14 is St. Valentine’s Day; a day when couples and other romantic units celebrate their love, loyalty and devotion. This year, for the first time since 1985, I will sleep alone on Valentine’s Day. But don’t feel sorry for me. The man I love is still alive; and well enough to spend at least part of V-Day with me. (Thankfully, Michael still knows who I am; and still appreciates my company.) It will be a bitter Valentine, but a Valentine nonetheless.

I cherish the years that Michael and I spent together and look forward to the moments when we can be together; as few and fleeting as they might be.

Jesse Monteagudo, SFGN Senior Features Correspondent, is a South Florida-based writer and journalist.

Jesse has been a contributor to the LGBT press since 1975, specializing in book and movie reviews, essays and interviews. His stories and essays have been published in more than thirty fiction and non-fiction anthologies.

But this did not make the emotional pain any easier to bear; not when the man you love becomes confused, forgetful or disoriented; or when he wanders away from home only to be found the next day, miles away.

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Kiss Benedict Goodbye And Wish For Pink Smoke

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ope Benedict XVI has announced that he will retire the papacy on February 28. In hindsight, there were recent signs hinting at this. He made his beloved secretary Georg Gänswein an archbishop, assuring the handsome fellow a post-papal future in the hierarchy of the Roman Catholic Church. He promoted the servile head of his household, American James Harvey, to cardinal. These are the kind of loose ends tied up by an aged pope who had years ago stated his willingness to voluntarily vacate the papacy should he no longer be able to fulfill the duties of that office. No one ever expected him to exercise that option, given the obvious delight he took in the ermine, velvet and watered silk that perpetually swathed him as he seemed to float through the serene routine of his seven-year papacy.

From the immaculate soles of his Pradas to the jeweled tip of his gold-threaded mitre, Pope Benedict XVI has been a paragon of gilded denial whose brow furrowed briefly when confronted with news of pedophile priests, church cover-ups, condom use in Africa, unruly nuns, plummeting Sunday church attendance and a general lack of new and renewed subscription to a church that has kept its flock in line with the threat that disobedience to the infallible moral teaching of its pope would lead to eternal fire in hell.

Benedict once said that it would not bother him if the Catholic Church should become drastically smaller in size by the weeding out of dissenters. His “my way or the highway” approach to pastoral leadership resulted in the silent and almost unnoticed mass exodus of significant numbers of American Catholics who simply stopped getting

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By Tony Adams married in church, stopped going to church on Sunday, stopped feeling guilty about gay sex, artificial birth control, condoms or vibrators, stopped entering the confessional on Saturday afternoon, stopped becoming nuns and priests, and, as was disclosed in startling recent surveys, stopped believing that gay people should not have equality and that other belief systems are not just as good as Catholicism.

What can we expect of the 117 votingage cardinals who will lock themselves into the Sistine Chapel next month and smoke the place up with the burned ballots that will elect Benedict’s successor? Will they choose a man who will stop the anti-gay crusades of recent years? Will they elect a man who will hold women in such high regard that he will relinquish obsessive control over their lady parts and grant them access to that exclusively male club of the Catholic priesthood? Will they elevate a man who will understand how wallowing in ostentatious wealth irritates not only the poor but workers struggling to provide for the basic survival of their families?

Will they tap a man who loves children in an honorable way and will cherish their innocence by getting rid of abusive priests with speed and transparency? Will they select a man who is comfortable with a mysterious and personal god who has one truth but who speaks differently to each of us?

Will they break with recent tradition and avoid bowing to any cardinal who treats god like a sock puppet, putting words in his mouth like a blustering Wizard of Oz? A cardinal of compassion and honesty would enjoy a large measure of instant

popularity, but cardinals are creatures who care little for popularity until such time as unpopularity means loss of revenue, the closing down of churches and schools, and the payment of millions of dollars in settlements for the victims of priestly abuse.

As they enter the Sistine Chapel, those fiscal realities will be writ with red ink on the ballots they burn to produce white smoke.

Among the American cardinals who will take part in the conclave are men I knew in Rome in the ‘70s, including Tim Dolan, Don Wuerl, Ray Burke, Jim Harvey, Justin Rigali and Dan DiNardo.

Most of them are celibate gay men who will never admit to being gay because they have that uncanny ability to feel same-sex attraction while eschewing the gay nametag.

DiNardo and Harvey may have some skeletons in their closets. Burke is a good henchman but not a charismatic leader. Rigali is an elegant diplomat but is not considered an antidote to the priest abuse scandal.

Wuerl persecuted bad priests when other bishops were wringing their hands but he may be slightly too refined for his own good.

That leaves Dolan, a man of great popularity, huge appetites, big laughter, at ease with women and a gigantic heart for humanity. He is often listed as a frontrunning “papabile” (potential pope) and is someone I believe will surprise the world if elected pope. Cardinal Dolan has always been a rule-follower and one of his appetites is his desire to please his boss as perfectly as possible. If he finds himself answering to no higher earthly authority, we will finally see what is in his heart as he tries to discern what god really wants of him.

Although the LGBT community has decried his strenuous efforts to thwart marriage equality, I know him as someone who took the time to write me a “let’s do lunch” letter after I sent him an email welcoming him to New York. He did not have to do that. He knew my situation, and also, he counts many gay priests among his close friends. I do not know if Tim Dolan is gay or straight. He was never the kind of guy who talked sex. I do know that I would

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Tony Talks

A young Tony Adams

rather have a straight pope who was our ally than another closeted gay pope who is our foe.

The pageantry of the election aside, the sad fact is that most of the LGBT community has shed anti-gay Catholicism, and is critical of those of us who wish for its reform. “Why bother with it?” they ask me.

Maybe the five years I spent marrying people, baptizing their babies, holding their hands on their deathbeds and absolving their tearful guilt in the secrecy of the confessional made me a better person.

Maybe I just want to see those good Catholics get the good pope they deserve.

Maybe I just want to tie up my own loose ends by seeing pink smoke from the chimney of the next conclave.

Tony Adams is a columnist, editor, playwright and ex-priest. He is Senior Features Correspondent with South Florida Gay News and a contributor at PRIDE magazine and The Mirror. His play A Letter From The Bishop had its first reading in New York City in 2012. In 2008, Tony married Christopher, his partner of 30 years. They live in Fort Lauderdale and Manhattan.

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Tony Talks

Sea And Symphony Of Sebrina Alfonso Photo by Peter ZUPCOFSKA

By Tony Adams

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Board Chairman Bob Wilson, Sebrina Alfonso and President/CEO Jacqueline Lorber

s Fort Lauderdale looks forward to receiving the internationally acclaimed Vienna Boys Choir in concert Saturday Feb. 16, an introduction to the lady who is responsible for their arrival and for the creation of the South Florida Symphony, now in its fifteenth year, is a Valentine swap between a world-class musician and the community she loves.

Sebrina Maria Alfonso grew up in Key West, a sixth-generation conch with Cuban roots. An encouraging sixth grade music teacher opened the doors to operatic and classical music for her. Fast forward to Naples Italy where her family had relocated when Alfonso was in high school. She remembers walking into a theater one afternoon.

“They were doing La Bohème and everyone was bawling their eyes out. It was an ‘aha’ moment for me,” she says. “That is when I decided to conduct.”

Alfonso’s career in music should make South Florida grateful that this is where she loves to live. She was accepted for study under the tutelage of some renowned teachers. She won prestigious awards. She had and still has offers to embrace larger markets and has given up significant opportunities in order to return to her roots, first in Key West and now in Fort Lauderdale.

Alfonso is well trained to deal with the financial hardships of an orchestra and is not afraid of the gamble.

“From the time I was a student, I was putting orchestral groups together.

That pattern began to repeat,” she says.

“My student years were my broke years.

Sometimes I’d be invited into a program to study with a master like Harold Farberman.

All the musicians would play poker at night.

They’d get pissed at me because when I won, I’d leave the table with my cash because I needed it to buy food.”

The summer of ’97 found Alfonso back

in Key West and talking to friends about starting an orchestra there. Her strong connections to the community fueled the fundraisers that she inspired. Hurricane George in ’98 almost derailed the project and Alfonso knew that she would have to move back to Key West permanently if her dream of a symphony orchestra in her backyard was to have any chance of success. “The reality was I wanted to move on from teaching. I had a board of directors in place in Key West.

We needed to pause for the storm cleanup,” she says. “After that, I had to figure out how to get musicians for an orchestra. There aren’t enough of them living in Key West.

I had to bring them in, and not for just one performance. I wanted to do a full season.”

One early challenge was importing the talent she needed.

“I began to tempt musicians I knew by saying, ‘If you had a choice of a group of people that you would enjoy sitting next to in an orchestra…’ This was a huge enticement,” she says. “In an orchestra, you don’t have a cubicle. You are up against the next musician. It’s body odor, it’s perfume, it’s all sorts of close proximity issues. I wanted musicians who are happy with each other.

Who interact almost the way jazz players do when they jam together. Today we have about 100 musicians that we can call on.”

The attacks on Sept. 11, 2001 and the tanking of the stock market hit Alfonso’s orchestra harder than any hurricane.

Snowbirds constitute a big part of her market. Her orchestra survived years when they were scarce. Along the way, she acquired the life she had hoped for.

“I got to live in Key West, close to my family. I got to work with great musicians.

I got to develop community programs for children,” she says. “More than anything else, I was proud that my family and friends saw what I do, what my talent is all about.”

In 2000, Alfonso sensed an opportunity

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that entailed her relocation to Fort Lauderdale. An orchestral group that served the same market as her Key West orchestra had terminated. She decided to fill that gap, and her South Florida Symphony is now at home in a 590-seat theater in the Broward Center.

Alfonso’s calm and cordial demeanor while at her office managing the artistry of her symphony is in sharp contrast to the passion she can whip up while on the conductor’s podium. But she also found passion unexpectedly in that office when her board asked her to interview Jacqueline Lorber, whom she then hired as the symphony’s president and CEO. “We worked a few months together and denied our attraction to each other. We were almost mean to each other because we didn’t want to acknowledge it. We were both in other relationships,” she says. “To me it was clear that she would be the love of my life.

We live and work together which some say is not a good way to have a relationship, but we have been together for three years. We are happy together, but how it came about is something I am not proud of it because people got hurt in the process.”

Robert Wilson, Chairman of the board for the symphony describes the interaction of the two ladies as a success.

“Sebrina and Jacqueline have very complimentary work styles. Jacqueline, a multi-tasker by nature, is gregarious and enjoys engaging people with the Symphony

so she handles most of the business activities like marketing, public relations, audience development and fund raising,” he says. “Sebrina focuses on the music.

She maintains the relationships with the musicians and programming. Like many musicians, she has a natural proclivity to technology and computers, so website development and electronic purchasing of tickets fall to her. Their love of the symphony makes them passionate about its success and boundaries between personal life and symphony don’t really exist.”

Jacqueline Lorber notes that the current season is 30 percent subscribed which is a very high rate for an orchestra of its size.

“We have very loyal supporters and then there is always that last minute rush for tickets,” she says.

Does Alfonso have personal plans for another move?

“No. This is where I love being,” she says. “Maybe I’d like to travel a bit and say yes to some invitations to do some guest conducting but my dream is to build this orchestra to the point where it has a full time staff of musicians, and then retire knowing that I can hand off to my successor a symphony that makes beautiful music for South Florida.”

Visit SouthFloridaSymphony.org for more information about Sebrina Alfonso, the symphony, and the upcoming performance of the Vienna Boys Choir.

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Guest Editorial

ALet ourCall to Action voices be heard in advance of the DOMA and Prop 8 cases

By Cleve Jones and David Mixner

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ow long? Not long, because no lie can live forever. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. spoke these words in Montgomery, Alabama on March 25, 1965 when the freedom marchers from Selma arrived at the State Capitol. They inspired us in our youth as they inspired the nation.

Between us, we have over 80 years of experience in the movement for peace and social justice. In particular, as gay men, we have fought for the rights and dignity of our own community, known today as LGBT. We do not claim that age necessarily brings wisdom, but it does bring memories and we have many.

In the past five decades we have seen slow but sustained progress towards acceptance and equality. That progress was the reward gained from the extraordinary courage and hard work of hundreds of thousands of ordinary men and women who made this cause the center of their lives, generation after generation. All of us stand on the shoulders of those who gave so much in the past.

In the past five decades, we have never seen anything like the progress we have witnessed over the past four years. In the months and years since Election Day of November, 2008 our movement has advanced immeasurably. We are indeed on the cusp of equality.

Now is the time, once again, to recognize the unique moment before us and to act with the greatest power and intelligence possible.

The United States Supreme Court will hear oral arguments in the two marriage equality cases on March 26 and 27. Many people have asked us what the community should do as we approach this remarkable milestone in history. Some have suggested a march on Washington. Others have called for local vigils. Some are already engaging in nonviolent civil disobedience.

We have discussed this with some of the smartest and most dedicated activists we know and, based on those conversations, we offer the following recommendations for action as the Court considers our aspirations for equality: We do not believe it makes sense to attempt a mass march on Washington at this moment, given the short amount of time remaining, the cost, as well as the uncertainty of weather in Washington, D.C. in March. We do believe it makes sense to push hard on many fronts in the weeks and

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months ahead.

As we are on the verge of victory, our tone and actions are critical.

President Obama himself set the tone for this effort in his Inaugural Address when he spoke so movingly of Seneca Falls, Selma and Stonewall, linking forever the struggles for women’s rights, civil rights and LGBT rights. We encourage all LGBT advocates and all fair-minded Americans who believe in equality and justice to take part in public actions on during the last week of March.

- If you can be in Washington D.C., there will be peaceful and civil demonstrations of support for the cases at the Supreme Court on March 26 and 27. While there you can also visit your members of Congress to lobby for the Employment Non-Discrimination Act and Uniting American Families Act as well as marriage equality. Our opponents will also be marching - ignore them.

- For those who cannot travel, there will be local organizing opportunities and plans underway in all 50 states that will mirror the events before the Supreme Court. Stay tuned.

Visit your Representative’s local district offices. Hold teach-ins, campus rallies and town halls. Involve our allies in women’s organizations, the labor movement, racial and ethnic minorities and immigrant communities.

- Like, share, post and retweet images and infographics you will see designed to gain broad support for the cases. Post your support for marriage equality in the week leading up to the court cases.

Remember that positive portrayals of LGBT Americans go a lot farther and are more effective than efforts to tear down our opponents.

- Visit the editorial boards of your local newspapers and request editorials in support of equality to run during the last week of March.

Submit letters to the editor in support of marriage equality.

- Reach out to our many allies within faith communities and organize inter-faith events on Saturday and Sunday, March 23 and 24.

- Speak to the larger issue of equality, not limited to marriage. We seek equal protection under the law, in all matters governed by civil law, in all fifty states.

Organize peaceful demonstrations for LGBT equality in every city and town across our country at sunset on Monday, March 25 the anniversary of the Selma march - to put action to the President’s words: “We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths -- that all of us are created equal -- is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears.” - President Obama Let the last week of March 2013 be remembered as a time when all of us contributed: LGBT and straight, young and old, Stonewall Democrats and Log Cabin Republicans, socialists and libertarians, people from cities and rural communities, the Human Rights Campaign and GetEqual, equality supporters of all races, faiths and backgrounds.

Regardless of our differences, let us come together once again in a united call for equality, community and justice.

Let us remember what Dr. King proclaimed in Montgomery, almost half a century ago:

We, the people, declare today that the most evident of truths -- that all of us are created equal -- is the star that guides us still; just as it guided our forebears.

“How long? Not long, because the arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice.”

David Mixner is an author and activist who has been organizing for over 50 years.

Over 35 of those years as an out member of the LGBT community.

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By Sean McShee

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ver the past year things have been looking up on the LGBT rights to housing front.

In Jan. 2013, a lesbian couple won a case against a bank that refused them a mortgage. Almost a year earlier in Feb. 2012, Housing and Urban Development (HUD) extended its fair housing policy to include sexual orientation, gender identity, and marriage status.

This ruling formed the basis for the victory of the lesbian couple.

“I HOPE the HUD ruling will encourage more people to file discrimination suits,” Keenya Robertson, president of the Hope Fair Housing Centers, said about the HUD ruling, ”instead of thinking it’s a futile gesture”.

This ruling applies to buying, renting, or lending in HUD housing, and community development programs. Most importantly, the ruling also applies to Federal Housing Administration (FHA) mortgage insurance programs. These programs cover about 33 percent of all U.S. mortgages.

“This agreement demonstrates that HUD will vigorously enforce its Equal Access rule and pursue lenders that discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation, gender identity, or marriage status,” Helen Kanovsky, HUD’s General Counsel, said in a statement posted on the Fair Housing Coach website. LGBT people have successfully pursued complaints of housing bias in Boca Raton and Miami Beach, but this HUD ruling greatly expands the possibilities for addressing this issue.

Notably, housing bias does not just affect LGBT people. According to Robertson, African-Americans suffer the most housing bias in Broward County. She also said that the other major discriminatory practice concern is the failure to make reasonable accommodations for people with disabilities.

With the exception of the HUD rule, no federal protections exist to protect LGBT people from housing bias. Florida also lacks these protections. While some laws in Broward and West Palm Beach counties do protect people from discrimination on the bases of sexual orientation and gender identity, laws in Miami-Dade only protect on the basis of sexual orientation. The Federal Fair Housing Law and the Americans with Disabilities Act protects HIV-positive people.

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She gave examples of multiple versions of the same story, a sudden denial of opportunity, and different terms and conditions for people with children. Cases also exist where people have used the number of unrelated people sharing a bedroom to discriminate against same-sex couples.

If you suspect you may have been discriminated against, create a record of your experience on disk, or in writing as soon as possible: Dates, places, witnesses, and who said what.

People trained in fair housing law need this record to determine the strength of your case and how to proceed. Two organizations can help you if you experience housing discrimination: Lambda Legal (www. lambdalegal.org) is a national LGBT legal group. The local HOPE Fair Housing Center (www.hopefhc.com) has free services and two hotlines: Broward (954-567-0545) and Miami-Dade (305-651-HOPE).

The Fair Housing Center deals with bias renting, buying, and lending money for purchase and all targets of that bias.

While the HUD ruling is a good first step, it is not enough, according to Robertson.

“While I’m very excited about the LGBT HUD ruling,” she said, “I would like to see sexual orientation and gender identity as named protections in the Federal Fair Housing Act to include everyone.”

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Not Just for Fun.

Guitarist Jack Antonoff on LGBT activism, the band’s Ally Coalition and being straight with ‘lesbian chemicals’

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f Nate Ruess, Jack Antonoff and Andrew Dost have taught us anything, it’s this: You can be fun. and still stand up for something serious.

The breakout single that sent the New York-based band’s sophomore album, “Some Nights,” soaring, “We Are Young” entered the pop-culture zeitgeist almost overnight with commercial spots and a “Glee” rendition. Their ubiquitous earworms gave them a platform, and they stood on it and told the world – time and time again, during sold-out shows and in online essays – how they support equal rights.

Fun. won the Grammy award for Song of the Year for the hit single “We are Young.” The band also performed their song “Carry On” to a cheering crowd during the Feb. 10 event.

In this interview with Jack Antonoff, the 28-year-old guitarist talks about being drawn to the gay community’s “inspiring” ways of uniting in the face of oppression, the stigma of being a straight man who doesn’t care about the fight and how he loves Lena Dunham like a lesbian.

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You’re one of the gay community’s biggest supporters, and you’ve been very outspoken about it. When and why did gay issues become so important to you?

FUN: I wish there was a great story or a poetic answer, but I just don’t know how anyone could “not” be outspoken and enraged with any violation of human rights. If the government decided tomorrow to strip Jews or African Americans of certain rights, no one would say, “How did you get involved with Jews’ human rights, blah blah blah?”

It would just be this universal violation that we would all be up in arms about. But the issue of gay, bisexual and trans rights, the discrimination is so ingrained in us that it’s this slow-moving process of people realizing how shameful it is, the way we treat our citizens. Anyone who is even remotely cognizant is speaking up and fighting for equal rights.

CA:

It’s hard for some people to understand that you don’t have to be gay to care about gay people. Is that the case for you and the band?

FUN: One-hundred percent. That’s the big thing: We’re less concerned with the Westboro Baptist Church than we are with just the average American who has a good heart and is pretty smart but isn’t completely educated on the issues, and if this person knew everything would stand up and fight.

I think most Americans have no issue with homosexuality or gay people. They just think, “Oh, they have civil unions; we have marriage – what’s the difference? Who cares.”

They don’t realize that 1,000-plus rights are denied. They don’t think of adoption rights or work comp rights. Connecting all the dots is a huge thing and the difference between people being like, “Yeah, I think gay people should be equal” versus really making a big deal out of it and really thinking about it when they vote. The reason for the band speaking out is, if you have any sort of stage or soapbox in 2013 in America – and really anywhere in the world – you should be using that to discuss human rights and all people being treated equal.

CA: So as a celebrity you have a responsibility to speak up?

FUN: Absolutely. It’s a really weird life. Public figures deserve privacy. They don’t deserve to be thrown into the fire just because they have an audience. I mean, we’re out here because we’re artists, we’re songwriters.

What I do is what I am and I would understand if someone only wanted to put out what they’re there to put out. But it’s just one of those complicated generations. Ten or 15 years ago it was a little different because at that point we were only X amount of years away from a learning curve of not really understanding what was going on. But now, in 2013, we have all the information and we’ve seen the effects of homophobia and we’ve seen the effects of denying citizens’ rights. It’s just a time where I don’t think any of us have the luxury to not stand up.

CA:

As a straight ally in the fight for gay rights, what effect do you think you have on the gay rights movement that you wouldn’t if you were gay?

FUN: It’s all about the power we each have

based on who we are and where we come from. Obviously, LGBTQ people have the power that comes with being oppressed.

Those who are denied rights have the most inspiring voice in fighting for them.

But beyond that, there is a distinct power that comes with being a person who is not denied rights but still cares and will fight for them as if they were their own rights.

Furthermore, being someone who others presume wouldn’t care, or even opposes gay rights, gives you an even greater power in speaking up for gay rights.

There is stigma that comes along with being straight – like we don’t care. Being straight and standing up for gay rights is a statement that says “this is everyone’s issue.”

We are not all free unless we are “all” free.

Just because I was born into the elite class of straight Americans who have maximum rights does not mean that I won’t fight as if it were me being denied human rights.

CA:

If fun. were a band 30 years ago and had come out in favor of gay rights, you probably would have jeopardized your

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FUN: We get asked, “If you guys are gonna be political, do you worry you’ll be offending people who are coming to your shows?” And the answer for us is, “Well, if anyone has a problem with us, then they’re homophobic and hateful and we’re glad to not have them come to our shows.” (Laughs) It’s an amazing time, and I think with the way the Internet works, it’s easy to think that there’s a lot more hate than there is.

Obviously we only hear the most disgusting stories and, as they should, the horror stories inspire change. But what we’ve learned from touring and being outspoken in the press about this is that there is great support – and even where there isn’t great support, there is a hunger for knowledge.

We set up booths at our shows and it’s not like people are coming up slamming their fists down and being like, “Stop redefining the family.” We never get that. We get people coming up and saying, “I don’t really know why this issue matters.”

CA: Will you bring the booth on the current tour? And how about The Ally Coalition that the band and your sister, Rachel, recently formed – is that coming with you, as well?

FUN: The Ally Coalition, or TAC as we call it, will be with us for the foreseeable future.

We’ve always done a lot with the issue and then we realized that if we had a big umbrella to funnel all this under, we could do so much more. So we started The Ally Coalition, which is a nonprofit. And it’s kind of boundless.

On this tour, we’re really going to be getting into homeless gay youth in different cities. We’ll be working with different shelters. What’s really cool about TAC is it has given us the opportunity to participate in all the different aspects of what comes along with human rights, and there are a lot of sub issues. We’re just trying to focus on different areas on different tours. A dollar from every ticket goes to The Ally Coalition and then that money gets funneled out to the coalition and what we do, and then a decent portion we donate to different gay groups.

liberation and individuality. How does it feel knowing you’ve written the theme song for a new generation of not just youth but queer youth?

FUN: That’s just the coolest thing I’ve ever heard, because it’s always subcultures – it’s always people who are oppressed – that are the most vibrant. That’s part of the reason why I feel so drawn to the gay community in general – the very fact that there’s an opposition in general that creates an amazing community within the gay community. You can’t really find that anywhere else. It’s inspiring.

Were any of the songs on “Some Nights” written with the gay community in mind?

Not initially and not directly, besides “One Foot,” which talks about being in the closet and the church and the offensive things that come out of there. But these are songs about feeling separate and about feeling pushed aside and feeling down on yourself and pushing on. That’s the theme of the album. That’s the idea of all of it: carrying on and moving on.

“Carry On” speaks to the same issues that gay people go through, which is a lot of the same issues that a lot of people go through.

It’s just on a different scale. It’s about having other people treat you like you’re less than and finding a way to move on.

CA: I don’t have to tell you this, but this next album will be a crucial one for you. You have six Grammy nominations to live up to.

What’s your game plan for the third album?

FUN: (Laughs) We haven’t really begun yet, because we have this theory. We’ve all been at this for, like, 12 years (in different bands) and there’s always this crazy hunger to work on new material. When you work on new material while you’re out promoting your current album, it becomes like this inside joke – we’re out there playing and imagining a new song that (we’re) not sharing with our audience. So we made a conscious effort to stay in “Some Nights” mode because if we thought too much about the future or worked too much on new songs, it would be like making out with the person you’re with and imagining someone else. We’d be cheating on our audience. That might sound pathetic, but the point is, we’re playing our biggest shows ever, people are really excited over this album and we’re gonna deliver best if we stay here. We always work really well in the moment, and the next album will be no exception.

“if anyone has a

problem with us, then they’re homophobic

and hateful and we’re glad to not have them come to our shows.”

CA: Because I’m a gay man, I can’t end this interview without asking you if your relationship with Lena Dunham is anything like an episode of her show, “Girls?”

FUN: (Laughs) No – there’s nothing awkward or clunky about our relationship. I think

what probably happens when you put two awkward/clunky people together is that their awkward/clunky world seems like a normal world. And I think that’s something that’s nice about our relationship.

I could picture you two dancing to Robyn in her bedroom, though.

I’ve been dancing to Robyn since “Body Talk” came out. Anyone who has ears should be dancing to Robyn. (Laughs) Both of you are gay magnets, and for different reasons. You’ve been said to have a lot of lesbian friends, actually. I do.

CA: If you were to compete in a gay-off with Lena, who would win?

FUN: It would be a really epic tie. We both have so many wonderful gay people in our lives. People identify with other people for different reasons, and I personally am really comfortable around lesbians because, in some ways, we view women the same way.

I’ve never really identified with the way a typical alpha-male views women. It’s always an awkward forum for me to hang out with another guy and talk about girls, because I can’t really find a way to fit in. I’ve never really had those big macho alpha qualities.

So a lot of my lesbian friends have this way that they talk about women, and in the way they connect with them I just feel a little bit more comfortable. Which kind of makes me think that maybe I’m a straight man with, like, lesbian chemicals. I think you can be a man who loves a woman but love someone the way a gay man loves another man or a woman loves a woman.

Chris Azzopardi is the editor of Q Syndicate, the international LGBT wire service. Reach him via his website at www. chris-azzopardi.com.

CA: You’re on the road through the rest of the year. How does fun. have fun on the road?

FUN: We’re really square. Our definition of fun at this point is just taking care of ourselves. We all get great joy out of not eating disgusting food, getting a lot of sleep and going to the movies. But our schedules have been so completely insane, so the great enjoyment aside from playing – which is the greatest joy of all – is just trying to be like a normal person out there and not like you’re on Mars.

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“As an American I inherit the magnificent tradition of an endless march toward freedom and toward the dignity of all mankind.”

“They can’t ever say now that a gay man can’t play in the majors, because I’m a gay man and I made it.”

“If I had seen more people like me who are out and proud, it wouldn’t have taken me 45 years to say it.”

he Reverend Dr. Pauli Murray was a lifelong civil rights attorney and activist against racial and sexual discrimination.

Raised by older relatives, Murray grew up with a strong sense of independence and self-reliance.

In 1933, Murray graduated from Hunter College and taught for the WPA Worker’s Education Program.

Wishing to pursue legal studies, she applied to the University of North Carolina, but was rejected on the basis of race. This discrimination impelled Murray to pursue a Bachelor of Law degree at Howard University and become active in the civil rights movement. She joined the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP) and organized sit-ins to end segregation at restaurants in Washington, D.C. Murray cofounded the Congress of Racial Equality (CORE), along with Bayard Rustin, who was openly gay.

Denied admission to Harvard Law School due to her gender, Murray earned her master’s degree at the University of California, where she focused on equal rights for women. She became the first AfricanAmerican female deputy attorney general of California.

Murray returned to New York and practiced law privately for five years. Her book “States’ Laws on Race and Color” (1951) was described by Supreme Court Justice Thurgood Marshall as the bible for civil rights lawyers.

In the 1960’s, President Kennedy appointed Murray to the Committee on Civil and Political Rights. Though Murray never identified as a lesbian, her longest lasting relationships were with women. Refusing to accept her homosexuality due to its association at the time with mental illness, she ultimately self-identified as a heterosexual man.

In 1977, Murray became the first AfricanAmerican female ordained an Episcopal priest.

She died at age 74. Her autobiography “Songs in a Weary Throat: An American Pilgrimage” (1987) was published posthumously.

lenn Burke was the first Major League Baseball player to come out to his teammates and managers during his career.

Born in California, Burke attended Berkeley High School, where he excelled in multiple sports. He briefly attended University of Nevada on a basketball scholarship before the Los Angeles Dodgers drafted him. Burke played minor league baseball for four years until his major league debut in 1976.

Burke is known as the originator of the “high five.”

After Dusty Baker hit his 30th home run of the season, Burke greeted his teammate at home plate with an open palm. “His hand was up in the air, and he was arching way back so I reached up and hit his hand,” Baker said. “It seemed like the thing to do.”

While with the Dodgers, Burke began to openly express his sexual orientation. The Dodgers manager offered the outfielder a bonus to marry a woman, which Burke declined. “Glenn was comfortable with who he was,” said a childhood friend. “Baseball was not comfortable with who he was.”

In 1977, the Dodgers traded Burke to the Oakland Athletics. Many of his teammates believed that Burke was traded because of his sexual orientation.

In 1980, while playing for the A’s, he faced similar discrimination and retired. In 1982, Burke publicly came out in an Inside Sports article, titled “The Double Life of a Dodger.”

After leaving baseball, Burke worked odd jobs. He became homeless and began using drugs. In 1988, he served a 16-month jail sentence for grand theft and drug possession.

In 1995, Burke died from AIDS-related complications.

A documentary about his life, “Out. The Glenn Burke Story” (2010), aired on sports channels.

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on Lemon is a primetime national news anchor.

He received an Edward R. Murrow award, one of the most prestigious honors for broadcast journalists.

Lemon was raised in Baton Rouge, Louisiana, by a single mother. He attended Brooklyn College and earned a degree in broadcast journalism. While in college, he secured his first job as a news assistant at WNYW in New York City. After graduating, he worked as a reporter and weekend anchor at WCAU in Philadelphia. At KTVI in St. Louis, Lemon was an anchor and investigative reporter. He later anchored the news at WBRC in Birmingham, Alabama.

Lemon moved to network news as a correspondent for NBC’s “Today” and “NBC Nightly News.” He also was an anchor on weekend “Today” and on MSNBC. In 2003, he began co-anchoring the 5 p.m. newscast at WMAQ in Chicago. He received an Emmy Award for an investigative report on the Chicago real estate market.

In 2006, Lemon joined CNN. He anchors “CNN Newsroom” on primetime and serves as a correspondent for major news stories. He was honored with the Edward R. Murrow Award for his coverage of the capture of the D.C. snipers. In 2009, Ebony magazine named him one of the 150 most influential African-Americans.

Lemon came out in an interview in The New York Times. In his autobiography, “Transparent” (2011), he discusses his sexual orientation. One of few openly gay national newscasters, Lemon was apprehensive about revealing the personal details of his life. “I’m talking about something that people might shun me for, ostracize me for,” he said. After the book’s release, he told PBS, “Now I’m free. No one can hold it against me. I am in charge of my own story.”

Lemon lives in Atlanta and teaches new media journalism.

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by Miami’s own Robert Battle, the company’s dynamic new artistic director. Following recordbreaking performances in New York City, 30 extraordinary dancers will move audiences during five performances featuring two special programs of premieres, new productions and repertory favorites. Tickets start at $25 and can be purchased at AlvinAiley.org/Miami or ArshtCenter.org. The programs for each evening can also be found on the Arsht Center website.

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1973 play, Equus, made its way to Broadway tells the story of a psychiatrist who attempts to treat a young man convicted of blinding six horses. Famous for its brief fully nude scene. Through Feb. 24. Studio One Theatre, FAU Boca Raton. Regular tickets $20. Call 1-800-564-9539 or visit FAUevents.com

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othing is more angelic than the sound of innocent children. This weekend, the Vienna Boys Choir, the best-known boys choir in the world, performs at First Baptist Church of Fort Lauderdale at 7 p.m. under the auspices of the South Florida Symphony as part of its 15th

anniversary season. The choir dates back to 1498 and the court of Emperor Maximilian of Austria.

With approximately 100 singers aged 10 to 14, the choir has toured the world with a varied repertoire ranging from medieval to contemporary and pop.

This program will include choral classics, folksongs, music from films and selections by Viennese composer Johann Strauss, Jr. Tickets range from $10-250 at SouthFloridaSymphony.org.

Vienna Boys Choir will perform in Fort Lauderdale

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rts Ballet Theater offers a romantic afternoon of classical ballet, set to some of the most popular works of all time. Enjoy both ensemble dances and pas de deux from Prokofiev’s Romeo & Juliet, Tchaikovsky’s Sleeping Beauty and Drigo’s Fairy Doll pas de trois at the Willow Theatre in Boca Raton’s Sandy Springs Park, Monday, Feb. 18. It will be an enchanting time for you and a loved one as Vladimir Isaaev’s dancers tackle these masterpieces of the dance repertoire. Tickets are $15 and $18.

For more information or to purchase tickets, go to WillowTheatre.org.

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rts lovers have their pick during the busy winter months. From music and dance to theater and exhibits, there’s something for everybody. Tonight at 7:30 p.m., the Palm Beach Symphony, under the direction of Artistic and Music Director Ramon Tebar, will fill the neo-gothic arches of Bethesda-by-the-Sea Episcopal Church, 141 S. County Rd. in Palm Beach, with the music of Claude Debussy, Johann Strauss and Gustav Mahler. The program begins with Debussy’s Prelude to the Afternoon of a Faun, continues with the Emperor Waltzes of Strauss and concludes with Mahler’s Symphony No. 4 featuring soprano Nadine Sierra.

Tickets are $50 at PalmBeachSymphony.org.

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he Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival offers its February GLOW (Gays and Lesbians on Wednesday) screening tonight of Eytan Fox’s Yossi. A sequel of sorts to his earlier feature, Yossi & Jagger, the film chronicles the life of a closeted gay man living in Tel Aviv. A perennially sad, workaholic doctor, Yossi has his quiet world shaken when a middle-aged woman walks out of his past and into his examination room. Their brief, but emotionally charged reunion unnerves Yossi enough to make him spontaneously leave Tel Aviv. The evening begins at Coral Gables Art Cinema, 260 Aragon Ave. with a cocktail reception (cash bar) at 7 p.m., with the screening at 8:30 p.m. Tickets are $6 for members, $10 for guests at MGLFF.com.

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Library mixes books with music to host unique concert

Matt Alber

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lorida Atlantic University’s Arthur and Mata Jaffe Center for Book Arts will host Grammy award-winning singer/songwriter Matt Alber for a concert, “Lost Valentine,” Tuesday, Feb. 19, at 8 p.m. at FAU’s Boca Campus’ Wimberly Library, 777 Glades Road.

This will be his third appearance at the Book Arts Center.

“It’s exciting singing when you’re surrounded by one of a kind books. Almost all of them are hand made,” the openly gay singer said. “It’s such a lovely spot. It’s also surprisingly fun to go to the library when you don’t have to study, and instead just listen to music.”

But there’s another reason he enjoys the center so much.

“I like to go early and get my hands dirty and design a special poster for that concert,” he explained. “There are these two very old printing presses. You have to ink the letters up. Print it all by hand. It’s kind of a rare

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experience to do this by hand. There’s no electronic component.”

Alber’s concert will feature a night of original songs. The classically trained artist is best known for “End of the World,” a 1960s-themed music video featured in his 2008 debut album, which earned an Out Music Award. His second album released in 2011 “Constant Crows,” focuses on gay spirituality.

“The thing about seeing someone like Matt Alber at the Jaffe Book Arts Gallery is it’s kind of like seeing him perform in your living room,” said John Cutrone, director of the center. “The setting is intimate. The space is beautiful. A baby grand piano, lamplight, Matt Alber and his guitar, and about 50 folks, mesmerized. There’s nothing like it.”

The event begins at 7 p.m. with a reception and cash bar. Tickets are $30.

More information call 561-297-0455, email jcutrone@fau.edu or visit www. jaffecollection.org and click “events.”

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MOVIE REVIEW

Lesbian Flick ‘Side Effects’ Falls Flat Instead of originality film uses worn out clichés and stereotypes

By Gary M. Kramer

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t’s a bit of a spoiler to reveal that the film Side Effects contains a surprise queer twist in which a lesbian couple tries to outwit the law. The reveal is really so Deathtrap — and has a more damaging side effect than the film’s “Will they or won’t they get away with it?” plot.

The lesbians are venal, their relationship more about its financially beneficial than any hint of actual love. When one character guesses that another woman “likes girls,” she uses that information to her advantage, seducing the closeted gal and embroiling her in multiple crimes. She never acknowledges being queer herself — she uses sexuality to lure her coconspirator. It’s irresponsible that Side Effects writer Scott Z. Burns and director Steven Soderbergh equates sexuality with villainy.

Moreover, the film’s lesbian scenes generate unintentional laughs. A flashback shows one of the women posing seductively, while other scenes feature teasing near-lip-

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locks that come across as ludicrous. When the women do embrace and start to undress, their impending coitus is interrupted — but not before a few kisses and clinches are actually shown. The scene reeks of exploitation, not any true exploration of the characters. Their crimes have nothing to do with their passions.

Rooney Mara, who stars in Side Effects, received considerable exposure and recognition and an Academy Award nomination for her portrayal of bisexual Lisbeth Salander in the American version of The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo. In that film, Rooney played a morally challenged character, but Lisbeth’s violent behavior — which included exacting a nasty revenge on her rapist — was gratifying because the punishment she meted out fit the crime.

Her sexuality was part of what informed her view of what she suffered as well as how she reacted; it was not simply dropped into the plot as a device to sensationalize the story.

There is no reason gay and lesbian characters, of course, cannot or should not, be evil on screen. In fact, some of the best queer films feature villains. The lesbian classic Bound, directed by Andy and Lana Wachowski — Lana then still living as Larry — had lesbian lovers outwitting the mob, and it was sexy, stylish, and satisfying as hell.

New Queer Cinema also offered great killer gay couples. Gregg Araki’s The Living End featured two angry HIVpositive lovers on the lam who go on a murderous crime spree to act up and lash out in an anarchic “fuck you” to the world.

Tom Kalin’s Swoon was a vivid reimagining of the Leopold and Loeb “thrill-kill” case (also portrayed in “Compulsion” and loosely, as well, in “Rope”), where the lovers bond over their murder of a young boy only to have the crime undo them.

And as recently as 2009, there was the fabulous screwball conman comedy I Love You Phillip Morris that chronicled the great — albeit illegal — lengths a gay man (Jim Carrey) would go to be with the man he loves (Ewan McGregor). For some queer villains — like the gay couple in the muy caliente Argentine drama Burnt Money — the best way to show how much you love your partner is to break the law.

But love is not the issue in Side Effects, which will remind many viewers of the brouhaha 20 years ago when Paul Verhoeven’s Basic Instinct portrayed bisexual Catherine Tramell (Sharon Stone) as a murderous sociopath.

The principle is the same with Soderbergh’s film. The LGBT community should be asking, “Why are the villainous characters lesbian?” In 2010, Alejandro González Iñárritu’s Biutiful featured gay Asian characters trafficking in humans. The villains’ sexuality was not developed beyond being a symbol of their bad. behavior, yet that issue went largely ignored. Side Effects might well similarly skate by without the scrutiny it deserves on this point.

When protests do happen — as when gay groups responded to Buffalo Bill, the serial killer in Silence of the Lambs — they can be effective in raising awareness of how queer characters are too often treated in film.

William Friedkin’s Cruising also drew harsh criticism for the way the gay leather scene

was portrayed.

Even queer filmmakers can find themselves on the receiving end of a backlash. Todd Verow’s daring and provocative 1995 adaptation of Dennis Cooper’s Frisk provoked controversy, protest, and, at a queer festival in San Francisco, a near riot — which is perhaps what a queer film about killing should do.

But the outrage was directed more at the film’s realistic, fetishized sexual violence, not its same-sex nature per se.

And remember, Charlize Theron won an Oscar for playing lesbian serial killer Aileen Wuornos in Monster, proving there can be great portrayals, done with artistic integrity, of bad queers.

Hollywood has long featured queer villains. Hitchcock had plenty of gay killers (often played by gay actors) in films ranging from North By Northwest and Psycho to Strangers on a Train and Rope. And like the memorable queer villain George Macready played in Gilda, the sexuality of these characters was evident, but not determinative. It may have informed or enhanced their sinister nature, but it was not the reason for their bad behavior. The same could be said about one of the more noteworthy queer villains in recent film, Javier Bardem’s fey, gay Bond bad guy, Silva, in Skyfall.

If only Side Effects had developed its femme fatales better, maybe viewers would root for them, rather than boo them.

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A&E

Music Pioneer Cris Williamson in Concert

By Andrea Dulanto

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rom Ani DiFranco to Tegan & Sara, women’s music would not be the same without Cris Williamson. In 1973, Williamson, a lesbian singer/ songwriter, mentioned in an interview that women should have their own record company, and this motivated a lesbian feminist collective to start Olivia Records.

In 1975, Williamson made history again when Olivia released her album The Changer and the Changed, one of the most successful albums ever produced by an independent label with more than 500,000 copies sold throughout the years. For decades, Williamson has continued to be a prolific musician who regularly tours with her albums.

South Florida audiences have two opportunities to experience Williamson in concert. On Friday, Feb. 15, at 7:30 p.m., she will be at The Pride Center in Wilton

Manors. A second concert will be held on Saturday, Feb. 16, at 7:30 p.m. at Compass in Lake Worth.

In an email interview with SFGN, Williamson reflected on women’s music, building community and what she would say to the woman she was in the 1970s.

What were the goals of women’s music?

To create women’s culture with women’s money, music that was part of the consciousness-raising movements, the feminist and lesbian movements, and that reflected the lives of the women - and men, as well - who were deeply involved in changing the world around them.

Should there be collective goals for women musicians today?

The main thing for me is to make sure that no woman is being oppressed anywhere in all the world, and until that is accomplished, our work is not done.

Women’s music used to be a way to connect to community.

But that sense of community seems to have disappeared. Can you share ideas on how lesbians are currently building and/or can build a sense of community with each other?

We knocked down doors and fences and opened the vistas to younger women who walk down the road as if it’s always been there.

Those of us from the ‘70s are older now, and sometimes look back with longing at those first, fresh days. Most movements have to reassert and redefine themselves, and make certain that one foot is in the past and one foot in the future, all the while dwelling in the Present. It’s still important to reach

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out and encourage each other to come and participate in live music, and remember the importance of the real thing, and that it’s always been a conversation.

Can you talk about your upcoming release Pray Tell: Songs of the Soul Volume I & II?

These songs began to appear, to fill the bucket I lowered into the Well. I have enough for two volumes now, all songs about Spirit, and Faith, and Mystery, and Hope and Joy, all things we need to be good human beings.

If you could speak to the woman you were when you recorded The Changer and the Changed, what would you say?

First, I would praise her for her bravery and for doing things she had never done, things that ended up meaning so much to so many. She saw a faint path and followed it with her heart and spirit. I’ve learned that becoming powerful is a life-long process and sharing that power is always a challenge, but share it we must. It’s what women do.

If You Go What: Cris Williamson in concert When & Where: Friday, Feb.15 at 7:30 p.m.

The Pride Center 2040 North Dixie Highway Wilton Manors Saturday, Feb. 16 at 7:30 p.m.

Compass 201 North Dixie Highway Lake Worth, FL How Much: $15-$35 Sliding scale For More Info: Women In Network, 954-463-9005 ext 641 or visit womeninnetwork.com

Canciones de Broadway with

Carla Bordonada w Feb 15 & 16 “Sassy, saucy and sexy…and that’s just in the first five minutes… a master of comedy and music.” - Time Out

3385 NE 188th Street Aventura, FL 33180 877.311.7469 AventuraCenter.org All programs, artists, dates and times are subject to change.

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FILM

North Sea, Texas Fresh Take on Familiar Story

By J.W. Arnold

Photo courtesy of Indeed Films

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ou’ve seen this story before: A shy young boy, in a quest for love and acceptance, falls for the handsome boy next door. His longing leads to a chance sexual Pim (Jelle Florizoone) and Gino (Mathias Vergels) share an intimate encounter and, after the moment while camping in North Sea, Texas. usual angst, they accept their attraction and the standout performances of Florizoone and screen fades to black.

Vergels (and Kortekaas) that give the film But, unlike the usual film school projects heart. Defurne reportedly interviewed that seem to crowd every gay and lesbian hundreds of actors in a quest for two teens film festival schedule, North Sea, Texas, with the right combination of innocence and the first full length feature from Belgian romantic chemistry. director Bavo Defurne, offers a mature and Beyond the flawless casting, Defurne beautifully filmed variation on the typical leaves no detail to chance in his ‘70s setting, coming out story. giving a glimpse of life for two lower-class The year is 1974 and 14-year-old Pim (Jelle Belgian families, from the tiny European Florizoone) lives on the Belgian coast with automobiles to the furniture, appliances, his mother, Yvette (Eva van der Gucht). Pim’s and even vintage food packages. father has been on out of the picture for But it’s Anton Mertons’ wonderful years and Yvette seeks male companionship cinematography that caps the achievements from Etienne, a man who drives her to her of North Sea, Texas. He captures the accordion performances at seaside bars, and muted, grey palette of the dreary North later Zoltan (Thomas Coumans), a young Sea coast, except when the sun manages carnival worker. Both Pim and his mother to dramatically poke through the clouds, are looking for love and the boy falls for Gino evoking the classic paintings of the late (Mathias Vergels), his 17-year-old neighbor.

17-century Dutch masters. He also makes After a summer of innocent, yet very effective use of light to emphasize key plot romantic sexual encounters, Gino announces points and differentiate Pim’s daydreaming he has found a girlfriend, devastating Pim. sequences.

When Zoltan moves in with Yvette, jealous Yes, you’ve basically seen this film before, Pim moves next door with Gino’s ailing but it’s the most memorable film of its genre mother and sister, Marcella (Katelijne in a long time.

Damen) and Sabrina (Nina Marie Kortekaas).

When Marcella’s health fails, Gino returns, forcing the boys to finally confront their feelings and future.

Defurne and co-writer Yves Verbraeken take the typical coming out story and weave What: a much more complex story. Pim, who has North Sea, Texas, been deprived of a male role model, yearns for (Dutch, English subtitles, acceptance from the men around him, often 94 min.) retreating in a fantasy world of drawings and admiring the objects he collected from those he admires. Gino clearly has feelings for Pim, When: but acknowledges that life is about “choices,” Feb. 14 to Feb. 17 and his is to pursue a life with a woman.

Both mothers, Yvette and Marcella, also Where: seek love but in different ways: Yvette looks O Cinema Miami Shores at to the future, seeking a free, unshackled life, Miami Theatre Center running away with her young boyfriend, 9806 NE 2nd Ave. while Marcella is trapped in the past, each day regretting the painful moments of her For More Info: life.

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A&E

Equus Coming to FAU

By Emily Bloch

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et ready for a brain teaser.

Featuring questions about religious beliefs and practices, sexual experiences, passion versus reason, parental influence, and more – just in the first act – Peter Shaffer’s “Equus” hits FAU’s Studio One Theater this Friday, Feb. 15.

The contemporary drama, which is directed by Visiting Assistant Professor of Voice and Speech Kathryn L. Johnston, tells the story of a psychiatrist who attempts to treat a young man who has been convicted of blinding six horses.

“Roles like this are exactly why I’ve come here,” said Connor Hammond, a first year in FAU’s MFA Acting Program. Hammond is playing the lead role of Alan Strang, who has a religious fixation toward horses. “I visited campus as a prospective graduate student and I met Kathryn. We were sitting next to each other exchanging small talk.”

Soon Johnston told him about “Equus.”

“Fast forward almost exactly one year later and I’m walking out a rehearsal for ‘Equus’ and Kathryn stops me, gives me the same look, and says ‘you’re doing a wonderful job with Alan.’”

Despite being written 40 years ago,

If You Go What: “Equus” When: Fridays through Sundays, Feb. 15 to Feb. 24

Where: Studio One Florida Atlantic University 777 Glades Road Boca Raton, FL 33431

How Much: General admission: $20 Students, faculty, staff, alumni and children under age 12: $12.

Photo By Shannon Ouellette

Johnston and her cast view “Equus” as timely.

“Take a look at the recent elections,” explained Johnston.

“I was struck with how unwavering many of us seemed to be regarding what was right and how unwilling [many were] to take a moment to listen to the other side,” she said. “‘Equus” takes an issue that we think should be black and white and throws in those shades of grey. It’s my hope that a lot of conversations arise from this production.”

It shouldn’t be hard for conversations to arise upon seeing “Equus,” especially with a fully nude scene being thrown into the mix.

“One of the most intimidating parts of approaching the role of Alan [is] the nudity,” said Hammond. “It is full frontal and it scared me for a while.” Hammond credited the play’s stage manager and assistant stage manager for making the environment feel safe as he bared it all. “It is a matter of getting to the point where the image of the world is so real and my work with my character is so strong that it no longer feels like Connor taking his clothes off – it is Alan.”

Other challenges actor Scott Wells and the rest of the cast had to face for the show were learning to speak with accents. All of the actors in “Equus” with speaking roles had to learn either British R.P. (“Queen’s English”) or Hampshire British.

British R.P. is Standard English spoken by well-educated people in Britain. Along with that, actors playing horses had to study movement and deal with wearing large horse heads, and every actor in the show has to remain on stage during the entire performance. “[It] is a lot to ask of them,” Johnston said. “[The actors] have to be able to remain still while they’re not part of the action. I’m very pleased at how well they’ve managed it — none of them are willing to settle for ‘good enough.’”

“There’s been a great deal of excitement about the project since it was announced last year and I think that excitement has continued through the whole process,” Johnston said. “I don’t believe I’ve ever anticipated an Opening Night as much as I A psychiatrist uncovers the secret of a young man’s obsession with have this one.” horses. Pictured from L to R: actors Scott Wells, Matthew Ryan

The suspenseful drama hitting Studio One Theater this Friday

Morrell, and Connor Hammond

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STAGE

Cabaret Kitty is Coming Photo courtesy of Duncan Theater

Meow Meow

Flamboyant cabaret performer Meow Meow brings her act to Lake Worth this weekend

By J.W. Arnold

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he may have been born Melissa Madden Gray in Western Australia, but you can call the cabaret superstar “Meow” — Meow Meow, that is — and call her, I did.

“The persona is me, that’s just me,” she told me in her silky voice over the telephone.

“We all slip on different roles and I try to make my role joyous. If we have to wear uniforms in our lives, why not make it a sparkling ball dress? I’m just being honest with myself.”

Since breaking into the international scene just a couple of years ago, Meow Meow has become a global jetsetter, taking her unique style of cabaret from London to Sydney and most points in between, including a stop this coming weekend in Lake Worth.

Her repertoire ranges from classic numbers by Jacques Brel and Berthold Brecht to more contemporary selections from Radiohead and even Franz Schubert, if that is possible for the 19th-century Viennese master. She dances and delves into the raw sexuality of burlesque in her performances, too.

“It’s a pretty mad show, part of the West End show that I’ve been doing… Still Meow in concert, but a fairly joyful experience.

I’m going to throw myself into the arms of Lake Worth and see what happens,” She added with a throaty chuckle, “As my pianist says, you may not be moved, but you will definitely be touched.”

At the start of our call, the sexy ingénue warned me she was still in bed — it was nearly noon — and at some point, we would be interrupted by room service. When her breakfast finally arrived, I overheard her tell the attendant, “Just put it on the bed and that would be fantastic.”

She jumped back on the phone, wondering, “How many times have I said that? Now, where was I?” In the past six days, she had performed in Sydney and Melbourne, Australia, Toronto Canada and was now getting ready to take the stage in Charlotte, North Carolina.

“It’s grueling, but because I like what I’m doing it’s bearable. It’s not like I’m traveling

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and going to horrible business meetings,” she said.

Next, she will fly to Texas before returning to Florida and then jetting off to performances in London, Poland, Virginia and New York City, “all before the end of March,” she pointed out.

Later this year, she plans to finish an upcoming album with Pink Martini and put together another London show, this time with Barry Humphries, widely known as the man “behind” entertainer Dame Edna Everidge.

She readily admits to being a “very controlling diva” and insists on giving the best performances whether playing in a huge concert hall in London or a small theatre in Charlotte.

She’s never been to Charlotte before, but audiences have been receptive, some returning night after night, lending to her fascination with the Southern city.

“Because we’re in the theater so much rehearsing, I’d love someone to drive me around and show me (the city,) she sighed.

“I’m sure the Lake Worthers will show me a good time, though.”

If You Go What: Meow Meow in concert When: Saturday, Feb. 16, 8 p.m.

Where: Duncan Theatre Palm Beach State College Lake Worth How Much: Tickets at $27 For More Info: DuncanTheatre.org

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Fabulou s Frid ay s

SoundBiteQ

By Publisher Norm Kent

Goldcoast Ballroom in Fort Lauderdale

Out of the Closet Well, they were Out of the Closet facility and on the street last Saturday, on Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. The not for profit shop held a fifth anniversary block party, which was attended by hundreds of people, who enjoyed fresh barbecued chicken, music, and drinks, all while having one minute HIV testing units set up around the plaza at City Hall.

Out of the Closet is just a cut above your average thrift store, with its wide selection of carefully laid out color schemes, modern furniture, and very nice art. The AIDS Healthcare Foundation runs it, and onsite is the AHF Pharmacy. You can learn more about one minute testing results at FreeHIVtest. net.

Tint World

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New newsworthy news From the publisher’s desk

If you have seen the first of what will soon be two new delivery vans for SFGN, you have seen our trustworthy Transit Connect cruising through town, carrying your newspapers. We want to thank Auto Nation and Mike Albetta for helping us get a good deal.

We also want to thank Tint World of East Fort Lauderdale for shading the windows so promptly and efficiently. The facility on West Sunrise Boulevard in Fort Lauderdale offers great service and complete satisfaction. It is their number one priority.

The store manager, Danny Shenko, understands the value of a happy customer and goes above and beyond the call of duty to form a lasting relationship, and ensure you are content with your job. Danny has ten years of experience in e-commerce where he made his success by catering to his clientele.

Danny told SFGN that he enjoys putting customers first. “People love their cars, so I offer honest, friendly and knowledge advice.

My goal is to offer a friendly environment and an experienced staff that customers can count on when it comes to their vehicle.”

Laffing Matterz Laffing Matterz is a live, original, musical comedy revue spoofing current events – including politics, sports, celebrities and pop culture. The multi-award-winning show

was previously housed in the venue of the same name in the historic McCrory building in downtown Fort Lauderdale for more than 3 years. It has now become the resident dinner theater for the Broward Center of the Performing Arts.

Laughing Matterz won popular acclaim, often winning fan-driven people’s choice awards for best dinner theater, from the Palm Beacher to the Broward/Palm Beach New Times, paring that with a 5 star rating

by Trip Advisor.

The bottom line is that whether you are a local looking for a night out or a traveler looking for a good time, this is a place where you are able to blend great food with good comedy to have a unique experience you and your friends will really enjoy and talk about the next day. It’s a great option for a buddy’s birthday party or just a chance to hang out with close friends looking for a pleasant night out that leaves you laughing and leaving feeling real good.

Goldcoast Ballroom Speaking of unique good times, the Goldcoast Ballroom has a magic and ambiance that sets it apart as the ultimate dancing experience. The establishment features a magnificent dance floor, plenty of room, and incredible music. Designed and built exclusively for ballroom dancing by its owners Jeff Sandler and Vinny Munno, the Goldcoast Ballroom has been home to world-renowned performers, producers, adjudicators, choreographers, coaches, and teachers. It is also a facility that has hosted amateur competitors and social dancers for over five years.

But how did Jeff Sandler and Vinny Munno pull this off? Their achievement is testimony to a winning formula of a marrying business acumen and knowledge of what dancers desire. That combination, energized by their enthusiasm and artistic expertise, have created a flair for fun and fancy, right down to their design and decorating. The result is an unbeatable and beautiful showplace.

Don’t Miss Out Next Week’s Sound Bite Q, including Waterfront Playhouse of Key West, Duncan Theater in Lakeworth & Mardi Gras Casino

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Community Announcement

Photo courtesy of Elvert Barnes

Pride South Florida Seeks Volunteers

Indoor Vendors / South Florida Pridefest at War Memorial Auditorium at Holiday Park

From Pride South Florida

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ear Community,

Please allow this letter to introduce you to Pride One Inc. DBA Pride South Florida. We are also the presenter of Fort Lauderdale Pride-Fest CELEBRATION. Pride South Florida is a non-profit organization whose goals, like yours, are to support equal rights for all and to promote and engage in educational, civic, and cultural activities that enrich the lives of the LGBT community.

This is achieved by donating 100 percent of profit proceeds from our festival to other non-profit organizations in Broward County.

Since 2006, we’ve donated over $100,000 to local organizations in support of their projects and services that enhance the lives of Broward County’s LGBTQ population.

Pride South Florida is a long-standing volunteer organization of diversity and community growth; this is a great opportunity for you as an individual or company to continue that rich tradition, while receiving exposure and helping to support a worthy cause. As participating volunteers you will receive a certificate of appreciation for your volunteerism, and your name will appear in

the next edition of Pride Guide the following year. We are also giving special awards this year to the person who recruits the most volunteers and the organization with the most volunteers. There is only one rule to be qualify each volunteer must complete their assign sh. And you get FREE ENTRY, FREE LUNCH AND FREE FUN! Our 2013 Pride-Fest dubbed, “The Future is ours” will be held at War Memorial at Holiday Park in Fort Lauderdale on March 9 and 10.

Your involvement will make this year’s event an extra special celebration and your support will allow us to hold a very smooth running event and also give you a sense of community love and unity. Again giving back can be more gratifying than receiving.

Please contact me Sonia Mitchell 954687- 5199 angelsentel@hotmail.com, Sonia Aguero 954-623-6989 or Bryan Wilson 954764-5150. Additional informational will be provided to you as you contact us. I look forward to your support. Remember most of the world’s greatest success comes through Volunteering.

Sincerely Yours, Sonia Mitchell, Director of Volunteer

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By Dylan Bouscher

Have an event you want to list?

If so send me an email at Calendar@sfgn.com.

Theater Broward County *The Rover

Aphra Behn’s seventeenth century sex comedy is adapted and directed by Nicole Stodard. The Rover is playing between Feb. 8 and March 3 at the Thinking Cap Theatre. Tickets are $35 for adults, $30 for seniors and military service members, and $20 for students who are 25 and under with valid I.D. Visit Thinkingcaptheatre.com

*Winds of Romance

Grab someone special this Valentine’s Day (Feb. 14) and take them to Florida Atlantic University’s University Theatre to experience the Florida Wind Symphony Jazz Orchestra’s performance of big band and romantic classics. Tickets range from $15 to $35, the show starts at 7 p.m.

*The Great Pas de Deux Series VI

The South Florida Ballet Theater presents a one day performance of “The Great Pas de Deux Series VI” and “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” starting at 6:00 p.m. on Sunday Feb. 17 in the Broward Center for the Performing Arts. Tickets range from $20 to $50. Visit Browardcenter.org

The Ultimate Elvis Show

The Broward Center presents Blue Suede Shoes Love Me Tender: The Ultimate Elvis Show featuring Scot Bruce and Mike Albert Sunday, Feb. 17 at 7 p.m.

Bruce pays tribute to a young Elvis, and joins Albert, who is acclaimed around the globe as “the world’s finest Elvis impressionist” for his performances with the Big “E” Band. Tickets are $27.50 and $37.50 Visit ParkerPlayhouse.com

Alan Parsons Live Project

Join the Puerto Rican cabaret star Friday Feb. 15 and Saturday Feb. 16 at 8 p.m. as she takes over the Aventura Arts & Cultural Center with pianist Rick Leonard. Tickets are $34.50. Visit BrowardCenter.org.

Alan Parsons Live Project on Monday, Feb. 18 at 7 p.m. as part of Parson’s Greatest Hits Tour 2013. The British rock pioneer began his musical career as a sound engineer working with The Beatles, Al Stewart, Cockney Rebel and Pilo, but solidified his reputation through his work on Pink Floyd’s iconic album Dark Side of the Moon. Tickets are $45.50 and $65.50. Visit ParkerPlayhouse.com

New Shanghai Circus

Looped

*Carla Bordonada

New Shanghai Circus will be presented as a Smart Stage Matinee on Friday, Feb.15 at 10 a.m. The Circus features acrobats, jugglers and contortionists who defy gravity. Tickets are $6 for individual seats, $5.50 for groups of 10 or more and $3 for lap seats for infants 12 months and under. Visit ParkerPlayhouse. com.

Stephanie Powers stars in the national tour of Matthew Lombardo’s madcap comedy Looped from Tuesday, Feb. 26 – Sunday, March 3. Ticket prices are $28, $46.50 and $66.50. Visit ParkerPlayhouse.com

Wicked

Wicked now through Sunday, Feb. 17 in the Au-Rene Theater. Before Dorothy drops in, two other girls meet in Oz. How they grow into the Wicked Witch of the West and Glinda the Good makes for “the most complete - and completely satisfying - new musical in a long time” (USA Today). Tickets range from $34.50 to $154.50, club level seats are $139.50. Visit BrowardCenter.org

I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change I Love You, You’re Perfect, Now Change comes to the Amaturo Theater Wednesday, Feb. 13 through Saturday, Feb.16. This Broadway musical hit features a collection of scenes and songs scaling the full spectrum of male/female relationships, including lampoons of first dates, pre-marital jitters, post-marital complaints, divorces and all the trials and tribulations of dealing with the opposite sex. Tickets are $35. Visit BrowardCenter.org

Tony Bennett

Bennett returns to South Florida with a concert in the Au-Rene Theater on Wednesday, Feb. 27 at 8 p.m.

His hits include the Grammy-winning “I Left My Heart in San Francisco,” as well as “I Wanna Be Around,” and “The Good Life”. Tickets are $51, $76, $101, $126 and $151, with Club Level seats available for $161.

Visit BrowardCenter.org

Melanie

Singer-songwriter Melanie will perform in the Amaturo Theater on Thursday, Feb. 21 at 8 p.m. With a talent that combines amazing vocal equipment, disarming humor and a vibrant engagement with life, she has created hits including “Beautiful People,” Brand New Key,” “Ruby Tuesday,” “What Have They Done To My Song Ma” and “Lay Down (Candles In The Rain).”

Tickets are $25 and $35. Visit BrowardCenter.org

Harriet Tubman

This musical drama and tribute to the great American is being presented as a part of the Smart Stage Matinee Series on Friday, Feb. 22 at 10 and 11:30 a.m. in the Amaturo Theater. Tickets are $6 for individuals, $5.50 for groups of 10 or more and $3 lap seats for infants 12 months and under. Visit BrowardCenter.org

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The Magic Flute

See Mozart’s operatic masterpiece on Thursday, Feb. 21 at 7:30 p.m. and Saturday, Feb. 23 at 8 p.m. in the Au-Rene Theater. The prince Tamino must rescue the daughter of a queen from the hands of Sarastro. As his quest nears its end, Tamino begins to realize who the real villain is. Tickets range from $21 to $200. Visit BrowardCenter.org

Russian National Orchestra

Miami-Dade Daniel Bernard Roumain

On Saturday February 16 at 8 p.m., the Haitian American composer and violinist will traverse soundscapes with members of the all Black and Latino, Detroit-based orchestra, the Sphinx Symphony, in the South Miami-Dade Cultural Arts Center. Tickets range from $10 to $30. Call 786-573-5300 or visit smdac.org.

The Russian National Orchestra performs Tuesday, Feb. 26 at 8 p.m. in the Au-Rene Theater. Vasily Petrenko leads the Orchestra in a program featuring Barry Douglas on piano and including: RimskyKorsakov’s “Capriccio Espagnol Op.34;” Tchaikovsky’s “Piano Concerto No. 1 No. 2 in B-flat minor, and Op.23” Tickets are $35, $50, $65, $80 and $95, with Club Level seats available for $125. Visit BrowardCenter.org

A Chorus Line

Eating Alabama

Saturday March 9 at 8 p.m. the so-called “Sun of Latin Music” and nine time Grammy Award winner is performing at the South Miami-Dade Cultural Arts Center. Tickets range from $15 to $35. Call 786-5735300 or visit smdac.org.

The Southern Circuit Independent Film Series continues with Eating Alabama on Thursday, Feb. 21 at 7:30 p.m. Following the screening, the film’s director and producer Andrew Grace will engage in the audience in a discussion about the film and his other work as a filmmaker. Tickets are $15 with subscription packages available. Visit Miramarculturalcenter.org

Tosca

The Miramar Cultural Center and Teatro Lirica D’Europa presents Puccini’s Tosca on Tuesday, Feb. 26 at 7:30 p.m. as part of the Opera Series. This opera is a drama of love, death-defying loyalty and deceit.

Sponsored by Novus Realty, LLC, the performance features a live orchestra and is sung in Italian with projected English subtitles. Tickets are $40 and $45, for more information call 954-602-4500.

Laffing Matterz

Laffing Matterz continues at the Broward Center Thursdays and Fridays at 7:30 p.m., Saturdays at 8:30 p.m. and selected Sundays throughout the season at 4:30 p.m. Taking on the latest scandal, social media, current events and everything in-between, Laffing Matterz combines dinner theater with topical satire.

Admission is $59 and $65 and includes the show, dinner with house salad and warm sourdough bread.

Visit BrowardCenter.org

Yo Gabba Gabba! Live!

On March 23 and 24, at 2 p.m. and 5 p.m. both days, the Broward Center for the Performing Arts hosts the family friendly “Get the Sillies Out” tour of the TV show turned live performance. Tickets range from $26.00 to 46.00. Visit BrowardCenter.org

Palm Beach County

Waist Watchers — The Musical!

Thursday Feb. 21 through Sunday May 12, the Plaza Theatre presents a comedy with parody lyrics to popular tunes that has been selling out across the country for six years now. Set mostly in a women’s fitness center, the musical directed by Andy Rogow is starring Shelley Keelor and Missy McArdle. Call 561588-1820 or visit ThePlazaTheatre.net

The Last Romance

March 22 to April 7, the Tony award-winning author Joe DiPietro’s new comedy is being performed at the Delray Beach Playhouse, 950 NW 9th, Delray Beach.

Tickets are $30. Call 561-272-1281 Ext. 4 or visit DelrayBeachPlayHouse.com

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A.R. Gurney’s comedy about life is being performed from May 17 to June 2 at the Delray Beach Playhouse, 950 NW 9th, Delray Beach. Tickets are $30.Call 561272-1281 Ext. 4 or visit DelrayBeachPlayHouse.com

Tribute to Judy Garland

Feb. 25. Plaza Theatre, 262 S. Ocean Blvd., Manalapan. Starring Melissa Jacobson at 7:30 p.m., featuring a songbook of numbers like “The Trolley Song,” “Get Happy,” “You Made Me Love You” and “Somewhere Over The Rainbow.” Call 561-588-1820 or visit ThePlazaTheatre.net

Equus

Feb. 15 to Feb. 24. Studio One Theatre, FAU Boca Raton. Regular tickets $20. A 1973 play, which made its way to Broadway and written by Peter Shaffer, tells the story of a psychiatrist who attempts to treat a young man convicted of blinding six horses.

Sunday March 17 at 3 p.m., the winner of nine Tony Awards and the Pulitzer Prize for drama, the traveling production of the musical “A Chorus Line,” is stopping at the South Miami-Dade Cultural Arts Center. Tickets range from $45 to $65. Call 786-573-5300 or visit smdac.org.

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Canciones de Broadway

The City of Aventura presents Canciones de Broadway with Carla Bordonada on Friday, Feb. 15 at 8 p.m. and Saturday, Feb. 16 at 8 p.m. Now, Puerto Rican born cabaret star Carla Bordonada performs “Somewhere,” “Don’t Cry for Me Argentina”, “Impossible Dream” and more. Tickets are $34.50. Visit AventuraCenter.org

Stories of a Seared Childhood

The City of Aventura’s First Person Singular: Adventures in Solo Storytelling Series continues with Where There’s Smoke, There’s Dinner: Stories of a Seared Childhood Featuring Regi Carpenter on Thursday, Feb. 19 at 7 p.m. St. Lawrence River rat and award-winning storyteller Carpenter gleans stories from four generations of her eccentric family in Clayton, N.Y. that are equally heartbreaking and sidesplitting. Tickets are $25. Visit AventuraCenter.org

Jazz Around the World

Zameru Investment presents Jazz Around the World on Friday, February 22 at 8:30 p.m. This journey through jazz culture features artists such as Nat King Cole, Frank Sinatra, Louis Armstrong, and Ella Fitzgerald. It incorporates jazz of various eras and countries, and adaptations of other genres. Tickets are $35 with $50 V.I.P. tickets, which include a postshow champagne toast with the company. Visit AventuraCenter.org

Hal Linden

The City of Aventura presents a performance by Tony Award-winner Hal Linden on Thursday, Feb. 28 at 8 p.m. Linden presents an entertaining combination of songs, ranging from classic pop to jazz standards, Broadway and feature film tunes, standards from the American and theatrical musings highlighting memorable moments from his life and career. Tickets are $36.50 and $41.50. Visit AventuraCenter.org

*The PreNup

On Saturday March 2 at 7:30 p.m. in the Miramar Cultural Center, this romantic comedy will follow what happens when two people, married for more than five years with no kids and too much money, decide to divorce.Tickets range from $23 to $28. Visit Miramarculturalcenter.org

*Tribute to Pavarotti

On Monday March 11 at 7:30 p.m. in the Miramar Cultural Center, the center’s Opera series will continue with an orchestra, chorus, and international soloists paying tribute to opera’s Luciano Pavarotti. Tickets range from $40 to $45. Visit Miramarculturalcenter.org.

Broadway in Miami 2012-13

Ziff Ballet Opera House will hold the Broadway In Miami spectacle through May 12. Experience the return of Les Misérables - in its lavish new 25th anniversary production, along with the Miami premieres of Broadway’s biggest fun-filled hits - including the high-stepping Mary Poppins, the outlandishly colorful Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, the Rock of Ages -- a 2010 Tony Award winner. Visit Arshtcenter.org

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on 1480 SW 9th Ave on the second floor. Queer Themed Movie showing at 7 p.m. on Friday nights.

Free wi-fi, plus board games that you can bring or the ones that provided by the group. Visit Sunserve.org/ youth/index.htm

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Community Calendar Broward County Water, Sports and Travel Festival

The first-ever Water, Sports & Travel Festival, presented by leading water sports organizations will be held at the Greater Fort Lauderdale/Broward County Convention Center and several locations throughout Greater Fort Lauderdale from April 26-28. The exhibition will feature four co-located shows including “The Board Show”, “The Dive Show”, “The Boating & Water Toys Show”, and “The Travel Show.” Visit Wstfest.com

Floral Designs for the Holidays

“Flower Designs for the Holidays”. Janice Hamlin, Master Flower Show Judge from the Manatee River Garden Club in Bradenton, Florida will inspire us by demonstrating the creation of flower designs for the holidays. Call 954-561-8475. Visit FLGardenClub@ gmail.com

LGBT Quit Smoking Groups

Did you know that LGBT people are more likely to smoke than most other populations in the United States? Being around other smokers can make it more difficult for people to quit. But many of us are trying, and the Quit Smoking Now Program in Wilton Manors is here to show us how. Visit My.vcita.com/ MyQuitCoach QuitsmokingWM.com or call 305-9426378

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6th Annual I Care I Cure 5K Run

Sunday, Feb. 10 at 7:30 a.m. at the BB&T Center (formerly BankAtlantic Center), 1 Panther Parkway, Sunrise, Florida. Register online at: www.icareicure. org, Adults $25 and Children $20. The I Care I Cure Childhood Cancer Foundation supports the development of, and raises public awareness about, cutting-edge research for targeted therapies for childhood cancer. Contact Sue Trilling at 800-807-8013.

Island City-Wide Yard Sale

Annual yard sales are held at Hagen Park, 2020 Wilton Drive, on the second Saturday of the month through April 2013 from 8 a.m. to 2 p.m. Spaces available to purchase. Last year there were 60 to 90 vendors, so register early while there is still space. More info call the Leisure Services Department at 954-390-2115 or 954-390-2130.

The Four Noble Truths

It is our mind of attachment that continues to deceive us, causing us to relate to these things in mistaken ways, and leading us straight into problems and misfortune. Learn how to break this cycle. $10/class or $30/series includes vegetarian food after class, members free. Visit MeditationInFortLauderdale.org

Pozitive Attitudes

Topic driven Peer lead support group for gay and bisexual men who are infected or affected by HIV/ AIDS. Meets every Wednesday 7-9 p.m. at the Pride Center 204 N.Dixie Hwy Room 204. Refreshments, no charge, open meeting. PAHereandNow@aol.com or visit PozitiveAttitudes.com

Queer Youth Fridays

GLBX Business Advantage Referral Group

GLBX Business Advantage Referral Group will be held at the chamber offices on the 1st and 3rd Wednesday of the month from 8 to 9 a.m. If you are interested joining, please contact Ken Stollar at Kenneth.

Stolar@sci-us.com to see if your category is open and to attend as a guest. Visit Ftlchamber.com/index. php?src=gendocs&ref=GLBX_home&category=GLBX

Queer Youth Nights

LGBTQ & allied youth 13-21 are welcome any time after 6 p.m. at the SunServe building on Wilton Drive for a great place to meet new friends, play board games and a Queer Themed Movie at 7 p.m. Email Afrosch@sunServe.org

Latinos Salud’s programs

Multiple programs/groups for bi/gay Latino guys.

Latinos Salud’s SOMOS for guys 18 to 30. Proceeds benefit Latinos Salud with HIV Prevention and testing.

Join Core Group every Thursday night at 7 p.m., to help plan activities. 2330 Wilton Drive. Call 954-533-8681 or visit Latinossalud.org

Man2Man Discussion

Man2Man Discussion Group meets at the Pride Center on Mondays from 7 until 8:30 p.m. Any subject may be discussed. Members regularly reassemble afterwards for ‘repast’ at The Courtyard, PeterPan Diner. Visit Glccsf.org

Meditation After Work

On Mondays from 6-6:30 p.m. there will be Guided meditation w/ western Buddhist teacher Gui Passow.

Looking for a way to rest and re-charge before starting your evening? Come in for a free guided meditation to clear your mind at the end of the day. This class is free at Drolma Buddhist Center. Call 954-537-9191 or visit meditationinfortlauderdale.org

Buddhist Meditation Classes

All the happiness there is in the world arises from wishing others to be happy. By abandoning selfcentered thoughts and replacing them with the belief that others are important, we will overcome our suffering and find true happiness inside our own hearts. $10/class or $30/series includes vegetarian food after class. Call The Drolma Buddhist Center at 954-5379191.

Dream Car Classic

Every Sunday of the month from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.

Pre-1980s classic cars, modern classics and custom cars from 1981-2012 will be showcased. $10 car registration from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m. (Show Car Entrance: 20th Avenue & Tyler Street). People’s Choice Award - 2 Classes; Top Ten Vehicles Award. Call 954-214-2457

Living Healthy

Fusion in Wilton Manors will be having a free workshop on healthy choices, and healthy living on Tuesdays from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. This workshop provides interactive learning, practice and mastery techniques for a healthier and more active life, and positive changes for quality of life. Call 954-630-1655

Life Coaching

Latinos Salud’s Life Coaching program is for Latino gay/bi guys ages 18-44. Come by Monday through Friday 11 a.m. to 7 p.m. for free one-on-one life coaching with certified CRCS coaches. Set your goals, and meet action steps to make them come true. 2330 Wilton Drive. Call 954-765-6239. Visit Latinossalud.org

Sex & Love Anonymous

Sex and love addiction may take several forms -including, but not limited to, a compulsive need for sex, extreme dependency on one or many people, or a chronic pre-occupation with romance, intrigue, or fantasy. Meets at The Pride Center at Equality Park in Bldg A, Room 200 Fridays 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. Visit Slaafws.org

For people ages 13-21, drop-in from 6 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. This youth group meets at the SunServe building

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Survivor Support

On the first and third Wednesday of each month at the 211 Community Center, 250 NE 33rd Street, in Oakland Park. The Florida Initiative for Suicide Prevention (FISP) is sponsoring this free support group and is open to all family members and friends of those who have died by suicide. Call 954-384-0344 to register.

Meets from 7-8:30 p.m. Visit Fisponline.org.

Eating Disorder Support

Meets Friday evenings from 6 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. At Sun Serve’s Wilton Manors location at 2123 Wilton Drive, second floor. A “drop-in” psycho-educational support group. Free. No registration required. Donations welcome. Call 954-764-5150

Sunday Jazz Brunch

First Sunday of every month. An ideal way to relax and enjoy Fort Lauderdale’s scenic Riverwalk. Live, outdoor concert series bringing the area’s best local jazz artists.

Listen to the soulful sounds on four different stages.

Well-behaved, leashed pets welcome. Plenty of room for chairs, blankets and picnic baskets.

Young Adult GLBT

A social group open to all LGBT people ages 18-35.

Meets Fridays at the Pride Center in Wilton Manors from 7:15-9 p.m. Meeting starts with a discussion on current events followed by introductions and then a group activity. Visit PrideCenterFlorida.org/contact-us

Boardwalk Friday Fest

Come to Hollywood Beach Theatre East of A1A at Johnson St and the ocean. Admission: Free every Friday of every month. Live jazz, blues, pop and everything in between along Hollywood’s signature 2.5 mile boardwalk. Charming oceanfront cafes and restaurants serve up delicious innovative cuisine while you enjoy the best array of live music and tropical ocean breezes. Visit Hollywoodfl.org or call 954-9242980

Toastmasters

Meetings are comprised of about 20 people who meet weekly for an hour or so. Participants practice and learn skills by filling a meeting role, ranging from giving a prepared speech or an impromptu one to serving as timer, evaluator or grammarian. Toastmasters meet at the GLCC/Pride Center Monday at 7:15 p.m. Call Ted Verdone at 954-566-2074 or email: Tedverdone@comc​ ast.net

Tuesday Night Eatin Meeting

Tuesday Night Eatin’ Meeting will be held at The Alternative MC Clubhouse at 4322 NE 5th Ave in Oakland Park. Fun, food, and fellowship. There will be hamburgers, hotdogs, all the fixins, cold drinks, desserts, and snacks. Meeting begins at 8 p.m. and ends at 9 p.m. Visit Alternativemc.com/events/floridaevents

Gay Male Empowerment

Topic discussions include issues and concerns about being a gay man in South Florida. Meets Thursdays at the Pride Center from 7 - 8:30 p.m. Call 954-353-9155

PFLAG

Meets on the 2nd and 4th Tues. of the month at the Sunshine Cathedral at 1480 SW 9th Avenue to support the parents of LGBTQ youth in Broward. No charge.

Visit Community.pflag.org/pflagfortlauderdale

SunServe Therapy Groups

Provided for the LGBT community at SunServe on a regular basis. Call the Intake Coordinator at 954-7645150 to learn which therapy groups have openings.

Groups Include a Gay Men’s HIV+ Long Time Survivors’ Group, a Safe “T” support group for gender variant adults, an Intimate Partner Abuse group and others. Visit SunServe.org

Fusion Wilton Manors - Connections

Gay men’s group discussion. Different subject every week. Dr. David Fawcett, a gay therapist, who has been in private practice in Fort Lauderdale for the last ten years, leads the event. No charge. Starts at 7 p.m.

Call 954-630-1655.

Women4Women Support

A safe and loving place to explore all the concerns and topics raised by group members. This open drop-in meeting is held Wednesdays at 6 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. at the New Sun Serve Building at 2312 Wilton Drive in Wilton Manors. Call 954-764-5150

Man2Man Discussion

Man-2-Man talk is an informal discussion group of gay men, with all age ranges and backgrounds welcomed.

Bldg A, Room 206. Visit Glccsf.org/calendar/

Palm Beach County “We Got Love!”

This concert will be performed by the best chorus group around, The Gay Men’s Chorus of the Palm Beaches.

This event will be on Feb. 17 from 4 p.m to 5:30 p.m. at the St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church in Lake Worth. Call 561- 582-6609 or email SAEpiscopal@aol.com

Coming Out Support Group

Coming Out Support Group for all ages, men and women. Meets every Thursday evening at Compass, GLCC of the Palm Beaches , 201 N. Dixie Highway, Lake Worth, Florida from 6:30 to 8 p.m. Call Forrest @561-479-8313

Lake Worth Bike Night

The Lake Worth bike night is fun, and it’s for a cause. Join loads of people in downtown Lake Worth every Thursday from 7 p.m.-10 p.m.. The event is free and open to bikers and non-bikers. Visit Lakeworthbikenight.com

Jazz on the Palm

In downtown West Palm Beach Waterfront - Gather with friends and family to enjoy the vibrant sounds of jazz under the stars every third Friday of month at the new downtown West Palm Beach waterfront concert series. Free and open to the public. Guests are encouraged to bring blankets and chairs. From 8 p.m. to 10 p.m. Visit Wpbgo.com/2010/06/jazz-on-the-palm

BrothasSpeak

This group is a black gay men’s discussion group that is held at the Compass in West Palm Beach. Every Wednesday from 7 p.m. to 8 p.m. this group will be directed toward issues for and about black men. Visit Compassglcc.com

Yoga

Yoga with Deborah will change your life. Bring a mat and get ready to stretch the stress away every Tuesday at The GLCC in Palm Beach from 6 to 7 p.m. This yoga experience will uplift and transform your life. $6 Entry Fee. You must bring your own mat. Visit Compassglcc. com

Living Buddhism

On the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. Compass in Lake Worth will be holding a discussion group for overcoming obstacles and obtaining happiness.

This group is great for getting internal enlightenment.

Release your inner stress, and become free. Visit Compassglcc.com

Paths

Paths is a social/discussion group held at Compass in Lake Worth. This men’s group takes place every Monday from 7:30 p.m. to 9 p.m. Paths men’s group will be discussing relationships, coming out, safer sex issues and more. Visit Compassglcc.com

Alternative Life Style Show

Featured guests contribute to the community. All are welcomed to call in. Many give aways and prizes including a contest for free buffets at Isle Capri Casino in Pompano. You can also listen by adding W4CYRADIO to SKYPE or call in at 561-623-9429.

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PFLAG

PFLAG is a monthly support, coming out and rap groups for families of & for Gay, Lesbian, Bi, and Transgender people. Meeting in Palm Beach County is at 6:30 on the third Wednesday of the month. Call or email Carol at 561-716-9464 Pflag@pobox.com

New Alternatives

Social group with regular outings and social mixers for LGBTQ ages 18 to 30. This meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Email matthew@compassglcc.com or Visit Compassglcc.com.

Sober Sisters AA

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Support group is dedicated for lesbians who are recovering from alcoholism. Meeting happens every Monday at 7 p.m. at Lambda North Clubhouse. Visit LambdaNorth.net

PBC Gender Support

All ages support group dedicated for transgender individuals. This meeting happens the 1st and 3rd Thursday of every month at 7:30 p.m. These meeting will take place at The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Palm Beach County. Visit Compassglcc.com

Good Orderly AA

These meetings now take place at Lambda North at 18 S. J Street, and geared toward recovering alcoholics.

Every Tues. and Thurs. at 7 p.m. and on Sat. at 5:30 p.m. These meetings will help recovering alcoholics cope with the stress of everyday life without the use of alcohol. Email tcamie@aol.com

Seniors vs. Crime

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Seniors vs. Crime is a free service that provides help to seniors who have been victimized by businesses or service providers and need assistance. This event will take place at Mae Volen Senior Center at 1515 W. Palmetto Park Road. By appointment only so call 561736-3820 or 561-395-8920.

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Yoga On The Waterfront

Lake Pavilion at 101 S. Flagler Drive, West Palm Beach, FL / Yoga On The Waterfront in downtown West Palm Beach on Wednesday Evenings at 5:45 p.m.

Residents $40 per 8 week session, Non-Residents $50 per 8 week session, Drop-ins $10 per class. To register, please call 561-804-4902.

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YOGA Among the Orchids

It’s time for Yoga Among the Orchids at the American Orchid Society, 16700 AOS Lane, Delray Beach.

Relax and replenish the flower inside with an hour of breathing exercises, toning, and yoga poses under a canopy of lush orchids. Classes are Wed. at 9 a.m.

Cost is $20 and RSVP is suggested. Call 561-4042011. Visit OrchidWeb.org

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Miami-Dade New Worship Service

Biscayne Unitarian will begin worship service on Sunday, Feb. 3, at 4 p.m., at the Pelican Harbor Marina Conference Center, 1275 NE 79th St, Miami. A social hour with refreshments will follow the service. Rev. Dr. Kenneth Claus, minister of All Souls Miami UU of South Miami, will lead this family-friendly service. Visit www.uua.org. Call: David Traupman, davidtraupman@ comcast.net, 305-758-3067

15th annual Grantees on Parade

Citizens Interested in Arts (CIA) presents the 15th annual Grantees on Parade on Sunday, Feb. 17 at 1:30 p.m. The CIA Grants Committee will award grants to 30 South Florida artistic organizations. Tickets are $50 and $75 with VIP seats available for $100. All tickets include admission to the pre-show brunch at 11:30 a.m.

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Lambda Dade Clubhouse

A meeting place for the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender communities and friends in recovery.

Hosts Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Al-Anon, Crystal Meth Anonymous (CMA), Debtors Anonymous (DA), Narcotics Anonymous (NA), and Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA), meetings. 305 573-9608. 212 NE 24th Street. Miami. Visit Lambdadadeclubhouse.org

Key West The 48th Annual Old Island Days Art Festival

A two-day juried outdoor fine art festival. That will take place on Feb. 23-24. The show is sponsored by the Key West Art Center, and was originally held to raise money for the renovation of the building at 301 Front Street. Explore beautiful art from locals in Key West.

Visit KeyWestArtCenter.com/festival.html

NEED WOODnightlife

Georgie’s Alibi

2266 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305, 954-5652526. Fort Lauderdale’s best & longest happy hour.

Wednesdays $2 Domestics & $1 Schnapps after 9 p.m.

Johnny’s

1116 W. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale, FL 33312, 954-522-5931. Monday Dragon with TP Lords, Daisy D. and DJ Rob Sky Some of the hottest guys around with great happy hour drink specials. Bring all your friends to this sexy Bar.

The Manor

2345 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 954-626 0082 - Come Dine, Dance, Drink, Mingle and of course Relax. 2 for 1 happy hour Tues-Friday 3 to 9 p.m.

Indoor/Outdoor Dining. Dance the night away Thursday through Sunday. Live music Wed., Fri., Sat., Sun. Visit themanorcomplex.com

Matty’s on the Drive

2426 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305 954-5641799. Matty’s is one of the few bars in Wilton Manors that’s just that –a bar. Wild Wednesday’s $.75 Drinks, 13 Drinks for less than $10. 5 p.m.

Mona’s

502 E. Sunrise Boulevard, Fort Lauderdale, FL 33304, 954-525-6662. The eclectic décor and a friendly staff makes. Mona’s a great place to have fun in Fort Lauderdale. Thursday’s College Boy’s Night 8 p.m.

Enjoy College Boy’s Choice 2 for 1

Monkey Business

2740 North Andrews Ave, Wilton Manors, FL 33311.

954-514-7819. The Monkey Business Bar is a Small Outdoor Bar Among The Shops Just off Marina Blvd.

No Frills But Comfortable and a Great Place to Stop and Meet Good People. Happy Hour 8 a.m. to 9 p.m.

Naked Grape Wine Bar

2039 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, FL 33305. 954-5635631. A Casual, Hip, Fun Experience and if You Have a Taste for Deliciously Unique Wines, You Need to Make This Your Next Stop! Happy Hour All Night on Thursday

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4th Annual Pride Cruise

From Ocean Drive to the ocean waves, Miami Beach Gay Pride 2013 is setting sail once again with Source Events for the “Miami Beach Pride Cruise” immediately following all the Miami Beach Gay Pride festivities.

The Pride Cruise takes place from Monday, April 15 to Friday, April 19. Visit SourceEvents.com

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Atomic Boom

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