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SFGN Changes Publication Dates to Wednesdays

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ublisher Norm Kent announced today, that after a successful, brief trial period in June, SFGN will permanently switch to Wednesday publication dates on a permanent basis, commencing with this issue, our 25th. The newspaper will generally be available online by midnite on Tuesday evenings and distributed to over 350 locations in the tri county area by

Wednesday afternoons.

In addition, SFGN now has full color printing ability on all its pages, so advertisers may begin converting their ad placements to four colors at nominally extra costs, Kent added. “The midweek distribution seems to be very popular with our readers, advertisers, and staff. So we are responding to the energy its created,” Kent noted.

Congressional Candidate Galvin Wants Oil Drilling Ban

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n the heels of an Associated Press report that more than 27,000 oil wells are abandoned in the Gulf of Mexico, openly gay

US District 17 candidate Scott Galvin is calling for an end to off shore oil drilling in Florida.

A winner of a Sierra Club environmental award as long ago as 2001, Galvin said he was an environmentalist who would work as a congressman to develop clean energy sources for the nation.

As a North Miami mayor, Galvin initiated the creation of the Arch Creek East Environmental Preserve, locking down thirteen acres of bayfron property as a nature habitat.

The AP, calling the Gulf an “environmental minefield,” says the oldest of these wells were abandoned in the late 1940s,

raising questions about whether their seals remain intact. It says 3,500 wells are listed as “temporarily abandoned,” without seals, with 1,000 of them remaining that way for more than a decade.

Galvin pointed out that such wells can repressurize, much like a dormant volcano can awaken.Years of exposure to sea water can can cause cementing and piping to corrode and weaken as well.

Citing Government Accounting Office reports that suggest the situation has the potential to be a “foreboding crisis,” Galvin promised to become a national spokesman for “green energy,” willing to fight to protect beaches and coastal waters.

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Campaign Watch

Seeking Election and Re-Election

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ictured here from left to right are Justin Flippen – the Vice Mayor of Wilton Manors, Ken Keechl – the Mayor of Broward County and Scott Galvin – current North Miami Councilman who is running for election to US Congress in District 17. The three were discussing Keechl’s recent address of the oil spill and hurricane emergency preparedness at a fundraiser for Keechl’s re-election hosted by local attorney George Castrataro. There were plenty of names and faces at the event and Keechl expressed confidence in the outcome of Broward County elections this year. – Jarrett Terrill

Congregation Etz Chaim to Screen Paragraph 175

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aragraph 175 is a documentary released in 2000, directed by Rob Epstein and Jeffrey Friedman, and narrated by Rupert Everett.

The film chronicles the lives of several individuals who were arrested by the Nazis for homosexuality under Paragraph 175, the sodomy provision of the German penal code, dating back to 1871.

Between 1933 and 1945, 100,000 people were arrested under Paragraph 175.

Some were imprisoned, others were sent to concentration camps. Only about 4,000 survived.

In 2000, fewer than ten of these people were known to be living. Five come forward in the documentary to tell their stories for the first time, considered to be among the

last untold stories of the Third Reich. Paragraph 175 tells of a gap in the historical record and reveals the lasting consequences, as told through personal stories of gay men and women who lived through it.

The documentary includes anecdotes from Karl Gorath, the half-Jewish resistance fighter who spent the war helping refugees escape Berlin; Annette Eick, the Jewish lesbian who escaped to England with the help of a woman she loved; Albrecht Becker, German Christian Photographer, who was arrested and imprisoned for homosexuality, then joined the army on his release because he “wanted to be with men” and Pierre Seel, the French Alsatian teenager, who watched as his lover was eaten alive by dogs in the camps.

Admission to this screening is free for the July 20 showing, which begins at 7:00 p.m.

Congregation Etz Chaim is located at 1881 NE 26th Street in Wilton Manors. For more information, please call: 954-564-9232.

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Debbie Wasserman Schultz Defending the Rights of Those Who Oppose Her

By Jarrett Terrill

Mary Bono Mack, the Republican stepmother original support of Hillary Clinton – referring to both Clinton and Wasserman Schultz of popular transgender activist Chaz Bono. as “part of Obama’s anti-Semitic agenda.”

“It’s ridiculous,” says Wasserman Schultz pon learning that two members of a statement made by one of her chalof the LGBT community were lengers in the election. Kunst referenced running for the Congressional Wasserman Schultz in a statement he made seat currently held by Debbie Wasserman Schultz in District 20, I immediately placed a to me by phone where he described the Obama Administration as “anti-Semitic.” call to the Wasserman Schultz campaign to Both Kunst and Wasserman Schultz were figure out what was going on. supporters of Hillary Clinton in the 2008 As it turns out, Ms. Wasserman Schultz Democratic Primary election, but Waswas not nearly as concerned about these serman Schultz was able to roll with the potential opponents as I was. She granted changes and later endorsed Barack Obama me a telephone interview in which she as the nominee. assured me that she has no intention of Bob Kunst did not support Barack Obama running against anyone to retain her seat. and now does not even defend his own That’s right; her campaign will be based on her own merit – of which she has plenty.

“Fighting for equality is the whole basis of why I decided to run for [office, 18 years] The Record Debbie Wasserman Schultz ago,” says Wasserman Schultz, “I was appalled that there were people who wanted asserman Schultz has received a 100% rating from the Human Rights Camto repeal civil rights in Broward County. I’ve paign (HRC) on legislative issues and been honored by Equality Florida with always focused on civil rights – it goes to their Voice of Equality Award. For those of us who are unimpressed by or skeptical of the core of my public service.” such ratings and awards, here is a partial list of Wasserman Schultz’s accomplishments But two of the 7 people on the ballot on behalf of LGBT persons: in the primaries for District 20 are LGBT • Wasserman Schultz is a Vice Chair in the Congressional Equality Caucus alongside candidates trying to earn their stripes by Ted Deutch, Kathy Castor, Alcee Hastings and Ileana Ros-Lehtinen of Florida who are running against her. Transgender Republican also members of the caucus.

Donna Milo and Gay Independent candidate • She served on the “Vote No on 2” campaign in an effort to combat Florida’s inBob Kunst, have so far announced that they sanely anti-gay Amendment 2, which specifically bars gays and lesbians from any kind of will be running against Schultz in the election. legal recognition in their relationships.

Milo must first pass the Republican Primary • She was an integral “yes” vote in passing the inclusion of LGBT persons in protecagainst 2 other challengers. Kunst intends to tion from hate crimes. This bill is now signed into United States law by the president. run as a non-party affiliated candidate.

• She voted “yes” to repeal Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell – the law which bars LGBT persons Bob Kunst, who ran a popular boycott from open service in the military. This law has passed in the House of Representatives on Florida orange juice in the late 70’s to and awaits a Senate vote. protest Anita Bryant’s anti-gay crusade, seems • Wasserman Schultz has voted “yes” on ENDA – the workplace non-discrimination to have his crosshairs set on Florida’s liberal act on behalf of LGBT persons and she also specifically voted to stay inclusive of transDemocrats this time. He claimed in a brief gender persons in the language of the bill. telephone interview with me that he would • She voted “no” on a discriminatory bill that would ban gay marriage at the federal be “the only gay man running for US Conlevel for all states. gress” in this election. Kunst is perhaps not • She co-sponsored a House bill, The Early Treatment for HIV Act. It provides states aware that Steve Pougnet of Palm Springs, with the option to provide Medicaid coverage to low-income, HIV-positive Americans CA is also openly gay and runbefore they develop AIDS. Provisions for this bill were included in the House-passed ning against Health Care Reform bill.

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Wasserman Schultz shrugs off the accusations and simply points back to Obama’s record on Jewish American relations. “I think it’s ridiculous to suggest that this Administration is anti-Semitic,” she says, “Obama just hosted the first ever Jewish American Heritage Month in the White House.”

“In my experience, elections are about the individual and their record. At the end of the day, this [election] is going to be about Debbie Wasserman Schultz and I’m proud to have represented my constituents well. I’ve been out there working hard and I’m sure my constituents will see that come election time.”

It’s true – Debbie Wasserman Schultz has an extensive record of not just voting for equality for gays, lesbians and transgendered folks but also for women along with racial and religious minorities. She also has plenty to say about the environment. She looks forward to discussing ways that we can “focus on renewable energy and stop relying on a finite source like oil.”

Debbie Wasserman Schultz attributes the strong opposition to incumbents this year as “an angst about our economy.” She says she’s been doing what she can to remind people of the progress that’s been made but she also points out that we have a road ahead of us as well. “People just want to make sure that we’re focusing on turning the economy around and creating jobs. That’s exactly what the Obama Administration is doing... so the numbers are there,” she says referring to the increase in jobs created and decreases in the number of jobs lost.

“I’m out there talking about the progress we’ve made but we still have a ways to go and I think that’s why there’s so much [adversity toward incumbents]. I’m really excited about running on my record and the record of this Congress but we still have to recognize that there are things we need to do [going forward] as well.”

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Class Act in Wellington WPB Village Extends Rights for LGBT family benefits to employees with domestic partners,” said Hoch. “Wellington’s equestrian he Village of Wellington in Palm community came out in support of the tourBeach has amended its Equal nament — and in support of our requests.”

As a result, Wellington’s revised Equal Employment Opportunity policy to prohibit discrimination based on both Employment Opportunity Policy now provides, “Wellington’s “sexual orientation” employment practices and “gender identity are without regard to or expression” in Village employment. The “it our goal to do the race, color, creed. religion, gender, gender policy covers the Vilright thing by all of identity or expression, lage’s 258 employees. sexual orientation, The action was the people who work national origin, ancestaken following a retry, disability, medical quest from the Palm for Wellington.” condition, age, marital Beach County Human status, familial status, Rights Council, a lo– Village Manager Paul Schofield. veteran’s status, or any cal non-profit orgaother characteristic nization dedicated to protected under fedending discrimination based on sexual orientation, gender identity eral, state, or local law in all personnel and employment actions and in all terms and and gender expression.

“People should not be fired, harassed, or conditions of employment.”

“The workplace is an ever changing envidenied promotion simply because they are gay or lesbian, or because they don’t fit the ronment and it our goal to do the right thing stereotypes for masculinity or femininity,” by all of the people who work for Wellington,” said Village Manager Paul Schofield. said Council President Rand Hoch.

Last spring, Grand Champions Polo Club “These changes are a simple recognition that in Wellington played host to the world’s first the only thing that should matter in the work international gay polo league tournament, place is how well you do your job.” The comwhich was presented by the Gay Polo League. munity has approximately 55,000 residents.

Wellington is also considering offering “The Gay Polo League’s selection of Wellington encouraged the Council to ask the health insurance coverage and other family Village to adopt a more inclusive Equal Em- benefits to Village employees with domestic ployment Opportunity policy and to provide partners, according Schofield.

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Elaine Lancaster Named Co-Emcee at Life Ball Fashion Show

By Joey Amato

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outh Beach performer/DJ Elaine Lancaster has been chosen to perform and co-emcee the Fashion Show during this year’s annual Life Ball, one of the Worlds Largest HIV/AIDS Charities held annually in Vienna, Austria, on July 17 this year.

Actress/comedian Whoopi Goldberg, this year’s official spokesperson for amFAR, will host Life Ball 2010. Life Ball is an annual fund-raising Gala that unites the Viennese ball tradition with opulence, extravagance, glamour, provocation, fancy performances, committed speeches as well as emotional moments.

Life Ball, which benefits the essential HIV/ AIDS research and prevention programs of amFAR, will be held under the patronage of Barbara Prammer, the first female president of the Austrian Parliament. Guests of honor include former President Bill Clinton.

Diane von Furstenberg, Calvin Klein and Kenneth Cole will stage the Life Ball Fashion Show this year. Whoopi Goldberg will be hosting the AmFar dinner/gala earlier in the evening and across the street David Furnish, the partner of Elton John, will be hosting a Black Tie Gala for the EJAF. “To my knowledge no one from Florida has ever been an official participant of Life

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National News

Gays Win DOMA Court Battles See Publisher’s Editorial, Page 14

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n an enormous victory for same-sex marriage, a federal judge in Boston Thursday, July 8, ruled – in two separate lawsuits – that a critical part of the federal Defense of Marriage Act is unconstitutional.

In one lawsuit, Commonwealth of Massachusetts v. Health and Human Services, Judge Joseph Tauro, of the U.S. District Court in Boston, ruled that DOMA violated the Tenth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution by taking from the states powers that the Constitution gave to them. In the other lawsuit, Gill v. Office of Personnel Management, he ruled that DOMA violates the equal protection principles embodied in the due process clause of the Fifth Amendment in an effort to “disadvantage a group of which it disapproves.”

The Massachusetts lawsuit was led by Maura T. Healey, chief of the Massachusetts Attorney General’s Civil Rights Division, and the Gill case was led by Mary Bonauto, civil rights director for Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders (GLAD). Bonauto and GLAD also led the landmark lawsuit that won equal marriage rights for Massachusetts couples in November 2003.

Both of the lawsuits heard by Tauro targeted Section 3 of DOMA. That section states that, for federal government purposes, “the word ‘marriage’ means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife, and the word ‘spouse’ refers only to a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or a wife.” Neither lawsuit challenged the section of DOMA that enable any state to ignore valid marriage licenses issued to a same-sex couple in other states.

In ruling Section 3 of DOMA unconstitu-

tional in Gill, Tauro stated that he could not find “any identifiable legitimate purpose or discrete objective” for DOMA to treat samesex couples differently. DOMA, he said, “is a status-based enactment divorced from any factual context from which [this court] could discern a relationship to legitimate [government] interests.”

That finding was important because, in 1996 decision, in Romer v. Evans, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that animus cannot be used to justify a law.

GLAD legal director Gary Buseck noted that GLAD made the argument “very strongly” that DOMA was motivated by animus for gay people and that it gains considerable credibility from its confirmation by Tauro, a Nixon appointee whom Buseck describes as “very centrist and conservative.”

GLAD’s Bonauto had argued that the court should apply an even more stringent level of scrutiny –heightened scrutiny. But she said she was not disappointed that Tauro applied only rational basis in striking down DOMA. “His ruling on rational basis alone,” said Bonauto, “is consistent with judicial minimalism in constitutional cases and deciding no more than is necessary.” Bonauto said GLAD would continue to argue for heightened scrutiny at the First Circuit, assuming the decision is appealed.

“It is a very strong opinion and very carefully reasoned,” said Bonauto, during a phone conference with reporters Thursday.

Attorney General Martha Coakley, who joined the conference call only very briefly at the beginning, called the Tauro decisions “a landmark step” for marriage equality and a “victory for civil rights in Massachusetts.”

Buseck said that, “as a technical matter,” the Gill decision involves just the eight continued on page 30

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Tony Adams

What Makes Mark Foley the Hottest Guy on the Beach

By Tony Adams

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ark Foley’s niche in the pantheon of sexy Fort Lauderdale men is prominent. Many are the patrons of the Ramrod who will head for his bar more for receipt of his shirtless attention than for the beer he hands them. He is also not hard on the eyes in the closely cut green uniform of his day job as a park ranger. While he measures up to both of these standard issue gay porn fantasy types, the sexiest aspect of Mark Foley is to be appreciated only on the beach after midnight where you will find him volunteering his little free time in pursuit of his deepest passions, our environment and the protection of endangered sea turtles. If your goal is to get him in bed, forget it. He does not seem to sleep.

Mark is originally from Arcadia, Florida and attended South Florida Community College before joining the Navy from which he received an honorable discharge after three years. Mark has this to say about his military experience and DADT. “That policy is certainly discriminatory, but I served in Clinton’s Navy and maybe I was lucky but it felt really tolerant, at least with friends and peers. I wasn’t outspoken, but I wasn’t overly quiet about my sexuality. I was pretty tame but off duty and in ports, sure, sometimes I had some fun. My first experience in San Francisco for instance.

I dared to go into a gay bar in uniform with two other gay sailors and the bartender gave me a beer in exchange for taking my shirt off, then going in

the back and having some fun.”

Restless and eager to travel after his discharge, Mark headed for Europe where he met a Spaniard. “It was quite romantic actually. A ‘love at first sight’ sort of thing. I ended up leaving to continue my travels and he chased me all over Scotland to find me again.” They remain close friends.

Upon his return, Mark enrolled in the University of Florida Gainesville, majoring in Spanish, and teaching English as a

foreign language. While there, he became involved with a group called Seraphim that he describes as “Pagan, earth-centered, intelligent and creative. Like the Radical Faeries.” This triggered an awakening in him of a strong spirituality and concern for the environment that has become his life’s focus.

Mark heard about the Estudios Hispanicos program at the University of Barcelona and enrolled, living in Barcelona with his boyfriend for four years before being overcome with a desire to return to the USA, to escape the noise of a hectic city and to listen to his interior spiritual voice. Even so, living in rural Tampa with his lesbian sister and her partner gave him culture shock after years of city life. He visited Fort Lauderdale on a whim and stopped by Ramrod where he struck up a conversation with bartender “Big Daddy John”, asking him if they were hiring. The response was “How soon can you

be down here?” He studied graphic design at The Art Institute, work for David magazine and as a graphic artist and writer for 411.

“Through all of this I knew that I needed to work with the environment somehow. At heart I’m a rural boy from Arcadia so I went to our closest state park to see if I could volunteer. They seemed to like me because they suggested I apply for a position. It was like a dream. One of my visions as a kid, along with astronaut and pilot, was park ranger, so here I am five years hence and it’s great.”

Upon learning about the three species of critically endangered or threatened sea turtles that nest on the popular beaches of Fort Lauderdale, Mark became deeply involved in the volunteer efforts to protect them from extinction. He began with NOVA University’s program to keep track of the situation, and is now a part of Sea Turtle Oversight continued on page 9

Mark Foley regularly delivers baby sea turtles to safety in the Atlantic Ocean

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Protection (STOP), the primary organization comprised of volunteers who patrol the beach at night, monitor nests, guard the female turtle from the interference of curious night strollers and their camera flashes while she digs her nest and deposits her eggs, and help hatchlings misdirected by bright lights find their way into the ocean.

Watching Mark train new volunteers on the beach at midnight, listening to him talk about coastal overdevelopment and laws that protect wildlife but are not enforced, while he points out hotels and condo complexes that have complied with lighting restrictions and others that have been careless, will show you the heart of a born ecologist.

On a dark night last week, while Mark sat cross-legged near three nests marked with stakes and yellow caution tape, a gigantic turtle emerged from the waves and slowly made her way across the sand, stopping less than two feet in front of him. She seemed to sense his protection. He remained perfectly still during the exhausting forty-five

minutes it took her to dig her nest, deposit a hundred glistening white eggs, the size of ping pong balls, cover them and return to the sea. Without the privilege of seeing that, most Fort Lauderdale residents and visitors will not be aware of nor appreciate the precarious balance of nature that constitutes this beautiful place. In the 45 to 60 days before the eggs hatch, Mark and the understaffed team of volunteers will work to protect that nest and the dozens of others they monitor. They will be there when the hatchlings emerge, to guide the large percentage of baby turtles that, misdirected by bright artificial light, will head for A1A or end up lost in gutters and yards, perishing without this intervention.

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Gay Rights

Lambda and ACLU Prepare for Battle Respond to Hawaii’s Ban on Civil Unions

By Joey Amato

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ambda Legal and the American Civil Liberties Union of Hawaii (ACLU) reacted, on July 7, with deep disappointment following Hawaii Governor Linda Lingle’s veto of HB 444, which would have allowed gay and straight Hawaii couples to take legal responsibility for each other by entering civil unions. Having received strong majority votes by both houses of the Hawaii Legislature, the bill was given final approval on April 29, the last day of the session. Lingle had until July 6 to take action on the bill.

“This was a sad surrender to political expediency that does not support business or

family interests, but damages them,” said Jennifer C. Pizer, National Marriage Project Director for Lambda Legal.

“In caving in to a well-orchestrated disinformation campaign mounted by the bill’s opponents, Governor Lingle has abandoned thousands of Hawaii families who have needed this bill’s protections for many years. We’re also disappointed that the Legislature opted to not override this veto immediately – we would have preferred to see couples win fair treatment through the political branch rather than having to pursue legal action. However, we’re still ready to do what’s necessary so our clients can protect their loved ones.”

Lambda Legal and the ACLU had readied a lawsuit after the House tabled HB 444 in

er to deny the people of Hawaii their civil rights” said Laurie Temple, Staff Attorney for the ACLU. “Luckily for the people of Hawaii, however, our constitution prevents discrimination based on sexual orientation. If the Governor won’t honor her oath to uphold the constitution, the courts will.”

Hawaii’s constitution was amended in 1998 to allow the Legislature to restrict marriage to heterosexual couples, which it has done. This means samesex couples cannot sue for full equality through marriage. Although civil unions are a lesser status than marriage, they would provide a full range of state law protections and duties Gov. Linda Lingle puts her finger in the dike to gay and lesbian couples, such to stop civil unions. as access to family court to disJanuary. The Hawaii Senate had previously solve the legal status in an orderly way, clear approved the bill by a veto-proof 18 to 7 duties to pay child support and alimony as majority and sent it back to the House for a spouses must, and other vital protections.

Bills to offer civil unions have been under conforming vote.

“We’re obviously disappointed that Gov- steady consideration in the Hawaii Legislaernor Lingle has, once again, used her pow- ture each year since 2001.

NBC Changes Rules to Allow Gay ‘Today’ Wedding

By David Bauder

Ap Television Writer NEW YORK — After a meeting with gay and lesbian activists on Thursday, NBC’s “Today” show said it is changing the rules for its annual wedding contest to allow same-sex couples to apply for a ceremony conducted on morning TV. NBC extended the deadline for applica-

tions until Monday. Already thousands of couples have expressed interest in the onair wedding, which the top-rated morning show has sponsored for a decade, a spokeswoman said.

“We’re thrilled that ‘Today’ show’s ‘Modern Wedding Contest’ now recognizes what most fair-minded Americans have already concluded – a wedding celebrates love and commitment, whether the spouses are straight or

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gay,” said Jarrett Barrios, president of the Gay ture wedding contests will be inclusive to all couples,” NBC said. & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation.

The only time same-sex couples were alViewers plan every aspect of the wedlowed to apply for ding, from the cake the “Today” wedding to the clothing styles was in 2005, when of attendants. NBC an out-of-state wedpicks four couples ding was held, said from thousands of show spokeswoman applicants, and viewMegan Kopf. No gay ers vote on which of or lesbian couples those couples will were among the fiparticipate.

Today Show’s Facebook wedding application nalists, however.

Same-sex couples Although “Today” viewers will decide which have been excluded because New York state law does not allow them to get wedding li- couple to get married on TV, it will choose censes. But NBC said GLAAD pointed out from among four that “Today” producers that a same-sex couple would be able to get screen and put up for a vote. So there’s no a license from another state and still have guarantee that even if same-sex couples apply for the on-air wedding, viewers will have their ceremony in New York.

NBC said it had listened to voicemails and a chance to select one to participate.

GLAAD said it only learned last week that read e-mails protesting its decision not to allow same-sex marriages. The show considers same-sex couples weren’t allowed to apply, relations with the gay and lesbian commu- and issued a “call to action” for members to complain to NBC. Thousands did, the organity very important, it said in a statement.

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fter four years of being a couple, and seven years as friends, Information Technology Specialist John T. Ryan is making plans to move from Daytona Beach to Fort Lauderdale to live with his partner Michael LaLone. The only “glitch” in Ryan and LaLone’s plan is that Ryan is one of many individuals trying to find work.

“I have been working in the IT field for 21 years,” said Ryan, “and received additional training at St. John’s River Community College in Saint Augustine.”

The 42-year-old Miami-native Ryan is currently based in Daytona Beach, and has been looking for work for the past three months, since LaLone accepted a position with the Broward County Sheriff’s Department. He plans to move once they have found a new home, or a position.

Ryan, unlike other job seekers has an additional challenge. His eyesight has been damaged by a genetic condition known as Retinitis Pigmentosa (RP). This is a condition similar to macular degeneration which occurs in older people. Ryan was diagnosed in his 30s, after a car accident.

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His last position was with the City of Tallahassee, where he provided help desk and first response assistance to city employees. His work was so successful there that he was included in a local TV show highlighting personalities in the capital, called Tallahassee Matters.

Ryan, since he became unemployed, has not been content to merely look for work.

“Currently I volunteer at the Florida State Division of Blind Services or FSDBS as their front desk greeter and receptionist. I am the first person people see when they come in.

When people call for services, I am one of the people that answers. It’s fun,” he said lightheartedly. “But volunteering doesn’t pay.”

The tech savvy Ryan continues to look for work, and only needs the assistance of a few pieces of equipment to fulfill the requirements of being an IT professional. One piece of technology is called Jaws and the other is text to speech software.

“Whatever is on the screen is read through a sound card, into a headphone,” said Ryan.

“Another program makes the background on the screen really dark, then icons and text are all really bright. I also use a closed circuit television which acts as a magnifier, so if I have to work with a document it will

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Ryan says he hopes to find some type of customer service or information technology position where he can sit comfortably at a desk.

Ryan still retains some of his sight, as he was born with vision he is still very much a visual thinker, which makes some aspects of his work easier.

In addition to the above equipment Ryan has a special piece of equipment, Smiley.

No, Smiley is not an anagram for anything made of plastic and computer chips.

“I’ve had Smiley for three and a half years,” he said. “This is my third guide dog. Guide dogs are free for anyone who qualifies. He came from Southeastern Guide Dogs based in Palmetto. As long as I have access to the technology, and a job where I can bring Smiley, there is nothing I can’t do,” he told SFGN. If you wish to contact John T. Ryan about possible job leads please email him at MrJohnTRyan@gmail.com To learn more about Florida State Division of Blind Services please visit DBS. myflorida.com

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Amidst Setbacks for LGBTs, Human Rights Language Emerges in United Nations

By Jarrett Terrill

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ast month, the International Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Commission (IGLHRC) was set to become the first LGBT non-governmental organization (NGO) of its scope to be admitted into the United Nations under “consultative status”. However, the effort was blocked by group of mostly African nations led by Egypt and probably will not be reconsidered for another year.

The ECOSOC (the UN’s Economic and Social Council) is the body that decides who’s in and who’s out as far as which NGOs can participate in UN policy discussions. Only a handful of member nations are poised on this panel and it has become something of a mafia for homophobic countries. Out of the 19 member nations which comprise the NGO Panel of ECOSOC, 13 of them are considered underdeveloped

and undereducated nations which ground themselves in fanatical adherence to religion. 3,287 NGOs have been approved by the council and none of them are international LGBT organizations.

However, many of the member nations in the UN are not waiting on the NGO Panel of ECOSOC to become proponents of gay rights in the UN through official channels. Recent news of the grisly beheading of a gay rights leader in Uganda could fuel more members to jump on board with gayinclusive directives. Obvious human rights abuses in anti-gay member nations are humiliating to the UN because they stand in contrast to the very reason that United Nations was formed to begin with.

The UN was formed in 1945 with the ultimate goal of preventing the kind of genocide we saw in World War II. But certain key member nations in the UN have apparently forgotten that the genocide of WWII

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These member nations in the UN apparently tolerate the same conduct as Hitler’s Europe within their own borders regardless of the clear threat it poses to the rest of the world – the threat of a second holocaust. Uganda, Egypt, Qatar and Pakistan have all been discovered to have abused the human rights of gays and lesbians through official government channels and are still charged with deciding the direction of the United Nations on human rights issues to varying degrees.

“This act of simple discrimination runs contrary to the principles of the U.N., of ECOSOC and of the NGO Committee,” was the verdict from Britain’s delegation in response to the shut-out of the IGLHRC. The United States and Latin America followed suit in their expression of regret. But this month, another faction of the UN stepped up its language regarding the human rights of gays and it’s already making front page headlines all over the world.

Just last week, in Geneva, UNAIDS and the Global Fund announced their intention to roll out their “Sexual Orientation and Gender Equality Strategy”. Also revealed were Human Rights declarations specifi-

cally naming “men who have sex with men (MSMs)” and Transgender persons. It was also reported that in May 2009, the Latin America and Caribbean (LAC) Regional Directors Group, representing ten distinct UN agencies, honored the International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO) by issuing a joint call to eliminate homophobia.

It was decided by UNAIDS that proper treatment and prevention of HIV cannot exist in places where sexuality is persecuted as a crime because it creates a climate of fear in which people do not get tested or seek life-saving treatment. In places where such a climate exists, like Uganda, misinformation, blame and paranoia are deadly - even though HIV is largely a heterosexual disease in the Republic.

There were resolutions in LAC, UNDP and UNAIDS to make improvements in recognizing the Human Rights of women, gays, lesbians, transgender persons, sexworkers, drug users, and prisoners over the last few months. Human rights language is being used increasingly in reference to LGBTs via UNAIDS and UNDP reports. This represents a definite turning point for the United Nations whereas no general resolution has yet been made to recognize the fundamental human rights of LGBT persons, the language is creeping in at every corner and that day is fast approaching.

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News Bites

UK rules in favor of gay asylum

SLDN WaRns Gay Soldiers LONDON (AP) – Britain’s Supreme Court has to Avoid Survey overturned a decision to deport two gay asylum seekers who said they faced persecution in their homelands.

A lower court had backed the governAssociated Press Writer ment’s decision to return the men to Iran WASHINGTON (AP) – An advocacy group and Cameroon on the grounds that they for gays in the military is warning those would be safe as long as they kept their services members not to answer a Penta- sexuality secret. gon survey seeking opinions on repeal of the policy that bans homosexuals from “to compel a homosexual serving openly. person to pretend that their The Servicemembers Legal Defense Net- sexuality does not exist ... is work said Thursday that troops could be to deny him his fundamental accidentally outed by answering the survey. right to be who he is.’’

Also, the group says the Defense Depart– British Supreme Court ment has not agreed to give immunity to anyone inadvertently identified as gay by the poll.

Five judges ruled unanimously WednesThe survey was e-mailed to 400,000 ser- day that this was a violation of the men’s vice members to learn how repeal of the human rights. They said that “to compel policy might affect the military and how a a homosexual person to pretend that their repeal might be implemented. sexuality does not exist ... is to deny him his The Pentagon says the survey is confiden- fundamental right to be who he is.’’ tial, is being done by an outside contractor Homosexual acts in Iran are punishable and that gay and lesbian service members by death, and in Cameroon by up to three cannot be outed by participating. years in jail.

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SFGN Editorial

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Norm Kent, Publisher

Judicial Ruling Empowers Gay America

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his is an incredible moment in the Court Judge Joseph Tauro, and not neceshistory of gay rights for Americans. sarily the best thing for gay rights activists.

You see, if the judge ruled only that states The Today Show has allowed gay couples to enter its annual wedding have the final decision on gay rights marriages, then what about the 45 states that contest. Okay, okay.

More seriously, a United States federal refuse to allow it? If those decisions are left judge in Massachusetts ruled last Thursday solely to the states, gays throughout the that a law barring the federal government country are going to have a long wait to gain from recognizing same-sex marriage is un- the same legal rights as heterosexual couples. There was a second part to this Masconstitutional.

The decision, outlined in SFGN this week sachusetts case though and it had nothing

by Lisa Keen on page 7, has incredible im- to do with Matt Lauer or the Today Show.

The other case was brought by a group plications for gay Americans. Here is an attempt to briefly explain in simple terms called the Gay and Lesbian Advocates and what happened in court last week. Call it Defenders. They argued that the federal law Law 101, and if you get through it, give passed by Congress, separate from any limitation it imposed on the states, denied individyourself three academic credits.

First, Massachusetts has allowed same-sex ual citizens equal protection of the laws, becouples to marry since 2004, and more than 15,000 have done so.

The judge ruled Massachusetts had a right to do that. He ruled that since there is a part of the U.S. Constitution which declares that rights not explicitly granted to the fedReason to be proud: eral government, or Gays march for equal rights in this year’s pride parade specifically denied to the states, belong to the states, Massachusetts cause gay men and lesbians were being treated had the power to do what it did; that it was different than straight married couples.

These litigants noted that straight coua “right firmly entrenched to the province of ples can receive federal tax benefits, social the states.”

The judge found that there is nothing in security survivors’ rights, and other finanthe Constitution about marriage which gives cial rewards that LGBT partners can’t rethe Congress the right to pre-empt what the ceive. This was a denial of fairness to one states might do. Remember, that is what whole class of citizens, who should all be Congress did when they passed the ‘Defense protected equally, they argued. Judge Tauro of Marriage Act,’ which limited marriage agreed, essentially concluding that there is no rational basis for treating same-sex courights to heterosexual couples only.

Ironically, the Obama administration’s ples differently than heterosexual couples.

Before we all get too excited, remember Justice Department, since it represents the federal government, was obligated to de- this was one district court judge at the first fend the law, but it admittedly did so half step of the judicial process. Above him are heartedly, since Obama himself had called numerous appellate courts, and a few constifor its repeal during his campaign for the tutional scholars with foreboding warnings. presidency. But that was only part one of “What an amazing set of opinions,” said Jack this complex judicial ruling by US District M. Balkin, a professor at Yale Law School.

“No chance they’ll be held up on appeal.”

And that’s from a guy who supports same sex marriage. Yet, he has a good point. Over the years, many courts have held that marriage issues are not solely the rights of state government’s but also involve federal issues.

So this battle is not over. It’s just beginning.

Separate and apart from all this in Massachusetts, the LGBT community is awaiting a decision from a gay man, Judge Vaugh Walker in San Francisco, on the legality of Proposition 8 in California, which seeks to affirm gay marriage rights. Whatever Judge Walker decides, regardless of how he rules, can also be appealed to higher courts.

Of course, it will be, too. As the New York Times said in its editorial last week, and as any of us who have ever served on jury duty know, the “process of justice can take years.”

As gay men and women, we should be encouraged that we are moving in the right direction and empowered that courts are even addressing these issues. When gay Congressional candidates, the Victory Fund, or Lambda Legal come knocking on your door for support, remember those individuals and organizations are pushing the envelope for you today so your rights are protected tomorrow.

Meanwhile, back at the Today Show Facebook page, thousands of posters had their say: “The Bible clearly states what marriage is and it also states these kind of acts between men and men and women with women are an abomination. God is not pleased and neither am I. What about my rights!!!”

Ultimately, our struggle also has to be won in the hearts and minds of America as well as in its courtrooms.

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PARKING IN WILTON MANORS PARK AT YOUR OWN RISK To the Editor: My life partner and I just came back from Wilton Manors.We were at Target and on the way home I thought that it would be a good idea to try out the new Italian ice cream store/cafe in Wilton Manors.Well, we got there and realized that we had no change for the parking meters, so we went to the cafe next to the Gateway Theater instead.This is the second time that we have decided for another venue other than one in WM for the same reason.We wanted to go to Humpy’s pizza, but there was no parking and we again didn’t have change with us, so we went to Publix instead.The most annoying thing is having to time yourself.Will I have enough change in the parking meter to enjoy my meal, drink or desert where I want? My weekday life is stressed. I don’t want more stress during my time off. So I will opt for venues with free parking. Good luck new businesses in WM! Sincerely, Robb Kvasnak, Ed.D.

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And in the Beginning Man Created God

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STONEWALL STREET FAIR Disappointing Pride: Is that all there is?

By Pier Angelo Guidugli

To the Editor: Having recently moved down to Ft Lauderdale I was excited to experience my first Gay Pride march for this city. Man was I disappoint ed. From living the last 15 years in Chicago and NYC, I have been lucky to have experienced 2 of the largest Gay Pride Parades in the country.

In my experiences and observations, the parades are about showing the diversity of the city’s gay population.They not only celebrate our numbers and talents but also inform. One of their points is to demonstrate the incredible advancements in our movement since the Stonewall Riots but even more importantly, I think, subtly encourage us to strive to keep moving forward with all of our hopes and aspirations as a community.

So what marched down WIlton Drive? A sad variation of those better examples. Kudos goes to those who did march, you were wonderful to behold and I think helped both old and new neighbors know who you are and how to connect if there is further interest.

But on the flip side, many of our community were missing. For example: Where were the 3 biggest churches that have some of the largest gay congregations: Unity, MCC & Center for Spiritual Living?

Where were all of the sport teams that are so varied and popular in this city?

Why were some of the most popular charities not present such as Out of the Closet?

Where were the floats for some of the largest bars in this city? Alibi, Bill’s & Sidelines?

If Ft Lauderdale/Wilton Manors truly do have, as is rumored, more gay men living here than in San Francisco, the community & our leaders need to grow up.We need to be more thoughtful about why we as a community are banding together here & tap into it better.

There is amazing power in our growing numbers. It should not just be about finding ways to sell more full priced drinks to the masses.

“That’s me in the corner, that’s me in the spotlight, losing my religion” – R.E.M.

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Eric Misenheimer Wilton Manors

Stonewall Street Fair 2010: Not enough pride?

know that violence, racism, homophobia, hatred, genocide, greed, child abuse, discrimination, exploitation, war, terrorism and oppression are never justified, and by extension, more so, if perpetrated under the banner of religion.

2,000 years since Jesus and Mohammad, more since Abraham, most followers of ma-

hile the Unites States continues to chip away at the wall that separates church and state, the rest of the western world is making strides to reinforce it.

When, a few weeks ago, Julia Gillard became Australia’s first female prime minister, she stunned the Australian Broadcasting Corporation’s reporter who was interviewing her by saying: “No, I don’t believe in God, I’m not a religious person. I’m not going to pretend to believe in a faith I don’t feel. And for people of faith, the greatest compliment I could pay to them is to respect their genuinely held beliefs and not to engage in some pretense about mine. I think it’s not the right thing.”

How refreshingly honest and groundbreaking that sounds.

Do not hold your breath for a U.S. politician to have the courage to utter such words any time soon, as if one needed God’s help to run a government. In recent years, Americans have grown comfortable with voting for ethnic groups, gays, religious minorities or women, but they do not seem prepared or equipped to back an atheist, today’s “liberal” atmosphere notwithstanding.

In a 2007 Gallup Poll, when this question was asked, almost 60% percent of Americans said they would not vote for an openly atheist candidate for president, by comparison, 43 percent said they would not vote for a homosexual. In Australia two thirds of those polled said they did not care about Julia Gillard’s “lack of religious faith”. Here is another country that is light years ahead of us.

In the Scandinavian nations, the majority of the population doesn’t have any religious beliefs. Consider this: they enjoy far more social justice, less violence, and a broader acceptance of gay relationships than our puritanical God-fearing America.

Atheism is one of the many “moral” and cultural battles being waged today. Other hot buttons are: creationism, evolution,

abortion and gay marriage.

Perhaps the time has come for secular people to start shaping their own world and come out from behind the sacristy.

I used to call myself a recovering “cathaholic.” At first I was a pious and excited altar boy but as time went by it became meaningless and boring. Then I grew up. I started to come to terms with my sexuality and stopped listening to the Christian rhetoric because of its inherent contradictions. I became a semi-agnostic, still strongly questioning the omnipotent God who allowed the world to be full of sufferings, tragedies and disasters. Finally I realized it was not a “phase.” We are born without religion and I had gone full circle, I was a born-again atheist. The journey was just as hard as coming out of the closet.

I’m not here to try and “convert” you to my way of thinking by claiming I now hold the truth of life and the hereafter. My only credo is: “It is not important what people believe, but what they practice.” That should be the only barometer in our judgment of others. I would hope it is a no brainer to

jor religions still do not get along with each other or anyone else who dares to be different from them.

Every holy ambassador is absolutely certain of having a wireless heavenly phone line with God, and if not, there is always some ancient “book” full of bizarre do’s and don’ts, a “sacred” manual, more incomprehensible and confusing than the booklets attached to electronic appliances. Curiously the only thing they agree upon, and have in common, is their disdain for atheists. Yet when was the last time an atheist waged a crusade or strapped a bomb to his chest over religion?

The “infamous’ Marquis De Sade wrote: “replace the religious inanities which you are imposing on the minds of your children with excellent social principles, instead of prayers let them learn their responsibilities to society, let them know that happiness consists in making others as fortunate as we would wish to be ourselves.”

Amen, and sleep in on Sundays or on the Shabbat, it is the best way to honor the day of rest.

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Jesse’s Journal

Interestingly, I never went to the Cactus Lounge on Biscayne Boulevard, which till its demolition a few years ago had the distinction of being the oldest South Florida gay bar in existence. And I was too late to enjoy Googie’s, a hot spot immortalized by the late Jack Nichols in his “Tomcat Chronicles.” But somehow I managed to visit virtually every other

where anything could happen.

“The Gay Insider USA” described the Warehouse as a “huge place; [with a] suspended horse-drawn cart; [and] pool tables. Upstairs is a swinging bar, but not too friendly to outsiders,” unless, of course, you were young and cute. It was also a late bar (closing time, 5 a.m.), which allowed us to party all night, drag ourselves over to the Dunkin’ Donuts across the street for coffee, and get back to our family homes before the folks woke up.

Near the Warehouse VIII, there were several gay or mixed venues. I never cared for El Carol, a long-lasting “mixed” bar on LeJeune Road, a block South of Calle Ocho.

I much preferred the nearby Second Land-

openly gay male bar in Miami-Dade County.

Significantly, my first gay bar (1973) was the Nook, Coral Gables’ only gay bar.

I found out about the Nook by chance: I was working as an usher in a theater on Ponce de Leon Blvd., when one of my coworkers happened to mention the existence of a “queer bar” nearby. Though I visited the Nook several times, it was never my favorite hangout. Located on a side street, the Nook acted as if the Stonewall Riots never happened. Discreet gentlemen in dark suits sipped martinis while listening to Judy Garland or Barbra Streisand records on the jukebox. Fortunately, I soon learned through the gayvine where the action really was.

In 1974, Miami’s gay action was centered around the Warehouse VIII. Located on S.W. 8th Street and 36th Avenue, this former warehouse (hence the name) boasted a huge dance floor, a Levi-leather bar in the back, a cruise bar upstairs, and a rooftop

ing, so much in fact that I became a regular there. Located on the second floor of a building on the S.W. corner of 8th Street and LeJeune — the first floor was occupied by a straight strip bar — the Second Landing began its career as Step Mother’s, was Bachelor’s West in the brief period it was owned by the same people who owned Bachelor’s II on Coral Way, and became the Second Landing in 1975.

An ad in “Where the Action Is” bragged about the Landing’s “intimate cruisy atmosphere, with most drinks 75 cents” — certainly a plus for a kid who was working his way through college. The Second Landing was a great place for young Latinos looking for older Papis (and vice versa), which was what I was into at that time. The venue was a thing of the past by the 1980’s; and since then the entire building was torn down and the site is now occupied by a Walgreen’s pharmacy.

Bachelors II, with a restaurant on the ground

Miami’s Gay Bar Scene in 1974

By Jesse Monteagudo

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iami in the 1970’s was a great time to be young and gay. As my fictional alter-ego, Joe Martinez, said in one of his adventures, “Miami was a candy store for a young gay guy just out of the closet.”With no AIDS in sight, and most venereal diseases treated with a simple shot, it was “the golden age of gay sexuality.”It was also a golden age for Miami-Dade County’s lesbian and gay bar scene.

Not only were there far fewer raids than before, but local laws that made it a crime for “known homosexuals” to be served liquor or congregate in a tavern were overturned. The legal drinking age was 18, which made things very convenient for a young gay man who was just coming out.

A gay kid had many places to choose from in 1974, the year I came out. In fact, there were more gay watering holes in Miami Beach — and certainly in the Miami mainland — than there are today. In his 1972 directory, “The Gay Insider USA,” author John Paul Hudson (writing as John Francis Hunter) listed 15 gay or mixed bars and clubs in the mainland (including Coconut Grove and Coral Gables) and 8 more watering holes on the Beach.

A 1975 bar rag, “Where the Action Is” — whose only claim to fame is that one of its contributors was a 21-year old newcomer named Jesse Monteagudo — listed 13 mainland bars and 6 Beach bars. They did not include the mixed taverns that catered to minorities. Nor did they include the other places where gay guys cruised and socialized: the Club Miami and Regency Baths; the 21st Street Beach and Virginia Key; Bayfront Park; Florida Pharmacy; Rio Theater; Danny’s Book Store; Downtown YMCA; the Greyhound Bus Station, and so on.

The years between 1974 and 1975 were also my gay bar years. Never before or would I in the future frequent as many as I did back then. Lack of money did not bother me; since student discounts and the kindness of friends and strangers often helped me get through. The lack of a car was a detriment, since it limited me to a great degree to bars that I could get to by foot or bus or ride.

floor and a cruise bar on the second floor, was located on Coral Way between S.W. 28th and 29th Avenues. Though Bachelors II then boasted “the delightful piano stylings of the famed Walter Lena and Neil Martin,” to me it was just a place to grab a drink on my way to the nearby Club Miami Baths.

The Hamlet, located on Main Highway in Coconut Grove — at the time Miami’s gayborhood was a great place to hang out in the daytime or early evening. Also in Coconut Grove was the tony Candlelight Club, a members’ only restaurant and lounge.

Since financial affluence was required to be a member, I only went to the Candlelight Club as a guest of a member.Later (1976) the Candlelight Club hosted early meetings of the Dade County Coalition for the Humanistic Rights of Gays.

Historian James T. Sears, in his 70’s gay history Rebels, Rubyfruit, and Rhinestones, described “this Coconut Grove landmark among the banyan trees” as a place one could “sometimes spot celebrities like Roy Cohn and Barry Manilow dining on rack of lamb and drinking Chateauneuf du Pape.”

It was definitely not my kind of bar. I was more at home in Downtown Miami’s Levileather bars, like the Rack and the Ramrod (later the Double R).

Space limitations keep me from mentioning some of Miami Beach’s watering holes, particularly the Mayflower Lounge — Billie Lee’s Bar during Jack Nichols’s “tomcat” years (1962) and Basin Street, both on Alton Road.The same goes for Broward County bars that I managed to visit now and then: Keith’s Cruise Room in Hallandale, Tee Jay’s in Hollywood, and Tacky’s and Venture Inn in Fort Lauderdale. All in all it was a great time, and I might write about it again someday.

Jesse Monteagudo is SFGN’s Senior Feature Correspondent and a South Florida resident since 1964.

Jesse invites veterans of South Florida’s LGBT community in the seventies and eighties to share their experiences with him and other SFGN readers.Contact him at jessemonteagudo@aol.com

In my recent article on the fate of LGBT bookstores, I wrote that the remaining bookstores were “teetering on the edge of insolvency.”This was not fair to those stores which are still doing well, including Atlanta’s Outwrite and Vancouver’s Little Sister’s.I apologize for any damage I might have done to their business and reputation. JM

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Susan Estrich

The Future of Marriage

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aybe it’s just a coincidence that the “Today” show and United States District Judge Joseph Tauro of Massachusetts reached essentially the same conclusion on the same day. But I’m one of those people who believe there is no such thing as a coincidence. No, I’d call it a trend in the right direction.

The “Today” show, facing protests that its “Modern Day Wedding” contest was excluding same-sex couples, decided to include them. “We’re producers, not politicians,” executive producer Jim Bell explained. “All we want is a good wedding.”

Judge Tauro’s explanation took longer, but it came to the same point. In a nice twist, Tauro hoisted states rights conservatives on their own petards, finding that the federal government had no right to limit Massachusetts’ decision to treat all mar-

riages equally by denying federal benefits to legally married same-sex couples. He then went on to hold that the federal restrictions on benefits are themselves unconstitutional because they are applied unequally.

According to Bell: “We want to be inclusive. We want to be open. We want to be fair.

I’m glad we’re doing the right thing.” Ditto for Tauro. While constitutional law scholars were debating whether Tauro’s finding that defining marriage is a state’s right could be squared with his holding that the federal government violated the equal protection clause with its own definition (I think they can), the bottom line is the same.

Fairness.

There are many in the gay community who wish the gay marriage issue would go away. Of all the things to fight about, some gay friends joke. Now we can get divorced

like everyone else. The only people who benefit from gay marriage, the joke goes, are the gay divorce lawyers. More seriously, many have wondered whether taking on the sacred and at least semi-religious issue of marriage made sense when other basic issues remain unaddressed.

But you don’t always get to choose your issues. Sometimes they choose you. The courts may have started the battle, in states like California and Massachusetts, but once joined, it is not going away.

Even as Californians await a decision in federal court here as to the constitutionality of Prop 8 (which overturned this state’s Supreme Court decision holding the prior ban on gay marriage unconstitutional), the Massachusetts decision all but ensures the issue is headed to the Supreme Court, especially if either one of Tauro’s decisions is upheld.

And how will the Supreme Court vote?

It depends. It depends on how the issue is framed, who is sitting in the room and how long it takes to get there.

But of this I am sure: It may be later or

sooner, it may be in this term or a decade or two down the road, but there will come a day when people will look back and wonder what all the fuss was about.

Marriage, as a matter of law, is about two people making a fundamental commitment to each other, which carries with it both rights and responsibilities. Above a certain (young) age, it doesn’t matter how old they are, or whether they plan to or do have children; it doesn’t matter what race they are, or what religion they are -- or what sex they are. All of those things may and should and do matter to the individuals making the personal decision. But like other personal decisions, they are not the business of the state.

True conservatives, and on this I am certainly one, understand that ours is a system of limited government, which protects the privacy and liberty of the individual to make his own decisions and even her own mistakes.

Marriage? It should be up to you. A good wedding is a wedding where two people love each other and commit to each other.

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Legal News

Doe v. Reed

Court Rules Signatories on Petitions Are Public Records

By Lisa Keen

Keen News Service

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n a ruling hailed by gay activists, the U.S. Supreme Court on June 24 upheld a law that requires public disclosure of the names of people who signed a petition to put an anti-gay referendum on the ballot in Washington State. But litigation over the domestic partnership battle may not yet be finished and may be back before the court in a year or so.

The 8 to 1 decision, with only Justice Clarence Thomas in dissent, said a state law requiring the names and addresses of petition signers be available to the public does not violate the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution.

Chief Justice John Roberts wrote the decision –a bit of a surprise given that his questions during oral argument seemed to indicate he would be inclined to rule in favor of the plaintiffs. However, in the opinion, Roberts suggested plaintiffs could do better by limiting their challenge to the state law’s impact in the Referendum 71.

James Bopp, who represented Protect Marriage Washington, said Thursday plaintiffs “absolutely” intend to pursue that route.

The case, Doe v. Reed, questioned the constitutionality of Washington’s Public Record Act (PRA).

Protect Marriage Washington and two “John Doe” plaintiffs brought the lawsuit on behalf of citizens who signed a petition

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to put Referendum 71 on the ballot in 2009.

The defendant was Washington Secretary of State Sam Reed, a coalition that supported the state’s new domestic partnership law, and a group that sought to preserve openness in government.

Referendum 71 sought to repeal the domestic partnership law that had been recently approved by the legislature. And Protect Marriage said the public disclosure of the names of people signing the petition to put it on the ballot had a chilling effect on their freedom of speech. According to Protect Marriage, the law enabled persons who disagreed with petition-signers to target them for harassment and threats.

A federal district court judge in Seattle agreed with the group, but the 9th Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals did not, so plaintiffs appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court.

Chief Justice Roberts said that the state law furthered the state’s interest in preserving the “integrity of the electoral process” and that this is sufficient justification for it.

He said the law helps prevent fraud, mitigates mistakes, and promotes “transparency and accountability in the electoral process.”

Anne Levinson, chairman of the pro-gay Washington Families Standing Together group, applauded the result, calling it “a significant defeat for those who have sought to enshrine discrimination into law at the ballot box.”

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Attorneys for Protect Marriage had argued that the “First Amendment protects citizens from intimidation resulting from compelled disclosure of their identity and beliefs and their private associations.” And during oral argument in April, Justice Stephen Breyer seemed to signal some sympathy with this argument. He asked whether people who supported integration would ever have signed a pro-integration petition if “there was a very good chance that their businesses would be bombed, that they would certainly be boycotted, that their children might be harassed.”

Washington State Attorney General Robert McKenna responded by noting that the high court, in the controversial Citizens United v. Federal Election Commission decision in January, had already allowed for case-by-case exceptions to be made concerning the disclosures of campaign contributors. That decision held that contributors would have to show a “reasonable probability” that disclosure of their names “would subject them to threats, harassment, or reprisals from either government officials or private parties.”

McKenna added, and the majority clearly agreed, that Protect Marriage plaintiffs had failed to offer any evidence to support their concern for harassment. And, noted McKenna, three other states with public disclo-

sure laws held gay-related ballot measures and offered “no evidence…that anyone who signed any of these petitions in those three States was subjected to harassment.”

Citizens United has been one of the Supreme Court’s most controversial decisions, ever. The decision said the government could not put a limit on how much money a corporation contributes to a political campaign.

The 5 to 4 ruling was harshly criticized by many as opening a door for corporate domination of electoral politics. But the decision also said that contributors could not hide public disclosure of their contributions without demonstrating a “reasonable probability” that disclosure “would subject them to threats, harassment, or reprisals from either government officials or private parties.”

Chief Justice Roberts said plaintiffs’ contention that the Washington disclosure law subjected supporters of ballot measures to harassment could not justify striking down the public records law for all referenda; but, he suggested plaintiffs might have more luck with a more narrowly focused legal challenge.

Protect Marriage did make a more narrow claim — that supporters of Referendum 71 were vulnerable to significant threats—but that claim was not before the Supreme Court —only its claim that the state public disclosure law was, in and of itself, unconstitutional.

Even though voters in November 2009 rejected Referendum 71 and the domestic partnership law will mark its first anniversary next month, Bopp said the litigation will continue.

But five justices wrote or joined concurring opinions to signal that they will be continued on page 28

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Health Dept. Unveils New Plans for HIV/AIDS

By Jarrett Terrill

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n Tuesday July 13, the President’s Domestic Policy Council and the Department of Health of Human Services revealed their National HIV/ AIDS Strategy with the President. Meanwhile, Congresswoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz was busy informing her colleagues about new congressional efforts underway to increase funding for the AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP).

ADAP clients in Florida were alarmed to learn that ADAP has been woefully underfunded at both the Federal and State levels over the past few years when suddenly the Florida Department of Health announced that they were implementing a waiting list for new and lapsed clients. Florida health officials never made attempts to warn people about the impending shortages. The Federal Government had not disseminated the information either.

While this first week of action in what we now call “the ADAP crisis” is a welcome change of pace for HIV/AIDS patients and advocates, the direction of the White House strategy does not inspire confidence for everyone. The New York Times, in an article written prior to the unveiling, noted that the report does not propose a major increase in federal spending. While this is certainly music to the ears of the fiscally

Melody Barnes Director of Domestic Policy Council

Kathleen Sebelius Secretary of Health and Human Services

conservative, it sounds more like hell’s bells to someone on a waiting list for life-saving antiviral medications.

A controversial talking point is emerging in the discussions about ADAP shortfalls and that some state-level governments have been accusing the federal government of “falling short of the mark” while simultaneously cutting their own contributions to ADAP by millions with very little justification considering the rise in numbers of people who now depend on the program.

Florida is one such state and has now implemented a waiting list for HIV medicine

along with planned cuts to the number of medications and services which are available in the formulary.

Congresswoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz sees where both federal and state governments have fallen down on the job when it comes to ADAP funding. “Federal funding has not kept up with growing demand, and state budget cuts have resulted in funding reductions,” she explained.

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Aside from the State/Federal blame-game and the worries about re-appropriation of existing funds, there is also the time element to consider. It is not known how many of the hundreds of people who are already on Florida’s ADAP waiting list could be in danger of building up a resistance to medication right now.

“Some states are even removing current beneficiaries from their program,” concluded Wasserman Schultz in her email plea to the rest of Congress. “Clearly, we must address this situation. Without immediate attention and additional resources the situation will rapidly become even worse.”

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Nina Flowers, Una Chica Simpatica

By A. Sebastian Fortino

song for you guys on Friday night. On the album, it’s not really me singing as much as my talking with the music, but my voice and orge Flores, better known as DJ my input are still part of the album.”

Flowers, and even better known as Of the album, Flores said he wrote Nina Flowers sat down with SFGN the words and Umana created the beats this past weekend. and music.

“I’m very excited to come down to Fort In addition to the upcoming album Lauderdale to party with you guys next week,” said Flores, even before our interview release, Flores will appear on RuPaul’s Drag U, which will premier on Logo on July 19. formally began.This will be Flores’ first time Clearly, the relationship he struck with Ruin the Fort Lauderdale area. “I have been to Paul on Drag Race has been good to Flores.

Tampa, Orlando and Saint Petersburg, and “I felt prepared for the show,” Flores the Florida love has always been amazing!” said of his work on Drag Race. “But I The multi-talented performer will aprealized it would be really unpredictable, pear live at The Manor on July 16, beginthe most important thing was to have fun ning at 10 p.m., a month after the album doing it. I realized it would turn against me William Umana and Nina Flowers, Start Your if I didn’t make the best of it.”

Engines EP was released.

Of the upcoming Drag U, Flores says it “The songs are amazing. It’s an EP of was “a very beautiful experience to share four songs that I worked on with DJ Wilthe drag culture with biological women. liam Umana, a tribal DJ based in Austin, What felt good about doing the show Texas. He’s really an amazing producer was to use the art of drag to help these and director.You will be able to get the album on iTunes, and Masterbeat.com,” said women raise their self-confidence.”

Flores began performing in drag in 1993, Flores. “There is a string from “Locas in the House,” a song I released right after RuPaul’s in his native Puerto Rico, when he was 19.

He says that – given the size of Puerto Drag Race on this album. I’ll be singing that

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Rico, small place, large gay population – the competition there is very intense, and seasoned him for a bigger career.

“In Puerto Rico the drag scene is really, really big and the gay community really embraces everything drag performers do.

The kids in Puerto Rico start doing drag when they are as young as 16. Drag there is very involved in pageant culture,” said Flores who won Miss Puerto Rico Continental in 1999. “They are very educated in terms of performing, it’s very professional there, and you don’t see campy drag.You have to reinvent yourself constantly, since the island is small and shows and performers frequently move. So, you definitely have to be on your toes.”

Flores’ drag personalidad Nina Flowers has always been an edgy, “not your mama’s drag queen” type of performer. All drag performers have an edge, a gimmick, or something that makes them stand out, Nina is no exception. Her gender-bending costumes make her stand out, as do the tattoos, which make her more of an individual than a stereotype.

Currently, Nina appears on a campaign for Absolut vodka, which you can view on Logo

or on the website that Nina shares with Jorge.

“Today it’s different,” Flores said of being a tattooed drag performer. “Back then it was seen as a huge mistake, now it is more common and I am glad I have them. Each tattoo tells the story of my life.”

In terms of his work as a DJ, Flores has been involved in that since he was 12 years old. Having two professions, and two personas, sounds like quite a challenge.

Flores, as DJ Flowers is a resident DJ at Tracks in Denver, CO where he resides with his partner Antonio.

“I got my first DJ gig when I was 16 years old, a few years later I began to get involved in parties and drag. At one point in my life I wanted to make a transition and put the DJ work on the side and focus on Nina. A few years later I realized I had to start spinning again and them I combined them for a bit,” he said. “Although if I am going to spin as Nina, I can’t do it in full drag. That makes it difficult, since I like to really get into the music.”

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Nightlife by J.W. Arnold

Friday, July 16

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ugar, one of downtown Miami’s hottest destinations, celebrates the release of Kylie Minogue’s new album, “Aphrodite,” with giveaways and performances by T.P. Lords, Sasha Sky and Noel Leon. Resident DJ Jarell will be providing the beat for a long night of partying.

Enjoy 2-4-1 drinks until 11:30 p.m. and $5 house cocktails or $4 domestic beers all night long. Sugar is located at 2301 SW 32nd Ave. Kylie Minogue

ave you ever undressed your favorite bartender with your eyes? Well, depending on your bar, you might get to see more of them on a regular basis anyway. If you don’t, here’s your chance.

On Monday, July 19 at 8 p.m., Bill’s Filling Station on Wilton Dr. hosts Bartenders, Boxers and Briefs, the annual underwear auction benefitting Tuesdays Angels, the local service organization that provides financial support to low-income people living with HIV/AIDS. Nikki Adams, Miss Kitty, Toni Barone and Russell from The Stable will be your celebrity guest hosts for an evening that includes a 50/50 raffle, silent auction for fabulous prizes and a live auction for some of the hottest local bartenders modeling hot underwear.We’ll have our eye on Hugo, the Alibi’s sexy South American stud.

Plan to kick off your week with this fun event to benefit a worthwhile local charity.

And now, here’s a look at some of the other highlights of the week ahead: Wednesday, July 14

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candals Saloon in Wilton Manors is throwing a real hoedown tonight. Arrive promptly at 8 p.m. for Lady Fancy’s Country Jamboree. Lady Fancy—the drag world’s answer to “Hee Haw” legend Minnie Pearl— will entertain you with her opening monologue featuring her stable of country greats: Dolly Parton, Patsy Cline, Loretta Lynn. Scandals is located at 3073 NE 6th Ave. Thursday, July 15

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n July, it’s hot enough in South Florida, but on Thursdays it’s even hotter at Ramrod, the region’s leather and Levi bar. At midnight, the lights come up just a little bit for the weekly Battle of the Bulge contest.

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Saturday, July 17

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Recognition

Task Force to Honor Actor Alan Cumming Recognition Dinner Set for Oct. 2

By Joey Amato

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he National Gay and Lesbian Task Force announced that it will present a 2010 National Leadership Award to Tony Award-winning actor and longtime human rights activist Alan Cumming at the 14th Annual Miami Recognition Dinner on Saturday, October 2.

The event, presented by Wachovia, will be held at the Fontainebleau Miami Beach, and recognizes individuals for their outstanding contributions to the social, cultural, political and humanitarian needs of the LGBT community.

“Alan has been an outspoken and tenacious advocate for civil rights and HIV/ AIDS causes for over a decade,” says Rea

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n South Beach’s trendy Lincoln Road, you’ll find the party tonight and well into tomorrow morning at Score.The popular dance club celebrates it’s 12th anniversary with a 12-hour, non-stop dance party beginning at 5 p.m. DJ/producers Abel and Pablo Ceballos will be in the booth and we hear there will be plenty of surprises all night long.

Monday, July 19

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fter a hard weekend, unwind in the Alibi’s elegant Manchester Room with the cool jazz sounds of Rich Hernandez.

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“He has used his talent and his success to support the LGBT community and to effect real change in the world. We are thrilled to have this opportunity to honor him.”

The Task Force announced in April that it would present the 2010 Humanitarian Award to Miami-Dade County Commissioner Katy Sorenson, and the 2010 Eddy McIntyre Community Service Award to Cindy Brown, who has been involved with many South Florida LGBT and HIV/AIDS organizations.

The Scottish-born Cumming has enjoyed an eclectic career spanning theatre, film, television, music and books. He won a Tony Award for his performance in the Broadway production of Cabaret in 1998. He has acted in films such as X2: X-Men United, Romy and Michelle’s High School Reunion and the Spy Kids trilogy.

Furthermore, Cumming will appear alongside Cher and Christina Aguilera in Burlesque later this year.

His activism and passion for various civil rights causes has earned him many humanitarian awards and honors from organizations including the Trevor Project, Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), Lambda Legal, HRC and GLAAD. Last year he was appointed an Officer of the Order of the British Empire for his contributions to the arts and his activism for LGBT rights..

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Film Review

contact with the carefree sperm donor who fathered their children. The mayhem that ensues strains credibility here and there.

A Focus Features release. Rated R for strong sexual content, nudity, language and some teen Yet Cholodenko (“High Art,” “Laurel drug and alcohol use. Running time: 104 minutes.

Canyon”) and her cast turn what could have Three stars out of four. been an utterly artificial story into a warm, funny, sharp-tongued and broiling examination of the volatility underlying even the happiest of families.

Southern California couple Nic (Bening) and Jules (Moore) live a

By David Germain seemingly ideal life with AP Movie Writer their kids, 18-year-old hat an appropriate title writ- Joni (Mia Wasikowska) er-director Lisa Cholodenko and 15-year-old Laser (Josh Hutcherson). chose for her family comic Nic’s a doctor and the authoritarian in the drama “The Kids Are All Right.”

The two kids of the film – teen siblings get- family, while flighty Jules is starting a landscapting to know their biological dad – are great – ing business.They complement each other nicely, and while the romance in their relasmart, mature, high-minded, well-adjusted.

On the other hand, the three adults, played tionship has cooled, they are steady companions and doting if somewhat stifling parents. with fierce heart and a genuine sense of The two women should write a book on well-meaning inadequacy by Annette Bening, Julianne Moore and Mark Ruffalo, are a mess. parenting, considering the two golden children they raised. Joni and Laser are dream The scenario concocted by Cholodenko and co-writer Stuart Blumberg is a bit forced kids -bright, compassionate, independentminded, inquisitive.

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That latter quality prompts them to seek out Paul (Ruffalo), the anonymous sperm donor Nic and Jules chose to father their children.

A restaurant owner, Paul’s a laid-back bachelor suddenly enthralled with the notion of being a dad. His free and loose Jullianne Moore (L) and Annette Bening

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lifestyle, while appealing to Joni and Laser, puts him at odds with their “moms,” particularly Nic. Relations among Nic, Jules and Paul turn ugly in a way that’s not too believable, though audiences will play along since it results in some deep and powerful dramatic moments.

While the family focus is razor-sharp in “The Kids Are All Right,” the film wanders into some blind alleys with Laser’s pointless friendship with an obnoxious youth and Joni’s shallow puppy love dalliance with a classmate. Neither relationship adds any-

thing, hanging there like filler that distracts from the main drama.

Bening dominates a film loaded with terrific performances, embodying a woman whose ice-queen exterior conceals a soft, vulnerable center that she reveals between bouts of piercing, often hilarious preaching and griping.

Moore’s performance is fearless and moving, while Ruffalo, whose easy charm often disguises how good an actor he can be, shows off new levels of depth and contentiousness.

The film marks a nice graduation to serious adult roles for Wasikowska, who played the title role in Tim Burton’s blockbuster “Alice in Wonderland,” and veteran child star Hutcherson (“Journey to the Center of the Earth,” “Bridge to Terabithia”).

Hollywood has yet to deliver much this year to compete at the Academy Awards.

Bening and Moore could end up accounting for two of the five best-actress slots, while Ruffalo, Wasikowska and Hutcherson all deserve a long look from awards voters.

And who knows? With a doubled field of 10 best-picture nominees at the Oscars again, Cholodenko’s intimate family portrait might make the cut for Hollywood’s mostprestigious top-10 list.

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Film Review

Inspector who led the raid, Seymour Pine, lend their memories to the documentary.

We all know—or at least know of—the Released on DVD facts, both real and apocryphal. The StoneFor more information, please visit, wall riots began on June 28, 1969, when four Firstrunfeatures.com plainclothes policemen in dark suits, two patrol officers in uniform, one detective, and one deputy inspector arrived at the bar’s Christopher Street location at 1:20 in the morning. Other cops would occasionally stop by, once a week, to take hush money from the bar, which was owned by the Mafia.

Contrary to apocrypha, the police did not show up to catch the “queers” soon after Judy Garland’s death made headlines.

By A. Sebastian Fortino Garland died one week before the riots. This was not the first such raid on gay bars in tonewall Uprising, the 82-minute New York City. Since 1964, when the World’s documentary produced by PBS’s American Experience and directed Fair came to Queens, the desire to clean up the city of homosexuals became increasingly

by Kate Davis and David Heilbroner, seeks important. The reason the cops went to the to educate contemporary audiences as to what really happened over 40 years ago. The Stonewall that night was in part because Mayor John Lindsay was up for reelection. film made the round of film festivals this The film is gripping, although the lack of past year, and is now available to purchase. archival footage was a little disconcerting and Yes, there are several films, documentarequires you to give your full attention to the ries, and even one short story that I can film. In what little footage has been preserved, think of about the night that gave the gay Stonewall Uprising shows the “real war” that community its identity. However, Stonewall Uprising really delves into the riots and the the police found themselves embroiled in.

Gay men at the time were still seen as way in which gays fought back. Everyone was mad. Even the Black Panthers joined in mentally ill. Footage of CBS anchorman Mike Wallace in a 1966 CBS Reports tells a against the police with the disenfranchised sheltered, suburban America, “The average street kids, hustlers, and drag queens that homosexual is promiscuous and not intercomprised the rioters.

Few pieces of archival footage are known ested, or capable of, a lasting relationship.”

The film has been released on DVD, to exist. Therefore, the film is more of and is quite worth watching to boost your an oral history lesson. Personalities such pride, or to share with people in your life as former NYC Mayor Ed Koch, veteran that don’t “understand” why we are still Village Voice reporters Howard Smith and Lucian Truscott, and even the retired NYPD fighting for equal rights.

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By the Night Owl Police: Conn. priest stole $1.3M for male escorts

By John Christoffersen Associated Press

NEW HAVEN, Conn. — (AP) — A Roman Catholic priest in Connecticut has been arrested on charges he stole $1.3 million in church money over seven years to use for male escorts, expensive clothing, and luxury hotels and restaurants.

Waterbury police say the 64-year-old Rev. Kevin J. Gray was charged Tuesday with first-degree larceny. Gray is the former

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pastor at Sacred Heart/Sagrado Corazon Parish in Waterbury.

The Hartford Archdiocese last month asked police to investigate after it discovered during a financial review that he might have taken more than a million dollars for personal use.

Gray was Sacred Heart’s pastor from January 2003 until April 15, when he was granted a medical leave.

He was later suspended but still lives there.

Telephone messages were left at Sacred Heart and the office of his Rev. Kevin J. Gray public defender.

Galimony Melissa Etheridge filed paperwork to officially dissolve her domestic partnership with Tammy Lynn Michaels. Now, court documents reveal Etheridge is seeking joint custody and asked the courts not to award financial support to Michaels. “i gave up my managers, agents, contacts, all that good stuff, because i stepped directly into potty training a small boy, and carrying around a small girl on my hip,” Michaels wrote on her blog after posting a poem in which she says she was blindsided by finding the paperwork had been filed.

“I was always the house wife after that,” she continues. “The only thing I hated about it was not bringing in money — I have made my own money since I started babysitting at 10, and having a newspaper route at 11.

Having no steady paycheck killed me for those years with her. And now it’s really killing me. The other week i had to borrow money from a friend. Two weeks ago I had to scrape together $1.25 to pay for gas. I know she doesn’t want to give me money. Trust. I’m borrowing cash left and right from people to get through this summer, and feed my kids, with a stomach full of ulcers, thank you.”

Katy Perry Loves “California Gays” Pop singer Katy Perry is a fan of the newest YouTube take on her hit single “California Gurls.”

“I really love ‘California Gays,’” she said in an upcoming interview with Brandon Voss for The Advocate. “It’s hysterical. I love it when they do the fight between the East Coast and the West Coast — I still don’t know how they made it look like the car ran those guys over. I mean, these are like actual filmmakers, so it’s awesome. For me, what signifies that a song works is when cheerleaders are making up cheers to it or when people are making parodies of it, putting in their own personal time and sometimes money to make a video and put it on YouTube. That’s when I really know a song is going to be of some value.”

Elite Model Search Set for Wilton Manors A Model Search is set for Monday, July 19, between 6:00pm to 9:00pm at George Ryan and Co., 2221 Wilton Drive. International Photographer Juan Carlos will be on hand as well as representatives from Elite Model Agency for the shoot entitled “Cocktail Collection”. Come out with your best smile, and get ready for your close up. While you’re there, check out George Ryan and Co.’s exotic and

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Passport Fees Are Spiking In a further attempt to keep Americans from traveling abroad – roughly 10% of United States citizens hold a passport – Washington has decided to increase the fees associated with obtaining or extending the identification.

Starting on Tuesday, July 13, the $100 fee will rise to $135. If you wish to renew your passport the fee will cost you $110 – up from $75. If this irritates you, and you wish to become a Canadian don’t think you will get away from your American citizenship easily.

While last week you could renounce your citizenship for free, this week it will now cost you $450.

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Catching My Breath

Bastille Day: Portrait of the Writer as an Exchange Student

By A. Sebastian Fortino

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y parents, who retired shortly after my birth, had not once taken a vacation without me.

When I was 15, however, my parents told me they needed some time by themselves. As I was too old for camp, my parents asked me what I would do with myself. Considering that I was relatively sheltered, with the exception of taking the subway to school, they were shocked when I wanted to go to Europe as an exchange student.

“It seems like I only stopped holding your hand to cross the street last year,” my mother said. “Are you sure you want to go to Europe, by yourself?”

I did. Even though I was only 15 years old something told me I needed time alone to think. Even then I realized it was a cliché but I had to find myself.

There was a lot of thinking to be done that summer, about who I was, where I was going, and who I would become.

The gay thing was nagging at me—what was it, would it go away, why me, was it only hormones and a love of fashion? If I had to spend the summer at home, with the familiar faces I kept secrets from, self-discovery would get put on hold.

The subway had made me more independent than my parents realized.

As my prep school only offered Latin for the first two years, and the Vatican was not hosting exchange students, I was told by the agency that it would be best to name a few countries

and see what happened. My top three countries were England, Italy and France.

The English program, however, was cancelled, as it seemed to be a glorified tour of Britain for spoiled American kids. The families in Italy all wanted someone that spoke Italian.

As this was a time when the French were really trying to promote and safeguard their language, no one there wanted someone who could only say “bonjour” and “merci.”

Finally, the phone rang on my birthday.

It was not the agency, however, telling me where I was going. Instead it was a gentleman named Jean-Louis, who ran an organization that placed American students with French families. The good thing about his house was that he, his grown children, and his wife all spoke English fluently.

However, he felt as if he should warn me about where he lived, fearing it might be a turn off since I was used to city life.

“Our village has 70 souls and 700 sheep.

Do you think you can manage?” he asked me. “If you are a city boy, this might not be the place for you.”

“Yes,” I told him without thinking for more than a second. “I would like to live in the country for a while.”

Once I arrived, I fell in love with the magic of the region, Champagne in northeastern France, and of course with the food that my host mother served poolside. I experienced the strange delight of visiting structures older than my own nation.

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scenes from the 1990 French film My Mother’s Castle. I hunted for snails, went on long walks and bike rides through the neighboring village, nervously entered shops and tried speaking French, watched my host mother take duck liver and turn it into foie grais. My host parents took me to galleries, museums, wineries, and even to “adult parties,” which made me feel very grown up.

However, the greatest thing I fell in love with was my ability to think freely.

When walking down the street, only able to understand a slim portion of what people said, I had no distractions. Just me and my thoughts, I discovered, were all I needed.When I was at the dining table of the house, having conversations with my host father about life, France, politics, history, the God that Jean-Louis did not believe in, and many topics that were really for adults, it felt as if yes, I was becoming a man.

“Gay” came up once, as if Jean-Louis knew what I struggled with. It was on Bastille Day and we were sitting in the back

garden, staring off into the distance, waiting for fireworks promised by a larger village.

Given that he had hosted many an American student, surely a few revealed they were gay, but I didn’t ask directly.

“I don’t know what all the fuss is about,” he said, after we watched two of his male dogs do something not entirely heterosexual. “Being gay is natural, some people have a mere curiosity, some people are just gay. Either way, as long as you are good to people nothing matters.”

I blushed at first, embarrassed. Then, as I sipped on a glass of very chilled local champagne, I realized why he took the time to say what he said. There was no reason to be embarrassed about what I was. That summer I really grew up, I admitted to myself that I liked boys, and in that tore open my own Bastille. It would be another few years to come out to my friends, but admitting it to myself, there in the golden countryside, was the most important step.

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hard to convince on a case specific to Referendum 71. Justice Sonia Sotomayor, writing for herself and Justices John Paul Stevens and Ruth Bader Ginsburg, said “courts presented with an as-applied challenge” to public disclosure laws “should be deeply skeptical of any assertion that the Constitution, which embraces political transparency, compels States to conceal the identity of persons who seek to participate in lawmaking through a state-created referendum process.”

Justice Stevens, writing for himself and Justice Breyer, also said he thinks the asapplied scenario is “unlikely” to be successful. He characterized Protect Marriage’s fear of harassment as “speculative.” (Stevens is retiring this month.)

“For an as-applied challenge to a law such as the PRA to succeed, there would have to be a significant threat of harassment directed at those who sign the petition law enforcement measures,” wrote Stevens. “…

Debates about tax policy and regulation of private property can become just as heated as debates about domestic partnerships.”

Justice Antonin Scalia wrote a concurring gal Defense and Education Fund, Gay and opinion, too, though his position against Lesbian Advocates and Defenders, and the plaintiffs seemed evident at oral argument. National Center for Lesbian Rights, along “There are laws against threats and intimi- with the Human Rights Campaign and the dation,” wrote Scalia, “and harsh criticism, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force.

Only two justices suggested hope for Proshort of unlawful action, is a price our people have traditionally been willing to pay for tect Marriage in an as-applied challenge — self-governance. Requiring people to stand Justices Sam Alito and Clarence Thomas.

Alito wrote a concurup in public for ring opinion but said he their political acts “The real thing going on believes Protect Marfosters civic courage, without which de- here has been an attempt by riage has a “strong” case through an as-applied mocracy is doomed. right-wing groups to take challenge.

For my part, I do not away our rights secretly.”

“The widespread halook forward to a sorassment and intimidaciety which – thanks – Jon Davidson tion suffered by supto the Supreme Court porters of California’s – campaigns anonymously and even exercises the direct democ- Proposition 8 provides strong support for an racy of initiative and referendum hidden as-applied exemption in the present case,” from public scrutiny and protected from the wrote Alito. He said Yes on 8 supporters subaccountability of criticism. This does not re- mitted “substantial evidence of harassment suffered by Proposition 8 supporters” dursemble the Home of the Brave.”

Scalia’s point that laws already exist to ing their request to keep cameras out of the deal with harassment and threats was one courtroom during the Proposition 8 trial.

Thomas said he thinks the “compelled” highlighted by a brief filed by Lambda Le-

disclosure of names “severely burdens [First Amendment] rights and chills citizen participation in the referendum process.”

Lambda’s Legal Director Jon Davidson, who was the principal author of the gay groups’ brief, said he thought the majority struck an important balance.

“It’s good the court reaffirmed a high test here,” said Davidson. “You can’t, as a blanket matter, bar the disclosure of the petitions. But if you’re trying to bar [disclosure], you have to show a reasonable probability of harassment — not just a possibility, but a probability.”

Davidson said the ruling is “incredibly important to our community, given the number of measures that have gone on ballots to block gay people’s rights.”

“We have been the target of more initiatives to do that than any other group in the history of initiatives,” said Davidson, “so it’s important for us to be able to see if measures are properly qualified.”

“The real thing going on here,” said Davidson, “has been an attempt by right-wing groups to take away our rights secretly.”

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Smoking Out a Deadly Threat LGBT Community & Smoking

David Cuddihy

By A. Sebastian Fortino

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ccording to the American Lung Association (ALA) most state or national surveys on smoking and tobacco use do not record the sexual orientation of people they interview. However, a few states, such as California and Massachusetts collected findings in terms of smoking in the LGBT community. The results are startling.

“The American Lung Association issued Smoking Out a Deadly Threat: Tobacco Use in the LGBT Community to raise awareness,” said Charles D. Connor, ALA pre­ sident and CEO. The report presents a compilation of research that examines possible contributing factors to LGBT consumers. It also analyzed the lack of access to culturally appropriate tobacco treatment programs. The data will foster cessation programs tailored to the gay community.

Historically the ALA has reached out to the general population, but over the past few years the organization has tried to identify communities with specific health disparities in terms of smoking. Previously, the ALA identified the health disparities of Native Americans, who count 42% of their population as smokers.

“Gay and bisexual men are 2 to 2.5 times more likely to smoke than heterosexual peers. Lesbian women are 1.5 to 2 times

more likely to smoke than straight women,” said Andrew Cuddihy, Program Director for the ALA in Broward, Miami-Dade, and Monroe Counties. “LGBT kids – especially bisexual girls – are 9 times more likely to smoke than heterosexual girls. These statistics really set off alarms.”

Cuddihy also stated that while 20% of Americans smoke, 30% of gay people smoke, and a whopping 39% of transgender people smoke. With gay icons such as Bette Davis, Noel Coward, and even contemporary stars such as Lady Gaga smoking – in one case illegally when onstage in British Columbia – the habit seems to say sophistication to the gay community.

The ALA is committed to assisting people quit smoking. At their offices in Fort Lauderdale they currently offer two smoking cessation programs. Freedom from Smoking, is an eight session program with an average age of 30 years-old. Participants meet for about an hour and a half, and have one session a week.

NOT, or Not on Tobacco, is a smoking cessation program for adolescents.

“We go into the high schools to recruit kids. We are pretty successful with it as we recruit 20 or 30 kids at a time. Sometimes those numbers go up, sometimes they drop. They are teenagers, and some kids just sign up to get out of class,” Cuddihy added.

Stopping youth from smoking is a mission that the ALA strongly believes in. After all, very few smokers pick up the habit when they are adults as they already know the dangers smoking poses.

“We’re at the very beginning of this,” added Cuddihy, of working with the gay community to promote smoking cessation.

“I hope this article will get people more interested in quitting.”

If you are a smoker and wish to quit the habit please visit Lungusa.org or stop in to learn more about their smoking cessation programs at their 2020 South Andrews Ave location, in downtown Fort Lauderdale.

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President Obama’s Bullet Points on AIDS Strategy

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ain Points of Obama’s Plan for HIV, according to Presidential Report: ● Far too many people infected with H.I.V. are unaware of their status and may unknowingly transmit the virus to their partners. By 2015, the proportion of people with H.I.V. who know of their condition should be increased to 90 percent, from 79 percent today. ● The new health care law will significantly expand access to care for people with H.I.V., but federal efforts like the Ryan White program will still be needed to fill gaps in services. ● Federal spending on H.I.V. testing and prevention does not match the need. States

with the lowest numbers of H.I.V./ AIDS cases often receive the most money per case.The federal government should allocate more of the money to states with the highest “burden of disease.” ● Health officials must devote “more attention and resources” to gay and bisexual men, who account for slightly more than half of new infections each year, and African-Americans, who account for 46 percent of people living with H.I.V. ● The H.I.V. transmission rate, which indicates how fast the epidemic is spreading, should be reduced by 30 percent in five years. At the current rate, about 5 of every 100 people with H.I.V. transmit the

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virus to someone in a given year.

If the transmission rate is unchanged, the report says, “within a decade, the number of new infections would increase to more than 75,000 per year and the number of people living with H.I.V. would grow to more than 1.5 million.”

The report finds that persistent discrimination against people with H.I.V. is a major barrier to progress in fighting the disease.

“The stigma associated with H.I.V. remains extremely high,” it says. “People living with H.I.V. may still face discrimination in many areas of life, including employment, housing, provision of health care services and access to public accommodations.”

The administration promises to “strengthen enforcement of civil rights laws” protecting people with H.I.V. One political challenge for the administration is to win broad public support for a campaign that will focus more narrowly on specific groups and communities at high risk for H.I.V. infection.

“Just as we mobilize the country to support cancer research whether or not we believe that we are at high risk of cancer and we support public education whether or not we have children,” the report says, “fighting H.I.V. requires widespread public support to sustain a long-term effort.”

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plaintiff couples that participated in the lawsuit, though the state’s lawsuit could be seen as encompassing all gay married couples in Massachusetts. But before the ruling in either case extends beyond Massachusetts, he noted, it will require a ruling from the 1st Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals.

A 1st Circuit ruling would extend to Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Rhode Island, Maine, and Puerto Rico. A U.S. Supreme would affect the country.

As of deadline, attorneys for the federal government on the two cases had not yet filed notice of appeal or a request that the judge stay the effect of his decision until an appeal can be decided. But the Obama administration has made clear that it intends to defend DOMA and an appeal is considered virtually inevitable.

Most legal observers believe both cases will eventually be appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court for resolution, including Supreme Court nominee Elena Kagan who, during her confirmation hearing last week, declined to respond to questions concerning DOMA, noting that cases challenging the law were “on the road” to the high court.

The only other marriage case in federal court right now is the Proposition 8 marriage case in a federal district court in San Francisco. Judge Vaughn Walker heard closing arguments in that case in June and has not yet issued his decision. That case, challeng-

ing a state law banning the right to obtain a marriage license in California as violating the equal protection, will likely be appealed to the much larger 9th Circuit, which covers California and eight western states.

Both the Massachusetts and Gill cases were argued in May, and the decisions released today are relatively quick turnarounds, given that some judges take almost a year to decide cases.

Tauro noted, in particular, that the Massachusetts case posed a “complex constitutional inquiry” about the power of the state to determine marital status versus “whether Congress may siphon off a portion of that traditionally state-held authority for itself.”

But, he concluded, “DOMA plainly intrudes on a core area of state sovereignty—the ability to define the marital status of its citizens” and “imposes [on the states] an unconstitutional condition on the receipt of federal funding.”

“It is a fundamental principle underlying our federalist system of government,” wrote Tauro in the Massachusetts decision, “that ‘[e]very law enacted by Congress must be based on one or more of its powers enumerated in the Constitution.’ And, correspondingly, the Tenth Amendment provides that

‘[t]he powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people’.”

Tauro also noted that the 1st Circuit U.S. Court of Appeals has upheld federal regulation of state family law “only where firmly rooted in an enumerated federal power.”

Tauro acknowledged that attorneys for the federal government argued that the authority for DOMA was grounded in the U.S. Constitution’s “Spending Clause.” That clause says Congress has the power to collect taxes and pay debts to promote the “general welfare” of the country.

But Tauro noted that DOMA goes far beyond provisions related to federal spending “The broad sweep of DOMA, potentially affecting the application of 1,138 federal statutory provisions in the United States Code in which marital status is a factor, impacts, among other things, copyright protections, provisions relating to leave to care for a spouse under the Family and Medical Leave Act, and testimonial privileges,” wrote Tauro.

“This court has determined that it is clearly within the authority of the Com-

monwealth to recognize same-sex marriages among its residents, and to afford those individuals in same-sex marriages any benefits, rights, and privileges to which they are entitled by virtue of their marital status,” concluded Tauro in the Massachusetts opinion.

“The federal government, by enacting and enforcing DOMA, plainly encroaches upon the firmly entrenched province of the state, and, in doing so, offends the Tenth Amendment. For that reason, the statute is invalid.”

“By premising eligibility for these benefits on marital status in the first instance, the federal government signals to this court that the relevant distinction to be drawn is between married individuals and unmarried individuals,” wrote Tauro in the conclusion of the Gill opinion. “To further divide the class of married individuals into those with spouses of the same sex and those with spouses of the opposite sex is to create a distinction without meaning. And where, as here, ‘there is no reason to believe that the disadvantaged class is different, in relevant respects’ from a similarly situated class, this court may conclude that it is only irrational prejudice that motivates the challenged classification. As irrational prejudice plainly never constitutes a legitimate government interest, this court must hold that Section 3 of DOMA as applied to Plaintiffs violates the equal protection principles embodied in the Fifth Amendment to the United States Constitution.”

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On a Budget in Music City

By Joey Amato

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ashville may not come to mind as a place to visit if you are looking for an LGBT-friendly getaway, but let me assure you that Music City is not only gay friendly, but has many community organizations, retail outlets and entertainment venues to make for a very memorable vacation.

On my first day in Nashville, I had the pleasure of meeting Erica Rubinsky, a program coordinator in the office of student affairs at Vanderbilt University, as well as the chairperson of this year’s Nashville Pride, an event that drew approximately 18,000 revelers and was capped off with Vanessa Carlton’s claim to be “a proud bisexual woman,” which made national headlines.

This was the 23rd year of the festival. Past events have included performances by nationally known acts including Deborah Cox and Martha Wash.

The annual event takes place in June at Riverfront Park, an area that was flooded by the Cumberland River a few months ago. The city pulled together and, although some venues still remain shuttered, the city

is as vibrant as it was before the disaster.

Erica and I held our meeting at OutLoud, Nashville’s LGBT bookstore located on Church Street, the epicenter of gay activity. Although other areas, including East Nashville and the Fairgrounds, are home to gay venues, the West End is the place for the young and hip crowd.

Along with Erica, I also had the opportunity to speak with Pam Wheeler, Brad Beasley and a woman who goes just by the name Mac. Mac is a ball of fire, a proud lesbian who organizes drag king and queen events throughout the city.

“We get a lot of participants from Memphis and Knoxville, as well as Missouri, Mississippi and Alabama, places where it is not as accepting to be gay,” Mac says.

Next door to OutLoud is Out Central, a community center that hosts numerous events and is a central meeting space for the community. Erica tells me that there are over 50 LGBT groups in the greater Nashville area including sports leagues, cultural continued on page 33

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organizations and non-profits.

After our meeting, I walked a few blocks east on Church Street to Tribe, a beautiful sports bar/lounge. The owner, David Taylor, was there to greet me and tell me about the venue, as well as Play and Suzy Wong’s House of Yum, all owned by Taylor and a few other local businessmen. Tribe offers the best happy hour in the West End. The $3 drink specials are plentiful, while $5 Absolut Martini’s are offered on Thursdays.

As we are all watching our wallets, I decided to make this a budget-conscious experience, so I booked a bunk at the Music City Hostel. Not only will you find a clean, safe place to stay during your trip, but you will also get a chance to meet other young people from around the world. On this visit, I engaged in conversation with individuals from Sao Paolo, Vancouver and two friends motorcycling across the country for the summer.

The next morning, I woke up early and began a leisurely stroll to Centennial Park, the “Central Park” of Nashville. In the heart of Centennial Park is the Parthenon, an exact detailed replica of the ancient structure in Athens, Greece. Guests can either enjoy the grandeur of the building from the outside, or, for a small fee, enter the property to view the mammoth 42-foot gold-plated statue of Athena. Also while inside, visitors can read about the history of the park, which was constructed for Tennessee’s 1897 Centennial Exposition.

Located a few hundred yards from the Parthenon, on the outskirts of Centennial Park, is a small shack called Hog Heaven,

voted one of the best BBQ joints in Nashville by numerous food editors. I enjoyed a mouth-watering pulled-pork sandwich with a side of BBQ beans and mac and cheese.

The pork was delightful, basted in their signature sauce, which has the elements of both Kansas City and Carolina BBQ. A short distance away is Music Row, arguably the most influential business center for country music. Although small in nature, nearly every record company, performing rights organization and publishing house in Nashville has a presence here. Music Row doesn’t offer much to do in terms of museums or galleries, but visitors can enjoy some of the restaurants and live entertainment venues that dot the area.

To further whet my appetite for country music, I headed to the Country Music Hall of Fame, located downtown, adjacent to the city’s cultural district. The spectacular threestory building houses a variety of country music memorabilia, dating back to the early recordings of Hank Williams Sr. The museum also offers a video-tour, which is worth the extra money. Bring your camera, because you will come within arm’s length of fabulous gowns worn by superstars Reba McEntire and Carrie Underwood.

After the Hall of Fame, head over to the Frist Center for the Visual Arts. Opened in 2001, the museum is currently exhibiting the works of master glass artist Dale Chihuly as well as The Golden Age of Couture, a historical celebration of British and Parisian fashion from 1947-1957.

All that touring made me hungry, so I continued on page 34

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Out in Nashville Centennial Park in Nashville

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headed back to the West End to enjoy dinner at Suzy Wong’s House of Yum. The restaurant is one of Arnold Myint’s three restaurants in town, the others being Cha Cha and PM. At the time of publication, Arnold was a contestant on Top Chef D.C., but unfortunately, due to contractual obligations with Bravo, he was unable to talk about the competition.

The finale airs later this summer.

Upon entering the restaurant, I was greeted by a friendly staff that showed me to my table, located on a beautiful outdoor patio, complete with cabanas and candlelight. A quick glance at the menu highlights the restaurants creativity and Asian-fusion flare. I decided to sample a few of the “shared plates” including five spice braised pork ribs, coconut-Thai chili chicken wings, lump crab wontons with bacon and vegetable gyoza pot stickers.

My favorite item by far was the chicken wings. The meat fell off the bone as soon as I picked up the wing, something I have never seen before. The sauce was sweet, tangy and absolutely perfect. I loved them so much, I went back for seconds later on my trip.

For my entrees, the chef prepared three dishes: coconut chili fried brown rice with egg; peppered beef with broccoli and beans; and peanut sauce chicken Penang. I was really torn between my favorite selections, but after much analysis, the chicken Penang reigned supreme. The dish was a unique take on traditional Penang, but Suzy Wong uses a combination of ingredients, including sweet potatoes and peanuts, to make the dish unforgettable. A close runner-up was the coconut fried rice, which contained fresh tomatoes and edamame.

On my final evening in Nashville I spotted Lady Antebellum dining with about

15 of her closest friends at Suzy Wong’s.

The 16-year-old in me wanted to grab my camera and ask for an autograph, but I restrained myself and chose to respect their privacy instead.

After a brief wardrobe change, I headed over to Play, a multi-room dance club hosting nightly live shows and entertainment.

Thursday at Play is Ladies Night, while “Play Mates” take over the venue on Friday and Saturday. The venue is a wonderful destination, adorned with huge video screens, a great sound system and a large dance floor.

Both the bartenders and the patrons of the establishments were extremely friendly, not shying away from conversation or sharing a dance.

Those looking to do business in the city should contact the Nashville GLBT Chamber of Commerce, as well as pick up a copy of Out & About Newspaper, one of several LGBT publications in the city. Joe Morris, managing editor of Out & About, tells me that the city has come a long way in the fight for gay rights. Even some government officials are openly gay.

In all, Nashville is a great city to celebrate being gay. I made many new friends during my trip and look forward to returning in the very near future. I began my journey not expecting much, but left experiencing so much more. The city is full of great culture, great food and, most important, great people. I was sad to leave.

Quick Links: Tribenashville.com Musiccityhostel.com Suzywongsnashville.com Fristcenter.org Countrymusichalloffame.org

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SFGN’s Soap Box

Q Scopes By Jack Fertig

Open up more, Taurus!

Gay Men’s Health Summit Coming to Fort Lauderdale

Venus, Jupiter and Pluto are all in mutual aspect, bringing out artistic challenges and erotic opportunities, very possibly opening up profound insights. Sun, Mars and Aries are also working together, boosting aggressive competition in efforts to build community and service. Strive for a personal best in cooperative efficiency.Try not to get bossy or clannish.

ARIES (March 20 – April 19): Roll up your sleeves and get to work!

Challenge yourself to work better with bosses and experts. Confidence is best when balanced with humility.You need to adjust your presentation and outlook. Compete only with yourself to be your best.

TAURUS (April 20 – May 20):Your creative drive is typically about technique and perfection, but open up more to deeper self-expression.That can bring revelations too powerful and important to share with anyone other than a very trusted confidante.

GEMINI (May 21- June 20): Queer folks typically have to keep negotiating between family of origin and communities of choice.As your priorities and ideals are challenged there, keep an open mind and be willing to adapt.

Some accommodations are necessary, but few will be permanent.

CANCER (June 21- July 22):When you speak up, carefully consider your message and your motivations. Getting heard by the people who matter is not your problem. Getting a sympathetic hearing will take some work and accommodation on your part.

LEO (July 23 – August 22):Take some time out to recharge your batteries. Expose yourself to new ideas. Challenge old ways of thinking – your own! Ideals are important, but as you try to implement them, reality wins every time. Bend so you don’t break!

VIRGO (August 23 – September 22):Whatever efforts you’re making to be sexy, you’re a lot more so when you don’t try. Just be your naturally sexy self. Challenging your own creativity will get you further than seeking to challenge others’ boundaries.

Solution to Crossword Puzzle on page 31

LIBRA (September 23 – October 22): Getting touchy about your private space? Worried about the motives of others? Narrow your social activities, just for now, to the essentials – those you consider family and important work contacts. Schedule lots of alone time with that special someone.

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he 6th National Gay Men’s Health Summit is scheduled to take place August 25 – 29 at the Sheraton Fort Lauderdale Airport Hotel. Hundreds of gay men and their allies from throughout the country will gather to share their experiences and knowledge regarding a variety of issues including health-care reform,

SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21): Brace yourself to discover who among your colleagues are really your friends.

Treat lurid rumors as news to you and point out that, even if they were true, the workplace is no place for such filthy talk.

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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 20):You want to be known as the best, but at what? The best in bed? That’s easy enough. Dig deep into your vast bag of talents and challenge yourself at something more helpful to the world and lucrative for yourself.

CAPRICORN (December 21 – January 19): It seems you can’t win disagreements at home.You’re trying too hard, whether you’ve dug your heels into the wrong spot or you’re being overly conciliatory.

Critiquing your own positions first is always good sense. Second-guessing yourself isn’t.

AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18): Explore your deepest, darkest, nastiest fantasies, but remember there’s a time and a place for everything. Colleagues and work-out buddies don’t want to hear it. Save it for truly intimate friends.

PISCES (February 19 – March 19):Your financial plans need major adjustments, but new investments, attractive though they may be, are riskier than usual. Friendly, thoughtful arguments, especially with pals or your partner, can clarify your vision. Challenge your advisors for better advice, and then think about it before acting.

Jack Fertig, a professional astrologer since 1977, is available for personal and business consultations in person in San Francisco, or online everywhere. He can be reached at 415-864-8302, through his website at www.starjack. com, and by e-mail at QScopes@ qsyndicate.com.

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Hudson Taylor wrestles for gay rights

By Dan Woog

H

udson Taylor – one of the top 197-pound college wrestlers in the country – chastises his University of Maryland teammates whenever they use anti-gay language.

He wrestled with a Human Rights Campaign sticker on his headgear, and donates each month to the organization.

How gay is he? Not at all. He and his girlfriend will be married next year, when she finishes law school.

Taylor is rarer in college sports than even openly gay athletes. He’s a strong male supporter of LGBT civil rights, someone who talks the talk, walks the walk, and does it in a sport so misunderstood that wrestlers often feel compelled to flaunt their own mas-

culinity – by putting down others.

“Wrestlers always get questions about grabbing each other,” Taylor says. “It’s not a sexual sport, but it looks like it. Some wrestlers think they need to show they’re ‘men.’”

So they use words that Taylor won’t utter.

“I hate that language,” he says. After being elected captain sophomore year – a rare honor – he realized he no longer worried what others thought of him. “Being captain freed me to speak and act as I thought fit,” Taylor says.

He called out his teammates when they used anti-gay terms. There was – and still is – some resentment. But, he says, “to be a successful team, everyone has to think of themselves as leaders. To be a leader, you have to be aware of differences – and respect those differences.”

He traces his open-mindedness to his non-

He found a much broader judgmental parents. That, says pulpit on Facebook. There, Taylor, allowed him to see he says, “I can express exothers in “inclusive ways.” actly how I feel. I put up Religion is important, too. links and post videos. That’s A relative was one of the reached a lot of people.” first Christian missionaries in Inevitably, people call Taylor China. His mother went to a a closet case. He doesn’t care.

Bible college, and his sister “To be vocal, I had to attends one now. break away from what peo“That helps me bridge the ple think about me,” he says. gap,” Taylor says. “I talk with “If that’s where they want to my parents about Bible verses, take me, that’s their issue. and about gay issues.”

This is about so much more In high school Taylor recthan sexuality. It’s about peoognized that people made Hudson Taylor ple. I’m completely confi“unnecessary divides” based on criteria like sexual orientation. But he dent with who I am. That’s all that matters.”

That confidence has taken Taylor far. also credits Blair Academy – a prestigious boarding institution – with exposing him to This winter he won the ACC tourna“lots of people with lots of different ideas.” ment, and placed fourth at the national On the Maryland wrestling team, Taylor championships.

“I wanted to win, of course, but it’s a says his greatest contribution was to promote “word consciousness. That’s the root of question of perspective,” he says. “Comso many problems. People don’t realize how ing so close and not reaching my goal, it’s hurtful language can be. I speak out.” His tough. But when I take a step back, I’m tremessage: “How we speak dictates how we mendously proud of what I accomplished.”

Taylor is taking next year off. He hopes to act. And how we act dictates who we are.”

The coaching staff has been very support- coach at the college level, before heading to ive. When a gay sports website profiled him, law school.

Politics could be in his future. Taylor says, his coaches asked if he wanted the interview cross-posted on the Maryland site. He de- “I’m not overly confrontational. But I am cided against it – in part because life was very firm in my beliefs. I think I can bridge already so hectic. The Outsports column a lot of gaps.”

Oh, yeah. There’s that little thing called a swamped him with hundreds of e-mails.

“I heard so many amazing, powerful sto- wedding coming up, too.

So how does a gay rights activist propose ries,” he marvels. “Some of them made me cry. To me, my beliefs are not shocking; to his girlfriend?

Taylor did it after he and Lia Alexandra they’re part of who I am. But I was shocked that people were so moved by my position. Mandaglio watched the movie “Milk.” He I heard from kids petrified about coming gave her a copy of Martin Luther King’s book out to their family, or thinking about killing “Why We Can’t Wait” – signed by the author.

We could call that “really gay.” But in Taylor themselves. That stuff was real.”

This season – as a senior – Taylor put the Hudson’s case, it’s just really, really cool.

HRC logo on his headgear. It was a difficult decision, and did not sit well with team- Dan Woog is a journalist, educator, soccer coach, mates. With regret, he removed the sticker. gay activist, and author of the “Jocks” series of books “At the end of the day, it’s about our on gay male athletes. Visit his website at www.danteam,” he says. “The crap I got took away woog.com. He can be reached care of this publication from the message I wanted to send.” or at OutField@qsyndicate.com.

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GAY RUGBY STAR TACKLES HOMOPHOBIA

By Leslie Robinson Things do change. Consider the case of Gareth Thomas, an international rugby star. The Welshman is 6’3” and a muscular 225 pounds. He’s busted his nose five times, fractured both shoulders and a hip and an arm, lost eight teeth and been concussed an average of three times a year.

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ugby is such a wussy sport.

You wouldn’t think Thomas would be afraid of anything. But he was, in a bone-deep way. He feared that people would find out he was gay.

In the May 3 issue of Sports Illustrated, writer Gary Smith delved into Thomas’ psyche, his years of striving to be fitter, louder, drunker than his teammates, his brothers. The man named to the Welsh national rugby team

Gareth Thomas on the field

more often than anyone else fought to keep his secret from his rugged teammates and his rugged country.

You can guess how well that worked out.

In 2006, at a physical and emotional low, Thomas began telling people closest to him the truth, starting with his wife--generally a good choice.

He resisted going public until December of 2009, when, wrote Smith, “a now-or-never feeling gripped his chest. He was 35, his international career finished, and he trusted his Cardiff Blues teammates and coaches.”

Thomas knew coming out as an active player rather than in retirement would have a far greater impact.

Hours after he came out in print, he found himself in a game sporting the jersey the team occasionally wears for away matches—the pink one.

At least the ball wasn’t rainbow-striped.

The man Sports Illustrated called “the world’s bravest athlete” for being the only out active player on a major men’s team sport has become a changed fella, a visible gay force.

In the months since coming out, he’s talked about homophobia on TV and at universities, and become a patron of LGBT History Month. Thomas wants to help kids. “I want to be the gay role model I never had. The note I got from a guy who gave up rugby years ago because he was gay and has returned to playing it since I came out—that outweighs lifting the biggest trophy as captain of Wales.”

Such notes won’t break any part of his anatomy, either. Except perhaps his heart.

It’s not just one man who has changed.

The reaction from teammates, fans, the media has been largely positive. Paul Burston, a gay editor who hails from Thomas’ Welsh hometown, said, “Something really deep is changing. There’s still a lot of homophobia, but it’s not something you let out in genteel company now. It’s been stigmatized.”

How great is that? The stigma is now on the other rugby boot.

Thomas, who was planning to retire, felt so invigorated that he signed on with a team in northern Wales to play two years of an even faster and more physical brand of rugby. Either he’s feeling suddenly, wonderfully free, or the man has had one too many concussions.

On March 26, in his second game for the Crusaders, his squad played the Castleford Tigers in Yorkshire, England. Tigers fans subjected Thomas to homophobic taunting.

Some of those Yorkshire lads would rather hurl themselves into the scrum than go along with this change thing.

But they may have to. On June 29, the Rugby Football League (RFL) slapped the Castleford club with a fine of about $60,000.

The RFL said, “Castleford were found guilty of unacceptable behaviour, of breaching the RFL’s respect policy, of misconduct by their supporters and of conduct prejudicial to the interests of the sport.”

Here’s my very un-British reaction: Yeehaw! First Thomas came out, now the league has his back. Finally everybody’s on the same team.

Leslie Robinson prefers sports that keep her body intact. E-mail her at lesarobinson@gmail.com, and visit her blog at www.generalgayety.com.

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