Atkin Cowboy Code

(Photo courtesy of Maurice Atkin and is used by permission)

By Brigit Atkin

My husband, Kelly, comes from a long line of cowboys. Fortunately, they aren’t the “drink all the whiskey, steal the horses, cheat at poker” kind of guys. They’re the “get up before dawn, work until it’s done, pray for rain” kind of fellows.

I recently came across the “Atkin Cowboy Code.” I wish I knew who authored it because the writer speaks to everyone, especially during these crazy times.

Atkin Cowboy Code

• Take responsibility for your actions; don’t blame others for the consequences of what you choose to do.

• Always exercise self-control.

• Treat others as you want to be treated: fairly and equally. Never look down on anyone.

• Respect yourself first. Then you will respect others and what is theirs, including their outlook of life.

• Be happy and joyful. Live your life the very best you know how.

• When you work or are given chores, do all in an excellent way.

• Be a moral leader. Set an example for others to follow, including always presenting a good appearance.

• Be trustworthy, truthful, a keeper of your word, and honest, even when you think no one is looking.

• Choose your words carefully. Stay away from those who are looking for trouble.

• Show concern for the other fellow. Be the champion of the underdog, the oppressed, and the disadvantaged. Help someone, some way, every day.

• Stand up for what you know is right. Don’t follow the crowd just because everyone else is doing it.

• Remember, what you do to others comes back to you, be it good or bad.

My husband would add this: Honor your family name. Don’t do anything that would tarnish the legacy left by those who came before you.

Can you imagine what our society would be like if we all endeavored to live by this code? We would feel safe enough to go back to the days when no one locked their doors. A contract would be binding with a simple handshake, and we would be treated with kindness everywhere we went.

None of us are perfect; I know I have lots of room for improvement. Maybe some of these kernels of wisdom can help you and me as we add them into our own personal codes. It’s something to consider. It’s probably time we change our lowdown, no good, spittin’, cussin’, cow-stealing ways anyhow.

About the Author

Brigit Atkin–Brigit of Brightworks helps improve the lives of others facing challenges and difficulties. She is certified in the SimplyALIGN™ method and was trained by founder Carolyn Cooper herself. For more information, visit www. brightworksbybrigit.com.