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Scripture takes a strong stand against sins of the tongue. God makes it clear that obscenities and impurities have no place coming out of the mouths of Christians. Unfortunately, Christian students often struggle just as much with their words as their
Watch Your Words! Helping Students Stand Up Against Profanity
unchurched peers do. Try these approaches to tackle profanity:
• Keep a running tally Ask your student to list the number of profanities they hear during one day at schoolor one night of TVwatching. • Tell students the truth. Research shows that people who curse are
respected less in our society and have fewer deep relationships. • Challenge students to use only “prayer” words. If they wouldn’t use the word in conversation with God, then it isn’t appropriate in any other context.
GO DEEPER Ways adults can use their words wisely, especially in tricky situations
PARENTS - YOU ARE AN INFLUENCE Have you ever caught your child listening in to your conversation. They’re not just being nosey - they’re learning! That’s right. Learning how to use their words. So how do we teach our teenagers through our actions? Clear the air. People-pleasers don’t want to rock the boat. This is a major way the enemy gets a foothold in relationships. We tend to bottle up our anger until we blow. If you don’t lovingly confront an issue right away, it will only fuel anger until you confront in frustration. Often, things that eventually become major issues start with bad communication and continue to build. Put concerns on the table soon as they happen. That clears up misunderstandings and opens the door to speedy reconciliation.
to put people in their place. We often end up in arguments that only contribute to the problem and don’t preemptively lead us to healing. Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing at all. Prayerfully seek when it’s right to confront and when it’s right to be silent.
Stop gossiping. Even if you dress something up as a “prayer request,” talking to others about a frustrating situation shouldn’t be your only step. Instead, go to the source of the issue rather than speaking behind other Speak less. This may seem like a people’s backs. A good rule is to share contradiction to the first point, but frustrations with only one person, such sometimes when we’re stressed we as an accountability partner. This will tend to be too confrontational. We want help you release some steam but will
also give an opportunity for this person to hold you accountable to making things right while they pray for the situation as a whole.
THRICE
MEDIA SPOTLIGHT
THIRCE
Background: This Orange County band has never been labeled a Christian band, despite the fact that lead singer Dustin Kensrue is a staunch Christian and his lyrics are often straight from the Bible. Their songs deal with topics such as Peter’s dark night of betrayal, Christ’s invitation for us to take rest in him, and how earth isn’t our real home. The music is as deep and thoughtful as the lyrics. Kensrue recently became worship leader at the O.C. branch of Mars Hill Church. What Thrice Says: Regarding where he gets inspiration, singer Dustin Kensrue says, “Definitely the Bible; I draw from that a lot. Usually not as the starting point for things, but it is very much where I am rooted. I feel like it speaks to a lot of things.… I’m constantly inspired and challenged by reading it.”
FAMILY FORCE 5
Family Force 5
Background: This crunk band incorporates punk, hardcore, R&B, dance, electronica, funk, and rap metal into party songs. It’s as crazy as it sounds, but the songs are hits. Three band members are brothers. They’ve been criticized for using almost no overt references to God or their faith, though they do maintain positive lyrics. What Family Force 5 Says: Regarding the band’s Christian image, singer Solomon Olds says, “They want Sandi Patty all over again. They want Amy Grant.… We want to make music that is for God, but at the same time, we want to make music that people enjoy and that they’re not turned off by.”
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THE THREE MUSKATEERS: 3D PG-13 Synopsis: A spirited young man named d’Artagnan joins forces with three Musketeers who have rebelled against their order and try to take down the evil forces threatening their land. Review: Despite director Paul W.S. Anderson’s history of the Resident Evil movies, the action here will likely be closer to the recent Pirates of the Caribbean films —epic action with a few laughs, but nothing too offensive.
BATMAN: ARKHAM CITY This is a sequel to one of the best games to come out in recent years. The first game was a blast, with a wide-open world and gameplay that was a super-fun mixture of stealth and fighting. The female villains Harley Quinn and Poison Ivy wore skimpy outfits, so if they make a reappearance, that would be the biggest red flag in an otherwise teenage-friendly game.
DARK SOULS This sequel to the cult hit Demon’s Souls will likely be very similar to that dark, violent action game. The gimmick here is that the game is incredibly hard, and there are no places to save within levels; players die and go all the way back to the beginning. This one isn’t for the kiddos.
Benefits of Student Growth Groups They allows students to be known They make students verbal Allow students to personalize their faith Encourage accountable relationships
Nurturing students means faithfully helping them grow in their relationship with God It’s a proven fact - the most substantial and measurable
As a parent, I hope you will encourage your student to see
spiritual growth happens among students who have trustworthy,
what Growth Groups are offered, pray about what God would
accountable, and healthy relationships with either an adult
want them to focus on, and sign up! If a student decides
leader or a peer. Within this context, Student Growth Groups will be an exciting and spiritually challenging opportunity for Northside Students. Beginning in late October, Growth Groups will
not to attend a Growth Group, no worries...we have a
Beginning Fall 2011
meet on Sunday Mornings. Students will have an opportunity to register for offered courses during the Growth Group semester. There may be a small fee
Large Group setting in which they can attend. This will be a co-ed venue with caring adults leading each group. There’s still an opportunity to be challenged in their faith each weekend. What is being offered this Fall? Check out the class descriptions below and have your student register to join:
associated with the classes to cover the cost of student books.
SIGN UP FOR A GROWTH GROUP
SR/JR HIGH GUYS EVERY YOUNG MANS BATTLE Learn how to deal with temptation and live life connected to Christ
SR HIGH GIRLS
AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIPS Learn how to develop friendships with loyalty, support, and trust
JR HIGH GIRLS
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NEW BELIEVERS
Fresh Start Learn the basics of Christianity and discover what God wants for your life
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IN THE LOOP... Not getting all the details of our Student Ministry events from your Student? Check below to find out more details of Upcoming Activities.
Wednesday Nights 6-12 grades
LANEY F.C.A. ON MONDAY’S We are so excited to host Laney High’s FCA group on the 2nd & 4th Monday of each month. Students meet in the Cafe/Gym area of the Life Center from 6 pm - 8 pm. FCA is a great place for Christian Athletes and non-athletes to connect and encourage each other to make an impact on campus. Come to FCA!
FIELDS OF FAITH NIGHT @ LANEY Wednesday, October 12 ~ 6-8 pm
This is an exciting opportunity students / families / community has to worship together at the football stadium of Laney High School. Parents I encourage you to bring your student to Fields of Faith - an make plans to stay for the service. The special guest speaker is Commissioner Jonathan Barfield LANEY YOUNG LIFE complete with student bands and Each Thursday Night you can find worship being led by Northside’s Laney High Students meeting to learn Worship Team/Band. Make plans to more about their faith in Christ. attend with your family and enjoy a Young Life meets every Thursday night of worship outdoors at Laney night from 7:30 - 8:30 pm in Room High! 206 of the Life Center.
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