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Meet the Lake County Women of Distinction page 26

FINISHING TOUCHES

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Home décor that suits the season page 18

FASHION tren ds Check out this season’s hottest styles, available at local boutiques page 8

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INSIDE FASHION

FAMILY IN FOCUS

8 FASHION TRENDS — This fall’s styles transcend from one generation to the next, and local boutiques in Lake County have set out to bring the latest trends and styles to your very own closet — without breaking the bank.

22 ONE MOTIVATED MOMMY — Family columnist Michelle Stien tries to explain karma to her pre-teen children.

14 TAILOR-MADE — Incorporating pieces of family heirlooms into new clothing with the help of an alterations expert is one way to recycle old or outdated trends.

15 RETRO-ACTIVE — Check out new hair and makeup trends for this season that hearken back to the 30s and 40s.

HOME & LIFESTYLE 16 BOOK NOOK — After a long day’s work, transport yourself to worlds of imaginative fictions with these recommended books.

18 FINISHING TOUCHES FOR FALL — Instead of leaving the autumn colors and atmosphere outside, bring the beauty in with trendy seasonal decorations.

HEALTH & WELLNESS 20 A PERFECT FIT — Post breast surgery undergarments are available for every woman.

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WOMEN OF DISTINCTION 26 MEET OUR WINNERS — Out of a pool of nominations submitted by community members and business leaders, 10 Lake County women were selected as this year’s Women of Distinction. Find out who they are.

OUT & ABOUT 30 CALENDAR OF EVENTS — Check out a variety of local events, courtesy of our own Planit Lake website!

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My affinity for October stems directly from my love of Halloween (my favorite “holiday”), and my obsession with horror movies. The obsession began with a viewing of “The Amityville Horror” at a church sleep-over at the tender age of 12, much to my parents’ dismay.

It gave me nightmares for weeks!

As my husband can attest, I’ll watch ANY horror movie ANY time. And after subjecting him to the box-office bummer of “Bats” many years ago, he put the kibosh on watching any horror pics with me except during the month of October.

I typically watch the B-rated stuff solo, and only subject him to those that enjoy a modicum of success at the box office during this time. But I’m eagerly awaiting the day my kids are old enough to enjoy this creepy genre with me.

Another tradition I uphold in October is dressing up for Halloween. My costumes are mainly word-play based and off-beat. A few years ago I was an iPad. Simple enough ... pair of glasses, small notepad attached to one lens and an Apple sticker on my forehead. Viola: First place in the workplace costume contest. This year’s costume involves UFOs. Keep a lookout on our Facebook page. I’ll post a pic.

altering old-styled clothing taking up space in your closet, and clothing for women who’ve gone through a breast cancer procedure ... we’ve got you covered.

Also in this edition, we introduce our 2015 Women of Distinction award winners. Among numerous nominations by community members, 10 Lake County women were subsequently chosen and we are pleased to showcase why they qualified for this annual awards event.

Meanwhile, our columnists weigh in on topics such as how reading is a healing activity, good books to read and how to explain karma to younger children.

I hope you enjoy this issue as much as we enjoyed (labored) putting it together. Next month brings the onslaught of holiday fanfare to the fore. It’s both a welcome, and arduous, time for many of us.

So enjoy October! We’re guaranteed to have at least one Indian-summer weekend in these 31 days.

Treat yourself to a horror movie. I’m well-equipped with a number of suggestions should you need a referral.

I promise, I won’t recommend “Bats!”

Allison McCaleb Managing Editor / Senior Designer

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COVER FALL FASHIONS Step out in style this season! Area boutique owners share the hottest trends for Fall 2015. Find out more beginning on page 8.

Featured on the cover is Sara Velander, Certified Financial PlannerTM at COUNTRY Financial in Libertyville.

She modeled clothing provided by ENÁZ on the Park in Libertyvillle and boots provided by Forest Bootery, also in Libertyville.

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Publisher Kate Weber 815-526-4400 kweber@shawmedia.com Editor / Senior Designer Allison McCaleb 815-526-4485 amccaleb@shawmedia.com Coordinator Autumn Siegmeier asiegmeier@shawmedia.com

But as much as I’d love to devote an entire magazine to my October obsessions, I had to rein that in. True, this edition does involve dressing up.

But it’s dressing up in the trends of today.

October is our Fashion Edition and it is replete with beautiful outfits for every shape, budget and age.

We share Fall hair trends, home decorating styles,

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FASHION trends Shot in beautiful downtown Libertyville, Lake County resident Sara Velander models the latest fashion trends from ENĂ Z on the Park and Forest Bootery.

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what’s hot for fall? layers, textures and accessories

By ALLISON HORNE

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he leaves are changing, and it’s time to switch up the closet and integrate the latest fall trends and colors into your daily wardrobe.

No matter what your age, this fall’s styles transcend from each generation to the next, and local boutiques in Lake County have set out to bring the latest trends and styles to your very own closet — without breaking the bank.

TEXTURES This fall, it’s all about textures. Adding an extra dimension to your outfit with various textures can help make or break your look.

While plaid has been a pretty regular trend in the fall in the past, this season, plaid is everywhere.

“This year, it’s plaid on everything,” says Alisia Bodrero, corporate buyer for Alixandra, a specialty boutique in Lake Forest. “It’s an especially strong plaid year, and we’re going big with it.”

“MESA” Capote French terry poncho Drew faux ponte leather distressed leggings Navajo Aztec blanket scarf Michael Stars wool fedora hat Allison Fiutak fringe stretch bracelets Shoshanna Lee matte black wood and horn necklace Chinese Laundry shoes

In addition to visual textures like plaid, tangible textures are also extremely trendy this year. Furs, leather, and fringe are all the rage in every clothing item from head to toe.

While leather jackets and pants have been in style in previous years, this year, it’s more about subtle touches of leather.

“In prior years, the style was really heavy leather,” Bodrero says.

“Now it’s trending toward just a touch or little panel of leather on different shirts or pants.”

ENÁZ founder Susan Lurie has always been known for her leather touches, and originally opened the first shop 22 years ago after her custom leather business outgrew her house.

“It’s funny because my mom was one of the first people in Highland Park to have a store with southwestern style, and that’s what is in right now,” says Lurie’s daughter, Samantha Shapiro, who is also the co-owner and visual merchandiser at ENAZ. “Fall is here and everything in right now is western wear.”

In addition to leather, fringe has been dominating the styles this fall.

“It really doesn’t have to be crazy head-to-toe fringe,” Bodrero says.

“Just a touch of fringe brings in a western style without going too western.”

Bodrero notes that even just a fringe detail or sweaters with the detailing at the bottom is perfect for the fall. It also doesn’t have to be super heavy or thick fringe, even “tassely” fringe is in.

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“MOD” Matison Stone faux leather sheath dress Avaasi gold vermeil and oxidized silver body chain RD International lumberjack plaid jacket

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“MODERN” Fate Aztec and fringe print sweater Greylin threetier chiffon tank Capote French terry flare pants Graziela Gems black diamond earrings Designed

by Denise gunmetal and pearl necklace Silver Fountain garnet and Indian diamond cocktail ring Allison Fiutak agate stretch bracelets Evil eye painted leather clutch Sam Edelman boots

SCARVES AND LAYERING Scarves are always huge in the fall, and the same trend is holding true this season.

“Oversized blanket scarves are really in right now,” Shapiro says.

“You can either wear them as a shawl or wrap them around your neck as a giant scarf.”

There is also another new trend with scarves popping up around the Midwest — textured scarves.

“Plaid and subtle prints are in again on scarves, but this year, it’s all about the texture of the scarves,” Bodrero says.

Whether it be fluffy, fringed, or oversized, scarves can dress up any outfit.

Two-fers, otherwise known as a layered look involving a buttondown collared shirt, have carried over from the spring trends.

“That unpolished look is really in, with the shirt hanging out on the bottom with rolled cuffs on sleeves,” Shapiro says.

Vests, jackets and light sweaters are another easy way to add complexity to an outfit.

“Vests are really big right now, whether they are microsuede, faux fur or leather,” Bodrero says.

FINISHING TOUCHES No outfit is complete without the finishing touches.

The fringe trend doesn’t just apply to clothing. Bags, purses, booties and shoes all have been embracing the western style.

“MAUVE” Burgundy pleated faux leather jacket Long-sleeve Michael Stars T-shirt One-of-a-kind Rita Ratskoff labradorite pendant necklace Titanium studs by Rita Ratskoff Silver Fountain chalcedony and Indian diamond cocktail ring JBrand skinny mid-rise jeans Toms boots

“We’re seeing a lot of fringe bags, which is a good way to incorporate it into your wardrobe without getting a dress completely made of fringe,” Bodrero says.

Belts are also getting a southwestern touch, as Shapiro notes that big buckles and large accents are in.

Jewelry is always a necessary touch to complete any outfit. While chunky necklaces and ornate pieces have been trendy in the past, this fall, dainty, delicate layers of jewelry are in.

“We’re really seeing delicate layers of necklaces, with shorter, delicate ones for the first layer, followed by longer stones or pendants,” Bodrero says. “I probably would say two to four necklaces together really make a statement piece.”

ENÁZ is known for its accessories, and recently expanded its Dana Rebecca Designs Collection, which features many dainty pieces perfect for accessorizing.

One aspect of style that is often overlooked is scents for the season. Every ENÁZ location has a spa bar, which features unique lotions and oils that have been handcrafted in-house for the last 22 years.

“Fall trends aren’t just about clothing and accessories,” Shapiro says. “Another important aspect is scents, and ours can range anywhere from woodsy scents to fig or china lily.”

From leather and fringe to plaid and textured scarves, fall is ushering in many hip, fun trends that will transform your wardrobe.

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Tailor-Made Incorporating pieces of family heirlooms into new clothing with the help of an alterations expert is one way to recycle old or out-dated trends

By YVONNE BENSON

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magine wearing your father’s suit to your first interview. Talk about a power suit! Or maybe wearing your mother’s Sunday dress to your daughter’s recital. It’s a nice way to remember their influence in your life at a particular moment in yours.

“Add new buttons to an old jacket,” Breen says. “Sometimes just adding a belt to an outfit can give it a new look. Pants can be transformed into shorts or capris. Wider legged pants can be tapered to be slimmer.”

Sometimes just a few small alterations can make a big difference.

“For a slimmer profile, try tapering an A-line skirt to be more of a pegged skirt.

A change in the hemline is also a small alteration that can make a big difference,” Breen says. Adding small shoulder pads to a blouse or jacket can make it hang better. It may not be a trendy change, but it’s one that will make a difference in how the garment fits.

Sometimes (maybe most times), though, those garments are no longer fashionable.

That power suit would be an ill-fitting path to failure and the dress might be a sentimental embarrassment. Celeste Breen, owner of Sew Much Fun in Grayslake, has the skills to transform clothing to make it fit properly and ensure that it’s current. She can Breen says watching the fashion shows in teach you how to do it, too.

Paris, New York and elsewhere is a good way “I have done a couple of transformations,” to keep your finger on the pulse of fashion she says. “One was a sweater in a color I trends. loved but it was big and boxy. I took it apart Usually the newest trends are way out there, at the side seams and removed the sleeves. but then they start to appear — a little more I recut the shoulders and sides to be more subdued — in higher-end fashion. Then fitted. Because the sleeves were a dropped they cross into the mass market — again a shoulder, they were too short to be reused little more subdued. so I made new sleeves from a coordinating fabric. I then made a matching purse from “When animal prints first appeared, they the leftover sweater fabric.” were an all-over outfit of maybe several She has also made a skirt from a pair of pink different prints,” Breen says. “Then, as the trend became a little more main-stream, jeans. people were wearing one or two larger pieces “The top part was left intact but I added a of clothing from an animal print. As it side and back gussets out of a coordinating moved into the less expensive chain stores, print fabric and then did embroidery on it.” you started to see it more in accessories.”

Keeping your wardrobe continually en The accessories are where the trends really pointe can seem insurmountable. Breen take root, Breen explained, “If you spend suggests that when you do buy something your clothing money on classic main pieces new, make it a more classic style and use that you can wear for years, then spend a accessories to be “trendy.” little every year on some fun pieces to keep For older clothing pieces, such as a blouse you like that is getting a bit worn, she recommends turning it into a scarf.

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up with the trends. Also as some of the trends start to fade, remake a larger item into a smaller accessory.”

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Retro-Active Fashion isn’t the only industry that sets trends.

Bavaro Hair Spa in Libertyville recently introduced its fall hair fashion for 2015.

Gino Bavaro, owner, says the beauty and sophistication of the Indian Motorcycle inspired his fall fashion vision. The dealership also is in Libertyville.

“We as hairdressers are always looking for something a little more edgy, more youthful, more today,” he says.

change of the season. To combine the textures and multiple hues, he uses the cushion color process, an advanced technique that produces a very feminine and refined look.

To augment the models’ retro looks, Kathy Brown of Amazing Cosmetics in Libertyville says she did a stronger eye and lip for a romantic effect, and soft colors on the models’ eyes and faces for elegance.

A short hairstyle, but a little bit longer and fuller than the tight summer short cuts to offset the heavier clothing and full lines of the fall season, also is popular, Bavaro says. A solid black with a touch of chestnut will complement certain skin tones and blend with fall’s canvas of hues.

She used a gel liner on the contour of the eyes to give better lash lines and applied red for rich lips, Brown says.

The sleeveless leather vest and leather look shorts make for a glamorous expression of class and style.

“The past brings us to today, but we have to have a vision with the new modern technology, the colors and design.”

Even the motorcycle is retro.

According to the Indian Motorcycle spokeman, the bike is an Indian Chief Vintage.

“It’s an iconic motorcycle that takes you back to the mid-1940s,” he says. The bike features the Indian headdress with an LED display, and fringed leather bags — a look that has been associated with Indian products for many years.

His styles feature cuts inspired by the golden age of the Indian Motorcycle, the 1930s and 1940s, he says.

“This is a very classy 1940s look, with more of a today feeling,” says Bavaro of the long hairstyle, which features waves around the face and below the shoulder for an abstract aspect.

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Bavaro believes the Indian Motorcycle embodies the class and taste of a cultured lifestyle. The beauty of the bikes and the lifestyle that goes with them inspired his fashion sense.

From left are Nick Bavaro, model Caroline Foreman, Gino Bavaro, model Jeseinia Parker and Cesar Bavaro.

Photos by Michael Delott Photography.

Photos taken at Indian Motorcycle of Libertyville. fashion

He says his hairstyles are designed to fit the busy schedules of women. They can last from a morning at the fitness club, followed by a day at the office and then later, dinner engagements.

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Reading For Relief Working in oncology makes me keenly aware of the freeing impact of reading. After a long day’s work, I am transported to worlds of imaginative fictions and fashionable realities through language and pictures in print.

having difficulty finding this quiet for yourself, make sure to take a trip to Lake Michigan. Nothing beats the waves before the ice.

Reading is a break from the chirps of text messages, from the glaring light of a computer screen. My nightstand usually has a After Susan Cain published her book, “Quiet: The Power collection of library books, new paperbacks that are book-clubof Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking in 2013,” ready, and one or two coffee table books with brief dialogue articles burst forth with suggestions on how we could find time to remove ourselves from daily noise. In autumn, the kids and romantic photos.

Here is a selection of treats I’ve read in the last month and go back to school, there are fewer people out and about. The shuffle of barbeques and pool trips are quieted. If you are still really enjoyed:

Audrey at Home: Memories of My Mother’s Kitchen

by Luca Dotti

Every year, some college girls flock to local art stores to find the iconic “Breakfast at Tiffany’s” movie poster to adorn their walls as a reminder of grace, beauty, and whimsy. Ms.

The Boston Girl

by Anita Diamant (paperback out Nov. 5) Addie Baum is the 85-year-old narrator, writing about her life as a young girl, and then a young woman, in the 1910s through 1920s. She tells her life story, from living in tenement housing and struggling to make ends meet with her immediate family, to her young 16 | OCTOBER 2015 | LAKE COUNTY MAGAZINE

Hepburn, instead, graced my bookshelves in college.

Ms. Hepburn was, and is, known to Americans as a face of global wisdom and beauty. In this cookbook/memoir, her son remembers a woman of both freedom and restriction — eating pasta as often as possible, but in moderate portions.

I remember driving with my parents down Route 120 in Lakemoor and seeing the restaurant Le Vichyssois (and hopelessly trying to imitate a French accent while adulthood where she struggled to fit in with society’s expectations for women, and finally to reaching a point of satisfaction with growth in her relationships and her career.

Her audience? Addie’s 22-year-old granddaughter, reading this from the 1980s.

Her conversational tone brings a delightful mix of history and humor. It was as if I were reading a diary of one of my grandmothers or one of my mentors, who decided to write it with lessons in mind.

What Diamant has done is not just told us one woman’s story in changing times.

She has created a conversation piece unlike home & lifestyle

pronouncing it). Always wondering what this word meant, I stumbled upon a Vichyssoise recipe that was one of Ms. Hepburn’s favorites. Sure enough, it is one of my favorites, too — potato leek soup.

Mystery solved!

Cookbook lovers will enjoy the ease of the recipes, alongside photo collages and recipes with Ms. Hepburn’s notes in the margins. A perfect fit for anyone who loves film history and, of course, long-time Audrey Hepburn fans. any other, so that we may feel free to spark inquisitive conversations with the women in our own families.* This story reminded me of the old adage, “Life is like a cup of tea … it’s all about how you make it.”

*Are you interested in documenting your life story, or the story of someone in your family? Check out StoryCorps, a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing the tools and inspiration for people around the world to preserve their personal histories. Learn more at StoryCorps.org.

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Stella Bain

by Anita Shreve Stella Bain is an American woman suffering from shell shock and amnesia in the midst of World War I, who seeks both shelter and counsel from an English doctor and his wife. Stella must work backward to find out who she is, where she is from, and what trauma triggered her sudden memory loss.

Shreve does an excellent job of weaving dialogue appropriate for the WWI setting of this novel, along with contemporary details that don’t feel too dense to read. It is a book with heavy subjects, but with light enough narration to be a page-turner.

What I really enjoyed about the character of Stella Bain is that she is truly unique. Every time I tried to think of who might play Stella in a movie, I continued to come up blank. At a time when our bookstores are filled with “whodunit” mysteries, it was fun to read about a character for whom her identity is the true mystery.

Book Nook

with Sandra Manley

Sandra Manley, LSW, grew up in Island Lake, IL. She is an Oncology Social Worker at the Robert H. Lurie Comprehensive Cancer Center, specializing in Adolescent and Young Adult Oncology and Solid Tumors.

In her spare time she can be found roasting vegetables in her oven, enjoying a very dark cup of coffee, and of course, reading. You can follow what she is reading on Goodreads: Goodreads.com/SandraReadsMSW.

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Finishing Touches For Fall

By ALLISON HORNE

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all is here, and instead of leaving the autumn colors and atmosphere outside, bring the beauty in with trendy seasonal decorations.

INTERIOR DÉCOR From colors and plants to traditional fall décor, there is plenty that homeowners can do to bring the outdoors in.

“Fall is when we start cozying up, and plaid, blue and red are really in this fall,” says Victoria Lidstrom, co-owner at Leggy Bird Designs in Libertyville. “You can soften any color with a pattern like plaid

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and it adds a lot of layering and interest.”

one-of-a-kind items.”

Since summer didn’t warm up as much as usual in the Chicagoland area, Lidstrom says the trend this fall is to keep things light and fresh in order to help keep the summer vibes around as long as possible.

Although typical fall colors usually range in the orange spectrum, Eclectic Design Source’s assistant designer and visual manager, Mary Rosemeyer, notes that some new colors are in this year.

“We’re seeing a lot more color in rooms,” Leggy Bird Designs co-owner Carol Carani says. “People are trying to look for more

“Navy is quickly becoming the new gray and can be used in a similar way since it really is a neutral,” she says. “It looks great with accents of orange, coral, gold and really any metallic.”

Accessories are like jewelry in your room.

— Mary Rosemeyer, Eclectic Design Source assistant designer and visual manager home & lifestyle

Items around the house can be reused for the season, like plaid blankets, grandma’s old silver, and any odds and ends adorned with fresh flowers.

“Accessories are like jewelry in your room,” Rosemeyer says. “They go on last and can make or break your outfit.”

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Photos by Bill Oakley Shot at Pasquesi Home & Gardens in Lake Bluff and Mini Earth Greenhouses in Grayslake.

OUTDOORS While the outdoors don’t need much help decorating because of the beautiful oranges, yellows and reds on the trees, there are still a few ways to improve the view.

“It’s hard to beat Mother Nature,” Rosemeyer says. “Our clients love when we change out their summer planters and use cool-weather plants like grass, kale, cabbage, mums — the usual suspects.”

“Grasses are really big this year,” Lidstrom says. “It’s so easy to find great grasses at the farmer’s market and for under $10. With a few pots, you add instant warmth and charm.”

Although they are annuals, for less than $30, homeowners can add an extra dimension to the front of the house.

“We’re literally using what you have around the house, whether it be a wheelbarrow, boot or old shoe,” Lidstrom says. “We’ve seen this more and more, especially with the economy being what it is.

It doesn’t hurt to go back and take a look at what you have.”

STORAGE TIPS Instead of making putting decorations away a chore, there are plenty of tips to make things simple.

Rosemeyer says that clear storage bins are the best way to keep things organized while not in use.

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Rosemeyer says. “It makes putting away everything from Halloween décor to seasonal pillows and throws so much easier.”

Rosemeyer also places sachels of spiced tea into the sealed containers to keep things smelling like new. That way, when fall rolls around again next year, your décor can be reused, and will be fresh and ready to be transformed for the latest autumn trends.

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A Perfect Fit

Post breast surgery undergarments are available for every woman

By YVONNE BENSON

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reast cancer touches the lives of many people. Outside of various walks and research endeavors, some details surrounding the disease are rather ambiguous.

For example, what options are available for women who have had a lumpectomy or mastectomy?

“Many women, post-surgery, have resigned themselves to being in unflattering undergarments, to not wearing the clothes they wore before and to being self conscious about how they look. This does not have to happen,” says Syndi Salat of Schwartz’s Intimate Apparel in Highland Park. She is a Medical Product Manager and Certified Fitter and Compression Specialist.

There are many garments designed for women who have had all types of breast surgeries, not just mastectomies, Salat says.

“Keep in mind that many women have breast asymmetry from congenital reasons, breast bud growth interruption due to an injury, post breast feeding and other reasons. These women also greatly benefit from the products [available] to restore their self-esteem and restore symmetry.”

Since much about underclothing is personal, psychological and intimate, many women want the undergarments to help them feel

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pretty and sexy. Sometimes the same women want practical function for strenuous activity such as exercising or doing yard work.

“We strive to provide the garment that each woman feels fits their lifestyle,” Salat says.

“Sport bras, lace bras, leisure bras, pocketed fashion camisoles and colors all let women who are post breast surgery feel feminine and restore self-esteem.

Women no longer need to worry about awkward hugging.

“All women need a bra wardrobe! I always say that there are 31 flavors of ice cream for a reason — everyone likes something different.”

Finding the right garment begins with a doctor before surgery. Doctors can advise about individual needs and then Salat can find an appropriate solution.

“Our post-surgical camisoles with drain holders are used by many [women] directly after surgery. Other [women] undergoing immediate reconstruction might need home & lifestyle

something different such as a front closure mild compression bra.”

A common misconception is that prostheses or inserts are awkward, heavy or uncomfortable. Salat refutes that.

“Technology for silicone breast forms and enhancers have come a long way,” she says.

“Back in the beginning, they were very, very heavy, very warm and definitely awkward.

The color was sprayed on the forms and sometime peeled off.”

According to Salat, the newer forms are made of whipped silicone for reduced weight with the color blended in. The polyurethane coating is soft, unlike the plastic feel of yesteryear.

“There are breast forms with new silicone polymer technology that allow the forms to adhere to the chest wall or existing breast tissue without adhesive. And the newest technology is the ability to scan and create a custom breast form to fit into any convolutions in the chest wall. This is done with 3D CAD engineering and is a very cool process,” Salat says.

Women no longer need to worry about awkward hugging, Salat says.

“The companies that we carry invest a great deal of time and money to make the forms more natural. Great-fitting bras and being fitted correctly are the other pieces to the puzzle. You can have the best breast form ever, but if it is the wrong size or the bra misfits, the client will never be comfortable.” l a k e c o u n t y j o u r n a l . c o m /m a g a z i n e

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Instant Karma I Explaining what comes around, goes around to kids

field a lot of interesting questions from the kids on a daily basis. Recently, my son Colin asked me what “karma” meant. Initially, he made a reference to something you put on ice cream, so I had to do a little Q&A of my own to figure out what he was really asking about. In retrospect, I kind of wish he was referring to “caramel,” but alas, a philosophical discussion with my 8- and 6-year olds ensued.

As Christians, we technically do not believe in the literal definition of “karma” that states, “In Hinduism and Buddhism, the sum of a person’s actions in this and previous states of existence, viewed as deciding their fate in future existences.” Since Christians in general don’t believe in reincarnation, it kind of blows this whole theory out of the water. For me, however, I have to admit I’m a little skeptical.

I’ve had several conversations with Colin that led me to believe he was here before. Plus, there’s that Facebook quiz that told me I was the captain of a pirate ship in a former life, so it must be true.

While my Catholic upbringing didn’t include lessons on “The Universe,” I personally take a more spiritual approach to our place in this world.

Perhaps it was that philosophy class I took in high school or my Buddhist phase in college; I like to think we are all connected somehow.

I decided to focus on the more informal definition, “Destiny or fate, following as effect from cause.”

I thought it would be more digestible to focus on this life than get all Shirley MacLaine on them and talk about past lives.

We were heading to Lake Geneva to meet some

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friends for one last beach day before school started. I tried to explain the concept of “The Universe,” and how if you do something bad, the universe might repay those actions with something bad happening to you. The kids still looked puzzled. It was time for one of my famous analogies.

OK, the universe is like Santa Claus. When you do good things, you go on the universe’s proverbial “good list,” and when you do naughty things, you end up on its “naughty list.” Karma is the “gift” you get as a result of your behavior. Santa/the universe might give you a gift if you are good or coal if you were bad. Make sense?

The universe is like Santa Claus. When you do good things, you go on the universe’s “good list,” and when you do naughty things, you end up on its “naughty list.” Karma is the “gift” you get as a result of your behavior.

standing on the side of the road.

I made my way to the nearest service station while the kids kept asking me why we were delaying our trip to the beach for someone we didn’t even know. I tried to explain that it was, quite simply, because someone needed our help.

Within a half-hour, we were back with a gallon of gas and got his car started. I instructed him to get some more gas in his tank and then head home. He reached in his wallet and gave me more money. I refused it, but he insisted I take the kids for ice cream. I told him the lesson that he was allowing me to teach my children was payment enough, but he shoved the six dollars in my hand anyway.

I’m not sure if the six dollars was the “payback” for our good deed, but the kids thought ice cream was perfect reparation for Colin piped up and mentioned a friend of his who sacrificing beach had been mean to him one day at the pool who just time. I explained broke his arm. “Maybe that happened because he that we might be was mean to me?” My response: “Or, maybe he in a situation where pushed you at the pool as payback for something we need help some day and hopefully mean you did?” I could see his face wrinkle in the someone will help rearview mirror. “It works both ways.” us out.

A little further down the road I noticed an elderly At the end of the man standing next to his car on the shoulder. I day, I believe in pulled over to see if he was all right. (I don’t typically do this, but he looked far from threatening acts of kindness, whether I am — he had a bandage on his arm and a cane.) rewarded for He told me he had run out of gas so I told him to them or not. I sit tight and I would be right back with some. He just feel better stopped me and began to reach in his pocket for when I lay my his wallet. I told him not to worry about it, but he head down on my insisted and gave me five dollars. I took it and told pillow at night knowing that I am him he should stay in his car so he wouldn’t get hit at peace with my place in this great big world. family in focus

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of WOMEN distinction

2015 In 2013, Shaw Media and Lake County Magazine began a tradition of honoring those women who have given their time and talents to make their communities better places to live and lead by example.

We continue that tradition this month by honoring 10 of the county’s most remarkable women. They were nominated by community leaders, local business professionals and our own readership.

We introduce our honorees here and, in each month that follows, tell the complete story of one of these outstanding residents.

The 2015 Lake County Magazine Women of Distinction are, from left, Susan McConnell, Judy Kotsiopoulos, Mary Miske, Kim Kiesgen, Chrissie Newton Mena, Tara Devine, Dyllis Braithwaite, Gale Cohen-DeMarco and Claudia Freeman. Not pictured is Nicole Martin.

GALE COHEN-DeMARCO Lake Barrington

DYLLIS BRAITHWAITE Barrington

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hen it comes to fashion, Dyllis Braithwaite is the name to know in Barrington and beyond. The longtime owner of Finn’s Fabrics by Dyllis, she provided thousands of customers with the material for their creations. Braithwaite had a couturier dressmaker on staff and together they would assist clients in designing and creating custom dresses.

An accomplished dressmaker, Braithwaite’s passion for fashion and her beautiful designs prompted her to author two books documenting her creations in which the octogenarian models her own pieces.

Additionally Braithwaite is known for her community service and was a founding member of the team that developed Family Service of Lake County through the Barrington United Methodist Church.

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By Melissa Rubalcaba Riske Photos by Joe Shuman

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ale Cohen-DeMarco is an exceptional business leader and community advocate.

She and her husband are franchise owners of four Sport Clips, combining their talents and strengths to build the businesses and making a point to give back to the community, supporting programs and events.

Her energy and enthusiasm make her a valued member of the local organizations she serves. She is an active member of four area Chambers of Commerce and a current board of director for the Lake Zurich Chamber of Commerce. She has worked on behalf of the Caring Women’s Connection of Hawthorn Woods.

She is a hard worker and dedicated member of the business community and beyond.

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CLAUDIA FREEMAN Waukegan

TARA DEVINE Libertyville

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s a trial lawyer, Tara Devine spends her days fighting for justice for her clients, which includes families and children. She is the first female partner with her firm Salvi, Schostok & Pritchard P.C. in Waukegan. She has been recognized for her work in the courtroom and as a top attorney in the state. She makes a point to serve in several legal associations including the Lake County Bar Association’s Diversity committee.

She grew up in Libertyville and has returned to the community to set down roots with her husband and their two young children.

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n her role as superintendent of Cultural Arts for the Waukegan Park District Claudia Freeman ensures residents young and old are able to play, have fun and enjoy the beauty of art and culture at the same time.

Her leadership has garnered awards for the park district, and provided new opportunities for residents of all ages. Programs like Summer H.E.A.T. drew crowds to neighborhood parks as families enjoyed topics on history, earth, arts and tales.

In addition to actively promoting the arts Freeman volunteers in the community, serving as a liaison to the Waukegan Historical Society and the Waukegan Citizens’ Advisory Group.

KIMBER “KIM” KIESGEN Fox Lake Grant Township Highway

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s a lifelong resident of Fox Lake, there’s no doubt Kimber “Kim” Kiesgen knows the community well.

She’s a hard worker, spending more than 30 years with the Grant Township Highway Department. She is dedicated to maintaining high quality roads, and she ensures her department is ready to handle emergency situations. On most days she can be found out and about with her canine companion, Kanata, at her side.

Always looking for a solution to help others, 12 years ago she was elected as a Grant Township Highway Commissioner.

JUDY KOTSIOPOULOS Lake Forest Community Volunteer

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udy Kotsiopoulos uses the power of her time as well as her talent and resources to serve all residents of Lake County. She is an active member of the United Way of Lake County, where she works with civic leaders and community partners.

She is a dedicated member of the Women’s Leadership Council, which serves children throughout Lake County. She has coordinated Power of the Purse, the council’s signature fundraiser, aimed at supporting early childhood education and literacy programs.

Whether she is helping support children in need, fundraising for Canine Companions for Independence or volunteering through PADS, Kotsiopoulos makes time to serve others and make her community stronger through her commitments.

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NICOLE MARTIN Libertyville HRBoost, LLC

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icole Martin is an author, speaker and a leader in the human resources field. She is the founder of HRBoost, LLC., working with a broad range of businesses to build a competitive advantage and understand the employee value proposition.

She is an engaging speaker and author in her field.

She has worked in the public, private and nonprofit companies, enabling her to understand business through different work environments. Additionally she provides training and retreats to help businesses strengthen their leadership and provide employee enrichment.

SUSAN McCONNELL Barrington

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n 2014 Susan McConnell established the nonprofit Let it Be Us, dedicated to the advocacy and adoption of children within the Illinois foster care system. McConnell serves as executive director of the unique organization. She has four children, three of whom are adopted.

There are more than 3,000 children in the state foster system awaiting adoption and Let it Be Us connects potential foster and adoptive parents with programming and educational opportunities. The organization also serves as a voice of the children and families.

Outside of work she is a professional photographer, using her lens to capture outstanding images and volunteering with other organizations through exhibits and fundraisers.

CHRISSIE NEWTON MENA Tower Lakes Living60010.com

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hrissie Newton Mena is the co-founder and president of Living 60010.com, a website providing an online resource for what’s happening in the Barrington area. Launched in 2014 the hyper-local website quickly became a go-to resource for events, news and much more. The Barrington resident enjoys writing stories and producing content for the rapidly growing website.

Newton Mena is also an active volunteer in the community. She is president of the Barrington Area United Way Board of Directors, a former president of Barrington Junior Women’s Club, is active with the Barrington Noon Rotary, and a part of the leadership board for WINGS.

MARY MISKE Lake Zurich

Miske Communications, Inc.

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ary Miske is president of Miske Communications, Inc., an event marketing company that has worked with some of the top global companies. The Lake Zurich resident has built her business by providing outstanding service and proven results for her clients.

Her work has provided opportunities to share her knowledge as a guest speaker and through published articles as well.

In addition to her company she makes time to volunteer in the Lake County community and has served as a board member for Residents for an Engaged Community, the Make a Wish Foundation and as an instructor and career coach for the St. Francis Employment Ministry.

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OCTOBER events in LAKE County October 2 - 31: Carnival of Chaos Haunted House at Barefoot Bay, 7 p.m. - 10 p.m., Barefoot Bay Family Aquatic Center, 1461 N. Midlothian Road, Mundelein There is a new carnival in town with a demented ring leader and twisted performers sure to scare.

Recommended for ages 14 and up. Tickets are $10 each. Fridays and Saturdays only. Visit MundeleinParks. org for details.

October 10: Fox Lake Harvest Wine Walk, 1 p.m. 4:30 p.m, Grand Avenue, Downtown Fox Lake Enjoy a stroll through downtown and sample a variety of wines. Appetizers, raffles and giveaways will also be available. Tickets are $39 and include a complimentary bottle of wine or beer and souvenir wine glass. Limited number of tickets will be sold. Call 847-587-7474 to purchase tickets and for more information.

October 10: Great Lakes Naval Cemetery Tour, 2 p.m., Great Lakes Naval Museum, Building 42, 610

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Farragut Ave., Great Lakes Experience the history of the base through one of the Navy’s most private cemeteries. Tour is about 1 1/2 hours. Advance registration required. Call 847-688-3154 or email glnm@navy.mil.

film, dance, theater, comedy, music, food and more throughout 20 venues. Free admission to each site. ArtWauk.com for more information.

October 10: Grandwood Park’s Octoberfest, 5 p.m.

- 11 p.m., Grandwood Park Ball Field, 36753 N. Hutchins Road, Gurnee Includes refreshments and food for purchase, DJ/ karaoke, fireworks and bonfire. Visit GrandwoodPark.net for more details.

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October 18: Jenny McCarthy’s Dirty Sexy Funny, 7 p.m., Genesee Theatre, 203 N, Genesee St., Waukegan October 10: Ghost Stories and Haunted Trail, 5 This show features McCarthy and four female comedians p.m., Volo Bog State Natural Area, 28478 W. Brandenburg who shed light on the funny, outrageous and sometimes Road, Ingleside embarrassing female facts of life. Tickets start at $33.

GeneseeTheatre.org for tickets and more details.

Features a haunted trail, guided bog tours and hairraising stories performed by Mike Speller. Donuts, apple October 19: Moon over Antioch, 7 p.m. - 9 p.m., cider, taffy apples and hot cocoa for sale. Appropriate Antioch Public Library District, 757 N. Main St., Antioch for children 5 and older. Admission is $5 for adults and Join the Lake County Astronomical Society to view the $3 for children. Space is limited; advance registration moon and more in the night sky. Powerful telescopes required. Call 815-344-1294 to register and for more will be available. Free event and no registration required. information.

Weather permitting. Go to lcas-astronomy.org for more

October 17: Lindenhurst’s Haunted Trail and Bonfire, 3 p.m. - 9 p.m, Forest View Park, 513 Forest View Drive, Lindenhurst Includes wagon rides, costume contest, kids’ activities, haunted trail, bonfire, performance of Shrek the Musical and more. Admission is $1 or canned food item for wagon rides and haunted trail. For complete details and times, visit LindenhurstParks.org.

October 23 - 24: Ryerson Woods’ Halloween Hikes, 6 p.m. - 8 p.m., Ryerson Woods Forest Preserve, 21950, N. Riverwoods Road, Riverwoods Enjoy a guided walk along a candlelit trail. Includes stops for nature-themes, skits and cider and doughnuts at the end. 90 minutes/1.5 miles. Appropriate for the entire family. $9 for residents and $11 for non-residents. Hikes start every 30 minutes. For more information, visit LCFPD.org.

October 26, Lincolnshire’s Annual Boo Bash, 4 p.m. - 9 p.m., North Park, Corner of Riverwoods and Everett, Lincolnshire This fun safe event includes a costume contest, hayrides, October 17: ArtWauk, 5 p.m. - 10 p.m., Genesee Street, pumpkin decorating, scary storyteller, Trail of Terrors and more. $5 entrance fee, cash only please. For complete Waukegan schedule, check out LincolnshireCommunity.org.

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