WELCOME TO KENELM 2025
Welcome to Kenelm
We are absolutely delighted to have you join our community. From the moment you arrive, you will be greeted with warmth and kindness by both the staff and the other girls, and I’m confident that Kenelm will quickly become your home away from home. This handbook is designed to provide you with helpful information about the House and the wider School, answering questions and offering reassurance as you prepare to join us in September.
As one of the smaller houses at Sherborne Girls, Kenelm is a closeknit community where we take great pride in ensuring that every individual feels supported, valued, and heard. Your wellbeing is our top priority, and we are committed to creating an environment where you can thrive both academically and personally. We are fortunate to have a wonderful team of resident staff and matrons, readily available and happy to have a chat whenever you need support.
As you begin your journey at SG, I encourage you to embrace the myriad of opportunities available to
you. We have a huge range of cocurricular activities, where you can nurture existing talents, discover new passions, or simply have fun; there’s something for everyone. You’ll also have many chances to represent Kenelm, whether on the stage, in the classroom or the sports field. We enjoy healthy competition at interhouse event, so wear your red with pride!
We’re here to help you become the very best version of yourself, to celebrate your successes and guide you through the more challenging moments. I hope that during your time in Kenelm you will feel comfortable, confident, and encouraged to take risks and make mistakes—because it’s in those moments that the most meaningful growth happens.
We look forward to seeing all that you will achieve!
With best wishes
Sian Evans Housemistress
Important contact details
House
Mrs Evans (Housemistress)
s.evans@sherborne.com
House email: kenelm@sherborne.com
House landline: 01935 818233
House mobile: 07711 002935
School
Ms Leonie Cole
Designated Safeguarding Lead 01935 818305 / 07581 047402
l.cole@sherborne.com
Please add these details to your phone. It is important that you can get in touch with the House at all times. The House phone is answered by the Matron during the day, and the Tutor on duty in the evening.
House family
In Kenelm we place being a family at the very heart of everything we do. Everyone in House looks out for each other. Older girls are always available and more than willing to support younger girls in the House. We eat every meal together and twice a week in family groups, which change on a half-termly basis. These are made up of a group of seven or eight girls from various year groups. The idea is that you get to know all the other girls in the House really well over the course of the year and become a tight-knit support unit for each other.
Kenelm is your House, and we value enormously your opinion and views on how we function and remain the brilliant home-fromhome we are. When we have House meetings, ‘families’ offer everyone the opportunity to feed back their opinions. We can then use these views to change or improve things in Kenelm meaning that systems are fair and work for everyone.
You will be informed of your family group at the beginning of the Michaelmas term and they are also displayed in the dining room.
The House staff
There are several members of staff in House. From our matrons to resident staff, the duty tutors to the Assistant House Parent. You will get to know us all very well.
The HM is supported by a residential Assistant who runs the Boarding House during the HM’s time off in the week. The wider House pastoral team includes day Matrons who are in the House from 8.00am-6.15pm and a team of residential staff who perform evening and weekend duties. All the pastoral staff work tirelessly to support the girls in making the House feel like a home-fromhome and they are all looking forward to meeting you in September.
The Matrons’ job is to look after the practical aspects of you living here. For example, they will make you appointments at the Health Centre. They organise train tickets and taxis when you need them and liaise with your parents about your travel arrangements for exeats and the end of term. Matrons also check that your rooms are tidy and will help you with laundry if need be.
Everyone is allocated a Tutor. Your Tutor will see you once a week and can come into the Boarding House and have lunch with you. They will help you organise your school work and answer any academic queries.
They meet regularly with the HM to discuss your performance and progress.
However, you can make things a little easier for yourself if you follow the tips below:
• Make sure you are not on your own. If you are feeling sad, then you are just going to make things worse if you isolate yourself
• You will not be the only person struggling – lots of other girls will be, too. Look at the other girls around you and think, ‘If they can do it, then so can I’
• Remember: you will get over your homesickness in no time at all
• Try not to make contact with home unless you feel strong enough to handle it. Hearing Mum or Dad’s voice may set you off, so don’t phone unless you feel up to it
• Don’t phone home just before bedtime. It’s the worst time of day to speak to parents, as you are likely to be feeling most wobbly at bedtime
• When you do speak to your parents at home, talk about everything you have been doing. Avoid talking about how you are feeling, as this is likely to make you feel more emotional
• Don’t encourage your parents to ‘pop in’ to see you. It just makes it harder in the long run
• Don’t encourage your parents to keep texting you to ask how you are. Again, it just reminds you that you aren’t at home, and this may upset you
• Come and get a hug from one of the members of staff on duty
• Keep yourself busy – don’t give yourself time to think about missing home
Who can I talk to?
AROUND THE CLOCK SUPPORT
Everybody has worries or problems at some time in their lives. Although there may be times when you do not want to talk about worries, it is usually sensible and helpful to talk to someone else about them and to try to help sort them out. You could talk to one of the other girls in your year group or the older girls in House – your Head of House or a Prefect. However, there are occasions when an adult may be a more appropriate person to talk to and there are a very large number to choose from at school, as well as your parents and relations.
All members of staff would be pleased to talk to you and try to help. This includes Dr Sullivan and Mrs Briggs. If you need to see the Head quickly, see her Executive Assistant. They will listen to you in confidence, but there may be times when they have to tell someone what you have told them, if they think you or others are at serious risk of harm.
Doctors
Dr Charlie Middle | Dr Katie Thomas
Independent Listener
Mrs Ann Simon | 07890 549135
Mrs Isabel Burke | 07989 527888
Nurses
health@sherborne.com | 07977 469663
Chaplain
Revd. Katie Windle chaplain@sherborne.com
Safeguarding Leads
Lead: Ms Cole | 01935 818305 / 07581 047402 l.cole@sherborne.com
Deputies: Mrs Miller | Mr McClary | Dr Stone
Mrs Beard | Mrs Briggs | Mrs Dart (Oxley)
LGBTQ+
Miss Brown (r.brown@sherborne.com)
Mr Greed (g.greed@sherborne.com)
Mr McClary (i.mcclary@sherborne.com)
Counsellors
Mrs Heddy Smith
07970 843359 | h.smith@sherborne.com
Ms Lauenna Luddington | Mrs Veronica Rosello
Children’s Commissioner for England 020 7783 8330
www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk
Learning Support l.nurse@sherborne.com
Samaritans
116 123 | jo@samaritans.org
Tootoot
Meals
All meals in House are compulsory. We always take a register, and we use this as a roll call. Please be prompt to mealtimes. If you have specific dietary requirements, please let the House staff know as soon as possible, so that arrangements can be made with our Chef.
Mealtimes are as follows:
Breakfast
Monday – Friday 7.30am/7.45am
Saturday – 7.30am
Sunday – 9.30am (if there is a morning service) or
Sunday – 11.00am brunch (if there is an evening service)
Lunch
Monday – Friday 1.00pm
Saturday – A rolling lunch to make sure you can eat before or after your sport
Sunday – A rolling brunch served between 9.30 – 11.00am
Light lunch at 1.00pm
Supper
Monday – Friday 6.15pm
Saturday 6.00pm
Sunday 6.00pm (unless there is an evening Abbey Service, in which case it is at 5.30pm)
When arriving for meals, please queue up in the corridor until the member of staff on duty says you can come through. You must wear something on your feet and your hair must be tied back. At breakfast and supper, girls tend to sit with their year groups. Supper times (and all meals on Sundays) tend to be very relaxed – PJs are perfectly acceptable!
On Mondays you will sit in family groups across the year groups so you get to know the whole House really quickly. You must wait until everyone has finished eating their main course on your table before you are dismissed to clear your plates.
Please remember table manners in the dining room. For example, no elbows on tables, don’t talk with your mouth full, etc.
If your Tutor is in for lunch, remember to be a good host: please chat to them – they have made an effort to come and spend lunch with you.
The dining room is a mobile-free zone. Please do not take your phone out in the dining room –expect it to be confiscated if it is seen!
Takeaways
You may order takeaways on Saturday evenings. However, you need to get permission from the member of staff on duty beforehand. You must also wait downstairs so that you can watch for the delivery driver and your takeaway must arrive before 9.00pm.
House routines
Signing in and out
If you are in L5 – U5, there is no need to sign in and out during the day as you are all out of the House at lessons. If you do return to House, for whatever reason, you must inform Matron. If you leave site, you need to seek permission from a member of House staff and sign out.
L6 are permitted to work in House at certain times of the day and must sign in and out to ensure that Matron knows who is in the House and fire regulations are adhered to.
After 5.00pm (end of the school day) and at weekends, everyone must sign in and out of the House, using the signing out book. Before leaving the school site you always need to seek permission from a member of House staff. It is vital that we have an accurate picture of who is in the House at all times; this helps us to keep you safe. We can show you exactly how the
signing in and out system works once you have joined the House.
House meetings
These are either House briefings in the mornings, as previously mentioned, House prayers for the whole House in the common room, or year group meetings.
House duties
All girls in the House are expected, just as they would at home, to contribute to helping keep the House tidy and a pleasant place to be. We believe in everyone ‘doing their bit’, from cleaning tables after supper to bringing mugs down from upstairs.
Different year groups will have different levels of responsibility. The L6, as leaders of the House, take responsibility for supporting the younger pupils during supervised prep, collecting devices at bedtime and wishing the girls goodnight.
In addition to this our House Prefects are responsible for a number of different areas, including House Spirit, Wellbeing, Sport, Music and Food (to name but a few!) and lead important initiatives in these areas.
Daily routines
8.00am Medication is given out by Matron
8.10-8.25am Monday: Assembly Wednesday: Prayers Friday: Hymn Practice
8.30-9.15am Period 1
9.20-10.05am Period 2
10.10-10.55am Period 3
10.55-11.25am Break – in House *
11.25-12.10pm Period 4
12.15-1.00pm Period 5
1.00-1.45pm Lunch – in House
1.45pm Activities or Period 6 (for some pupils)
2.35-3.20pm Period 7
3.25-4.10pm Period 8
4.15-5.00pm Period 9
5.10-6.10pm Activities / free time
6.15-7.00pm Supper and Roll Call – in House
7.00-8.45pm Prep – in House (varies for each year group): L5 work the dining room
9.30-10.00pm Bedtime (varies for each year group)
*There are only three lessons on a Saturday.
Prep and evening routines
L5
7.00-8.00pm Prep
8.30-8.45pm Free time
8.45pm Hand in tech
8.45-9.15pm House meeting/downtime/Pantry
9.15-9.30pm Side lights/reading
9.30pm Lights out
M5
7.00-8.30pm Prep
8.30-8.45pm Free time
8.45-9.15pm House meeting/downtime/Pantry
9.00pm Hand in tech
9.30pm Side lights/reading
9.45pm Lights out
U5
7.00-8.30pm Prep
8.30-8.45pm Free time
8.45-9.15pm House meeting/downtime/Pantry
9.15pm Hand in tech
9.45pm Side lights/reading
10.00pm Lights out
L6
7.00-8.45pm Prep
8.45-9.30pm House meeting/downtime/Pantry
9.30pm Hand in tech
10.00pm Side lights/reading
10.15pm Lights out
Going out and welcoming visitors to the House
Going out
After lessons you are allowed to go to Morrisons (only girls in East can additionally go to the Co-op). You must sign in and out and you must be back in House by 6.15pm, ready for supper. You must either be in full uniform or in smart casual clothes (check the dress code for more details on this). You should never be ‘partly’ in uniform, by mixing it with your casual clothes.
L5 and M5 are allowed into town on Saturday afternoons after either match commitments or Saturday Sport, and on Sundays when other commitments allow.
U5 and L6 can go into town after lessons. Again, you must be back in House by 6.15pm.
Going outside Sherborne M5 upwards may go to Yeovil at the weekend but permission must be sought from the HM or the member of staff on duty. A taxi must be ordered by the person on duty and you must be in a group of at least three (L6 can go in pairs).
L6 can go to Bath, Salisbury or Bristol but this must be organised with the HM.
If it is your birthday or a special occasion, your parents may take you out for supper. However, unless this is a weekend, you may not invite any friends. This is because going out midweek is disruptive to prep routines. This is a School rule (not just a House rule). If you would like to celebrate your birthday with friends, it is best to wait until Saturday evening or Sunday lunch.
L6 can go out to a restaurant for supper on Saturday or lunch on Sunday in groups of no more than six. This also needs to be arranged in advance with the HM.
Please be aware that even if you do not have a match on a Saturday and you are in L5 or M5, you still have a commitment to Saturday Sport and so you are not available to meet with parents until after this time.
Your behaviour and dress when out and about must be exemplary, as you are representing the School. Please create a good impression. The School boundaries are published on the House noticeboards: you must be aware of where you are and are not allowed to go.
Exeats/weekends out
There are usually two exeats every term normally from Friday lunchtime to Sunday evening. You may not leave School before this time.
All girls need to leave promptly for exeat, after which time the House will be locked up. It will not reopen again until 6.00pm on the Sunday evening, so please do not return before this time as you will not be able to get in. However, if you do need to arrive back to School earlier than 6.00pm, a selected House will be open and a Matron will be on duty there. All girls must return by 9.00pm after an exeat weekend. Pupils who require accommodation in School during exeats should ask House staff for further information
As a full boarding school the weekends are just as important and busy as the weekdays. All boarders remain in school at weekends and there is a wideranging activity programme on offer.
Queenie’s and The Coffee Pod
There is a café in the Upper Foyer of The Merritt Centre, called Queenie’s, which is open after lunch and after school. There is also a café in the reception of the Oxley Sports Centre called The Coffee Pod which you may use after school and at weekends. These are good places to meet up with your friends.
Visitors
Girls from other Houses and boys from Sherborne Boys are very welcome to visit us here in the House. There is a visitor signing-in book that everyone must sign. Please let the member of staff on duty know that a visitor has arrived. It is very important that they are introduced to the member of staff on duty. Boys are not allowed upstairs. You must stay in the drawing or dining rooms.
Family members are always welcome to the House, but nobody is allowed upstairs including parents (unless it is the start or end of term). If you have friends from outside the School visiting, please let the duty member of staff know when they arrive and introduce them.
Keeping personal items safe
All rooms are equipped with a lockable drawer or cupboard. You are advised to keep any precious items locked away. You will need to see Matron if you wish to have the key for your lockable drawer, and she will sign it out for you. Please be aware that you need to return the key at the end of term. If you lose it, you will be charged £15 for a replacement.
Money and passports
Passports must be handed in. If you require a Visa to study in England, your passport is kept locked in the House office. Anyone who has any cash is advised to hand this in to us for safekeeping. You may use us as a House bank, and sign out money as you wish to use it.
Day boarders House and School facilities
You have set nights that you stay and you need to let the HM or a Matron know which nights these are. You need to give 48 hours’ notice if you would like to stay on any other nights (or go home when you would normally sleep over).
Day Boarders and Day girls are expected to attend the School’s Abbey services which are important community events and happen approximately once a month.
Laundry
Each House has a laundry room with industrial washing machines and tumble dryers. Everyone can use these machines and must manage their own washing. They are automated and dispense detergent and fabric conditioner for you. To help you get into the routine of doing your own laundry in the first term you will get plenty of assistance from Matron, and anyone who needs to use specific washing powder for allergy reasons (or because you like the smell of ‘home washing’!) can use this as well.
If you do not name your clothes, they are likely to get lost or mixed up with someone else’s laundry and it can become difficult to identify whose washing is whose. If you buy new clothes during term, then borrow a Sharpie from Matron’s office and label them with it. It will save Matron a lot of time
trying to sort through unclaimed, unlabelled washing. Bedding and towels can be washed centrally each week if you wish. This washing is collected on Monday morning and is brought back to House on Thursday. Each House has a laundry cupboard where spare bedding is stored.
Hygiene
This is really important, especially living as communally as we do. Please make time to shower every day. Get yourself into a good routine. Use shower gel and deodorant. It is equally important that you wash your clothes regularly, as it is pointless washing your body and then putting dirty clothes back on. The sports tops get smelly really quickly, so you need to make sure you wash them regularly.
It is a good idea to organise your clothes in your room. A small ‘pop-up’ laundry basket is a really good idea. If you put dirty laundry into one of these, it is less likely to get muddled up with clean clothes. If you put your clothes away (instead of using your floor as a ‘floordrobe’), you will be able to separate clean from dirty clothes more easily.
School Shop
The School Shop is open 9.00am to 5.00pm Monday to Friday during term time (closed at 12.30 – 1.00pm for lunch).
Girls can visit the shop during break, lunch and after school but not during lesson time. Parents and staff can visit during the shop’s opening hours, all day. You will find school uniform in the shop, along with a range of stationery items, as well as toiletries and tuck. Your access card doubles as a shop card and is needed when you pop in to make purchases. Parents will have authorised a termly allowance for you which enables purchases to be made without using cash or debit cards. However, cash and debit cards are also accepted. You can also order items to be delivered to the House.
Uniform items to the value of £30 may be purchased when replacements are required. The shop staff will require parental permission for any item you wish to purchase above this amount. This can be shown as a text message, completion of a uniform chit signed by House Matron, or an email from parents to schoolshop@sherborne.com. Parents can also order uniform direct via phone, email or website.
Uniform expectations/dress
All girls are required to uphold the uniform expectations as listed in the School Dress Code at all times during the school day, including time spent moving between lessons. When in academic lessons, Sixth Form pupils should wear their jackets at all times unless permission to remove them is requested and granted. Any pupils who have been given permission to visit Sherborne during lesson times should be in school uniform. School trips will require either full uniform (or suits for Sixth Form), or smart casual.
Appearance during lesson times (8.30am – 5.00pm)
You must look clean, neat and tidy at all times. Hair should be neatly tied back if it is below the shoulders and jewellery should be limited to one pair of stud earrings. Piercings halfway up the ears are not allowed, nor are nose piercings. Bracelets are not allowed and just one simple necklace is permitted.
Sherborne Girls terminology
Year-groups
L4 – Year 7
U4 – Year 8
L5 – Year 9
M5 – Year 10
U5 – Year 11
L6 – Year 12
U6 – Year 13
The Houses and their colours
Aldhelmsted East – Purple
Aldhelmsted West – Pink
Dun Holme – Light Blue
Kenelm – Red
Mulliner – Black
Reader Harris – Green
Wingfield Digby – Yellow
General
Ark – the Ark is a quiet space where the Chaplain is based. It is in the main School building and all pupils may use it as a space for quiet reflection
BLT – Beddington Lecture Theatre, a room in the Beddington Building
Cubie – Cubicle (bedroom)
Drawing Room – as well as the room itself, meetings that take place there are called ‘Drawing Rooms’
Exeat – when School closes for the weekend (usually from Friday lunchtime to Sunday evening)
Family dining – when year groups are mixed up to sit together for lunch
Granny Patch – The housing area opposite the pitches
Gransden Hall – The main hall inside The Merritt Centre
Hanford – Hanford Preparatory Girls’ School
Main School – The Main School building, containing the School Hall
The Merritt Centre – The Music School and the Wirth Gallery
Morrisons – A shop in the BP Garage
Oxley – The Oxley Sports Centre and Coffee Pod Café
Pantry/Supper Trolley – snacks after prep
Prep – Homework (also the name given to study periods during the School day)
Prayers – Services that take place in the School Hall or Gransden Hall before school on certain days
Queenie’s – The café in The Merritt Centre
Socials – Saturday night social events
SPS – Sherborne Prep School
SB – Sherborne Boys/The Boys’ School
SSG – Sherborne Schools Group
Devices Timetable 2025/26
• Phones should never be taken to lessons: phones visible in lessons or around site during the day will result in sanctions.
• Charging: phones and devices need to be charged in dorms during the day or during prep.
• Be prompt: devices which are late at hand-in result in a sanction.
L4/U4
L5 PHONES
L5 DEVICES
M5 PHONES
5.15 - 6.00pm 5.15 - 6.00pm 5.15 - 6.00pm 5.15 - 6.00pm 7.30 - 8.00pm 7.30 - 8.00pm 7.30 - 8.00pm 7.30 - 8.00pm
M5 DEVICES
U5 PHONES
U5 DEVICES
- FREE 5.00pm - 7.00pm 5.00pm - 7.00pm PHONE - FREE 8.00am - 8.45pm 8.00am - 8.45pm 8.00am - 8.45pm 8.00am - 8.45pm PHONE - FREE 5.00pm - 7.00pm 5.00pm - 7.00pm PHONE - FREE 8.00am - 9.00pm 8.00am - 9.00pm 8.00am - 9.00pm 8.00am - 9.00pm
L6 PHONES AND DEVICES
- FREE 5.00pm - 7.00pm 5.00pm - 7.00pm 5.00pm - 7.00pm 8.00am - 9.15pm 8.00am - 9.15pm 8.00am - 9.15pm 8.00am - 9.15pm 8.00am - 9.30pm 8.00am - 9.30pm 8.00am - 9.30pm 8.00am - 9.30pm Phones not Phones not Phones not Phones not around school/ around school/ around school/ around school/ in lessons in lessons in lessons in lessons
U6 PHONES AND DEVICES
U6 pupils should leave their phones in the Boarding House throughout the school day until 5.00pm. They are not permitted to bring phones to lessons, Prayers, Assembly, lectures or Abbey services. Pupils are supported in exercising self-discipline when using smartphones and devices so that these are used in a positive and productive manner.
Packing list
Please make sure all belongings are clearly and robustly named.
• School uniform and games kit, all details are listed online*
• One duvet
• Two duvet covers (sheets, pillows and pillowcases can be provided but please bring your own if you prefer). Where possible, please do not bring any plain white bedding as this can get mixed up easily, even if named.
• Two bath towels (with loops sewn in for hanging them up)
• Wash bag with toiletries (including brush, toothbrush and Nitty Gritty nit comb)
• Microwavable wheat bag
• Dressing gown/onesie
• Pair of slippers
• Trunk/suitcase
• Small rucksack for day trips/outings
• Laundry bag/box for storing dirty laundry, the pop-up kind works well
• Small mesh laundry bag (named, for smaller laundry items)
• Tuckbox (lockable and named) not to exceed 55cm x 40cm x 35cm
• Pair of wellingtons or walking boots
• Waterproof coat for trips
• Music case for girls who have additional Music lessons
• Casual clothes and shoes (all named please)
• Nightwear
• Underwear
• Swimming costume and goggles
• Coat hangers
• Hairdryer
• Batteries
• Toothbrush charger and adaptor (if required)
• Bits and bobs to decorate dorm: e.g. photos, posters, cushions, teddies, bunting, fairy lights (battery-operated only)
• A pencil case containing protractor, pair of compasses, green biro, purple brio, pencil, pen, easer, sharpener, glue stick, highlighter pens and 30cm clear ruler
• Alarm clock
• One set of slightly smarter home clothes suitable to wear for an evening with Dr Sullivan in White Lodge (skirt, dress, trousers and top)
• Windows 11 pen-enabled device, charger, headphones (clearly named)
• Mobile phone and charger (clearly named). These items are not compulsory.
Driving lessons
You may choose to take driving lessons in your Lower Sixth year. Please remember that your academic studies take priority and you are not allowed to miss school commitments for driving lessons. Driving lessons can be arranged during study periods, after school or during free time at the weekend.
The sourcing and arranging of driving lessons is a private arrangement between parents/guardians and the driving school. We recommend that parents ask driving schools about appropriate checks for their drivers, such as a DBS (Disclosure and Barring Service) check.
Once driving lessons have been arranged, please email kenelm@sherborne.com to provide: the name of the instructor, the name of the company and the instructor’s contact details and your parents’ permission. Matron keeps a record with the time and date of all driving lessons so that you can be signed out correctly. If your lesson time changes, please let matron know.
Pupils are not permitted to bring, or drive, their cars onto school site, or to drive themselves, or others, to and/or from school.
Key contacts
Head, Dr Ruth Sullivan: headspa@sherborne.com
Head’s EA, Jane Raven: headspa@sherborne.com 01935 818 203
Designated Safeguarding Lead, Leonie Cole: l.cole@sherborne.com
Senior Deputy, Jessica Briggs: SeniorDeputySG@sherborne.com
Deputy Head Academic, Dr Rebecca Stone: deputyacademic@sherborne.com
Health Centre: health@sherborne.com
School Shop: SchoolShop@sherborne.com
Caretaker (24 hours): 07881 580279
IT Support (Weekends): 07766 016150 (Sat 12.30 – 21.00; Sun 09.00-18.00)
House contact details:
Mrs Evans (Housemistress) s.evans@sherborne.com
01935 818233 | 07711 002935 kenelm@sherborne.com
School contact details: Bradford Road
Sherborne DT9 3QN 01935 812245
office@sherborne.com
www.sherborne.com
