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I am reminded of a song from the early 60’s by Sam Cooke. “Cupid” It’s about enlisting the help of cupid to pierce the heart of a girl he wanted so badly to love only him.

Cupid, draw back your bow And let your arrow go, straight to my lover’s heart for me….

Cupid with your arrow make her love strong for me, I promise I will love her until eternity…

Reflecting on this, I started to remember how painful heartache can be. Realizing further that the heartache we endure leads us closer to God, closer to DIVINE LOVE! I felt the heartache of a friend of mine this past week. She was suffering, not because she was at the side of her dying father, but because she was uncertain of where he would be spending eternity.

She ached for the love of her father’s soul. Wow! I was so moved by this, and so inspired by her love.

She called on her friends to ask that they pray for him to turn to God in his last moments of life; and to ask God to have mercy on him. Now, it’s important to know that this was a very kind, compassionate, gentle man all of his life. However, she knew her father could not wrap his heart around all the suffering in our world and could not understand how our God could allow it, and turned away from him because of it. So thankful she asked me to pray for her father. So glad we have a merciful God. Why suffering? Suffering can bring about a good. If God eliminated suffering, the corresponding good also would be eliminated. So suffering leads to charity (love), the unleashing of love in a human person, the unselfish gift of one’s self. Only when we are weak do many of us rely on God. We become humbled and small and recognize our need to trust God. Think about cupid’s arrow piercing the heart of the girl. The result is that her heartache led her towards the man that loved her. She drew near.

We saw Jesus suffer on the cross with a pierced heart. It was from his pierced heart and his suffering that we are given the opportunity of eternal life. His suffering brings us closer to Heaven. What power flows from the pierced heart! “Love is stronger than death” (Song 8.6) Love is stronger than death because love does not cease to give life even after death.

I pray you love your soul and the soul of others as God Loves It,

Mary Ellen Choose life!

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Cover Model Alanna, age 4 ½ Introducing Alanna R., 4 ½ years. She is a big sister to Aubrie, 2 years, and is excited to be expecting her little brother Cash this coming May. Her parents report that she is very talented and intelligent for her age; she tends to capture the attention of many with her cute smile, outgoing and friendly personality and beautiful red hair! She can turn anyone’s bad day into a good day. When she grows up she wants to be a cheerleader and can’t wait to attend Kindergarten this year. She will eat a turkey sandwich for lunch every day and never get sick of it.

This little red head enjoys going to the park, riding her bike, playing with dolls, dancing, coloring, singing, and last but not least, shopping.

Alanna has a keen taste for fashion and already has a collection of shoes and purses! “Our family has so much joy and love because of this unique little girl.” Reports her parents.

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Women’s Intuition: Choosing Good Dads A study conducted by UC Santa Barbara found that women could intuitively tell which men were more eager to be fathers by unconsciously picking up on physical cues. They were also more likely to categorize these men – based on physical appearance alone – as more attractive for long-term relationships. The study was inconclusive concerning which specific physical attributes ‘clued women in’ about the men’s interest in children, but the researchers noticed slightly rounder faces and less angular features in these particular men.

Fluoride provides health benefits throughout a person’s life, especially for bones and teeth. And while we know daily brushing with fluoride toothpaste and flossing are essential to a healthy smile, nutrition has an effect on your dental health too. Eating a variety of nutrient-rich foods from all the food groups promotes healthy teeth. And don’t forget your gums. Vitamin C promotes gum health, so make sure you eat plenty of potatoes, citrus fruits, tomatoes, fortified juice drinks (with no sugar added), broccoli and spinach. To make sure your smile is healthy, visit your dentist regularly. For more information on how nutrition is an integral component of good oral health, consult a registered dietitian in your area and visit KidsEatRight.org

Camps Rule!

According to the RAND Corporation, a non-profit research organization, children who participate in summer programs, like experiential learning activities offered in an organized camp, are less likely to experience a significant summer learning slide.

Camp also enhances a child’s physical and emotional well-being.

Activities build social skills; teamwork and independence, which all contribute to stronger self-confidence and leadership abilities.

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Make Brushing Fun! Some dentists would recommend a small mechanical brush; maybe one that plays music (2 min.). It’s important that the brush head is small enough to brush each individual tooth; front, back, and bottom (the part that chews the food). Take about 10 seconds for each tooth, brush the tongue.

Be careful not to go too far back. Gag! Rinse brush with very warm water after each use. It’s recommended that you replace the brush every 3 – 4 months.

According to the book “Home Buyer’s Checklist,” updating your kitchen is the best move you can make if you want to increase the value of your home. Today’s buyers are looking for abundant counter space, quality flooring such as hardwoods or stone tiles, and modern appliances. Because a lot of family life revolves around the kitchen, it should be open and have plenty of lighting and sunshine. Consider adding a window over the sink, updating light fixtures, and using lighter colors to add brightness.

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Ooops! Dropped your blush or powder compact? When opened you find all those cracked pieces. There’s no reason to toss it to the bottom of your makeup drawer!

Instead, repair it – here’s how: Wrap a clean tissue around your finger and put the pieces back in place as best you can. Add a few drops of rubbing alcohol and smooth the surface (a small flat knife works well). Allow to dry overnight; or use a hairdryer set on low for a few seconds. Now it’s ready to go back in your cosmetic bag! See more make-up quick fixes online at www.suburbanparent.com. Click on the You Should Know feature!

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Stressed?

Triggered by stress issues! Your thyroid doesn’t operate well under continued stress. This is because cortisol, our primary stress hormone, inhibits thyroid hormones, eventually leading to hypothyroidism. One way to minimize physical stress in the body is by eating well and often.

Three balanced meals and two healthy snacks a day. And please take time to sit in a comfortable space while you eat. Stop eating at the kitchen counter! This is actually stressful!

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Teaching Awareness If you are concerned your child does not understand the value of money, you’re not alone. Parents complain that kids these days are constantly bombarded with advertising and media messages, suggesting they need more. To teach your child to look for the best deal, task your child with the purchase of a household item and give them a set amount they can spend. They cannot go over, but they can spend less—and they can keep whatever money they save to purchase something for themselves. This will teach them to compare prices and pay attention to getting more for less.

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Dear “Momsolvers”, “How can I help my child (9 years old) develop a positive attitude? He is so competitive and is a bit of a sore loser, going so far as to refuse to congratulate the other team when his team loses.” u Personally I have noticed that our kid’s reactions have to do a lot with copying patterns they see at home. It has to do with our child’s perspective of what each competitive situation represents in their personal life. In my case, teaching our kids the relevance, for example, of a game in their life. We focus on doing our best and have a great time doing it. A good question to ask is why do you want to play in the first place? Usually It’s because they like the sport and want to have fun. When we stop having a good time and become angry all the time it defeats its purpose. We all want to win but it’s not all about winning. When we lose we learn how we can improve and get better; always maintaining the focus on why you started playing in the first place.

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Send it to us, and we’ll see how our MomSolver volunteers (our savvy readers!) would handle it. Enter your advice online or email it to editor@suburbanparent.com and put MomSolvers in the subject line.

u For picky eaters, I have a one bite rule. They have to eat one bite of everything I put on the table. If they don’t like it after that they can make themselves a bowl of cereal, but they have to clean it up themselves. However, my kids do eat almost everything, and this rule also applies to their friends who come over to eat with us. After the “one bite” rule, they discover they actually do like something they never would try before.

There was one friend who had never tasted a pear, and loved it! ~ Sherrie E., reader and mom of 2

Dear “Momsolvers”, (The Chore Wars) “My husband did not have to do chores when he was a child and does not completely embrace my theory that chores help kids develop a sense of responsibility. I would like to know how other parents feel about giving kids chores. Thanks.”

~ Reader and mom u I have had a situation like this with one of my own boys (age 8). We immediately approached him after witnessing his bad behavior and let him know that if he ever acts so rude and ugly again we will take him off the team. Never a problem again, and he actually thanked us after his team won and he was paying attention to the losing teams’ attitudes; he was impressed with their good sportmanship behavior. ~ Beth, reader and mom of 4 boys u Witnessed this type of behavior with my daughter! She was warned about this being “ugly” and “disrespectful” behavior. She did it again, I pulled her from the team’s next game. Yes, I did get a lot of flack from other parents and her coach, however, she has time to think of what mattered most. ~ Paul, reader and dad of 2 girls and 2 boys

u I don’t think anybody likes doing chores, so I don’t know if the war ever ends. I just made them do it because it’s part of their participation in the house. I approached it more for the need of their help then because they need to be responsible. We all need to help out. ~ Reader and mom u In our home, each of our children has had an understanding, from little on, that as a family member they are to make a contribution to our small community’s success.

This includes basics like making a bed and picking up after themselves, as well as occasional larger chores, such as helping rake the yard or wash a car. My oldest two (26 and 20) are independent, self-sufficient adults and I plan to continue this practice with my 15, 10, and 8 year old. Pitching in, being accountable, and working for a greater good are all really important life lessons. ~ Kimberly M., reader and mom of 5

Dear “Momsolvers”, “Help! I am a foodie with a child that is a ‘Picky Eater’! Suggestions from Momsolvers??” u I was a very picky eater myself; so in order for eating not to become an issue, make the things your child likes or try to disguise the food and flavors that displeases your child. For example, I didn’t like the texture of cooked onions, if a food had onions in it I would not eat it; but if the onion was blended and I could not see it, I would eat the meal. It is the same experience with my kids. Now I eat everything including onions and my oldest son loves them too. ~ Reader and mom u I like using Ellyn Satter Institute’s Division of Responsibility in feeding children, where the parent is responsible for the what (the food that is being bought, prepared and served) and when (regular, predictable meals and snacks) and the child is responsible for how much he decides to eat at those structured feeding times. I’m not only a registered dietitian nutritionist, but also a mom of three boys, including a preschooler who is a picky eater himself! ~ Rivka B., Nutrition Expert

u Children who have no sense of responsibility grow up to be selfish, entitled adults.

By giving your children chores now, you are doing your part to develop responsible adults. It may sound like a good idea for your kids not to do chores now, but when they are 30 years old with no job and no motivation to get one, your husband may finally see your point. Proverbs 22:6. ~ Nikki W., reader and mom

Next month: How would you handle these dilemmas?

Find these online at www.facebook.com/momsolvers I would like to take better care of my Husband. He is overworked and stressed. He will not go to a doctor. Surely, others have a man who carries the world on his shoulders.

Thank you in advance for your answers.

I would like to know from the Momsolver community if anyone has experience with starting a blog? I have a collection of recipes I have been holding for many years and would like to blog about them. Any suggestions on how to get started? Any “momsolver bloggers” out there?

My husband wants to adopt a puppy. Don’t laugh but I am scared of most dogs, even puppies. Should I work on myself or keep saying, no way!

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TOP 10 Acts a Chivalrous Husband Does for His Wife 1. He always thinks of her first: This may sound like a “no-brainer,” but it’s also true that many of us play out our role as husbands while by-passing the brain as a matter of routine! Make this a personal discipline until it becomes second nature.

2. He opens the door (Not just the car door, but every door, every time): Yes, the car door thing is cliché. But it – and every door – is such a good opportunity to let both our wife and the entire world know how you honor her.

3. He holds her hand. A lot. For no good reason.

Just holding your wife’s hand with no ulterior motive lets her know she’s deeply connected to you and that you prize her affection. It signals warmth and protection. And that she’s the only gal for you.

4. He walks on the street side of the sidewalk: Remember walking? Remember sidewalks? This action has its roots in shielding women from the mud and the splash. However, splash or no splash, it’s a posture that says, “I will protect you; I place myself between you and danger.” Simply moving around to that side is a huge statement of respect.

5. He gets soaked fetching an umbrella: Again, it’s the principle of the action. You get the car, you run around in the rain and open the door, you shield her with the umbrella. This kind of initiative is a way of life, not a novelty action.

6. He coaches his children in selfgiving love: Don’t let it stop with you, All Pro Dad. Teach your children, especially your sons, to look out for their mother and to put her first. Kindness, when they see it in you and practice it in their own lives, will heal your family.

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7. He serves her coffee or tea in bed in the morning: Don’t ride in on the horse, but do serve her in this way as much as possible. And it’s also a good idea when the whole family eats together, that no one takes a bite until mom lifts her spoon. It’s a way to honor her sacrifice of preparing the meal.

8. He is always courteous: Many men are un-chivalrous in the way they put themselves first and fail to think of the needs of their wives. Say “please” and “thank you.” Do not raise your voice. Turn off the distractions when you eat together (she’s more important than answering the phone). Make it obvious that the relationship is primary. Believe us, courtesy sets the tone and it is always reciprocated.

9. He washes her car before he washes his: We know the way things look around us. No family communication. Ten-plus hours of media saturation daily. Close to zero incidence of family mealtime in the average week. The disappearing act that used to be family vacation. Televisions in the kids’ bedrooms.

But that doesn’t mean we throw our hands in the air and fold. Fight the battle for a family ethos defined by balance. Be deliberate and your kids will thank you.

10. He stands up and takes the heat: Does she know you “have her back?” Was the repair guy surly when she talked with him on the phone? Is she getting the run-around trying to sort out the insurance claim? Was the waiter at the restaurant or the clerk at the store out of line? We’re not suggesting you go Rambo on these people, but consider stepping up and saying, “Excuse me, but it’s unacceptable for you to talk to my wife that way.” But leave the shield, the lance, and the sword in the car.

Reprinted with permission: This is where dads in any stage of fatherhood can find helpful resources to aid in their parenting.

Fathers can also sign up to start or attend one of our All Pro Dad’s Days chapters.

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Encourage family members to express what they need and want.

You can’t give people what they need and want if they don’t know what that is. Offer extra support to a family member who can’t identify what she needs and wants. Don’t let her always sacrifice her opinion for whatever the rest of the group wants.

Every member of the family needs to know how to dig deep and express her own point of view. If you ask for wants and needs, you’ll encourage every family member to figure theirs out.

Spend quality time with each person in the family. Love should never be a competition. My daughter loves to spend daddy-daughter time with my husband, and I’m glad she does. They have the things they like to do together, like watching slapstick comedy shows on TV or going out to their favorite breakfast place. And my daughter and I have our favorite things to do like watching chick flicks or going shopping. Be sure to carve out quality time with every family member, including your spouse.

Teach kids to be caring to others. Teach kids how to make thoughtful gestures that make the most of their talents. Or get them out of the house and involved in assisting a good cause.

If family members have trouble expressing care to each other, maybe they will have an easier time expressing affection and concern outside the family. If having you around seems to make them less charitable, then let another trusted adult guide them.

Hug your family members at every age. It has been scientifically proven that hugging lowers blood pressure and reduces stress, so what more of an excuse do you need? If your older kids try to brush you off, tell them you have to hug them - it’s for their good health. And, of course, encourage kids to receive hugs when they are struggling emotionally, so they don’t become habitual sufferers.

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then teach your family members to become conversant. According to Gary D. Chapman in his book, The Five Love Languages, people experience love in five ways.

We experience love through words of affirmation, by spending quality time together, by receiving gifts, by performing acts of service, or through physical touch. According to Chapman, every person on earth has a primary “language of love.”

I understand what Chapman means when he says every person processes love uniquely. And I also think that there is much to be gained by playing around with all the love languages and encouraging members of our families to do the same.

Which acts of love make you feel seen, appreciated, and cherished? What about your spouse and the kids? We can all learn to communicate what we like and need to our family members, so everyone can get their needs met and no one has to end up feeling misunderstood or neglected.

Here are ten ways to increase family affection at home: Set a loving example. If you want your kids to have self-esteem and so they can live the best lives possible, you have to teach them to love themselves first and foremost. Unfortunately, if the parents can’t model this, the children are not likely to learn it, at least not from them. So, take good care of you first, and then take good care of your brood. Love yourself and care for yourself so you can best love others and care for others.

Personalize “I love you” for each family member. Childhood nicknames can create affectionate moments in later years. If calling your child by a nickname will offend, even in private, then express the sentiment in whatever way the recipient will hear you best. Forget how you want to say it, and opt for what will garner the most positive response from your child.

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Picture books about love and affection:

Guess How Much I Love You

by Sam McBranty, Illustrated by Anita Jeram

The Runaway Bunny

by Margaret Wise Brown, Illustrated by Clement Hurd

Goodnight Moon

by Margaret Wise Brown, Illustrated by Clement Hurd

Hug

by Jez Alborough

Love You Forever

by Robert Munsch, Illustrated by Sheila McGraw

On The Night You Were Born

by Nancy Tillman

Don’t forget, “We all love you.” Get in the habit of speaking for the whole family. A family is a “we,” and love goes at the center of this complex constellation. This does not mean your toddler, teen, or college grad will always be eager to express emotion. So go ahead and be the voice of the whole family, as needed. Then, once you have spoken for all, let even a begrudging nod of agreement be enough.

Love life and it will love your family back. Your attitude towards life is either going to inspire or haunt your family.You may think you are being realistic, but if you constantly chorus that life isn’t fair, that money doesn’t grow on trees, and oh well, it could have been worse, your kids are going to grow up expecting life to let them down. Sure, life can be a bumpy ride sometimes, but never forget that it’s unconditional love and positive encouragement from the people we love most that makes the challenges more bearable.

Squeeze in small gestures of love. Find little ways to express physical touch, especially for those family members who try to shirk it. Squeeze a shoulder, pat a knee, rumple some hair, kiss your hand and then pat their cheek. And mix it up a little. It’s when affection becomes rote that teens roll their eyes at you and groan. So, get creative and say it like you mean it. Catch them when they least expect it, and they won’t have time to duck away.

Appreciate the attempt. Remember that there is no such thing as perfect families. Also remind yourself that sometimes love will flow more readily and easily between family members than other times. And when a family member tries to do something genuinely kind or nice, try to appreciate the sentiment behind the gesture. Don’t let them be teased or called names for expressing affection.

Love is a sign of strength, not weakness.

When it comes to love and affection, you can’t always get what you want, but if you try consistently, you will find there are plenty of opportunities in any given day to acknowledge and appreciate the most important people in your life. • Christina Katz is an author and freelance journalist. She loves her family, her pets, the world, and what she does for a living. Her latest book is Permission Granted, 45 Reasons To Micro-publish.

Sentiments

to post around your home...

I love you to the moon and back

Hug it out

Sweet dreams.

Sleep tight.

We love you.

Good night.

I love you for all that you are, all that you have been, and all you are yet to be

There’s no place like home

Where there is family, there is love

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is a scary experience for many children. The dentist is a virtual stranger, even after several visits. Plus, the dentist and hygienists wear masks that cover their faces for most of the visit, making them appear even less friendly. It can be a very over stimulating experience with the bright lights, loud buzzing and smell of chemicals. Plus, the expectation of holding still for an extended length of time is frustrating for many children. Fortunately, there are some ways to make the visit a bit less frightening and easier to handle.

• Find a pediatric dentist.

Pediatric dentists have specialized training in treating children. Their offices are often designed to be more comfortable and inviting to children.

• Start early.

The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry recommends that children see a pediatric dentist as soon as their first tooth comes in, typically between six and twelve months of age. Getting children accustomed to dental visits from a young age often makes visits less traumatic.

• Tell your child what to expect.

Children typically only see the dentist twice a year. They may forget what happens at the visits in between appointments. Walk them through what to expect before each visit. Read books about going to the dentist. Don’t gloss over parts that they struggled with last time. For example, if they became agitated when it was time to swish the fluoride rinse around their mouth, gently let them know that they will have to do it again.

Neglecting to mention it could lead to more anxiety, as well as possibly distrust in you when they are confronted with it again.

• Practice good dental hygiene at home. Brushing and flossing your child’s teeth daily will help keep teeth and gums healthy. This may result in quicker and easier dental visits. Feeding your child a healthy diet and limiting sweets will also help accomplish this.

• Let the braver child go first. Most people with multiple children have the oldest child receive treatment first. This isn’t necessarily the best order. If a younger child is less fearful, let them go first.

• Start some traditions. A few days before the dentist appointment, start reading books or watching cartoons about dentists, teeth and tooth care.

Find a song about going to the dentist or make up one of your own. Sing it in the car on the way to the appointment. Have a special plan for after the dentist, such as visit to the park or trip to the movie theater. Do these things before and after every visit to give your children good memories of going to the dentist.

• Deal with your own fears. Many adults still have severe dental anxiety.

Children pick up on their parent’s worries. Your child won’t be able to be calm or relaxed if she knows you aren’t. Take time to address your own issues before the appointment so you don’t project your negative feelings onto your child’s experience.

Dentist visits don’t have to be terrifying – for child or parent! • Rachael Moshman is a mom and freelance writer. She actually enjoys going to the dentist. Find her at www.rachaelmoshman.com

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Fabulous Moms Share Their Best Advice...

“Be flexible. It’s nice to have a schedule when kids are young but they are people, not machines.

Eating early or staying up late once in a while will not bring the world to an end.”

Caroline, mom of 2 “If you have more than one child, try to do something alone with each one regularly.

Whether it’s playing Legos when siblings are otherwise occupied, bringing special lunch to school and eating with that child or even taking them shopping for new shoes while dad stays home with the siblings they will appreciate the one on one time with you.”

Caroline, mom of 2

“Eat together as a family whenever possible.”

Robin J.W., reader and mom of 3 “Sometimes listening to your child is better than always advising.”

Robin J.W., reader and mom of 3 “Pick your battles.”

Robin J.W., reader and mom of 3

“Keep your sense of humor, it can be catching.”

Robin J.W., reader and mom of 3 “Remember to SMILE at your husband and children each day.

Talk to them with even more courtesy than you would a friend.”

Bobbi, mom of 5

“Remember to treat YOUR parents with respect and honor... you’re teaching your children how to treat you, both now and in your old age.”

Bobbi, reader and mom of 5

“If you need to talk about something uncomfortable with older kids, do it in the car. They are more likely to be open if they don’t have to look you in the face.”

Caroline, mom of 2 “You can never give too many hugs or say I love you too many times!”

Libby, reader and mom of 2

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The Know It All February 2014 SUBURBAN PARENT CALENDAR Parents: Some programs require tickets and/or reservations, always contact event locations to confirm times and requirements.

Feb 1-28. English Classes for Adults. EVERY Mon & Thu 7pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www. farmersbranch.info Feb 1-28. Walking Tuesdays. Tuesdays, 10-11am, join us for a beautiful hour of brisk walking around the pond. We welcome anyone looking to get a light exercise, some fresh air, and enjoy the scenery of the season. Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511 Feb 1. Farmers Branch Daddy Daughter Dance.

6-8pm Dads and their daughters are invited to dance their way into the classic children’s story, Alice in Wonderland. Join Alice, the Mad Hatter, TweedleDee and TweedleDum for a night of dancing, cookies and punch!

972.247-4607 www.fbreccenter.com Feb 1. Coupon Swap. Exchange your current coupons and discounts with fellow smart shoppers. 1st Sat 11:30am-12:30pm Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com Feb 1. Otaku Kyokai No Flower Mound (The Anime Fan Society of Flower Mound). Teens run this meeting featuring anime discussions, screenings and more. 1-4:30pm, Flower Mound Library, 3030 Broadmoor Ln, Flower Mound. 972.874.6167 Feb 1, 8, 15, 22. Family Time. EVERY Sat 11:15am Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com Feb 1. RISE Fishing Event. Group of athletes who are physically challenged come together for sports events and social activities. Check the RISE website for more

activities. www.riseadventures.org Fishing event is 9am – 12pm, 2500 Oak Grove Loop S, Grapevine.

Feb 3. Some Assembly Required. Crafts, coffee and conversation for ages 18+. 6:30pm William T. Cozby Library, 177 N. Heartz Rd, Coppell 972.304-3655 Feb 3. Learn Gaelic. Do you speak Irish Gaelic? The DFW Gaelic League provides free lessons on Mondays 7-8pm at the Lewisville Library. 972.219-3577 for details.

Feb 3. Concussions and Kids. 7pm @ Flower Mound Library. Learn to identify signs of a concussion, how to take precautionary measures to protect your children. To register call 972-874-6165 Feb 3 & 17. Teen Role Playing. New players may join at any time. All materials provided. 1st and 3rd Mon 6pm Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com Feb 3, 10, 17, 24. Reading Buddies. Young learners ages 4-11yrs will read and play with Teen Volunteers. EVERY Mon 5pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www.farmersbranch.info Feb 3, 10, 17, 24. Tax Assistance by AARP. Volunteers with the American Association of Retired Persons provide free tax return assistance. Bring ID and all documents. 10am-6pm. Carrollton Public Library 4220 N Josey Ln, Carrollton www.cityofcarrollton.com.

Feb 3, 10, 17, 24. Learn Gaelic. Do you speak Irish Gaelic? The DFW Gaelic League provides free lessons on Mondays 7-8pm at the Lewisville Library. 972.2193577 for details.

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Feb 4. Time Management Skills to Help Your Child Succeed. Patricia Stafford of MindMenders Clinic Flower Mound will discuss time management strategies which help children better manage various aspects of their lives including start of day and homework. 7pm.

Flower Mound Public Library 3030 Broadmoor Ln, Flower Mound. Call to register 972-874-6165 Feb 4. Girls Nite Out Book Club. 6:30pm Library’s Crawford Meeting Room, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville.

Join us for a girls’ night at the library to discuss women’s fiction, chic lit, and the occasional romance. 972.219-3577 Feb 4. Cozby Gamers. Gamers wanted! Do you love Munchkin or Mario? Want to fight zombies with dice or play some virtual tennis? 5th graders and up gather at the Coppell Library for games after-school 3:30-5pm.

William T. Cozby Library, 177 N Heartz Rd, Coppell 972-304-3655 Feb 4, 11, 18, 25. Family Storytime at Coppell Library. Program begins at 7pm. Space is limited to 50 participants. Please pick up your storytime admission ticket at the Information Desk on your way into storytime.

Call to confirm holiday schedule. William T. Cozby Library, 177 N Heartz Rd, Coppell. 972-304-3655 Feb 5, 12, 19, 26. Something Cool After School.

Kids in grades 1-3 enjoy crafts, stories, yoga, Legos and chess. Each Wed 4-5pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www. farmersbranch.info

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The Know It All cont.’d February SUBURBAN PARENT CALENDAR COMMUNITY STORY TIMES Coppell Public Library 177 N. Heartz Rd., 972-304-3655 All story times are free with registration at front desk.

Monday - Baby & Me 11am, infants Tues - Family Story Time 7pm, all ages Fourth Friday Only – Fourth Friday Spanish Storytime 10:30am, all ages Second Saturday Only - Second Saturday Story Time 11am, all ages

Note: these are the regularly scheduled sto rytimes, call to confirm as schedules are subject to change.

Flower Mound Public Library

Carrollton - Hebron & Josey Branch

3030 Broadmoor Ln., 972-874-6200 All story times are free, but pre-registration is required for Mother Goose sessions.

4220 N. Josey Ln. at Hebron Pkwy.

972-466-4800 All story times are free.

Mon - Toddler Time 10:15am, ages 1-3; Mother Goose 11am, ages 0-1 Wednesday - Toddler Time 10:15am, ages 1-3; Story Time 11am, ages 3-6 Thursday - Evening Story Time 7pm, ages 3-6

Carrollton - Josey Ranch Lake Branch

Monday - Preschool Story Time 10am & 2pm, ages 3-6; Mother Goose 11:15am, ages 18-36 mo Tuesday - Preschool Story Time 10am & 2pm, ages 3-6; Mother Goose 11:15am, ages 18-36 mo Wednesday - Toddler Time 10 & 11am, ages 18-36 mo; Family Story Time (3rd Wed., SeptJuly) 7pm, all ages Thursday - Toddler Time 10 &11am, ages 18-36 mo

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1700 Keller Springs Rd., 972-466-4800 All story times are free.

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Monday - Toddler Time 10:45am, ages 1-3 Tues - Toddler Time 10:15am, ages 1-3; Story Time 11am, ages 3-6

All story times are free.

Farmers Branch Manske Library 13613 Webb Chapel, 972-247-2511 All story times are free.

Mon - Baby Bounce 11:15am, ages 0-1 Tues - Family Story Time 7pm, all ages Wed - Preschool Story Time 10:15am, ages 3-6 Thurs - Preschool Story Time 10:15am, ages 3-6

Feb 5. Something Cool After School. Kids in grades 1-3 enjoy crafts, stories, yoga, Legos and chess.

Each Wed 4-5pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www. farmersbranch.info

Monday - Preschool Story Time 10:30am, ages 3-6; Mother Goose 1:30pm, ages 0-15 mo Tuesday - Preschool Story Time 4 & 7pm, ages 3-6; Toddler Time 10:30 & 11am, ages 15-36 mo Wednesday - Toddler Time 10:30am, ages 1536 mo; Mother Goose 1:30pm, ages 0-15 mo Thursday - Toddler Time 10:30am, ages 15-36 mo; Mother Goose 1:30pm, ages 0-15 mo

Feb 7. Father & Daughter Dance. Dance with your little Valentine! 6:30pm-9pm. Hilton Garden Inn. 972-459-4600. Come enjoy dinner, dancing and door prizes. Limited space-call today!

Feb 5, 12, 19, 26. Something Cool After School.

Kids in grades 1-3 enjoy crafts, stories, yoga, Legos and chess. Each Wed 4-5pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www. farmersbranch.info

Feb 7. Himprov. This 100% family friendly, free improvisation show entertains audiences the first Friday of each month. 7:30-9:15pm Bent Tree Bible Fellowship, 4141 International Parkway, Carrollton. www.himprov. com 214.213-5497

Feb 5. MOMS Club of Coppell. Contact organization for meeting info. 1st Wed in Coppell, call to confirm meeting schedule. www.momsclubofcoppell.com

Feb 7-9. 2nd Annual Matt Reynolds USQRA RISE Rugby Tournament. Teams from across the US and Canada will take place in this fast paced, hard hitting, wheelchair action sport. 901 S. Senter St., Irving. www. riseadaptivesports.org.

Feb 6, 13, 20, 27. Lewisville Chess Club.

EVERY Thu 7pm Barnes & Noble Lewisville, 2325 S Stemmons Fwy, Ste 401, Lewisville 972.315.7966 barnesandnoble.com Feb 6, 13, 20, 27. Prime Time. Early readers in grades 1-3 enjoy stories, music, games, crafts and fun.

EVERY Thu 4pm Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com Feb 7, 14, 21, 28. Prime Time. Early readers in grades 1-3 enjoy stories, music, games, crafts and fun.

EVERY Thu 4pm Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com

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Feb 10. MOPs (Mothers of Preschoolers) First Baptist Carrollton Meeting. Childcare available by reservation. $ 2nd & 4th Mon during school year at First Baptist Church, 2400 North Josey Lane, Carrollton 972.939.6503 mops@fbcc.org fbcc.org/mops Feb 10. Learn Gaelic. Do you speak Irish Gaelic?

The DFW Gaelic League provides free lessons on Mondays 7-8pm at the Lewisville Library. 972.219-3577 for details.

Feb 10. Page Turners Book Club. 7pm William T. Cozby Library, 177 N. Heartz Rd, Coppell 972.3043655 Feb 10. Reading Buddies. Young learners buddy up with our teen volunteers to further their reading, learning, and comprehension skills. Read a book or two, get some help with your schoolwork, play fun board games, and engage in cool mindstretching activities. 5pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511 Feb 10. Family Fun Night. Come for a night of free fun, games and crafts. 7-8:30pm. Carrollton Public Library at Josey Ranch Lake 1700 Keller Springs Rd, Carrollton www.cityofcarrollton.com.

Feb 10. DCMGA Spring Gardening Series – Behind the Scenes at the Dallas Arboretum. 7pm @ Flower Mound Library. Free gardening tips and information. Register by calling 972-874-6165.

Feb 11. Firecracker Book Club. Book discussion

and related activities for children in grades 4-5 only.

Second Tuesday of each month through April at 4pm, Flower Mound Library, 3030 Broadmoor Lane, Flower Mound. 972.874.6167 Feb 11. Cozby Gamers. Gamers wanted! Do you love Munchkin or Mario? Want to fight zombies with dice or play some virtual tennis? 5th graders and up gather at the Coppell Library for games after-school 3:30-5pm.

William T. Cozby Library, 177 N Heartz Rd, Coppell 972-304-3655 Feb 11. FB Writers Organization. 2nd & 4th Tue 10am-noon Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www. farmersbranch.info Feb 11. Brown Bag Book Club. 2nd Tue Noon1pm Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3577 www.cityoflewisville.com Feb 11. Readers Are Leaders. 2nd Tuesday of the month, 7 to 8 pm, Join us once a month to celebrate the gift of literacy as various city officials inspire our youth by reading aloud their favorite library books. You won’t be disappointed! All ages are welcome. 7-8pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511 Feb 12. Something Cool After School. Kids in grades 1-3 enjoy crafts, stories, yoga, Legos and chess.

Each Wed 4-5pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www. farmersbranch.info Feb 12. After School Adventures. Monthly program for kids in grades K-5th. 3:30pm, William T. Cozby Library, 177 N. Heartz Rd, Coppell 972.304-3655 Feb 12. Poetry Reading Group. 2nd Wed 1-3pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www.farmersbranch.info

Feb 11, 25. FB Writers Organization. 2nd & 4th Tue 10am-noon Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www. farmersbranch.info

Feb 5. Knit Wits. Knitting club meets 1st and 3rd Wed 5pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www.farmersbranch.info

Feb 6. Prime Time. Early readers in grades 1-3 enjoy stories, music, games, crafts and fun. EVERY Thu 4pm Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com

Feb 10. Greater Lewisville Early Childhood PTA General Meeting. GLECPTA is a support organization for moms of young children with monthly meetings, playgroups, and more. Childcare provided. Usually 2nd Mon Sep-May 9:30-11:30am Trietsch Memorial United Methodist Church, 6101 Morriss Road, Flower Mound www.glecpta.org

Feb 8. North Texas Dieselpunks. 2nd Saturday of the month, 2pm. Dieselpunk blends knowledge of the 1920s through the early 1950s with today. The goal of dieselpunk is to create something unexpected and new by merging the elements of the past with today’s technology and attitude. Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511 Feb 9. Be Mine, Valentine Dance. Grab your Valentine and join us for an afternoon of fun! Couples will enjoy dancing, valentine treats, and go home with a 5x7 portrait! Cost is $24 per couple and $9 for each additional child. For ages 1 -14 and their parents. Moms & Sons Dance 1-3pm. Dads & Daughters Dance 4-6pm. Coppell Aquatic & Recreation Center.

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Feb 12. Rockin’ Readers. Stories, activities, and snacks for children grades K–3 only. Second Wednesday of each month, September – March at 4pm, Flower Mound Library, 3030 Broadmoor Ln, Flower Mound 972.874-6167

Feb 14. Carrollton Early Childhood PTA Meeting.

Free childcare with reservation: cecptanursery@gmail. com. 2nd Fri Sep-May 9:30am Holy Covenant Church, 1901 East Peters Colony Road (at Josey), Carrollton www.cecpta.org

Feb 12. Teen Screen. This winter we will feature films adapted from graphic novels. Scott Pilgrim vs. the World.

6pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511

Feb 14, 21. RISE Rugby. Anyone may play, including paraplegics and industry-related therapists.

Reservations required. EVERY Fri (Practice @ 5:30pm & Recreational rugby @ 7pm) Georgia Farrow Recreation Center, 530 Davis Street, Irving 469.762.5072 info@ riseadaptivesports.org www.riseadaptivesports.org

Feb 12. Poetry Reading. 2nd Wednesday of the month, 1-3pm. Can’t talk to your friends about Maya Angelou or William Butler Yeats? Come to this monthly poetry group designed for those who enjoy reading and appreciating poetry. All are welcome. Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511 Feb 13-Mar 2. The Little Mermaid. Broadway’s Under the Sea Spectacular Live on Stage at the Music Hall at Fair Park. For tickets, go online at Ticketmaster.com, call 800-982-ARTS or visit the box office at 5959 Royal Ln, Ste 542. www. dallassummermusicals.org. See ad in this issue.

Feb 13. Lewisville Chess Club. EVERY Thu 7pm Barnes & Noble Lewisville, 2325 S Stemmons Fwy, Ste 401, Lewisville 972.315.7966 barnesandnoble.com Feb 13. Prime Time. Early readers in grades 1-3 enjoy stories, music, games, crafts and fun. EVERY Thu 4pm Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com Feb 14. MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) Coppell Bible Fellowship. Children’s program provided. 2nd & 4th Fri 9-11:30am Coppell Bible Fellowship, 751 West Sandy Lake Road, Coppell 972.821.6053 mops@ coppellbible.org www.coppellbible.org/connect/ women/mops

Feb 14, 28. MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) Coppell Bible Fellowship. Children’s program provided. 2nd & 4th Fri 9-11:30am Coppell Bible Fellowship, 751 West Sandy Lake Road, Coppell 972.821.6053 mops@coppellbible.org www. coppellbible.org/connect/women/mops Feb 15. Family Time. EVERY Sat 11:15am Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com Feb 15. Fabulous Father’s Priest Talent Show.

Benefitting Regina Caeli Academy. Enjoy performances from local priests, dinner, drinks, live and silent auctions.

Emcee will be Lino Rulli, host of The Catholic Guy radio show. Saturday, February 15th, at the DoubleTree Hotel near the Galleria. Purchase tickets at www.rcahybrid.org Feb 16. Footloose. Presented by DFW Performing Arts Conservatory. Performances at 2 and 5:30pm. Tickets $12. Medical Center of Lewisville Grand Theater 100 N. Charles St MCLGrand.com 972-219-8446 Feb 17. Presidents Day Chili Cook-Off. Bring your best chili recipe to compete or come by to be a judge!

Top 3 winners will receive gift cards. 12-1pm. Flower Mound, 972-874-6110 www.flower-mound.com Feb 17. DCMGA Spring Gardening Series - Plant

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The Know It All cont.’d February SUBURBAN PARENT CALENDAR This, Not That. 7pm Flower Mound Library. Discover why some plants thrive and others don’t. Register by calling 972-874-6165 Feb 17. President’s Day Chili Cook-off.

12pm-1pm All American cook off. Bring you best chili recipe to compete or just come to Feb 18. Grapevine Faith Christian School Open House. For preschool – 12th grade. Other open house dates are 3/25 and 4/29. 7pm. 729 E Dallas Rd, Grapevine. Register online at grapevinefaith.com. See ad in this issue.

Feb 18. La Leche League of Lewisville. All breastfeeding mothers (and their babies) and mothersto-be interested in breastfeeding are welcome. 3rd Tue 10am First Presbyterian Church of Lewisville, 1002 Fox, Lewisville 972.317.1648 or 972.535.5159 texaslll. org/group/Lewisville Feb 18. Tweensday. Flower Mound Public Library.

4pm – 6:30 pm. Held third Tues of the month and covers a new theme each season! For grades 4-7. No registration required. For information call 972-=874-6167 Feb 18. Tuesday Morning Book Discussion Group. 3rd Tue 10am Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www. farmersbranch.info Feb 18. La Leche League of Lewisville. All breastfeeding mothers (and their babies) and mothersto-be interested in breastfeeding are welcome. 3rd Tue 10am First Presbyterian Church of Lewisville, 1002 Fox, Lewisville 972.317.1648 or 972.535.5159 texaslll. org/group/Lewisville Feb 18. Booked for Murder Book Club. 3rd Tue

2-3pm Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com Feb 18. Cozby Gamers. Gamers wanted! Do you love Munchkin or Mario? Want to fight zombies with dice or play some virtual tennis? 5th graders and up gather at the Coppell Library for games after-school 3:30-5pm.

William T. Cozby Library, 177 N Heartz Rd, Coppell 972-304-3655 Feb 19. Rosemeade Recreation Center Teen Council. Teens ages 13-17 will discuss how to put your stamp on the Center. Pizza & drinks provided.

3rd Tue 6:30pm Rosemeade Recreation Center, 1330 Rosemeade Parkway, Carrollton grant.carver@ cityofcarrollton.com 972.466.9812 cityofcarrollton.com Feb 19. Family Storytime. 7pm Flower Mound Public Library, 3030 Broadmoor Ln., 972.874.6200 Feb 19. Knit Wits. Knitting club meets 1st and 3rd Wed 5pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel, Farmers Branch 972.247.2511 www.farmersbranch.info Feb 19. Cool After School. Wednesdays, 4 to 5 pm, Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511. For ages 6-10 years old.

Join us for crafts, games, reading fun, and even Legos!

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Feb 20. Prime Time. Early readers in grades 1-3 enjoy stories, music, games, crafts and fun. EVERY Thu 4pm Lewisville Library, 1197 W. Main St, Lewisville 972.219.3570 www.cityoflewisville.com Feb 20. Lewisville Chess Club. EVERY Thu 7pm Barnes & Noble Lewisville, 2325 S Stemmons Fwy, Ste 401, Lewisville 972.315.7966 barnesandnoble.com Feb 20. TIG/Teen Interest Group. Students in

middle and high school hang out, talk about books, play games and eat food. 3rd Thu 6:30pm Coppell Library, 177 N Heartz Road, Coppell 972.304.3658 coppelltx.gov

Feb 24. DCMGA Spring Gardening Series – Preserving the Harvest. The Flower Mound Public Library gives you useful tips and info as part of the Spring Gardening Series. Register by calling 972-874-6165

Feb 20. Evening Story Time - Hebron & Josey.

Children participate in stories, songs, finger-plays, action rhymes and puppetry. This program is designed as family story time. Ages 3-6, 7pm, Carrollton Public Library at Hebron & Josey, 4220 N Josey Lane, Carrollton.

Feb 24. MOPs (Mothers of Preschoolers) First Baptist Carrollton Meeting. Childcare available by reservation. $ 2nd & 4th Mon during school year at First Baptist Church, 2400 North Josey Lane, Carrollton 972.939.6503 mops@fbcc.org fbcc.org/mops

Feb 20. BLUEBONNET Winner Celebration. Join us as we announce the winning title of the 2013 Texas Bluebonnets 4:30pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511

Feb 24. Learn Gaelic. Do you speak Irish Gaelic?

The DFW Gaelic League provides free lessons on Mondays 7-8pm at the Lewisville Library. 972.219-3577 for details.

Feb 21. An Evening with Ravel and Mendelssohn. Ravel: Tombeau de Couperin, Medelssohn: Fingal’s Cave Overture, plus a concerto chosen by the grand prize winner of the Vernell Gregg Young Artists Competition. 7:30pm Medical Center of Lewisville Grand Theater 100 N. Charles St MCLGrand. com 972-219-8446

Feb 25. Cozby Gamers. Gamers wanted! Do you love Munchkin or Mario? Want to fight zombies with dice or play some virtual tennis? 5th graders and up gather at the Coppell Library for games after-school 3:30-5pm. William T. Cozby Library, 177 N Heartz Rd, Coppell 972-304-3655

Feb 21-23. Narnia presented by the Actors Conservatory Theatre. Based on the classic book, “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe.” Showtimes Fri 7pm, Sat 2 & 7pm, Sun 2pm. Crawford Center for the Arts, 1720 S. Edmonds Ln, Lewisville www. getintotheact.org Feb 22. Movie Club. Featuring recent movie releases from the library collection. We will showcase recent PG -13, PG or G DVD releases on the large screen in the theater. The movies will represent various genres including drama, action, comedy and sci-fi. Freshly popped popcorn will be provided. 2-5pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511

Feb 25. Teen Genealogy Workshop. In this workshop, you will learn how to research your family history, build your family tree, and record information on your heritage using resources in the library. 6pm Farmers Branch Library, 13613 Webb Chapel Rd, Farmers Branch 972.247-2511 Feb 25. Family Game Night. 4th Tue of each month 6pm at Flower Mound Public Library, 3030 Broadmoor Ln., 972.874.6200 Feb 26. League of Extraordinary Teens. Make a difference by working with staff and other teens to make the Library your kind of place. Plan events, suggest materials and hang out. 6:30pm. Carrollton Public Library at Josey Ranch Lake 1700 Keller Springs Rd, Carrollton www.cityofcarrollton.com.

Submit your club or event information to us by the 10th of each month. Email calendar@suburbanparent.com or fax to (972)887-9997.

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by Gayla Grace

treasure the stories my children tell after arriving home from summer camp. The week-long adventures include experiences sure to build character and bond relationships.

Every camp has a unique way of teaching kids their value while giving them opportunities to experience all kinds of fun they would never find at home.

The spring months are the perfect time to begin exploring summer camps. To find one that fits your child’s needs, seek out opinions from friends and neighbors; ask teachers and church counselors what camps they recommend.

Whether day camp or overnight camp, there’s sure to be one your child will love and gain valuable skills from while attending.

Camp counselor Jamie Newman, who has worked the past two summers at a children’s camp for kids ages 5-16, expresses her enthusiasm for sending kids to camp. She says, “Camp encourages kids to try new things and teaches them confidence through new experiences. They learn valuable life lessons when encouraged to work through their fears and try something even if it doesn’t feel comfortable to them. Also, when kids are thrown together in a cabin for a week,

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they’re forced to learn how to get along with others and often build lasting relationships that can continue when they return home.”

Our five kids have attended summer camps ranging from athletic camps to church camps to choir and band camps. Each camp plays a unique role in building character qualities and creating life-long memories through everyday activities and interactions with others.

If you need some encouragement to give your child the gift of summer camp, here are a few thoughts to consider:

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Camp encourages independence and allows children a chance to

make decisions on their own in a safe, caring environment. Kids benefit from new relationships with camp counselors who care about them and want to help them with everyday struggles.

Camp forces kids to unplug from technology and enjoy the beauty and benefits of nature. Through outside activities, kids find new hobbies they can’t experience at home, without academic pressure or expectations. Kids gain self-confidence through trying new things and discovering talents they didn’t know they had.

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Camp teaches good sportsmanship by encouraging each

child to be fair and kind, win or lose.

Team activities teach kids how to cooperate with another and the value of getting along with others through working together and supporting one another.

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Camp fosters new friendships with kids who come from vary-

ing backgrounds--helping kids gain an understanding of how others live outside their community. In a relaxed atmosphere, kids easily make friends while they play, sing, work, eat, and bunk together.

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Camp creates life-long memories of new adventures in places

they’ve never experienced before.

Camp offers carefree days where kids can learn how to thrive outside the structure of overscheduled days.

So what are you waiting for? Have you signed your child up for camp yet? There’s week-long adventure and character-building experiences waiting for your child this summer! • Gayla Grace sends her kids to camp every summer and always looks forward to hearing new stories when they return.

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Explorations Preparatory School 972-539-0601 www.explorationsprep.com

Grapevine Faith Christian School www.GRAPEVINEFAITH.com

Hill School 817-310-0876 www.hillschool.org

Holy Family of Nazareth Catholic School 972-255-0205 www.hfns.com

Kiddin Around

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St. Monica Catholic School 214-351-5688 www.stmonicaschool.org

The Studio of Music 972-734-5899 www.TheStudioOfMusic.net

Temple Christian Academy 972-874-8700 www.templechristian.com

Temple Christian Learning Center 972-874-8700 www.templebc.org/TCLC.html

Coppell 972-462-1300 Highland Village 972-317-1343 www.kiddinaroundplaycare.com

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I can’t say I’m very good at it either. After I took a few pictures of the girls sitting on a bale of hay at the rear of the ungated wagon, I said, “Alice, you keep an eye on Jessie.” Dang, the second I finished the sentence, I knew I had embarrassed Jessie…and her nonverbal communication confirmed it. I quickly came back with,“Jessie, you watch after Alice, too.” Good save, Daddy.

One mom to ld me her daug hter made her sig n a “Do Not Embarra ss Me” contract.

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While the girls enjoyed their hay ride, I commiserated with the parents of a twelve-yearold daughter. She was off enjoying the festival with a friend, too.

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arenting can be quite a ride, and I’m not referring

to the spinning Tea Cups at Disney or sailboat rides with my daughter, Jessie’s, Uncle Gary (both of which this dad, prone to motion sickness, avoids). Some rides, you don’t want to get off. “Hey, that was my daughter who just made that 12-foot basket!”

“Jessie, this is an excellent report card!” Other rides don’t end quickly enough, such as birthday parties with screaming kids sugared up on cake and ice cream. For still other rides, I wonder, “Why did I get on?” I’m thinking of the time three-yearold Jessie pulled my shorts down on an elevator, exposing my jock strap to the other passengers.

Recently, I took Jessie, age 9, on a daddy-daughter date to our church’s annual festival. Having made a few mistakes in the past, I try my best not to say anything that might embarrass Jessie in front of her friends. I still haven’t mastered this discipline, even though my comments are always out of love and concern. I guess it could be worse. One

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mom told me her daughter made her sign a “Do Not Embarrass Me” contract.

As soon as we arrived at the festival, Jessie’s “find friends” antennae went up. She climbed up and slid down a tall inflatable slide, with eyes peeled for friends. She did close her eyes when she had her hair spray painted orange, blue, and green.

Of course, I had my camera. Parents can’t have too many photos of their children.

Then Jessie spied Alice, and I dutifully found an inconspicuous place to stand as I watched the girls play. Okay, I did take pictures of Jessie and Alice at the cakewalk, but only a few.

The three of us ate hot dogs and burgers together before heading to one of my favorite parts of the festival – the hay wagon ride. As we were preparing to climb on, Jessie turned around and said, “Dad, may I take the ride with just Alice?” This caught me completely off guard. I maintained a stiff upper lip and brokenheartedly gave my approval. This “letting go” stuff isn’t easy.

As the festival came to a close, Jessie and I were headed to the parking lot when we saw the hay wagon loading for one final trip. We ran to get on. Jessie called, “first,” then promptly sat on the first bale as she stepped onto the wagon. I was a happy “second” as I got to sit next to the pretty girl with orange, blue, and green hair. I cherished the moment with my arm curled around my daughter to keep her safe during the ride.

I wish I could end the story here with the hay wagon riding out into the night with its passengers living happily ever after. However, back in the car, on what should have been a blissful drive home, Jessie shocked me with another request. From the backseat, she asked, “Dad, can you just drop me off at the festival next year and let me play with my friends? You can talk with the other parents.” Thank goodness the steering wheel caught my chin.

I don’t know what lies ahead in my parenting world. I wish it would be as easy as calling “second,” to be with her for important events. Yet I know the time will come when I’ll be lucky to make the top five. Whatever my spot, I’m looking forward to sharing lots of good rides, maybe just not as many as I thought. At least, I’ll get to talk with other parents. It helps to know I’m not alone.

Until next month, remember to cherish the moments. •

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y l i p p Ha 12 Secrets of

Married Couples

Build Each Other Up!

Be sure you point out the things you like about your spouse. It can be cerebral or simple. “I love your cooking!” or “You are so good at fixing things!” or even, “You look great in blue.” Can’t think of any right offhand?

Make a list of the reasons you married your partner. It might surprise you to realize all of those great traits are still there!

Be Realistic

Sure he loves his worn out sneakers, but you like to lounge in your old sweatpants. And he still thinks you’re great! Remember to allow for imperfections in your partner, just as you hope he overlooks yours.

Make Time for Each Other

Never Compare

Even the busiest couples should mark the calendar on a regular basis to spend time alone. It can be a weekly lunch date, or a monthly night out.

Don’t Be Over Competitive

Remember when you were dating and you always put your best foot forward? You don’t have to be extreme, just consider dumping those worn out granny nightgowns for some new ones. Men, remember the mouthwash or your wife’s favorite cologne. It’s nice to know your spouse still wants to be attractive for you.

It is a good thing to have role models, but don’t cross the line and compare your partner to someone else in a negative way.

A little healthy competition can be fun, but if you sense your partner’s feelings are getting hurt cool it immediately.

Opposite Sex Friendships

Get “Gussied Up” for Your Partner Fight Fair

There is no reason to have a friendship with a member of the opposite sex that excludes your spouse. Ask yourself the following questions to see if your friendships are inappropriate: If my friend calls me, can my spouse answer the phone without any awkward feelings from either party? If I meet my friend for lunch or dinner, would I be disappointed if my spouse wanted to join us?

Do I find myself thinking about my friend in appropriate ways? Do I exchange emails with my friend that I would prefer my spouse not see?

Notice we didn’t say “never argue.” It can be natural to have disagreements, just make sure they are constructive, there is a solution and you aren’t just getting rid of frustration, and it is done with love. Name calling, bringing up the past, and threats should all be considered out of bounds.

Cultivate at Least One Common Interest

There will be times when you disagree about how to handle situations – life is full of decision making! Just remember, you do not have to be 100% happy with every decision. Marriage requires give and take, but the important thing is to provide a united front and move forward together.

Find something you both enjoy doing and enjoy this together. It could be camping, fishing, movies… this shared interest continues to feed the friendship aspect of your relationship.

Maintain an Interest That is Just for You

Remember to keep your own hobbies. There is no reason you have to give up a passion for theatre, for instance, if your hubby doesn’t enjoy it.

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Support Each Other’s Decisions Share the Housework

If you can afford to have someone come to clean your home, you will find this is one of the best investments you can make in your marriage.

Beyond that, housework should be shared. Don’t forget to give credit for the yardwork! Y

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barn, chicken coop, etc. As his grandfather sat with him discussing the ants, he said casually, “you know I used to live on a farm just like that.” My son’s eyes grew wide and, encouraged by the enthusiastic reaction, his grandfather continued his story. When he finished my son said admiringly,

“WOW! I can’t believe you used to be an ant!”

Do you have a funny story about your child? We’d love to hear it. Send them to: editor@suburbanparent.com

“What I love most about my husband is that he loved me first!”

Sent in by Anonymous Reader

Although your brain chooses to ignore it, you see your nose at all times. (can you see it now?)

The first man to survive going over Niagara Falls is reported to have later died by slipping on an orange peel.

The average person falls asleep in 7 mins.

85% of plant life is found in the ocean.

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have been together since our junior year in high school. In dog years, that is 161 Valentine’s Days. While some men (men with a death wish) may not already be thinking about Valentine’s Day, now is the time to start planning your attack—unless, of course, your plan this year hinges on a table for two at McDonald’s and candies from your Christmas stocking. In that case, I hope you can out-run your wife.

I’m somewhat of an expert when it comes to how husbands and boyfriends should behave on Valentine’s Day. And, in the interest of science and personal safety, I would like to present my...

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The three questions every man should ask himself about the Valentine’s gift he is about to give: Is it romantic?

Will it be an accurate measure of the love in our relationship?

If the answers to both the first two questions are no, if thrown at me, will the gift cause a concussion?

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The single satin rose in cellophane at the gas station is not appropriate. Sure, I understand that guys like to be efficient with their time and could pick up a quart of oil and a pack of sunflower seeds at the same time, but the only guy who should consider the lame satin rose would be four and a half feet and calling his special girl “mommy.”

The three questions every guy should ask himself before buying the slinky baby-doll nightie for his special girl: Do I really want to see her in a teddy?

Does she really want me to see her in a teddy?

What will we say when we find our children with the teddy…outside…playing dress up with the neighbor kids?

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Jewelry is always an appropriate gift, as are flowers, chocolates, and silky pajamas. Not appropriate are snow tires, high-waist granny panties, clearance Christmas decorations, or anything NASCAR.

It’s important to be able to interpret your honey’s thoughts and feelings before the big day.

When she says: “For Valentine’s Day, dinner at home is fine with me—we don’t need to go out to a romantic restaurant.” What she really means is: ”I hope you enjoy sleeping on the couch.”

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When she says: “I don’t need to do or receive anything for Valentine’s Day this year. Let’s skip it.” What she really means is: ”I hope you enjoy sleeping on the couch.”

Diamonds in lieu of flowers is fine. Olde English 800 in lieu of flowers, not so fine.

Valentine flowers are red roses, not orange… carnations.

Don’t ask her where she wants to go for Valentine’s Day. Women already feel they do everything in the relationship (as well as around the house, for the children and with your mother)— don’t add fuel to the fire.

Don’t think that you always need to out-do the previous year, unless of course, last year you were in jail.

Six words she doesn’t want to hear come out of your mouth on Valentine’s Day: “My mom made it for you.” Three words she does want to hear: “I love you.”

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