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Under the Stars Concert Series Introduces Covers for Legendary Bands in Temecula Valley Wine Country
Beautiful weather welcomes outdoor live entertainment in Temecula Valley Wine Country. This year, Hey Day Productions continues its tradition of presenting stellar musicians and cover bands to play yesterday’s hits from legendary bands at picturesque winery settings. Performing Friday, May 18, 2017 is Gypsy Tears. This will be an evening of Spanish guitar and expressive dance at Mount Palomar Winery from 6pm9pm. Guitarist Benjamin Woods is recognized as one of the most talented and sought after flamenco guitarists in the United States. He is known for his innovative Flamenco guitar shredding and for creating Flametal, flamenco heavy metal. Dancer Arleen Hurtado has performed around the world, including five US tours as well as performances around the world. In the U.S., she has performed in theaters across the country including Carnegie Hall, Red Rocks, the Greek Theater, Wolf Trap to name a few. Up Next: June 23 – Fan Halen – Mount Palomar Winery Fan Halen has been together for over 10 years playing to Van Halen’s greatest hits, Jump, Why Can’t This Be Love, When It’s Love and Petty Woman, all over the U.S. as well as the globe including Japan, South and Central America, Canada and Mexico. From the look of the band, the choreography, the note-for-note reproduction of the greatest rock songs ever written to the sonic energy of the performance, nothing is overlooked. June 30 – Desperado (Eagles) – Longshadow Ranch Winery With five lead vocalists and instrumentalists, this group includes members who have performed with Eagles Don Felder, J.D. Souther, and Chris Farmer who is currently the keyboardist/bassist/vocalist for Eagle Timothy B. Schmit's solo project. Singing Billboard #1 songs, Heartache Tonight, Hotel
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California, New Kid in Town, One of These Nights, Best of My Love, while executing the guitar parts and rhythm track to perfection. July 28 – No Duh (No Doubt) – Bel Vino Winery No Duh mixes the experience and energy of a live No Doubt & Gwen Stefani concert with nostalgic visuals, styling and props of the No Doubt & Gwen Stefani videos, complete with costumes and hits like Just a Girl, Hella Good, Underneath It All, It’s My Life, and Hey Baby. Gwen Stefani says about No Duh, “They’re amazing.” No Doubt says, “No Duh rules!” For more information and to purchase tickets, please go to HeyDay.com.
These performances are part of the of the HeyDay “Under the Stars” Concert Series. Get a complete list of entertainment, find specials and purchase tickets at HeyDay.com, or for questions call (760) 716-6295.
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The Why Before the Buy Understanding consumers’ buying behaviors and decisions
(Family Features) Today’s consumers don’t often follow a simple path of “search for what I want, find it, buy it.” They search at home, at work and on-thego to find the products and services they need. New research from YP, the leading local marketing solutions provider and publisher of yp.com and The Real Yellow Pages®, reveals the factors that influence a consumer’s fragmented shopping patterns and their decision to make – or not make – a purchase. “Consumers today zigzag between devices, platforms and locations to discover products and services, and we wanted to find out why,” said Allison Checchi, chief marketing officer at YP. “Our goal was to get a deeper understanding of what influences consumers to make a decision to go with one business over another.”
Basics and Then Some Consumers use nearly three sources of information, on average, during the search process, so it takes more than a simple business profile listing to truly stand out from the competition. It takes having a strong online presence and rich content. According to the study, consumers value two kinds of information when looking for businesses: primary information, such as price, location and availability of products and services; and secondary information, such as offers, testimonials, ratings, recommendations, photos or videos. While nearly 52 percent of consumers make their decisions based on primary information, about 48 percent make their buying decisions based on secondary information. Consumers who said their decision was based mostly on secondary factors spend an average of two times as much money as those using only primary information. Accuracy Counts Just as there are key factors consumers consider before making a purchase, there are factors that influence a consumer’s decision to not consider a business. Consumers voiced their dissatisfaction loud and clear when it comes to businesses with an online presence that is inaccurate, inconsistent or incomplete. Not only did these shoppers say they would take their money elsewhere, they wouldn’t even consider the business, leaving no chance for the business owner to change the customer’s decision. Reasons to Use Mobile The majority of consumers (64 percent) are device hopping, with smartphones playing a role at some point in the search process. Aside from convenience and speed, some of the top reasons for using a mobile device are the ability to find a location “near me” and to “click-to-call” a business directly from the phone. “A strong digital presence is critical to connecting local businesses with consumers wherever they are, on whatever device they’re using,” Checchi said. “This research shows that consumers won’t even consider a business that has an inaccurate or incomplete online presence and that businesses are missing out on opportunities if they don’t have basic information and contextual content.” For more information about the factors that influence consumers’ buying decisions, visit whybeforethebuy.com and follow the conversation using #WhyTheBuy. 10 Ways You May be Deterring Customers Part of understanding what makes a consumer decide to make a purchase is understanding the opposite – what makes them turn away from one business and toward another? Although high prices top the reasons consumers won’t consider a business, YP’s “The Why Before the Buy” survey found there are a number of other factors that can deter them from considering a business. The common thread in nearly all the following factors: online presence. 1. High prices (62 percent of consumers) 2. Negative ratings and reviews (55 percent) 3. Inconsistent information (37 percent)
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Website has inaccurate information (37 percent) Wrong contact information listed online (32 percent) No website (30 percent) No testimonials, ratings and reviews (27 percent) Website is hard to navigate (26 percent) Not familiar with the business (21 percent) No photos or videos of the business (17 percent)
Stand Out Online Technology has revolutionized the consumer journey. Today, a huge portion of that journey takes place online. That means if a business doesn’t have an online presence, consumers won’t find it and will take their business elsewhere. A webcast series moderated by Jeff Biesman, vice president of customer acquisition and retention marketing at YP, will share findings from a new research study that explains why consumers make the purchase decisions they do and how small business owners can influence today’s consumers. Sessions include: Improving Your Online Presence – This session focuses on the importance of mobile-friendly websites, business profiles, video content and social media. Winning Customers with Search Engine Marketing – This session explores topics such as the role mobile devices play in the search process, the importance of delivering a personalized consumer experience and how social media factors into the equation. Building Your Brand with Mobile Ads – This session discusses strategies including location intelligence, audience segments, defining the goal of your ad and best practices. For more information on “The Why Before the Buy” webcast series, visit whybeforethebuy.com.
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IN THIS ISSUE
ART Austin Casson Sculpter ......................................................................46
BEAUTY Smell Your Way To A Better Mood......................................................12
EDUCATION Teachers are Heroes .............................................................................8 Opportuniites in Criminal Justice..........................................................9 TEF Sponsors Summer School Classes ...............................................9
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ENTERTAINMENT Under the Stars Concert Series ............................................................4 B & W Fest Country Sunday ...............................................................17 Pink and Black Spring Fling................................................................17 Performances at the OT Theater.........................................................26
EVENTS MSJC Spring Dance Concert .............................................................13 One-Day Women’s Conference ..........................................................28 Digifest 2017 .......................................................................................31 Community Events..............................................................................42
FAITH Playing Favorites.................................................................................28 Moral Absolutes ..................................................................................29
FAMILY The Why Before you Buy ......................................................................5 Asking for Help is Corageous .............................................................33
FASHION Fashion Week Events..........................................................................13
HEALTHY LIFESTYLE Fighting Spring Allergens ....................................................................19
HISTORY The Butterfield Stage – More than a Stop ..........................................38
HOME Natural Stone in the Shower ...............................................................10 Top Design Trends for Kids Rooms ....................................................21
JUST FOR FUN Fact or Fiction – Hyper vs Hypo .........................................................34
KIDS Cooking with Kids...............................................................................44
MOTHER’S DAY Mother’s Day Chateaubriand ..............................................................14 Mother’s Day Poem ............................................................................15 9 Lessons I Learned from Super Moms..............................................30
PETS Pet Adoptions .....................................................................................41
SENIORS Does Aging Really Impact Your Teeth?...............................................18
TEENS Parenting- The World They Live In......................................................32
VISITING OUR VINEYARDS Sweet Oaks Ranch .............................................................................16
FEATURE Vail Ranch HQ – The Heart of Temecula .............................................22
support local businesses O2 Alive and Well .....................................................37 Academic Associates.................................................45 Academy of Ballet Arts ..............................................45 Animal Friends of the Valley ......................................41 Anthony's Ristorante.................................................14 Artistic Expressions Permanent Makeup ...................13 Azuza Pacific University .............................................9 Barons Market.............................................................3 Butterfield Dog Grooming .........................................41 California Parks Co. ..................................................48 California Rental Connection, Inc. .............................21 California Technical Academy .....................................8 Center for Life Change...............................................33 Christina Cadwell.......................................................20 Coldwell Banker.........................................................47 Faith Armory ...............................................................4 Falkner Winery ..........................................................16 Farmers Wife, The .....................................................26 Farmers Market Vail HQ ............................................23 Fuhr Piano.................................................................20 Geri Fit in Wildomar ..................................................42 Grace Evangelical Free ..............................................28 Heart of the House ....................................................15 Heyday Productions ..................................................17 Honeycutt Farms .......................................................14 Jane Michael Salon ...................................................13 Jeweler by Design .....................................................11 Kids Outlet.................................................................43 Kids World Preschool ...............................................24 Living Jen..................................................................37 Menifee History Museum ..........................................31 Menifee Bible Church ................................................28 Morton Grabel Law Offices........................................35 Moonbeams and Elephants Boutique ........................23
My Grannys' Attic......................................................26 NAFE Meetings ..........................................................42 Naughty Pig Gourmet Meats .......................................5 Old Town Spice Merchants........................................27 Play Smartz ...............................................................45 Plumber- Ron Dumas................................................20 Powers Dentistry.......................................................10 Rancon - Vicki Puterbaugh........................................20 Salon Ambre .............................................................16 Richard Shuldiner O. D. ............................................19 Senior Health Fair......................................................18 Sizzler........................................................................15 Smart Moms Fundraiser............................................43 Southwest Women's Chorus.....................................42 Spring Fling- Michelle's Place ..................................36 Storm Baseball ..........................................................34 Studio 395...................................................................7 Subscriptions ............................................................44 Sweet Cheeks Skin & Body Care ...............................44 Swim to Shore ..........................................................44 Temecula Newcomers Club .......................................44 Temecula Valley Symphony Calendar ........................44 Temecula Women's Connection ................................44 Texas Lil's Mesquite Grill ..........................................44 TIP - Awards Dinner ..................................................44 Vail Pizzeria ...............................................................44 Van Avery Prep .........................................................44 Van Avery Prep Gradulation ......................................44 Word Search .............................................................44 Word Search Answer Key..........................................44
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Arts Non-Profit New Operator of County Facility
STUDIO 395 Foundation, a local non-profit arts cooperative, is the new operator of the Lakeland Village Community Center at 16275 Grand Ave., Lake Elsinore, CA. The Riverside County owned facility, which used to be the old Butterfield Elementary School, was partially rehabbed in 2015 and opened to the public, under the County Parks and Recreation Department, in July, 2016, beginning some classes for the community and hosting local meetings. First District Supervisor, Kevin Jeffries, moved his regional staff office to the location and the Economic Development Agency began a search for a third party operator towards the end of the year. Since 2011, STUDIO 395 has successfully managed art and culture related programming focused on education and creation while pursuing their mission of finding work for local artists and developing a venue that would be home to an artists’ community. In 2016, the organization saw a couple of opportunities for that via a licensing agreement with the City of Lake Elsinore for an 1 ½ acre parcel of property on Main St. and then with this Lakeland Village Community Center, which they refer to as the Village On Grand. Taking over the Village in January, the amount and variety of classes has increased. Currently there is a schedule of various art and recreation related offerings such as Zumba, Tai Chi, Creative Writing, Ceramics, Tae Kwando, College Prep Classes, Etiquette and Modeling. Coming soon will be Theatre, Yoga, a Maker’s Series, Sewing, Fine Arts, Ballet Folklorico and more. In addition, the group is working with another non-profit, It’s Bigger Than Sports, to rehab the sports fields at the facility so youth and adult sports can be offered. There has also been discussion with a local woman’s roller derby league to bring a playing facility to the property. Some class offerings have been free to the community as the group worked through grant funding they received from the National Endowment for the Arts for 2016-2017. Call the facility, at 951-471-4407, for specifics of current classes or to be put on an interest list of upcoming classes. “We are very excited to be operating this location; it has become the
home we were looking for to establish arts in our community,” said Grace Sandlin, founding member of STUDIO 395. “Our organization is very involved with trying to revitalize the community and the Village is a starting point by being a gathering center, a place for creation, entertainment and recreation.”
STUDIO 395 is a non-profit artist cooperative with a mission of taking art into the community by engaging the underserved resident of the area and finding opportunities for local artists to create, display, sell and instruct.
Mt. San Jacinto College Presents th Annual Student Art Show: Student = Artist
The Show will be open through May 11 Monday thru Thursday from 10:00 am – 4:00 pm at the San Jacinto Campus Art Gallery, Building 1400 located at 1499 N. State St., 92583. Mt. San Jacinto College Art Gallery is pleased to present STUDENT = ARTIST, The MSJC Annual Student Art Show. This group show celebrates the immense talent of the student artists at both the San Jacinto and Menifee Valley campuses. All artwork on display was created during the 2016-17 academic year by students. Participating artworks are nominated by instructors whose selection criteria are to represent the best examples and a wide range of subject matter and media. The show features the range of media that students learn at the school including drawing, painting, two-dimensional and three-dimensional design, ceramic arts, sculpture, bronze casting, photography and digital illustration. The gallery is free and open to the public. Visit msjc.edu/artgallery. For more information contact John Knuth at 951-487-3585 or jknuth@msjc.edu
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Hemet Teacher Sandra Turner Presented With March Teachers are Heroes Award
Celebrating educators who go far above and beyond the call of duty, the Azusa Pacific University (APU) Teachers are Heroes program shines a spotlight on one of the most important professions…teaching! On Tuesday, March 21, 2017, representatives from APU and KATY 101.3 “The Mix” recognized Diamond Valley Middle School teacher Sandra Turner as the March Teachers are Heroes winner. Turner was grateful as she accepted this special award. Diamond Valley Principal Robert Dominguez along with Turner’s students and husband were on hand to share this happy occasion. Mrs. Turner is currently a Language Arts and Honor’s Social Studies teacher. She has been teaching for 18 years. Turner spent her first two years teaching KinderAdults from left to right: Diamond Valley Principal Robert Dominguez, Teachers are Heroes March Recipient Sandra Turner, Rachel Jacobs and Karan McGlynn with Turner's students
garten and then taught middle school for 16 years, teaching many different subjects. Jacen Moore, one of her students, nominated Mrs. Turner and said, “I think she is our hero because she does community service to help others, and loves to teach her students in a positive way that make her students feel important. She also comes from a four-generation military family.” Jacen’s mother, Mrs. Moore, added, “Mrs. Turner has opened my son’s eyes to Social Studies and he is fascinated with ancient history.” Turner was awarded special prizes from The Mix Prize Closet and APU. Following the presentation, Turner and her class were treated to a pizza party provided by the Temecula Pizza Factory. Mrs. Turner and previous Teachers are Heroes award recipients and their classes are invited to attend a special Teachers are Heroes celebration at the Lake Elsinore Storm Stadium in May.
Grant Jumpstarts S.T.E.M Book Collection at the Temecula Public Library Thanks to a $1,500 grant from the Temecula Valley Woman’s Club, the Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library (30600 Pauba Road) has been able to develop a special collection of S.T.E.M books. A fresh supply of approximately 80 titles on science, technology, engineering, and math can now be found and checked out at your local library. From the science of superheroes to help with learning algebra equations, there is a variety of books that will appeal to both teens and adults. The collection will be displayed until the end of this year’s S.T.E.M-themed Summer Reading Program, Reading by Design. As part of the grant, the library also received a pin making machine that will be used for programs such as the upcoming Free Comic Book Day, Vol. 4 event on Saturday, May 6, 2017.
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Learn About Opportunities with a Criminal Justice Degree! Information Session to be held at Azusa Pacific University Murrieta Regional Campus
Attending an Azusa Pacific University (APU) Murrieta Campus information session is a terrific way to learn more about APU’s Professional Undergraduate Bachelor of Arts Degree in Criminal Justice. APU Murrieta Regional Campus is hosting a free Information Meeting on Wednesday, May 24, 2017, from 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm at 40508 Murrieta Hot Springs Road (to the right of Sam’s Club). A light dinner will be served. This information session will cover key topics including: career opportunities, program information, admissions requirements, navigating the application process, financial aid opportunities, and important dates and deadlines. The Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS) projects job growth from now until 2022 in several occupations related to criminal justice, such as information security analysts, paralegals and legal assistants, private detectives and investigators, security guards and gaming surveillance officers, and criminal justice and law
enforcement teachers. The BLS also projects several replacement positions available in law enforcement. This, coupled with the societal outcry for a fresh look at all aspects of the criminal justice system, makes this an exciting time to study criminal justice, and leaders are needed in all areas of this vital field. APU is a leading Christian university and continues to be recognized annually among the nation’s best colleges by U.S. News & World Report and The Princeton Review. APU is WSCUC (formerly WASC) accredited. The APU Murrieta Regional Campus is proud to be a part of Southwest Riverside County for over 30 years and offers a variety of undergraduate and graduate degrees. The May 24th information meeting is for adults only. To RSVP for the event please contact Gloria Wolnick at (951) 304-3400 or gwolnick@apu.edu. To learn more about APU and these programs visit www.apu.edu/murrieta
Temecula Education Foundation Sponsors 8th Year of High School Summer Classes Registration Opens May 1; Temecula Students Have Until May 31 to Sign Up for High School Acceleration & Enrichment Classes
The Temecula Education Foundation (TEF), a nonprofit dedicated to supporting the nearly 30,000 students in the Temecula Valley Unified School District (TVUSD), is pleased to announce that its list of proposed classes for Summer 2017 high school acceleration and enrichment, known as TEF Summer High School, is now online at temeculaeducationfoundation.org. Online class registration opens May 1, and closes May 31. There are no refunds for any courses after June 6. Classes will be held on the campus of Chaparral High School, 27215 Nicolas Rd., in Temecula. The TEF-sponsored for-credit and non-credit classes offer high school students, including current eighth graders who will be high school freshmen in August, an opportunity to get a head start on their 2017-18 high school classes. Students also can prepare for the rigors of high school algebra or advanced level (AP/IB) Chemistry by taking enrichment boot camps. TEF is pleased to continue its collaboration with TVUSD to provide this opportunity for students. Among the proposed classes are Ceramics, Geometry, Spanish 1, 2, and 3, World History, Economics, and Government. All for-credit classes meet University of California “A-G” entrance requirements. To help give students an advantage before tackling regular school-year classes, workshops (for practice only; no credit) will be offered in Pre-AP/IB Chemistry and Algebra I “boot camp” workshops. The designation AP refers to Advanced Placement, and IB/International Baccalaureate, college-level classes which are generally more demanding. Back for its fourth year is the Algebra I Boot Camp, which is designed to help students transition from middle to high school by reviewing and helping them understand basic algebraic concepts and mathematics standards. Fee-based acceleration and enrichment classes are sponsored by TEF, with the Temecula Valley Unified School District (TVUSD) serving as the accreditation body for courses taught for credit. Class registration can be accessed online via the TEF website, using the cloud-based purchase platform sponsored by PurplePass Ticketing. Classes will be held Mondays through Fridays at Chaparral High School beginning June 12 and concluding July 7. There will be no class held on Tuesday, July 4th, in observance of the Independence Day holiday. Schedules vary; see temeculaeducationfoundation.org for specific dates. Classes are intended for students within the TVUSD boundaries; students from other districts should check with their home schools before registering. Classes are subject to change based on lack of enrollment and/or teacher availability. Enrichment or for-credit classes should not be confused with TVUSD high school credit recovery or remediation summer school courses. Information on those courses is available from each high school’s counseling department and on the TVUSD website at www.tvusd.k12.ca.us.
About Temecula Education Foundation: TEF seeks to enhance or improve educational opportunities for students in Grades K-12 in the Temecula Valley Unified School District. The 501(c)3 nonprofit foundation is governed by an all-volunteer Board of Directors; it includes parents, business and civic leaders, and community members. Information can be found at temeculaeducationfoundation.org
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Natural Stone in the Shower
(Family Features) When it comes to beauty, few building materials can compete with natural stone. One-of-a-kind markings, dramatic colors and rich finishes make it a popular choice, especially in bathrooms where it can transform a utilitarian space into a spa-like retreat. Long considered a great choice for countertops, more homeowners are now installing natural stone in the shower. “Stone can be a good choice for the shower, but it does require certain care and maintenance,” said David Bonasera, owner of ESP, a San Jose, California-based distributor of environmentally safe cleaning and sealing products for natural stone. “The most important thing you can do is be a good steward to the stone.”
Know Your Material Your success will depend on the material you choose, said Gregory Mowat, founder of Forensic Tile Consultants in San Diego, California, who investigates stone installation failures and assemblies. While marble is a beautiful and popular choice for bathrooms, homeowners should be aware that it should be sealed prior to use in the shower. A useful generalization is that the lighter the stone, the more porous it is. Darker stones have a tighter molecular structure and are less likely to stain, Bonasera said.
There are many exceptions to this concept and a knowledgeable stone supplier and fabricator can help guide you to a suitable material. Granite is a good choice for bathrooms, said Jacqueline Tabbah, vice president of International Stoneworks, Inc., a stone restoration company in Houston, Texas. “Most granites are easier to maintain because they don’t react to the three As: acid, ammonia and alcohol,” she said. “Acid reacts to marble and travertine, and etches the surface, removing the polished finish.”
Understand Proper Care No matter what material you use, there will always be maintenance, Tabbah said. “Customers may decide not to use natural stone, but porcelain tile can become discolored and grout lines can darken,” she said. “There is always upkeep, it will just be different.” When cleaning natural stone, it is best to keep things simple. Soapy cleaners can add buildup and attract dirt while vinegar and harsh cleaners can damage stone. To avoid these issues, always use a neutral cleaner with a pH level around seven. A few quick preventative measures can keep stone surfaces looking fresh. To help avoid water marks on the stone surface, use a squeegee on the walls after showering. Bonasera also recommends leaving the door open to accelerate air drying and using glycerin over traditional bar soap. “It’s transparent and doesn’t have a lot of fat, lye and animal byproducts that are in regular soap,” he said. “It will cut soap scum, which is a food source for mold.” Maintain Stone Even the tidiest homeowner should consider hiring a professional to come out every 2-5 years to have the stone re-honed or re-polished because it can lose its luster over time due to water exposure or calcium deposits, Tabbah said. To prolong its original luster and minimize maintenance, homeowners should consider sealing stone when used in bathrooms that receive daily use. For more information about using natural stone in your shower, or elsewhere in your home, visit usenaturalstone.com. Main image (white marble shower) courtesy of Stoneshop Secondary image (grey stone shower) courtesy of M S International
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Smell Your Way to a Better Mood
(Family Features) Though often taken for granted, smell is a powerful sense, especially when a gentle scent can instantly transport your mind to another time and place. From retrieving pleasant memories to boosting your mood, your sense of smell plays an important role in your overall well-being. The scents you detect are actually tiny molecules that interact with sensory centers in your brain to elicit responses, such as happiness, relaxation or stimulation. For centuries, smell has been associated with healing practices. Today, the restorative and uplifting benefits of smell can be found throughout everyday life. Next time you’re feeling down or need to soothe your mind, turn to one of these aromatic options:
• Light candles with a soft, calming scent to relax and unwind. Try lighting the candle when you walk in the door from a long day, and by the time you’ve changed into some comfy clothes, the aroma should begin to fill the air.
• Take a warm shower and lather up with a scent-driven body wash, such as Softsoap Honey Creme & Lavender or Blooming Jasmine & Plum Moisturizing Body Wash. Inspired by trending ingredients and crafted with real extracts of honey, lavender, jasmine and plum, these body washes can create an invigorating sensory experience that moisturizes and cleanses your skin. • Energize your morning with a vibrant air freshener in your car. According to the National Sleep Foundation, scents like citrus, rosemary, peppermint and eucalyptus are stimulants that can help you shake off sleepiness and put some pep in your step. In fact, fruity smells like citrus actually stimulate serotonin, the brain’s “happy” chemical.
• A fresh bouquet of flowers is an instant mood-booster, but not just because of their beauty. Numerous studies have shown the emotional benefits of a vase filled with fresh blooms. Take that goodwill a step further by taking a trip to a flower market to purchase fresh flowers with fragrant qualities that can brighten your desk or a room at home.
• It may be the anticipation of a tasty treat to come, or maybe it’s the connection to childhood memories with a beloved relative, but few can resist the smell of homemade treats baking in the oven. Of course you can cheat and light a candle or burn wax or oil that mimics the scent, but nothing comes close to the therapy of freeing your hands and mind to bake and create that delicious aroma on your own.
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Beauty 2nd Year for Temecula Fashion Week in May with Three Major Fasion Events Over Three Days
The events are set to build greater interest and awareness for the region’s fashion brands, designers and enthusiasts. Temecula Fashion Week, in partnership with Inland Valley Business and Community Foundation (IVBCF), with three events over three days kicks off on Friday, May 19, 2017. Temecula Fashion Week begins on Friday May 19th at the Old Town Temecula City Hall. Fashion Promenade, will feature a community fundraiser “Modeling for a Cause” presented by nonprofit ‘Before the Transition, Inc.’, founded by Dorothy Lee. The fashion show assists students by providing scholarships to graduating seniors interested in or intending to pursue a course of study at either a college/university or other post-secondary educational institution. Local Fashion Stylist Tyrone Franklin will showcase his Men’s Clothing Line. Other designers will include Diana Orr, Timmithea Leeds along with Design on a Vine Boutique owner, Rosalind Barmore. Following Entertainment, the Best Dressed will be presented by a panel of judges. On Saturday May 20th Professional Designers Vanessa Alfaro, Michael Bui, and Lisseth Corrao and Professional Hat Designer Annette Higgins will be present. Entertainment and judging for the Best Dressed will continue. Finally on Sunday, May 21st the final judging will take place. Information on Temecula Fashion Week events, dates, tickets and line-up is available at TEMECULAFASHIONWEEK.COM.
Mt. San Jacinto College Spring Dance Concert: Here and Now May 4, 5, 6, 7:30 pm May 7, 2:00 pm Menifee Valley Campus Lab Theatre, Rm. 207 28237 La Piedra Rd., 92584
Dancers will be performing original work choreographed by students, faculty and a World Dance Guest Artist. Our title relates to our definition of dance as "expression of self in the here and now." Original student and faculty work will be presented and a World Premiere of a new work by World Dance Guest Artist Renuka Gupta will be performed. This concert will have something for everyone: genres include hip hop, jazz, modern and contemporary dance forms. The dynamic concert is always a sell-out, so make your reservations early. $10 General admission, $9 Seniors, Veterans and Students with an SGA Card, $5 Children under 12, FREE for Lap-child For more information contact Paula Naggi at 951-639-5792 or pnaggi@msjc.edu
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Mother’s Day Châteaubriand
Châteaubriand, the classic steak for two made from a center-cut filet, requires little dressing up. Like most high-quality cuts, it's best cooked rare to medium. Serve with sautéed julienned vegetables.
Makes 4 servings
4 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil INGREDIENTS
1 (20-ounce) center-cut beef tenderloin
Kosher salt and freshly ground pepper to taste
2 large shallot, peeled and chopped
1 cup red wine (whatever you're drinking) PREPARATION
1. Preheat oven to 450°F.
2. In an ovenproof, heavy-bottomed frying pan, heat the olive oil over high heat until hot but not smoking. 3. Season the meat with salt, then brown it in the pan on all sides.
4. Transfer the pan to the oven and roast until the meat's internal temperature reaches 130°F (for rare), 10 to 15 minutes. Remove the pan from the oven.
5. Transfer the meat to a cutting board and tent it with foil.
6. Pour all but a thin film of fat from the pan.
7. Add the shallot and sauté it over medium-low heat until golden, 2 to 3 minutes.
8. Add the wine and raise the heat to high, scraping up any brown bits from the pan.
9. When the sauce is syrupy (about 5 minutes), turn off the heat and whisk in the butter.
10.Carve the meat in thick slices and drizzle with the pan sauce.
You can pre-order your center cut beef tenderloin at the Naughty Pig Butchery in Murrieta951.677.1372
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Wonderful Mother God made a wonderful mother, A mother who never grows old; He made her smile of the sunshine, And He moulded her heart of pure gold; In her eyes He placed bright shining stars, In her cheeks fair roses you see; God made a wonderful mother, And He gave that dear mother to me. ~Pat O'Reilly
Happy Motherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day !
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Visiting Our Vineyards
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Temecula’s Sweet Oaks Experiencing a Dynamic Transformation Under New Ownership
Heather Petersen, founder and Chief Executive Officer of National Merchants Association (NMA), recently purchased Sweet Oaks Ranch, a 40-acre equestrian facility and vineyard property in the heart of Temecula horse and wine country. The property is dedicated to creating elevated experiences for equestrians and visitors alike. Sweet Oaks Ranch is undergoing an exciting transformation that includes plans for a wine production facility, and a picturesque venue for live music, private events, and destination weddings. “I am proud to be the new owner of Sweet Oaks,” Petersen said. “It is a very special place that has great potential to become a premier destination for members of the local community and visitors from around the world.” The property, conveniently located near the intersection of Highway 79 and Pauba Road at 43240 Los Corralitos Road, is just 15 minutes from Old Town Temecula and Temecula Wine Country. Petersen has selected one of the country’s most well-respected equestrians, Jess Hargrave, to serve as the head trainer for Sweet Oaks. Hargrave is a Certified Level III coach with a wide range of specialties ranging from U.S. Pony Club to dressage and eventing. Sweet Oaks is equipped with state-of-the-art equestrian training equipment, fa-
cilities and amenities including top-flight horse barns with 28 stalls, two large arenas complete with covered viewing area and 24/7 onsite security. Petersen, who built NMA from a home-based business into a multi-million dollar payments industry giant, has big plans for the property. Her vision includes a destination wedding venue, a wine production facility, and the ability to host private, corporate and live music events. “We are excited about the plans that we have for Sweet Oaks,” Petersen said. “We are committed to creating first-class venues where memories will be made to last a lifetime.” Visit http://www.SweetOaks.com.
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Balloon and Wine Festival Country Sunday Line Up - June 4 Josh Turner, David Nail, Cassadee Pope & Chris Carmack
Josh currently has "Country Girl" climbing the charts at No. 9 on Billboard's Hot Country List, and No. 7 on Country Airplay. Josh has sold more than 12 million units, and you know him from his hits “Your Man,” “Why Don’t We Just Dance,” “Firecracker,” “Would You Go with Me,” “All Over Me,” and “Time Is Love,” the most played country song of 2012. David Nail is best known for his No. 1 Country Hits "Let It Rain" (featuring Sarah Buxton) and "Whatever She's Got." His song "Red Light" from the album I'm about to Come Alive," reached No. 7. His latest album "Fighter" continues to produce hits including "Nights on Fire" and "Good at Tonight" featuring Brothers Osborne. Cassadee Pope, 2012 "The Voice" winner, most recently recorded a duet with Chris Young, "Think of You", for Young's Album "I'm Comin' Over." The song hit No. 1 on U.S. Country Airplay in May 2016 and gained her a Grammy Nomination for Best Country Duo/Group 2016. Hits from her first two albums include "Wasting All These Tears," and "I Am Invincible." You know Chris Carmack from the CMT Drama "Nashville". In 2013, Chris was cast as Scarlett and Gunnar's neighbor Will, a sexy and charming
Michelle’s Place Hosts Pink & Black Spring Fling on May 19th
Michelle’s Place is thrilled to announce this years’ Pink and Black Spring Fling event will be held at the Carriage House at Galway Downs in South Temecula on May 19th from 6 pm to 11 pm. This is the first year Michelle’s Place has hosted an event at Galway Downs with Wedgewood Wedding and Banquet Center. Guests will enjoy a champagne reception, cash bar and silent auction outside the Carriage House in the beautiful meadow and amphitheater, followed by dinner in the unique and historical Carriage House featuring live entertainment! This years’ event will be one to remember! But, space is limited and tickets do sell out. Tickets are $100 per person and can be purchased at www.michellesplace.org/spring-fling-tickets or by calling Michele at (951) 699-5455. This event has several sponsorship levels that offer unique marketing opportunities. Businesses that are interested in sponsoring the Pink & Black Spring Fling event are encouraged to contact Jamie Goebel to secure a sponsorship at 951-757-5936 or jamie@michellesplace.org. Or to purchase directly visit www.michellesplace.org.
country singer and guitar player. He was later promoted to a regular cast member, and now has over 75 episodes under his belt. For Tickets: https://tickets.completeticketsolutions.com/tvb/online/default.asp
CONCERT – TEMECULA VALLEY SYMPHONY & CHORUS Combined May 20 – Sat. 2:00 p.m. – UNIVERSAL, Season Finale at Golden Bears Theater, Temecula Valley High School, 31555 Rancho Vista Rd., Temecula. TICKETS: $25 Adults, $15 Active Military, $10 Students, $5 Children (12 & Under). Program highlights include the last movement of Beethoven’s 9th Symphony, music from Broadway, and more… Temecula Valley Symphony is a 60-member orchestra under the baton of Music Director and Conductor, John Mario. The Symphony produces numerous concerts throughout the year and takes pride in offering “symphonic music with a new twist.” Our concert programs include exciting selections from movies, animated films, Broadway, operas, epic classics, works featuring our Symphony Chorus, and refreshing compositions by living composers. We aim to provide you with a memorable concert experience that includes large screen projections and humorously delivered program notes presented live from the podium by John Mario. Symphony & Chorus Concert Tickets are available online or at the door. Call 951-587-1536 or visit www.TemeculaValleySymphony.org
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Fact vs. Fiction: Does Aging Really Impact Your Teeth? Troubled by the thought of what could happen to your mouth as you age? Don't let old wives' tales and stereotypes get the better of you! Time can take a toll on the most able-bodied of individuals, but you may be surprised by how much control seniors retain over their dental destiny. Read on to get the facts on common claims about elderly teeth and gums. "Teeth become weak and brittle due to age." Teeth chip, crack and/or suffer enamel damage not due to aging, but because of negative habits left unchecked over time. Everything from constant teeth grinding, to excessive intake of acidic foods and improper brushing can take a serious toll on teeth, leaving them vulnerable to damage. With proper care, teeth can remain strong and healthy for a lifetime. "Losing teeth is inevitable." Similar to the claim above, it is simply not true that dentures are inescapable in your later years. Severe tooth decay and gum recession, both common contributors to tooth loss, can be avoided by brushing and flossing as directed by your dentist, and visiting your dentist regularly. Being proactive about dental care can provide you with treatment options before it's too late. If the problem is tooth decay, for instance, catching it early can mean the difference between a filling or root canal, and a complete tooth replacement. "You don't need to visit the dentist if you have dentures." Even if you sport dentures in place of natural teeth, you still need to go to the dentist regularly. Dentures wear down over time, and eventually need to be reshaped to avoid causing speech or chewing difficulties. Your dentist
can also help detect, prevent and/or address larger oral health complications, whether it be oral cancer or dental side effects to common medications. "As you become older, your mouth starts to feel dry." There is no evidence that points to age as a direct cause of dry mouth. The more likely reason that dry mouth (or Xerostomia) appears correlated with age may be due to an increase in prescription medications or to another health condition. There are hundreds of commonly prescribed medicines known to cause dry mouth, and it can also be brought about by nerve damage, or open-mouthed breathing due to a nasal obstruction. "The state of your oral health has nothing to do with your overall health." Placing oral health low on your priority list can prove costly. With chewing being one of the mouths' primary functions, neglecting it can affect your range of food choices, thus contributing to a nutritional imbalance or deficiency. Disregarding dental care can also cause you to overlook serious diseases and other health conditions, many of which manifest themselves in your teeth, gums or throat. Routine exams and proper at-home hygiene are simple ways to preserve your oral health and that of your body. Get Answers from Your Dentist For any questions or concerns regarding your dental health, talk to your dentist. He or she can easily verify whether dental claims are true or false, and provide you with an optimal treatment plan based on your unique needs.
Sources: Adult Dental Health: Healthy Aging. (2014 August). Retrieved July 2, 2015 from https://www.deltadentalins.com/oral_health/adult-dental-health.html Jaret, Peter. (2010, August 2). How Teeth Change With Age. Retrieved July 2, 2015, from http://www.webmd.com/oral-health/features/teeth-gums-age Nothing But The Tooth: Debunking Myths About Senior's Oral Health Your Aging Mouth. (2015, April 26). Retrieved July 2, 2015, from http://www.dentalcosmeticspa.com/oral-care/nothing-but-the-tooth-debunking-myths-about-seniors-oral-health-your-aging-mouth/ Article Compliments of Powers Dentistry, 27701 Scott Rd., Menifee, CA. 951-301-610
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Take a Mindful Approach to Fighting Spring Allergens
(Family Features) While springtime means blooming flowers, warmer temperatures and more time spent outdoors, it also means allergies and pollen. Tackling dust mite matter, tree pollen and animal dander is completely different from protecting your home against the winter flu and requires a new regimen of preparation and cleaning. Take on spring allergens by refreshing your home with these simple practices, and help get your family ready to enjoy the warmer months. Prep for Bed. Allergens don’t go to bed when you do; they can continue to irritate even while you’re sleeping, causing a restless slumber. To help ensure allergens and pollens aren’t tracked into bedrooms, leave a laundry basket in the hall and have family members remove their clothing before entering their rooms. A quick rinse in a warm shower before bed can help you relax and wind down while also washing away any unwanted pollens still stuck in your hair or on your skin. Freshen Fabrics. Clothing, towels and bed linens – items you come in contact with multiple times a day – can trap pollens, dust mite matter, allergens and dander. It’s important to not only rinse these items but to use a detergent that removes allergens and is gentle on skin, like all free clear liquid and mightypacs laundry detergent for sensitive skin. The liquid detergent removes 99 percent of everyday and seasonal allergens, including the top spring allergens: tree and grass pollen, and is the No. 1 recommended de-
Macular Degenerration Vision Enhancem ment Low Vision Optometrist, Dr. Richard Shulldiner, uses miniature telescope and other low vision glasses sses to improve the vision of those with macular degenerattion, diabetic retinopathy and other vision loss conditions. ditions.
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to treat minor cuts and injuries on set. He had no ideea that help was available from m a low vision doctor until his is wife saw Dr. Shuldiner’s advertisement in the local newsspaper. In describing his situation to the d t on the doctor th phone, h Dr. Shuldiner was convinced he could help. Affter a one hour low vision evaluation, Dr. Shuldiner prescribed cusstom designed telescopic glasses for driving and microscop pe glasses for his near work. Wayne receiveed his license with the help of hiss low vision glasses and a certified d handicapped
tergent brand by dermatologists, allergists and pediatricians for sensitive skin. To view the full line of laundry products, visit allfreeclear.com. Ingredients Matter. Taking preventative measures against spring allergens can start in a surprising place: the refrigerator. While most people think about treating allergens in their homes and on their clothes, they tend to forget that a good diet is also a good defense. Avoiding aged, pickled or fermented foods like blue cheese and kimchi with naturally occurring histamines can help prevent coughing, sneezing and itching triggered by spring allergens. Instead, look to boost your meals with ingredients found in the Mediterranean Diet, such as fresh fruits and vegetables like apples and broccoli as well as nuts and fatty fishes that have essential vitamins and nutrients known to fight allergy symptoms. Give Pets a Makeover. Your furry friend may be one of the biggest culprits for sneaking allergens and pollen into the house, so this season make sure to give pets twice-a-week baths to wash out dander and pollen. Remember to also wash pet beds and chew toys that are thrown around the yard to help prevent allergens from being transported into and throughout your home. With these four steps to help protect your home and family against spring allergens, you can start enjoying a healthy, clean spring. Photo courtesy of Getty Images
driving instructor recommended by Dr. Shuldiner. Wayne now travels from home to work and credits Dr. Shuldiner with saving his life. “Dr. Shuldiner turned my life around. I used to like to sleep because when dreaming, I could see perfectly. Now I’m alive again, my self-esteem is back, and I can live a fairly normal life”. Low Vision glasses can range from about $600 to over $2900 depending upon a number of factors. “We must prove that the glasses work before we order them. Demonstrators are used during the low vision exam so the patient experiences the improvement” says Dr. Shuldiner. Every case is different because people have different levels of vision and different desires. Dr. Shuldiner sees patients in offices throughout Southern California. In addition, he
has trained over 35 doctors throughout The United ed States and Canada in treating ng people with low vision. A list of doctors trained ed by Dr. Shuldiner can be found at www.LowVisionDoctors.com. rs.com. Call Dr. Shuldiner forr a free telephone consultation on to determine if you are a candidate for a low vision evaluation. uation.
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New TechnologyDriven Hotel In Murrieta Grand Opening May 12th
Conveniently located near the 215 Freeway and the Murrieta Hot Springs Road corridor, DKN Hotels is excited to announce the opening of its latest hotel, Hampton Inn and Suites, at 25140 Hancock Avenue. The new hotel includes 106 guest rooms with hip, modern retro styling. DKN Hotels also built its newest hotel following Hampton by Hilton’s “Forever Young Initiative” or FYI. This innovative design concept is technology driven and focused on accommodating today’s leisure and business guests who travel much differently than they did ten or even five years ago. One of the main technology-focused amenities that the company’s newest hotel will feature is keyless entry—another modern convenience guests will love. This will allow guests to bypass the front desk altogether by booking their reservations, choosing a room, and opening their room door all from the comfort of their smartphone, using the Hilton Honors app. Guests, of course, will still have the option to visit the hotel’s friendly front desk staff for assistance or help during their stay. Guests of the new Hampton Inn and Suites will also enjoy a fantastic pool and spa area, a 24-hour state-of-the art fitness center and complimentary, full, hot buffet breakfast. For guests who are in town for business, the new hotel boasts a spacious meeting room that can accommodate up to 100 people. DKN Hotels will officially celebrate the grand opening of the new Murrieta hotel during the second week of June. The new Hampton Inn and Suites is the company’s thirteenth hotel to date, and it marks the third hotel to open for business in the city of Murrieta. In the near future, DKN Hotels has plans to open a Residence Inn in Rancho Cucamonga, CA and Springhill Suites in Carlsbad, CA. ABOUT DKN HOTELS: Headquartered in Irvine, California, DKN Hotels remains dedicated to delivering guests world class service at unbeatable prices. The company gets its name from its founding members—Dahya, Kiran and Neil. In 1984, they opened the Surf Motel in Carlsbad and the Marco Polo Motel in Anaheim, California. Fast forward to today and the company’s portfolio is stronger than it has ever been. The company currently owns more than a dozen popular-chain hotels throughout California and has plans to build even more. To learn more about the company visit www.dknhotels.com.
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Top Design Trends for Kids Rooms Juliet Grossman, Esq., Realtor
Kids rooms have evolved into comfortable spaces reflecting the tastes and interests of their young occupants. The hottest design trends for 2017 include incorporating natural and authentic elements, wallpaper, vintage and “found” decor, and Danish hygge.
Welcome the Great Outoors Inside Nature and raw, authentic textures and materials are on-trend in 2017. Avoid anything that looks or feels shiny, synthetic, or manmade — instead use materials that look and feel like linen, bark, hemp, and other natural elements. The hottest colors are muted and earthy: Think of forest colors like the dark green of pine needles, dark brown of tree bark, and clear blue of the sky or a mountain lake. Textures evoke velvety green moss or the roughness of fallen logs on the forest floor. Framed prints, murals, posters, and other artwork can feature natural, untamed landscapes like forests, oceans, and lakes. Swap out ultra-composed garden scenes for earthier images like closeups of flowers or candids of snow-covered mountains. “Found” natural elements make beautiful displays. Think of seashells, interesting stones, or sea glass. Vintage natural elements using coral, bone, and other interesting materials add one-of-a-kind flair to kids rooms. Swap Out Paint for Wallpaper Forget about your great-aunt’s fussy floral wallpaper! Today’s modern wall coverings are easier than ever to hang and come in an endless variety of designs and colors. Texture is wallpaper’s super power. From rough and nubby to smooth and velvety, wallpaper is now a 3D design feature. Wallpaper can also be a great way to fill in cutouts or accent areas. Consider wallpapering the wall behind a built-in bookshelf for a fun custom-designed look. Explore websites like West Elm for inspiration and ideas. Get Hygge With It The Danish concept of “hygge” (roughly translated as “comfortable coziness”) can bring calming, grounding elements to a child’s room. Welcome in a sense of hygge by creating a cozy reading nook with a plush beanbag chair and soft throw pillows, or an inviting imaginative play corner with warm lighting and a trunk of dress-up clothes. Honor hygge with soft, inviting textures, rounded-off corners, and warm lighting. Don’t forget at least one perfect, comfy chair. “Pouf” chairs and slings are very popular choices with teens (try Pottery Barn Teen to buy.) Classic hygge colors evoke Scandinavia with a palette of clean neutrals like off-white, ecru, and grey with accent colors of bright, clear blue or pale peach. Trade-in Composed Bouquets for Abstract Florals Continuing with the natural trend, abstract florals are huge in 2017, literally! Think of a wall covered in a textured abstract vine pattern, or a single massively oversized print of a gardenia. The proportions of today’s abstract florals are big, bold, and natural, making too-small florals look fussy. Don’t be afraid to go big! Think sharp! Cactus fits perfectly with 2017 design trends for kids’ rooms. Tweens and teens in particular can create a bohemian, music festival feel with cacti. Con-
sider an oversized print of a cactus, design elements featuring brightly colored cactus flower as an accent color against a neutral base, or a living cactus plant (just make sure curious little fingers can’t reach if using living cactus plants in a very young child’s room.) Have a growing family and just don’t have enough space any longer? Contact Juliet Grossman at (951)536-3607 and let me help you find your next home to create treasured family memories.
Juliet Grossman, Esq., Realtor - They call me "The Temecula Answer Lady" because I am your insider source for everything local. My husband Scott and I have been raising our daughters in the beautiful Temecula Valley since 2003. My passion for contributing to our amazing quality of life here in the Temecula Valley leads me to volunteer for organizations like National Charity League, Inc., Temecula Valley Chapter, Hillcrest Academy, MOMS Club of Temecula-Central among others. I am a proud member of the Temecula Valley Chamber of Commerce and graduate of the 2016 Temecula Trekkers Ambassador program. http://www.mytemeculadreamhome.com.
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The Lore and Legends of Temecula Vail Ranch Headquarters-The Heart of Temecula By Laurie Malmstrom Vail Ranch Red Barn
Located on a 4-acre parcel tucked away between Kohl’s and Famous Footwear on Temecula Parkway, The Vail Ranch Headquarters living history park with 7 historic buildings that have proudly stood the test of time, are now open for business. The property is a recognized California Historic Site. It is also eligible for National Historic Registry status, which when completed, will add freeway signage to direct visitors to the historic site. Vail Ranch Headquarters was restored and redeveloped thanks to the efforts of the Vail Ranch Restoration Association (VaRRA), a group of people who are passionate about saving vestiges of the past as a community heritage site. Their purpose: Education and activism. They are dedicated to the preservation and restoration of the Historic Vail Ranch Headquarters. Along with the expertise of a visionary firm, Arteco Partners, the group has turned back time to make the updated Vail Headquarters into a place to eat, drink, browse and meet friends and family and take a step back into Temecula history. When it was evident that no government agencies would underwrite the costs of restoration, a new plan was formulated. Patterned after the Old Town San Diego, the intent was to repurpose buildings that pay tribute to the history of Temecula and make the area financially self-sustaining with a collection of one-of-a-kind businesses with lots of character and historical value. Vail Ranch Headquarters and the History Center (Big Red Barn on the end of Kohl’s, open Sunday’s noon to 4 PM, admission is FREE) has turned into an attractive destination with specialty shops, restaurants and historical exhibits that are within the original structures. Walkways, paths, plantings and other custom landscaping have resulted in a project that has a strong sense of history as well as unique retailers. Vail Headquarters has been the heart of Temecula since 1867. Multiple levels of history are represented on the property. Before 1848, California was a sleepy languid land. The United States had just wrestled this land from Mexico. And, then on a crisp January morning, a carpenter, James Marshall, went down the river to look at the progress of construction on a mill he was building for John Sutter, and Gold was discovered in Northern California. Inland California was wild and the domain of Indians and later the domicile of a few settlers who had been granted es-
tates by the Mexican government. The Indian Treaty was signed January 5, 1852. Temecula Valley was the road for the Southern Emigrant Trail; the Mormon Battalion passed thru TV on the way from Iowa to San Diego for the Mexican American War. German immigrant, Louis Wolf and his Chumash wife, Ramona, built a small adobe trading post next to Temecula Creek in 1867. Their Wolf Store helped launch the Temecula community, serving as a saloon, livery stable, legal services, hotel general store, post office, school and employment agency. Upon the deaths of Louis and Ramona, their land and 3 other surrounding ranchos were purchased by Arizona cattle baron, Walter Vail. By 1905, the sprawling Vail Ranch spread to 87,500 acres from South of Highway 79 to South of Clinton Keith Road, East to Vail Lake Resort and West to Camp Pendleton. Operations continued through the late 1970’s when Vail Ranch was sold for housing subdivisions and the At the Vail Ranch Red Barn you can find a replica of the Butterfield area became Stagecoach ( See article on P. 38-9 to learn more about the history of the Butterfield Stage Route) and a Buckboard. known as Rancho California. The buildings that comprised Vail Ranch Headquarters sat mostly vacant and neglected for many years and since then awaiting their restoration and reuse. As you enter the historic park there are multiple buildings that have been repurposed. Going clockwise, starting at the street, the building next to Famous Footwear is The Stables Building. It was constructed last year to make more retail space available in the park and is designed to resemble an old mule barn that burned down in 1929. It houses Nectar (women's clothing boutique), Nectar is a brand that represents the fashion forward Cali girls. Their trend-setting attire makes high quality and wallet friendly go hand-in-hand. Moonbeams and Elephants (children's and babies' boutique) carries adorable and trendy fashions from Mimi & Maggie, Kickee Pants, Petunia Pickle Bottom and more in sizes newborn to 6X. Juice it Up provides the freshest and most delicious juice offerings and healthy choices for customers. There is also a hair salon upstairs.
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At the Blacksmith’s shop demonstrations are held on weekends and during the Farmer’s Market on Tuesdays.
Next is the Machinery Barn that has not yet been leased. The owner would like to lease to a brewery/ pub house. At the creek-side end of the Machinery Barn is VaRRA's workshop where volunteers design and repair historic features and displays for the headquarters. Next is the re-creation of a blacksmith's shop where blacksmiths will do work to demonstrate their skills on an old anvil. Next is the Bunkhouse. On the east end is the Vail Pizzeria. To the owner, ‘pizza is personal’ so diners can design their own unique pizza and watch it be built. And on the west end, is Winchester Western Saddlery, where the old west meets today’s horsemen… featuring tack, handmade vaquero, rodeo and cowboy gear. Step into the old bunkhouse and encounter the rich smell of leather, where horse enthusiasts will be surprised at the vast inventory of saddles, tack, western artwork and more. Next is the Water Building, a small building that was originally constructed to do water studies: rainfall, creek depth, etc. It was created to answer questions of ranchers downstream in 1910, who believed the Vails were taking more than their share of the water. VaRRA will have an office in that building when it is vacated by the construction manager. The next building is the Foreman's House, now Cheflavor, a store featuring bold herbs, spices and special seasonings/flavorings that will transform your food into an artisanal, food discovery experience. The next building is the Cookhouse which would make a wonderful location for a restaurant. That brings us to one of the The Stables Building on the west side of the grounds resembles an old mule barn. It houses several retail stores: Nector, Moonbeams and Elephants and Juice-it UP.
oldest buildings in Riverside County--the Wolf Store adobe which is now Augie's Coffee Roasters where they showcase the often-over-looked beauty of coffee, from its growth and preparation to its incredibly diverse and delicate flavor possibilities. And the Wolf Store is shared by a la Minute ice cream, which uses 100% organic ice cream flavors with liquid nitrogen to freeze a gourmet delight right before your eyes. The Little Temecula History Center sits on the corner of Wolf Road and Temecula Parkway separated from Vail Ranch Headquarters by Kohl’s, and is the old machine barn now filled with numerous artifacts. Included in the historical display is a replica of the Butterfield Stagecoach, an authentically restored chuck wagon that fed dozens of cowboys on the sprawling 87,500 acre Vail Ranch and more. Note that the old dinner bell sits affixed to a pole ready to call the vail employees to dinner at the historic park.
Docents are available for history buffs. There is a Farmers Market on Tuesday’s, rain or shine from 9-1. The Farmers Market features farm eggs, local honey, flowers and plants, specialty food, artisan goods and handcrafted goods. Look for the windmill and water tower. There is easy parking in the ample shared parking lot. The park is open to the public but retail shops and restaurants hours do vary. Check the website at www.vailhq.com for hours of operation and special events at the park.
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Performances at the Temecula Theater LITTLE SHOP OF HORRORS 2017
Presented by Temecula Performing Arts Company PERFORMANCES: MAY 12, 13, 19, 20 at 7:30PM â&#x20AC;˘ MAY 13, 14, 20, 21 at 2PM This hilarious musical based off of the 1960 movie, is cosmic fun for the whole family. With toe tapping tunes and a carnivorous alien plant, this show is sure to entertain. Seymour Krelborn is a store clerk at Mr. Mushnik's flower shop on Skid Row. Seymour finds new found fame and fortune after discovering a plant that is out of this world. The plant, Audrey II, is named after Seymour's crush and co-worker Audrey. While the plant brings new opportunities to Seymour and the flower shop, it does not come without cost. Throughout the show, the plant will be played by series of puppets that start out as a small seedling, and progresses into a monstrous creature that is poised for global domination. The story, aided by a "greek chorus" of "do-wop" style singers, an Elvis loving dentist, and an R & B singing (and slightly foul-mouthed) plant is fun for all ages.
MAKAHA SONS
Presented by Temecula Presents PERFORMANCE: WED, MAY 25 at 7:30PM For 30 years, the Makaha Sons have committed to perpetuating traditional Hawaiian music throughout Hawai'i and the world. Throughout the years, the group has reorganized themselves but the music lives on timelessly. The Sons have since evolved into a trio, consisting of original member Jerome Koko with two talented artists, Kimo Artis and Mark Yim, and continue the tradition of amazing harmonies that are very well-known in this music.
DENNIS JONES BAND
Presented by Temecula Presents â&#x20AC;˘ PERFORMANCE: FRI, MAY 26 at 8PM A high-energy stage performance, sizzling hot guitar solos, and smooth and soulful vocals backed by a rhythm section that is second to none, this IS Dennis Jones. Check out a live show and you'll instantly agree, this band ROCKS the blues like no other! Dennis' feet are firmly rooted in the past, yet his heart and soul are connected to the present. He writes songs that seamlessly blend the best of both worlds, presenting a unique and contemporary style of American rock and blues.
RICHARD GLAZIER, SOLO PIANO: GERSHWIN: REMEMBRANCE AND DISCOVERY
Presented by Temecula Presents - SAT, MAY 27 at 7:30PM "The playing was exceptional. Meticulous with detailing and touch, free and easy with pulse ..." - Los Angeles Times At age nine, Richard Glazier sent a fan letter to lyricist Ira Gershwin. Three years later, the two met. Ever since, Glazier has dedicated himself to the Gershwin repertoire and the American Popular Songbook, eventually becoming one of the genre's leading authorities. Playing rare arrangements of the great Gershwin songs and the complete solo piano version of Rhapsody In Blue, Glazier brings his audiences entertainment of the highest order.
HOT LATIN NIGHTS WITH THE ALL STAR BIG BAND
Presented by OnStage Musicals in association with Temecula Presents PERFORMANCE: SUN, MAY 28 at 2PM Spend a sizzling summer afternoon with Jeff Stover's Big Band All Stars as they perform Salsa and Latin Jazz with special guests. From Bossa Nova to Samba, then Mariachi to Cuban, the Big Band All Stars present one hot matinee of Latin rhythms with songs by Prez Prado, Antonio Carlos Jobim, Gilberto, Stan Getz, and Dizzy Gillespie. Selections will include Sabora Mi, Mambo Number 5, Manteca, Caravan, Girl from Ipanema, and At The Copacabana. This show is sure to excite Temecula's audience with its unique blend of high-voltage rhythm mixing Latin, Cuban, and South American music styles.
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Donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t Miss the Merc!
The historic Mercantile building is the perfect venue for intimate, highcaliber performances. There's something new every week and shows do sell out, so get your tickets early!
Presented by Sherry Berry Music in association with Temecula Presents Each Thursday at 7:30pm (and special performance dates throughout the year), you will be treated to a different jazz group in the intimate space known as "The Merc". The Mercantile is one of Temecula's original buildings and has been beautifully restored. We wanted to take advantage of this venue and bring you straight ahead jazz every Thursday evening in this acoustically inspired space.
JAZZ AT THE MERC
Presented by Gwyn Sanborn Every first and third Saturday at 7pm & 9pm, join us for a live country music show at Country Live! at The Merc featuring our house band backing up the valley's hottest country artists. Artist showcases and songwriter nights change it up once in a while so be sure to check the schedule.
COUNTRY LIVE
Presented by David Bradley in association with Temecula Presents Each second Saturday of the month at 7pm, Speakeasy at The Merc presents live Traditional Jazz of the 20s-40s. Performances feature the house band, Second Hand Jazz with vocalist Rosalie Porter, in rotation with prominent southern California Traditional Jazz artists. The Merc's intimate club setting and incredible acoustics will make you feel like you've stepped back in time.
JAZZ OF THE 20S-40S
Improv Comedy comes to The Merc with PseudoRandomNoise! Last Saturday of the month @ 8pm! Hilarity ensues! Laugh and leave the week behind you with PRN's unique style of audience-participatory improvised comedy where you play too by helping to write, direct, and even star onstage with some of the region's most talented comedic actors. Come literally be THE critical part of the comedy experience by joining us for laughs at The Merc! Early tickets highly recommended to get in early and beat the rush!
OMEDY AT THE MERC WITH PRN!
Dixieland at The Merc is a monthly show dedicated to bringing the best of local and regional Dixieland talent to Old Town Temecula. The host band, Timeless (The Music You Remember), anchors the show on the third Sunday of every month at 6pm.
DIXIELAND AT THE MERC
FOR TICKETS: www.TemeculaTheater.org 42051 Main Street Temecula, CA 92590 - 866.653.8696
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The Lord doesn’t see things the way we see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.
1 Sam. 16:7b
Playing Favorites By Joni Eareckson Tada
"My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ, don't show favoritism. If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, 'Here's a good seat for you,' but say to the poor man, 'You stand there,' or, 'Sit on the floor by my feet,' have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?" ~James 2:1-4
The other day as I drove into a restaurant parking lot, I was cut off by two beach boys on a brand new motorcycle. They whooped it up as they parked their bike, shaking sand from their dirty sweatpants and sleeveless T-shirts. They plopped on the curb to lace up their oversized tennis shoes and rummaged through their fanny packs for cigarettes. I notice that one boy wore two earrings... in both ears. I also noticed they parked on the white line of my handicap parking space. Strutting into the restaurant, they proceeded to act tough while standing in line. I wheeled up behind them, deliberating whether or not I should say something. I was just ready to open my mouth when the kid with earrings turned, looked at me, and asked in a small voice, "Ma'am, excuse me, is your name Joanie?" Bother! This snotty kid was about to be nice to me and I suddenly felt like Jonah, who got irritated because those rotten Ninevites started to turn soft. The boy continued, "I saw your movie when I was little and I used to go to Calvary Church up the road."
I sat there convicted as we talked about his wayward faith. I need to remember that people God places in my path are usually those with whom He wants me to share His love -- even lost and lonely beach boys in California. Lord of even the lost, help me not to play favorites when I witness. May I share Your love with all... and with no favoritism. Blessings, Joni and Friends
Taken from Diamonds in the Dust. Copyright © 1993 Used with permission of Joni and Friends Disability Center
One Day Women’s Conference with Jill Briscoe Revival Christian Fellowship
On Saturday, June 24, 2017, from 9:30am to 2:30pm, Revival Christian Fellowship will be holding a One Day Women’s Conference with Jill Briscoe, a British American author, editor and speaker as the guest speaker. The gifted Gia Lucid will be leading worship. Jill will teach about "Prayer that Works", taken from one of the over 40 books she has authored. The cost of the conference is $20 ($25 after June 18). You can register on-line at www.revival.tv. Revival Christian Fellowship is located at 29220 Scott Road in Menifee. For more information you can visit the Revival website at www.revival.tv or contact Revival Christian Fellowship at (951) 6723157, ext. 224.
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So, my dear brothers and sisters, be strong and immovable. Always work enthusiastically for the Lord, for you know that nothing you do for the Lord is ever useless. 1 Cor. 15:58
Moral Absolutes By Pastor John Stewart
2 Timothy 2:15 There are things that have been forever settled with God. Moral absolutes, truths of character and integrity, matters pertaining to fundamental right and wrong and issues of life and death that are coming loose in the thinking, being and doing of mankind and most sadly even among Christians. Unimaginable evil, peril and danger that defy reason and goodness have been loosed all around us. Much of this is not new, but the fact that the Church of Jesus Christ is giving over and surrendering without much of a fight should be of real concern for each of us The redefining of morality: the sanctity of marriage, the sanctity of life and a general disdain for true righteousness are among the frightening realities that are progressing seemingly undeterred right before our very eyes. As our culture becomes increasingly secular and devoid of biblical wisdom and virtue, I’m sure many of us have concern for the world we leave to our children and future generations. The Church in Ephesus faced similar culture wars of materialism, idolatry, sensuality and paganism. Originally started by the Apostle Paul, his young disciple Timothy had become the Pastor in Ephesus and was confronted by strong opposition. So, Paul wrote to his young charge to further instruct and encourage him not to lost heart, nor grow weary in well doing as he stood for the Truth in the face of all kinds of evil, spiritual deceit and strong opposition to the gospel. In 2 Timothy 2:15 we read “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.” I believe we can find in this simple verse the key to evaluating and increasing our own godly influence in the times in which we live. Be diligent: that is make it your aim, be focused upon this goal, concentrate and apply yourself on God’s calling on your life. There is a strong sense of urgency and intensity in these words. To be Diligent speaks of intensity of purpose followed by intensity of effort toward the realization of the intended purpose. And the intended purpose was to be diligent to present yourself approved to God. Timothy was to make every effort to eagerly, determinedly and zealously find the approval of God shame in His proclamation and accurate presentation of the Word of God. Paul’s exhortation begins with a passion for a person and that person is our Lord! “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God.” Is knowing God and making Him known the master passion of our lives. Our personal relationship with the Lord must be the foundation of all that we are and do. Do we personally, intimately and daily seek, worship, study, and pray to Him! Do we pursue and love Him in a real and private way! Can I say that I seek the approval of God more than the approval of men? Jesus said, John 8:29 “And He who sent Me is with Me. The Father has not left Me alone, for I always do those things that please Him.” The Apostle Paul carried that same inner motivation in his own life and ministry, 1 Thessalonians 2:4. But as we have been approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel, even so we speak, not as pleasing men, but God who tests our hearts. Seeking God’s approval is the seek to live a life that is pleasing to God. The night before His crucifixion, Jesus said John 15:5 “I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit, for
without Me you can do nothing.” Jesus clearly stated how a Christian can have a very fruitful life or a totally fruitless life! Both options flow out of the ongoing reality and health of a dependent relationship with Jesus Christ. Jesus is saying it is impossible to bear godly fruit apart from our yielding to and trusting completely in His working in and through our lives! Having a passion for the Lord inspires a passion for His purpose in our lives! “Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed”. We must not only have a passion for God, but a zeal for excellence in how we serve Him! This involves the pursuit of excellence as a servant of God’s who does not need to be ashamed. Our God is not “mediocre” and His ways and works are never half baked or carelessly undertaken! Striving to give God our best is important! We must serve selflessly, not selfishly. Some people thrive by gaining the applause and compliments of others. While seeking to please God demands honesty even if it hurts our reputation and approval ratings! Serving God is entirely sacrificial call to lay down our lives for His Glory no matter what the cost. Only a passion for God’s will and purpose in our lives is sufficient motivation to so serve Him selflessly and sacrificially with a determined zeal for excellence in all we are and do! We must also have a “passion for God’s Word.” The ultimate issue for every Christian in every generation is Truth. And the Truth in 2 Timothy 2:15 relates specifically to “rightly dividing the word of truth.” Rightly dividing speaks of more than a passion and appreciation that the Bible is God’s Word and that God’s Word is truth. Rightly dividing speaks to a passion for correctly handling God’s Word in how we communicate, reason, teach and give guidance to others in their own pursuit of God. We must not twist, misrepresent or in any way mishandle the Truth! “Rightly dividing the word of truth,” is not just a matter of knowing the Word, but also of living the Word! If we are going to influence and teach others, we must be determined that we are first obediently living under and by the authority of God’s Word. Jesus said, “But why do you call Me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and do not do the things which I say? (Luke 6:46) The implication being, either trust and obey My Word or stop calling me Lord! When a man is walking in truth, he is best prepared to rightly divide the Word of truth. Outward ability, gift or even obvious skill is not more important than personal submission and inner character. May our daily prayer become: “Lord give me an obsession to not only to love, study and know your Word, but to live you Word, to truly be a living epistle of Truth! “Rightly dividing the word of truth,” means a passion to communicate God’s Word accurately and clearly. A passion for God’s Word is respecting the words enough to study His Word and use every means we have to get the words right. Getting the words and meanings right is loving God enough to listen and carefully, that we might accurately and clearly deliver His message. We cannot impart truth that we don’t possess, and to be able to communicate that truth in a clear and understandable way is of great value in spreading the “Good News.” Clarity in communicating God’s Word comes from ongoing diligent study, daily diligence in applying God’s word personally and in striving to speak at a level that even children can understand. To be a clear communicator of Truth, one must value it supremely, honor it courageously, study it consistently and live it uncompromisingly! The Word’s power and ability are unparalleled in this World, may God use you to deliver His message both faithfully and fruitfully!
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9 Lessons I Learned From Super Moms By Lauren Jackman
I decided that I wanted to be a Super Mom, or at the very least see what I needed to do to join this elusive club. So in my journey of self-discovery, I decided that I absolutely needed to know how these Super Moms fit everything into their life and still be incredible moms to their children. But I had no idea how to meet these women or where to find them. How did I infiltrate their Super Mom organization? Did I need to learn a secret handshake or sell my soul? I wasn’t sure.... Then my Sci Fi alter-ego kicked in and I knew what I must do. I launched the bat signal (Super Mom signal)! And they responded. Of course they did... of course they found time to respond to a desperate call for help, because they’re Super Moms and they can do anything, duh!! Anyway, I felt like I only had the right to drag them away from their busy lives to ask just one question:
“How do you achieve everything as a Super Mom?” And this is what I found....
1. They are super-organized
The Super Moms who answered my call reported having detailed daily, weekly and monthly calendars, and extensive to-do lists. But most us mere mortals do as well, right? So what makes Super Moms stand out from the rest of us incredible moms.... well, they stick to them!! 2. They work when everyone else is sleepint
Being a Super Mom takes incredible power. And like every other Super Hero we know, it includes getting up and working while the world around them sleeps. Take Super Mom Becky, for example. Becky is a biological and foster mom of five bilingual and multicultural children aged between eight months and 9 years old. How does Becky fit everything in, I hear you ask? Well she gets up out of her warm cozy bed and works! 3. They forgive themselves and learn from their mistakes
The majority of mother’s I know have tremendous guilt, “Mommy Guilt.” The difference, however, between Super Moms and the rest of us, they forgive and learn from their mistakes as mothers. “Being able to let go of my preconceptions about what “should be”... and see the world through the perspective of a toddler helps me to understand my son’s fears, needs, and desire to understand the world around him.” - Betsy, Super Mom of two children 4. They prioritize what is important
Despite what you might think, Super Moms claim they can’t do everything and they can’t be everything to everyone. But I guess the difference between this group of women and the rest of us is, they realize it! And this is demonstrated by their prioritization. “When people ask me how I ‘do it all’ my answer is that I don’t. I had to realize that I couldn’t do everything so I made a list of what was most important to me and what was least important.” - Alicia, Super Mum of two boys. 5. They utilize their supports around them
Almost every single Super Mom who responded to my Super Mom call talked about how they utilize the supports around them. Whether this be in the form of their own “Super Mom” mom, other family members, friends or their community. Let’s take Olga, for example. “I think sending my children to
daycare doesn’t make me any less of a super mom, on the contrary, it gives me a chance to raise my children with three languages.” - Olga, SuperMom of three children 6. Their children and partners ALWAYS come first
There is such a stereotype that working women don’t prioritize their children or relationships above their working commitments. Well, I can tell you that’s not true. Super Moms always put the needs of their children and partner first, then they make time for their dreams. Take Super Mom Paula. Paula is 20-something wife and mom of two adorably rambunctious children aged 2 and 3. Paula has two blogs and has just released her first book. Paula’s family comes first, she schedules play time with the children, time out with her hubby, then she runs two successful blogs and writes books. Paula says, “At the end of the day I would rather have 10,000 hugs from my family than 10,000 page views on my blogs or 1,000 books sold, but whenever possible, I strive for all three!” 7. They are honest!
Super Moms are honest! They are honest about what they can achieve each day and are honest when they look at how they balance their priorities. When their kids need them, they are there! Take Super Mom Jennifer, for example. “The biggest thing that has helped enable me to successfully achieve everything in my life, and be a hands-on and devoted mom, is honesty. Honesty about who I am, what my goals are and honesty about what my daughter actually needs from me versus what I would prefer she need (or other moms, articles, Pinterest tell me that she needs).” 8. They involve their children
Of course Super Moms involve their children in their daily tasks, that’s why they are Super Moms! Let’s look at Super Mom Kelly. She was a single mom (yup, definitely a Super Mom!), a full-time student, full-time teacher and blogger. “My son and I would sit down at the kitchen table together to do homework.” 9. They don’t see themselves as Super Moms!
Every Super Mom who answered my call said something to the effect of, “I’m not sure I’m Super Mom, but I can achieve a lot.” The thing that I learned from Super Moms is that they are modest and don’t see themselves as perfect. Super Mom Becky of Your Modern Family, is mom of four children ages 1 to 7 years, is a full-time blogger, author of two ebooks and play therapist for children with developmental delays. Becky says, “I do not expect perfection in myself, in my children, or in my life. You have to remember that you are blessed, in order to keep from being stressed.”
So there you have it... the nine lessons I learned from Super Moms!!! So as a final sign off, I want you, my favourite incredible moms, to do me a favour. If you know someone who is a Super Mom, send this article to them. They will probably deny being one (as they secretly watch the skies for the next Super Mom signal), but I know they will really appreciate it! Read the complete original article here: www.canberramummy.com/supermum/
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JDS Creative Academy Announces Partnerships with City of Temecula and MSJC JDCA's Digifest May 5th, 6th, 7th
JDS Creative Academy's co-founder, Diane Strand, Supervisor Chuck Washington, 3rd District and MSJC President Roger Shultz made two major announcements that will enhance the future of Temecula Valley's youth as well as the arts, engineering, and technological workforce. The City of Temecula's sponsorship of JDSCA's first annual Digifest includes assistance with marketing, use of city facilities, and support services. JDSCA will also launch a new digital video apprenticeship program in collaboration with Mt. San Jacinto Community College and the industry professionals from award-winning JDS Video & Media Productions, Inc. This advanced apprenticeship program supports the digital media high-tech business sector and will produce a weekly video newscast for the Southwest California Region. "When we established our nonprofit in 2014, it was our goal to offer a STEAM-based education to students throughout Temecula Valley," said Diane Strand, JDS Creative Academy's Co-Founder. "Our dream from day one was to provide an apprenticeship program that would bring a much needed, locally focused newscast to the area and we are thrilled that our dream is coming to fruition. We're also excited that the City of Temecula is on board with the area's first Digifest. It is our goal - and the City's goal - to feature the talented digital artists in our area, as well as to provide exciting workshops and presentations to the public."
Additional Digifest 2017 Information:
The Digifest celebrates "all things digital" and will feature:
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Friday, May 5th, 4:00 pm - Ribbon cutting and Digifest Opening Night
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Saturday, Night 6:00 pm - Midnight - Screenings at Temeku Theaters
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Saturday, May 6th, 11:00 am - 4:00 pm - Expo/Speaker Workshop – Digital drawing & painting/exhibits & Entertainment
Sunday, May 7th, 11 am - 4:00 pm - Exhibits/Speaker Workshop – Digital Scenery and Adobe Demo
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Sunday, 5:30 pm - Awards Banquet at Temecula City Conference Center and 8:00 pm concert featuring LifeTime Rocker on City Hall steps
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Digital Drawing & Painting Sanctioned Disney illustrator Greg Wray
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Workshops
Digital Scenery – Shane Pritchard, Starway Productions
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Adobe Editing Demo David Creamer, Adobe certified Trainer
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Directors Guild of America, from NeoTech Studios, Emmy winner Greg Hill
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James Crowly Animator from Son of Zorn
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SomeWhat Ace
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Lifetime Rocker
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Entertainment
Resonant Drift
Live Digital Art
JDS Creative Academy 951-296-6715 www.JDSCA.org Tickets on sale at www.Digifest2017.org
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Conscious Parenting ~
Teens ~ The World They Live In By Traci L. Williams
Have you noticed how much our world has changed since we were teenagers? We were exposed to things on a much different level than kids are today. These days, even young children have access to things we would not have heard of at their age. With homework being online much of the time, especially as our children get older, it becomes more and more challenging to protect them from influences they do not understand. With the added pressure of school, grades, college and work aspirations, peer pressure and hormones, our best bet as parents is in creating healthy relationships with our children … as early as possible.
Take a moment and ask yourself these questions:
1) How often do I have meaningful conversations with my kids? 2) Who are their friends?
3) What do they like about their friends? 4) What do they like about themselves?
5) Have they ever been offered drugs or alcohol? 6) If so, what did they say, and why?
7) Have they participated (or know someone who has participated) in sharing nude photos online? (Unfortunately, this is becoming common in middle and high school.)
Some of these questions are hard to even read, but this is what our kids face today. It is the world they are growing up in. How do we make appropriate adjustments? Do we ground them? Take away their phones? Block them from their friends? Take away their computer? Remove them from activities they enjoy? Do we punish, protect or pry? Many parents are wondering what will get their teens’ attention. If your children have already crossed the line of drugs, alcohol or nude picture sharing, I encourage you to reach out for assistance to ensure you get a handle on it immediately. If done incorrectly, you may do more damage than good. In any case, know that good communication is key and it is more important than ever. Relationships are built over time and they require an investment of time, consistently. A healthy parent-child relationship is what you want to be building. That will be your lifesaver in times of trouble.
Four MSJC Students Receive State Honors
Here are a few suggestions to help you enhance your parent-child relationship:
• Little ones (under 9): Talk about their day and your day while you take a walk together, ride bikes, eat an ice cream cone or snuggle on the couch. Get curious about who they are and what makes them tick. Life can’t be all about homework, athletics and chores. Children need joy and to feel cared about.
• Older ones (10-13): You may already be feeling the distance at this age. Take an interest in what they are interested in. Do it with them and ask what they like about it. Get them talking. Be sure you practice listening. It is hugely important!
: Mt. San Jacinto College honors students (left to right) Michael Hogan, Laura Wilson, Michael Carrier and Michelle Krehbiel rank in the first and second teams for the All-California Academic Team.
Four Mt. San Jacinto College students were selected for the All-California Academic Team and were honored in Sacramento in March. Honors students Michael Carrier of Hemet, Laura Wilson of Hemet, and Michelle Krehbiel of Winchester achieved the highest First Team ranking and Michael Hogan of Hemet received Second Team ranking. The annual Phi Theta Kappa awards luncheon was sponsored by the Community College League of California. Students are recognized for their academic and intellectual excellence, leadership abilities and community service. Phi Theta Kappa is the international honors society for two-year colleges. Two of the students received Coca-Cola Community College Academic Team Scholarships http://www.msjc.edu/PublicInformationOffice/Documents/CocaColaSilverPressRelease.pdf. Michael Carrier received a $1,250 Silver Scholars scholarship, given to students that ranked 51 to 100 in the nationwide scholarship selection. Laura Wilson received a $1,000 Bronze Scholars scholarship, awarded to those students that ranked 101 to 150 in the nationwide scholarship selection. These two students rank among the top 150 community college students nationwide. Michael Carrier and Laura Wilson travelled to Nashville for the international PTK Catalyst Convention where they were recognized in the Parade of Scholars event on Saturday, April 8.
• Teens: If they are hanging out with friends, have them hang out at your house. Get to know their friends. Be interested in what they are interested in. Curiosity goes a long way. Open as many doors to conversations as you possibly can. Be a good listener.
These are just a few of many ways to connect with your kids at various ages. If you are already disconnected, there are many ways to get that connection back as well. Call or email me for a complimentary 15-minute consultation (951-240-1407 or traci@alovingway.com) and I would be happy to share more ideas specific to your situation. You can also sign up for our free monthly newsletter for great parenting tips and insights: http://www.alovingway.com/newsletter.htm.
One last thought … in these last few weeks of school, the pressure can get intense. Find a way to be their relief and not their pressure. An after school treat, a listening ear or compassion about a hard test or project will help. If your kids can’t go to you to be encouraged, they will go somewhere else.
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Asking for Help isn’t Pathetic, it’s Courageous
Unmanageability for an addict or alcoholic looks different for everyone. For some, it is a pile a shame and guilt. For others it is a bewildered state of, “How did I get here?” Admitting we have lost our ability to manage our own lives and the way we are living, is difficult. We feel embarrassed, pathetic, hopeless and lost. We may feel pride, anger or resentment as cover up for these other emotions. Addiction, as a choice or as a disease, can be endlessly debated but what cannot be argued is this: asking for help doesn’t make you weak. Rather, it demonstrates a remarkable amount of strength.
Courage is defined as “the ability to do something that frightens oneself” or having “strength in the face of pain or grief." It may be hard to see at the time, but the minute you concede to the fight against controlling your ability to drink or use drugs, you do not show defeat, you show great victory.
Simply being able to think those thoughts to yourself that something isn’t right, or that something could be better, is the ability the definition of courage refers to. Asking for help is frightening. We are afraid of what family members or friends will say, what being labeled an “addict” or an “alcoholic” might mean in the eyes of a stigmatizing and shaming society. There is the frightening task of putting our lives back together and facing the demands we have run from for so long. Recovery can even be frightening. Having to learn it all back without the support of drugs and alcohol is an intimidation only addicts and alcoholics know. Yet still, this is courage.
Addiction and alcoholism are more than painful. For so long, substances have supplemented the empty parts of us that needed healing. Yet in our final moments, before asking for help, we find the strength to be able to walk away. This is courage.
If you are ready for support, The Center for Life Change is here for you. Healing happens here. We believe in your courage. We believe in you. Call 951-775-4000 today for more information.
Andrea Salzbrunn, Program Director/Director of Parent Support Group
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Word Facts Hyper vs. Hypo
Let’s start from the top: Hyper- is a prefix that means excess or exaggeration, while hypo- is another prefix that means under or beneath. Both hyper and hypo are usually used as prefixes, which are elements or partial words added to the beginning of a base word to modify its meaning. Hyper is derived from the Greek word for over, and hypo is a Greek word that means under. Because they sound very similar, their meanings are often confused.
Hyper-
When you add the prefix hyper- to a word, it indicates an excess or overabundance of some kind. For example, the word hyperactive means extraordinarily active, as in “The student was so hyperactive she couldn’t sit still in class.” Similarly, hyperbole (derived from the Greek word for throwing beyond) means an intentional and obvious exaggeration. An example of hyperbole is the sentence “It took forever for the taxi to arrive.” This is clearly an exaggeration, as forever is an extreme amount of time to wait for a taxi. In modern usage, the word hyper is also an adjective that means overexcited or overstimulated, as in the sentence “The child was hyper after eating too much candy.” It also indicates a fanatical or obsessive preoccupation, as in “He’s so hyper about germs that he washes his hands 20 times a day.”
Hypo-
Hypo-, is the opposite of hyper-: it means underneath, less than normal, or deficient in some way. For example, the word hypothermia indicates a body temperature that’s far lower than normal. Hypodermic (as in “hypodermic needle”) means under the skin Hypochondria refers to an excessive preoccupation with and worry about one’s health. The word is derived from the Greek word hypokhondria, which literally translates to under the cartilage (of the breastbone). Its usage dates back to the 16th century when physicians believed the seat of psychosomatic illness was in the upper abdomen. Although doctors no longer believe this, the word retains much of its original meaning.
Science and Medicine
The prefixes hypo- and hyper- are also common in medical and scientific terminology. Hypertension and hypotension, for instance, describe high blood pressure and low blood pressure, respectively. The word hyperbaric refers to greater than normal gaseous pressure, such as in a hyperbaric chamber that delivers high-pressure oxygen. Conversely, the scientific term for deep sea fauna is hypobenthos. Hyper- and hypo- are easily confused, but their meanings are easier to recall if you associate the terms with an image or idea. For example, to remember the meaning of hyper-, think of a hyperactive friend who is always on the go. Alternatively, remember that your last flu shot was from a hypodermic needle, and the meaning of hypo- becomes very clear. Dictionary.com
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Cognitive Square, Inc. Creators of the Constitution Quest Game Receives National Recognition
Local business Cognitive Square, Inc. has been chosen as a winner of The 2017 American Small Business Championship hosted by SCORE, the nation’s largest network of volunteer, expert business mentors. The Championship awarded this title to 102 entrepreneurs for their dedication to the success of their small businesses. Cognitive Square, Inc. earned the title of American Small Business Champion by submitting an online application describing the most unique aspect of their small business that has contributed to their success, their positive impact on the community, and their plans to use the prizes to grow their business. When asked about the founders’ greatest obstacle, they replied, “Our greatest obstacle as we began was how to pay for producing a high-quality, full-color, American-made board game. Initially, we tried to obtain a business loan, but the bank said, “No, you have no prior business experience,” even though we had an excellent credit history. Luckily, we had fresh open lines of significant credit. After nearly selling out of the first production run, we couldn’t get financing for a bigger production run because we hadn’t been in business for 2 years. But during a SCORE workshop, we were given an idea to combine our own profits with loans from our family & friends to finance a larger 2nd production run. We had no need to finance the bigger 3rd and 4th production runs! We’ve been cash and carry ever since!” Cognitive Square, Inc. also stated, “We are so grateful to our customers, who through the purchase of our product, The Constitution Quest Game, has spread Constitutional Literacy to school children who need to pass exams and to all Americans desiring to know this great foundational U.S document. We are also thankful to all of
the SCORE mentors who provided us with support to help us through the variety of hurdles along our journey to success.” says Dave and Pam Barret, owners of Cognitive Square, Inc.
To learn more about The American Small Business Championship and to view the complete list of Champions, visitwww.champions hip. score.org. To Learn more about Constitution Quest, the game, go to www.cognitivesquare.com
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Mrs. Temecula International, Laurie Long, Crowned Mrs. California International 2017
Mrs. Temecula International, Laurie Long, 36, was crowned the new Mrs. California International 2017, Saturday, January 29th at the Mrs. California International Pageant held in Bakersfield, California. The two-hour event held at the Majestic Fox Theater featured contestants from across the state of California. The contestants competed in three categories, including interview, fitness-wear and evening gown. Long was crowned Mrs. California International 2017 under Queen Bee Pageant Productions, Inc. The Mrs. California International Pageant is the only platform focused competition; each contestant's overall score is based on interviews about their knowledge of and involvement with their chosen charitable cause. Throughout her reign as Mrs. California International 2017, Long will focus on building courage, confidence, and character through her work with Girl Scouts. Long is actively involved in her community. She is passionate about her work with the Make-A-Wish Foundation as well as The American Heart Association. Long is committed to recruiting new Girl Scouts, being an active Troop Leader and Council Ambassador, as well as promoting the new G.I.R.L initiative which encourages leadership development among females.
Temeculaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Community Pride 4th of July Parade Entry Applications Now Available The City of Temecula will be hosting the annual Temecula Community Pride 4th of July Parade on Tuesday, July 4th, 2017, located in the heart of Old Town Temecula. Applications for Parade Entry are available online for download at http://temeculaca.gov/4thofjuly. The application and fee deadline is Friday, June 3, 2017. Notifications of accepted applications will be sent on or before June 9, 2017. All entries are encouraged to show patriotism by incorporating red, white, and blue colors and Community Pride theme onto the entry. For more information, please call the Community Services Department at (951) 6946480.
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The Butterfield Stage
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More than a stage stop; an intersection of two lives. By L. L. Lyle
In the classic 1939 film Stagecoach, that catapulted a young John Wayne into Hollywood stardom, the plot centers around a kaleidoscopic batch of passengers, that in true Hollywood fashion, had their personal background and social status written to generate conflict and drama among them as they went bouncing their way east on a dusty stage mail route. The stage on which Duke and the others were traveling was the Butterfield Overland Stagecoach. While the days of the Butterfield Overland Stage are long gone, by over 160 years, the name lives on in Southwest County through about six miles of undulating and intermittently divided roadway running north and south on the east side of Temecula as the Butterfield Stage Road. The current Butterfield Stage Road has as a starting point (or ending point if you want) at a dead end about a mile and a half south from the bridge that crosses Temecula creek at the intersection of Temecula Parkway (State Highway 79). It proceeds north crossing major streets and bisecting housing developments to another dead end, where it turns west onto Murrieta Hot Springs Road. Back in the day of the Butterfield Overland, it was little more than a narrow, dusty path, just wide enough to accommodate the stagecoach. And while I can’t say for sure that the current Butterfield stage road follows the exact wheel ruts and hoof marks etched down by the original stage coaches, a few things are recorded history. It’s been said that there are two ways to know history: through the names, dates, and benchmarking of events that can be summed up in one sentence; or by understanding it in context, as the byproducts of past peoples individual goals, their reactions to the circumstances of the time, and the influence of the culture in which they lived. Who and what were some of the people, culture, and events of the time fusing together to set in motion and bring to its end, the brief span, 1858-1861, that the Butterflied Overland Stage operated throughout Southwest County? Two key people were John Butterfield and Pablo Apis. John Butterfield was an east coast mostly self-educated businessman and entrepreneur nine years younger than Apis. By age nineteen he was a professional stage driver. Using his business skills he went on to starting and controlling most of the stage routes throughout New York. Then he branched out to other forms of transportation, including steam boats. He eventually formed a partnership with Henry Wells and William Fargo. That partnership created the still existing American Express Com-
The Butterfield Stage Coach
pany and Wells and Fargo went on to create, as you may have guessed, Wells Fargo. Pablo Apis, on the other hand, was a Luiseño Indian who wound up, at age six, at the Mission San Luis Rey when it was established in 1798. While Butterfield was developing his business skills and creating his empire, Apis was being baptized, learning to read, write, and eventually appointed to the “position of alcalde, an elected member to the Luiseños, and served as a principal spokesmen for the Indian community. During this period the missions had many satellite outposts used to supply and support their need for food. One such outpost of Mission San Luis Ray was on land that is now Temecula. Meanwhile events were changing in the world and the country was changing with them. Events which would cause both the life paths of Pablo Apis and John Butterfield to cross at what is now the corner of Butterfield Stage Road and State Highway 79. First, Mexico gained its independence from Spain in 1821 and the process known as secularization began. A Typical Adobe in that era
Butterfield Overland Schedule
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A process whereas the mission lands were given in land grants by Mexico to mostly “Californios”, people of Spanish decent that were born in “Alta California”—what is now California. Pablo Apis, probably because of his loyalty to the mission and his abilities to communicate and assist in keeping peace by interfacing with the local populations, was given a land grant of about 2,200 acres where he built an adobe house on the south side of Temecula Creek. During this period Apis was one of the Luiseño leaders trying to keep the mission lands out of the grasp of the Californios. Additionally, Apis voiced opposition against some of the less than charitable treatment of the Indians by the office holders implementing secularization; for his protests he spent a brief time in jail. During this period, day to day life went on pretty much as usual, both on the Apis land, and in New York. Butterfield went about raising a family and building his business empire; while Apis went about raising his family, ranching, selling meat and supplies to the few travelers passing by on what was known as the Southern Emergent Trail, a southern trail from the east that ran adjacent to his adobe, and mitigating issues between the diversified populations and interests of the area. Things stayed pretty much the same, that is, until a nine day period in early 1848. During those nine days two major events happened. First, the Mexicans signed the treaty of Guadalupe Hidalgo ending the Mexican American War which ceded Texas, along with the territory of Alta California, to the U.S.; second, gold was discovered in California—certainly bad timing for Mexico. Because of the gold discovery, there was a mass population migration, economic boom, and a push for statehood, which happened only a year later. Because of this, the U.S. Government realized that communication and mail to the west needed to be improved from the time it took to send mail by ship, then across Panama by cart (before the canal) then back on ship to San Francisco. So, the government extended a bid to any carrier that could deliver the mail in twenty five days or less. Being an enterprising businessman, Butterfield bid on the $600,000 a year contract and won it. He did indeed beat the required time. He used the route of the Southern Emergent Trail, which ran right past the Adobe of Pablo Apis. His Adobe became the stage stop for the Butterfield Overland Stage. Unfortunately for Pablo Apis, and probably unknown to John ButterThe Southern Emergent Trail
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field, the new American settlers chose not to recognize the land grant given to Apis. However, the title was fought out in court and eventually won, and passed on to Apis’ daughters in 1856, three years after he died in 1853. He never lived to see the stage arrive at his adobe. But again a major event in history changed the trajectory of Butterfield’s business plan; that being the attack on Fort Sumter in April 1861. With the start of the civil war Butterfield’s southern route fell under the control of the Confederate Army cutting off the ability to safely deliver the mail or passengers resulting in the cancellation of his $600,000 a year contract. That was the end of the Butterflied Stage through South West County. Later other stage lines picked up the routes. While John Butterfield did not go bankrupt he lived on for another eight years. He became the Mayor of Utica New York before dying in 1861, eight years after Pablo Apis. A few years later on the Apis land, further disputes between the settlers and Luiseños continued, until eventually the Luiseños living on the land were moved about three miles down the creek to what became the Pechanga Reservation. Finally, in 1990, the pile of old adobe bricks that was the Apis adobe and original Butterflied Stage stop alongside the Temecula Creek was bulldozed into dust as part of a development plan for a housing tract. But the memories of Apis and Butterfield live on through that six mile stretch of road running through the east side of Temecula, as well as in Pablo Apis Park, a small park, not far from where the old adobe was located. And let’s not forget that a 1939 movie focused on the Butterfield Stage, started John Wane on his road to Hollywood stardom.
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Pouring Out Love and Hope in Lake Elsinore
When the Dream Center of Lake Elsinore started in the Fall of 2014, our goal was to “find a need and fill it, find a hurt and heal it” in our historic downtown community. We realized that in order to meet real needs we would first have to listen to what the existing needs were—not just fabricate needs in order to make ourselves feel validated and important. Through this process one of the biggest felt needs we discovered was a lack of healthy and safe activities for kids and families to be a part of in their area. In order to meet this need, we started by organizing festivals and events in City Park, the epicenter of downtown. These events have drawn families and fun to the neighborhood and have created an atmosphere of community and love. One of these annual events is our Easter Festival that happened recently… the Saturday before Easter. It was a wonderful community cele-
bration with face painting, crafts, bounce houses, games & music, a free BBQ lunch, and a 3,000 Easter Egg Hunt! Whatever your faith or persuasion, people feel loved through events such as these where the community can come together and just have fun. We invite you to participate at our next festival… our “Back to School Bash” on August 12th, 2017 where we will have fun activities and a free lunch as well as dental check-ups, haircuts, and free backpacks! Be a part of something bigger than yourself and take this opportunity to pour out love and hope onto Lake Elsinore and its people. You can find out more about the Dream Center of Lake Elsinore at our website: www.dreamcenterle.org or by giving us a call at (951) 3763703.
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Adoptions of the Month Retrievers and Friends
Mango is a handsome, 1 year old, orange, medium hair cat. He is very friendly, sweet and gentle. His owner’s mother moved in with her and is allergic.
Natalie is a beautiful, little Toy Poodle. She was rescued from the shelter. She came in as a stray and no one claimed her. She is very friendly, sweet, well behaved and good with other small dogs. Sammy is a precious, 4 year old Toy Poodle. He is very well behaved, housetrained, walks on the leash, and is good with cats and dogs. His owners wanted to travel and didn't have time for him.
For more information and to fill out an online application as well as see other pets available for adoption, please visit: www.retrieversandfriends.com.
Animal Friends of the Valleys My name is Rascal. I am a tri-color, 4-yeas old, neutered male terrier. I am a very loving boy. I am good with kids. I love to relax outside and get some sun. I would make an amazing pet. I am all ready to go home with you!! Intake Number: 195305
Cali is a 4 yr. old, spayed, domestic short hair, 4-years old calico cat.I am a very pretty girl. I am litter-box trained. I am good with kids and cats. I can’t wait to find my “fur” ever home. I am all ready to go home with you! Intake Number: 341258 Website: www.animalfriendsofthevalleys.com 33751 Mission Trail, Wildomar, 92595 951-674-0618 Mon., Tues., Thurs., and Fri,. 10-4 • Wed., 10-7 • Sat. 10-5
Otis is an 11 month old St. Bernard. He has had a rough start in life. A kind woman rescued him from her neighbors who had severely neglected him. He is a kind dog after all he’s been through. He gives kisses and walks well on the leash. He has been good with other dogs and a cat. He is working on putting on some weight.
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Community Events and Activities The Murrieta Garden Club
The May meeting will be held on Tuesday, May 9th at 9:30 am at the Murrieta Community Center 41816 Juniper St. Murrieta. The meeting will include a Guest Speaker, Plant/Flower Contest and nomination of club officers. Please join us. Call Barbara if you have questions 951-677-7310. murrietagardenclub@yahoo.com. Like us on Facebook
Twenty 17 Pet Walk
The City of Lake Elsinore will host its 6th annual Pet Walk on Saturday, May 13, 2017. Walk begins promptly @ 9 a.m. Families are encouraged to bring their leashed pet for a leisurely 1.5 mile walk along the Lake Elsinore Levee, adjacent to Diamond Stadium. Participants will have the opportunity to earn raffle prizes. Visit with pet service vendors for free samples and information. Staging area @ Diamond Stadium, Parking Lot B, 500 Diamond Drive. Call (951) 245-0442 for more information. City website: www.lake-elsinore.org
Call for Artists June 10th Plein Air Outdoor Painting Competition
The Art Alliance of Idyllwild, a 501c3 nonprofit located in the mountain community of Idyllwild, is seeking artists for their June 10th Plein Air Outdoor Painting Competition. Open to both members and visiting artists, this popular outdoor painting competition will be awarding $600 of prize money distributed between 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place winners. Participating artists will be painting around Idyllwild until 2pm on Saturday, June 10th. In addition to submitting one completed piece for judging, they also have the option of showing a second piece for sale. Gallery will open with a public reception on Saturday, June 10th, at 5:30pm. Art will be showcased in the loft at Middle Ridge Winery Tasting Gallery located at 54301 N. Circle in the center of Idyllwild. Art will continue to be available for purchase through the following day. Open to 25 participating artists. Deadline for registration is May 27th. Event information and registration are at www.artinidyllwild.org.
The Animals Need Your Help Today
Supplies have dipped to a very low level. We are looking for a few items to replenish our daily supplies. Thank you for your continued support of the animals. Wet Cat Food, Dry Kitten Food, Dry Cat Food, Dry Puppy Food, Dry Small Breed Dog Food, Dry Dog Food, Dry Senior Dog Food, Dry Weight Maintenance Dog Food, Wet Dog Food, Cat Litter , Newspaper Animal Friends of the Valleys, 33751 Mission Trail, Wildomar, CA 92595
Project DRIVEWAY Fundraiser
Project Driveway Fundraiser will be held on MAY 20, 2017, 12-4P at Motte’s Historical Museum, 28380 US Hwy 74, Menifee, CA. Years of erosion have been amplified by recent heavy rains - making a rugged access road nearly impassable. Robertson's Ready mix has donated the concrete for repair & paving. Funds are still needed for general contractor and other supplies & materials to complete the work. Please join us for an afternoon of food, music and DOGS - sponsored by GREG AUGUST, Menifee City Council member & FRIEND of CST and the Motte Historical Museum! Contact Sally Wing for details - 951-294-1227
Parenting Intro 101
The Bridge on May 13th from 10:30 to 12:00 at the Temecula Library on Pauba? Call 951-240-1407 for more information or go to http://www.alovingway.com/parenting-101-intro-class-bridge.htm to register.
Temecula Valley Newcomers Club Meeting Monday, May 15, 2017 at 11:00 am
If you have recently moved to the Temecula Valley or have lived here for many years and want to get out more, meet new people and have fun, Temecula Valley Newcomers Club (TVNC) is for you. Come see what it’s all about at the TVNC monthly luncheon at Wilson Creek Winery, 35960 Rancho California Rd, Temecula. This month’s entertainment is comedian Patrick Hanifin. Paid reservations are required at least one week prior to luncheon; please call Anne (951) 677-7149. This Club is a social organization with many different activities for members such as card games, book clubs, mahjong, movie groups, theater trips, lunch and dinner groups and much more. For Club information call Gwen (951) 461-1525. Hope to meet you at our next meeting.
Temecula Women’s Connection Luncheon
Program: Vintage Store Cottage Charm Novelties Speaker: Cathy Baysinger tells her story of “The Missing Ingredient.” Thursday, May 18, 11:30 am to 1:30 pm Cost is $20 at Wilson Creek Winery, Temecula Reservations and cancellations required by May 10, please call 951.514.8686 or annajohns123@gmail.com
NAFE Meetings in the Area
Escondido Nafe meets the 1st Thursday of each month at 6pm at Cocina del Charo Mexican Restaurant 890 W Valley Parkway Escondido, CA Temecula Nafe meets the 1st Tuesday in May at Bamboo House 27473 Ynez Road, Temecula at 6 pm. Each month the location alternates between Bamboo House and Spositos located at 28120 Jefferson Ave Suite 207, Temecula CA. Menifee Nafe meets the 2nd Wednesday at 11:30 at Merna's Cafe and Grill 26850 Cherry Hills Blvd, Sun City, CA 92586 (behind Stater Brothers) Murrieta Nafe meets the 4th Thursday of each month at noon at RJ's Sizzlin' Steer 41401 Kalmia Street. Nafe's mission is to help women grow both personally and professionally and has been serving women globally for 45 years.
For more information contact Robbie Motter Nafe Global Coordinator 951-2559200 or email rmotter@aol.com. Every meeting has a dynamic speaker and networking. Cost is $10.00 for Nafe members, $15.00 for guests and then you order food and pay the restaurant direct.
GERI-FIT® of Wildomar Announces New Class!
Low-Impact Cardio And Brains & Balance Past 60® Discover how much fun brains and balance training can be while exercising your mind and body! A 30-minute program that gets your heart pumping, improves your balance and stability, and keeps your brain sharp! (And you don’t have to be “past 60” to join in!) $6 per class; covered by SilverSneakers® and Silver & Fit®. Call 951461-3210 for info. Class Begins Monday, April 24, 2017. Monday & Wednesday, 3 p.m.; Saturday, 10 a.m. Clinton Keith & Palomar in the Rite Aid center.
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Kids
Kids of Summer/ Kids Soar Program Currently Rose Again is accepting applications for its Kids of Summer / Kids Soar program. This program provides financial assistance for extra curricular activities such as sports and fitness, performing arts, visual arts, aquatics, culinary arts, enrichment programs, STEM, Boys and Girls Club activities, Scouts, and day or week camps! Kids of Summer financial assistance program was previously available only during the summer months. This valuable assistance program has been renamed Kids Soar and expanded to year-around due to the many benefits the kids received from their participation in the activities. Foster / Adopt parents, guardians and the kids themselves have reported improvement in relationships, grades at school, health and fitness and self worth. New friendships develop which helps the kids to acclimate to their new surroundings and begin to heal from their past experiences or trauma. Kids Soar applications and more information is available by emailing RoseAgainFoundation@gmail.com or calling Executive Director Rhonda Reinke at 951-970-2518. To learn more visit RoseAgainFoundation.org Rose Again Foundation serves foster children and emancipated foster young adults in Southwest Riverside County through its programs including Emergency Placement gifting, New Shoes and Kids Soar programs. In addition Rose Again provides an Annual Scholarship opportunity for graduating foster high school seniors and emancipated foster young adults working to further their education.
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WHAM! “Free Comic Book Day, Vol. 4” on May 6, 2017 at the Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library
Comic book fans, ASSEMBLE! “Free Comic Book Day, Vol. 4” is here. Bring the entire family on Saturday, May 6, 2017 from 1:00 pm to 4:00 pm at the Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library (30600 Pauba Road) for funfilled Superhero event. Telephone: (951) 693-8944 Join the library and SoCal Games and Comics for a SUPER day. Pick up a free comic book (while supplies last), meet some of your favorite superheroes, enter to win a grand prize drawing for children and teens, and hang out with fellow fans. Sponsored by the Friends of the Temecula Libraries, this program is for all ages. Supplies are limited. Carpooling is encouraged City of Temecula 41000 Main Street, Temecula, CA 92590 • 951-6946444 http://temeculaCA.gov
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Cooking and Kids: Keeping Things Running Smoothly
We talk about keeping our lives running smoothly but it’s also important to keep our bodies running smoothly. Especially when it come to our children. Raising kids is the most rewarding and hardest thing I have done in my life. There is much to be said about being responsible for someone’s life, their proper physical development, general health, education, mental and emotional state, safety, personal needs and so much more. For me, being entrusted with someone else's life in this way brings out the best in me. I believe this is what life is about, passing on the good invested in us by previous generations onto the next. I know I’m being a bit philosophical so let’s go back to the importance of running smoothly. Keeping children and teenagers “running smoothly” is no small task. We often talk about how important it is for kids to be physically active, to eat well and get plenty of sleep. But few of us think about the importance of keeping our children’s bowel movements regular. Unlike with grownups, constipation among kids and young adults will often go undetected and untreated. Once our little toddlers master going to the bathroom by themselves the topic of regularity is unfortunately often forgotten. And this is a period in life where for some, having a bowel movement every 3-4 days becomes a normal occurrence. Luckily such complications are easily treated with proper diet and adequate exercise. Much of today’s diet is based on processed foods that are low in fiber. Here are a few simple suggestions and foods that would help your youngster get back on track. 1.
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Incorporate more fresh fruits and vegetables in their diet as they contain more fiber than cooked fruits and vegetables (cauliflower, broccoli, celery, potatoes, peas, beans, carrots, asparagus, artichokes, cucumbers, summer squash, parsley, brussels sprouts, apples, oranges, grapefruits, blackberries, tomatoes, dates, raisins)
Choose whole-grain breads, tortillas, chips and cereals (Grains: wheat germ, wheat bran, oat bran, rice bran, brown rice, barley) Raw seeds, like sunflower or pumpkin and bean sprouts are great fiber rich foods
WORD SEARCH FOR KIDS FROM A KID
Can you find all of the words that have to do with blackbirds crows doves
Birds
finches gamebirds gulls
from djr
hawks herons hummingbirds
nuthatches owls sparrows
thrushes woodpeckers
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Keep the edible skin on all fruits and vegetables (apples, potatoes, zucchini, etc.) They contain lots of fiber.
Serve more legumes (kidney beans, navy beans, pinto beans, black beans, lima beans, lentils, chickpeas) as they are brimming with fiber, vitamins and minerals as well as complex carbohydrates and protein.
A high-fiber diet also supplies greater amounts of vitamins A, B6, B12, C, niacin, thiamin, riboflavin and folate, as well as the minerals magnesium, iron, zinc, calcium and phosphorus.
Keeping your kids, as well as the rest of your family “regular” has many benefits. Children with no dietary restriction will benefit greatly from eating a healthy, high fiber diet. This all boils down to a simple fact, a clean body leads to a clear mind….and that is something we all could benefit from. Here is a kid friendly recipe that’s also high in fiber.
WHOLE-WHEAT WAFFLE COOKIES
2 sticks unsalted butter (room temperature) 1 cup raw sugar (regular sugar will work as well) 3 eggs
1 tablespoon real vanilla (or vanilla extract)
¾ teaspoon powder
baking
1 cup buttermilk (or regular milk)
4 cups whole-wheat flour A waffle maker.
Start by incorporating butter and sugar, add eggs, vanilla and baking powder next. Mix well. Add first two cups of flour first. Once well mixed add milk and ad-
Did you find all of the words that have to do with
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peter james john andrew
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ditional two cups of flour. Ingredients would form a nice semifirm dough. Ideally, allow dough to rest in a fridge for about 2 hours before baking process. To bake, place dough ball (approximately 2.5’ in diameter) onto preheated waffle maker. Depending on your waffle maker, it may take between 30 - 50 seconds for cookies to bake. Protein and fiber rich, these wafflecookies make a great snack.
For further instructions please contact us via vladaseedsoflife.com or follow our video instructions on You Tube under Best “Waffle” Cookies / Vlada Vladic
https://www.youtube.com/watch? v=Pk50BiNiZTU
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Kids
â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Alice in Wonderlandâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;
The Academy of Ballet Arts production of "Alice in Wonderland" is coming up June 9 with an Autism/Special Needs performance at 6:00pm. Then on June 10 there's a 2:00pm and 6:00pm performance. Academy of Ballet Arts is a 501(C) 3 nonprofit organization. Every ticket sold goes right back into the Academy in support of Scholarships, ABA Jr Company, bi-annual productions, Vienna International Ballet Experience, Youth American Grand Prix and Summer Intensive Programs. ABA offers classes for the beginner as well as the Advanced, Pre-professional and Professional level Dancers. Academy of Ballet Arts 26305 Jefferson Ave #M Murrieta Ca 92562 (951)216-1853 academyofballetarts1@gmail.com academyofballetart.org
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ART
Life Size Horse Sculptures from Austin Casson
Nationally recognized sculptor and Deluz resident Austin Casson has recently installed two life-sized horse sculptures in LaCresta in Murietta, CA. One of Casson’s bronze eagles was presented to President George H. Bush, Sr. by Howie Long. Five of his works are installed in the World Golf Hall Of Fame and the permanent Breeder’s Cup Trophy, “Mare and Foal” in bronze are at the Thoroughbred Hall Of Fame are his as well. Casson has been a resident of the area since 1997 and many of his sculptures are well- known to those residing in North County and beyond. This latest work is called “Partners” and includes Casson’s border collie “Silka” returning a wind-blown hat to her master. “Silka is gone now but every time I am here…it's pretty special.” Weighing in at over a ton, these pieces were sculpted at the California Sculpture Academy in Fallbrook where an overhead crane was necessary to complete this six- month project. The sculptures were funded by the Trail Blazers Club and the support of many LaCresta residents. To view Casson’s complete works go to www.austincasson.com or contact Austin at: 951-316-4294.
This latest work is called “Partners” and includes Casson’s border collie “Silka” returning a wind-blown hat to her master.
Heather Pilapil Has Winning Ways With Festival Poster
Heather Pilapil recently won the 2017 Temecula Valley Balloon & Wine Festival poster contest. This is Pilapil's fourth poster design for the Festival. The 2009, 2012 and 2016 posters were previously created by Pilapil. Pilapil's 2017 poster was created on acid-free watercolor paper utilizing acrylics and water-mixable pastels. It depicts the Festival's popular evening balloon glow. The posters are now on sale at the Festival office for $10. The artist series, a limited edition of signed prints, are $25. Pilapil is the owner of Heather Pilapil's Art Gallery in Temecula. The gallery showcases and sells artwork from local artists. Pilapil and her family moved to Temecula in the summer of 1996. She graduated from Temecula Valley High School in 2002. She then attended the College of Art and Design in Laguna Beach where she graduated Magna Cum Laude with a bachelor degree in drawing and painting. The Temecula Valley Balloon & Wine Festival is June 2-4, 2017 and features dawn hot air balloon launches Saturday & Sunday, free morning tethered rides (weather permitting), premium wine tasting, microbrew tasting, food and wine pairing, chef demonstrations, and beer and food pairing, as well as a full international food court, arts and crafts, and a kids faire. Friday and Saturday evenings also feature the popular evening balloon glow (weather permitting.) Check www.tvbwf.com for scheduled times and activities or call (951) 676-6713. Hot air balloon flights, tethers and evening glows are subject last minute cancellations due to weather.