Neighbors Newspaper October 2018 by Simones Holdings

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Fall, Harvest & Pumpkins Events Everywhere! Room Arranging with Pumpkins Create a Magical Fairy Garden New Grain Free Cookbook Alternative Approaches for Sore Muscles Protect Your Kids on the Internet Photographing Wild Horses Carol’s Restaurant at Baily Winery La Botegga Deli Table of Contents Page 4

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THANK YOU OCTOBER 2018

Support Our Local Businesses 24/7 Family Home Care......................................15 Accipiter Marketing ............................................39 Animal Friends of the Valley...............................19 Archangels Private Home Senior Care................15 Azuza Pacific University ....................................38 Big Horse Feed - Corn Maze................................3 California Technical Academy .............................5 Callaway Winery Holiday Party...........................23 Callaway Winery ................................................24 Canyon Lake Crafters Wanted ............................17 Christmas Lights Installed .................................33 Destiny Resuce ..................................................27 Fallbrook Scarecrow Days..................................41 First Light Home Care ........................................12 Gardner's Cottage ...............................................8 G I Excellence ....................................................44 Grace Evangelical Free .......................................26 Green Acres Interactive Therapy ........................20 Green Retrofit, The.............................................29 Help Heal Vets....................................................16 Helping & Hiring Our Heroes .............................37 Heyday Productions...........................................32 Honeycutt Farms................................................34 Hope Lutheran Church Trunk or Treat ................41 Hospice of the Valleys........................................12 Jennifer Smart Foundation.................................17 Jeweler by Design ...............................................7 Lake Elsinore Outlets - Halloween......................42 Living Jen ..........................................................11 Lucky Feet Shoes ...............................................12 Maurice Carrie Winery .......................................24 Menifee Bible Church .........................................27 Menifee Printers.................................................38 Monte De Oro Winery Concert ..........................22 Morton Grabel, Attorney at Law .........................36 Murrieta Board of Realtors Chili Cook off ..........16 My Grannys' Attic Flea Market ..........................10 Naughty Pig Gourmet Meats ..............................34 Neighbors Network Mixer ..................................31 Old Town Temecula Community Theater ............10 Old Town Survival ..............................................29 Orange Empire Railroad .....................................21 Our Kids Rock....................................................25 Plumber- Ron Dumas ........................................29 Ranch RV & Self Storage ...................................2 Rancho Damacitas Champions Luncheon..........32 Richard Shuldiner O. D. ....................................13 Sand & Sea Properties - Renters .......................29 Sand & Sea Properties - Home Sellers ..............40 Senior Home Care..............................................13 Sipping for Sight Fundraiser ..............................32 Sizzler ................................................................17 St. Jeanne de Lestonnac Fall Carnival ................16 Studio 395- Village on Grand .............................33 Swim to Shore ...................................................21 Sullivan Solar Seminar.......................................16 Sun City Mobile Park Craft Show .......................17 Sweet Cheeks Studio Permanent Makeup..........35 Temecula Valley Chiropractic ............................15 Tmecula Valley Elks Golf Tournament ................40 Temecula Newcomers Club ................................16 Temecula Valley Symphony................................36 Temecula Valley Symphony Calendar.................32 Temecula Symphony Bingo Fundraiser ..............14 Temecula Valley Women's Club- Home Tour......28 Temecula Women's Connection .........................16 Toastmaster's Club ............................................17 Toastmaster's Club ............................................38 Vail HQ October Events ......................................43 Valley Resource Center ......................................16 VICAMP - The Nature of Fitness.........................31 Walk to End Alzheimer's ...................................14 White Christmas Performance ............................6 Wickerd Farm.....................................................43 Winds in the Vines Concert................................25 Word Search ......................................................20 Word Search Answer Key...................................20 Xcel Pest Control ...............................................18

Creating a Fairy Garden

COMMUNITY

Carol’s Restaurant at Baily Winery

Community Community Events.......................................16 Dream Center-Uplifting Presence....................................25 In the News......................................................................40

DINING

HEALTHY LIVING

Pumpkin Patch Express

Grain Free Cookbook ........................................................7 Sore Muscles & Joints?...................................................30

HOME

The Room Arranger -Pumpkins.......................................18

La Bottega Deli Opens ....................................................34

ENTERTAINMENT

JUST FOR FUN

Create a Magical Fairy Garden..........................................9

Curtains at the OT Theater ..............................................10 Parade, the Musical.........................................................11 Symphony Calendar ........................................................32

EVENTS

Flea Market at Granny’s Attic ............................................8 Quilt Show in Old Town .....................................................8 Thomas the Train is Coming............................................21 TVWC Home Tour............................................................28 Dia de los Muertos Celebration.......................................29

FAITH

KIDS

Protect Kids on the Internet ............................................20

PETS

Adoptions ........................................................................19

PHOTOGRAPHY

Wild Horses .....................................................................39

VISITING OUR VINEYARDS

Carol’s Restaurant At Baily Winery..................................22 People’s Choice Awards..................................................24

Things to Know about Grief ............................................26 Receive First, Give Second .............................................27

FALL

Harvest/ Pumpkin Events ................................................41

FAMILY

Down4Hope.....................................................................29 Child Support Myths .......................................................36

FEATURE

Celeste Ducharme – Queen Maker .................................12

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Publisher Diane Simones Director of Business Development Gino Simones Contributing Editors Susan Montgomery Carol Malin Tracy Williams Pastor John Stewart Joshua Straub PhD Aubrey Masters Chef Daniel Johnson

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NEXT MONTH ..... Cooking and Decorating for the Holidays

OCTOBER 2018

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8 Quotes From Beloved Children’s Author Roald Dahl

“Those who don't believe in magic will never find it.” The Minpins

"“So please, oh please, we beg, we pray, Go throw your TV set away, and in its place you can install A lovely bookshelf on the wall. Then fill the shelves with lots of books.” " Charlie and the Chocolate Factory

“So Matilda’s strong young mind continued to grow, nurtured by the voices of all those authors who had sent their books out into the world like ships on the sea. These books gave Matilda a hopeful and comforting message: You are not alone.” Matilda

“I understand what you're saying, and your comments are valuable, but I'm gonna ignore your advice.” Fantastic Mr. Fox

If you are interested in something, no matter what it is, go at it at full speed ahead. Embrace it with both arms, hug it, love it and above all become passionate about it. Lukewarm is no good. Hot is no good either. White hot and passionate is the only thing to be.” My Uncle Oswald

Big Bear Lake Oktoberfest

Head up to Big Bear for special events and activities in October: German bands, dance performances, hikes to visit the changing colors, summer snowboard contest and a concert at Hot Dawgz and Hand Rails, Scarecrow Festival in the village, Flashlight Safaris, Turkey Trot and of course Brats and Beers. For a complete schedule of each week’s activities and tickets go to: bigbearevents.com Ongoing Events That Take Place Every Weekend Through Nov. 3

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Log Sawing & Stein Holding Contests – held several times throughout the day both Saturdays and Sundays.

Children’s contests are held Sundays at approximately 3:00 p.m.

Outside Budenstrasse (Game Booths, Exhibitors, Vendors) will be open Saturdays from 12:00 Noon to 9:00 p.m. and Sundays from 12:00 Noon – 5:30 p.m.

Many of the events are held at the Big Bear Lake Convention Center.

“Life is more fun if you play games.” My Uncle Oswald

“Somewhere inside all of us is the power to change the world.” Matilda

“I have a passion for teaching kids to become readers, to become comfortable with a book, not daunted. Books shouldn't be daunting, they should be funny, exciting and wonderful; and learning to be a reader gives a terrific advantage.” Roald Dahl

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The Ultimate Grain-Free Cookbook By Anna Lee

In my NEW book, The Ultimate Grain-Free Cookbook, there are several gnocchi recipes using everything from yams to broccoli and cauliflower. It's really a basic recipe that many vegetables can be used interchangeably. The best part of my recipes (I think) is that you toss everything in your food processor or blender, instead of pre-cooking the veggies! It eliminates an extra step and makes it fun, quick and easy. This one is a great recipe to make with children because it's like playing with playdough! Just have fun and don't be afraid to use your favorite veggies like beets or carrots:) Happy playing! INGREDIENTS 12 ounces yellow or white sweet potato or cauliflower (about 2 1/2 cups rough chopped) 1-1/4cup almond flour (depending on the moistness of the veggies you use) 1 egg 1 teaspoon sea salt (add more to taste) 2 tablespoons psyllium husk powder 1-2 tablespoons coconut flour

DIRECTIONS 1. Pre-heat the oven to 350 degrees.

2. Puree the vegetable, almond flour, egg and salt in your food processor for a couple of minutes, until it becomes well blended and looks something like fluffy oatmeal. 3. In a small bowl, stir together the psyllium husk and coconut flour and add it through the top of food processor, while blending.

4. Blend another minute to a smooth batter and scoop out onto a smooth surface.

5. Use your fingers to knead/massage the dough a minute.

6. If the dough seems too sticky to work with, knead a little more coconut flour in, 1 tablespoon at a time, just until you obtain a workable consistency. Each time you add coconut flour give it time to absorb moisture before adding more. 7. Divide the dough into four sections. With your hands, roll each section into a long rope, about an inch in width.

8. Dip a fork in olive oil and run the back of the fork tines down the length of the rope (this step is only to help the gnocchi hold sauce, so skip this if you want).

9. Using a pastry cutter, a butcher knife or a pizza cutter, cut the rope into 1/2 inch gnocchi pieces. 10. Add them to an oven proof skillet with a lid and sprinkle the gnocchi with some olive oil, rolling them around a bit to coat. 11. Sprinkle the oil coated gnocchi with a couple of tablespoons of water, fasten the lid and bake for about 20 minutes.

12. Toss with desired sauce. The gnocchi pictured is only tossed in olive oil and salt along with roasted brussles and butternut squash.

The book is available in stores like Barnes & Noble. It's also available online (see this website page for info and links) Annaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s line of grain free baking mixes are also on amazon, sell on our website and locally at EAT Marketplace and Ryan Brother's Coffee.

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OLD TOWN.TEMECULA

OCTOBER 2018

20th Annual Old Town Temecula Outdoor Quilt Show SATURDAY, OCTOBER 6th, 2018-10am-4pm • Free Admission and Parking

Now you can jump on the Hop-on Hop-off Trolley all day while viewing hundreds of quilts displayed from porches, eaves and balconies throughout historical Old Town Temecula! Modern quilts, traditional pieced and applique quilts, art quilts, baby quilts, children’s quilts, and crazy quilts. The Valley of the Mist Quilters invites you to come and view both personal quilts and over 150 quilts made for donation to various organizations throughout the Temecula Valley, and to attend special activities throughout the day. Our Featured Quilter, Lyn Mann will be at the Merc

all day displaying her quilts, along with sales of her patterns and other items. New this year, “Textile Art on the Runway” showcases the costume designs of guild member Cindee Ferris. An award winning designer, her costumes will include samples from her Mad Hatter, Pokemon, and Pirate collections. Join us at the Theater Courtyard at 12:15 just before the auction starts. At 1:00pm PDT our ‘Large Quilt Live Auction’ takes place in the Theater Courtyard where you may bid on over 60 beautiful large quilts. If you can-

not be there, you can bid online while watching live streaming of the auction. Visit our website two weeks prior to the show for information and a link with photos of all auction quilts @ www.valleyofthemistquilters.com. A portion of the proceeds from the live auction funds financial contributions to three local charities: 4Paws 4Patriots; Quilts of Valor; and Round-Up Hope, Inc. Also new this year at the Civic Center Conference room and outdoor patio is a special display of miniature quilts; a showcase of other textile arts including fabric dolls, weaving, needle felting, knitting and lots more; textile art demonstrations; and a display of our Challenge Quilts. Inside you will find our Guild Boutique and all of our other vendors offering wonderful sewing accessories and beautiful fabric. Come and enjoy a day in Old Town, and while you are here, visit the local wineries and enjoy the wonderful food and local world-class wines. Sponsored by the Valley of the Mist Quilters Guild and the City of Temecula.

Outdoor Flea Market and Antique Show in Temecula Saturday October 13 Granny's Attic Antique Mall

Granny’s Attic Antique Mall will be holding its Annual Fall Outdoor Flea Market & Antique Show on Saturday October 13 from 8 am-4 pm. Over 40 antique dealers from southern California will be selling antiques, collectibles, indoor and outdoor furnishings and other items that day. The 30,000 square foot antique mall will also open early where 200 dealers will be participating in a storewide sale that lasts all weekend long. This once-a-year event is widely attended, so be sure to mark it on your calendar to attend. Plenty of free outdoor parking is available and local delivery is available for larger items that can’t fit in your car. Granny’s is located at 28450 Felix Valdez near Old Town Temecula (by Diaz and Rancho California). For more information, visit their website at www.mygrannysattic.net or call 951-699-9449.

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OLD TOWN.TEMECULA

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Enchanting Fairy Gardens at The Gardener’s Cottage By Carol Malin

Do you believe in magic? Just inside the front door of The Gardener’s Cottage in Old Town Temecula are hundreds of tiny fairies tending to their enchanted gardens— all you need to bring them to life is your imagination. Fairy gardens are a fun way for youngsters, and oldsters, to do a little gardening. These small gardens require minimal space and are a cheerful addition to any room or yard area. Fairy Gardens are not limited in variety as the themes are designed by you. Do you dream of a fairy forest garden, village garden, aquarium garden, terrarium garden, a secret garden? Ideas never run dry. Fairy Gardens suit nearly any space: a table top, a balcony, an office, a classroom, a hospital room—every place needs a little whimsy.

Peek Into Fairy Gardens

If you choose to create an outdoor Fairy Garden, select a shaded spot as the delicate living moss the fairies prefer requires indirect sunlight and a sprinkle of water. Fairies love gardens and they are capricious little creatures that relish change. In springtime your fairies might like miniature roses, succulents in summer, a dwarf conifer during the winter— let the seasons be your inspiration. You can design your Fairy Garden as you wish, spartan or lush, let nothing deter you because you may change your garden as you like. Tabletop Fairy Gardens may be planted in pots of any size. One idea is to combine them with a kitchen herb garden, or perhaps with African violets. Many indoor Fairy Gardens are purely decorative, sporting charming fairy dioramas that use a pretty green mat of Spanish moss which does not support growing plants but is ideal for the setting. Colorful borders may be created from polished stones, shells, or tumbled sea glass.

A Little Me-Time with the Kids

Creating and maintaining a Fairy Garden is a hobby that allows you a little metime. Or, the garden can be a special project that you share with your children or grandchildren. These small gardens provide recreation that takes us back to a simpler time when imagination was the key element to having fun. To get you going, Gardener’s Cottage now has a complete Fairy Garden Starter Kit for around $65. In your mind’s eye you envision your fairy garden . . . you see an enchanting fairy with her watering can, and across the little bridge you spy her neighbor sitting in front of a thatched-roof cottage sunning her wings. Fairies are ever brave and make their homes in beehives, while others carve their homes from pumpkins or gather stones to build small cottages. Forest fairies often sleep under the stars and bed down by a sheltering mushroom cap. Fairies, their houses and accessories, such as benches, buckets, bridges, birdbaths and more are available at The Gardener’s Cottage.

For Life-Size Gardens Too Proprietor Sylvia Paulsen is passionate about gardening and has filled The Gardener’s Cottage with beautiful, amusing, and useful things for garden and home. Garden gloves, tools, signs, gnomes, and artwork are available. If you are charmed by the grace and allure of fairies, you will be intrigued by the elegant fairy sculptures the shop has for sale. And, because every garden needs a bit of magic and a prayer, the store has garden angel statues, too.

Gifts Galore

Paulsen selects distinctive wares for her shop from more than 300 vendors. Gifts for mom and dad, husband and wife, baby and grandparents may be found here. Cards to accompany a gift or suit most occasions are available. Paulsen and her friendly staff can help you find something just right and work to make your shopping experience an enjoyable one. Visitors to Temecula’s Wine Country, and residents alike, stop in for handsome wine bottle stoppers, clever bar signs, aprons, and glassware. Cowboys and Old Town are like peas and carrots, so Paulsen has stocked some slick Western themed goods. If you like jewelry you may be tempted by the oodles of attractive earrings for sale. Collectors of frog figurines will find quirky characters depicting various professions and hobbies. In a sunny corner of the shop you’ll find items for the beach devotee, such as mermaid figurines, shell windchimes, lighthouse models, and engraved wine glasses. Paulsen says one of her best sellers are signs with witty sayings such as, “Life has no remote, you have to get up and change it yourself,” or sweet, “I want to hold your hand, laugh at your jokes, and kiss your lips every single day.” That sums it up . . . there’s a little something for everyone at The Gardener’s Cottage. This Holiday season gifts will be flying off the shelves on the wings of fairies.

The Gardener’s Cottage Chaparral Center 28465 Old Town Front Street Ste. #101 ~ Temecula, CA 92590 951 699.7777 ~ Open daily, 9AM-7PM

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OLD TOWN.TEMECULA

OCTOBER 2018

CURTAINS Presented by Fine Arts Network PERFORMANCES: OCT 12, 13, 18, 19 & 20, 2018 @ 7:30pm OCT 14 & 21, 2018 @ 2:00pm

Near the beginning of Curtains, Jessica Cranshaw, the untalented and unpleasant star of Robbin' Hood - a musical within the musical - collapses during a rehearsal, clearly the victim of foul play. A young cop is called in to solve the murder, and the mystery unfolds in a manner familiar to all lovers of Agatha Christie

or Inspector Poirot - which is fitting, since the action is set in 1959. Everyone is instructed to stay on site as Lieutenant Frank Cioffi considers the stories and backgrounds of one suspect after another. Almost all of the characters have a motive of some kind, and everybody hated Cranshaw. But there's a bit of a problem. Cioffi is a competent cop, but he's also an amateur actor crazy in love with musicals. Sometimes, as the action unfolds with lots of singing, dancing and thunkingly silly jokes, it's hard to figure out whether he's motivated more by a desire to solve the crime or to fix the many shortcomings of Robbin' Hood - which would be on its way to Broadway had it not been savaged by the local Boston critic. And there's no question at all about his growing interest in pretty ingenue Niki, who, he decides, couldn't possibly be guilty, despite the fact that her fingerprints turn up in places where they shouldn't and she races on stage at one point brandishing a gun. Due to mature subject matter, parental discretion is advised. For tickets: www.temeculatheater.com or Phone: (866) 653-8696 42051 Main St, Temecula, CA 92590

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Parade, Epic Musical at Old Town Temecula Community Theater From MSJC Performing Arts Department

The musical tells the true story of the trial of Leo Frank accused of murder in Atlanta Georgia in 1913 - an epic American story about one of the most famous and first tabloid exploited trials in American history. With hauntingly beautiful music by Jason Robert Brown (The Bridges of Madison County; The Last Five Years) and a compelling book by Oscar winner Alfred Uhry (Driving Miss Daisy), Parade explores the endurance of love and hope against all the odds. It is a riveting murder mystery, a gripping courtroom drama, a moving love story, and certainly one of the most powerful new musical theatre works of our time. To play the lead characterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s wife, Shezwae Powell, Chair of the Theater Arts Department at MSJC, Menifee Campus is

bringing in Kelsie Piini who grew up in Temecula and has been performing since she was 8 years old in local theater productions. Kelsie went on to get a BA from Cal Baptist in Theater Performance and has been living and working in Los Angeles. She is thrilled to be able to come back to her home town to perform in her dream role. Performance dates: Friday 10/26 at 7:30 p.m.; Saturday 10/27 at 7:30 p.m.; Sunday 10/28 at 2:00 p.m. (A Saturday Matinee will likely be added) The show plays for just one weekend so run donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t walk to get your tickets. Buy Tickets online at TemeculaTheater.org or by phone at 866-653-8696. Old Town Temecula Community Theater, 42051 Main St, Temecula, CA 92590

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From “Princess” to Queen Maker… with a Detour Into and Out of the Abyss By Lynn Effinger

Celeste Ducharme is the epitome of today’s successful woman: Educated, hardworking, dedicated, driven, goal-oriented, family-centric, and passionate. A devoted wife and mother, Celeste has created three successful businesses and is widely respected within the community for her integrity, compassion for others, and proven leadership skills. She is so well respected, that she was asked in 2015 to contribute a chapter in the best-selling book, Turn Possibilities into Realities, created by Lisa Marie Platske. “I grew up in Orange County and had two parents who loved and supported me exceedingly. With their love and support, I managed to make it through the normal numerous challenges most teenagers experience. Even though I lost my Dad in my early twenties and recognized it is never easy for anyone to lose a parent, through life’s myriad ups and downs, I always found a way to push forward with joy and succeed.” That is how Celeste begins her chapter in the aforementioned book. But these opening statements belie the deeper challenges that she faced going from living a family life reminiscent of the “Cunninghams” of Happy Days fame to struggling to emerge whole following the heart wrenching breakup of her nuclear family due to a divorce. Celeste, was born in Van Nuys, California. Both her parents, Chuck and Tami Collins, loved her dearly, as did her mother’s mother, Ann Stephenson. In addition to being an above-average student, Celeste excelled in sports – especially softball, volleyball and tennis. From her parents and grandmother, she learned quickly that

the key to success in her studies and athletics was hard work. Celeste’s father worked closely with his talented daughter to hone her athletic skills. He played catch with her with a softball nearly every morning year-round. In her words, he was always there for her. And she expected that to always be the case. Just as Celeste was reaching great heights scholastically and in sports, life threw Celeste a curve. Her parents were having severe marital problems that were because of, or at least exacerbated by, his addictive drinking. The shock of what was happening to their once close-knit family was to take a devastating toll on all involved, especially Celeste. At the tender age of only 14, Celeste began adding a little something to her morning orange juice; vodka. Early on, as is so often the case with many, her little “juice” in the morning seemed to help her cope with the stress building around her. It continued on for years and slowly, insidiously, got worse. Celeste sadly became proud of herself for being able to hold her liquor, which her friends both admired and eventually feared. When she was 15 years old the divorce was finalized and things continued to get worse. She began partying harder on the weekends, and, since she was such a strong, gifted athlete was on varsity teams with older girls, which didn’t help the situation. Sober on important days, especially game days, Celeste kept up her secret. Inevitably, Celeste graduated to drugging. She knew she shouldn’t be doing the things she was doing to hurt her athletic career while attending Canyon High School in Anaheim Hills, California, but drinking and drugging helped the hurt go away. Celeste was angry about the divorce. And she was angry about her father’s alcoholism, which ultimately took his life at the young age of 57. Despite that anger, she continued to excel at sports, particularly with respect to softball, earning a scholarship to Chapman College where she again proved to be a star player. Unfortunately, a severe ankle injury ended her softball career abruptly. The summer after graduating high school Celeste got a reality check when a close friend checked into rehab. Watching this experience was eye opening and life changing as Celeste decreased her use of drinking and stopped drugging. Celeste’s life began to change after getting a career started at Nordstrom and she met the love of her life: Roger. Her new-found life with the man she would ultimately marry came with another gift. Celeste made a conscious decision to give her life to Christ. As a result, for her as it has been and always will be for others, this dramatically changed her life for the better. “Living the Golden Rule and putting all my faith in Jesus, for me, has enabled me to put my past behind me and to prosper in ways I stopped believing were possible for me,” said Celeste. “I can’t imagine what life would be like today if I hadn’t met Roger and made the commitment to live a Christian life. Having a husband who trusts and loves you helps you achieve so much more than one ever could alone.” Continued on page 13

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Classic Cooking for the Holidays with Martha Announced Each Thursday - October 4 - November 15 – 11-2pm Presented by the Santa Rosa Plateau Nature Education Foundation

The very popular series of gourmet cooking classes with Martha Culbertson are back with a seven-week Fall schedule beginning October 4. You can take one class or multiple classes. The classes, which fill up very quickly, benefit the Foundation's youth environmental stewardship programs. See class schedule and information about the instructor on the flyer below. Registrations are accepted only online at www.eventbrite.com/e/holiday-classiccooking-w-martha-tickets-50122375374. Classes are $70 each and limited to 12 per class.

Oct 4 – Get ready for the Holidays with a Luxurious Dinner Oct 11 – This is How the Italians Do It Oct 18 - Holiday Party Buffet Oct 25 – Halloween for Grown-Ups Nov 1 - Celebrate Christmas Nov 8 – Dinner to Start the New Year Nov 15 – Gather Round the Table for a Thanksgiving Feast Classes will be held at a private estate kitchen. Address provided upon registration.

From “Princess” to Queen Maker…

Continued from page 12

Today, in addition to being a devoted wife and mother, Celeste is Vice President of Development for the newly opened Ranch RV and Self-Storage in French Valley, the creator and Owner of Queen Making Experience, and the former Property Manager of Clinton Keith Self Storage. Her goals with regard to Queen Making Experience are to help women give up fear and worry and embrace their gifts and talents. She trusts that this will allow them to endeavor to surround themselves with people who believe in them and to allow them to dream, set goals and create a game plan to achieve those goals. It has certainly worked for her. She only hopes it will also work for countless others. Lynn Effinger, Effinger Communication is a motivational speaker, seminar leader and author. leffinger@hotmail.com. www.effingercommunications.net

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SENIORS

OCTOBER 2018

FirstLight Home Care: We Are Problem Solvers

At FirstLight Home Care, we take great pride in the service we provide to our clients in the comfort of wherever they call home. We help with activities of daily living such as preparing meals, light housework, and bathing assistance, but we do so much more. As our Mantra states, “We are confidants, problem solvers, bathing helpers, organizers, hope, tour guides, listeners, huggers, personal chefs, gin rummy players, freedom, activity planners, conversationalist, co-pilots, good friends, independence, hair stylist, inspiration {caregivers}” This month let’s focus on being problem solvers. FirstLight Home Care can help. We are problem solvers! Our personal approach to home care starts with the relationships we build with our clients, our caregivers, and in the community. Our clients need help around the house, in their facility, transitioning home from the hospital, and assistance with the day to day challenges of being independent. We aren’t just caregivers, we help in any way we can. One way is to help our clients solve problems. It could be the air conditioner is on the blitz. Maybe there is a need for legal advice. Do they need a loan? Do they need to sell their house? Financial planning? Insurance? Assisted living or memory care? Help with taxes? We can help through our network of trusted resources.

T.R.U.S.T (Trusted Resources Unified Services Team) You must be thinking, what is T.R.U.S.T? Trust is a team of service providers who came together to solve problems for the people in our communities. The team started as a networking meeting with a few trusted partners that truly want to make a difference in people’s lives. The initial group consist of owners, and service providers with a passion for doing good in our community with honor and dedication to the people we serve. Our Core Values are:

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Commitment – we are committed to the prosperity of all members of the group

Integrity – we vow to conduct business with the utmost integrity and professionalism while bringing honor to the referring member

Community – we are committed to our community, our families and friends that live here, and strive to do good for all.

Respect – we respect each other and the roles we all play in our society. We treat all with dignity and respect.

The cost to be a member of the T.R.U.S.T team is honesty and a true passion to help others. The payment for referring clients is knowing those in need will get a trusted provider and be treated with the dignity and respect they deserve. This group of professionals go above and beyond expectations because they truly care. One benefit of being a long- time resident of the Temecula/Murrieta area is the people we’ve grown to know and trust. Our core group of Trusted Professionals is just a small sampling of people we can reach out to for assistance. When we say we genuinely care for our clients, our caregivers, and our community, we like to show it by assisting with any challenge they may have. If you need home care, we are passionate about providing the best service possible. If you have other problems that you need help solving, we can help with that too.

Still have questions? Please give us a call. Let’s discuss what we can do to bring peace of mind to you and your family. For more information, visit us online at www.Temecula.FirstLightHomeCare.com or call us at 951-395-0821.

OCTOBER 2018

SENIORS

The Archangels Private Home Senior Board and Care

This private home provides excellent care for seniors age 55 and up. The home is clean and comfortable with fresh home cooked meals daily. We provide your loved one with daily fun activities indoors and outdoors when weather permits. Vivian the owner has 20 years of experience caring for seniors since 1998. “To care for those who once cared for us is one of the Highest Honors.” Is Vivian’s motto. “One person caring another represents life's GREATEST value.” If you need someone to provide loving care for your family member please contact me at 951-301-9791. Please feel free to come for a visit and see for yourself.

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Community Events and Activities 5th Annual SRCAR® Chili Cook-Off for Charity! Open to the Public

You do not want to miss this SRCAR® event. All are invited and welcome to join in on the Chili Cook-Off fun on Friday, October 5th from 6-10 p.m. at Save the Animals Today, Animal Sanctuary, 31530 Scott Road, Murrieta. Here you will be able to taste Chili ranging from "HomeStyle", "HotHotHot", "Vegetarian", as well as a variety of tasty cornbread. Enjoy an evening of fun and friends. We will feature LIVE music from local country band, TTT Brand. In addition, stops to the Wine & Beer Garden and to the Photo Booth will be a must! Newly added is our Whisky a Go-Go Bar. There will be judging for not only the various chili and cornbread, but also for booth décor! This Chili Cook Off fundraiser will benefit the following LOCAL, non-profit organizations: American Heart Association; Wishers and Dreamers; SRCAR® Scholarship Foundation. To purchase your tickets for entry to the event: bit.ly/2LM6geR (case sensitive). $20 Entry fee includes Chili tastings. For more information, call: Southwest Riverside County Association of REALTORS® at (951) 894-2571. Join the Community Forum for a solar Q & A with certified energy practitioners on Saturday, Oct. 6 from 12pm to 1pm at the Temecula Community Center located at 28816 Pujol St. Learn about the latest technologies, available State and Federal incentives, batteries and integration and more. Complimentary lunch provided. Please RSVP to www.solarseminar.info.

Temecula Solar Education Series

Veterans 5K Walk/Run & Classic Car Show

Grab your red, white, and blue and join the Valley Resource Center October 7th, 2018 at Mt. San Jacinto College in Menifee for a 5k walk/run to support deployed troops and veterans! Registration today includes a medal, t-shirt, swag bag and online access to pictures of the event! Stay after the race for great vendors, music, and a classic car show. Early-bird Registration - $35 for adults 12 and older, $15 for children. Active military and Veterans are only $20.00. Can't make it to the event? Show your support by becoming a Virtual Runner or sponsor veterans who wish to walk/run the race! Register at www.veterans5k.racewire.com. For vendor/sponsor information: info@valleyresourcecenter.org Join the Fight on Oct. 7 for Alzheimer’s First Survivor. The Walk will be held at Temecula Valley High School, Temecula. To Register: www.alz.org/walk.

Walk to End Alzheimer’s

Meeting the first Sunday of every month at 1:30 to 4:30 pm, music lovers, especially aficionados of Jazz, Dixieland and Swing, have been enjoying great music at the Lakeside Jazz Club for over twenty years. October 7th will be a jam session, with mixed sets, paying attention to the dancers, who enjoy the large wooden dance floor. Attending musicians can join in, to form ensembles that play impromptu selections from a wide repertoire. Come on out, all you musicians! The location is the Elsinore/Wildomar Elks Club at 33700 Mission Trail in Wildomar. Admission is $10.00 at the door, and musicians who participate in a set are free. For further information, call Lonnie Selstad at (951)-440-2958.

Lakeside Jazz Club

The Club will meet Tuesday, Oct 9th at 9:30 AM at the Murrieta Community Center located at 41816 Juniper St., across from Fire Station #1 AGENDA: business meeting: Guest speaker - Lynn Coffman. Please join us for an informative, fun morning. Like us on Facebook murrietagardenclub@yahoo.com

The Murrieta Garden Club

Saint Jeanne de Lestonnac Catholic School Fall Carnival

Sunday, October 14thCome one, Come all! St. Jeanne de Lestonnac Catholic School presents its annual Fall Carnival with Mass at 11:00 am and Carnival fun from 12- 5pm. Family friendly event features Jolly Jumps rides, games, petting zoo, a live DJ and entertainment, food vendors, educational STEAM vendors, car show and beer & wine garden all to benefit St. Jeanne School. Purchase unlimited ride wristbands at www.sjdls.com. To become an event sponsor, please contact Rosi Andrews 559-800-6874 or rosajandrews@gmail.com.

Management and Prevention of Diabetes

A workshop for the community on Oct. 4, 11 &18 at 3 p.m. at Temecula Valley Hospital- New Heroes Community Room located at 31700 Temecula Parkway, Temecula, CA 92592 Topics to include:

• What is Diabetes Mellitus (DM)?

• Complications of DM

• How to better manage your diabetes

• How to prevent Diabetes Mellitus type II and much more! For information, call 951-225-6807 Come join us for the Temecula Valley Newcomers Club meeting and luncheon on Monday, October 15 at 11 a.m. (check in starts at 10). If you have recently moved to the Temecula Valley or have lived here for many years and want to get out more, meet new people and have fun, Temecula Valley Newcomers Club (TVNC) is for you. See what it’s all about and be amazed this month with Anthony the Magician! Come to the TVNC monthly luncheon at Wilson Creek Winery, 35960 Rancho California Rd, Temecula. Paid reservations are Required at least one week prior to the luncheon, please call Anne (951) 677-7149. This Club is a social organization with many different activities for members such as card games, book clubs, mahjong, movie groups, theater trips, lunch and dinner groups and much more. For Club information call Isa (951) 255-1818.

Temecula Valley Newcomers Club

Please join us for our October luncheon and learn the importance of writing your memoir. Ellie Rosenbaum will share how to write your story right now! Our Speaker Loretta Hughes, former business owner, tells how she found “balance and peace in the storms of life.” Luncheon is held Thursday, October 18th, from 11:30 am to 1:30 pm. Cost is $22 at Wilson Creek Winery in Temecula. Reservations and cancellations required prior to October 10, please call Christine 951.677. 8187 or cw4cwc@verizon.net

Stonecroft Temecula Women’s Connection

Attend this free public safety event entitled Temecula SAFE on Saturday, October 20, 2018 from 9:00 am to 2:00 pm at Town Square Park in Old Town Temecula (41000 Main Street). Festivities will include a Kids Fun area, emergency response informational booths and demonstrations, and food trucks serving delicious treats. The Temecula Education Foundation is partnering with the city for the Touch a Truck portion of the event including a special No Noise Sixty Minutes, from 9:00 am to 10:00 am, geared toward children who have adverse reactions to loud sudden noises. You will not want to miss this incredible chance to meet our everyday local heroes. For more information, please contact the Community Services Department at (951) 6946480.

Temecula Safe Event - October 20

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In the Find Your Voice program, kids 7-18 have fun learning communication skills while putting together their own radio show, aired on 101.7 KJNi-LP and at JENNiRADIO.com. Radio workshop October 21st. On-camera interview workshop in November. Custom STEAM classes for groups of all ages & VO for 18+. For registration & sponsorships, plus studio rental for business audio/video needs & more, visit FYVcenter.org. Email info@FYVcenter.org or call (951) 395-1017 with questions. The nonprofit Find Your Voice Center is located in the Outlets at Lake Elsinore - 17600 Collier Avenue, Suite G-165.

Improving Communication Through STEAM Workshops

VOLUNTEERS NEEDED! On November 3rd, join us at Help Heal Veterans National Headquarters located at 36585 Penfield Lane in Winchester from 8am to noon to sort and pack donated materials to create therapeutic craft kits that will be sent at no cost to veterans and active duty military servicemembers across the country. Contact Tracey at (951) 926-4500 or tracey@healvets.org for more information or to register for this or other volunteer opportunities available at Help Heal Veterans.

Give a Little, Help a Lot

Canyon Lake’s 18th Annual Holiday Boutique to be held on November 3 and 4 at the Senior Center 23307 Canyon Lake Drive. All items must be HANDMADE. Entry fee is $30 + 15% of each crafter’s sales will be donated to the Senior Committee. Sign-ups will be held on Mondays only: Oct. 1 from - 10 am – Noon, Oct. 8 - 10 am – Noon and 5 pm – 7 pm. Final Day to sign up is October 15 10 am – Noon. MUST call for entrance at Main Gate. Kathy B. 951-805-3278 or Kathy S. 562-619-0679

Crafters Wanted

Improve your communication and speaking skills! The Next Level Toastmaster’s Club is a new club that meets every Thursday 12:10-1:10 pm at 29995 Technology Drive, Suite 203, Murrieta 92563. Public Speaking is an important skill on your pathway to success! Join us as a guest to see what Toastmaster’s is all about. You will be happy you did! RSVP to 951 775-0615 or 951 723 7691.

Toastmasters Club

Get your tickets early for the Day Out with Thomas the Train. This year’s Big Adventure Tour will be held on Nov. 3rd & 4th; 10th, 11th & 12th at the Orange Empire Railway Museum. For more information and tickets go to: OERM.org/Thomas

Day Out with Thomas Big Adventure Tour

The Craft Show will be held on November 10 at the Sun City Mobile Home Park Club House!! This event is open to the public, friends and families. There will be several vendors with many items perfect for Christmas gifts. There will also be baked goods, jewelry, hand-made quilts (lap and baby’s), pillows, t-shirts, embroidered towels, hand painted note cards and much more. For more information contact Linda 951-440-8219.

Annual Christmas Craft Show

Hosted by: Community Outreach Ministry Sunday, December 16, 2018 from 12:30 pm - 3:00 pm to be held at the Elks Lodge #2591 located at 33700 Mission Trail, Wildomar, CA. 92595. We welcome sponsors to buy, shop, wrap gifts and volunteers. Contact: (951) 698-7650 or info@communityoutreachministry.org.

8th Annual Angel Tree Christmas Party

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Pretty Pumpkin Projects! By Rita Wood, The Room Arranger

The calendar tells me it’s October so we all know what that means . . . it’s pumpkin season! Now you may be thinking about Smashing Pumpkins, an alternative rock band based in Chicago or maybe you’re thinking of the Great Pumpkin, the unseen holiday figure in the comic strip Peanuts, however, for this article we’re first going to talk about the ones that grow in a field. Research tells me that 1.5 billion pounds of pumpkins are sold in the month of October alone, and I think that’s incredible. They are usually orange but can sometimes be yellow, white, green or red and I’m here to say that although pumpkins start out as one of those five colors they don’t have to stay that way. And we don’t have to limit our pumpkin décor to those grown in a field. There are many faux pumpkins and other fun projects that will allow you to satisfy your creativity and incorporate pumpkins into your fall décor in a way that is creative and budget friendly. Let’s start with an easy pumpkin floral centerpiece for your dining room or family room coffee table. Carve out the center, insert either a tin can (soup or small tomato paste size) or floral foam, arrange fresh flowers and add water. Place some curly willow or a taper candle in the center to add height and drama. Simple and beautiful! If you prefer, small succulent plants can be used as an alternate to fresh flowers. No-carve painted pumpkins are fun to make and they last longer! Using craft paint you can free style a pattern or use a stencil to create something more intricate. Let your imagination run wild. Consider funny / scary faces; stripes; polka-dots; flannel shirt plaid; inspirational words; etc... and who’s to say we can’t add a little glam with gold dipping and glitter! Whatever your theme, paint several pumpkins in coordinating colors and place at your front door. Put one on a wooden chair/stool or a stack of vintage suitcases for a little added interest. Tiny pumpkins are easy to work with too. Pile several in a decorative bowl, a clear glass candy jar, lantern or a natural grass basket. No need to add anything . . . sometimes beauty is best shown in the simplest of ways.

As mentioned above, many of us buy real pumpkins. However, you don’t have to limit yourself because there are faux ones that look like real, fresh from the field pumpkins. If you’re looking for something trendier vs. traditional, there are seemingly countless alternative finishes that are unique and gorgeous. This year the variety has been over the top . . . shiny ceramic pumpkins in sage green, some covered in mosaic tiles, others formed from galvanized metal with rusty iron stem and leaves, elegant collections in various shades of white accented with gold or silver and those that look like they were made from your favorite cable knit sweater. Lastly, there are other ways to incorporate “pumpkin like” décor in your home without using real or faux pumpkins. Check out Pinterest and your local craft store for inspiration and supplies. A round orange placemat can easily be turned into a jack-o-lantern by hot gluing eyes, nose and a mouth made from black felt. Deco Mesh is popular to make a wreath from and I’ve seen monkey pod wooden trays turned into rustic pumpkins with a little orange paint and green burlap ribbon. They are super cute and not difficult to do. Whether you choose real or faux pumpkin décor, your home will be festive and ready for October. Then, the only thing left to do is to enjoy the cooler weather. So why not make a batch of pumpkin spice cookies to share with friends and family. Sounds delightful . . . I can smell them already!

Temecula resident Rita Wood, The Room Arranger has been a certified member of the Interior Redecorators Network since 1999. Her specialty is helping clients transform their home using the furniture and accessories they already own and love. To learn more, visit her website www.theroomarranger.com or attend one of her decorating classes at Hobby Lobby. Call 315–4 81–9659 for details.

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Pet Adoptions of the Month Retrievers and Friends

Sugar is a 2-year-old Shepard-Aussie mix. She is kind and gentle. She was found abandoned in the hills with her brother. She rides nicely in the car, walks gently on a leash and is very mellow.

Teddy Bear is a 3-year-old YorkiePoodle mix. He is sweet, gentle and good with other dogs. His owner went to a nursing home.

Crystal is a sweet, little, 8-weekold Terrier. She is about 4 pounds. Crystal is looking for a loving home. To inquire about any of the dogs mentioned here or see many others as well as some feline friends, please visit: www.retrieversandfriends.com.

Rico is a handsome, 18-month-old Boxer. He is very friendly, loves the water and is good on the leash. He has been around children and other dogs.

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Kids

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Protecting Our Children on the Internet Predators and Our Children What is a predator and where are they? Most predators are male between the ages of 18 and 55. They hide where adults and children least expect them to be: online gaming, social media, and other miscellaneous apps as well as in stores, malls, and coffee houses in your own neighborhood. They are everywhere and can lure in your unsuspecting children for sexual solicitation which could then lead to abduction. They are looking for the innocent and naïve. This is unfortunately happening far too often now with society’s increased dependence on the internet. How do predators lure your children in? Perdators may pose as someone younger to get your child to communicate with them. Many will ask them personal questions, such as their favorite color, toy, food, or sport. Sometimes predators pretend to have similar interests. They could offer them something that entices them to reveal their address, school, or other place they hang out. Children and teens are extremely vulnerable to this. What can you do as a parent or caregiver? Educate, educate, educate. Install filters on all electronics. Familiarize yourself with the games and social media sites your children are using. Look at where they message and video message with others. Teach them to never message/text/send photos or communicate with anyone who you and they have not met in person. Don’t think your children are above this just because you have told them about it once or twice. It is our job as a parent to protect them by being in constant communication with

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Kids Get Ready for a Day Out with Thomas!

Thomas the Tank Engine is Back! Join Thomas and his best friend Percy for a day of family fun at Day Out with Thomas: Big Adventure Tour 2018. Children of all ages can spend the day with their friend Thomas when the #1 Engine and Percy pull into the Orange Empire Railway Museum beginning November 3rd, 2018 and will depart Perris on November 12th. Please note that Percy leaves the Perris Station on Sunday, November 11th. Day Out with Thomas is a fun-filled family event that provides children of all ages the opportunity to climb aboard and ride with Thomas the Tank Engine and his best friend, Percy. In addition, they will meet Sir Topham Hatt, Controller of the Railway and enjoy a day of Thomas-themed activities including crafts, photo ops, ride trolleys and much more. Children who attend Day Out with Thomas in 2018 will also receive a â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Passport to Adventuresâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; booklet to track their journey at the event, along with a special prize upon completion. Thomas the Tank Engine departs on the hour beginning at 9:00 a.m., rain or shine and runs through 4:00 p.m. each day of the event. Percy departures begin 9: 10 and run every half hour until 4:10 p.m. Tickets are required for ages two and up (service charges and fees may apply). Military discounts are available. Day Out with Thomas: Big Adventure Tour 2018 is presented by Mattel. Tickets are on sale now and can be purchased at www.oerm.org/thomas/ or

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by calling toll-free 866.468.7630. Parking is free and Orange Empire Railway Museum memberships are available. For more information and directions, please visit, www.oerm.org or call (951) 943-3020

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Visiting Our Vineyards

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Carol’s at Baily Winery: A Lovely Setting with Exceptional Food and Wine Baily Vineyard & Winery, one of the early wineries in the Temecula Valley Wine Country, has thrived over the years because of the passion and vision of Carol and Phil Baily. Their winery restaurant, Carol’s, is appropriately named because Carol is the chef and driving force behind the excellent food and ambiance so many people have come to love. While Carol runs the restaurant, Phil is the winemaker. Carol and Phil, who have been married

By Susan Montgomery

Carol and Phil Baily – the chef and the winemaker – a perfect pairing.

50 years, are hands-on winery and restaurant owners and that has undoubtedly helped make Baily’s and Carol’s so successful. We recently sat down with Carol and Phil at Carol’s Restaurant and talked with them about their challenging venture into the winery and restaurant business. They are a personable, unassuming couple who can laugh at themselves and whose combined dedication and hard work have led to their success. Their two sons, Christopher and Patrick, and now even their grandson, are also very involved in the family’s ventures. Christopher manages Baily’s in Old Town, a popular restaurant that features live music on its patio. Patrick is involved in managing Carol’s and is also Phil’s assistant winemaker. And now their grandson, Alex, is contributing his talents to both Bailys in Old Town and to winemaking. When the family moved to Temecula in 1981, they planted grapes in the new wine country that was developing. Although the Bailys had always enjoyed wine, they admit they had a lot to learn about producing it. They took courses in wine production at UC-Davis and in 1986 they opened their winery. Carol had always enjoyed cooking so a restaurant was the logical next step. With their son, Christopher, they opened the Baily Wine Country Café in Temecula Town Center and got their feet wet in the restaurant business. Meanwhile, the winery business was also starting to thrive. The Bailys now have 25 acres of grapes in three locations and two tasting rooms. They produce approximately 5000 cases a year and have 12 varieties of wine, mainly Bordeaux varieties, such as Cabernet Sauvignon, Cabernet Franc and Malbec. Phil says, “We love Bordeaux wines

Coconut Shrimp paired with a lovely deep pink 2017 Rose of Sangiovese with strawberry flavors.

and we produce what we like.” Baily Winery has won many awards with their wines, including a Gold at the California State Fair for their 2016 Montage (a luscious blend of Sauvignon Blanc and Semillon) and another Gold for their 2014 Malbec. Phil emphasizes that Baily’s wines are unique because they are fermented in oak barrels for 30 months, which is longer than most California wines stay in barrels. The Bailys are excited to have Shakespeare in the Vines permanently located on their property. This popular classical theatrical group produces four productions each summer in an amphitheater on the hillside outside of Baily’s tasting room and also occasionally presents other lively shows on a small stage in Carol’s Restaurant. Of course, Baily’s wines and snacks from Carol’s are available during these shows. I have been to many of these presentations and can highly recommend the shows and their idyllic setting. Carol’s location in a charming stone building is warm and inviting with an Old World feel. An outdoor patio is also a relaxing place to enjoy lunch while admiring the surrounding vineyards. Live music is an attraction on the patio on weekends. Carol says, “We want people to be comfortable when they come to Carol’s. We are not wine or food snobs. We just want our guests to enjoy good food and wine in a relaxing atmosphere.” Our server was Marla Jestice who has been at Carol’s for 18 years and obviously loves working there. She is a welcoming person who greets the many regular customers by their first names. We also enjoyed meeting the friendly head line cook, Lenny Morale, who has worked at Carol’s for six years and has developed some of his own recipes. The menu at Carol’s is eclectic. While new dishes are sometimes added, there are favorites that always stay on the menu such as Vineyard Chicken Salad and Cashew Crusted Salmon. The menu skews toward light with lots of enticing salads and fish dishes. All the produce is locally sourced, much of it coming from the Winery’s garden where they produce tomatoes, cucumbers, eggplant, zucchini, and peppers.

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ways welcomes dogs on the patio, special attention is paid to dogs on Sundays. A Dog Day menu is available and includes such doggie favorites as Chewbarka Chicken Breast, Bow Wow! Burger, and Haute Dog Turkey Dogs. I can just see our two puppies salivating over these menu items. (I’ve promised them a visit soon.) Baily Winery is also distinctive because of its Estate Tasting Room. The day after our visit to Carol’s, we experienced a special vertical tasting in this tasting room, which is located on Pauba Road where Baily’s wines are produced. A vertical tasting is a tasting of different vintages of the same varietal. We tried five exceptional Cabernet Sauvignons, produced from 2005 until 2012. Our tasting was led by Phil Baily and Lisa For Dessert we enjoyed the creamy orange crème Long, the Estate Club Direcbrulee paired with Serenity, a late harvest Sauvitor, who is also very knowlgnon Blanc. edgeable about Baily wines. This was an outstanding, educational experience that I would highly recommend. (How about lunch at Carol’s followed by a tasting?) While you can walk in, reservations are necessary for a full tasting experience. Just call Lisa at 951-972-9768. Baily Winery has a wine club that offers 20% off all wine purchases, 30% off cases, free wine tastings in the tasting room, and discounts at both Carol’s and the Old Town restaurant. Carol’s is open for lunch four days a week, Thursday through Sunday. Hours are 11:30 to 2:30 on Thursdays and Fridays and until 3 p.m. on Saturdays and Sundays. The main wine tasting room is open daily from 11 a.m. until 5 p.m. Photos by Todd Montgomery

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Carol’s location in a charming stone building is warm and inviting with an Old World feel.

The first dish we tried at Carol’s was Coconut Shrimp paired with a lovely deep pink 2017 Rose of Sangiovese with strawberry flavors that perfectly complemented the scrumptious shrimp appetizer, which was served with a tangy chili mango sauce. I have ordered coconut shrimp at many restaurants and these were among the best I’ve tried, crunchy and flavorful. We next tried Carol’s signature Rueben sandwich. The tender corned beef was piled high and topped with Swiss cheese, sauerkraut, and a delicious, house-made Russian dressing. The Reuben was paired with another favorite Baily’s wine, M&M, a smooth Merlot/Malbec blend. We also tried one of Carol’s special burgers (there are seven of them). The Kevin Bacon Burger featured lean ground beef with a tasty Merlot BBQ sauce, crispy onion rings, bacon, lettuce, tomato and cheddar cheese. The burger was enhanced by a silky, herbaceous 2014 Cabernet Sauvignon. Phil pointed out that the vines for this Cab Sauv came from Livermore in 1968 The Kevin Bacon Burger featured lean ground beef with a tasty and are over 50 Merlot BBQ sauce, crispy onion rings, bacon, lettuce, tomato years old. No wonand cheddar cheese. der this wine is so rich and flavorful. For those looking for a lighter meal, the Cashew Crusted Salmon Salad was heavenly. The perfectly prepared, fresh Atlantic salmon sat atop crisp mesclun greens mixed with dried cranberries, almonds, and feta cheese, all tossed with a savory citrus vinaigrette. I loved this salad, which was both healthy and delicious. We learned that salmon is very popular at Carol’s. Lenny’s favorite dish is Salmon Primavera —grilled salmon sitting on linguine tossed with tomatoes, basil, carrots, spinach and parmesan. For dessert, we enjoyed creamy orange crème brulee paired with Serenity, a late harvest Sauvignon Blanc that was fresh, aromatic, and not too sweet. Another highlight at Carol’s is Dog Day Sundays. Although the For those looking for a lighter meal, the Cashew Crusted Salmon restaurant alSalad was heavenly.

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3rd Annual Peopleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Choice Blind Tasting & Awards October 28 at Fazeli Cellars What is Temecula's best wine? You Decide! Blind tasting followed by a wine and hors d'oeuvres reception and awards

Estate Pass includes entrance to walk-around blind tasting from 1:00-4:00 pm, commemorative wine glass, light cheese and charcuterie. Price $45. Reserve Pass (includes Estate Pass) from 4:00-7:00 pm enjoy a Winemaker reception featuring delicious gourmet bites prepared by Chef Anthony Bartolotta and Fazeli Cellar's culinary team, live entertainment, free-flowing Temecula Valley wines, an awards presentation and the chance to mix and mingle with Temecula's own rock stars our local winemakers. Price $85. Get your tickets early & save! This event will be held outdoors at Fazeli Cellars beautiful lawn center with sweeping views of wine country on the De Portola wine trail. For Tickets: temeculavalleywinegrowners.com Fazelli Cellars is located at: 37320 De Portola Rod., Temecula 92592

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Dream Center an Uplifting Presence in Downtown Lake Elsinore In 2014, a handful of individuals clad in bright green T-shirts began cleaning up downtown Lake Elsinore every Saturday. The shirts read “I love Lake Elsinore” on the front and “Lake Elsinore Dream Center” on the back. Their goal: “Find a need and fill it; Find a hurt and heal it.” Despite some initial resistance, the nonprofit, faith-based organization is now lauded as an inspirational presence on and around the city’s Main Street corridor. That visibility includes establishing its base of operations in a building they now own on Peck Street at Main. The space is undergoing a renovation to make it a fully functioning community hub. “Our mission is to restore and rebuild the people of Lake Elsinore physically, emotionally and spiritually, and I really get excited about restoring an old building and having it function in a way that benefits the community,” said Executive Director Brett Masters. The group’s first campaign was Adopt-A-Block, in which volunteers from seniors to elementary school-aged students disseminated into neighborhoods offering helping hands to residents, whether it was sprucing up their yards or brightening the lives of their children. While that program is ongoing, the Dream Center and its scores of volunteers have tackled other challenges. Those include operating the HOPE food pantry on Minthorn Street, running a free athletic program for youths and engaging students in community service initiatives known as Dream Projects. “Our goal is to bring the community together to celebrate the close of a good summer and to send kids to school with the full support of the community to help them have a great start and let them know their families and the community are behind them,” Masters said. “Hopefully, they’ll go to school with that mindset and have a great year.” The Dream Center’s ongoing commitment and contributions through service led the Lake Elsinore Valley Chamber of Commerce’s board of directors to name them “nonprofit of the year” for 2017.

“The biggest thing (in the board’s view) was their passionate engagement in the community every single week,” chamber President Kim Cousins said. “It’s not like they came to town and did one or two big events. They Local Students get involved in the community at the serve the commu- Dream Center. nity 52 weeks a year. They were hitting on all cylinders and really making a difference downtown.” Masters said he and the center’s members are excited about downtown’s resurgence. The upswing should be enhanced by the City’s project that will bring a landscaped community plaza and paved parking next door to the group’s Peck Street sit, across Main Street from the Cultural Center. “There is so much positive energy downtown, and I’ve always felt that downtown is the heart of Lake Elsinore,” Masters said. Information on the Lake Elsinore Dream Center is available at dreamcenterle.org and by finding the group on Facebook at www.facebook.com/dreamcenterle. The Dream Center is a member of the Lake Elsinore Downtown Merchants Association (DMA), which strives to promote, grow and improve Historic Downtown Lake Elsinore. Find out more at www.facebook.com/historicdowntownle #downtownLE

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Now let your unfailing love comfort me, just as you promised me, your servant. ~Psalm 119:76 NLT

Things God Wants Us to Know About Grief By Pastor John Stewart

Sorrow and grief are a very real part of life! At one time or another every life is affected by the heartache of loss, rejection, illness, disappointment, regret or other troubles. Sorrow and grief are never easy to deal with! Yet God meets us in our sorrows and afflictions and does some of His deepest faith building work in such times. It’s important that we do not miss the amazing comfort of God and profound lessons that God teaches us in such seasons of sorrow and grief. Isaiah 53 promises a suffering Savior, who would be “a man of sorrows well acquainted with grief”. John 11:35, reveals that “Jesus wept”. In 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, the Apostle Paul gives thanks and praise to the LORD for meeting him again and again with mercy and comfort in the midst of his own sorrows and afflictions: “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, Who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” Paul acknowledges our Lord as the greatest and most dependable source of true mercy and comfort. Paul had experienced His consolation and blessing both physically and spiritually. We can learn from Paul’s example that even in times of trouble, God is a very present help and we can be strengthened and kept by His powerful working. Paul also gives one very important reason that God offers such comfort in the midst of sorrow and affliction; “that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” (2 Corinthians 1:4) To us, the word “comfort” usually means consolation in time of

sorrow, but it has a wider meaning in the New Testament. It refers also to the encouragement that comes from being comforted. The practical lesson is that when we are comforted, we can and should seek to pass this comfort on to others. We should not avoid the sick, afflicted or the dying! We should not avoid comforting those in need, but rather run to the side of any who are needing encouragement. We are not comforted to be comfortable but to become comforters of one another. A young couple in our first Pastorate had prayed for a child for many years. Our entire church family had prayed with them to such a degree that when the news came that they were pregnant great joy flowed through the entire church. A glorious time of thanking the Lord and celebrating His faithfulness ensued! But then several months later, on a bright Tuesday morning, the news came that the mother has miscarried! I can remember the sadness and heartache as though it were yesterday! Word spread quickly, albeit painfully. One after another began to pray and reach out to our dear friends. Meal plans and visitation plans were quickly put into place, but mostly we hurt and grieved with and for our dear friends. The following night was our normal Wednesday midweek service and as was our routine, my wife and I arrived early to pray for the service. After an emotional prayer time of seeking God’s comfort for our friends and encouragement for our fellowship that evening we were surprised as we exited the prayer room to find the mother who had lost her child sitting tearfully in the back row of the sanctuary. My wife and I sat down on either side of this precious sister and the most amazing thing began to unfold! She looked at me and said, “Pastor I have never hurt the way I have hurt over the last 24 hours! But I have to tell you, I have never known God’s strength and presence in the ways He has met us in our sorrow and we know everything is going to be alright. We know He loves us!” While my wife and I went to comfort our sister, God would have it that this precious brokenhearted mother to be, was used of God to comfort us and in fact then powerfully and deeply comfort our entire church family, bringing renewed hope and nearness to our God! It is easy to feel that God loves us when things are going well and that He doesn’t love us when things aren’t going well. We often wonder how God can love us, yet allow such heartache and tragedy to come into our lives? How can God love us and allow death and sorrow and seeming tragedy to come? These are weighty and important questions! The Bible responds by telling us that God’s very nature is love! “God is love. (1 John 4:8)” John is not saying simply that God is loving, which is true, but that His character and being and all that He does is measured out in His love. It has been accurately stated that “love does not define God, but God defines love.” Our attitudes and feelings may change and our circumstance may change, but His love for us never changes and never fails! The problem is not that God doesn’t love us, but that our perspective is limited. God is infinite, we are finite. God sees the whole, we only see in part. God’s ways aren’t our ways. Is. 55:8-9 “for my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.” God in His infinite wisdom allows sorrow to come into our lives and we must remember that His plan is best. Also remember that He is our Shepherd, the Good Shepherd who leads us down the right path and is with us, directing and protecting, even the valley of the shadow of death. In times of sorrow it may seem as if God’s love is not to be found. We may not be “feeling it!” While circumstance and emotion can inspire fear and doubt, His infallible Word teaches us that He does love us. The cross of Christ proves that He loves us! Because of His great love, He also sympathizes with us. “For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin. Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” (Hebrews 4:15-16) No trial is too great, no grief to deep, but that Jesus Christ faithfully and willingly provides abundant mercy and grace for the comfort, encouragement and strength that we need, when we need it. Pastor John Stewart is the Executive Pastor at Revival Christian Fellowship on Scott Road in Menifee. To learn more about the church: revival.tv

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And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love. ~Romans 8:38

Receive First, Give Second By Max Lucado

What do you do when you’re low on love? Do you try to conjure it up by the sheer force of will? As if there is within us a distillery of affection that lacks only a piece of wood or a hotter fire. We poke it and stoke it with resolve. What’s our typical strategy for treating a troubled relationship? Try harder. “My spouse needs my forgiveness? I don’t know how, but I’m going to give it.” “I don’t care how much it hurts, I’m going to be nice to that bum.” “I’m supposed to love my neighbor? Okay. By golly, I will.” So, we try. Teeth clinched. Jaw firm. We’re going to love if it kills us! And it may do just that. Could it be we are missing a step? Could it be that the first step of love is not toward them but toward him? Could it be that the secret to loving is receiving? You give love by first receiving. “We love each other as a result of his loving us first” (1 John 4:19 NLT). Long to be more loving? Begin by accepting your place as a dearly loved child. “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us” (Eph. 5:1-2 NIV, emphasis mine). Want to learn to forgive? Then consider how you’ve been forgiven. “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you” (Eph. 4:32 NIV). Finding it hard to put others first? Think of the way Christ put you first. “Though he was God, he did not demand and cling to his rights as God” (Phil. 2:6 NLT). Need more patience? Drink from the patience of God (2 Pet. 3:9). Is generosity an elusive virtue? Then consider how generous God has been with you (Rom. 5:8). Having trouble putting up with ungrateful relatives or cranky neighbors? God puts up with you when you act the same. “He is kind to the ungrateful and wicked” (Luke 6:35 NIV). Can’t we love like this? Not without God’s help we can’t.

If we haven’t received these things ourselves, how can we give them to others? Apart from God, “the heart is deceitful above all things” (Jer. 17:9 NIV). A marriage-saving love is not within us. A friendship-preserving devotion cannot be found in our hearts. We need help from an outside source. A transfusion. Would we love as God loves? Then we start by receiving God’s love. We preachers have been guilty of skipping this step. “Love each other!” we tell our churches. “Be patient, kind, forgiving,” we urge. But instructing people to love without telling them they are loved is like telling them to write a check without our making a deposit in their accounts. No wonder so many relationships are overdrawn. Hearts have insufficient love. The apostle John models the right sequence. He makes a deposit before he tells us to write the check. First the deposit: “God showed how much he loved us by sending his only son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love. It is not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins.” (John 4:9-10 NLT) And then, having made such an outrageous, eye-opening deposit, John calls on you and me to pull out the checkbook: “Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other” (vs 11 NLT). The secret to loving is living loved. Many people tell us to love. Only God gives us the power to do so. Excerpted from A Love Worth Giving. W Publishing, 2002 Printed with permission. For the complete reading go to www.maxlucado.com

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34th Annual ~ Holiday Home Tour Temecula Valley Woman’s Club ~ November 10 & 11, 10 am - 4 pm

Treat yourself, friends and family to the 34th Annual Holiday Home Tour in La Cresta. Explore four gorgeous estate homes and a winery, beautifully decorated for the holidays. Get in the mood for the holidays with festive decorating ideas. Shop the Market Place and get a head start on your holiday shopEnjoy the sweet ping. treats at the Bakery and purchase the Club’s custom-made soups at the Gourmet shop. Enjoy a glass of wine while dining at the Bistro. Proceeds from the Holiday Home Tour will benefit Sale Ranch Sanctuary which connects saved farm animals with foster children. Funds also support College scholarships to graduating seniors from the Murrieta and Temecula High Schools as well as

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many educational projects for local nonprofits. Tickets are on sale at various community locations or they may be purchased online at tvwc.com or by calling 951.302.1370. Temecula Valley Woman’s Club (TVWC) is a 501©3 organization. Founded in 1980, TVWC has donated over 1,500,000 volunteer hours of service and over three million dollars within the Temecula Valley. TVWC is a member of the General Federation of Women’s Clubs (GFWC).

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Down 4 Hope â&#x20AC;&#x201C; From Dream to Reality A young man with disabilities had a vision to put a positive message into a negative world. His name was Chaisson and he created the logo and concept for a clothing line called down4hope. This was to be his means of helping himself, his family and his community. Sadly, before his vision could be realized he passed away. In an effort to cope with his loss, keep his memory and dream alive, his parents launched his brand. The down4hope logo can be seen on an assortment of hat and t-shirt styles. In keeping with their son's desire, a portion of the profits from the d4h brand is donated to our local charities. In addition, there are different items from other brands carried by down4hope, all of whom contribute back to positive causes in our world, our community or our environment. down4hope is not religious or political. They know each person has different experiences, values and beliefs that shape what they hope for. Their son Chaisson knew this and he also realized that Everyone would be down4hope. Check out their products and story on their website at www.down4hope.com and follow them on Facebook or Instagram @down4hope.

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Sore Muscles and Joints? These Alternative Approaches Can Help Simple Body Awareness Concepts Can Help Technicians, Body Workers and Dental Professionals Feel Better By Mary Ellen Hannon, Certified Integrative Health Coach

Your work is physical and at the end of the day, your entire body feels the impact. Muscles in your back and neck are strained from bending over patients and clients. The joints in your hands and wrists are sore from repetitive motion. Sometimes you’re standing, while other times you’re perched on a stool at odd angles. Ultimately, it’s far too easy to put someone another’s comfort over your own and eventually, this takes its toll on you. In my work as an integrated health coach, I often see people who are suffering from chronic pain due to their employment. However, drawing from my background in the broad field of complementary alternative medicine (CAM) — and particularly the specific philosophy of Somatics — I believe there are several simple things you can do to reduce and heal the stress you put on your body every day. What Is CAM? The National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health defines CAM as “a group of diverse medical and health care systems, practices, and products that are not generally considered part of conventional medicine.” In other words, your primary care doctor is unlikely to mention any of the techniques I’ll share below — but it would be great if they did! Complementary alternative medicine covers a vast range of practices. I’m most interested in those that explore the connection between the mind and body. The National Institutes of Health says mind-body medicine focuses on, “the interactions among the brain, the rest of the body, the mind, and behavior.” What Is Somatics? Somatics is the study of self-sensing, how the body feels from within. It’s about awareness of your body. Which muscles are contracting? Which are relaxed? As we learn to take certain postures or perform certain motions — such as sitting at a desk, reaching for an instrument, or getting up from a stool — we tend to get locked into our habits. We often favor whatever’s fastest, not what’s healthiest or even the most comfortable. In this automatic mode, we forget about the constant stress we’re putting on our joints, muscles, and bones — which can lead to chronic pain. Somatics teaches us to become aware of our bodies, so we can rewire our neural pathways to find other ways of moving and being. Showing up the Right Way Our minds and our emotions play a powerful role in locking our bodies into the postures and movements that cause chronic pain. Think about how you show up in the morning at your work place. If you start out the day stressed and angry, your muscles will tighten. As you continually tighten the same muscles, they will get frozen in a posture, and consequently you will get frozen in a state of mind. You will carry that with you throughout the day. But if you can find the space to relax in the morning, or if you can learn to be aware of the tension you’re bringing to work, you can start your day from a more neutral place. Somatics encourages us to be aware of our emotional frequencies. In my book, “Complementary Alternative Medicine for Chronic Pain Prevention & Relief,” I write: “Just having the where-with-all to pause, and reflect, begins to shift your

nervous system and eventually leads to changes in your brain … Otherwise you get trapped in the opposite effect: the pain persists, and the nervous system becomes better at producing pain.”

Making a Change OK, enough theory. Here are some easy techniques you can start practicing right now to become more aware of your body, unlearn destructive physical habits, and start coming home from work without the pain. 1. How to Breathe Just learning to breathe deeply and evenly may do wonders for our pain. Chronic rapid breathing is a common symptom of many diseases and a frequent by-product of chronic pain. Most of us do most of our breathing with our chests. Experts in Qigong (a Chinese healing system of exercise, breath work, and meditation), say that when we breathe abdominally, our muscles relax, our circulation improves, and our oxygen intake increases. When you take a breath, trying breathing into your abdomen, allowing it to fully expand on an inhale and fully contract on an exhale. 2. How to Stand Standing is standing, right? Wrong. Many of us stand in one of three habitual postures, each of which can cause stress and pain from constant unconscious muscle contraction. • The green light reflex. Your body is in go-mode. Your back is arched, and your hips are forward as if you’re at military attention.

• The red light reflex. Your abdominal muscles are tightened, pulling your rib cage toward your pelvis. Your body is in fight-or-flight mode.

• The senile posture. Your body is stuck between the red light and green light reflexes. Your hips are forward, your stomach’s caving in, and your back and head are coming down.

Aim instead for a relaxed, neutral stance. (If you’re used to taking one of the three tense postures described above, it may feel like slouching to you.) Let gravity come up to support you. Anytime you find yourself standing in one place, relax your joints and neck. Sink your shoulders and elbows. Maintain a relaxed butt and spine. Feel your weight dropping towards your feet with slightly bent knees. Release your sternum, keep your spine long, relax your hips, and breathe into your abdomen. Continued on page 31

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3. How to Sit Proper, self-aware sitting is similar to proper standing. Make sure your feet are grounded on the floor and your pelvis is grounded on the stool or chair. Shift your awareness back and forth between your feet on the ground and your pelvis on the chair; that is where gravity is supporting you. Then notice your breath. As

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you bring yourself back to your breath, you will almost automatically enter a more relaxed state. This technique works well for body awareness and overcoming moments of anxiety. Be Consistent! To get the most out of the Somatic techniques I described here — and really, any form of mind-body medicine — you have to stick with it. Transformation comes from a personal and consistent practice. Set aside time every day to take care of yourself. I know it’s not the easiest thing to do when you’re juggling work, family, and social obligations. But in the long run, your body and mind will thank you with less chronic pain, less mental stress, and a more relaxed, calmer existence.

Adapted from article written for Friends of Hu-Friedy Reference: Ebook Complementary Alternative Medicine is available at www.maryellenhannon.com

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We’re not your ordinary stuffy symphony. Come and join the experience of Music, Art, & Passion! TEMECULA VALLEY SYMPHONY’S SCHEDULE Oct. 27 - Sat. 2:00 pm - DISNEY IN CONCERT “Around the World” – Be our guest for a for a special presentation of music from Disney movies, accompanied by narration and 9 animated films!

Our Disney concert sold out in 2012 and now we bring you another amazing Disney production! (Presentation licensed by Disney Concerts © All rights reserved) Nov. 11 - Sat. 6:00 pm - “PATRIOTIC SALUTE” - Free Veterans Day Concert at Temecula Civic Center featuring the Symphony joined by Temecula Valley Symphony Chorus. Dec. 15 - Sat. 2:00 pm - “WINTER BLISS” – Symphony Holiday Concert featuring two spellbinding and dynamic vocalists, Jonathan & Heather. Enjoy music from Trans-Siberian Orchestra, violinist Zun-Hin Woo, selections from The Nutcracker, and lots of holiday favorites! CHORUS CONCERT SCHEDULE Oct. 13 - Sat. 4:00 pm - “CENTURIES OF SACRED SONG” Join the chorus for an exploration of songs of faith, hope, and love that have echoed for ages from the cathedral to the cotton field, from the concert hall to the prairie home. Dec. 8 - Sat. 7:00 pm - “CAROLS BY CANDLELIGHT” Experience an intimate evening of both festive and meditative holiday songs, spanning the ancient to the contemporary, from a variety of traditions and cultures. Enjoy old holiday classics – including an audience singalong! – while also discovering some new favorites. TEMECULA VALLEY SYMPHONY is a 60-member orchestra under the baton of Music Director and Conductor, John Mario Di Costanzo. The Symphony produces numerous concerts throughout the year and takes pride in offering “Symphonic Music with A New Twist.” Our concert programs include exciting selections from movies, animated films, Broadway, operas, and epic classics. For a complete listing of 2018-2019 concerts, venues, and ticket prices please visit our website at www.TemeculaValley Symphony.org or call 951-5871536!

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Dia de Los Muertos Celebration Scheduled for October 27 By Rebecca Esquibel

In keeping with its mission of integrating arts and culture on Main Street, the nonprofit artists’ cooperative STUDIO 395, in a partnership with the city of Lake Elsinore, will stage its annual Dia de Los Muertos celebration from 1 pm to 6 pm, Saturday, Oct. 27. “It’s definitely one of our signature events,” STUDIO 395 co-founder Grace Sandlin said. “We want to attract more foot traffic downtown, involve more downtown residents, and get the artists involved.” Sandlin now serves as the Lake Elsinore Downtown Merchants Association’s board president, which illustrates the extent to which the arts group has become a player on Main Street. The DMA is a coalition of concerns promoting commerce in the Lake Elsinore Downtown Historical District. When STUDIO 395 initiated a Dia de Los Muertos fiesta in the group’s early years, it was a relatively modest affair occupying a few street corners. The holiday, on which families pay tribute to deceased relatives, has grown widely in the U.S. in areas populated by Mexican descendants. “The event burgeoned in offerings and popularity”, said organizer Rebecca Esquibel, owner of La Rebelde Winery and CEO of STUDIO 395. “The value is for the event to be a bridge to allow the local community to understand some things about the Hispanic community and their focus on family,” Esquibel said. “That’s the whole purpose: to give an opportunity to the community to come together at a positive and entertaining event.”

A few thousand people are expected to attend the gathering, which will feature up to 50 vendors providing food, beverages, arts and crafts, and recreational activities. Live music and dance will occur throughout. Many features will harmonize with the party’s theme, such as altars, sugar skulls, mariachis and ballet folklorico. The event will be staged at City Park on Main between Limited and Library streets. Sections of Main and the side streets will be shut down to accommodate festivities. An innovative addition orchestrated by the city will be a Go Human project, in which bicycles paths will be established around City Park on Main and Limited. The goal is to encourage visitors to use their bikes as transport to and from the happening. The Southern California Association of Governments is funding the project, which will include a bicycle parade, a bike valet parking area, and vendors promoting nonmotorized transportation. Aside from vendor wares and food, the gala admittance and entertainment is free of charge. The group also tries to keep the vendors to those that sell handmade or theme related items only. “We do this event for the cultural and artistic experience it brings to the local residents,” Esquibel said. “This is not a fundraiser. It’s a community event that we want to keep free to access.” Information on STUDIO 395 and its events is available at studio395.org. The Lake Elsinore Downtown Merchants Association posts updates on its Facebook page.

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La Bottega - The Shop Dining

OCTOBER 2018

By Kelly Kingman

Cos'Ă¨ questo? Let's call it an expansion, an addition. More room to spread out, to entertain larger parties and hold small events. La Bottega is a new deli and market. It's an extension of an established restaurant that serves hand crafted cuisine called Trattoria Toscana. It's been two years since I last wrote about Pietro Cinus and clearly, he's doing well. As you walk towards the entrance bordered by olive trees, you may notice there's a kitchen with a view, a great place to watch how they make fresh pasta. And if you happen to be there at the right time, you may view the preparation of their Gnocchi alle melanzane

Chef Pietro serves perfectly paired appetizers for each wine.

desserts like panna cotta, tiramisu, cannoli and chocolate creme brulee for you to drool over. Soon Peitro plans to make gelato. The new lobby is bright with a hall that wraps around the service deli where you'll find imported Italian meats and cheeses along with in house, freshly baked bread and cookies. Again, all of their pastas like spaghetti, linguini, fusilli and pappadella, are made daily. La Bottega offers sandwiches, hot and cold, salads, and soup. It's a small menu which includes meatballs and chicken thighs, with just a select few delightful entrees for lunch. You can dine in or take it home to make your own creations as well as purchase olive oils and wine.

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Pietro serves only Italian wines, showcasing them through the newly introduced wine club and on wine tasting Sunday. He even pairs food to taste with every wine! Your first antipasti and wine tasting is $25.00. There are complimentary wine tastings thereafter for wine club members. The wine club members taste twice a month, as many as 6 different wines and purchase 6 bottles of wine per year from La Bottega. Wine club members also receive a 10% discount on La Bottega wines to go or enjoy while dining in. Members are notified by email about upcoming events, so you'll never miss out!

Baked, toasted or cold sandwiches, homemade pasta dishes, Italian cheeses and wine to take away and enjoy.

I like wine and all of this sounded very interesting to me so, I decided I should attend one of the tastings to see for myself. I wasn't sure what to expect. I arrived at 3:00, sat down at a small table and observed for awhile. The members usually gather in the new dining area that's located behind the deli, where there's a new bar as well. This side of the restaurant has larger, family style seating. Wine club members slowly shuffled in, some greeting one another. Our wine host began by talking a little about the history of the first wine and its family. The tasting began with some whites and with each selection Pietro served a perfectly paired appetizer: Calamari salad with the Frescbaldi Chardonnay, octopus with Mazzei Vermentino. Classy Italian style! At the conclusion of the tasting we were treated by unexpected extra, a traditional after dinner wine popular in most regions of Italy. Visciole Querciantica...wow! Cherry wine! That was incredible! Paired with the thumbprint cookies which happen to be a favorite of mine. I have to say our host was very knowledgeable, he spoke as if the wines were from his own family vineyard. The presentation was filled with fascinating details that enhanced the enjoyment of each selection. Definitely worth spreading the word! I hear that three winemakers from Italy are coming to a wine tasting in October. Bravo! Upon my departure, I knew I had to place an order to go. Gnocchi alle melanzane, Pappardelle Con Funghi and my favorite wine from the day, Rocca Delle Macie Chianti Classico

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Cookies and breads are baked fresh daily.

RSV. It would be the perfect end to a relaxing Sunday afternoon. So, I asked Pietro, "What's with the roosters?" He replied, "It’s the symbol of the entire Chianti area and has been for years and years".

La Bottega di Trattoria Toscana 26485 Ynez Road, Suites M & N, Temecula, CA 92591 951-296-2066

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Debunking Child Support Myths & Free Legal Clinic Programs

Do you have questions regarding family law or other legal issues? If so, we might be able to help provide some answers. The Temecula Law Resource Center (TLRC) is celebrating National Pro Bono Week. The TLRC will offer two programs to be held at the Ronald H. Roberts Temecula Public Library (30600 Pauba Road). Riverside Superior Court Family Law Facilitator, Patricia Rich will be ‘Debunking Child Support Myths’ on Tuesday, October 23, 2018 from 4:30 pm to 6:00 pm. Ms. Rich will discuss common child support myths and child support calculators including a Q&A session. On Thursday, October 25, 2018, local attorneys will offer twenty minute consultations at the ‘Free Legal Clinic’ from 10:00 am to 2:00 pm. Many areas of law will be covered, and attorneys will provide tips on dealing with a variety of legal issues. Registration is required for this event and space is limited. If interested, please contact the Temecula Law Resource Center by calling (951) 693-8902, or simply email lawlibrary.temecula@rclawlibrary.org.

The Temecula Law Resource Center is a partnership between the City of Temecula and the Riverside County Law Library.

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Wild Horses By Dick Cronberg

Growing up in Northern Nevada I thought rugged mountains, aspen-lined canyons, sagebrush and desert were normal. I also thought everyone loved the outdoors as much as I did. I spent every free minute hiking, fishing and hunting (at least I thought I was hunting!). It seemed that whenever I came across an animal that I could have shot I almost always just watched it! I admired the Mule Deer, jackrabbits, squirrels, hawks, ravens, and every other bird I saw. But one day I was deer hunting and as I crested a ridge I saw the most incredible sight, “wild horses”! I had heard about wild horses but had never seen them! And there they were, just 50 yard away from me! I was mesmerized by the sight and couldn’t take my eyes off of them. They were very rugged yet unbelievable beautiful! Powerful and free! Many years later I found my real calling, not hunting with a gun but hunting with a camera. Truthfully, I was a lousy hunter anyway. I had found that “capturing” an animal with a camera was by far more pleasing that killing it. Images last forever and what I found was that others liked my images. I was hooked. For over 40 years I have been a wildlife photographer and have traveled a lot in the U.S. I have photographed nearly every large wild mammal and most bird species at least once. And I love them all. But for some reason that first sighting of the wild horses was burned into my memory. About 8 years ago I met another photographer that mentioned that she had photographed wild horses in Northern Nevada. We chatted and I quickly realized that she was talking about an area close to where I had seen my first wild horses. She mentioned that she had hired a professional guide who took her into the back country. She said that she had a great experience photographing horses. I got the name of the guide and reached out to him. After several conversations I hired him and made agreements for him to guide my wife and me. My first trip was in late September. Mark took us out in his Jeep and we had a wonderful time getting within camera range of several bands of horses. It was a wonderful day filled with lots of opportunities for great photos.

Then Mark told us that if we really wanted to see a spectacle to return in late March or early April. He said that the horse bands come together, the young horses are being born and the stallions are fighting over the mares. So we returned the next April. Boy was he correct! That day we viewed over 300 hundred horses, black ones, palominos, buckskins, bays, and every other color of horse you can imagine. We witnessed running herds, fighting stallions, a water hole, newly born babies, and anything else a horse lover would like. Keep in mind I’m not a “horse person”. I don’t want a ranch, I don’t want to ride a horse, and I certainly don’t want to care for one. But I can’t seem to get enough of wild horses. To me wild horses are the symbol of the “old west”. They’re such beautiful animals, strong, rugged, and fiercely wild and independent. Their scars, shaggy mane and coat merely adds to their appeal! My wild says they’re “sexy”! If you would like more information on how to see and potentially photograph wild horses go to Mark Terrell’s website at www.wildhorsesofnevadaphoto.com. To see his latest gallery of photos go to www.whonp.zenfolio.com/f386584833. Mark is located just outside of Carson City which makes a nice home base for a vacation with Lake Tahoe, Reno, and the Sierra Nevada Mountains within minutes. If you would like to learn how to take wildlife photos remember I teach digital photography for the city of Temecula. I have a Wildlife Photography class coming up on November 7th and 14th (a two day class) for $40. Go to www.temecula.gov/tcsd to enroll. And remember our great photo club. We meet the first Thursday of every month. We’re a fun group and welcome visitors. Go to www.iephotoclub.org. for all the details.

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MSJC to Offer Courses at Perris Senior Center Starting in October

Perris residents will be able to take Mt. San Jacinto College classes close to home after city officials inked an agreement recently with Mt. San Jacinto College administrators that paves the way for higher-education classes at the Perris Senior Center. The agreement means MSJC will offer Communications 100, a publicspeaking class, at the senior center starting on Oct. 11 and concluding on Dec. 6. Plans call for the college district to expand the offerings in spring to include courses in both the general education and Career Education pathways.

Gosch Ford Temecula Announces Free Oil Changes for Local Teachers

Gosch Ford Temecula is proud to announce the launch of the newest edition of their Education First program, named Oil Changes for Educators. A program that grants free oil changes to teachers in the Murrieta and Temecula schools districts beginning October 1, 2018. “After 14 years as an educator, this is the ONLY local discount I have ever received. It is a job that is usually overlooked due to other amazing profession discounts such as military, fire, police, etc.,” responded Timeree Kristell, a teacher at Murrieta Mesa High School. “Thank you for thinking of all of us,” she added. Oil Changes for Educators was created to be a hassle-free program for teachers. This program is one of three educationally based programs that will benefit teachers and students in the community. For more information, please visit goschfordeducationfirst.com. Visit Temecula Valley is thrilled to announce the addition of Best Western Plus to its Southern California wine destination. The hotel is located on Moreno Road, just steps away from the heart of Old

Best Western Plus Comes to Old Town Temecula

Town Temecula. They are taking reservations for October 1, 2018, and beyond online at BestWestern.com. The hotel’s Mission Revival architecture blends seamlessly into Old Town Temecula’s historic neighborhood. Best Western Plus provides everything guests would need, whether they are traveling for a business trip or a relaxing vacation. Best Western Plus ensures a comfortable and beneficial stay for guests. Their spacious rooms include cozy bedding, large-screen TV’s, and free WiFi. The suites are also equipped with oversized polished bathrooms, complete with lighted mirrors. The rooms also feature a desk that can be used as a work station. The hotel also features an indoor pool. More information about things to do can be found at VisitTemeculaValley.com.

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Fall Festivals, Harvest Events & Pumpkin Patches Big Horse Feed

Visitors old and young are invited to find their way in the Big Horse Harvest Festival, beginning September 29 and running the entire month of October. The 11-acre corn maze, the largest in Southern California, will keep your family a- “mazed” for hours. You can purchase a Maze-only pass for $10 or a Maze Combo pass for $15. Here is a listing of some of the activities. • September 29- Classic Car Craze • September 29 & 30 – Rock and Roll Weekend • October 6 & 7 – Old Fashioned Farm Days- churn butter, gold panning, bobbing for apples & more. • October 13 & 14 – BBQ Competition • October 20 & 21 – Salute to Military – Helping & Hiring our Heroes Every weekend: hay-rides, a corn cannon, pumpkin patch ripe for picking, kiddie rides and activities, food vendors, and pie-eating contests & more.

Fall Festival and Trunk or Treat

Hope Lutheran Church, Temecula invites the community to a FREE Fall Festival & Trunk or Treat, Sunday, October 28, 4:30 to 6:30 pm. Kids and adults are invited to come dressed in costumes. No gruesome costumes, please. The Festival is from 4:30-5:45 pm with carnival games, face painting, crafts, cupcake walk and food available for purchase. ($2 meal deals and other items). Trunk or Treating is from 5:456:30 pm. Visit decorated trunks for treats and more activities! For details or to host a trunk, visit www.hopetemecula.org or call 951.676.6262. Hope Lutheran Church is located at 29043 Vallejo Ave., Temecula.

The Pumpkin Patch Express

The Pumpkin Patch Express at Orange Empire Railway Museum for Kids Take a ride to adventure to the Pumpkin Patch – select and decorate your own pumpkin to take home, visit the petting zoo, enjoy Nick & Jan kids’ concert and ventriloquist performing on stage, and Mister Twister the balloon guy. Go on a hayride,

jump on a trolley for a ride around campus. Take part in kids crafts, the hay maze, visit the coloring station, temporary tattoos and stickers, bounce house, cookies and cider, scavenger hunt, and trick or treating! New this year – the SPOOKY CABOOSE. And kids, don’t forget to wear your Halloween costumes for the Costume Contest! Advanced Ticket Purchase is recommended to reserve your preferred departure dates and times. For more information and to purchase your tickets visit www.oerm.org/event/2084/ . Orange Empire Railway Museum Members save 10% and Military discounts are available. The Pumpkin Patch Express will be funning on these dates: October 13, 14, 20, 21, 27, 28 – 9am-5pm.

Fallbrook Scarecrow Days

Scarecrows are back invading Fallbrook for its 7th annual Fallbrook Scarecrow Days, October 9 -31st. It promises to be a month of community fun and a tourist destination to the Friendly Village. Scarecrows be will displayed around town at local businesses, residents, and a mystery location. It's great for taking pictures and to see the scarecrows up close and personal. Every weekend offers new event, family fun and fairs to attend. The “Friendly Village” has restaurants, lodging, hiking, an art center, entertainment, shopping and more for visitors to enjoy. More info at: fallbrookchamberofContinued on page 42 commerce.org/autumn

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Fall Festivals, Harvest Events & Pumpkin Patches By Diane Simones

Menifee Birthday Bash & Fall Festival

October 20 from 2-9pm at San Jacinto college, 28237 la Piedra Rd., Menifee Fun activities including: Live Entertainment, Community Performances, Fun Zone ($10 wristband), Food & Business Vendors, Trick or Treating, Costume Contest, Beer Garden. www.cityofmenifee.us

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32115 Temecula Parkway, Temecula Starlight Bizarre - Friday October 26th - 5 to 10pm Night market with 40+ vendors Trick or treating for kids at each vendor booth and all Vail HQ businesses Circus performances Black light carnival games Haunted House Headless Horseman ride Live music Costume parade Halloween crafts Food and libations Event is free to attend and all ages! Come in costume! More information at vailhq.com

Headless Horseman Rides This October, the Temecula Carriage Company presents The Headless Horseman Ride at Vail Headquarters – A horse-drawn wagon tour of the Vail HQ property pulled by working draft horses.

• The wagon path winds its way through a variety of scenery and spooky sites as you listen to the Legend of Vail Hollow…keep an eye out for the ghost of the Headless Horseman lurking in the shadows! • The ride is Halloween themed and intended to be eerie, but is appropriate for families and all age groups. However, please be aware that the later it gets in the evening the experience naturally becomes scarier because of the darkness.

• Headless Horseman Ride takes place every Friday and Saturday night in October from 6:00 to 9:30pm.

• Ride lasts approximately 10 minutes, and picks up and drops off riders in front of Augie’s / A la Minute at Vail Headquarters. • ickets can be purchased here as well. Rides are $5 per person and children under 2 ride for FREE.

For additional information on this ride please contact the Temecula Carriage Company at: (858) 205-9161 Factory of Terror Haunted House

• Oct 5, 6, 12, 13, 19, 20, 26, 27: Open 7PM – 11:30PM

• Oct 14, 21, 28, 31: Open 7PM – 10PM

• Nov 2 & 3: Open 7PM – 11PM - Lights Out Event – No lights only given glow stick to go through attraction

Enter if you dare, the FACTORY OF TERROR! Temecula's newest walk-through Haunted House experience presented by Fear Addiction is coming to Vail Headquarters this October. Admission: $15.00 general admission, $18.00 for front of the line fast-pass. Tickets can be purchased online here, or on site at Vail Headquarters during Haunted House hours - ticket booth is located underneath the water tower. This attraction is intended to be SCARY and although all ages are allowed, it is not recommended for children under 12 years. For full details visit: fearaddicton.com

Howl-O-Ween Lake Elsinore

“Howl-O-Ween” Downtown Main St (Off of South Main Street) 5-8:00PM Free, fun family event on Friday, October 19, 2018, from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. on Main Street. Costumes are encouraged. This event will feature trunk or treating, carnival games, and costume contest. Want to decorate your trunk and have fun passing out candy? Entries are free and prizes will be awarded for the best-decorated business and the best non-business trunks

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October 31 “Trick or Treating & Zombie Maze”

Come Participate in Safe Trick-or-Treating at The Shops at Dos Lagos at 2780 Cabot from 4-7pm. The FREE Event will feature: • Costume Contest: Prizes for 3 Categories & 1 Grand Prize Winner: • Zombie stilt walker and roaming Zombies • Halloween Games with Free Prizes • Face painting, balloon artist and music • Zombie Maze • Magician

Halloween Carnival - Temecula

Friday, October 26, 2018 from 5:30 PM - 8:30 PM at Ronald Reagan Sports Park located at 30875 Rancho Vista Road, Temecula, CA 92592. $5/ wristband= unlimited games & prizes, excludes food vendors. What is a skeleton’s favorite game at the carnival? Boneyard bowling! You can enjoy this game and many more at the annual Halloween Carnival. Event also includes jumps, train rides and a costume contest to make it a ghoulishly good time. You don’t want to miss this Spooktacular event!

Halloween Spooktacular at the French Valley Community Center

A safe & fun alternative to “Trick or Treating”. The French Valley Community Center will be filled with chills & thrills. Join us Halloween Night for games, jumpers, candy, and lots of FUN! Free Admission! Wednesday, October 31, 2018 from 5:00PM to 8:00PM at French Valley Community Center at Rancho Bella Vista Park located at 31757 Browning Street, Murrieta, CA 92563. Phone:951-894-1468

Hunter’s Pumpkin Patch at the Promenade Mall

Beginning September 21st. Open Monday - Thursday 3pm - 9pm; Friday - Sunday 10am - 9pm Pumpkins, Food, Carnival Games, Prizes, Crafts, Inflatable Rides, Kids Tractor Rides, Petting Zoo, World’s Largest Inflatable Dry Slide "The Kraken", and also the King Croc! Come enjoy some great music too! Now located in the Macy's parking lot.

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