SIMPLYkc Magazine December 2022

Alana

A FOND FAREWELL

It’s hard to believe this will be our last issue of SIMPLYkc Magazine . We brought you our first publication in 2011, and what an amazing 11 years this has been!

It’s bittersweet—I’ve loved the opportunity to work with an evolving publication from the ground up. I have also enjoyed working with the staff. It’s an almost all-women crew that somehow juggles mom and work life, tight deadlines, last-minute shoots, edits, and bumps along the way. Thank you to all the writers, distributors, photographers, and more: Carmen Carver, Samantha Levi, Beth Houts, Robin Addelman, Jami Marshall, Brandy Barrish, Julie Burton, Ashley Puderbaugh, and Gina Reardon, just to name a few; modeling agencies and models; our editor Brennan Hallock, who keeps us on tight deadlines and manages all our wonderful writers; and our art director Julie Faerman, who is also my amazing sister and has created a beautiful publication and has ensured it looked fabulous from cover to cover! I’m sure I’ve missed thanking some people because there are just too many people who have helped with this magazine.

I also have to thank our amazing advertisers! We couldn’t bring you this publication without them. Many of you have been with us since the beginning, and I’m thankful for the relationships that were built through the years.

And thank you to the Kansas City community. You are the reason this magazine happened. You are the reason it has been created for so long. And you are the reason we had so much fun doing it. Thank you!

Suzanne Steiner, Publisher

PUBLISHER

Suzanne Steiner suz@simplykcmag.com

MANAGING EDITOR

Brennan Hallock of Exploring Creative, LLC editor@simplykcmag.com

ART DIRECTOR Julie Faerman, Whoo Design

PHOTOGRAPHY

Jami Bowman of Electric Imagez, Melanie McDowell, Getty Images, Country Club Plaza

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Julie Burton, Lauren Dreher, Judy Goppert, Tiffany Killoren, Gina Reardon, AdventHealth, Brennan Hallock of Exploring Creative, LLC, Sophie Oswald

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HOLIDAY SHOPPING GUIDE

LUX by Mitzy is located in Downtown Mission, KS. LUX offers one-of-a-kind gifts carefully made by local makers in Kansas City. We offer personalized items, jewelry, apparel, candles and even unique imports from Mexico City. Come get unique gifts at LUX and shop locally.

6124 Johnson Dr., Mission, KS • capaxbym.com

Celebrate the season with Cuorebella. Buy one Egyptian glass ornament and get one 1/2 off. Offer valid Dec. 1-10, 2022.

Hawthorne Plaza, 4953 W. 119th St., Overland Park, KS • 913.325.7354 • cuorebella.com

Lingerie

De-stress this holiday season with Samantha at Mia Bella Donna Medspa and get the glow you deserve! Our Master Hydrafacialist will give you 20% off your service by mentioning this ad.

12541 Foster St. Ste. 330, Overland Park, KS • 913.827.9898 • asa-kc.com

Junque Drawer + Holiday House: Located in two vintage houses in Downtown Olathe. Eclectic gifts, handmade items, home decor and so much more! Come see us this holiday season!

Monday-Saturday 10 am-6 pm & Sunday 1-5 pm

233 S. Cherry + 101 W. Cedar Olathe, KS • 913.261.8183 junquedrawerstudio.com

We help ladies of most sizes find their “Sazzy” side by helping them find the perfect piece of lingerie! We also carry corsets, stockings, chemises, and other gift items!

7228 W. 79th St., Overland Park, KS • 816.289.9767 sazzys.com

Shop plant-based, essential oil-filled Zum gifts for everyone on your list. Pick your whiffs with the newest Zum gift and choose one of our five Zum lotion blends, one of five Zum hand soap blends, and one of over 32 different Zum bar soap blends. Our products are made in Kansas City by Zummers for you.

3125 Wyandotte Street, KCMO • 800.361.5686 • indigowild.com

10 WAYS TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEART

DURING THE HOLIDAYS

BY ADVENTHEALTH

The holidays are not only a time to catch up with loved ones, but they’re also a time when we usually indulge in our favorite comfort foods. With factors like holiday stress and overindulgence, the average person gains about five pounds during the holiday season! This can put a lot of strain on the body, particularly the heart.

This holiday season, consider taking some healthy steps to lower your risk of heart disease and heart attack.

HOW TO HAVE HEART-HEALTHY HOLIDAYS

Here are 10 steps you can take this holiday season to help protect your heart.

1. Go on a daily walk. Aim for 30 minutes of physical activity five or more days per week, and use our tips to stay active during the holidays.

2. Add a healthy side. Balance your diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables, whole grains, nuts, and lowfat dairy products.

3. Try a protein-packed snack. Before you sit down for a large holiday meal, have a high-protein snack to help prevent overeating.

4. Make breakfast a priority. Be sure to eat breakfast—even something simple like berries and oatmeal can give your body a healthy start to the day.

5. Get a good night’s sleep. Get at least six hours of sleep per night, but aim for eight.

6. Cook and bake with healthier ingredients. Try a few heart-healthy ingredient swaps in your favorite recipes this year.

7. Know your limits. Limit alcohol intake to no more than two drinks

per day for men and one drink per day for women.

8. Practice gratitude. Reflect on your priorities or give back safely as you take in the spirit of the season.

9. Make time to unwind. Take time for yourself with a relaxing bath, a book to read, or just a few minutes of calming music.

10. Eat everything in moderation. Eating healthy during the holidays can be tough, but try to reduce the urge to go for seconds (or thirds) and avoid saturated fat, trans fat, sodium, red meat, sugar-heavy sweets, and sugary beverages as much as possible.

CARING FOR YOUR HEART DURING COLD WEATHER

Cold weather may require us to change our type of routine physical activity, but it’s not a reason to stop exercising.

“See winter as an opportunity to try a new activity, such as finding an indoor facility to walk, swim, or use a stationary bike,” explains Heath Wilt, DO, cardiologist and medical director for Cardiology Services at AdventHealth Shawnee Mission. “Other indoor activities good for your heart include weights or resistance training, rock climbing studios, or yoga, all of which can be found with minimal or even no cost.”

It is also important to know that extreme cold can negatively impact an already compromised heart. If you experience chest pain or pain in your jaw, neck, or shoulder during cold weather, it may indicate a serious heart issue.

“Cold weather vasoconstricts the blood vessels, which helps to keep the blood closer to one’s core. This makes the heart pump harder to keep the body

warm,” says Dr. Wilt. “This process may exacerbate or uncover concerns within the heart itself.”

TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR TO PROTECT YOUR HEART

Starting at age 20, visit your doctor for heart-health screenings. Some of the screenings are probably things you’ve already been doing, like checking your blood pressure, cholesterol, weight, and body mass index (BMI).

If your doctor finds you have a problem or are at high risk of heart disease, they may recommend steps you can take to manage it before you develop more serious issues. These steps may include medication management or a combination of lifestyle changes to:

• Manage cholesterol levels

• Lower blood pressure

• Increase physical activity

• Maintain a healthy weight

• Prevent or control diabetes

• Quit smoking, if applicable.

Taking care of your heart preventively— not just during the holidays, but regularly—means you can take the necessary next steps to help your heart become healthier and stronger.

“The most common pitfall patients experience when it comes to heart health is preventive maintenance with adherence to routine physical activity and eating habits,” says Dr. Wilt. “It is vitally important to realize that at any point in life there is room to improve one’s lifestyle and risk factors.”

The experts at AdventHealth Heart & Vascular Institute can help you learn about risk factors and lifestyle changes to strengthen your heart through diet, exercise, and emotional health during the holiday season and for years to come.

Learn more about AdventHealth’s reimagined Heart & Vascular Institute at HeartCareKC.com, or schedule an appointment for one of our HeartAware screenings by calling 913.676.2505.

OF THE BEST CHRISTMAS LIGHT DISPLAYS IN KC 7

1 Crown Center: Checking out these downtown Kansas City lights has become a tradition for many families. Make a day of it by participating in nearby festivities, such as skating at the Ice Terrace. No matter what, be sure to take a look at the Mayor’s Christmas Tree.

2 Union Station: These lights have become another holiday classic! Here you can check out the giant Christmas tree inside and many beautiful decorations for free. There is an additional magical light display worth walking through if you are willing to pay.

3 Zona Rosa: The holiday season is kicked off with the annual lighting ceremony featuring the historic holiday crowns and a majestic 55-foot Christmas tree! Stop by to see this incredible tree and more.

4 Winter Magic: Winter Magic is an enjoyable drive-through light experience the whole family will enjoy. This is great for those who want to stay warm in their car and take a fun mile-long drive through a Christmas light display. Tickets for Winter Magic can be purchased online.

5 Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead: Deanna Rose is a unique holiday light experience perfect for the family. The display runs toward the end of each day during the holiday season. You can pull up and park as you check out the synchronized musical show.

6 Christmas in the Park: This is another drivethrough experience filled with bright lights and animated figures, but admission is free. You will have to drive just a bit to Lee’s Summit, Missouri, but it is worth it. Here you’ll see more than 500,000 lights. This is a great time to check out Lee’s Summit’s Magic Tree at I-470 and View High Drive as well.

7 Sar-Ko-Aglow: If you are up for a short drive to Lenexa, Sar-Ko-Par has some Christmas lights you won’t want to miss. The free lighting ceremony will take place Dec. 2, but the lights will stay lit throughout the season. Take a nice stroll around the water and check out the gorgeous trees!

Our intention is to return to the basics of aromatherapy: using plant aromas to benefit the mind, body, spirit and emotions.

Essential oils are becoming more and more popular and mainstream. Unfortunately, much of the information about them is superficial or focused heavily on sales and marketing. These workshops are not affiliated with any network marketing. This is a fun and interactive class taught by Jan Kelly, nationally Certified Aromatherapy Instructor.

Myofascial Release Therapy is a vital component to our health, and is utilized for pain relief and restoration of body function. You will learn about the complex role of the fascial system and the mind-body connection, as well as how fascial restrictions occur, and the symptoms they can create. Self treatment tools included in the workshop price. This workshop is for anyone who is interested in learning more about Myofascial Release Therapy.

EXPERIENCE CHRISTMAS THIS HOLIDAY SEASON AT JUNQUE DRAWER BOUTIQUE

STUDIO

WRITTEN BY BRENNAN HALLOCK/EXPLORING CREATIVE, LLC / PHOTOS BY JAMI BOWMAN

In downtown Olathe in a historic three-story home is a business that you need to visit during this holiday season. Junque Drawer has been in this location since 2014, and offers everything from jewelry to home decor to toys to an in-house bar with wine, beer, and prosecco.

They recently expanded into another store location across the street with an entire shop dedicated to the holidays. “We have always had holiday shopping, but we just put it all into one store,” explains Hannah Greer, manager and co-owner. “It’s kind of our favorite time of year. We have a lot of fun buying for Christmas; everyone is in a good mood—it’s just a fun time of year, so we decided to expand that.” They now have six

rooms of Christmas shopping across the street from their main location with a kitchen area, home decor, lots of stocking stuffers, a Christmas wonderland, and more.

“It is so much more than a store full of unique treasures. It is a gloriously inclusive clubhouse, a home where everyone has a welcome seat.”

The house they expanded into is a beautiful home built in the 1800s. “We’ve taken the architecture and made it really festive and fun for the

holidays,” says Greer. “There aren’t a lot of stores around here that are dedicated to the holidays.”

Greer, who has a background in advertising, manages the store with her mother, Jane Hosey-Stern. HoseyStern has been running Junque Drawer for about 30 years.

The first brick-and-mortar location was started in 2007, and they moved into their current location in 2014 when Greer started working with the store.

“She had done it by herself for many years, and she talked me into coming onboard in 2014,” explains Greer. “She’s literally the most creative person I know. It’s just fun. I’m pretty lucky that we get along really well and we have a really good staff. It’s just a fun group.”

Junque Drawer carries a mix of products, including items from a number of local artists. Some of these include Annie’s Barn, 1KC, Messner Bee Company, The Corner Candleshop, and Modestly M Candle Co.

Greer adds, “It’s a really cool time of year and we carry really unique Christmas stuff—really fun ornaments, lots of great candles, a huge personalized section. You can come in, pick out an ornament and we can write on it for

you right there. The holidays are so fun for our family—it’s so fun to pass that on to other people. It’s just a good time of year.”

Some of Junque Drawer’s customers back this up as well. Faith Scott says of Junque Drawer, “It is so much more than a store full of unique treasures, gifts, jewelry, and art. It is a gloriously inclusive clubhouse, a wildly cherished collective, a sacred and rebellious home for wayward wandering dreamers who

are seeking more joy, more hope, and more and more loud and raucous love where everyone has a welcome seat.”

This holiday season, take some time to experience this charming store and browse their products. Take a break to stop by their bar and grab a drink. And during an event you may even find a specialty cocktail. You can also find their products on their Instagram or Facebook.

Local GOOD EATS

Austins Bar & Grill has been serving Southern Johnson County for over 34 years. Our family-owned establishments offer a fun sports bar environment to watch all the games. Fresh quality food is provided with great daily food and drink specials. Enjoy our happy hour menu 3-6 p.m. Monday-Friday!

SOUTH OLATHE - 2103 E. 151 st St. • 913.829.2106

NORTH OLATHE - 11180 S. Lone Elm Rd. • 913.322.2337

GARDNER - 245 Moonlight Rd. • 913.856.6965 austinsbarandgrill.com

Burnt End BBQ is a fast casual BBQ restaurant located in Overland Park. They are the tastiest of the tasty! Come in hungry and walk out satisfied. If you can’t make it in, don’t worry! They deliver and cater. Burnt End BBQ can cater any event from a simple office lunch to an old-fashioned BBQ wedding. Come in and try the best BBQ in town!

11831 Metcalf Ave., Overland Park, KS • 913.451.8888 burntendbbqkc.com

Chef Carl Thorne-Thomsen’s award-winning restaurant offers creative American cuisine, craft cocktails, and fine wines. Chef Thorne-Thomsen, chef/owner of Story, is a James Beard Award Nominee for Best Chef Midwest! Enjoy patio, bar, or dining room seating at Story.

Featured menu items include: Alaskan halibut, beef short ribs, lobster tagliatelle, fluke ceviche, and more. Story also offers monthly wine dinners, a fried chicken special on Wednesday nights, and a burger special on Thursday nights. Visit storykc.com to learn more

3931 W. 69th Terr., Prairie Village, KS • 913.236.9955 info@storykc.com • storykc.com

Our food is simple, elegant, and honest. The menu is inspired by a combination of American, Greek, French, and Italian cuisines. Our commitment to freshness and quality is first and foremost, as we use the season’s best offerings and buy from local farmers and purveyors whenever possible.

The service team at YaYa’s consistently aims to provide the best service and complete guest satisfaction. We’re proud to be able to meet each special request of our guests, whether it’s food, beverage, or a special setting.

7021 W. 135 th St., Overland Park, KS • 913.345.1111 yayaskc.com

Bright &

Whether it’s a stunning accent piece, or a tiny spark of color, White Buffalo Trading Co. has the perfect gift for you & your loved ones!

WRITTEN BY TIFFANY KILLOREN PHOTOS BY JAMI BOWMAN

Oh, social media. How we both love and loathe thee. Video clips this time of year feature women in sequined party dresses and flawless makeup carrying a gift with a bow that matches their bright red lips. They make it look so easy; a swoosh with a brush here, a light shimmer there, a gloss the finishing touch on an enviable look. We watch and rewatch the video and, after the third time, convince ourselves that we’re capable of pulling off such a look … until we remember how terrifying smoky eye execution can be.

Professional makeup artist Stacy Vizcarra understands. Her social media is full of the photos that we envy, her clientele gorgeous, flawless and some years younger than those of us terrified of contouring. Vizcarra is one of us, however; she’s a forty-something who loves helping her clients create polished looks, but she wants to help those of us a bit older accomplish a similar result that’s perfect for our age, style, and lifestyle. In fact, Vizcarra is committed to being a resource for women of all ages to be their personal best.

Let’s talk lashes: “If you have lashes, you don’t need as much makeup,” Vizcarra says. “But, as we age we lose volume.” When evaluating your makeup routine, keep your lash options open. One of Vizcarra’s new

favorite products is a two-week lash from Doll House Lashes that can be applied at home. “For lashes, less is more for our age group,” she says. “The easiest way to apply lashes yourself is to wear an end piece or to cut a lash in half and use a lash on the outer part.” She also suggests considering tints and lifts for lashes, which darkens and curls them for a fuller appearance.

Pass me the cranberry: Audrey Hepburn. Grace Kelly. Marilyn Monroe. The red lip is one of the most timeless and iconic looks, albeit a bit intimidating to those who don’t wear it often. The holidays are a perfect opportunity for a festive pop of lip color and, despite what you may think, it’s not just for certain skin tones. It’s all about finding the right shade. “A red lip is a statement,” Vizcarra says. “So, again, less is more. A sheer red lip is the best way to start with a little red liner to define the lip.”

Don’t forget the brows: “Brows are the new lashes,” Vizcarra says. “They’re taking center stage.” So, what does that mean, exactly?

“Brows should frame the face,” she explains. As with lashes, brows tend to thin and require more maintenance as we age, but there are great options that go beyond a simple brow pencil. For those who don’t want to deal with their brows daily, there are henna tints, microblading, and lamination (softens brow hairs so you can manipulate their direction). Although finding the perfect technique can take some time, the result is worth it.

Snow, sleigh bells, and a little shimmer: Many of Vizcarra’s clients want a particular look—dewy, perfected, glassy skin. Since weekly facials aren’t feasible for most people, Vizcarra identifies the key to perfecting “a more youthful glow without looking like a glitter bomb.” First, she suggests dermaplane. “Yes,” she says. “That means shaving your face.” Dermaplaning can be done at a medical spa, but many have perfected the process at home. The second step is to add a few drops of an illuminator to your foundation. “It’s not a glitter,” she explains. “You want to look like you’re glowing from with-

in. Dewy, but not oily. It’s like lingerie for your skin.”

Look book: Since the holidays are a time to dress up and enjoy events special to this time of year, we asked Vizcarra to tell us three things she would focus on if attending the following events:

Nutcracker performance at the Kauffman Center: Bold lip, winged lash, pulled back hair

Neighborhood holiday get-together: Berry blush, soft eye shimmer, lip gel in berry wine color

Office party: Bronzy smoky eye, nude lip, and some fun earrings

Girls’ night out at Miracle Popup Bar: “Go big or go home!” she says. Bold eye, flirty lashes, and long-lasting lip color.

“Beauty is more about how I feel than what everyone else wants me in,” Vizcarra says. We couldn’t agree more. So, grab that sequined handbag, wear the dress that puts a spring in your holiday step, and try some of the above tips to shine like the season itself.

Pictured: Tiffany before (below) and after (right)

THE WRITIQUE PROVIDES

CAREER-ADVANCING MAGIC

WRITTEN BY JUDY GOPPERT / PHOTOS BY JAMI BOWMAN

This woman-owned business helps you achieve success and a gratifying career through résumé writing, LinkedIn profile optimization, cover letter writing, and more. Each person is unique, and the staff treat them as such, with a personalized process from the start. The Writique analyzes their clients’ needs and offer ideas and recommendations based on various factors, like how long you’ve been out of the workplace (if at all), if you are changing careers, or

if you are entering the workforce for the first time.

“LinkedIn is a professional networking tool. A lot of recruiters are searching for a professional LinkedIn profile that makes candidates stand out,” explains Alana Henry, owner of The Writique. “It is critical that a LinkedIn profile is written well and targeted to their specific industries, so those individuals pop up on targeted platforms. We also help with documents like thank you letters, e-notes, and professional bios.”

Henry has an extensive background in writing and communication as a journalist and English teacher. She understands the importance of telling a story that connects with the audience. “Most job seekers have a simple résumé that serves as a duties list,” says Henry. “But a simple résumé doesn’t tell all of who you are and the value you bring to a prospective employer.” Henry considers the writing from the reader’s perspective.

Originally from Kansas City, Henry grew up in the urban core where

With a knack for communication and forward thinking, Alana Henry gives clients the tools to reinvent themselves—and their lives.

Alana Henry, founder of The Writique

the median household income was under $30,000, and many students attended schools without the resources they needed to think about life after high school.

“I earned my broadcast journalism degree from the University of Missouri in 2011, with a minor in Spanish,” explains Henry. “I joined an organization called Teach for America, which places teachers in schools around the country. I was part of their 2011 corps program and taught in Dallas/Fort Worth, Texas.” After completing the program, Henry married her now husband, taught English for a few years in the Rio Grande Valley, and had their first daughter. She decided to stay home and use her skills to write for hire.

“My company was originally called Alana’s Writing and Editing Services,” says Henry. “I worked on statements, grants, essays, résumés—anything. Then I found a niche in résumé writing. I had always loved working with my students to help them think about their life trajectory and career development.”

Henry enjoyed working with many un-

derserved and underprivileged individuals in Texas to assist in developing their career path, not just getting a job. She spent time designing curriculum and activities that centered on life mapping and life planning. Henry moved to Indiana in 2017, and she and her husband came up with her new company name, The Writique. After living and working for a few years in Indianapolis, they moved back home to Midtown Kansas City in April 2021.

When thinking about a résumé, Henry says to identify a clear target for your job search, whether by profession or industry. Speak to the needs of that employer. If this becomes a challenge, consider seeking the help of a professional—but be sure to vet your résumé writer. Testimonials and reviews are important, and consider a certified writer who may have had more professional training.

“Many of my clients have résumés that are simply a duty list or glorified job description. An employer wants to know the value you bring to them,” continues Henry. “Make sure you stand out. Make sure you keep

track of any data about your efficiency. Keep a ‘brag file’ on a Google Doc or folder. If your performance reviews are good, put a copy in there. If your manager has something good to say about you, include that. Any data on an initiative or project you did is great to give to your résumé writer.”

For example, this means if you are a dental assistant you want to be the best dental assistant on the planet, not just another telephone answerer or appointment maker. Explain how you established a process or a system that improved the customer experience or the company. Did you set up a play area for children, developed a new customer care program, or streamlined billing? A strong résumé will tell the reader what sets you apart.

“I have a fact-specific style. I bring this strength into everything I write, which is why customers have had such a great experience with our company, and why we have had success in our placement of candidates,” reiterates Alana. “We connect and tell their story.”

Client Stephanie Sweer says about her time with The Writique: “This was an amazing experience. Just the first draft alone gave me such a boost of confidence to apply to jobs and to hopefully land myself a job. I already received an interview.”

The Writique, LLC • thewritique.com • 317.207.0224

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“Just the first draft alone gave me such a boost of confidence to apply to jobs.”

Sparkling During the Holidays

Go from black tie to casual this holiday season with lots of sparkle, bright colors, feathers and sequins. Traditional patterns are back! Get festive with check, plaid and velvet.

Photography / West Elm Photography

Model / Kyrie Killen with Voices & Hair & Makeup / Alex Glaviano

Christmastime is magical when you have kids. But kids are kids at the kid table and teenagers are teenagers trying to bum a glass of wine at the adult table. I’m not saying the magic of Christmas is gone when you have teenagers; it’s just a whole new version of magic.

THE MAGIC OF CHRISTMAS

WITH TEENAGERS

WRITTEN BY JULIE BURTON / PHOTO BY JAMI BOWMAN

Kid Christmas: The kids wake up to find the Elf on the Shelf having been naughty last night by dumping green food coloring into the carton of milk.

Teen Christmas: The parents wake up to find the Elf on the Shelf having been naughty last night by dumping whiskey into the carton of eggnog.

Kid Christmas: Opening presents as tall as them.

Teen Christmas: Opening presents that fit into their hand.

Kid Christmas: Eating the sugar cookie dough and helping Mom decorate sugar cookies.

Teen Christmas: Eating the sugar cookie dough and turning the jingle bells cookie into jingle balls.

Kid Christmas: Singing “You better watch out, you better not cry, better not pout I’m telling you why, Santa Claus is comin’ to town.”

Teen Christmas: Santa does, in fact, come to town and he’s flesh and blood and wine and tears—counting the kids presents to make sure they’re even.

Kid Christmas: “The best way to spread Christmas cheer is singing loud for all to hear” (quoting Elf).

Teen Christmas: “Bend over, and I’ll show you” (quoting Christmas Vacation).

Kid Christmas: A handwritten note to Santa written in crayons with backwards Ds and Bs.

Teen Christmas: A Lulu Lemon and Nordstrom PowerPoint presentation complete with links of exact color choices and sizes.

Kid Christmas: Leaving cookies out for Santa

Teen Christmas: Leaving empty containers in the fridge

Kid Christmas: “The tree looks so pretty, Mommy!”

Teen Christmas: “Bruh, the white lights are so cringe.”

Kid Christmas: Waking up at 4 am to kids jumping on your bed.

Teen Christmas: Waking up the kids so they don’t sleep until 4 pm.

Kid Christmas: Filling their plate with macaroni and cheese and mashed potatoes. Teen Christmas: Watching them fill their plate with everything plus seconds and thirds.

Kid Christmas: Dressed as the beautiful angels that they are in their Christmas best while screaming in the pew.

Teen Christmas: Arriving in their PJs at midnight mass.

Kid Christmas: Staring in awe of the Plaza Lights, Union Station, and Crown Center’s Mayor’s christmas tree.

Teen Christmas: Staring in awe of the Plaza Lights, Union Station, and Crown Center’s Mayor’s christmas tree.

Julie Burton is an Overland Park mom, writer, K-State lover, and bacon-hater. She is a blogger and contributing author to the humor book, ButDidYouDie?: SettingtheParentingBarLow . Burton’s also been named one of the Today Show’s “funniest parents.” And yes, she really does hate bacon. Please don’t drop her as a friend. Follow Julie at: julieburton.blog • facebook.com/julieburtonwriter • twitter.com/ksujulie • instagram.com/ksujulie

A Not-So-Ordinary Book Discussion

BY TIFFANY KILLOREN

IT’S THE MOST WONDERFUL TIME OF YEAR!

Sure, Andy Williams sang about kids jingle belling and caroling out in the snow, but for me this time of year is about spending quality time with friends and family and taking the opportunity to count our many blessings. We often show our appreciation to others through gifts this time of year, so the below are a few suggestions for the book lovers in your life who like to spend the cold winter months curled up and lost in a story.

Golden Girl (Elin Hilderbrand, 2021) I had the pleasure of attending Hilderbrand’s book reading event hosted by Rainy Day Books in February. She spoke about her personal journey and Golden Girl , the latest in her Nantucket-based novels. I tend to steer clear of beach reads, but realized that I had literally judged a book by its cover. Yes, it’s based in Nantucket, but this is a charming story about the strength of a mother’s love and how the universe tends to guide us in the direction that is right for us. And, after you read Golden Girl , you might just notice ways that you’re “nudged” from the beyond.

A Well-Behaved Woman: A Novel of the Vanderbilts (Therese Anne Fowler, 2018) I love a good book recommendation, and a friend loaned me her copy of this book because she knows how I love the gilded age and Vanderbilt history (I’ve previously covered my love of Vanderbilt: The Rise and Fall of an American Dynasty). This hybrid factual-fictional novel tells the story of Alva Vanderbilt and her complicated family as they navigate their rising position in New York City. It is a story of opulence and heartbreak, women’s strength, and a family’s power. This is a great gift for those lovers of history, enduring style, and a family name that is more well-known than the mistakes they made along the way.

American Dirt (Jeanine Cummins, 2018) Another friend recommendation, I dove into this book during the last days of summer when I was exhausted and need-

ed a distraction from chaotic family schedules. The story itself is immediately riveting, following a mother and her young son running from the Mexican cartel after their entire family was murdered. From the first chapter to the last, it follows their journey toward the United States border and the dangerous risks they take to get there. Understanding there is a fair amount of controversy regarding this book and its author’s depiction of the protagonist’s journey, I found the story captivating and thought-provoking. A #1 New York Times bestseller, I’m clearly not alone.

The Long Weekend (Gilly MacMillan, 2022) An isolated weekend getaway without cell reception in a renovated barn. What could possibly go wrong? The Long Weekend ’s tagline of “Three Couples, Two Bodies, One Secret” summarizes the plot, but throw in one suspicious letter and a group of people who you are never quite sure whether to like or suspect, and you’ve got this intriguing page-turner. A perfect mystery for snowy days ahead, you’ll find yourself shuffling the story’s pieces around in your head to come to a conclusion, only to be tossed a twist that sends the pieces flying once again. Although the end was a bit disappointing given the twists and turns of the story itself, the book is still worth a read and will make you second guess any suggestion by friends that you all meet in the woods for a weekend.

Tiffany Killorenis a local author and lover of the written word. Her novel, GOOD WILL, was released in 2020 and she is always thinking of new stories to tell. Follow her at @readandthreads on Instagram for book and life musings as she tries to balance career, family and her passion for writing one step - or word - at a time.

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TREAT YOUR TASTEBUDS

TO AUTHENTIC THAI THIS HOLIDAY SEASON

WRITTEN BY SOPHIE OSWALD / PHOTOS BY JAMI BOWMAN

When Tuk Tuk Thai arrived in Overland Park, the goal was to create a place where families and friends can gather and enjoy mouthwatering Thai food. Their dream of providing the most delicious food and delightful dining experience became a reality in 2019.

This restaurant is family- and sister-owned, so love is at the heart of everything they do. A lot of work has been put into bringing their vision to life. Anyone eager to dive into a plate of authentic Thai cuisine doesn’t need to look any further.

The open kitchen style at Tuk Tuk Thai makes for a unique experience. From any table, you can hear the sounds of cooking and smell the delicious spices and herbs while your

food is prepared. They use a range of ingredients such as ginger, Thai chili, galanga, lemongrass, and basil.

“I believe Thai food is one of the most popular cuisines in the world,” says co-owner Nicole Brizendine.

“It has at least five different flavors: sweet, sour, salty, spicy, and savory.” Thai dishes come with many choices for the level of spice. Customers can order food with no spice or try something more intense like Thai

hot, depending on their preferences.

Pad Thai is the most popular dish. It is sweet and savory with the perfect touch of salty and nutty. This is a dish anyone is sure to love. Other popular dishes include drunken noodle (phad kee mow) and various curries.

“If you are new to Thai cuisine, try Pad Thai then branch out to different dishes on the menu,” suggests Brizendine. “There are chef’s special-

ties, and you need to check out other dishes like Gaprow, Freestyle Fish, and roast duck.”

Like most restaurants, Tuk Tuk Thai felt the weight of the pandemic. Thankfully, they were able to push through the challenges. They saw an increase in delivery orders during the pandemic, but the owners are happy to see customers dine indoors once again.

“We have seen more regular customers and lots from out of town as well,” says Brizendine. “We have hosted some customers from as far as Sweden, Australia, the Netherlands, and South Africa while they are in town for

business or visiting family.”

The hope is that people come in as strangers and leave as happy customers. “We love seeing our customers,” expresses Brizendine. “We also enjoy their stories, life experiences, and travel adventures that they have shared with us. Seeing them happy while dining in with us means a lot to me and the staff.”

“We love this place,” says customer E. Faria. “Best curry. We’ve tried other Thai restaurants, but always come back here. It’s our absolute favorite in the area and think it’s one of those best kept secret type of joints.”

“If you’re looking for a local Thai restaurant to try, add Tuk Tuk Thai to the list. You are sure to love the authentic flavors and welcoming atmosphere that await.”

If you’re looking for a local Thai restaurant to try, add Tuk Tuk Thai to the list. You are sure to love the authentic flavors and welcoming atmosphere that await.

Tuk Tuk Thai • 8351 W. 135th St., Overland Park, KS • 913.291.0106 • tuktukthaikc.com

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HOW TO REDUCE THE YULETIDE MADNESS

WRITTEN BY LAUREN DREHER

What a whirlwind! Does this describe how you feel after the holiday season comes and goes? So much happens in such a short period of time that it can be overwhelming. This doesn’t mean you don’t love spreading holiday cheer, but the seemingly nonstop hustle and bustle can be a lot. Whether you are the person who can’t get enough of the holidays or the one who doesn’t mind when they’re over, here are some tips to minimize the Yuletide madness.

THE DIY Christmas season seems to be extra packed with DIY crafting and decorations, which is great. But, of course, we like all of it to look amazing.

A few ideas to take the pressure off:

1. Enjoy the time making it, even if the finished product doesn’t look perfect.

2. If you have a long list of projects, choose some of the projects but not all of them. Sometimes we plan to do more than we can handle.

3. If you’re planning activities to do with others, make sure you pick activities they enjoy as well.

TREATS

Baked goods and gifts tend to come in abundance, whether they’re from family, friends, neighbors, holiday parties, or maybe from you!

1. Set a date with some family or

friends to make goodies. Each person chooses one or two things to make and share. This way, everyone gets a lot to take with them, and it’s not up to you to do it all.

2. Don’t feel obligated to eat everything. It’s impossible to satisfy every preference. Be appreciative and move on.

EVENTS

There are plenty of gatherings of all types. It can be stressful trying to go to all of them.

1. It’s okay to skip some of them. Making it to everything can use up all of our time and stress us out. As needed, consider the invitation and decide if it’s something you want to go to. If not, it is okay to politely

decline without giving an explanation.

2. Decide as a family what you want to do and where you want to go. Maybe this is a year to start some of your own holiday traditions.

3. Advice from licensed marriage and family therapist Nicole Schwartz: “Decide which things are reasonable for you and your family. You cannot do everything on your list; choose your top five or 10. Make sure you include the things that you enjoy!”

THE HOLIDAY DAY

This is usually the kicker. We want to spend all the time we can with our family. The bigger the family, the harder it is to coordinate days and times with everyone. One thing I’ve learned: as families grow and change, so do traditions.

1. Decide with your family what is right for you. If you want to have everyone

wake up in their own beds instead of being out of town, do it. Others will adjust.

2. Get on a rotating schedule for being in town or out of town. You can even switch houses each year so the responsibility falls on someone different each time.

3. Have everyone participate in bringing a food item, whether it’s homemade or not.

GIFT-GIVING

We have so many people to buy gifts for: friends, family, coworkers, teachers, kids … and the list continues.

1. For the people who are picky or hard to buy for, consider an experience. Sometimes giving them our time is more valuable than another “thing.”

2. Think about memberships. What types of places do they like to go to

but don’t want to pay for?

3. Help someone pay for a trip. You could also get them some fun things to use on a trip they would never buy for themself.

4. Help with everyday expenses like bills or groceries.

HANDLING GIFT LET-DOWN

When all is over, what do you do with the overwhelm? Here are some more tips from Nicole Schwartz

One-in/one-out rule: If you are overwhelmed by the amount of toys in your home, begin a one-in/one-out rule. Encourage your children to give away one toy, book, video game, or clothing item for each gift they receive. This can even be done prior to Christmas.

THE PASSION BEHIND THE PICTURE

WRITTEN BY LAUREN DREHER / PHOTOS BY ROBIN ADDLEMAN

Growing up, Robin would watch her mother take amazing photos everywhere they went, and also develop the images in a back bathroom at home. Intrigued by her mother, Robin started taking photos casually of anything and everything. But it wasn’t until she became pregnant with her twin boys in 2010 that she gained a love and passion for taking portraits of people of all ages, and thus turned this interest into a successful career.

With a glance at her portfolio, you will see she is no longer an amateur. She has become a skilled photographer ready to show your personality and life through her imagery. No matter where your natural element is—a rolling meadow, a football field, your favorite coffee shop, or a rundown gas station—Robin can help tell a story in a photo, your story.

Taking a portrait with a client feeling at ease and genuinely smiling can be difficult, but Robin has the necessary skills. She explains that it takes being personable, entertaining, and a good listener. Robin’s wide array of services include modeling headshots, high school seniors, brand imagery, and teen photo shoots. Her true passion is portrait photography with a creative yet editorial feel, especially with her younger clients.

Early adolescence is a time children feel uncomfortable with physical

changes, and oftentimes they feel overlooked. Having a styled teen session is great for confidence building as they mature into this new role. One client said, “My daughter loved their portrait session with [Robin]. She saw the finished images and has not looked at herself the same since, a new confidence has emerged.”

To help with your branding, whether personal or business, she also has a closet stocked with pieces to bring you to life—and it’s free! Or you are welcome to bring your own outfits and she’ll make sure they are camerafriendly and work well for you. The “style closet,” as she calls it, is open to all of her clients and she loves being able to style her clients and make them feel amazing. When a person sees an excellent image of themself, they often think of how good they felt that day, and the feeling is emulated each time.

For Robin Addleman, there is much more behind a picture than the finished product. “I love seeing people light up when they see their images. They then see the beauty in themselves that others see.”

This kind of reaction drives Robin to take the best photos she can while also knowing, “It’s not as much about the images, but the person I see blossom right in front of me,” she explains.

In addition to individual sessions, Robin serves other crowds. If you are looking for someone to capture your business brand, whether it’s you and your personal online presence or it’s the products you offer, she excels at this. New business owners often need a creative eye to bring to life what is needing to be communicated. Robin will gladly sit down and help you design your online look and appeal.

One more unique offering of West Elm Photography is her teen and senior teams. Early spring of each year she puts out applications on social media for all who are interested. These teams will then have photoshoots throughout the year together and individually, with one of the sessions being a creative, editorial-style session that helps the teen experiment with different fashions. The team is also a great way to meet new friends from around the metro.

Visit West Elm Photography’s website to see more of Robin’s amazing work.

“I love seeing people light up when they see their images. They then see the beauty in themselves that others see.”

Robin Addleman of West Elm Photography is inspired by the quote “Every artist was first an amateur” from Ralph Waldo Emerson, which serves as an important reminder when she tries something new in photography.

DearKACIE

CHRISTMAS ON A SHOESTRING

I’m a newly divorced mom of teenagers. To put it simply, I cannot afford Christmas. I can afford a few things for my kids, but I can’t give them nearly half of their list. I’m more worried about the extra expenses of the season—the presents for parents, bosses, white elephants, the family kids gift exchange, and teacher gifts. It’s a lot, and I don’t have the money right now. Is there a polite but cheap way of showing I appreciate my people during the holidays?

The holidays break a lot of us. And some don’t realize they’re getting broken until that credit card bill arrives in January. The holidays, unfortunately, can be commercial. But there are ways to relieve the financial burden.

Who is most important to you? What traditions are you not willing to give up? Let that be your focus and then divide and conquer. Figure out how much you can truly afford and stick to it. Even if you have to get cash out and literally divide what you can afford.

Other ideas? If you’re crafty or handy in any way, put your skills to use and make your own handmade gifts. Bake cookies, up-cycle mason jars, knit a scarf, build a wooden bench, or put together a gift basket. Also, Pinterest is a gold mine for DIY ideas! Coupons are also a great gift—maybe you can babysit your nieces and nephews for an evening. Or bring breakfast in bed to your best friend and her husband.

Just don’t let your finances force you to skip the party gatherings! You don’t have to bring a white elephant gift. Enjoy the bickering without the anxiety. And, sometimes people are looking to dump gifts at the end of the night anyway and you could get lucky.

The holidays truly are about spending time together and not about material things.

THE HOLIDAY HORS D’OEUVRES

WRITTEN BY GINA REARDON / PHOTO BY MELANIE MCDOWELL

How long has it been since you’ve been to a cocktail party with passed hors d’oeuvres and cocktails in pretty glasses? Other than recent family weddings, my answer to that question would be …I don’t remember!

But now, I’m ready. I want—I need—to connect with other humans I care about and celebrate life, celebrate holidays, the winter solstice, the bonds of friendship, and the shared history of family. I want a party!

I’ve always loved planning parties—planning the food, the drinks, the table-scape. I believe every menu should have balance, an artful combination of lovely foods with various textures, shapes, and colors. Cheese boards and charcuterie have certainly had their moment, but I sometimes miss the old days with fancy hors d’oeuvres.

Gina Reardon, former owner of Catering by Design and culinary philanthropist, leads the KC team for No Kid Hungry, culinary professionals and community members focused on supporting Share Our Strength’s No Kid Hungry campaign. Funds raised help connect the nation’s 16 million low-income children with more school breakfast, lunch, and summer meals.

Baby Orange & Lemon Scented Crab Cakes

MAKES 30-32 CRAB CAKES

Ingredients

CRAB CAKES

1 egg

3 tablespoons mayonnaise

4 teaspoons Dijon mustard

1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice

1 pound best-quality lump crab meat, picked over to remove cartilage, drained and patted dry with paper towels

1/4 cup finely chopped green onion

1 teaspoon each freshly grated orange zest and lemon zest (be careful not to grate the white pith beneath the outer portion of the peel)

1 cup fresh bread crumbs*

1/2 teaspoon sea salt

1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper

*1 tablespoon each unsalted butter and vegetable oil to sauté crab cakes

LEMON AIOLI

1 cup mayonnaise

Zest of one lemon

2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice

Salt and coarsely ground pepper to taste

2-3 tablespoons chopped parsley

Directions:

Prepare the crab cakes: Place egg, mayonnaise, mustard, and lemon juice in a bowl to mix. Add crab meat, green onions, parsley, lemon and orange zests, bread crumbs, salt, and cayenne. Stir well to mix. Using a small scoop, shape into small, flat cakes, about 1 inch in diameter and 1/2 to 3/4 inch thick. Place on a baking sheet, cover with plastic wrap and chill for one hour or overnight. (Because there are not a lot of breadcrumbs to bind the crab cakes together, it is important they are well chilled before they are sautéed.)

Prepare the lemon aioli: In a small bowl, stir mayonnaise, lemon zest, and lemon juice together, season with salt and pepper to taste and stir in parsley.

Cook the crab cakes: Heat butter and vegetable oil together in a large skillet over medium heat. When hot, add just enough crab cakes to fit comfortably in the pan (do not crowd) and sauté for a few minutes per side, until golden brown. Lift gently when turning. Repeat until all cakes are cooked, adding extra butter and oil if needed. If not using immediately, place them on a baking sheet, cover loosely with foil and keep warm for 30-40 minutes in a 250 degree oven.

To serve, top each crab cake with a 1/2 teaspoon of lemon aioli.

Do-ahead tip: Sauté crab cakes earlier in the day, refrigerate, but let sit at room temperature for about an hour before needed. Rewarm in a 350 degree oven for about 5 minutes until hot to the touch. Top with lemon aioli.

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