September 2016 issue

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I AM my Sista’s Keeper

September 2016 Vol. 4, Issue 1

Special At The Well Section Back-To-School Beauty & Fashion

At The Well 2016

GOLD Medal Sistas

Our 4-Year Anniversary Issue!!!!!

In This Issue

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Movie Preview

Inspirational movie Queen of Katwe

Making A Great First Impression

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Spotlight: GOLD MEDAL history-making sistas Simone Biles & Simone Manuel

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Back To School Sections

In this month’s sections, we give you tips for the new school year: how to start with the right attitude, how to get rid of jitters, getting out of your shell & making your dreams & goals come true.

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College Prep Timeline On The Cover

Photos courtesy of: Sista’s Keeper Magazine

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(left) Our Sista’s Keeper At The Well contributors grace the cover this month.

Their stories from Princeton University are featured.

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Sista’s Keeper Vol. 3, Issue 3 Owner/Publisher LaPorsha Lowry Managing Editor Erik Veal Assistant to the Owner/Publisher Day’Quan Crawford Editorial Assistant Taylor Means Contributng Writers Tanisha Fordham Alexis Knight Ife Presswood De’Shauna Selby Jamiya Turns Special Thanks

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Corinne Lyons Sharee Silerio Simone Young Jacqueline Glass At The Well Conferences, Inc. Venus Alexandria Ferguson Keep Rising!

Empowerment Summit for Girls Carrie Cook EmpowHERment Inc. Kelly Leonardt-Phoenix Stacie Bailey Ashley Reid Chukwuemeka Anazia Brittany Salter Jesse Lowry Trumaine McCaskill Evan Summerville Greg E. Hill Daniel Lee Lowry Dottie Benjamin Terri Long Darie Wilson Antionette Cody

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In Every Issue

Health

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Beauty 10 Back To School Hairstyles 13 14 16 18 22

Beauty Back To School Skincare Beauty Back To School Nails Entertainment

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Start The School Year With the Right Attitude

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Jando Get Over Back To School 25 Jitters Maua Getting Out of Your Shell 26

Movie Preview:

Queen of Katwe Fashion

Ndege Making Your Dreams & Goals Come True

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Back To School Fashion

Relationships Making a Great 1st Impression

Black Women In History Aretha Franklin 46 September 2016

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Calendar September 2016

What’s going on and what to do this month

Meet Our Staff Tanisha Fordham

TaNisha is a wife, daughter, friend, sun-child, cycling enthusiast, teacher, smoothie lover, artist, free spirit and starting player on Team Jesus. As the Founder and Creative Director of The Light Space and Enlightened Visions, Inc. she enjoys creating original, edgy, Christian inspired content across nearly every creative platform: films, plays, music, books and any other medium she can put her hands on.

Ife Michelle

Ife is a 22 year old native of Charlotte. A graduate of the illustrious Fayetteville State University, with a degree in Marketing and a minor degree in dance, Ife has used her degree to start her own company “Thickems Closet”: an online hub for plus size apparel. In addition to running her company, Ife enjoys dancing for two local companies: SHAE Movement African Arts and 4Thirty-Two, writing, spending time with family and friends, and traveling.

Alexis Knight

Alexis is a Greensboro, NC native and is the fashion contributing editor for Sista’s Keeper Magazine. She is talented in putting together fashion looks that are both stylish and age-appropriate for our teen girl readers.

De’Shauna Selby

Event: 6th Annual EmpowHERment Summit Date: Saturday, September 17, 2016 Time: 8am-5pm Place: East Mecklenburg High School 6800 Monroe Road, Charlotte, NC 28212 The annual summit is a powerful leadership development experience that connects, challenges and inspires hundreds of girls in grades 6-12 and women in the Charlotte area.

For more information or to register, visit: http://www.empowherment.com/

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De’Shauna is a native of Philadelphia, PA but currently resides in Danville, VA. She is a graduate of Johnson C. Smith University with a Bachelor of Arts degree. Writing for the magazine for two years, her biggest joy is having the opportunity to write to her younger self. “Every young girl who has read Sista’s Keeper, I was her. I wish I had something so intriguing and educational like this magazine! I can’t look back and change it but I can give back and every article I submit gives me that opportunity”.

Jamiya Turns

Jamiya is a 2016 graduate of Johnson C. Smith University. She began writing for Sista’s Keeper Magazine in 2014 because writing is her passion. She met the editorin-chief and loved what she was doing for young girls. She decided to become a contributing writer. Jamiya also graduated Dean’s List and is a part of the Sigma Tau Delta International English Honor Society.

Taylor Means

Taylor is a Charlotte, NC native and a graduate of North Carolina A&T’s journalism program. She enjoys traveling, reading and it is no understatement that she enjoys writing about everything from the Carolina Panthers to current events. Nothing makes Taylor prouder than to see the unity of young girls and women going beyond themselves and acheiving great things collectively.

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What A Time To Be A BLACK WOMAN

’ey sistas! We have made it to the end of Year #4!!!!! Thank you to all of our readers, followers, subscribers and supporters that have helped us get this far.

Without you, this magazine would still be a dream in my head and notes scribbled in my notebook.

As I look back at the past 4 years of the magazine, I am grateful to have connected with young ladies who are great examples for our readers and have them as part of the Sista’s Keeper family.

Were you as inspired by the 2016 Rio Olympics as I was? This year, there were a lot of athletes who look like us & who were excelling at their sports. From the US women’s basketball team to the track team & even the swimming and gymnastics teams: black women were not only in the Olympics but WINNING!!!!!

This month’s Spotlight is on Simone Biles & Simone Manuel (pg. 9), two young ladies who made history during the Olympics.

In this issue, we have a special At The Well section. I had the pleasure of teaching a writing class at this dynamic conference for rising high school juniors & senior girls from all over the country. I am so grateful to those of them who took my class seriously and volunteered to write for the magazine. Also, some of their responses to topics from my class’ writing prompts are featured In this month’s sections, we will help you get back in the swing of things at school: having the right attitude, getting out of your shell & making your dreams & goals come true.

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Editor’s Letter

info@sistaskeepermagazine.com or visit our website: www.sistaskeepermagazine.com Remember the purpose of Sista’s Keeper: to build you up as young women so you can be comfortable enough in yourself to help your sisters, cousins, friends, etc.

I hope that you enjoy this issue and remember: “I AM my Sista’s Keeper”

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GOLDEN Simones

Spotlight

The 2016 Olympics got a double dose of #BlackGirlMagic Simone Biles was reletively unknown in the gymnastics world 4 years ago. Today, she is a household name who won 3 World Champions on her way to the 2016 Olympic Gymnastics All-Around gold medal.

Following in the footsteps of US gymnastics teammate Gabrielle Douglas, who shocked the world when she won the all-around in London in 2012, Biles’ success in Rio was all but a foregone conclusion.

With a flawless floor routine & SUPER power in her 4-foot-nine frame, she flew through the air and past her competition to claim not only the all around, but she led her team to the team gold and

In 2012, Lia Neal became only the 2nd black woman to compete on the US Olympic women’s swim team. The Stanford University student was joined this time by her teammate, Simone Manuel and the 3rd seemed to be the charm.

Manuel became the first black woman to win a medal in swimming, & that medal just happened to be GOLD! She won the 100 meter freestyle & when she realized that she had gotten the gold, she could not contain her excitement!

London’s games in 2012 saw only one gymnast of color on the US Olympic gymnastics team in Gabrielle Douglas .

This year was a little different, as three of the gymnasts were of color: Douglas along with Biles & Laurie Hernandez led the team to team gold, while getting individual medals for the two.

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By: Ife Michelle Beauty

Try These FABULOUS

Ready or not, IT’S here: the school year is upon us! It’s time switch gears from chilling all day to putting in work to have a successful academic year! While working hard is essential to having a great year, you can’t really work your best unless you look your best, and I am not just talking about that “back to school, everyday on fleek” look.

It’s also time to freshen up that summer hair, and of course I am here to help! So, in honor of the 2016-2017 school year, here are 4 hairstyles to make a head turning school year impression!

Bantu Knots Bantu knots are great because they give you a edgy dimension and space to show your personality.

Great for both natural and relaxed hair, you can go basic with a simple wrap-around bantu knot or you can spice it up with dope parts, color, size, and detail, like bantu knotting twostrand twists and braids.

The style is easy to maintain and refresh, plus you’ll have the have best twist out when you are ready to switch it up!

The Pineapple If you want more of an easy going, laid back look, The Pineapple is for you!

The style consists of taking your hair and tying it all up to the front to resemble...you guessed it..

A pineapple.

You can add a twist to this style by getting a cool undercut, leaving some hair out in the front for a bang or on the side for “sideburns”.

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Back To School Styles

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Buns Are you more retro chic? Well you can never go wrong with a classic bun look!

You can keep it simple with a straight part and a little gel or you can get spicy with parts, multiple buns, saucy edges, or cornrows!

The MEGA Braid Similar to Goddess braids, a mega braid it one huge braid that snakes around your head. It’s cute, simple, and a great look for the girly girl. This style can be altered with tapered side or feeder braids/ cornrows.

You can also braid in bold color or cool hair accessories.

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Fall Nail Colors

Beauty

Check out the latest Fall 2016 collection from Essie.

Kimono-Over Opportunity knocks!

So why not let it in?

In inviting damson plum, you’re ready for everything.

Maki Me Happy Roll up in this crimsonwrapped berry, and put a smile on everyone’s face.

Now And Zen Yesterday. Tomorrow.

Forever. This timeless sage gray has you styled cool, calm and collected.

Go Go Geisha Laughs. Dancing. Intrigue.

With you and this nonstop antique blossom pink, you’re in perfect company.

Playing Koi Udon Know Me We haven’t met yet, but in this mysterious stony blue, you’ll never want to say sayonara.

Hey, shy girl. Go bold with this flirtatious orange rust and you’ll never fish for compliments again

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Back-To-School Skincare Tips

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Remember the golden rules...

Cleanse, Moisterize, Protect & Exfoliate

The old addage, "Beauty is only skin deep", that we have so often heard is a standard that we should adopt.

Our inner beauty and how we behave, treat people and respond in our daily lives is what is most important. However, this same addage speaks to what we reflect to the world with our skin.

Our skin is the largest organ of the body which helps us regulate our body temperatures, provides the first defense for our bodies from our environment and also performs many other biological functions.

As the first defense, our skin is the first thing that we display and reflect to society, therefore highlighting the importance of keeping your skin healthy, clear and glowing.

Little Known Fact Sunscreen helps prevent uneven skin tone & dark spots

Skincare Tips: 1. Know your skin type:

oily, dry or combination 2. Based on your skin type choose a cleanser and moisterizer that suits your skin and will not leave you with excessive oils or over dry you 3. Protect your skin daily with sunscreen: excessive exposure to sun causes pre-mature aging and increases your risk of skin cancer 4. Exfoliate your skin on a regular basis that is tolerable for your skin type

Not everyone can acheive healthy, clear, glowing skin on their own. Knowing when to consult with the right professional is always key.

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Entertainment

Queen of Katwe

The film adaptation of the book The Queen of Katwe: A Story of Life, Chess, and One Extraordinary Girl’s Dream of Becoming a Grandmaster For 10-year-old Phiona Mutesi and her family, life in the impoverished slum of Katwe in Kampala, Uganda, is a constant struggle.

Her mother, Harriet, is fiercely determined to take care of her family and works tirelessly selling vegetables in the market to make sure her children are fed and have a roof over their heads.

When Phiona meets Robert Katende, a soccer player turned missionary who teaches local children chess, she is captivated.

Chess requires a good deal of concentration, strategic thinking and risk taking, all skills which are applicable in everyday life, and Katende hopes to empower youth with the game.

Phiona is impressed by the intelligence and wit the game requires and immediately shows

potential.

Recognizing Phiona’s natural aptitude for chess and the fighting spirit she’s inherited from her mother, Katende begins to mentor her, but Harriet is reluctant to provide any encouragement, not wanting to see her daughter disappointed.

As Phiona begins to succeed in local chess competitions, Katende teaches her to read and write in order to pursue schooling.

She quickly advances through the ranks in tournaments, but breaks away from her family to focus on her own life.

Her mother eventually realizes that Phiona has a chance to excel and teams up with Katende to help her fulfill her extraordinary potential, escape a life of poverty and save her family.

Queen of Katwe will be in theaters September 30th.

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I didn't want her to be exactly like me, so her traits became a mixture of my sister, a cousin and myself.

Originally, I styled it as a children's picture book. It wasn't until later, that I decided to make it a chapter book for kids.

When I finished "Meet Irene" I knew it wasn't enough; there was more to the story.

That is why "Meet Irene" is only the first book in a series.

I didn't publish "Meet Irene" until this year. After exploring the option of publishing companies and weighing all the possible outcomes, I decided self-publishing was the route I wanted to go.

Author Spotlight: Meet Irene By: Brandi Taylor Author/ATW Contributor Irene Maxwell is an eight year old girl going through a BIG change. Moving! She has to adjust to a new home, new school and new life.

All while trying to make friends.

This is a story that is very dear to me. At ten years old, we had moved again from Kalamazoo, Michigan to Atlanta, Georgia.

This was a totally different place than what I was used to. It was then, I had the idea to write a book about life in Michigan from six to ten.

For me, it was a way to tackle emotions I had that were positive and negative about the move.

Creating Irene was therapeutic, selfdiscovering and even fun for me.

Meet Irene is available on Amazon in the Kindle edition for only $1.99.

Back To School Playlist “Masterpiece” Jasmine Sullivan “Get Up” Mary Mary “It’s My Time” Kelly Price

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Make The Halls

By: Alexis Knight Fashion

Step into the school year with this years most popular staple pieces from head to toe. I’m going to show you the perfect outfits to get you back in the swing of things!

Spice up you uniform by using some of the most overlooked accessories, like your school supplies... yes, your school supplies!

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Theres nothing like an asymmetrical touch to a simplistic piece. This outfit is very simple.

We all know it can be a drag when it comes to carrying all those texts books, so spice it up with a comfortable bootie and Laptop case to give you the perfect balance.

Nothing says school like the perfect presidential outfit. Take your everyday basics and give it a touch of spark with your metallics! ->

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There's nothing like a touch of floral and a cute pastel sandal to pull together a basic outfit. Here I love the wide leg trouser with the pastel tones.

Last but certainly not least we have your classic black and white. Here you want to keep it a professional as possible with a pinch of chic.

You can add that touch by soft pinks and nudes to tone it all down wit a hint of stripes for a touch of pattern. ->

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Weighing Out The Facts

By: Corinne Lyons Health

Summer gives way to Fall and the changes are real; pumpkin spice takes over fruity flavors, there is a chill in the air when it used to be warm, salads and frozen drinks are replaced with soup and warm drinks. But that doesn’t mean losing all the healthy habits acquired over the summer.

Michael Omidi of the Children’s Obesity Fund says that more than 23 million children and teenagers in the US are obese or overweight.

“This is putting our nation’s future at risk for debilitating diseases such as high blood pressure, heart disease, diabetes, and countless others.”

First Lady Michelle Obama launched Let’s Move!, a comprehensive initiative to eliminate childhood obesity within a generation.

“The numbers are even higher in African American and Hispanic communities, where nearly 40% of the children are overweight or obese.”

The website maintains a lifestyle change is responsible for childhood obesity rates tripling in the last 30 years.

“Today, children experience a very different lifestyle. Walks to and from school have been replaced by car and bus rides. Gym class and after-school sports have been cut; afternoons are now spent with TV, video games, and the internet. Parents are busier than ever and families eat fewer home-cooked meals. Snacking between meals is now commonplace.”

National Childhood Obesity Month occurring in September, many community organizations and individuals will refocus their efforts on helping children and families live

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healthier lives.

It’s a good time to get involved in community initiatives and/or ensure no matter what the scale reads it measures a healthy body. Here’s a few quick tips on how to live healthy.

Join A Sport If you are interested in playing a sport, no matter your skill level, joining a sport is a great way to ensure exercise is a part of your life and build social relationships with others.

If your school doesn’t offer a sport, or you’d rather not play for your school, you can find community leagues.

Sleep Well There are many obstacles to getting a restful night sleep. However, setting and practicing a night time routine can greatly improve your chances.

Believe In New Days Every day is a new beginning and if you did not live your healthiest and best one day there is no reason to stop; tomorrow is a new day for you to get it “right”.

of Childhood Obesity

Health

Doctors have attended many years of training to assist you in living your healthiest Learn Your Body life possible.

If for some reason you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t feel your doctor Knowing how your body processes foods can help you make decisions about meals that is giving you the best treatment possible there will keep YOU healthy. Remember what might is nothing wrong with asking for a new one. work for your friend might not work for you.

Make S.M.A.R.T. Goals.

Get Help There is no shame in getting help if need help learning your body or if you have an eating disorder.

Specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and timely goals are more likely to be achieved. Take some time to evaluate your goals and adjust them accordingly.

For more information, visit: http://www.letsmove.gov/

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Making A Great

Relationships

By: De’Shauna Selby

Ever heard of that saying “The first impression is the best”? Or what about “How you start is how you finish”? Well, those mottos should be the signature caption to the biggest season ever: Back to School!

Whether the academic year is in full effect for you or just starting, it is not too late to get the tips you need to make a stellar impression that will last even after the last day of school!

Reflect and Assess In order to be better, it is important to identify the areas you need to grow in.

Rate your performance last year.

Were you doing just enough to get by or did you do your best? Did you limit yourself socially or were you too social?

These kind of questions will help you in the next tip.

Play the Part Even after you have prepared and positioned your year, it is important to follow through.

Growth does not occur overnight.

If you desire to make lasting impressions that will make you and your academic year better, it will require consistency!

Maybe consider a counter ability partner.

Share each other’s goals and encourage one another through them.

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Be Prepared “Preparation meets opportunity.” Now that you have assessed and made a list of things you wish to work on, start preparing.

For example, if you want to turn your B’s to A’s you may have to change your study habits. Your 30 minute study session may need to be one hour.

Join a study group or ask your teacher if they can possibly provide an independent study.

First Impression

Relationships

What about your friends?

So you have decided on an accountability partner but, can you count on all your friends? When you set goals and position yourself to be better, the company you keep must reflect that.

Don’t let go of your friends, just position them in a way that supports you in the area of your life which they fit. As you gain more experience and mature this process will get easier.

Have Fun! Every year is like cleaning the slate and starting anew. It can be daunting if you haven’t prepared but with these tips it will be refreshing. Have fun doing it!

You can still have fun, make memories and lasting impressions so go get them tiger!

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Start With The RIGHT Attitude

By: Tanisha Fordham Go! Go! Go! Move your feet across the flo’.

You rose now shine and shine a little mo’.

Deep breath. WOO! WOO! HA! HA! HA! Deep breath out.

Feeling vibrant and alive?

Scream and shout – girl – let it out!

WAKE UP! WAKE UP! WAKE UP! GASP! Turn off your alarm.

Wipe the junk from your eyes, girl.

Super, girl. Yes! Yes! Super, girl! Work. SLAY! Super, girl! Yes. Right.

Super – every single day.

COME ON! YES! COME ON. Now, stand. Deep breath in…

Now, stand. Deep breath out…

Now --- stretch. GOT IT? Good.

Supergirl! You are super.

Supergirl! You are bad.

Super, girl! Be super.

There’s much “super” to be had.

Now shimmy all about.

Go! Go! Go! Move your feet across the flo’.

You rose now shine and shine a little mo’.

Take a shower.

WASH YOUR BOOTY! Brush your teeth.

Comb your hair.

Now eat and pack your bags.

Pack ‘em with a lot of care.

Thank God for today.

THANK GOD FOR TODAY. WAIT! WAIT! Did you pray?

Thank Him for the sunrays?

Take a deep cleansing inhale.

You’re alive. YOU’RE ALIVE. YOU ARE HERE. YOU ARE HERE. YOU COUNT. YOU RISE! You’re important. Don’t forget, girl. You’re important – you count.

If you feel something inside, girl.

ALL GOOD – SHOUT IT OUT! NOW GO! GO! GO! Move your feet across the flo’.

Girl, you rose now shine – and then shine a little mo’.

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Now look in the mirror: Turn left, turn right.

You got it. You’re it!

You are ready for the fight.

PULL UP ON THE SCHOOL. POW! The challenges begin. ZOP! Trouble on a test. BANG! Drama with your friends! YIKES! Wieners in the cafe. EW! But, you packed your lunch! YES! Boxing day in gym class? AH! Girl, you got it, PUNCH! WOO! Circle yes or no. No? Boys can make you cry.

BUT, get up girl – you’re winning.

Look your troubles in the eye and

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say: “Nothing can stop me.

I’m movin’ ‘cross the flo’.

I rock. I slay.

Then I slay a little mo’.

I pull up on this life.

And I slay, slay, slay.

I’m lit. I’m it: All night. All day.”

Trouble with a crush? PLEASE. Teacher that’s a jerk? SO. Haters on your team? BLOOP! What, they didn’t know?

Nothing can stop you, girl.

Nothing, I say.

You – girl – are super. POW! SLAY. SLAY. SLAY. Ey, girl. I got you.

Ey, girl. I see.

I see, supergirl, all the super you can be.

I am trusting, girl super, I am trusting in your might.

I’m depending on you, girl.

I’m counting on your fight.

You are great.

You are good.

You are super, supergirl.

Girl rise. Girl shine.

You were born to change the world.

Go! Go! Go! Move your feet across the flo’.

You rose now shine and shine a little mo’.

Get Rid Of Those New School Year Jitters

Jando By: Jamiya Turns

We all know that going back to school can be a pain, with all that has to be done to get ready. The right school supplies have to be picked. The right classes have to be picked to set you up for success for older student.

But will of that to think about there are always 1st day jitters because if you are new to the school and you don’t know anyone there is always the extra pressure to make a great impression and make lots of friends and have fun.

1. Have Confidence And Smile 2. Be Approachable 3. Get Involved 4. Find Another New Person And Make Friends 5. Get To Know Your Teachers 6. If They Have Open Houses Go To Them 7. Get To Know New People: If All Of Your Friends Are Not In The Same Class As You Don’t Get Upset.

8. Get A Goodnight Rest And Have A Great Breakfast.

9. Its Ok To Be Nervous 10. Wear Something That Makes You Feel Comfortable.

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Maua By: Simone Young

A Pearl in the Making: Getting Out of Your School Shell

Be bold, be fearless and take the world by storm!

My name is Simone Young and I attended North Carolina A&T State University. Upon arrival, I was terrified. I was unsure if I would fit in, if I’d find friends that understood me, accept me for me, and did not mind my unique and weird ways.

I was used to staying to myself because I was afraid of what others thought. Growing up I was constantly asked why did I talk the way that I did, why did I listen to the type of music I listened to, and that I was a bit weird.

I also moved around a lot due to my father being in the military and after a while I always felt that there was no purpose in putting myself out there because either I was going to leave or my friends were. It was only a matter of time.

On another note, when I went to A&T, I joined the Blue and Gold Marching Machine. I would not be the outgoing, confident, and strong woman that I am today if it weren’t for that.

There were many lessons taught in the band

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program that have carried over into my everyday life.

One of the things they constantly told us was to “play with confidence”.

Yes, it was something they told us just to play louder but it truly was a life lesson. Just as I had to dance like no one was watching, and play boldly, loud, and with the assurance that I knew what I was doing, I had to stop being so afraid and worried about what others thought because no matter what I was doing, I was putting my best foot forward and enjoying myself and there were many others in my same shoes.

I also had to learn to open up to my fellow band members, especially if was going to be with them for the next four years, and practicing every single day for many hours.

I still got told that I was weird, and it was still pointed out that I talked differently than everyone else and that my taste in music was a bit different. None of that mattered anymore to me because they›d either love me or hate me and the ones that didn’t like my uniqueness weren’t worth my time anyway.

I continued on to join Tau Beta Sigma National Honorary band sorority, studied abroad in the Middle East where I met lifelong friends, volunteered for several organizations, networked with several people in my field, and made some of the best friends I have ever had.

None of that would have happened if I remained behind the safe walls of my little shell. Go for anything and everything you want in life. Yes you may doubt yourself but do it anyway. Always take a leap of faith.

My last point is to be unapologetically you. There is no one else in the world just like you so be daring and show it. I was like that pearl inside of a clam just waiting for the world to see my rareness and be amazed by everything I am and had to offer.

How To Make Your Dreams & Goals Come True If you’re ready to chase your God-given dreams and reach your goals, follow these seven steps.

Summer 2016 is almost over, and the new school year has just started. Another year means more difficult assignments and projects, more things to do, more hopes and dreams, more challenges, and more decisions to make.

You might wonder how you can do well in school and what you need to do to make your dreams a reality. Whatever you dream of becoming or doing, you have to create a plan to make it happen. It’s been said that “if you fail to plan then you plan to fail”.

When it comes to your goals and dreams, you must not simply hope and wish for them to come true.

1. Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable When life becomes easy, it’s time to dream bigger dreams and set crazy, seemingly impossible goals.

If you want to grow, if you want to become the best at what you do, or who you are, you must challenge yourself. Doing this will force you out of your comfort zone, but it will also prepare you for the future.

2. Do Your Research and Find a Mentor Google is your friend, so find out what it takes to reach your goals by researching. Information is powerful, and it will offer direction for your plan.

It’s also helpful to seek a mentor and guidance from others who are living your dreams or have accomplished your goals.

A mentor will share their knowledge, expertise and experiences, and will introduce you to the people and opportunities that can help you accomplish your goals.

They’ll also expose you to new ideas and ways of thinking and offer advice on developing your strengths and overcoming weaknesses.

3. Create a Plan to Make it Happen Now it’s time to transform your thoughts and ideas into a plan! Write a list of your six month, one, two and three-year goals, including what you’ll need to do

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to accomplish them, with deadlines. This transforms them from a thought to something real, manageable.

If you want to keep yourself motivated and add fun to the process, create a goal and vision chart. To do this, write your goals on the top of a poster board with their deadlines and paste or tape pictures, words, drawings or magazine clippings under them that explain what you want to achieve. When you’re done, make sure you hang it in a place where you will see it every day.

4. Celebrate Your Accomplishments When you complete a task that will lead you to accomplish a goal, make a point to celebrate your progress, hard work and determination. It can be as simple as a day at the beach, a trip to the movies with friends, or going to a concert.

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rinceton University was the place where 62 amazing young ladies embarked on the journey of a lifetime. For two weeks, the rising high school juniors and seniors left their homes and familes ahead of college and lived the college life as part of the 2016 At The Well Conference. They lived on campus and attended college-level classes that

Girls Get College Experience ʻAt The Well ’

If you’re ready to chase your God-given dreams and reach your goals, follow these seven steps.

By: Azana Green ATW Contributor At The Well Young Women’s Leadership Academy is a two-week conference founded

by Jacqueline Glass in 2009 to empower and educate young women of color.

For two weeks, 62 young women from across the country stayed on campus at Princeton University and were guided through intense courses meant to stretch them in and out of the classroom with a collegelevel workload along with exceptional guest speakers who spoke about finances, entrepreneurship, girlhood/womanhood and more.

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every day with inspiring and interactive lectures taught by a long list of very accomplished teachers including Maco Faniel, author of Hip Hop in Houston: The Origin and the History, Arika Easley-Houser, a PhD faculty member at Rutgers Preparatory School, Toby Sanders who is on the Trenton Board of Education and Senior Pastor at Beloved Community Church, Rev. Thomas N. Holmes, founder and chief executive officer of Powerful Visions LLC, an educational community to consult students on financial aid and scholarship strategies, and LaPorsha Lowry, owner of Elle Shanice Media and Sista’s Keeper Magazine.

They taught topics ranging from Critical Reading and Writing to public speaking and preparing for college. They also shared their own little anecdotes of what made them the person they are today and many girls stretched themselves in ways they didn’t think possible.

LaPorsha Lowry is a first year teacher at ATW. “I came across ATW in my search of non-profit organizations that serve primarily African-American teen girls for my magazine,” she says.

She originally intended to merely cover the conference in the magazine, but ended up receiving a teaching position instead and decided to graciously give her time outside of teaching English, Language Arts, and Reading to grade-school students.

She taught the Critical Writing course in which she had the girls respond to prompts revolving around the African American community including Oprah’s Legend’s Ball and Jesse Williams’ infamous BET Awards acceptance speech, while also leaving time for plenty of self expression.

From her ubiquitous smile to her overall positive demeanor, she motivated girls to do their best and also made sure to rep her alma mater NC A&T. “ATW is special because of its emphasis on giving the girls a first-hand look at what college will be like: how to manage your time, how to get the work done & how to navigate the ins and outs of college. My favorite experience has been meeting the girls and building relationships with them. I have some girls who I really look forward to staying in touch with and keeping up with their accomplishments in the future,” she reflected with a smile.

Ms. LaPorsha, as she is affectionately

called by her ATW students, is just one of the teachers that was greatly influential for the girls at ATW. Another crucial element of the conference was the girls’ relationship with the counselors.

They were all great role models of young black women who were making a name for themselves in the world including a Black Student Union President at the University of California at Santa Cruz and a potential White House employee.

A couple of them stayed on each floor and got to personally know many of the girls.

They all attended or were currently attending schools across the country, some HBCUs, others PWIs, which in turn led to many unique experiences they gladly shared with the girls throughout the trip that helped them gain a deeper insight into college life and their potential future.

From the classes, teachers, guest speakers, new friendships, and even a New York City day trip, ATW in its entirety was an excellent program that spread positivity, confidence, and love for the black race and most importantly, themselves.

The official mission statement of the conference is to “encourage girls to live beyond their dreams and impact communities beyond their reach,” and that's exactly what was instilled in these girls from the program.

Unforgettable memories were made along with bonds that will last a lifetime.

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How To Get Into PRINCETON By: Janea Wilson & Nia McCullin ATW Contributors

With an overall acceptance rate of 7%, Princeton University is one of the most prestigious universities on the planet.

In order to get accepted into the university, you’ll need at least a 3.9 GPA and an average SAT score of 2250. With these requirements, you’ll have to be at the top of your class to even dream of attending this school.

Along with having the academic requirements, all applicants have to write an essay, be interviewed and send in a recommendation from a teacher or someone who knows you well. Even though reaching these standards can be difficult, there are some ways to make it easier.

But potential Tigers will need more than outstanding grades to be accepted - the personal essay should be used to reveal your personality and background. Tell about any experiences you’ve had that affect who you are and your values.

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You can mention your strengths as well.

Do try to tell a good story, but stick to your voice. If you’re a serious person, or make a lot of jokes, go for it - don’t try to change yourself to what you think the admissions board wants. They want the real you!

But if you do write about how someone or something shaped you, be sure to focus more on how an event changed you for the better, not the event itself. It’s you they’re interested in, after all.

If you’ve spent a significant amount of time on the Princeton campus, mention how the school is a good fit for you and how you’d take advantage of its opportunities.

Maybe you see yourself using the engineering library for research when you major in Architecture, or you’ll study abroad so you can better yourself as a future International Business major or humanitarian. And while you should be positive about your time at Princeton, don’t overdo it. It will be obvious if you try to flatter the admissions board by being too sweet. Maybe you can even write about overcoming a hardship at Princeton!

In short, make sure you are true to yourself in your personal essay. Write with your own style and tell your story. This part of your application is about you as a person, not a GPA!

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Inside

Princeton University Art Museum

Have you ever wanted to travel the ancient worlds in a day? Well, you can when you go to the Princeton Museum.

By: Kayla Patterson ATW Contributor Princeton University is famously known for their rich historic buildings, monuments and sites. Now they are famously known for their museum that contains tons of artifacts from important eras from the world.

Walking into the museum you first see beautiful abstract paintings that will take your breath away.

These pictures tell a story within itself making the museum a first good impression.

The downstairs museum contains Southeast Asian and Korean Art, African Art, Japanese Art, Art of the Ancient Mediterranean, a Roman Court and Art of the Ancient Americas.

Walking downstairs the exhibits engulf you with beautiful art of pure history. In the African section there are beautiful pieces of jewelry that contains vibrant colors of beads, sculptures of people and gods.

The Asian Art section contains scrolls of Chinese characters, wine vessels, garment hooks, lamps from the Han Dynasty and Korean paper scrolls. The Ancient Americas part persist of unique pottery, pots, bowls and smoking pipes from New Mexico, late Mississippian Caddo, Arkansas and Northwest coast art and Alaska.

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Augustus â&#x20AC;&#x201C; roman empires. The portraits of Socrates and Demosthenes is memorizing with its details and its flawlessness.

The Greek part contains artifacts of figurines, pots and vases from the Bronze Age and the Iron Age. Down stairs was an eye opener and gave me chills to see all of the artifacts that people made a long time ago. It is amazing to think that these people did not use any sort of technology to create these amazing pieces of artifacts.

The upper levels entails European Art, American Art, Modern Art, and Special Exhibitions. The upper level contains paintings, drawings, sculptures and photography.

The modern art consists of sculptures and pictures that modern day people can relate to. Walking around the top floor was a true inspiration for not just people who like to paint but to all mankind.

The pictures on the wall were intensifying due to the amount of detail artists put into their artwork.

Every room you go into, the museum fills you with joy, inspiration and amazement.

This museum has been collecting art from the 1750s. Throughout the years the museum has received many donations from tons of foundations and contributors.

The art museum has grown to include 92,000 works of of art from across the globe. All in all, stopping at Princeton University museum can be a great historic event for everyone.

Exhibit Displays ‘A Material Legacy’ Princeton University is known for its excellence in most fields, ranging from medicine to literature to the sciences. What most don’t know is that Princeton also excels in the arts.

By: Tylar Watson ATW Contributor Princeton has an art museum on campus, that showcases a variety of exhibits ranging from 1700s British art to sculptures made in 2011.

The exhibit I looked at was new this summer, titled “A Material Legacy.” There were two specific pieces that stood out to me the most. The first is a photograph

by Alfredo Jaar made in 1995, using photographs originally published in Life Magazine in 1968.

As you can see, there are three prints total in the piece. The first is the picture published in Life Magazine, from Martin Luther King Jr.’s funeral.

There are black dots in the second print, and red dots in the third print.

Each dot represents a person, the black dots represent black people and the red dots are white people.

The photographer was using the different colored dots to show the extreme separation between black people and white people during a time of mourning, and to provoke the audience to think about whether or not things have changed. How many more people would show up to his funeral today? What would those people look like?

The other piece that I absolutely loved was a painting by Kehinde Wiley in 2013, called “Naomi and Her Daughters.”

This particular painting may look familiar to you because it’s actually a remake of a pretty famous painting called “Naomi and Her Daughters,” from the 19th century. The artist did this painting as a way to highlight the lack of diversity and representation that African-Americans had in the arts up until recently.

I really liked both of these pieces because they really made you think about things. The MLK piece made me consider how despite the reverence he was

given, Martin Luther King Jr didn’t have as many allies as we all like to think, even in death.

The “Naomi and Her Daughters” painting looked familiar the first time I saw it, but I couldn’t figure why or where from. After reading the description, it was like “wow, this is amazing.” I had a ton of fun at the exhibit and if you get a chance to go, definitely do it!

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Love Is In The Details In Oprah’s Legends Ball, she discusses the meaning of details in planning this extraordinary event When Oprah says love is in the detail she means that she is putting her heart in all that she does.

She made sure every small little detail was perfect and makes it an experience for everyone. She wanted to show her love to the greatest people that have influenced her and many other women.

I liked how she put so much detail in the parting gifts and the color. I loved how she had a trolley drive them like I saw that she took to heart how people wouldn’t want to walk that far.

I also enjoyed how they put heart into the food.

I love how she made it possible for everyone to attend because of the three-day process. I also found that it was cool how she turned such a big ballroom into a nice venue.

-Alyssa Nesmith When Oprah says that “love is in the details”, she means that if you’re really passionate about something, you’re going to make every detail count.

The Legends Ball was very important to Oprah and she made sure that every single was perfect.

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day event, she made it a luncheon, white-tie ball, and gospel brunch. All of the guest were very important to her so it was important that every single one of them felt comfortable yet honored at the same time.

-Cayla Ifill Oprah realized that these women weren’t just regular people they were legends. People that were truly inspirational to others and made a significant change in the world.

Oprah felt that in paying attention to the details, she’s paying them the respect they deserve.

When all these woman showed up they were amazed by how beautiful the event was because it emphasized their purpose.

Being able to be surrounded by other people that do what they do and having interactions with them make them feel comfortable. Oprah showed all of them that they have support too. They’re sometimes wrapped up in helping others and forget to take a moment for themselves.

-Deyavion Washington

Just Because We’re MAGIC Doesn’t Mean We’re Not REAL Actor & activist Jesse Williams gave a powerful speech at the 2016 BET Awards

Jesse Williams’s speech was real, he said some things that people are afraid to say. My favorite part of the whole speech was when he was talking to the people who have a problem with black resilience, he told them to sit down!

That was bold and I applaud him on that because I feel the same way. Black people have MULTIPLE reasons to be angry and we have a right to do something about it.

So if you don’t believe in black rights, first of all I hope you know that you are a part of the problem but don’t have a lot to say about it. Just be quiet and take a seat!

I liked his speech because it got the black community on their feet and fired them up, now we have to be put into action and then change will happen! I am not a white man’s property. I’m magical and I’m real...my life matters!

-Rylee Curry Jesse William’s speech shook White America, and opened the eyes of Black America as well.

Williams recognized that if we as African Americans stand together that the systemic oppression placed upon us by White America will not defeat us; nothing can break our spirit.

However, Williams recognized the fact that many wealthy African Americans let their wealth go to their heads and they believe they will not go through what average, or middle class, African Americans will.

I believe that this speech has struck a nerve within several Americans in that he recognized the wrongs on both sides of the scale. This speech has exposed the fact that no matter what hardships my people go through, we push through & succeed; nothing can break us.

-Nyah Johnson

Jesse’s speech was one of the best speeches regarding black lives, white supremacy, and the justice system that I’ve heard in a long time. He hit on all the topics that needed to be addressed and used his platform to really get a powerful message across.

Blacks have spent centuries under white people’s feet, doing their dirty work yet never getting recognized. We existed merely as cheap entertainment and workers; picked up, exploited, and later discarded without a second thought.

Jesse was right about everything, especially how we still continue to work and consume just to get “brands on back” when we spent our existence in America with brands on our backs. It’s insane to think of how much many black lives are sacrificed every day in America when we’ve been fighting for freedom for as long as we’ve resided in America.

Our justice system is the so unjust and it’s a reckless cycle where we will call for change only for a short time then let the issue dissipate.

However, when black people come together and rise we won’t stop until we’re treated just a fairly as the white person sitting next to us.

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The United State of Women This star-studded movement calls for global gender equality

“Together we change tomorrow”: this phrase concluded the video. After watching this video, I feel empowered and proud.

It shows how women are in fact educated and it shows that we are also confident. Michelle Obama, Kerry Washington, and Oprah jumped out at me during this video most because I look up to them and admire all they have accomplished.

One of my favorite lines was about women doing whatever they want with their body, “because duh”. This is perfect because no man or other person should feel entitled to someone else’s body.

This is a message that should be spread more.

Men and women are equal and some people may pretend to acknowledge that but behind closed doors it couldn’t be any further from the truth.

Women need to stand up for what is right and make sure gender inequality vanishes.

Together, we can do anything and together we can accomplish everything. Beyoncé was right when she said we run the world.

More and more women grow educated.

Throughout history, women have been treated as second class citizens and as non superior,

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recessive; but not any longer. This two minute clip explained that we will be equal. It said we are powerful. We turn struggle to strength and we’ve only just started.

-Sydney Mitchell This video made my day. The whole video included women from all different races and fields of works who have been successful.

When the women in the video spoke about appreciating our bodies and using it however we please was one of my favorite parts of the video.

It was one of my favorite parts because women’s images is a big topic of discussion, especially in the media.

These women who have been role models for older and younger women giving us advice about using our bodies about a powerhouse inspired me more to be proud of my body because it was something I was born with and something I shouldn’t change. This video was based on women empowerment and I think that there should be more videos like this.

-Nia Huckabey

God Can Dream a BIGGER Dream

Oprah discusses her experience getting her role in “The Color Purple” When you come into this world you do not know your path,the reason for you existence. The only person who knows is God himself.

God watches over everyone no matter the circumstance. He believes in us when we may even give up on ourselves. When we think no one is listening, He is listening but also watching.

Your may know you better than yourself but no one will ever know you the way God does. He forgives...His heart is so big which is why He has a path for everyone.

It is on you to decide if you’re going to do all the work to make sure you stay on the path or get there. God always has a bigger plan for us than we could ever see.

In the video with Oprah discussing The Color Purple, she had faith but she gave up at one point.

God was watching her the whole time and sent a blessing her way.

-Noelle McKoy God knows what our purpose is and sometimes it’s bigger than what we think. Often times we think that because we want something, we should have it, when in reality that thing we want isn’t what we need at that moment.

God is omniscient; He sees and knows all, as far as anything we could ever imagine, and sometimes He has to take control and keep us from the things that aren’t important in our bigger purpose for being here.

God has our best interest at heart, and because He has the ability that we don’t to see ahead and to determine our outcomes, He intervenes which makes us feel that we have been abandoned or that He isn’t truly there for us like we thought. Regardless of the situation or

how much we want something, it may not happen simply because it isn’t supposed to, and we may be upset at the time but when every door closes another one almost always opens.

-Nakya Loggins If you love something, set it free. That’s what they say, isn’t it? That’s what Oprah says so it must be true right? Surrender, she says, surrender until it’s part of the flow.

My entire life I’ve regarded Oprah as some sort of Hollywood dominating superwoman. I’ve frequently thought “What Can’t Oprah Do?” But this clip from Oprah’s Master Class was humanizing, a reminder that even she had to fight to get where she is now. So in response, one could say that Oprah wouldn’t do anything. She would put her name out, go for every opportunity that she could and defend herself, but once she’s done all that she can, she leaves it in God’s hands. She has faith that God will do what’s best for her. She surrenders it until it’s part of the flow.

-Makeen Zachery

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Lessons From Mother Maya

The late Maya Angelou shares wisdom & knowledge in a “Master Class”

God Loves Me Maya Angelou is saying that it is amazing that someone like God can love each and every one of us. He loves us individually.

Each and every single one of has the love of the person that has created this world and everything in it. He is able to find the good in us through the bad and to see all of the things that we can be, what we can’t be, what we do and what we don’t.

He loves us through all of the bad things and he loves us even when we forsaken him. It is amazing that God can love all of us and especially that God can love me.

Even when there is someone more faithful and not as sinful as I am, he still gives his love towards me without hesitation. His love is one that keeps on giving and we are not deserving of such a love.

-Camille Simmons The Power of Words I agree with Maya Angelou’s view point on “the power of words”. Words are not just words they are things, and when put into sentences they can be weapons.

We have to be careful about what we say because depending on what words we use, things

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that we say that are meant to be positive can come off as negative meaning, ultimately making the person defensive.

Words are used to send positive message, they are used to be persuasive, they are used to hurt people and diminish others.

Each day my mother tells me to be careful about what I say because it can easily be taken the wrong way. Words can be dangerous especially if the tongue is wicked, that is why we all have to be careful.

-Gabrielle Frazier Be A Rainbow In Someone Else’s Cloud Maya Angelou states that we should “be a rainbow in somebody else’s cloud.” She says that no matter what they look like, what race they are, what sexuality, or what they believe in she always is nice to people and treats them with respect.

She says that we should “be a blessing to somebody.” I really agree with what she is saying because you never know what people are going through so be respectful to everyone.

I take pride in saying that I am a rainbow in a lot of people’s life. I am that friend my friends go to when they need someone to talk to or if they need a smile on their face, and I really am happy to be able to say that I can do so.

-Kaylen Campbell Just Do Right You want to leave the right legacy for yourself.

Do good in your life, and people will remember you that way. Of course, things happen that may make it seem like you’re a not-so-good person, but as long as one finds a way to make it right or to just do good/better, people will remember. A good legacy is always greater than a bad one. You want people to remember you in a way that will make them smile, or bring them joy.

-Kiera Boudias

Confidently Beautiful

Miss USA Deshauna Barber’s winning answer gives powerful message Being confidently beautiful is owning a room and demanding respect from people who would not otherwise do so.

Being confidently beautiful is extruding your grace and your poise, while still maintaining your self esteem, strength, and confidence.

Having a woman of color as Miss USA, a commander in the military as Miss USA, a woman of poise and class-- was a very emotional and proud moment for me!

To see someone who looks like me, represent the entire country on a pedestal was surreal.

Especially with her being dark-skinned and skinny, just like me, we can often be undermined.

So for her to not only represent confident women, but for her to represent me on that stage was extremely astonishing.

-Braxton Simpson Confidently beautiful is being yourself. Yes there will be days where you won’t look put together but as soon as you feel confident to walk the walk and stop talking the talk that’s when you are able to be confidently beautiful.

You don’t have to be a size 2 to be beautiful or curves to be beautiful. All girls should feel and be confidently beautiful because it’s so empowering and the feeling you get when you know you’ve slayed.

Whether it’s it school, in the stadium, the streets or the runway, always know that confidence is beauty and beauty is not always confidence.

-Ajené Arokium My definition of confidently beautiful means that no matter what you appearance may be on the outside, it is the qualities within that matters.

Having a good heart is being confidently beautiful because you learn to respect everyone despite their background or where they may come from.

Being confidently beautiful is loving yourself from the inside and expressing how proud you are and how comfortable you are with yourself.

Having a black woman as Miss USA is a major turning point for the idea of beauty and how black women aren’t seen as beautiful as white woman.

I feel like Miss USA has set a path for younger black girls to follow and that you can be whatever you want to be and still be beautiful doing it.

Having grace comes with strength.

Being strong is what makes a woman beautiful.

Showing that a woman can do the same things as men is what makes beauty. Grace is how we present ourselves, but strength is always there.

-Peyton Hendricks

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To me, confidently beautiful means understanding that it's not always about your appearance. It's not always about who you're around and how they feel you look, where they feel you come from, or your economic background.”

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Getting Ready

Education Feature

This college prep timeline provided by Minnesota Office of Higher

7th & 8th Grade • Begin thinking about the high school classes that will prepare you for college. Take the most difficult classes you can handle.

• Ask your parents or teachers to help you develop good study habits.

• Practice setting and reaching goals.

• Volunteer in your community.

• Take interest and skills assessments to help you think about possible career options.

• Talk with your school counselor and parents about careers that interest you want to explore.

• Create a tentative high school class plan.

• Enroll in a summer enrichment program.

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In 9th & 10th Grade • Take interest and skills assessments to help you explore careers options.

• Review your high school class plan. Take the most difficult classes you can handle. Stay focused on your schoolwork.

• Talk with your school counselor about career options and the education required for those careers. • Sign up for classes that will earn college credit during your junior year • Talk with your parents through Advanced about saving and paying Placement, International for college.

Baccalaureate, Postsecondary • Talk with friends, Enrollment Options or teachers, counselors College in the Schools. and your parents about college.

• Explore internships and apprenticeships.

• Check if your school requires 10th graders to take the PLAN to prepare • Enroll in a summer enrichment program. for the ACT. • Participate in extracurricular activities.

Want to go to college?

It’s never too late to prepare...

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Education

Education will show you what you need to do to get ready for college.

In 11th Grade • Attend college and financial aid events.

• Mentor others and have a mentor for yourself.

• Take the PSAT in the fall to prepare for the SAT, and to identify areas where you need improvement.

• Consider possible career options and investigate the type of education that is needed.

• Request materials from schools that interest you and visit their websites.

• Arrange campus visits to those schools that interest you.

• Participate in extracurricular activities.

• Request admissions and financial aid forms.

• Sign up for classes that will earn college credit during your senior year through Advanced Placement, International Baccalaureate, Postsecondary Enrollment Options or College in the Schools.

• Register for and take the ACT and/or SAT in the spring.

• Review your high school class plan. Take the most difficult classes you can handle.

Stay focused on your schoolwork. Make sure you are meeting your high school graduation requirements.

• Enroll in a summer enrichment program.

• Get a job to earn and save money for college, or explore your skills through an internship or apprenticeship.

• Research private scholarship options.

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In 12th Grade • Stay focused on your schoolwork and take the most difficult classes you can handle.

• Take career interest assessments and determine the education needed for careers that interest you.

• Participate in extracurricular activities.

• Volunteer in the community.

September-November • Arrange campus visits to those schools that interest you.

• Meet with your school counselor to review your high school class plan.

• Select the schools to which you will apply & make a list of deadlines for each school.

• Create a resume of your academic, athletic and work activities as well as other achievements.

• Ask for recommendations (if required) from teachers, counselors and others who can comment on your abilities and talents.

• Attend a financial aid event. Review a copy of Paying for College.

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Resources At The Well Conferences, Inc. http://atthewellconferences.org/ Queen of Katwe http://www.queenofkatwe.com/ EmpowHERment Inc. http://www.empowherment.com/

Let’s Move! http://www.letsmove.gov/ • College Prep Timeline https://www.ohe.state.mn.us/mPg. cfm?pageID=1176

Sista’s Keeper Crossword Puzzle

ACROSS 3 Name of the two gold medal sistas Biles & Manuel 5 New movie coming out September 30th: _____ of Katwe 9 Our college prep timeline says to begin asking for these in September-November DOWN 1 Our author spotlight is from “Meet _____” author Brandi Taylor 44

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2 Miss USA Deshauna Barber talked about being _____ beautiful 4 The 4th skincare back to school skincare tip is to _____ 6 Princeton University’s Art Museum has an exhibit called “A Material _____” 7 Name of the school where At The Well was held 8 This issue’s health section talked about childhood _____ 10 In “How To Make Your Dreams & Goals Come True” it says to do research & find a _____

Goals, Continued from page 27 far you have come. This will energize you and motivate you to keep going. If necessary, reevaluate your goals and adjust your deadlines.

6. Focus on the Positive Keep your mind on your dreams and goals, and envision yourself where you want to be, especially how you will feel once you get there. This will help you stay motivated on the days you are tired or want to give up.

Remember that slip-ups and setbacks are a part of the process, and each one prepares you for what you want. Focus on what you have done, not how far you have to go. It might be helpful to create an affirmation board full of words, quotes, pictures and items that encourage, uplift and empower you.

7. Be All That You Can Be Regardless of what you look like, what you have been through, or where you were born, God has a purpose for your life! Seek and find it, become it, pursue it! There is nothing you can’t do, be or achieve.

Go and be the #BlackGirlMagic that you are, the #BlackBelovedBeautiful girl who changes the world!

Believe in God’s plan for you, believe in yourself and your dreams! The sky is not your limit, it’s just the beginning!

Sharee Silerio is a St. Louis-based freelance writer and television and film producer. She covers race, politics, social justice, media literacy, technology and empowerment. For more about Sharee and her work, visit ShareeSilerio.com.

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Angela Davis

Black Women In History

American political activist, academic scholar, and author

silence, when my dignity is jeopardized, and when my presence is disrespected.

I no longer allow myself to apologize for The epitome of power & a true living legend: speaking my mind. I no longer allow myself that’s what comes to my mind and the minds to take a step back and keep my thoughts of many, when we hear the name Angela Davis. to myself due to the fear of being labeled as As a symbol of strength and intimidation, “another angry black woman.” As a woman, Angela Davis has managed to withstand the I now feel particularly obligated to make my repetitive discrimination and systemic abuse of presence known amongst others and make the American government and its citizens. sure that it is respected; particularly amongst Davis was wrongfully accused on several White men. accounts, including murder. After being Davis challenged the jacked up sociopolitical acquitted of all charges, uproar arose in structures that stem from the jacked up ideals, opposition of Davis receiving a teaching values, and conceptions that the White folks position within the California State University hold is such high regard. Davis believes in the system. The campaign against Davis was led true liberation of her people through radical by none other than the late Ronald Reagan, activism and honestly, I could not agree more who was the governor of California at the that certain situations require much more than time. Much to Reagan’s dismay, Davis became a peaceful protest. Many African-Americans a lecturer at San Francisco State University in have become so hesitant to literally fight back 1977. My girl had California shakin’ in their against those who make it their life’s work to boots! oppress, condemn, murder, and exterminate Davis is much more than her iconic afro our existence. Davis has inspired me to take it that she rocked so effortlessly. Davis’ radical upon myself to make sure I do not back down activism has shaken the souls of the White and be afraid of the “power” of the White supremacists who live to beat down and burn population. the bodies of our Black brothers and sisters.

“I am no longer accepting the thing I Davis’ radical activism on feminism has cannot change. I am changing the things I empowered women across the world and has cannot accept.” The words of this great woman encouraged them to stand up, and speak out resonate within me a sense of girl-power in against the sexist individuals who just can’t the simplest of terms yet with the deepest shake the fear of an independent sista’. meaning. I can not even begin to explain how Angela, you have inspired me. You have grateful I am and always will be to you, Ms. empowered me, and I am forever grateful Davis. Your courage and ideals are two things I unto you. You have given me the courage to will always hold dear to my heart. speak louder when my voice is threatened with

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