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By coincidence, we were already planning to visit Whitney Plantation the morning after the church shooting in Charleston. Whitney, which opened a few months ago along Louisiana’s River Road, is unique in telling its story from the viewpoint of the enslaved.

A lot was laid out in a matter-of-fact manner, from the horrors of the institution of slavery to uplifting stories that came from that place in spite of the circumstances.

Culinary contributions and notable individuals who are descended from the Whitney slaves were mentioned, obviously not to say that slavery was a good thing, but to remind that out of horror, good can emerge.

The shooting at Emanuel AME Church that killed nine was a modern-day horror. It has led to a great deal of unification and solidarity, including a national Shabbat of Solidarity by the Jewish community.

Unfortunately, a lot of people have claimed the incident demonstrates the pervasive racism that is “in our DNA.” In 1963, while there were many who were horrified by the church bombing in Birmingham that killed four girls, the country was a very different place. With Klan-riddled police forces and judiciaries, those who killed blacks generally did not have to worry about legal repercussions, and justice took decades.

Today, aside from the usual few nutcases one can find on any issue, pretty much everyone wants to see the Charleston shooter wind up beneath the jail — at the very least.

Meanwhile, as we are going to press, a suicide bomber walked into a mosque in Kuwait where there were 2,000 at prayer, killing 27.

The response? For the most part, silence.

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Hadassah president: Genetic testing for “breast cancer gene” should not be automatic

by Marcie Natan A Silicon Valley start-up has begun offering a genetic screening test for breast and ovarian cancer. The test, administered on a sample of saliva, would inform women if they carry the BRCA1 or BRCA2 gene mutation which puts women at a higher risk for developing breast and ovarian cancer.

The test sounds simple enough, but understanding what to do with the results can be a complicated, gut-wrenching journey. Along with the news of the test came a recommendation from Dr. Marie-Clare King — a renowned genetics researcher whose work led to the discovery of the BRCA1 gene — that all women be tested for the gene mutation from age 30 on.

Although I sit as the national president of Hadassah, the Women’s Zionist Organization of America, I write this as a breast cancer survivor.

Every woman has to evaluate her own reality before making the decision about testing. The psychological impact of the BRCA test is complex. A positive result can be terrifying and upsetting, but if properly counseled, can also be empowering.

Hadassah Medical Organization (Jerusalem) has done extensive research with the BRCA gene mutations that significantly increase a woman’s risk of developing breast cancer. The Hadassah Medical Organization discovered Ashkenazi

Jewish women have 20 times the frequency of BRCA mutations than non-Ashkenazi women.

Approximately one out of every 40 individuals of Ashkenazi Jewish ancestry have a mutation in the BRCA1 or BRCA2 gene, as compared to one out of every 800 members of the general population, according to the Center for Disease Control.

According to Dr. Asher Salmon, oncologist and deputy director, Hadassah Hospital Ein Kerem, “30 percent of women tested will have a gene alteration for which we don’t know the significance, whether it is dangerous or benign, leaving women uncertain as to whether they are at risk or not. The results of BRCA testing alone, without genetic counseling and extensive analysis of family history, do not provide women with the complete picture needed to make an intelligent decision about treatment.”

As actress Angelina Jolie said in the New York Times: “A positive BRCA test does not mean a leap to surgery. I did not do this solely because I carry a BRCA1 gene mutation, and I want other women to hear this. In my case… surgery to remove my tubes and ovaries was the best option.

On top of the BRCA gene, three women in my family have died of cancer.”

According to Susan G. Komen, “Most women who get breast cancer do not have an inherited continued on page 27

Regional events seek to draw Jewish singles Weekends planned for Austin, Memphis Jewish singles have their pick of two upcoming regional weekends, as The Chosen Weekend returns to Austin on July 17, and the Bluff City Bash debuts in Memphis on Aug. 28.

The Chosen Weekend brings together Jewish young adults, ages 22-40ish, from across Texas and beyond to provide an opportunity for Jewish young adults to meet each other in a fun, dynamic environment, and connect with other Jews from across the region.

After over 250 people attended last year, this year’s organizers expect over 350. The Chosen Weekend is an independent event hosted by an Austin-based committee of community members. Co-chairs of this year’s event are Samantha Tugentman and Leza Abramov.

The weekend’s events will all take place at venues throughout downtown Austin. The weekend kicks off with a Shabbat dinner in a hip downtown restaurant, followed by an after party. A Saturday afternoon pool party is followed by a “Party of 8 Dinner,” where participants are matched into groups of eight to meet more people from other cities with similar interests.

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The Chosen Night Party is the crown jewel of the weekend and features an open bar, DJ, dancing, prizes, and networking.

A Sunday morning brunch concludes the weekend.

Attendees can pick and choose which events they want to buy tickets to based on their particular interests.

More information: chosenweekend. splashthat.com.

The Memphis event was aimed toward Jewish singles ages 21 to 39 in Southern communities, but has been opened to New York and Los Angeles “by popular demand.” After a Shabbat dinner of Corky’s barbecue, there will be late-night socializing downtown.

On Aug. 29, there is a catered brunch at a South Main Historic Art District gallery, followed by free time to explore Memphis attractions. That evening there is a party at an underground club, and a farewell breakfast on Aug. 30.

Registration for the weekend is $50. For more information, visit bluffcitybash.com.

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Summer is Birthright Israel time, as Jewish young adults travel with numerous organizations. For a Tulane Hillel trip experience, see page 29

Day of Service to highlight Jewish community Katrina-10 commemorations As the 10th anniversary of the storm approaches, the Jewish community of New Orleans is organizing a service day to commemorate 10 years of rebuilding.

On Aug. 9, a group of volunteers from the Jewish community will participate in TikkuNOLAm, based on the Hebrew phrase for repairing the world.

The Jewish Federation of Greater New Orleans is coordinating the day with St. Bernard Project, which has built over 600 homes in the area since Katrina. The Project currently has a waiting list of 110 clients, and states there are still 6,000 families that owned homes pre-Katrina who still do not have the resources to rebuild.

The project day will start at 8:30 a.m. and go through 3 p.m. at several houses in Orleans Parish. Breakfast, lunch, water and snacks will be provided.

There is no charge to volunteer, but contributions are welcomed to defray costs to St. Bernard for materials and staffing. It costs the organization roughly $50 per volunteer for insurance and staff oversight support, and it costs roughly $25,000 to remediate the average house.

Donors who give $54 or more will receive a TikkuNOLAm water bottle and T-shirt. Those giving $250 or more will have their name or logo on the items, and those giving $2500 or more will receive prominent placement and be thanked at the launch event the morning of Aug. 9.

All donors will be thanked in the Federation’s 2015-16

Deena Gerber, Roselle Ungar, Leann Opotowsky Moses, Sarah Rivkin and Michelle Erenberg spoke about their Katrina experiences at a forum on June 16 at Touro Synagogue. Rosalind Hinton moderated the discussion.

Annual Report.

Those who want to volunteer and/or contribute are urged to contact the Federation or register online at jewishnola.com/tikkunolam. Though the volunteer registration page linked to that site states at the top that they are full for August, the “JewOrleans” group registration is further down the page and is accepting submissions.

On Aug. 30, the weekend of the actual anniversary, a Jewish community commemoration will be held at the Uptown Jewish Community Center at 5 p.m.

Commemorations began on June 16 with “A Celebration of Community and Jewish Women’s Leadership” at Touro Synagogue, a panel discussion of women in the Jewish community, presented by Hadassah, the National Council of Jewish Women and the Jewish Women’s Archives, which recently debuted a new online portal for its collection of Katrina-related materials.

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Rabbi Michoel Kerendian, who became the executive director of Torah Academy in Metairie in October 2013, will leave the school effective July 31.

In an email to the Torah Academy community on June 19, Kerendian stated that the school’s board has decided to do some restructuring, including “the temporary dissolution” of the executive director position. His duties will be distributed among several others at the school.

The school just completed its first year in a new building, located at the site of its pre-Katrina building. After the levees broke in August 2005, the building was damaged beyond repair and the school re-opened in temporary quarters.

Delays with permitting and FEMA funding meant that construction on the new facility could not begin until August 2013.

The school ranges from a two-year-old preschool class to eighth grade.

Kerendian said during the last two years, “we have made incredible strides in improving education, enrollment, and organizational sustainability. Not only has it been gratifying and enjoyable, but most importantly it has resulted in a better school for our children and for our community.”

He will continue to work with the school “to make this transition as smooth as possible” and move back to Chicago in August.

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Hadassah of Baton Rouge and The Red Shoes Center for Personal and Spiritual Growth are partnering for an inspirational retreat featuring Rabbi Yael Levy.

“Sabbath of Psalms: A Deep Yearning” will be held July 17 and 18. It will be an interfaith exploration of the Psalms under the structure of Shabbat. The weekend begins at 6 p.m. on July 17 with Shabbat dinner, followed by teachings, reflection, meditation and song. The sessions on July 18 will be from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., with prayer, guided meditation, Torah and Psalm study.

Levy is director of “A Way In: Jewish Mindfulness Center” and author of books on the Omer and Chanukah. The rabbi at Congregation Mishkan Shalom in Philadelphia, she was also named by the Forward as one of America’s most inspiring rabbis.

In November she was in Baton Rouge for another Shabbaton at Red Shoes.

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Susan Kierr has been elected president of the Greater New Orleans Section of the National Council of Jewish Women. She succeeds June Leopold, who served for three years.

The section had its installation and closing luncheon on June 7 at the Flaming Torch restaurant.

“The achievements of an organization are the combined efforts of each individual, Leopold said. “My thanks to all of you who shared this administration with me — members who came together, giving their experience, knowledge and spirit to attain our NCJW goals. I am honored to have held a leadership role in this dynamic organization.”

Leopold presented Loel Samuel with the President’s Award in recognition of extraordinary commitment of time and effort on behalf of NCJW. Samuel “served as co-chair of this year’s elegant Gala, “Puttin’ on the Glitz,” chair of personal giving, a national board commissioner and a past president, who continues to maintain an active and ongoing interest in the many services and programs of NCJW,” Leopold said.

Elected for a two-year term as vice presidents are Jenny Nathan and Katie Single. Continuing as vice presidents for a second term are Michelle Erenberg, Barbara Greenberg and Sue Jernigan.

Other newly elected officers are Patty Barnett, recording secretary; Cole Trosclair, financial secretary; Kathy Shepard, treasurer, Tricia Kirschman, assistant treasurer. Missy Taranto will serve a second oneyear term as recording secretary.

Newly elected board members are Brenda Brasher, Robin Giarrusso, Robin Goldblum, Barbara Kaplinsky, Sharon Kirkpatrick, Simone Levine, Rollie Rabin, Hallie Timm and Eileen Wallen. Sarah Covert, Jennette Ginsberg and Carol Good will continue for a second one-year term.

Ina Weber Davis is on both the board and the executive board of NCJW.

“Ida” to screen at JCC The Bart Family Film Series returned to the Uptown Jewish Community Center this summer with the screening of two dramas.

On July 7, “Gett: the Trial of Viviane Amsalem” was screened.

“Ida,” the 2015 Academy Award winner for Best Foreign Language Film, is the July 14 film. Described by Keith Turan of the Los Angeles Times as “a film of exceptional artistry, whose emotions are as potent and persuasive as its images are indelibly beautiful,” “Ida” is an intimate drama about a young novitiate nun in 1960’s Poland.

On the verge of taking her vows, she is shocked to learn that her parents were Jewish and had been murdered during the Nazi occupation.

This discovery leads her on a journey into her own past, evoking the legacy of the Holocaust and the realities of postwar Communism.

The 7 p.m. film is free and open to the community. Popcorn and movie snacks will be served.

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agenda Beth Israel and Anshe Sfard will team up for joint services on Tisha B’Av. On July 25, there will be a 9:15 p.m. service and reading of the Book of Lamentations at Beth Israel in Metairie. The July 26 service will be at Anshe Sfard at 9 a.m., followed by Rabbi Gabe Greenberg of Beth Israel and Rabbi David Polsky leading and explaining selected kinnot, the special dirges recited on Tisha B’Av. The Southwest District of Women of Reform Judaism will have an Area Day for Sisterhoods in New Orleans, Baton Rouge and Jackson. A wine tasting and light lunch will be held at Bin 428 in New Orleans on July 26 from noon to 2 p.m.

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On July 18, the Shabbat speakers series at Anshe Sfard in New Orleans will feature Allison Padilla-Goodman, the South-Central Regional Director for the Anti Defamation League. She will speak at the conclusion of the 9:15 a.m. service, probably around 11:30 a.m. A buffet lunch will follow.

Temple Sinai in New Orleans will have its Sisterhood Attic Sale on Aug. 10 from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. There will be an Early Bird sale with $10 admission on Aug. 9 at 8 a.m. until 4 p.m.

Anshe Sfard will celebrate the ancient holiday of Tu B’Av on July 30 with a white linen party at Richard Fiske’s Martini Bar. Rabbi David Polsky said Tu B’Av was seen as one of the happiest days of the Jewish year, as single women would borrow white dresses and dance in the fields.

Moishe House New Orleans is co-sponsoring the event, which will start at 7:30 p.m.

Shir Chadash holds Nearly New sale

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The public is invited to shop for high quality merchandise at bargain prices during the annual Shir Chadash Nearly New Sale. The sale offers a wide variety of items including fashions for the entire family, housewares, furniture, art, books, toys and more on July 12 to 14, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at Shir Chadash in Metairie.

This popular event has been taking place for decades, supporting spiritual, educational and festive programs at Shir Chadash, while benefitting the entire community with discounted deals and donating unsold items to Bridge House, Jefferson Parish Friends of the Library and other local charities.

There will be men’s, women’s, and a tremendous amount of children’s clothing, fashion accessories and shoes. On stage will be a Ladies Boutique where a wide variety of designer styles will be on display. There will also be deeply discounted items from housewares, furniture, collectibles, Mardi Gras throws, toys, sporting goods, jewelry, linens and more. For further bargains, there is a Half-Price Sale on July 19.

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Above: The Bissinger grandchildren’s tribute: Brook Bissinger, Hallie Timm, Rachel Timm Bowron and Brandon Bissinger. Below, Marjorie Bissinger, Nancy Timm, Steve Timm and JFS President Julie Wise Oreck

JFS honors Bissinger, Timm Jewish Family Service of Greater New Orleans kept this year’s Rhythm and Soul honors in the family, recognizing the mother-daughter combination of Marjorie Bissinger and Nancy Bissinger Timm.

The fundraising gala, previously held each fall, was on May 31 at the Audubon Tea Room.

Deena Gerber, former executive director of JFS, spoke about the women and their long-time commitment to JFS in a wide range of activities.

A professional educator and community philanthropist, Bissinger is perhaps best remembered by many as the Elf and storyteller on “Let’s Tell a Story,” a popular children’s program on WDSU-TV, produced by the station and the National Council of Jewish Women from 1958 to 1975.

She also taught nursery school at the Jewish Community Center for 18 years and has encouraged reading and literacy through her work with local schools and libraries.

She has also worked with the JFS Teen Life Counts suicide prevention program.

Timm, a native of New Orleans, is a past president of the JFS Board of Directors and has served the agency in a number of capacities, including professionally as a caseworker for the Soviet Resettlement Program from 1981 to 1983 and as an active board member from 1989 to 2001 and 2006 to 2014.

A clinical social worker in private practice since 1984, Timm works with children, adolescents and adults, and has also been employed by Trinity Counseling and Training Center, the Louise S. McGehee School and the Louisiana Center for Cerebral Palsy and Developmental Disabilities.

Timm has volunteered over the years to countless agencies and organizations including the Association of Jewish Family and Children’s Agencies, the Anti-Defamation League, NCJW, Touro Synagogue, St. George’s Episcopal School, the JCC and Jewish Children’s Regional Service.

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Left: Beverly and Lester Wainer receive the Tzedakah Award. Right: Young Family Award recipients Mark Stein and David Kushner with JEF Executive Director Sandy Levy

JEF honors several community leaders The Jewish Endowment Foundation of Louisiana drew a full house to the Westin Canal Place on June 14 for this year’s presentation of several awards.

Beverly and Lester Wainer received the Tzedakah Award, JEF’s highest honor, for their commitment to justice, righteousness and doing for others.

They have served on synagogue and youth group boards, Willow Wood, B’nai B’rith and JEF boards. Beverly was co-chair of the Touro Hospital Gift Shop and both were involved with the Jewish Welfare Fund. Lester was one of three men from New Orleans invited to Israel to meet with Golda Meir, although he was unable to go.

Beverly and Lester opened a donor advised fund in 1986. In 2011 they donated that fund to JEF’s General Fund. They also made a donation to fund the Visiting Professor of Jewish Studies Program at Loyola University in JEF’s name. They opened another donor advised fund in 2012. Beverly has also endowed her Lion of Judah at JEF. David Kushner and Mark Stein received the David, Helen and Ruth Young Family Award for Professional Excellence, specifically for the handling of the Charles Zucker estate. Both are members of the JEF board; Kushner is a certified public accountant and certified forensic

accountant, while Stein is a board certified tax specialist.

Sharon Pollin, head of school at Jewish Community Day School, received the Helen A. Mervis Jewish Community Professional Award. She arrived two years ago to lead a school in the midst of a major transition.

Michael Wasserman received the Jewish Federations of North America Endowment Achievement Award in recognition of a lay leader who is an advocate of planned giving and endowments. He and his wife Lynne have endowed their Annual Campaign gifts.

Also a Day School officer, Wasserman noted the school’s turnaround in his remarks.

Cantor Joel Colman and Cantorial Soloist Tory May entertained the audience with a medley from “Fiddler on the Roof ” to commemorate the musical’s 50th anniversary.

The event was chaired by JEF Vice President Andi Lestelle. The program included videos featuring the honorees telling their stories about what inspired their activism and philanthropy.

The event was underwritten in part by the Whitney Bank, the Jean and Saul Mintz Supporting Foundation, Francis L. Fraenkel of Neuberger Berman LLC, and Postlethwaite & Netterville.

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Left: Michael Wasserman received the JFNA Endowment Achievement Award. Right: Sharon Pollin, center, received the Helen Mervis Jewish Community Professional Award.

Upcoming Events

women’s health an annual SJL special section Group TRX class at the Uptown JCC

Sunday, July 12 Shir Chadash Nearly New Sale. Through July 20.

Tuesday, July 14 “Ida.” Bart Family Film Series. Uptown JCC. 7 p.m.

Friday, July 17 Sabbath of Psalms: A Deep Yearning Shabbaton with Rabbi Yael Levy. Red Shoes Center, Baton Rouge. 6 p.m. Also July 18.

Saturday, July 18 Anshe Sfard Shabbat Speakers Series with Allison Padilla-Goodman. Follows 9:15 a.m. service.

Sunday, July 26 Tisha B’Av Women of Reform Judaism Area Day. Bin 428, Noon.

Thursday, July 30 Anshe Sfard Tu B’Av Party. Richard Fiske’s. 7:30 p.m.

Sunday, August 9 TikkuNOLAm with St. Bernard Project. 8:30 a.m.

Sisterhood Attic Sale Early Bird. Temple Sinai. 8 a.m.

Sunday, August 16 Harriet Kugler Memorial Mah Jongg Tournament.

Uptown JCC. 10:30 a.m.

Hadassah makes great strides in women’s wellbeing

by Lee J. Green

Hadassah has put its heart in heart health research and care, as well as breakthroughs in the treatment and possible cure of breast cancer, ALS and macular degeneration, to name a few.

But above health care for (primarily) women and children in need, Hadassah is about a commitment to Israel and a goal to help promote peace in the Middle East.

“I give my money and volunteer for Hadassah because I believe medicine to be one path to peace for the Middle East. Hadassah serves all nationalities, races and religions. We offer our research, our knowledge and medical access to those in need. This strips away the barriers of religious hatred,” said Sherrie Grunfeld, a past president of the Birmingham chapter and a member of the Hadassah Nurses’ Council.

“Does your child need medical care for his diabetes? Come to Hadassah. Does your mother have heart problems? Come to Hadassah where your doctor could be a Jew or a Muslim and the hospital is state-of-the-art. You will get the best possible care. This is our way to promote peace in the Middle East,” said Grunfeld.

Hadassah, the Women’s Zionist Organization of America, is a volunteer organization that inspires a passion for and commitment to its partnership with the land and people of Israel. It enhances the health of people worldwide through its support of medical care and research at the

Hadassah Medical Organization in Jerusalem.

Hadassah empowers its members and supporters, as well as youth in Israel and America, through opportunities for personal growth, education, advocacy and Jewish continuity.

After building six hospitals that were given to municipalities across the country, Hadassah established two hospitals of their own — Hadassah Mount Scopus, a community hospital built in 1939, and Hadassah Ein Kerem, a tertiary care facility built in 1961. Ein Kerem is home to the Charlotte R. Bloomberg Mother and Child Care Center and the new impatient facility — the Sarah Wetsman Davidson Hospital Tower, dedicated in 2012 to commemorate Hadassah’s 100th year.

“I went to Israel in 2012 to celebrate Hadassah’s 100th anniversary and dedicate the new Sarah Wetsman Davidson Hospital Tower, our gift to the people of Israel. Walking into the atrium of the new hospital was magical. It took my breath away. These state-of-the-art, beautiful facilities are helping so many people,” said Grunfeld.

Over the past decade, Hadassah’s leading stem cell researchers have made major breakthroughs regarding transplanted stem cells and their value in treating patients with multiple sclerosis, amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS) and macular degeneration.

A Hadassah oncologist recently developed a continued on page 24

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Facts about “malfunctioning” meshes, advances in incontinence care

by Lee J. Green Margie Kahn, the section head of Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery at Tulane Medical Center, said several advancements have been made recently for treating incontinence.

Kahn said one of the most recent FDA approvals was for Interstim, a Medtronic pacemaker-like device that was previously only approved for urinary incontinence and retention. Now approved for fecal incontinence (accidental bowel leakage), the device is implanted over the sacrum to stimulate the nerves controlling bowel function. Solesta, an anal bulking agent, was also approved last year for the same indication.

Botox gained FDA approval for treatment of overactive bladder. “It relaxes the muscles of the bladder, thereby increasing its capacity. Previously, Botox was approved only for treatment of overactive bladder associated with neurological conditions such as multiple sclerosis,” said Kahn.

She said for those experiencing more minor incontinence issues or who want to be proactive, Kegel exercises and pelvic floor physical therapy are recommended. Since obesity is related to urinary incontinence, she also recommends that patients maintain a healthy weight.

“We have an experienced and sensitive team that understands most women are embarrassed to bring up these problems, and because of that, many might have ignored the problems unnecessarily,” said Kahn, who is also Associate Professor of Clinical Obstetrics and Gynecology, and Urology at Tulane’s School of Medicine. “We offer a multidisciplinary approach to treatment. Most importantly, we listen and respect patients’ wishes.”

Kahn said some patients have come in asking about the television commercials promoting attorneys who are attempting litigation for those whose “malfunctioning” pelvic and vaginal meshes that have led to other medical conditions.

“We can educate patients on what is best for them and clear up any misconceptions that might be out there,” she said. “I was trained and operated during the pre-mesh era. For the most part, the incontinence operations, although very successful, were more invasive with longer recovery times. I still perform them for specific indications. Synthetic meshes used to treat pelvic organ prolapse have a higher incidence of serious complications as compared with those used for urinary incontinence.”

Kahn has done presentations to the New Orleans Hadassah chapter.

Last fall she spoke at Sisters Chaverot, an initiative that unites Jewish and African-American women through medical, social and community learning.

>> Hadassah blood test that reveals it is possible to predict the presence of harmful BRCA1 and BRCA2 mutations in otherwise healthy women using a novel technology called gene expression profiling. Having identified BRCA mutations that are specific to women of both Persian origin and in the Ashkenazi Jewish communities, Hadassah has pioneered the testing of these women who have a history of breast cancer in their family.

Women with BRCA1 and BRCA2 mutations have between a 50 to 80 percent chance of developing the disease. They also have a 25 to 60 percent life risk of developing ovarian cancer.

Hadassah also has pioneered women’s heart health research and treatments. An alarming reality is that 500,000 women in the U.S. die of heart disease every year, double the amount of deaths from all types of cancer.

One in three women over the age of 20 has some form of cardiovascular disease. But 82 percent of heart disease is preventable.

Symptoms for many diseases do not present the same way in men and women, and according to Hadassah, too many research institutions still ignore the role of gender in medical outcomes. Heart disease is the number one killer of women, yet only one-third of research subjects are female. Hadassah wants to change that.

The Hadassah National Center for Nurses Councils that Grunfeld is also very involved with was founded in 1990 by Nancy Falchuk and Rachel Albert. Its mission is to establish an international partnership with the nursing division of Hadassah Medical Organization; to meet the special educational, social and professional concerns of nurses in the U.S. and Israel, and to enhance and support the nursing profession in both countries.

Hadassah is offering free membership for the first year for women who join soon.

For more information about the organization, volunteer opportunities and chapters in one’s area, go to www.hadassah.org.

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Preventive visits and yearly wellness exams are covered by most insurance plans, and are good practice in staying on top of one’s health. Depending on age and any concerns a woman may have, one’s doctor will perform a variety of measurements and screenings. Screening tests, such as blood pressure checks and mammograms, look for diseases before symptoms appear.

The screening guidelines below apply to most women. However, a woman should speak with her physician about when and how often to be screened.

Pelvic Exams: Every two to three years beginning at age 21, or as your doctor recommends.

Blood pressure check: Every year; more often if recommended by your doctor.

Cholesterol screening test: Every 5 years beginning at age 45; screening may be done in younger women or more often if recommended.

Skin Exam: Skin cancer is the most common form of cancer in the United States. Women age 18 or older should perform skin self-exams monthly, and annually by a doctor.

Breast Exam: Clinical breast exams should be performed every three years by a doctor beginning at age 18. Monthly self-exams are also encouraged.

Mammogram: Every one to two years beginning at age 40, possibly earlier if one has a strong family history or certain risk factors. Mammography remains the key tool for early detection of breast cancer, which is the best defense in beating the disease.

Glucose/Diabetes Screening Test: Every three years beginning at age 45.

Screening for Colorectal Cancer: Begin screening at age 50. One’s doctor will recommend which screening tests and frequency are right for them.

Osteoporosis: Bone density screening is advised for all women ages 65 and older. Postmenopausal women below age 65 who have osteoporosis risk factors are recommended to get screened sooner.

Vaccines: Speak with a doctor about vaccination records. Certain boosters, such as the TDAP, are recommended every 10 years. A woman should receive the flu vaccine annually, and adults over age 65 are encouraged to receive a one-time pneumonia vaccine.

Weight: The best way to learn if someone is overweight or obese is to find out their body mass index, a ratio between height and weight. A BMI between 18.5 and 25 indicates normal weight. If a woman is above this threshold, speak with a doctor or nurse about healthy diet and weight loss strategies. A normal BMI reduces risk for chronic conditions, such as diabetes and cardiovascular disease.

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Kickstarting life after cancer

Bill Aron’s new book profiles survivors making most of “new normal” In many Southern Jewish communities, Los Angeles photographer Bill Aron is known for his “road trips” through the region in the 1990s, culminating in exhibits coordinated by the thenMuseum of the Southern Jewish Experience and the book, “Shalom Y’all.”

But for Aron, the 1990s were also a time of great struggle, leading to his new book, “New Beginnings: The Triumphs of 120 Cancer Survivors.”

In 1993, at the age of 52, he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. After surgery and 14 months of remission, it came back. “That was worse than the original diagnosis, because that mean it had gone systemic, he said.”

He attended a support group, where one of the other participants said “cancer was the best thing that ever happened to me.” Aron was so stunned by that statement that he broke the nocommenting protocol and blurted out, “you have got to be kidding me.”

But as he met more and more cancer survivors, he found that they echoed the same sentiment. “They became my teachers in learning to accept my mortality, accept my limitations, but also accept my strengths.”

The book is not about the disease, he said, but the individual and psychological stages one goes through when navigating the disease.

Aron said after diagnosis and treatment, “all the busy-ness ends” and there is “kind of a silence. You’re left there, and everybody expects things to go back to normal, but they can’t.”

After that, one generally accepts that they have a “new normal” from the experience of being diagnosed with a life-threatening illness.

“Once you get there, you’re open to a new beginning.”

It took him a while to get there. His early-onset prostate cancer came with a very high Gleason score, and had gone beyond the prostate.

He found an oncologist in Los Angeles who specialized in prostate cancer and became his first macrobiotic patient. “Sugar and glucose are fuels for cancer” once one is diagnosed, he said. In 2004, he had a large tumor in his lower abdomen, leading to chemo and two years of hormone blockage. He finally came off everything in 2006 and “I’ve been okay.”

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discuss their experiences. The result is a book “I wish had existed when I was diagnosed.”

He did interviews and portraits with each survivor, and “I left each session with a feeling of incredible closeness to these people.” Recently, as the book came out, he had a reception for those who were profiled, and he hired two of the survivors who had become healthy chefs to cater.

While the number 120 has significance in Judaism as the maximum human lifespan, Aron said it was a coincidence that he wound up with 120 profiles — it was mainly that his publisher wanted him to stop so the book could be completed.

Among the 120 profiles there are several rabbis. He had already been friendly with three — Ed Feinstein, William Cutter and David Wolpe, whose wife, Eileen, is also a cancer survivor.

The cover photo is of two young women who went to Loyola Marymount University and pledged the same sorority, not knowing each other previously. Only after they became friends did they realize that they both were cancer survivors.

Though the profiles come from all ethnicities and age groups, Aron considered it a “deeply Jewish project” because when most people came to the “new normal” stage, they decided to do something good with their lives.

He quoted Rebecca Gifford, who was diagnosed at age 22 and said life “is about joy, about living our soul’s purpose, and about contributing to the greater good. I live every moment with that in mind.”

“That’s the essence of tikkun olam,” Aron said.

One of the profiles is of Matthew Zachary, diagnosed at age 21 and later the founder of Stupid Cancer, Inc., which promotes cancer screening awareness among young adults because five-year survival rates for older people were skyrocketing while remaining flat among young people.

One profile is of a woman who also survived the Holocaust.

Many seek to give back to the “cancer community” and help others the way they were helped.

Aron referenced the daily prayer book and its message that “every day is a creation day.

Cancer really makes us mindful of that.”

“Shehecheyanu takes on a whole new meaning when you have cancer.”

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NEW LIFE, new advances in fertility success New Leaders in Fertility and Endocrinology continues to help families grow through successful fertility medical practices, as well as growing its own family of fertility care facilities with the opening of its Dothan office earlier this year.

Based in Pensacola and started by reproductive endocrinology and infertility specialist Barry Ripps in 1994, New LIFE now has offices in Mobile, Dothan, Pensacola, Panama City and Tallahassee.

“It is our goal to serve patients who before had to travel to larger cities across the region,” said Ripps.

The most helpful recommendations for couples that decide they want to start a family is to get healthy, Ripps advises. A balanced diet, regular cardiovascular exercise of at least 30 minutes every other day and normalizing weight are paramount.

Large population studies show that the time required to conceive gets longer with increased weight for both men and women. Similarly, if a woman is smoking or exposed to second-hand tobacco smoke, studies show a marked delay in conception. Electronic cigarettes may be less damaging but there is no conclusive data yet.

Ripps said advancing age has a greater negative impact on fertility than healthy lifestyles protect it in the younger years. The evidence suggests that a measurable decline in fertility begins at age 27 for women. “So good advice for women 30 to 35 is to give fertility a 6 to 12 month trial. For women 35 and over, don’t even wait — get basic testing completed before the six-month interval,” he said.

Technological advances have “revolutionized options for couples struggling with infertility,” said Ripps. If a fertility problem is present, there is usually a specific therapy that can help.

One of the areas in which understanding has been advanced is for couples where no diagnosis is known — referred to as unexplained infertility.

“Until recent trials helped us counsel patients, management was mostly trial and error. Now it is clear that unexplained infertility is best managed with Assisted Reproductive Technologies, most commonly In Vitro Fertilization, with a three-times higher chance of childbirth than other options,” he said.

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>> Testing gene mutation. 5 to 10 percent of breast cancers in the U.S. are linked to an inherited gene mutation.”

And what about women who test negative for the gene, as I did? I was diagnosed with breast cancer 20 years ago. My sister also had breast cancer and a first cousin died at age 40 of breast cancer. After my diagnosis, both my sister and I decided to be tested due to our strong family history and we both tested negative. However, testing negative for the BRCA mutation obviously did not mean we were risk-free for breast cancer. Had my sister and I not continued with our regular breast health protocols, regular mammograms and breast self exams, neither of us would have discovered our breast cancer reoccurrences in time for successful treatment.

Taking a “one size fits all” approach to women’s health is dangerous.

Each woman’s body is unique, her circumstances different and her family history critical. I encourage women to consider all of their options before making serious, life-altering decisions.

Hadassah has always been in the vanguard of empowering women with knowledge and information to be proactive regarding their health and wellness. Take the opportunity to focus on your own health and choose a healthy lifestyle.

Marcie Natan is the national president of Hadassah, the Women’s Zionist Organization of America, Inc. which owns Hadassah’s hospitals in Israel

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“Intense” Tulane Hillel Birthright trip changes lives

by Stephanie Knecht Stephanie Knecht, a rising sophomore, was on one of three Birthright Israel trips Tulane Hillel sent this year. Tulane Hillel coordinates its trips with Young Judaea.

It’s unbelievable to imagine how we were able to travel nearly the entire country and learn about how rich our ancestry and culture is.

We started in the Galilee at Kibutz Hukuk Balev, where much of the group was first introduced to the concept of kibbutzim and the meaning of that lifestyle. Everyone was astonished to hear how Israel is the only country able to sustain this style of living and it was amazing to hear about it first-hand from a father, a husband and child from this kibbutz. We explored the Golan Heights and saw Syria from the mountaintops. We bonded as a group as we hiked on land and through water.

The charisma and spirituality of two people we met on our trip really set the tone.

In Tsfat we toured the streets of mystical art and fine jewelry — and schwarma, of course.

Then we soon found our way to an artist called Avraham. His explanation of the Kabbalah and passion for his art really touched everyone, and we soon became known as a group called Team Avraham instead of just Bus YJ592.

Shalom was our guide at the Golan Heights Winery. His love for his knowledge of fine wine and the process of growing Israeli wine grapes spoke to everyone. His personality and enthusiasm made our group feel so connected to him, and he stood as a mascot for the rest of our trip, he is even drawn into the design for the shirts we had made.

The next night we went to do some team building activities, which we loved. We split into small groups and basically played with rope. These obstacles showed us how much we had grown as a group. We went stargazing that night and we all had an opportunity to stop and relax and be at peace and really had a chance for self-reflection. That night we slept in tents and that was for sure an interesting, unforgettable experience… but I don’t recommend it.

We worked our way down to Bat Yam, a beach town just south of Tel Aviv. We soon met with the half of our family that we were missing, our soldiers. We met them on the beach and clicked with them immediately. That night we went out in the Florentin district of Tel Aviv.

The next day we started in Jaffa, personally my favorite city, it is truly a magical, picturesque port. Then we did a graffiti tour and it was

amazing to see that different side of Israel. We had lunch in the Karmel Shuk and then took a long drive to a camel ride, which was just a blast.

But what was truly life changing was waking up at 3 a.m. to climb Masada. It was crazy to me because at school I’m usually still studying in the library at that time! The hike was hard but there was Team Avraham encouraging each

other and pushing one another to be stronger and it was invigorating. Once at the top the sun started to peek over the distant mountains and watching the sunrise became something magical. Just imagine, something that happens every day being so different this one time. We toured the top of the mountain and it was amazing. The hike walking down the snake path was challenging, and we’ll leave it at that!

Then we worked our way to the Dead Sea, which was amazing. We all had a blast! We covered ourselves in some mud and took some great pictures and discovered all the cuts we weren’t previously aware of.

The next day, we finally reached the holy city of Jerusalem. We started walking through Jaffa Gate through the Armenian quarter and then to the Jewish Quarter to go to the Kotel. The Wall was so spiritual and symbolic to me and I felt a rush of electricity that I’ve never felt before. I delivered notes from my family members and I felt like I was doing such a mitzvah to be able to be the one to hand over their notes to the Wall, as well as one of my own.

One of my favorite nights was when we split into seven groups and the seven soldiers hosted us in their homes for dinner in Rosh Ha’Ayin, the twin city of New Orleans. It was amazing to meet Adi’s family and see her home and really get a taste of Israeli life. Her parents were so welcoming and amazing and it was something I’ll never forget. After that we went to a jazz fest in the city park and it was such a great way to relax and enjoy each other’s company.

The next morning we went to Mount Herzel,

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And just when I thought I could stand on my own Oh baby those memories come crashing through And I just can’t go on without you.

It’s a love song. Nearly every Air Supply song for 40 years has been.

Okay, so the Big G might not take well to the “oh baby.” But doesn’t the song mirror the intent of the cantor? Approaching the Big G in supplication, looking back at recent events, as someone who has strayed and feels empty for it? Admitting to shortcomings, and asking for the chance to come back?

If that wasn’t convincing enough, try the second verse.

On my own, I’ve tried to make the best of it alone I’ve done everything I can to ease the pain But only you can stop the rain

I just can’t live without you, I miss everything about you.

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Who can stop the rain? Who is the one without whom there would be no life?

The more you compare the song to the Hineni, the more it fits. Try it yourself. Join the almost-more-than-one people who have been thinking through these lyrics during the Hineni for the past several years.

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>> Birthright the military cemetery, which changed my life. At first I was a little hesitant as to why we would start an entire day with a cemetery visit and with just a few minutes I found myself already tearing up after seeing 19, 20, 18 and 21 engraved into the tombstones. These young people were children and friends and lovers and I couldn’t imagine what that type of loss would feel like. Hearing the monologue of the obituaries really made me so emotional. I felt connected to Israel in a way I never imagined possible.

Finally it was Shabbat and we all had some time to just take a breather and relax, which was much needed. The next day we spent time at the Israeli museum. Then we held a bar/bat mitzvah for many of the people on our trip, including one Israeli. This was so spiritual and meaningful to the participants as well as those watching the ceremony. We then went out to a fabulous dinner.

The next morning we started at Yad Vashem, which is always really difficult for me as I am the granddaughter of Holocaust survivors and the grand-niece of many who perished. It is always really emotional for me and sometimes hard to get all the way through a Holocaust museum. But this time I had friends to walk through with me and ask me questions about my family’s stories and it gave me hope and made it easier to get through the entire museum.

We sadly soon said goodbye to our beloved soldiers, but I’m sure to see them again. For the birthright mega-event that night we had dinner and then went to a concert of Hadag Nahash and we had a blast. It couldn’t have been a better way to spend our last night together.

Even though birthright is an intense and physically difficult program I feel like I’m leaving with memories that changed my life. I feel more connected than ever to Israel and the Jewish community that I was already so active in.

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It’s that time of year. Synagogues are mailing about High Holy Day tickets, entries in Yizkor books, and other things that help each year feel shorter than the Mets’ tenure in first place.

Therefore, it’s their fault — and not this column’s — that Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur feel so close.

In the 1980s, in New York, Crazy Eddie’s would have Christmas sales in August. In the spirit of Christmas sales past, this is a High Holy Day column in July.

One of the unique prayers in the Yom Kippur service is the Hineni.

Literally, it means “Here I am.” It’s an introductory supplication sung by the cantor, as the representative of everyone. Even that guy who disbanded UAB football. (Who needs to atone more?)

It begins “Here I am, deficient in good deeds, trembling in awe…” You get the idea. Lots of praise of the Big G, leading up to a plea for mercy and return while reflecting on mistakes — on moments of straying — during the past year.

It’s a lovely prayer, often chanted as the cantor enters from the back of the sanctuary, IT’S CRAZY approaching the ark from among the people.

EDDIE’S HIGH But people today don’t always get into even the more grand liturgy. Even those who do HOLY DAYS sometimes don’t really get into what it means.

COLUMN IN So, in an age of inclinations to modernize JULY! melodies, services, and the trendy colors for kippot, this column proposes a change.

This proposal is early enough that there’s plenty of time for religious committees around the world to carefully consider how quickly they will reject it outright.

Proposition: Replace the Hineni prayer with Air Supply’s 1981 hit song, “Here I Am.” Before going further, a point of clarification. Most of our three readers are probably confusing this with the other Air Supply hit from the same album, “The One That You Love.” That song’s chorus begins “Here I am, the one that you love…” This confuses an absurd number of people.

The actual song “Here I Am” merely begins with those three words.

The chorus is “Just when I thought I was over you…” which is the song’s subtitle.

There’s so much confusion about most prayers, that this confusion makes the song fit right in with them.

But if that’s not qualification enough, consider the underlying meaning and intent of the Hineni prayer as you read the lyrics of “Here I Am”:

Here I am, Playing with those memories again And just when I thought time had set me free Those thoughts of you keep haunting me.

Holding you, A feeling I never outgrew Though each and every part of me has tried Only you can fill that space inside

So there’s no sense pretending, My heart, it’s not mending.

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