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Cover copy by Nikki Hardin, art by Gayle Kabaker
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Nikki Hardin publisher@skirt.com Art Director
Caitilin McPhillips caitilin.mcphillips@skirt.com National Editor
Margaret Pilarski margaret.pilarski@skirt.com Advertising Director
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Elle Rowan elle.rowan@skirt.com Contributors
Traci Daberko Olivia Rae James Jen Renninger
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The
WOW! Issue
FEATURES
Be Mused Stephanie Hunt ............................................................................................34 Finding My Wow Cynthia Briggs................................................................................................66 Always Wonder Jen Wittes ........................................................................................................80
Women Women make make more more than than 80% 85% of all purchasing of all purchasing decisions. decisions.
Refrains in the Key of G Stacy Appel ...................................................................................................94
IN EVERY ISSUE
Letter from the Publisher.......................................................................25 Women spend almost 2 of every 3 healthcare dollars.
Letter from the Editor .............................................................................25 My Charleston ..............................................................................................36
Women control 2/3 of the nation’s disposable income.
He’s So Original ...........................................................................................40 skirt! in the Kitchen .................................................................................45 Calendar ...........................................................................................................49
Women Women infl influence uence 80% 80% of of all all car car sales. sales.
Feel Good ......................................................................................................56 Words to Live By ........................................................................................74 F-Word: Feminism Free-For-All ..........................................................76 skirt! Says.......................................................................................................82 Skirting Around Town ...............................................................................86 Browse...............................................................................................................92 Meet....................................................................................................................96 Planet Nikki.....................................................................................................98 charleston.skirt.com
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THE UNITED SKIRTS OF AMERICA
The United Skirts of America was founded on the blood, sweat and estrogen of our foremothers, who won us the freedom to choose...to break The Rules, to wear combat boots or high
FROM THE PUBLISHER
The
WOW! Issue
Because of this month’s theme, I was going to write about some recent wonderful Wow! experiences, but I couldn’t pass up the chance to talk about the current “War on Women.” This year, members of Congress have introduced more than 40 bills and state legislators have introduced more than 600 measures that would restrict a woman’s access to a full range of reproductive health care, including attempts to defund Planned Parenthood and other family planning services. Every day seems to bring yet another misogynistic piece of news. Rush Limbaugh called a young activist a slut and a prostitute on air and demanded to see videos of her having sex because she supported insurance coverage for birth control pills. In Arizona, House Bill 2625 would have given employers the right to fire women if they used birth control “for contraceptive, abortifacient, abortion or sterilization purposes.” New Hanover, NC, county commissioners voted unanimously to turn down an $8,899 grant because it would provide medical services related to family planning. And in Virginia politicians wanted to require an unnecessarily invasive vaginal ultrasound test for anyone seeking an abortion. (As one lawmaker was reported to have remarked to another, the women had already been probed when they had sex, so what’s the big deal?) In a recent speech, Hillary Clinton said, “Why extremists always focus on women remains a mystery to me. But they all seem to. It doesn’t matter what country they’re in or what religion they claim. They want to control women. They want to control how we dress. They want to control how we act. They even want to control the decisions we make about our own health and bodies.” If you’re tired of it, don’t sit back and wait for change. Attend one of the state or local Unite Against the War on Women marches on April 28th and keep in mind the national march in Washington, D.C., in September. For more information, visit wearewomenmarch.net. Isn’t it time to stand up and be counted?
COVER ARTIST
heels, to run for office
Gayle Kabaker
or run a marathon,
Gayle calls herself a creative
to form our own
spirit and is thrilled to be able
rock groups instead
to design and illustrate from the
of being groupies, to
Berkshires of Western Mas-
shatter Glass Ceilings
sachusetts. From starting out
and Glass Slippers, to
in San Francisco as a fashion
shoot hoops instead
illustrator to recently promot-
of settling for hoop
ing concerts in the Pioneer
skirts. The ones who
Valley, she says she’s been lucky
came before us made
to explore many passions and
it possible for our
is happy to share them with
daughters to dream
whoever asks! What gets Gayle
bigger, to have the
most excited is coming up with
chance to grow up to
solutions to all types of chal-
be President and turn
lenges—reworking a website,
the Oval Office into
promoting a project, directing a
the Ovary Office. In
FROM THE EDITOR
film or just brainstorming ways
the United Skirts of
The April issue was produced in a season of 80-degree winter days. Wow. We crammed it all together
to get more business. Her work
America, every day is
in the midst of a huge skirt! party, the Wine + Food Festival, and a Pecha Kucha dedicated to women.
is used in lots of different ways:
Independence Day!
marketing collateral, editorial,
VISIT US ON SKIRT.COM
Nikki
publisher@skirt.com
Wow. April brings Family Circle Cup (more girl power!), the Doughnut Run, the Bed Race, Bocce Bash and the We Are Women march. Wow, wow, and wow. So we’re proud to introduce to you our Wow women of the month—Women on the Web—Jennifer, Stacey and Chassity. One builds websites, one builds buzz and the other shares her beloveds. Whether you know them online or off-line, each of
animation, web design, logo and
them shapes the city and beyond. Jennifer’s infectious enthusiasm, Stacey’s determined creativity and
brand development and more.
Chassity’s sweet success—they all represent a little bit of Wow we can find in ourselves, don’t they?
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Take a cue from them and do some Wow-inspired works this month. (In between bed racing and bocce, of course.) Been meaning to launch an advice blog? Start a backyard compost? Volunteer with Habitat for Humanity? Get on it girl! The days are longer but summer’s not stopping.
WoW!
Margaret
margaret.pilarski@skirt.com
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What’ s Happening APRIL
Brown Bag Lunch Series Useful & interesting topics to brighten your day
Stay Healthy
Learn to keep yourself balanced emotionally, physically & spiritually. Tina Arnold, The Holistic Chick Thursday, April 12 12:00 Noon to 1:00pm FREE
Separation & Divorce: Ways to Help Children Cope
Capturing the Art & Elegance of Sweetgrass Basketry
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How therapy & alternative dispute resolution can remove stress. Jane Douglas, Attorney, Bluestein & Douglas Arti Kumar-Jain, M.A., M.Ed. Thursday, April 26 12:00 Noon to 1:00pm FREE
Sponsor Sandpiper Premier Senior Living Refreshments Costco Media Sponsor Little Black Book for every busy woman
Women Writers Forum
Discussions on the art & business of writing
Building a Blog: The Do’s and Don’ts
Publishing expert talks about launching & maintaining a great blog. Nikki Hardin, Editor of Skirt! Magazine & Fridaville Blogger Saturday, April 14 10:00am to 12:00Noon Registration required: $25 C4W Members; $30 Non-members Job Search Assistance
Help finding a new or better job
Finding A Job Using Social Media
Hands-on workshop to learn set-up & use of LinkedIn, Facebook + Hillary Hutchinson, Hillary Hutchinson & Associates Cathy Liska, CEO, Center for Coaching Certification Thursday, April 19 1:30pm to 4:30pm Registration required: $20.00 Location: Southern Wesleyan Computer Lab - Suite 301 4055 Faber Place Drive (off I-526 & Leeds Ave) Sponsor
Southern Wesleyan University
Women’s Leadership Institute
Develop the skills and strategies of an effective leader
Got Power, Persuasion and Influence?
Ability to persuade & influence outcomes is a must-have business skill. Jane Perdue, The Braithewaite Group Saturday, April 21 9:30am to 12:30pm Registration required: $25 C4W Members; $35 Non-members Sponsor Mary Peters and Care for Life, Experts in Eldercare Refreshment Sponsor Fork Fine Gourmet Media Sponsor Skirt!
Women and Power
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ome hop ur arge eLeCtion of engagement / Wedding JeWeLry and giftS!
What Does Having Power Mean? Learn to define power as a personal value and use it for the good. Jennet Robinson Alterman, Executive Director, Center for Women Thursday, April 26 6:00pm to 8:00pm Registration required: $25 C4W Members; $35 Non-members Location: French Quarter Inn, 166 Church Street Morgan Stanley WeightWatchers SunTrust Hospitality Sponsor French Quarter Inn Refreshment Sponsor Tristan Sponsors
Self Discovery Workshop
Tools to help you define and live your best life
Getting Past Disappointments in Marriage Understand how expectations keep us from having a happier marriage. Tara Mills, MA, LPCI, Therapist/Owner of Good Loving Saturday, April 28 10:00am to 12:00Noon Registration required: $20 C4W Members; $30 Non-members
Where the Lowcountry Goes to Get Engaged.
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Support the Center for Women and become a member today ! For only $35.00 a year, you can join our network of outstanding women and receive discounts to all programs and events. Visit our website to learn more and join us now. Unless noted, programs are held at 129 Cannon Street (between Ashley Ave. & President St.) To learn more or register, go to c4women.org. Call us at 843 763 7333
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Register Now for 2012–2013 School Year!! A private Methodist preschool/ kindergarten for children ages one – kindergarten. For over the past 40 years our mission has been to meet the educational needs of the early childhood years in a loving Christian environment. Each child is guided to attain his or her own potential – emotionally, socially, physically, spiritually and intellectually – by teachers trained in childhood education.
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Be Mused
“I walk into a large white room,” begins Twyla Tharp in her book, The Creative Habit. In this large white room there are wall-to-wall mirrors, a boom box, skid marks on an otherwise clean white floor, and that’s it. Tharp describes how this vacuous whiteness ignites her imaginative muscle, and despite its daunting void, how she slowly moves into it and deliberately begins to fill it with movement and music, with playful openness and intention, and through some alchemy of mystery and madness, creativity emerges into form, shape and energy—a dance. I recall this spare image, this pristine white-room canvas of space, as I walk into the immensely grandiose Grand Ballroom of the Chicago Hilton. This “room” is more like two city blocks with walls boxed around them, paneled in mirrors and velvet curtains, topped with a ridiculously gilded lid. Four chandeliers the size of hot-air balloons drape from elaborate ceiling medallions. I fully expect Louis XIV to parade in at any minute. This room is the gaudy antithesis of Tharp’s minimalist studio. It’s the Superdome of conference halls, and here I am, with 10,000 other writers, many of us seeking what Tharp seeks in her barebones studio: inspiration, imaginative juju, magic. This mass gathering feels a little like what I imagine an open audition for American Idol might be like, without the blatant preening. While we’re all well behaved—I’ve seen minimal hair gel, almost no high heels and no teary outbursts—I doubt I’m the only one in this small city of writers clumped in this large metropolis of a hotel who is dreaming, Idol-esquely, that maybe I’ll be discovered. I am but one among thousands here looking for legitimacy as a writer, whether that means claiming a slim parcel of book-spine real estate, having a story published in a journal, or even a poem accepted by an obscure indie press, for which you will get one free copy as payment. We all sit quietly, pens in hand, notebooks in lap, listening to lectures and panel discussions. Heads nod approvingly as poet Philip Levine delivers genius verse, as writer Jill McCorkle holds sway in a golly-gee West Virginia accent that can’t camouflage her brilliance. We drink in the wisdom of our elders, soak up the glow cast off by literary luminaries—those who have won Pulitzers and lesser prizes, who have been anointed by Kirkus and the New York Times, those who know what royalties are, here in this ballroom decked out for royalty. Like any good American, I feel elevated by this proximity to celebrity. “That’s Sy Safransky…” I whisper to my husband as we pass a slim man with a scraggly gray beard and backpack slung over his shoulder. “…publisher of The Sun.” This means nothing to my clueless husband. Even so, I am inspired. I’m juiced by these readings, by sitting in these over-the-top ballrooms (my favorite—the Red Lacquer Room), where verbs and nouns are precious gems strung on glittering phrases and flung out onto our crowd, a Mardi Gras for debauched lovers of language. In one particularly long poetry reading, my mind wanders and I wonder how the muse navigates such a large and unwieldy affair. Does she get lost in the shuffle between the various ballrooms? Is she weary, frustrated, resentful of being dragged from panel discussion to panel discussion? I picture her as if she were the steamy bowl of Cream of Wheat from those old TV ads, the bowl that steadfastly hovers over kids who eat their hot, wholesome breakfast. I imagine thousands of these stealth clouds of hot, steamy inspiration hovering in these conference halls, colliding into one another as we switch rooms and mill about the hallways. They float along, ready to fortify lackluster characters, fuel flailing plots, add zip to limp verse, but we don’t see them; I don’t see them. Instead, I try to muster the muse by my own grit, to cajole and wrangle her. I paid good money to come take notes on stoking the creative fires. I grasp and claw, hoping to claim a reliable muse the way I jockey for a seat in the room, not wanting to be shut out. With 10,000 souls here, it’s a valid question—is there enough inspiration to go around? As the conference ends I can only hope so, and if not inspiration, there are surely enough literary journals to go around, as my full totebag attests. I return home, not to Twyla Tharp’s large white room nor to a gilt mini-Versailles, but to my regular old house, and an infestation of pantry moths. They’ve hatched from half-opened bags of pasta and oats (not Cream of Wheat, but close), and risen like grain-fueled phoenixes in my absence. They are everywhere, darting out each time I open the cabinet, fluttering all around the kitchen. I find and smush one upstairs. They are small and harmless but unfortunately, Wikipedia warns, “notoriously difficult to get rid of,” working their way into dry foods through even the tightest packaging, where they feast, cocoon, then fly away to mate and create more pesky little moths. And thus the moth, my new kitchen enemy, becomes my new muse prototype. Relentless, sneaky, hungry. Who knew forgotten oatmeal buried deep in the cupboard could yield such bounty? Who knows where inspiration might hide and feast, and where she will fly if you crack open the door? Stephanie Hunt is a freelance writer and muse chaser in Charleston, South Carolina. She has three girls, two bikes, one dog, one husband and several creative projects in progress. She prefers frozen blueberries to moths in her oatmeal. See more at stephaniehuntwrites.com or alifestill.com.
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April. When I think of April I see sunflowers, rain showers, an abundance of ripe berries and the beginning of soft-shell crabs. Being outside as much as possible becomes a top priority, even if it means sacrificing sleep to see the sunrise. In April, afternoon storms roll in more often than not; and sometimes ice cream counts as dinner. Loquat trees are in full force and weekends are spent swimming in the ocean.This season evokes creativity and motivation; a short walk through a narrow alleyway South of Broad is enough to inspire. There’s a certain camaraderie, a shared giddiness, during the springtime in Charleston knowing that we are the lucky ones.
Even since I graduated, I love walking through College of Charleston’s beautiful cistern.
An abundance of potted plants from Abide -A-while is a must this time of year.
Beads on Cannon is a hidden gem of the Elliotborough neighborhood.
Spring calls for light alfresco lunches, with fresh veggies and homemade soup.
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Unexpected evening trips to Sullivan’s Island make weekdays feel special.
Springtime makes me crave banana pudding with homemade whipped cream from Jestine’s Sweet Shop.
Biking and Bin 152 After work in the evenings, my boyfriend and I go on sunset bike rides around the peninsula. I love the chaos of my daily
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Open windows. Picnics at the battery. Iced green tea. Soft-shell crabs at FIG. Raspberry smoothies for breakfast. Jumping in the ocean. Marathon brunches. Sunrise and sunset bike rides. Sand in my car.
“April is the time to drop everything, pile in a car with all your friends, open the windows (and sunroof), turn on your favorite song, drive to the beach, and run straight into the ocean.
The magic hour casts such stunning light over the fresh, colorful, blooms.
Olivia Rae James shares words and photos about her life in Charleston on her blog, Everyday Musings. It’s a collection of food, travel, sunsets, and dance parties. Follow her at olivia-rae.com.
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Rhys Williams is an off-stage Spoleto star. You think you’ve been a Spoleto supporter for a while? You’ve got nothing on Rhys. “I came to Charleston in 1983 and was in the right place at the right time.” Now in his 29th Spoleto season, the director of production now counts Spoleto as a client of his company, Technical Theater Solutions. (Others include Disney Cruise Lines, the American Idiot musical and the Charleston Museum.) “I think there are people who are analytic and people who are more creative but we can bridge that gap. What I do is take a picture on paper and make that happen on stage. I take a lot of pride in that work because it requires you to do great work within limitations.” What do you like about wearing a skirt? “Anything for my country! Plus, it seemed like a good idea to get Thor, my dog, into a skirt. I thought it might be humbling for him.” What do you like about reading skirt!? “I believe that women should be treated equally to men and I think it’s inspiring to have a magazine that speaks to what women are all about.” Photo by Marni Rothschild Durlach
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Best compliment from a diner: (In reference to my fried oysters.)
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Just-got-off-work indulgence: Anything outdoors, particularly kayaking.
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Favorite cookbook: The Joy of Cooking Favorite foodie: Anthony Bourdain. I once spotted him in a restaurant in Cannes, France. I regret not offering to buy him a drink!
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LocalLoves Boys biking from Brunswick to Baja on behalf of a local nonprofit? Must be a big deal. Ben Williams and Jason Neuman are taking two wheels across the country to raise money for SideWalk Chalk, an arts and writing program that works with Charleston County students.
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Smaller boutiques shine at Target beginning May 6. Start making your wish lists now for items from The Webster, Privet House, The Candy Store, Polka Dog Bakery and Charleston’s King St. beauty staple Cos Bar. More luxury beauty at another new price point? Bullseye.
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Mount Pleasant Academy hosts their first Green Day on Earth Day Eve, April 21. Local nurseries will have plants for sale, education on gardening and composting and family friendly booths and activities.The public is welcome to celebrate the school’s ongoing environmental efforts and to create new green habits. 8:30am-1pm, mtpleasant.ccsdschools.com.
SideWalk Chalk has to raise over $50,000 a year to keep their programs free—Ben and Jason’s 6,000-mile cross-country ride will add to that pot.
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Double Up 4 Vision, a tandem biking event with cycling teams made of a sighted pilot and a legally blind stoker will kick-off on Friday evening before the RiverDogs game. afortbsc.
Enjoy a meal out for Roper St. Francis’ Ryan White Program, an outpatient HIV/AIDS care program. Participating restaurants will donate 25% of the day’s sales. dinningoutforlife.com/charleston
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Make way for the 11th annual Hat Ladies Easter Promenade beginning at Broad and Meeting at 11am. Wave all the way down Meeting St. to White Point Gardens 14 Not Your Average
Sign up for The 3rd Annual 5k Charleston Doughnut Run! Race at 9am and then join the fun at Taco Boy. Proceeds go to SideWalk Chalk. charlestondoughnutrun.com
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Charleston Area Therapeutic Riding hosts a fundraiser to benefit its scholarship fund. From 4-7pm, enjoy catering by CRAVE, an open bar, local musicians and auctions. catrfarms.org 16 Support LLS
Educate yourself while enjoying a free screening of Forks over Knives at the Terrace Theater. Show times are 11am, 5pm and 7:30pm. 21 Globally Good
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The Partners for A Better Community and the Emma Wilder Johnson Scholarship Gala host their first fundraiser at the School of the Arts at 6pm. thepartnersforabettercommunity.org
Support eco-friendly designers! The second Charleston Eco Fashion Event at the Michael Mitchell Gallery is from 7-9pm. Tickets $25. charlestonecofashion.eventbrite.com
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Come explore the 5th Annual Old Village Home, Garden & Art Tour in the Old Village of Mt. Pleasant from 1pm5pm benefiting the American Red Cross. lowcountryredcross.org 22 Bears in the Park, Oh My!
Charleston Parks Conservancy’s Annual Teddy Bear Picnic is back! From 1-3:30pm bring the kids, a picnic, and participate in the hoopla. charlestonparksconservancy.org 24 Support SC Women
Celebrate women who have helped break barriers at the Fourth Annual Leading Women’s Dinner in Columbia. Honor SC women with a reception and dinner. scelectswomen.com
Raise funds in support of Communities In Schools and its dropout prevention programs at the Push-Up & Up Challenge from 9am-12pm in Marion Square. pushupandup.org 28 Get Moving
Parents’ Night Out at Charleston Power Yoga is from 5:30-8:30pm with the Kids’ Yoga Journey team. Dinner is included! $20 per child. RSVP at 513.3400. kidsyogajourney.com 28 Bring Combat Boots
Join in solidarity by marching with women and make a statement by uniting against the War on Women. Get details on the SC marches at wearewomenmarch.net.
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Legendary designer Diane Von Furstenberg (and creator of the iconic wrap dress) is the current president of the Council of Fashion Designers of America (CFDA), and as such, she has embraced new regulations set forth by CFDA that will prevent underage and underweight models from taking to the runways.
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Gather your friends and family and revive the traditional game of bocce ball while raising money for Special Olympics! Teams of four will participate in bracket-style matches, with each team guaranteed three games to start in the morning. In the afternoon, the highest ranking teams advance to a single elimination playoff. All bocce players start the day with breakfast biscuits and mimosas and will complete their afternoon with cold drinks and lunch provided by a truck rodeo featuring Taco Boy, Big Dig (Daniel Island Grill), and Hubee Dee’s. (Friends of players can still buy lunch from vendors.) Sign up soon—the skirt! team is already in training… Team cost: $500, Court Sponsorship: $1,000
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Chassity Evans | Find Love Online A year and a half ago, Chassity put creativity to keyboard and started her blog Look Linger Love, a colorful creampuff of fashion, interiors and art. “Blogging keeps me engaged in the topics that I love. I share an average of eight posts a week and that doesn’t come without time and research, but when the topics are fashion, interiors, and the like, it’s hardly homework.” Readers will often spot locals like Sally King Benedict or goodies like Hannah Nation’s Gadabout, but she swears it’s not bias—“I cover a lot of Charleston talent, but only because Charleston is brimming with it! My local readership accounts for about five percent of my total audience so I really do have to look for subject matter that will appeal on a broader level. It’s a bonus when that talent happens to be found here locally.” Going on two years, she’s still giddy. “I still get a thrill each time I tap ‘publish post.’” looklingerlove.blogspot.com Photo by Alice Keeney
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The university was down on one knee, proposing to me, asking me for my hand in tenure, and I found my heart saying “No. But thanks.” I became the runaway bride.
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icture a girl, 11 years old, sitting on a flowered sofa. She leans studiously over a spiral notebook with a picture of unicorn on the cover. She’s writing a book, her autobiography. A look of intense concentration on her face, her mouth open in deep thinking. On her head, a pillowcase tied on the sides to look like long, floppy dog ears. She’s a little too old for dressing up like a dog. A little too young to understand the social consequences of such weirdness. Her mom snaps the picture, freezing in time the end of this girl’s innocent and unashamed self-expression. I am that little girl. Before I hit middle school and the social pressures of being a teenager, I was totally tapped into the wildness of my native soul. I loved three things: animals (and pretending to be one), playing outside, and writing. I kept a journal, made cartoon books and wrote about my alter ego, a black stallion who loved running. I knew who I was, strangeness and all. Like most girls, once I arrived in middle school my whole perspective dramatically and tragically changed. I suddenly became aware that “normal” girls didn’t wear dog ears, even at home, nor did they run, get super sweaty, skin their knees on pavement, or spend too much time reading and writing. My perfectly fine elementary-school self suddenly felt ashamed and embarrassed. How had I become so very weird so quickly? I felt betrayed by my own internal sense of direction. I stood out, and not in a good way. I began seeking external markers for success, trying to understand myself from the outside in. I became an overachiever. In middle school I abandoned writing and found stability and comfort in getting good grades, following the rules, and generally making my parents proud. In college and graduate school I excelled at excelling. I finished my Master’s degree with a 3.9 GPA, my doctorate with a 4.0. Making As became my business, and I never questioned whether perfect grades were a noble or sufficient goal. It was simply how I measured my success, my self-worth. External standards were clear and exact and did not allow for my wild and weird inner being to make me look foolish. I retreated farther and farther from that strange and wonderful little girl I used to be. After I completed my doctorate I took a tenure-track teaching job at a university in Minnesota. Academia is designed for those of us who never learned to trust our inner compass. Each year, each term, there’s a new marker for success, another
bullet point on the academic résumé. As I marked off the boxes toward tenure, I expected to feel a growing sense of contentment. After all, tenure meant a permanent job. Security. Adulthood. Weren’t these things the goal? At night, after work, when I lay exhausted and worn in the darkness of my bedroom, I caught glimpses of my own depth, my own soul. I was not happy. My soul felt impoverished, starved. Yet I resisted the idea of leaving my structured and ordered life. My own internal gauge for success proved too messy and subjective to be considered for very long. When I risked examining my heart’s longing for my life, I feared the enormity of what it might ask of me. From deep within, I longed to be a writer. Not an academic writer as I’d been trained to be, but an impassioned one. The little girl wearing dog ears called to me from the past, inviting me back to my true self. To satisfy my restless animal heart I began blogging about my existential descent. I feared judgment from my academic colleagues so I wrote under a pseudonym. I poured out matters of the heart, the importance of living an authentic life, the dark reaches of grief and the incredible liberation of being honest. I started hearing from readers who appreciated my message. Most importantly, I finally started listening to myself. Writing was my release, my joy in the middle of a stale life. I began to shape my days around it, and the external rewards of my job seemed less and less appealing. At work, I was on the verge of applying for tenure. The dean assured me it was mine if I wanted it. A permanent job. The ultimate prize. I felt like I was in a boring relationship with a perfectly nice man who really wanted to marry me. The university was down on one knee, proposing to me, asking me for my hand in tenure, and I found my heart saying “No. But thanks.” I became the runaway bride. I quit my job on Easter Sunday, three days after my 38th birthday. The symbolism of this timing is not lost on me. I let die my expectations for myself and resurrected a new kind of life, a more honest and heartfelt way of being. My colleagues were shocked when I quit my job. I could do little to explain my seemingly insane decision. People just don’t leave tenure-track jobs. It doesn’t make sense to the logical mind. But my heart. Oh, my heart. My heart and soul did cartwheels of joy. So happy to be heard, so happy to be respected and honored. My heart and soul lay down every night in total contentment that I took the risk and trusted their deep wisdom. And that little girl wearing dog ears on the sofa? She smiled knowingly, welcoming me home.
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In March, the Texas Health and Human Services Commission ruled to exclude Planned Parenthood from partipating in the Women’s Health Program, a federally funded program that delivers $9 from the feds for every $1 spent by the state on women’s health. When Texas decided to exclude Planned Parenthood, Medicaid informed HHSC that it would be violating the guidelines of the program and would
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hese babies are not mine. I don’t have any hope or agenda for how they will grow up or who they will become. While I obviously wish for them nothing but good health, I am not paralyzed by sudden bouts of worry over what might happen to them in terms of illness or accident, as I was as a new mother to my own children. I fall for my “work babies” in the moment, but because my heart isn’t tethered for the long haul, I can see them for who they are. I see them as wonderful, but not for the same reasons that a parent or an aunt or a grandmother would. I am not amazed when they turn their head to a sibling’s voice or after they roll over for the first time. How quickly they fill a diaper fails to astonish me. And I know for a fact that almost every baby’s first babble phrase is “ah goo.” Perhaps this thrilled me once, when released from my daughter’s lips. Now? Unremarkable. As I do meet a lot of babies, all of their milestones and celebrated strokes of genius are par for the course for the seasoned doula—just another day on the job. What I see—from the fortunate position of care giving, without caring too much—is a blank canvas. I see the essence of the human race before true fear or disappointment, before heartbreak or gadget obsession. Before the influence of reality TV. Before bubble gum. Before algebra. Before a true and steadfast preference for blondes, or brunettes. I see a small, thinking animal squinting at and literally licking at the sunlight, before she actually knows what the sun is. Imagine not knowing the sun. Now look at it—this star, this life-giving center of what we absentmindedly refer to as the Solar System—as if seeing it for the first time. These babies, who are not mine, remind me to do that once in a while. I always wonder when I make acquaintance with another newborn friend, who I am holding in my arms. A future rock star? A poet? A plant manager? A hopeless romantic? A cynic? Someone who will eventually subscribe to Cat Fancy? Someone who will, without question, join the NRA? Will this little boy bravely decide, under the unbearable weight of locker room taunts, to scrap the soccer scholarship and become a fashion designer? Will that baby girl get a perfect score on her SAT but decide instead to join a commune and legally change her name to Siren Blue? Will this one ride off on the back of someone’s motorcycle, taking on a chain of adventures—one after the other—lapping up a lifetime of experience by the age of 25, at the expense of her mother’s broken heart? Or will she toil away the hours hunched over a microscope, until she finds a cure? It doesn’t really matter to me, the baby expert, the gal who cruises through for a few weeks educating the mother, caring for the family, spending time with baby here and there while one of the parents takes a nap or a hot shower. I am
enchanted by these infants, but I will not know them as walking, talking children. I will rarely learn their fates, and it is not my job to fret over it. Still, I become time and again heady with what I see in tiny grasping fingers, toes, the wide eyes, and the milk-stained mouth: unscripted, unimagined possibility. I wonder, as I stare into each small, searching face—observing the spongelike quality of the young brain, at what point a destiny is shaped. When does the path to president, copywriter, chauvinist, or recluse narrow and sharpen so that a person is now a personality, requiring effort and struggle—perhaps a little therapy—to truly change? At what point does that happen? And at what age does a human typically first listen to The Beatles? Because it happens eventually, right? That won’t ever change. Or will it? Ever so slightly more important: When does a person lose the so-called meaning of life? Because the sleepy, suckling, skin-shedding newborns have it down. Emotions flicker across their small faces with certainty. Confusion, concentration, contentment, joy. I’m talking about real joy that clearly stirs a baby—in the chest, in the belly, in kicking feet, and in newly found gurgling laughter. I see in these babies the most basic needs that never really change for us, although we become so silly and fractured and driven, we constantly add false items to our list of necessities. We adults even place our extra needs at the top of the list, so that treadmill comes before touch, convenience before sustenance. An infant sees the world in terms of hunger, loneliness, comfort, and discovery. I see these babies and I want to find a way back to simply hunger, loneliness, comfort, and discovery. And, I want to fearlessly cry when I don’t get what I need. Loudly. At what point do we screw it up? At what point do we stop making eye contact and stop making demands? Every day, I’m confronted with the purity of life before trust is broken, before self-consciousness; before a first date, a first hangover, or a first real sense of accomplishment. I am at once filled with a longing to be so small and natural, and also a sort of amusement over what we eventually, inevitably become—miserable, exhausted, hardwired, hopeful grown-ups. Sometimes I want to bring babies—loads of them—into the boardrooms, watch them snuggle against scratchy suits, allow women and men to squirm in the raw wisdom of a newborn’s gaze. I want to see a baby give the go-getters what they so skillfully give to me when I pay close enough attention: deep breaths, a quiet mind, fresh eyes. It’s a subtle sort of inspiration that we miss as we parent our own children, stumbling through the deep fog of sleep deprivation, beneath the weight of worry and expectation. The new knowledge that water makes a slapping sound when it splashes, the unwritten life story, a pleasant voice, and staring at the sun. Hunger, loneliness, comfort, and discovery. Being human and feeling inspired by every little thing.
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“...what can I do for myself that would be very, very kind at this moment?”
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“My friends ask me how I do it. Compared to some of the people I see suffering all around me at the public hospital—one whose left ear was sliced off, one with a tumor the size of a grapefruit bulging out of her neck, one beautiful, formerly buff dude who lost his hair on his head and his eyebrows and whose eyes sink deeper into his skull every time I see him—I feel like I’m getting off easy.”
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