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I arrived for this month’s interview, I was greeted by Mary Christopher, my contemporary, fellow artist and art educator. She is the one who arranged for my introduction to another Mary Christopher. This month’s EFOP is actually her motherin-law, who happens to hold the same given name and surname. I suppose younger Mary’s husband, Joe Christopher, has a thing for women by this name. Now I see why. This month I will introduce you to the matriarch of this close family. It is a tale not only of this remarkable woman, but also of her family that is so much a part of her.

Stepping through the doorway, family photographs and memorabilia would be the first thing any of you would encounter. It fills the tables and bookshelves, and is hung on every wall. On the near chair, there is even a throw with an almost lifesized family portrait imprinted on it. But my attention was swiftly and indelibly drawn to someone else as I moved to the far end of the room. Upon meeting the senior Mrs. Christopher, I was immediately engulfed by her energy and passion. This First Lieutenant and World War II nurse is now 92 years old, but when she keens her gaze on me, all I can envision is that sincere, brave young woman that enlisted “because she wanted to help.”

Mrs. Mary, referred to by her family as “Gram”, a.k.a. “Grambo” to her grand daughter, Eli, due to her independence, began her life hearing that making a difference is a key part of every citizen’s responsibility. This sense of responsibility guided her though all major decisions in her life. Gram began to describe her ancestors, “I had the honor of growing up on the family homestead, and hearing the legacy of my great-grandmother. Travelling in a covered wagon in the 1830’s, my ancestors were supposed to be headed to Texas. Instead, my great-grandfather, Reece Howell, woke up one morning and couldn’t find his wife.

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Great-Grandmother Martha walked into camp a few minutes later to say she had found a beautiful spring and was staying put, or he could bring her back home to her people. This site is now known as Howell’s Cove. They were among the first white settlers in what is now Talladega County in Alabama. At the time of their arrival, however, the area was still populated by Creek Indians.” I learned that this remarkable couple managed to befriend the locals. Gram reached to the stack of papers next to her on the couch. “Here is a copy of the land grant they were given. It was signed by Martin Van Buren,” she pointed out, “and Andrew Jackson signed another one. The grants bore the responsibility to establish a homestead and maintain the land. Martha and Reese donated some of the land for a church, Bethel Methodist, and the local cemetery. Remarkably, during the roundup of the local Indians for what became the Trail of Tears, family history tells of Reece and Martha saving some of their Indian neighbors by hiding them from the soldiers in a chifferobe in their home.” I was thrilled while speaking to Gram’s niece, Kathy Wallis, to hear that Kathy’s son still has this treasured chifferobe. Perhaps her family heritage helps explain why Mary Virginia chose to be a nurse, and why, as a young R.N., she felt compelled to enlist in the Army Nurse Corp and enter WWII. Her niece Kathy says, “Mary Virginia is naturally a loving, caring, nurturing person, even more than any of the six siblings. She was a real trailblazer for those times.” She must have stood out in stressful situations, because she became the Chief Nurse, a Second Lieutenant, and ultimately First Lieutenant. It seemed to be a family trait, as Mary explained, “My sister was an enlisted nurse too, and at one point there were four of us siblings in WWII at once.” Then she quickly moved to the bookcase and handed me an aerial photograph of her Uncle Richard. “See, right there,” she said excitedly. “Here he is - one of 12,500 officers, doctors, nurses, and enlistees that are forming this enormous human American Eagle image with their bodies. This was at Camp Gordon, near Atlanta, Georgia in 1918 in WWI.” Her pride was obvious. She paused reflectively for a moment, and ran her hand over the smooth wood of the handsome bar the photo was sitting on. “Isn’t this piece beautiful? My husband made it. Joe Frank Christopher and I met in my family home when my brother brought him by the house. I was in the 4th grade,

A copy of the Land Grant given to Mary’s great-grandparents in the 1830’s and signed by Martin Van Buren and he was in the 6th. When I made 18 years of age, I left by train to join my sister, Minniere, in New Orleans and trained at Baptist Hospital, where she was in Nursing. Her real name was Minnie Rebecca. You know, we all used two names in Alabama, but hers was shortened into one name. Anyway, Joe Frank came to visit me there while I was in training.” She laughed as she remembered, “I had an 8pm curfew.” “Then Minniere went to Hawaii as a nurse and met her future husband, Joe Founds, who was a military photographer, and took many photos during the Japanese invasion of Pearl Harbor. I enlisted on December 23, 1943 to enter the Army Air Corps on January 15, 1944. Later I was assigned to the 134th Evacuation Hospital.” “We sailed on the USAT Henry Gibbons and arrived in Le Havre, France on January 16, 1945,” Mary Virginia said as she pulled a yellowed booklet from her stack and handed it to me.

Mary (seated, bottom left) and her siblings circa 1926

a sleeping bag, blanket, pistol, pole tent and combat boots. At one point I also saw in the booklet that she had to be issued mosquito netting and ointment for the flies. “I arrived in the ETO (European Theatre of Operations) right after the Battle of the Bulge. I still remember hearing the guns in the distance, and seeing the ruined cities.” After a bit of prodding, Mrs. Mary finally began to show me photos that included her during this time. She is almost always with a group of people and in the center, as a beaming young woman in white uniform, white stockings, and the unmistakable white nurses shoes. That undaunted smile and piercing blue eyes are the first thing I see in the photos, even the ones where she is wearing the combat boots and hat. It is clear that Mary Virginia is a very gregarious person. At some point, that same smile spreads across her face

The booklet was documentation of all of her operations in the service. It listed her locations, rank, pay, equipment issued, and leave. She also brought out and modeled the green khaki wool cape that was issued to her. The first list shows she was given

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as one of her twelve grandsons, Joey, walks in the room. I ask her about her friends, and she answers, “So many of them are gone. My family and few remaining friends mean everything to me.” As she and her grandson speak, I continue looking through the photo album. While on leave after VE (Victory in Europe) Day, Mary Virginia was able to visit Paris, and other places in Europe. Her photos include many major historical and cultural sites of interest. When I ask her about them, she smiles and recalls, “I loved the Follies Bergere and Versailles. Even more exciting was when my brother Reece came to see me in Dinant, Belgium. It was just so wonderful to see family again,” she exclaimed with a catch in her voice. Looking through her Army records, I can see that she was in France, Belgium, and Germany. This was how I learned that, while serving in the European Theatre, this brave nurse received two Bronze Stars, the American Theatre Ribbon, and a Victory Medal. “We didn’t even hear about how the Germans were treating the Jews until the end, but we did see some of the terrible results after it was over, and visited one of the concentration camps,” she said. “Finally, I remember waiting in Marseille, France to go to the Pacific Theater when we were told that the Atomic Bombs had been dropped. As horrific as that was, it saved a lot of American troops. Victory in Japan was declared on September 2, 1945. So instead of going to the Pacific, I left France to return to the US on the MS Noordan two days later.” I know she is glad the atrocities are over. But Mary Virginia Howell was lucky to have lived to serve. She tells the story of a train accident that she only recently learned of from a fellow veteran. Her son Joe was able to find the news article for me. According to

the article, General Patton was desperate for replacements right after the Battle of the Bulge. An American General wanted to use a local train to move the incoming personnel more quickly to the front. The French were insistent that the train was unsafe. Finally, the French were forced at gunpoint to allow only the soldiers and equipment to board. The others, including Mary Virginia and the medical personnel, would have to travel by truck convoys. Unfortunately, the train with badly needed troops never made it to the front. According to the article in the Tribune Democrat, “89 Americans died. Another 152 received permanent injuries with many losing arms and legs.” It seems the brakes were indeed worn out, and the train accelerated at alarming speed, crashed through a barrier, and landed in a pile, ten cars high in places. So what became of this brave nurse after the War? As you would imagine, she continued to be there for those who needed her. “After the war, I came back to work for US Public Health and help my family in Birmingham, where my parents had moved in with Mom’s sister. My dad died shortly thereafter. One memory that still bothers me from when I worked in Birmingham was how the African-American nurses were treated. One in particular was my friend, and she wasn’t allowed to eat with me. When we traveled, she had to sit in the back of the bus. She was so sweet and intelligent. She did so much for this country, and that’s how she was treated. I didn’t expect this after all I had seen overseas. Those were bad times, and I’m glad that has changed.” But this positive, energetic woman was never one to dwell on the negative. In order to brighten the mood, she flipped through her stack and pulled out her priceless childhood books, and then her paper dolls. One of the newer ones was of Betty Boop. “But we had a lot of happy times in that big house in Talladega. There was a huge wooden table, and on special occasions, it was just filled with food.” “Then Joe Frank and I married on September 30, 1950, and moved to New Orleans. Coincidentally, all three of my sons were born at Baptist Hospital, where my career began. Once Mother got sick, she moved to New Orleans and lived with us for a while so I could help her. Joe Frank and I lived on Eastern Street in Gentilly then, and our sons Barrett and Joe were born while we were there. Later we moved to Castle Manor in New Orleans East, where we were when our third son, Frank, was born. We lived there until my husband died. After that I moved to Slidell.”

She is happy with her full life, helping to raise a dozen grandchildren and five greatgrandchildren, so far. I can personally attest to her importance in the family, as her cell phone never stopped ringing during our second visit. So what does this retired, decorated nurse do now, when she isn’t with family? At 92, she still bowls! Within the past year, she managed to bowl a 200+ game. Admittedly, she now uses a lighter bowling ball, but she has managed to overcome a wrist injury, broken hip, and massive stroke, which temporarily paralyzed her entire left side and affected her speech. Most of you would not realize she went through these injuries, because she is still going strong. Her son Barrett explained, “Luckily, she was in the hospital for an angiogram when she had the stroke and was able to receive immediate treatment. I would categorize her recovery and return to a more than active lifestyle as a modern miracle. She still has so much energy that I can’t even keep up with her! The greatest traits of Mom are her positive attitude and her ability to see the best in every person. Even though she may be in severe pain or things may be going poorly, she never complains. To her, everything is good.” Did I mention that she also volunteers at Ochsner Northshore Hospital, and has earned the designation of Volunteer of the Year? Add to that her active participation with Aldersgate United Methodist Church, National Association of Retired Federal Employees, and American Association of Retired People. And don’t forget the trips with Senior Friends of New Orleans, now H2U (Health to You in Covington), and you can see why it was hard to catch up with Mrs. Mary for her inspirational story. Mary Virginia Howell Christopher can definitely be described as a people person, where family and duty comes first. We are fortunate to have had not only this wonderful woman, but also all of those that my readers now know as “The Greatest Generation”. Her family will be forever fortified by her strong sense of responsibility, and hopefully continue her tradition. She is an inspiration to us all. The younger Mary Christopher describes her mother-in-law as “the last to leave a party or a meeting”. I truly hope you have the pleasure to meet her at one of these events. If we all make an altruistic New Year’s wish, I hope it would be to make a difference, even if only to one person.

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my aunt were alive, she would be one hundred and ten years old. She was my mother’s oldest sister and her name was Florence. Everyone in that family had a nickname, so they called her Flo. She dropped out of school in the fifth grade and was married by the time she was sixteen. She may not have been educated but she was the ultimate storyteller. I have found that most, if not all, of her stories were true; and to hear her tell them in that Southern, less-than-perfect English, would keep you spellbound. One of my favorite stories was about her cousin, Tom. Tom was her Aunt Oneida’s son. They called Oneida, Needer. I will try to tell the story as Aunt Flo did.

“I was about ten years old, and Aunt Needer went off somewhere for about a week. She and Uncle James took the

years older than me. Nobody questioned her about nothing; ‘cause if you did, she would dog cuss you. Even Uncle James wouldn’t argue with her. Word got ‘round about the baby and the neighbors started talking. Most thought she bought it from those gypsies who were camped down by the creek. They camped there ever year on their way to visit the grave of the gypsy queen up in Meridian.

wagon and an old mule they borrowed from PaPa. When she got back, she said she had done born a baby. Now I was about ten years old, and I knew that wern’t possible ‘cause when she left just a few days ago she wern’t even pregnant. That baby boy wern’t no new born neither. I bet he was at least three months old. Anyway, Aunt Needer was a tough old woman. Well, truth tell, she wasn’t that old. She was only about 13

Everybody knew they stole babies and sold them, especially the boys. If they had their choice, they would only steal girls; but since they didn’t have time to inspect them before they ran, sometime they got a boy by mistake. You could buy them cheap, but they kept the girls. Well anyhow, they named him Tom. It wasn’t long until the law came down and brought a couple with them. Their baby had disappeared just before Aunt Needer got Tom. The man said it wern’t theirs,

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I don’t recall it upsetting Aunt Needer much. I think she knew they would bring him back before long. You see, that baby cried all the time. Aunt Needer discovered that the only way to calm him down was to put a little whiskey on a rag and let him suck it. She did this three or four times a day and just before bedtime. If he cried at night, she would give him another whiskey rag. She was right. One day that couple showed up with little Tom and told her it wern’t no way that was their baby. Their baby wouldn’t be that bad. I guess Uncle James and Aunt Needer loved that kid but I am not sure. He was a bad ‘un though. Bad through and through. Burned down Ray Sharpie’s barn smoking in the hay loft when he was five years old. Smoked a pipe. Whitewashed Junior Martin’s Black Angus bull; but most people thought that was funny. Junior didn’t. When old lady Allen died, they dug her grave the day before the funeral. Tom must have been about ten years old. That night he went and filled the grave back up. When that undertaker drove up with that body in the funeral wagon, he didn’t know what to do. Liked to have had a heart attack, dressed in that black suit trying to dig the dirt out of that grave. It was hot that day, I remember. Tom was bad as I said, but he was smart, and liked to go to school. Made good grades too. They had a teacher in them days that liked to drink. Tom started taking him a pint of Uncle James’ whiskey ever Friday in his lunch bag. He would give Tom fifty cents. Well you see, the school folks caught on to it and they kicked Tom out of school. Grandpa was on the school board in those days and he said they wern’t going to kick his nephew out of school unless they fired the teacher too. Well, teachers were hard to find cause it didn’t pay much. They got into an argument and the principal bit off Grandpa’s ear. Then Grandpa pulled out his pistol and shot off the principal’s toe. You should have gone to that trial... but that’s another story. They did not let Tom back in school, and they didn’t fire the teacher either. About that time, Aunt Needer got pregnant for real. She had a little girl and named her Pricilla. They called her Cilly. When she was born, they just forgot about Tom. He drifted about from pillar to post. It wern’t long before we heard he up and killed somebody for calling him a firebug. Tom told the man he had too much class to burn down buildings. He told him that just before he killed him. He went to prison but somehow he got out. Then he killed somebody else and this kept on going. They say he killed 20 men. I don’t rightly know if that is correct or not, but he was bad. Ended up getting murdered himself back in the 1930s.”

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The story Aunt Flo told me about Tom fascinated me. When the internet came out, I began to research him and found out that he indeed had committed several murders. Most were in self-defense, but at least two he had served considerable prison time for. I have only been able to verify ten killings, but in an interview with the Times Picayune shortly before his death, he says he killed twenty. I found out that a great-niece of Tom’s had written a book about him. After reading the book (more of a pamphlet) it was obvious she was trying to clear his name for the sake of the family. I had also done some research on Tom; so the niece, Pat, and I agreed to meet and compare notes. Pat was a delightful lady from Hattiesburg and she and I, along with my Uncle Quentin, who had personally known Tom, spent an entertaining afternoon sharing information. Again, her angle was to clear his name of, at least some, of the accusations. I suppose mine was not to let him off so easy. Pat had a view of life -- no one could be so bad as to take a life so freely. Therefore, her Uncle Tom could not be guilty of all those murders. My Uncle Quentin, now deceased, remembered an incident when he was very small. In those days (1920’s), a favorite rural event was the Fourth of July picnic. It was a big gathering, open to the public, with bands and dance pavilions, and it usually was held by a creek or stream for swimming. On that day, the band was playing and people were dancing when Tom rode up on a big black horse. He fired his pistol in the air and the band stopped playing. He then ordered them to play “Nearer My God to Thee”. Then, he ordered the crowd to bow their heads while he delivered a long prayer. Finally, he rode off firing his pistol in the air. On another occasion, when Cilly was grown and Uncle Quentin’s family was at her house for Thanksgiving dinner, Tom come in unexpectedly. A few unfriendly words were said and he drew his pistol. He then shot the baked turkey off the dining room table. One of the murders he committed was in Mt. Herman, Louisiana. For this, he was given a life sentence at Angola Penitentiary. Judge Patricia Hedges was able to get me a transcript of the trial that occurred in Franklinton in the spring of 1904.

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I don’t know if Tom was guilty or not, but one thing is for sure - he did not get ‘due process’. His trial occurred just two weeks after the murder, and he was not allowed to talk to his defense attorney until the morning of the trial. Tom was a charismatic person and he soon worked his way into being a trustee, giving him more freedom than the average prisoner. He used this privilege to escape and made his way to Tennessee. There, he became a preacher, founded a church, and his congregation

grew to the point that he became famous. Of course, with fame came attention. Soon, the authorities found out who he actually was. To his credit, he turned himself in, and was returned to Louisiana. Tom did not like confinement. About a year after he returned, he escaped again. This time into the swamps and marshes near Angola. His ability to elude his captors was phenomenal, but he could not escape the general area. After a couple of weeks, hungry, sleep deprived, and almost eaten alive by mosquitos, he turned himself in. The record does not exist that tells how he got a pardon; but somehow, by 1913, he was a free man. It did not last long. This time, he killed a man who threw a knife at him in Mississippi. He was sentenced to life in prison again. Again, he became a trustee. He convinced three other men that they could all escape if they cut a hole in the fence and stuck together. On the night of the escape,

Tom waited for his three accomplices to go through the fence. He then shot and killed all three. For this act of bravery, the Governor of Mississippi gave him a pardon for meritorious service. After this, Tom seemed to settle down a little bit. His knowledge of the criminal mind and his knowledge of the penal system became an asset. By 1928, Tom was working as a private contractor for law enforcement, including the U.S. Marshals. He had the best tracking dogs in Mississippi and he was fearless. It is hard to get a solid count, but the best guess is he killed at least two of the fugitives he was tracking. In his later life, he became a debt collector for loan sharks. No one refused Tom when he came to collect. One man told him that he did not have the money but told Tom he would have it in thirty minutes. Tom asked him what he was going to do. The man said that he was going down the road to rob a store. It would be better to face the law than Cousin Tom. That is exactly what the man did; and the jury, knowing the fear that Tom evoked, did not convict him.

Tom also was used by slum lords to evict those who could not, or would not, pay their rent. On a hot July day in 1936, Tom opened the gate to a tenant house with the intent to tell the renter to move out. When the tenant saw who was coming, he shot and killed Tom with a shotgun. The man was not even arrested. It is hard to tell where the legend of Tom ends and the truth begins. I don’t think he was bought from the gypsies, but it does make a good story. There are many other tales of his wrongdoings - some I can verify, and some I cannot. I know that today he is buried not far from his last family home. The house is still standing, but has not been lived in since 1936. The road to his house bears his wife’s name, but few travel it. It is said to be haunted. EPILOGUE: In 2008, Tom’s is niece, Pat, and her husband were brutally beaten, robbed and killed in there Hattiesburg home during a home invasion. Maybe violence just follows that family.

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January 2015

Gliders

Story and Photos by Donna Bush

According to Webster’s dictionary, a glider is “an aircraft that is similar to an airplane but without an engine.” Most people would be like, “What? You’re going flying in a plane without an engine?” Think of it as sailing in the air instead of sailing on the water. And yes, I know most sailboats still have a small engine. Hence, in a glider, we need a tow plane to get us to the starting line, so to speak. I’ve always wanted to go up in a glider, or sailplane, as they are often called. Maybe it goes back to being a kid and watching hawks fly overhead. Maybe it’s all the dreams that I could fly. I got my first opportunity in 1996, March to be precise.

I settle into my seat, getting comfortable. I’m a little nervous, with a few butterflies in my stomach. After all, I’ve never done this before. I look around at the view, our surroundings. I feel a gentle tug as we start to move forward; the slack is pulled out of the rope. We level out, a runner jogging along side us to keep us level. We pass up the runner and we are off the ground, because of our lightness. The plane in front of us throttles up and lifts off the ground, pulling us higher and higher. Ahhh! The view just got tremendously better. We spiral up and up. At 4000-feet, I get the signal to pull the tow release knob to break our ties to the tow plane. WOW! We are flying, gliding, sailing free. AWESOME!!! No noise, just the wind whooshing by as we ride the thermals.

I was in Phoenix, AZ for training for work. No Google searches back then. I had to do it the old-fashioned way, with the Yellow Pages and a hotel room phone. I called a few places and most told me the only shot I had at a glider ride was to come mid-day. Since I was in class all day, I couldn’t do that. I found Turf Soaring School in Peoria, AZ about 35 miles north of Phoenix. I explained the situation; that I was in town for work; that I’d always wanted to go up in a glider but the earliest I could leave would be 4pm. They close at 5pm! They were very hesitant and basically said to call back the next day. Usually that late

in the day, the temperature was dropping and there wasn’t much lift to produce thermals. I called every day, often at lunch or on my afternoon break. It was Thursday and I was scheduled to fly back to New Orleans on Friday. Finally, my persistence paid off and Turf told me to come out that afternoon, but I’d better hurry! Well, not wanting to miss my opportunity, I told my teacher I needed to leave early that afternoon. She was not very pleased, but I was excelling in the class, so she said ok. I was so excited I could barely pay attention the rest of the day. At 4pm on the dot, I raced to my car, my handwritten directions in hand; no GPS,

no cell phone. I didn’t have time to get lost. Well, I soon discovered 4 pm was rush hour in Phoenix and everybody seemed to want to go north! I zigged and zagged around traffic and finally made my way to the glider port in record time. I pulled up to the small building, my heart racing, and hurried inside, where I found several gentlemen waiting for me. Although, I don’t think I needed to identify myself, I introduced myself as Donna, the one who’d been calling all week wanting a glider ride. I guess I’d made an impression on all these guys, many of whom were Alaskan bush pilots part of the year. (They were only in Arizona for a milder winter than where they lived the rest of the year.) As it turned out, my persistence and enthusiasm had been the talk of their week and they had decided they ALL wanted to take me up in the glider. Unfortunately, there was only enough time for one glider ride and that one would be short with the cooling weather. Since only one pilot could go in the glider with me, they drew straws to see who would take me up. John won! And off we went, quickly! I put on my parachute…. just in case. I was given a quick introduction to the glider as we walked around and did our safety check. I was helped into the cockpit, told where I could safely step and touch. YAY!! I’m in the front seat! With a complete set of controls! Can I fly it? The tow plane is in front of us and the towrope connected. Connection checked! John signals the tow plane with the rudder that we are ready for takeoff. The tow plane throttles up and off we go! Wow! I’m really doing this! How cool is this?

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John explains what is going on as we move down the runway. We lift off the ground before the tow plane because of our lightness. We will be towed up to a safe altitude to release. The tow plane will fly back to the airport and we will be on our own. Soaring with the eagles and the hawks! There is a peace like no other when in a glider. Peace and quiet for sure, but also the beauty of flying like a bird, like the eagles and hawks do, with grace and spirit. John explained that gliders stay aloft because of thermals and lift. Thermals are columns of rising air created by heating at the Earth’s surface. When the air near the ground is heated, it expands and rises. Pilots keep an eye out for asphalt parking lots, dark plowed fields, rocky terrain and newly forming cumulus clouds to produce thermals. They also watch birds, such as hawks and eagles that are soaring without flapping their wings. In order to do this, they must be riding a thermal. Once a thermal is found, glider pilots enter and spiral their way up until they reach their desired attitude. Lift is created by wind interacting with mountains. A variometer, which measures rate of climb and descent, uses static pressure to detect changes in altitude. The pilot wants to minimize the amount of drag from the body of the glider, which is done by flying the glider straight through the air. A short, approximately 4-5 inch piece of yarn, known as the tell tale or yaw string, is attached to the windshield of the cockpit, directly in front of the pilot. This string indicates whether the plane is flying streamlined or “yawing.” If the string is straight up,

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After my lesson on how to find thermals, John asks if I’d like to take over the stick and fly a bit. Well, YEAH! So I take control, looking around down below and eyeing a patch of asphalt. I aim in that direction and catch some lift from it and we spiral up another 50 feet. WAY COOL! Considering the chilly temps and setting sun, we do a great job of getting in a thirty-minute ride. It’s time to head for the glider port. John asks if I’m game for a high dive landing. You betcha! We gain as much altitude as we can and begin our descent, screaming towards the earth. Talk about an adrenalin rush! I was grinning from ear to ear, heart racing and enjoying every minute. Not bad for a girl who doesn’t like roller coasters! We come in hot and fast, level out, and pull up by the main building where all the guys are waiting to see what I thought of my glider ride. Well, I’m pretty sure the huge smile on my face told the whole story. After a few camaraderie beers, I head to my hotel to do homework, still with a smile on my face and my heart soaring high.

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My next two glider rides over the years to come were aerobatic rides, including barrel rolls and loops, etc. My last aerobatic ride was back at Turf in 2003; this time in May, with weather much better suited for soaring. None of the guys from my first flight are there. They are all back at their summer locations. I pull up and ask for an aerobatic ride. I’m told Scott will be right out. I see this really young kid walk out and I’m a little concerned. We get all set up with the glider and the tow plane. As we start our taxi out, I ask Scott about his experience with gliders. Ha! It seems my young pilot won the aerobatic glider competition the week before in Tucson! What a ride! I asked about the type of maneuvers executed in a competition. He would answer with “Cloverleaf. Want to do one?” and off we would go. In addition to the cloverleaf, we also executed a hammerhead, barrel roll, several different loops, a humpty bump and, of course, another high dive, low pass landing.

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Before the end of my hour ride, I once again took control, found a thermal and soared with the hawks. Most anyone can enjoy a ride in a glider, whether you choose to try an aerobatic or just a normal glider ride. Typically the minimum age for a rider is 12, but there is no maximum. I gave my friend, Shirley, a glider ride for her 90th birthday at Coastal Soaring Association located between Mobile and Pensacola at Elsanor Airport. Their website is www.coastalsoaring.org.

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Unfortunately, since Katrina, there aren’t any closer rides available. But, if you are traveling and would like to add a little unusual excitement to your trip, check out the Soaring Society of America website, www.ssa.org to see if glider rides are available where you’re traveling. I did this on my recent trip to Santa Rosa, California and found Crazy Creek Air Adventures in Middletown, CA where my husband and I enjoyed a two passenger spectacular glider ride over scenic Napa Valley with views of San Francisco Bay, Mt Helena, Calistoga and even geo thermals that provide power to the area. Sit back, take off and soar with the eagles!

Papa’s Backyard Bar-B-Q Wait - you haven’t heard of Papa’s? That’s no surprise. The place is hidden behind a strip mall on Old Spanish Trail. The best description I’ve heard: “Next to the barber shop.” There aren’t that many barber shops in Slidell, so you have at least a chance of finding it using those directions. I noticed Papa’s a few years ago for no good reason. It took me until last month to try it out. In the back of my mind, I didn’t want to get my hopes up because, if it was good, I figured there is no way a place so hidden could survive. My mistake, because it is good and I don’t think it’s going anywhere. As I waited for my food, a procession of happy regular customers came in and out.

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The MUTT tasted a lot better than it looks! We also tried the wings. Unlike a lot of fried wings you’re able to get around town, this variety are smoked then tossed in one of 3 sauces. We had both the spicy and honey sauce and enjoyed both.

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Did you know that last year there were over three thousand calls for help to Safe Harbor from individuals involved in domestic violence or abuse in St. Tammany Parish? Did you know that one in four women over the course of a life time will experience abuse? Did you know that one in three dating relationships is abusive? Did you know that little boys who witness abuse in their homes are eight times more likely to be violent than other little boys? Safe Harbor provides free, confidential, 24 hour direct service to survivors of domestic, family, and dating violence in St. Tammany and Washington Parishes. Established in 1991, Safe Harbor’s Domestic Violence Program is the only one in St. Tammany Parish that provides shelter exclusively for survivors and their minor children who are rendered homeless because of domestic abuse.

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on the basis of their ability to protect, to cherish, and to provide for their families and their community. Leading up to the gala, the candidates stay busy, conducting their campaigns to battle the shameful and malignant situation that is domestic violence in our community. Board member, Ron Davis, says, ““Of course the main reason for the Real Man Gala is to raise operating money for Safe Harbor, but also just as valuable is the opportunity for us to be able to get the word out about who we are and the important things we do regarding fighting the effects of domestic violence in today’s world. Domestic violence has for too long been a subject that has been swept under the rug and events such as the Real Man Gala helps raise awareness of something that is happening every day in our own back yards.”

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John is married and has two grown sons, both of whom were married in 2014! In addition to decades of serving his community through his business and charity, John has gained much recognition from his brilliant tales as “The Storyteller” in this very publication, Slidell Magazine. He is an amazing writer and talented photographer. (Granted, we ARE his biggest fans! Goooo JOHN!) He enjoys dining out, particularly at Christopher’s on Carey, where his son is the chef. He has been a president of the East St. Tammany Chamber of Commerce and is extremely involved in Rotary. John is a graduate of Leadership Northshore and a member of the Independent Insurance Association. He has served on the Slidell Planning Commission and the St. Tammany Parish Flood Elevation Variance Board. John was fortunate to have not been raised in an abusive situation, but he is passionate about helping stem the tide of domestic violence. As a Real Man Candidate, he speaks frequently to groups about the necessity to support Safe Harbor. He is keenly aware that abusers are always going to be around and that the community needs to support those who wish to break away from abuse.

Bill Davis is the Chief Executive Officer of Slidell Memorial Hospital. He is married and has four beautiful children. A selfavowed family man, he enjoys spending time with his family and nature. Bill serves on several medical boards, but manages to contribute back to his community through serving on the boards of the St. Tammany Economic Development District, The East St. Tammany Chamber of Commerce and STARC, a non-profit organization serving developmentally disabled citizens. “When I hear about domestic violence, specifically in St. Tammany, I am shocked. I am aware of domestic violence as an issue, but to know that it affects that many people in our very own community is a wake-up call. It is a nearly silent epidemic and that is unacceptable. Not only do we need to bring this issue to the forefront of discussions, but we also need to take action to eradicate it. We need to make it into something other than just another problem to solve; we need to think about the individuals as our own mothers, fathers, daughters, brothers and children. When we feel anger that this exists in our community, we need to ask ourselves, “If I don’t do something about it, then who will?” No individual can do everything to stop domestic violence but each of us can do something.”

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Mike has been a resident of Slidell for 40 years where he is Director of Public Operations for the City of Slidell. He is very active in civic affairs, donating time and effort, as well as fundraising, for Boy Scouts of America and Keep Slidell Beautiful. He is the co-chair of Christmas Under that Stars for Slidell and donates time as a volunteer for Ashley’s Angels. He is married to his beautiful school sweetheart, Lisa, and is the proud father of a beautiful daughter who will graduate from LSU in May. Mike is emphatic in his belief that domestic violence is a disgrace to our society. “No human being should ever have to be the victim of physical or verbal abuse. Friends and family should be vigilant regarding the signs of domestic abuse and address the issue.”

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Charles Klepfer is the owner/operator of CiCi’s Pizza in Slidell and has served the Slidell community for 18 years. He is a 2013 graduate of Leadership Northshore and currently serves on the board of directors. He has served as vice-president for the Slidell Youth Basketball Association and is a 2014 Director on the National Biddy Basketball. He and his wife are the parents of four beautiful daughters. Charles gives generously to this community through funding, coaching, donations of his time and talents. Charles has no qualms about his passion for Safe Harbor. As a father of four girls, he is keenly aware of the statistics that one in four women will be abused over the course of a life time. His fears are grounded in fact and he is dedicated to turning back the tide of domestic abuse. He feels the silence on domestic abuse is deafening.

Dan commented, “I hope my participation in the Real Man Program will bring attention to the problem of domestic violence. Women under the stress of domestic violence need to know that they have options. They need to know that they can have a better life. Publicizing Safe Harbor is one good way to let more people know what can be done. “

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John is a native of Slidell where he lives with his wife Angel and his three children. He has also raised his niece who recently graduated from cosmotology school. He works as an insurance consultant for Eustis Benefits. He referees sports with Little League, Junior High, High School, College, and Semi-Pro. He is a 2013 graduate of Leadership Northshore and currently serves as a mentor to their project groups. John believes that domestic violence can have serious and lasting effects on women and children. “Just as hopeless as the women feel, I feel the same way knowing that it goes on every day and I am just not able to stop it. Let’s ban together and raise awareness. My heart goes out to the children and women who go through these events.”

Dan is a free lance photographer. He retured after 32 years of weather reporting at WDSU-TV, where he now holds the title of Chief Meteorologist Emeritus. Dan is active in many civic causes through his membership in the Rotary Club of Metarie and as Public Relations for the New Orleans Medical Mission Services.

Jay is an oncologist who is raising three college-aged daughters to become successful and independent. He hopes they will grow up knowing their worth because he believes that learning the skills to be successful and independent will be essential in finding a partner who will treat them successfully. He remarks that, among his many interests, being a Dad is his favorite thing. Jay thinks that domestic violence is in many families and comes in many forms. He believes that it is all too frequently swept under the rug in our society. “The only way to make things better is to recognize that there is a problem, get it out in the open and deal with it!”

Some very REAL statistics on why the Real Men of St. Tammany event is so important: Domestic violence is a real and pervasive problem in Louisiana which is compounded by a lack of adequate resources for response.  Louisiana has the 4th highest rate of female homicide in the nation. 97% of these women knew their assailant and 70% of those victims were wives, ex-wives or girlfriends of their assailant. Women are murdered at a rate about 40% higher than the national average in Louisiana. We consistently lead the nation in domestic homicides and have ranked in the top 5 every year since 1997.  There was at least one domestic homicide in EVERY PARISH in Louisiana between 1997 – 2009.  Louisiana has 18 shelters compared to South Carolina with a similar population which has 24. We have fewer shelters than both Oregon and Oklahoma, which have 1 million fewer residents than Louisiana.  According to statistics collected by DCFS, Louisiana domestic violence shelters provided almost 91,000 nights of emergency shelter in the last year and took more than 38,000 crisis calls. The programs documented more than 1800 unmet needs during that time period due to low staﬀ and full shelter beds.  2010 research by the University of Iowa finds that the cost to society of a single homicide is $17.25 million.  Louisiana has a higher than average rate of multiple death domestic violence incidents.The average is about 30%, ours is 39% and often includes extended family and, 10% of the time, bystanders.

SAFE HARBOR STATISTICS: FY 2013-2014 (Jul 1 – Jun 30)

• Provided services - 328 residential and nonresidential survivors (of which, 25 nonresidential children, 242 nonresidential women, and 2 men) • Sheltered - 31 women and 28 children (total 59) • Answered crisis calls – 2,558 times • Assistance with the preparation of Petitions for Protective Orders - 23 • Court escorts - 76 • Transported survivors in agency van 537 times TURNED AWAY: From January 1, 2014 to August 31, 2014, Safe Harbor had to locate services elsewhere and provide transportation when needed for 154 women and 159 children because their emergency shelter was at capacity. YOU can help prevent this from happening!

Come and Celebrate These Great men!

Harbor Center Sunday, January 25, 2015 at 6PM

TICKETS: $100 per Person

Silent & live auctions catering to the interests of men Cocktails • Dinner • Entertainment Music by Witness! The stories of the Real Men will be told as they are honored for their heroic efforts.

A rock & roll gala with a Super Hero theme!

Get online and vote for the Real Man of your choice for only ten dollars! Everyone can save a life by their donations.

The 2014 Real Man of St.Tammany winner, Otis Favre, is revealed at last year’s gala

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Palette Story and Art by Lori Gomez

For many years now one of my favorite things to do has been to work with musicians. I have been very fortunate to have had the opportunity to work with Vince Vance through the years. Vince took me under his wing because he believed in me and my work. Since 2009, whenever he hosted his Louisiana Music Legends shows at Rock & Bowl in New Orleans, he would invite me to participate. He would tell me who he would be featuring and I would do a painting of that person to feature at the show. These amazing musicians would come check out the paintings and then sign them. The list includes Irma Thomas, Rockin Dopsey Jr, Al “Carnival Time” Johnson and Vince, to name a few. I’ve also had the opportunity to work with the legendary Ronnie Kole on several occasions. I don’t know how many of you know that Ronnie has played the piano for SIX presidents. I can’t even grasp the magnitude of that. It is because of his generous spirit that I asked if I could paint his portrait when I learned he would be inducted into The Louisiana Music Hall of Fame. Ronnie graciously signed that painting, and it hangs over my piano in my music room. I will cherish it always. I have also had the honor of Ronnie playing both the “Legends” and “Beatles” pianos that I restored and painted for Habitat. The reason I love doing these paintings is because it is a celebration of the musical artists. Musicians, like visual artists, are some of the hardest working

people you will ever meet. They work weekends and holidays during some of the craziest hours. I think those efforts are not always appreciated by people. There are a lot of sacrifices involved. Artists are the foundation of our Louisiana culture, for sure. Can you even imagine a world without music or art? I cannot. As a Artist, I feel as though my work documents history - and music is an inspiration and the soundtrack. New Orleans musicians especially hold a special place in my heart. Our New Orleans culture is unlike any other place in the world. When you listen and watch our musicians play, it demands your attention. They play from the deepest part of themselves. They speak through their instruments. One night years ago, while walking through the French Quarter, there was a man they call ‘Grandpa Elliott’ sitting on the corner singing “A Change is Gonna Come”. He was accompanied by another musician whose name I didn’t know. It was the best rendition of that song I have ever heard. No fancy instruments or digital anything - just pure, straight from the heart, storytelling through a song. I promise you, it was better than anything you will ever hear on TV. It inspired me to do a painting of him, which remains one of my favorites because of the memory of that night. I now know that my love of music was inherited. I recently attended my cousin Jimmy Anselmo’s induction

into the Louisiana Music Hall of Fame. That night will go down in Louisiana music history as legendary. It was a night I will never forget. Many of the best musicians in the world honored Jimmy. My dear friend Vince Vance was there, as well as Dr. John, Al Johnson, Marsha Ball, Michael O’Hara and Deacon John, just to name a few. It was a nonstop feast for the ears and heart at Generations Hall in New Orleans. I just couldn’t believe I was sitting there witnessing it. Well, let’s be honest... I didn’t sit at all! I danced my heart out! When great music is playing, my body takes over and I have to get my boogie on. (In retrospect, the choice to wear stilettos wasn’t a good one.) Although Jimmy plays trumpet, that was not why he was inducted, or why so many musicians showed up to honor him. Jimmy is the first nightclub owner to be inducted into the La. Music Hall of Fame. Many well known musicians started out at Jimmy’s club in the 70’s. He is a well known and well respected figure in New Orleans. Jimmy first opened Co-Ed’s in 1966. In 1972, he opened Quasimodo’s. Both were bars on Maple Street in New Orleans. But neither was a music club. On April 9, 1978, Jimmy’s Music Club opened and a new chapter in New Orleans music history began. The first two shows starred Little Queenie and the Percolators and the Neville Brothers. He has presented many New Orleans greats such as Earl King, Professor Longhair, and James Booker.

He also took advantage of the punk rock and new wave scenes with two now-legendary bands, The Cold and The Sheiks. In 1986, he began booking national acts such as The Gregg Allman Band and Muddy Waters. When MTV began to change the music industry, Jimmy tapped into the new market. He began booking groups like Flock of Seagulls and the Red Rockers. His club is iconic. In 2012, Jimmy received The Best of the Beat’s Lifetime Achievement Award in Music Business. The legacy goes even further, back to his father, Jimmy King Anselmo Sr., my great uncle. In 1943, Jimmy Sr. opened The Little Blue Room and, in 1946, the Mardi Gras Lounge on Bourbon St., both of which featured musical acts. What a great part of my family history! I only became aware of Jimmy a few years ago. But I am so proud to call him my cousin. It’s amazing how members of the same family can all be pulled in similar directions without ever knowing it. For the past year, I have been working with the folks from

Bacon Popcorn ¾ cup popcorn kernels ½ cup bacon fat 2 tbsp. parmesan cheese, grated ½ tsp. Slap Ya Mamma or Tony’s seasoning ½ tsp. ground rosemary 1 tsp. popcorn salt or regular salt. 1. Use a 12 qt. pot that has a lid that fits securely 2. Melt bacon fat 3. Add popcorn seeds the Bayou Boogaloo Festival in New Orleans to bring a 3 day music festival to Slidell. We are in the very early stages of trying to make it happen. I hope to have some concrete information in the months to come. If you would have asked me two years ago if I would be involved in a project like this, I would have thought you were crazy. But, then again, I didn’t know I would be writing for Slidell Magazine either! For this month’s recipe, I thought I would share a recipe that is a sure hit when you have company. So much so, you may want to make several batches. It’s so good, I have to limit how often I make it.

4. As soon as you start to hear the fat sizzle, add rosemary. If you add it too soon, it might burn. 5. Place a kitchen towel over the top of the pot and swirl the pot in small circles to help move the seeds around. 6. Once the popcorn finishes popping, pour into a large bowl. 7. Add the parmesan cheese right away to the warm popcorn so that it sticks to the popcorn and doesn’t end up on the bottom of the bowl. 8. Add the rest of the seasonings and toss a couple of times. It is quite addictive. I hope you enjoy it!