ETIQUESTIONS

With Dr. Barbara Baggerly-Hinojosa

When I attend events, I am always a little at a loss when the hostess tells everyone to begin getting their food from the buffet, but no one moves. Is it rude to be the first one to get food?

No, it is not rude at all if the hostess has invited you to begin getting your food In fact, it is a bit rude not to start if the hostess has already given you the invitation.

Now is the time to attend all types of summer activities like weddings, gatherings, etc. What is the general rule for sending the RSVP and host gifts?

Summer is a fun time for gatherings If you receive an invitation to request an RSVP, it is important to do it as soon as possible Make sure to let the host know that you will be attending and never take a plus 1 unless the invitation specifies Also, never show up empty handed Always take a small host gift. Candles happen to be the number one hostess gift.

Phone Etiquette? What is the acceptable timeline for responding to text messages?

A recent survey says that people respond to text messages within 3 minutes! However, do not feel pressure to respond immediately Acknowledge you received the message, but respond at a convenient time when you can pay attention to your response and be thoughtful