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Etiquestions
ETIQUESTIONS
Dr. Barbara Baggerly-Hinojosa
We have been invited to several holiday parties at our friends’ homes. I always struggle with whether or not I should take a gift. Is it appropriate to take a gift, and if so, what kind of gift?
Tis the season! This is a great question that I get a lot. It is always a great idea to take a host/hostess gift when invited to someone’s home. Some of my favorites are flowers, wine, etc. but try to make the gift personable. Think about what the host/hostess likes, and find a small token of your appreciation that would be appreciated. Never show up empty handed.
I recently attended an event at a friend’s home, and there were a lot of people. When I entered the home, I really didn’t know what to do because of all the people. What do you suggest I do in those circumstances?
Oftentimes parties, especially during the holiday season, are well attended, and the host/hostess may not be answering the door. A good rule of thumb is to enter, say hello to everyone who is standing by the door, and find the host/hostess quickly. You want to let him/her know that you are there, and you should give them a small gift. It is possible that the host/hostess is super busy so just say hello, give the gift, then start to mingle with the guests.
My company is having a holiday party, and it has been some time since we gathered socially. What are some holiday party tips you can share?
Holiday parties are fun and a great way to spend some down time with your colleagues. First, dress appropriately for the occasion. Choose an outfit that reflects the festive season, but be conservative. Second, try to avoid in-depth discussions about business...especially if clients are in attendance. Next, be mindful of how much alcohol you are consuming. A good rule of thumb is one glass. Finally, make sure to express your appreciation to management for hosting the party.
