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BY PEET NOURJIAN
AT ONE TIME THE RAILROAD CAME TO BE HOW WE DIVIDED SOCIETY THE MIDDLE CLASS AND WELL TO DO ENJOYED LIFE WITH AN OCEAN VIEW WHILE SOME WITHOUT GREW UP IN SHACKS ON THE OTHER SIDE OF THE TRACKS
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THE IMPACT ON SOCIETY & CULTURE BY THE ME, ME, ME GENERATION(S)
C-SUITE THOUGHTS
ot all of you reading this piece were born when actor Clint Eastwood (who turns 95 years old on May 31 – Happy Birthday, Clint) played Detective Harry Callahan in the hit movie Sudden Impact (1983), the fifth film in the iconic Dirty Harry crime drama series. Fewer may recall Callahan’s uttering decisively potent words, marked by his dry and gravel tone to his younger and naïve—but boastful—superior officer, during a dust-up, “You’re a legend in your own mind.”
For those of you with vivid recollection and having an opportunity to use the actor’s
words as a response to the ‘know-it-all’ generations (who don’t have an inkling of experience in a wide range of subjects or face responsibilities to make important life choices), we expect you’ll find a connection to at least a few points made within.
For perspective, the Greatest Generation (1901-1927) and the Silent Generation (1928-1945) were remarkably able-bodied and loyal to their country; both graduated from what was called the School of Hard Knocks. They fought wars and suffered innumerable hardships but mustered the strength to endure and succeed. What followed was vastly different and a turning point—not for the better in some cases.
The Baby Boomers are remembered in
journals as the generation that splintered partly due to the size of its population. They were the protesters against war; they embarked on the feminist movement and bolstered a counterculture tossing away traditional norms and values. However, they were instrumental in changing the music of the day and into the future. With these impacts, as they aged, some passed down the radical beliefs they learned or were indoctrinated with on college campuses, while others chose a more conservative tone and lifestyle. More importantly, it was the childrearing effects they had on their offspring and those who would follow.
You see, with each passing day, more extreme thoughts and actions were
“You’re a legend in your own mind”
becoming normalized and tied to progressive iterations. The combination of changing values, accompanied by advances in technology, resulted in the highly bright children and young adults making up GenX and Millennials. Still, these same parents seemed to have lost sight of the fact that not everyone is equal, deserving, or entitled.
Highlighting this cultural change can be traced to the final days of the 20th Century (around the 1990s) when, for the purpose of enhancing children’s self-esteem, the practice of awarding a trophy to everyone for simply showing up and participating began. At the same time, children were coddled and overprotected,
like porcelain dolls; let us not forget those famous words that rang incessantly from parents, teachers, and those sensitive to contemporary society and the youth of the day—even though many disagreed— “everyone’s a winner.”
With the promise of unprecedented equality regardless of innate talent, the drilling of pseudo success without producing, and paradoxically, the fostering of a culture driven to profound isolation due to technology, we have cultivated generations increasingly defined by selfabsorption that could rightly be named the “Me, Me, Me” generation.
Obsessed with personal branding and instant gratification, these now
young and even adults as old as 40-45 exhibit a disturbing trend of disrespect, selfishness, and narcissism, eroding the very foundations of our culture and society.
The most immediate and visible casualty of this self-centeredness is the decline of respect for others. In a world where social media metrics dictate self-worth, human interaction becomes transactional. Empathy, once a cornerstone of social cohesion, is replaced by a relentless pursuit of personal validation. The constant barrage of curated online personas creates a distorted reality where others are reduced to mere props in the theater of self. This form of manifestation diminishes the capacity for active listening, a flippant dismissal
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CREATE LEGACIES Dreams
What It Took To Add Another Spoke To The Transportation Hub Of The SouthCoast
BY STEVEN CHAN
On Tuesday, March 11, 2025, just after noon, for the first time in nearly 65 years, a commuter train engine pushed a line of doubledecker passenger cars down a railroad track, roaring toward the New Bedford Seaport. The engineer and staff came to welcome and invite two guests aboard. However, before they could enter one of the massive cars, it had first to pass State Senator Mark C. Montigny and me.
The glistening train chattered and gently rocked; the sound of steel on steel provided an unfamiliar but pleasant rhythm as it slowly moved on. At that moment, I caught a few nearly audible words wrapped in what sounded like a breath of relief coming from the Senator’s direction—it appeared he had ostensibly understood the gravity of the moment and couldn’t help but to say, “I can’t believe this is happening.”
He had done his best to curtail the apparent flood of emotions; they were precisely what was expected. But witnessing a man’s lifelong dream come to fruition had to elicit a reaction, which caused me to smile and quietly respond with similar inflection and a touch of humor: “Mark, you deserve all the credit;
it only took 30 years [34 to be exact] for it to get here.” Christmas arrived early this year, with the exception that today’s gift would never fit under a Christmas tree; if it were not for the Senator’s tireless ambition, dedication, and unyielding commitment to see the SouthCoast Rail project completed, we would not have been standing on a platform, but instead, an empty lot staring down vacant tracks much like when Montigny posed on the cover of SOCO Magazine’s inaugural issue in June 2005, matched with the headline, “Where’s The Train?”
The arrival and inspection of the engine and its cars acknowledged Montigny’s efforts. During his entire political career, he fought opposition from Beacon Hill and at the Federal level for the people and communities he represented. He believed then and now that they, too, deserved the same access to Boston that so many others had enjoyed and benefited from over the years. This remarkable achievement is officially his legacy.
THE JOURNAL
To know the story is to understand where it began. To do this, we reference the outstanding work of the then-writer/reporter for our magazine, Rona Trachtenberg, who researched and interviewed the Senator nearly twenty years ago.
In 1991, the president of the Fall
Finally,
AFTER WHAT TURNED OUT TO BE ONE OF THE MOST MONUMENTAL TASKS THE STATE HAS EVER COMPLETED, ON MARCH 24, 2025, THE SOUTHCOAST RAIL PROJECT WENT ONLINE WITH PASSENGERS BOARDING WHAT WE, THE MAGAZINE, HAVE AFFECTIONATELY NAMED ‘THE SOUTHCOAST EXPRESS. ’
In 2003, the estimate for completing the SouthCoast Rail Project was around $670 million, (upon opening day when the train transport its first passengers, the estimate cost to complete will be approximately $1.047 billion) and that didn’t include purchasing the tracks or rights to access from CSX; they own 47 miles of iron and the right-of-way from Stoughton to New Bedford. From statements obtained, individuals asserted that Romney instructed his people to negotiate the use of the tracks. Montigny believed that any effort to come to terms was “taken off the table” since he had hosted meetings between CSX and the MBTA, but the administration never appeared. In Montigny’s words, “CSX told me that their appraisals [of the value of the track] were
gathering dust on the shelf because the Governor’s office hadn’t contacted them.”
Finally, the State House and Senate agreed and voted to fund $9 million for permitting work that would be necessary by the Army Corp of Engineers, the DEP, and federal legislators. While this looked promising, Romney vetoed the action and reduced the award to $6.6 million. Still determined, Montigny got legislation passed to look at a faster and less expensive concept; rather than follow the usual construction process, he moved to a design-and-build model. His insight into the persistent delays and restarts was to incorporate information and changes into the work as it progressed so that there wasn’t a static plan but rather a project that was allowed to be fluid and flexible.
relative to a viable solution, as none was in sight. Finally, then Congressman Barney Frank stepped up with a suggestion: “Elect a new governor,” and in 2007, Deval Patrick was elected to the State’s highest office.
FAST-TRACKED—SORT OF
Having someone in your court makes a difference, as found when the newly elected governor filed a bond bill for $4.8 billion, which included funds for the SouthCoast Rail Project in November 2007. This action was followed by Montigny, in March of 2008, increasing Patrick’s rail earmark and securing an additional $30 million. With money in hand and a fresh outlook, progress began to take shape, although it was still at a snail’s pace. Finally, in September of 2013, two events marked the inevitable: the Army Corp of Engineers Envior Impact Report gave its blessing to the Stoughton route, followed by a ceremony at the proposed rail station in New Bedford, announcing the Corp findings and decision.
In 2014, the Legislative delegation secured $2.3 million for the ongoing project, in addition to Senate-level funding prevailing over the House by $100 million.
SHOVELS IN THE GROUND
It wasn’t long after Governor Charlie Baker took office that he announced that Phases 1 and 2 were in the works for the rail project; then, in July of 2019, state officials ceremonially broke ground, a clear indication the train was coming around the corner.
On August 24, 2020, major construction on the line began. Contracts were awarded for signal systems, part of Phase 1, with the building of six new stations to follow: Middleborough, East Taunton, Freetown, Fall River, and New Bedford.
As many have watched, there have been a host of delays and setbacks—bureaucracy has a way of mucking up progress. However, after internal reorganization and countless public meetings addressing many hazards to vault over, including track condition and access, signaling and safety equipment, layover facilities, and stations, it was time to take the final steps and get approval to operate.
THE LAST MILE
Over the last few months, essential landmarks have passed, including the operation being transferred to Keolis; which runs the rail system. Schedule announcements posted for the public, qualification runs and demonstrations, items like painting lines in the parking
lots, landscaping, and the hundreds of tasks that go unseen but will make riders’ experiences most pleasurable.
Finally, after what turned out to be one of the most monumental tasks the State has ever completed, on March 24, 2025, the SouthCoast Rail Project went online with passengers boarding what we, the magazine, have affectionately named ‘The SouthCoast Express.’
What needs to be said and always kept in the forefront of our minds is that, if it weren’t for a State Senator from a place that has been beaten up by bullies for as long as it has existed, its future and people would never had discovered the many benefit from the spoils of previous defeats. No longer will they be pushed aside or considered lesser citizens; from lessons learned and future experiences, they will come to enjoy the acclamation of new opportunities and lifestyles they read about but were outside of their reach.
The SouthCoast has been plagued with a reputation and image that hasn’t been easily changed. Still, many have and continue to try to build a viable brand and attract attention. With this new link to the most advanced and prosperous city in the country, significant influence on the socio-economic, intellectual, and creative culture of the region will be passed on. ‘The SouthCoast Express’ (such a good name) is going to open the area to an influx of excitement, ideas, and inventiveness, compounded by efforts to level up to those living in the Hub and bedroom communities close to Boston.
With a new mode of transportation comes an exchange of norms and expectations. The new rail system will provide more than a ride north; while some view it as a utility, essentially, it will become a catalyst for positive change. Unfortunately, as we begin to celebrate, we hear from some who are never pleased, seem to feel challenged, or are afraid of the unknown. Noise focused on collateral damage, specifically market rents, congestion, and outsiders infiltrating the status quo, is festering. A question in need of an answer is, where have these people been for the last 30+ years? Did they believe, as a community, we could remain isolated from reality and prosperity? Or do they need to hook on to causes, demonstrate dissatisfaction and resistance, then make headlines followed by face-time to self-promote with an eye on a future in politics? This will be entertaining to watch as it unfolds.
Is it time for a reality check and resilient leadership? Like it or not, the SouthCoast has finally made it to the world stage. The throngs of visitors,
tourists, and those considering making one of the many coastal towns their home base or summer residence will judge and evaluate the area’s viability and attractiveness with a visit. Another question in many minds is, “Do we want them to see panhandlers, people living in tents, or trash built up on roadways where the train enters and exits the city?” Such thoughts are not divisive; they serve as constructive points of view that begin a conversation about whether people are attracted rather than repulsed by a first or maybe their only impression.
There is an opportunity to embrace and show appreciation for the extraordinary effort Senator Montigny put into this once-in-a-lifetime project. It isn’t by complaining or finding fault due to economies of scale. Instead, all ships should rise with this new incoming tide by restoring pride and self-efficacy. It’s about lifting people up and giving them the tools necessary to change their situation, grow, and advance to their full potential.
OF COURSE WE HAVE AN OPINION
Being open to concepts outside one’s wheelhouse and advancing opinions fortifies connections and can be enlightening. In speaking with a sample of citizens living on the SouthCoast, we noticed a change in attitudes never suspected. Some residents and representatives who were very vocal about the need for rail service are having second thoughts now that it’s arrived—some are showing signs of distancing themselves from earlier positions, while conversely, opponents are miraculously embracing the ‘train’ and plan to ride the rails. It would have been impossible to predict this juxtaposition of attitudes previously, but what matters most is the refreshing attitudes and openness to accept—and admire—a dream that took an enormous amount of time and effort but is now a reality.
This month, we document and memorialize an event that we wholeheartedly wish to be successful. Over the years, we have not been fans of this project and still have concerns about its expense and viability, but, more importantly, we understand that openness to ideas and values is vital for growth and development. In politics and publishing, you’re only approved, at any given time, by about 50 percent of your audience. The goal is always to keep that balance; as of today, we’ve met the challenge and look forward to continuing to be a critical voice for the region’s continued growth. H
Hats Off
Given the many false promises over decades, some residents reasonably remained skeptical of SouthCoast Rail, but we can finally say that the trains are rolling into New Bedford.
It’s incredible to look back on my position as a chamber of commerce executive prior to my legislative career when I challenged Governor Weld to deliver for our region, and he responded with the famous ‘sue me’ commitment. We never sued the governor, but I pushed forward as soon as I was elected to the Senate, securing the early feasibility and environmental studies necessary to keep the project alive.
I kept pushing forward with more capital funding and a directive to begin implementing the work in the so-called southern triangle from New Bedford up to Taunton; my feeling was that by sinking enough money into the project, it would be nearly impossible for the State to abandon the effort.
Our region was not going to take no for an answer. With Governor Baker’s support, we finally achieved that milestone; the trains have arrived, but with them comes a great deal of work and responsibility because of our success.
I’m also immensely proud to have played a key role in spurring the revival of New Bedford’s downtown area through state funding and tax credits for institutions like the Zeiterion Theater, the Star Store, and our museums. State investments have leveraged the work of our artists and business communities, allowing us to push forward with the redevelopment of the artery known as Route 18, connecting the vitality of our cultural renaissance to the precious and world-famous working waterfront.
While I continue to lead the ongoing redevelopment of the state pier, it’s time to celebrate the commuter rail. New Bedford is now the hub for those in search of coastal living and lifestyles.
Senator Mark C. Montigny
WORN-TORN & SKEPTICAL, IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE?
BY STEVEN CHAN
Navigating the intricate landscape of modern relationships between men and women presents a unique set of challenges; some are good, while others are questionable. Blame it on enhanced educational opportunities, the availability of enlightening experiences, or the impact technology has had on broadening the audience of potential mates—more significant than one could have ever imagined. Regardless, there is no turning back to the traditions or dynamics of coupling of previous generations.
There has been an obvious shift within the culture; subsequently, society has taken an unexpected turn, leaving behind rigid expectations and rituals of dating and relationship protocols, along with the blurring of traditional roles that fueled partnering for a lifetime.
While generalizations about financial motivation or emotional unavailability often surface as reasons many avoid the ‘dating scene,’ the reality is more nuanced. The core issue lies in a confluence of expectations and a breakdown in effective communication, creating a chasm where compatibility and partnership should thrive.
One significant factor is a shifting economic landscape. Traditionally, men were viewed as the primary financial resource, and women were responsible for the family. While this model still exists, it has been significantly altered. Today, women’s increasing participation in the workforce has led to greater financial independence, changing the parameters of their partnerships. Such a shift, while positive in many ways, has also contributed to anxieties surrounding role reversals, leaving females in a position
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ARTISTS
Paul Cézanne: French (Aix-en-Provence, France) 1839-1906
Still Life with Commode | c. 1887-88
Cézanne is recognized for his specialized technique of manipulating perspective through a series of short brushstrokes that causes his works to look as if a three-dimensional perspective has been removed. Such effort was clearly intentional from the many still lifes he produced over his lifetime.
Hilaire-Germain-Edgar Degas: French (Paris, France) 1834-1917
The Rehearsal | c. 1873-78
In an example of Degas’ earlier works, the subject of performance often appears throughout his career as an artist in many media. This work was redone by removing a stairwell while adding more rhythm to the dancer’s movements. Here, he uniquely captures the subconsciousness of the dancer and maestro, capturing the mood of uncertainty, if not curiosity.
Edouard Manet: French (Paris, France) 1832-1883
Skating | 1877
Not readily acknowledged by a glance, the impressionist work is that of a newly acquired pastime: roller skating. Paris was enthralled with the sport and had five rinks that hosted the most fashionable men and women of the period. The subject, Henriette Hauser, the mistress of the Prince of Orange, is dressed atypically of the time, shedding the usual all-black day dress for something a bit more flamboyant. Manet is known to have painted her many times.
Joan Miró: Spanish (Barcelona, Spain) 1893-1983
Palma de Mallorca, Spain
Mural | 1935, Oil on asbestos panel Miró is recognized for what has been cited as “[a] surrealist fascination with the conscious, developing symbolic, schematic pictorial language based on monstrous figurations culled from the violent interactions of the interwar period.” With certainty, the style of colorful abstract lines and forms create an untidy expression of spontaneity, even though Miró spent countless hours carefully mapping out each detail and placement of the figures.
John Singer Sargent: American (Florence, Italy) 1856-1925 London, England
The Breakfast Table (Miss Violet Sargent) | 1883-84
A master of observation, Sargent reproduces life in his works by “cultivating” the simplest of tasks; here, he captures his sister pealing an orange at the table but creates startling activity by accentuating the many shapes, surfaces, and colors of the surroundings. The lighting, simplistic but glimmering, adds realism to the impressionist painting.
Vincent van Gogh: Dutch (Groot Zundert (Zundert) The Netherlands), 1853-1890 Auvers-sur-Oise, France
Self-Portrait Dedicated to Paul Gauguin | 1888 Vincent van Gogh had moved to France hoping to create an art colony of sorts. With a love of portraiture, he encouraged artists of the time to do themselves and exchange them with their contemporaries, as the title indicates. As strange as it might seem, van Gogh and Gauguin’s relationship became strained, resulting in the gift being sold off by its owner.
Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec: French (Albi, France) 1864-1901 Saint-André-du-Bois, France
The Black Countess | 1881
The painting emanates action and emotions; the movements by its subjects are palpable. Yet, the work completed by the young artist had never disclosed attribution for the Countess until 2019, when it was discovered the main character was likely Anne Justine Angele Delva de Dalmarie, a member of Haitian aristocracy. She was known for her fantastic parties and stylish attire; from observation, it is believed the gentleman next to her was the coachman, and she had wrangled the reins from him and ignited the obvious gallop of horse and carriage.
James Abbott McNeill Whistler: American (Lowell, Massachusetts), 1834-1903 London, England
Nocturne in Grey and Gold: Chelsea Snow | 1876 Famous for his evening views of the Thames River in London, Whistler was also recognized for his lovely street scenes of Chelsea, not far from his home. Moody, yet mysteriously attractive, the man wanders towards what could well be a home or pub, revealing a glistening light that questions whether it is his destination. These types of works reek of an odd romanticism; the combination of the unknown, singleness, and desolation allows audiences to create the remainder of the story.
Henri Rousseau: French (Paris, France) 1844-1910
The Banks of the Oise | c. 1907
There is something magical about Rousseau’s works; to learn that critics of his time labeled him a “Sunday Painter, referring to his talent as “amateurish” his technique, perspective, and profound beauty in each effort, attracted a following of young “avant-garde” artists. One notable artist influenced by Rousseau’s talent was Pablo Picasso! Even today, his landscapes, which resemble those of France, attract favor and appreciation from those who understand what the self-taught painter set out to achieve.
Pierre-Auguste Renoir: French (Limoges, France) 1841-1919 Cagnes-sur-Mer, France
Self-Portrait | 1876
With recent acclaim for his success as an artist, Renoir took the challenge of completing a self-portrait. Ambitious and diligently exhibiting his works, this project was completed around the same time he finished his renowned masterpiece, Dance at the Moulin de la Galette. Appearing incomplete, the focus remains on the subject’s intimate expression and calming appearance.
Claude Monet: French (Paris, France) 1840-1926
Giverny, France
Red Boats, Argenteuil | 1875
Of the many Red Boats Monet completed, this one is by far the most interesting and appreciated; uncluttered and showing both depth and detail, it is an inviting view of what appears to be a pristine setting— which it may not have been. The artist took the liberty to improve the seascape by removing obstacles. In fact, through x-radiography, it has been determined that Monet reworked this painting—often, to achieve the desired effect. Notably, we appreciation the efforts to capture the subtle but significant reflections that exemplify perfection.
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of dissenting opinions, and a pervasive sense of entitlement.
This erosion of respect breeds rampant selfishness where individual needs are elevated above collective well-being and the concept of shared responsibility withers. From interpersonal relationships to national policies, the “Me, Me, Me” mentality prioritizes immediate personal gain over long-term communal benefits. In the workplace, this translates to a reluctance to collaborate, a hoarding of knowledge, and a focus on individual advancement at the expense of team success. In communities, it manifests as apathy towards social issues, a decline in civic engagement, and a growing reluctance to volunteer.
The insidious creep of narcissism further exacerbates these problems. Fueled by the constant validation offered by social media, individuals develop an inflated sense of self-importance, a craving for constant admiration, and a profound lack of empathy. Online platforms, designed to amplify individual voices, inadvertently create echo chambers where users are constantly bombarded with reinforcing opinions and curated realities. It fosters a sense of invulnerability, a disdain for criticism, and a deep-seated belief in one’s exceptionalism. The result is a society where individuals are increasingly disconnected from the realities of others, trapped in a self-constructed bubble of self-admiration.
The consequences of this selfcenteredness extend far beyond individual interactions, permeating the very fabric of our culture and society. The decline of respect for authority, a hallmark of this generation, leads to a breakdown of established norms and a weakening of social institutions. The emphasis on individual expression, while valuable in moderation, becomes detrimental when it overshadows the importance of shared values and collective responsibility. This manifests in a growing disregard for traditional institutions, a reluctance to engage in constructive dialogue, and a tendency to prioritize personal preferences over established protocols.
Obsessed with personal branding and instant gratification, these now young and even adults as old as 40-45 exhibit a disturbing trend of disrespect, selfishness, and narcissism, eroding the very foundations of our culture and society.
Moreover, the “Me, Me, Me” generation’s focus on instant gratification creates short-sightedness; a society obsessed with immediate personal gain struggles to address challenges effectively. The emphasis on individual consumption and the pursuit of fleeting pleasures overshadows the need for sustainable practices and responsible stewardship of resources. The resulting apathy towards long-term consequences creates a dangerous cycle of inaction, leaving future generations to grapple with the consequences.
The digital landscape, while offering immense potential for connection and information sharing, plays a significant role in perpetuating this self-absorbed culture. The algorithms that power social media platforms are designed to maximize engagement, often by reinforcing existing biases and creating echo chambers. This constant exposure to curated content and personalized feeds fosters a sense of isolation, reinforcing the belief that individual experiences are the only reality.
The continuous bombardment of self-promotion and the pressure to project a perfect image online contribute to a culture of anxiety and insecurity, further fueling the need for validation and self-affirmation.
Addressing this societal shift requires a multi-faceted approach. First and foremost, we must cultivate a culture of empathy and compassion. Parents, teachers, and community leaders must prioritize educating children on the importance of respect, kindness, and collaboration. Encouraging participation in community service, fostering intergenerational dialogue, and promoting cultural exchange can help bridge the gap between individual aspirations and collective well-being.
Secondly, we must critically examine the role of technology in shaping our social interactions. Promoting responsible digital citizenship, encouraging critical thinking about online content, and fostering a culture of mindful online interaction can help mitigate the negative impacts of social media on self-perception and social behavior.
Thirdly, we need to re-evaluate our cultural values and prioritize collective well-being over individual gratification. Such actions require a shift away from the relentless pursuit of material possessions and fleeting pleasures towards a focus on meaningful relationships, community engagement, and sustainable practices. We must cultivate a culture that values collaboration, empathy, and social responsibility.
Ultimately, shifting away from the “Me, Me, Me” mentality requires a conscious and sustained effort from individuals, families, institutions, and society. We must remember that true fulfillment lies not in the pursuit of self-admiration but in meaningful connections and contributions to the greater good.
The reflection in the fractured mirror must be repaired so that we can see not only ourselves but also the communities we play a role in building. H
Technology and AI Marvels of Humanity, But At What Cost?
BY ROB SAINT LAURENT, M.ED.
On January 21, an unsuspecting American public learned of a startling endeavor.
In his first press conference since being inaugurated for a second term, President Trump unveiled a plan for as much as a half-trillion dollars to be invested in a project dubbed Stargate. Begun in 2024, the project is a joint venture between OpenAI, Oracle, and SoftBank. It aims to build the data and energy infrastructure needed to catapult artificial intelligence (AI) operations in the U.S. and compete with China.
Beginning with 10 massive data centers in Texas, Stargate “will be the most important project of this era,” OpenAI CEO Sam Altman proclaimed during the conference. Added SoftBank founder Masayoshi Son, “This is the beginning of a golden age,” acknowledging Trump’s declaration that America would enter a “golden age” with his re-election.1
Just one day before, on his first day in office, Trump rescinded former President Biden’s landmark Executive Order 14110, established in 2023 to safeguard AI development and use. Among other goals, the order was to create safety standards and watermark AI content to protect national security and the economy.
GROUNDBREAKING TECHNOLOGIES
There are three principal AI types: artificial narrow intelligence (ANI), a weaker AI designed for a specific task, as in large language models (LLMs) like Microsoft’s Copilot and ChatGPT, and virtual assistants like Siri and Alexa; artificial general intelligence (AGI), which is on par with human cognition; and artificial superintelligence (ASI), which surpasses human brain capacity.
ANI is most prevalent, and more than half of Americans engage with this technology regularly. LLMs, or “neural networks,” act as a kind of electronic librarian that instantly finds the perfect book or article from a vast library of information while simultaneously summarizing key points, providing new perspectives, and supporting better decision-making. With its productivity-boosting potential, nearly all of today’s businesses are adopting AI to stay competitive.
AI promises more convenience, reduced human error, and significant medical improvements, as better diagnostics for more timely and precise treatment.
During Trump’s conference, Oracle Founder and CEO Larry Ellison suggested a future where AI would analyze personal health records for better patient care and gloated about how AI could even enable a customized cancer vaccine.
However, envisioning an AI-generated utopia is misguided thinking.
INEVITABLE REPERCUSSIONS
Despite its positives, society has been witnessing the drawbacks of high tech on well-being since the advent of smartphones in the early 2000s.
Experimental research from 2016, for example, demonstrated that smartphone separation (especially when use was discouraged or banned) may lead to substantial anxiety in college students. This anxiety was observed to affect high-level brain functions, like shifting between mental tasks and updating working memory. The impaired performance was evident regardless of the degree of smartphone dependency. 2
A research review on social media use revealed, not surprisingly, that viewing and making highly idealized, unrealistic content; focusing on physical appearance; and depending on feedback for reassurance and validation can be harmful.3
Adding more AI to the equation will likely amplify these issues, with the expectation of dramatic increases in screentime spent searching for information, interacting socially, and on entertainment.
When queried, AI itself describes multiple potential drawbacks of technology and AI use. Cognitive decline can happen from heavy reliance on tech to perform common mental tasks. Digital amnesia, or reduction in memory recall, can happen from overreliance on tech for storing information. Decreased attention span can result from the constant stream of notifications and multitasking, which can impair concentration. Information overload can be the ultimate result of this constant data flow, leading to difficulty with information processing and retention. Social isolation can be expected from the substitution of screens for face-to-face interactions, eroding human connection and communication, and emotional well-being.
Because of our constant reliance on digital tools, researchers note that it’s challenging to distinguish correlation from causation. Still, a literature review shows AI’s potential harm to well-being. “Cognitive offloading” through overreliance on AI, such as ChatGPT, can diminish critical thinking and
“Cognitive offloading” through overreliance on AI, such as ChatGPT, can diminish critical thinking and independent thought. AI-based GPS systems like Google Maps may affect spatial cognition and navigational ability. In terms of learning, excessive AI exposure can short-circuit children’s ability to tackle challenges and learn how to solve problems on their own.
independent thought. AI-based GPS systems like Google Maps may affect spatial cognition and navigational ability. In terms of learning, excessive AI exposure can short-circuit children’s ability to tackle challenges and learn how to solve problems on their own. Unrestrained digital use in kids can negatively impact attention span and school performance and create socio-emotional problems.4
Experts note the importance of moderation and frequent “digital detoxes” to restore cognitive functions and lower stress, using timers to help focus and regular physical activity.4
However, AI is predicted to lead to a loss of human-like creativity, emotional intelligence, and empathy, as well as exacerbating unemployment and wealth inequality.
There are also issues of deepfakes and built-in biases with AI, highlighting the need for critical reasoning to avoid inflicting personal harm and whether AI can be relied upon for high-stakes decisions.
Should AI replace a doctor’s analysis when making medical decisions? Congressman David Schweikert (R-AZ) believes it should, with his introduction of bills H.R. 193 and H.R. 238 in January. If passed, these new laws would allow AI to prescribe medications instead of one’s doctor.
‘SUMMONING
THE DEMON’
Spirituality and religion help bind societies and maintain civility. When asked about AI’s impact, Copilot states, “Ah, the relationship between AI and religion is indeed a profound topic. While AI brings a plethora of benefits, it also raises concerns in spiritual and religious contexts.”
As in other contexts, human connection could erode by inserting AI into religion. The same is true for moral and ethical considerations, the bedrock of religion. AI could even challenge divine authority and agency. As AI integrates into daily life through IoT (the internet of things), people are more likely to become less humanistic and spiritual and more Spock-like.
In a clip from his 2014 talk at MIT (viewable on YouTube), Elon Musk was forthright in his concerns over AI. “I think we
should be very careful about artificial intelligence. If I were to guess like what our biggest existential threat is, it’s probably that….Increasingly, scientists think there should be some regulatory oversight, maybe at the national and international level, just to make sure that we don’t do something very foolish. With artificial intelligence, we are summoning the demon. In all those stories where there’s the guy with the pentagram and the holy water, it’s like he’s sure he can control the demon. Didn’t work out.”
Since then, Musk appears to have resigned himself to a totalitarian future in which humanity is beholden to an AI “digital god.” In this Orwellian landscape, humans would be
remotely connected by sensory devices to an AI monetary system that, in a cashless society, would process one’s digital currency based on bodily activity. In response to a task assigned by a server, a person’s bodily data (fluid flow, brain waves, pulse rate, or body heat) would be measured. With sufficient activity, a cryptocurrency system would reward the individual with payment. (See Microsoft patent WO/2020/060606 - “666”)
AI BIOETHICS
The Edelman Trust Barometer shows that about half the world favors AI progression, confident in the words of the technocratic elite without questioning safety and motives.
Bioethicists say AI must be equipped with “AI humanities” in order to serve and not manipulate humanity. These include beneficence, or the intent to do good for the whole of humanity; valueupholding, where AI always promotes universal values toward people’s well-being and in a non-biased way; transparency, where AI harbors no secret agendas and can explain itself clearly; and accountability on the part of AI makers. AI will never feel compassion or empathy or have the wisdom to make moral judgments, and it “must be progressed with extreme caution.”5
The grassroots awareness group STOP AI goes further. It wants to end all AI expansion, hoping the world never sees AGI—a development goal OpenAI has purportedly now achieved with its o3 AI model.6
Meanwhile, we still don’t understand the inner workings of ChatGPT and similar systems, which could lead to miscalculation, notes the growing movement Pause AI.
As an AI arms race with China accelerates, the allure of massive profits may well trump human concerns, leading us into an orbit of no return. H
1. O’Brien, M. (2025, January 21). WATCH: Trump holds first news conference, announcing major AI investment. PBS News.
2. Hartanto, A. & Yang, H. (2016, November). Is the smartphone a smart choice? The effect of smartphone separation on executive functions. Computers in Human Behavior, 64, 329-36.
3. Burnell, K., Fox, K. A., Maheux, A. J., & Prinstein, M. J. (2024, February 24). Social Media Use and Mental Health: A Review of the Experimental Literature and Implications for Clinicians. Current Treatment Options in Psychiatry, 11, 1-16.
4. Shanmugasundaram, M. & Tamilarasu, A. (2023, November 24). The impact of digital technology, social media, and artificial intelligence on cognitive functions: a review. Frontiers in Cognition, 2.
5. Tai, M. C.-T. (2020, October-December). The impact of artificial intelligence on human society and bioethics. Tzu Chi Medical Journal, 32(4), 339-43.
6. Bennett, M. T. & Perrier, E. (2024, December 24). An AI model has reached human level on a test for ‘general intelligence.’ Here’s what that means. The Conversation.
GROWTH, OPPORTUNITY & SPRING SKIING
Legendary Resort In The White Mountains of New Hampshire Gets Another Face Lift
BY CATHERINE HILDERBRAND
If the fun and excitement of spring skiing and riding aren’t enough reason to pack up and head to the old logging town of Lincoln, then maybe—just maybe—the planned expansion that has begun and will continue to be fast-tracked in the years ahead at the SouthPeak Resort will pique your interest and view what is to come. The planned ‘Out-West’ type of ski resort on the banks of the Pemigewasset River is rivaling projects breaking ground at Killington and Stowe, Vermont, because while they might be similar in scope, Lincoln isn’t at a distance from major cities. Plus, it has a considerable advantage: New Hampshire remains a tax-free state!
For a very long time, improvements to the mountain’s infrastructure moved at a slow but consistent pace: better snowmaking, new lifts that increased the capacity to get people up to its peaks, remodeled base lodges, and updates to the layout for getting from one place to another. Around the same time, SouthPeak, with its few trails, was added to the mix; still, it never seemed to catch the eye of visitors—the base camp was
expansive but was no more than a temporary mental-famed tent, plus it took a boring cross mountain chair ride, to get over to it. Adding to these obstacles, every season, it seemed to be the last area to open and the first to close.
Loon Mountain has always been considered a short-stay resort for the ‘weekend warriors’ as the townies called them; it gets wild from Friday night to Sunday due to a leisurely two-hour ride from Boston, three from Providence, the Cape, and Newport. Noticeably, by the end of the weekend, the streets roll up, and places close or are desolate unless it’s a holiday or vacation week.
Loon offers a good value. It is an easyto-access mountain delivering a great time for short money. The towns of Lincoln and neighboring Woodstock provide all the necessities and services visitors might need over the weekend and the essentials the locals require the other five days. As for convenience, few, if any, winter resorts offer multiple gas stations, a 24-hour grocery store, a multi-plex movie theater, a post office, and tons of shopping within a three to five minute drive.
Back to SouthPeak: Its first time around—
What was a plan on paper is seeing the light of day. New lifts, trails, and amenities are in the pipeline; talk of a village that will cater to the affluent who insist on a higher and more refined level of lifestyle and dining options will be at home with the finished project.
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A well-established regional chain of custom picture-framing shops and art galleries is liquidating its entire inventory of artwork, framing equipment, and store fixtures from multiple retail locations. The inventory to be sold includes Artwork, Custom Frames [finished and lengths], Equipment, Materials, and Supplies.
The contents of this sale will be offered to independent shops, artists, and those interested in purchasing the contents, which would allow the establishment of a home-based business or one or more retail locations.
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