BY LINDA ELLIS
In Remembrance of
Lillian Bain
It’s not the date you were born, or the date you died, that really matters. It’s “the dash” between those years and what you do with it that makes all the difference.
Celebrating the Dash of
Lillian Bain
Lillian Bain January 12, 1933–September 1, 2014 A great soul never dies. We love and miss you dearly. May you rest in peace.
BY LINDA ELLIS
I
read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on the tombstone
from the beginning‌to the end.
H
e noted that first came the date of birth and spoke of the following date with tears, but he said what mattered most of all‌
was the dash between those years.
F
or that dash represents all the time that they spent alive on earth and now only those who loved them know what that little line is worth.
F
or it matters not, how much we own, the cars…the house…the cash…
What matters is how we live and love‌
and how we spend our dash.
S
o think about this long and hard; are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left that can still be rearranged.
I
f we could just slow down enough to consider what’s true and real…
and always try to understand the way other people feel.
A
nd be less quick to anger and show appreciation more and love the people in our lives‌
like we’ve never loved before.
I
f we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile‌
remembering that this special dash might only last a little while.
S
o when your eulogy is being read‌
with your life’s actions to rehash…
would you be proud of the things they say‌
about how you spent your dash?
BY LINDA ELLIS
I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on the tombstone from the beginning…to the end. He noted that first came the date of birth and spoke of the following date with tears, but he said what mattered most of all was the dash between those years. For that dash represents all the time that they spent alive on earth and now only those who loved them know what that little line is worth. For it matters not, how much we own, the cars…the house…the cash. What matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash.
So think about this long and hard; are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left that can still be rearranged. If we could just slow down enough to consider what’s true and real and always try to understand the way other people feel. And be less quick to anger and show appreciation more and love the people in our lives like we’ve never loved before. If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile… remembering that this special dash might only last a little while. So when your eulogy is being read with your life’s actions to rehash, would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash?
Personal Memories of Lillian Bain
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Joseph Epstein once said, “We do not choose to be born. We do not choose our parents, or the country of our birth. We do not, most of us, choose to die; nor do we choose the time and conditions of our death. But within this realm of choicelessness, we do choose how we live.�
This is what The Dash is all about.