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Indiana Governor’s Council for People with Disabilities (GPCPD)

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Indiana Works

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Social Security Administration (SSA)

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Special Needs Living - Indianapolis Angelica N. Gray, MA, BCBA, LBA – Writer Jamie McCabe – Publisher and Area Director Tasha Cleaver – SNL Account Executive Christia Woodford –Publishing Assistant and Local Events Brooke Russell –Operations and Events Manager Lisa DeFilippo – Writer and Contributor Maria Smietana – Editorin-Chief Dr. Darolyn “Lyn” Jones –Content Coordinator and Writer Heather Gregg –Photographer, 21 Vines Photography Christie and Nathan Buonanno –Buonanno Photography Paul Hathcoat – Writer and Contributor Kendal Ford – Kendal Nicole Photography Christina McGairk – Editor and Writer Tanya Sood – Writer and Contributor DeAndra Yates – Writer Sheila Wolfe – Writer and Contributor Jane Gailey – Contributor Dorie Zipperle – Writer and Contributor Aaron Olson – Writer Isaac Roman – Writer and Photographer Matt Knight – Writer Angela Arlington –Community Engagement Coordinator, Writer and Contributor

MEET CARRIE SPICE

Working to heal the wounds of generational mental illness

THE BEGINNING

“My maternal grandparents were from Russia and Poland. After they came to the U.S., my grandmother gave birth to three daughters,” Carrie Spice recalled of the maternal side of her family. Each daughter had a mental illness that lasted her entire life. Medications and other interventions proved to be unhelpful. While the sisters were seen as the familial starting point of a lifetime of mental health issues for every generation that followed, it would become clear

that mental illness plagued Carrie’s grandparents, too, and quite possibly, the generations before them. The oldest daughter was diagnosed with schizophrenia and passed away from a lithium overdose. The middle daughter had depression and died by suicide when she was in her 40s. When Carrie’s grandmother died, her grandfather jumped off a bridge. Carrie’s mother was the youngest of the three sisters. “My mother’s life was not easy from the beginning,” Carrie sadly explained. “My grandmother [would] put my mother in a bassinet and forget she put her there. Instead of being picked up, she cried and kicked her little feet out of the bassinet. My mother was not comforted or well taken care of due to my grandmother’s mental illness. At the age of 5, my mother lost all her teeth because of malnutrition.”

GROWING UP

In her high school years, Carrie was homeschooled so she could care for her mother, who had had a nervous breakdown by then. “She received shock treatments and lost all her short-term memory,” Carrie recalled. “I had to become ‘Mom.’ I did all the cooking, cleaned the house and helped raise my brother till my mom got well again. My dad had anger issues. He has never told me he was proud of me or thanked me for taking care of my mom and brother. Instead, he would

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tell me not to cry, to “stuff it,” and to make sure the house was spotless. He was never loving to my younger brother or me.”

Carrie left home at the age of 17 to go to a college near the beach. “I missed my mother and brother and prayed God would protect them while I was gone. But I was so behind [the other students] in all my studies. I took a psychology class that helped me understand my dysfunctional family.

“I felt so defeated and behind and had no idea how I would catch up, so I went home and never returned to college.”

CARRIE’S JOURNEY

Carrie has lived with depression and anxiety for most of her life. “I started therapy in college and have not stopped since,” she said. “I have a therapist, counselor and mentor. I also have a psychiatrist who helps me find the right medicine that helps me live a happy and fulfilled life.”

Carrie’s self-care involves attending church and listening to

worship music. “I have found so many resources to help me. I attend a bible study group at my church, i Town, in Fishers.

I have learned from my own family’s past that people can be healed and their lives changed with support.”

Carrie’s goal for the future is to open a Dream Center in Honolulu. There are many Dream Centers across the United States, where people can come to heal from their past and get help from several resources, all available in one spot.

“It is a dream and a prayer right now, with so many people helping

families in need,” Carrie said. “My passion is to help others heal like I have. I want to help people who want tochange their lives by living at the Dream Center for two years to heal and find their purpose again.”

There is a Dream Center located in Indianapolis. For more information, go to https://dc-indy.org.

Carrie also wants her children and grandchildren to continue living healthier and more hopeful lives. She is determined to create a future that supports others with mental health issues and allows them to have access to everything they need.

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NO ONE BELONGS ON THE SIDELINES OF LIFE!

WHERE DIFFERENT CAN LEAD THE WAY

Hperson in the room, invited because perhaps you were only needed to fill a slot? It used to happen to me frequently. I was often invited because someone had to check the box. Sound familiar?

It seems like many people did not know how to relate to a person with learning differences. They were not aware, and may have been afraid, of how to get me involved.

I discovered a different situation when I joined Special Olympics Indiana. The organization’s mission is about creating a more inclusive world for people with intellectual disabilities.

Social inclusion helps to create a sense of belonging for Special Olympics athletes. It’s a feeling that people outside their own family and professional circles seek them out and value the time spent together. It’s knowing the community is there to support them. It’s having access to meaningful opportunities to interact with others and build relationships. And it’s being viewed as someone with a unique contribution to make. Those with and without intellectual

allows athletes to take on meaningful roles as leaders in their communities and within Special Olympics Indiana.

Jeff Mohler, President and CEO of Special Olympics Indiana, sees inclusion as just the beginning.

“We need to have athletes as part of the decision-making process,” Mohler said. “After all, it is their organization, not mine. Special Olympics Indiana belongs to our athletes. I’m here only as the temporary caretaker.

“After they are invited into the room, do they feel empowered to fully participate in the discussion? Do our athletes have all the information to make informed, impactful decisions? Do our athletes feel empowered enough to disagree? Our athletes must know that they will be accepted and appreciated, even when they disagree … even when they disagree with me. In the end, I hope our athletes know they belong here.”

ATHLETE LEADERSHIP UNIVERSITY

Special Olympics Indiana has always been at the cutting edge of social inclusion for its athlete leaders, and Athlete Leadership University

has been a foundational part of that strategy since it was started almost 20 years ago. At ALU, athletes learn about Special Olympics, create a personal mission statement and learn skills to become leaders in the organization.

Athletes can choose one of seven different majors: communication, event planning, governance, health and fitness, sports, technology, and leadership through visual arts. Modeled after traditional college, each major consists of a series of courses leading to graduation two to three years later. Class sessions are held over two weekends per year at Butler University in Indianapolis, and afterward, athletes must complete a detailed practicum to complete the course. Some athletes go on to complete more than one major.

Since the beginning, ALU has been growing and changing to offer Special Olympics Indiana athletes more opportunities to take on meaningful roles within our movement and beyond, and the ALU graduate program is the newest of those opportunities.

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Special Olympics Indiana developing future leaders through Athlete Leadership University Spring 2022 Athlete Leadership University class at Butler University Maddison Glenn and Jillian Moss, ALU Graduate Program instructors Visit SOIndiana.org/athlete-leadership/ to learn more about Special Olympics Indiana’s Athlete Leadership University.

ALU GRADUATE PROGRAM

The graduate program includes two-year-long internships and offers courses from Special Olympics Indiana’s advanced leadership series and capstone projects that lead athletes to create a work portfolio and professional development plan. Perhaps most importantly, it provides true opportunities to lead projects within Special Olympics Indiana and the community.

For Mohler, developing the ALU graduate program was a natural step in the progression toward athletes taking over leadership of the Special Olympics movement.

“Imagine our athletes at a game,” he said. “The first step is inclusion, being asked to go to the game. The next step is acceptance, being asked to participate — not just stand on the sidelines. And the final step is empowerment, organizing the next game.

“For Special Olympics Indiana, it follows a similar path. First, our athletes must be at the table during big decisions. Next, they need to be empowered to speak up during those meetings. The final step, take my job! We know as an organization that we have finally arrived when Special Olympics Indiana no longer needs a temporary caretaker. An athlete will take over.”

Everyone interested in the graduate program — including me

— had to apply for a position. With all the great competition from other students for the intern positions, as well as the interview process itself, it was a nerve-racking process for me.

Under this new ALU graduate program, Special Olympics Indiana recently welcomed the first four athlete interns to the staff: Chelsea Davis from Johnson County, Karen Kerr from Porter County, Melony Salla from Benton County and me, Dorie Zipperle from Clark-Floyd Counties.

“I am so excited to be picked as one of four athletes for the new program, and I think it is awesome that Special Olympics Indiana is giving us athletes more opportunity to grow as leaders,” said Salla. She said she is excited to be given the

chance to make a positive difference in the organization.

All the interns have a mentor from Special Olympics Indiana’s staff to help guide them through their project plan and resources and opportunities.

Our intern class has a lot of work to accomplish in the next two years. All four of us agree it is a huge responsibility to be among this first class of interns. We’re blazing the trail for those who will follow. But if successful, it may one day become ordinary to see people with learning differences running Special Olympics Indiana.

“Maybe not next year, maybe not in 10 years, maybe not this generation,” Mohler added. “But someday. Someday.”

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Elesia Yoon, Dean, Athlete Leadership University Intern Group Photo (l to r) Karen Kerr, Chelsea Davis, Melony Salla and Dorie Zipperle) Jeff Mohler, President and CEO of Special Olympics Indiana, and Dorie Zipperle Intern Q&A Session with Introduction to Leadership class

The Providence of Proverbs (Honor & Shame)

The Book of Proverbs is full of rich and beautiful insight into the nature of both people and God. I continually come back to it for life advice, for a reclaiming of my sanity, and even sometimes to just figure out why I feel the way that I am feeling. It feeds me and it guides me into alignment with God and His desires for my life. Let’s look at a couple of themes I’ve been focusing on in my SN adult Sunday school class. Let’s talk about honor and shame in the Book of Proverbs, from a pastor’s perspective.

What is HONOR, and how does it work in our lives? To others, honor is regarding someone with the utmost respect and dignity. As a verb and in our own lives, it means to meet the commitments that we have been presented with in life. In one’s faith, I believe that it means to give God the respect and recognition that He deserves. Proverbs 3:9 says, “honor the Lord with your wealth; the firstfruits of all your crops” (NIV). Proverbs 14:31 says, “whoever oppresses the poor shows contempt for their Maker, but whoever is kind to the needy honors God.” So, giving away the best of what you produce and intentionally being compassionate to the disadvantaged is the best that we can do to live with honor in our lives. If that is the prescription to both, please God and live right, then sign me up for a lifetime of those simple disciplines. What do you think of when you consider honor? Are you receiving it? Are you giving it? Would God say that you are honoring Him with your life? Things to consider for sure.

What is SHAME, and how does it affect us? Shame is the feeling that you get when

you know that you have done wrong. It is the distress you feel when your actions are less than you know you are capable of. Proverbs tells us that “whoever disregards discipline comes to poverty and shame, but whoever heeds correction is honored” (Prov. 13:18). This scripture likens the lack of discipline to shame, indicating that without self-restraint and doing the things we know we should do, we will feel poor and shameful in our lives. I dare say that we all have been there. We all have felt undisciplined at some point which often leads to sadness, doubt, and even depression. But are those feelings of shame when we are struggling to make the right decisions strong enough to push us consistently toward honor?

For me, it took a long time. It wasn’t until my 30s that I finally got sick and tired of that shameful feeling, enough that I decided to turn away from shame and start the long slow climb toward honor.

I won’t go into every detail, but I will say that it started with one choice. I made a choice to seek honor, and then was ready to do the same again with my very next choice. It started to catch on.

In the disability world, these two topics exist for different reasons at times. Along my path of walking with parents and individuals living with disabilities, I have seen both honor and shame play out. I have seen parents who honor their commitment to love and care for their child for their entire lives, even though there is, at times, little to no hope for an independent or outwardly rewarding life experience. Those parents are both honorable in their steadfast commitment to a loved one and honoring in the choice they make every day to give all of themselves to someone other than

themselves. I see honor in the life lived of so many of the caregivers and parents I have the pleasure of being in community with. As for shame, it also has gripped the lives of many around me. I have heard parents apologize repeatedly for the behaviors of their children. I have seen them recoil with guilt when they must back out of a commitment, meeting, or service because their family’s day took a turn for the worst, as it so often does. I have even had those impossibly difficult conversations with parents that feel responsible in some way for the condition of their child. I see misplaced shame in those eyes some days and want nothing more than to remind them that I understand and that we see you and your loved one for who they are and not just what they do or how they act in certain moments.

God talks about the topics of honor and shame because He understands what it is like to be human. He understands that this earthly life is a struggle and that honor is hard to come by in our society today. He understands that shame is a part of our sinful and human lives. He knows that we need His guidance and the love of those around us to ultimately choose a life that is dedicated to learning more about Him and building a relationship with His son Jesus. I hope that this short article pricked your heart in a way that pushes you toward this wonderful Book of Proverbs. I know that I am a better man and pastor because of its wisdom. Choose honor and shed any shame that you are carrying today! Blessings to all of you out there wrestling with these topics. It is a true pleasure to bring you God’s words.

Do you have a thought, idea or information that you would like to see in this section in an upcoming issue? Email Paul Hathcoat at phathcoat@wrcc.org.

PASTOR’S CORNER

GARNER FAMILY

meet the and Keaton

I’m the father of two sons with autism. Autism vastly altered our world. Our oldest son, Kyler, was first given a diagnosis of developmental delay (DD) at the age of 3. We got him into therapy early. After additional testing showed that autism was the correct diagnosis for him, I spent a lot of my day going to applied behavioral analysis (ABA)

therapy with him. I was still in college working on my bachelor’s degree. In consulting with other parents who had kiddos with autism, I decided to change my major from business to psychology. I was lucky that most of my credits transferred. Kyler made great progress in the programs in which he participated. Almost two years into his

treatment, we found out that we were going to have a second baby.

In August of 2005, my youngest son, Keaton, was born. It was a difficult delivery for my wife. Keaton’s APGAR score was low, and he spent 10 days in the neonatal unit. When we got Keaton home, we strived to keep up with Kyler’s treatment plan. At first, Keaton seemed

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to be progressing as a neurotypical child, but at the age of 18 months, he started showing signs of regressive autism. His once flourishing vocabulary ground to a halt. We immediately contacted a pediatric neuropsychologist to have him assessed. After several appointments and many tests, he was diagnosed with autism. I continued to work on my degree while shuttling the boys from one appointment and therapy session to another.

When he reached school age, Kyler was able to mainstream into general education classes. Keaton, on the other hand, was showing signs of

being nonverbal. The coming years were difficult, to say the least. My life consisted of driving to several therapies five days a week. My wife’s mental health suffered from the stress of caring for two special needs kids, and our marriage fell apart. I was given custody of the boys. Keaton did turn a corner and learned to use both sign language and a communication device. I was finally able to graduate in 2008 with my degree in psychology. I founded the Indiana Autism Alliance shortly after that and continue to serve as the organization’s executive director. Support groups were helpful, these groups were the inspiration that layed the foundation of the IAA. I then went on to earn my Ph.D. in psychology from Ball State University.

Kyler graduated from New Haven High School in 2021 and is currently in job training with a local organization. Keaton is now 17 and is a vibrant young man that has made immense headway in his cognitive development. Looking back, our family

dealt with so many adversities, but we always kept the faith. I had resolved never to give up on my sons. I knew that they would be beside me if the roles were reversed, and it was me in their shoes. Our life wasn’t easy, but the endeavor was worth the sacrifices we made. My boys show me every day that keeping myself humble and grounded pays continuous dividends. I have gained a huge appreciation of life, love, and family. The future looks limitless for my boys and me.

Scott and his sons reside in Fort Wayne, IN. He is an autism advocate, consultant, and frequent public speaker. He encourages parents of special needs children not to give up in the search for a suitable therapist(s). Sometimes, it takes several tries to find a good fit. Secondly, Scott tells parents not to omit teaching their children basic life skills. Disabled or not, most kids can learn how to prepare food, keep themselves and their living space clean, and often, much more. Contact Scott at indianaautismalliance@gmail.com.

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24 December 2022 Remote Supports E m p o w e r i n g p e o p l e w i t h d i s a b i l i t i e s t o l i v e i n d e p e n d e n t l y i n t h e i r o w n h o m e s a n d c o m m u n i t i e s u s i n g R e m o t e S u p p o r t s FOR PEOPLE WITH DISABILITIES 1 855 476 6665 www.safeinhome.com Scan Me Family Supports Waiver (FSW) and Community Integration and Habilitation Waiver (CIH). @AmiableHomeCareinc 317-802-1746 • amiablehomecare.org We currently offer Participant Assistance and Care (PAC) Structured Family Caregiver Levels 1, 2, 3 Family and Caregiver Training Wellness Coordination Residential Habilitation & Support and Day Habilitation Attendant Care and Respite 7502 Madison Ave, Indianapolis, IN 46227 (317) 829-6654 dynamicmusicservices.com Music Therapy & Wellness Early Childhood Music Classes Sign & Sing Virtual Classes Music Therapy can help individuals of all ages and abilities, including those with: Alzheimer’s Disease and Dementia ° Autism ° Cerebral palsy Developmental Disabilities ° Down Syndrome End-of-life care (Hospice) ° Intellectual Disabilities Mental health ° Neurological disorders Psychiatric disorders ° Rehabilitation
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MUNDER FINANCIAL

Growing up in Lake Bluff, IL, James Munder was the youngest of three children. His older brother, Adam, was born hearing but became deaf as a toddler. James witnessed the challenges that presented for his parents and his brother, learning to navigate a new world as a primarily hearing family with one deaf child. James’s family became very active in the deaf community around the Chicagoland area in order to better understand and advocate for his brother. James learned a lot from that experience. Not only is he fluent in American Sign Language, but he has a strong passion for helping families plan for whatever their futures may bring. He feels that the stability provided by having a clear financial plan is integral for all families, but especially for those who have a loved one with special needs.

James went to Indiana University where he studied business management. As part of his college experience, he completed an internship with Northwestern Mutual in downtown Chicago. “It was challenging,” James recalled, “but

taught me a lot about what I wanted out of life.” He went on to open Munder Financial — Northwestern Mutual, a wealth management firm that helps clients understand and achieve their financial goals. It’s a career that grants him the independence to work toward his goals while pursuing his passion of improving the lives of others. James and his wife, Carly, who grew up in Zionsville, moved back to Indiana in 2014.

Munder Financial offers financial planning, investment planning and strategy, tax-efficient, life insurance, retirement planning and income strategies, and special needs planning. “We are able to help navigate the unique considerations that come with caring for a loved one with special needs,” James said. “We can collaborate with other experts in law, social services, and more to assist with estate planning, special needs trusts, life insurance, tax deductions, healthcare issues, and Medicaid complexities.

James said he was initially inspired to provide financial planning

support for special needs families by Heather Gregg, a client and family friend. “Heather created The Lucky Mama Project, which partners with Down Syndrome of Indiana to give personalized support to Indiana mothers of a new baby with Down syndrome or a prenatal diagnosis of Down syndrome,” James said. Launched after Heather’s daughter Ivy was born with Down syndrome, the organization provides care packages of educational items, gifts for mom and baby, and gives insight into the journey of other mothers who have gone through the same experience.

James encourages special needs families to take the time to assemble a strong team of experts who will listen to and understand their needs. “Not everyone will listen to your

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story. It is imperative that you find a team that helps you identify and understand your goals and needs,” he said. “It is our mission to spend the time needed to educate our clients and help provide a clear vision that guides them on the road to stability, security and optimism.”

Munder Financial gives generous support to several organizations that serve special needs individuals and their families. “We have provided financial contributions, participated in the local Buddy Walk, and assisted Down Syndrome Indiana with special needs planning seminars, all in support of The Lucky Mama Project,” James said. “Most recently, we helped Heather to create and launch a book, “This is Life!” which tells the story of several Down syndrome families through the lens of hope, heart, and happiness. We hosted the book launch party, which allowed all proceeds

from the book sales to go directly to The Lucky Mama Project.

James is also actively involved with Alex’s Lemonade Stand Foundation, which is committed to accelerating the search for a cure for childhood cancer. The foundation aids families facing the disease and those who are enduring the longterm effects of treatment. “We have participated through direct donations and fundraising efforts such as golf outings and 5K runs,” James said. “So far, these efforts have resulted in over $2 million in donations. Some of the money funded a grant that allowed a breakthrough cancer study to be conducted in Kenya. We are honored to have been a part of the amazing work being done by this foundation.”

“Our most recent fundraiser was for A Kid Again, a children’s charity that provides cost-free recurring events for children with life-threatening conditions, including childhood cancer (about 50%), Down syndrome, asthma, and many more illnesses,” James said. “This past June, our team participated in an event that helped raise over $77,000 to support families and children living with these illnesses.

James has so much respect and admiration for the parents who work every day to be advocates for their

children. “My family and I attended a World Down Syndrome Day event in March, and we had the best time. It brought so much joy and clarity to our decision to support the special needs community. There was so much happiness in that banquet room, and I am honored to be a part of that!”

Business Contact Information: 600 E. 96th St., Suite 100, Indianapolis, IN 46240 317-238-6519 jamesmunder.com James.munder@nm.com

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Urban Vines Community Social

Jamie McCabe and mom Paula Eifler who is now an Account Executive for Special Needs Living in Detroit and Surrounding Counties Brooke and Jason Russell

It was a rather chilly night at Urban Vines but a beautiful environment with an enjoyable band. We loved being able to see so many lovely faces come out to enjoy the evening together and grow in connections with others in the community Thank you, Urban Vines, for hosting us. We look forward to future events and opportunities to gather together again.

If you have a favorite space or place that would like to host an event for the special needs community in 2023, we would love to know about it; reach out to us at specialneedslivingindy@ n2pub.com.

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11952 Fishers Crossing Dr, Fishers, IN | (317) 579-9300 | www.gymrootsinc.com BODYby Pilates • BioCored • Perfect 10 Posture Looking for a fun movement activity the whole family can enJOY? Interested in boosting brain function while increasing strength and flexibility in your body? WE HAVE THE CLASS FOR YOU! Be like Nicholas and his family and join us for JOYful JOYnts Virtual Classes. We are LIVE on ZOOM every Tuesday morning (or receive the class recording) Sign up now and get your free month at www.gymrootsinc.com/joyful-joynts and use code JOYFREE We look forward to future events and opportunities to gather together again. Special Needs Living support partners John Cole — State Farm, Dan Claxton Investment Advisory and Broker, Paula LeMaster — SafeInHome
To see if you or your child is a good candidate for regenerative medicine tissue therapy, book a free consultation with our medical team today! REGENERATIVE MEDICINE | STEM CELL/TISSUE THERAPY PEPTIDES | IV THERAPY | NEUROMUSCULAR REEDUCATION MED SPA | BODY SCULPTING 11495 N Pennsylvania St #100 Carmel, IN 46032 Because everyone deserves to live their best life! www.destinationregen.com (317) 565-1450 What if our bodies could repair and regenerate leading to a better quality of life? With the newest advancements in medical science it can! SPECIAL OFFERS WHEN YOU MENTION THIS MAGAZINE! At Destination Regen we can help replenish what the body needs to naturally repair its self with the life changing power of Regenerative Medicine. Elizabeth A. Homes, Esq., MBA ehomeslaw.com | 317-660-5004 elizabeth@ehomeslaw.com 9245 N. Meridian Street, Suite 301, Indianapolis, Indiana 46260 Elizabeth A. Homes is a special needs planning and elder law attorney. She has been licensed and practicing law since May of 2014. Her practice at the Law O ce of Elizabeth A. Homes LLC is focused on Special Needs Planning, Guardianships, Elder Law, Estate Planning, and Probate Work. This includes Wills, Powers of Attorney, Advanced Directives, Trusts, Trust Administration, Medicaid Planning, Special Needs Planning, Guardianship, and Probate. She is admitted to practice law in the State of Indiana. We ask "What If?" so you don't have to ask "What Now?" Here to help you put plans in place to give you peace of mind. Special Needs Planning & Elder Law Attorney 317-698-5264 | teamrichards25@yahoo.com We recognize that every individual with Autism is unique in terms of his or her challenges and strengths. Whether you are a family who has just received an Autism diagnosis, you have an older child in the later stages of treatment, or anything in between, ACE will create an Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy program that will work for your child and your family. IN HOME & CLINIC-BASED SERVICES In-Network With Most Insurances A.C.E. Is Growing Exceptional Learners From The Ground Up! www.autismenrichment.com (317) 436-7080 | info@autismenrichment.com
Special Needs Living - Indianapolis & Surrounding Areas 31 Allison M Charette, Ed.S. Nationally Certified School Psychologist Founder, PEAS for Kids (920) 980-1172 • www.peas4kids.com allison@peas4kids.com PEAS for Kids PEAS for Kids specializes in educational consultation, advocacy, and customized assessment plans for children (grades PK-12+). Assessment plans address emotional concerns and learning disabilities such as Dyslexia, as well as characteristics of Autism Spectrum Disorder and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). PEAS for Kids strives to utilize the results of our evaluations to provide recommendations for, and work with parents in advocating for their child's educational needs within the school setting. Psycho-educational Evaluations and Advocacy Solutions (PEAS) for Kids 2100 S Morgantown Rd Greenwood, IN 46143 812.526.6809 www.jocoparks.com Follow us on Facebook! @injocoparks @jocoind • All Inclusive Playground Remodeled in 2020 featuring an Interactive YALP & Sona Arch • 3 Rentable Shelters • Wheelchair Accessible Trail with JCPL Storywalk • Wheelchair Accessible Basketball Court Independence Park - a place to PLAY for ALL Resounding Joy’s Healing Notes program uplifts children with challenging conditions, helps them achieve their goals, and supports health and wellness for their families. Creating Meaningful Music Experiences One Class at a Time! 200 South Rangeline Rd. Suite 129 46032 lzehren@resoundingjoyinc.org | 317-207-0423 not-for-profit • evidence-based services Board-Certified music therapists • support services for the whole family waiver and non-waiver services • group and individual options in-person and virtual options RESOUNDINGJOYINC.ORG Scan to Sign Up for Classes Today.

PAINT PARTY FUNDRAISER

Dec. 20, 6:30-8:30

Paint Party Fundraiser with Live Love Paint Studio Dec. 20, 6:30-8:30

Prodigy Burger Bar 14490 Clay Terrace Blvd. Carmel, in 46032

Custom wine glasses and a matching lit wine bottle. The money raised we would like to give to the special needs moms for the moms’ weekend retreat at Teater Retreat and Organic Farm. www.livelovepaintstudio.com

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LOCAL EVENTS

IMPORTANT NOTE: Prior to attending any events, please be mindful of any COVID-19 restrictions. Please review the state mask executive order. There are exemptions within the order, including that children under 2 years of age should not wear a face covering due to risk of suffocation, and any person with a medical condition, mental health condition or disability that precludes wearing a face covering is not required to do so. Since COVID-19 is still among us, there is a possibility that the events listed and places to go could be canceled, rescheduled or closed. Please confirm event status and listed details in case event details have changed since posting.

NOTE: Don’t forget to apply for the Access Pass! The Access Pass Program allows families that meet the specific requirements listed below to visit The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis and all participating locations for $2 per family member per visit for up to two adults and all dependent youths living in the household. Qualifications include the following:

Hoosier Healthwise Insurance (Indiana’s health-care program for low-income families, pregnant women and children)

SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program)

TANF (Temporary Assistance for Needy Families)

Apply here: https://www. childrensmuseum.org/visit/hours/ access-pass.

MUSEUMS

The Children’s Museum of Indianapolis Breakfast with Santa Dec. 3, 4, 11, 17 8 a.m.-10 a.m. Make new memories with a family favorite event, Breakfast with Santa! Start your experience seeing the

jolly elf himself, in Jolly Days: Winter Wonderland Enjoy the expertise of our photographers, or take your own photos. Fuel your day with a hot breakfast Create some holiday crafts that are sure to put you in the holiday spirit. Visit select exhibits and take a trip down our Yule Slide without all the holiday crowds.

This morning’s magic will stick with you throughout the entire season.

https://www.childrensmuseum.org/visit/ calendar/event/365/2022-12-03

North Pole PJ Party

Dec. 10, 2022 9:30 a.m.-11 a.m. and 1 p.m.- 2:30 p.m. Santa is out for the day, and the elves are ready to party with all new activities! Bring your favorite stuffed friend and wear your coziest PJs. Learn the secret to Mrs. Claus’ tasty treats by making a hot cocoa ornament, discover Andy the Zookeeper’s favorite winter wildlife while making a sweet garland for your outdoor friends, explore the latest in elf fashion while making a festive party hat, and so much more. This party will be as cool as the North Pole.

https://www.childrensmuseum.org/visit/ calendar/event/368/2022-12-10

Santa’s Workshop

Dec. 17 and 18, 2022 9:30 a.m.-11 a.m. and 1 p.m.-2:30 p.m. Santa’s elves need some help! Join us for this holiday program to build and decorate your own unique toy. Tinker together with a hammer and nails from our workshop to construct yourself a toy that is sure to be elf-approved.

https://www.childrensmuseum.org/visit/ calendar/event/369#times

Various Events Dec. 1-Dec. 31 Opens at 10 a.m.

3000 N. Meridian St. Indianapolis, IN 46208 317-334-4000 https://www.childrensmuseum.org/ visit/calendar?date=01/08/2022

Sensory day at Newfields and the Lume

Dec. 3 10 a.m.-11 a.m. 4000 Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46208

https://discovernewfields.org/ Join the Special Needs Living and special needs community on Dec. 3 at Newfields and the Lume for a special sensory day. They will open early to the special needs community.

Conner Prairie Indiana’s Living History Museum

Breakfast With Santa Dec. 3, 4, 10, 11, 17, 18 8:30 a.m. and 11 a.m.

Breakfast With Santa is our annual holiday tradition. Gather as a family for a memorable experience and enjoy a special breakfast with an opportunity to visit with Santa. Santa will regale the room with lively tails of Christmas past before moving to a special stage where he can visit with each family’s youth individually.

https://www.connerprairie.org/event/ breakfast-with-santa/2022-12-03/

A Merry Prairie Holiday Dec. 3, 4, 10, 11, 17, 18, 21, 22 5:30 p.m.-9:30 p.m.

Join us for Central Indiana’s most beloved holiday festival and make the season magical at A Merry Prairie Holiday. Across acres to explore, surround yourself amongst thousands of lights and capture that perfect moment. There is something for everyone to enjoy this year.

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updated about the festival by texting MERRY to 55433

https://connerp.ticketapp.org/portal/ product/198

Explore the Arts: The Elves and the Shoemaker

Dec. 17 11 a.m. and 2 p.m.

The beloved story is told in the slapstick comedic style of the traditional British pantomime, complete with the Shoemaker and his wife, and a villainous landlord who tries to secure the wife for himself by destroying her husband. The Good Fairy ensures that the Shoemaker has help from her friends, the Elves, as well as some audience participation to save the day and set things right. With a small cast playing all the characters (with a little help from some puppets), the happy Christmas morning ending is sure to send everyone out smiling. This event will take place at Lilly Theater. Explore the Arts events are included with General Admission. Click here to reserve your tickets! https://www.connerprairie.org/ purchase-tickets/

Sensory-Friendly Hours

The second Sunday of every month, from 10 a.m. to noon, will be sensoryfriendly hours at Conner Prairie! Enjoy a calm environment. Check in with Guest Relations stating that you are here for sensory-friendly hours. You will get free admission and may stay as long as you wish.

Various events Dec. 1-Dec. 31

13400 Allisonville Road, Fishers, IN 46038

Phone: 317-776-6000 or 800-966-1836 https://www.connerprairie.org/ events/list/

SPORTS Indianapolis Colts Dec. 26, Los Angeles Chargers

Lucas Oil Stadium, 500 S. Capitol Ave., Indianapolis, IN 46225 https://www.lucasoilstadium.com/

Indy Fuel Dec. 9, 14, 17, 23, 28, 30

Indiana Farmers Coliseum, 1202 E. 38th

St., Indianapolis, IN 46205 https://www.indyfuelhockey.com/ news/2022/5/fuel-announce-202223-regular-season-schedule

FAMILY FUN

Indianapolis Zoo Christmas at the Zoo Nov. 19-Dec. 30 5-9 p.m. EXPERIENCE OUR BELOVED HOLIDAY TRADITION!

Dating back to 1967, the Indianapolis Zoo was the first zoo in the nation to hold a holiday lights event. Year after year, Christmas at the Zoo continues to grow. For our 54th year, we’re adding beautiful new décor to enhance your holiday experience. And the best part is it’s all included with regular admission! Under the Bicentennial Pavilion, you’ll discover Santa’s Village featuring:

Extra Opportunities to Visit Santa: Meet the Kris Kringle in Santa’s Study warmed by Peterman Brothers from 5 p.m. until close. Or escape to the tropics to see Vacation Santa from 3-9 p.m. at Flights of Fancy. With the help of his flamingo flock and some holiday magic, the Jolly Old Elf can be in two places at once to greet even more children this year. Visits with Santa continue through Dec. 23.

Mrs. Claus’ Kitchen: Free visits with Mrs. Claus through Dec. 23.

Santa’s Barn: See Santa’s sleigh and a few of his reindeer through Dec. 23.

Polar Pathway: Have your camera ready to remember the moment you step inside the glittering tunnel and are surrounded in glowing lights! Look for the one-way entry through the tunnel this year.

Penguin Encounter: Get up close to these winter-ready birds from 6-8 p.m. (animal and weather dependent).

Tinsel Tavern: Enjoy holiday-themed cocktails featuring Hotel Tango spirits. https://www.indianapoliszoo.com/ events/christmas-at-the-zoo/

Various events are scheduled daily Check the calendar for events. https://www.indianapoliszoo.com/visit/

daily-schedule/ 1200 W. Washington St., Indianapolis, IN 46222 317-630-2001

HOURS: 9 a.m.-5 p.m., Mon.-Thur., and 9 a.m.-7 p.m., Fri.-Sun. and holidays

The Studio Movie Grill

3535 W. 86th St., Indianapolis, I N 46268 317-315-8113

Sensory-friendly screenings of movies! Check the website for movies and times. https://www.studiomoviegrill.com/ movie/special-needs-screenings

INDIANA STATE FAIR GROUNDS

Christmas Night Of Lights

Nov. 11, 2022-Jan. 2, 2023

State Fair Grounds, use entrance at Gate 12 located on 42nd Street Christmas Nights of Lights is returning to Indianapolis for the 2022 season! Come see over 1 million lights

synchronized to traditional and newer, rocking Christmas music played through your car stereo. Pack your vehicle full of friends and family to enjoy the show and begin a new Christmas tradition with us.

ONLINE RESERVATIONS ARE REQUIRED

No cash or credit will be accepted at the ticket booth. With the new reservation system, wait times should be under an hour.

TICKET EXCHANGES

With limited tickets available each night, there are NO REFUNDS. Exchanges for a different night or time slot based on availability. Exchanges can only be made five days prior to your original ticket date. https://www.indianastatefair.com/ events/2022/christmas-nights-of-lights

To exchange your tickets, please call 317-593-4046.

The Umbrella Center Parents’ Night Out!

Dec. 2 from 5-8 p.m.

THE UMBRELLA CENTER IN GARFIELD PARK! 1061 E. SOUTHERN AVE.

*Registration Required*

A night of childcare just in time for holiday shopping, holiday parties or a night of silence at home.

$5 per participating child.

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Free to current, past, or waitlisted clients. Once you’re part of the Umbrella family, you’re always family.

THE ARTS

Beef and Boards

It’s A Wonderful Life Nov. 25-Dec. 23 9301 Michigan Road, Indianapolis, IN 46268 317-872-9664 https://www.beefandboards.com/ Online/default.asp

Jubilate Choir Dec. 16, 17, and 18

Second Presbyterian Church 7700 North Meridian St. Indianapolis, IN 46260

Angels Sing: Gloria Dec. 16, 2022, at 7 p.m. featuring Indy Voice 1, Indy Voice 2, and Master Chorale

Celebrate the Season: Gloria Dec. 17, 2022, at 3 p.m. featuring the Neighborhood Choir Academy, Foundations Choir, Preparatory Choirs, Jubilate Choir, Beginning Level Choirs, and Master Chorale

Angels Sing: Gloria Dec. 17, 2022, at 7 p.m. featuring Indy Voice 1, Indy Voice 2, and Master Chorale

Sounds of the Season: Gloria Dec. 18, 2022, at 4 p.m. featuring Chamber, Lyric, Kantorei, Indy Voice 1, Indy Voice 2, and the Alumni Choir https://icchoir.org/tickets/

Jubilate Choir

Butler University, Lilly Hall, Room 133 Wednesdays, 6:45-7:30 p.m.

The Jubilate Choir is for singers with special needs in grades 3-9.

The Jubilate Choir singers with varying abilities meet each week to grow musically. This tuition-free choir focuses on proper singing techniques, music theory and sight-reading, partsinging, and social skills involved in being a member of a musical ensemble.

Though the choir has, at its core, the same goals as other choirs in the ICC. Singers in Jubilate engage in additional activities like visual and tactile experiences that are catered specifically

to the current members of the choir. Director: Lauren Southard Start Date: Sept. 22, 2021

For more information, contact Lauren Southard at 317-940-8065 or lsouthar@icchoir.org. https://icchoir.org/special-needs/

Gigi’s Playhouse

Various classes during the week. 5909 E. 86th St. Indianapolis, IN 46250 317-288-8235 indy@gigisplayhouse.org

EVENTS

Autism Community Connection Breakfast with Santa Dec. 3 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. Place TBD

Our annual Breakfast with Santa will have a delicious breakfast of pancakes, pastries, fruits, and more to enjoy. We will have “reindeer” games, holiday crafts, carriage rides, and meet with Santa Claus! Lots of fun for everyone in the family. https://autismcc-in.org/ breakfast-with-santa/

Fortune Academy Indianapolis Hosts Fundraising Shoe Drive

Every Tuesday from Oct. 11, 2022, until Dec. 9 5626 Lawton Loop E Drive, Indianapolis, IN MEDIA CONTACT: Lydia Chastain Marketing Director Fortune Academy Phone: 317-474-7588 Email: Lchastain@thefortuneacademy.org

The public is invited to participate in a shoe drive to raise funds for Fortune Academy. Donations of gently worn, used and new shoes will be accepted. The amount of money raised is determined by the total weight of the shoes collected. All donated shoes will be redistributed to microenterprise partners through Funds2Orgs, a for-profit social enterprise, and used in developing nations for impoverished people to start their own businesses. In the US alone, over 600 million pairs of shoes are thrown away per year. The materials used to manufacture a pair of shoes are created from chemical compounds

that willcreate health hazards if left to disintegrate openly or in landfills. By donating your gently worn, used and new shoes to the (NAME OF SHOE DRIVE/CHARITY), your shoes are given a second chance to make a difference.

Jingle Bell Run Indy

Dec. 10, Time: 8:30 a.m. Conner Prairie 13400 Allisonville Road, Fishers, I N 46038

Venue Phone: 317-776-6000

Wear your favorite holiday costume and spread good cheer for a great cause. We’re raising awareness and funds to support arthritis research for better treatments and a cure. We’re also helping the Arthritis Foundation develop tools, resources and opportunities to connect with each other. Together, we’re committed to conquering arthritis for good. Please join us!

Help keep the tradition going strong by jingling with your family and friends at the Arthritis Foundation’s 35th annual Jingle Bell Run Indy! Virtual, 5K, and 10K timed and untimed options available. For more information, email smessner@arthritis.org https://events.arthritis.org/index. cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive. event&eventID=1409

Registration closes on Dec. 9, 2022, at 11:59 p.m.

Magic of Lights Nov. 18, 2022 to Jan. 1, 2023 Ruoff Music Center 12880 E. 146th St., Noblesville, IN 4606

A magical drive-through holiday experience. One carload, one price. Magic of Lights is a unique and dazzling drive-through holiday lights experience to celebrate the season. Pile everyone into the car and experience Magic of Lights from the safety and comfort of your own car as you wind through the sparkling path. At every turn, the magical route is overflowing with spectacular light displays that bring to life your favorite holiday scenes and characters of the season using the latest LED technology and digital animations. Magic of Lights is a great family entertainment value!

The drive-through experience will feature themed light displays using

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the latest LED technology and digital animations. Families and friends will experience the thrill of Magic of Lights from their own cars as they wind through its course.

Tickets: $25 and up. All tickets are per vehicle, NOT per person. Advanced Tickets can be used any night Magic of Lights is open. Limos, party buses, and bus-sized vehicles are not permitted.

Paint Party Fundraiser with Live Love Paint Studio

Prodigy Burger Bar Dec. 20 6:30-8:30

14490 Clay Terrace Blvd. Carmel, IN 46032

We welcome you to join us for the Paint Party Fundraiser with Live Love Paint Studio. In this class, you will be making an 18-inch wooden sled. A portion of

each person’s class will be given to help cover a free paint class for special needs moms and caregivers for the special needs moms’ weekend retreat in May. www.livelovepaintstudio.com

Is there a local event for the special needs community you would like us to promote in an upcoming issue? Email us at SpecialNeedsIndy@n2pub.com.

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Stories shared simply through images: meet Wesley

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Donate your shoes! Fortune Academy Indianapolis Hosts Fundraising Shoe Drive!

and Human Development, nearly 1 in 5 students are affected by dyslexia, 1 in 30 have been diagnosed with ADD/ADHD and over 40% of students with languagebased learning differences are improperly placed in special needs programs that aren’t addressing their needs. We are home to these students. They deserve an education that makes sense to them. We are here to provide it.

Academy! Tag someone you know and tell them to donate their shoes to our fundraiser!

7. We’re only a few bags away from reaching our goal of 100 bags of gently worn, used and new shoes! Help us reach our goal by cleaning out your closet.

The public is invited to participate in a shoe drive to raise funds for Fortune Academy. Donations of gently worn, used and new shoes will be accepted. The amount of money raised is determined by the total weight of the shoes collected.

All donated shoes will be redistributed to microenterprise partners through Funds2Orgs, a forprofit social enterprise, and used in developing nations for impoverished people to start their own businesses.

WHEN: Every Tuesday from Oct. 11, 2022, until Dec. 9

WHERE: 5626 Lawton Loop E Drive, Indianapolis, IN

DETAILS: In the U.S. alone, over 600 million pairs of shoes are thrown away every year. The materials used to manufacture a pair of shoes are created from chemical compounds that can create health hazards if left to disintegrate openly or in landfills. By donating your gently worn, used and new shoes to the Fortune Academy Shoe Drive, your shoes are given a second chance to make a difference.

ABOUT FORTUNE ACADEMY:

Fortune Academy is a destination for the education of individuals with learning differences. We are committed to enhancing innovative opportunities for our first-12th grade students, teacher training, and the expansion of a comprehensive community resource center. We are a leader in research-based education. According to research done by the National Institute of Child Health

MEDIA CONTACT:

Lydia Chastain — Marketing Director

Fortune Academy

Phone: 317-474-7588

Email: Lchastain @thefortuneacademy.org

1. We are excited about our latest fundraiser because you don’t have to buy ANYTHING! We are collecting gently worn, used and new shoes to raise money for Fortune Academy. Not only do you help us, but the shoes also get a second life with those in need. It is a double donation!

2. We want your shoes! Every pair of gently worn, used and new shoes you donate to our shoe drive fundraiser turns into funds for our cause!

3. Support our organization just by cleaning out your closet this month. No need to open your wallet; just donate your gently worn, used and new shoes!

4. We know your wallets are hurting during fundraising season, and we’re not asking for money. We just want your shoes! We’re collecting gently worn, used and new shoes to help raise money for Fortune Academy. Know someone that could help? Tag them and share this post!

5. Help us reach our goal of 100 bags by cleaning out your closet and donating your gently worn, used and new shoes to our #ShoeDrive fundraiser!

6. The fun part about doing a shoe drive fundraiser is getting friends and family involved! We’re looking for gently worn, used and new shoes to raise money for Fortune

8. Have shoes in your closet that you never wear? We’ll take them! Every pair of gently worn, used and new shoes we collect turns into funds for our cause and is kept out of landfills!

9. BRING US YOUR SHOES!

We’re collecting gently worn, used and new shoes to raise money for Fortune Academy. All you have to do is empty your closet of shoes you no longer wear, that are still in good condition.

10. Help us spread the word about our shoe drive fundraiser by sharing this post! The more shoes we collect, the more funds we raise!

11. Have you cleaned out your closet lately? Those shoes that have been sitting there unworn actually have value! We’re collecting gently worn, used and new shoes, and we need your help. We’re looking for all types of shoes: sneakers, boots, dress shoes, sandals, athletic and casual shoes. We want them all!

12. Get started on your spring cleaning by gathering your gently worn, used and new shoes. Every pair you donate to our fundraiser helps us get closer to our goal!

13. Show off your #SocialGood by donating your gently worn, used and new shoes to our #ShoeDrive fundraiser! Every pair you donate turns into funds for us, is kept out of landfills, and helps microentrepreneurs around the world!

Follow us on Facebook to share more information with your local community. https://www.facebook. com/FortuneAcademyIndy

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IMPACT CAMPAIGN RECIPIENT — AUSOME INDY

We are happy to announce that Ausome Indy is the recipient of the $1,500 donation from our Impact Campaign fundraising efforts held at 1205 Distillery North in September. Thanks to everyone who came out and donated or contributed raffle items to support this cause.

We know how difficult it is for nonprofits to find the dollars to market their services and bring awareness of their organization to the community. So we started the Impact Campaign to do just that. We are thankful to Donaide for setting up the platform that allows organizations like Ausome Indy to raise funds for reaching the community by advertising in Special Needs Living magazine.

“We are thrilled to be a part of the SNL community thanks to the Impact Campaign. We look forward to sharing our mission with SNL families and reaching

more ausome kiddos with resources and support.” — Kate Miller, Co-founder, Ausome Indy

If you or someone you know feels called to donate, you can do so here: https://app.donaide.com/public/campaign.html?c=417

If you would like to nominate a nonprofit that supports the special needs community to be a recipient of funds from the Impact Campaign, please email us specialneedslivingindy@n2pub.com.

Scan to donate to the impact campaign to support local nonprofits and help them impact the special needs community.

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MEET NATE

Taking on the environment

and I often get stuck on my opinions. Sometimes I get very mad in the moment and have trouble moving on. I also have trouble with social cues and accepting my flaws and those of others. I have a difficult time understanding humans and why they hurt each other and why they don’t take care of the environment.”

Nate prays a lot and works on acceptance. Working out and eating a healthy diet helps him have a sense of control over his environment. Being helpful to others also gives him a sense of purpose. “I’ve tried to overcome my autism by being more aware of my behavior and trying to choose wisely,” he said.

Nate enjoys researching by talking with other people and using the internet. His biggest passion is taking care of the planet. “I like picking up garbage in the community. I often volunteer to clean up areas and encourage people I work with to recycle and pick up trash,” he said. Nate wants to help keep the environment clean for future generations.

Nate is a young man who lives in Carmel, IN. He has worked for Telamon, a global telecommunications support company, for five years. He enjoys working out, going swimming, and going out to eat healthy meals. “I also enjoy watching science programs and humorous shows. I like researching science, technology, and history, and I like to make new friends,” Nate shared.

“I have autism and often have a lot of anxiety about social interactions,” he added. “I can be very inflexible,

“I saw the movie Avatar, and it affected me so much. I wanted [to do more] to improve our environment and respect other cultures and nature. I then researched and found out I could join a group to help make a difference. The Great Indy Cleanup has helped me meet this personal need and given me a place to belong. I’ve learned that there are others out there who love their environment and want to make a difference. I’ve also learned that things are not always as bleak as reported in the media, as some people are truly trying to make this a better planet.”

Great Indy Cleanup does not actually have a contract with Carmel, so that inspired Nate to go out and

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clean up his own neighborhood and communities around it. He went out and purchased his own equipment, such as an extended grabber, and asked his employer to give him a safety vest to use. As he continues to pick up trash in his neighborhood, he also educates others about recycling. He has found that his passion to help the environment has helped him feel more in control of his own life.

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I wanted [to do more] to improve our environment and respect other cultures and nature

Odin’s Treasures

Inspiration can come in any form. For Alicia Dunn, it came when her special-abilities son Odin took an interest in some new toys made of resin and sparked an entire business.

“It started when he received his autism diagnosis, and I wanted to start incorporating more sensorybased play,” Dunn said. “I found some resin, loose parts and pieces,

Odin’s Treasures, an online business run by Dunn that makes everything from tumblers to cutting boards out of the resin materials that Odin took such an interest in.

Dunn grew up in Nacogdoches, Texas, prior to moving to Indiana almost 17 years ago. Once Odin was born, she stayed home to raise him, setting aside a longrunning career to do so. She has since re-entered the workforce, first part-time as a transaction manager for Branch Group Realty, and more recently, as an underwriter for Cuna Mutual Group.

Odin’s Treasures consists of a multitude of products, including intricately designed threedimensional resin tumblers, made in unique designs representing wildlife,

She has also branched out into designing horses, cows, pigs, and even raccoons for special orders.

Odin’s Treasures represents Dunn’s love for crafting, and the fact that her art is inspired by a son

she has so clearly devoted her life to makes it all the more special, no matter how modest Dunn is about it.

“At the end of the day, making resin art is my hobby, but it does help support my family,” Dunn said.

Odin’s Treasures

Tik Tok.

“I always say if doing this craft that I love becomes a ‘job’ I don’t want to do it anymore. I think especially being the mama of a little guy that needs extra help, it’s really important that you find something you can do for yourself. Whether it’s a craft or reading a book, some type of outlet that’s unique to you.”

Etsy

Outside of running Odin’s Treasures, Dunn has been able to build a community in Westfield, which she and her husband have called home for almost two years. “I really enjoy the Westfield community and have made many friends in the Westfield Women Building Friendships Group,” Dunn said. “It’s nice to be able to hop on the trail near our home and take a nice walk or even pick up a few groceries at Meijer.”

Odin’s Treasures can be found on Facebook, Etsy and Tik Tok. You’re sure to find something for yourself or the special people in your life. “I love to take custom orders, so if you don’t find exactly what you’re looking for please contact me and we can design something especially for you,” Dunn said.

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can be found on Facebook,
and
You’re sure to find something for yourself or the special people in your life.
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Special Needs Living - Indianapolis & Surrounding Areas 49 (317) 733-9393 morningdovetrc.org 7444 w 96th Street, Zionsville, IN 46077 Improving the lives of children and adults with disabilities in central Indiana through equine-assisted therapies and activities. Therapeutic riding programs are offered Monday – Friday. We also offer a broad array of equine facilitated learning programs, including workshops, field trips, camps and semester long programs.

Ausome Indy is a volunteer run nonprofit serving children in the child welfare system. Through partnerships with community organizations, Ausome Indy reaches children with autism who are in Indiana’s foster care system. Working with therapists, case managers, foster families, parent laisons, and other community partners; Ausome Indy provides life changing access to sensory and communication tools for Indiana’smost vulnerable children.

Providing life changing access to resources for children with autism.

@ausomeindy • ausomeindy.org

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