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The Dream program was created to provide members with opportunities for them to explore their community.
ervices To Enhance Potential (STEP) is a nonprofit organization which provides support and services to nearly 1,400 persons with disabilities and other mental health needs in Macomb and Wayne Counties. A major goal of Services To Enhance Potential is to increase the number of persons who are employed, self-employed, and volunteer in their communities. STEP provides and supports a variety of employment and self-employment options. We were founded in 1972 to bring an employment focus to individuals with a disability and have developed a strong reputation in the community for doing so. This month we are showcasing our Dream program.
An absence of community involvement is a common problem for adults with disabilities. Lack of options for community integration often leads to isolation, depression, and other health concerns. The Dream program was created to provide members with opportunities for them to explore their community. Dream offers a sense of community to members with barriers to employment or community opportunities to those already employed. Members are encouraged to attend community events, participate in volunteer opportunities, experience different cultures and try new leisure pursuits. The Dream program encourages individual growth and attaining community skills.
Each member gives input into what they would like to experience on a daily basis. Through these experiences, they gain self- confidence, social skills, and a sense of community. The ultimate goal of the Dream program is to bring STEP members together and provide them the opportunity to engage with members of the community, learn new skills, and discover different interests. Outings include day trips to Frankenmuth, Greenfield Village, The Henry Ford and MotorCity Comic Con, local zoos, parks, nature trails, bowling, apple orchards and cider mills, just to name a few. For more information about the programs that STEP offers, please visit www.stepcentral.org.
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O.A.T.S. Offering Alternative Therapy with Smiles Making Strides for 25 Years BY KENDRA ROGERS, MS - EDITOR-IN-CHIEF
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1. Kaelyn leading Jack, Remy leading Hope, and Liam leading Summer… our 3 miniature donkeys 2. Doug, the director 3. Delaney riding Liberty 4. Ruth leading Moon with rider, David 5. Cecelia leading Liberty with rider, Nathaniel 6. Kaelyn and three horses conversing 7. Sarrah riding her buddy, Parker in the Rising Stars Horse Show, 2023
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“Oats, Oats is the place where we want to be. Horses and ponies and chickens and goats, that’s the life for me”— Judy Insley, music instructor adapted the words to a common children’s song, “Row, Row, Row your boat” to celebrate an oasis of therapeutic animals and its people. OATS, a nonprofit 501 (c)3, is embarking on its 25th year of serving the special needs community in Ortonville, Michigan during 2023. The founder, Nancy, opened the facility in 1997 to address a gap in therapies available to individuals with special needs. Through a relationship with PATH, Int, OATS is able to continue offering high quality, equine assisted services to those with physical and mental differences. Those who work and volunteer with OATS are privileged to see the benefits of animal assisted services firsthand. Doug Rohrabaugh is the current director. He picked up the mantle in 2021 when Beth Pellerito retired after 8
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many years of service. As the director, Doug oversees the daily operations of OATS to ensure everything runs smoothly and safely. He also safeguards the pastures and barn for the animals, volunteers, instructors, riders, and their families. Doug works tirelessly to secure adequate funds to ensure the continued operation of OATS. As a non-profit facility, volunteers and donations make every ride possible. While Doug is an integral part of the operations of OATS, the instructors and volunteers are the backbone. Ruth Hannam who has volunteered since 2008 and began teaching in 2016 says, “The smiles here say it all!” Our highly qualified instructors observe rigorous training to ensure they can safely choose horses for each rider, address each rider’s unique needs, and create engaging classes where riders learn more than horse skills. Each class relies on a group of volunteers to prepare horses, lead horses, walk next
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to riders, and clean the barn. Without this dedicated group of volunteers, the OATS equine assisted services would cease. Julia, a volunteer who began in the summer of 2023 says, “Volunteering at OATS makes me feel appreciated, and makes me want to be the best person I can be.” In addition to helping with horse care and classes, our volunteers work year-round to maintain the beautiful 40-acre animal sanctuary for the animals and people who enjoy its tranquility. From lawn maintenance to flower beds to the memorial garden, volunteers ensure there is something for everyone to enjoy on OATS’ grounds. Several projects the crew is dreaming of include rebuilding fences and shelters in each pasture for longer life and more protection for the animals and creating a wooded trail for more interesting, relaxing rides. We also hope to be able to update the indoor arena for longevity
and everyone’s health. Recently, two scout projects have updated the observation room and provided a gate at the entrance to increase safety and functionality. These dreams require money and manpower to realize. The volunteers and instructors make classes possible but the most important players in the OATS story are the riders and their families. Over the last 25 years, countless children and adults with special needs have received equine assisted services as part of their ongoing treatment plans. Delaney who started riding in October of 2022 says, “I love it here. It helps me relax when I have a stressful day.” Those with seizures, autism, ADHD, PTSD, global developmental delays, Down syndrome, physical differences, and much more have benefitted from the opportunity to ride our therapy horses. Jessica, a rider’s mother says, “OATS has been such a special place for our family since Julianna started riding there a year ago. Not only do we love the physical benefits of riding for Julianna, but we love the relationships we’ve built along the way. Julianna’s PM&R doctor strongly recommends Hippotherapy, and we’ve seen improvements in her core strength over time. It is also great for her hip development and
work with, ride, and also observe and know when one of the horses is not feeling well or something is off. OATS and continuing to care for animals have allowed Sarrah to be able to grow and find her self-worth as well as be a part of a big community.” Sometimes, there are those participants who benefit from a different kind of therapy and engage with different animals on the ground. This could be brushing a horse or reading to some donkeys or goats. Regardless of the need, those who come to OATS looking for therapy or solace always seem to leave having received more than they anticipated. Equine assisted services are offered in Fall, Winter, and Spring sessions with summer camp available during the summer months, too. In addition to regular equine assisted services, OATS is developing other programs including a homeschool farm days class, a farmhand training course, and others that will serve to enrich lives and further support the community. Director of Operations, Cecelia Tresick says, “Every single horse here has a significant impact on every individual who walks through our equine assisted services center. It is truly an amazing feeling. We love to see it here at OATS, everyday!”
engaging general muscle awareness. Since Julianna is one of the younger riders, we get specialized routines to help her engage different muscle groups. We have gotten to know Julianna’s instructor, her daughter, some of the volunteers, and some of the horses. Sam has a pretty special place in our hearts, he’s such a good boy. We love spending time at OATS!” Rita O’Brein, an instructor since 2011 and volunteer since 2006, says “OATS opened my eyes to different types of special needs requirements and helped me to understand other special needs than what my own child has. OATS enables parents to feel they are not alone in their lives with their special needs child and that there are individuals out there willing and able to provide support and who are willing and able to help their child grow. When my daughter, Sarrah started at OATS in 2005, it was something she wanted to do with her life—work with animals, especially horses—that her schooling did not provide in their post-secondary program. Through the OATS organization, Sarrah not only was able to obtain her wish of working with horses but also able to be her own individual self as HER and not her as my daughter. Sarrah learned how to handle, take care of,
8. Sam (horse) and Juliana (Rider) 9. Ruth leading Moon with rider, Ben 10. Cecelia, director of operations, presenting a participant who does ground work with a ribbon for participating in our Rising Stars show in summer 2023 11. Julia, volunteer, leading Elf(horse), with rider, Liam
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Kaminer M E E T T H E
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heryl and Dennis, originally from NY, now live in Oak Park, MI and are parents to Elana who is 35 and an older daughter who is 40. They are also grandparents to a three-year-old grandson. Elana has special needs and lives in a home with another adult with special needs. Elana attends New Horizons in Madison Heights four days a week. Her one-on-one aid also takes her into the community. Elana loves and misses their old cat Mickey Mantle whom she still talks about daily. Without family nearby, life is harder. Elana has behavioral challenges
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making life difficult. Elana has enjoyed good schools but moving Elana into a home more suited to her was a fight with the county. Sheryl and Dennis fought for what every child deserves--a safe home where they can blossom into who they are as people. Through their hard work and dedication, eventually, Sheryl and Dennis prevailed, and Elana has what she needs and deserves. Sheryl shares that listening to yourself as a parent who knows what your child needs is the best way to advocate for them. She says, “Never stop trying. Push, push, pursue what you feel is right for your child and don’t give up!”
Sheryl and Dennis are currently enjoying retired life together and just celebrated their 43rd wedding anniversary, but prior, Sheryl worked at a synagogue, Congregation Beth Shalom, and Dennis worked at a jewelry and pawn shop, American Jewelry and Loan. Sheryl shared how accommodating the synagogue was with her need to be available for Elana. She says, “I never made a ton of money, but the synagogue fit in with my life and being a mom to a special needs daughter.” One aspect of parenting children with special needs is the demand on time. Having a job that allowed Sheryl to care for Elana was important to their relationship and Elana’s adulthood success. Elana earned a certificate from Clawson High School and walked across the stage. The classroom aids and teachers took the class to Frankenmuth for their senior trip, too. It was a special experience that made Elana feel valued. She also got to graduate from Jardon in Hazel Park at 26. She wore a cap and gown and behaved appropriately. Sheryl and Dennis shared their pride in their daughter’s accomplishments and behavior. Many of her teachers attended the graduation party the family held at Shield’s to celebrate Elana’s accomplishments. After completing her certificate programs, Elana continues to enjoy time in the home her
parents fought to secure for her as well as the enrichment activities she participates in throughout the year. Elana’s favorite activity is horseback riding. She began riding horses at age 4 and has loved animals, especially horses, since. Elana is a rider at OATS, an equine assisted services center in Ortonville, MI (oatshrh.org). Sheryl shares that she and Dennis worked hard to ensure their older daughter didn’t feel left out and may have overcompensated at times. Sheryl enjoyed a cruise and Vegas with their oldest daughter. She also shares that family trips were rarely a possibility due to Elana’s challenging behaviors. While they couldn’t go on family trips much, they shared several holiday traditions including Thanksgiving. A favorite Thanksgiving tradition is sharing what each person is thankful for. Elana frequently shared humorous things like being thankful for her new red shirt! The ability to make special family memories amidst the struggles associated with parenting children with special needs allows families respite from the daily grind. Elana can also attend a sleep-away camp every summer and winter. She also loves eating out at Applebees. McDonald’s and, now White Castle, are also favorites. The family enjoys eating out together during less busy times when places aren’t crowded. Elana also enjoys going to the park with her family Special Needs Living Detroit Metro
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...SHERYL EMPHASIZES THAT LIFE IS NOT EASY AND RAISING A SPECIAL NEEDS CHILD CONSUMES EVERY PART OF LIFE. SHE SAYS, “YOU DO THE BEST YOU CAN DO, BUT YOU HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF, YOUR SPOUSE, AND OTHER CHILDREN, TOO.”
or her staff, but it is challenging when there are a lot of people. She can be loud, and people stare. Sheryl says the staring really bothers her and she hates it. They prefer to stay more local with vacations together because Elana’s needs make longer travel challenging. They have driven to NY to see family, however, but would be very reluctant to take Elana on a plane. In addition to parks, horses, and Applebees, Elana and her family love the Yankees! Elana even steals her Dad’s Yankees shirts to wear! Billy Joel is one of Sheryl and Dennis’s favorite singers and they share that love with Elana, too. They enjoy family dinner every Sunday night. They often eat steak, shrimp, and Chinese food or mashed potatoes and stuffing. Everyone loves these visits. Movie theaters and concerts are a go-to for relaxation for Sheryl. While taking a person with special needs like Elana in public spaces is a challenge, Sheryl discusses their closeknit community where there are sidewalks and welcoming people. The Friendship Circle (https/www.friendshipcircle. 12
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org/) is a big part of their lives, too. Elana was there frequently as a child and Sheryl volunteers there now. She loves the ability to give back to the organization that helped them so much in earlier years. Sheryl also has a group of moms whom she is close with. They help each other with the extra needs of special needs children. They are also involved in Morc (https/www.morcinc.org/) which has helped with everything Elana and the family have needed. Sheryl emphasizes that life is not easy and raising a child with special needs consumes every part of life. She says, “You do the best you can do, but you have to take care of yourself, your spouse, and other children, too.” One way Sheryl and Dennis ensured their marriage of 43 years stayed healthy and their older daughter was included was that they used respite hours which are frequently available as care and support hours for parents of individuals with special needs. She encourages parents to get all the respite hours they need and find all the services they can for their loved ones!
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Healing Haven—Behavioral Health and Autism Therapy Services BY JOCELYN COOK
Healing Haven was founded in 2010 and provides ABA Therapy, Speech Therapy, Occupational Therapy, Counseling and Developmental Testing and Assessments. Healing Haven’s foundation includes an emphasis on parent involvement and stress management for children and parents. The stress that parents of children with special needs face can feel insurmountable. At Healing Haven, the team works to support parents and children beyond simply delivering one-on-one therapy. Healing Haven provides a unique blend of services not always offered together in a single clinic. Their focus is on the child first, rather than their diagnosis, by providing compassionate care where children can feel they are part of their own care team, and their voices matter. The unique campus model Healing Haven created in Madison Heights includes three intentionally designed clinics to support children and teens at various stages from 2 to 16 years old. Each clinic allows for a variety of learning opportunities based on age and client skill level, including school preparation, social skills, prevocational skills, and more. And while the
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majority of their clients have an autism diagnosis, they do also serve family members and siblings with counseling and stress management services. Healing Haven’s President and Founder Jamie McGillivary, MS, LLP, BCBA, LBA, has worked with children with autism for over 25 years. During the early years of her career, she saw how families struggled to get the support that they needed. Healing Haven was born from a need to address many of the unmet needs families and children with autism face on a daily basis. Jamie received her graduate degree at Eastern Michigan University. After graduation, she went to work for a local hospital. The landscape of ABA was much different at the time, as there was no insurance coverage for families, and the costs of services back then were outside of the reach for most families. As such, there were very few providers in the area. Jamie worked in tandem with the hospital to create a unique program that taught parents how to teach their children. Jamie and her team’s research during that time taught them firsthand how parents could be very effective agents of change. “It also shaped my
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passion for understanding the stress that parents experience. I realized the importance of addressing the needs of the whole family,” explains McGillivary. As time went on, insurance coverage became a reality for many families which made treatment much more accessible. While this change led to many more families receiving services, the knowledge Jamie gained from that stressful time - seeing families scrambling for services left an indelible mark on her mind and heart. It was the inspiration for creating a program that continued to emphasize parent involvement and stress management. There are many key differentiators that set Healing Haven apart from other ABA clinics. As mentioned previously, parent training is at the heart of their ABA program. “No one is more invested in a child’s outcome than a parent. We know that parent involvement is pivotal to a child’s development,” says McGillivary. Additionally, Jamie and her team are passionate about early intervention for parental coping skills, as they believe that parents need to learn more than just techniques to reach their children. They need to learn how to take care of themselves in an effort to best care for their children.
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Over the years, Healing Haven expanded to provide interdisciplinary services including speech and occupational therapies so parents have one service location for their children’s therapy. This factor alone helps reduce the stress parents are carrying. This also provides opportunities for the different providers to collaborate on goals unique to each client. Healing Haven later added testing and assessments to the list of services provided, to help parents get answers to their concerns over their child’s development in a timely fashion. The training that Healing Haven team members go through is extensive, thorough, and ongoing. But even with the training requirements, they strive to staff their clinics in a way that cuts down on the long waitlist time families typically experience to receive therapy services. After working with children and teens on the autism spectrum for so many years, Jamie always wants people to remember that children with autism have an amazing way of seeing the world. Just like any other child, they look to their parents and adults for structure and support to shape them and guide them. “However, in teaching them, we should not lose sight of all the amazing lessons they have to teach us. They are outside-of-the-box thinkers,
creative problem solvers, and hold intense interests and passions that can be inspiring,” explains McGillivary. Healing Haven’s community involvement includes supporting the work of the Autism Alliance of Michigan through event sponsorships and promotions of their resources to families. The AAOM advocacy work and support they provide have a strong and positive impact on the autism community in Michigan. Additionally, Healing Haven financially supports a variety of local non-profit organizations that give back to children and their families. Reach out to the Healing Haven to learn more about their services – 248-965-3916 or by visiting their website - https/thehealinghaven.net/ Healing Haven 30821 Barrington St. Madison Heights, MI 48071 248-965-3916 https/thehealinghaven.net/ info@thehealinghaven.net
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Joni and Friends: Victim or Victor? “I am the victim of a terrible diving accident,” I said in a flat and factual way to the lawyer. “It has left me completely paralyzed from the shoulders down.” Our family attorney quietly jotted copious notes as I droned on. I was numb and hurting. I didn’t flinch at all at the idea of making Maryland Beach, Inc. pay. As far as I was concerned, it was their fault the water was too shallow. I was insistent on making my accident everybody else’s fault. I wanted everyone to pay. My physical therapist owed me time off if I didn’t want to go to PT. Vocational Rehab owed me a better case manager. And I really pushed the victimizationthing at home: “You were the ones who brought me into this world. It’s all your fault, Mom and Dad!” 16
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BY JONI EARECKSON TADA
Looking back, most of my anger and depression was rooted in seeing myself as a victim – as an innocent bystander drawn into a terrible tragedy. A culture of comfort encourages an entitlement frame of mind so, we feel swindled if life is anything less than a bed of roses. People feel victimized in unequal marriages or from difficult childhoods, or unfair employment practices. Many have convinced themselves that someone else should either pay for the damages owed to them or take responsibility for their lives. People who choose to see themselves as victims choose self-pity. Back in the late 60s after I became paralyzed in that diving accident, I was stuck in self-pity. But you can only sit in a corner feeling sorry for yourself for so long. Sooner or
later, my heart longed to be free of the suffocating effects of depression and self-focus. After a year of trying to adjust to life in a wheelchair, I began to tire of the blame game. One day in occupational therapy, I was confronted with the devastating effects of my self-centeredness. They wheeled in a young ventilatordependent quadriplegic named Tom. He had suffered a high-level cervical injury from a motorcycle accident, leaving him a C 3-4 quad. He sat rigid and upright in a bulky, oversized wheelchair. Still new to his disability, he had not yet been fitted with a puff-and-sip device to steer his chair. I watched as an aide wheeled him in front of a small table-top easel. My occupational therapist approached Tom with a mouth stick, giving him the same speech she had
given me two weeks earlier. “Since you can no longer use your arms, you will need to use this stick between your teeth to type and turn pages.” It was the same routine the therapist had tried with me. Only I didn’t take the bite. I spat out the mouth stick and insisted, “I’m not like other disabled people. I’m going to get back use of my hands!” I said defiantly. After that, I still went to OT, but most of my time was spent sitting in the corner and watching everyone else. By the time Tom arrived on the scene, I was ready to make a change – I was tired of being inactive. So I watched closely as this young quad – much more functionally limited than I – reached for the mouth stick. Will he spit it out? I wondered. Tom slowly scrawled the letters of the alphabet on a paper tablet on the easel. It took him almost 30 minutes to write all the letters with his mouth. With each letter completed, I felt shame over my peevish attitude. I felt so embarrassed, watching this courageous fellow moving forward into life. Tom’s courage convinced me that I needed to leave behind feelings of self-pity. I needed to quit looking
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at myself as a helpless victim. I may not have been responsible for the unexpected sandbar that concealed the shallow water, but I was responsible for my response to the accident. I may have been unable to control the circumstances surrounding my accident, but I could control my attitude. Still, I needed guidance to pull myself out of depression. I sought the advice of a young friend from church. Steve didn’t know anything about pushing wheelchairs, but he knew I needed help… and he wanted to make a difference. His hospital visits became fascinating discussions over what the Bible had to say about depression and self-pity. “Look,” I said to Steve one day, “there’s no way I can face a life of total paralysis with a happy attitude. It’s just too much, too big.” He had a wise and ready reply: “I couldn’t agree more. It is too much to ask. And god doesn’t ask it of you either. He only asks you to take one day at a time.” This wasn’t a platitude lifted off a cross-stitched plaque; this was a powerful and fundamental signpost pointing to the path away from pain. I began to “wheel” the path to a brighter attitude, beginning with a short verse in the Old Testament. Lamentations 3:22 says, “Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for
his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” I quickly learned this was the only way for me to live: one day at a time with god’s help. I realized my days in rehab were limited, and if I was going to make progress, I’d better get to work! I began lifting weights, and learning how to write, type, and draw with a mouth stick. I cooperated with my Voc Rehab counselor and began to look at my future seriously. I quit badmouthing nurses and aides and began to express gratitude for their help to me and my family. I moved forward into life. There were many mornings I would still wake up dreading my wheelchair. But my emotional frailty and physical weakness were the things that drove me to god and to the Bible. I discovered that my weakness could be a friend – like a sheepdog snapping at my heels, driving me to the safety of the Good Shepherd. I needed god – and whenever I began to forget that important fact, my wheelchair stood ready to remind me. And now, to this day, even after over 56 years of quadriplegia, I still wake up in the morning needing god’s help. It is, perhaps, the best way for me to start any day. For god always seems bigger to me when I need him most. Remember me badmouthing to our family lawyer about the owners
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Joni Eareckson Tada
Joni Eareckson Tada, CEO of Joni and Friends, is an international advocate for people with disabilities. A diving accident in 1967 left her a quadriplegic. After two years of rehabilitation, she emerged with new skills and a fresh determination to help others in similar situations. She founded Joni and Friends in 1979 to provide biblically based programs to families living with disability, as well as training to faith communities. Joni and Friends serves thousands of special-needs families through Retreats and Getaways and has delivered over 210,000 wheelchairs and Bibles to needy disabled persons in developing nations. Joni’s lifelong passion is to bring principles from the Bible to the world’s one billion people with disabilities. She and her husband Ken were married in 1982 and reside in Calabasas, California. Learn more about Joni’s ministry at www.joniandfriends.org or write her at response@joniandfriends.org.
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Tom’s courage convinced me that I needed to leave behind feelings of self-pity. I needed to quit looking at myself as a helpless victim.
of the beach where I broke my neck? We never won that court case. The truth is, I made a stupid, reckless dive without properly checking the depth of the water. Most of all, I realized that playing the victim is not consistent with living for Jesus. God’s children are never victims. Everything that touches our lives, he permits. The irony is that I can’t imagine a more victimized person than Jesus. The scriptures tell me he had no real home. His friends were, for the most part, the fairweather sort. He was betrayed and unjustly crucified, suffering a death he did not deserve. Yet when he died, he did not say “I am finished,” but “It is finished.” He did not play the victim and so, he emerged as the victor. This is the example he has set for me. Victory is mine when I refuse to allow my circumstances to shape and define my life… victory is mine when I allow god to change my heart and lead me confidently into the future. Knowing my truth has set me free!
My Advocacy Journey with Disability Employment Awareness
BY MIKA HARTMAN
As a mother, it is my role to equip my son with every tool that he needs to achieve his desired level of success. As we commemorate National Disability Employment Awareness Month (NDEAM), I find myself reflecting on a pivotal moment in my life that set me on my advocacy journey. It was a moment that occurred just after my son, who was born with Down syndrome, had made his grand entrance into the world. As I made my way to the NICU with my husband by my side, a stranger struck up a conversation in the elevator. Brimming with joy, I shared the news of our son and his extra 21st chromosome. Little did I know this stranger would leave me with a profound message: “Treat him like everyone else and keep your expectations high.” Her words, though seemingly obvious, carry a significant weight when considering how society often perceives and treats individuals with disabilities. Sadly, much of society still treats people with disabilities like babies with very low expectations. When people with disabilities accomplish big things, it’s met with shock instead of celebration. From education to employment opportunities, often
these basic rights, if being met at all, are more of “boxes checked” than “preparedness” or “inclusion.” Consider this: how frequently do you encounter individuals with intellectual disabilities when shopping, dining, or engaging with various businesses? The rarity of such encounters often prompts gratitude and appreciation for the company’s inclusive hiring practices. However, considering that the unemployment rate is twice as high for people with disabilities, we still have a long way to go. This begs the question: why does society, despite the enactment of the Americans with Disabilities Act in 1990, still struggle to fully embrace and normalize disabilities in the workplace, instead of perceiving them as “less than”? Putting it simply, there are two very real problems that my friends with disabilities face in the workplace. One is misperceptions leading to stereotyping, discrimination, and stigma toward people with disabilities. The second is the fear of losing their social security disability. If you’ve read this far, I want you to know that
you can easily change the first one. Disability exclusion has stemmed from the belief that having a disability makes you “less than”. My son is not “less than” and the solution is simple – challenge your perceptions and raise your expectations of what people with disabilities can accomplish. As a mother, it is my role to equip my son with every tool that he needs to achieve his desired level of success. Whether he aspires to assemble pizza boxes or dreams of becoming the President of the United States, it is my responsibility to support his journey, but it is ultimately his determination that will pave the way to his success. You may never get the chance to meet my son, but you are a part of helping to make the world and workplace more welcoming to other individuals with disabilities. In celebrating NDEAM, let us commit to being better humans who recognize and champion the vast possibilities that individuals with disabilities offer for a more inclusive and brighter future. My son is EXTRA, not less. Special Needs Living Detroit Metro
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SENSITIVE CHILDREN
“I don’t like this shirt; it picks me.” “I don’t want to wear socks.” “That is tooooo loud.” “I won’t eat THAT.”
BY JUDITH E. LIPSON, M.A., LPC
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hese comments can be humorous or exasperating, but I no longer view them as the problem behavior of a child. These children are sensitive. And while many of these sensitive children acquire labels - anxious, ADHD, Aspergers, or autistic - these are only labels. I don’t believe your child (of any age) has a problem, though at times the behaviors can be challenging. If you are wondering if your child’s behaviors are indicators of being highly sensitive and you want to understand your child better, you can examine the five senses.
Seeing: The highly sensitive child
tends to see everything. They notice the smallest details and feel compelled to take it all in. Once they are familiar with a room, they are less distracted by visual stimulation. Some colors, types of lights, or other intense sights may cause pain to a sight-sensitive child, too.
Taste: There are some children
There is also the sixth sense. It tends to be the most overlooked. This is the awareness of others’ emotions and moods and helps us to be empathic and intuitive. The sensitive child doesn’t realize that they are sensing the emotions of others. Teach your child to realize that the anxiety, anger, or sadness that they feel might be coming from the people around them. Help your child understand this concept and teach them to then ask, “Is this mine?” to help them identify if it is their own emotion. It is important to realize that being highly sensitive is not just experienced by children. Many adults also have these traits. As the parent of a highly sensitive child, it is likely that you also have some of these characteristics (though probably not as intense or as many). Some sensitive people describe their difficulty to these senses being stimulated as painful to them. This is real pain like you might experience if you stub your toe, but for the highly sensitive individual it is due to the way their brains perceive and make meaning from their senses. You have a wonderful opportunity to educate your child and to model acceptance and ease.
who only eat certain foods. Many are choosy about the flavor, consistency, or texture of the food.
There are many things that you can do to help your sensitive child:
Touch: This is the most common.
Children complain about scratchy fabric, embroidery that irritates the skin, shoes and socks, or the sensation of water on the skin. Some children find the touch of another person to be uncomfortable or intolerable. When this is the case, use a firmer touch. Occupational therapists might prescribe skin brushing and weighted vests to address this. Hearing: This child hears everything (other than directions to clean their room or put out the garbage). Certain tones can be distracting or distressing. I had a student who couldn’t concentrate in a classroom because of a loud fan. Another student was distracted when the TV in the classroom was on. Though the picture was off, it emitted a high-pitched sound. The student heard this above the other classroom sounds. Oh, and that noisy classroom? A sensitive child can have difficulty distinguishing a specific sound in the midst of others and may then tune everything out.
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Smell: This is the least known. But if you ask your sensitive child questions, they will acknowledge smelling things that others don’t or being irritated by certain smells.
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• Educate yourself about your own sensitive nature. • Don’t focus on your child’s challenging behaviors. • Provide structure and familiar routines. • Keep your own energy and emotions calm when communicating with your child (especially when giving corrections). • Recognize your child’s compassion, empathy, creativity, and intelligence. • Accept your child and appreciate his/her gifts. • Explain to your child that these gifts help us to become a society of loving, compassionate, accepting people. • Help your child to realize that they may be affected by the moods of others: family members, students in class, people in malls, etc. • Understand that this experience can be overwhelming for your child. • Find a mentor or counselor who understands sensitive children so that your child can learn how to minimize the sensitivities, deal with the experiences, and recognize their inherent gifts with ease. • Being a sensitive is a challenge as well as a beautiful gift. You can help your child to be the full expression of who they really are! Judy Lipson is a Licensed Professional Counselor and educational strategist in West Bloomfield, MI. She helps clients of all ages who have learning difficulties, work or school related anxiety, ADHD, Asperger’s Syndrome or Autism Spectrum Disorders, and those who wish to Remember and Become ‘Who You Really Are’. Contact Judy at 248.568.8665 and judylipson@ spiralwisdom.net, and visit www. JudyLipson.com for more information. This article is for informational purposes and is not meant to replace medical care.
ADVOCATE LIKE A MOTHER
Navigating IEP Eligibility for Autism in Michigan: A Complex Web of Diagnoses BY MARIA GIANCOTTI, M.ED - STUDENT ADVOCACY MICHIGAN
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n the realm of special education services in Michigan, obtaining an Individualized Education Program (IEP) for a child with autism can be a complex journey. The process revolves around the distinction between a medical diagnosis of autism and the educational criteria for IEP eligibility. For many parents and educators, this can be a source of confusion and frustration. What’s essential to understand is that while some children with autism may qualify for an IEP under the designation of autism, others may find eligibility under different categories such as Specific Learning Disability, Other Health Impairment, or Speech and Language Impairment. The determining factors in this decision are how autism manifests in the child and the specific deficits identified in the evaluation process.
Understanding the Educational Criteria
To begin, let’s clarify that having a medical diagnosis of autism does not guarantee eligibility for an IEP. Michigan, like many states, adheres to the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), which mandates that an IEP is designed for children who require special education and related services to address their unique needs in an educational setting. Therefore, the educational criteria for an IEP are distinct from a medical diagnosis of autism. When determining IEP eligibility under autism, educational professionals conduct a comprehensive evaluation to assess the child’s educational needs and challenges. This evaluation considers how autism affects the child’s ability to access and progress in the general education curriculum. If autism-related challenges significantly impede academic performance, social interaction, or other areas of education, the child may qualify for an IEP under the autism category. Other Eligibility Categories
However, it’s important to recognize that not all children with autism will meet the educational criteria for an IEP specifically under the autism category. Some might exhibit mild symptoms or have developed strategies to cope with the challenges that allow them to perform adequately in a general education setting. In such cases, they may still require support but could be eligible for an IEP under alternative categories, depending on their individual needs. 1. Specific Learning Disability (SLD): Children with autism may struggle with specific academic areas, such as reading or math, more than others. If their primary educational challenge is in a particular academic domain, they might qualify for an IEP under the SLD category, even if they have a medical diagnosis of autism. 2. Other Health Impairment (OHI): Some children with autism may experience co-occurring health
impairments, such as ADHD, anxiety, or medical conditions (epilepsy, severe allergies, etc.), which impact their ability to access education. In such cases, they might qualify for an IEP under the OHI category. 3. Speech and Language Impairment: Autism often affects communication skills, and children who have significant speech and language deficits may be eligible for an IEP under this category. In some instances, these deficits may be more pronounced than their autism-related challenges. Evaluating Individual Needs
In Michigan, as in many states, a critical component of IEP eligibility is the comprehensive evaluation process. This evaluation takes into account the child’s strengths and weaknesses, gathers input from parents and educators, and considers assessments of various domains, including academic, social, and emotional functioning. The purpose of this evaluation is to identify the specific areas where the child requires support and to determine the most appropriate eligibility category for their IEP. CONCLUSION
Navigating the path to IEP eligibility for a child with autism in Michigan can be a nuanced and complex process. Parents, educators, and professionals must understand the distinction between a medical diagnosis of autism and the educational criteria for an IEP. Not every child with autism will automatically qualify for an IEP under the autism category, and that’s okay. The ultimate goal is to provide each child with the most appropriate and tailored support to help them succeed in their educational journey. The eligibility determination, as outlined by the IDEA, hinges on a comprehensive evaluation that assesses the unique needs of the child and identifies the most suitable category under which to grant the IEP. Whether it’s autism, specific learning disabilities, other health impairments, or speech and language deficits, the focus remains on creating an individualized plan that equips the child with the tools they need to thrive in their educational environment. It is through this understanding and flexibility that Michigan strives to ensure that every child, regardless of their diagnosis, can access the education they deserve. If you have questions or need guidance regarding an IEP for autism, contact us! Also, navigate to our website and get our FREE download, Autism IEP Checklist at www.studentadvocacymi.com Special Needs Living Detroit Metro
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Local Events
Christia Woodford — Publishing Assistant and Local Events
BY CHRISTIA WOODFORD
Visit a Museum through Museums for All Due to COVID-19, many museums participating in Museums for All have adjusted their hours and ticket purchasing policies. Before visiting a museum, please call or check their website to see if they are open or require advance registrations. Many museums are offering virtual resources—check your local museum’s website for more information. Through Museums for All, those receiving food assistance (SNAP benefits) can gain free or reduced admission to more than 1,000 museums throughout the United States simply by presenting their EBT card and a photo ID. Check here for participating museums. https/museums4all.org/ MUSEUMS Abrams Planetarium Season Of Light Dec. 1- 17, Fridays & Saturdays 8:00 pm. Sundays 4:00 pm. Many of the familiar customs that we observe this time of year have an astronomical connection. Our holiday offering explores the traditions that we associate with this special season. https/www. abramsplanetarium.org/ Programs/Public.html Christmas Constellations Dec. 1- 17, Sundays 2:30 pm. When we look at the stars, we can play a giant game of 24
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dot-to-dot. We can use our imaginations to come up with amazing things from basic shapes to mythical creatures to our favorite animals. In this show, we will use our imaginations to search through the stars for holiday-themed shapes in the sky. This show is suitable for preschoolers, young elementary-aged children, and their families. Sensory Friendly Show Third Sunday of every month at 11:30 a.m. and 1:00 pm 755 Science Road, East Lansing, MI, United States These shows will run with the lights up, the sound down, and the theater doors open so people can move about as needed. We also provide a place to “chill out” in our lobby. All shows include a live star talk about what is up in the sky that night. We will include a short break between the main show and star talk. Information about what to expect during the show will be provided when you purchase tickets. Cost: Adults, $5.50, Students and senior citizens, $5.00, Children (age 12 and under), $4.50 Friends of Abrams Planetarium Members, Free Free with Museums For All (with valid EBT, Medicaid, or WIC card and photo ID) https/www. abramsplanetarium.org/ Programs/Sensory.html Ella Sharp Museum Cookies With Santa
Dec. 2, 12:00 pm- 3:00 pm $5 per person Drop into the Ella Sharp Museum as we celebrate the holidays and welcome Santa and Mrs. Claus to the Hillside Farm for some cookies in the Granary! Photos will be taken by the Ella Sharp Museum and sent to families via email for you to enjoy! Be sure to stop in and visit Ella’s Holiday Market while you’re here. Register: https/ellasharpmuseum. org/classes-and-events/ cookies-with-santa/ Sensory Time Every Saturday at 9:00 am 3225 4th Street, Jackson, Michigan 49203 During Sensory Friendly Hours, the Ella Sharp Museum will open its galleries at 9 a.m., an hour before the museum opens to the public. Families with members who are neurodiverse, autistic, or have other sensory processing disorders or cognitive disabilities are welcome to visit the museum for a quieter experience in a more controlled environment. Designated quiet zones will allow visitors to decompress and experience the museum at their own pace. Before each program, families are invited to browse our “pre-visit” materials to help them prepare for their visit including social narratives and maps of our facility. These pre-visit materials are also available
to help families plan for visits that take place outside of program hours and a sensory backpack is available at the front desk for use. To provide the most sensory-friendly environment possible, we will limit the capacity for these special times to 50 people. https/ ellasharpmuseum.org/ classes-and-events/ sensory-time/ Outdoor Adventure Center Sensory-Friendly Days Dec. 3, 10:00 am- 12:00 pm Outdoor Adventure Center, 1801 Atwater Street, Detroit, Michigan, 48207 The DNR Outdoor Adventure Center welcomes friends and families with sensory processing differences to our sensory-friendly building hours! Enjoy the opportunity to explore and experience the OAC with building sounds and ambient noises at a lower volume. During your visit, there will be a quiet room with sensory materials available to use. At noon, the building will open to the public, with volumes returning to standard operating levels. All staff are KultureCitycertified to ensure the best possible experience. Complimentary admission. Dec. 3, join us for a “winter wonderland!” https/www.michigan.gov/ oac/experience/eventcalendar/2023/12/03/ outdoor-adventure-center--dec-3-sensory-friendly-days
Movie Pizza Night at the Rochester Avon Recreation Authority Dec. 15, 7:00 pm- 9:00 pm Rochester Avon Recreation Authority - Messy Room, 500 E. Second St., Rochester, MI 48307 Kids ages 14 and up with special needs enjoy an evening of movies and pizza at this once-monthly event. Registration required. Event cost: $17/resident, $21/non-resident http/rararecreation.org/ Special-Needs-Recrea tion/Adaptive-Programs SPORTS Detroit Red Wings Dec. 7, 9, 14, 18, 22, 29, 31 Little Caesars Arena, 2645 Woodward Ave, Detroit, MI 48201 https/www.nhl.com/redwings Detroit Lions Dec. 17 Broncos Ford Field, 2000 Brush ST, Detroit, MI 48226 https/www.detroitlions.com/ Detroit Pistons Dec. 2, 11, 13, 21, 26, 30 Little Caesars Arena, 2645 Woodward Ave, Detroit, MI 48201 https/www.nba.com/ team/1610612765 FAMILY FUN Detroit Zoo Wild Lights Nov. 24- Jan. 7, 2024 5:00 pm- 10:30 pm The Detroit Zoo will be aglow for 40 magical nights with more than five million LED lights illuminating trees, buildings and over
280 sculptures throughout the front half of the Zoo. Experience the magic of the Detroit Zoo in winter as you take in the lights, sights and sounds of the season for guests of all ages. Walking https/ wildlights.detroitzoo.org/ Sensory Friendly Evenings November 3 to 7 p.m. Check the website for the day! As part of our work to create accessible and welcoming spaces for all, the Detroit Zoo will turn down the music and adjust the lights during special evenings this summer. Starting in June, the Detroit Zoo is hosting three Sensory Friendly Evenings for guests with different sensory needs. Sensory Friendly Evenings will take place from 3 to 7 p.m. on Aug. 30. During these times, the Zoo and its attractions will be open to all visitors, but special accommodations will be in place to ensure the Zoo can be enjoyed by families and individuals of all abilities. What accommodations can I expect during Sensory Friendly Evenings? Reduced music volume at gate entry Reduced volume and adjusted lighting inside the Polk Penguin Conservation Center’s Shackleton experience Limited effects and adjusted lighting in the 4D Theater Reduced sound on the BRICKLIVE trail Altered music on the Carousel KultureCity sensory bags equipped with noisecanceling headphones, fidget
tools and verbal cue cards will be available to guests who may feel overwhelmed by the environment. Guests can check out the bags at Customer Care and the Park Safety Office. Weighted lap pads and strobe glasses are available upon request. A dedicated sensory room is available for those who may need a quieter and more secure space. Included with Zoo admission | Free for members | No event registration required https/detroitzoo.org/ events/zoo-events/sensoryfriendly-evenings/ International Day of Veterinary Medicine Dec. 9, 11:00 am- 3:00 pm Meet the amazing team that keeps the animals who call the Detroit Zoo home healthy! Discover how the animals at the Zoo are cared for and everything that goes into ensuring each species is kept healthy and comfortable. National Visit the Zoo Day De. 27, 11:00 am- 3:00 pm There’s no better day to visit the Zoo! Visit us to learn how the Zoo is the gift that keeps on giving and see animals who are more active in the winter months. RaRa’s Diner’s Club Dec. 4, 5:00 pm- 6:30 pm Locations change each month On one Monday a month, persons with special needs will be able to enjoy a meal with friends at various local restaurants. Nov. 6 is
Ram’s Horn and Dec. 4 is Olive Garden. Participants will pay for their own meals, beverages and tips at the restaurant. Spots are very limited, so make sure to pre-register early. For ages 14 and up. http/rararecreation.org/ Special-Needs-Recreation/ Adaptive-Programs Jingle Bell Ball Dec. 12, 6:00 pm- 8:00 pm Waterford Oaks Activity Center 2800 Watkins Lake Road, Waterford, MI 48328 Jingle Bell Ball, an event for individuals ages 18 and older with developmental disabilities, will include music, dancing, a visit from Santa and pizza. Each participant will also receive a gift. The cost is $12/ participant and $6/caregiver, Preregistration with payment is required by Friday, Dec. 8. Call 248-858-0916 to register. Call 248-221-8040 for program questions. https/www.oakgov.com/ Home/Components/ Calendar/Event/2347/720 Paws-itivly SENSORY STORY TIME Dec. 16 and 19, 10:00 am- 11:00 am Huron Valley Humane Society, 3100 Cherry Hills Road, Ann Arbor, MI Do you have a young child who loves animals? Then, bring your little ones to HSHV to have a paws-itively fun time! Sensory Story Time at HSHV is just like our traditional story time but is specifically intended Special Needs Living Detroit Metro
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as a welcoming space for neurodiverse children. Join us one Tuesday every month for interactive stories, sensory play, a tour of the shelter and lots of fun! Sensory Story Time is generally designed for children ages 2-5, but all children are welcome. Pre-registration is required in order to maintain small group sizes. Registration: There is a $5 fee per child for the program. Up to two adults per child may attend free of charge. We will also not charge for siblings under the age of one attending with a registered child. Pre-registration is required and space is limited to 8 children and two caregivers per child. Register here https/www.tickettailor.com/ events/hshv/561606?# Cost: $5 SANTA’S REINDEER FARM Nov. 18- Dec. 17, 12:00 pm- 4:00 pm Grandpa Tiny’s Farm, 7775 Weiss Street, Frankenmuth, MI Experience Santa’s Farm during the hustle and bustle of getting ready for the Christmas season! **Lots of Photography Opportunities!** The farm is on fullon holiday mode for this stroll-through event where you will get to see how Santa has transformed the farm into his headquarters preparing for the big day. Meet Santa himself along with the reindeer in
training. Bring a letter for Santa if you haven’t already mailed it! Watch and chat with the jolly workers helping to keep Santa’s Farm running smoothly. Included is making an ornament with the Woodworker to take home with you! Tickets for this event will be available online only and not at the gate. Everyone in attendance needs a ticket for this event other than children aged 5 years old and under because they are free with a ticket holding adult. Get tickets here https/ www.grandpatinys.com/ santas-reindeer-farm Cost: $17 for ages 5 and up. Under 5 are FREE Legoland Discovery Center Michigan Sensory Friendly Mornings Check the website for upcoming Mornings 4240 Baldwin Rd, Auburn Hills, MI 48326 During Sensory Friendly Mornings, we’ll reduce the lighting, turn off music & disable distracting stimuli for an hour before we open to the general public. This event is perfect for our friends on the autism spectrum. Sensory sensitive adults are welcome to visit during Sensory Friendly Mornings without a child (age 16 or under) in the party until the attraction opens to the general public at 10 am. Adults who are not accompanied by a child must exit the attraction upon
opening. Groups that are accompanied by a child are welcome to stay past 10 am. Tickets are limited and must be purchased online in advance for this special event. https/www. legolanddiscoverycenter.com/ michigan/tickets-passes/
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Sealife Michigan Sensory Friendly Mornings Check the website for upcoming mornings 4316 Baldwin Road, Auburn Hills, MI 48326
This free, online workshop takes a closer look at the Individualized Education Program (IEP) process. This workshop will help you:
During Sensory Friendly Mornings, we’ll reduce the lighting, turn off music & disable distracting stimuli for an hour before we open to the general public. This event is perfect for our friends on the autism spectrum. The aquarium will open to the general public with normal lighting, sound, etc. at 10 am, but you’re welcome to stay as long as you like and do not have to leave when the event ends at 10 am. Tickets are limited and must be purchased online in advance for this special event. Please check https/www. visitsealife.com/michigan/ what-s-inside/events/ sensory-friendly-mornings/
EVENTS IEP: A Closer Look Dec. 4, 12:00 pm- 1:30 pm Register at tinyurl. com/3e8vkn88
• take a more indepth look at the core areas of the IEP • prioritize your greatest concerns •learn how to address those concerns through the IEP process • improve your ability to have productive conversations There will also be time set aside to ask questions. Who should attend? Families with a child or young adult with an IEP or IFSP. Questions? info@ michiganallianceforfamilies.org
MJR Digital Cinema Sensory-Friendly Film Check the website for movie times 100 East Maple Road, Troy, MI, 48083, United States https/www.mjrtheatres. com/sensory-friendlyfilms?fbclid=IwAR1JnETT-
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SPECIAL NEEDS LIVING DETROIT METRO Family Fun Day at Play-Place Autism & Special Needs Center
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oin us for a fantastic day of fun and laughter at the Play-Place Autism & Special Needs Center in Sterling Heights, MI! This in-person event is perfect for families with special needs children looking for a day of excitement and bonding. At this Family Fun Day, we have planned a variety of activities that are sure to bring smiles to everyone’s faces. From sensory play areas to interactive games, there is something for everyone to enjoy. Our dedicated staff will be there to ensure a safe and inclusive environment for all participants. THIS IS A FREE EVENT AND NO COST TO PARTICIPATE.
You will also get to connect with some great companies and special needs resources. Jan 28th 4-6pm Located at 42301 Mound Rd, Sterling Heights, MI, USA, the Play-Place Autism & Special Needs Center is a welcoming space designed specifically for children with special needs. Our facility is equipped with state-of-the-art equipment and resources to cater to the unique needs of each child. Don’t miss out on this incredible opportunity to connect with other families and create lasting memories. We can’t wait to see you there! SPACE IS LIMITED
To register click or scan the QR code below https/www.eventbrite.com/e/specialneeds-living-detroit-metro-day-atplay-place-autism-family-fun-tickets742456355947?aff=oddtdtcreator
To learn more about this great space check out their website below https/autisticplayplace.org 28
December 2023
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