MEET THE MECKEL FAMILY

BY JAMIE MCCABE • PHOTOS BY 21 VINES PHOTOGRAPHY

Emily and Justin Meckel both grew up in Hancock County, though they didn’t meet until after college. They have resided near Carthage, on their serene half-mile-away-from-the-nearest neighbor farm, for nine years. They named the place Sunshine Valley Farm for their daughter Emery, who is the sunshine in their lives. Amid the serene landscapes of their rural home, the Meckel family has faced considerable challenges. Their journey as a family is one marked by resilience and an unwavering commitment to their daughter.

Born with Down syndrome, Emery was diagnosed with schizencephaly (brain cleft) at age two. The condition affected her verbal communication and ambulation ability. An atrioventricular (AV) canal defect necessitated open heart surgery, only adding to Emily and Justin’s anxieties.

The challenges were significant, but Emery’s indomitable spirit has been a source of inspiration. She faces her difficulties with remarkable happiness, undeniable sass, and an unrelenting determination that touches all who meet her.

Their journey has offered the Meckels a unique perspective on parenting and the perception of disability. One piece of advice they cherish came from Emery’s neonatologist while she was in the NICU: “Do not let anyone ever put her in a box.” Emily and Justin embraced this wisdom, vowing not to let anyone define their daughter or family. Their experience has shown them that Emery is a unique and precious gift that has enriched their lives and those around her.

Now five years old, Emery attends developmental preschool at Eastern Hancock Elementary. She receives a range of therapies at school, including physical therapy (PT), occupational therapy (OT), and speech therapy. She also participates in outpatient services, including music therapy every other week.

The Meckels share their home with a menagerie of animals. The farm was a project born out of Emily’s need for a postpartum distraction following Emery’s birth. They raise both commercial and show lambs. Their other animal companions include two old farm dogs named Daisy and Reba, along with Emery’s pups, Maggie and Jake.

Despite the challenges, the Meckel family has celebrated many memorable moments. Emery’s journey has been one of adaptation and learning. Her expressive abilities may differ from typical children, but she has developed ways to convey her thoughts and feelings. Signing words and using facial expressions, Emery communicates effectively with her family. Her love for the farm, particularly the sheep and lambs, is evident in her enthusiasm for being in the barn and helping care for the animals. Another source of joy in Emery’s life is music, especially the music of Taylor Swift. Despite her difficulties with verbal expression, Emery’s love for music allows her to connect with others and the world around her.

Justin graduated from Purdue University in 2007 with a degree in building construction management. He is the owner and operator of Meckel Construction, specializing in large-scale residential remodels and new home builds. Emily also plays a role in the construction company, assisting part-time with office work. However, their most significant job is providing the care and support that Emery needs.

The family is deeply committed to their community. They have created Hancock County PossABILITIES, an all-inclusive livestock experience designed for children of all abilities. Emery is actively involved in this program, reflecting the family’s dedication to creating opportunities for children with disabilities.

Their journey has been made easier with the support of various organizations and professionals. The Lucky Mama Project, Down Syndrome Indiana, and the local FUSE office have all played essential roles in helping them navigate the world of special needs. The medical professionals at Community North Hospital, where Emery was born, offered vital resources and support when they brought their brand-new baby home.

Despite the challenges they’ve faced, Emily and Justin are deeply grateful for the joy and love that Emery has brought into their lives. Emery has shown them that every day may not be easy, but there is always a bright and sunny day waiting for them.

For those who have just moved to their community and are seeking support groups, Emily advises looking on social media and connecting with their children’s physicians to inquire about local groups. In their experience, it truly takes a village to raise children, especially those with unique needs. She encourages newcomers not to be afraid to reach out, ask questions, and advocate for their children. There is a fitting place for every family, regardless of their children’s diagnosis or disability.

Despite the challenges they’ve faced, Emily and Justin are deeply grateful for the joy and love that Emery has brought into their lives.