Pastor's Corner

RAISING YOUNG MEN OF FAITH

BY PAUL HATHCOAT

The importance of male leadership in the lives of young men cannot be overstated, especially in families where disabilities are part of daily life Fathers, grandfathers, uncles, and mentors can shape young boys, teaching them not only how to be men but how to be *godly* men For families raising children with disabilities, the call to lead by example and model a life of Christian faith is essential. Men are called to guide with humility, patience, and quiet strength rooted in Scripture. Let’s look at this concept, from a pastor’s perspective

The Father’s Influence: A Reflection of God’s Love

As a father or mentor, your influence on a young man’s life is invaluable. You reflect God’s love and guidance Just as God is a patient and loving Father, you can show that fatherly love in your relationship with your son, nephew, or mentee For boys with disabilities, who face challenges others may not fully understand, your role becomes even more significant You are not just a provider or protector but a source of spiritual direction and encouragement

The Bible speaks clearly about a father’s role: “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord ”* (Ephesians 6:4, ESV)

A father’s responsibility is not only to correct but to nurture. Whether through challenges related to their disability or the daily struggles of growing up, your calm and patient leadership provides a foundation of strength and security. The consistency of your faith will be a guiding light for your son.

Leading by Example with Humility and Strength

For boys to grow into men who honor God, they need to see examples of what that looks like It’s not about being the loudest voice but about leading with humility, showing strength through discipline, and remaining patient through life’s challenges

One of the greatest examples of quiet strength is found in Jesus Himself Throughout the Gospels, Jesus is depicted as strong yet humble, powerful yet meek. He led by serving others, showing compassion, and teaching with patience As men of faith, fathers and mentors are called to reflect this Christ-like example in their daily lives.

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.”* (Matthew 5:16)

For any young man, especially one navigating life with a disability, knowing God’s Word is essential Fathers and mentors must take the lead in ensuring that the young men in their care not only hear the Word but understand it. Daily prayer, Bible study, and memorization of Scripture are disciplines that will equip boys with the spiritual armor they need to face life’s challenges *“Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”* (Proverbs 22:6)

This training is not just about telling them what the Bible says but showing them how to live it out

A Special Call to Dads of Children with Disabilities

To the dads and mentors of children with disabilities, know that your role is sacred The challenges your family faces may be unique, but so is the grace God has given you to lead your child. You may feel overwhelmed at times but remember that God’s strength is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). Your faithfulness is a testimony not just to your family but to those around you.

Be encouraged! Your work as a father or mentor is a high calling, and God sees your heart Your commitment to your child’s spiritual and emotional well-being is planting seeds of faith that will grow over time. Trust that God will equip you with the wisdom, strength, and patience you need for this journey “But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.”* (Isaiah 40:31)

As you guide your son or loved ones, may you be renewed in strength and hope, knowing that God is with you every step of the way Your role is immeasurable, and through your leadership, you are raising a generation of men who will walk in faith, live with integrity, and lead with humility. Keep pressing on you are making a difference. Blessings!

Do you have a thought, idea or information that you would like to see in this section in an upcoming issue? Email Paul Hathcoat at phathcoat@wrcc org