I say quit your job, but i know you won't and your boss knows it too(1)

ISAYQUI TYOURJOB, BUTIKNOW YOUWON' TANDYOURBOSS KNOWSI TTOO

Exhaust i on,depr essi on,f at i gueandwor stofal l l ackofi nspi r at i onbecauseyouwer en' tbor nt o doi t .Unf or t unat el yt hecomf or tofj obsecur i t y al l owsyout owast eyear sdoi ngsomet hi ngt hat youwer en' tcutoutf or ,yourchar act erwasnot i nser t edi nt ot hatbodyj ustt osi tf or8hour si n t heof f i cebutyetyoungmanyouf i ndyour sel f waki ngupi nt heear l yhour sofever ymor ni ng chasi ngherdr eam.Herconf i dencebaf f l esyou, ent husi asm i nmeet i ngsandyouaskyour sel f buthow?Wher edoesshegett hatdr i ve?

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Sonshe' snotyourpr obl em.Ther ealpr obl em i s notyourboss, def i ni t el ynotyourcol l eagues oh andnotevent hej obi t sel f .Her e' swher eyoucan putal lt hebl ame;I t ' st hatver yi mpor t antpar tof t hebodyt hatGodhasgr ant edt ohumanbei ngs and made 100% sur ei tsepar at ed us f r om ani mal s.My boy yourbr ai ni s yourbi ggest enemy,yes t hatmuscl e needs some speci al ki ndofexer ci set ochannelyourbodyi nt her i ght di r ect i on.Thef unnyt hi ng aboutt hi sbr ai ni s t hatt het r ut hset t l essomewher ewi t hi nt hedeep end and a day nevergoes by wi t houtyou r evi si t i ng i t . . .

Yoh butyou st i l lchoose t he l i e f r om t hevi sualext er i or .Honeyyou' vegotmor e t hanenought i met ost udyyour sel f ,l i st ent ot he i nneryouhe' st r yi ngt ot el lyousomet hi ngt hat wi l lbenef i tyou.

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Happyi sshewho wal ksi nt o ar oom wi t ha br oadsmi l eonherf ace, r eadyt or ockt hewor l d.

Youmydearbr ot her ,youar ej ustanonl ooker wi t ht oomuchunnecessar yenvy.I fonl yyou knew t hatt hef i r stst ept obeatheri st oknow t hatshe' snotyourcompet i t or .See,youwer e bor nt o do somet hi ng wayt oo di f f er entt hat won' tevenf eell i kewor k.Youj ustneedt ost op f ocusi ng on her .Have you r eal i sed t he t i me you' ve wast ed on her .One coul d swearyou know t henumberofst epsshet akeson t he cor r i doron herwayt o herdeskever ysi ngl e mor ni ng. Youknow ver ywel lt her easonyou comeear l yt owor ki snott hatyou' r eanear l y bi r d,notevenawor kahol i c.Youj ustwantt o f eedyourconf usedsel fgr i ef ,t hi nki ngt hatyou wi l lgr absomet hi ngf r om herchar act ert owor k i nyourf avour .Whatyouf ai lt ounder st andi s t hatshei sl i keapear lshe' sat i nysandst one t hatf i ndsi t swayunderanoyst ershel l , andi ti s soi r r i t at i ngt ot heoyst ert hati twor ksont he st one,andevent ual l yonedayt hi ssandst one becomes a beaut i f ul ,smoot h,shi ny pear l .

Henceherchar act er , vi be, andent husi asm she' s her sel f .She' snott r yi ngt ocompet ewi t hanyone el se.Herconf i dencei sast r ongat t r act i vef or ce t hatgr absyourat t ent i onunwi l l i ngl ynow you f i ndyour sel fdanci ngt ohert unes.

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Mychi l dyouar ei nt r oubl ewi t hyour sel f .Don' t wast eyourener gyt r yi ngt ocompet ewi t hher .

Doyouknow t hatt wosi dedmi r r orwher eone si deshowsaper f ecti mageandt heopposi t e si deshowsahugezoomedi mage.Taket hat mi r r orandonl yuset hesi det hatshowst her eal you.Son compet i t i on wi t h your sel fi s cl ean, har ml essandf r ui t f ul .Howaboutyoust ar tnow.

Al i t t l ebi tofsel fi nt r ospect i onwi l ldonohar m.i f youcol l ectdat aaboutyour sel fyoucanmake i mpr ovement sbased on t hatdat a.Themor e youpayat t ent i ont oyouremot i onsandhowyou wor k,t hebet t eryou' l lunder st andwhyyoudo t het hi ngsyoudo.Themor eyouknow about yourownhabi t s,t heeasi eri ti st oi mpr oveon 4

t hosehabi t s.

Whenyoupr epar ef oraj obi nt er vi ew,your eal l y wantappr oaches,yourner ves st ar tt o pl ay f unnyt r i cksonyou.Youf i ndi thar dt of ocuson anyt hi ngel se.Anxi et y,appr ehensi onandwor r y ar eal lnat ur alhumanr esponsest oast r essf ul si t uat i onl i keani nt er vi ew.Thesear ei ndi cat or s t hatyouwantt osucceed.Yett hatpr ot ect i on mechani sm cal l edf earki cksi nt odef endyou agai nstt hepai noff ai l ur e.

So whatcan you do t o bui l d up up your conf i dence agai nstt he f ear f ulexpect at i on of f ai l ur e? One met hod i st o cr eat e a power f ul st r at egy t hatwi l lper suade youri nt er vi ewer s t hatyou’ r et hebestcandi dat ef ort her ol e.

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 Young man r ef l ectbyaski ng your sel ft hose i nt er vi ewquest i onsbutt hi st i met el lyour sel ft he t r ut h

Whatar emyweaknesses?

Whatar emyst r engt hs?

Whatar emyar easf ori mpr ovement ?

Whatam Ipassi onat eabout ?

WhatcanIdobet t ert hananyoneel se?

WhatcanIdonat ur al l y?

Whatar emyf ear s?

Whatr eal l ymakesmehappy?

Woul dyouhi r eyour sel faf t eranswer i ngt hese quest i ons? Real l y? Remember you ar et he i nt er vi ewerandi nt er vi eweeatt hesamet i me, don' teven t r yt oi mpr ess t he i nt er vi ewer ,he knows you so wel lbet t er t han you know your sel f .Howaboutyout r yagai nandt hi st i me speakf r om yourhear tnot hi ngbutt het r ut h.I n or dert o besuccessf uli n anyt hi ng,a per son musthavear eput at i onofhonest y.Peopl ewho

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t el lt he t r ut h ar e heal t hi er .They have l ess concer n,l ess st r ess and f eelbet t er about t hemsel ves.Noonehasagoodenoughmemor y t o be a good l i er and when you l i e you br ai nwashyour sel ft obel i evet hel i east r ut hand now t hatyou have successf ul l y managed t o convi ncedyour sel f , youwantt ogoonami ssi on t o convi ncet her est .You need t o know t hat t her ei snor oom f orf eart obepr esentwhenyou t el lt het r ut h.

Wow Son?It hi nkismel labi tofi mpr ovement af t ercount l ess t r i aland er r or .You ar e now st ar t i ngt ounder st andyour sel fyou' vecomet o r eal i set hatt hi si sanexer ci seofi nvest i ngi n your sel f .Youhavef oundyourpassi on, youhave f oundyourt r uesel fandi tf eel sgr eat .Goback t ot hemi r r ort hei magei sst i l lt hesamebut i nt er nal l yyouknow f orsur et hatyouar eyour t r uesel fanddon' tneedanyconf i r mat i onf r om anyoneel sebecauseyouknowexact l ywhyGod br oughtyoui nt hi sear t h.

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You wi l lbeasked whyyou qui tbyever yone f r om yourboss,col l eagues,f r i ends t o your gr andma,butt heper son whoser eact i on you r eal l ycar eabouti st heone i nsi deyou, yourt r ue sel fkeep hi m happy.The wor d qui tscar es peopl ei tgi vest hem t hesameki ndoff eel i ng whent heyheart hewor ddi vor ce.Peopl er esi st change,changei shar dmyboy.I tf or cesyout o dealwi t h chal l enges and conf r ontt he har sh r eal i t i esofl i f e.

When somet hi ng has deep meani ng t o you, you’ r emor ewi l l i ngt ot aker i sks.Whenyou’ r e pur sui ngsomet hi ngt hat ’ scor et owhoyouar e, gi vi nguporqui t t i ngwi l lnotbeanopt i on.Wi t h t hatbui l t i ncommi t mentcomest hei dealt r ai t f ordevel opi ng t heabi l i t yt o keep goi ng when t hi ngsgowr ong.Pul lupyoursocksmyboyi t ' s nowt i met obeyourt r uesel fandt oenj oyl i f e.

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