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Long overdue family time
ast month I spent a week at a house on a small lake in the Adirondacks with my extended family – grandparents, cousins, and brothers- and sisters-inlaw under one roof. This kind of intergenerational vacationing isn’t all that unusual – many families get together for holidays and summer trips, and a good portion of Capital District families live this way year-round. The benefits of spending time together, with older and younger generations creating shared memories, are vast, but the planning can be daunting. I started looking for a lake house in February, and it was no easy search to come up with a place that would fit all of us comfortably, affordably and accessibly and still provide enough individual spaces for downtime. And then the meal planning … the dietary preferences in my family vary widely, but we all found a way to make it work. And believe me, none of us starved (partly thanks to Coffee Fever and those awesome cinnamon rolls). In the end, it was a delightful week with some epic Bingo and game nights, arts and crafts, swimming, kayaking, hiking and sightseeing. The house lacked WiFi and had spotty cell service, and yet none of us found room to be bored. And all those individual spaces I tried to make sure we had were great, but I found most of us ended up drifting to the big front porch to socialize and relax throughout the day. It has been a long and challenging year with a pandemic that forced us apart from our loved ones, so to be able to come together once again is a privilege I will never take for granted. As summer comes to a close and a post-pandemic world gradually starts to pick up speed, I am grateful to have spent that week at the lake making up for lost time. Check out our articles and more at www.cdfamilynow.com and mail your story ideas and pictures to Capital District Family Now, P.O. Box 100, Delmar, NY 12054, or e-mail me at robertsk@spotlightnews.com. Kristen Roberts Editor, Capital District Family Now
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Triple Threat
parenting triplets in the Capital District
Celebrating a milestone A B’nai Mitzvah for the triplets caps a year of challenges
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next to other kids and quickly became friends. After they sat down, Harlan and I walked away, and they never looked back at us. I wasn’t sure if this should make me sad or not. Part of me was so proud! I watched their smiles over backpacks that were big compared to the little hands clutching them in excitement.
middle-schoolers felt weird in the beginning, but by March, I had figured out the best balance of time and energy. Then … COVID happened and all reasonable expectations went out the window. At the end of sixth by grade, there were plenty of questions and very few answers. The start of seventh grade could only be defined as anti-climactic. The only thing that changed between In the past 13 years, Olivia, After graduating from sixth and seventh grade were Benjamin and Rebecca have fifth grade, my babies were off Cantarella Culpo, Director the teachers. The classes were learned to walk, talk, read and to middle school. Benjamin, Cantarella Culpo, Director completely virtual for half of have started school. On theMadeline Rebecca and Olivia soared sixth grade and all of seventh. first day of pre-K, the three of like falcons and found their So much screen time! them sat down on the cold tiles footing. Being the mom of
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n Triple Threat continued from Page 6 would live through COVID. Rebecca, Benjamin and Olivia were originally scheduled to celebrate the B’nai Mitzvah (the plural of Bar or Bat Mitzvah) in early March of this year, approximately one year after the world shut down. As a family and with the help of our rabbi and cantor, we decided to postpone until June so that maybe vaccines would have time to work and we could have the service in our synagogue. The number of people who could be with us in person was very limited, but we also had the ability to livestream the service so family and friends from far away could celebrate with us. There is so much work that kids do to become a Bar or Bat Mitzvah. Sometimes the tears and frustration lead to long talks or deep breathing. The challenges were not just learning to read Hebrew and under-
Benjamin, Olivia and Rebecca have spent the past 13 years learning and growing and preparing to soar. standing what the part of the Torah they each were reading, but as I listened to them practice over and over, I watched their confidence rise. I felt the texture of the wool on their prayer shawls (Tallis). I saw them grow up. I encouraged them. On the weekend of Pride
Shabbat, my trio of teenagers stepped up to the lectern and showed Harlan and me that they knew their stuff. Proud of our kids doesn’t begin to describe how we felt that afternoon. Verklempt – Yiddish word for being overwhelmed beyond words – is more like it. I looked at them, really looked at them,
My brother couldn’t be with us, but my sister and my mom were in the synagogue for the celebration. I was told by the kids it wasn’t my celebration, and the party wasn’t for Harlan and me. I get that, but my kids are everything to me. I will celebrate each and every accomplishment, and eventually they will understand that my voice will always be the loudest and yell the longest when the timing is right. Watch out world because these kids are going to create A LOT of noise! Jennifer Steuer is an Albany mom whose busy household includes her husband, Harlan, and 13-year-old triplets Olivia, Benjamin and Rebecca. Follow her on Instagram: jennifersteuer.
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any taxpayers CTC in 2021, even though you with children did in past years, you would claim the Child have to pay the advances back Tax Credit next year unless you opt out (CTC) on their tax returns of the monthly payments. and often receive a People who want the large refund check. full refund next year by For 2021, the and divorced parmaximum CTC ents who alternate has increased to years of claiming $3,600 for each the credit may qualifying child also want to opt under the age of 6 out. and $3,000 for each The IRS has a new qualifying child ages portal you can use to opt 6 through 17. People with out of the monthly payments: children may be eligible for www.irs.gov/credits-deductions/ the credit even if they do not have any income this year. Your child-tax-credit-update-portal. You can also use the portal actual credit depends on your to update your payment inforeligibility. mation. In addition, the portal Due to the pandemic, the has a tool that eligible lowIRS is now sending half of income families who do not the 2021 CTC as six monthly normally file a tax return can payments to taxpayers who use to register for the advance appear to qualify. These advance payments. payments started on July 15. If If you have questions about you do not opt out, they will income tax issues, the Legal Aid continue each month until Society of Northeastern New Dec. 15. Those who receive York’s Low Income Taxpayer the monthly advance payments Clinic (LITC) may be able to may expect their refund from help. The clinic’s services are the IRS to be lower next year free of charge, and they can be since it will not include the reached at (833) 628-0087. The money already paid in 2021. clinic does not generally provide Taxpayers who claimed the tax preparation services. CTC on their 2019 or 2020 tax The writer is managing return and appear to qualify for attorney with the Legal Aid the credit in 2021 are autoSociety of Northeastern New York matically enrolled in the new in Albany. To learn more about advance payment system. the organization, visit www. If you do not qualify for the lasnny.org.
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Find a work/life dream team
You see, when it comes to work, you can seek harmony by asking your employers what the policies are for working from home a few days a week. Discuss policies on taking time off to care for sick children or if a snow day should occur. Ask if they offer childcare compensation – some places do! Be sure to ask about maternity and paternity leave and what their policies are about returning to work. When it comes to family life, you can plan out some things by talking with family members, friends and child care services, having designated schedules for car pools, and also having back-up help in case both parents can’t take much time off. Building your dream team, as I like to call it, is what is going to be a game changer for your journey as a parent. When you have a good support system in your corner, you and your kids are
This summer is a good one to go all out with your kids and family. Live life to the fullest – don’t just exist. going to thrive more than ever. So even when things feel like a lot at times, just remember to plan what you can and know that whatever comes your way, you have a dream team to call on to help you figure it out.
Quoida Lauzon
This pandemic took a toll on all of us in different ways. I recommend you go all out this summer with your kids and family. Live life to the fullest – don’t just exist. After 2020, we all need to laugh more, play more and enjoy our children more
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without being so stressed out. Our kids deserve to see us be more than just OK and to feel that even after a storm, there are rainbows to dance under. Do something for yourself – go out, start a new by hobby, go join a new outside hobby, and start doing things that really bring you joy. So again, is there such thing as balance? To me, there won’t ever be, but when I think of doing my best, I like to break things down and priori-
tize them. I think that perhaps there is no real work life balance that can be achieved, but maybe the goal is more for harmony, much like the keys on a piano working together to build beautiful music. Quoida Lauzon is a Capital District mom and a Registered Nurse who specializes in maternal and infant health, breastfeeding and childbirth education. She teaches classes and coaches new mothers in their pregnancy and “fourth trimester” journey and believes women should thrive, not just survive, motherhood. Connect with her on social media @ nurse.q.lauzon or visit nurseq. com.
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s there really even such a thing as work/life balance? I, personally, don’t think there is, especially for moms. A better word would be “harmony.” Learn to harmonize it all by breaking things down into categories and prioritizing.
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Dinosaurs in Saratoga? Interactive sculptures bring STEAM concepts to life
SARATOGA SPRINGS – Universal Preservation Hall in Saratoga Springs is currently hosting Dinosaurs in Motion, a new, interactive, engaging STEAM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Arts & Mathematics) exhibition this summer and early fall. The exhibit engages and educates visitors of all ages by using 14 fully interactive, recycled lifesize metal dinosaur sculptures inspired by actual fossils. The life-sized metal sculptures captivate visitors while their exposed mechanics illustrate science and technology principles in a fun and engaging way. The exhibition weaves the science, art and innovation themes throughout and touches on each of these educational topics at each sculpture. The art portions highlight sketch-
The Dinosaurs in Motion exhibit at Universal Preservation Hall in Saratoga Springs weaves the science, art and innovation themes throughout and touches on each of these educational topics at each sculpture. ing, drawing, and sculpting; the science segments explore kinetics, biomechanics, and robotics; and the innovation areas encourage observing and experimenting. “If Capital Region parents, grandparents, educators and scout leaders are looking for a way to keep youth engaged and
their minds active this summer, there isn’t a better place to inspire them with hands-on education and entertainment,” said Teddy Foster, UPH director. “And the adults will get just as much out of it as the kids.” The visitor is taken on a highly interactive apprentice’s path that follows the story of the
master artist, John Payne. The exhibition’s narrative is reinforced with experiential learning, as every dinosaur is available for visitors to touch and move. Visitors will have the ability to manipulate dinosaurs via lever and pulley systems, as well as with remote controls, offering large-scale dinosaur interaction unprecedented in a museum setting. Additionally, visitors will be able to test out their own artistic creativity and newfound technological inspiration with hands-on activities at the Innovation Stations, where they can create a variety of art and science projects of their own. It is on exhibit through Oct. 15 at UPH. Tickets are $25 for adults and $15 youth, and are on sale at universalpreservationhall.org. The event is presented by Adirondack Trust Company.
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Education insight for parents
Write down summer memories
e are in the heart of summer! Children are enjoying the warm weather, fun activities with friends and vacation time. But summer can also be an enjoyable learning experience. The summer break provides many memorable moments, and writing about them is a good way to record those memories and practice writing skills at the same time. Parents tend to focus on their children’s reading and math skills, overlooking that writing is an education fundamental. It’s fast becoming the forgotten ‘R.’ This is unfortunate, as writing is an important part of every facet of
education, not just in English class. Writing proficiency can have a major impact on other subject areas too. Summer vacation provides an excellent opportunity for children to explore their creative writing skills. Following are some tips to help parents encourage their children to write over the summer:
child know why you picked your summer vacation spot – or why you decided to do a staycation? Do they have expectations for what they will be doing during their vacation?
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Ask them if they know why you made your choice, what they like about the choice, what they don’t like about the choice. Ask them what they are most looking forward to during this summer.
Patrick McNamara
Pick an engaging topic Persuading your child to write over the summer break may be easier if you help them identify fun and engaging topics. Suggest timely subjects. For example, does your
If you are traveling to a new destination, encourage your children by helping them with some research about the destination, its history, people and places.
Give story starters Sometimes the most difficult part of writing can be getting started. Help your children write their essays by giving them topic ideas, such as: I am looking forward to going to the ocean because…. On the first day at the lake, my family and I usually… As with most things, the only way to improve writing is to write. As students develop the ability to fill up a blank piece of paper, the less intimidating that blank page will become! Patrick McNamara is the owner and executive director at Sylvan Learning of Albany and Clifton Park. For more information, visit SylvanLearning.com.
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@setupspawn — Matty McTech is a computer enthusiast who hooks his followers up with websites that vary from the entertaining to the practical. Through him, you can find ways to play GoldenEye on your PC or discover secrets to help with your research paper, and so much more. I’ve saved a handful of his videos for future reference.
According to Wallaroomedia.com, the video-heavy TikTok has doubled in popularity, from an estimated 680 million monthly users in November 2018 to 1.1 billion customer base forecasted in February. As the pandemic raged, the app was downloaded 2 billion times across the globe. Social distancing, quarantine and mass unemployment fueled a very human need to connect.
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Despite early concerns over privacy, people gravitated to TikTok. Facebook’s hesitant step to control false political narratives was one of the many factors that led people to escape. The new platform has served as a means to provide consumers with resources.
@mackenziebarmen — Mackenzie Barmen racked up 2.3 million followers by enlightening her audience on the dubious origins of childhood songs. Her insight follows the global awareness of crucial race theory, and her contribution only adds to that conversation. A deep dive into her catalogue of videos will leave you a different person.
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The TikTok explosion catapulted people into stardom, such is the case with Canadian TikTok star Kris Collins. The talented comedian known as @kallmekris is a one-person show capturing the family dynamics between siblings and their mother in hilarious conflicts. Her material sounds sophomoric by description. The same material would be lost in the sea of 37 million channels on YouTube. Facebook would be far less kind. Mark Zuckerberg’s empire tinkers its algorithms to favor paid advertisements, stifling organic exposure and growth. Yet, through TikTok’s burgeoning audience and open landscape, the 24-year-old Collins has garnered more than 31 million followers.
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@itsqcp — Gianluca Conte is the creator of “The Angry New Jersey Cooking Show.”This 21-year-old knows how to cook, but he’s got a mouth on him. Earlier videos of him cracking jokes while using racial stereotypes did not sit well, which led to an apology. Today, he’s still showing 7.7 million people how to prepare an impressive meal.
The most successful of personalities create content using just their smartphones. That leaves end users with the sense of a genuine connection. A sincere message coming across the line at 2 a.m. often leads to a coveted follow. Here are a few more personalities who are well deserving of being hyped up.
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Free yoga in the park ALBANY – This August and September, the Downtown Albany Business Improvement District (BID) and the State University of New York are hosting NamaState Street Yoga, a free outdoor fitness series on the lawn at the H. Carl McCall State University of New York Administration Building, the iconic former D&H Railroad Headquarters, at 353 Broadway in downtown Albany. Free, 60-minute all-levels yoga classes led by certified instructors will be held every Saturday in August at 10 a.m. and every Wednesday in September at noon. All events are weather-dependent. Attendees are encouraged to register for a class to receive updates via email at albanybid.eventbrite.com, or check downtownalbany.org/yoga for the latest information. Participants will need to supply their own yoga mat and water. “Whether you’re looking for a mindful way to start your weekend before enjoying some Downtown shopping and dining, or a chance to stretch out on a mid-week lunch break, NamaState Street Yoga is here for you,”
said Georgette Steffens, Executive Director of the Downtown Albany BID. “We are excited to continue our collaboration with SUNY to offer a slate of fun and healthful events to help welcome workers and visitors back to Downtown.” State University of New York Chancellor Jim Malatras said, “Together, we will help bring activity to beautiful downtown Albany. We have spent too much time apart, so with [this series] we are a part of a collaborative effort to help our neighbors reconnect with one another, exercise and feel restored, appreciate great food and art, and support downtown businesses that were hit hard by the pandemic.” Free weekend parking is available at ParkAlbany garages and on the street; meters or garage fees will in effect for Wednesday events. For full Downtown parking information, visit downtownalbany.org/parking. For more details on upcoming Downtown events, visit downtownalbany.org/events.
NamaState Street Yoga classes will run on Saturdays in August and Wednesdays in September outside the H. Carl McCall State University of New York Administration Building at 353 Broadway in downtown Albany.
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The guitarist on the roof “My songs are easily sung by young people,” he said, “and it’s amazing to see what they oofing Contraccan learn and do. We carefully tor Jim Staats has worked through the pandemic, mastered the delicate and when we had enough matebalance between rial, we went into the studio tradition and cutting edge that and recorded an EP album. My would make the Fiddler on the songs present situations, stoRoof a bit envious, even ries, metaphors and hit if it’s a guitar in his on contemporary hand instead of a by issues.” violin. The title track, Unlike Fidfor example, was dler’s Tevye, the penned to give 77-year-old isn’t hope in the midst resisting change – of the recent social he’s creating it. When upheaval. The Chorus he’s not installing metal of “Good News Train” roofs, Staats is recruiting young puts it this way: musicians to explore the heights of singing and performing his “Now everywhere you look, original country and gospel there is violence and crime. Can music. you hear someone crying out in
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and talk about all things mead. Wednesday, Aug. 11, bus leaves the Beltrone at 2:30 p.m., and returns at approximately 6 p.m. $20 for members, $25 for notyet-members. Grafton Lakes Day at The Beach: Spend the day at the water’s edge of Grafton Lake. Bring your lawn chairs (or we can provide one.) Snack bar and restrooms available at the lake. Weather permitting. Monday, Aug. 23, bus leaves the Beltrone at 10 a.m. and returns at approximately 4 p.m. $10 for members only. Albany Mural Tour: Did you know that Albany is the home to a great many inspiring murals? Step on one of our buses to take a tour of these wonders. Thursday, Aug. 26, bus leaves the Beltrone at 1 p.m. and returns at approximately 3 p.m.
paint kit to follow numbered directions, slowly working to make a vibrant, floral painting. This event is made possible the generous donation of a community member. Thursdays, Aug. 12, 19 and 26, 10-11:30 a.m., at The Beltrone Living Center. Free for all. Rubber Stamping Art: Use Ann Burn’s Stampin’ Up paper craft techniques to make a set of beautiful cards to give, for “just because” occasions. Thursday, Aug. 12, 3-4 p.m., $10 for members, and $4 materials fee. *Zoom Events are free for members. Registration is not required for Zoom events. In-person events are held during lunch at The Beltrone Living Center. Call for reservations, (518) 459-2857, ext. 303.
Organize Your Vital Records (Zoom or in-person): An interactive program that discusses $5 for members for members various ways to identify and only. quickly access your vital written Thursday, Aug. 5, bus leaves Rivers Casino: Spend the and electronic information and The Beltrone at 6:45 p.m. and day pulling slots, playing cards records. Presented by Jim Rulireturns at approximately 9:15 and eating great food, at the son, who spent p.m. Home iscasino. Where You’ll Find Us over 30 years in Schenectady-located human resources at New York $28 for members, $35 for notState Parks. Monday, Aug. 16, Bus leaves yet-members. The Beltrone at 10:30 a.m., Wednesday, Aug. 11 at noon. returns at approximately 3:30 Heldeberg Mead Tasting: Legal Planning for AlSample and learn about mead – p.m. Home is Where You’ll Find Us zheimer’s Disease (Zoom or the alcoholic drink made from $20 for members and not-yet- in-person): In this important honey. Heldeberg Meadworks members. seminar, you’ll learn about will offer up four different important legal and financial Paint By Numbers: Use a samples, show us their meadery
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Social Security Corner
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nowledge is power, and having the right tools to fight fraud can make a huge difference. Knowledge can also help those you love and want to protect. I’ve put together a list of the five most important resources about Social Security scams you should know about:
page at oig.ssa.gov/scam for information on phone scams — and how to report them. Read the blog post at blog. ssa.gov/protecting-your-socialsecurity-number-from-identity-theft to learn how to protect your Social by Security number from identity theft.
Elizabeth Pivonka
Read and share the fact sheet Beware of Social Security Phone Scams to learn how to spot fake calls and emails at www.ssa.gov/fraud/assets/materials/EN-05-10535.pdf.
Create your own personal my Social Security account at www. ssa.gov/myaccount to help you keep track of your records and identify any suspicious activity.
Visit the Office of the Inspector General’s Scam Awareness
Visit our Fraud Prevention and Reporting page at www.ssa.
There are a number of resources available to help you fight and report Social Security fraud. gov/fraud to understand how we combat fraud.
spread the word on social media.
Please share these resources about scams with your friends and family — and help us
The author is with the Social Security Administration in Albany.
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