Family Now - June 2020

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A perfect place to picnic

FamilyNow CAPITAL DISTRICT

Vol. 1 | June 2020 | FREE

GENERATIONS TOGETHER

Life in the unknown Remembering D-Day

Adoption in the age of Coronavirus

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Editor’s desk

A publication for FamilyNow your family now CAPITAL DISTRICT

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For every age and stage of family life.

June 2020

The Capital District family has changed, and so have we

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elcome to the very first edition of Family Now, a Capital District publication for every generation of family life! We admit that this might be a strange time to chart new territory by launching a publication amid a pandemic, but we are confident that our readers will see the value in what we are doing.

Our decision to combine Capital District Parent Pages with Capital District Senior Spotlight into Family Now was in recognition of the way family life is more intergenerational than ever before — ­ often with multiple generations living under the same roof. In our pages, you will find stories and articles that will appeal to every age and interest.

In this issue, you’ll find your timely columns from local writers, including 24-Hour Shift, Triple Threat, A Patriot Remembers, Retiring Retirement and more. In future issues, we’ll be bringing back an events calendar, as well as the activities listings for local senior centers.

Even more refinements are on the horizon as we get our feet under ourselves, along with the rest of the Capital District. We hope you enjoy this inaugural issue of Family Now, and we welcome your thoughts and suggestions.

Thank you for reading Family Now. Check out our articles and resource listings at www.cdfamilynow.com and mail your story ideas and pictures to Capital District Family Now, P.O. Box 100, Delmar, NY 12054, or e-mail us at robertsk@ spotlightnews.com.

Kristen Roberts Editor, Capital District Family Now

Features

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Columnists 24-Hour Shift

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Let’s Cook

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Triple Threat

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A Patriot Remembers

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Social Security Corner

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Retiring Retirement

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What’s new Kids fun page Adults puzzle page

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Resources Camp listings

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publisher - John McIntyre editor - Kristen Roberts editor-at-large - Michael Hallisey advertising sales - Denice Mau art director - David Abbott graphic design - Martha Eriksen Engagement Coordinator - Kaitlin Lembo

Editor-at-Large Michael Hallisey shares some of the top local picnic spots on Pages 12-13. Albany’s Washington Park, pictured here, makes the list.

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The 24-hour shift

parenting is a full-time job

Adoption in uncertain times

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There may be pros and cons to the virtual tools used during the global health pandemic

ike many other families, foster/adoptive families have had to make drastic changes these past few months. They have had to navigate things like visitations, check-ins from the social worker and family court appearances – all within the confines of the changing Coronavirus restrictions.

Many things, such as finalizing adoptions, have been done via video chat platforms. Social distancing is practiced and PPE is used when in-person meet-

ings are necessary. The difficulty in this approach is, of course, accessibility to appropriate devices and the Internet, in addition to keeping children’s and families’ rights at the forefront as much as possible.

children home. Again, all of this is being done in observance of protocols and laws for both countries.

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There has been a lot of “rethinking” in our state.

When this health crisis ends, where does fostering/ adoption go from here? Will these processes be changed as well? Is it possible that most of the fostering and adoption processes will remain on

Theresa Davis

Overseas adoptions have been greatly affected.

Traveling while social distancing and travel bans have played havoc with finalizing adoptions and bringing

virtual platforms? Or are the old practices best? Is it possible to combine the two to make the fostering and adoption processes smoother?

In the end, only time will tell, but for now it seems with everything else, we are still left with more questions than answers.

Theresa Davis is a former early childhood educator and has worked in childcare centers for more than 15 years. She is also an adoptive mother, living and taking care of her family in the Capital District.

When this health crisis ends, where does fostering/adoption go from here?

Will these processes be changed as well? Or are the old practices best?

Is it possible to combine the two to make the fostering and adoption processes smoother?

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picture books

On the Bookshelf

Colorful tales made in the shade ‘Everyone’s Awake’

‘The Nest That Wren Built’

By Colin Meloy;

By Randi Sonenshine;

illustrated by Shawn Harris In this house, when everyone stays awake at night, things get very strange, what with Mom on the roof, and Grandma playing cards with the ghost of long-dead Grandpa Paul, and even the dog and cat are acting weird. What will happen when morning finally comes? Chronicle Books

illustrated by Anne Hunter In the rhyming style of “The House That Jack Built,” this poem about the care and specificity that Carolina wrens put into building a nest is at once tender and true to life. Candlewick Press

‘Green on Green’

By Dianne White; Illustrated by Felicita Sala A child is on a colorful journey through the seasons, filled with yellow flowers and blue coral in spring and summer and orange pumpkins and green pine forests in fall and winter.

All the while, there is another colorful change on the horizon: the birth of a new sibling.

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A Heartfelt Thank You!

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ACROSS 1. In nature 5. Small amount 6. Sick 7. Small fight 9. Take delight in 10. Above South Dakota (abbr.)

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Let’s Cook! by

Jodie Fitz

Go bananas for this chill treat

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t’s nice to finally welcome sunny summer days and laid-back afternoons outside, but when the mercury starts to climb, a frosty snack hits the spot.

This recipe, which is fun for families to prepare together, packs a potassium bunch with its superstar ingredient – bananas. The recipe calls for frozen bananas, which are always handy to have in a pinch. Freezing bananas is also a good way to cut back on food waste – just pop your overripe bananas in the freezer to use later.

Here are a couple of methods for freezing bananas.

1. Line a baking sheet with parchment paper, and peel and slice the bananas before lying them flat on a baking sheet. Cover them with another piece of parchment paper and freeze. Once frozen, place the pieces in a bag and keep them in the freezer.

2. Can you freeze a whole banana? Yes, you can!

Simply place a whole banana, peel and all, into the freezer. When you are ready to use it, let it thaw for a few minutes before peeling.

Get more recipes from Jodie Fitz through the Price Chopper Kids Cooking Club at www.pricechopper.com. To learn more about her, visit www.jodiefitz.com.

Chocolate Peanut Butter Banana Ice Cream 3 frozen bananas ¼ cup peanut butter or nut-free alternative 2 tablespoons honey 1 teaspoon cocoa powder 1 teaspoon vanilla extract A pinch of cinnamon Freeze the bananas.

In a separate bowl, stir the peanut butter or nut-free alternative, honey, cocoa powder, vanilla extract and a dash of cinnamon together.

Place the bananas into a food processor or blender. Begin to blend the bananas. After the bananas are chopped up into small pieces, add the remaining ingredients into the blender or food

processor. Continue to blend until the mixture forms into a soft ice cream.

Serve immediately.

Suggested toppings: chocolate syrup, chocolate sprinkles, melted peanut butter, whipped topping, chopped nuts or chopped Reese’s candy.

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Triple Threat

parenting triplets in the Capital District

What we don’t know ...

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don’t know. I get so many questions every day from Olivia, Benjamin and Rebecca that I just don’t know the answer to because … you know, Coronavirus. When can we go to the park? When can I go over to my friend’s house? When can we go to synagogue? When?

When? When?

Benjamin, Rebecca and Olivia are just kids, and they are going through something none of us were prepared to deal with and have never been through.

This virus has hijacked so many people’s lives and stolen so many lives.

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In the Steuer family, we value education. Going to school was priority one; it was their job. Now Rebecca, Olivia and Benjamin don’t go anywhere. Well, they go to the table where we eat and do school work, the kitchen, their beds, the playroom and their art studio. The last day of real school was March 13. Since then, they have learned how to

Jennifer Steuer

In light of the many Coronavirus-related restrictions, the Steuer trio has not been able to socialize with friends, classmates and clergy like they are used to.

I want to answer their questions with something other than I don’t know. I want answers, too. I don’t like this uncertainty any more than the parents, families, teachers, nurses, business owners, doctors, counselors and everyone else does. The anxiety and fear is overwhelming for us adults.

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get into Google classroom, class chats and how to submit their work online. Zoom has helped my crew keep up with Hebrew School and the preparations for the B’nai Mitzvot.

My kids haven’t seen any friends, classmates, clergy or teachers in real life in two months. Two months of no in-person social interactions.

This is just 1 percent of their lives, but I see how it is affecting them. Twelve-year-olds should be around other kids and other people. Twelveyear-olds should be at school, the playground or at a friend’s house.

There are six people in our house, and there are times we get tired of each other. When that happens, we have learned that a change of scenery is a good choice. My kids miss their friends, their teachers and the life they had up until March 13. “When can we go back to our normal life?” they ask. I don’t know. Going back to what was normal before this may not be possible, and I don’t know what a new normal will look like. I don’t know how to keep everyone safe and healthy after there are certain restrictions that are lifted. I don’t know.

Life is simple right now.

There are meals to be prepared, clothes still need to be washed, school work needs to be done, and there needs to be ways to just veg out. I don’t know the right balance. The family’s needs are my goals. I just don’t know how to keep everything pulled together. Even in a simple life, there can be conflicting appointments and needs that pull me in every direction.

We don’t go to the park. We don’t go to religious services.

There are no lunch dates with Harlan. I can’t go with Harlan to his appointments. We don’t do what we used to do socially.

We have been very lucky, so far. I don’t know if we will be lucky throughout this pandemic, but I will do anything I can to keep my family safe.

Harlan was back in the hospital in April. I sat on my steps feeling pure panic as the ambulance doors closed with a hollow thud. The wheels started rolling and the lights came on as I panicked thinking I would never see my husband again. The father of my kids might not come home. Harlan had septicemia. After a week, Harlan walked out of the hospital. I don’t know how he was so lucky.

Our hands are chapped and sore from washing and washing. We have done crafts.

We cook and bake. We talk and tell stories. We laugh, cry, dream … and I feel guilty. I’m a Jewish mom, so I know guilt.

I know that heavy feeling. I look at Olivia, Benjamin and Rebecca and I am so grateful that they are healthy. I watch the kids and see them changing. Physically they are healthy, but this pandemic will leave its mark. There is a never-ending prayer for healing simmering in my mind and on my lips. I pray for every family, because I believe that somehow that will help, but I don’t know.

Jennifer Steuer is an Albany mom whose busy household includes her husband, Harlan, and 12-year-old triplets Olivia, Benjamin and Rebecca. Follow her on Instagram: jennifersteuer.

“When can we go back to our normal life?” they ask. I don’t know. Going back to what was normal before this may not be possible, and I don’t know what a new normal will look like.

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2020 Summer Camps *In these uncertain times, please check with individual camp providers to see what’s still available.

AFRIM’S Summer Camps Summer Action and Summer Soccer camps for ages 3-14. Full and half day.

636 Albany Shaker Road, Albany Call (518) 438-3131 or visit www.AfrimSports.com

Albany Academy Customized summer programs for students entering grades 3-8. Sports, arts, science and more.

135 Academy Road, Albany Call (518) 429-2300 or visit www.AlbanyAcademies.org

Albany Berkshire Ballet Dance camps and intensives for ages 4 to adult, beginner to professional.

25 Monroe St., Albany Call (518) 426-0660 or visit www.SchoolofABB.org

Capital District YMCA Nine convenient locations. From day camps to overnight camps to specialty camps, field trips and weekly themes, there is

1360 Albany St., Schenectady Call (518) 372-5282 or visit www.MerrittDanceCenter.com

something for everyone.

Call (518) 869-3500 or visit www.CDYMCA.org

Ohav Shalom Nursery School

Circle of Friends Preschool Summer camp for ages 3-5 with locations in Delmar and Ravena.

Delmar: (518) 478-0722 Ravena: (518) 756-3124 or visit www.CircleofFriendsPrek.com

Summer weekly themed camp for preschoolers ages 18 months to 5 years.

Full or part-time availability.

113 New Krumkill Road, Albany Call Sheryl at (518) 489-4894 or visit www.OhavShalom.com/Early-Childhood

Drama Kids International Weekly full and half-day summer camps for ages 4-11.

Call (518) 458-1313 or visit www.DramaKids.com

HVCC Kids on Campus Summer program with athletics, technology, Circus Theatricks, theater, summer academy and more.

Visit www.HVCC.edu/kidscamps.com

Sylvan Robotics Camp For grades 2-6. Create and animate robots using Legos and WeDo software.

Albany, (518) 869-6005: July 6-9 or Aug. 3-6 Clifton Park, (518) 373-7995: July 20-23 or Aug. 17-20

Temple Israel: Herman & Libbie Michaelson Early Childhood Education Center

Merritt Dance Center Dance camp from July 27 to Aug. 6 for dancers, acrobats and gymnasts.

600 New Scotland Ave., Albany Call Amie at (518) 438-7858, ext. 120, email AmieBloom@tialbany.org or visit www.tialbany.org

The Arts Center of the Capital Region Summer camps for kids ages 6-17 with cooking, pottery, stained glass, mixed media, photography and more Full or part-time.

265 River St., Troy.

Call (518) 273-0552 or visit www.ArtsCenteronline.org

Woodland Hill Montessori Summer day camp for ages 3-12 with fun and creative play, music, arts, invent and exploration.

100 Montessori Place, North Greenbush Call (518) 283-5400 or visit www.WoodlandHill.org

Summer fun program for kids under 5 with creative play and activities.

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A Father’s Day as unique as Dad

Holidays

ather’s Day, which is celebrated on the third Sunday in June, is rife with tradition in many households, but what do you give the dad who seemingly has it all?

Maybe it’s time to think outside the box and look for some unique ways to honor your father this year. The following are some suggestions to get you started.

Highlight reel Do some covert digging through family photo albums to create a “This Is Your Life” highlight reel for Dad. Go back as far as possible, even looking through Dad’s baby photos if you can find them.

This might be a collaborative effort, requiring the whole family to work together, but that can make for an enjoyable way for families to spend time together and see how Dad became the man he is today.

Present the finished product at a family dinner on Father’s Day.

Make a list Another unique way to honor Dad is to compile a list of the many ways you are and will always be grateful for having him as a father. Adults honoring their fathers can cite specific examples they recall from childhood and young adulthood when Dad went above and beyond or served as a sounding board or shoulder to cry on. This is a great way to honor Dad and let him know all those sacrifices and special moments are still appreciated and will never be forgotten.

Participate in his hobby Dad likely has some favorite hobbies, such as playing a favorite

Start thinking of special ways to show Dad he deserves top billing. sport, boating, woodworking, or restoring a classic car. Asking to join in to learn the ropes of his favorite hobby can be an ideal way to spend time with Dad and show you care.

Tackle his chores Provide Dad a weekend off from his normal tasks around the house, if they are within your skill set.

Volunteer to mow the lawn, weed the garden, run for groceries or get the car washed. You also may want to help him finish a project he

started but hasn’t yet completed.

Give him his space Dads often make sacrifices for their families, and this could mean compromising on his comfort and pleasure to ensure everyone else has what they need. Create a spot that is entirely his own. This may involve renovating the basement or garage for hobbies or hanging out. Even a free-standing shed in the backyard can be billed as a “Dad Zone,” giving your father a place to which he can retreat for some quiet.

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On the Bookshelf

fiction

Pick up a summer page-turner ‘Saint X’

‘A Conspiracy of Bones’

By Alexis Schaitkin

By Kathy Reichs

When a brief but fateful encounter brings her together with one of the men originally suspected of killing her sister, Claire, hoping to gain his trust and learn the truth, forms an unlikely attachment with this man whose life is forever marked by the same tragedy.

Celadon Books

It’s sweltering in Charlotte, North Carolina, and Temperance Brennan, still recovering from neurosurgery, is battling nightmares, migraines and what she thinks might be hallucinations when she receives a series of mysterious text messages, each containing a new picture of a corpse that is missing its face and hands. Scribner

‘The Night Watchman’

By Louise Erdrich This historical novel, based on the life of the author’s grandfather, traces the experiences of a Chippewa Council night watchman in mid19th-century rural North Dakota who fights Congress to enforce Native American treaty rights. Harper

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In recognition of the multi-generational nature of the modern household, we are merging Capital District Parent Pages with Senior Spotlight to create Family Now, a monthly publication with timely features for every age and stage of family life.

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On the Bookshelf

Outdoors and more Gardening Your Front Yard: Projects and Ideas for Big and Small Spaces’

‘The Create-Your-Plate Diabetes Cookbook’

By Tara Nolan With her unique combination of DIY/ building savvy and gardening expertise, the author weaves you past the main pitfalls you may encounter when trying to fit a garden or gardens between your home and the street. Cool Springs Press

By Toby Amidor

‘Doghiker: Great Hikes with Dogs from the Adirondacks Through the Catskills’

This guide to planning effortless, diabetes-friend meals without counting, measuring, tracking or calculations shows how to build perfectly portioned meals to manage diabetes and support a healthy lifestyle. American Diabetes Association

By Alan Via A comprehensive guidebook that details 77 great hikes dog owners can take with their dogs, from the Adirondack Mountains through the Catskill Mountains, along with guidance on all aspects of dog ownership.

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elcome to a summer like no other. As the Capital District slowly and cautiously opens for business, many of our traditional summer activities have been modified to promote the social distancing the CDC recommends to contain the spread of Coronavirus.

But with the warm weather beckoning us outside and travel not on the radar for many, a change of scenery is always welcome. A good old-fashioned picnic is a great way to enjoy the weather and time with family or friends while minimizing exposure.

Picnics also appeal to every generation. The kids can run around and stretch their legs while the grown-ups relax and catch up on some leisurely conversation.

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Sound like a plan? Then pack your picnic basket and head to one of the Capital District parks for a perfect afternoon.

Washington Park Think of the aspects of Washington Park that make it an attractive destination. The expansive green space inside greater Albany is one of the oldest urban parks in the country. It has lured production companies from Hollywood. In an ordinary year, it invites upcoming musicians each spring. Patrons of the arts can enjoy the Bard’s work from underneath the dark canopy of a summer’s night. And, it has inspired the composition of a contemporary orchestral work.

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Washington Park is tethered to the heartbeat of our Capital City.

Festivals celebrating the family, the heritage and the humanity found here are aesthetically framed by some of the most beautiful architecture in the city. The Lark Street community that neighbors the park is so culturally diverse with its choice of eateries and beautiful brownstones dating back to the late 19th century, it has prompted some visitors to call it the “Greenwich Village of the Capital District.” Two state governors retired within this neighborhood, and many of the brownstones still maintain a luxurious look today.

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Washington Park provides that rare marriage between natural seclusion and urban exploration. You can drop a blanket down on its green grass and expect as private a moment as with any of our area picnic spots.

What makes it that more special is you can plan for this picnic by bringing your own food, or order a poke bowl and find a spot to eat. There is no wrong answer here.

Jerry Jennings Landing Some people scoffed at then-Albany Mayor Jerry Jennings’ idea to construct a footbridge that would allow Albanians to return to the Hudson River, but the idea worked. Home to the city’s annual free concert series Alive at Five and its burgeoning Dad Fest, this riverside park boasts a concrete amphitheater that faces both the river and an ever-changing Rensselaer city skyline.

Headlining musicians and our Grammy-Award winning Albany Symphony Orchestra have played here in the summer. When silent, it’s still the place for walkers, joggers and bicyclists to continue their jaunts on a trail that now connects New Scotland and Bethlehem to Albany, Cohoes and Rotterdam Junction.

Jennings Landing is a popular spot for families, lovers and artists alike.

It is not uncommon to catch fire dancers and hula hoop performers enjoying the juxtaposition of Albany’s cityscape with the trees flowing toand-fro to the summer breeze. There’s also ample parking, whether you choose to park your car on Broadway, on Sway Street or in the parking lot before Colonie Street.

William D. Chamberlain Riverfront Park Outsiders have called Troy by a lot of different names over the years, many of which haven’t been flattering. A real estate boom has lifted the downtown area to such a degree, it has drawn comparisons to a certain New York City borough. Kindhearted as the latter may be by some, it’s not welcomed: This is Troy. And, to be fair, you should be acquainted with

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OPPOSITE PAGE and TOP: Sunny days are made for picnics, and getting outside in the fresh air is good for the entire family.

ABOVE and LEFT: Washington Park in Albany is a great mix of green space and urban architecture ­— and it’s dog friendly.

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Troy took the best of Albany’s two exemplary parks and molded it into Riverfront Park. A concrete amphitheater faces west as the sun sets over the Hudson River. That’s usually when the city’s annual Rockin’ on the River concert series takes place. Crowds have rocked out to Moriah Formica, Skeeter Creek, Caroline Rose and more from this stage.

On the flip side, it’s common enough to see yoga fanatics enjoying a more tranquil setting on Saturday mornings.

Wedged between the Hudson River and Monument Square, Riverfront Park has a menagerie of sights surrounding your picnic spot. There are the various boats and yachts docked along the river side, of which the Collar City Bridge looms large and white as it spans across it. There are also

the brick facades of Victorian Age buildings that stand along River Street. That’s where you can find anything from a good mystery novel, a cup of coffee or a hard-to-find record album.

You don’t always have to find yourself in the woods to enjoy a good picnic. And, if it rains, there’s a place up the river that serves good barbecue.

Albany Rural Cemetery This 400-acre cemetery was established more than a century ago as both a park and final resting place. And, a picnic here can allow you to boast that you were among Albany’s social elite — OK, maybe a little creepy.

Joking aside, the cemetery is specifically designed for the leisurely visitor. It is renowned as one of the most beautiful of its kind, and does host prominent figures of our area’s past, including President Chester A. Arthur.

In Arthur’s time, it was

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common for people to picnic at cemeteries. It was so prevalent, some communities considered law enforcement to step in to control the hordes of visitors.

People may not be as inclined to pop a squat near a headstone and raise a toast to good health, but people do visit cemeteries as a pastime. Albany Rural Cemetery does not restrict it, but the attention to respect and cleanliness is expected. History buffs often visit to find the burial plots of some of the biggest names from our history.

Visit albanyruralcemetery.org to learn more.

Central Park Rose Garden This month ushers in the roses, and there is no better place to stop and smell the flowers than at Central Park Rose Garden in Schenectady.

It’s hard to believe, but this gem was nearly lost when the city’s parks department stopped maintaining

the park. It was nearly left in disrepair before the surrounding community took up the task in 1995. Today, it boasts 4,000 roses of more than 200 different varieties. These rose bushes surround a beautiful tiered fountain that is accompanied by a babbling brook and a spring pond that is often visited by songbirds.

The Rose Garden is just a corner of a more expansive Central Park that includes the Music Haven stage. Though coronavirus-related shutdowns have eliminated live music events for the foreseeable future, Central Park has served as a place for recreation and entertainment for more than half a century. It’s also simple to see why this corner of the park has served as a backdrop to many wedding photos. It can be such a place for your family picnic, too.

The writer is the former editor of Senior Spotlight and editorat-large for Family Now.

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A Patriot Remembers

D-Day revisited Someone was watching over Angelo Picarazzi

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Angelo Picarazzi was 18 years old when he hit the shore of Normandy in 1944. He said he “ate a lot of sand that day,” but he survived to fight several more battles until wounded in village of Remagen. his “unit was so close to the enemy that they felt the bombs and trees falling.” On Dec. 23, 1944, he received his second shrapnel wound that kept him out of action for about 10 days. Then it was back to lines and into Germany as he crossed the Remagen Bridge before it collapsed. His group was fighting in the village when the bridge collapsed on U.S. engineers. On March 15, 1944 he was wounded in his leg. “I felt I was going to get hit that day, and that SOB in front of me wasn’t running fast enough.”

The wound ended his combat duty. He spent eight months

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recovering, which left him with an “admiration for nurses.” His last two wounds occurred on two days before important holidays: Christmas and St. Patrick’s Day. I always felt his name Angelo was so appropriate because “he lived with the angels.”

Every June 6, I have deephearted feelings for my friend, all veterans and that tragic and triumphant day of June 6, 1944. When I spoke for Angelo’s eulogy in June 2017, I ended it with “maybe you’ll see them in the next life.”

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orld War II the human body can do.” brought us milHis survival that day on lions of stories, Omaha Beach was the first of “The Greatest a 9-month journey through Generation” and memories France, that included the Hurtthat we must not let fade away. gen Forest and the Ardennes On June 4, 2011, I arranged a before his military service ended two-hour event to honor and with his third wound in the recognize our military veterans village of Remagen. During that who participated in the Norperiod, he saw action in major mandy Invasion – better known battles along the way. He told as D-Day of June 6, 1944. I me that the combat veterans produced booklets for the were the soldiers who first three years of the saw the enemy face event, and now I to face. by will create a book He fought of the events and in the Battle of my good friend St. Lo and the Angelo Picarazzi.

Hedgerows, and He inspired he had a book that me to do many he used to pinpoint things, and some of a picture of the road his quotes still ring in he walked down. He said, my head. “many French people did not Angelo was in the 9th Infanlike the Americans and blamed try Division when he hit the us for ruining their town.” And shore on Day 3. Being a young he constantly reminded me, “I 18-year-old on the beach, he turned 19 years old in a foxhole said he “ate a lot of sand that during the Battle of St. Lo.” day.” He told me many times Then they walked from St. the driver of the Higgins Boat “was more afraid that we were.” Lo through the hedgerows and into Belgium. He received his When the gate dropped, he first wound on Aug. 4. He sunk with 75 pounds of gear. recovered and was sent back to He shed the gear and swam the lines and moved forward to the shore with nothing but into the Battle of the Bulge. He his clothes. He told me of the cursed our bombers because swim, “You’d be amazed what

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also get your full spouse’s benefit if you care for a child who is younger than age 16 or who has a disability and is entitled to receive benefits on your spouse’s record.

If your benefits as a spouse are higher than your own retirement benefits, you will get a combination of benefits that equal the higher spouse benefit. For example, say Sandy qualifies for a retirement benefit of $250 and a spouse’s benefit of $400. At her full retirement age, she will receive her own $250 retirement benefit. We will add $150 from her spouse’s benefit, for a total of $400.

Want to apply for either your or your spouse’s benefits?

Are you at least 61 years and 8 months old? Visit www. ssa.gov/benefits/retirement to learn more about the process.

Are you divorced, but your marriage lasted at least 10 years? You may be able to get benefits on your former spouse’s record. Explore more about your eligibility by visiting our Benefits Planner page at www.ssa.gov/planners/ retire/divspouse.html for more information.

The author is with the Social Security Administration in Albany.

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Retiring Retirement

A senior refined: Part 2 In Part I of this column, which ran in the March issue of Senior Spotlight, we learned that 66-year-old Fred Sumter’s background prepared him for the harsh realities that he faces in the eyes of angry and hurt young men at the New York State detention center, where he works as a Youth Development aide.

serves to elevate his expectancy for his retirement years.

stand from the comfort of their living rooms watching on flat screens the suffering of these “I’m looking ahead,” he lands,” he said. “It’s when you says. “I have more years behind me than ahead have your boots on the ground that you see the stark difference of me, so I don’t by have time to look between American society and no running water.” what I haven’t achieved. God Working within the correchas given me tional system has only reinhealth, resources, forced his desire to serve as a relationships and senior. experiences that can “The difference between fullpropel me toward the future, to do God’s will and to time work and retirement is the efinement.” It luxury of zeroing in on helping can come have a quality of life physion my terms both in task and with age. cally.” time,” he said.

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Taste and add 1/4 teaspoon salt or more, if desired. Sprinkle with pepper, if desired; mix well.

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Spend your summer on water

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If you are new to kayaking, here are some tips to keep you safe

ayaking is a fun way to spend an afternoon, particularly in summertime. And it’s also a great activity that keeps you away from summer crowds. Kayaking is also accessible to outdoor enthusiasts of all ages – as long as you choose a body of water that is appropriate for your skill level and stamina.

and familiarize oneself with the nuances of paddling.

Demeanor: Demeanor might not be a trait one normally associates with water, but looking at a body of water in this way can be a great way to determine if it’s the right place to start. If a body of water is raging, with choppy waters and rapid waves, then steer clear. If the water is calm, then it’s likely a safe spot for novices.

According to the Physical Activity Council, recreational kayaking is the most popular paddlesport in the United States, attracting more than 11 million participants each year.

People who have never before been in a kayak may be tempted to follow the example set by millions of kayakers who take to the water every day when the weather permits, but safety should be a top priority for all kayakers, and especially for novices. A kayaking course can be a great way for novices to familiarize themselves with the basics of kayaking, including the best practices in regard to staying safe on the water.

Local watersports retailers and recreational organizations that take watersports enthusiasts out on the water may offer safety

Traffic: New kayakers may be intimidated by crowds, but other kayakers can serve as something of a safety net for novices. Kayaking is a fun group activity, and novice paddlers should never go it alone.

Variety: Steer clear of waters Kayaking is a popular activity that even novices can enjoy, especially when that allow power boats. Such they take certain measures to ensure their safety. courses, and these courses can be great resources while also helping people get their feet wet before paddling away.

When kayaking for the first time, it’s important to choose the right type of water for your experience level. Rough, choppy waters can prove challenging to even the most skilled kayakers, and these same waters can be deadly

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for novices. The following are some characteristics novice kayakers should look for in a body of water before pushing themselves and their kayakers into the current.

Size: Avoid vast bodies of water, such as oceans, rivers or large lakes, until they gain more experience. Large ponds and small lakes can be great places to gain some experience

vessels can alter paddling conditions quickly, and that can put novices in potentially precarious positions. Stick to waters that allow only canoes or other boats that won’t affect water conditions.

Access: Until you are more comfortable in your kayak, stay close to shorelines so you have quick and simple access to land should they struggle to get acclimate to the water and being in a kayak.

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