VIRTUA I personally have years and years of experience with being in online relationships of all kinds, but I still find many aspects of relationships in general to be challenging. When I hear about the love stories of others, I’m incredibly inspired but then I wonder well what’s wrong with me?? Is that perfect virtual love out there for me too? What if I already found that person many times over, but I kept screwing it up? Very possible! I went digging on the Internet to see what I could find. What can we do if we want our virtual love to last? What I found isn’t rocket science or anything new under the sun, but sometimes hearing it again can help. I kept thinking hey I did that while I was reading, but still failed. What gives? Maybe there is an element of fate, destiny, “meant to be” that adds to the best of love stories. And that isn’t something we can find reading on the Internet. But these suggestions are a great start! Maybe you’ll find something useful too. TALK AND ACTUALLY GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER
At times we get so excited about some one new in our lives that we fail to do the basic; get to know them to see if they are as compatible with us as we think they are before jumping in head first, or with other body parts for that matter. Are we on the same page? We should be! 62
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SPICE IT UP & DON’T FO SPENDING “PHYSICAL TIME”
Intimacy and naughtiness in our is just as important as it is in our r if we want them to last. Making it date nights, and leave little notes our mates feeling warm and fuzzy why he or she fell for us in the begin with songs that are specifically m them periodically. We shouldn’t sto that worked at first. And should ne for granted. Keep the passion alive we aren’t having regrets about wh should have done once it’s over.
MAKE A PLAN FOR YOUR LIFE TOGETHE
Talking about our expectations an how we’ll spend our virtual lives wit extremely helpful. You’ve heard tha plan, you plan to fail? Usually it’s in r plans, but I think it applies to our r Where are we heading, why are we to figure it out.
