Life Cycles 2019 by Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati

Life Cycles 2019

Cover photograph by S. Marty Dermody, SC.

“What does the Lord ask of us? To act justly, To love tenderly, And to walk humbly with our God.” Micah 6:8

“Friendship is built by attention to others.” Elizabeth Ann Seton

Dear Sisters and Associates, eflecting on the extraordinary lives of our Sisters and Associates who have shared themselves so generously with others, the words of Micah come to mind: What does the Lord ask of us? Act justly, love tenderly, and walk humbly with our God. Each of our 16 Sisters and five Associates have walked that journey. They have lived the words of Elizabeth Seton, “Friendship is built by attention to others.” They have witnessed and given selflessly in service to the needs of others in their various ministries, communities and families. Through their compassion they have truly acted justly, loved tenderly and walked humbly with their God. These women and men, on whose shoulders we stand, go before us as loving examples, leading the way and being that light in the darkness for so many they have touched in their lives. I invite you to read and reflect on the stories of our Sisters and Associates as they lived life through love and friendship. These human stories capture their relationship either through their ministry, community or their family. They all continue to bless us and touch our lives in miraculous ways. For they are our friends, companions, mentors and they are our Family of Charity.

Peace to All,

S. Patricia Hayden, SC President

Table of Contents Evelyn Baca-Kight, Associate........................................................................... Page 3 S. Mary Alberta Bodde.................................................................................... Page 4 S. Eileen Therese Breslin ................................................................................ Page 5 S. Catherine Cahur......................................................................................... Page 6 Gary Campbell, Associate................................................................................ Page 7 S. Janet Gildea................................................................................................. Page 8 S. Cheryl Ann Grenier.................................................................................... Page 9 S. Joan Groff................................................................................................. Page 10 S. Rose William Herzog................................................................................ Page 11 S. John Miriam Jones.................................................................................... Page 12 S. Mary Kathryn McFerrin............................................................................ Page 14 S. Mary Helen McKenna............................................................................... Page 15 Bonnie McLaughlin, Associate...................................................................... Page 16 S. Patricia McNally........................................................................................ Page 17 S. Francis Clare Pavioni................................................................................. Page 18 S. Mary Paula Renne..................................................................................... Page 19 S. Rosalie Riggio........................................................................................... Page 20 S. Loretta Saupe............................................................................................ Page 21 Phyllis Siler, Associate.................................................................................... Page 22 Rosella Verdon, Associate.............................................................................. Page 23 S. Marie Josetta Wethington.......................................................................... Page 24

Associate Evelyn Baca-Kight January 1, 1935-March 7, 2019

orn in Las Vegas, New Mexico, to Mike and Ernestine Baca, Associate Evelyn Baca-Kight was known by family and friends for her great sense of humor, quick wit and generous heart. Evie, as she was known by all, earned a degree in nursing, graduating in 1956 from St. John’s in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She worked in nursing administration most of her career and was highly respected by peers for being a strong and compassionate leader. Evie first met the Sisters of Charity in 1963 when she accepted a job as a registered nurse at St. Joseph Hospital in Albuquerque, New Mexico. She once told, “I had applied at another hospital and for some unknown reason, they suggested I apply at St. Joseph Hospital. Feeling unwelcome there, I went directly to St. Joseph where I received a warm welcome and an offer of a staff nurse position. I instantly knew that I had found the right place and remained there for 36 happy years. During that period I worked in several positions from staff nurse to vice president of mission services.” “I was blessed to minister with Evie for many years at St. Joseph Hospital,” said S. Patmarie Bernard. “She was a dedicated, compassionate nurse/administrator as well as a fun, witty person to be around.” It was in 1980 that Evie’s friend and supervisor, S. Jeannette Cochran, invited her to consider becoming an Associate of the Sisters of Charity. She made her formal commitment to the Community on Sept. 21, 1980, referring to the SCs as her second family. Her own sister, Dolores Mora, also joined the Sisters of Charity as an Associate in Mission. Evie took Elizabeth Seton’s mandate to “be faith-filled women of the church” to heart. She was known for her compassionate and generous spirit, particularly in her role as a nurse and administrator. Three decades after her initial commitment to the Community, Evie would become a Lifetime Associate, saying “During these past 33 years I have received many blessings, made many friends, was supported in times of illness and joy, and have known happiness and peace. The Sisters of Charity have truly been my professional and spiritual mentors.” “Evie was one of our early Associates and did much to pave the way for so many others,” said S. Jeannette Cochran. “I was fortunate to be a part of her life journey. I miss you my friend. Enjoy your dreams as they come true.” Evie loved to travel and greatly enjoyed her many trips around the world visiting various countries such as Russia, Rome, Ireland, Scotland and so many more. She was an avid historian, dedicated to researching her family’s rich heritage. 3

Sister Mary Alberta Bodde May 9, 1923-December 21, 2019

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racious, prayerful, intelligent, Mary was a woman who exemplified the virtues of simplicity, humility and charity,” said S. Noreen Ellison. Growing up in the Detroit, Michigan area, S. Mary Alberta Bodde graduated from Holy Cross High School in Marine City in 1941. After high school she received a scholarship to the College of Mount St. Joseph. She attended on a wartime accelerated program, graduating in three years. On Oct. 2, 1945, S. Mary entered the Sisters of Charity saying she felt she was born with a religious vocation and it was the inspiring SC faculty at the Mount which sealed her original intention. S. Mary’s ministries spanned more than 65 years in education (secondary and college), pastoral ministry, campus ministry and Congregational leadership. Beginning in 1947 she taught journalism and English at schools in Michigan and Ohio before coming to the College of Mount St. Joseph as English professor (1966-’73). She was then asked by her Sisters to become provincial of the Detroit Province where she remained until 1979. Following a semester sabbatical at St. John’s Seminary, Plymouth, Michigan, she was hired there as director of programming and promotion. S. Mary developed summer courses for priests to earn their M.Div. degrees, opening the classes to the laity as well; she also offered spiritual direction to the priests of the area. After five years she looked to campus ministry at Oakland University from St. John Fisher parish, Auburn Hills, Michigan. She would say that this experience offered her the greatest satisfaction, especially in exposing college students to different cultural and economic situations in the annual service retreats in eastern Kentucky. “Mary was a big help to me when I was discerning my next ministry,” said S. Nancy Bramlage. “She happened to love what she was doing [at Oakland University], working with the students and the families in the parish there. Her enthusiasm lit some fire in me, and after giving it more thought and prayer, I accepted the job offer at the University of Dayton. I have always felt great gratitude to Mary for her encouragement to jump into the waters of campus ministry and enjoy the swim.” After 14 years at Oakland University S. Mary retired, but remained in the Greater Detroit area, serving as a reporter for the SC Communications Office as well as editing publications for her parish and enjoying golf, writing, reading and spending time with friends. S. Mary moved to the Motherhouse in 2005 with renewed energy and found a ‘best fit’ in the SC Communications Office, serving as a resident volunteer until 2015. She wrote articles for Intercom, offered her wisdom and insights, always with her ear out for possible story ideas to pursue. 4

Sister Eileen Therese Breslin June 4, 1916-August 23, 2019

Sister of Charity for 85 years, S. Eileen Therese Breslin was born and raised in Maysville, Kentucky. She attended St. Patrick grade school in Maysville and then graduated from Mount St. Joseph Academy in 1934 where she was taught by the Sisters of Charity.

S. Eileen Therese’s more than 45 years of active ministry included 35 years in education, teaching in the intermediate classroom. She began teaching at Resurrection in Cincinnati in 1937 and her ministries took her to various cities in Ohio as well as Royal Oak, Michigan, and Kensington, Maryland. In addition to teaching, she ministered five years (1974-’79) in the library at Bishop Flaget High School in Chillicothe, Ohio. Known by her students for her kindness, cheerfulness and talent, S. Noreen Ellison added, “I am a friend to a few of [Eileen Therese’s] former students when she taught sixth grade at Shrine of the Little Flower in Royal Oak in the early 1960s. These students say she was absolutely a favorite SC and a wonderful teacher. When the ordinary subjects got a little dull she would say, ‘Take out your India Ink and calligraphy pens please.’ Thus followed another lesson that the kids loved – the art of calligraphy.” A new challenge presented itself in 1980 when S. Eileen Therese began serving as transportation coordinator for the Motherhouse Sisters. Three years later she retired from active ministry; her new activities included volunteering at Mother Margaret Hall and Bayley. One of her more unique accomplishments was her title as a Kentucky Colonel. The title and accompanying medal were bestowed upon her on the occasion of her 90th birthday. She was always happy to go home to visit Maysville and catch up on what was happening among the townspeople. Sitting along the banks of the Ohio River was a favorite remembrance from her youth. S. Katrinka Gunn fondly remembers taking S. Eileen Therese to Maysville for visits: “She dearly loved to go there every chance she had. She showed me different parts of the city and different ways of getting there as well as nearby Augusta. She introduced me to moon pies and loved checking out every room in the house on the river where she grew up each time we were there. Her nephew lives there now and he welcomed her back any time.” Added S. Jackie Kowalski, “I enjoyed her many stories, dry sense of humor and her great love for her family. She was proud to be a Kentucky Colonel! I will miss the repartee’, wit, and friendly spirit! Thanks, Eileen, for all the gifts you have given to others over the last 103 years!” 5

Sister Catherine Cahur March 8, 1937-September 22, 2019

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athy simply radiated warmth! Whenever I saw her, she had a huge hug and smile for me as though I were the only person in the room. Her spirit of welcoming and hospitality was such an example of who we are as a Charity Family,” said Associate Mary Ellen Williams. Growing up in Cleveland, Ohio, S. Catherine Cahur graduated from Holy Name High School in 1955 where she was taught by the Sisters of Charity. She entered the Sisters of Charity that September and celebrated 64 years as a woman religious. S. Cathy’s 50 years of active ministry included 27 years in education in schools in Michigan, Ohio and Colorado, including seven years at her alma mater, Holy Name High (1968-1975). The second half of her ministry years took her in a new direction. Upon completion of a degree in counseling she accepted a position in 1987 with the Bay Area Addiction Research Treatment Clinic in San Francisco, California; the clinic offered medical and counseling services for 600 heroin addicts as outpatients. She advanced to administrative supervisor and operations director and by 1996 she was serving as an internal auditor responsible for quality assurance, and county and clinic policies/procedures. S. Cathy felt great satisfaction in being able to help people in San Francisco during the AIDS crisis, prior to the use of inhibitors for HIV+ persons. Her own inclusive Catholic parish, Most Holy Redeemer, lost 40 percent of their community during the AIDS crisis. She grieved the loss of so many vibrant, contributing persons that she had come to know and love. Throughout her 30-plus years of living in the San Francisco area, S. Cathy was very involved in parish life. She served on the RCIA team and the Formation Education Commission early on at Most Holy Redeemer. She facilitated a Centering Prayer group for more than 25 years. She, personally, provided experiences to help others deepen their relationship with God through contemplative retreats, speakers’ series and inter-generational dialogue. “I went many times for Mass and special talks/workshops at Cathy’s parish, Most Holy Redeemer, and got to know her family there,” remembered S. Romina Sapinoso. “On weekends Cathy took me around in the Castro, to museums, sightseeing or to brunch with her MHR friends who also welcomed me with open arms. I was blessed to hear her stories of working in San Francisco at the height of the AIDS epidemic. She walked all over and she was well-loved by the people she ministered to. She was a gift to me during my time in the Bay.” Travel, sightseeing, hiking and mountain climbing were favorite pasttimes for S. Cathy as well as special times with good friends. 6

Rev. James Gary Campbell, Associate March 10, 1933-June 24, 2019

n ordained minister, Associate Gary Campbell was born in Loudon Country, East Tennessee. Just before his senior year in high school Gary enlisted in the U.S. Army and in 1950 arrived in Korea. After the war he began educational studies at Florida State University. Most of Gary’s life’s work focused on communications and religious journalism. After serving as assistant director of publications at Florida State University and pastor at Presbyterian churches in Virginia and Texas, he joined the Board of World Missions of the Presbyterian Church for service in Latin America. He and his wife, Chess, moved to Mexico City where Gary first worked with an educational audio-visual agency and then at the National Center for Social Communications, an ecumenical center dedicated to providing a “voice for the voiceless.” It was there that the couple first met the Sisters of Charity through S. Stephanie Lindsey and G.A.T.E. “That close connection in Mexico City with women religious was a unique experience,” he once said. As G.A.T.E. developed Chess worked with S. Stephanie and the Campbells’ friendships with the Community continued to deepen. In 1986 the couple transferred to Nicaragua and Gary began work at the Centro Ecumenico Antonio Valdivieso, an institution dedicated to understanding the meaning and relevance of the Christian faith in a situation of profound social change. It was also in Nicaragua that S. Jean Miller invited Gary and Chess to become Associates in Mission. “It was obvious that Gary and Chess shared the values and ministry of our Community,” said S. Jean. Together the two made their commitments on June 26, 1991. He said, “I owe a tremendous debt to the Sisters of Charity for their ecumenical spirit. Their lives and friendships have been an important part of my faith journey. It was these personal experiences that drew me to become an Associate.” Gary’s family was his special joy and his wife, Chess, and their two children the loves of his life. After the untimely death of their daughter and her husband, and while faced with challenging health issues himself, he and Chess focused their attention on the couple’s sons David and Daniel. Singing and theater were always an important part of Gary’s life, even as a young child. Wherever the family was living he joined groups that provided these opportunities. His history of interviewing people for his work offered him multiple opportunities to make friends, a privileged task, which provided him much pleasure. “Gary was dedicated to his ministry, wherever it took him,” added S. Jean. “Even during his illness his dedication to justice work and peace continued.” 7

Sister Janet Gildea September 11, 1956-April 4, 2019

Janet Gildea grew up as part of an active family of faith in Fort Wayne, Indiana. She first met the Sisters of Charity when attending the College of Mount St. Joseph (Cincinnati) in 1974. Her call was to service as a physician, but hand-in-hand came the invitation to vowed life as a Sister of Charity. S. Janet was a Sister of Charity for 36 years. “S. Janet dedicated her life to doing everything she could to make each day count,” said Associate Fr. Bill Morton, “to witness to her faith in God, and her passion for empowering others to grow in their faith and to answer the call to serve Christ in the poorest of the poor.” S. Janet’s ministries included 35 years of medical service to the poor in Kentucky, New Mexico, Texas and a colonia in Anapra, Mexico; she would term it ‘poverty medicine’ because she preferred working in clinics for the poor in underserved communities. Following service in Kentucky and New Mexico, in 1991, S. Janet became medical director at San Vicente Clinic near El Paso, Texas, and four years later she co-founded La Clinica Guadalupana for families living in desperate poverty on both sides of the U.S.-Mexico border. This ministry expanded to provide much-needed assistance for children with special needs through the Santo Niño Project in Anapra, Mexico. She would minister at the border the remainder of her life, learning from the people about perseverance, courage, creativity and celebration. “Janet never wavered from her belief in the power of community,” said S. Peggy Deneweth. “Her desire to build community was centered on the mission to serve the poor.” S. Janet’s great joy in life was witnessing the unfolding and blossoming of young people called to serve the poor in community. She joined the Sisters of Charity Vocation Team and gave much of her energy to encouraging vocations, serving as director of Affiliates for the Sisters of Charity Congregation. S. Janet saw great value in the outreach-service component that young people offer the world in their desire to make it a better place. To add to their contributions she and initial Formation/Vocation teams in the Sisters of Charity Federation requested a grant from the Catholic Volunteer Network for a program for young women returning from volunteer mission experiences after college. Known as AVE (After Volunteer Experience), the opportunity is offered to young women transitioning from a year of volunteer service at Casa Caridad in Anthony, New Mexico, S. Janet’s home community. “Janet’s vision was inclusive,” said S. Carol Wirtz, “her sense of community was embodied by her warmth, by her all-encompassing hospitality. Inviting people to share a meal, or to share the experience of community, was Janet’s delight.” 8

Sister Cheryl Ann Grenier September 15, 1947-October 13, 2019

rowing up in a large family in Detroit, Michigan, S. Cheryl Ann Grenier attended St. Luke Grade School and St. Theresa High School. She entered the Sisters of Charity on Sept. 8, 1965, joyfully serving 54 years as a woman religious. Looking back on religious life, she once shared, “[Religious life] has been a deeply shared faith relationship that commits me in community to be a Sister to all, to help bring about the coming of the Kingdom.” S. Cheryl Ann’s ministries as a Sister of Charity spanned 40 years and included service in the preschool and primary grade classroom, music education, children’s sacramental preparation, pastoral ministry and parish music. She planted the joy of music in many children’s hearts over the years. S. Cheryl Ann ministered in the Dioceses of Cleveland and Cincinnati in Ohio, Denver, Colorado, Albuquerque, New Mexico, and Gaylord and Lansing in Michigan. She began her education ministry at Holy Name, Cleveland in 1969 as a primary teacher. In 1993, S. Cheryl Ann was part of building a new parish community at St. Martha, Okemos, Michigan, both school and church; it was a community effort including a core group of Sisters of Charity that gave it life and energy. She taught first grade and preschool and worked with the music education and children’s choir, preparing children’s liturgies and school-wide musical presentations. It was a labor of love. “I got to know Cheryl when we opened St. Martha School,” said S. Pat Newhouse. “She shared her musical talent with our students and provided us with many wonderful concerts showcasing their beautiful voices. S. Cheryl was a great friend, fellow clown, and a wonderful Sister of Charity. She had a great love for not only her family and friends, but also animals.” In 2003 she provided service at Holy Family Regional, Rochester Hills, Michigan, as a primary grade music teacher and cared for her elderly mother until her death. In 2005 she volunteered at Villa San Bernardo, Bedford, Ohio, serving the Sisters there until 2009. When S. Cheryl Ann returned to Cincinnati she offered her services as needed. She faced recurring bouts of cancer, but continued to contribute to Community life with her gift of music. She directed the Motherhouse chime choir bringing joy to special gatherings and used mime and clowning to entertain Sisters in Mother Margaret Hall. Her friend and former teaching companion, S. Marie Pauline Skalski, remembers, “Cheryl had many gifts and talents that she shared freely. In particular, I admired her kindness and willingness to help anyone who came to the convent door in need of help or a kind word. She always had a big heart for those in need.” 9

Sister Joan Groff November 9, 1928-September 2, 2019

emembered as a “beautiful spirit who made the world a better place,” the call to religious life came early to S. Joan Groff as a student at St. Margaret Mary Grade School in Mount Healthy. It wasn’t until high school, however, that she would decide to join the Sisters of Charity. “I saw them as persons who had a zest for life and love and relationships,” she once said of their humanness. A Sister of Charity for 72 years, S. Joan’s more than 55 years of ministry included 24 years in education, time as a provincial superior with her Community, and 24 years of service as a pastoral counselor in the local Cincinnati area. She began as an intermediate teacher at the Shrine of the Little Flower in Royal Oak, Michigan in 1948. Following service at schools in Ohio she found herself taking on the role of principal, first at Sacred Heart in Conroe, Texas (1966-’67) and then at Resurrection in Cincinnati (1967-’72). S. Joan was elected as the Cincinnati provincial, a position she held for four years before becoming a full-time pastoral counselor in 1980 with the Archdiocesan Counseling Service. Seven years later she was named director of the service, while continuing her position as counselor. In 1994 her skills were expanded to treat a larger population than priests and religious, when she joined the Professional Pastoral Counseling Institute, an interdenominational counseling center with a wide variety of clients. She would refer to her years in pastoral counseling as the most fulfilling of her life. She saw her role as helping others to integrate their spiritual, emotional, physical and social dynamics and to move toward wholeness; she believed this enabled them to serve the Church and the world with greater freedom, caring and compassion. “S. Joan was such a helpful clinical supervisor for me as I was working on my clinical licensure in the late 1990s. Her wisdom and guidance still impact the way I do my work with my students at the Mount,” said Associate Patsy Schwaiger. S. Joan found Vatican II as a freeing agent in her life. The centering prayer movement provided her with a grounding for her life of ministry and compassion. She was active with the Sisters of Charity Associate program and particularly enjoyed celebrating ordinary times together with longtime friends. S. Marge Kloos, in remembering her friend, remarked, “Joan was a loving presence to so many. She had a great capacity for compassion and listening. Her life was about helping others to heal. Even after suffering a debilitating stroke, she joyfully went about her counseling ministry, journeying with many others through their pain and loss. It was a grace to know her in this life.”

Sister Rose William Herzog December 4, 1928-June 2, 2019

Sister of Charity for 68 years, S. Rose William Herzog grew up in Springfield, Ohio, and was taught by the Sisters of Charity in both grade and high school. The call to become a Sister of Charity began in first grade with religion lessons; she credits her teacher, S. Leona Marie Behrens, with fostering her vocation through the mission stories they learned. S. Rose William was happy to be reunited with her mentor 20 years later and to personally thank her for her vocation; she entered the Community on Sept. 8, 1950. S. Rose William’s ministries included more than 50 years of dedicated service to primary age children. She served as first grade teacher for the majority of that time, taking her to Catholic school classrooms in Illinois, Michigan and Ohio. “Rose and I were in South Holland, Illinois, together in the late 1960s,” remembered S. Joan Elizabeth Cook. “I marveled at Rose’s love for her students and their families. They remained devoted to her, and during the years I’ve been here at the Mount I’ve enjoyed seeing them and becoming reacquainted when they would come to visit her.” In 1982 S. Rose William arrived at St. John the Baptist in Harrison, Ohio, where she remained for 47 years in a variety of capacities, including first grade teacher, school mission coordinator, teacher’s aide, primary grade substitute teacher, kindergarten religion teacher and volunteer. She won the “Star Teacher” award there in 1996. “My greatest joy in serving has been working with small children, grades K-2,” S. Rose William explained at the time of the award. What S. Rose William may best be known for is her untiring dedication to the Holy Childhood Association and the needs of the missions. The Archdiocesan Mission Office honored her in May 2019 for her continued commitment to the global missions. Early on in teaching S. Rose William was making young children familiar with the work of missionaries, arranging for speakers from foreign countries to come to the school, and familiarizing children with a variety of cultures. She planted the seed of giving to others in need. “She gave her students an awareness of the worldwide mission of the Church,” said S. Mary Dugan. “She worked with young people – giving them an awareness of global needs and guiding them to see their responsibility in working together to care for God’s people.” In her semi-retirement S. Rose William enjoyed listening to big band music and sharing stories of the funny things that children say and do. At the time of her jubilee she remarked, “I am happy I became a Sister. I have lived with many holy and wonderful Sisters of Charity and have enjoyed my life with them.” 11

Sister John Miriam Jones February 22, 1924-November 3, 2019

rowing up in Denver, Colorado, S. John Miriam Jones was taught by the Sisters of Charity at both Cathedral grade and high school. After graduation in 1942, and while on a retreat, S. John Miriam experienced ‘a touching moment of grace,’ providing her with a clear sense of God’s personal invitation to religious life. She entered the Sisters of Charity in September 1943. S. John Miriam’s ministries spanned more than 50 years in education as teacher, principal and administrator. In her early years she taught in Illinois, Ohio, New Mexico and Colorado and served as principal at Pueblo Catholic, Pueblo, Colorado, from 1962-’66 before moving to full-time study at the University of Notre Dame (South Bend, Indiana). In 1972 S. John Miriam was asked to return to the University of Notre Dame as assistant provost to help open doors for women in order for them to succeed there. She taught microbiology, was coordinator for disabled students and directed the foreign studies program in addition to becoming associate provost (1987). S. John Miriam coordinated faculty appointments and supervised affirmative action activities on campus as well. Friend and colleague Jane Pitz recalls, “S. John and I began working together as women arrived on campus in 1972. She ‘headed’ up this adventure of bringing Notre Dame to be an equal institution, educating women along with men. Her presence in walking through the maze of ‘firsts’ was invaluable to me and the other women on staff. Her calmness was appreciated as we ran the gamut of adjustments to campus expectations of women being there.” In 1989 S. John Miriam was elected the Central Region’s provincial for the Sisters of Charity and came to Cincinnati; after eight years in this role, she agreed to become the dean of academics at the College of Mount St. Joseph (1997-’01), her last formal ministry effort. “S. John Miriam was a giant of a leader,” said Dr. John Trokan, who had the privilege of working with Sister when she was the academic dean at the college. “Her honesty, integrity, and facilitation skills were a joy to work with. Her example each day as an ethical and moral leader, totally focused on our mission and living the Gospel, taught me volumes about servant leadership.” It was in her intense probing of faith and her examination of religious life that she witnessed both personal grace and growth. After taking time to get in touch with her Irish heritage in 1997, S. John Miriam authored a book, With an Eagle’s Eye. The book offers a seven-day sojourn in Celtic spirituality. In her retirement years she remained active, teaching part-time at the College of Mount St. Joseph and the Athenaeum of Ohio along with giving talks and retreats. 12

Photo by S. Marty Dermody

â&#x20AC;&#x153;You will help others more by the peace and tranquility of your heart than by any eagerness or care you can bestow on them.â&#x20AC;? - Elizabeth Ann Seton

Sister Mary Kathryn McFerrin December 30, 1928-July 29, 2019

native of Chillicothe, Ohio, S. Mary Kathryn McFerrin’s early remembrances of a call to religious life came in the fourth grade with May processions and May devotions. Taught by the Sisters of Charity throughout her first 12 years of education, it was the influence of S. John Francis Burns at Catholic Central High School that she credits with fostering her vocation. She entered the Community on Sept. 8, 1947, celebrating 71 years as a Sister of Charity. S. Mary Kathryn’s ministries included more than 35 years in education as teacher, librarian and principal. She began teaching in 1949 at Loyola in Denver and continued at schools in Colorado, Ohio and Michigan until receiving a call to serve as principal at St. Michael, Findlay, Ohio (1968’76), a ministry she found as both a challenge and greatly satisfying. “[Mary Kathryn] loved being involved in life in all its richness and poverty,” remembered the Rev. Joseph Fox, O.P. “Those of us in my family who had her in class loved her as much as she loved us ... She was certainly a good and faithful servant of the Lord!” In 1981, S. Mary Kathryn chose to participate in the year-long Active Spirituality Program for a Global Community at the College of Mount St. Joseph, an opportunity she valued; the experience of another culture, theological reflection, liturgies and the exposure to updated theology energized her greatly. Following this experience she looked to new ministry roles, serving as librarian at the Mount Campus School (1982-’83) and at St. Charles, Kettering, Ohio (1984-’86). She then offered her experience and gifts as arts and crafts coordinator at Mother Margaret Hall (1986-’92) and as MMH receptionist (1992-’94). S. Mary Kathryn felt a passion for social justice issues, especially homelessness and immigration. She believed that if we lived the Gospel of Jesus more fully, we, as Church, could eradicate all forms of injustice. Her love for the arts, especially music, drawing and watercolor, provided ongoing resources for her prayer life. In the Community S. Mary Kathryn was well known for her beautiful mandalas, creations she drew while meditating on Scripture verses. She referred to them as sacred circles, a creation incorporating circles and triangles. She created a new one every day as an important facet of her prayer life with a Scriptural reference below. She often gave them away to friends or family members. “One of my prize possessions was a gift from Mary Kathryn,” remembered Associate Maureen Nieman. “She blessed me with one of her volumes of mandalas when I became an Associate [and she taught me] how to pray with a mandala as she did every day.” 14

Sister Mary Helen McKenna December 7, 1920-May 29, 2019

rowing up in Jackson, Michigan, S. Mary Helen McKenna was taught by the Sisters of Charity all 12 years as a student at St. Mary Star of the Sea Catholic schools. She graduated from the parish high school in 1939 and that September entered the Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati. “It was the Sisters self-sacrifice and consecration to God that attracted me to imitate their gift-of-self to God and the Church,” S. Mary Helen once shared. Throughout her 80 years as a Sister of Charity, S. Mary Helen’s ministries included more than 45 years as a dedicated teacher and elementary principal; wherever she served she was regarded as an excellent educator. Her ministries took her from Ohio to Michigan, Illinois, New Mexico and Colorado. She served five years as principal at both Queen of Martyrs in Birmingham, Michigan (1954-’59) and St. Charles in Kettering, Ohio (1964-’69). “Mary Helen and I had something in common: we were both principals at Our Lady Queen of Martyrs in Birmingham; though our tenures there were about 25 years apart,” recalled Peter Ferguson, who first met Sister while visiting Sister-friends at Mount St. Joseph. “Mary Helen was the founding principal at Queen of Martyrs. I loved hearing her stories about the building of the school in 1954. She had been missioned to the Shrine of the Little Flower in Royal Oak prior to her new assignment, and she knew the year before the school opened that she would be the founding principal. Each week she would drive over to Queen of Martyrs to meet with the pastor as well as the architect and contractor who were building the school. She was actively involved in every detail of the building project, as well as the textbook selections and the building of the temporary convent across the street. S. Mary Helen spoke with great memory and clarity. I was most impressed with the detail she would recall in her 90s of that very busy time in her life. It was great fun to exchange stories and to share that ‘common bond’ with her.” In 1987 S. Mary Helen chose to look to ministry at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital, serving as an assistant in the Child Life Activity Program. There she enjoyed planning creative and engaging activities for hospitalized children in music, art, drama and poetry; she remained there until 1995. She found it very life-giving. Sister volunteered throughout the 1990s in Over-the-Rhine and downtown Cincinnati. Her leisure activities included reading and listening to classical music. S. Mary Helen moved to Mother Margaret Hall in 2001 where she served in the Ministry of Prayer. 15

Associate Bonnie McLaughlin June 9, 1940-November 13, 2019

woman of great spirit, Associate Bonnie McLaughlin came to know the Sisters of Charity following the death of her husband, Robert Sr. She was looking for something more and in the process reconnected with the late Associate Marian Boutet. Knowing Bonnie’s longing for an opportunity to deepen her faith, Marian introduced Bonnie to the Sisters of Charity Community and the Associate program. Bonnie was known for her Tuesday visits with the Sisters. S. Joyce Brehm said, “I remember Bonnie from many years ago when she would visit S. Eugene Mary Donohue in Mother Margaret Hall. She faithfully visited on Tuesdays and sometimes brought Eugene sandwiches. Bonnie, you don’t have to have done extraordinary things. You did the little things well. I’m blessed for having known you.” After much prayer, thought and soul-searching, Bonnie made her commitment as an Associate in Mission on May 31, 1998. In her application she wrote: “My desire is to learn from, pray with and work alongside the Sisters. I have been praying, asking God how I can serve him and he answered by opening this door for me. I believe God has called me.” Bright, friendly, considerate and having a great sense of humor, Bonnie believed in hard work and service. Using her interpersonal skills, she worked as a data collection assistant through a local marketing research company in Cincinnati. She was involved in her parish, St. John the Evangelist, as a Eucharistic minister, also distributing Communion at Deer Park Nursing Home. She enjoyed faith sharing groups and treasured the support and encouragement she received from the Sisters, especially when she needed it most. “I always enjoyed her company when Associates gathered,” recalled S. Delia Sizler. “I especially remember several times at Lake Lorelei at picnics with the Associates how much fun Bonnie had. I loved her smile and laugh. Bonnie never stood out or attracted attention but she had a hospitable spirit and was always willing to help. I am grateful that I was able to get to know her.” Bonnie was a loving mother of three and cherished grandmother and great-grandmother. In addition to finding joy in visits with the Sisters and friends, in her spare time she enjoyed cooking and gardening. 16

Sister Patricia McNally October 25, 1925-August 2, 2019

nown for the twinkle in her eye, S. Patricia McNally was quick to inquire about others and offer words of encouragement and support. Born in Springfield, Ohio, S. Pat’s call to religious life began in the first grade following the death of her mother. S. Mary Clementine Kasselmann gave her extra love and attention and it was then that S. Pat decided she wanted to be like her. A Sister of Charity for 76 years, S. Pat’s more than 50 years of ministry included 24 years in education, time in several Houses of Prayer and 20 years in pastoral ministry. Her education ministry began as a primary teacher at St. William, Cincinnati in 1945. S. Pat served as an elementary principal for 10 years, first at St. Mary in Marion, Ohio (1959-’65) and then at St. John Bosco, Parma Heights, Ohio (1965-’69). In the fall of 1973 S. Pat moved into pastoral ministry, serving at parishes in Michigan, Kentucky and Georgia. It was at Holy Family in Metter, Georgia (1981-’86) that she was given the opportunity to walk side-by-side with Central American migrants. She instructed adults for Baptism, conducted pre-Baptism classes for mothers of newborns and prepared children for First Communion, all the while studying Spanish herself. On weekends they planned social activities. In 1986 a new and challenging opportunity as the U.S. coordinator for the G.A.T.E. (Global Awareness Through Experience) program came S. Pat’s way; participants in the program received Third World experiences through visits to one of eight different countries. She took delegations from all over the U.S. to these countries to raise social and global awareness. Through the program she believed that her own commitment to the poor was strengthened. In 1990 S. Pat chose to move into retirement, volunteering full time with the Refugee Resettlement program in Nashville, Tennessee. She saw her role as one to befriend and empower the newcomers so that they could become independent U.S. citizens. In her return to Cincinnati, she continued to remain busy volunteering in a variety of settings accompanying persons with AIDS, the homeless and teaching weekly watercolor painting classes to Sisters and Associates. S. Whitney Schieltz remembers: “Pat first invited me to share my artistic talent with the Congregation. Monica Gundler and I ran into Pat while she was working on a letterhead design to celebrate the completion of Mother Margaret Hall’s renovation. When Monica mentioned my background in design and architecture, Pat didn’t hesitate to recruit me. Early in my discernment, I often struggled to imagine how my skills and educational background would fit into the mission of the Sisters of Charity, but Pat always affirmed my gifts and their value to this Community and to the world.” 17

Sister Francis Clare Pavioni January 24, 1924-January 10, 2019

orn in Gallop, New Mexico, S. Francis Clare Pavioni was the youngest of five children. She attended Gallop public schools and graduated from St. Mary High School in Albuquerque, New Mexico, in 1941. With the death of her mother, she went to live with her sister and family in Albuquerque for the last two years of high school where she was taught by the Sisters of Charity. Following graduation S. Francis Clare felt the need to contribute to her own livelihood and went to work for the Robertson and Drummond accounting firm for nine years with a break during World War II when she served in WAVES (Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Services). There she was an instructor and trainer in the Link Instrument School (LITIS), United States Navy in the Bronx, New York, and Atlanta, Georgia. Their services included maintaining the complicated and technical instruments the pilots and trainers used before the days of radar; they trained Marines and Coast Guard in addition to Navy pilots. Throughout the years she kept in touch with her WAVES classmates, saying, “I have valued the personal friendships made while in the service; they have lasted a lifetime.” In 1952 a Jesuit priest friend helped S. Francis Clare find a job working with S. Mary Assunta Stang at St. Joseph Hospital in Albuquerque. Shortly after, in February 1953, she entered the Sisters of Charity and remained a Community member for 65 years. S. Francis Clare’s years of ministry included service in SC hospital business offices in the West, as a manager, accountant and supervisor. In the East she served as accountant, computer programmer and director of computer services for the Congregation. She began as an assistant in the Treasurer’s Office at the Sisters of Charity Motherhouse (1954-’60), working under the direction of S. Elise Halloran. In 1986 S. Francis Clare transitioned into a new career as director of computer services in the Congregation’s Finance Office. Health issues with lymphoma the following year caused her to be relieved of that responsibility; however, she continued to work as an assistant in the office until she retired in 2016. One of her volunteer efforts over the years was directed toward Emmaus Initiatives, a nonprofit organization that collaborated with parishes to train volunteer ministers to serve fellow parish members in need. A dear friend, S. Jeannette Cochran said she is grateful to S. Francis Clare for helping her adjust to living at the Motherhouse after decades residing in New Mexico. “Francis Clare is one of the most wonderful human beings and SCs I have had the privilege of knowing,” she added. 18

Sister Mary Paula Renne January 2, 1923-February 10, 2019

Sister of Charity for 75 years, S. Mary Paula Renne was born to Paul J. and Caroline (de Puydt) Renne in Mankato, Minnesota. She was the third of 10 children. S. Mary Paula grew up as part of a large family of faith in Big Rapids, Michigan; she attended a one-room public school and finished there in 1940. Following school she worked with the Sisters at Bon Secour Hospital in Grosse Pointe, Michigan, in the diet kitchen; from her experience of being around Sisters she began considering religious life. She contacted her aunt, S. Louise Marie de Puydt, a Sister of Charity, who arranged for her to visit S. Francis de Chantal in nearby Mount Clemens, Michigan. After several meetings with, her S. Mary Paula chose to enter the Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati in September 1944. S. Mary Paula’s ministries included 48 years as a primary and intermediate grade school teacher in her native Michigan, as well as Ohio and Illinois, beginning with St. Mary in Chillicothe, Ohio, in 1945. It was in 1979 that Sister was asked to come to Elizabeth Seton High School, South Holland, Illinois, to serve as sacristan in the convent chapel; she remained there until 1983 and is remembered fondly for her presence in the convent kitchen. “When I lived at Elizabeth Seton, S. Mary Paula was our cook,” said S. Mary Catherine Faller. “We had a large house, so she had large meals to prepare. In her ‘spare time’ she helped out in the high school library taking care of all of the audiovisual equipment. Paula’s cooking skills were many and no one ever left the table hungry. As if it wasn’t enough that she cooked for us during the school year, she would go back home to Big Rapids in the summer and cook for her brothers who kept the family farm going. Paula was a gentle soul – always with a smile for everyone.” In 1994 S. Mary Paula retired and eventually moved to the Mount St. Joseph Motherhouse where she assisted with the distribution of mail and served where needed. In her leisure hours Sister enjoyed crossword puzzles, sewing, walking and gardening. It was important to her throughout her life to share faith and friendship with those who needed to be comforted or consoled. “For several years when I was a daily visitor to Mother Margaret Hall I would look forward to Mary Paula’s big smile of welcome,” remembered S. Georgia Kitt. “She would be seated out in the common area and always shared a few words, ever grateful for opportunities to be of help to the others around her.”

Sister Rosalie Riggio May 8, 1929-December 25, 2019

orn in Jansen, Colorado, S. Rosalie Riggio grew up in Trinidad. She attended Pacheco grade school and graduated from Holy Trinity High School in 1947 where she was taught by the Sisters of Charity. S. Rosalie entered the Sisters of Charity that September saying the kindness and thoughtfulness of the Sisters she knew along with their involvement with the students in activities influenced her decision. She celebrated 72 faith-filled years as a Sister of Charity. S. Rosalie’s ministries span more than 40 years in education as an elementary teacher, beginning in the primary grades. She began her years of service at Sacred Heart in Denver, Colorado in 1949. Teaching assignments followed in Ohio, Colorado and New Mexico. At St. Joseph Parish in Pueblo, Colorado (1973-’77) S. Rosalie developed and administered a family religious education program. In 1977 she went back to the classroom at St. Rose of Lima in Denver for one year. She taught from 1978-’81 at Pauline Memorial, Colorado Springs followed by 10 years at Divine Redeemer, also in Colorado Springs. During her years as a teacher S. Rosalie worked on committees to upgrade curriculum, piloted a BSCS Science Program through Colorado College and assisted in administration of elementary schools. S. Jean Miller came to know S. Rosalie while ministering in Colorado Springs. “Rosalie and I became friends because she would attend all the justice events I scheduled and would help me clean up afterwards. She was very involved in her church and that gave her life and stories.” It was from there that she retired from formal education, but continued living in the area. In 1991 Sister began volunteering in a nonmedical caregiving capacity in assisted-living facilities, running errands, driving residents to doctor appointments and visiting the frail elderly in their homes. For more than 15 years she served as the sacristan at St. Joseph Church in Colorado Springs. Members of the parish remember seeing her at Mass every day, making sure the altar cloths were clean, the vessels were polished, the wine was filled to the exact measurement and the candles were lit. A close friend, Susan LeMaster, commented about the consistent presence S. Rosalie was at St. Joseph’s. “She was a kind and gentle woman. [You would see her] going back and forth from the sacristy to the altar preparing for Mass, ever faithful. S. Rosalie was so appreciative of even the smallest things we could do for her. We will miss her presence among us.” In her retirement years S. Rosalie appreciated the beauty of nature, walking and reading. It was her stated hope that we as humans would attend to violence and work to alleviate racism and poverty. 20

Sister Loretta Saupe April 12, 1928-October 29, 2019

escribed as gracious, joyful, warm and welcoming, S. Loretta Saupe was taught by the Sisters of Charity at both St. Lawrence grade school and Seton High School in Cincinnati, Ohio. S. Loretta entered the Community on Feb. 2, 1947, saying she found in the Sisters who taught her what she hoped to offer to others. She celebrated 72 years as a Sister of Charity. For more than 40 years S. Loretta taught in Catholic elementary and high schools throughout Ohio, Illinois and Michigan, including 16 years as a high school science teacher, mainly chemistry, and 25 years as an elementary principal and junior high educator. Remembered S. Georgia Kitt, “Loretta was an excellent chemistry teacher at Catholic Central in Springfield, Ohio (1967-’72), known for her willingness to give that extra attention to a difficult concept. We taught and ministered together in Springfield for more than 15 years. She was always respectful of the sacrifices families made for a Catholic education; she made sure their efforts were not in vain.” In 1978 S. Loretta agreed to become the principal at St. Bernard, also in Springfield, following the death of S. Marjorie Ann Suver. She remained there until 1989, successfully directing the Individually Guided Education (IGE) program, a time when enrollment in the school doubled. After a brief personal renewal program she offered her services as a senior aide at St. John Center, Springfield. In 1991 S. Loretta moved to Cincinnati and for 10 years ministered as the postal clerk at the SC Motherhouse Post Office along with her friend S. Dorothy Marie Kremer. It was a position for which both were well-suited. They braved rain, ice and the Cincinnati heat to make their appointed rounds. It was truly a labor of love. In her retirement S. Loretta offered her services in the SC Communications Office, Assisted Living mail room and Mother Margaret Hall mail delivery. Her cookie-making continued, always accompanied by a warm, ready smile. In 2003 she moved to Mother Margaret Hall, but continued to be a frequent, welcoming presence on the campus. She enjoyed listening to audio books and watching the Cincinnati Reds play ball. Friend Sandy Kachurek remembered, “I met S. Loretta when I drove three of her retired teacher friends down from Springfield to see her several years ago. Since then, I’ve made arrangements to visit at least twice a year. Our meetings would begin at the noon meal and continue for a few more hours and were rich in discussion, from politics to education to personal health and books. Through her stories, I understood her love for the Sisters of Charity and its rich history in the development of the Community both inside and outside the Motherhouse. She was intelligent and compassionate.” 21

Associate Phyllis Siler August 6, 1930-August 24, 2019

orn in Ottoville, Ohio, Associate Phyllis Siler (the former S. Philip) was taught by the Sisters of Charity beginning in the seventh grade and all throughout high school at St. Rose in Lima, Ohio. Phyllis came to appreciate and admire the women she met, saying “their dedication to education and their spirit – much like that of Mother Seton, who was open to all people and truly human” led her to enter the Sisters of Charity in 1948. She remained a vowed member for 20 years, ministering in education throughous schools in Ohio, Michigan and Colorado. Remembered S. Barbara Muth, “We both entered in September 1948. She always had such a sweet smile. Phyllis was always pleasant and a joy.” After leaving the Community, Phyllis continued in the field of education, teaching the next 25 years at St. Margaret Mary in North College Hill (Cincinnati). She remained close to the Sisters, particularly S. Ann Loretto, who ministered to the poor, the homeless and the marginalized in downtown Cincinnati. She and the former S. Mary Martha Rains assisted S. Ann Loretto any way they could, and as Sister aged, she depended on the two women more and more so that her ministry to the poor could continue. “She helped us to see the face of Christ in every person she met – whether it was the president of a bank or the homeless man sitting on a curb,” Phyllis said. “Phyllis joined Martha in being a very welcoming presence when we had a special weekend reunion at their home,” said S. Noreen Ellison, who was a fellow Band member with S. Mary Martha. “From that time, Phyllis always seemed to love being with us, her ‘adopted’ Band, even after her good friend Martha died.” The spirituality and friendships she developed in the Community continued throughout the years, and prompted her to become an Associate in Mission on Jan. 4, 2007, saying “the Sisters of Charity are a great part of who I am.” In her discernment statement she expressed her hope to share her continuing love, friendship and support with the Sisters of Charity in their mission. When Phyllis moved to the Village at Bayley, she enjoyed visiting Mother Margaret Hall and the Sisters she had built relationships with. In later years, she enjoyed visiting with others on the Bayley campus. “When I was at Bayley in November after surgery she would roll her wheelchair down to my room and visit,” remembered Associate Mary Ellen Williams. “She also came in when I was in physical therapy and it was evident she was a frequent visitor there. Everyone who knew her loved her.” 22

Associate Rosella Verdon September 22, 1933-April 11, 2019

orn and raised in the Kirkwood suburb of Saint Louis, Missouri, Associate Rosella Verdon’s favorite childhood memories were of traveling with her family in the United States and abroad. She graduated from Saint Louis University in 1955 and worked as a physical therapist with a special interest in polio patient rehabilitation. Rosella was devoted to her three daughters Kathy, Judy and Mary. She was a loving grandmother and great-grandmother. Her strong Catholic faith was the foundation for every aspect of her life. Rosella first met the Sisters of Charity in the late 1950s when she adopted her twin daughters. She said, “Their advice and belief in me as a new mom were a generous gift.” And when her family moved West years later, she reconnected with the Community. “In my mid-life, our family moved to Colorado for my ex-spouse to work at Penrose Hospital,” she once wrote. “The setting was very comfortable to me even after he left his job and me. I grew into who I am today with the friendships of the Sisters of Charity. I’ve studied Mother Seton’s life and use her as a role model for myself as a single person.” Rosella provided pastoral care at Penrose Hospital for many years, in addition to serving as a volunteer lay Eucharistic minister. She made her commitment as an Associate in Mission on Nov. 15, 1994. She said at the time, “Becoming an Associate in Mission will help me in my personal and spiritual life. It will mean cementing or building friendships with women who have the Christian values I cherish. The talents I will bring are an inquisitive mind and a caring heart.” “Rosella was so grateful to be an Associate,” said former Director of Associates Mary Jo Mersmann. “She lived a life filled with the Charity charism. She attended as many of the Congregational Days in the West as she could, including the last one when she had her daughter bring her for the Lifetime Commitment ceremony. She was gentle and kind and loved her family so very much. I am so grateful to have known her and loved her. She was a true gift to our Community.” St. Francis of Assisi, patron saint of animals and nature, was her favorite saint and is what led her to work at the Cheyenne Mountain Zoo. S. Marty Dermody remembers Rosella’s kind-heartedness: “Every time I would visit Colorado Springs, she would always make sure I had passes to go to the zoo to see their giraffe display. She was friendly and I loved sharing with her on my visits.” 23

Sister Marie Josetta Wethington March 5, 1932-August 17, 2019

native of Huntington, West Virginia, and one of seven children, S. Marie Josetta Wethington attended Catholic grade and high schools through the determination of her faith-filled parents, who dreamed of giving all of their children a strong Catholic education. That commitment to education continued throughout her 67 years as a Sister of Charity as S. Marie Josetta obtained degrees in mathematics, microbiology and psychological counseling to better serve God’s people. S. Marie Josetta’s 50 years of ministry included 23 in education, nine in chaplaincy work and 18 years of counseling in a health-care setting. She began serving as an intermediate teacher at Annunciation School in Cincinnati in 1955 followed by teaching ministries in Michigan and Colorado. From 1973 until 1978 S. Marie Josetta taught in the College of Nursing at Edgecliff College in Cincinnati. It was there that she met Motherhouse Clinical Nurse Supervisor Karen Tisi, at the time a nursing student who had come down with mono. Karen was homesick and far from home. After returning to school she was overwhelmed by the classwork she had to make up. It was S. Marie Josetta, her microbiology instructor, who took her under her wing and helped to make it all doable. When they reunited at the Motherhouse in 2019, after 44 years, the role was reversed but the appreciation for one another was obvious. In 1987, after nine years of chaplaincy work, S. Marie Josetta enrolled as a fulltime student at Lesley University in Denver and went on to be the health clinician at Aurora Mental Health Center (1988-’91). She moved to West Caldwell, New Jersey in 1991 to help care for her sister while working at St. Michael’s Medical Center, Newark, New Jersey. S. Marie Josetta provided crisis counseling, clinical case management and hospice services from 1992-’96 in the Paterson, New Jersey area before serving as a psychiatric social worker at St. Joseph Hospital, Paterson (1996-2011). While ministering in the Denver area S. Marie Josetta was one they could ‘count on’ says Associate Brother Gary Sawyer. Brother Gary, along with five other Sisters of Charity in the area, were faithful Sunday night Bingo organizers. It was their consistent ‘Bingo night’ efforts that helped to support Loyola School and allow for the Catholic school to remain open and affordable for the poor. To broaden her experiences S. Marie Josetta participated in a life-changing Nicaraguan trip, stepping into another culture in the early 1990s. The group learned about their politics, economy, faith and the hopes and dreams of the people. She said at the time, “It is in trying to be with these people that I believe I can begin to live in solidarity with the poor.” 24

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