Life Cycles 2020 by Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati

Life Cycles 2020

Cover photograph by S. Marty Dermody, SC.

Dear Sisters and Associates,

he year 2020 was one of much grief, sadness and loss, a year unlike any our country and world have experienced before. The COVID-19 virus has changed our world. The hardship of being physically separated from our loved ones for most of the year, and the more than 500,000 deaths in our country, have almost been overwhelming at times. We have learned new ways of reaching out, connecting and caring for one another. Our superheroes have been our medical staff, doctors and nurses, those who have been there with our loved ones as they have gone home to God. We pray for them and the compassionate care they have given to our loved ones. Through all of this we remain faithful to the journey with our God, reflecting on what God is asking and calling us to in our lives. During this Holy Week, Life Cycles is a blessing. We remember those who were our mentors, our friends, and those who, together, we have shared ministry. We have been blessed by their lives. We remember 15 Sisters and five Associates, all who lived the Gospels, responded to God’s call of service and ministry, and most importantly, were beacons of God’s love to so many throughout their lives. I invite you to read and reflect on the stories of our Sisters and Associates. We have included a particular quote or verse that was special to each one. Take some time to reflect on their individual selections, as each tells you a lot about the person. They continue to bless us and touch us with their lives in many ways. Let us rejoice this Easter on the light they have been to us through their lives. For they are our friends, companions, mentors; they are our family of Charity. Lovingly,

Patricia Hayden, SC President

Table of Contents Jo Ann Ballinger, Associate.............................................................................. Page 3 S. Helen Margaret Cullen................................................................................ Page 4 S. Julia Mary Deiters....................................................................................... Page 5 S. Lorraine Delisle........................................................................................... Page 6 S. Mary Doherty............................................................................................. Page 7 S. Michael Mary Eagan................................................................................... Page 8 S. Rebecca Hurr.............................................................................................. Page 9 S. Florence ‘Rose’ Izzo................................................................................... Page 10 S. Bernadette Kambeitz................................................................................. Page 11 S. Catherine Kirby........................................................................................ Page 14 S. Jane Bernadette Leo................................................................................... Page 15 S. Benedicta Mahoney................................................................................... Page 16 Kinnaird McQuade, Associate....................................................................... Page 17 Blasa Rivera, Associate................................................................................... Page 18 Charlotte Sanzere, Associate.......................................................................... Page 19 S. Bernadette Marie Shumate........................................................................ Page 20 S. Mary Pauline Tsai...................................................................................... Page 21 Rita Wesseling, Associate .............................................................................. Page 22 S. Roberta Westrick....................................................................................... Page 23 S. Rose Therese Wich.................................................................................... Page 24

Associate Jo Ann Ballinger June 29, 1931-June 27, 2020

ith tenderness and abundant kindness, Associate Jo Ann Ballinger devoted herself fully to helping others. A native of Cincinnati, Ohio, and an only child, Jo Ann was born with cerebral palsy. Her physical disability never limited her ability to faithfully serve God’s people. She earned a bachelor’s degree in English and chose to spend her life working for the rights and needs of people with disabilities. Her life included many travel opportunities to destinations as far as Australia. Jo Ann was proficient with technology, and even helped groups and individuals set up websites. Although her desire to join a religious community was unable to become a reality, Jo Ann became a member of Caritas Christi, a secular institute, with an active membership in the Cincinnati area. She served as National Vocation Director working with inquirers by email or regular mail. She once said her dedication to her vocation gave “my life totally to living the Gospel as best I can.” Jo Ann’s journey with God was central to her life. She was a long-time parishioner of Bellarmine Chapel at Xavier University. S. Donna Steffen said Jo Ann was an amazing woman of faith. “She participated in a Bellarmine small group, became an Associate of the Sisters of Charity, with S. Paula Mary Russell as her mentor, and continued to challenge, advocating for handicapped accessible buildings on the Xavier University campus. Her inner drive kept her fully engaged with life. I am grateful for Jo Ann, to have known her and to have learned from her. I sense she is now free from all the limitations of her body, and experiencing fully the joy of being with God, her heart’s desire!” On June 22, 2014, Jo Ann became an Associate in Mission with the Sisters of Charity. Associate Joan Wiebell made her commitment the same day. She recalls, “I will always remember how radiant and joyful Jo Ann looked that day. She had a very beautiful spirit.” Jo Ann appreciated the deep spirit of commitment, faith and service of Community members. It was through early meetings with other Sisters and Associates that she learned more about the history and mission of the Sisters of Charity and realized her longing to be more deeply associated. She would say, “I like the idea of taking part in social justice issues as a group … I hope belonging to the Associates will give me an opportunity to grow in trust, to deepen my relationship with our loving God, and I think it has and will continue to do so with God’s help.”

“You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Like oil that softens may my love resemble your tender, abundant kindness.” Psalm 23:5

Sister Helen Margaret Cullen July 8, 1926-February 12, 2020

“The Light of God surrounds us; The Love of God enfolds us; The Power of God protects us; The Presence of God watches over us.” - James Dillet Freeman

urrounded by God’s light and love, S. Helen Margaret Cullen spent her 73 years as a Sister of Charity in service to others, devoted to the poor and vulnerable and an advocate for racial justice. Born in Detroit, Michigan, S. Helen Margaret entered the Sisters of Charity in November 1946. Her ministries spanned 50 years, 24 in education as teacher and principal and 26 in social services as a community organizer and addiction counselor. S. Helen Margaret began her education ministry at St. Aloysius in Fayetteville, Ohio, in 1947 and went on to teach at schools in Colorado and the Cleveland, Ohio area. In 1958 she became an elementary principal, first at Holy Name, Cleveland (1958-’60) and then at St. Patrick, Cincinnati (1960-’62) and St. Rose, Cincinnati (1962-’68). While at St. Rose S. Helen Margaret became involved in community organization and spent the next two years with Santa Maria Community Services as a community planner and organizer. In 1970 she became a full-time student at the University of Cincinnati; she put this education to work at St. Paul’s and Catholic Social Services, Cincinnati (1971-’75). She traveled West, serving in social services, particularly in alcohol and addiction counseling, 1976-’86. She was a primary therapist and then a program manager, all with Cottonwood Services in a variety of cities in the Southwest. S. Helen Margaret looked most fondly on her years as a therapist, appreciating the deep level of sharing involved. In her retirement she volunteered with the Salvation Army in Colorado Springs, Colorado (1993-’95) and at St. Joseph parish in Waycross, Georgia (1995-’96) before moving to Cincinnati. Sister was grateful for the slower pace which allowed for more freedom of movement and time to be with people. A local friend and mentor of S. Helen Margaret, Brian Garry remembers, “S. Helen was well known to those on the streets in Pendleton and Over-TheRhine (Cincinnati) where she fought for justice in the 1970s. She called for justice for African-Americans during the uprisings in Over-The-Rhine and in the ensuing years of the boycott and negotiations. Her steady voice made a difference.” S. Terry Thorman appreciated S. Helen Margaret’s simple kindnesses to those she knew: “As I spent time in Mother Margaret Hall, and before Helen came to live at the Mount, it became obvious that she had adopted some of our Sister residents for special attention. She visited often and made sure that the bulletin boards in the rooms of those Sisters were attractive and periodically updated. There was a humbleness in her service.”

Sister Julia Mary Deiters March 16, 1926-January 23, 2020

od’s goodness was always present in S. Julia Mary Deiters’ life and ministries. A Sister of Charity for 72 years, the Cincinnati native was educated by the Sisters of Charity throughout her elementary, secondary and college education. Following her junior year at the College of Mount St. Joseph, S. Julie chose to enter the Sisters of Charity, saying she wanted to see the work of the Spirit active in the world, especially among the poor. S. Julie’s ministries spanned more than 50 years in youth and adult education as teacher, principal and administrator. In her early years she taught at high schools in Michigan and Ohio. She helped found All Saints High School in Bay City, Michigan, giving service there from 1963 until 1969 as teacher, principal and administrator; she taught math at Seton High School, Cincinnati, 1969-’75. It was at this time that S. Julie was invited to help adults improve their skills, receive their G.E.D. and acquire gainful employment. She soon found that there were few programs in adult education and a great need. She wrote grants and went to work, giving her mornings to Seton students and her afternoons to the adults (1975-’78). She found herself at Terrace Guild Adult Education Program in Winton Hills (Cincinnati), directing that program from 1979 until 2002. In 1984 she opened another site in North Fairmount and eventually helped found the Ohio Literacy Network and the Literacy Network of Greater Cincinnati. Associate Dave Scharfenberger first met S. Julie at Terrace Guild. He remembered, “She was such a warm, loving person who always showed an interest in others. I could tell how much she loved her work [at Terrace Guild] and helping residents from the neighborhood learn and discover their talents. She demonstrated a love for the people and commitment towards helping others. S. Julie is certainly one of the many great women in the Sisters of Charity who lived out the Charity Charism and provided such a model for so many of us.” S. Julie assisted state and local legislators to realize the importance of education programs for the local economy, providing competent workers who have basic skills. All of these programs were in areas of high unemployment, high welfare dependency and high school drop-out rates. Her programs provided a holistic curriculum that included computer basics and life skills, especially interpersonal, relational skills. She insisted that these skills were necessary for successful employment and for strengthening communities. S. Julie was the recipient of numerous awards; in 2002 she was one of 10 named Cincinnati Enquirer Woman of the Year and in 1997 she received her Community’s St. Elizabeth Seton Award for her persistent approach to adult education and dedication to the Mission.

“How good is the good God!” - S. Julia Mary Deiters

Sister Lorraine Delisle March 16, 1932-October 27, 2020

“Come as you are that’s how I love you. Come as you are trust me again. Nothing can change the love that I bear you. All will be well, just come as you are.” - A favorite thought of S. Lorraine Delisle

rowing up in Lowell, Massachusetts, S. Lorraine Delisle attended Catholic schools throughout her formative years, graduating from St. Louis Academy in 1950. She entered the Grey Nuns of the Cross the following year, and taught at St. Joseph High School, also in Lowell, from 1954 until 1976. A woman religious for 69 years, S. Lorraine transferred from the Grey Nuns to the Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati in 1976. Her ministries as a Sister of Charity took her to Ohio, Colorado, Louisiana, Texas, Montana and New Mexico within a span of 25 years. She began in Cincinnati at St. Joseph Infant Home, teaching business education classes while coming to know members of the SC Community living in the area. In 1977 S. Lorraine became a secretary for the Sisters of Charity Generalate followed by a year of renewal at El Pomar Retreat Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado, in 1979. Most of S. Lorraine’s ministry years following were in the areas of pastoral ministry and as director of parish religious education. She served in Louisiana, Texas and Colorado. She eventually found her way to Santa Fe, New Mexico and San Isidro parish (1991-2001). Recalls S. Juanita Marie Gonzales, “S. Lorraine was loved here in Santa Fe. She set up a great Faith Formation program that is still being used today even as the parish has grown to three times what it was when Lorraine was here.” Adds S. Patmarie Bernard, “She was so respected for her skills and talents – ministering respectfully and lovingly!” Throughout her varied experiences of ministry, S. Lorraine was grateful to God for her singing voice and the joy that music brought her. She also appreciated the added advantage and comfort she felt being bilingual. She retired from active ministry and moved to the Sisters of Charity Motherhouse in 2001. She loved her volunteer work in the SC Archives, using her business skills for transcribing and maintaining the Archives’ Repository. Colleague and friend S. Judith Metz commented, “It was a joy to know Lorraine over the many years; she was a faithful volunteer in the Archives. She worked quietly and effectively arranging our collections, and generously assisted the Seton Writings Committee, using her bilingual skills to translate letters.” Added Associate Sue DiTullio, “Two words come to mind when I think of S. Lorraine, humble and kind. One of the gifts that we gave each other is friendship – I will always value the friendship we shared.”

Sister Mary Doherty October 10, 1937-December 3, 2020

rowing up in Cincinnati, Ohio, S. Mary Doherty was proud of her Irish heritage. She attended Holy Family grade school and graduated from Seton High School in 1955, having Sisters of Charity as her teachers for all 12 years. She entered the Community on Sept. 8, 1955, saying, “I saw them laugh as well as teach me about God. It was the humanness of their spirituality that drew me to the life they had.” S. Mary’s ministries spanned more than 30 years, 15 of them occurring in the primary classroom. She initially taught at schools in Michigan and Ohio. In 1968 she was asked to go to Rome, Italy, to Villa Nazareth where the Sisters of Charity taught young orphan boys; the mission was closed a year and a half later which gave S. Mary an opportunity to return to the states to teach again. S. Jean Miller was ministering at Villa Nazareth when S. Mary arrived. “Mary loved the boys and was so good with them that they enjoyed her classes. Her laugh, fun and joy just lit up the classroom for the students.” As a young child S. Mary felt called to be a nurse. In 1972, an opportunity to enter the nursing field was presented when she was assigned to minister to the senior Sisters in Mother Margaret Hall, a ministry she loved. She directed activities and aided in caring for the Sisters’ needs. She eventually earned her BSN and became a registered nurse. She would later say, “It was where I felt the greatest grace.” Upon completion of her degree, S. Mary served at Cincinnati Good Samaritan Hospital and Mother Margaret Hall before using her nursing gifts to minister at St. Michael’s Center in Lower Price Hill and the Jordan Center (Cincinnati) in the late 1990s. She returned to MMH in the early 2000s; this time as an advocate nurse for the Sisters, assisting them in their procedures, doctor visits and surgeries as well as serving as an ‘emergency on call’ team member. Due to her own declining health, S. Mary’s ministry changed to one of prayer in 2008 and she became a resident of Mother Margaret Hall. Through her varied experiences of ministry S. Mary was ever grateful for her sense of humor to get through the difficult times. She had a special interest in the environment and the need, especially locally, to appropriately care for the disposal of chemical waste and ensure the health of all citizens.

“May the roads rise to meet you, May the winds be always at your back, May the sun shine warm upon your face, The rains fall soft upon your fields, And until we meet again, May God hold you in the palm of his hand.” - Irish Blessing

Sister Michael Mary Eagan March 2, 1927-December 13, 2020

“Whatsoever you do to the least of my people that you do unto me. When I was hungry, you gave me to eat, When I was thirsty, you gave me to drink, When I was homeless, you opened your door, Now enter into the home of my Father.” Matthew 25

Michael Mary Eagan’s love for the poor was visible throughout her 75 years as a Sister of Charity. Growing up in Cincinnati, Ohio, S. Michael Mary attended St. Matthew grade school (Norwood) and St. Mary High School (Hyde Park), graduating in 1944 and entering the following year. She would say that being a Sister of Charity was “rooted in my being; they encouraged my personal growth, interest in the missions as well as leadership qualities.” S. Michael Mary began her years of ministry as a primary teacher at schools in Ohio and Michigan. She was diagnosed with tuberculosis in 1951; after two years of treatment her health was restored. She resumed her classroom role, teaching in Colorado and New Mexico, serving as principal at St. Mary, Albuquerque (1964-’66). She then became a full-time student at The Catholic University in Washington, D.C.; it was there that her passion and commitment to social justice blossomed. After graduation S. Michael Mary returned to Denver and began a ministry to poverty-level families which would span four decades. She began as a social worker with Catholic Charities and then as the director/administrator. Her gifts as a creator and community innovator were readily visible. She founded the Aurora Colorado Housing Authority and was instrumental in developing the Mile High Child Care Association. She consistently advocated for transitional housing. In 1987 she became interested in SHARE (a food and community network) and began the first chapter in Colorado, gaining the support of state and city leaders before it could happen. S. Michael Mary loved her ministry to families in poverty, ever working to meet the needs across all financial and color lines. She became widely known in her later years for Little Flower Center which was completely run by volunteers and supported by Aurora parishes and grants. It ministered to the needs of persons in transition, many desiring to come out of homelessness. S. Michael Mary came to the Motherhouse in 2012 to retire and renew friendships with her Sisters. She enjoyed writing and reading poetry and found great peace in nature. Associate Lee Hemminger shared, “Since 1968 S. Michael Mary has been a special friend, mentor and listener. Her love and care for the poor was deep, sincere and catching. She went to bat for me with Catholic Charities when I applied to adopt my beautiful daughter. Her sense of humor was one-of-akind. She shared her deep devotion to God with all who knew her.”

Sister Rebecca Hurr November 27, 1928-April 3, 2020

cting justly, loving tenderly and walking humbly, S. Rebecca Hurr was guided by the Spirit throughout her 73 years as a Sister of Charity. Born in Middletown, Ohio, she attended St. John the Baptist grade school and was taught by the Sisters of Charity. She said the entrance of her older sister, S. Teresa Margaret, into the Sisters of Charity four years before motivated her to join in 1946. S. Rebecca’s ministries spanned more than 50 years in education as teacher, youth minister and campus minister. In her beginning years she taught primary grades starting at Annunciation in Cincinnati in 1948 and continuing at schools in Michigan and Ohio. S. Donna Steffen remembers being taught by S. Rebecca as a first grader at St. Rose in Cincinnati, Ohio. “I remember her teaching sounds to help us begin to learn to read. She was so kind, understanding, and encouraging,” she said. “My brother Jim is two years older than me. Rebecca taught him in the first and second grade. He liked her so much that he named his first daughter Rebecca after her. At my Golden Jubilee in 2017, I was able to reintroduce my brother and Rebecca. He was able to tell her in person about naming his daughter after her, and even introduced my niece Rebecca to S. Rebecca that day.” For 15 years (1962-’77) S. Rebecca taught junior high students at a variety of schools in Ohio. In 1977 she chose to go to the Chicago area, teaching and serving as the youth minister at Elizabeth Seton High School, South Holland, Illinois. She remained there until 1986 when she spent a year studying at Weston School of Theology, Cambridge, Massachusetts. Her ministries took her back to Springfield, Ohio, first to St. Bernard Jr. High (1988-’92) and then to Catholic Central High School as theology teacher and campus minister from 1992 until 2001 when she retired from active ministry. She would later say that in working with teens a whole new door opened to her and her approach to them: “I felt called to be more creative and more open to where God was leading me. My greatest challenge was in training teens in the skills of retreat planning, giving retreats and preparation of liturgy and prayer services.” S. Mary Dugan remembers how S. Rebecca remained active in numerous areas of concern in her retirement years. “She brought the good news of God’s love and active presence to others. Rebecca continued to help with retreats for persons with special and unique needs, including the needs of people in rural areas.”

“This is what God asks of you: only this, to act justly, to love tenderly and to walk humbly with your God.” Micah 6

Sister Florence ‘Rose’ Izzo January 15, 1935-July 11, 2020

“Let nothing disturb you. Let nothing frighten you. All things are passing away. God never changes. Patience obtains all things. Whoever has God lacks nothing. God alone suffices.” - St. Teresa of Avila

orn to Italian immigrants, S. Florence ‘Rose’ Izzo grew up in Lansing, Michigan, where she attended St. Mary’s Grade School and St. Mary’s Cathedral High School. She was taught by the Sisters of Charity for all 12 years and made the decision to enter the Community the following September 1953. She credited many of her former teachers with being especially instrumental in her call to religious life. Throughout her 50 years of ministry, S. Rose kept God’s love close, serving faithfully as teacher and counselor and later as therapist and counselor. She began her education ministry as a primary teacher at Guardian Angels, Detroit (1955-’60) and continued at schools in Cincinnati, Ohio and Mount Clemens, Michigan. St. Joseph Hospital (Mount Clemens) sought her services as therapist and medical liaison for patients with addictions (1972-’79) while she was earning her master’s degree in counseling. In 1980 S. Rose was hired as an instructor of pastoral theology and provided counseling for the adult students, priests and lay persons attending classes at St. John Seminary, Plymouth, Michigan, an opportunity she loved. In 1987 she accepted a position at the Franciscan School of Theology, Berkeley, California, directing field education for Master of Divinity students. In 1990 she began serving the Diocese of Covington, Kentucky through its Renew program, developing the laity to participate and initiate leadership in the local church. She would say, “This experience showed me a real model of Church. There are many dimensions to God’s love; accepting them has added a new dimension to my life.” Returning to Lansing in 1996, S. Rose provided private counseling services until her retirement in 2002. Prior to her retirement S. Rose had the opportunity to travel to Romania to help women religious formerly working underground during the Cold War to integrate with the modern world. She traveled alone in the countryside giving talks to the Romanian Sisters about all aspects of modern living together in Community; this was a desperate need for their wellbeing, emotionally and spiritually. S. Georgia Kitt shared, “Once you were a friend of Rose’s you were a friend for life. She knew no strangers. She lived her life noticing God in each day. She is asking each of us to continue to include silence, mindfulness and laughter each day as we remember her. We are missing your loving spirit, my friend.”

Sister Bernadette Kambeitz December 13, 1919-November 10, 2020

Sister of Charity for 83 years, and a centenarian, S. Mary Bernadette Kambeitz was born and raised in Springfield, Ohio. She attended St. Joseph grade school and graduated from Catholic Central High School, having Sisters of Charity as her teachers for all 12 years. S. Bernadette entered the Sisters of Charity on Sept. 7, 1937. It was their happiness and ability to laugh that attracted her. S. Bernadette’s richly blessed ministries spanned more than 55 years, 31 in the junior high and high school classrooms. In her early years S. Bernadette taught at schools in New Mexico, Michigan and Ohio, including eight years at Seton High School (Cincinnati) as a chemistry teacher (1953-’61). In 1973 S. Bernadette became a hospital lab employee as a clinical chemist, putting into practice skills she had encouraged in her high school science students; she chose to work in the Radial Immunoassay Lab at St. Joseph Hospital, Mount Clemens, Michigan. She remained there for the next 27 years, moving to foundation work in 1989 as the coordinator of major donors. Her joyful, goodnatured spirit and familiarity with persons from her hospital experience brought willing donors to their programs. S. Bernadette retired from St. Joseph’s in 2000. Her dear friend S. Karen Hawver remembers, “Bernie was beloved by her colleagues at St. Joseph Hospital. When she decided to retire, I stood in a receiving line with her for three days as everyone employed there came to say goodbye to her. She was interested in everyone and everyone’s family.” In her retirement years she remained active in the Mount Clemens/ Detroit area reaching out to families and joining in their family celebrations of graduations and weddings. Through the years she babysat many of the doctors’ and employees’ children and became a part of their families’ lives. Associate Mary Ellen Williams recalls, “S. Bernadette had a special relationship with my husband, Bill’s, family when she was a young Sister. This relationship continued throughout her life. Bill’s mother died at age 35, having born 10 children. S. Bernadette took the Williams boys under her wing. … She taught them all how to serve Mass and was a frequent visitor to their home.” Added S. Thelma Schlomer, “From her first mission at Mount Adams to her last mission in Michigan to coming home to Mount Saint Joseph, when Bernadette left each place she etched in the memory of those she met how to be with people along the way. For Bernadette it was always about the other and their needs. Her kindnesses, thoughtful gestures and that beautiful smile are fond remembrances for those who knew her.”

“Being richly and generously blessed, I can truly say that Jesus is my best friend.” - S. Bernadette Kambeitz

Photo by S. Marty Dermody, SC

About You

Wherever you go, you’re important Whatever you do can have meaning Whatever you suffer can make you More what you’re going to be Be happy to be who you are Knowing you have something to give Each moment, each hour, each day You will have light to go on Trust in the light, and trust in yourself As you follow wherever it leads No journey is pointless No good work is futile No struggle without some success So though you walk in the noonday And grope in the twilight And stumble when it is dark First in joy Then in hope Then in faith Wherever you go, you’re important Whatever you do can have meaning And you’re becoming what you will be S. Imelda Cooper, SC (1925-2017)

Sister Catherine Kirby February 7, 1936-April 14, 2020

“Humility, Simplicity, Charity, and remember God is ever present!” Sisters of Charity motto

Catherine Kirby was a model of the Sisters of Charity motto throughout her 65 years as a woman religious. Born in Lansing, Michigan, she was taught by the Sisters of Charity throughout her grade and high school years. On Sept. 8, 1954, S. Catherine entered the Sisters of Charity following her high school graduation. Described by many as gentle, kind and insightful, S. Catherine’s ministries served a variety of mission-driven entities for more than 50 years. In her early years she taught in Dayton, Cincinnati and Cleveland, all in Ohio, serving at St. Mel in Cleveland as principal (1967-’70 and 1971-’75). In 1975 S. Catherine was elected to congregational leadership for the Sisters of Charity, serving as generalate secretary for eight years (1975-’83). She pursued a PH.D. in administration from Miami University, Oxford, Ohio, before becoming an assistant professor of education at the College of Mount St. Joseph from 1985-’91 and again from 1992-’97. S. Catherine also agreed to serve in network leadership as the Sisters’ Townhall representative to the SC governing board (1993-’99) and in 1997 she became the assistant superintendent of schools, coordinating the high schools of the Cincinnati Archdiocese. She ministered in this capacity until her retirement in 2004. Throughout her varied experiences of ministry S. Catherine often commented on how truly important a strong, value-based Catholic school can be. At the time of her Jubilee she said, “With all the problems kids face today, we are there for them and can offer them something solid, consistent and of value that they can incorporate into their lives.” In her retirement years S. Catherine remained active, providing board service at DePaul Cristo Rey High School, CISE (Catholic Innercity Schools Education) and Mount St. Joseph University. Most notably she chaired the feasibility study (2004-’09), undertaken by the Sisters of Charity Congregation, to establish and sponsor a Cristo Rey High School in Cincinnati. The school successfully opened in 2010, serving the city’s underserved high school population. Her dear friend S. Kathryn Ann Connelly remembered, “I lived with Catherine for 46 years and know that her love of the Congregation was paramount. Her welcoming, quiet manner made everyone feel at home. Responsibility for the writing of the Constitutions was no doubt a highlight in her life as well as the legacy of DePaul Cristo Rey High School. Following Elizabeth’s way of friendship, she actually lived what we said together.”

Sister Jane Bernadette Leo February 11, 1935-October 29, 2020

Sister of Charity for 67 years, S. Jane Bernadette Leo devoted her ministry years to educating God’s children. S. Jane Bernadette felt the call to religious life her senior year at St. Joseph Commercial High School and says she is thankful that she had the Sisters of Charity in Dayton to lead her to the Community. She credits S. Dorothy Beach, one of her Sister teachers, as being her inspiration and mentor. S. Jane Bernadette’s ministries spanned more than 50 years in education, 47 of those years at St. Rita School for the Deaf in Evendale, Ohio. She began as a first grade teacher at St. Rita in 1955, learning sign language as she went, remaining there until 1967. She was next called to teach at St. Charles, Lima, Ohio, but by 1970 she was enrolled full time in a master’s program at the University of Cincinnati in deaf education. She joyfully returned to St. Rita in 1971 as a second grade teacher. For the next 20 years S. Jane Bernadette served as the resident advisor for kindergarten through fourth grade girls. She described this as “one change that I treasured most; I loved each and every moment in the position of dorm mother.” In 1994, when the dormitory closed due to the decline in residential enrollment, she became a member of the religion department as well as working in the LOFT (Language Opportunity for Tots) daycare program. She initiated sign classes for the school’s bus drivers and law enforcement personnel in the Evendale area; the classes assisted both groups in being better able to communicate with the deaf students. Looking back on her continuous years of ministry at St. Rita’s through 2006, S. Jane Bernadette welcomed titles of classroom teacher, resident advisor, dorm ‘mom,’ bus services coordinator, sports’ program director and children’s choir co-director. As she celebrated her Diamond Jubilee, S. Jane Bernadette reflected on how much her ministry journey had centered on the desire for improved communication with the hearing world; she appreciated the countless paths that would bring her to the needs of the deaf community. She was particularly grateful to be able to communicate faith experiences through the use of her hands – be it at a Mass, wedding, funeral or social event. S. Louise Lears remembers, “I have lovely memories of watching Jane Bernadette ‘sign’ the songs during liturgies in the Motherhouse chapel. I was as taken with the gracefulness and prayerfulness of her gestures as I was with the words of the songs.”

Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” Matthew 19:14

Sister Benedicta Mahoney October 11, 1925-December 5, 2020

“Elizabeth Ann Seton, you are a saint for our time. Elizabeth Ann Seton, you are a woman of faith for a time of doubt and uncertainty. Elizabeth Ann Seton, you are a woman of hope for a time of crisis and discouragement. Intercede for our Church, our Congregation and our country. Amen.” - A favorite prayer

Sister of Charity for 76 years, S. Benedicta Mahoney came to know the Community well as a student at St. Joseph Grade School and Catholic Central High School in Springfield, Ohio. Graduating in 1943, S. Benedicta entered the Sisters of Charity the following year on Feb. 2, 1944. Sister’s ministries spanned more than 60 years in education as teacher, advisor and mentor. Beginning in 1945 she entered the primary classroom as teacher at Guardian Angels, Detroit. She went on to teach at schools in Michigan and Ohio for the next 15 years. S. Benedicta transitioned to secondary education in 1963, teaching high school students in Michigan, Ohio and New Mexico. From 1970-’79 she taught English at Elizabeth Seton High School in South Holland, Illinois and served as advisor to the newspaper and the yearbook. This was followed by a year off to do research work, preparing to author We Are Many, A History of the Sisters of Charity of Cincinnati, 1898-1970. For this she was awarded the first Elizabeth Seton Award, her congregation’s highest honor. She gave three more years to teaching English in South Holland before completing her fulltime education ministry at Seton High, Cincinnati (1983-2002). Former Seton principal and president Susie Gibbons remembers, “S. Benedicta Mahoney was one of the finest Catholic school educators I will ever know. She created a legacy of students who learned much from her including not only academic lessons but those that reach deep into the souls of each and every student she taught.” Added former Seton coworker Mary Agricola, “Caring, challenging, demanding of her students, Benedicta brought the best out of them. She would always give guidance to me and pushed me to be a better teacher and leader.” Sister chose the SC Archives as her full-time volunteer ministry for the next 15 years; it was a place she loved to call ‘home,’ where she led countless tours for visitors. She mastered an impeccable retentive memory, able to rattle off important dates in the Sisters of Charity history at the drop of a dime. Her knowledge and memory were treasured by many. Veronica Buchanan, SC Archives director, shared, “I was always continually inspired by her dedication and how she inspired generations of students, many of which still kept in touch or shared their personal growth journey through email. Her legacy in the Community will continue for years with We Are Many. She will live on among us.”

Associate Kinnaird (Kinny) McQuade December 9, 1932-February 29, 2020

ssociate Kinnaird (Kinny) McQuade’s heart overflowed with compassion and service, spending his life sharing his gifts with others. Born in New York City, New York, Kinny was a beloved husband to Kathi, father to Kevin and Kinny Jr. and grandfather of three. Kinny and Kathi chose Cincinnati as the place to raise their sons, and several years later he bought Cavalier Audio Visual. Kinny is best known for his endless enthusiasm, dedication and fundraising efforts for numerous charities and arts organizations. He excelled at golf and loved spending time with friends, dancing and cheering the Xavier Muskies to victory. Kinny and Kathi were parishioners of Bellarmine Chapel at Xavier University, where they became acquainted with many Sisters of Charity. He and S. Paula Mary Russell were long-time friends, and it was S. Paula who invited him into the Associate program and was his companion through the preparation process. In June 2014 Kinny made his formal commitment as an Associate in Mission. In his reflection he wrote: “I have reflected on the founders of the Sisters of Charity and can tell you that they have inspired me on my journey with their will and determination to accomplish their goals in life. As I read their stories and their lives they have pushed me toward a place where I want to stand by them and help them with their mission.” Kinny was giving of his time and had a particular passion for the Ronald McDonald House (RMDH). He would spend five days a week at the home, sitting in the kitchen and talking to parents. As he met with families and they would ask him how to pray for their children, he remembered the Sisters of Charity mission and provided peace and compassion in his words and presence. Elise Hyder, former director of volunteers/Ronald McDonald House Charities, once said, “Kinny leads his life with a servant’s heart. His life-long commitment to our mission and to serving others is inspiring to me, to our staff and to our volunteers.” Kinny was voted the RMDH 2014 “Heart of the House” winner, given to someone who best represents the organization’s core values: helpful, encouraging, attentive, respectful and thankful. One volunteer commented, “Kinny’s listening skill is vital to providing a beacon of hope to our families. It takes such a special talent to listen. He has such a unique ability to support and encourage, and when needed, he is sympathetic to tragic events when they occur. He has such a heartfelt and caring attitude and I so admire the comfort he provides to families.”

“All you peoples clap your hands, shout to God with cries of gladness. May joyfulness always find a home in my heart.” Psalm 47:2

Associate Blasa Rivera February 3, 1923-January 14, 2020

“My soul waits for the Lord more than sentinels wait for the dawn. I watch for you, O God, alert me to how you are with me.” Psalm 130:6

orn in Monterey Nuevo Leon, Mexico, Associate Blasa Rivera came to the United States when she was nine months old and was raised in Pueblo, Colorado. When she was 16 her family moved back to Mexico and there she married Juan Rivera and had two children, Lucia and Juan. They returned to the states and Blasa had two more children, George and Martha. She was the grandmother of 12 and great-grandmother to many. Blasa worked at the Alpha Beta Meat packaging plant for 28 years making her way from the kill floor to be the first woman in management in the Pueblo facility until the plant shut down in 1980. She was always a good cook so she took her culinary skills and parlayed them into a job at the Eastside Child Care Center. She enjoyed her work at the center and loved being around the children and providing delicious treats for them. Blasa retired in 1985 and immediately set off on many new adventures. She traveled to Europe, the United Kingdom and Mexico, in addition to many trips in the United States. Blasa loved singing and performed whenever the opportunity arose. Throughout her life she was active and involved in the Pueblo community. She was music director at St. Anne’s Catholic Church for 20-plus years. She belonged to the ‘Forever Young’ group at Our Lady of the Meadows Catholic Church and she was the life of the party at the Pueblo Regent where she lived for two years. In later years she attended St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church where she was in the Spanish Choir. On Sept. 5, 1973, Blasa became the first Associate member of the Sisters of Charity. Years ago Blasa shared her story: “At a time in my life when I was separated from my husband, raising four children alone in Pueblo, Colorado, I felt like I was floating, that I had no anchor in my life. One of my daughters was in the Spanish Club at school, which was moderated by S. Christine Falsetto. The club was having a fundraiser and my daughter volunteered me to make tamales. Sister and I bonded through music. But she also had a strong spiritual life. I no longer felt alone. ...” Blasa treasured the spiritual support she found through Association. Her journey brought her humbleness, patience and total dependence on God. In 2013, when the opportunity arose, Blasa made her Lifetime Commitment as an Associate. She reaffirmed her commitment saying, “Am I glad I am a part of the Sisters of Charity? With all my heart.”

Associate Charlotte Sanzere January 18, 1927-October 25, 2020

orn in Cincinnati, Ohio, Associate Charlotte Sanzere attended St. Francis Seraph Elementary School and had many fond memories there. Charlotte graduated from Hughes High School and received her MBA from the College of Mount St. Joseph (now Mount St. Joseph University). After 34 years with AT&T, she retired in 1991. “I always remember Charlotte as energetic and with a bright smile on her face,” said S. Victoria Marie Forde, who first came to know Charlotte when she took a class in the Women’s Studies program at the college. “She was one who loved life. The last time we chatted, she had just come back from a mission trip to Africa, and she was happily planning to return.” Charlotte was proud of her Mount St. Joseph education. She served on the alumni board and attended various functions there. Her connections with the Sisters of Charity and the comfort she felt being with them led Charlotte to desire a deeper relationship. She developed a friendship with S. Claire Foken, who she had met as a parishioner at St. William in Cincinnati and who had invited her to consider Association. On May 31, 1998, Charlotte made her commitment as an Associate in Mission to the Sisters of Charity. She hoped to share in the Sisters’ mission and joy. “Whatever I am called to do, I will do graciously and willingly,” she wrote in her application. “I expect very little, only to serve and please.” Associate Pat Schloemer found Charlotte fun to be around. The women were two of the six Associates that S. Claire had invited into the Associate program; the group would gather monthly in each other’s homes for dinner. “We referred to ourselves as the Dinner Club,” remembered Pat. “We did this for many years; I remember we laughed a lot.” A long-time member of St. William parish in Cincinnati, Ohio, Charlotte was actively involved, distributing Communion at Mass and to shut-ins, lectoring and serving on the Education Committee Board. In addition she distributed Communion to the sick at Christ Hospital. Associate Marti Barnes said, “She was always ready and willing to help with projects around the parish. Charlotte was extremely friendly and had a great sense of humor.” Charlotte enjoyed water aerobics, staying fit, traveling and reading. She was extremely close to her three nieces. She said, “They are my whole life. It’s just like having my own children and grandchildren. The kids tell me I’m a very special aunt.”

“Only in God be at rest my soul. Keep my heart close as I desire to rest in you, my God.” Psalm 62:6

Sister Bernadette Marie Shumate February 28, 1923-July 23, 2020

“Oh, only for so short a while have you loaned us to each other. Because we take form in your act of drawing us, and we breathe in your singing to us. But only for a short while have you loaned us to each other.” Aztec prayer to God

Cincinnati native, S. Bernadette Marie Shumate graduated from St. Gabriel High School in 1942 where she was taught by the Sisters of Charity. After high school she attended comptometer school and worked in the payroll department of the Tennessee Corporation in Evendale, Ohio. She chose to enter the Sisters of Charity in February 1944. For her, the Sisters exemplified values she cherished – love, happiness, peace and service to others. S. Bernadette Marie’s active ministries spanned more than 50 years in education with the hearing impaired as teacher, resident advisor, coach, and companion. She began teaching preschool at St. Rita School for the Deaf in 1945 and then moved to teaching primary grades in 1951. For many years she was privileged to provide religious education, preparing the children for their First Holy Communion, and teaching religion to students in grades one through six. In 1971 S. Bernadette Marie became the resident advisor for the boarding students and remained active in their lives until retiring from St. Rita in 1995. She witnessed many changes in deaf education over her lifetime and was thrilled to see the improvements made; she watched as the use of technology opened a whole new world of opportunities for the students. In 1989 S. Bernadette Marie was inducted into St. Rita’s Sports Hall of Fame for her work with student athletics. She was a member of the Conference of Executives of American Schools for the Deaf. In looking back on her call to become a Sister of Charity, S. Bernadette Marie would say, “I am deeply indebted to the Sisters who have journeyed with me through these years. I have become the person I am because of their love, support and encouragement.” S. Bernadette Marie moved from St. Rita’s to the Motherhouse in 1997. In her retirement years she remained active, volunteering as a receptionist at the Motherhouse Front Desk, visiting and praying with Sisters living in Mother Margaret Hall, and volunteering in pastoral services. She also took Communion to residents of Mother Margaret Hall, a ministry she loved. She enjoyed listening to music and walking. Her close friend S. Franette Hyc shared, “Bernadette was a woman of prayer. She was a friend who modeled for me trust in God with her ‘yes,’ acceptance of God’s plan for her, and communion with God through prayer. … Bernadette enjoyed every moment of life that God gave to her. She loved being with and doing things with others, her family, our Sisters and Associates.”

Sister Mary Pauline Tsai August 2, 1927-June 18, 2020

hroughout her 72 years as a Sister of Charity, S. Mary Pauline Tsai shared God’s love with all she encountered in life and ministry. Growing up in Beijing, China, S. Mary Pauline attended Catholic schools, graduating from Beijing Catholic High School in 1947. With a growing desire to enter religious life, she learned the Sisters of Charity were working in Wuchang, China, with the poor and children. “I felt it must have been God’s will for me to join the Congregation, and so I entered on Feb. 2, 1949,” she once said. Shortly after entering, the Communist takeover made it necessary for most all religious to leave China. She came to the United States later in 1949 receiving her vocation formation at the Mount St. Joseph Motherhouse. She began her studies as a student nurse at Good Samaritan Hospital School of Nursing, Dayton, Ohio, in 1955, combining her studies with ‘on-the-job training.’ Sister graduated as a registered nurse in 1958. For her years of nursing ministry, S. Mary Pauline served in Ohio and Colorado. She began in Kenton, Ohio at San Antonio Hospital in 1958 followed by St. Mary-Corwin Hospital, Pueblo, Colorado (1959-’70). During her time there S. Mary Pauline became a U.S. citizen on Feb. 17, 1963. For the next six years she served at Good Samaritan, Cincinnati (1970-’76) in intensive care and as a surgical nurse. She fully enjoyed her ministry to the special needs children at St. Joseph Home, Cincinnati (1976-’81). Finding she was having difficulties with arthritis in her hands, Sister came home to the Motherhouse and served her Sisters as a nurse in Mother Margaret Hall. She retired from active duty in 1993. It was at the time of her retirement that S. Mary Pauline would discover that she had ‘more gifts inside, not yet uncovered.’ She credited her father with her abilities in the arts which she developed in her later years. S. Mary Pauline devoted her retirement years to volunteering in the Motherhouse ceramics and craft department through embroidering, needlepoint, crocheting afghans and creating dolls for sale in the Motherhouse Gift Shop, all benefitting the Sisters’ Retirement Fund. She was a frequent winner of prizes in the AOPHA Art and Writing Exhibits sponsored throughout the state of Ohio for senior citizens. S. Nancy Crofton, who worked with her in the Motherhouse arts and crafts department, shared, “Pauline was one of my favorite people. She would tell me how much joy she received from being a part of the SC Community and how much she felt God present in her life. I will miss her smile and will smile whenever I think of her. She was a gift and a blessing in my life.”

“God is Love.” 1 John 4:8

Associate Rita Wesseling February 25, 1950-June 28, 2020

“Sing joyfully to the Lord, all you lands. O Beauty ever new, with all your creation, I sing the wonder of your love.” Psalm 98:4

orn in Cincinnati, Ohio, the second of three children, Associate Rita Wesseling first met the Sisters of Charity as a student at St. Jude School in Bridgetown (Cincinnati). She vividly recalled Elizabeth Seton’s beatification in seventh grade and listening to the story of her life. Rita initially entered the Community in 1968, saying she felt very much at home during her postulant year. With the changes in the formation program she left the Community but God kept drawing her back. Rita was a gifted teacher, enjoying 42 years in the classroom before retiring in 2015. She taught at St. Benedict and St. Augustine schools in Covington, Kentucky. She was proud to share her gift of teaching and her fine-tuned organizational skills with the Sisters of Charity; whether it be to help Sisters or Associates with computer problems, putting together liturgies and prayer services, or reading to them or at liturgies. Rita made her commitment as an Associate in Mission on May 27, 2007. She wrote, “I would like to develop another layer of my spirituality. I feel very much at home with the Sisters and the Motherhouse. I feel a sense of community. I see the Sisters and the Associates supporting one another, helping each other through hard times and rejoicing with triumphs.” S. Marty Dermody remembers her dear friend. “Rita was the glue that held many people together. She was a woman of faith, a caring, loving person who never met a stranger. No matter where we were, Rita greeted everyone, especially children, and she was loved by so many. She graced our presence with her willingness to do anything for anyone. … Rita loved God, her family and friends, and enjoyed walking, gardening, spending time outside, and being crafty; making a variety of things she gave as gifts to others. She had a gift, she was a gift, and she will continue to surprise us with a variety of her gifts every day.” Rita’s other passions were reading and traveling. She was an active member of St. Jude parish in Bridgetown. She gave of herself always, even helping to care for her mother and aunt for many years. Added S. Patmarie Bernard, “I had the privilege of journeying with Rita for a number of years as her spiritual companion/mentor. She was beautyfilled inside and out. She was by nature a ‘Martha’ person giving of her gifts, talents and energy so generously – along with her bright, friendly smile. She also nurtured her ‘Mary’ side taking time for prayer, reflecting, many forms of artistic expression and retreats – and growing in deep relationship with God!”

Sister Roberta Westrick September 18, 1938-December 11, 2020

Roberta Westrick first met the Sisters of Charity while working as a nurse at St. Joseph Hospital in Mount Clemens, Michigan. The Michigan native was impressed by the Sisters who trained her, their work and the love they shared with others. She entered the congregation on Sept. 8, 1958. S. Roberta’s ministries spanned nearly 50 years, 13 in the teaching classroom and 36 in pastoral services. She began teaching at St. Saviour, Cincinnati, Ohio, in 1962. After serving at Loyola School in Denver, Colorado, she spent almost all of her remaining ministry years in the West; it was the vistas and the spirit of the people that gave her life. S. Roberta served in a pastoral services ministry at Penrose Hospital, Colorado Springs, for two years before gaining formal course work in pastoral counseling at St. Paul’s University in Ottawa, Canada. From 1981 until 1986 she ministered at parishes in the Diocese of Jefferson City, Missouri. She then returned West, serving as pastoral minister at St. Patrick, Colorado Springs, from 1986-’93. In 1994 S. Roberta attended specialized classes at Colorado College before serving as the campus minister at St. Mary’s High School, Colorado Springs. The skills learned in her art classes gave her further confidence in undertaking the art form of painting santos or saints/holy images. After serving as pastoral associate at Holy Trinity and St. Mary, both in Colorado Springs (1999-’08), S. Roberta retired from active ministry. In 2001 she was commissioned by the art committee at St. Mary’s Cathedral, Colorado Springs, to participate in a major art project – an outdoor plaza display of the patron saints of the 46 parishes in the Diocese of Colorado Springs. The Plaza de los Santos took more than a year and a half to complete and was dedicated and blessed in 2003. In her retirement years she coordinated cabin use for the Sisters in Cascade, Colorado, and was commissioned to paint 16 santos for the reredos behind the newly formed parish of St. Pius X in Weslaco, Texas. Due to declining health in 2019 she moved to her native Michigan, enjoying time with extended family members. As one who entered with S. Roberta, S. Pat Newhouse said, “Even though I lived in Michigan and she spent most of the past 60 years out West, our friendship continued. I especially treasured our trips back to Michigan after those meetings when she would hitch a ride with me to go home and visit her family. Bobbie, you have blessed my life with your friendship.”

“Since God has loved us so much, we too should love one another.” John: 4-11

Sister Rose Therese Wich August 26, 1926-January 14, 2020

“There are in the end three things that last: Faith, hope, and love, and the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13

aith, hope and love were virtues S. Rose Therese Wich carried with her throughout her 75 years as a Sister of Charity of Cincinnati. S. Rose Therese grew up in Denver, Colorado, having moved there for her father’s work. She was taught by the Sisters of Charity at both Blessed Sacrament Grade School and Cathedral High School. It was through her relationship with her high school journalism teacher, S. Therese Martin McCarthy, that she felt drawn to religious life and to the Sisters of Charity; she entered in September 1944. S. Rose Therese’s ministries spanned more than 65 years; 59 being in education as teacher, counselor, principal and administrator. She began teaching at Holy Trinity, Trinidad, Colorado, in 1946 and continued at schools in New Mexico and Ohio. S. Rose Therese returned to Colorado in 1956, eventually serving as an English teacher at her former high school, Cathedral, from 1959-’67 and then as the school’s counselor from 1967-’69. Of her many years in the classroom S. Rose Therese would say, “St. John’s 10th chapter on the Good Shepherd has been the voice from within that inspired me to be an educator and to minister to God’s children. Shepherding the flock began when I first walked into the classroom in 1946 in Trinidad, Colorado. It was love at first sight; I knew this was where God wanted me.” In 1969 S. Rose Therese transitioned to administrator/principal roles for the next 16-plus years. S. Carol Marie Power ministered with S. Rose Therese when she served as principal at St. Mary’s in Albuquerque, New Mexico (1969-’78). She remembered, “Rose’s manner was firm, gentle and so kind to everyone no matter who they were.” In retirement, at the age of 80, S. Rose Therese continued her service, now as the senior transportation coordinator at the Center for Community Involvement in the Archdiocese of Santa Fe, New Mexico. There she coordinated rides for seniors who were homebound. In 2012 S. Rose Therese was a finalist for the Volunteer of the Year for Catholic Charities USA. In her nomination Catholic Charities personnel stated, “S. Rose is known for the loving manner in which she treats those around her. She is the consummate professional, responding to the seniors’ requests with patience and respect and always ending each conversation with a blessing. She enhances and enriches the lives of seniors on a daily basis.” When S. Rose Therese moved to the SC Motherhouse in the summer of 2012, she enjoyed reconnecting with her Sister friends and meeting new ones.

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