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The wedding of your dreams, on a budget (ARA) - Yo u ' ve dreamed about your wedding day since you were old enough to hold a white pillowcase on your head.

However, yo u ' re currently experiencing extreme sticker shock after having seen the cost of all of the individual items you want to make your wedding distinct and beautiful.

With a little creativity, you can still have the wedding of your dreams, on a realistic budget.

Here are a couple of inexpensive projects to get you started for a day that you - and your guests - will never forget.

The center of it all

You and your groom

will be the center of attention on your big day. However, you want the tables at your reception to shine as well. But with 120 people on the guest list, the number of tables is adding up fast.

Lush floral centerpieces can quickly consume thousands of dollars from your decorating budget.

Sometimes the most simple centerpiece can be the most elegant. One option is a glass container filled with colored stones and candles or water and floating flowers. Chances are, there is a container shaped to fit your theme, including a square cube, tall cylinder, round rose bowl or the

more traditional tall vase.

Another option is a wine bottle centerpiece.

Ask family and friends to set aside their bottles, make friends with the owner of your favorite wine shop or start your own collection. The bottles can be spray painted different colors, or you can stencil a flower, image or other pattern that matches your theme.

You can also add photos, quotes, graphics, dried flowers or other embellishments that represent your relationship.

Who doesn't love candy?

Give your guests a fun treat to say "thank you" with an inviting, inexpensive candy buffet. Start

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by spending some time at your local candy store.

No matter what your color scheme and theme, you'll find delicious treats in a variety of types and colors to stock your buffet.

Next, it's time to hit the discount store or thrift shop to find glass jars and containers to hold your sugary treasures. Mix it up; select different sizes and shapes, which will add another design element to your table.

Don't stop here, though. Head to your local craft store, because in its aisles, you'll find myriad options to further embellish your candy

jars.

"For a wedding candyscape, one great alternative is a mirrored or frosted paint that adds some depth to the glass," says Katherine Merkle, Krylon brand manager. "This gives your table a more sophisticated look that doesn't have to come with an expensive price tag."

Before filling them with candy, wash your containers and allow them to dry thoroughly. If yo u ' re going to use paint, set up in a well-ventilated area and then spray the outside of your containers with a paint such as Krylon's Looking Glass Mirror Like Paint or Frosted Glass Finish. You

can also use a leafing pen to add additional details.

Other decorating options include glitter, decoupage or stencils.

To set the table up, bring a variety of sturdy boxes or books which can be stacked to varying heights and then draped with a matching tablecloth. Embellish the table with your favorite quotes, ribbon, leaves or other adornments.

Place your glass jars and containers across the table, fill them with candy and watch guests of all ages enjoy. Be sure to include small bags, so your guests can pick out their favorites and take them home.

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Planning an outdoor wedding in western Nebraska

By KATIE BRADSHAW Staff Reporter

Weddings are deeply meaningful events filled with symbolism. The site on which a wedding is held can contribute to its meaning. For this reason, many couples get married in a church. For other couples, the glory of the great outdoors is the perfect setting in which to exchange their vows.

Cher Maybee, who has scheduled outdoor weddings for the last four years as co-owner of Barn Anew Bed and Breakfast, said a feeling of closeness to the land may lead people to choose an outdoor wedding venue.

"Some people have an emotional tie to the valley and to the bluffs," Maybee said. "They want it to be part of their wedding day."

Couples planning an outdoor wedding need to take a few extra details into account. Maybee and representatives from the City of Scottsbluff, Scotts Bluff National Monument and Gering Convention & Visitors Bureau discussed some specifics about outdoor wedding planning.

Leann Sato, administrative assistant with the City of Scottsbluff, said Centennial Park is the most popular Scottsbluff city park for weddings.

SBNM enforcement ranger A.J. Legault said almost any spot within Scotts Bluff National Monument is open for a special-use permit event such as a wedding, but most people choose the amphitheater or a

blufftop overWhile private look.

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"You July, but really need to have a their guests' comfort. that may be thrown. Sato wanted Parking availability, espe- said that at Centennial September is looking to backup plan." All the cially for wedding guests Park, guests must clean be the most popular this people interviewed for with limited mobility, may up after themselves and year. Sato said the most this story suggested that month for be a consideration as take care not to damage popular a couple book a backup the gazebo by hanging Centennial Park is June, well. Some outdoor location, such as a locations do not have decorations with tape or but September is also reception hall, in the wire. At SBNM, Legault frequently booked extensive parking lots. event of bad weather. said that for the protecbecause "the park is real- A morning wedding may Another aspect of outdoor wedding setup that tion of the ecosystem, ly vibrant at that time." be a better option for wedding Legault said holiday may vary from location traditional optimizing weather conpractices such as throw- weekends in the warmer to location are equipditions. Legault said that ment and rules for ampli- ing birdseed or releasing months tend to book up the western Nebraska fied sound, either for butterflies are prohibit- first. music or for the words ed, but bubbles are the couple and officiant acceptable. utter. Some locations Just as with indoor wedmay not have electrical dings, couples planning outlets, while others an outdoor wedding will have sound systems for be competing for popuuse. The Centennial Park lar available dates. But gazebo was acoustically opportunities for outdesigned to project door weddings in this sound. In public locations area of the country are like parks, the volume of more constrained due to music is generally regu- winter weather. lated to avoid disturbing Most outdoor weddings neighbors or other park are held May through September. The most visitors. popular month can vary Other things to keep in

winds tend to be calmest in the mornings.

Niedan-Streeks said evening outdoor events have a higher probability of cancellation due to weather than morning events.

An outdoor wedding is not for everyone.

"It's a certain breed of bride that wants an outdoor wedding . . . a bit of a risk-taker," said NiedanStreeks.

"I think you need to be an optimist," Maybee said, though she added that, in her experience, "when weather turns bad, it brings out the best in people."

She recalled one wedding where the guests took shelter from a shower. Everyone stayed in good humor as the organist spontaneously played "Somewhere over the Rainbow."

Legault added that weddings in a public location may have extra witnesses. He recalled a National Park wedding he witnessed where a busload of tourists erupted into applause for the wedding couple.

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Traditional and Non-Traditional Ways to Celebrate a Wedding Some couples want to celebrate their weddings in traditional fashion.

Others want everything to be unique, new and exciting.

Today's weddings are largely planned, financed and executed entirely by the couple getting married. Therefore, it is up to them how to celebrate their special day.

Here's a look at some of the traditional wedding elements and how they can be shaken up for a different spin.

Traditional: Father walks the bride down the aisle.

Alternative: A son, daughter, friend, or even both parents walk the bride down the aisle. She can also traverse the white carpet solo, if

desired. Perhaps the groom meets the bride halfway and they walk the rest of the aisle together.

Traditional: "The Wedding March (Here Comes the Bride)" plays when the bride enters.

Alternative: Any favorite classical or modern song is played when the bride enters, as long as it is approved by the venue where the ceremony is taking place.

Traditional: Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue.

Alternative: Wear all new items, all antique items.

Borrow all of your wedding day apparel -- it's the bride's choice.

Traditional:

Mother-Son, Father-Daughter dances at the reception.

Alternative: Welcome everyone present to dance with a special member of their family so all eyes are not on the bride and groom, who may be self-conscious about dancing with their parents. These dances also can be skipped.

Traditional: Bouquet toss for the bride and garter toss for the groom.

Alternative: Toss beads or treats in the style of Mardi Gras to all of the guests, so it's not only about single men and women.

Traditional: A threetiered wedding cake all in white.

Alternative: Choose cup-

cakes, a festively colored cake that matches the wedding theme or another desired dessert.

Traditional: Reception at a catering hall or hotel.

Alternative: Reception at

an alternative site, such as an aquarium, zoo or museum.

Once a couple thinks about what is important at their wedding, they can cater the event

toward their personal interests. Tradition can be followed or they can do something completely unique.

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Don't be afraid to dress up for weddings

By ROGER HOLSINGER Assistant Editor

country club, you should probably wear one to the church too," Vath said.

Vath said that when a person dresses up for a formal occasion, it's not for them but as a way to show respect for others.

Vath said what to wear to a wedding depends

exception would be someone dressed in his If you receive an invitaor her dressed military tion to a wedding and uniform," he said. the invitation doesn't Making sure people state "casual attire," Eric look good for all occaVath's advice to the sions is something that recipients is that they Vath and his wife, Cathy, need to plan on dressing pride themselves on, and appropriately.

Eric said that he has Vath said that as a socinoticed a decline in peoety, people ple wanting h a v e to get become dressed up. lazy when He said he it comes to believes that dressing all too often a p p ro p r i p e o p l e ate for forbelieve that mal occait doesn't s i o n s , matter what including a they wear. wedding.

"When a He said p e r s o n that if the wants a pair wedding is of 'dre s s y ' being held khaki - there at a church, are no then it d r e s s y should be khakis. It's an looked at ox y m o ro n as a formal because event, and khakis are "what sets really a servthe mood ice workers for the clothing. The event is the heavy cotPhoto by Roger Holsinger ton b r i d e ' s work dress," said Eric Vath, owner/operator of Eric Vath Clothier pants were Vath. "If it's in Scottsbluff, displays two suits. The pearl colored o r i g i n a l l y full length, suit, left, with the white point collar oxford shirt worn by has a train with a complimentary dot tie would be appropri- dock workon it and ate for any summer formal occasion. The charcoal ers. That's s h e ' s mélange suit paired with a white French cuffed why they're wearing a shirt and silver tic tie could be worn at other c a l l e d veil, then its formal events. Vath's advice for those attending a Dockers. A formal or at formal event is to dress better than you think the cotton pant least semi- occasion is. is sportsformal," he wear. A cotsaid. on the wedding itself. In ton suit is not dressy, it's Vath said that out of some instances the invi- sportswear," he said. respect for the wedding tation might state, "black He said a common party, men should wear a tie optional," but that complaint about dressing suit or at minimum, a doesn't mean the tie is up was that the person sport coat, shirt and tie. optional and an open didn't want to get too He said there are times shirt will do. hot in the suit, however, when a reception is held "Black tie optional Vath said today's clothat a country club, a jack- means you have to wear ing fabrics exceed the et is required just to get a suit … a dark suit, a light comfort of past years. into the clubhouse. or white shirt and a He said even today's "One would safely dressy tie. You would wool suits are now so assume that if you have never wear a sport coat lightweight, "it's like to wear a coat to the or blazer, ever. The only yo u ' re wearing nothing

and the quality of manufacturers is far better that they've ever been.

"If you get a really nice suit that really fits, you should be just as comfortable in it as you are in a Polo shirt and a pair of khakis, or even more comfortable," Vath said.

Vath said another misconception is that larger people can't find quality, nice looking clothing.

He said that while he doesn't carry all sizes, he can special order the items. Along those same lines, Vath said a person doesn't have to spend a lot of money to look good.

"The important thing is finding something that fits, and you have to realize there's no such thing as 'off the rack,' as making the right alter-

ations can make the most uncomfortable garment feel really good," he said.

But not all weddings and receptions are held in churches and country clubs. For those events, say an outdoor wedding with the reception in a park, Vath suggests a "light weight linen or silk sport coat and a pair of complimentary trousers and maybe a linen sport shirt and no tie."

While in some situations a tie is not needed, Vath said a coat - even a sport coat - makes the entire look come together as a finishing garment.

So are jeans ever acceptable?

Again that depends on how the wedding party is dressed.

Denim is appropriate, Vath said, if the bride is

in a denim wedding gown, and the groom is dressed in western attire.

"We have done weddings where they wear tuxedo coats, jeans and boots. If the invitation says 'casual dre s s ' o r ' western dress' on it, then certainly, jeans would be appropriate."

Vath's best advice when it comes to dressing for a wedding is don't be afraid of being over dressed.

"Wear clothing that fits you, so it will be comfortable. If you get there and yo u ' re the only one wearing a tie, you can take it off, but if you get there and yo u ' re the only one not wearing a tie, you can't fix it.

"Always dress better than you think the occasion is," said Vath.

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Getting Engaged Is Just the Beginning ... Now What?

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Turn a whole bunch of mismatched mine and yours into a lifetime of ours.

"When it comes to registering, relax, take your time and have fun," recommends Audrey Stavish, a Bridal and Gift Registry expert at Bed Bath & Beyond. "Most brides update their registries online and go into the stores many times.

There aren't any rules that you must follow.

Choose items that are right for you and your soon-to-be. Go through the registry process together and have fun!"

Here are some additional tips to make wedding planning a breeze: Plan Ahead: Start a bridal registry as soon as you say "yes." That way guests will have lots of options for engagement gifts and showers.

Periodically update your registry by adding more products if you need to, even after the wedding.

Be kind to procrastinators.

Do the Math: Experts advise registering for 2-3 items times the number

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Register Now, Because You Won't Buy it Later:

You may think you will ... but you won't. Now is the time to let others get you the stuff yo u ' d never buy yourself. Your friends and family might even get together to purchase a higher priced "group gift."

Dream Big: Register for gifts in a range of prices and categories. This will give guests and group givers lots of options to choose from.

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When making your selections, it's important to touch the towels, heft the flatware, see everything in person!

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Two area reception facilities help brides, grooms plan wedding festivities

By MAUNETTE LOEKS Staff Reporter Brides and grooms wanting to schedule their post-wedding festivities should probably plan at least a year in advance.

That's the advice of the event planners at the Gering Civic Center and Hampton Inn. The summer months are the busiest months for receptions.

"I think it is the warmer weather," Judy Keller, Gering Civic Center manager and event planner said, saying that travel and even clothing options are preferred in the warmer months.

"Most people are fair-

weather people."

June through August are the busiest months at reception facilities, Mary Escamilla, director of sales, said.

The size of a reception will be a factor in the sites that brides and grooms choose for their weddings. While the Gering Civic Center boosts that it can host events for up to 750 people, the Hampton Inn can host up to 400 people at its conference center facilities.

One of the primary concerns of most couples is planning enough food for their guests.

"A lot of brides and grooms are unsure of

how much food to order," she said. "It's further complicated by the fact that not everyone replies back with an RSVP. We try to prepare 10 percent over the meal count, at no charge to the couple, to help accommodate any unexpected guests. That eases a good amount of stress."

Accommodations for guests are also a common reason brides and grooms will consider facilities. The Gering Civic Center has the Monument Inn and Suites located just a parking lot away, which can be helpful to reception guests who are unfamiliar with

the area. At the Hampton Inn, guests, and even the bride and groom, can stay within the same facility. The facility even includes its whirlpool suite for brides and grooms who have booked their reception at the facility.

"That is an advantage that prompts a lot of people to book here," Escamilla said. "They want relatives to stay here and a lot of times, people drink at receptions. It is extremely convenient to not have to drive afterward."

At the Hampton Inn, Escamilla said, she has seen a trend toward lower key receptions,

such as cake receptions.

"It is becoming more popular," she said. "I think cost has a lot to do with it as couple's are trying to reign in their budgets during the current economic times."

Receptions with dances are still a huge hit for brides and grooms. If a bride and a groom are going to have deejayed music, Escamilla said she urges them to hire a professional dj.

"DJs keep the party going," she said. "They know how to keep the fun going and the crowd lively. If you have someone who just comes in and plays CDs, the reception tends to die

throughout the evening."

Live bands are allowed at the Gering Civic Center, though Keller said the majority of receptions would use a dj. She estimated that 95 percent of couples hosting their wedding receptions at the center have a dj because they are more cost effective.

Both facilities offer onsite catering and offer linens for receptions.

Some offerings, such as a chocolate fountain, a punch fountain and even ice sculptures, help brides and grooms add some special touches to their wedding reception at the Gering Civic Center.

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Think Outside of the Wedding Favor Box Most couples plan to thank guests for attending their weddings by issuing favors at the end of the festivities. Being creative and tying the favor into the theme of the wedding are creative ways to show you care.

Wedding favors can be anything the couple desires. Throughout the years there have been some favor standards that many couples fall back on when they're short on ideas.

Matchbooks printed with the wedding date, Jordan almonds wrapped in tulle, drink stirrers, and candles are all classic favor options.

If you desire some-

thing unique, consider these options. * Candy: Skip the almonds and go for something guests are sure to enjoy ... chocolate. Custom engrave chocolate bars to feature your wedding date information and your names. Or how about setting up a candy bar where guests can fill up their own goodie bags with favorite treats? * Useful tools: Instead of the drink stirrers or coaster sets that will end up collecting dust, think about household items guests can really use.

What about an ice cream scooper so memories of your wedding will always

be sweet? Who doesn't love to barbecue? A barbecue sauce basting set will be a grill-side must.

Depending on budget, you also can choose ice buckets, an engraved napkin holder or a picnic basket filled with picnic essentials. * Plants: Send guests home with something they can plant, whether flower seeds, seedlings or a small houseplant. As your love grows, so will the plants in every guest's home. * Fun ideas: Having a beach wedding?

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earmuffs or scarves that give the wedding date details. If you love a particular musical artist, give guests a CD with favorite songs. * Let them eat cake: Inquire whether your baker can make miniature wedding cakes in the likeness of your larger one. Then everyone can take home a replica. * Personalized photo: One of the easiest ways for guests to remember your wedding is to have a photo reminder.

Engraved frames with a photo of the happy couple will be classic gifts.

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Wedding Day Transportation Options Abound Couples have many decisions to make regarding their wedding ceremony and reception.

One of those decisions conerns transportation to and from the special event.

There are many options in wedding transportation. The more traditional options include renting a car or limousine. The Bridal Association of America reports that the average couples spends $400 to $500 for an automotive rental.

However, prices may vary depending on geography and the type of vehicle rented.

Wedding transportation is perhaps something grooms-to-be can get excited about. After all, we ' re talking about cars -- some fancy, some large, and many decked out with different features. Plus, it's traditionally the responsibility of the groom to arrange transportation to and from the ceremony, reception and the hotel or honeymoon destination.

Grooms responsible

for arranging transportation can consider the following options. * Limousine: A limo is one of the most traditional

methods of transport on a couple's wedding day.

A limousine's size enables them to carry the bridal party in its entirety. Because the bride and groom often do not see each other before the ceremony,

two limos may be rented, one larger for the bridal party, and one smaller for the bride and her parents, depending on personal preference. * Classic car: Sports car enthusiasts may want to make an entrance -and exit -behind the wheel of a sporty vehicle.

These can include a high-end Ferrari or an A s t o n M a r t i n .

Because of their high purchase price, sports car rentals may carry a premium. * Stretch SUV: The traditional limo has morphed into the stretch SUV of popular models, including the Cadillac Escalade, Ford Expedition or even a stretch Hummer.

Because of their popularity, these rentals may

be snatched up quickly.

Be sure to book well in advance of the big day. * Party Bus: Many couples are leaning toward a party bus rental, which may be a single- or double-decker bus that can fit scores of people inside. These are particularly attractive to couples with a very large bridal party, or those who hope to begin the celebration even before reaching the reception hall. * Horse-drawn carriage: Some couples truly want the fairytale feel on their wedding day. A horsedrawn carriage can evoke feelings of a Cinderella-type day. The

carriage tends to be best suited to warm weather. For winter weddings, a horsedrawn sleigh might make a better alternative. * Motorcycle: Exciting couples may want to ride off into the sunset on the back of a roadster or sports bike. * Horses: Horses can haul more than just a carriage.

A bride and groom atop a handsome steed can make for a memorable wedding transportation option and equally memorable photos. * Boat: Individuals getting married by the sea or another body of water may want to consider attending the festivities

via boat, be it a large vessel or a more intimate canoe or rowboat.

Wedding day transportation varies depending on each couple's preference. Here are some other things to keep in mind concerning transportation. * Be sure to have transportation options at the ready for guests who may have over-indulged on alcoholic beverages. * Wedding party participants who arrived at the wedding by a limo or other source will need a ride home somehow. * Find out if a hotel nearby offers complementary transportation to and from the reception hall

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Planning tips for the perfect honeymoon (ARA) - He proposed, you said "Yes!" and now yo u ' re in the throes of planning your dream wedding. Among all the ceremony details, no doubt part of your wedding planning process also involves scheduling a romantic honeymoon.

Honeymoon planning can be very easy, or very complicated, depending on the trip you want to take. For example, signing up for an all-inclusive resort hotel on a beach somewhere, or a cruise trip with limited ports of call, tend to be easier vacations to organize because they don't require multiple lodging or transportation details.

But you might discover

that you and your sweetheart can save a little money as you start your new life together and plan a more localized tour. For example, maybe you are both baseball fans. Touring several cities with major league fields and catching a couple home games would make a very memorable honeymoon vacation that you both would enjoy.

Here are some tips to help you plan your honeymoon so you'll have memorable stories to share through your life together: * Pick a destination together. Discuss with your soon-to-be spouse what activities or sights

you want to see together. You might want to pick a location where neither of you has traveled previously.

Or maybe you can plan your entire honeymoon around an event that brought the two of you together. * If you plan to change your name once yo u ' re married, make sure you book all your tickets in your maiden name, because you probably won't have time between the wedding ceremony and the honeymoon to get your official identification cards and passport changed. And with tightened security at airports, you don't want to be

left behind because your ticket name doesn't match your ID. * Research and plan for what you'll need to pack. If yo u ' re leaving the country, make sure you have your passport and visa (if needed) ready.

The U.S. Department of State provides plenty of information about travel warnings and alerts for different countries based on political uprisings and natural disasters, as well as information on shots needed for different countries.

Also, research average temperatures for the time of year you'll be traveling so you can bring along the proper clothes. You

can register your travel plans with the U.S. Department of State to help ensure you are easy to reach should something happen with your family in the United States or if something important is happening in the location where you will be traveling. Visit the State Department at www.travel.state.gov. * No matter if yo u ' re flying overseas or just driving to the other side of the state you live in for your honeymoon, consider investing in medical evacuation and travel assistance memberships.

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Time will fly by as you plan your wedding and honeymoon, and before you know it, you'll be packing your bags for a romantic trip with your honey. Follow these tips to help prepare for a safe and fun honeymoon, and enjoy the start to your life together.

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Trends for “Green” Weddings Environmentally friendly ideals are now permeating all aspects of daily living. Many people want to take the concept further and ensure their nuptials and subsequent reception are good for the planet as well.

Although there are no firm statistics on the number of green weddings being held each year, emerging trends point to the growing interest in eco-conscious weddings.

Individuals who already do their best to recycle, reuse and reduce want to employ those same values on their wedding day.

There are many ways to employ a green mindset to wedding planning and execution. Largely the carbon footprint of a wedding can be reduced simply by scaling back and avoiding over-consumption. Here are some ideas to think about.

1. Reduce travel.

Research indicates that more than two-thirds of emissions in the U.S. are produced by energy consumption and transportation. By reducing

guestsÕ need to travel far for a wedding or offering transportation that can accommodate several people at once (like a bus), carbon emissions will be reduced.

2. Home is where the heart is. Keeping weddings close to home is helpful. Those with big backyards or a park nearby can host the event at home or in a nearby park and reduce dependence on large reception halls that use up large amounts of energy to operate. A home wedding also gives couples the opportunity to shop around for locally produced, organic foods.

3. Shop for floral alternatives. Flowers would seem ÒgreenÓ in themselves. However, many blooms available at florist shops are grown in hothouses with the use of pesticides and chemical fertilizers, something that is not very good for the environment at all.

Brides opting for something more eco-conscious could consider alternative options, such as bouquets made of sustainable succulent

plants and centerpieces full of organic fruits and wildflowers.

4. Choose an open registry. Instead of fine china that may never be used, many couples are opting for open registries that enable guests to gift everything from ecofriendly housewares to charitable donations to cash for down payments on a home.

5. Opt for mixed seating arrangements: Instead of formal escort cards indicating firm seating arrangements, couples are saving paper by allowing guests to choose their own seats from mix-matched options, such as long, communal benches and comfy sofas.

6. Go with something old. Recycled gowns and gently used items are good alternatives for eco-conscious brides.

Many Web sites will match up brides with others looking to swap items at low or no cost.

7. Skip the paper. Though etiquette experts frown on abandoning paper invitations for electronic ones, many couples are

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doing just that. For those who still prefer paper, print invitations on recycled paper. Reduce other wedding stationery needs by posting information on a wedding Web site shared with family and friends.

8. Go small scale. Instead of inviting every last cousin and distant uncle, couples are opting for more intimate affairs, including only the people they are closest to, which saves on cost and helps the environment.

9. Trim some of the wedding day fat. Some couples opt for an all-youcan-eat buffet and then a subsequent dessert bar later on in the evening.

Stuffed guests may end up wasting more food than eating it. Instead of all-you-can, go for a more traditional meal.

10. Choose a charitable party favor. Instead of a party favor that collects dust on a shelf, couples are choosing to gift with organic products or a donation to a charitable organization in the guests names.

Wedding Glossary

Planning a wedding? There are certain terms that every bride and groom should learn so they can be more informed in the process.

Ascot: A wide, formal tie generally reserved for

formal daytime weddings.

Blusher: A short veil that covers the brides' face before the ceremony.

Bodice: Close, upper-fitting part of the dress.

Boutonniere: Flower or flowers that are worn by the men in the wedding party. The boutonniere always should be affixed to the left side of the jacket.

Buttercream: Most common icing used on wedding cakes.

Cathedral train: Train, or long piece of fabric that extends 61/2 to 71/2 feet from the waist.

Cornelli: Decorative form of icing that resembles lacework on wedding cakes.

Cutaway Jacket: Jacket which tapers from the front waist button to a long, wide back tail; accessories include a wing-collar shirt with an ascot and a coordinating vest.

Ganache: Rich chocolate filling or topping made from chocolate and heavy cream.

Garland: Flowers and/or green leaves that are draped over railings.

Girdle: The outer edge or the widest part of the diamond forming a band around the stone.

Illusion: Fine netting used for veils, headpieces, and on the sleeves and necklines of dresses.

Inclusion: An internal imperfection on a diamond.

Nosegay: Small bouquet featuring posies.

Tea Length: Length of dress or skirt that falls several inches above the ankles.

Topiary: Flowers or foliage trained and trimmed into geometric shapes, often resembling miniature trees or animals.

Tussy Mussy: Silver cone-shaped holder for a bouquet.

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Invite Only: Pare Down Your Wedding Guest List Couples are faced with many decisions when planning a wedding. One often overlooked decision concerns the guest list.

Ideally, couples would love to invite all their friends and family to share in their special day. Realistically, however, budget often dictates just how many guests a couple can invite.

That reality has led to a disagreement or two over the years, as both the bride-to-be and her future husband make their case for who makes the cut. To help avoid such disagreements, couples should consider the following tips when paring down their guest list. * Make a master list as early as possible. It's impossible to pare down a guest list if there's no list to begin with. Once the planning process begins, couples should separately write down all the guests they would like to invite. Once each is finished with their list, the hard work of paring that list down can begin. * Consider who's foot-

ing the bill. If Mom and Dad are paying for the wedding, then their suggestions for the guest list should carry most of the weight. Weddings are very expensive, and if Mom and Dad are paying they should have a significant say who will in attendance. The same principle can be applied if the couple is paying for their own wedding. If the costs are being split down the middle, then both the groom- and bride-to-be should be allowed to invite the same number of guests. * Ask that kids stay home. Many couples request that their guests leave the kids at home.

While nieces and nephews might make the cut, it's perfectly acceptable for couples to state their preference that children not attend.

This can be noted on the invitation, addressing friends as "Mr. John Doe and guest" or "Mr. and Mrs. John Doe." Guests should take the hint, but if any RSVPs with their kids, be sure to call them immediately and explain

the situation. Friends and family should understand the preference, particularly in the current economic climate. * It's not a reunion.

Couples are often tempted to invite longlost friends to their wedding. But cost-conscious couples must recognize their wedding is

not a reunion. If the goal is to keep the guest list under control, only invite close friends and family members who have kept in touch with over the

years. * Stick to your guns.

Couples vary greatly with what they want out of their wedding. Some want a grandiose affair they can share with their whole family and all of their friends. Other couples want a more laidback affair with only those closest to them in attendance. Whatever their preference, couples should remain firm and not feel guilty no matter how many guests they choose to invite or not invite. * Cut back in other areas.

If it's proving simply impossible to agree on a reduced guest list, consider inviting everyone and cutting back in other areas. Before signing any contracts, closely examine each one for items that can be removed without drastically changing the ceremony and celebration. Chances are there are savings to be had, and those savings might make the difference between inviting and not inviting another friend or family member.

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Think Outside the Box When Gifting Today's Newlyweds (MS) -- Few, if any, days are as memorable as a couple's wedding day.

Months and sometimes years of anticipation finally culminate with a walk down the aisle, and wedding guests often look for ways to make the day even more memorable with a gift befitting their favorite newlyweds.

Just like many aspects of weddings have changed over the years, so, too, has gifting the bride and groom. In years past, guests simply chose a gift from the couple's registry and that was that. However, today's couples often have little use for traditional registries, a byproduct of more and more couples living together before they get married.

"We ' re in our thirties and both had complete households when we moved in together," said newlyweds Mindee and Graham, who chose to forgo a traditional registry.

While it's understandable for today's couples

to forgo traditional registries, that doesn't make it any easier for wedding guests to gift the bride and groom. In an effort to remedy that very problem, couples and frustrated gift givers alike have increasingly been turning to online honeymoon registries catering to couples who could use some help planning and paying for their perfect honeymoon, and guests who want to give something more meaningful than an envelope full of cash.

"We didn't need any more 'stuff , ' " said Mindee.

"We needed an amazing honeymoon.

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Newlyweds Sarah and P a t r i c k enjoyed a dream honeymoon in Costa Rica, one made more memo r a b l e thanks to their guests' thoughtful contributions to the couple's honeyfund.

"Many of our guests couldn't wait to talk to us about what they had bought

off our registry," said Sarah. "We are making photo postcards of our trip to use as thank-you notes since everyone at the wedding was requesting a picture of us enjoying their gift."

The online honeymoon registry also helps guests forgo the troubles of shipping gifts or, worse yet, bringing them aboard a flight, where they're likely subject to airline baggage fees.

Robert, who took his new bride, Kili, as well as an extra $5,300 earned from their honeyfund, on a Mediterranean Cruise, notes that his guests appreciated the userfriendly and hassle-free nature of gifting online as opposed to carting gifts cross-country.

"Kili is from California and I am from Washington, D.C.," says Robert. "Because of our online honeymoon fund, our guests didn't have to lug gifts cross-country or worry about shipping.

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Say 'I Do' to Beautiful Color (MS) -- "Gems are the flowers of the mineral kingdom and the fancy colored diamond is the orchid." -- Rene Just Hauey, crystallographer.

Engagements, weddings, anniversaries -these are the moments in our lives that make up so many of our strongest memories. Part of the reason these special occasions are so memorable is due to the lengths we go to set them apart from others - including the traditions and gifts used to mark the events.

Jewelry is an integral part of relationship ceremonies and celebrations.

We seek the brightest and the best in gems as a testament to our love and devotion. However, in the quest for something unique and breathtaking, many couples or gift-givers overlook the one truly priceless item they can purchase ... natural colored diamonds.

White diamonds are often the gemstone of choice in engagement rings or anniversary bands, but there ' s something rarer that can make the ultimate state-

ment: Natural colored diamonds.

According to historians, natural colored diamonds have been prized throughout the years for their rarity and appeal.

The Hope diamond or the Pumpkin diamond have been coveted by the rich and famous, and it's often been colored diamonds that have adorned royalty and other fashion-forward individuals, such as Hollywood stars on the red carpet.

Natural colored diamonds are born in different diamond mines around the world. Their hues are formed by stray atoms present at the time of formation. Colors can range from very rare blues to pinks

to yellows to chocolates.

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For example, "leather" on the 3rd anniversary can be a chocolate colored diamond, while "candy" on the 6th anniversary can be exemplified by a cotton candy pink colored diamond. * Show her how much you care on your anniversary by offering colored diamonds that coordinate with the birthstones of your children. * Gift him with a diamond ring or cufflinks that feature the colors of his favorite sports team.

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Accessory Essentials for Brides and Bridesmaids (MS) -- When it comes to weddings, much is made of the bride's wedding gown. Typically the end product of an exhausting yet enjoyable search, a bride's wedding gown is, along with the bride herself, often the focal point of the day.

As central as the wedding dress is, brides also know their look is never complete without the right accessories.

Arguably the most important accessory, aside from the groom, is the jewelry the bride and her bridesmaids will be wearing on the big day.

According to Amy Yankelevitz, designer and founder of Hazel & Harlow Jewelry, how the bride selects the accessories and jewelry pieces for herself and her bridesmaid can be one of the most important, and very personal decisions for her special day. Incorporating family heirlooms, favorite keepsakes and contemporary styles can be complicated, but Amy

believes in choosing delicate pendant, earrings and even bracelets, but always remember the focus is on the bride's face and neckline so keep your jewelry selections to just one or two special items.

"A signature pair of earrings highlights the bride's hair and neckline without competing with the dress," says Yankelevitz.

Because many brides recognize the importance of jewelry when creating their bridal ensemble, Ya n k e l e v i t z offers the following jewelry tips for brides on their big day. * Match jewelry with your gown. No two brides are ever the same, but there are similarities between wedding

gowns and certain jewelry that goes well with each type of gown.

For example, the type of necklace a bride

believe the lines and flow of the dress are the defining accents to consider. If the bride has chosen a vintage, lacy gown, then something antique, or beaded and chandelier

ment piece, is ideal to enhance the wedding gown or dress without taking away from the complete ensemble * Consider a splash of color. Today's brides aren't solely hoping to look elegant and demure.

They're also hoping to

chooses will depend on the neckline of her gown.

When the bride is interested in matching a piece of jewelry with her wedding dress, we

style is beautiful. For a more clean, modern and linear style dress, a simple charm or state-

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No wedding is complete without beautiful flowers!

orful jewelry to complement your white wedding gown. Colored gems and even yellow diamonds are a growing trend among brides. * Go green. Perhaps no trend is more popular or hot button than the go green movement. As a result, many brides are showcasing their environmental side and embracing a growing trend among bridal jewelry, namely the choice of nature-inspired jewelry that includes themes such as flowers, butterflies, leaves, and rosettes.

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Beautiful Wedding Day Tresses

What bride doesn't want to be heads above the rest in terms of her wedding day 'do? The trouble is, many brides-to-be don't take adequate steps to ensure their wedding day tresses will be up to par, including doing a practice run and being confident with their stylists.

While your hair may look picture-perfect in your mind, getting through the wedding day with hair intact takes some time and effort --and the planning process doesn't start a week before the wedding, either.

ments toward the end goal.

1. -- Start Early Once you know your wedding date and have the venues booked, start shopping around for a stylist that you'll stick with through your wedding day. You want to make sure this person is in consistent charge of your look, tailoring haircuts and coloring appoint-

3. -- Do Your Research Browse through magazines and make a look book of styles you like. Discuss with your stylist if they will complement your facial structure, style, hair type, and wedding gown. Talk about the venue and what will be expected of your hair. If you'll be on the beach

2. -- Set a Schedule Certain hair tasks should occur at specific times. For example, your final color should be done at least two weeks before the wedding to allow for color blending. A final trim should be around the same time also so that your hair hasn't just been snipped.

You'll want haircuts at regular intervals, even if yo u ' re growing your hair out for the wedding to make sure it looks healthy.

with blowing wind, a tight up-do might not be practical.

4. -- Have a Hair Rehearsal Schedule a rehearsal of your wedding day hairdo with your stylist after you come up with a look that's agreed upon. Not only will this help your stylist get his or her technique down pat, it'll enable the both of you to fine tune what works and what doesn't. You can also get a feel for your hair so there won't be any surprises once you are ready to walk down the aisle. Make sure to bring your veil with you and make-up your face so you'll get an accurate view of what will be the finished product. Take pictures from all angles to ensure that yo u ' re happy with the look from every direction.

Remember, you'll be photographed coming and going, in action and at rest during the wedding.

5. -- Pack Reinforcements Some brides opt to invite their stylist to the reception hall for a few touchups between venues. If this isn't an option, ask what products to bring along and how you can repair any minor flyaways, etc.

6. -- Put it in Perspective Remember, just like everything that yo u ' re planning for your wedding, while you hope things go on without a hitch, there may be some snags along the way. Remain calm and go with the flow. Guests are more apt to remember the joyous tone of the day rather than minute details that could frazzle you --like an errant Bobby pin or a pull in your stockings.

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Be a Knockout Bride With Professional Hairstyle Tips Every bride wants to look her best on her wedding day.

That's why she'll spend endless hours searching for the perfect gown, accessories and veil.

What the prepared bride knows, however, is that her finished look can come off as incomplete if she doesn't have a beautiful weddingday hairstyle.

To ensure the right style, you just might have to put your hair into the hands of a professional stylist who has the expertise to design a look to complement your gown and wedding theme. To get you started, here is some advice from hair-product manufacturer Joico.

too fixed) because you'll feel more comfortable that way. Lighten it up and spice it up with some color.

too complicated if the dress is the focus or the showstopper.

nating because you have lots of choices.

Wear it sleek, tight and in a bun. Or go for volume and movement. Wear it half-up, half-down.

Go retro. Go modern. If you have long hair, show it off; don't hide behind your veil too much.

Let the world know your long hair is part of your look. A loose and soft movement indicates sexy and fresh.

from the face. All of those make the silhouette, and the flow of the bridal hairstyle look more graphic, stylish and right now. Don't overdo it with hair products, and don't have it conflict with makeup. Both should seamlessly work together -- one shouldn't dominate the other.

Smoothing balms smoothe and condition the hair, giving it sexy shine. Light hair spray looks natural and remains brushable. You'll also want to choose a styling mousse. It's like foundation for the style: It will hold but won't be rigid.

Keep it sexy and feminine. Add a little bit of lift and volume if it coordinates with what yo u ' re wearing. Keep it loose and free (not

with a pin or accessory looks very classic. Sleek and smooth are great with a stronger wedding gown.

Don't make the hair

beautiful long neck and skin. Pin hair at the nape or build hair up in the crown; just keep hair away from the nape. Braid it, curl it, wave it,

power the makeup and clothes, then it should look great.

straighten it, and then pull it back. It's an instant face lifter and makes the body look more streamlined.6. What styling

4. What would be a great modern look? products would you 2. What styles are Simplicity in the suggest for taking good for a bride movement, the flat- the bride through with long hair? ness, the volume and the whole day withLong hair is fasci- taking the hair away out reapplication?

7. Is there any hair advice that you can suggest to the 5. What styles bride? would you suggest Rehearse the hairfor a strapless style before the big day. Keep it loose 3. What would be a dress?

1. What styles are great classical look?

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Modern brides put unique slant on 'something old, something new' (ARA) - Something old, something new, something borrowed, something - very unique. To make a wedding both fun and sophisticated, modern brides give the old wedding adage a playful twist.

If yo u ' re planning your wedding, or helping someone special plan her own, here are some modern variations on the tradition:

Something old:

Something old represents the bride's past.

Personalize this tradition by incorporating a small memento from you and your fiance's past together. Did you keep something from one of your favorite dates?

Maybe you still have the ticket stub from the first concert you attended together, or the wine cork from your first date.

Brides are tucking these small items into their bouquets to bring them good luck. At a special moment during the evening, you can reveal the keepsake to your husband and remember just how far yo u ' ve

come as a couple.

Something new:

Scent creates powerful memories and brides today are taking notice.

For your wedding, find a new fragrance that perfectly fits your special moment. For years to come, the fragrance will remind you and your husband of your wedding day.

A wedding calls for a memorable scent like twirl by kate spade new york, perfect for this joyous and festive occasion. A fresh floral bouquet mingles with pink watermelon and red currant, while luminous musks and a touch of French macaroon add that wink of surprise that will keep your husbandto-be enamored and your guests intrigued.

Something borrowed:

To inherit luck, tradition says that something borrowed should be from a person who has a happy marriage.

Thinking outside the box may mean that your something borrowed isn't an actual item.

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honor your grandparents on your wedding and "borrow" parts of the vows they said so many years ago. Or maybe your best friend has a marriage philosophy you admire that you can print on the dessert napkins for all guests to enjoy.

Feeling musical? Ask your parents what song played during their first dance and surprise them by borrowing it for your own.

Something blue:

Looking for something fun for your guests to take home as a thank you token? Wrap up blue lollipops and or other blue candies in gift bags with a special note thanking them for being part of your special day.

The modern bride is always finding new ways to incorporate tradition into their wedding.

Finding something that is personal and meaningful to both you and your husband to be will make your wedding day even more memorable.

Throw a Green Bridal Shower

Going green is infiltrating all aspects of daily life. The trend is also carrying over to the ways people celebrate special occasions. For the brideto-be who is environmentally conscious, a "green" bridal shower can be meaningful and environmentally aware.

Planning an earth-friendly shower is relatively easy, provided how many people have similar views on the e n v i ro n m e n t .

Here's how to begin. * Seek out venues that follow green initiatives.

Eco-friendly day spas, gardens, parks, are all viable options. * Make sure vendors use environmentally responsible materials. Freetrade coffee and chocolate and organic, locally grown foods are just a few options. * Get creative with invitations. If you don't

want to send out electronic invites, be sure the materials you use for invitations are recyclable or earth-friendly. For an outdoor occasion, write party information on tree leaves. Later the invites

can be incorporated into compost or flattened in a book and preserved. * Use real linens, napkins and table settings. Skip the disposable items that can end up in the trash. * Ask guests to bring gifts that are not wrapped. Not only will this save time at the

party, it will reduce the amount of waste as well. * Ask guests to wear sustainable fabrics in their wardrobe, such as linen, organic cotton or hemp. * Set the mood with soy candles. They produce virtually no soot, making them better for the environment.

Soy also burns longer than other candles, such as those made from paraffin wax. * Make party favors something that are earth-minded as well.

Packets of flower seeds or small potted plants are options. Gift baskets of locally grown fruit and vegetables and jarred, fresh-produced preserves make for great gifts.

You can also give away some of the same soy candles you used at the party, decorated with a ribbon indicating the party date.

With a little planning you can throw a green bridal shower for that special bride-to-be.

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Taking the stress out of preparing bridal shower food (ARA) - If yo u ' re planning a bridal shower, you want to make it a relaxing, fun time for everyone - and right at the center of the fun is good food. If yo u ' re feeling anxious about what to serve and how to get it prepared - especially with everyone nowadays paying so much attention to what they eat - relax. You can serve delicious and healthy food without hiring a professional chef or spending a week in the kitchen.

self or you know they do especially well. You can even have each guest bring a dessert or appetizer and share the recipes with the new bride. Doing the food as a group is fun, and it helps build the joyful spirit of the occasion.

Here are some time-saving tips and recipes from the Simply Organic test kitchen to help you get the food under control and host a simple but sensational shower for the bride.

* Keep it healthy. There ' s a good chance a lot of your guests are trying to eat healthier. Why not go that route and make it delicious too? You can provide great-tasting, nutritious snacks that also go easy on artificial additives, salt, fat, sugar and other potentially unhealthy ingredients. For guests with special diet restrictions, gluten-free baking mixes are now readily available for easy, worry-free baked treats.

* Share the work. When guests ask if they can bring anything, say "yes."

And don't be afraid to ask them to bring something if they don't contact you first - most guests are eager to help.

Get others to prepare dishes you either don't really enjoy making your-

* Take some shortcuts.

For enticing, freshly made dips without fuss, use high quality organic dip mixes. Just add a creamy dill, French onion, guacamole or ranch dip mix to equal parts lowfat cottage cheese and non-fat plain yogurt and mix in a blender or food

processor until smooth.

Serve with fresh veggies you can buy already cleaned and cut up at the store, and you get a lot of healthy snacking with very little prep time. Or use pre-blended mulling spice to create flavorful cider, punch or other beverages without a lot of work. * Remake everyday favorites. One way to combine simple and special is to take easy-toprepare favorites and dress them up with special festive seasonings.

Try distinctive seasoning blends like curry or Italian seasoning. A seasoned sugar combination like lemon sugar or cinnamon sugar will add a gourmet touch to your tea. Or add a touch of a spice like tarragon or a chili powder seasoning blend to your usual deviled eggs, and yo u ' l l instantly have something out of the ordinary. * Shop smart. Make your shopping list well in advance. That way you can pick up everything in one trip - and eliminate

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cheese and jalapenos.

Refrigerate.

Chef Suggestions Serve chilled with chips or crackers. For a less spicy version, substitute green olives for jalapenos.

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any last-minute sprints to the grocery store. You can even order some ingredients online. For example, Simply Organic offers a wide range of all-organic products online to enhance your shower food - everything from spices, seasoning blends and baking extracts to easy-tomake mixes for dips, dressings and other snacks - and they'll ship them to your house within a few days.

3 cups cooked and finely diced chicken 1/4 cup low fat yogurt 4 finely diced Roma tomatoes (approximately 2 cups) 1 package Simply Organic Guacamole Dip Mix 1/2 cup shredded cheese 2 tablespoons finely diced jalapenos

Here are two of the many easy-to-prepare, healthy bridal shower dishes from the recipe collection at www.simplyorganicfoods.com.

Directions: In a large mixing bowl, stir chicken and yogurt together. Add tomatoes and Guacamole Dip Mix; stir. Blend in shredded

Spicy Chicken Dip Ingredients:

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Technology May Transform the Future of Weddings Imagine sending out personalized, colorful evites inviting guests to a wedding ceremony and reception? Or plugging in an Mp3 player with a pre-set wedding music playlist to get people dancing?

How about recording the festivities on handheld video cameras and uploading data instantly to a social networking site? Some or all of these technological conveniences are already growing in popularity, revolutionizing the way couples plan and carry through with wedding plans along the way.

Many couples are choosing to eschew the formalities and traditions associated with weddings for the convenience that many digital or technological advancements can provide.

Electronic wedding invitations are just one of the many aspects of the

wedding that have begun to embrace the digital age.

There are several advantages to enlisting the help of technology to execute a

wedding. First and foremost is the cost factor. The number of items that couples can do themselves will greatly cut down on the expenses of hiring professional vendors.

Budget-conscious couples may seriously want to consider sending e-vites, which can save several hundreds of dollars on printing costs and postage.

Another advantage is that technology might be more environmentally responsible. Eliminating wedding stationery or hiring individuals who have to travel to and from the ceremony and reception, as is the case with a band or photographer, reduces carbon emissions and further energy.

Technology can also help keep things organized.

Instead of keeping receipts and papers inside of a folder, saving items in e-mail and conversing with vendors e l e c t ro n i c a l l y creates a digital paper trail that can make loose ends a little easier to manage.

Although there are some detractors who frown on employing technology when planning a wedding because of the improper etiquette implications, many modern couples are embracing the convenience and cost savings these technologies provide.

Tradition of Throwing Rice at Weddings

There are many traditions for weddings that can be traced back thousands of years to early civilization.

One enduring tradition is to throw rice at the newly betrothed. For the safety of birds and other animal life, rice has been switched to birdseed in recent times.

Some wedding traditions are based on very real needs of ancient times.

Others are based on superstitions or existing etiquette at the time they were initially practiced.

Throwing rice remains a timeless tradition that many couples still enjoy.

Everyone attending the wedding gets to participate in throwing rice, or whatever is being used in lieu of rice, be it birdseed, confetti or even bubbles. Couples can even borrow from traditions in other countries. In France, people throw wheat, a symbol of bounty, after the ceremony.

Italians toss

candy and sugared nuts over couples, for sweetness in marriage.

Rice was traditionally used to symbolize fertility and prosperity. Wheat was also very much used in ancient wedding ceremonies for the same reasons. When guests threw rice at the bride and groom at

a wedding, they were symbolically wishing them a lifetime full of children and good fortune. Some cultures even ate a meal of rice before

the wedding to guarantee further prosperity.

Different cultures have long harbored different perspectives on throwing rice. Some even believed it fed the evil spirits that, though uninvited, crashed the wedding. It was thought that well-fed spirits would not wreak havoc on the happy day.

Rice and wheat were also thought to represent virginity and wholesomeness by some. A virginal bride used to wear white and carried a stalk of wheat.

Single women rushed after the bride hoping to get a few pieces of rice so they would be the next person to walk down the aisle.

Despite its foundation in superstition, throwing rice has remained a staple of weddings today.

21 Wardrobe Options for Second-Time Brides Remarriage rates continue to increase, and many vendors are now catering specifically to couples entering second marriages. A bride getting married for the second or third time has just as many attire options as she did for her first wedding.

Research indicates that more than half of all marriages end in divorce.

The silver lining to that cloud is that 54 percent of d i v o r c e d women remarry within 5 years, according to the National Center for H e a l t h Statistics.

Furthermore, 75 percent of divorced w o m e n remarry within 10 years.

These statistics show that the need for bridal gowns for women entering a new marriage remains strong.

When choosing a gown

for a second wedding, brides-to-be can use their discretion. Gone is the stigma of wearing white. However, brides still may want to choose an alternative color to bright white to be more complementary

to their skin tones. Off-white, pale yellow and pale pink can be flattering shades. If second brides do

choose to wear white, they may want to avoid a flat white color. Instead, they can opt to wear a shimmery shade of white and a gown with a little more pizzazz.

The gown -- just as with first-time weddings -should be as formal or as casual as the wedding itself. At afternoon weddings it may be acceptable to wear a tealength gown or even a cocktail dress.

Enhance beachside or casual affairs with less e l a b o r a t e gowns. Formal second weddings should still feature a gown that is formal in nature.

A more mature bride may feel more comfortable wearing a well-tailored pantsuit rather than a gown.

Again, the choice is up to the bride regarding what she wants to wear.

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Respectful Ways to Honor a Deceased Parent Weddings are supposed to be joyous events, which can make it difficult to honor a deceased parent. Doing so in a way that does not compromise the upbeat mood of the event can prove quite a challenge to prospective brides and grooms.

The death of someone close is rarely easy to accept, especially when it happens close to a couple's wedding day. But there are many ways couples can honor a deceased parent at their ceremony. * Display pictures of the deceased with the wedding couple so that the memory of these people can be part of the festivities. * Set up a table with a special floral arrangement and photo with a placard that states, "In memory of ..." * Wear a piece of clothing or jewelry that belonged to the deceased. Cufflinks from a father or a veil from a

mother. * Ask the pastor or officiant to specifically mention the deceased in the wedding ceremony and offer a special prayer in that person's name. * Add a memoriam line to the end of the wedding

program. "Today we honor Mary Smith, mother of the bride who could not be with us today." * Dedicate a special song during the reception in the person's name. * A bride who will not be able to walk down the aisle with her father

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can choose to do so with her mother or another relative and carry something that belonged to their father. * Set up a photo slide show that includes photos of the deceased.

Choose poignant but upbeat music so that the moment is not overly somber. * Light a candle at the ceremony for the deceased relative. * Leave an empty chair and place setting at the reception for the person who could not be there. * Display something that symbolizes the person at the wedding, such as a flag for a deceased veteran or an item that represents the person's favorite hobby.

There are many ways to remember a special loved one at a wedding without bringing down the mood of the event.

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Choosing Cookware with Conf idence Dispelling Misconceptions for Perfect Match at Bridal Registrie (MS) -- Getting married can be a full time job, especially when it comes to deciding what to register for wedding gifts. A seemingly endless array of kitchen products for cooking and entertaining can entice, but also overwhelm bridal couples. To gain confidence in choosing cookware and bakeware, two popular categories for bridal gift registries, Meyer Corporation, U.S. -- the largest cookware company in the nation -- clarifies misconceptions that can get in the way of making a perfect match.

Stainless steel cookware is stronger than hard-anodized aluminum cookware.

Truth -- Stainless steel is stronger than plain aluminum. However, the process of anodizing the aluminum changes the molecular structure of the metal and makes it twice as strong as stainless steel. As a result, hard-anodized aluminum cookware offers two key benefits: first, durability; and secondly,

because aluminum is a superior conductor of heat, fast and even heating with no hot spots to mar cooking results.

Look for a heavygauge collection for top cooking results and years of enjoyment. Anolon Advanced and Anolon Advanced Bronze are two gourmet choices that are top choices at bridal registries, according to Janice Rassin, National Bridal Director at Meyer Corporation, U.S. I like the convenience of nonstick cookware, but I can't use it in the oven.

Truth -- Many people mistakenly believe that nonstick cookware is designed only for stovetop use, when in fact there are numerous quality collections that are oven-safe upwards to 500 degrees Fahrenheit.

Elegantly crafted Anolon Nouvelle Copper and Infinite Circulon are two gourmet nonstick collections with stainless steel handles and lids that are oven-safe to 500 degrees. Nonstick cook-

ware with handles made of a combination of stainless steel and silicone, such as Anolon Advanced and Circulon Contempo, are oven safe to 400 degrees. The addition of silicone provides a comfortable and secure grip.

I love the performance of clad metal cookware, but it's so heavy.

Truth -- Pro-style clad cookware is constructed with a core of fast-heating aluminum or copper sandwiched between two layers of gleaming stainless steel. As a result, the pans are typically heavier and can be difficult to manage.

Fortunately for the avid cook, there are now two innovatively designed collections that are significantly lighter and more agile without compromising on cooking results. Anolon Ultra Clad and KitchenAid Architect Clad are premium clad collections with an inner core of thick aluminum permanently bonded to stainless steel on the inside and outside. To

make the pans lighter, a portion of the exterior stainless steel has been stripped away and replaced with a decorative finish -- a classic black band for Anolon Ultra Clad, and an elegant taupe shade, called "coco metallic," for KitchenAid Architect Clad. Both collections are easier to handle, and quite stylish, too.

Cookware with metal handles will get hot during stovetop use.

Truth -- Solid metal handles do have a tendency to retain heat and can make handling on the stovetop a safety issue.

Look for gourmet cookware designed with hollow cast stainless steel handles, which deter heat from traveling from the pan to the handle to keep them cool to the touch. Options include Anolon Nouvelle Copper and Infinite Circulon.

Other styles of handles combine hollow cast stainless steel with silicone for additional heat resistance as well as a softer touch to enhance

comfort. Among the most popular collections with silicone handles are Anolon Advanced and Anolon Advanced Bronze with their signature SureGrip handles.

Nonstick cookware is usually grey or black, and I want more color in my kitchen.

Truth -- Fashionable gourmet nonstick collections that pop with color include top-registry choice Anolon Advanced Bronze, and the newly launched Circulon Elite Platinum.

Both collections are crafted from heavy gauge, hard-anodized aluminum for excellent heat conductivity and durability.

Anolon Advanced Bronze gets its warm bronze tone from colored bronze nonstick on both the inside and outside of the pan.

The silicone enhanced handles and lids are also designed in bronze to match.

Circulon Elite Platinum is similarly styled with a stunning platinum silver colored nonstick on the

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exterior, and matching platinum colored silicone and stainless steel handles and lids.

Besides adding a lovely touch to kitchen decors, and making it possible to bring the cookware straight from the oven to the table, the nonstick finish on the outside of the pans helps to keep the cookware stain-free and looking great.

"Bridal couples are more sophisticated than ever, and enjoy having stylish color choices in cookware that not only adds interest to their kitchen decor, but allows them the time-saving benefits of oven to table presentation," says Rassin.

It's difficult to find pots and pans suitable for induction burners.

Truth -- For the forward-thinking cook who wants to use today's state-of-the-art, energy-efficient induction burners, options in induction-suitable magnetic cookware are getting brighter.

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Wedding Musician Pointers Brides and grooms have a few options when it comes to the music played at their ceremony and reception. Live musicians or deejays are often the entertainment of choice. When hiring the entertainment, there are some important things to keep in mind.

The music of the wedding will set the tone for the event and keep guests entertained during key moments of the day.

Musicians will often work in conjunction with a maitre d' to be sure the reception moves along smoothly and sticks to the schedule.

Music will be played while guests are dining and when there are

opportunities for dancing.

It's essential to listen to musicians or deejays before hiring anyone to ensure what they're offering will fit in with the wedding. Also, it's helpful to confirm the person or people being auditioned will be the exact individuals at the wedding.

Some entertainment companies hire out contract musicians, meaning the preview musicians may not be the same person who will perform at the ceremony.

That can potentially prove disasterous. If a certain musi-

cian or deejay is requested, be sure it is put down in writing in the contract.

Provide the musical

entertainment with some information to further help the wedding go off without a hitch. This may include but not be limit-

ed to the following: - Names of all wedding party participants so they can be properly introduced.

- Name of the married couple, including pronunciation of the last name, if necessary.

- The title of the couple's song.

- The titles of songs to be danced with mother/son or father/daughter.

- A listing of any preferred songs.

- The title of a "spotlight dance" song.

- Any music that is offlimits at the reception.

- Special announcements that should be made, such as mentioning a guest's birthday or another special event involving guests.

- Whether a bouquet and garter toss will take place, and which songs should be played during these traditions.

In most cases, wedding musicians are professionals who have handled many weddings and are very accustomed to what should be done to make the night a memorable one. Trust in the expertise of the musicians, and provide guidance where necessary.

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(MS) -- When it comes to planning a wedding, grooms often take a backseat to their blushing brides. While men no longer serve a strictly spectator role when it comes to planning a wedding, much of the ins and outs of the wedding remain the bride's domain.

One area where men maintain complete control is gifting the groomsmen. A tradition that dates back decades if not centuries, gifting the groomsmen is the groom's way of showing his appreciation to those frequently overlooked but trusted friends who stand by his side on his wedding day.

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"Groomsmen are often overlooked in a wedding party even though they play important roles," says Mark Walerstein.

Understandably, many of today's grooms are working with budgets smaller than they might have been in years past.

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Be it a personalized locker room print, a stainless steel hip flask or a stadium fan framed print, grooms have a host

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No man cave is complete without a fully stocked bar, and grooms can help their groomsmen transform their basement into a Mecca of man caves with a carefully chosen gift that's sure to prove a proud addition to their groomsmen's home bar.

Grooms can choose a personalized Pewter Medallion Glass Mug that says Best Man, Groomsmen or Usher and personalize each mug with up to two lines. For

the groomsman who already has his own beer mug, consider a personalized 5-piece Decanter Set that's ideal for the man who loves to entertain. What's more, this uniquely personalized set makes a timeless reminder of the groom's big day whenever he visits his groomsmen to share a drink and a few laughs.

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For older grooms whose groomsmen are all established businessmen, perhaps no gift will be more proudly displayed than a personalized Executive Silver Plated Card Case and Pen Set. A gift no rising corporate baron can resist, this unique set is professionally engraved and can hold business cards and an executive pen.

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Wacky Wedding Facts

According to TheKnot.com, the unofficial experts on all things weddings, there are some things that may surprise the average person about weddings across the country. Here are some facts to consider. * Weddings in Iowa and Nebraska are the biggest, averaging 200 guests. * The average engagement ring costs more than $5,800. * Most brides have one do-it-yourself element, such as favors or escort cards. * "Can You Feel the Love Tonight" and "Lady in Red" are the two most popular first dance songs (even though 87 percent of brides wear white). * Only 19 percent of couples rely on a wedding planner. * Ancient Romans broke a cake over the bride's head to symbolize fertility.

Today, brides must be fortunate to have only a little cake smashed in their faces!

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* Save, save, save.

Traditionally, the bride's family foots the bill for the wedding. With that tradition fading and today's couples now baring more of the burden of paying for their wedding, saving is critical. As bridal couples enter the biggest buying period of their lives, escalating costs of home down payments, furniture, appliances, and child rearing only amplify the need for savings.

Couples can get some relief by directing their friends and family to gift registries like Honeyfund.com, where guests can contribute to a down payment for the young couple's first

home, or a general savings fund that can be used for projects, furnishings or anything the couple needs. Guests often love knowing how their financial contribution is being spent, be it for a home down payment, home improvement projects or other savings.

"Wedding gift givers are flocking to cash registries because they are hassle-free and provide an opportunity to give something unique," says Sara Margulis, CEO of Honeyfund.com. "A honeymoon experience or a contribution toward the couple's first home are memories that last a lifetime."

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The color of love: Customizing your wedding with color (ARA) - White will probably never lose its place in a wedding, but a growing number of brides are turning to color to help personalize their special day.

From a pop of color on a white or ivory wedding gown, to entire themes that carry throughout the flowers, decor, favors and accessories, you can use color to set the mood for guests or make a statement about your personal style.

"Brides are embracing color as another way to customize their weddings," says Ray Miller of My Wedding Reception Ideas.com, a leading online resource for brides seeking unique wedding favors, wedding decorations and

wedding supplies.

"Customizing with color offers brides such a range of creativity. They can choose colors that honor their heritage, evoke the atmosphere of a specific place, or celebrate a memory or experience that is special to the wedding couple."

If you'll be saying your "I do's" in 2011, Miller offers some advice for using color to help create the wedding of your dreams.

Tips for choosing a color "When it comes to choosing colors for your wedding - whether it's for accessories, table linens, bridesmaid gowns or even a wedding gown accent the only unbreakable rule should

be that you must love the colors you choose," Miller says. Keep in mind, however, that different colors will create different moods and not all colors will feel like a good fit for your wedding depending upon where and when you have it.

For example, if your goal is to create a wedding that captures the fresh, innocent aura of spring, vibrant red table linens and ice-blue bridesmaids' gowns will be in conflict with that atmosphere.

"Certain colors are traditionally associated with each season," Miller notes. "If yo u ' re emphasizing a seasonal effect, keep in mind the colors that the natural world wears dur-

ing that season."

Colors that will be popular this spring and summer include hot pink, apple green, celadon, pine green, clementine orange and yellow.

Heading into fall, look for amber, chestnut, dark tangerine and brick red.

Winter weddings will sport colors ranging from Santa's suit red and Christmas tree green to oyster gray, ice blue and pale purple.

Carrying it through

Once yo u ' ve chosen your wedding colors, you'll need to think about how you'll use them - in both the ceremony and reception.

Your creativity will serve you well here. Your wedding colors can be used in virtually every aspect

of your big day, from the bridal bouquet and decor in the ceremony location, to table linens and accessories for the reception.

Accessory collections are an easy way to carry your chosen color throughout the wedding.

For example, at My Wedding Reception Ideas.com, you'll find accessory collections cataloged by color.

These collections allow you to continue your color theme - whether it's a traditional shell pink, a rich royal purple or even camouflage with color-specific accessories such as flower girl baskets, ring bearer pillows, guestbooks and garters.

What's more, you can

customize table linens and even guest favors using your chosen colors.

Wedding gowns and color

For decades in America, white and ivory have reigned when it comes to wedding gowns. However, the color trend that began last year with pops of color appearing on bridal fashion runways has continued in 2011. This year, brides have more options than ever if they're looking to use color to make a personal statement with their wedding gown.

From beading and crystals in sparkling hues, to floral accents that capture a season's signature colors gowns are going colorful.

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Address Contact Price

Cost Per Person

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China & Flatware?

Servers (How Many)?

Taxes & Gratuity?

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Setup & Cleanup?

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Liquor Supplier Phone # Pick-up or Deliver Open Bar from Cash Bar from Champagne for Toast

Other Beverages Punch Non-Alcoholic Wine/Beer/Champagne

Bakery Bakery Phone # Address

Address Contact

Wedding Cake

Groom’s Cake

# of Servings/Person Description Cost Per Serving Cake Top or Fountain Mints/Nuts

# of Pieces Description Cost Per Serving Packaging Miscellaneous

Pre-Nuptial Celebrations Date/Time Phone # Address

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Invitations & Social Stationary Printer Phone # Order Date # of Ceremony Guests

Contact Address Date Ready # of Reception Guests

Invitation Information

Reception Card Information

Date & Time Location & Address

Time Location & Address

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RSVP Cards & Envelopes Information Responded by Name Phone#

Ceremony Program Phone # Order Date # of Ceremony Guests

Price

Reception Cards RSVP Cards & Envelopes Thank You Cards Embossed Napkins Guest & Gift Record Book Announcements Ceremony Programs

Contact Address

Honeymoon Location Phone #

Address

Travel Agency Company Phone #

Contact Address

Honeymoon Destination Location Phone # Departure Date/Time

Address Contact

Transportation Pick-Up Tickets at Return Departure Date/Time

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Return Arrival Date/Time

Photography Photographer Phone # Date Previews will be ready

Dates & Times Formal Portrait Ceremony Reception Number of Photos to be taken Package Description and Price Additional Reprints Costs

Special Pictures & Guests Not To Be Missed

Address Contact Formal Ceremony Before At Reception Receiving Line Do we get all photos?

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Facility Address Contact & Phone # Fee

Does the facility provide/allow:

Ceremony Music Selections/Performed by:

Aisle runner?

Canopy?

Candles?

Knee cushions?

Rice/Birdseed?

Dressing rooms?

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Address

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Contact & Phone # Cancellation Terms

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Liquor?

Access to Decorating?

Dance Floor?

Security?

Adequate Parking?

Clean-Up? Notes

Representative During?

Servers (how many)?

Bartenders?

Tables & Chairs?

Ample Power Outlets?

Handicap Access?

Valet Parking?

Dinner/Reception Music

Dance Music

Group Contact Phone # Playing from to Types of Music Musicians Attire Need Early Set-Up Time?

Cost Deposit Balance Due When?

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Band/DJ Contact Phone # Playing from to Number of Breaks/per Length of Break Overtime Policy Types of Music Musicians/DJ’s Attire Early Set-Up Time Is Leader/DJ Going to Emcee?

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Wedding Budget & Expenses Estimate Rings

Wedding Attire Dress/Headpiece Accessories/Shoes Formal Wear Rental Gown Preservation Other:

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Florist Address Florist Address

Wedding Party Flowers Delivery Date/Time:

Fresh Floral Headpiece Throw Bouquet Maid of Honor Bouquet

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Bridesmaid’s Bouquets # Flower Girl Floral Headpieces #

Ceremony Reception Other:

Groom’s Boutonniere

Rehearsal Dinner

Ceremony Flowers

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Church/Location Minister Musicians Decorations/Rentals (other than flowers) Other:

Reception Facility Food Beverages Cake Entertainment Decorations/Rentals Other:

Photographer Videographer Gifts Attendants Other:

Transportation Honeymoon Miscellaneous Totals

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