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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

CHILD DEVELOPMENT

BABY

“BABY” BUSINESSES

Don’t Leave Me!

Learning Openings in Chess and Child Development

CHILD

By Ashwin Jayaram, Chess Grandmaster & Stephanie Berk, Ph.D.

Current Trends in Youth Sports

HAPPENING IN July 54

July CALENDAR 45 Jewish, Secular, & School/Synagogue Events JEWISH HOLIDAY EXPLAINED

Shabbat NEWS & BOOKS - JENNIFER BAER LOTSOFF 26

TWEEN

Go Team, Go!

By Dr. Brandonn Harris TEEN Ready-Set-Babysit!

DADDY & ME - JESSE KAVADLO 42

Home Is Where The Art Is FROM THE CONCIERGE’S DESK

By Celeste Brancato, MD

By Eli Harris

PLAYROOM 14 Fun Facts: About Sand Word of the Day: SAND PLUS: Chess • Jokes • Fish Find

Rabbi Micah Buck-Yael Confidence, Not Consequences

Bad Parent Moments

Summer Car Danger

VOICE OF GENERATION J

Great American Chocolate Chip Cookies OOPS! TOP TEN

By Dr. Kathy Mora

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Play for the Poodle

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When our children asked us for a puppy, we said no. When they asked again, the answer was still no. We gave every request the same answer, until the 4 boys asked whether we could get a GIRL puppy, and we wouldn’t have to pay a cent, because they would take care of all of the costs. The boys asked if I would train the puppy, “because I was doing such a good job with them, so I would likely do the same with their sister-puppy.”

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At this point, I was thinking that there would be no way they could earn/win the money. I was also fairly positive that they could not work together as a team well-enough, for as long as they needed to. Hence, I said, “Okay. If you can win/earn at least $X,XXX, you can get the puppy, and I will train it.” Well … In July we are supposed to be bringing home Rook, who will be our newest addition to the family. On the one hand, I feel foolish about being schnuckered into getting a dog. But, when I look at what the children have accomplished because they were self-motivated, I am so proud of them. As it turns out, the boys had it planned: The oldest was going to make sure that my husband never had to pick up dog poop, and he is going to start math tutoring to pay for veterinary costs. The youngest two gave up all electronics until the chess player reaches a rating of 2000, so that he doesn’t feel like he is missing the fun that they are having. The younger two also have told me that I can take the chess player to tournaments without worrying about them. Little did I know that the chess player told them that if he went to the tournaments, he could win the money for the dog, which is why they told me to go. And the chess player indeed won all of the money for the dog from playing chess. The 4 boys worked together as a team for the same shared goal. They did this for 6 months so far, and will likely continue for at least the next 13 years. There is no question that the puppy will be extra work for me, especially over the next 6 months, but I would rather have the stress of puppy-hood, and have seen what my boys could do, than not! As parents, we want our children to get along well. We want them to work together and support each other. We want them to be motivated to excel; recognizing and being proud of each other’s successes. Sometimes it might be that finding something that inspires them to cooperate is more productive than saying “No” to the wacky request. For other families, the inspiration might be a trip, a musical instrument, or something else, but for our family, the inspiration was the puppy. The boys would say to themselves, and remind each other, “Play for the poodle”. Stephanie

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THE VOICE OF GENERATION J OUR GENERATION OUR FUTURE

by Eli Harris Let’s say we know of a young girl. This young girl could be trying to do a multitude of different things with one particular action. She could be trying to please her boyfriend, give into peer pressure, feel confident, or express herself. So this “action” could be that she posts a picture of herself, not wearing all of her clothes. But what is going to happen if someone who was not supposed to see it, sees it?

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not Consequences [continued pg 10]

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[Voice of Generation J, Cont. from pg 9]

The situation is out of her hands now. Anyone, for any reason, can see that picture and it can never be taken back. This situation could have been avoided by realizing that digital actions can have longterm consequences. We live in a society where image

that was “safe” enough to send

up quick because that is not the type

something to, probably has some

of attention I need or want, even if it

buddies that they feel safe sending

were just from the boy.

it to. It’s almost like the ‘best friend rule’ that we all know. If you tell

That is exactly how it is with posting

someone a secret you can almost

things too. Everyone can see it and

guarantee that s/he will tell at least

it’s not as easy to fix like pulling up

one other person and so on. The

your neckline, and going on with

same thing can happen in situations

your day. When people see this they

like this. Plus if it is made public on

will give you attention, which is what

social media sites it can affect your

most people are in search of when

future entirely. When our generation

they do things like this. But I feel

applies for a job, or for college they

that the type of attention I get from

can run digital background checks

having self respect and covering up

on us. Those pictures can be found

is so much more rewarding. YOU

and used negatively.

CAN BE CONFIDENT WITH YOUR CLOTHES ON and it is so much

is everything. A very common image that has come up is one of

All of this can be avoided if our

more inspiring to do so. People

confidence, self-respect, loving

generation thinks before we post

will see who you are instead of just

oneself and one’s body. Very famous

or send. First, keep in mind the

your body. That is greater than any

women like Kim Kardashian, and

audience. If there’s one day when

heart eye or flame emoji we get at

many others have posted explicit

you feel like you’re looking really

the bottom of our instagram posts.

pictures on Instagram with a caption

cute so you take a selfie but then

Lastly, remember that you are loved

about loving themselves. Kim K is

you realize you’re showing a little

no matter what. There is always

idolized by many people. Some

too much, think about all the people

someone in your corner and things

of those people are even young

who will be seeing that if you post

will always get better.

girls who now see this and think

it. Or if you’re thinking of posting it

that it is okay. Explicit pictures of

because you like the way it looks

anyone under the age of eighteen is

and you’re proud of your body

considered child pornography and is

remember that it is so much more

illegal. It is a crime that many people,

important to be confident while

including teens, have already been

covered up. I’ll admit there’ve been

arrested for. So all of those pictures

days where I know I have a boy

teenagers post about body image

in my class that day that I want to

and confidence, or the risque picture

impress, and that I may have thought

that they were asked to send, may

about wearing my shirt neckline

seem fun at the time, but what

a little lower. But, then if I were to

happens if they’re seen? Once

get to school, I would realize that

something is sent or posted it cannot

everyone would see me, not just that

be taken back. That partner/friend

boy. That neckline would get pulled

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Have you noticed that your baby who might have gone to anyone a few months ago, is now clingy, and cries if you leave the room? Has your baby started crawling or walking recently?

Early on, researchers noticed that there seemed to be a link between when babies become more independently mobile, and when they become wary of strangers. Typically this is between 10-18 months. The Evolutionary Psychologists hypothesize that this is not a coincidence, but instead a protective adaptation that has been passed down. The basic idea being that if a baby or toddler can wander away from the parent before s/he can protect her/himself, s/he will get eaten or otherwise killed. A baby/toddler that is fearful of others, and stays close to the parent, has a better chance of survival, and passing on the genes. Freud, and other early psychologists hypothesized that infants become attached to the caregiver to satisfy oral pleasure or comfort. And shortly afterwards, scientists hypothesized that it was for getting food, that infants would attach. However, in 1959, Harry Harlow, and Robert Zimmerman decided to test this with monkeys. In the cage there were two wire-framed “surrogate” mother monkeys. One was covered by soft cloth, and one was uncovered. There were several variations tested. The infant monkeys were fed by either the cloth

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or the wire mother, but had access to one, the other, or both. The infant monkeys clung to the cloth mother, and had greater emotional security and curiosity than those assigned to the wire mother. Those who had free choice, clung to the cloth mother, even when the wire mother was the one who had the food. The results from this study showed clearly that “contact comfort” was important in the development of healthy attachments. In 1978, Mary Ainsworth decided to test human attachment with 12- 24 month old boys and girls. In a 7 step scenario looking at what happens when a parent left the room at various points, Ainsworth was able to suggest 3-4 attachment types. Children who were “securely attached” were more curious, easier to soothe, and ready to learn. Children with secure attachment went away from the parent to explore the toys, looking back periodically at the parent. They were upset when the parent left the room, but were easily soothed by the parent, when the parent returned.

by looking at the role of the short allele of the serotonin transporter polymorphism. Research seems to be suggesting that while the short allele is significantly related to the infant’s wariness and distress, it is not related to attachment security. Hence attachments are formed through contact, communication, consistency and other factors, and not primarily genetics. What does all of this science and history mean to parents with children ages 10-24 months? Be it day care, preschool, kindergarten, or another caregiver, next month starts a transition time for many families. It is perfectly NORMAL for your baby to not want to go to others. It is FINE for him/her to get upset if you leave for a bit. Remind him/her that you will be back. When you do return, embrace and comfort him/her, and then get back to normal activities. It is also fine if your child is happy to see you when you return, but does not get upset when you leave. The goal is for healthy, happy, securely attached children, regardless of their age or genetics.

Currently, scientists are trying to figure out if aspects of attachment, personality, or temperament are genetic,

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PLAYROOM P l ay ro o m to Welcome

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Learning Openings in Chess and Child Development BY ASHWIN JAYARAM, CHESS GRANDMASTER & STEPHANIE BERK, PH.D.

Scenario: Some parents were sitting waiting for their children to finish a chess lesson. They started asking if chess was going to help their children in other aspects of life.

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As it happens, many chess players

As parents, it is important to support the child throughout the education process.

hypothesize that there are direct

With both chess and other aspects of development, here are some useful tips:

benefits from studying chess. There are currently studies under way to figure out exactly what the benefits

It is not a good idea to memorize without understanding: In chess, some people

are, but while we wait for the results,

try to memorize a lot of opening theory and do not pay much attention to the actual

here are some similarities between

reasons for the moves. Such a copy and paste approach to the opening will not help

chess and other aspects of learning

a player. There are several scenarios, where this can backfire. In reading and math,

in childhood.

the same thing happens. Comprehending the reason for WHY 2+2=4 versus why 2X2=4, but 2X3=6, is much more important than just memorizing the math facts.

Chess is wildly popular right now in children especially, ages 5- 12

Try for age- appropriate depth, not breadth: In after school activities, sampling

years, across the United States. The

many activities is a wonderful way to help a child find what s/he likes to do. However,

lessons that can be learned on the

trying 2, and not more than 3, at any one given time is better than the child feeling

chess board are also applicable

overwhelmed and not liking any of them. It is the same thing in chess. Children

to real life situations. For example,

should not try to play many openings at the same time: There is a balance that is

with the development of chess

needed, about 2 (not more than 3) openings that the child is fluent with.

playing and the development of the reading process, or of mathematics,

Too much computer: Computers are now an integral part of the school day.

researchers have found that

Students have computer instead of penmanship. They use the internet, instead of

all 3 start with a fair degree of

the library for doing research. This is the same with chess. A lot of people rely too

memorization, before each are

heavily on the computer enginesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; analysis and take its recommendations, as if it is

processed, understood, and the

the only truth. It is always healthy to use human logic to guide the computer engine

child comprehends more deeply.

in producing great analysis.

When a chess player starts working

Experience: In chess, nothing can teach you more than actual game experience, so

on his or her game, one of the

children should play as many games as they can against friends or over the internet.

first things that s/he works on is

Reading, writing, math, puzzle-solving, and physical activity are the same way. The

the openings. There are many

more experience, the better a child will be, as long as they donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t over do it.

approaches that people take. Some try to memorize their openings,

Analysis: For academic subjects, it is a good idea to check completed work, and

some just rely on setups and other

make sure to point out the parts that are both wrong AND right, until there is good

sidelines, some just follow whatever

comprehension. In chess, it is a good idea to go over each game afterwards, to

their coaches play, some people

understand what was right or wrong, and the ideas to be used after the opening.

play a different opening in every game, and so on. This is similar to

Organization and attention to detail: In chess, organization is extremely important.

children memorizing the spelling

Knowing where all of the pieces are, and can go, is often an indicator of who might

of specific words. It works to a

win. In school, it is similar. When children can focus, pay attention, and be organized,

point, but isnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t enough to become a

they are often more successful in learning the material.

proficient reader.

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Will You Maccabi? The JCC Maccabi Games® offer Jewish teens across the U.S. and around the world a cultural, social and life-changing experience in different cities each summer. The Games return to St. Louis July 31 - August 5! Although the platform is sport, the games serve a larger purpose – they promote community, service, teamwork and Jewish pride. The energy and excitement associated with this momentous event make the Games an unforgettable experience for every participant – teen athletes, coaches, volunteers and host families.

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More than 1,200 athletes (aged 12-16) are expected in St. Louis in just a few weeks! They’ll compete in sporting events, attend social functions and participate in JCC Cares, a service project in which they’ll pack 150,000 meals for the Harvey Kornblum Jewish Food Pantry. All the experiences throughout the week promote Rachmanus (compassion), Tikkun Olam (repair the world) and Amiut Yehudit (Jewish peoplehood).

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Volunteer or Become a Host Family – or Both! Hundreds of volunteers have spent more than a year planning, coordinating and recruiting volunteers. Many on the planning committees participated as teenagers themselves or shared the joy of their children when they participated. This is truly a life-changing event. Now we need YOUR help! We still need volunteers and host families. Volunteer shifts are available at nearly all times of day with time increments and assignments that will work with your schedule and interests. And hey – volunteering for the Games is FUN! Shifts are still available under hospitality, transportation, athletics, meals and more. Host families are an essential component of the Maccabi experience, and more are needed. Every athlete stays with a local family. It is a week-long commitment, but it is a rich and memorable experience for the whole family, no matter the ages of your children.

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Host Family FAQs What if I work full-time? I can’t drive athletes around all day. Not a problem! Drop off your athletes as early as 7:00am and pick them up after evening activities around 9:30pm. We take care of all transportation and meals during the day. I have small children at home. Younger children love spending time with teenagers! They look up to them and think they’re cool! And someday, your children may want to participate in another city – a family there will step up to host them! I don’t have time to be a tour guide to visiting athletes. The only time we ask you to entertain your athletes is Wednesday evening – Host Family Night. This is a great chance to get together with other host families and plan a fun night out or at someone’s home. I don’t have an extra bedroom. Many families bunk their own kids together for the week to open up a room for athletes. Some use air mattresses – we can even provide them for you. St. Louis Jewish Parents

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2 cups chocolate chips

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Preheat the oven to 350 degrees.

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Add the eggs and vanilla, and mix thoroughly.

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CHILD DEVELOPMENT

TWEEN

CURRENT TRENDS IN

YOUTH SPORTS Suggestions and Guidelines for Parents BY DR. BRANDONN HARRIS

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With over 60 million youth

specialization young athletes are

involved in organized sports

at risk for burnout, decreased

within the United States, a

mood, anxiety, less enjoyment,

substantial number of children and

and lower self-esteem. Increased

adolescents have opportunities to

risk for injury is also associated

Youth athletes can actually train

benefit from the physical, social,

with early specialization as these

too much. This, combined with a

psychological, and emotional

athletes may have heavier, and

lack of rest and proper nutrition

benefits shown to exist from

often unbalanced, training loads

can lead to certain negative

participating. Unfortunately, data

beyond what their developing

physical and psychological

also suggests that 1/3 of those

physiology is able to tolerate.

consequences. So it is important

youth drop out of sport annually,

Fortunately, recent evidences

to have qualified medical

and 70% of youth athletes will drop

suggests that premature sport

professionals and coaches with

out of sport by the age of 13. With

specialization before the ages of

appropriate training working

several reasons accounting for

13-15 does not appear to increase

with youth, monitor young

this alarming percentage, it is easy

the likelihood for future athletic

athletes during their practices

for parents and coaches to be

success regarding collegiate

and conditioning. Since every

misinformed about aspects of their

opportunities and scholarships. For

youth athlete is different in terms

child’s involvement. Some may

example, the majority of athletes

of their physical, social, and

wonder how early is “too early”

selected in the first round of the

emotional development, their

for their child to be involved in an

2016 NFL draft played multiple

training should be appropriate

organized sport and how much

sports in high school rather than

for their current development.

should they train. Others might

specializing in only football.

Some signs to be aware of if

be concerned about choosing

Members of the 2015 World Cup

children and adolescents are

qualified individuals to work with

Champion U.S. Women’s Soccer

being over-trained might include

their child.

team were also multi-sport athletes

being physically and mentally

during their youth. So children can

exhausted, sleep problems,

have enjoyable and prosperous

decreased appetite, irritability or

athletic experiences without

mood changes, chronic muscle

investing prematurely in only one

pain/soreness, recurrent injuries,

sport-related activity when there

difficulty concentrating, and a lack

are physical, social, and emotional

of interest or enjoyment in the

benefits from being involved in

sport itself.

Sport Specialization Some children engage in what we refer to as early sport specialization, where athletes prematurely commit to one specific sport when they would benefit more from sampling different sports and activities (between

Practice and Training: Is There Too Much of a Good Thing?

a variety of activities they find enjoyable.

6-12 years of age). With early sport [continued pg 24]

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[Child Development: TWEEN, Cont. from pg 23]

Tips for Parents/Guardians and Coaches Children want their parents involved, but in the “right” way. Parental involvement requires a careful balance; being too involved or not involved enough has been associated with burnout, stress, and anxiety among youth athletes. Consider the following suggestions to help work towards supporting youth athletes so their sport experiences are positive and enjoyable. Ensure coaches and other professionals working with youth have been educated in the sport, and possess proper credentials to work effectively with youth athletes. Information and resources for parents can be accessed among the leading organizations in this area including the National Alliance Brandonn S. Harris, Ph.D., CC-AASP

for Youth Sports (www.nays.org), the American College of Sports Medicine (www.acsm.org), and the Association for Applied Sport Psychology (www.

Dr. Harris, a St Louis native, is currently the Program Director and Associate Professor of Sport and

appliedsportpsych.org)

Exercise Psychology at Georgia

Children cite “fun” as the number one reason for engaging in a sport; it is also

Southern University in the School

the lack of fun which is the number one reason why they discontinue. Youth

of Health and Kinesiology. He is also a Certified Consultant

athletes have previously identified 81 elements associated with “fun” in sport.

with the Association for Applied

Surprisingly, “winning” was number 48 on this list; positive coaching, support,

Sport Psychology (CC-AASP). His

trying hard, and learning and improving were among the most important

expertise and research interests are

factors. Thus, parents and coaches should focus on providing support and

in the areas of youth sport, burnout, and ethics in sport and exercise psychology.

encouragement, as well as opportunities for children to experience a sense of accomplishment relative to effort and personal improvement, not based only on winning or in comparison to others. Remember, keep it fun! Consider allowing youth to make decisions about their sport participation including what sports/activities they choose to be involved in.

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“Just wave good-bye,” he used to tell me as I practiced my layup in our back yard. My dad cultivated my love of basketball from an early age. In fact, my only sports-related injury was spraining my pinky finger during an elementary school basketball game, where my dad was our team’s coach. He used to take me to the Memphis State games, and although I don’t remember much about where we sat or what snacks we ate, I can still hear the roaring of the crowd in my ears. I can remember trying not to even blink as I watched the players run back and forth, making unreal 3 pointers and endless shots from the foul line with ease. I think I may have nearly dislocated my dad’s shoulder with all of my yanking on his arm. Those were great memories.

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Fast forward to present day St. Louis. I’m still trying to come to terms with the fact that I’m raising my kids in a baseball town. My son aches to be a baseball player when he grows up, which I’ll concede is probably a good thing, since the average height of my closest relatives peaks at no more than 5 feet 6and that’s on a good day when we’re taking measurements with our shoes on, and a fluffier-than-normal hair day. It doesn’t appear that St. Louis will be getting a professional basketball team in the near future, but I’m still holding out a tiny flicker of hope for that changing at some point in my lifetime. In the meantime, I’ve resigned myself to watching other city’s teams, and last month the kids and I watched game 7 of the NBA championships. For those of you who missed it, the Cleveland Cavaliers won their first NBA championship, breaking a 52 year

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span from the last time any Cleveland team won a national championship of any kind. It was fitting that the date of that game was on Father’s Day, and also that one of the Cav’s top players and my dad share the name, Irving. Sports have a way of unifying people from all walks of life, from those of us who seem to trip over air to the most accomplished athlete. Even if you aren’t a basketball fan (gasp!), last month’s game 7 embodied themes that any one of us can relate to. Thirty million people watched as the mantra “never give up” played out on a basketball court. A fairy tale that actually came true, the Cavaliers became the first NBA team facing a 3-1 deficit to win a NBA title. Make a mistake and think you can never right your wrong? Game 7 exemplified the concept of teshuvah/correcting a mistakeand even learning from it, right in front of our eyes. Cavalier owner Dan Gilbert explained that “it doesn’t mean the end of the world because there is a mistake or failure. In fact, that’s the only way to get there.” My favorite part of watching game 7? My son grabbed my arm so hard I thought he might yank it right out of its socket. Great memories, indeed. Whether it’s basketball or another sport, I hope you enjoy watching and/or playing this summer. And be sure to check out some PJ Library and PJ Our Way (for 9-11 year olds) books about sports.

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On average, each year, 38 children die in heat related accidents associated with being left in a hot car.

While many parents assume this can’t

parents were advised to transition to rear

happen to them, this does happen to

facing car seats for the youngest infants.

the best of us. KidsAndCars.org keeps a

Despite mirrors and other devices to

database of events each year across the

help driving parents keep an eye on

United States. Included in that database

their rear facing children, it’s surprisingly

are stories about a pediatrician just like

easy to lose sight of a child’s presence

me, a dentist, a social worker, a nurse, a

when they are peacefully sleeping and

construction worker and even a rocket

one is distracted by an unexpected cell

scientist. It happens to stay at home

phone call or work crisis.

Moms and Dads. It happens to those

BY CELESTE BRANCATO, MD

of us with full time jobs. None of us are

Young children and infants are

immune to the constant demands on our

particularly susceptible to heat illness

time and attention. As Janette Fennell,

due to less effective thermoregulation

founder and president of KidsAndCars.

when compared to adults. Their bodies

org, points out, “these cases are failures

heat up 3-5x faster than adults. Heat

of memory, not of love.”

illness is a continuum that is divided

Washington University pediatric critical care medicine physician,

into 3 phases. The mildest form is heat

and medical director of SLCH’s

Two decades ago, this was relatively

stress, the physical discomfort and

transport team.

rare. It’s long been advised to secure

physiologic strain as a result of a hot

your infants in the back seat. With the

environment. Next is heat exhaustion, a

addition of airbags to cars and concern

mild to moderate illness associated with

for injury with forward facing car seats,

dehydration and a core temperature of

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104°F. Finally, heat stroke is a lifethreatening illness characterized by an elevated core body temperature > 105°F with central nervous system dysfunction resulting in delirium, convulsions, coma, and death. If you see a child unattended in a car and are concerned, call 911 and get the child out of the car. Simply wiping the child down with cool water will begin lowering his/her core temperature. As we all enjoy the long days of summer, it’s a good time to remember simple steps we can take to prevent a car related death due to heat.

Look before you lock – get in the habit of checking the backseat every time you get out of the car Avoid distractions while driving, especially cell phone use

As with any safety related issue, knowledge is key. Don’t be afraid to discuss the topic of hot car deaths with anyone who drives your child including partners, grandparents and babysitters.

Put something of your child’s, like a toy or shoe, on the front seat to serve as a visual reminder Leave an item you’ll need at your next destination in the backseat – like your cell phone Have your child care provider call if your child is more than 10 minutes late If someone else is driving your child, always check to make sure he has arrived safely

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CHILD DEVELOPMENT

A common question asked by teens

TEEN

and parents is: When can my teen babysit? Typical answers include:

• Maturity • Of legal age • Has experience • Has taken safety and babysitting classes But while the above answers are correct, and necessary, there are some important issues that should be discussed between the teen who will be babysitting, and the parent of the teen. Practical answers can be found in the side box. But the theoretical answers are often not even considered. Most teens discuss getting a job with their parents before filling out the application. During the discussion, parent-child dyads often talk about WHY the teen wants to get a job, HOW s/he is going to get there, HOW MANY hours s/he is going to work, WHO the employer would be, and WHAT the likely pay would be. During these talks, parents consciously, or not, “coach” the children through the job application process and often preemptively settle problems that might come up. Babysitting, should be treated in the same way. Taking care of someone else’s children has a responsibility

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load that is different than delivering

available for taking babysitting jobs,

This is a great teaching point for

a newspaper. If a teen wants to

teaches the teen how to effectively

parents, and will differ based on

learn good work ethic, and make

create and manage schedules.

where the teen is babysitting, how

money by delivering newspapers,

This helps with the maturity and

much experience s/he has, how old

fixing computers, or bagging

responsibility needed to take care

s/he is, and how many kids there

groceries, that is fine. But for a teen

of other people’s children and their

are.

to babysit, or be a camp counselor,

schedules.

s/he needs to genuinely want to

The question of whether a teen

take care of children. S/he needs to

Learning about employers is also

is ready to start babysitting has a

be creative, and completely involved

an important aspect of working

very individually- focused answer,

with the children enough to put the

that needs to be taken into

with the potential for wonderful

phone down for the entire time the

consideration. With babysitting,

life lessons. However, one of the

children are awake, and attentive

teens often go into the homes

biggest indicators of whether a

enough to “house-noises” when the

of other people. It is especially

teen is ready to babysit is when the

children are asleep.

important for the teen to feel safe

teen’s parent can look in the mirror,

in the home of the children s/he is

step back from the situation, and

A teen should be able to talk about

watching. Teens are still vulnerable,

answer the question: “Would I want

arranging a ride to and from the

especially in uncomfortable

this particular teen taking care of my

babysitting job, or be able to drive

situations. If the teen is not ready for

young children?”

on his/her own. If the parent of the

this aspect, s/he is not quite ready to

teen has to arrange the rides, the

babysit.

teen is probably not quite ready to babysit. When babysitting, the

Then of course there is the question

house phone might ring, someone

of how much the teen will be paid.

might come to the door, or there might be an emergency. The teenage babysitter has to be independent enough to handle the situations. Time management is another huge issue for teens. If a teen gets asked

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RABBI

TO PARENT I do not usually find it difficult to discuss

Certainly my children know about awkward

the news with my children. But something

conversations and strange looks, about

felt different about the massacre that

teasing and jokes and prejudice. We have

happened in Orlando last month. While we

worried about making sure that they do not

were in the midst of celebrating Shavuot,

feel that their parents make them targets for

a killer walked into Pulse, a gay nightclub

bullying. We have worried that they would

and gathering place in Orlando, and killed

not want to have to be advocates. We had

49 people, wounded over 50 more. We

prepared them to feel safe and empowered

found out about it the next day, by word of

in these moments. But somehow we had

mouth, and what we heard was conflicting

never prepared to talk to them about

and confusing: The killer had been a patron

targeted, hateful, massive violence against

of the club. He had declared allegiance to

our community. And suddenly, here it was,

ISIS. He was targeting LGBTQ people. His

in the news, in conversations, breaking

Family & Children’s Service, where

religion had taught him hatred of LGBTQ

our hearts, and we simply did not have the

he works to provide personalized

people, possibly hatred of himself. He had

words to explain it to our children.

RABBI MICAH BUCK-YAEL Rabbi Micah Buck-Yael serves as a community chaplain with the Jewish

support and meaningful connection for individuals throughout the

purchased a gun, even though he was

St. Louis Jewish community. He

known as a potential terrorist. It was Latin

There are two things that we wanted to

educates and advocates throughout

night at the club, most of the victims were

understand ourselves, and to help them

the community on issues of justice,

people of color. 49 people were dead. 49.

understand: Why did this happen? What

access, and welcome for the full spectrum of human diversity. He

can we do? Both of those questions are

studied Islamic and Near Eastern

Over the next few days, the news began to

complex, and have answers that touch on

Studies at Washington University,

sink in. There were loud and angry debates

politics and policy. It seemed like every

about every factor that might have lead to

leader had a way of explaining why this

this violence. My LGBTQ community was in

had happened and how to respond that

a state of shock and grief. Violence against

furthered their own agenda.

and holds an MA and Rabbinic ordination from the Jewish Theological Seminary.

our community is not new. But somehow, I had always hoped and believed that this

The Jewish tradition teaches that the words

was knowledge that my children could

that we speak and tolerate are directly

finally grow up without. Things had looked

connected to the safety of others. The Torah

so hopeful, with slow and real change over

states, “Do not speak slander among your

the past years. Our LGBTQ elders fought

people, do not stand by the blood of your

to give us a world better and safer than the

fellow, I am the ETERNAL.” The way that

one they had known. I had hoped that my

we speak about others is the foundation of

generation, with our political activism and

how we treat them. The way we allow our

work for cultural change, was doing the

communities to speak about others lay the

same.

foundation for what acts we will tolerate against them.

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FARMERS’ MARKET JUBILEE Long summer days when it’s hot and humid may leave you less than enthusiastic about cooking when your family is hungry. Have no fear; a local farmers’ market is near! Farmers’ markets offer a healthy interactive way to get your kids connected to food. Taking your family to a local farmers’ market can be a summer adventure, exploring colors, textures, and tastes of new and different foods. The variety of summer produce available at a farmers’ market is a refreshing way to taste fruits and vegetables at their peak. Who wouldn’t enjoy the ripe juiciness of a fresh peach on a hot day, or a fresh peach cobbler to accompany a big green salad made of vegetables from the farmers’ market? Strolling through a farmers’ market and meeting the growers is a worthwhile experience for families. When kids have the opportunity to meet the farmers’ and local food growers they gain a sense of appreciation for the work, effort, and labor of love that goes into growing food that others will eat. It is such a nice experience to know the people who grow your food, it feels more personal, and it gives value and support to the livelihood of local farmers and growers. You may even be able to visit the farms and get a first hand view of how the farms cultivate the food they sell and serve to your family.

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Shopping at a farmers’ market allows kids to see that not all food comes in a box or pre-packaged, and that healthy food may look misshapen and imperfect, but taste delicious. The produce at a farmers’ market is fresh from the field and brought directly to the market, so the taste has not been diminished during shipping and storage. The produce at a farmers’ market is seasonal, so it is always the most flavorful. Fresh from the farm is a taste sensation. Variety is both the spice of life and a foundation of (for) nutrition. Sometimes the unexpected foods you find at a farmers’ market encourage trying new foods and tastes. Maybe red carrots and purple cauliflower shake things up in your kitchen! It’s also much easier to purchase smaller portions from a farmers’ market when experimenting with new foods, you do not have to purchase large quantities or bulk items. The prices at farmers’ markets make food purchasing more affordable- always a bonus! Farmers’ markets often share recipes and offer cooking demonstrations to help make the shopping experience more enjoyable. The farmers’ and growers can be very passionate about how to prepare the foods they sell; and their knowledge about cooking practices can help you prepare fresh farm grown foods to their

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full tastiness! The benefit to teaching kids the hands on experience of choosing and cooking/preparing food gives them a sense of confidence, encourages healthy attitudes about food and eating, and is a wonderful opportunity to convey the values of sharing a meal together with family and friends. Summer picnics are the perfect occasion to celebrate the joys of cooking and delish tastes from a local farmers’ market. St. Louis City and County Local Area Farmers’ Markets and CSAs (There are numerous other FM’s in surrounding counties and IL, so make sure to look for others too!! A family “scavenger hunt” is also fun!) Regional CSAs (community supported agriculture), is next month’s topic! Here is a list of 10 to whet your appetite. Look for more details and explanation coming soon! 1. Earthdance Farms 2. Fair Share CCSA 3. The Farm at Kraut Run 4. La Vista CSA Farm (Illinois) 5. Sandy Valley CSA 6. Seeds of Hope Farm 7. Soil Shares CSA 8. Three Rivers Community Farm 9. Vesterbrook Farm 10. The Libertine CSA

Local Markets Soulard Farmers’ Market

Ferguson Farmers’ Market

730 Carroll Street (at 7th St)

Ferguson Citywalk, 20 South Florissant Road (downtown Ferguson)

314-622-4180 8 am-5 pm Wed-Thur 7 a.m.-5 p.m. Fri 7 a.m.-5:30 p.m. Sat, year-round soulardmarket.com

314-324-4298 8 am-noon Saturdays, May 5-Oct. 27 fergusonfarmersmarket.com

Tower Grove Farmers’ Market

Schlafly Farmers’ Market (Maplewood)

Tower Grove Park, west of the pool pavilion

7260 Southwest Avenue (Schlafly Bottleworks parking lot)

314-772-3899 8 am-12 pm Saturdays May 5-Nov. 3 (until 2 pm May 5 and Oct. 20) tgmarket.org

314-241-2337 4-7 pm Wednesdays, through Oct. 31 schlaflyfarmersmarket.com

Clayton Farmers’ Market

2500 Woodson Road

8282 Forsyth Boulevard (west parking lot of Straub’s) 314-913-6632 8:30 am-12:30 pm Saturdays, May 5-Nov. 3 claytonfarmersmarket.com

Midtown Farmers’ Market (University City) 6655 Delmar Blvd in The Loop 314-913-6632 Sat 8:30 am to 12:30pm. May to November

Ellisville Farmers’ Market Bluebird Park, 225 Kiefer Creek Rd 314-435-9445 4-7 pm Thursdays, May 24-October (ending date determined by harvest / weather) ellisvillefarmersmarket.org

Overland Farmers’ Market 314-769-6360 8 am-12:30 pm Saturdays, May 19-Oct. 20 (Market will be held at Home Depot, Interstate 170 & Page Blvd, on May 19.) overlandfarmersmarket.com

Cherokee Street International Farmers Market Cherokee Street and Texas Ave. 314-265-5140 4-7 pm Fridays, June 15-Nov. 2 cherokeemarket.org

Webster Groves Farmers’ Market South Old Orchard Avenue near Big Bend Boulevard 314-963-5696 ext. 888 3-7 pm Thursdays, May 3-Oct. 25 webstergrovesfarmersmarket.com

Farmers’ Market of Wildwood 221 Plaza Drive, Wildwood Town Center, Manchester and Taylor roads 636-458-0136 8:30 am-12:30 pm Saturdays May 19-Sept. 29 wildwoodfarmersmarket.com

North City Farmers Market Crown Square, North 14th Street and St. Louis Avenue 314-241-5031 9 am-noon Saturdays, June 2-Oct. 13 northcityfarmersmarket. blogspot.com

Washington University Farmers Market Medical campus, in the Hope Plaza about two blocks south of Euclid and Forest Park avenues 10 am-2 pm Thursdays, through mid-October (some vendors arrive earlier or stay later) Market moves indoors during the off-season.

Kirkwood Farmers’ Market 150 East Argonne Drive 314-822-0084 9 am-6 pm Monday-Friday 8 am-5 pm Sats, through Sept. 22. Sunday hours vary by vendor. Harvest Market 9 am-1 pm Sats OCT. Pumpkin Patch 9 am-8 pm daily OCT. Christmas Market 9 am-9 pm daily, November-December. kirkwoodjunction.com

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Oops, I spent 45 minutes getting my baby to sleep, only for him to wake up when I dropped my iPhone on his head. Oops, perhaps I should not have yelled at my uncle when he started teaching my 13 year old how to drive, without even asking us. Oops, I didn’t realize that my youngest had never been to a playdate before she was 8 years old. She was so busy playing with her sisters and brothers, I had never thought about friends outside the family. Oops, perhaps I should not have left my martini glass within reach of my 7 year old. He got the olives, and was a bit flushed the rest of the evening. Oops, I thought my son would like the dinosaur show, but when the dinosaur moved its head and roared, my 4 year old jumped, screamed, and started crying. Oops, perhaps I should have brought water to the parade my children and I went to today. We ended up in the back of an ambulance with an almost passed out kid! Oops, I just learned the hard way that no matter how rude it might seem to my visiting out of town guests, I should NOT change naptime or bedtime! My normally well-behaved children were overstimulated and obnoxious. Oops, selling our house right before the High Holidays was not a good idea! Our children and grandchildren were disappointed about the break in tradition. Oops, perhaps I should have thought through what would happen if I told my children that they should stop fussing about their bug bites, and they should try to bite the bugs back! Oops, leaving my child’s clay project in the hot car to dry was not a good idea. It dried alright, and crumbled into powder and chunks!

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First a Story I am not a rabbi, nor did I grow up Shomer Shabbos, with the colloquial meaning of “strictly observant”. I am admittedly, relatively unqualified to write this article. However, in 1998 when my fiancée and I met with our rabbi in NY, he said to us, “After you get married, life is going to get busy. Outside stressors of work, extended family, and other things are going to eat at

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you constantly. Wouldn’t it be nice if you could set aside one evening when you make a nice candlelit dinner with fresh bread and wine? Just the two of you with no outside distractions

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like telephone or TV? A time to rejuvenate, relax, and take a breath together?” My husband and I looked at each other, nodded our heads, and thought it was the best idea ever! We were young. We did not expect what he said next, “Well, you are in luck! We happen to have an important holiday for that- EVERY week. It is called Shabbat! In fact even when you

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have children, you should keep Friday evening as a special time. You can say the blessings

nightfall

together.”

as you light the candles, wash your hands, drink wine, eat fresh challah and enjoy a nice meal

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Every year, my wife goes down

in a box, a tiny tundra whose little

use to fill the grocery bags, which

to the basement to clean it out. It

stuffed penguin and polar bear have

we use to fill the cardboard boxes,

always ends in tears.

since fled to the temperate climes

which we use to fill the basement

of her room but whose Styrofoam

shelves, which we then ignore

Like many middle class people,

snow is still shedding undeterred

for most of the year. Then, at the

we use our basement mainly for

by global warming. A collection

beginning of every summer, my wife

storage of semi- and future-useful

of unmaintained Matchbox cars,

decides she’s finally had enough

things—lawn chairs in the winter,

paleontologically incorrect plastic

and spills everything throughout the

sleds in the summer, the exercise

dinosaurs, and a dozen expensive

basement floor and painstakingly

clothes we’d wear if we lost the

Lego sets demolished down into

sifts through it all over again, an

weight, and the weights we’d curl if

a single, worthless bin of broken

archaeologist disentombing the

we wore the clothes. It’s the walking

dreams.

physical layers of childhood. After a few hours, or a few days, the

dead of possessions—not demons or zombies, but the detritus that

The flag paintings still patriotically

realization that she’s been packing

exists on the precarious threshold

peel reds, whites, and blues; the

and unpacking the same bags for

between our waking lives and the

cardboard skies still slough cotton

years will bring her to tears, as she

wraithlike past.

clouds; the glitter glue portraits still

once again attempts to accept what

hemorrhage sparkles. It has been a

she can truly, finally, permanently

OK, OK, in plain terms: our basement

decade. How is there still any glitter

part with. It’s what the five stages of

is filled with stuff that has outlived its

left? We must get rid of them. But

grief would look like as Elmer’s glue,

value but isn’t quite garbage. Don’t

how can we get rid of them? Our

pom poms, and macaroni.

want something? But also don’t

children made them. They are all

want the responsibility of throwing it

we can still hold from those years,

Eventually, some of it goes out.

away? Put it in the basement! It’s the

nostalgia that stains your fingers and

Most of it goes back, a little more

family’s shadow or secret museum,

smells of magic markers and first

ruffled if not much worse for wear. I

the underworld of the rest of the

grade.

vacuum the residue of crayon and our children’s past and dry my wife’s

house and the rest of our lives.

tears.

And most of it consists of our three

As proud and possibly fanatical

children’s old toys and childhood

parents, throughout the year we

artwork. We can’t part with it, but at

organize, arrange, and do our best

She doesn’t cry for

the same time we have no idea what

to dispose of what we can. Template

what she keeps.

to do with it.

art? Recycle bin. No work sheets, no connect the dots, no perfunctorily

She cries for what

Behold! Here lies our oldest son’s

colored pages. Only originals, only

she can’t.

year in origami—the intertwined,

the best. No repeats, no copies, no

multi-hued boxes; the delicately

pre-fab or factory pictures—our kids

textured birds; the papery dragons

weren’t little Warhols.

beginning to fray at their folded edges. And here: our younger son’s

Still, like working in the post office,

desert diorama, its orange Sculpey

every school day the sacks return,

lizard a little limper and grayer ever

filled with fresh deliveries. So we

year. Here is our daughter’s biome

dutifully make the piles, which we Photo by Spoonful of Sugar Photography.

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Storytelling at the Museum

7/1 10:30am-11:15am We engage our youngest visitors & their families in historic objects & museum settings by using traditional & contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. MISSOURI HISTORY MUSEUM, LINDELL BLVD FREE

Hotdog Dayz of Summer 7/1 11am-12:30pm Kirkwood's Police Dept & Parks & Recreation Dept bring this event to Kirkwood Parks. Enjoy a lunch of hotdogs, snacks & cold drinks served by the Police Dept. Parks & Rec staff will lead games & activities. MONFORT PARK, 2036 BRIARGATE LANE, KIRKWOOD MO FREE

Keeper Talks

7/2 9am-10am Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am & join our keepers as they feed & water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, & what they all eat. WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE

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7/1 6pm Join us for a full Friday evening Shabbat service for all generations. Those celebrating a birthday this month are invited on the bema for a special birthday blessing & treat! Following the blessing, children ages 7 & under & an accompanying adult leave the Sanctuary for a special program in the preschool. CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD

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7/5 9:30am-5:30pm

"America's biggest birthday party" features a parade, concerts, water ski demonstrations, nightly fireworks & more. Visit www.fairsaintlouis.org for complete details on musical guests & more

If your kids are already dreaming of wiggling their toes in the sand, plan a getaway to nearby Sandcastle Beach, which returns to The Magic House again this year. Little pirates can dig for seashells & build their own sandcastles alongside a professional sand sculpture.

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Stingrays at Carribean Cove

Ferguson 4th of July Festival

7/3 9am-5pm

7/4 10am-10pm

Watch, touch & occasionally feed the unique & fascinating stingrays, as they glide through a warm saltwater pool, also featuring sharks! Admission is free the first hour the Zoo is open. STL ZOO, ONE

Parade, Music, Petting zoo, pony rides, Inflatables, Crafts, shows, food to buy. Please no dogs or pets, no bicycles or skateboards.

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Route 66: Main Street through St Louis 7/4 10am-5pm This exhibit features pieces from the Holocaust Museum & Learning Center's archives, & will run June 25, 2016 through February 5, 2017. The Missouri History Museum has become one of the largest museum institutions in our community to look for natural partnerships with Holocaust Museum & Learning Center. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, FOREST PARK

Open Play at the J 7/4 10:30am-11:30am

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FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 & younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members & non-members. JCC MARILYN FOX BUILDING, 16801 BAXTER RD, CHESTERFIELD, MO 63005 FREE

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THE MAGIC HOUSE, KIRKWOOD FREE WITH GENERAL ADMISSION.

Herbs & Heirlooms Tuesdays 7/5 10am-12pm Explore the culinary, sensory & beauty benefits from the herb featured each week. The first 100 participants are invited to pot an herb to take home & enjoy. HERB GARDEN LOCATED IN THE VICTORIAN DISTRICT OF THE MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN. MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN ADMISSION OF $8 FOR ADULTS & FREE FOR CHILDREN AGES 12 & UNDER.

Knit Wits at Covenant Place 7/5 1pm-2pm Knitters wanted! Want to enhance your skills or help others to learn? Would you like to work on group projects while socializing with others? Join the Knit Wits for a fun, interactive knitting class. MILFORD & LEE BOHM SOCIAL HALL, LOWER LEVEL OF COVENANT HOUSE II, 8 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DRIVE FREE

Purina Summer Practice Session 7/5 1pm-9pm Come out to the Purina Event Center with your dog to practice agility, obedience & conformation. Summer practice sessions cost $10, with 100% of the fees going to local welfare groups. 300 CHECKERBOARD DRIVE, GRAY SUMMIT MO 63039

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7/7 9am-11am

7/8-7/9 7am-5pm

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Children ages 6 to 12 are invited to interact with & learn about an aquatic food chain & how we can affect it. AUGUST A. BUSCH

Grab some groceries or grab a bite at St. Louis's year-round farmers' market. The market has hot food, bakeries, produce, flowers & even a pet shop.

POWDER VALLEY CONSERVATION NATURE CENTER, 11715 CRAGWOLD RD. FREE, BUT MAKE RESERVATION BY CALLING 314-301-1500

Toddlers Stay ‘n Play with Ms. Mindi & Ms. Julie 7/6 9:30am-11am Looking for a morning of water play, music & fun with your little one? Come drop in at Camp Shook. Moms, Dads, Grandparents, Caregivers are all welcome. Walkers to 18 months of age. CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. $20

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Wehrenberg 2016 Family Summer Series 7/6 10am Hotel Transylvania 2 CHESTERFIELD GALAXY 14 CINE $1

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Webster Groves Farmers Market 7/7 3pm-6:30pm Head to Gazebo Park. Fill your market bag with freshly grown & prepared produce & products from Missouri & Illinois & enjoy live music, chef demonstrations, children’s activities. This market embraces young shoppers by offering a special club that gives kids ages 5-12 the chance to purchase their own fresh foods. BIG BEND BOULEVARD & SOUTH OLD ORCHARD

Ladies' Knight 7/7 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn & improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar & WGM Katerina Nemcova CHESS CLUB & SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108

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Doris I. Schnuck Children's Garden 7/8 9am-4pm Join us for another season of activities for the whole family. Explore the great outdoors & have a Missouri adventure as you experience all the Children’s Garden has to offer including a waterfall, steamboat, cave, rope bridges, tree house & more! MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN VARIES BASED ON DAY & MEMBERSHIP STATUS.

Des Peres Summer Concert Series 7/8 7pm-9:30pm

Family & Friends CPR 7/9 9am-11:30am Designed for parents, grandparents & teenagers who babysit (ages 10-15 if accompanied by an adult). Includes instruction & hands-on practice for infant, child & adult CPR, first aid for choking & the use of AEDs, when appropriate. This course is video-guided by a registered nurse who uses American Heart Association material, including a 65-page student manual. (Course does not include certification upon completion.) PROGRESS WEST HOSPITAL, 2 PROGRESS POINT PARKWAY, O'FALLON, MO 63368. $25 PER PERSON

Enjoy Whiskey Dixon! Bring your blankets, lawn chairs & coolers with your favorite snacks & beverages (alcohol is allowed). Glass bottles not permitted for safety. Concessions will be available for purchase.

All programs require pre-registration. Call 314.454.KIDS (5437), then press 3, for more information or to register.

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7/9 9am-10:30am

Introduction to Archery for Kids Learn the basics of archery from equipment to shooting skills. Join the South County Archers at Jefferson Barracks Park & give archery a try. All bows, arrows, & targets provided. 345 NORTH ROAD, STL 63125 $6, BUT REGISTRATION AT (314) 615-4386 IS REQUIRED.

Amazing Animal Encounters 7/9

11:30am - & 2 pm

Environmental education programs are presented by naturalists, using snakes, parrots, birds & mammals to teach you about the amazing creatures that share our planet, & what we can do to help them survive. WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE

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Toddler Tuesdays

7/10 9am-10:30pm

7/11 9am-4pm

Please join us for our monthly Early Childhood events! All our programs are geared toward preschool-aged children. This month’s theme is “Oh, a camping we will go!” Come join us for a craft, snacks & music.

Join us for another season of activities for the whole family. Explore the great outdoors & have a Missouri adventure as you experience all the Children’s Garden has to offer including a waterfall, steamboat, cave, rope bridges, tree house & more!

Children ages birth to 3 yrs & their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments & socializing followed by activities focusing on creative & cognitive development.

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CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD

MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN VARIES BASED ON DAY & MEMBERSHIP STATUS.

7/11 9:30am-2pm

7/12 10am-12pm

Kids who visit now get the chance to take a ride in a handcar & miniature train during their visit.

Explore the culinary, sensory & beauty benefits from the herb featured each week. The first 100 participants are invited to pot an herb to take home & enjoy.

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Open Play at the J

7/10 1pm-4pm

FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 & younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members & non-members.

Sunday Chess Classes 7/10

starting from 1 pm

Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids & adults WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NON-MEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.

WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.

Herbs & Heirlooms Tuesdays

MUSEUM OF TRANSPORTATION, 3015 BARRETT STATION RD, 63122 VARIES

SAINT LOUIS ART MUSEUM FREE

7/12 9am

Handcar Village

457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION

Hands-on art activities & a lively 30-minute family tour through the Galleries. Each month’s family activities focus on different theme. Tour: 2:30 p.m.

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7/11 10:30am-11:30am

JCC MARILYN FOX BUILDING, 16801 BAXTER RD, CHESTERFIELD, MO 63005 FREE

Marianne Chervitz, 314-442-3454 or mchervitz@jccstl.org (Fox)

HERB GARDEN LOCATED IN THE VICTORIAN DISTRICT OF THE MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN. MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN ADMISSION OF $8 FOR ADULTS & FREE FOR CHILDREN AGES 12 & UNDER.

Paws for Reading 7/12 10am-12pm The Support Dogs, Inc. "Paws for Reading" program places dogs in settings in the St. Louis Metropolitan area. The dogs act as an incentive for the children to read more & to read better. Dogs are viewed as a non-threatening entity to promote reading, writing & increase interaction & social skills in the child. MUSEUM OF THE DOG, 1721 S. MASON RD, 63131 VARIES

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Stingrays at Carribean Cove

The Dance of the Honeybee

Olden Days of Summer

7/13 9am-5pm

7/14 10am-11:30am

Watch, touch & occasionally feed the unique & fascinating stingrays, as they glide through a warm saltwater pool, also featuring sharks! Admission is free the first hour the Zoo is open. STL ZOO, ONE

Ages 6–9, did you know that honeybees & other pollinators have special dances? Do you know why? Learn about honeybees, their special dance, & why they are all so important.

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ROCKWOODS RESERVATION, WILDWOOD MO 63038 FREE

Faust Park is offering kids a day of fun with a historical twist at Olden Days of Summer! Special activities take place in & around the historic homes & barns & include blacksmith demonstrations, rope making, candle-dipping, face painting, carousel rides, hayrides & more.

Toddlers Stay ‘n Play with Ms. Mindi & Ms. Julie 7/13 9:30am-11am Looking for a morning of water play, music & fun with your little one? Come drop in at Camp Shook. Moms, Dads, Grandparents, Caregivers are all welcome. Walkers to 18 months of age. CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. 20 RSVP required the Tuesday

before each event to www.ti-stl.org/ SummerBBQs or 314-432-8050.

Baby ‘N Me 7/13 10am-11:30am Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, & gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat. SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 OPEN TO MEMBERS & NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048

Whitaker Music Festival

Sitter Skills 7/14 12pm-3pm This program was developed for beginning baby-sitters, girls & boys, age 11 & older to help make their baby-sitting experience a success. The class will cover: basic information needed before you start baby-sitting, safety information, first-aid & child development. Each baby-sitter receives a participation certificate, baby-sitting handbook & bag. A light snack is provided.

7/15 9am-12pm

15185 OLIVE BLVD $10 PER CHILD AGES 2 - 12 IN ADVANCE, $15 PER CHILD DAY OF EVENT. ADULTS ARE FREE WITH A PAID CHILD’S ADMISSION.

Storytelling at the Museum 7/15 10:30am-11:15am We engage our youngest visitors & their families in historic objects & museum settings by using traditional & contemporary storybooks. Children will also enjoy a hands-on craft or other activity. MISSOURI HISTORY

ST. LUKE'S HOSPITAL, 232 S. WOODS MILL RD., 3RD FLOOR ACROSS FROM THE MEDICAL LIBRARY $20. TO REGISTER CALL 314542-4848.

MUSEUM, LINDELL BLVD FREE

Ladies' Knight

Ages 13- 17, Enjoy an evening of creative expression & fun activities with other teens who love to make art! Assemble, construct & experiment with unusual materials while you collaborate with other teens. All materials, food & beverages are provided.

7/14 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn & improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar & WGM Katerina Nemcova CHESS CLUB & SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108

7/13 5pm-9pm Enjoy Ptah Williams, one of St. Louis' finest jazz pianists. He makes the piano breathe & dance. Bring your own picnic, baskets or coolers. Picnic fare, beer, wine, soda & snocones will be available for purchase on-site. MISSOURI BOTANICAL

Teen Pizza & Art Night 7/15 7pm-9:30pm

LAUMEIER SCULPTURE PARK $20. CALL 314.615.5278

MTC Hike - Herons & Egrets

7/16 7:30am-10:30am Ages 12 & up, join us for a 2 & ½ mile hike to view the herons & egrets feeding in the MTC marsh. The young have just left the nests so we may see both young & adults feeding together. See some of the showiest members of all wading birds. Learn to identify these birds from a distance through spotting scopes provided by MDC. MARAIS TEMPS CLAIR CONSERVATION AREA, REES & HWY 94, PORTAGE DES SIOUX MO 63373 FREE. BUT PLEASE CALL 636441-4554

Babysitting Basics 7/16 9am-12pm Get your babysitting career started. For ages 12-15 years old. Learn the business of babysitting, how to care for babies & children, keeping them entertained, safety & emergency information, & first aid. Babysitting Booklet & light snack provided. WEBSTER GROVES RECREATION CENTER COURSE TAUGHT BY EDUCATORS FROM SAFETY BASICS LLC. FEE IS $35 PER CHILD. CALL WEBSTER REC TO REGISTER AT 314-963-5600.

Suson Farm & Park 7/16 10:30am-5pm Suson Park animal farm display. Most breeds of farm animals are represented for urban dwellers to see & enjoy, from the draft horses that helped plow our soil to examples of the modern cattle breeds. 6073 WELLS ROAD, 63128 FREE

GARDEN FREE

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At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun & enthusiasm.

Join us for another season of activities for the whole family. Explore the great outdoors & have a Missouri adventure as you experience all the Childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Garden has to offer including a waterfall, steamboat, cave, rope bridges, tree house & more!

Children ages birth to 3 yrs & their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments & socializing followed by activities focusing on creative & cognitive development.

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Wabash Frisco & Pacific Railroad 7/17 11am-5pm Scheduled departures from the station, with trains departing about every 20 minutes. The final train leaves at 4:15 p.m. The ride is a two mile round trip lasting about 30 minutes & travels along the scenic Meramec River. 199 GRAND AVE, GLENCOE, MO, 63038 $4 DONATION/RIDER. CHILDREN 3 & UNDER RIDE FREE.

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Aish Hebrew School & Adult Sunday School

457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION

Sunday Chess Classes 7/17

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Schools & Synagogues

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MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN VARIES BASED ON DAY & MEMBERSHIP STATUS.

7/19 9am

WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.

Handcar Village

Herbs & Heirlooms Tuesdays

7/18 9:30am-2pm

7/19 10am-12pm

Kids who visit now get the chance to take a ride in a handcar & miniature train during their visit.

Explore the culinary, sensory & beauty benefits from the herb featured each week. The first 100 participants are invited to pot an herb to take home & enjoy.

MUSEUM OF TRANSPORTATION, 3015 BARRETT STATION RD, 63122 VARIES

Open Play at the J 7/18 10:30am-11:30am Come where creativity & imagination meet! Meet new families in a relaxed, non-structured environment where your kids can roam free & play with all kinds of new toys. No reservations necessary. Open to members & non-members of the J. JCC MARILYN FOX BUILDING, 16801 BAXTER RD, CHESTERFIELD, MO 63005 FREE

Marianne Chervitz, 314-442-3454 or mchervitz@jccstl.org (Fox)

HERB GARDEN LOCATED IN THE VICTORIAN DISTRICT OF THE MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN. MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN ADMISSION OF $8 FOR ADULTS & FREE FOR CHILDREN AGES 12 & UNDER.

Paws for Reading 7/19 10am-12pm The Support Dogs, Inc. "Paws for Reading" program places dogs in settings in the St. Louis Metropolitan area. The dogs act as an incentive for the children to read more & to read better. Dogs are viewed as a non-threatening entity to promote reading, writing & increase interaction & social skills in the child. MUSEUM OF THE DOG, 1721 S. MASON RD, 63131 VARIES

Knit Wits at Covenant Place 7/19 1pm-2pm

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Wehrenberg 2016 Family Summer Series

Suson Farm & Park

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7/21 10am

Watch, touch & occasionally feed the unique & fascinating stingrays, as they glide through a warm saltwater pool, also featuring sharks! Admission is free the first hour the Zoo is open. STL ZOO, ONE

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Suson Park animal farm display. Most breeds of farm animals are represented for urban dwellers to see & enjoy, from the draft horses that helped plow our soil to examples of the modern cattle breeds.

GOVERNMENT DRIVE, 63110

Toddlers Stay ‘n Play with Ms. Mindi & Ms. Julie 7/20 9:30am-11am Looking for a morning of water play, music & fun with your little one? Come drop in at Camp Shook. Moms, Dads, Grandparents, Caregivers are all welcome. Walkers to 18 months of age. CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. 20 RSVP required the Tuesday

before each event to www.ti-stl.org/ SummerBBQs or 314-432-8050.

Tower Grove Park’s Summer Children’s Concert Series 7/20 9:30am "The Little Pine Tree". Ages 2-10 years; however, it engages children of all ages & provides the opportunity to see & hear live, professional music. PIPER PALM HOUSE FREE

CHESTERFIELD GALAXY 14 CINE $1

Webster Groves Farmers Market 7/21 3pm-6:30pm Head to Gazebo Park. Fill your market bag with freshly grown & prepared produce & products from Missouri & Illinois & enjoy live music, chef demonstrations, children’s activities. This market embraces young shoppers by offering a special club that gives kids ages 5-12 the chance to purchase their own fresh foods. BIG BEND BOULEVARD & SOUTH OLD ORCHARD

Ladies' Knight 7/21 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn & improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar & WGM Katerina Nemcova CHESS CLUB & SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108

7/22 10:30am-5pm

6073 WELLS ROAD, 63128 FREE

Jungle Boogie Friday Night Concert Series at the Zoo

Children's Garden Opening Weekend

7/23 9am-3pm The Doris I. Schnuck Children’s Garden at the Missouri Botanical Garden is reopening just in time for spring! Enjoy family activities throughout opening weekend: Pot-A-Plant, Build Playgrounds for Plants, Nature Journals, Toad Abode, & more. MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN VARIES

Keeper Talks

7/22 5pm-8pm

7/23 9am-10am

Tommy Halloran's Guerilla Swing (Jazz/Swing). Animal-related kids activities will focus on conservation of endangered species through the Zoo’s WildCare Institute.

Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am & join our keepers as they feed & water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, & what they all eat.

SAINT LOUIS ZOO FREE

WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE

Art Hill Film Series

Free Train Rides

7/22 6pm

7/23 11am-4pm

Watch E-T, the Extra-Terrestial (115 minutes long), make something great in the Create Lab, bring a picnic, or get a meal from a host of food trucks. Don’t forget your blanket! This summer, our Art Hill Film Series is a celebration of what makes us Americans...our spirit!

Come to Kircher Park for free train rides on the Flat Creek & Eureka Railroad, a miniature live steam operating railroad. The railroad is owned & operated by the volunteers of the Saint Louis Live Steamers on land loaned by the Eureka Parks Department. WILLIAMS ROAD NEAR I-44, EUREKA MO 63025 FREE

Whitaker Music Festival 7/20 5pm-9pm Enjoy The Erin Bode Group. Music forged from the Americana of its members' midwestern roots, infused with jazz grooves & made magic by Bode's bell-like voice. Bring your own picnic, baskets or coolers. Picnic fare, beer, wine, soda & snocones will be available for purchase on-site. MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN FREE

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NCJW Back to School Store

Children's Garden Opening Weekend

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Grant's Farm

7/24 9am-5pm

7/25 9am-3pm

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7/27 9am-3:30pm

We distribute clothing, school supplies, backpacks, coats, shoes & socks to 1200 elementary age children in need. Vision screenings are also provided.

The Doris I. Schnuck Children’s Garden at the Missouri Botanical Garden is reopening just in time for spring! Enjoy family activities throughout opening weekend: PotA-Plant, Build Playgrounds for Plants, Nature Journals, Toad Abode, & more. MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN

Children ages birth to 3 yrs & their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments & socializing followed by activities focusing on creative & cognitive development.

Grant’s Farm is the 281-acre ancestral home of the Busch family, named for Ulysses S. Grant who originally worked a portion of the land. See the animals, ride the train, enjoy the day.

WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 PER ADULT/CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT PER CHILD REQUIRED.

10501 GRAVOIS ROAD FREE ADMISSION

Amazing Armadillos

7/27 9:30am-11am

CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR.

http://www.ncjwbtss.org

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Aish Hebrew School & Adult Sunday School

Family & Friends CPR

7/24 10am-12pm

7/25 9am-11:30am

At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun & enthusiasm.

Designed for parents, grandparents & teenagers who babysit (ages 10-15 if accompanied by an adult). Includes instruction & hands-on practice for infant, child & adult CPR, first aid for choking & the use of AEDs, when appropriate. This course is video-guided by a registered nurse who uses American Heart Association material, including a 65-page student manual. (Course does not include certification upon completion.) MISSOURI BAPTIST

457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION

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Family Sundays: Mummies & More 7/24 1pm-4pm Hands-on art activities & a lively 30-minute family tour through the Galleries. Each month’s family activities focus on different theme. Tour: 2:30 p.m.

require pre-registration. Call 314.454. KIDS (5437), then press 3, for more information or to register.

SAINT LOUIS ART MUSEUM FREE

Route 66: Main Street through St Louis

Sunday Chess Classes 7/24

MEDICAL CENTER, 3015 NORTH BALLAS ROAD, DES PERES, MO 63131 $25 PER PERSON All programs

starting from 1 pm

7/25 10am-5pm This exhibit features pieces from the Holocaust Museum & Learning Center's archives, & will run June 25, 2016 through February 5, 2017. The Missouri History Museum has become one of the largest museum institutions in our community to look for natural partnerships with Holocaust Museum & Learning Center. MO HISTORY MUSEUM, FOREST PARK

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Open Play at the J 7/25 10:30am-11:30am FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 & younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members & non-members. JCC MARILYN FOX BUILDING, 16801 BAXTER RD, CHESTERFIELD, MO 63005 FREE Marianne Chervitz,

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7/26 9:30am-11am Armadillos are mammals. Strange mammals! Our nine-banded armadillos have armored bodies but can roll up nearly into a ball. When startled, they can jump 4 feet straight up in the air. They have exactly four identical babies at a time. In many ways they are very different from most other mammals. Come prepared to be amazed by armadillos! POWDER VALLEY CONSERVATION NATURE CENTER FREE, BUT MAKE RESERVATIONS: 314-301-1500.

Firefly Night 7/26 7:30pm-9pm Families with children ages 4 & up, come hang out with the fireflies & experience a natural light show! We’ll learn about these fascinating creatures & play a fun game or two. Please bring a flashlight & water bottle, & wear closed-toe shoes. The entire program will take place outside. ROCKWOODS RESERVATION FREE

Toddlers Stay ‘n Play with Ms. Mindi & Ms. Julie Looking for a morning of water play, music & fun with your little one? Come drop in at Camp Shook. Moms, Dads, Grandparents, Caregivers are all welcome. Walkers to 18 months of age. CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. 20 RSVP required the Tuesday

before each event to www.ti-stl.org/ SummerBBQs or 314-432-8050.

Baby ‘N Me 7/27 10am-11:30am Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, & gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat. SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE ROAD, RM 8 OPEN TO MEMBERS & NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048

Brodsky Summer Reading Program 7/27 4pm-5:30pm Summer reading programs with Brodsky Library & PJ Library! For kids entering PreK- 5th grade. STEAM activities focused on Israeli Inventions. BRODSKY LIBRARY 12 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR. 63146 FREE

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Suson Farm & Park

Sandcastle Beach

7/28 9:30am-2pm

7/29 10:30am-5pm

7/30 9:30am-5:30pm

Kids who visit now get the chance to take a ride in a handcar & miniature train during their visit.

Suson Park animal farm display. Most breeds of farm animals are represented for urban dwellers to see & enjoy, from the draft horses that helped plow our soil to examples of the modern cattle breeds.

MUSEUM OF TRANSPORTATION, 3015 BARRETT STATION RD, 63122 VARIES

Webster Groves Farmers Market 7/28 3pm-6:30pm Head to Gazebo Park. Fill your market bag with freshly grown & prepared produce & products from Missouri & Illinois & enjoy live music, chef demonstrations, children’s activities. This market embraces young shoppers by offering a special club that gives kids ages 5-12 the chance to purchase their own fresh foods. BIG BEND BOULEVARD & SOUTH OLD ORCHARD

Ladies' Knight 7/28 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn & improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar & WGM Katerina Nemcova CHESS CLUB & SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108

6073 WELLS ROAD, 63128 FREE

Jungle Boogie Friday Night Concert Series at the Zoo 7/29 5pm-8pm Rockin' Chair (Folk rock). Animalrelated kids activities will focus on conservation of endangered species through the Zoo’s WildCare Institute. SAINT LOUIS ZOO FREE

Night Waves Pool Party Series 7/29 8pm-10pm Calling all incoming & current middle school students around St. Louis! The City of Des Peres will be taking part in the Summer Night Waves Pool Party Series. Enjoy music, Gaga Ball, games & fun while hanging with old friends & meeting new ones. 1050 DES PERES ROAD $5 EACH

THE MAGIC HOUSE, KIRKWOOD FREE WITH GENERAL ADMISSION.

Jr. Astronauts 7/30 12:30pm-2:30pm Students in Kindergarten through fourth-grade can participate in the Junior Astronauts: Mystery in Space mission. Travel 230 miles above Earth to the International Space Station & utilize scientific, math & engineering as well as teamwork skills. Children will engage in experiments & activities to help NASA learn more about our world. CHALLENGER LEARNING CENTER, 205 BROTHERTON LANE, FERGUSON MO 63135 VARIES

Aish Hebrew School & Adult Sunday School

7/31 10am-12pm At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun & enthusiasm. 457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION

Sunday Funday - Free Group Exercise Sampler Classes 7/31 11am-1:45pm Ages 16 & up. The Lodge Fitness Team showcases some of their new exercise classes being offered for free! Classes are 30 minutes in length; come for one or all four. No tot care provided. 1050 DES PERES ROAD

Sunday Chess Classes 7/31

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JCC Maccabi Games 7/31 2:15pm Our community will welcome more than 1,000 visiting teens from across the globe & involve all of Greater St. Louis, including 400 host families, 1,000 volunteers & 200+ local teen athletes. NUMEROUS LOCATIONS

http://www.maccabistlouis.org

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Shine Boutique Jewelry, clothing, gifts, accessories, monogrammed items, and free gift wrapping. Come see us!

With backgrounds in Medicine, Neuroscience and Psychoanalysis I offer treatment to adults and the elderly experiencing emotional difficulties. I provide treatment with psychoanalytic psychotherapy, which is a type of talk therapy focusing on people’s deep emotions. I can help people experiencing problems with disabling symptoms such as fears, anxiety, depression, sadness, panic, phobias, anger, violence, stress or impulsivity in their personal life, family, relationships, intimacy and work.

Solomon Segal, MD 914-275-7047 solomonsegalmd@gmail.com 141 North Meramec Avenue Oxford Building 3rd Floor, Suite 304 Clayton, MO 63105

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Our delicious plant-based foods are fresh, 100% natural, preservative free, and made from scratch in small batches. Our savory handcrafted dishes range from pastas, rice dishes and hearty soups to breads, salads & desserts. We use local and organic ingredients whenever we can, and many dishes are gluten-free. We sell them at our two convenient retail locations at 64 Weldon Parkway in Maryland Heights, and 11252 Olive Boulevard in Creve Coeur. Everything comes packaged in BPA-free, reusable and recyclable containers, and all you do is heat them to your liking. Best of all, they taste fabulous!

8944 St. Charles Rock Road, 3rd Floor info@northwestchamber.com http://www.northwestchamber.com/ New listing for July Listed in June Turning 1 year old!

Want to be listed here or know of a new business? EMAIL US AT: INFO@STLOUISJEWISHPARENTS.COM

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314-942-8900 Facebook.com/fredandrickys 64 Weldon Parkway, Maryland Heights, MO 63043 11252 Olive Boulevard, Creve Coeur, MO 63141

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Caters to the fashion needs of anyone who desires to add a little pizzazz to any outfit without spending a lot of money. Every piece we sell is only $5.00. You can’t beat that! Order online, host a jewelry party with friends, or call me and I can deliver some pieces to you. We desire to help you look even better at a very reasonable price.

April Hickman 314-329-4555 accessorizemefor5@gmail.com www.paparazziaccessories.com/45557

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We Rock the Spectrum Inclusive indoor playground with autism-friendly equipment, where the slogan is “A place where you don’t have to say I’m sorry.” The staff includes volunteers and occupational therapy students, all given tools to diffuse a disagreement or frustration, encourage play and keep children safe. Infants up to kids age 13 can play at their leisure for $12 per child and $10 per sibling. Packages are also available. A nonprofit, My Brother Rocks the Spectrum Foundation, helps needy families cover the cost.

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Tamara Netsch (owner) 314-942-3055 www.shineboutiquestlouis.com ShineBoutique 9811 Clayton Rd, STL 63124

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Young start-ups help our community’s economy. Look here monthly to see what is new!

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Nia is a holistic movement practice that blends dance arts, martial arts, and healing arts into a mind-bodyemotion-spirit experience. A Wisdom and Truth that transcends words is accessible through the collaboration of both ancient and modern teachings found in Nia. It is practiced with soulful and enlivening music, and is safe for all ages, body types, and fitness abilities. Nia allows beings of all different beliefs to come together as One and make a connection through movement and emotions. Weekly classes beginning on Wednesday, 3/2 from 5:00-6:00pm at Central Studio on Pershing Ave. Classes will be $6 per class during the month of March, and the first class is free for anyone who has never tried Nia. Neshama Roash (314) 570-1493 neshama@niaawakening.com www.nianow.com/neshamaliora

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What stops you from living your dreams? Money? Time commitments? Fears and doubts? We internalize many messages from society, family, and friends about who we are supposed to be and how to spend our time, and this often conflicts with what we truly want. Even if we know our utmost desires and plan to achieve them, doing so alone is isolating and seems insurmountable. As a life coach, the presence I offer will allow us to co-create a future of your choosing. Together, we will discover what blocks you from your dreams and transform how you are in the world. Ben Fox  914-523-3843  befox18@gmail.com 

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Fabulous Themed Parties for girls and boys to celebrate their special day. Choose an e, as well as Kids Night Out and summer campsxtravagant dress up party filled with lots of activities, crafts, games, karaoke & dancing on our stylish stage. Our private space and unique approach to birthday parties makes a great celebration for your loved one. Pick a theme or create your own party & let HooPLa take care of the rest. You just bring the cake!

Joseph Gollapudi 636-787-7843, 314-974-0890 info@aspirelearning.com aspirelearning.com/onlinetutoring/index.aspx

A2Z Selfie Company An open-air, state-of-the-art, booth-less photo booth experience for weddings, parties, school or corporate events, grand openings, sporting or charity events, bar and bat mitzvahs, and more. It comes with a green screen and a 32” inch monitor for editing. It has printing capabilities, as well as the ability to share via text and email, or on social media. Amber Smith 636-284-8282 a2zselfiecompany@gmail.com /A2Z Selfie Company a2zselfiecompany.com

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kidzxplor kidzxplor is a new revolutionary web and app-based service that connects kids to local class providers. kidzxplor opens the doors to discovery by offering a membership that syncs children to a multitude of different classes and activities including art, music, dance, fitness, mind, open plays, cooking, and many, many more- all for one flat-fee per month. Drop into the best St. Louis children’s class providers and discover your child’s passion conveniently and economically. info@kidzxplor.com www.kidzxplor.com kidzxplor kidzxplor kidzxplor

Sitter Hound Sniffing out Great Sitters AND Walkers for St. Louis Dogs. With your support our dog sitting adventure is expanding and evolving into Sitter Hound...new company with a new name but offers the same loving care for your dog we’ve provided for over 2 years. “Sitter Hound” is a locally-owned and operated network of dog sitters and dog walkers working together to provide services to the wonderful dogs of St. Louis! Traveling? Your dog can come stay at a dog sitter’s dogfriendly home or a dog sitter can stay in your home. Working long hours? Dog walking and day camp is also available. Affordable rates and friendly dog-loving people are ready to help you out. Our home-style dog sitting and extensive screening for all our providers set us apart from other dog sitters.

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Beautycounter Independent Consultant My mission is to get safe products into the hands of everyone. I specialize in non-toxic products for children and adults - skin care, sunscreen, make up, body products, kids products. Heather Lampert 314-659-9012 hilampert@gmail.com www.beautycounter.com/ heatherlampert

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Carries the largest selection of optical quality reading glasses and sun-readers in the St. Louis area. With 1000 plus options of top quality, fashion forward styles, for both men and women, you’ll discover frames that are functional, fashionable and Rx capable. Choose from national brands such as Eye bob, Scojo, Proof, Jimmy Crystal, Vera Bradley, Maui Jim’s and private label collections. With a vast choice of colors, magnification and unique frames why shop any where else for your eye ware needs.

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We offer online tutoring for SAT, ACT, Grade Level Common Core and subject level Math. Pick your own schedule in the comfort of your home for one-on-one learning. We have trained tutors who coach competitive Medical and Engineering entrance exams like ITT, JEE etc... and our mission is to provide quality tutoring at an affordable cost. We have demo class every Monday at 7:00 PM CST if you would like to try us out first. Email for more information.

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Tracey Richardson 314-733-5858 Info@hooplastl.com /hooplastl http://hooplastl.com/index.htm/

Aspire Learning

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Quality products free from harmful chemicals & toxins - skin care, body care, hair care, baby care, sunscreen and home cleaning. Jane Tenzer  Jane52380@aol.com  www.avaandersonnontoxic.com/  janetenzer

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Thank you from Room at the Inn!

Central Reform Congregation Congregation Shaare Emeth Temple Emanuel ... and the more than 55 other congregations that provide overnight shelter to homeless women and families as night sites for Room at the Inn! In addition to overnight shelter, these groups provide clients with transportation to and from their house of worship, dinner, breakfast, and fellowship time. Whatâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s it like to be a night site volunteer? Check out the article by Sarah Baker in the May 2016 issue of St. Louis Jewish Parents!

Find out more: roomstl.org facebook.com/roomstl twitter.com/innstl

Join us at our Third Annual Golf Tournament October 10, 2016 Westborough Country Club All proceeds support Room at the Innâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s shelter programs!