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“Think Outside the Box” “Marches to the Beat of Her Own Drummer” “Fit the Square Peg In the Round Hole” There are at least 7 other expressions that are similar to the above 3. These are often used to describe someone who does things differently than most others. Sometimes these expressions are complimentary, but other times they are truly not. Regardless, they almost always isolate the person being described - which is neither a compliment nor an insult. The concept of not doing what everyone else does, is often colloquially used as a personality trait. The interesting thing is that MOST people can find aspects of their life when they conform AND times when they don’t conform to their societal or cultural norms. One of the most wonderful parts of being human is our ability to critically think about each situation, and decide for ourselves how we want to proceed. That is a very powerful realization, especially for parents. It takes confidence and courage to not conform. It takes knowledge and critical thinking skills to follow one’s own convictions. Regardless, there is almost always fear and worry, every time you “break from the pack”. As parents, this confidence happens over time. With all of the crazy advice given to new parents, they NEED to decide what to listen to. Parents must start to evaluate what they are hearing and figure out for themselves what will work best for their individual family and particular child, be it for the topics of feeding, sleeping, schooling, and more. As the confidence develops, mistakes are made and learned from. Parents who started out as “rebels” will conform on more than they thought they would, and rebel more than they thought they would on topics they never previously gave a thought to. Parents who started out as conformists will do the same. As it turns out, what typically is thought of as “lone wolf ” behavior that isolates, is actually one of the things that makes parents more similar. Embracing this ability to test our parenting hypotheses with support and encouragement, saving strong criticism for dangerous situations, is one of the ways we create “future leaders and role models”. This is an important gift we give to our peers and future generations. It is okay to “separate from the herd”, and “test your wings”, when you have peers that “have your back”. Stephanie
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THE VOICE OF GENERATION J OUR GENERATION OUR FUTURE
by Alia Chappell-Beattie Navigating the teenage years can be challenging. Teens want to connect with their peers, and are often concerned with gaining social status. But one of the worst ways to rise amongst peers is to use gossip as currency. Whether you have gossiped about others, or had it done to you, you most likely understand that it is wrong, either due to a strong moral compass or by hearing it from your parents. In the Torah (the Jewish Bible), it is written: “Do not gossip with your people, do not profit by the blood of your fellow.�
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[Voice of Generation J, Cont. from pg 9]
The blood that is being referred to is not literal blood, but rather the weakness and emotional pain of others. Even, though weakening your fellow, making them less than their best, can profit you, it is wrong. Bringing another person down might temporarily improve your social status, but there are many negative consequences for everyone involved that need to be considered. We are commanded to be against the practice because profiting from hurting others is no way to live. Imagine: a teenager has a conflict with a peer. Their peer talks about them behind their back, tries to profit socially by making him look bad, and to get others on their side to make them feel stronger. A person who is profiting from making someone feel bad is not only hurting their “fellow,” but is also violating the Torah. Before you gossip, think about what it might feel like to have someone profit from your “blood.” If we can empathize with the victim, then we can fully understand how hurtful this can be.
“I will no longer be a child who needs to be reminded to be a better person, but instead, I will be an adult that can remind others”
Often, victims are told, “be the better person.” This is suggesting that victims should not stoop as low as the perpetrator. We are reminded of this, not only when we are children or teenagers, but also as adults. Just like there is a negative circle, or downward spiral, that comes from profiting from another’s fall, so too is there a positive circle that lifts us up, that comes from living by the wisdom written long ago. Now that I am a teenager, it is my turn to strengthen the circle. I will no longer be a child who needs to be reminded to be a better person, but instead, I will be an adult that can remind others. We are all linked to our ancestors and our Jewish traditions from long ago, and I am part of this chain that moves forward in a positive direction. What I hope that you can take away from this is that before you start down a negative path because you can profit from bringing someone down, stop and think. One way to do this is to heed the words of the Torah when it says, “V’ahavta l’rei-echa kamocha” or “You shall love your fellow as yourself.” Kind words, old wisdom, and love can connect us to each other and strengthen our community. And this is what teens will really need to navigate what is ahead.
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BUT WAIT! WHEN CAN SHE WIPE HERSELF? Interestingly, a thorough search of the literature on potty-training and toilet habits finds no peer-reviewed studies of a topic that is a concern for many parents: When should a child be able to wipe him/herself? When can this be done without help? This article was supposed to show a developmental timeline detailing the course from 18 months to 5 years of how a “baby-to-child” learns to wipe and when, with information based on research studies. Instead, it is going to be a discussion of some major issues that need to be considered, such that each parent/caregiver can figure out the correct timing for each individual child. The general thought of the non-academic community is that children should be fully potty-trained between the ages of 2 and 4 years. They should be able to start wiping by 18 months, and be good at wiping by age 4 years. However, this time frame is not what actually happens for many children. Some children don’t do a good job wiping themselves until they are 10 years old. The expectation made by preschool staff, and others that most 2-4 year olds are fully capable is both wrong, and possibly harmful.
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Motor Skills:
Gender of Child:
In order for a child to wipe him/herself
Girls often get rashes, yeast
well, s/he must be able to sit on the
infections, and become red and itchy
toilet without the fear of falling in.
because they don’t wipe in the right
S/he must be able to reach for the toilet
direction, or at all. The best way to
paper, tear it, lean over, and actually
take care of this is to keep teaching
reach the right areas. This is all more
the correct way to wipe, offer help,
complicated than it sounds, especially
and contact the pediatrician if it gets
for a child under the age of 5 yrs.
uncomfortable.
Tips to try:
Safe Wipers:
Get a doll/teddy bear and a play-
One of the reasons why school
toilet. A 2-5 yr old can “practice”
staff does not help with wiping is
tearing and folding the paper, and
because of liability. Often, talking to
then wiping the right places on the
a particular classroom adult/ director
Language skills: Do the
doll/teddy bear.
(for the children ages 4 and under),
children understand what
and finding a “designated wiper” will
they are expected to do,
Play a game with your child on the
help both the child and the teacher
and why?
mealtime chair. Ask your child: Can
feel more comfortable.
Big issues to consider with wiping:
Motor skills: large (bending over while seated), and small (tearing paper, and holding it correctly between fingers.)
balance. Can you move forward a
Pediatricians, parents, and others
Frequency and consistency of poop:
bit? How about backward? Can you
find that children do not always do
Dry pellets are easier to
raise one hand?
a great job with the wiping. Most of
wipe, than looser stool.
you lift yourself up on your hands and
the time, the worst thing is that there
Language Skills: Talk with your child about how “poop” and “pee” are the natural wastes of the body. “It is what the body couldn’t use.” “Corn has parts the body can, and can NOT, digest. The parts that aren’t digested come out the other end. That is not gross.” “It is wonderful that the body can do this.” Children can understand aspects of potty training and wiping
might be streaks in the underwear
Gender: Girls have to
(which is washable), or they smell a
wipe more often, e.g. after
bit bad (which is fixed with bathing/
peeing. They have to wipe
showering). The important thing to
from front to back, but not
keep in mind is that many parents
the other way.
struggle with this issue. They argue with the children, and feel alone or
Hygiene: Are they afraid
slightly embarrassed. This “wiping
of getting their hands
problem” is very normal, with each
dirty? Do they understand
child eventually able to do it on his/
how important it is to wash
her own terms.
afterwards? What if the child thinks it is gross? Will
from early ages. The more “gross”
s/he still wipe?
the parent tells the child something is, the less willing the child might be to
“Safe” people to help with wiping:
want to deal with it.
Who is allowed to wipe the child?
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The ability or right to control people or things.
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CHILD DEVELOPMENT
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“I am NOT wearing that!” “Why not? You wore something similar last week.” “NOOOOOOO!” “Please?! It is your last set of clean clothing until I get the laundry done.” “NO! I am NOT wearing that!” “I will buy you a new outfit later, if you put this one on now, so we are not late to school.” The above, reported conversation happened between an 8 year old girl and her mom. However, it doesn’t seem to make a difference whether the child is a boy or a girl, an 8 year old, a 6 year old, or a 10 year old. The elements of this conversation that need to be addressed are often the same: 1) Having a right to an opinion, 2) Taking control of a situation that has consequences for more than one person, and 3) Finding a solution that allows for everyone to respectfully “win”.
Having a Right to an Opinion As with many aspects of Child Development, there is often a theoretical pendulum swing that is always in motion; specifically referring here, to whether children are entitled to have an opinion. In earlier centuries, children were treated like little kings/queens, dictating much of their own opinions and desires. In
NEGOTIATING CONTROL
the middle of the 1950s, children were to be seen, and not heard, and were often told that the “home did not operate as a democracy”. Now we are back towards the middle of the arc again, as the current research supports the idea that children should be encouraged to think about what is important to them, and how to express those thoughts positively. In the above situation, the parent could have had the child help pick out the outfit the night before, heading off the last-minute temper tantrum, and giving the child the “okay” to being able to pick out her own clothingwithin reason. In the heat of the moment, the parent would be advised to ask the children to calm down, and use her words. By asking for an explanation of the opinion, they child gets her opinion across.
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Taking Control of a Situation Even when a child is given an opinion, the adult should be in charge of the situation, guiding the child to making a decision that does not inconvenience anyone. In the above scenario, research studies indicate that the parent can stop the temper tantrum and change the focus of the conversation. The parent could have said, “I understand that this is not your first choice, however if you do not decide for yourself what you will wear, you will make me late for work, and your siblings and yourself late to school. Do you think that is the right way to start our day?” While this kind of logic is unlikely to work with a younger child, most 6- 10 year olds will stop and think
easy
access
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it through.
Finding a Solution Sometimes the solution that can be figured out requires a bit of creative teamwork. In the above scenario, the parent could have said, “From tonight onward, we will figure out a better way of choosing your clothing. For right now, pick what you like from this outfit, and then go to the dirty laundry basket and choose the rest. One day of wearing dirty clothing will not hurt you.” (Most kids would actually choose all of the original clean clothing!) Before bedtime, this child-parent pair can then come up with a new clothing-picking routine together, for future days. Regardless of whether it is choosing clothing, meal options, books to read, or countless other choices that are made during the day, children struggle with when to express their own opinions. The goal for children is to make safe, sound, good choices as adults, but in order for that to happen, they need to start learning how to do that when they are younger. When they are children, they have their adults to guide them. Adults can best guide, when they create a situation that encourages critical thinking, invokes empathy, and has a resolution.
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TEMPLE ISRAEL RELIGIOUS SCHOOL EXPLORING JEWISH IDEAS
Serving students in Pre-K through Grade 10, Temple Israel Religious School is a warm and engaging environment offering learning opportunities for students in Pre-K through grade 10. Students explore Jewish ideas and topics through both classroom and experiential activities. Our Jewish learning core topics include Torah, holidays, rituals, and Hebrew; and students also participate in music, yoga, cooking, and art activities. These creative endeavors help to build community, reflect their classroom studies, and promote creative expression and application of Jewish ideas. Our Clergy and Director of Youth Education take active roles in teaching, and our teachers and staff are dedicated to student success. Classes meet on Sunday mornings and weekday afternoons, and include mitzvah and volunteer projects that create experiential learning outside of our building.
CONFIRMATION CLASS “At TIRS, we create a warm, welcoming environment where our students explore Jewish ideas, rituals, and texts with teachers who are passionate about their Jewish identities and care about our Jewish future.� -Jed Filler, RJE, Director of youth Education
CREATING JEWISH IDENTITy
Confirmation class engages our students at a critical juncture in their Jewish development. As young adults, they are forming the basis of the relationship that they will have with Judaism throughout their lives. During the year, students work closely with our Rabbis to explore what it means to be Jewish to each of them individually, and to the community as a whole. This class offers them a unique opportunity to form new relationships with Clergy and Jewish role models that will last a lifetime. They learn in a variety of environments including the classroom, museums, and theaters. Students also travel together to New York in order to experience their Jewish identity through a variety of lenses.
TEMPLE ISRAEL FEDERATION OF TEMPLE yOUTH (TIFTy) SHAPING JEWISH LEADERS
Temple Israel Federation of Temple Youth (TIFTY) is our senior youth group. Designed for students in high school, TIFTY engages teens in a variety of activities that are social, educational, religious, cultural, and that serve the community. TIFTY members gain invaluable leadership skills and experience through planning and implementing their programming under the mentorship of their Youth Advisor, Director of Youth Education, and Clergy. If you or someone you know may be interested in joining TIFTY, contact Adam Grosman at agrosman@ti-stl.org or 314-432-8050.
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TESTIMONIES: “My passion as a Jewish educator lies in helping to build identity and community amongst the next generation of Jews. I teach in the school as my way of giving back to those who helped to form my Jewish identity, and as a way to do my small part in ensuring the future of our people and our mission to engage in tikkun olam, repair of the world. I truly believe that teaching in the school is holy work, and I am blessed each Sunday morning to learn with my students.” -Debbie Schultz, Temple Israel Religious School Teacher “TIFTY has a warm and opening feel and I truly believe that every Jewish teen has a place here. Whether you want to come to a few events, join cabinet, or work in a leadership position, everyone can find a fitting role. I cannot wait to use the valuable lessons I have learned as I make the transition from a Jewish teen to a Jewish adult. ” -Hannah Snidman, Past TIFTy Member and Confirmation Class Graduate “As a Jewish parent, I have marveled at the positive changes in my daughters through their youth group membership. My very shy daughter became a self-confident teen, and my youngest daughter is TIFTY’s Religious and Cultural Vice President. After attending my first Chavurah recently as a substitute adviser, I understand the love these teenagers have for their youth groups, their youth group advisers, their synagogues, and the lifelong Jewish connections they make in the program.” -Marti Maurer, Proud TIFTy Mom
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B’NAI MITZVAH PROGRAM Welcome to the beginning of the B’nai Mitzvah experience at Temple Israel! Our goal is to help make this a meaningful and personal Jewish journey for your entire family. We firmly believe that becoming a Bar or Bat Mitzvah is a life-changing opportunity in which a child can think deeply, grow, and shine in ways he or she may never have imagined. Each child connects to Judaism differently, and our job is to help foster that connection so that it lasts a lifetime. Temple Israel can assist with many aspects of your B’nai Mitzvah program and celebration.
“Rabbis Michael and Amy are really fun and easy to work with. I never felt overwhelmed by what they asked of me. I was able to choose prayers that had a special meaning to me and design my own customized program for my Bar Mitzvah. What makes TI so awesome is that we always feel like a part of the TI family.” -Josh Fingerman, Bar Mitzvah
For students, we offer tutoring, meetings with the Rabbis, and rehearsals. For your celebration, we offer flexible luncheon catering options, seamless coordination with caterers, planners and vendors, and we advise and accommodate your family to make your event exciting and enjoyable. For more information on our B’nai Mitzvah program, contact Rabbi Michael Alper at malper@ti-stl.org or 314-432-8050.
“This is just the beginning of a wonderful journey ahead, and I look forward to sharing it with you!” -Rabbi Michael
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“One of my favorite parts of my Bat Mitzvah was working one-on-one with Rabbi Alper and Rabbi Feder. Rabbi Alper made me laugh and think about how my Torah portion related to my life. Rabbi Feder helped keep me organized. Both of them made me feel so confident doing something that was initially so hard for me, and I never thought I would have so much fun at my service.” -Caroline Bernstein, Bat Mitzvah
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[Child Development: Tween, Cont. from pg 22]
95% of parents report a change in at least one of the above contexts during the tween years. The most commonly reported change is that there is an increasing sense of modesty, and tweens feel more comfortable going into a bathroom, or behind closed doors to get undressed. This is actually a GOOD thing. It has a protective nature, as the tweens are not yet adults, but neither are they children. Body image is still developing. But other aspects of tween behavior that correspond to a tween wanting more privacy are not good things.
Tweens are still figuring out how to deal with their emotions, social situations, changing bodies, and their desire to both cling AND be independent.
So what about the “privacy” issue? Is there such a thing as too much privacy? Will a tween become isolated? Will a tween become withdrawn and depressed? These are harder questions to answer directly. If you notice a major difference in your tween’s personality, whereby a previously social child is spending a lot of time alone, it is recommended that you talk with him/her to try to figure out why. Gently ask about friends at school, and whether the other kids are being nice. Ask whether your tween has any new hobbies. For example, if your tween says, “I have a hobby that I really like now”, e.g. building legos or reading, you can ask what s/he is building or reading, and let the tween be. Some activities are solo ones, like reading and legos. That is a beneficial privacy, that leads to independence and fodder for conversation with peers. If your tween says, “I just want to be alone.” or “I am just on the computer with friends.”, there might be a bigger problem. Tweens don’t typically seek isolation, nor should they. If your tween is spending too much time alone, double-check websites s/he has been on. Check with your child’s teachers to see what kind of behavior your child has at school. If anything “feels wrong” to you, even instinctively, call your pediatrician and talk about what you have observed, and are feeling. The pediatrician might want you to bring your child in, or suggest ways to increase communication. One of the most important things to keep in mind is that tweens are still figuring out how to deal with their emotions, social situations, changing bodies, and their desire to both cling AND be independent. However, although they might want more privacy, a desire to isolate themselves and would-be-indicators of depression in adults, should not be minimized or ignored. As for the hug in public… well a private hug between parent and tween can be even more meaningful.
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Normal Tween Changes Increasing modesty Avoiding public hugs Spending more time alone Some secrets More independence Public restrooms without parents New hobbies
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Hide and Seek Guess what used to be our favorite shopping
Hiding behind masks isn’t something that
day when my kids were little— the day
only happens during Purim, and some masks
after Thanksgiving? Nope. Not an “end of
aren’t the kind you can buy at a store. We all
the season” sale or one of the three day
have masks we wear, hiding our true feelings,
Memorial/President’s Day/Labor Day sales
protecting ourselves from perceived threats.
Louis and has worked in the
either. It’s November 1st. That’s hands down
Some of these masks are pretty harmless and
non-profit sector for nearly
the greatest day to head to Target, Party City,
often helpful, like when I drink a huge mug of
twenty years. Born in Memphis,
or any one of a multitude of stores that mark
coffee to mask how tired I am, or when I grab
JENNIFER BAER LOTSOFF Jennifer Baer Lotsoff is the PJ Library Coordinator in St.
she holds a B.A. in Psychology
down their entire Halloween inventory the
the concealer yet again to cover up my latest
Austin and a Master’s degree in
day after the holiday. Don’t be impressed; I
pimple (at 42! Really?!) Other times, masks
Social Work from Washington
don’t plan a year ahead of time for my kids’
can be hurtful, like when we talk behind
next Halloween costume. I’ve got my eye just
someone’s back and smile to her face, or
leaders to build a vibrant Jewish
5 months down the road, when Princess Leah
when we hide behind the excuse of “busy” to
community by encouraging
costumes are tweaked to become Queen
justify not making time to welcome someone
collaboration through creative,
Esther, and Darth Vadar is replaced by the evil
new to our community.
from the University of Texas in
University. Jennifer works with professionals and lay
fun experiences. With programs in secular and Jewish spaces,
Haman. Purim and costumes go together like
Jennifer encourages all
peanut butter and jelly, my all-time favorite
What masks do you wear? In addition
community organizations to use
sandwich. One without the other is ok, but
the vehicle of PJ Library books
to creative costumes and delicious new
the combination is Divine.
hamantashen recipes, may this Purim be a
to meet families wherever they
time of reflection, for who we are and who
are on their Jewish journey. Jennifer is a passionate
In addition to the revelry and carnivals, there
we want to be. Check out some of the Purim
connector of ideas, people, and
are hidden elements interwoven throughout
themed PJ Library books while I fix myself a
the Purim story. Our heroine initially hides
cup of coffee. I think I’ll start with a smaller
humor to her life and endless
her Jewish identity, and G-d’s name isn’t even
sized mug.
crumbs to her car.
mentioned once in the whole Book of Esther.
institutions, and she credits her kids for bringing daily doses of
Just as the filling of a hamantashen is hidden within its dough, some believe that Esther’s cousin Mordecai hid letters written to warn the Jews within pastries.
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FROM THE DOCTOR
COULD MY CHILD HAVE SLEEP APNEA?
BY KIRSTIN LEE, MD Kirstin Lee, M.D., is a Washington University pediatrician at St. Louis Children’s Hospital.
Call 314.454.KIDS (5437) for more information or to make an appointment.
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Time and again, I hear from parents who wonder how their young child can possibly snore so loudly? Snoring is a common phenomenon, caused by partial blockage of air as it moves from the mouth and nose into the neck (trachea). Risk factors for problematic snoring include: ~~ ages 2-6
Could it be sleep apnea? Sleep apnea occurs when a child does not breathe enough at night to properly supply the body with oxygen and exhale waste gas like carbon dioxide; the flow of air is blocked entirely, basically causing invisible episodes of suffocation. Often a child will have to partially awaken to start the breathing process again.
What are the effects of sleep apnea?
~~ large adenoids and/or tonsils
The frequent wakening, even if it isn’t complete, combined
~~ obesity/overweight
with the lack of air flow, is hard on a growing child’s brain
~~ neurologic conditions
and body. Negative effects of sleep apnea in children can
~~ conditions that cause general muscle weakness
include:
~~ s mall mouth/jaw or other condition that affects bone growth/size
~~ stress on the heart
If your child only snores when he is sick or if you hear it for brief periods on rare occasions, no need to worry.
~~ high blood pressure ~~ changes in mood, depressed mood, or moodiness ~~ increase in negative behaviors at home or in school ~~ poor school performance
But you should make an appointment to discuss your
~~ learning and memory problems
child’s snoring if your child snores frequently and has
~~ ADHD or attention issues
one or more of these issues:
~~ poor growth
~~ You hear pauses in their breathing during sleep ~~ You hear them gasp for air in their sleep
~~ decreased energy and activity ~~ bed wetting
~~ Y ou observe them waking frequently or feel their sleep is disturbed by breathing
What’s the next step?
~~ Y our child has suffered from night terrors or sleep walks
Call your pediatrician. They can examine your child’s
~~ You describe your child as a “mouth breather”
of sleep apnea requires a sleep study, also known as
~~ Y ou feel that they have an unusual quality to their voice or sound “nasal” or congested when they speak
Polysomnography. Your physician may also discuss referral
~~ Y our child is overly sleepy, even on days you think they have gotten enough sleep
(lung/breathing specialist) or a sleep specialist.
~~ Y our child wants to sleep with a fan blowing directly on them
airway and discuss the symptoms. A formal diagnosis
to an ear/nose/throat (ENT) doctor and/or a pulmonologist
Sleep apnea is more common in children than many realize, and it affects much more than the peace and quiet of your home. Start the conversation early and revisit it as your child grows and changes. Everyone will sleep better.
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CHILD DEVELOPMENT
TEEN
TRAVELING TEENS Special Gratitude to Jenny Wolkowitz of Tips & Trips, and Karen Rader of the Jewish Federation of St Louis, for their expertise and help in supplying information and content for this article. Both of these local experts are more than willing to speak to families individually. Contact information can be found at the end of the article.
Summer is almost here, as is the long break
of more stringent security protocols to ensure
from school. There are all sorts of reasons
that travel is safe for kids no matter how far
parents look for summer trips and experiences
or distinct. It is not uncommon to find teen
for their teens: as a means to occupy their
programs that travel to Uganda or Vietnam.
younger teens in the summer who are too
Eastern Europe has also become a major teen
young to get a job, for their older teens looking
destination to countries like Croatia and the
for resume builders and experiences from
Czech Republic.
which they can craft their college essays, or for a teenager who has skipped the whole
Sending an 8 or 10 year old to camp might have
traditional camp thing, but desperately needs
been an easy decision. You simply followed the
an experience away from home before going to
packing instructions, put them on a bus, and
college.
waved goodbye. Finding a quality teen travel program can be a little more involved. You may
So what are the options? Community service,
do this only once in their high school years for
language immersion, adventure travel,
economic reasons, so you want to make sure
wilderness trips, specialty camps, internships,
it satisfies the goals you have set for your teen.
just to name a few. But within each of those
A simple call to a teen trip advisor can help you
categories exists a multitude of options.
wade through the hundreds of programs out there and come up with the best fit for your
Amongst academic programs, for instance,
teenager. Most
a teen could pursue engineering, sports
teen trip advisors
and entertainment management, fashion
do not charge the
design, computer coding, or environmental
families anything.
sustainability. This could be done on a US college campus or abroad on a campus in Spain or Italy. A student can paint in a small community in Ireland, develop veterinary skills in Puerto Rico, learn preventive medicine in Nicaragua, or visit a country that s/he is culturally connected to. Many teen program directors want to go where “no man has ever been,” but has to balance that with parents’ concerns over safety. Teen tour operators have responded with a wealth
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What if your teen wants to visit Israel? The benefits of an educational, peer-based Israel trip for teens finishing 9th grade through the age of 26 years are numerous. Traveling to Israel however, can be expensive. Due to both the importance of the trip and the expense, a program called “Passport to Israel” was established in the 1980’s to help Jewish families save money specifically for the purpose of travel to Israel. Now, we are fortunate in St Louis to have our own Passport to Israel program, with the parents’ contribution growing faster with partial or matching funds from the Jewish Federation of St Louis and from participating congregations.
PROGRAM Q & A Q: How does the Passport to Israel program work?
A:
For each child in grades 3-10, the Jewish Federation of St. Louis will earmark $100 a year, when families and participating congregations contribute a combined minimum total of $200. Families who participate the full eight years will save approximately $2500 for a teen or young adult Israel experience.
Q: When can Passport funds be used? A: Students are eligible to use their Passport funds for an educational, peerbased Israel program upon the conclusion of 9th grade, through age 26.
Q: If my child goes to Israel while in
high school, using the Passport funds, can they still do a Birthright trip in college?
A: If you have been to Israel as part of a touring group, educational program, study program or an organized extended residential program when you were under 18 years of age, you are still eligible for the Birthright Israel program.
Q: What happens if we withdraw
from the program or we discontinue congregation membership and join another congregation?
A: Families may withdraw at any time
Contact Info:
without losing their initial investment, but the funds contributed by the Jewish Federation and the Congregation are forfeited. If you switch congregations, but stay in the program, the matched funds stay in the account, and if the new congregation participates, it will continue with the new congregation.
Jenny Wolkowitz: www.TipsonTripsandCamps.com. or at 866-222-TIPS Karen Rader: 314-442-3756 or at Krader@JFedSTL.org Israel Center: www.JFedSTL.org/Israel-Center St. Louis Jewish Parents
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RABBI
TO PARENT
One of the favorite parts of my day is
my wife and I told our 5 year old twin girls,
waking up our children in the morning to
“Guess what! Mommy’s having a baby in
the tune of “Modeh Ani”. What is that? Well
a few months”! And to make it exciting,
it is the very first prayer in a Siddur- Jewish
I said, “Let’s keep it a family secret for
Prayer Book. It is one sentence of thanks
2 days and then we can tell our friends.
to God for the gift of life: “I gratefully thank
Okay?” “Okay”, they said excitedly as they
you, the living and eternal King, for You
jumped up and down arguing if the baby
have returned my soul with compassion-
would be a boy or girl, how many days are
abundant is your faithfulness”.
in a few months, what the name is going
Interestingly, when discussing faith, we
RABBI MENACHEM TENDLER
to be, and who the baby is going to like
generally refer to the faith that humanity
the best.
has in a Greater Power. Yet this very first
I grew up (if I ever grew up!)
The next day, they headed off to school
talks about God’s faith in each and every
in Pikesville Md and attended
giggling about their special family secret.
person; young and old alike! My children
When they came home, my wife said, “Did
woke up this morning, and they know God
Chief Justice of the High Court of
you tell anyone about our exciting news
has faith in their greatness! If we are lucky
Jerusalem. We moved here in 2010
or were you able to keep it a secret”? One
enough to be created, Our Creator has
of them said in all seriousness, “I didn’t tell
faith in us.
Photo Credit: Yehuda Bortz
Kids are the best. Just a few weeks ago,
prayer my children say each morning,
Ner Israel Rabbinical College. I received Smicha in Israel from the
and I currently serve as the Rabbi of Sha’arei Chesed- U. City Shul, a nonmembership based family shul in
my teacher but I think she knows”. So much greatness takes place in our
U. City where all are welcome. I also teach the 5th Grade Judaic Studies and introduction to Talmud study at
“How would she know”?
homes and in our daily lives, and so much of what we may view as a basic
Torah Prep School. I currently live in University City with my wife Zelda
“Well”, my 5 year old said, “I told her my
responsibility can really be viewed
and our 5 children.
mommy has something in her tummy- and
through a different lens. Think about it:
it’s not food. And you wouldn’t believe it!
When a parent changes a child’s diaper,
She guessed all by herself that it’s a baby”!
it’s kindness to another person. When we drop off our precious children at school,
Looking at this incident through the lens
it’s helping our children succeed. And
of a young child, there is nothing cute or
when our children cooperate, succeed,
humorous about this story. It’s just lucky
and bring us joy, are they not giving us the
that her teacher guessed what it was.
greatest gift possible?
Some might even say that what she did was childish or wrong.
We must tap into our own greatness, along with the greatness of our children and
I view it as greatness. There is a purity and an innocence to this incident that we as adults would have a difficult time tapping into. Even our children’s mistakes often stem from a special greatness.
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every human being around us.
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FROM THE
CONCIERGE’S DESK
Top 11
JEWISH QUESTIONS TO ASK DURING THE COLLEGE SEARCH BY ERIN SCHREIBER Each spring it becomes a rite of passage for families with high schoolers to plot out trips traversing the country with stops at colleges and universities. Often a parent’s alma mater will be included, along with visits to popular state schools, schools where siblings or cousins attended and those who just happen to be along the route. By the time many of these trips commence, mailboxes have been clogged with enough slick college viewbooks from places you’ve never heard of, you’ve considered joining the witness protection program, and many an hour has been burned up late into the night scanning websites, lists and statistics. For all the research – and worry – that goes into applying to college and ultimately selecting a school, most current college students will reveal that their choice was largely based on what felt right, on where they felt most at Erin Schreiber is Director of the Maryville University Hillel. Prior
home. And chances are, feeling like home will involve ways to connect and grow as part of a young Jewish community member.
to Maryville Hillel, Erin spent 10 years in Admissions and previously served as the Assistant Director at Washington University
College is often a turning point “Jewishly”. We’re taught that the Bar or Bat Mitzvah signifies adulthood, but college is where you have the chance to
Hillel. She loved her college
actually live that latitude – and stretch the wings and roots you’ve been given.
search and still wears the many
Alongside questions about academics and scholarships, asking questions about
t-shirts collected along the way.
how the school can support you Jewishly during college can help guide you
She can be reached at eschreiber@ maryville.edu.
to your new home away from home, and make an otherwise intimidating and unfamiliar place be a fit. Here are 11 questions to ponder – and ask! – as you dig beyond the statistics to the daily life of your next four years. So much of choosing a college can feel complicated, but when you’ve done your homework and explored Jewish life on and even off campus, following your heart may make the decision very clear. Wherever your search leads, move forward knowing your biggest job is to stretch and grow – and enjoy the journey as much as the outcome.
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1 2
What are the Jewish organizations on campus? What is the focus of their programs? Are there programs to be mentored and opportunities to grow as a leader from the beginning? Schedule a visit with these groups, or call to find a good time to stop by. Speaking with student leaders and staff will likely give you the best view of Jewish life on campus. Look at their flyers and social media history to get a sense of the organization. Are the Jewish organizations on campus part of the university or external groups? Jewish groups that are part of the university may have access to training and leadership programs that connect them to other campus leaders, and staff are university employees.
3
Is there a robust Jewish community or resources beyond the campus you might benefit from? While Jewish groups that serve college students specifically are often what families look for first, relationships with nearby synagogues, JCCs and Federations can provide meaningful experiences that enhance a student’s Jewish growth during college.
4
What is the Jewish climate on campus? How does the university specifically support Jewish students? Are faculty aware of Jewish holidays and supportive of students’ observance? How have any incidents of antiSemitism been handled? Is there strong antiIsrael dialogue? Are collaborative interfaith groups active on campus?
5 6 7
What are the best parts of being Jewish on campus? Maybe it’s a cadre of opportunities, maybe it’s a Jewish sorority or fraternity. Maybe it’s a campus with great opportunities nestled in a city with additional resources. Asking current students what they love will help you decide if it’s an ideal fit for you and your interests. What are the challenges of being Jewish on campus? No campus is perfect, but are these challenges you can live with? What options exist for study abroad, particularly to Israel or other places of significance to Jews, or your particular family history? Can college credit be obtained through these programs? What are the additional costs to you? What does support for these programs look like on the ground in the country where you will be studying?
8
Are there Jewish faculty and staff who support students? These people may become your home away from home, be it helping you navigate the university system, connecting you to opportunities in the community, or sharing their table and brisket with you at Rosh Hashanah. Maybe your advisor is great at academics, but not who you feel comfortable with more personal conversations. Often the relationships with staff transcend their roles as professors or even holiday hosts and they can be there to celebrate your victories large and small, and offer guidance and support during difficult times. When you are having a moment, theirs may be the office doors that open widest.
9
Are there things you need to be YOURself Jewishly? How are holidays celebrated on campus? Are there opportunities for creative Jewish expression and exploration? What kinds of services are offered and where? Is kosher food available and at what locations and costs? Is it part of the standard meal plan? Are there students there who participated in the same youth groups, camps or programs who can share some similar stories and experiences? When you’re homesick or feeling lost, similarities will bond you and open doors.
10 11
Is there something here to challenge you and stretch you Jewishly? Can you take on a leadership role? Can you explore and learn? Can you teach religious school or be a youth group leader in the community if that feeds your soul? Do you feel at home? Do you see yourself here? Do you fit? Every school can – and will! – give you endless statistics. The only one that really matters is how *you* feel on this campus, in this community, with these students. Ask most students why they made their college choices and they’ll tell you they just knew it, it just felt right, they fit right in, they could see themselves there. They may mention academics, the great Hillel, Chabad, AEPi or Jewish community….but all of that takes a second seat to what just felt right. This is a great place to trust your gut.
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! s TOP 10 p o O “BAD PARENT” MOMENTS Humorous, but true. No names.
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Oops, 12 month olds do not like it when the peek-a-boo game also has a loud “quack” with it. Oops, I can’t finish the “baby’s” cross stitch piece because the baby is now 6 years old, AND I forgot the birth statistics! Oops, perhaps it is not a good idea to allow my 3 year old son to play outside in the front yard without an adult. The postman thought he had to report “neglect” to the police. Oops, it is not a good idea to show a young 5 year old what happens when you put a toy in the baby’s bouncy seat, push the seat back, and release. She decided it might be fun to launch her baby brother!! Oops, I can’t believe I told my 7 year old to “Suck it up and deal.” when he got his finger caught in the closing car door. It didn’t look that bad, but it turns out it was broken. Oops, I didn’t realize that it was okay that a 10 year old could cry after losing a chess game. I turned to the guy next to me and said, “Someone should really tell that kid that it is just a game and to quit bawling like a baby.” The guy next to me was the kid’s dad AND coach. He was NOT pleased!! Oops, I didn’t realize that 13 year old boys can be VERY sensitive to people commenting on the changes in their voices and hair growth. Oops, did you know that a parent can make it such that her 16 year old does not get her license by telling the woman at the DMV, who happens to be the road test administrator, that her daughter can be such a scatterbrain sometimes?! Oops, My 18 year old did not want to be reminded in front of all of his friends that when he was 6 years old, he had wanted to have his Bar Mitzvah party at McDonalds. Oops, I have learned that sometimes being an amazing grandparent is more about being “grand”, and less about being “parent”.
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JEWISH
HOLIDAY EXPLAINED
PURIM
Purim begins the evening of Wednesday,
Purim for example, has had its traditions
I once asked why we give out treats, and
March 23rd, and ends the evening of
compared to those of Halloween. On
I was amazed by and felt proud of the
Thursday, March 24th. Most people
the surface only, Purim is the reverse of
answer. Mishloach Manot bags contain
know this holiday as the story told
Halloween in the way it is celebrated.
a drink, two pieces of fruit, something
from the Biblical scroll of Esther about
During Purim, children dress up in
“bread-like”, e.g. cookies, a piece of
Queen Esther and her cousin Mordecai
costumes of “good guys”, (no demons,
candy, and a small toy. The contents are
who thwarted the evil plans of Haman
ghosts, bad characters), and they go
“ready-to-eat” items, given to friends,
and saved the Jewish people in King
door to door giving out bags of treats,
family, and people-in-need so that
Ahasuerus’ kingdom. Many people
instead of asking for treats. This is done
everyone can enjoy a Purim feast. Often
know about dressing up in costume,
during the day, after re-reading the story
at least two bags are given out; one to a
swirling around groggers (noisemakers),
of Esther, followed by carnivals and
friend, and one to someone in need. This
and eating fruit-center, triangle-shaped
loud celebration. The holiday of Purim
way no one knows who is the friend and
cookies (hamantaschen). But the
is a joyful holiday with an emphasis on
who is the person-in-need. Respect and
Jewish religion and culture has varied
respect, learning, charity, and community.
doing a good deed/mitzvah go together
traditions, and multiple explanations
here in fulfilling both what is required
for why anything is done, and how it is
for this holiday and what is good for the
celebrated.
community.
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COOKING CORNER
HAMANTASCHEN COOKIES These triangle- shaped cookies are absolutely yummy any time of the year. This is a basic, dairy recipe that you can modify however you would like. You can add lemon, mini chocolate chips, cocoa powder, or any other spice to the dough for variation. You can also play with the fillings, to make them more unusual.
INGREDIENTS: ~~ 1 stick butter, softened ~~ 2/3 cup sugar ~~ 2 large eggs ~~ 2 teaspoons baking powder ~~ 2 cups flour, add up to ¼ cup more if too sticky ~~ ¼ teaspoon salt ~~ Fruit filling (preserves or pie filling works best. Do not use jelly.)
DIRECTIONS: 1.
Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
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In large bowl, cream together the butter and the sugar.
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Add the eggs and mix well.
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Combine the flour, salt and baking powder
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Line a cookie sheet with non-stick foil.
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ake a tablespoon of the dough and roll it into a ball. T Drop on cookie sheet.
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latten the ball into a circle. Add ~ ½ teaspoon of your F filling to the center.
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oll up the sides to make a triangle shape, and partially R enclose the filling.
10. Continue until you have filled your cookie sheet. 11. Bake for 8-10 minutes or until the dough is slightly
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Brian Austrin An educator at Parkway Ross
#1 Rabbi Alvan D. Rubin Dr., St. Louis, MO 63141 This program has been made possible through the generosity of individual donors and by community organizations. J-PAT is administered by the Deutsch Early Childhood Center of Congregation Temple Israel.
J-PAT, based on the national Parents as Teachers (PAT) research-based model, is a parent education and family support program serving Jewish families with children from birth through preschool. - 3 Home Visits by a Certified Parent Educator - Developmental Screenings - Family Activities to Inspire Jewish Values (Judaic content developed by Jewish Federation of St. Louis’ Community Development Department)
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Nighttime. Your child wakes up, or maybe never goes to sleep.
Because now there is something
Amazingly, maybe because she
to consider.
was exhausted, she slept that night, and the nights after. You told your
Her school, like many schools in
daughter everything you knew
America in the last decade, had
afterward, because you thought it
I’m scared, she says. Don’t worry.
to be evacuated. The staff got the
was right to. But now she knows
There’s nothing to be scared of, you
kids out with the calm, everyday
there is danger in the world. Parents
say. Go back to sleep. Everything is
heroism that you always wanted
will do anything to protect their
fine. Then you tuck her in again so
to believe was possible but never
children from harm, but we can’t
she believes you, even if she doesn’t
see tested. Every part of the plan
protect them from the knowledge
really, but she believes that you
worked. Everyone was safe, and
that harm exists. I don’t think we
believe it, and that’s good enough.
nothing dangerous was ever found.
even should, even though the next
In retrospect, and in reality, your
time she wakes up scared in the
The last time this happened, maybe
child was always safe. All of the
middle of the night, it may be harder
things were fine. Or mostly fine. Or
children were always safe. It is our
to assure her that there is nothing
at least the things that mattered: the
modern American middle-class
to be afraid of, or that everything is
happiness of her friendships, her
luxury to live without immediate
fine. But that’s what you’ll tell her
family, her parakeets and stuffed
danger of exposure, pandemic,
anyway. As it happens, it’s still true.
animals. She’d seen a suspenseful
invading hordes, tyranny, starvation,
Plus, she needs her sleep. And she
movie, and sure, maybe you
displacement, or dingoes. Other
has her whole adult life ahead of her
shouldn’t have let her watch it, but
children in the world are not nearly
to lie awake in bed.
you love suspenseful movies, even if
as lucky. Statistically, she is as safe
sometimes you have to hug a pillow,
as any child has ever been in all of
You know this, because most of the
and so do her older brothers, and
human history.
adults you know can’t sleep, either. So just like you reassured your child,
so you thought, What’s the worst that can happen? She won’t be able
But you know that for the first hours,
you say to yourself, Don’t worry.
to sleep? And so yes, that’s what
until everything was explained and
There’s nothing to be scared of. Go
happened. But she hasn’t woken up
the school was clear—that there
back to sleep. Everything is fine.
scared since. And that was over a
never was a threat at all—you were
week ago, which is pretty good, all
scared. How could you not be?
things considered.
Later, knowing that there wasn’t any danger, parents should rationally feel reassured. But our minds and bodies have already reacted and cannot un-respond. After paper has been crumpled, no amount of smoothing can put it back the way it was.
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Wednesday Orchid Show
Parent & Child
Baby ‘N Me
3/1 10am
3/2 9am-5pm
3/3 9:30am-11:30am
3/4 10am-11:30am
Free playgroup for children up to age 3 & a parent, grandparent or caregiver. UNITED HEBREW
a once-a-year opportunity to see a rotating display of hundreds of orchids from the Garden’s expansive permanent living collection amid a tropical oasis MISSOURI BOTANICAL
An ongoing program for parents and/or caregivers of children who are walking. Lisa Cohen & Jane Weinhaus teach this class. Class includes: Music (Led by Miss Megan) Snacks Playtime (Outdoor & Indoor), & more. CONGREGATION TEMPLE
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, & gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat. SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL
Secular
Mommies in Motion 3/1 6pm-7pm
Baby ‘N Me
DESLOGE OUTPATIENT CENTER, 121 ST. LUKE'S CENTER DR $48
AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD, RM 8 OPEN TO MEMBERS & NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048
3/2 9:15am-10:45am Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, & gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat. SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL
Introduction to Judaism 3/1 7pm-9pm
Jewish
GARDEN FREE ADMISSION BEFORE NOON, $5 / PERSON, PLUS REGULAR ADMISSION
An 8 wk exercise program designed to address the fitness needs of pregnant women, combining stretching, strengthening & light aerobics in a comfortable & supportive environment. Classes are held every Tuesday & Thursday evenings. ST. LUKE'S HOSPITAL, To register call 314-205-6906
Class is designed for Jewish & non-Jewish adults in an interfaith relationship, considering conversion to Judaism, or who simply want to learn more about Judaism. CENTRAL
Baby & Me 3/2 9:30am-11pm A new class for Parents and/or Caregivers of infants & kids who aren’t yet walking. This class be taught by Lisa Cohen. This class is our gift to parents, & will include: Music Snacks Speakers (topics such as nutrition.) CONGREGATION TEMPLE
REFORM CONGREGATION, 5020 WATERMAN BLVD, ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $250/INDIVIDUAL, $275/ COUPLE contact Steve Sorkin at
Schools & Synagogues
Friday
SSECC Temple Tots
CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD STL, 63141
314/983-0229 or ssorkin@urj.org.
ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
Mental Health Panel
Hats Off to Dr. Seuss
3/1 7pm-9pm
3/2 10:30am-11:30am
Join for a panel discussion with 3 community members who have experienced the impact of mental health crisis from different angles. Each panelist will answer questions, lend insight to a challenging topic, & share their stories. CONGREGATION
Preschoolers (ages 3-5), join us for a day that is bigger than any holiday you know rolled into one, as we celebrate Read Across America Day & Dr. Seuss' birthday. Kids will enjoy activities, crafts, story time & a snack all while we play the morning away
SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD FREE Jodi Miller jmiller@sestl.org
RIVERCHASE, 990 HORAN DR, FENTON $10 / CHILD, ADULTS ARE FREE Call 636-343-0067 to sign up
The Jewish Course of Why?
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3/1 7pm-8:30pm In what is likely the funnest JLI course yet, we will confront the controversial, explain the unanswerable & break down the quizzical. Fifty questions found to be most intriguing to over thirtythousand adult learners — the most popular questions in all of Judaism. Are you ready to take a leap in your understanding of Judaism?
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3/2 7pm-8pm Scott Andrews, clarinet, Tod Bowermaster, horn, Erik Harris, double bass, & Will James, percussion, introduce instruments from the four main sections of the orchestra through virtuosic solo demonstration, then come together to perform a piece by Douglas Hill.
LAZAROFF CHABAD CENTER, 8124 DELMAR BLVD $89 FOR 6 CLASSES
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On Stage at Powell
718 NORTH GRAND BOULEVARD, STL 63103 FREE
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ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD, RM 8 OPEN TO MEMBERS & NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048
Open Play at the J
Open Play at the J
3/3 10:30am-11:30am
3/4 10:30am-11:30am
5 yrs & younger w/adult. Creativity & imagination meet! Open up a world of new friends & families, while playing & using your imaginations to giggle & have fun in a relaxed & non-structured environment.
FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 & younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members & non-members.
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
JCC MARILYN FOX BUILDING, 16801 BAXTER RD, CHESTERFIELD, MO 63005 FREE Marianne Chervitz,
Emilie Brockman, 314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org (SFC
314-442-3454
The Lodge Indoor Wave Pool Open Swim Times
Fit Kid: Free Kid Nights
3/3 4pm-8pm
Enjoy a variety of fun health & fitness activities from on the first Friday evening of each month! St. Louis Children’s Hospital is part of this great program offered by The Magic House. Fit Kid night gives families the opportunity to play their way to a healthier lifestyle. THE MAGIC HOUSE
play in the wave pool, tot splash pool or slide. Our no-waves open swim time is a great way to enjoy water time during the week or keep up with your child's swimming skills. 1050 DES PERES RD, STL, MO 63131 VARIES, UP TO $9 / PERSON
3/4 4pm-8pm
FREE
Shabbat Across America at Bais Abe 3/4 5:40pm-10pm
First Fridays 3/4 6pm
Bring your family & friends for Shabbat at Bais Abe on Friday, March 4 as part of Shabbat Across America. The evening will feature a Carlebach-style service & dinner. All are welcome! $12/ADULT, $6/ CHILD RSVP thru www.baisabe.com
Join us for a full Friday evening Shabbat service for all generations. Those celebrating a birthday this month are invited on the bema for a special birthday blessing & treat! Following the blessing, children ages 7 & under & an accompanying adult leave the Sanctuary for a special program in the preschool.
First Friday: A Traditional Shabbat Experience
CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD Contact Emily
TRADITIONAL CONGREGATION, 12437 LADUE RD, ST LOUIS MO 63141 $12/PERSON (KIDS UNDER 6 & FIRST-TIME GUESTS ARE FREE). RSVP TO 314-576-5230 OR TRADCONG@SBCGLOBAL.NET
Cohen at 314-692-5365 or ecohen@ sestl.org
3/4 5:45pm-9:30pm Join us for Kabbalat Shabbat services, followed by a delicious, kosher full-course dinner. Special entertainment by STAAM, WashU's outstanding a capella group
5 Saturday
Family & Friends CPR
3/5 9am-11:30am
3/5 10am-4pm A unique opportunity to learn about the human brain & whats happening with cutting-edge brain research! This full-day expo features free hands-on activities & engaging demonstrations. Plan to explore The Amazing Brain Carnival, created by Washington University grad students in neuroscience, psychology & biomedical engineering. ST LOUIS SCIENCE CENTER FREE
3/5 10am-11:30am
CENTRAL REFORM CONGREGATION, 5020 WATERMAN BLVD, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
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Children, ages 3 & up will create a small world using live plants in this terrarium class. Each parent/ child pair will create one beautiful terrarium to take home. Materials are provided. EDWARDSVILLE CHILDREN'S MUSEUM, 722 HOLYOAKE RD, EDWARDSVILLE IL 62025 $20 FOR MEMBERS & $25 FOR NON-MEMBERS, MUSEUM ADMISSION IS INCLUDED
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Rainbow Connection is CRC’s education program for toddlers three years & younger (for the 2015-2016 school year, children should be younger than four years old as of 7/31/15). Parents attend this program with their children & learn together about Jewish holidays & Judaism through art, music, play & fun!
Ages 6 weeks - 6 years
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7:30am - 6:00 pm
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Monday
Super Kids Breakfast
Orchid Show
3/6 9am-11am
3/7 9am-5pm
Dress like your favorite superhero & enjoy a superhero-themed morning filled with action-packed activities, the chance to meet some of your favorite superheroes like Batman & Spiderman, a delicious breakfast & private playtime in the Super Kids Save the World exhibit.
a once-a-year opportunity to see a rotating display of hundreds of orchids from the Garden’s expansive permanent living collection amid a tropical oasis
THE MAGIC HOUSE MEMBERS: $15, NONMEMBERS: $20
3/8 9am-4pm
Slatkin currently is music director for the Detroit Symphony Orchestra, but is coming ‘home’ to support the RAF-STL & its mission to bring classical music to our city “24 hours a day, seven days a week”. During the gala, Slatkin will be joined in a concert by four world-renowned musicians: Olga Kern, Sharon Isbin, Cho-Liang Lin & the maestro’s brother, Frederick Zlotkin. All of these artists are graciously donating their time & talent for this event.
Visit for a ride on the C.P. Huntington Miniature Train, which is scheduled to resume (weather permitting). 3015 BARRETT STATION RD, STL 63122 $5- $15 / PERSON
SSECC Temple Tots 3/8 10am
3/7 9:30am-10:30am
Aish Hebrew School & Adult Sunday School
For children ages 4- 24 months, with an adult. A great 1st class experience that includes a parenting topic for discussion, periodic speakers, take home materials, music, snack & more.
Free playgroup for children up to age 3 & a parent, grandparent or caregiver. UNITED HEBREW
CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION
Jewish
RAF Presents Leonard Slatkin & Friends
Together Time at the J
At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun & enthusiasm. 457 N. WOODS MILL RD.,
Schools & Synagogues
Museum of Transportation Miniature Train Opening Day
reservations are required: http:// www.magichouse.org
3/6 10am-12pm
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MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN FREE ADMISSION BEFORE NOON, $5 / PERSON, PLUS REGULAR ADMISSION
Tuesday
Baby Bash! 3/6 10am-11:30am Calling all expectant parents! We'd love to celebrate this special time in your life with you & give you a sneakpeek into all of the wonderful ways we are here to support your growing family. Light brunch served, free gift for your baby & a chance to meet the parents of your child's future friends! JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Marianne Chervitz, 314-442-3454 or mchervitz@jccstl.org (Fox)
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR EMILIE BROCKMAN, 314-4423267, EBROCKMAN@JCCSTL. ORG
Jewish Arts & Soul Project: Basics of Belly Dancing 3/7 7pm-9pm Get ready to shimmy like you’re in Shushan! Belly dance artist, instructor & Artistic Director of Aalim Dance, Lois Salwa Marshall, highlights the Middle Eastern origins of belly dancing & its connections to the Purim story. Participants practice basic movements such as torso articulation & hip isolation before enjoying a performance by the expert herself. 356 NORTH BOYLE AVE., 2ND FLOOR $10
TE Tots 3/6 10am-10:45am A bi-monthly program for tots ages 12mo – 3 years. We invite our toddlers to bring a parent or grandparent on Sundays for a Jewish themed movement & music class. Free to members & non-members 12166 CONWAY RD, ST LOUIS, MO 63141
Sunday Chess Classes 3/6 1pm Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids & adults WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. First time
to the club is free, so non-members get it free once.
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Knit Wits at Covenant Place 3/8 1pm-2pm Knitters wanted! Want to enhance your skills or help others to learn? Would you like to work on group projects while socializing with others? Join the Knit Wits for a fun, interactive knitting class. MILFORD & LEE BOHM SOCIAL HALL, LOWER LEVEL OF COVENANT HOUSE II, 8 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Winter Practice Sessions at Purina Farms 3/8 1pm-9pm Come out with your dog to practice agility, obedience & conformation. Winter practice sessions cost $10, with 100% of the fees going to local welfare groups. PURINA EVENT CENTER, 300 CHECKERBOARD DR, GRAY SUMMIT MO 63039
3/8 5:30pm
SHELDON COCERT HALL SEATS FOR THE GALA ARE STILL AVAILABLE (PRICES RANGE) AS WELL AS INDIVIDUAL CONCERT TICKETS ($50 EACH).
Contact Linda Shedlofsky at 314881-3523
Introduction to Judaism 3/8 7pm-9pm Anyone interested in gaining adult-level introductory knowledge of Judaism is invited to enroll in a 16-week session. Class is designed for Jewish & non-Jewish people in an interfaith relationship, considering conversion to Judaism, or who simply want to learn more about Judaism. CENTRAL REFORM CONGREGATION, 5020 WATERMAN BLVD, ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $250 FOR AN INDIVIDUAL/ $275 FOR A COUPLE
contact Steve Sorkin at 314/9830229 or ssorkin@urj.org.
The Jewish Course of Why? 3/8 7pm-8:30pm In what is likely the funnest JLI course yet, we will confront the controversial, explain the unanswerable & break down the quizzical. Fifty questions found to be most intriguing to over thirtythousand adult learners — the most popular questions in all of Judaism. Are you ready to take a leap in your understanding of Judaism? LAZAROFF CHABAD CENTER, 8124 DELMAR BLVD $89 FOR 6 CLASSES
Wednesday Baby ‘N Me
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Parent & Child
3/9 9:15am-10:45am
3/10 9:30am-11:30am
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, & gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat. SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL
An ongoing program for parents and/or caregivers of children who are walking. Lisa Cohen & Jane Weinhaus teach this class. Class includes: Music (Led by Miss Megan) Snacks Playtime (Outdoor & Indoor), & more. CONGREGATION TEMPLE
AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD, RM 8 OPEN TO MEMBERS & NONMEMBERS.
314-569-0048
ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
Baby & Me
Open Play at the J
3/9 9:30am-11pm
3/10 10:30am-11:30am
A new class for Parents and/or Caregivers of infants & kids who aren’t yet walking. This class be taught by Lisa Cohen. This class is our gift to parents, & will include: Music Snacks Speakers (topics such as nutrition.) CONGREGATION TEMPLE
5 yrs & younger w/adult. Creativity & imagination meet! Open up a world of new friends & families, while playing & using your imaginations to giggle & have fun in a relaxed & non-structured environment.
ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
Water Waddlers at The Lodge Des Peres
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE Emilie Brockman, 314-442-
3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org (SFC
Ladies' Knight
3/9 10:30am-12pm
3/10 6:30pm-7:30pm
Enjoy a morning of fun at the indoor tot pool with your friends, neighbors & children. This program is designed for children, ages 6 & under, accompanied by a parent/guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child. 1050 DES PERES RD,
Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn & improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar & WGM Katerina Nemcova
STL 63131 $0- $5 / CHILD
Wine Down Wednesday 3/9 6pm Join us every Wednesday in December for Yoga & wine! Led by our friends from Namaste DIMVALOO ACTIVE LIVING, 8813 LADUE RD., ST. LOUIS, MO, 63124
314.824.8224. For more information call our store or visit us on-line www. dimvaloo.com
B'nai Amoona ECC Parent class 3/9 7:30pm Topic:TBA
CHESS CLUB & SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
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Family Center Storytime Series
Keeper Talks
3/11 9:30am-10:15am
Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am & join our keepers as they feed & water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, & what they all eat. WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY
In Partnership with PJ library, we are offering a new storytime series for children 5 & under with their caregiver. Come & listen to a story, sing songs, make a special art project, eat a snack, all while learning about the Jewish Holidays. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Art in Bloom 3/11-3/13 10am-5pm The final day of Art in Bloom is a perfect time to bring the entire family! Children are invited to make an artful floral arrangement with the help of Art in Bloom designers & enjoy an afternoon of storytelling & visits from favorite storybook characters.
3/12 9am-10am
FREE
It's Purple Martin Time 3/12 9:30am-11:30am Ages 14 & up. Welcome purple martins back after their annual spring migration from S. America. Come learn how you can help conserve these beautiful, insect-eating, cavity dwelling swallows that are native to MO. Learn how to establish & manage your own colony of purple martins. See our colony. BUSCH VISITOR CENTER FREE
For Reservations call 636-441-4554.
SAINT LOUIS ART MUSEUM, FOREST PARK FREE
A Sibling Class 3-8 yrs
Baby ‘N Me Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, & gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
This class provides an opportunity for younger children to feel they are an important part of the upcoming event. Children practice holding a newborn-sized doll & make a present for their new brother or sister. Siblings receive a T-shirt & certificate, & take a tour.
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD, RM 8 OPEN TO MEMBERS & NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048
To register call 314-205-6906
3/11 10am-11:30am
3/12 10am-11:30am
ST LUKE'S HOSPITAL, 232 S. WOODS MILL RD., 3RD FLOOR ACROSS FROM THE MEDICAL LIBRARY $15 / CHILD
Open Play at the J 3/11 10:30am-11:30am FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 & younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members & non-members. JCC MARILYN FOX BUILDING, 16801 BAXTER RD, CHESTERFIELD, MO 63005 FREE Marianne Chervitz, 314-442-
3454 or mchervitz@jccstl.org (Fox)
B'NAI AMOONA, 324 S. MASON, STL, MO 63141
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SSECC Temple Tots
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Visitors can experience the thrill of flight like never before at Above & Beyond, a new, interactive exhibit previously housed at Smithsonian’s National Air & Space Museum. Presented by Boeing, Above & Beyond is designed to introduce guests to aerospace technology through an immersive experience that explores flight & space travel. Visitors can design & serve as a test pilot for a supersonic jet, ride in a space elevator, see a future Mars space hub & more.
Free playgroup for children up to age 3 & a parent, grandparent or caregiver.
CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RDFREE
rsvp by 2/12 to kbrown@sestl.org
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Aish Hebrew School & Adult Sunday School 3/13 10am-12pm At Aish, our kids love coming to Hebrew school because we teach them to love Judaism. We combine a rich learning environment with fun & enthusiasm. 457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION
CraftTech Makerspace Sundays 3/13 1pm-4pm
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Free Makerspace Sundays let you experience 3D Makerbot printers, 3D scanners & CAD software in the Boeing Graphics Studio at Grand Studios. An instructor will be on hand. Registration is required the Thursday before each class. CRAFT ALLIANCE - GRAND CENTER, 501 N. GRAND BOULEVARD, STL 63103
Schools & Synagogues
AKC Museum of the Dog Presents "Mush" 3/13 1:30pm-2:30pm Competitive musher Richie Camden & members of his sled dog team will discuss terminology, demonstrate how to harness & "bootie" along with telling stories of their experiences. Several of his sled dogs will be featured during this lecture. Great event for the entire family! 1721 SOUTH MASON RD., STL 63131
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To secure a seat individuals & families may RSVP by calling the museum at 314-821-3647
Sifriyat Pijama Hebrew Storytime 3/13 4pm-5:30pm Children ages 2-8 who have at least one Hebrew-speaking parent are invited for a free interactive story time including Israeli dancing & snacks. SMJCS, 348 S. MASON RD., STL 63141 FREE
RSVP online: www.mirowitz.org
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Kings, Queens & Castles 3/14 10am-5pm an innovative exhibition which brings the chess board to life & provides an engaging introduction to individual chess pieces & game strategy. WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 /CHILD, FREE ON TUESDAYS
UNITED HEBREW CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD STL, 63141
Knit Wits at Covenant Place 3/15 1pm-2pm Knitters wanted! Want to enhance your skills or help others to learn? Would you like to work on group projects while socializing with others? Join the Knit Wits for a fun, interactive knitting class. MILFORD & LEE BOHM SOCIAL HALL, LOWER LEVEL OF COVENANT HOUSE II, 8 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Introduction to Judaism 3/15 7pm-9pm Anyone interested in gaining adult-level introductory knowledge of Judaism is invited to enroll in a 16-week session. Class is designed for Jewish & non-Jewish people in an interfaith relationship, considering conversion to Judaism, or who simply want to learn more about Judaism. CENTRAL REFORM CONGREGATION, 5020 WATERMAN BLVD, ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $250 FOR AN INDIVIDUAL/ $275 FOR A COUPLE
contact Steve Sorkin at 314/9830229 or ssorkin@urj.org.
The Jewish Course of Why? 3/15 7pm-8:30pm In what is likely the funnest JLI course yet, we will confront the controversial, explain the unanswerable & break down the quizzical. Fifty questions found to be most intriguing to over thirtythousand adult learners — the most popular questions in all of Judaism. Are you ready to take a leap in your understanding of Judaism? LAZAROFF CHABAD CENTER, 8124 DELMAR BLVD $89 FOR 6 CLASSES
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Keeper Talks
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3/19 9am-10am
A new class for Parents and/or Caregivers of infants & kids who aren’t yet walking. This class be taught by Lisa Cohen. This class is our gift to parents, & will include: Music Snacks Speakers (topics such as nutrition.)
An ongoing program for parents and/or caregivers of children who are walking. Lisa Cohen & Jane Weinhaus teach this class. Class includes: Music (Led by Miss Megan) Snacks Playtime (Outdoor & Indoor), & more.
Come where creativity & imagination meet! Meet new families in a relaxed, non-structured environment where your kids can roam free & play with all kinds of new toys. No reservations necessary. Open to members & non-members of the J.
Meet outside the Wildlife Hospital at 9 am & join our keepers as they feed & water our birds. Learn what they are, how they got here, & what they all eat.
CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
JCC MARILYN FOX BUILDING, 16801 BAXTER RD, CHESTERFIELD, MO 63005 FREE
Orchid Show
Water Waddlers at The Lodge Des Peres
St Louis Carousel Play & Ride
3/16 10:30am-12pm
3/17 10am-12pm
Public Stargazing
Enjoy a morning of fun at the indoor tot pool with your friends, neighbors & children. This program is designed for children, ages 6 & under, accompanied by a parent/guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child.
Bring your child for a fun time! Children can enjoy going back & forth from great activities in the play room to unlimited rides.
a once-a-year opportunity to see a rotating display of hundreds of orchids from the Garden’s expansive permanent living collection amid a tropical oasis
1050 DES PERES RD, STL 63131 $0- $5 / CHILD
Recycled Art Sale 3/16-3/17 See description There will be a VIP Preview night on Wednesday, March 16 from 5:00-8:00 pm. The cost is $18 & you can enjoy wine & cheese & get early access to view & purchase featured art by well-known & local artists. Tickets can be purchased at this link or at the door. The art sale will be open to the public on Thursday, March 17 from 10:00 am–7:00 pm. All proceeds from the Recycled Art Sale will go to fund NCJW’s projects & programs that benefit women, children & families. NCJW, 295 N. LINDBERGH
15193 OLIVE BLVD, CHESTERFIELD MO 63017 $8/CHILD
Open Play at the J 3/17 10:30am-11:30am 5 yrs & younger w/adult. Creativity & imagination meet! Open up a world of new friends & families, while playing & using your imaginations to giggle & have fun in a relaxed & non-structured environment. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Marianne Chervitz, 314-442-3454 or mchervitz@jccstl.org (Fox)
3/18 7pm The Parks Department & the Astronomical Society of Eastern Missouri (ASEM) offer free educational stargazing programs every Friday night. Weather permitting, the whole family can view constellations & stars through complex telescopes at the unique Astronomy Viewing Area in the park. BROEMMELSIEK PARK, 1795 HIGHWAY DD, ST. CHARLES 63341 FREE
WORLD BIRD SANCTUARY FREE
3/19 9am-5pm
MISSOURI BOTANICAL GARDEN FREE ADMISSION BEFORE NOON, $5 / PERSON, PLUS REGULAR ADMISSION
Let's Go Fly a Kite 3/19 1pm Come out to the parks to have a fun spring day flying a kite with a Ranger. Kites will be provided. Meet in the large field above the Greensfelder Complex main parking lot. QUEENY PARK, 550 WEIDMAN RD, BALLWIN, 63021
Advanced Registration Required, call 314 615-8472.
Emilie Brockman, 314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org (SFC
Ladies' Knight 3/17 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn & improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar & WGM Katerina Nemcova CHESS CLUB & SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
WANT TO LIST YOUR EVENT HERE? EMAIL US AT:
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Visitors can experience the thrill of flight like never before at Above & Beyond, a new, interactive exhibit previously housed at Smithsonian’s National Air & Space Museum. Presented by Boeing, Above & Beyond is designed to introduce guests to aerospace technology through an immersive experience that explores flight & space travel. Visitors can design & serve as a test pilot for a supersonic jet, ride in a space elevator, see a future Mars space hub & more.
Free playgroup for children up to age 3 & a parent, grandparent or caregiver. UNITED HEBREW
457 N. WOODS MILL RD., CHESTERFIELD, MO 63017 AFFORDABLE TUITION
Purim Carnival at Shaare Emeth 3/20 10:30am-1pm Old favorites & exciting new additions: Game Truck, Jacob’s Ladder, bounce house, special room with games for early childhood age families, new prize system, no tchotchkes! Also lunch to purchase
ST LOUIS SCIENCE CENTER ADULTS: $10, CHILDREN: $8
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Green exhibit that kids can tag along on a superhero adventure to save the earth. Visitors can wear a cape & boots to become an energy-saving superhero, peddle a bike to light up a city street, visit a farmer's market, dress up at the Reuse Charity Shop, make a science discovery in the research lab & more, all while learning important skills to help protect the planet. THE MAGIC HOUSE
Knitters wanted! Want to enhance your skills or help others to learn? Would you like to work on group projects while socializing with others? Join the Knit Wits for a fun, interactive knitting class.
Viva la France! Stroll along the Seine with Claude Monet or strike a pose with Edgar Degas’ Little Dancer during Family Sundays in March. Each week will feature a French inspired art activity & tour of the collection. SAINT LOUIS ART
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3/22 12pm-5:30pm
3/22 1pm-2pm
3/20 1pm-4pm
MILFORD & LEE BOHM SOCIAL HALL, LOWER LEVEL OF COVENANT HOUSE II, 8 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
MUSEUM, FOREST PARK FREE
Trivia Night: 50 Years of Trivia
Introduction to Judaism
3/20 6:30pm-10:30pm
Anyone interested in gaining adult-level introductory knowledge of Judaism is invited to enroll in a 16-week session. Class is designed for Jewish & non-Jewish people in an interfaith relationship, considering conversion to Judaism, or who simply want to learn more about Judaism. CENTRAL REFORM
A fun night of trivia, from the '60's through the present. Doors open at 6:30, trivia begins at 7:00 PM. Tables of 8, entry fee includes decadethemed food, soda & beer (dietary laws observed, no outside food permitted). Mulligans, silent auction, prizes! Bring your friends & join the fun! TRADITIONAL CONGREGATION, 12437 LADUE RD, ST LOUIS MO 63141 $25 PP
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Super Kids Save the World
Knit Wits at Covenant Place
Family Sundays: The French Connection
3/22 7pm-9pm
The Jewish Course of Why? 3/22 7pm-8:30pm In what is likely the funnest JLI course yet, we will confront the controversial, explain the unanswerable & break down the quizzical. Fifty questions found to be most intriguing to over thirtythousand adult learners — the most popular questions in all of Judaism. Are you ready to take a leap in your understanding of Judaism? LAZAROFF CHABAD CENTER, 8124 DELMAR BLVD $89 FOR 6 CLASSES
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CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD STL, 63141
NORMAL MUSEUM ADMISSION
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CONGREGATION, 5020 WATERMAN BLVD, ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $250 FOR AN INDIVIDUAL/ $275 FOR A COUPLE contact 314/983-
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3/26 8am-5pm
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, & gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat. SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL
An ongoing program for parents and/or caregivers of children who are walking. Lisa Cohen & Jane Weinhaus teach this class. Class includes: Music (Led by Miss Megan) Snacks Playtime (Outdoor & Indoor), & more.
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, & gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat.
March brings a very special kind of madness to the Sophia M. Sachs Butterfly House - our annual March Morpho Mania® event! Visit us during the month of March, when the Butterfly House floods the tropical conservatory with thousands of breathtaking Blue Morpho butterflies - a perennial favorite. What better way to celebrate spring?
AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD, RM 8 OPEN TO MEMBERS & NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048
Baby & Me 3/23 9:30am-11pm A new class for Parents and/or Caregivers of infants & kids who aren’t yet walking. This class be taught by Lisa Cohen. This class is our gift to parents, & will include: Music Snacks Speakers (topics such as nutrition.) CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
Water Waddlers at The Lodge Des Peres 3/23 10:30am-12pm Enjoy a morning of fun at the indoor tot pool with your friends, neighbors & children. This program is designed for children, ages 6 & under, accompanied by a parent/guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child. 1050 DES PERES RD, STL 63131 $0- $5 / CHILD
Purim Party for Kids! 3/23 5pm-7:30pm Fun for all ages, Costume contest & prizes, balloon art, Live DJ (Utopia Entertainment), Pasta buffet dinner. Different time schedule for varying ages. See schedule on website CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. $10/FAMILY
Purim Disney Style
CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
SHIRLEE GREEN PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD, RM 8 OPEN TO MEMBERS & NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048
Open Play at the J
Open Play at the J
3/24 10:30am-11:30am
3/25 10:30am-11:30am
5 yrs & younger w/adult. Creativity & imagination meet! Open up a world of new friends & families, while playing & using your imaginations to giggle & have fun in a relaxed & non-structured environment.
FREE indoor playtime for kids 5 & younger with an adult. Snack included. Families are welcome to stay for the Early Childhood Tot Shabbat each week at 11:30am. Open to members & non-members.
JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
JCC MARILYN FOX BUILDING, 16801 BAXTER RD, CHESTERFIELD, MO 63005 FREE
Emilie Brockman, 314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org (SFC
Marianne Chervitz, 314-442-3454 or mchervitz@jccstl.org (Fox)
Purim Reenactment Parade
Six Flags Seasonal Opening
3/24 2pm-3pm
3/25 10:30am-6pm
By Royal Decree, Mordechai will ride thru the streets of the Kingdom upon the Royal Horse & dressed in the King's garments, led by the King's Regent, Haman. All loyal subjects of the King are invited to hail Mordechai as he rides by!
Six Flags St. Louis reopens for the season. Enjoy all that the park has to offer, thrill rides, Bugs Bunny National Park, food, entertainment & more. EUREKA, 63025
GAY & CORNELL IN U CITY, STL, 63130 FREE
Ladies' Knight
VARIES
SOPHIA M. SACHS BUTTERFLY HOUSE, 15193 OLIVE BLVD, CHESTERFIELD 63017 VARIES
Helping Our State Bird, the Bluebird 3/26 10am-11:30am Learn about the bluebird, when they were designated as a state symbol, & how to establish a brooding pair in your own yard. Build a bluebird house to take home (one / family). ROCKWOODS RESERVATION, 2751 GLENCOE RD, WILDWOOD, 63038 FOR RESERVATIONS, PLEASE CALL 636-458-2236. FREE
Rhythm ‘n’ Ruach Shabbat Family Jam 3/26 11am-12pm Families from all over are enjoying this joyous & creative Shabbat experience. Please come & join the Shabbat Celebration– We supply the instruments & you & your kids bring the Rhythm! KOL RINAH, 829 N HANLEY, STL, MO 63130 FREE
3/24 6:30pm-7:30pm Open to women of all ages; the perfect class to learn & improve. Taught by IM Irene Sukandar & WGM Katerina Nemcova CHESS CLUB & SCHOLASTIC CENTER OF ST LOUIS, 4657 MARYLAND AVE, ST LOUIS, MO 63108
3/23 7pm-9pm Megillah reading, Schpiel, hamentaschen, & more! CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD
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Baby ‘N Me
Parent & Child
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3/29 9am
3/30 9:15am-10:45am
3/31 9:30am-11:30am
Children ages birth to 3 yrs & their caregivers. Each weekly session includes light refreshments & socializing followed by activities focusing on creative & cognitive development. WORLD CHESS HALL
Come join us at Shirlee Green Preschool to socialize, share music, enjoy a snack, & gentle activity. As always, you are welcome to stay for Shabbat. SHIRLEE GREEN
An ongoing program for parents and/or caregivers of children who are walking. Lisa Cohen & Jane Weinhaus teach this class. Class includes: Music (Led by Miss Megan) Snacks Playtime (Outdoor & Indoor), & more. CONGREGATION TEMPLE
Free Makerspace Sundays let you experience 3D Makerbot printers, 3D scanners & CAD software in the Boeing Graphics Studio at Grand Studios. An instructor will be on hand. Registration is required the Thursday before each class. CRAFT ALLIANCE - GRAND CENTER, 501 N. GRAND BOULEVARD, STL 63103
Sunday Chess Classes 3/27 1pm Beginners to advanced level classes for both kids & adults WORLD CHESS HALL OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 FREE FOR MEMBERS. FIRST TIME TO THE CLUB IS FREE, SO NON-MEMBERS GET IT FREE ONCE.
OF FAME, 4652 MARYLAND AVE., ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $5 / ADULT/ CHILD PAIR, FREE FOR WCHOF MEMBERS. ONE ADULT / CHILD REQUIRED.
SSECC Temple Tots 3/29 10am Free playgroup for children up to age 3 & a parent, grandparent or caregiver. UNITED HEBREW CONGREGATION, 13788 CONWAY RD STL, 63141
Knit Wits at Covenant Place 3/29 1pm-2pm
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Knitters wanted! Want to enhance your skills or help others to learn? Would you like to work on group projects while socializing with others? Join the Knit Wits for a fun, interactive knitting class.
Schools & Synagogues
MILFORD & LEE BOHM SOCIAL HALL, LOWER LEVEL OF COVENANT HOUSE II, 8 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Introduction to Judaism 3/29 7pm-9pm Anyone interested in gaining adult-level introductory knowledge of Judaism is invited to enroll in a 16-week session. Class is designed for Jewish & non-Jewish people in an interfaith relationship, considering conversion to Judaism, or who simply want to learn more about Judaism. CENTRAL REFORM
CALENDAR
CONGREGATION, 5020 WATERMAN BLVD, ST LOUIS, MO 63108 $250 FOR AN INDIVIDUAL/ $275 FOR A COUPLE
contact Steve Sorkin at 314/9830229 or ssorkin@urj.org.
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PRESCHOOL AT CONGREGATION SHAARE EMETH, 11645 LADUE RD, RM 8 OPEN TO MEMBERS & NONMEMBERS. 314-569-0048
Baby & Me 3/30 9:30am-11pm A new class for Parents and/or Caregivers of infants & kids who aren’t yet walking. This class be taught by Lisa Cohen. This class is our gift to parents, & will include: Music Snacks Speakers (topics such as nutrition.) CONGREGATION TEMPLE ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
Water Waddlers at The Lodge Des Peres 3/30 10:30am-12pm Enjoy a morning of fun at the indoor tot pool with your friends, neighbors & children. This program is designed for children, ages 6 & under, accompanied by a parent/guardian who is able to remain in the water with the child. 1050 DES PERES RD, STL 63131 $0- $5 / CHILD
ISRAEL, #1 RABBI ALVAN D. RUBIN DR. FREE Leslie Wolf lwolf@ti-stl.org
St Louis Carousel Play & Ride 3/31 10am-12pm Bring your child for a fun time! Children can enjoy going back & forth from great activities in the play room to unlimited rides. 15193 OLIVE BLVD, CHESTERFIELD MO 63017 $8/CHILD
Open Play at the J 3/31 10:30am-11:30am 5 yrs & younger w/adult. Creativity & imagination meet! Open up a world of new friends & families, while playing & using your imaginations to giggle & have fun in a relaxed & non-structured environment. JCC STAENBERG COMPLEX, 2 MILLSTONE CAMPUS DR FREE
Emilie Brockman, 314-442-3267, ebrockman@jccstl.org
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We are one of the fastest growing Chambers in Missouri! We are a Chamber without borders. We provide unique opportunities to do business and build relationships. If you have any questions or are interested in the Chamber, give us a call!
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An open-air, state-of-the-art, booth-less photo booth experience for weddings, parties, school or corporate events, grand openings, sporting or charity events, bar and bat mitzvahs, and more. It comes with a green screen and a 32” inch monitor for editing. It has printing capabilities, as well as the ability to share via text and email, or on social media. See my ad for more! Amber Smith 636-284-8282 a2zselfiecompany@gmail.com /A2Z Selfie Company a2zselfiecompany.com
Aspire Learning We offer online tutoring for SAT, ACT, Grade Level Common Core and subject level Math. Pick your own schedule in the comfort of your home for one-on-one learning. We have trained tutors who coach competitive Medical and Engineering entrance exams like ITT, JEE etc... and our mission is to provide quality tutoring at an affordable cost. We have demo class every Monday at 7:00 PM CST if you would like to try us out first. Email for more information.
Joseph Gollapudi 636-787-7843, 314-974-0890 info@aspirelearning.com aspirelearning.com/onlinetutoring/index.aspx
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Sitter Hound Sniffing out Great Sitters AND Walkers for St. Louis Dogs. With your support our dog sitting adventure is expanding and evolving into Sitter Hound...new company with a new name but offers the same loving care for your dog we’ve provided for over 2 years. “Sitter Hound” is a locally-owned and operated network of dog sitters and dog walkers working together to provide services to the wonderful dogs of St. Louis! Traveling? Your dog can come stay at a dog sitter’s dogfriendly home or a dog sitter can stay in your home. Working long hours? Dog walking and day camp is also available. Affordable rates and friendly dog-loving people are ready to help you out. Our home-style dog sitting and extensive screening for all our providers set us apart from other dog sitters.
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Nia is a holistic movement practice that blends dance arts, martial arts, and healing arts into a mind-bodyemotion-spirit experience. A Wisdom and Truth that transcends words is accessible through the collaboration of both ancient and modern teachings found in Nia. It is practiced with soulful and enlivening music, and is safe for all ages, body types, and fitness abilities. Nia allows beings of all different beliefs to come together as One and make a connection through movement and emotions. Weekly classes beginning on Wednesday, 3/2 from 5:00-6:00pm at Central Studio on Pershing Ave. Classes will be $6 per class during the month of March, and the first class is free for anyone who has never tried Nia. Neshama Roash (314) 570-1493 neshama@niaawakening.com www.nianow.com/neshamaliora
New listing for March Listed in February Turning 1 year old!
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Inclusive indoor playground with autism-friendly equipment, where the slogan is “A place where you don’t have to say I’m sorry.” The staff includes volunteers and occupational therapy students, all given tools to diffuse a disagreement or frustration, encourage play and keep children safe. Infants up to kids age 13 can play at their leisure for $12 per child and $10 per sibling. Packages are also available. A nonprofit, My Brother Rocks the Spectrum Foundation, helps needy families cover the cost.
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Young start-ups help our community’s economy. Look here monthly to see what is new!
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My mission is to get safe products into the hands of everyone. I specialize in non-toxic products for children and adults - skin care, sunscreen, make up, body products, kids products. Heather Lampert 314-659-9012 hilampert@gmail.com www.beautycounter.com/ heatherlampert
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Quality products free from harmful chemicals & toxins - skin care, body care, hair care, baby care, sunscreen and home cleaning.
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Creve Coeur Dentistry We offer advanced dentistry in a relaxed, caring atmosphere. Our philosophy is to treat our patients like our own family. That’s why we treat you with gentle, friendly care and offer you prompt appointments that respect your time. Whatever we can do to make your visit more comfortable and to give you a healthier, more attractive smile, we’ll strive to make it happen.
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Are you planning to relocate, or just want to simplify your life while turning some of your extra stuff into cash? Call Happy Spaces for professional organizational and decluttering services. Experience the Peace of Mind that comes from a clutter free lifestyle. Have your rooms and closets organized and turn piles in to cash!
Carly Black 314.494.2948 organizedlifestl@gmail.com organizedlifestl www.organizedlifestl.com
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Circle@Crown Café
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Kosher Café with delicious food, open from 8am to 2pm on Mondays through Fridays.
Rodan & Fields Consultant Skin Care Products
Artisan, hand-crafted, fresh and natural popcorn that is made in small batches and drizzled on for a real treat. My mission is to promote natural and healthy foods that taste great and are fun to eat. My products do not contain preservatives and other additives but still maintain the integrity and the quality in the foods that I create.
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100th Monkey Media
Nothing Bundt Cakes, St.Louis - Chesterfield
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We are a bakery that focuses only on baking the most delicious bundt cakes. We have four different sizes- bundtinis (our smallest cakes), bundtlets (they come in a nice clear container), 8 inch and 10 inch cakes. We have nine classic flavors along with a feature flavor each month. We also offer gluten free in our bundtlet size. All of our cakes come with our signature cream cheese frosting! Let’s gather round! Penelope & Jannette 636-220-6087 www.nothingbundtcakes.com
Lindsey Glass lindseyglass@hotmail.com www.lglass.myrandf.com
Social Media consulting and services for your business Libby Goldman & Mich Hancock Libby@100thmm.com Mich@100thmm.com www.100thmm.com
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TapSnap 1151 The photo booth has evolved into the fun and interactive TapSnap Phototainment system. Your guests can take high-quality photos and make them their own, adding digital props, green screen backgrounds and personal messages with the touch of a fingertip. Tony D. Williams (314) 932-2700 1151@tapsnap.net tapsnap1151 www.tapsnap1151.com
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Jean Millner 314-991-2055 jmillner@crowncenterstl.org www.crowncenterstl.org
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Congratulations successful sprouts celebrating 1 year in business!
Drizzler’s Pop-Kornery! Gourmet PopKorn, Foods & Gifts, LLC
Lisa Ann Douglass 404-542-3769 lisaanndouglass@gmail.com drizzlerspopkornery.com
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Iris Salsman 314.495.3017 iris@beenthered onethatst.com www.beentheredonethatstl.com
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Organized Life is a personalized service that teaches children and adults skills such as: Organizing, Time-Management, Building Your Child’s Character,Social Skills, Coping Skills and Study Skills. Specifically with children, Organized Life focuses on developing the building blocks to help children become happier and successful with their academic, social and emotional needs, so they can become more confident individuals now and for a lifetime.
A weight management program designed to keep clients motivated and successful through every step of their journey, incorporating low carb healthy eating, exercise and face-to-face and online coaching and support.
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Organized Life, LLC
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Elizabeth Kline MSW (314) 570-8942 Ekline75@yahoo.com Happy-Spaces-by-Lizzy
Dr. Sonu Muthuvalliappan & Dr. Nabi 314-355-2000 smile@crevecoeurdentistry.com
Been There Done That
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Ava Anderson Consultant
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Silhouette Fine Consignment and Resale Shoppers can expect a careful selection of gently used clothing, shoes and accessories for women of all ages. The merchandise consists of mostly newer styles combined with a few fun vintage pieces. Andrea Still 314-394-2940
St. Louis Jewish Parents
MAR 2016
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Divorce Hurts. Kids In The Middle Helps.® Before Counseling
After Counseling
We’re a family even if we live in 2 homes mom’s house
dad’s house
2650 S. Hanley Rd. Suite 150 • St. Louis, MO 63144 (314) 909-9922 • www.kidsinthemiddle.org