Streetvibes August 2007 Edition

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Streetvibes August, 2007

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“I Am So Sick of ‘Out’ Food” Now you will feel no rain, for each of you will be shelter for the other. Now you will feel no cold, for each of you will be warmth to the other. Now there will be no loneliness, for each of you will be companion to the other…Blessing of the Apaches

by Elissa Pogue Children experiencing homelessness, a phrase, a concept, so unbelievable in this day and age in our society, it never really strikes home, settles in on that level of believability …. denial, any kind of protection from the truth, pops up after you come face to face with their reality. And their reality is not always one we expect. Homelessness, which conjures up images of shelters, overcrowded, maybe, but shelters, nonetheless, can mean many things to children and families experiencing it. Michelle, a young teenager, is attending school in the east end of Cincinnati. We spent time together on the school’s playground steps every time I was at her school. Today, she was more talkative than usual. “I am so sick of ‘out food,’ Ms. Pogue,” she said. She sat hunched over herself, head low, hair in her face. “I’ve never ever been this heavy! My dad gets me a hamburger and fries every night from Wendy’s. We don’t have a way to cook or keep things cold. So we eat ‘out food’ every day. The thing I really miss about having a home is a place to cook.” Michelle’s family is a somewhat rare one: two parents living together with their three children, Michelle and her two younger brothers. They have been homeless for three years, living in and out of their van, sometimes in motels, sometimes with family until they wear out their welcome. “We had a nice house. Then my dad lost his job. We are going back to that house, when we get the money.” We both knew the house she had been living in was condemned and her family could not move back there anytime soon. Michelle has never lived in a shelter. It was weeks after attending school that she opened up to a supportive teacher about her living situation. Parents and children experiencing homelessness are understandably unwilling to report their homelessness to schools, agencies and community organizations out of fear, shame, and a sense of frustration at having to tell the story over and over to

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new people in new situations on a daily or weekly basis. Families Who Are Doubled Up Often Don’t See Themselves as Homeless Children and families experiencing homelessness are often invisible. They move in with friends or relatives for periods of time, depending on the situation. This is called doubling up and children in this situation are considered homeless and are, therefore, eligible for services under the McKinney Vento Homeless Assistance Act. In the school year, 2006-07, Project Connect identified and worked with 1036 children living in homeless shelters. A surprising 810 students lived in motels or a doubled up situation and received our services. The number of doubled up families served by us locally increased by 33%. Nationally, the numbers of doubled up children and families is growing so fast that there are new initiatives to help parents and professionals understand that children who are doubled up with family members, friends, or living in motels, trailers, are considered homeless and qualify for services. The following statements are true: Under The Federal Definition of Homeless under the McKinney Vento Homeless Education Assistance Act of 2001: · Being doubled up with friends/ relatives is homelessness; · The right to choose to go to the school of origin (where the student attended prior to experiencing homelessness or school last attended) or to the school where the

student is now staying is up to the parent/guardian/family/youth; ·Students experiencing homelessness have the right to remain in their school of choice for the length of homelessness and may finish the school year at that school EVEN IF they become permanently housed before the end of the school year; · Transportation to the school of origin must be provided if needed. Cross district transportation costs and arrangements are to be made by the school districts involved; ·Students experiencing homelessness must be immediately enrolled. Schools are responsible for acquiring school records, and cannot deny enrollment due to the lack of medical or residency records.

result in losing what feels like everything to children like Michelle. Her story is one of family loyalty, love, and failed resources. Michelle is overburdened and fiercely committed to keeping the family together. Her story has roots in job loss, and all the upheavals this creates in the precious balance today’s families work hard to maintain 24/7. Her story is one of skewed economics, in which there is not enough decent and affordable housing for our children, jobs that pay less than what people need to support their families, and precious little support for all the things that families and workers need for their day to day living– affordable transportation, daycare services, loan assistance. Michelle will attend school next year at her school of origin, where her teachers know her. Finding her voice made this possible. How many children in Michelle’s situation do we miss because we put the burden on them to ask for help? And we wonder why so many of our children act like they are grown?

Elissa Pogue is a potter, a teacher of mindfulness meditation, and a social worker with the Cincinnati Public Schools who has worked with children in neighborhoods all across the city. She is coordinator of Project Connect, a Cincinnati Public Schools program that works with families who are experiencing homelessness to help keep children connected with their schools. For more information, There are many other truths to please call 363-1060.

address on the issue of children experiencing homelessness: unaccompanied youth, children not in physical custody of their parents; preschoolers; and recent immigrants. Michelle’s family is one of thousands of families that are taking the slow slide from self-sufficiency into homelessness. Many more live on the brink, where some combination of elements, can come together to

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