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Welcome to December, the Month of Joy

e careful not to let December be a month that is filled mostly with shopping, wrapping, and total busyness; or to wait for the “holiday”; it’s not even a holiday. December brings us Holy Days. Days of traditions leading up to the birth of Jesus. We call this time, Advent. A four-week period of time to remember how Christmas came about, and to celebrate in our hearts, awaiting the birth of Jesus. And, of course, an Advent Wreath helps us prepare for this. Candles, prayers and more! So, if you are not familiar with Advent, (yes, I am going to say this!) Google “Advent” or “Advent Wreath” and you will find everything you need to know. You can find Advent candles at Christian Stores. If you do set up an Advent Wreath, it would be great if you would send over an image that I can share. Remember, December is the month of Joy! Hint: When you learn about the candles, know that I have used small battery operated candles, so I did not have to worry about the flame. You may want to use this month of Joy to examine your relationships. Know that a personal call, email, text message, visit, or even a personal note could encourage someone else. The holiday season is the time of year many are hurting and may need a special touch. #BeThatPersonOfJoy A few other important December holidays: Hanukkah (has a traditional menorah), Kwanzaa is a celebration of African heritage. Fiesta of Our Lady of Guadalupe (Mexican Heritage)

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preschool matters If you think all your kid does at preschool is sing songs and play games, you’re mostly correct. But that’s precisely what he needs to be doing. These kinds of activities are how kids at this age make connections in their brains. And considering brain development is at its highest during the first four years of life, children can get a lot out of a quality preschool program. In fact, many longitudinal studies show a strong relationship between preschool attendance and success later in life, including improved academic readiness, higher graduation rates, better long term jobs and higher earnings.

Yes it’s frustrating, but think about it this way. Sibling rivalry gives our children an opportunity to develop important people skills like negotiation, cooperation, and the ability to see another’s point of view. As long as they’re not hurting each other, it’s worthwhile to let them solve their problems themselves. Suggestions are fine, but try to let them ultimately work things out. Don’t yell or take sides. Do teach them how to compromise and respect one another. Then remind yourself that in most cases, your kiddos’ relationship will eventually develop into a close one.

IT’S NOT ME; IT’S YOU Some of us love parties. Some of us, not so much. How do you get through holiday group gatherings if they’re really not your thing? Stop thinking about you and put the focus on them. Think to yourself, “It’s not me; it’s you.” Ask your extended family, old friends or new acquaintances how they are, how they’ve been and what’s on their horizon. People love to talk about themselves. Get them talking and you won’t have to.

tis the season Shopping, planning, decorating, baking, rushing, wrapping, running. It’s no wonder so many of us get so stressed out over the holidays. If this is you, stop what you’re doing and take a quick, quiet moment to remember and appreciate what the holidays are really about. If that doesn’t work, schedule some self-care time. A massage or a workout or a dinner date with your mate could do wonders. Be proactive if you feel yourself really struggling. And ask for help if you need it. Tis the season for joy and good tidings. Don’t let the details get you down.

parents worry. We parents sure worry a lot. Over five hours per day according to one poll. It seems that we’re most concerned about our children’s safety and happiness, followed by if they’re being bullied and if they’re keeping up in class. Our top three worst nightmares are dealing with broken limbs, broken hearts and lice (The poll was conducted by Lice Clinics of America). The poll also confirms that we’re losing sleep due to our worries. No kidding!? A more interesting poll would be: when do we not worry?

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q&a Cynthia, mom of 2 Q. My child is interested in theater; would this be a good idea for a child that is a bit reserved? A. Whether you have an outgoing or reserved child, theater classes are very enriching. Outgoing children are usually very talkative and want to be in activities with a lot of friends and socialization. Some are naturally talented and just need a stage to perform on! Theater can provide this outlet. Reserved children are usually very good listeners and watchers since they are not doing most of the talking. This helps them to better imitate others so that when the director says, “Do it like this...”, they can! Theater helps them get out of their shell because they can play other characters. Theater teaches all children listening skills, articulation, projection, goal-setting, and team work, while they are having fun. Theater classes are great for all kids! Annie Breitling | Breitling Performing Arts | www.ActingForChildren.org

Kate, mom of 1 Q. My teen son needs braces, but doesn’t want braces. Are teens good candidates for Invisalign? A. Research shows that parents underestimate the extent to which teens feel self-conscious about crooked teeth, and using braces as a solution can exacerbate this lack of confidence. Invisalign uses removable aligners that have been custom-made for the patient’s teeth rather than wires and brackets. With Invisalign Teen, no one needs to know the patient is straightening his or her teeth, removing a potential source of anxiety and boosting confidence so they can be themselves. It’s important, however, that the patient wears the aligners as instructed. Check with your orthodontist to see if they offer a teen guarantee that if the treatment isn’t going as planned due to lack of compliance in wearing aligners, they’ll switch to traditional braces with no upcharge. Joshika Kanabar, DDS, MS | Walnut Central Orthodontics www.orthodontistdallastx.com

Lynn, mom of 2 Q. My family is celebrating Christmas Eve with new friends. How do I get my kids to eat unfamiliar foods? A. Ask about the menu; it’s okay! Then let your children know what will be served. You can brainstorm together about what they could eat. You can help your children figure out what they may like to eat by doing a plated taste test. Maybe make a game of it. Choose the foods that are unfamiliar to them. Your kids can also eat a meal before leaving home, or in the car on the way. You can bet they will have no problem choosing all the sweets and treats! Mary Ellen Caldwell, RDN

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My daughter just turned two. When should I start looking for a preschool and what should I look for?

A: Two is a great age to begin looking for a preschool. The first three years of childhood are consumed with exploration and experimentation. Given this innate curiosity, children need safe spaces for exploration. They also need stimulating environments that foster early learning and development. A high-quality educational preschool can position children for academic success for years to come. When choosing a preschool, health and safety are always a parent’s first concern. Pay attention to the esthetics of the Preschool. Is it well maintained? How does it make you feel when you walk in? Look for well-organized classrooms that allow teachers clear sightlines. Check that classrooms and playgrounds are clean and are age appropriate. Finally, when visiting how does your child respond? Lynne Groff, LMSW Owner Primrose School of N.E. Green Oaks

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Mary Poppins An exquisite flagship gift edition of an iconic classic. When Mary Poppins arrives at their house on a gust of the East Wind and slides up the bannister, Jane and Michael Banks’s lives are turned magically upside down. First published in 1964, Mary Poppins has been delighting readers ever since, both in books and on film. This stunning deluxe edition is published ahead of the release of the hotly anticipated Disney film Mary Poppins Returns. P.L. Travers For All Ages

An Utterly Unreliable Account of Netflix’s A Series of Unfortunate Events is the perfect holiday gift for fans of the show and of Lemony Snicket’s bestselling books. Encounter original concept art, annotated script excerpts, and interviews with the creative team and all-star cast, as well as glossaries, recipes, lyric sheets, hidden Easter eggs, shocking backstories, and suspicious pages from the titular tome, un-redacted, and revealed here for the first time. Neil Patrick Harris, Introduction

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This Christmas, give your child the gift of confidence, strong character, and lifelong friendships! Kanakuk is a premier summer camp outside of Branson, Missouri for boys and girls ages 6-18. More than 70 activities, sports, and themed parties provide age-appropriate, fun, and safe experiences to help Kampers grow spiritually, physically, emotionally, and socially. www.KanakukSummer.com

The perfect stocking stuffer! This leather cell phone card holder has three handy functions in one slim, well made accessory. It works as a wallet, holding up to three cards, and it has a slideout grip for handier holding that does the job of a kickstand too! www.thegrommet.com $19.95

Give her the trending look of pink gold at affordable prices with Chamilia Blush jewelry made from a mix of copper, silver and palladium. The Oval Snap Bracelet has a sterling silver snake chain and a Chamilia Blush oval snap closure. The Starburst Stud Earrings feature Swarovski Pure Brilliance Zirconia. www.swarovskigroup.com $25.00 & up

Feels like a bean bag, but 90% lighter and no beans! The Blochair is great for the playroom, the dorm room, and even outdoors. The full back and firm cushion gives you lots of support and keeps you comfortable. Fun colors; easy to assemble; easy to clean and easy to store. www.bedbathandbeyond.com $24.99 & up

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Give the gift of an experience on the snow they will never forget. Book a ski or snowboard lesson for your little ones in Angel Fire, NM. Our experienced staff will take care of everything from rental equipment, lunch and thoughtful instruction. Lesson options for children ages 2-12. www.angelfireresort.com 800-633-7463

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Slide on custom leather koozies to keep this pair of whiskey glasses cool and hands drip-free in the best looking way possible. Recycled leather from boot and lace industries is hand-sewn and branded with a custom design that will never rub off or fade. These sophisticated drink sleeves are made in North Carolina and guaranteed for a lifetime. www.thegrommet.com $44.95

This outdoor bean bag basket toss game will entertain the whole familyâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;just take it along, set it up, and toss. It folds down to a compact, portable size, and comes with a carrying case. There are baskets at varying heights, which count for different points as you play at the beach, while tailgating, on camping trips, or in the backyard. www.thegrommet.com $59.95

Hand-blown Glass Ornaments and Gifts are perfect keepsakes or gifts. Create your own glass ornaments in our studio on select dates through December 29. Visit Vetroâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Gallery to purchase handmade ornaments, fine art glass jewelry, lighting, sculptures and more. $30 Traditional Ornament Events and $50 Extreme Ornament Events. www.vetroartglass.com

An exclusively for girls subscription box. Girls and their parents love the selections, mix-and-match outfits, and on-trend, yet age appropriate styling. No stylist fees or shipping costs; the service is risk free. This beautifully packaged kidpik box comes with 7 high quality fashion items, including shoes and an accessory, plus a special free gift! www.kidpik.com $75.00 & up

Do you have an avocado lover in the house? Plant a set of these avocado huggers in their stocking! Keeping avocadoes fresh is simple with the Avocado Huggers. A form-fitting silicone cup ensures that their favorite fresh fruit is preserved. And the convenient pit pocket can be pushed in or out for the tightest possible seal. www.uncommongoods.com $7.95 for Set of 2

No need to blindly rummage through your purse or backpack anymore! Finding your keys, wallet, pen, or even your phone is simple now. This clever little light turns on when it senses your hand and with the integrated, rechargeable battery, smartphones and other electronic devices can be easily recharged on the go! www.thegrommet.com $34.95

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A LESS-IS-MORE

CHRISTMAS BY SANDI HAUSTEIN

ou may be one of those parents who looks forward to the holiday season all year long. You love the festive parties, taking your kids’ picture on Santa’s lap, and imagining his face when he opens that perfect gift on Christmas morning. But, if you find yourself stressing out because you’ve exhausted all your Elf on the Shelf scenarios and maxed out your credit cards on buying gifts, you might be making Christmas more complicated than it has to be. Marianne Miller, author of The Gift of Enough, says, “So many parents feel a weight to create a magical, over-thetop Christmas for their kids. What they don’t realize is that what makes the season memorable is its beautiful simplicity.” What if you gave up the hectic pace and were able to rediscover a more meaningful holiday sea-

son? Here are four ways to help you and your family find simple joy this Christmas.

SAY “NO” TO BUSY-NESS AND “YES” TO MAKING SIMPLE MEMORIES

Between your neighbor’s cookie exchange, your friend’s Ugly Christmas Sweater party, and all of the Santa photo ops around town, it’s easy to feel pressure to fit in too many holiday activities. Miller recommends deciding ahead of time how many holiday events you will attend. Then, you can decline other invitations and focus on making simple memories as a family. Read Christmas books to your kids in front of the fire. Light a candle in your Advent wreath or decorate cookies for Santa. Pour hot chocolate into thermoses, put on your pajamas, and drive around

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looking at lights. Years down the road, these memories will be what your children will remember.

SET LIMITS ON PRESENTS

Growing up, Amy Gilmore and her brother competed to see who would get the most Christmas presents each year. Now a mom of two, Gilmore wants her kids to learn to appreciate the thought behind each gift. To do this, she uses a simple gift-giving rule at her house; each child gets “something you want, something you need, something to wear, and something to read.” Even when you limit the number of presents under the tree, Miller says that because kids don’t open presents every other day of the year, Christmas will still feel like abundance to them. And Gilmore agrees. “I want my kids to learn to appreciate the thought behind each gift,” she says.

GIVE EXPERIENCES

Instead of buying the latest must-have toys that your kids might forget about in a week, why not give experiences that will build memories instead? Buy a zoo pass or a family membership to the local science museum. Give your child the karate lessons he’s been wanting. Buy the family a board game that everyone can enjoy all year long. These types of presents keep on giving long after the chaos of Christmas morning.

FIND WAYS TO SERVE OTHERS

Every Christmas Eve, Jenna Bunner, mom of three, and her husband take their children to participate in a community-wide holiday event for families in need. With live music playing, everyone shares in a meal, and guests have the opportunity to take family pictures, get haircuts, and shop for clothes and Christmas gifts in a free store. You may not have the time or resources to participate in a big event, but you can still teach your children about the joy of sharing with others. Give your child some money to put in the Salvation Army bell-ringer’s bucket on your way into the grocery store. Go shopping together for a local winter coat drive. Make a batch of Christmas cookies and deliver them to your local fire or police department to thank them for their service. This holiday season, if you want something different than fitting in every party and running store to store buying gifts you can’t afford, try a lessis-more approach. After all, Christmas isn’t about the beautiful pile of wrapped presents under the tree or fitting in every last holiday event. It’s about family traditions, the joy of giving, and faith. May you and your family discover a simpler, more meaningful Christmas this year.

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1 | SATURDAY Christmas in the Branch

Join us in Farmers Branch at our annual Tree Lighting with food, drinks, shopping, music and ice skating. Skating Under the Stars runs through January 6. Shop for unique gifts at our Holiday Marketplace located at The Grove on Dec 8 and 15. Experience local arts & crafts, kid activities, live music and a visit from Santa! For a full list of holiday events, visit ChristmasInTheBranch.com. See ad in this issue.

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Zoo Lights

5-11pm This spectacular holiday destination features the world’s largest Christmas light maze, Santa’s Palace, an ice skating pond, kids’ mini-maze, food and live entertainment. Tickets from $19.99 (free for kids 3 and younger). Visit the website to purchase tickets and for more information.

5-9pm After the animals head in for the evening, the Dallas Zoo will transform into a winter wonderland with over one million twinkling lights illuminating ZooNorth throughout the holiday season. This year, discover realistic silk-covered lanterns in the shape of your favorite animals. Zoo lights occurs on select nights through the month of December. See website for more information. Free with paid admission. Dallas Zoo, 650 S R L Thornton Fwy, Dallas www.dallaszoo.com

The 12 Days of Christmas

9am-5pm Celebrate the most wonderful time of the year with Holiday at the Arboretum, featuring the return of the Dallas Arboretum’s magnificent The 12

Days of Christmas outdoor exhibit. Celebrate the holidays like never before with this centerpiece exhibit featuring an elaborate collection of 25-foot Victorian style gazebos filled with the charming costumed characters, whimsical animals and music made famous by the beloved Christmas carol. Free with general day admission: $15 adults; $10 children ages 3–12. Through Dec. 31. 8525 Garland Road, Dallas www. dallasarboretum.org/12days

2 | SUNDAY Elf the Musical

1:30-3:30pm Based on the beloved 2003 New Line Cinema hit, this modern day Christmas classic is sure to make everyone embrace their inner Elf. Tickets from $20. Through Dec. 2. Music Hall at Fair Park, 909 1st Ave, Dallas www.dallassummermusicals.org

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Bark + Build Dog Houses benefiting the SPCA of Texas

10am-9pm The SPCA of Texas, the Dallas Chapter of the American Institute of Architects and TEXO proudly present the fourth annual Bark + Build design and build competition and auction to benefit the SPCA of Texas. Come see one-of-a-kind dog houses and cat condos that will be auctioned off via an online silent auction. All proceeds from the auction will go to the SPCA of Texas. Located on level one between Macy’s and Dillard’s. NorthPark Center, 8687 N Central Expy, Dallas www. northparkcenter.com

Through Jan. 6. Perot Museum, 2201 N Field St, Dallas www. perotmuseum.org

Gift of Lights at Texas Motorspeedway

6-10pm Come and join us at our annual Gift of Lights at Texas Motor Speedway. There you will see a fantastic light show put on by our sponsors and can travel to Santa’s Village where you will meet Santa, take your picture, and experience what Christmas is like at the North Pole. One vehicle per ticket per entry. $30 for cars/ trucks; $60 for buses. See website for more information. 3545 Lone Star Cir, Fort Worth www. tmsgiftoflights.com

A Ghost Tale for Mr. Dickens 1:30-3pm Magic Tree House, the number one bestselling chapter book series of all time, premieres this large-scale, holiday-themed spectacular in Dallas! See brother and sister duo, Jack and Annie, whisked back in time aboard their magical tree ride to the foggy streets of Victorian England. Recommended for ages 6 and older. Tickets from $15. Through Dec. 23. 5938 Skillman St, Dallas www.dct.org/plays

3 | MONDAY Lone Star Christmas featuring ICE! – Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer 9am-9:30pm Families will marvel at dozens of lavish holiday displays including more than 2 million twinkling lights and larger-than-life decorations. Guests can also experience ICE!, featuring favorite scenes from Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. Tickets start at $12.99 (child) and $21.99 (adult). See website for daily hours and ticket information. Through Jan.1. Gaylord Texan Resort & Convention Center, 1501 Gaylord Trail, Grapevine www. gaylordtexan.com

Illuminate

10am-5pm See the Perot Museum in a whole new light! Come be illuminated by breathtaking lights and beauty as well as inspiring, light-themed science throughout the museum.Wear your own glowing or light-up accessories. Find that the already impressive dinosaurs have been enhanced by dramatic lighting and projection mapping and much, much, more. Free with general admission.

4 | TUESDAY Fancy Nancy Splendiferous Christmas 12-1pm Fancy Nancy adores all things fancy...and what could be fancier than Christmas? Presents with elegant wrapping paper, festive decorations, Christmas cookies with sprinkles - and who could forget the tree? Fancy Nancy can’t wait to decorate the Christmas tree. But when things don’t turn out the way she has planned, will Christmas still be splendiferous? Tickets start at $7. Through Dec. 22. Artisan Center Theater, 444 E Pipeline Rd, Hurst www.artisanct.com

5 | WEDNESDAY Come Visit Santa!

4:30-7:30pm. Stop by our shop located in Park Village next to Glorias to visit with Santa. Engel & Völkers, 1111 E Southlake Blvd, Ste 460, Southlake, 817-416-2700, www.dallas.evusa.com. See ad in this issue.

6 | THURSDAY 22nd Annual M.E.N.D. Christmas Candlelight Ceremony

7:30pm. Mommies Enduring Neonatal Death invites you to a ceremony honoring babies lost to miscarriage, still birth or infant death. Calvary Church, 4401 N Hwy 161, Irving. Childcare provided for children 6 weeks to 4 years old. Reservations are requested using the online registration at www.mend.org. Let our advertisers know you found them in Dallas Parent DECEMBER 2018

timeout 7 | FRIDAY Potted Potter

7:30-8:45pm Don’t miss this retelling of all seven Harry Potter books in only 70 minutes, switching in and out of costumes, playing multiple characters, performing songs and even playing a game of Quidditch. A must-see for Potter fans! See website for all dates and ticket information. Through Dec. 29. Texas Theatre 231 W Jefferson Blvd, Dallas www.dallas-theater.com

Dallas Repertoire Ballet’s The Nutcracker

7:30-9:30pm Dallas Repertoire Ballet invites you to escape the hustle and bustle of the holidays as they present their annual production of the beloved family classic, The Nutcracker. Additional shows Dec 8 at 2pm and 7:30pm and Dec 9 at 2pm. Eisemann Center, 2351 Performance Dr, Richardson. For tickets, call 972-744-4650 or go to www. eisemanncenter.com.

8 | SATURDAY Candlelight

3-9pm Attendees will experience holiday traditions of the late 1800s including: carolers, hay wagon rides, storytelling, St. Nicholas, interpreters in traditional costume, and many other festive activities such as the American Flyer model train exhibit in the Depot. Tickets start at $8. Dallas Heritage Village, 1515 S Harwood St, Dallas www. dallasheritagevillage.org

Donuts with Santa

8:30-9:30am Wylie Parks and Recreation hosts Donuts with Santa, where kids ages 1-10 can share donuts with the jolly old elf, along with crafts, treats, themed activities and story time, and a picture with Santa to take home. Two time slots available: 8:30 - 9:30 a.m. or 10:30 - 11:30 a.m. Pre-registration and parent participation required. $15 per child- includes parent. Wylie Recreation Center, 300 Country Club Road, Building 200, Wylie www.wylietexas.gov/activities/ special_events.php

Day in the Life: Gemologist and Curator

9am-12pm Spend the morning at the Perot and get the inside scoop on what is planned for the Museum’s gems and minerals collection. Crack open a geode, discover more about the museum’s limited-time art installations including a special appearance from a projection artist. Enjoy themed food, and more as you study the beautiful stones that comprise our earth. $25 for Members, $30 for Non-Members. Visit the website for more info. 2201 N Field St, Dallas www.perotmuseum.org/ programs-and-events/all-ages/ illuminate.html

size Animatronic Dinosaurs exhibit. $12 adults; free for Heard members Through Feb. 18. 1 Nature Pl, McKinney www.heardmuseum.org

12 | WEDNESDAY A Christmas Story, The Musical 7:30-10pm A Christmas Story, The Musical brings the classic 1983 movie to hilarious life on stage. Recommended for ages 5 and older. Through Dec. 16. Tickets from $25. AT&T Performing Arts Center, 2403 Flora St, Dallas www.attpac. org/on-sale/2018/achristmasstory

13 | THURSDAY 9 | SUNDAY BMW Dallas Marathon Sunday Races

8am-4pm Spectators are welcome to attend for free! Sunday’s race course will begin and end in Downtown Dallas and will highlight the best areas of the city. Along the way, runners will pass through various popular neighborhoods with exciting cheer stations and on-course entertainment before finishing the race at Dallas City Hall Plaza! See website for registration information. All ages. Dallas City Hall, 1500 Marilla St, Dallas www.bmwdallasmarathon. com/marathon-half-marathon

10 | MONDAY Meet Me in St. Louis

7:30-9pm This is a rare treasure in the musical theatre; a wholesome and delightful portrait of a turn-ofthe-century American family. Artisan Center Theater, 444 E Pipeline Rd, Hurst www.artisanct.com

11 | TUESDAY Dinosaurs Live! Life-Size Animatronic Dinosaurs

9am-5pm Encounter the 46-foot T. rex and nine new life-size animatronic dinosaurs along the Heard Natural Science Museum & Wildlife Sanctuary’s nature trails at the 13th annual Dinosaurs Live! Life-

Miracle on 34th St.

7:30-9:30pm Theatre Arlington presents the family holiday production Miracle on 34th Street, from the novel by Valentine Davies and based upon the Twentieth Century Fox motion picture. Appropriate for ages 6 and older. 305 W Main St, Arlington www.theatrearlington. org/show-miracle.html

14 | FRIDAY Holidays at the Heard

6:30-9pm Holidays at the Heard brings the beauty of the holiday season into nature. Guests will see lights and holiday décor along a half mile Heard nature trail. $9 for adults and seniors; $5 for kids ages 3–12; free for children 2 and younger. 1 Nature Pl, McKinney www.heardmuseum.org/holidays

15 | SATURDAY Holiday Bricktacular

11am-4pm Come to the LEGOLAND Discovery Center and get into the holiday spirit and take part in a holiday scavenger hunt! See MINILAND New York as a Winter Wonderland! Stop by the Creative Workshop for holiday mosaic builds with our Master Model Builder! Prebooking tickets is recommended for guaranteed entrance. See website for ticket information. 3000 Grapevine

Mills Pkwy, Grapevine https:// westchester.legolanddiscoverycenter. com/whats-inside/events/holidaybricktacular

Little Farmers

11am-12pm Dec. 15 and 22. In December, Little Farmer activities are all about citrus. You’ll create a grapefruit scented “play-dough” with some science and creativity. Little Farmers activities for ages 4–14 are popping up in The Shed at the Dallas Farmers Market once or twice a month. Bring your little ones for a story time and a craft. Free. Dallas Farmers Market, 920 S Harwood St, Dallas www.dallasfarmersmarket.org

16 | SUNDAY Scrooge! the Musical

2:30-4:30pm Ebenezer Scrooge has spent all his life accruing gold and allowing all his loved ones to slip through his hands. Recommended audience age: 5 years and older. $18 orchestra seats, $25 premium seats. Courtyard Theater, 1509 H Ave, Plano https://northtexasperformingarts.org/ event/2018-rep-scrooge

17 | MONDAY The Trains at NorthPark

10am-9pm The Trains at NorthPark will mark its 20th year at NorthPark Center with more than 750 railcars on a 1,600-foot elaborate configuration of tracks and scenes. This holiday tradition is located on level two, between Nordstrom and Neiman Marcus. Admission: $7 adults; $4 children ages 2–12 and free for children under 2. Through Jan. 6. NorthPark Center, 8687 N Central Expy, Dallas www. thetrainsatnorthpark.com

18 | TUESDAY Slavery at Jefferson’s Monticello—Paradox of Liberty 11am-5pm A groundbreaking and widely acclaimed exhibition with a powerful message, Slavery at Jefferson’s Monticello—Paradox of Liberty brings to life the story of slavery at Monticello through

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more than 300 objects, works of art, documents and artifacts unearthed at the storied plantation. $10 adults; $5 children ages 3–12; free for 2 and younger. Through Dec. 31. African American Museum of Dallas, 3536 Grand Ave, Dallas www.aamdallas.org

19 | WEDNESDAY Let Me Be Myself: The Life Story of Anne Frank

1-3pm Let Me Be Myself tells the story of Anne Frank in a modern way, addressing current day issues of identity, exclusion, and discrimination. Free with admission, virtual reality tours are available in 15-minute sessions daily, but must be booked online. Through August 2019. Dallas Holocaust Museum, 211 N Record St #100, Dallas http:// dallasholocaustmuseum.org/news/ recent/let-me-be-myself-the-lifestory-of-anne-frank

20 | THURSDAY Star Wars: A New Hope Movie in Concert

7:30pm Climb aboard the Millennium Falcon for the ultimate adventure complete with light sabers, Jedi and Wookies while the Dallas Symphony Orchestra performs the score live. Tickets start at $30. Meyerson Symphony Center, 2301 Flora St, Dallas www.mydso.com

22 | SATURDAY Storytime with Santa Claus

10:30am Gather around Santa’s picture-book cottage to hear stories about the North Pole. Santa has been telling tales at NorthPark Center for 30 years, and we invite you to make it a part of your family’s holiday tradition. Located on level one in Macy’s Court. NorthPark Center, 8687 N Central Expy, Dallas www. northparkcenter.com

23 | SUNDAY The Snowy Day and Other Stories by Ezra Jack Keats

1:30-3pm Follow Peter and his friends as they enjoy the excitement of a fresh snowfall, the delight of whistling for the first time, the awe in finding a special treasure, and the feelings of a first crush. Recommended for ages 3 and up. Tickets start at $17. Through Jan. 20. 5938 Skillman St, Dallas www. dct.org/plays

24 | MONDAY Dallas Theater Center’s A Christmas Carol

21 | FRIDAY

4-5:30pm Dallas’ family-favorite holiday tradition by Charles Dickens, three spirits have come to visit the miserly Ebenezer Scrooge, and to take him on a fantastic journey through Christmases past, present, and future. Tickets from $15. Through Dec. 30. www.attpac.org/on-sale/2018/dallastheater-centers-a-christmas-carol

Winter Solstice Sunrise Celebration

25 | TUESDAY

6-9am Celebrate the winter solstice with a morning of joyful activities, including yoga and soundcentered experiences. Then, turn up the energy at a sunrise dance party like no other in the Perot Museum’s glass-encased Lobby. Enjoy energetic music brought to you by DJ Sober, illuminated performers, a life-size dancing raptor, solstice science, and a sense of vibrant community as you dance to greet the sun! $20 for Members, $25 for Non-Members (Price includes all-day access to the Museum). Perot Museum, 2201 N Field St, Dallas www.perotmuseum. org/programs-and-events/all-ages/ illuminate.html

ingredients to prepare a starter, main course, and dessert while staying warm and cozy in the kitchen. Add your own spin on our classic recipes as you create something truly amazing. $49 per day. There’s also a camp for chefs ages 9–teens: 1–4pm for $60 per day. Taste Buds Kitchen Plano, 7200 Independence Pkwy ste 238, Plano https:// tastebudskitchen.com/plano

27 | THURSDAY Deck the Halls and Welcome All—Christmas at the White House 2006

9am-5pm This special exhibit allows visitors a glimpse into the magical White House holiday celebrations of 2006. $19 general admission; free for members. Through Jan. 6. 2943 SMU Boulevard, Dallas www. bushcenter.org

28 | FRIDAY Ultimate Dinosaurs at the Perot

10am-5pm Be transported to prehistoric times through cutting-edge technology, where you can explore the breathtaking characteristics of these exotic species through hands-on activities. Exhibit runs through January 6. Perot Museum, 2201 N Field St, Dallas www.perotmuseum.org

29 | SATURDAY Sesame Street Live! Let’s Party!

11am-1pm Jump to the beat with your friends on Sesame Street! Join the fun with an interactive show that unfolds on one of the world’s most famous streets at the funniest, furriest party in the neighborhood. Tickets from $35. Additional $30 for preshow experiences, lasting 30 minutes and beginning 1 hour before the show. Allen Event Center, 200 E Stacy Rd #1350, Allen https:// www.alleneventcenter.com

26 | WEDNESDAY

30 | SUNDAY

Winter Mystery Basket Camp

Lone Star Circus’ Forever

9am-12pm Dec 26-28. Calling all chefs ages 4-8! Cook your way through mystery baskets and surprise

1:30-3pm Jugglers, acrobats, clowns, and four-legged performers from around the world come together

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suburbanparent.com to create a parade of not-to-beforgotten moments for the entire family. Reserve your seats now to create memories that will last forever. Enjoyed by all ages. Tickets from $40 for adults and $22 for youth. Dallas Children’s Theater, 5938 Skillman St, Dallas www.dct. org/plays

31 | MONDAY Sundance Square New Year’s Eve Celebration

10:30pm-12am Ring in the New Year with live music, fun with friends, and the annual countdown! Free. Sundance Square, Main Street, Fort Worth https://sundancesquare. com/annual-events

Zoo Lights

5-9pm After the animals head in for the evening, the Dallas Zoo will transform into a winter wonderland with over one million twinkling lights illuminating ZooNorth throughout the holiday season. This year, discover realistic silk-covered lanterns in the shape of your favorite animals, plus even more light displays and festivities for the entire family! Zoo lights occurs on select nights through the month of December. See website for more information. Free with paid admission. Dallas Zoo, 650 S R L Thornton Fwy, Dallas www. dallaszoo.com

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BY CHERYL MAGUIRE

5 Benefits of Half-Day Preschool/Kindergarten

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an we go to the library play room and do a puppet show?” my six-year-old daughter asked. “Sure. Do you remember when we used to come here for story time in the morning before you went to afternoon Kindergarten?” “Yes, with Miss Carol! It was so much fun.” I have warm memories of library story time with all three of my children. We had this experience since they attended half day Kindergarten. In their school, I had an option to pay for full day Kindergarten whereas half day was free. There were a limited amount of full-day spots so if you were interested in full day Kindergarten you were placed in a lottery system. My twins were not selected for the lottery full day spots, but I discovered it was for the best. Because I enjoyed having a few extra hours with my twins, I chose half-day Kindergarten for my younger daughter as well.

NO SIGNIFICANT EDUCATIONAL BENEFIT. The main reason I wanted to

enroll my twins in full day Kindergarten was because I thought they would receive more education which would in turn help them excel academically the following year. Both of them have done well in school academically despite the fewer hours in school. Research by Philip DeCicca at McMaster University in Hamilton, Onthad had similar findings to my experience. He tested children at the end of 1st grade and found there was little difference in both the reading and math

test scores of children who attended full day Kindergarten versus half day (at first there were some gains but it was short-lived). MORE TIME TO PLAY. Since my kids were in half day Kindergarten they had the opportunity to have unstructured play time either alone or with other friends. The benefits of unstructured play include a stronger bond to family members, better peer relationships, improved problem solving and healthy development. My children developed friendships during this time which they have maintained over the past six years. I also met and socialized with their friend’s parents. We did activities such as library story time which had some structure mixed with unstructured time to allow the children to socialize with one another. MORE TIME WITH FAMILY. Research from the University of Illinois found when families regularly spent time together (in this case they studied going on nature hikes), they functioned better as a family. The study suggests the time together enables families to better read social cues which leads to feeling less irritable and more in control. I look back on those extra hours I had with all three of my children with fond memories. Besides going to library story time we also went to playgrounds, playgroups and other similar activities. They will be in school for 6 hours a day for the next 12 years so I’m grateful for the additional time with them.

FIVE YEAR OLDS LOW ATTENTION SPAN. Most five year olds have a limited

attention spans. According to the website Day2Day parenting, the average 5-6 year old child can attend to something of interest to them for 10-15 minutes, but this time frame decreases to only 5-10 minutes for uninteresting topics. A school day is 6 hours long which may be difficult for children at this age to remain on task for this time period. COSTS LESS MONEY. The cost of full day Kindergarten is expensive. In the school my children attend it is $3,000 per child so for my twins it would have been $6,000! Instead of spending the money on school I was able to save some of it. I used the remainder to pay for activities such as a gymnastics class or dance class. There are only 180 days of school and some days are half days. After I realized this with my twins, for me, it wasn’t worth spending an extra $3,000 for only 3 hours extra per day for my younger daughter. WHAT IS BEST FOR YOUR CHILD. You know your child better than anyone. If you feel they would benefit from full day, they might. Also some parents may think full day Kindergarten is a good alternative to day care. At the time I made the decision, I thought my children would receive more education which would help the following year. When we ended up not making the lottery for full day, we made the best of the situation and in the end it worked out for us.

Cheryl Maguire holds a Master of Counseling Psychology degree. She is married and is the mother of twins and a daughter.

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college abroad? So maybe your college student won’t be home for Christmas.

YOU CAN GIVE A GREAT AND WONDERFUL

Christmas IF YOU remember the gifts GOD HAVE GIVEN YOU

It’s going to be okay, moms! You can still make them very happy and feeling like they’re home.

Send a Tree

Pack and send (the sooner, the better) a small Christmas tree with already attached ornaments, plus some familiar family ornaments too!

Special Treat

Many families have special cookies that they bake for the holidays. Either package and send them, or include the recipe and all the needed ingredients. Don’t forget to send any tools they may not have in their small kitchen.

My daughter (age 5) asked me how Santa gets around to so many houses in one night. Her older brother (age 9) interrupted before I could stop him: “Oh my, don’t you get it?” I held my breath, but was relieved when he continued, “Santa has access to some sort of space and time continuum!” Thinking back, I should thank his math teacher for that. — Anna, mom of 2

AND, AS BEST YOU CAN, OFFER THEM TO OTHERS

as He would. HENRY B. EYRING

How about some cozy Christmas PJ’s!

Maybe get everyone in the family the same and when you facetime your student on Christmas morning you will all be wearing the same PJ’s. Yes, you may have to make that call very late at night or very early in the morning, but it’s worth it to all be together.

fun fact. December gets its name from the Latin word “decem”, which means tenth. In the Roman calendar December was originally the tenth month of the year. However, when the Romans added January and February to the calendar, it became the twelfth month. They still kept the name, though. We found this on www.ducksters.com.

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Achoo! Yes, it’s that time of year. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, it’s time to consider getting the flu vaccine.

You don’t need to suffer with chapped hands and cracking knuckles! Make sure to use hand lotion and/or body lotion, that’s made for men, throughout the day. And start using a product before your hands start chapping! Now get crackin’ to avoid cracked skin.

A Family Affair Keep your entire family safe by getting the flu shot, starting at 6 months and older. Even with these simple tips that help, getting the flu shot is the best medicine. Always check with your doctor.

Tips for Fighting Germs Disinfect. We should regularly clean the surfaces we touch often like our phones, door handles, keyboards, countertops… Hands Off. Yep, it’s best not to touch your face too often. Germs can find their way into your body through your eyes, nose or mouth.

GI FT IDEA Perfect Stocking Stuffer for him!

A Strong Defense. When you care for yourself, like getting good sleep, eating healthy foods and regular exercise, your body has a better chance of fighting off illness.

tip Hello, Choline! An Under Consumed Nutrient. A choline deficiency may play a part in age-related cognitive decline, like memory loss. Maintaining adequate choline intake by eating good food sources helps. Eggs, Salmon, Chickpeas, Navy Beans, Brussel Sprouts, Chicken Breasts, Cauliflower, and many more!

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December is the last month of the year, so it’s time to get your finances in order. Hmmm, you may want to consider making a personal spending plan for this holiday season!