6 minute read
What do your believe?
Only you can make the choice to work on you, and there is no better time than right now!
Advertisement
HOW TO PROSPER IN LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS
Copyright Angelika Christie
Do you believe that relationships are the most difficult things in life to deal with? Of course, this can only be so for unsatisfying, difficult, challenging, and even abusive relationships, right?
Not really. All relationships require much attentiveness because relationships change; some in minor and others in not so minor ways. Is it not true that the wrongdoing of someone you trusted created the wounding you still carry inside of you?
I believe that every one of us needs to bury a ‘sword’ and forgive old hurts and make peace with long-standing “enemies.”
Since almost every aspect of life is a relationship, knowing how to let go of the burden you are carrying with you and learn how to prosper more in your relationships would impact your life immensely. Yes?
The path to happiness in your relationship is less about learning more; it is the willingness to wake up to yourself and what you want in your relationship. It comes down to awareness and choice.
I know that many want to find out more about Karmic relationships. Do you believe that a karmic relationship means finding your flawless life partner, your Soul Mate? There is much to say about Soul Mates; I have a whole workshop dedicated to this interesting and controversial theme that you can request from me.
But I believe that many of our relationships are karmic, at least to a point. When we speak about karmic relationships we have to accept that our Soul chooses many different situations and settings for specific reasons on earth. In other words, we need at least allow the possibility of multiple lifetimes.
I also believe that everything that happens to any of us is through an agreement of sorts. Yet not everything we experience during our lifetime is for our purpose. Your Soul may have agreed to suffer or enjoy
situations. In other words, play the role of the perpetrator or victim for the benefit of others because of a karmic relationship. Those are soul- agreements.
Doesn’t this suggest that you are never a victim in your relationships? We create and co-create each moment. This is how it manifests:
Out of nothing, something is created first with a thought--- and followed by a feeling that propels us to act on our thought and feeling. Each action triggers a reaction as a matching consequence. 36 Informed People Magazine 26 INFORMED PEOPLE MAGAZINE / HTTPS://BMBC.TV/
This is an immutable law of the universe. It cannot be bent or disregarded; It favors nobody and punishes nobody either. I know it bothers me too that some seem to get away with murder (so to speak) and others do not. This is only an illusion that fits into our current state of awareness.
But I can say with clarity that stems from my 30 + years of professional expertise and personal experience that we come into each lifetime with a purpose that attracts us to and attracts to us the relationships we have agreed to encounter in our lifetime.
Whatever you think, feel, say, and do manifests in a certain pattern. Those patterns are living entities that send out signals. It is those calling signals that attract to us the situations and people who resonate with our powerful frequency patterns without being visible.
Are our thoughts and feelings that powerful? Yes they are and you may know this; many of us know it and yet few of us consciously use that knowledge.
Did you ever notice that whatever irritates you in others you may need to look at and examine in yourself?
You may be in a relationship right now that you do not understand and wonder why, or why you seem to attract the same type of person that you experienced such grief with in the past?
Think about a relationship you have right now…just one, the first that comes to mind. Ask yourself this:
“Why am I in this relationship?”
Take 3-5 Minutes to write down the reasons why you are in a relationship with the person that came to mind first. ---------------Was this exercise revealing? Often we want something in particular from a relationship. It could be financial security? Maybe you look for a sisterly or brotherly relationship? Or do you want a buddy for sports, for entertainment, for sex, for travel, to study and share knowledge with? Maybe you’re looking for a partner to create a family with? Or a partner that can build a business empire that up-levels your social standing? And some of us are restless and have many relationships while others hold on to the one they want to grow old with. We are tribe people by ancient nature and need relations to learn, grow, and thrive. So relationships should be easy since they are deeply rooted in our evolutionary history. Yet relationships have become less primal in our modern time and therefore we are more confused about their meaning than our ancestors were. Would you agree that we all have open and hidden agendas in our relationships? Sometimes we feel lucky and at other times we feel like we deserve better, and occasionally we feel punished and do not know how to stay and make it better--- or let go and leave a relationship without feeling sorrow and guilt. When a relationship ends we often question how this could have happened? We are quick to judge and quick to blame and even quicker to establish our right to be upset, disappointed, feel unjustly penalized, and betrayed! It can be quite an emotional turmoil and rollercoaster of endless internal dialogues. Here is what this means: your expectations have not been fulfilled and you are waiting for something to change. But what are you waiting for? Do you want a better relationship?? Do you think that the responsibility lies with the other person to fulfill you? onto our men because most of us have been burdened with providing happiness to almost everybody around us. We were told that in doing so we were more lovable, or more deserving of love. So we
I am not saying that you should go into a relationship without any expectations, yet…If you could let go of most expectations and learn more about yourself; become the observer and choose your actions with great care and in alignment with your Soul’s desire for this lifetime, you would experience happiness for no particular reason. How so? Because it is already in you. You are Happiness. Nothing to add, only to let go of. Strip away everything that covers it up and engages a false sense of lack.
Let’s start a conversation about how you can peel away everything that is not of your natural Love Essence.
Let’s start a conversation about how to fall in Love with YOU first so that your love frequency can attract the person that resonates most perfectly with who you are. That’s how you prosper in Love. -Angelika Christie
Angelika Christie Angelika Christie ND DrAngelikaC
