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PLAY Ball!

Rancho Bernardo Girls Softball League is about to enter their 33rd year. They are committed to building a high quality program that develops female athletes, teaches fundamentals, fosters a love of the game, and promotes excellence in sportsmanship and teamwork. We give you a peek inside how the League is thriving by leaps and bounds as it enters a new season of PLAY!

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Vol. 2, No. 6

:::: FROM THE PUBLISHER

Anticipation

Publisher Derrick Breaux

Do you remember how exited you were to open presents as a child? The buildup… The anticipation… Wondering what was in that beautifully wrapped gift. When we were kids, there was a special magic that was in the air when it came to the holiday season and our own birthdays. We all wanted to open our gifts so bad – we could hardly take it. The thought of having to wait until after dinner devastated us. As a child, we simply didn’t think we’d survive if we had to wait. I look at the start of a new year in much the same way. It brings back the kid in me to wonder what’s in store for the next 365 days. As we grow older and reflect on our past, many times we categorize our life in years (decades for those of us that have more years under our belts). We often reminisce about certain years of our lives – some we hold high and close to our hearts while other years prove to challenge us in ways that we may prefer to put behind. The permanent memory of some years are a given – the year that you graduated, the year that you bought your first house, the year that you got married, or the year that you moved to San Diego are all fine examples. For me, there are a few years that stand out above the rest. More specifically, 1999 and 2001 are two top years in my life that I must confess having a difficult time ranking 1 st or 2nd. I met my wife in 1999 and we got married in 2001. It’s tough to decide which year I hold closer in my heart – they were both great! I suppose it’s a tie. Other years that highly impacted my life were the years my children were born, the year that we moved our family to 4S Ranch, years that distinct milestones were accomplished professionally, and the year that we started Zcode Magazine. As we begin the 365 days of 2013, I feel like a little kid wondering how the gift of this new year will ultimately end up ranking in our overall life story. What is in the box? Will we look back at 2013 with special memories? Does 2013 have great things in store for my family, my close friends, my colleagues? While children don’t always appreciate the time spent during dinner while waiting to open their gifts, as an adult I’ve grown to appreciate each of the days that it takes to make each year one to remember.

Happy New Year. May 2013 be a year that you hold close to your heart! Derrick Breaux, Publisher

Editor Tara Pritchett Tara@ZCodeMedia.com 858-768-0808

Associate Editor Sarabeth McElhaney Creative Director Tyler McElhaney Director of Business Development Jessica Breaux Director of Interactive Marketing Michael Bielecki Senior Graphic Designer Katie Mott Graphic Designers Shamara Lane Mani Salazar Photography Spark Photography Production Heather Lockwood Sally O’Neill Contributing Writers Jennifer Frakes Kelley Gusich Wynne Love Kathy Loy Michelle Tremblay Linda Frabl Amy Lehrer Advertising Sales Gary George Gary@ZCodeMedia.com 858-207-6190 92128 Magazine is published locally six times per year by Susco Media Inc. (dba ZCode Media / ZCode Magazines). © 2012 All Rights Reserved. Reproduction of any content in this publication without prior written permission is strictly prohibited.

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unleash the 4s fury 4S Ranch Girls Softball League is committed to building a high quality program that develops female athletes, teaches fundamentals, fosters a love of the game, and promotes excellence in sportsmanship and teamwork.

from class to court California Teacher of the Year, Martin Reisert, impacts the lives of local students in the classroom and on the tennis court.

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Local Stories. Local Photos.

direct approach 4S Ranch Soccer gets a big kick from the recruitment of Jose Ocampo, Avengers Director of Coaching.

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92129 Magazine PQ Lacrosse Lacrosse has emerged in the community and the excitement is definitely present amongst players, parents, volunteers and coaches.

Beautiful Music

Mt. Carmel Choir Director Marti Martinez and her students make music and memories.

spearheading Excellence

Jerry and Keri Bohart are committed to doing all they can to set up the foundation to benefit local schools.

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92131 Magazine sweet sounds Marshall Middle School Band, Orchestra and Jazz Band have become popular programs amongst local 92131 students. Director, Steve Steinberg, shares how those involved are developing an appreciation for music.

92009 Magazine Inspiring our youth In this issue we talk with Pat Maldi, the director of marketing and special events for the Boys & Girls Club, and learn about the future of the programs.

92064 Magazine on my honor The Scouts of the community are certainly taking their motto, “On my Honor” to a new level. These young kids are developing courage, exuding confidence and building character.

92130 Magazine N. Shore Softball

92011 Magazine Boys & Girls Club of Carlsbad Take a walk through the doors where young lives are changed. We talk with Pat Maldi and learn about the future of the programs, including a brand new Bressi Ranch Clubhouse opening in January.

92024 Magazine world’s most traveled band

The Girls Softball League is celebrating 25 years of teamwork, sportsmanship, camaraderie, and fun for all. Families, volunteers, coaches, umpires, and athletes will kick off the season on Feb. 8th

Liquid Blue, a multi-award-winning international recording, touring act and cover band has been making noise for over 15 years. Founder Scott Stephens shares his story with us.

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:::: COMMUNITY EVENTS

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RB Historical Society Forum Speaker Tom Cook talks about the trails that led to and went through the Rancho Bernardo area. Rancho Bernardo Historical Society 10 a.m. – 11 a.m. www.rbhistoricalsociety.org

An Evening with Clint Black One of country music’s brightest stars hosts an intimate evening of stories and songs.

Poway Center for the Performing Arts 8 p.m. www.powaycenter.com

Prospective Elementary Night Visit with teachers and ask questions to learn more about Country Montessori.

Country Montessori

6 p.m. – 8 p.m. www.countrymontessori.org

Career Fair and Professional Growth Workshop

Hosted by the San Diego North Chamber of Commerce. Free to career seekers. An opportunity to meet potential employees. Rancho Bernardo Inn 9 a.m. – 12 p.m. www.sdncc.com

FEBRUARY

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A Classical Music Society Concert.

february 2 | groundhog Day

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Incarnation Lutheran Church 2:30 p.m. Price: Adults - $25 | Students - $5 Annual Subscription - $100

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Family Montessori Education Day Parents can explore a Montessori classroom while children enjoy games and activities. Country Montessori 2 p.m. – 4 p.m. www.countrymontessori.org

The Capitol Steps The Capitol Steps have recorded over 30 albums, including their latest, “Desperate Housemembers”. They’ve been featured on NBC, CBS, ABC, and PBS, and can be heard 4 times a year on NPR stations nationwide during their Politics Takes a Holiday radio specials. Poway Center for the Performing Arts 8 p.m. www.powaycenter.com

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RECURRING EVENTS North County Inland Group Every Tuesday The Center for Grief Care and Education at San Diego Hospice offers support to families and to community members who are grieving . Rancho Bernardo Swim and Tennis Club, Club 21 Room 11 a.m. – 12:30 p.m. www.sdhospice.org/support-groups

Farmers market Fresh produce, crepes, tamales and more. Bernardo Winery 9 a.m. – 12 p.m.

AltaGolden Alzheimer’s Support Group Share your experience with Alzheimer’s disease in a social setting, with regular guest speakers. AltaGolden Memory Center 5 p.m. altagolden.com/alzheimers_support_group | 858-779-9254

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:::: SPORTS CALENDAR

RECURRING Carmel Mountain Ranch Spring 2013 Little League Season Jan. 10: Managers’ Meeting Jan. 12, 16, 19: Tryouts Feb. 12: 1st Team Rep Meeting www.cmrll.org

Rancho Bernardo Girls Softball Tryouts take place: Jan. 5 from 10 a.m. – noon at Game Day Sports, and Jan. 8 from 6 – 7:30 p.m. at Rancho Bernardo Community Park Gazebo www.rbgirlssoftball.org

Rancho Bernardo Recreational Soccer

EVENTS

Jan. 12 & 19

West Coast Road Runners Half & Full Marathon Training Program Orientation Training for the San Diego Rock ‘n’ Roll Half & full Marathon or 14 other races. All paces welcome. Race discounts, free technical T-shirts, weekly training schedules, pace group run/walks, track workouts, and educational seminars. On-going registration. www.wcroadrunners.com

Rancho Bernardo Youth Lacrosse Clinic Clinic for beginners hosted by RBHS coaching staff with all equipment provided. Perfect for 1st – 8th graders who are considering giving lacrosse a try.

Rancho Bernardo Youth Basketball Jan. 7 through Mar. 2 – Game/Scrimmage weeks www.rbybl.com

Rancho Bernardo High School Stadium www.rbylax.com

(dates & events subject to change)

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Jan. 17

Spring 2013 registration now open www.sandiegosoccerclub.org

Jan. 21 – 27

Pacific Lacrosse Boys & Girls Winter Clinic For 7 - 14 year olds (up to 9th grade). No experience necessary. Rancho Bernardo High School fields Saturdays, 9 – 11 a.m. | Price: $175 www.farmersinsuranceopen.com

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oveme M e h t Join

Three Local Teens Fight Bullying One Kid at a Time by Kelley Gusich | photos by Zeena Gregg Photography

alorous: Bullying has been a reality since David battled Goliath, but it was brought to the forefront of our consciousness one dark morning at Columbine High School, and our nation has been battling the bully ever since. When Dimitar Gougov and Alex and Michael Bulkin saw the problem grow even larger with the advent of cyber-bullying, they heeded the call and launched the 3V movement. Vigilant: The three saw bullying as a major issue in all of their schools, and felt it would be much more powerfully addressed from a student-to-student standpoint. Dimitar, Alex, and Michael are three highly involved and influential students, and they started the 3V movement “… because we can. We are doing this because we are kids that don’t get bullied; realizing this, we felt it would be easier to stand up for our peers who do get bullied.” The organization began at Del Norte and Cathedral Catholic High Schools, but has already expanded to Rancho Bernardo, St. Augustine, Bishop’s School, Torrey Pines, and St. Michael’s, with eight more schools in the works.

Victorious : The three ‘V’s stand for Vigilance, which representsawareness of the problem and a willingness to fight it, Valor, or bravery in the face of danger—to speak up and take action—and Victory. “If we all come together and agree to the 3V pledge there is no doubt in our minds that we will achieve Victory.” The three founders trumpet this from the rooftops, and if the over 1,100 members who’ve taken the 3V pledge are any indication, people are listening. Virtually Unstoppable: 3V is sponsored by popular radio stations ENERGY 103.7 and KyXy 96.5, along with Honda, Mazda, and Audi of Escondido. The 3V men also raise money by selling T-shirts and soon sweatshirts and stickers that will improve and expand the program. The clothing is made to be appealing to kids, but also to showcase the positive message of the 3V movement: You don’t need to put others down to feel better about yourself. To join or start a 3V club at your school, simply make a pledge to remain bully free, and/or contact the3vmovement@gmail.com. Dimitar, Alex and Michael shared this message: “When you take the 3V oath you agree to stand up for each and every individual. You agree not only to stand up for yourself, but for others that are victims of bullying.” ¢

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3V Movement At A Glance Full Name of Group: The 3V Movement Year Established: 2011 Host schools: Cathedral Catholic High School/ Del Norte High School Number of Founders: 3 Number of Members (Total): 1,114 (as of 10/7/12) Contact Information: the3vmovement@gmail.com Twitter: @the3vmovement Instagram: @the3vmovement Facebook: www.facebook.com/3vclothingco

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Exercise Specialist Marylene Rosa and the Pink Ribbon Program Help Breast Cancer Surgery Survivors Feel Fit Again! by LINDA FRABL

fter undergoing breast cancer surgery, it is difficult for women to get back into a regular fitness regimen. Having a mastectomy or a lumpectomy frequently results in loss of mobility in the shoulders and arms, as well as breathing difficulties associated with weakened abdominal muscles, and even weight gain due to steroid drug use. The Pink Ribbon Program, a physical conditioning treatment plan geared specifically for breast cancer post-op survivors, has enabled survivors to recover quickly with promising results. Marylene Rosa Kuhlmann, a 4S Ranch-based certified Breast Cancer Exercise Specialist with the Pink Ribbon Program (the only one in San Diego for the time being), lost her own friend to breast cancer 12 years ago. Shortly thereafter, while studying for her certification in Fitness Training, Marylene came across the Pink Ribbon Program’s website and discovered that its founder, Doreen Puglisi, is an exercise instructor/physiologist who had her own double mastectomy. After attending the program’s workshop at Saint Mary’s Regional Medical Center in Reno, Marylene recalled, “I immediately knew that I would bring the Pink Ribbon Program to San Diego and that I would devote my career to helping the fighters and survivors.” The program provides two individualized sessions a week (each session lasts 30-45 minutes) for a period of eight weeks. In her studio,

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Personally Fit, Inc., Marylene uses a Dyna band (elastic band) and a Stability ball to help her clients with warm-ups, personalized exercises, and stretching. She added, “My goal is to make my clients feel better and walk taller on every single session we spend together. Seeing their transformation is so rewarding!” The whole experience has allowed Marylene to become much more than just a fitness instructor; she is also a caring supporter advocating the best treatment for her clients. She elaborated, “I am somebody who my clients can call at any time, even if it’s just to give them advice on nutrition. For the ones who are still going through chemo or radiation therapy, I am part of the team of specialists communicating with their oncologist and their physician. Friendships with my clients are established quickly.” Marylene is currently developing a cancer fitness program for other types of cancer patients. She is dedicated to helping people accomplish goals to improve their quality of life. For more information on the Pink Ribbon Program or other fitness related questions, visit www.pinkriboonprogram.com or contact Marylene directly. ¢

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:::: STUDENT STAR

Stephanie Wicburg’s Attitude and Abilities Guarantee Her Future Happiness by amy lehrer | photos by Spark Photography

nown for her positive, open-minded attitude, social eighth grade Bernardo Heights Middle School student, Stephanie Wicburg, can’t choose a favorite teacher or class because they are all amazing and fun. An honor roll student every semester for the last three years and an avid reader, she generously donates her time to tutor fellow students. Principal Tim Biland observed, “I have heard [Stephanie] on multiple occasions give pep talks encouraging students who need support.” In addition, she tirelessly volunteers to plan and run fundraising activities. Another of Stephanie’s endearing qualities is her ability to find beauty everywhere. After her grandmother bought her a camera, she began capturing nature’s beauty. When she gardens, she relishes being surrounded by stunning Name: Age: School: Grade: Parents: Siblings:

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plants and flowers. Further, she creates her own beauty via scrapbooking, crocheting, knitting, beading, embroidery, needlework, sewing, singing, playing the violin, and Tae Kwon Do. She’s sung with the San Diego Children’s Choir and the Bernardo Heights Middle School choir and has received certifications for solo violin performances. And while practicing the art of Tae Kwon Do to earn her 2nd degree black belt, she’s received some trophies. Stephanie cherishes her family for who they are and for what she can learn from them. She especially enjoys having fun with her brother when he isn’t busy selecting colleges and determining his future career. She also values spending time with her dad’s uncle, her mom’s sister and her children, and her dad’s mom. And those relatives not living nearby remain connected on Skype. From her parents, Stephanie has learned how to be flexible and to adapt. Her mom, a former programmer, transitioned to a stay at home mom who volunteered at school and church and tutored children. Her dad, a former owner of a manufacturing business, transitioned to driving buses for the Poway Unified School District and the Safari Park. Her family has helped her recognize that, “It is important to find yourself and be independent but still be connected.” She realizes she is lucky to be part of a family who cares and shares. Although Stephanie hasn’t selected her future career, she knows she wants a family and a good life doing what makes her happy, which shouldn’t be difficult due to her positive, open-minded attitude, an attitude likely to create her future happiness. She muses, “I think that inspiration comes from many sources, and there is new inspiration for new situations.” 

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2013 Miss Poway Scholarship Pageant is Open to all Poway Unified School District Students

n April 27th the 52nd Miss Poway and Miss Teen Poway and their courts will be crowned. The pageant is proudly sponsored by the Poway Lions Club and the support of many local businesses who advertise in the pageant program. The young ladies who win will not only earn scholarship money but gain many hours of community service in San Diego communities. The pageant is held each year at the Poway Center for the Performing Arts located on the campus of Poway High School. Teen contestants must be between the ages of 13 – 16 (by the date of the pageant) and Miss contestants must be between the ages of 17 – 24 (by the date of the pageant). For the last 51 years the pageant has only been open to those young ladies who live in the 92064 zip code. The pageant is excited to announce that this year it will not only be open to those who live in the Poway zip code but will also to those young ladies who attend a Poway Unified School. “Our communities are so close. We all spend time in and out of not only Poway but the surrounding areas of Rancho Bernardo, Rancho Peñasquitos, Carmel Mountain Ranch,

4SRanch, and Sabre Springs as well,” explained Pageant Director, Sharon Gruber. “The young ladies from the surrounding areas deserve a chance to compete in a local pageant.” The Miss Poway Scholarship Pageant orientation will be held on Sunday, February 24th at the Poway Community Center at 1 p.m. For more information, visit misspoway.com or the Miss Poway and Miss Teen Poway Scholarship Pageant Facebook pages. If you are a local business, club or organization who would like to help sponsor the Pageant, please contact Sharon Gruber at misspoway@gmail.com. These young ladies will spend eight weeks preparing for the Pageant

and will need the support of their communities to make the experience memorable. The Pageant may be the “big show” but it’s the preparation that helps teach each contestant skills that they will use for the rest of their lives. ¢

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Arch Health Partners (AHP) is proud to announce the opening of our new 4S Ranch medical center. For the first time, residents have primary medical services available in the community — including personalized family medicine, x-ray and laboratory.

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AHP 4S Ranch is led by board-certified family medicine physicians Nasrin Arbabi, M.D. and Camille Santos, M.D. Stuart Graham, M.D., a board-certified AHP pediatrician since 1994, has moved his practice from the Poway office. He provides care for children from birth to 18 years of age. All three physicians are accepting new patients. When it comes to your health, finding the right physician is essential. Choose Arch Health Partners – named a Top Performing Medical Group for its achievement in quality measures and use of technology by the Integrated Healthcare Association for three consecutive years. Centrally located on the corner of Camino del Norte and Dove Canyon Road — the finest care available is now even closer to home.

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:::: COMMUNITY VOLUNTEER

Raising Fun(ds) Foundation Chair, Lorretta Shughrue, Makes Fundraising Fun at SCES by wynne love | photos by Spark Photography

Name of Group: Shoal Creek Educational Foundation Contact Information: www.ShopShoalCreek.com

orretta Shughrue has always enjoyed reach $50,000,” noted Lorretta. “This money projects and volunteer time can tip the balance helping people, and families at Shoal will continue to support our music teacher, away from family time,” admitted Lorretta. Creek Elementary School are her computer specialist, educational software for “I do my best to stay focused knowing that current beneficiaries. every student, books for the library, school my greatest gifts are at home.” Trained in school and professional supply budget per child, and more.” 92128 residents can support Lorretta’s counseling at USD, Lorretta has worked with Lorretta enjoys all kinds of creative efforts as well. Enjoy treats at SCES’s Otter many charitable organizations over the years, pursuits, including web design, event planning, Café on Fridays or chow down at McTeacher including Girlfriends Care and Brother Night, where SCES earns 20% of sales Benno’s. Now that she’s home and Sam Rasoul of Keller Williams raising her two sons, Andrew, 8, and Realty matches all tips. Attend Name: Lorretta Shughrue Ethan, 3, with her stepson, Chris, Parents’ Night Out on Friday, April Age: 40 23, at graduate school (studying 5th, at the Del Mar Marriott with Community: Carmel Mountain Ranch environmental physics at Yale); she celebrity auctioneer, Vic Salazar. Occupation: I earned a School Counseling Credential and devotes her time almost exclusively Easiest of all, earn the school Master’s Degree in Professional Counseling to Shoal Creek. 7% of all your holiday purchases from USD in 2004. Since then I’ve focused “Since Andrew, my oldest by shopping through Shoal Creek’s primarily on raising my children, although son, started elementary school, Amazon link, 2-15% ordering gift cards I’ve dabbled in things like book production, I’ve spent my volunteer time at his through ShopWithScrip.com, and even hypnotherapy, and web-design. school,” explained Lorretta. “I love more by registering your Ralphs, Vons, Family: Husband: Mike; Sons: Andrew (8), Ethan (3); being in the classroom because Target, and Jamba Juice cards using Stepson: Chris (23) that’s where my child can see my the instructions at the Foundation greatest impact.” website: www.ShopShoalCreek. But that is just a portion of the time com. Increasing participation in these Lorretta gives to SCES. She also serves on and even song-writing. This summer, she “zero cost” fundraisers is Lorretta’s primary the PTA and as Chair of the SCES Foundation, will celebrate her tenth anniversary with her goal. “The potential is phenomenal,” Lorretta where she helps raise thousands of dollars for husband, Mike, and appreciates his devoted observed. “Family and friends around the globe the school. “Our monetary goal this year is to support of her volunteer efforts. “Sometimes can help us raise money.” 

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:::: YOUR NEIGHBOR’S RECIPES

u s i ri am

T 20 oz. 8 eggs 1 ½ cups 3 boxes 2 cups ½ cup

Ingredients

mascarpone cheese (2 ½ - 8oz. containers) separated sugar, divided lady fingers cold coffee Kahlua (optional) grated chocolate bar

Directions 1. In one bowl, beat egg whites with ¾ cup sugar, until firm. 2. In second, larger bowl, beat egg yolks with ¾ cup sugar. Beat yolks until pale yellow and firm. Add the mascarpone to the yolks and mix well. 3. Fold in half the egg whites into the yolk mixture. Then add second half of egg whites, folding until you can no longer see any white streaks. 4. Mix the coffee with the Kahlua in a shallow dish. 5. Dip each lady finger briefly into the coffee mixture. Move quickly as the lady fingers will fall apart if they get too wet. 6. In 13x9 glass dish, layer the lady fingers then mascarpone mixture. Sprinkle the mascarpone layer with grated chocolate. Repeat the process until all ingredients are used. (I often divide it into 8 – 10 glass bowls for single-size portions). 7. Cover and refrigerate overnight *Cook’s Note: If you cannot find ladyfingers at your favorite grocery store, pound cake makes an excellent substitute. Just spoon coffee over sliced pound cake and for a little extra decadence lightly squeeze bottled chocolate syrup over the pound cake slices after you drizzle the coffee.

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about the chef

Name of Chef: Jackie Lyons Family Members: The Lyons Den – My husband, Ken and our 17 yearold son, Grant Community of Residence: Sabre Springs Hobbies/Interests: Cooking, Gardening, Reading Favorite Local Activity: Walking on the beach in Del Mar on Saturday mornings with my husband About the Recipe: Paying homage to my Italian heritage, the true Italian tradition for Christmas Eve includes pasta, seafood, and something terribly decadent for dessert. This recipe is one that I have made every Christmas Eve for the past 15 years. Family and friends rave about it, and even though the rest of dinner is memorable, too, this is the part that we all look forward to! I wanted to share part of my family tradition with others. (My husband says that this is the dish that sealed the deal when we were dating!) About the Chef: I am a true foodie and have been cooking since I was eight years old. Even though I have a full-time job that keeps me busy all week, I always find time to unwind in my kitchen. Most Saturday mornings I am at my table with cookbooks, food magazines and my laptop, gleaning inspiration, tweaking recipes and swapping ingredients to find new ways to create something good for my family. I love throwing dinner parties, paying attention to all details so that everyone has a memorable evening. Life is all about family, friends and great food! ¢

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Media Savvy The Holt Family:

Culturally Hip, yet Blessedly Charitable by Linda frabl | photos by Spark Photography

he Holt family is quite distinguished and media-savvy, with their finger on the pulse of cultural coolness. Dad, Sky, is a Colorado Springs native and develops sales and marketing campaigns for Local Media San Diego, which owns the radio stations 91X, 90.3, and 92.5. Mom, Betsy, is a San Diego native and works for Beckon Books, writing, editing, and project-managing guide books, art books, and souvenir books. Daughter Lily, a seven-year-old second grader at Highland Ranch Elementary, and a Golden Retriever, named Reef, round out the brood. When the Holts were investigating San Diego neighborhoods to live in back in 2004, they knew they wanted something a bit hip and metropolitan, yet also nonthreatening and family-friendly. Carmel Mountain Ranch ended up being the jackpot spot! Sky elaborated, “We love the convenience of being in an almost urban setting where you can walk to everything, but also being in

Parents: Community: Hometowns: Occupations:

Sky and Betsy Holt Carmel Mountain Ranch since 2004 Betsy – San Diego, Sky – Colorado Springs Betsy – Book writer and editor, Sky – Sales and marketing account executive Children: One daughter, Lily Holt, 7 years old and in second grade at Highland Ranch Pets: Reef, a Golden Retriever. We call him “Reef the Thief” because he will steal every crumb of food from your plate when you’re not looking.

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a safe, suburban neighborhood where there are great schools, parks, and libraries.” Betsy was especially glad when the Nordstrom Rack recently opened in Carmel Mountain Plaza, and it is now incorporated into one of her favorite mom’s night out excursions, which she refers to as the “CMR Crawl,” or, “walking to the shopping center and hitting up the Rack, Ross, and Marshalls all in one night. Those shops are like my own personal Bermuda Triangle, and it’s been dangerous having all of that designer bargain shopping so close by!” She also finds herself taking detours to See’s Candies whenever she’s out walking the dog, “just to get a free sample!” Speaking of receiving something for free, Lily has “We love the convenience of being started a club, “Kids Care 4 the in an almost urban setting where Homeless,” in which she and her you can walk to everything, but friends create care packages to also being in a safe, suburban give to the homeless people seen neighborhood where there are great holding up signs asking for help. schools, parks, and libraries.” The packages consist of toiletries and other non-perishable items, as well as homemade cards. Betsy avowed, “It has been an awesome experience for our daughter, who has learned how blessed she is. The homeless people have also been so grateful.” Charitable Lily also finds time to play piano, do gymnastics, and participate in Brownie events. In their free time, the Holts enjoy activities at the Rancho Bernardo Community Presbyterian Church, collecting shells at the beach, and having dinner with friends. “We’re pretty boring, actually,” Betsy laughed. We’d beg to differ! 

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:::: COMMUNITY STUFF RBAA President, Ren Daniels, Exhibit at Café Merlot

The Rancho Bernardo Art Association’s president, Ren Daniels, will be exhibiting her artwork at Café Merlot through Jan. 31. Café Merlot is located at Bernardo Winery, 13330 Paseo Del Verano, San Diego, CA 92128. The Rancho Bernardo Art Association provides programs, workshops, exhibits and social activities related to art for its members. Founded in 1971, the Association cooperates with the community and surrounding areas in matters pertaining to art. Membership is open to individuals interested in art and meeting others who share the same interests. For more information visit www.ranchobernardoart.com or call Phyllis Hensperger at 858-675-2262.

3rd Annual Art Walk Showcases Local Talent

The 3rd Annual October Fest Art Walk, held at the Excel Building, was a great success. There were 14 local artists from several art associations, like North County Society of Fine Arts, RB Art Association and the San Dieguito Art Guild. Event presenter, Sharon Ford, was delighted with the turnout of the event and pleased to see local artists in the spotlight. Popular items purchased included handmade knits and Christmas ornaments made by Ellen Cramer. There were also some beautiful paintings, pottery, jewelry, photography and fabric art on display representing a wide variety of local talent. The annual event is a community outreach program designed to bring attention to and enrich the local art community.

4S Daisy Girl Scouts Gear Up to Debut New Cookie Boxes

Girl Scout cookie boxes have a fresh design for the new year! The newly revamped boxes now include pictures of Girl Scouts engaged in pursuits ranging from kayaking and interpretive dance to public speaking and community service, captioned with quotes from the girls. Also featured are images of recognitions girls can earn, such as the Financial Literacy badge and Gold Award. The Girl Scout Cookie Program began in 1917, the year Girl Scouting started in San Diego. 4S Ranch first-graders, Isabella and Sophia of Daisy Troop 8774, are among the thousands of business-leaders-in-the-making getting ready to sell America’s favorite confection. The troop will use its cookie proceeds to support a local community garden and pay for field trips, celebrations and Girl Scout books. Through the Operation Thin Mint®, local customers can also purchase Girl Scout cookies for U.S. military troops. Since the program’s debut in 2002, generous San Diegans have donated over two million boxes of cookies and written countless notes of support to deployed military. Donations are tax-deductable. Girl Scouts will begin selling cookies door-to-door on Sunday, Jan. 27. For more information, visit www.sdgirlscouts.org/cookies.

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RBHS Friends of the Library Hosts Online Auction

The Rancho Bernardo High School Foundation’s 5th annual on-line auction will be held from Mar. 1 until Mar. 14. A portion of the proceeds will directly benefit the high school library. The Friends of the Library have received many donations such as admission tickets to Disneyland, Sea World, and Hornblower Cruises; gifts from wineries, restaurants, pet care services and much more. Follow the progress of the auction by visiting the library web site www.rbhsfriendsofthelibrary.org and click on the “Bidding for Good” link. If you would like to donate items to help raise money, contact the Friends of the Library through their web site.

Event Raises $15K to Help Children with Special Needs

The 19th annual RBCPC Preschool’s Women’s Night, held in early December at the Rancho Bernardo Inn, raised more than $15,000 to enable children with special needs to learn side-by-side with their peers. The funds will be used for additional staff, training, and equipment. More than 500 women attended the fun, fellowship and fundraising event; which benefits children with autism, cerebral palsy, visual impairments and Down syndrome. Parent speakers shared the sometimes difficult stories of their children with special needs and the impact that the Sharing Lives inclusion program at RBCPC Preschool has had on the lives of their children and the other children in the classroom. If you are interested in becoming a sponsor for their upcoming 20th anniversary, e-mail the preschool at rbcpcpreschool@rbcpc.org.

Poway Symphony Orchestra Performs with Local High Schools for their Spring Concert

The Poway Symphony Orchestra performs three concerts every year and offers these concerts at a local venue free of charge to the public. The musicians come from all over San Diego North County and include music educators, music professionals, high school and college students as well as other talented instrumentalists. The orchestra is organized through the Poway Unified School District Adult School Department. The next concert will be performed on Mar. 17 at 2:30 p.m. at the Poway Center for the Performing Arts. The program will include the popular Piano Concerto No. 1 by P.I.Tchaikovski with American pianist, Chetan Tierra. Also on the program is the composer’s Marche Slave. The orchestra will be joined by choirs from Rancho Bernardo and Mount Carmel High Schools as well as Cal State San Marcos in the second half. The Conductor is Warren Torns, Music Director of the Poway Symphony Orchestra. For further information on the concert or the orchestra, including how to join as a musician, visit www.powaysymhony.org or call 858-673-9702.

RBHS Grad Nite 2013 Shred-a-thon and E-Waste Event CVS (at the corner of Paseo Lucido and Camino Del Norte) will host a Shred-a-Thon and free E-waste drop-off event on Saturday, Jan. 19, 2013 from 10 a.m. until 2 p.m. to benefit Rancho Bernardo High School’s Grad Nite 2013. Bring items to be shredded, as well as old computers and computer hard drives to be recycled to help the students of RBHS and the RBHS PTSA while helping the planet. Document shredding is $5/box or $20 for 5 boxes; removal of hard drives is $20/hard drive; hard drive destruction is $10/hard drive. For questions, contact the Grad Nite committee at rbgradnite@gmail.com.

Jewish Community Foundation Announces Jeffrey D. Sollender Business and Philanthropic Youth Entrepreneurship

Elyse K. Sollender has created the Jeffrey D. Sollender Business and Philanthropic Youth Entrepreneurship Scholarship Program at the Jewish Community Foundation of San Diego in memory of her late husband, Jeff Sollender, a renaissance man who always put his family first. Scholarships will recognize innovative, college-bound students who have created and maintained their own commercial or social enterprises. “Jeff was a highly accomplished and creative entrepreneur with boundless energy and optimism who was always available to help others in pursuit of their dreams,” said Elyse Sollender. Scholarships from the fund are available to graduating high school seniors of all faiths in San Diego who are planning to attend two or four-year colleges or universities. Eligible students must be actively involved in running their own small businesses or social ventures for at least one year. Students must demonstrate financial need and have a minimum 3.0 GPA. Scholarship funds may be applied to the cost of college tuition and books. For more information about the scholarship, visit jcfsandiego.org/young-adults/ jeffreydsollenderscholarship-2 or contact Sharyn Goodson at 858-279-2740.

Shoal Creek Students Dazzle During “Character Counts” Week

Shoal Creek Elementary School was one of thousands of schools across the country that participated in Character Counts Week. During “Character Counts Week”, Shoal Creek students participated in an activity that applied to the “Pillar of Character” associated with that day. The students made “daisy chains” upon which they wrote what each Pillar meant to them. On “Respect & Responsibility” day, teachers engaged their students on the importance of not being a bystander to bullying. On “Fairness” day, students had a contest to see which class was wearing the most peace-sign insignias on their clothing. On “Citizenship” day, students were treated to demonstrations by members of law enforcement, including a helicopter landing and a K-9 dog. Shoal Creek Elementary was most proud of its “Caring” day and it’s activity, “Change 4 Change”. In one week, K-5th grade students raised $169.64 in change, weighing in at 23.1 pounds. Good work, Shoal Creek!

SD Children’s Choir Auditions

The San Diego Children’s Choir is looking for children who love to sing. The Choir offers children a chance to achieve artistic excellence, attain personal goals and perform service to the community. Short 5-10 minute auditions will be held on Jan. 9th and 12th for children in grades 3-12. No audition is required for grades 1-2. The Choir has five convenient sites in Del Mar, Mira Mesa, Hillcrest, Lake Murray and Rancho Bernardo. The Choir is a place where children are encouraged to develop their musical talents and enjoyment comes naturally. Call 858-587-1087 or visit www.sdcchoir.org for more information.

Club Pilates Hosts Turkey Day Fundraiser Bernardo Heights Country Club Completes Remodeling Project

Bernardo Heights Country Club has just completed the last of a five-phase clubhouse remodeling project that has cost approximately three-quarters of a million dollars over the last four years. The final phase of the project involved renovation of the Vista Room, the club’s formal dining area. Previous phases included remodeling of the men’s and ladies’ locker rooms, refurbishment of the Terrace dining room and adjacent meeting rooms, expansion and complete renovation of the club’s cocktail lounge and casual dining area, enhancements to the front entry and foyer and to the rotunda outside the pro shop, upgraded carpet in several rooms and hallways, and new furnishings in the covered pavilion that is used for outdoor dining. According to the club’s General Manager Mike Spayd, all work was paid for with cash rather than loans, and the club remains debt free. For membership information visit www.bhcc.net.

Club Pilates North County, hosted a Turkey Day fundraiser for Interfaith Community Services in November. Gratitude classes were offered and Club Pilates aficionados brought bags of canned goods and toys for charity. Fundraisers are not the only way Club Pilates North County gives back. The studio offers discounts for teachers and nurses, realizing that not everyone has the means to take a class regularly. Beginning in 2007, Club Pilates was founded by Allison Beardsley and continues to grow – with locations in North County, Encinitas, La Mesa, Bankers Hill, and more. For more information on Club Pilates North County, visit www.clubpilates.com.

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1. The Butterflies had such a fun season! 2. Staying fit and happy at The Dailey Method 3. Park sisters are ready for Christmas! 4. Getting to know the neighbors at Walden’s Holiday party 5. Soccer Buddies 6. Hannah celebrates her fourth birthday with Ariel 7. Karley & Allison kickin’ it on the soccer field 8. Enjoying Meadowbrook’s First Annual Holiday Party and Fundraiser at Bernardo Heights Country Club 9. RBHS Bronco Students Showing their Pride 10. Courtney Voss and Lili Barton ice skating at SD Ice arena in Mira Mesa 11. Poway Rancho Bernardo Chargers 10U flag football team after winning the City of San Diego Championship 12. Who’s Who in 92128 at Bernardo Heights Country Club

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:::: IN THE SPOTLIGHT

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Elite Pediatric Dentistry, Dr. Femme Ambrosio and her staff strive to create a positive experience for every patient, every day. “We are a small boutique practice and are focused on each family’s needs. We encourage open communication and take time to explain prevention plans, treatment and procedure options and finances,” explained Dr. Ambrosio, who is a Board Certified Pediatric Dentist. Elite Pediatric Dentistry provides comprehensive

by Jennifer Frakes | photos by Michael Bielecki

dental care to children of all ages, from infants to young adults, as well as children with special health care needs. While the practice is focused on preventative care, such as check-ups and hygiene visits, restorative services to treat dental disease and injury are also offered. According to Dr. Ambrosio, the philosophy of the practice is to tailor a unique treatment plan for each child. “We treat only what is necessary and believe in ideal, yet conservative, dental treatment,” stated Dr. Ambrosio. She and her staff also feel that staying up-to-date on the most current technology is a vital part of assessing and delivering complete oral health to patients.

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For example, the office has child-size x-ray equipment and a computer-controlled single tooth anesthesia unit that increases patient comfort. A children’s reception area with books and games, overhead flat-screen monitors and a prize wheel allow for a fun experience for the child. As stated by Dr. Ambrosio, it is the friendly and compassionate staff at Elite Pediatric Dentistry that truly sets the practice apart. Dr. Ambrosio has worked in various pediatric dental offices throughout the country and learned a great deal from each experience. When she decided to open her own practice, she sought to SPECIAL ADVERTISEMENT

hire not only people who had knowledge and skills, but also had the personality and determination to provide the best care to her patients. “From the moment a parent calls to schedule an appointment to the time the parent and child walk out the door, they are treated with care and given personalized attention,” said Dr. Ambrosio. Dr. Ambrosio is a native San Diegan and a mother, both of which she feels serve her well in her practice. “As a mother, I understand

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personalized, quality care in a supportive, informative and nurturing environment.

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ince 1979, the Rancho Bernardo Girls Softball League has grown an impressive program offered to all girls ages 4 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 14. The League not only develops female athletes, but also teaches fundamentals, promotes teamwork and fosters a love for the game of softball. The League follows the tenants of the Positive Coaching Alliance promoting confident and well-rounded athletes who show good sportsmanship on and off the fields. We talked

with President, Wade Wendell, who has been with the League for a decade, about his passion and commitment to the League. He holds the committed families, players, coaches, volunteers and sponsors in high regard as they have made the League such a dominant and exciting sport in the community for over three decades. Registration is currently going on and the non-profit organization assures those who sign up will have a bunch of fun while learning and/or refining skills with a new family of softball friends.

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Q&A

with President, Wade Wendell

Wendell: We are a not-for-profit organization operated by volunteers committed to providing a positive softball environment, practicing positive coaching, wherein sportsmanship, winning and losing with pride and teamwork are fundamental. We strive to cultivate a love of the game by teaching our players the rules and skills of fastpitch softball. We encourage respect for the game and its participants, including players, coaches, umpires and parents. We ensure all players in our organization are valued, regardless of skill level and most importantly that the players in the League are having fun.

92128: Describe the basics of the typical spring softball season. Wendell: Our season begins every year with skill assessments held in early January. We then hold a draft to divide the players into evenly skilled teams. Our first practice is usually the last weekend in January and each team will practice one night per week and every Saturday until Opening Day which is the first Saturday in March. Each team will then play one game during the week and every Saturday until the first Saturday of May when we hold the end of season tournament. Our top skilled players will then play on All Stars

92128: What is the history behind RB Girls Softball League? Wendell: We are entering our 33rd year. The League was designated as

teams until mid-July competing against other leagues in the greater San Diego area.

a 501(c)(3) organization on April 9, 1979 and has grown into a consistently competitive team in the North County District. The success of our League is demonstrated below: 2000 - The First 8U All-Star Team took 2nd place in the San Marcos

92128: What sets the RB Girls Softballprogram apart from other recreational girls softball leagues? Wendell: Never having played in another league I can’t say how we are

tournament and from what I was told by the older board members

different from the other leagues. What I can tell you is our League is made up

that was the first time RB had placed in the top two in a tournament.

of dedicated board members and coaches. These volunteers ensure every

2001 - The 8U All Star Team became “B” District Champions (1st in League History).

player who enters our fields learn to play the game of softball the right way, encourage long lasting friendships and make sure the girls have fun.

2002 - The 10U All Star Team was “C” District Champions, and went on to win “C” State Championship. 2003 - The 8U All Star Team won “C” District Championship. 2003 - The 10U All-Star Team took 4th at “C” Districts, qualifying for

92128: What should a player and her family expect as participants of the League? Wendell: Players and families should expect to learn how to play the game

States. Took 2nd at “C” States, and then went on to place 2nd at “C”

of softball the right way with respect for other players, coaches and umpires.

Western Regionals.

You should also expect to improve your softball skills as you progress through

2004 - The 8U All Star Team won “B” Districts.

the season. We take six weeks of practice to try and get the players playing

2004 - The 12U “B” All Star Team took 2nd in States and 2nd in Regionals.

as a team and learning the different positions on the field. We strive to identify

2005 - The 8U All Star Team finished 2nd in “B” Districts.

a position for each player where they can excel and have the best opportunity

2006 - 10U All Star Team that won Districts, went to “B” States (7th) and

for success. The most important part of softball is the other teammates and

“B” Western Nationals (4th). This is first team in RBGSL history to

having fun. There is no such thing as a bad kid on the teams. The players

go to Nationals.

develop friendships that will last beyond the softball field. We also hope that

2007 - The 10U All Star Team finished 3rd at “B” Districts, qualified for States.

players will learn life lessons that they will carry with them after they leave the softball field.

2008 - The 12U All Star Team finished 2nd in Districts, 5th at “B” States and 5th at “B” Western Nationals. 2008 - The 8U All Star Team won “B” District Championship. 2010 - The 12U All Star Team finished 3rd at “B” Districts Championship and placed in “B” States. 2010 - The 10U All Star Team finished 2nd at “B” District Championship and placed 13th at States. 2011 - The 14U All Star Team won “B” Districts and placed 7th at “B” States and 9th at “B” Nationals.

92128: What is your role as President and how did you get involved with the League? Wendell: I first got started in the League ten years ago when my oldest daughter decided to play softball. Since then, I have held several positions on the Board of Directors. I was selected as President in August 2012. My responsibilities as President include overseeing monthly Board of Director meetings. I am also responsible for filling vacant board positions as they become available. I also meet with other local league Presidents ensuring we

2012 - The 10U All Star Team took 3rd at “B” Districts and qualified for “B”

maintain open communication with the other leagues in the area. I am also

States coming up one game shy of qualifying for Nationals.

the conduit between the League and the North County ASA Commissioner.

92128: What is the mission of RB Girls Softball League?

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92128: What is your number one goal as President of the

At A Glance | RB Girls Softball

League? Wendell: To continue to grow the League and ensure every player who wants to play softball is given the opportunity.

Full Name: Year of Establishment: Phone Email: Address: Website: Board Meetings:

Rancho Bernardo Girls Softball League 1979 858-646-9635 RBGirlsSoftball@gmail.com P.O. Box 270125, San Diego, CA 92198 http://www.rbgirlssoftball.org 2nd Tuesday of the month

92128: What is the most rewarding thing about being President of the League? The most challenging? Wendell: The most rewarding thing for me is going to the fields on game

afforded the opportunity to play. The fees we charge are only enough to cover

days and seeing all the fields full of players. I enjoy watching the young

organization, we depend on sponsors and All-Star Tournament profits to offset

players faces light up after they have made a good play and they hear the

the costs. Our sponsors are very important to the success of our League.

cheers of the crowds. The most challenging part of my position is trying to

We strive for each team to have a sponsor who will donate $250. Last year,

field competitive teams while ensuring we are allowing every player who

our sponsors were Mike Donley Concrete, American Capital Home Loans,

wants an opportunity to play softball the opportunity to play.

Dream Design Builders, Maxim Crane Works, K & Jamie Realtors, One

the cost of uniforms, umpires and field fees. Since we are a not-for-profit

Source Supply Solutions, Provoast Automation Controls, Smarsh, Scott Waid

92128: If you could grant the League one wish, what would that be? Wendell: If I had one wish granted it would be for a lighted softball only

Realtor, Terminex, Holiday Inn, Courtyard Marriott, Radisson, and Horizon

dedicated park where we could play year-round.

92128: Tell us about the volunteers who allow for the League to be so successful. Wendell: We are a volunteer-driven League. Our coaches and board

92128: Since the organization is not for profit, how do you go about receiving necessary funds to keep the League running? Tell us about your sponsors. Wendell: We charge each player to play in the League. For those who may not be able to afford to play, we offer scholarships to ensure every player is

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members are all volunteers. Each year we recruit one to two coaches per team to oversee the safety of the players, teach the players how to play the game right while trying to get the most out of each and every player. It’s a tough job but the reward is immeasurable. Our Board of Directors

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:::: COVER FEATURE is responsible for everything from running the snack bar to overseeing our player umpires to ensuring the fields are ready to play on. They are the life blood of the League and we would not be successful without each and every one of them.

92128: If someone were to want to become involved as a volunteer with the League, how would they go about doing so? Wendell: There are several ways to volunteer. We ask for anyone interested in coaching a team to sign up during player registration. If you are interested in becoming a board member we hold elections in the fall. We currently have the position of T-Ball Division Representative open. If you are interested please contact a member of the board.

92128: Are there any new things about the coming season players and their families should be aware of (ie: updates to fields, Opening Day, fees, etc…)? Wendell: We are hoping to see some new changes to the park this year. The city has approved replacing the roof on the snack bar and we have also been told they will be installing lights on our last unlit field. This will allow us to play more games.

92128: Have you had any of your players go on to play in college and/or on a professional level? Wendell: We have had many players to play in the league and continue to play at the college level: • Kristen “Skooch” Shiotani (Concordia Univ., Irvine) • Kassy Shiotani (Harvard Univ.) • Emily Harper Guerra (St. Anselm College) • Madison Jones (Iowa State) • Ariel Craig (Univ. of Nevada, Reno) • Sterling Hoham (Long Island Univ.)

2013 Spring rec season calendar

January 2013 5: Registration, 10 a.m.-Noon, Game Day Sports, 14767 Pomerado Road, Poway 8: Registration, 6-7:30 p.m., RB Community Park Gazebo 9: Recreation Season Coach Selection, 6:30-9:00 p.m. 12: Assessment 15- 17: Draft 19: Back-up Assessment 26: First Practice March 2013 8: Opening Day, 8:00 a.m. May 2013 1: All-Star Tryouts 4: Closing Ceremonies July 2013 10: All-Star Field Day 11-14: All-Star Tournament

• Jenny Auger (Univ. of Georgia) • Laura Determan (Villanova) • Suzy Ellquist (Florida Int. Univ.) • Nikki Starry (Univ. of Wisconsin) • Bridget Starry (Jacksonville Univ. FLA) • Lauren Nagle (UC Stanislaus) • Maddy McIntyre (Ohio State) • Danielle Knoetze (committed to East Tennessee) • Sara White (committed to Notre Dame) • Laura Winter (Notre Dame)

92128: How are teams formed so they are sure to be competitive with one another? Wendell: To ensure all teams are competitive with each other, we sit down with all the team managers and divide the players into equally competitive teams as evaluated by the managers during our player assessments.

92128: Are you hosting any clinics prior to the start of the spring season? If so, please provide details. Wendell: We currently have a clinic scheduled for Jan 19th to be conducted by the Palomar Community College Softball Team. We also have past players who are playing on travel teams and want to give back to the League. One such player is Lexi Borg who has volunteered to conduct a clinic for the League using players from her travel team. Lastly, Coach Kuptz and his Del Norte Nighthawks’ High School team usually conduct clinics for League players.

92128: RBGSL is a partner with the Positive Coaching Alliance. Please tell us about this partnership. Wendell: We partnered with Positive Coaching Alliance six or seven years ago. Our League is

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board members PRESIDENT Wade Wendell FALL BALL DIRECTOR Mark Reddick SNACK BAR Jennifer Boaz VICE PRESIDENT Jeff Neyhouse FIELDS Jeremy Schmidt SPONSORS Dave Parrish SECRETARY Wade Mears INSTRUCTION Lory Starry T-BALL REP TBA TREASURER Michele Long PLAYER AGENT Jim Davis TOURNAMENT Chris Menzer ALL-STAR DIRECTOR Mark Reddick PUBLICITY Dan Haase UNIFORMS Jodi Davis DIVISION I REP Chaise Bivin REGISTRAR Joe Maier WAYS & MEANS Chris Menzer DIVISION II REP Andrew Boaz ROOKIES REP Courtney Luna de la Fuente WEBMASTER Andrew Boaz DIVISION III REP Bill Long SAFETY TBA YOUTH UMPIRES Jim Davis EQUIPMENT Chuck Hubbard SCHEDULING Wade Wendell

did you know? 2012 Spring Stats

# of players: # of teams: # of coaches: # of umpires: # of volunteers: Age range: # of balls used: # of gloves used: # of bats used:

279 22 44 16 50 5-14 225 279 260

divisions based on age

T-Ball (6U): Rookies (8U): Division I (10U): Division II(12U): Division III (14U):

4-6 (2006-2005) 7-8 (2004-2003) 9-10 (2002-2001) 11-12 (2000-1999) 13-14 (1998-1999)

committed to providing a positive softball environment for all of our members. We are committed to the principles of Positive Coaching, where teaching life lessons like sportsmanship winning

and losing with pride, and teamwork are fundamental. We cultivate our players Love of the game by teaching them the games of fastpitch softball (both skills and rules), and to honor the game

and its players, coaches, umpires and parents. We ensure All players in the organization are

valued, regardless of skill level. Finally, and most importantly, we make sure the Youths in our organization have FUN!

Positive Coaching Love of the Game All Players Valued Youth Having FUN!!

92128: By the time this is printed, registration will be coming to a close. Please tell our readers how they can register if they haven’t signed up yet. Wendell: If there are players who are still interested in playing but have not signed up we will accept players until February 12th. They can contact any Division Representative. All the information can be found on our web site at www.rbgirlssoftball.org. 

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:::: WHERE ARE THEY NOW?

Astraea Keeps Things Funky, Fresh, Fierce and Fun by TARA PRITCHETT

Name: Nikki Moulios Stage Name: Astraea Age: 24 Website: iamastraea.com Background: Singer, Songwriter, Entertainer

t’s only been eight months since we Promotion Company, helping her to hone in and introduced you to local singing sensation, perfect her sound. You may recall, when we first Astraea, and she is, once again, making introduced you to her, the starlet mirrored the headlines. Defying the cookie-cutter pop theme of her music and sported a “dirty blonde” stereotype, Astraea not only knocks your socks image. This time around, she’s reinvented and off with her talent, she also has a flair for fashion revamped her look. Now a blazing red-head, and art. Inspired by Nylon Magazine and Andy Astraea is gearing up to heat up the microphone Warhol, her music reflects her eye-catching and stage once again with the same spunky sense of style: flirtatious, retro and rock infused. attitude and even more charm than ever. This With the global album release of Dirty January, Astraea will be heard all over when Blonde in 2011, Astraea continues her journey she debuts her new song, “Still Dancing,” to be to dominate popular music worldwide. She released on the Billboard Dance Chart. persists on working with major producers such Astraea currently resides in Los Angeles as Miklos Malek (The X Factor) and Grammy but continues to write and record in New York Winning - Multi Platinum Producer / Songwriter, as well as the West Coast helping her to create Gen Rubin. Today, she finds herself amongst dance floor ready anthems. She has been gigantic names, specifically Madonna in exponentially gaining fans, friends, and followers alignment with Orlando Puerto of Citrusonic in her real life scenario as well as media sites 46 • 92128Magazine.com • January | February 2013

including Facebook, Twitter and Pinterest. Astraea has brought her electrifying live show to venues throughout Southern California, including Hollywood’s Cinespace, Belly Up Tavern in Solana Beach, and the 2011 Palm Springs Pride Festival. Although it may seem a far cry from where she is now, Astraea started singing at the age of six and went on to sing in the girls’ choir at San Pasqual High School. Her roots in San Diego run deep, as her family owns Ciao Bella Hair and Body Salon in Rancho Bernardo. “Music is the fabric of my being and they have always been extremely supportive of my career,” says Astraea about her family. Outside of her career, she finds solace in writing, creating collages, redecorating, fitness and cooking. Follow Astraea by visiting her website, iamastraea.com. 

:::: BRONCO INSIDER by STACY LUU

special to 92128 Magazine

Tennis Star Jana McCord Slams Her Way to the Top

very morning on the announcements at RB High, there are standout athletes who get shout-outs and praise for their exemplary work in their sport. During the tennis season, one name always stands out: Jana McCord. Senior Jana McCord is ranked in the top 25 in the nation and was named RB High’s Student Athlete of the Year. She also won the CIF championship last year, helped clinch the title for a couple of national team competitions representing Southern California, and on top of all of that, she was accepted into Texas A&M with a full-ride scholarship for the coming year. Jana has displayed extraordinary skill in her sport as well as in her academics, and has managed to maintain straight A’s throughout her four years in high school. “These [accomplishments] have all helped me prove to myself that I have what it takes to be successful at this sport and hopefully make a career out of it,” said Jana. “It has always been a dream of mine to be a professional tennis player and now it’s starting to look like a reality.” Like many athletes, Jana learned to love her sport at a young age. She started playing when her grandfather introduced her to the sport when she was about three years old. “I just fell in love with it,” Jana recalled. “I had been watching him play tennis ever since I was little and he was definitely a role model for me.”

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Now Jana is seriously considering tennis as a career. “In 5 or 10 years, I hopefully see myself as having graduated from Texas A&M with an NCAA title and pursuing my goal as a professional tennis player,” Jana described. “Some of my personal goals for tennis are to be able to play #1 on my college team and win the NCAA’s. I also hope to go on a mission trip to a country in need to teach kids how to play tennis and spread the word of Christ.” Jana is very likely to make tennis history, but even with all her success, Jana stays humble and grounded in her faith. “I’m proud that I’ve been able to make all that happen,” shared Jana. “I am a really strong Christian and give all the glory of my successes to God.” ¢ Stacy Luu is a senior at Rancho Bernardo High School. She is participating in an internship program with 92128 Magazine. She can be contacted at info@92128magazine.com.

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:::: IN OUR OWN BACKYARD

WINTER FUN What Winter Means to San Diegans by Wynne Love

inter in San Diego doesn’t mean what it does for folks in other parts of the country. While they are braving the cold and shoveling snow, San Diegans are surfing, playing golf, driving the coast with the top down, and even hanging at the beach. But rather than feel sorry for our comrades in other parts of the country, why not enjoy what the San Diego winter has to offer with these fun activities?

hale Watching: Every winter, gray whales migrate from the Arctic down to Baja, passing right along the San Diego coastline. You can watch for them yourself from well-positioned overlooks like Point Loma’s Cabrillo Point or the Torrey Pines State Reserve, schedule a whalewatching tour during January’s Big Bay Whale Days along the Embarcadero, and be a part of the San Diego Whale Festival on Saturday, January 26, 2013.

ce Skating: For a short while longer, you can slide on the ice at specialty rinks at Horton Plaza and the Hotel Del Coronado. If you miss their holiday installments, Westfield UTC’s Ice Town, Mira Mesa’s San Diego Ice Arena, or the Escondido Iceoplex are open year round.

ew Year’s Day Polar Bear Swim: Feel the real chill of winter – if you dare – by joining a New Year’s Polar Bear swim. The La Jolla Swim Club hosts a Polar Bear Plunge and Chili Potluck on New Year’s Day each year.

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ide Pools: Winter is a great time to visit the tide pools of Point Loma, Ocean Beach, or La Jolla and explore the organisms living there. Want help? Schedule a guided tour of the La Jolla tide pools through the Birch Aquarium or take part in their Underwater Parks Day on Saturday, January 19th.

ntertain the Ears: Hear all 4,530 pipes in action at a free Spreckels Organ Pavilion concert, held every Sunday at 2 p.m. at Balboa Park, or head down to enjoy one of the Winter Concerts at the Coronado Ferry Landing held each Sunday through January.

estaurant Week: Don’t miss your chance to try some of the best morsels in San Diego during Restaurant Week, January 13-18. Enjoy discounted meals at more than 180 restaurants in twelve different areas around the county. 

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:::: HOME TIPS

RESOLVED – Resolve to Re-Solve in 2013 – by WYNNE LOVE

ccording to research, about half of us make New Year’s resolutions each year, and about a tenth of us achieve them. How many of us have resolved to lose weight, work less, exercise more, tackle that project, and have found our eager new-year’s resolve has worn off by February? Resolutions are wonderful. They are full of hope and possibility. They are well-intentioned and forward-thinking. They help us recognize the things we want to change and envision the person we want to become. But they can also become a burden by February and a cruel judge come December. So I’m making 2013 resolution-free. Looking for ways to improve ourselves is laudable, but it means you have to start the year looking at all the things you think you should be doing better. What kind of “Happy New Year” is that? Instead, I’m ditching resolutions in favor of re-solutions. That’s right: re-solutions. Instead of resolving to change

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something, I’m going to re-solve by continuing to do what I’m already doing right. The list I’ll be making this New Year’s Day will be a nice long one cataloguing all the things I did well in 2012. I didn’t lose weight, but I also didn’t gain any. I didn’t finish those photo albums, but I used that time to make a lot of great new memories with family and friends. This New Year’s, I challenge you to fight the masses who urge you to resolve to reinvent yourself. How liberating to start the year off without that critical personal inventory. When the subject of New Year’s resolutions comes up, share proudly that rather than thinking of all the ways you might change in the New Year, you have chosen instead to celebrate your successes of the past year. Honor all those solutions you’ve already found, and the resolve you showed to get there, and pay it forward by continuing that success in the New Year. I mean, how much better can we get now, really? 

:::: MERCHANT PROFILE

Scottsdale, and Loma Linda University School of Medicine. She opened her first practice in Murrieta in 2006, and after seeing the demand for a second practice, she opened an office in San Diego in 2011. Dr. Thomas explained what sets her practice apart from others: “Some weight loss programs We really go are limited in what they can the extra mile to offer patients provide a great because they experience for are not staffed by licensed our patients in physicians. a convenient Since Proactive setting and at Medical is fees that won’t administered by a physician, break the bank.” we can offer ~ Dr. Thomas patients valuable Proactive Medical and proven Weight Management resources such as prescription medications and compounded supplements to help them lose weight in a safe and sensible manner.” Another unique feature about the practice is that patients get to see a physician or a physician’s assistant at every follow up appointment. “We really go the extra mile to provide a great experience for our patients in a convenient setting and at fees that won’t break the bank,” said Dr. Thomas. “We have helped thousands of patients enjoy weight loss success and look forward to helping many more!” ¢

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f you are looking for a weight loss program that is supportive, affordable, professional, and convenient, Proactive Medical Weight Management may be the place for you. Dr. Kim Thomas, a board-certified physician by the American Board of Internal Medicine, runs her bariatric – or “weight loss” - medical practice with one goal in mind: To give her patients the best care possible while also guiding them to reach their weight loss goals. “I think what differentiates Proactive Medical Weight Management is our emphasis on quality, service, and caring,” said Dr. Thomas. “We value our patients and we strive to make their experience positive and motivating. We find that patients achieve greater results when they feel encouraged rather than lectured.” She went on to explain that her philosophy is to treat patients with

“courtesy, respect, consideration for their time, and appreciation for their trust.” After receiving her undergraduate degree from the University of California, Berkley, Dr. Thomas attended osteopathic medical school Name of Business: Proactive Medical Weight Management at Western University of Owner: Kim Thomas, D.O. Health Sciences in Year of Establishment: September 2011 Pomona and went (another office in Murrieta since January 2006) on to complete Address: 13173 Black Mountain Road, Suite 3, 92129 her postgraduate Website: www.proactive-med.com medical training Phone: 858-484-2800 in Arizona. She Hours: MWF 9am-1pm, TuTh 9am-1pm, 2pm-7pm has served on the Description of business: Proactive Medical Weight Management provides academic faculty professional business and support to patients who want to lose weight and improve for the University their health. We also give our patients the tools to help them maintain their weight of Arizona School loss long-term. of Medicine, the Mayo Clinic

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:::: FACES IN THE CROWD

Hal Altenbern Tackles his Newest Adventure at Age 85 by wynne love | photos by Spark Photography

When

al Altenbern is no ordinary grandpa. At age 85, he is not only the author of multiple books, he is also a motivational speaker, an active volunteer for RB Alive and his church, and the father of four, grandfather of eight, and greatgrandfather of three. Married to his wife, Alethea, for 63 years, his love of family is rivaled only by his passion for adventure. “I love to do new things for the first time,” shared Hal. “Age has no limits on what a person can accomplish.” Hal makes every day a testament to those words. He has already tackled countless feats, riding white water rapids, sailing a catamaran, and parasailing, to name a few, and he is always adding to the list. A Thanksgiving baby, Hal’s family affectionately calls him a turkey, so for his 85th birthday last Thanksgiving, he decided to do something truly spectacular – a tandem sky dive – proving, as he puts it, that turkeys can fly. And this one was outfitted like an American flag. “I’m not frightened at all to skydive,” claimed Hal before the jump. “I’m excited. I’m accelerated!” Hal’s entire family of 24 was there to watch. “They think I’m crazy,” admitted Hal, “but they realize that adventures keep Pal Hal young!” Now with a successful sky dive under his belt, Hal is all the more committed to spreading his motto to “love life and love people.” Some of his best advice? “Realize that you are your best friend,” and “Become a leader.” For couples: “Have your first child as soon as possible. You’ll find a joy that will open up new precious chapters in your life.” For parents: “Teach young kids to love books. Reading is the key to knowledge.” “I have shared motivation with others every day of my life,” Hal declared. “I am a true optimist.” So what’s next on his list? Hal intends to continue living every day to the fullest and adding to his bucket list. “I got lucky in golf and shot my age at age 78 and again at age 80,” reported Hal. “My new goal is to shoot a golf score of 85 in this 85th year.” An avid golfer for 72 years and a member of the RB Inn Resort Club, Hal should have no problem with that one. 

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Hal Altenbern 85 – Born on Thanksgiving Day 31 years: Greens North (17 years) & Campana Villas (14 years) 1983 Married 63 years to Alethea Altenbern. We have a family of 24. 21 live in the San Diego area and 3 live in Altadena. 4 grown kids, 8 grandkids and 3 great-grandkids. Life Motto: Love Life and Love People

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Christmas Tree & Menorah Lighting

n early December, the holiday spirit was in the air during the Rancho Bernardo Business Association’s 7 th annual Christmas Tree and Menorah Lighting at the entrance to Webb Park. The Mt. Carmel High School Choir and The Mensch Tones from Temple Adat Shalom provided seasonal tunes, and Rabbi Goldstein of Congregation Chabad and Reverend Frederick W. Thayer of St. Bartholomew’s Episcopal Church, were there to speak to attendees. The reception took place at Pactrust Bank where guests enjoyed a delicious buffet catered by RBBA member restaurants. ¢

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photos by Zeena Gregg Photography

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:::: RANCHO BERNARDO HIGH SCHOOL

CIF Doubles Semi-Finalists

CONGRATS

Girls Tennis - Wakana Tanaka

BRONCOS ON A SUCCESSFUL

FALL SEASON

Girls Tennis - Carissa Bernhardt

RBHS Cross Country Team Members

Captains Alex Grigoriev, Brennan Gee

RBHS Girls Field Hockey

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Coaches - Terry Dockery, Patrick Longhini

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:::: REAL ESTATE WATCH

What if this IS a bubble by SCOTT VOAK

have received several questions along the line of “What if this is just a bubble?” and “How do you know prices won’t fall again?” Well, even though I do not think the recent rise in prices is a “bubble”, there are a lot of problems ahead for the economy and anybody who tells you there aren’t doesn’t really understand the current economic situation (or is trying to sell you something). These problems could possibly cause the market to slip again. The question is, how do you protect yourself? The best thing you can do to protect yourself is to understand if your real estate is primarily your home, or an investment. For your personal residence, I recommend you focus on a property that works well as a home for the next decade. It needs to be affordable and adaptable. In other words, you should be able to afford it now (a little stretching is ok, but be sure to have reserves to cover emergencies) and it should be able to fit your family as your family grows. So, if you are newly married and want to have 3 children and start the family in the next 5 years, you should think about these things and avoid the 2 bedroom condo. Look instead at a home that can handle your needs with 3 kids. Similarly, if you have young children, don’t just look for good elementary schools, pay attention to the high school too. If you can put yourself into a long term home and lock into today’s incredible interest rates, you will be somewhat insulated against the rises and falls in the market. If you have a 30 year fixed at 3.5% and values fall 10-20% again before rising, it will not threaten your family security. Plus, you avoid the expensive process of moving up where real estate fees of 6-7% can eat up your appreciation and equity. Next issue, I will look at how to position yourself in your investment real estate in case the market falls. ¢

Scott Voak, MBA – Broker CA DRE #01153157 10815 Rancho Bernardo Rd #390 San Diego, CA 92127 (888) 311-6311 Scott@VoakHomes.com

Scott Voak, the top selling agent since 2008 (data from SANDICOR MLS as of 11/9/2012) and the host of Real Estate Matters on AM 1450 at 6 p.m. weeknights, provided this information. Email him to subscribe to his weekly real estate newsletter – Monday Morning Coffee.

Recent Sales Activity Address 17539 Devereux Rd

For the most comprehensive list of properties sold within the last several years, visit

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Beds Baths Est SF 3

1737

Price 500,000

Address 11804 Caminito Corriente

Beds

Baths

Est SF

Price

2161

585,000

16044 Avenida Aveiro

1729

515,000

11975 Ashley Pl

2012

590,250

12745 Jardin Rd

1972

515,000

12336 Escala Dr

2518

599,000

11014 Twin Pond Ter

1893

517,500

18103 Mirasol Dr

2001

601,000

11743 Springside Rd

1727

525,000

11993 Caneridge Rd

1970

609,000

15868 Caminito Aire Puro

1500

525,000

14223 Seabridge Ln

2169

610,000

17849 Frondoso Dr

2248

525,000

13965 Royal Melbourne Sq

2556

615,000

17574 Bocage Pt

2673

529,000

12124 Ferncrest Pl

2092

615,000

14849 Gable Ridge Rd

1634

529,250

11719 Windcrest Ln

2428

618,000

17092 Bernardo Oaks Dr

1540

529,500

18390 Reata Wy

2404

640,000

13033 Caminito Dosamantes

1819

530,000

11949 Avenida Sivrita

2228

641,000

13965 Stoney Gate Pl

1949

530,000

14005 Royal Melbourne Sq

2504

642,500

14862 Werris Creek Ln

1634

532,000

12365 Fernando Dr

2108

649,000

12264 Mirasol Ct

1964

535,000

12041 Mil Pitrero Rd

2864

680,000

14817 Gable Ridge Rd

1689

536,000

11972 Aspen View Ct

2541

680,000

17666 Tatia Ct

2673

540,000

12347 Reata Ct

2646

680,000

12611 Senda Acantilada

2033

549,000

12436 Pomerado Ct

2175

715,000

13044 Nightfall Ter

1941

550,000

12347 Fairway Pointe

2840

744,000

17778 Caminito Balata

1819

550,000

10487 Harvest View Wy

3073

781,000

17609 Corte Potosi

1565

559,000

11570 Meadow Grass Ln

3152

782,000

12375 Cornwallis Sq

2221

561,000

12236 Kingsgate Sq

3238

790,000

18541 Locksley St

2082

565,000

12037 Oakview Wy

4093

795,000

13677 Etude Rd

1902

566,500

18858 Bernardo Trails Dr

4337

865,000

13867 Fontanelle Pl

2290

569,000

17471 Bernardo Center Dr

3293

865,000

12541 Montero Wy

1849

570,000

12370 Greens East Rd

4122

870,000

5625

945,000

13549 Scarsdale Wy

1533

575,000

18610 Bernardo Trails Dr

11708 Castile Wy

2290

576,000

(complete list of homes sold in 92128 at www.92128magazine.com)

Information considered reliable, but not guaranteed. Please check with a licensed real estate professional for more information. Not all sales are listed.

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:::: LIBRARY SCHEDULE

CMR LIBRARY EVENTS

Recurring Events

Jan. 8 & 22; Feb. 12 & 26 Baby Sign Language Story Time 3:30 – 4 p.m. Community Room

Fridays Storytime (Preschool) 11 – 11:30 a.m. Community Room

Jan. 10; Feb. 14 Stories & Songs with Miss Gwen 5:30 – 7:30 p.m. Community Room

Saturdays Paws for Reading 10:30 – 11:30 a.m. Children’s Area

Jan. 11 & 18; Feb. 8 & 15 Kids Chess Club 3 – 5 p.m. Community Room

*Both libraries will be closed for the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and Presidents’ Day holidays.

Jan. 15 & 29; Feb. 5 & 19 Laughter Yoga for Adults 6 – 7 p.m. Community Room

Carmel Mountain RANCH LIBRARY

Feb. 1 Kids Art Class 3 – 5:00 p.m. Community Room

12095 World Trade Drive, San Diego, CA 92128 | 858-538-8181 For more information and the latest events: www.friendsoftheranchobernardolibrary.org/

RB LIBRARY

Word Jumble Happy new year! 1 TATSO 2 LCETAEERB 3 SRDINEF 4 COENTFI 5 IOTUSNLREO 6 YJANRAU 7 RPDAAE 8 GITMIDHN 9 LBAL 10 DLAERNCA 11 YALIMF 12 KIRWESROF ball calendar celebrate confetti

family friends fireworks parade

resolution midnight January toast

Answers on page 66!

EVENTS Jan. 5 & Feb. 2 Kinderdance 3 – 4 year olds at 10 a.m. and 5 – 7 year olds at 10:45 a.m. Jan. 10 & 24; Feb. 7 & 21 Toddler Yoga 11:15 a.m. Jan. 12 & 26; Feb. 9 & 23 Therapy Dog Visit 1 p.m. Children who are shy around dogs can get some reassuring face time with a certified therapy dog. Jan. 17 OASIS Presents: Ready, Set, Get Organized! 1 – 3 p.m. Presented by the President of the National Association of Professional Organizers, San Diego Chapter (NAPO).

Feb. 22 Fabric Jewelry Craft Workshop 9:30 a.m. With craft expert Marta Brandeis-Miesner. For ages 8 to adult.

RECURRING EVENTS Zumba Dance Fitness for Seniors Tuesdays at 6 p.m. and Fridays at 1 p.m. Computer Class Every Wednesday at 3 p.m. Also available every 2nd and 4th Saturday at 10 a.m. Children’s Craft Time Every Wednesday at 6 p.m.

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Music and Stories Every Thursday at 10:30 a.m. With Cowboy Bob, Miss Lisa, Mrs. Cox, or Let’s Make Music School. Paws for Reading Every Thursday at 5 p.m. Children can practice their new reading skills

rANCHO BERNARDO BRANCH LIBRARY 17110 Bernardo Center Drive, San Diego, CA 92128 | 858-538-8163 For more information and the latest events: www.friendsoftheranchobernardolibrary.org

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