How About Creating New Holiday Traditions?

Traditions? By: Anika Ennett

Let this holiday season bring with it new traditions, new friends, and a refreshing spin on what’s considered the norm! The past year and a half have been exhausting at best, and people are looking for a fun release. Many of us had to separate ourselves to remain healthy and are now missing the connections that we’ve had with people. We are in the midst of defining a new normal, so let’s have fun with it. Approaching the holidays with a fresh perspective can go a long way, whether you are single, married, complicated, etc. Another thing that many of us need to do is watch our spending habits. Celebrating and showing appreciation to our loved ones doesn’t have to break the bank. There are areas in our lives where we can bless someone else just because we want to. I have a few examples below. Visit someone who has been feeling lonely over the past year.

Save money by picking names out of a hat and buying that person a gift.

Be intentional each week and do something nice for another person.

Practice self-care.

Quiet dinner for two. Spend time with the seniors in your family.

Schedule small events (maintaining safety guidelines, of course)

Now, since we’ve completed the nice portion of the list, can we hit the naughty?

Ladies or gentlemen, set up a romantic evening for your partner or spouse.

This may sound funny, but fellas, it’s nice when the house is cleaned, and dinner is cooked. It goes a very long way.

Have dinner catered in your home, create a destination date in your home.

Get a couples massage at home.

Put the cellphones away and NO social media for 24 hours. It can consume you!

So, these are just a few ideas to help others who may be feeling a little lonely this holiday season. In addition, there is a concise list of suggestions for you and your partner. I know that it seems nice, but we’re keeping it a little clean. Use your imagination and tailor your list to flatter the one(s) that you love! Happy Holidays!