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Ashley Sorce

from the editor I’m not much on sports. Sure, I will always cheer on my alma mater (GO TOPS!), but sports in general just isn’t really my thing. I always joked that writing was my sport in high school. (I did compete in English

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composition on the Daviess County High School Academic Team.)

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And now as a mom, my love—or lack there of—for sports hasn’t really

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changed. Avery hasn’t expressed any real interest in either team or solo sports, despite me encouraging her to give them a try. And Reed, at just turning 3, is still a little young, although he does love to play Fisher Price level basketball and soccer in the family room. But I have to tell you, after meeting the four sports stars you saw on the cover, I may be changing my mind on the whole sports thing. In the Owensboro Parent Playbook you will meet Kayson, a 5-year-old dirt bike champion who hopes to win an invite to the biggest motocross race in the nation this year; Ally, the only girl at her martial arts academy, who is winning medals after only a few months of competing; Drew, a soap box derby racer, who will race at the largest derby in the country this year; and Millie, an 8th grader who has already verbally committed to play college softball at Auburn. How amazing are these local kids?!

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Katie Albers Christina Dalton Danny May Dr. Shanna McGinnis Elizabeth Muster Taryn Norris Ashley Sorce Lora Wimsatt Steven Wilson COVER PHOTOS

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I mean, the ship has sailed on any athletic endeavor I may wish to pursue,

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but I really see the value of my kids being involved in sports. Those four cover kids proved that it’s not about the trophies and medals—although

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family life

{ Q&A with christina dalton,

M S S W, C S W

parental

control Q: I am a young parent and I have a 3-year-old. This is my first child. I am sure every parent feels this way from time to time. I have so many people telling me to do this and to do that. I should do it this way or their way is the best. I feel overwhelmed and lost at times, especially when it comes to discipline. How do I find the best ways to discipline and parent my child without asking Google?

}

A: Interesting question. This is a

much. Instead we should build each

hard question to answer. I can tell

other up as parents. Parenting is the

you that I do not have the perfect

most difficult job most of us will

answer to your question, but I can

ever do. So let us help each other

tell you what I would do. There is

with empathy and kindness instead

not a one-size-fits-all answer when

of tearing each other down. I hope

it comes to raising kids. There are

this gives you a little guidance in

certain methods that work on some

your journey as a mom! You got this!

children, but they don’t work for others. You know your child. You

Q: When it comes to talking to my

are the expert on your own child.

child about death, I don’t know

However, there are times that we,

what to say. She is in second grade

as parents, hit a wall and we need

and she heard about the school

advice. We need to mix it up and

shooting and asked me if she was

try something different. I can tell

safe at school and what happened

you that many times local schools

to those kids. I can’t wrap my own

will offer parenting classes with

mind around it much less be able to

wonderful and helpful information.

explain it her. I talked to her already

Friends and family can be another

but just wondering what I can use in

great source of information. Just

the future?

because someone says this way is the best does not necessarily mean that

A: This is a tough topic for adults

is true. It might be the best for their

to come to terms with much less

particular child, but not all. I do feel

children. It is important to remember

like there is a great amount of good

where your child is developmentally

information on the internet to help

when talking about death. This will

you with discipline options. I would

have to do with their age and what

caution you to make sure that the

life experiences they may have

information that you are reading is

already had with death. You do not

from a reputable and reliable source.

want to speak above their level of

I think a good piece of advice when

understanding of the subject. Keep

it comes to looking for parenting

it very simple and basic. When

information is to take in what

talking about something like this I

you read like a cafeteria

think it is important to stress that

menu.

Try

techniques

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different and

safety is the number one priority of

see

their school. The job of the school

what works for your

is to keep the students safe at all

child. Pick and choose

times. You can talk about how we

strategies. You don’t

do lockdowns and drills at school to

have to do it exactly like

always be prepared in an emergency.

they say. Alter it to meet

When it comes to talking about a

your child’s needs. Lastly, I

school shooting, I do not know that

think it is really important that

there is anything we can say that will

we support each other as parents.

make sense of what has occurred.

We need to not judge each other so

We can say that the person who www.OwensboroParent.com

did this was not in their right mind.

in stores. We do not smoke and I have

be too young to understand that the

You can also say that is a rare event. I

always taught him that was smoking

device still gives a person nicotine,

try to tell my own child that it is better

was bad for you. If feels strange to tell

which is an addictive substance. I think

to be prepared than think nothing like

him it is OK for people to do this. What

I would treat it the same way I would

this ever happens. When tragedy like

would you say?

a cigarette and say it is not healthy for

Marshall County does occur, we will

you. You can tell him it is not good for

never be able to make sense of it, but

A: Wow! I have never thought of

your lungs. If someone has an e-cig, they

hopefully we can learn something that

this question before. However, you

can smoke inside some places because it

will help us prevent it in the future.

certainly bring up a good topic. I do not

is really just water/vapor that they blow

After talking to your child, I think it is

necessarily know that there is a right

out. Try not to make it too complicated.

important to ask them if they have any

or wrong answer to this. I think the

You need to consider his developmental

questions. If they ask you a question

correct response is going to be what you

understanding. I would focus on your

that you are not prepared to answer or

personally believe. Of course, someone

family beliefs. I would also add that

you simply donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t know, it is perfectly

that smoked would have an entirely

we do not know why people do some of

acceptable to tell them that you do not

different response than you. It is easy

the stuff they do, but you hope he will

know but you will do your best to find

to see how this device would intrigue a

always make healthy choices in life.

out for them.

5-year-old. It is electronic, some light up and then the person blows out a large

Q: My 5-year-old son has asked me

cloud of vapor. Children are not used

about the e-cigs. He wants to know what

to seeing that, especially in stores and

they are and why people can smoke

other public places. He would probably

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insight from an ordinary dad

family life

{ by: danny may }

how i discovered a game-changing

discipline strategy O

kay, be honest. Raise your hand if you’ve ever found

But also I’ve never wanted to broach the subject because

yourself unsuccessfully trying to rationalize your

I’m still trying to figure out how to discipline my own kids.

choice of punishment on a 5-year-old. (I’m not the only

one, right?) Or found yourself on the loud end of a shouting

Discipline by Sarah Ockwell Smith. I’m all ears when it

match with an irate 8-year-old. Or wound up in a “Yes, I

comes to parenting advice. Like I’ve shared with you before,

will!” , “No, you won’t!” back and forth with a 10-year-old.

my boys know exactly how to push my buttons and as hard

People have been asking me to write about discipline

as I try it takes complete focus to not lose my cool in the

since the first Insight From an Ordinary Dad column, but

moment. Then I lament about it later and feel like a failure.

up until this point I’ve stayed far away from that subject.

Mainly because I think every kid is different and every

whines and cries to get what he wants. And somehow I end

parent is different and effective discipline is about learning

up getting caught up in an argument and feeling like a child

how to best relate to your child.

myself.

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Which is why I read a book I stumbled upon called Gentle

I’ve got one child who loves to backtalk and one who still

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But thanks to Sarah Ockwell Smith, I’ve come to

lose their minds the kid scores that as a victory. But the

realize the root issue here is control. When a kid tries

real victory comes when the adult keeps a level head—

to punk out their parent (these are my words, not hers),

which in my case means fighting every instinct inside

or whine to wear a parent down, or push a parent’s

me that wants to blow up like the red Angry Bird—and

buttons just to see an adult flip out like a toddler, it’s

does not respond to the child in the exact same manner

really their way of controlling the situation. I’ve heard

the child was just acting.

that once before. Maybe it was Love & Logic, or Focus

Think of the times you’ve heard a parent scream

on the Family, or some parenting blog I read, but ever

“DON’T YOU YELL AT ME!” to a kid who shouts

since I heard that “control” theory again, I’ve been on a

during a meltdown...You know, like in Walmart for

mission to take the power back.

example. (Am I right?)

It’s been a slow, stealthy operation capitalizing

on the element of surprise. First, I disconnected my

You’ve heard of the 80/20 rule, right? Well, Smith says

“buttons” so they could no longer be pushed as easily.

it applies to parenting too. She says that if we do well 80

Then, I responded in quiet, confident tones which left

percent of the time, we should not worry so much about

the yeller with no one to yell back at. Which left him

the 20 percent when we blow it and just try again the

utterly confused. And you know what? He quieted

next day. Because in the end, the kids will remember

down too.

the 80, not the 20.

The fancy word for that is “de-escalation.”

Smith says when kids make parents momentarily

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But my favorite thing Smith said was in chapter 14.

Which reminded me of the time I heard Dr. Ray

Guarendi tell a conference room full of parents we

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should cut ourselves some slack because at the end of the day we are all better parents than we think we are.

I hope Sarah and Dr. Ray are right. I really want to

believe they are.

So I did a really bold thing. I apologized to my kids.

Well first, I talked with my wife and we came up with a game plan together. But then we all four sat down and had a “come to Jesus moment,” as my wife calls it. I explained that I wanted us all four to speak more respectfully to each other. And I explained that things were going to change in our house and I apologized for not taking control earlier, but now that they are 8 and 10, things have got to change. Starting now. (Because Smith says it’s never too late for parents to regain control, and that ultimately kids want their parents to maintain control and that’s why kids thrive when clear boundaries are set.) Kelly and I initiated two basic household rules: take care of your business (meaning: morning routine, homework after school, night routine, etc.) and have a respectful attitude. That’s it. Easy, right?

Then, in a moment of sheer brilliance, my wife unveiled

the new era of discipline in the May household and in one fell swoop threw out the old, worn out, ineffective consequences and initiated new, much more productive scenarios. No more sending them to their rooms. Now we give them a chance to restore order by doing chores for retribution; that way we get some benefit from their consequences. So now when our boys backtalk, whine, or speak disrespectfully, they get to fold the towels.

Game. Changer!!!!

Backtalk Mom? You get to vacuum the living room.

Forget to put the Wii remotes away? You get to wipe

down the table.

And I can tell you this. Our house looks better. And

it’s much more peaceful around here lately.

If only we had thought of this five years ago.

Danny May is a regular contributor to Owensboro Parent. He and his wife, Kelly, are raising two very active boys, 10 and 8.

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from facebook The American Academy of Dermatology recommends that you select a sunscreen with an SPF rating of 30 or higher.

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from facebook The American Academy of Dermatology recommends that you select a sunscreen with an SPF rating of 30 or higher.

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community

“if you got a problem, yo, we’ll solve it!” { by: taryn norris }

Estes Elementary School Conscious Discipline Program “Eyes are watching, ears are listening, voices quieting,

happy, worried, angry, sad, frustrated, and disappointed),

bodies calming…” This catchy little tune is one of the

breathing techniques, and strategies for problem solving.

first things preschool teacher Holly Davis does with her

“When you ask my kids how they’re feeling, all they know

class in the mornings. For the past year, “Ms. Holly” (as

is happy, sad, or mad.” Holly says. “They don’t even know

her school family calls her) and her colleagues, Melissa

that any of these other emotions exist. But what we have to

Seaton and Shannon Alley, have been integrating aspects

do first is teach them that this emotion that they’re feeling

of the Conscious Discipline program into their preschool

corresponds to one of our examples, then we name it, use

and kindergarten classes at Estes Elementary School.

breathing techniques to calm our bodies, then use ‘loving

Conscious Discipline is a social-emotional program used

eyes’ to see the best in others.” Loving eyes is a practice

to help children and adults develop self-regulation skills.

that encourages children to step back and try to see the

Holly said that “it has revolutionized our classroom and

best in the person or situation. When in conflict with

we have established such a positive culture, school family,

another student, children are encouraged to use their “big

and respect with our students.” The Conscious Discipline

voices” to verbally solve problems, rather than tattling on

program is used to assist with behavioral issues and enables

their peers or using physical violence to settle a dispute.

students to develop positive problem-solving skills.

Outside her classroom, Holly has created a bulletin

a safe space where students can go when they have a “big

board to summarize Conscious Discipline, titled, “If you

emotion.” In this safe place, children can name their

got a problem, yo, we’ll solve it!” with a nod to the Vanilla

emotion with the help of handheld “feeling buddies”

Ice song. Emotional awareness, problem-solving skills,

provided by the Conscious Discipline program, which are

and the cultivation of a loving environment are the main

labeled and physically display eight different emotions.

points of Conscious Discipline. On the board are examples

Children take the feeling buddy, hug it, accept the emotion,

of different emotions (excited, surprised, calm, scared,

and take a few minutes to breathe (with a variety of helpful

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Inside their three classrooms, each teacher has created

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breathing techniques that Holly practices with them every

names each student who is missing and then sings a song

day), and overcome that difficult emotion. “These kids can

to wish their friends well. Holly tells her class that “we

be taught love and kindness. We’re just trying to change

sing this song every day to put our friends in our hearts

their little lives,” Holly states. “I know for me personally,

and to send them love!”

these steps have changed my life as a parent!” One of

Fridays are for fun in the Early Learning Academy.

Ms. Holly’s students, Maleah, shared a time when she

It’s financially difficult to have field trips, but the three

had a problem on the playground. Maleah chose to take

teachers bring activities from the community inside the

a moment, breathe, and then use her “big voice” to tell

classroom, including visits from the Daviess County

her classmate how they should solve their problem. When

Extension Office and the Daviess County Public Library.

she put Conscious Discipline into practice, the situation

calmed down and the conflict was resolved instantly. “The

classroom. “Since I’ve been using Conscious Discipline in

atmosphere of our class and the love that we have…it’s

my classroom, some of my teacher friends in the school

just incredible,” Holly says.

have asked me to come in a do a short mini-lesson to

To foster a familial love in the classroom, Holly has a

teach their classes these same strategies.” She believes

podium at the front of the room which contains magnets

that through this program, other teachers can see the same

labeled with each child’s name. All students who are

positive transformation in the outcomes and behaviors of

present are at the top of the podium, while students who

students all over Owensboro.

Holly hopes that this program will spread beyond her

are absent or have moved to a new school are placed in the center and at the bottom, so that kids can remember and think about them throughout the day. Then, the class

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Taryn Norris is newly married to Andy and has a crazy cat named Pippin. She is a former college recruiter and admissions advisor who works at the Daviess County Public Library.

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redefining

disability { by: ashley sorce }

have been editor of Owensboro Parent for six years now. Each story that I assigned to my writers or wrote myself was deliberately chosen because

I thought our readers would enjoy it or learn from it. But the four stories you are about to read are different. The four stories you are about to read feature the bravest four people I have ever met, and they are all under the age of 7. The four stories you are about to read will move you to tears and inspire you, or at least they did me.

I’m not saying these four stories are the best

written. They’re not...because I have some very talented writers on my staff. But they don’t need a lot of flowery detail or an interesting hook to pull you in. These stories will pull you in because the main characters are kids that have defied odds, achieved incredible

goals,

and

shown

unparalleled

resiliency.

To the parents of these four who shared the

stories of their amazing children, thank you. I told each of you, as a mom I cannot imagine what you have endured and will continue to face. You are your child’s fiercest advocate, and it shows. They are thriving because of you.

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taking

charge

oon into their first pregnancy, Rachel and Kris Collins learned their daughter had a heart defect. Specifically, their unborn daughter, Litsey, had an atrioventricular canal defect, which Rachel explains meant their daughter had few extra holes in her heart. Given her heart defect, doctors recommended a planned birth at Kosair Children’s Hospital (now Norton Children’s Hospital). But after Litsey was born, “doctors just kept finding stuff,” Rachel said. They diagnosed Litsey with esophageal atresia, which Rachel explains as a disconnect between the upper and lower esophagus. Doctors repaired Litsey’s esophagus with surgery when she was only two days old. Not long after Litsey recovered from her surgery, Rachel noticed her daughter’s eye looked different. Instead of a circular pupil, Litsey’s looked more like a keyhole. Rachel pointed it out to the nurses, who told her they would inform the doctor and get back with them. The Collins went back to their hotel for the night, but received a call later from Litsey’s doctor, who told them the keyhole shape was called a coloboma, a congenital malformation of the eye. This combined with the heart defect and esophageal atresia led them to believe Litsey had CHARGE Syndrome. “The doctors said, ‘don’t Google it. Don’t get freaked out. Just come back and see us tomorrow and we will talk about everything,’” Rachel said. “So of course, being a mom, I immediately Googled it.” What Rachel discovered was that each letter in CHARGE stands for a symptom of the syndrome. » C STANDS FOR COLOBOMA. Litsey has the keyhole in her iris, but is also missing the middle of her macula in her right eye, leaving her without much vision in that eye. Her left eye has a small coloboma, and although she can see some, she is legally blind in her left eye. » H STANDS FOR HEART DEFECT. This was the one thing the Collins prepared themselves for when their daughter was born. Doctors hoped Litsey could wait until she was 4 months old for her heart repair surgery, but unfortunately she went into heart failure at 5 weeks. Doctors were able to successfully repair the defects at 7 weeks. » A IS FOR ATRESIA. Typically affecting the choanae, or passages that go from the back of the nose to the throat, Litsey’s atresia only affected her esophagus and was repaired when she was just 2 days old.

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birthday, but at almost 5, Litsey’s size is more on target now for age.

» G STANDS FOR GENITAL OR URINARY ISSUES. Litsey did experience some kidney issues early on, but those were fixed and she hasn’t had a problem since. » E STANDS FOR EARS. Litsey has profound hearing loss in her left ear and moderate loss in her right ear. She wears a Baha, a bone anchoring hearing aid, as she lacks the correct anatomy inside of her ear for a regular hearing aid. The Collins were at Kosair for a total of 85 days. Just a week before they left, Litsey began having airway problems leading to an emergency tracheostomy. And while it was scary, Rachel says her daughter was much better after and was more comfortable breathing. A gastronomy tube (g-tube) was placed to provide Litsey food and then, after almost three months in the hospital, Litsey was released. “Since then it’s been a learning process,” Rachel said. The Collins immediately began physical, speech, and occupational therapies with Litsey. It wasn’t until Litsey was 1½ years old that she stood. A year later Rachel and Kris got Litsey a walker. Then, at almost 3 years old, everything changed. Litsey started walking around and exploring her world. Rachel attributes that change to Litsey’s therapy that they started as soon as Litsey was out of the hospital and to getting the equipment she needed. “Before, she had no interest in us,” Rachel said. “It was like we were nurses. We didn’t get the whole mom and dad experience. But now she seeks us out. She doesn’t just want to sit and play with a toy by herself. This kid today, I never could have imagined it a couple years ago. At birth, you never could have imagined she is doing what she is today.” This year, Litsey started preschool at Southern Oaks Elementary. And although she has a nurse with her at all times, Litsey is in an inclusive classroom and is doing well. “The great thing about little kids is they don’t really see the stuff that adults do,” Rachel said. “They are just like, ‘there’s a little girl and she wants to play with us.’ So she’s got friends there. She gets to be a normal kid for a little while.” The Collins have started focusing on communication a lot with Litsey in the last year by introducing sign language. Her therapists also work with her by showing her cards of different pictures, asking her to pick out the one that looks like a plane or a brush. Rachel says most kids would know this well before Litsey’s current age of 4, but they are just March // April 2018 . OWENSBORO PARENT

redefining

disability trying to figure out what communication works best for Litsey.

kids tend to have a lot of issues. They tend to have a 1 in 6 chance of

making it past 5 years old. So it’s kind of like a milestone when she

“Obviously, we know what she’s trying to tell us because we’ve

been around her the whole time,” Rachel said. “But it’s hard for her

hits her 5th birthday in April.”

to get what she needs across to other people. That’s why we wanted

to start preschool. We wanted to get her acclimated to other people

four “Chargers” in the state of Kentucky, one of which is a 17-year-

and seeing how other kids interact.”

While Litsey is having a lot more good days than before, the

Collins admit they still face challenges. “Sometimes it’s like we have a 4-year-old that does normal 4-year-old things,” Rachel said. “She gets into something and we get to tell her no. We get to do normal 4-year-old stuff with her. And sometimes we have a baby again that we can’t understand and she can’t tell us what she needs. And then she gets really upset so we have fits and issues like that.”

CHARGE Syndrome is extremely rare. Rachel says there are only

old girl that happens to live in Hancock County. When Litsey was just 1, the Collins took their daughter to meet her.

“It was like this little girl is Litsey when she was a baby,” Rachel

said. “Same exact stuff. This girl’s baby pictures looked like Litsey. To sit in her living room and here is my daughter who is a year old and is still in 6-month clothes and she doesn’t move or do anything on her own and we just carry her around because that’s all she wants

Despite the challenges they face as parents to a child with special

to do. And to see this 13-year-old girl [at the time] who has the same

needs, the Collins cherish every day they have with their daughter.

exact stuff and she’s in school and she’s on the honor roll and she

They have known since her diagnosis that a child with CHARGE

takes vacations with her family and does completely normal teenage

Syndrome is only expected to live to through their mid-20s.

stuff. To have that literally 30 minutes away. To see that there is

someone older that has the same kind of issues. And she made it.”

“We’re looking for the 5th birthday,” Rachel said. “CHARGE

how to talk to your kids about disability from Rachel Collins, mom of Litsey

How often do you see kids with tracheostomies (trachs) or cochlear implants in Owensboro? Rachel says not often, and usually explains these as her daughter’s “extras.” She just needs a little extra help to do some things. “Whenever people come up to her and treat her like a normal kid, even if she doesn’t acknowledge them, that’s the nicest thing. You just want her to be treated normal,” Rachel said. She says if your children were to ask about her daughter’s trach or cochlear device, don’t hush or scold them. “Don’t make it seem like something is wrong with my daughter and you shouldn’t want to go see her,” Rachel said. “They are never going to learn if they can’t get information and meet the child.”

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a voice

fter a long adoption journey, Chris and Cathy White felt God’s plan after being matched with a little boy in Korea. They named their son Curtis and joyfully brought him home when he was 16 months old. Curtis was a happy, healthy little boy, but was extremely quiet. “Chris and I joked at first that he was going to be the strong silent type,” said Cathy. But as time went on, she felt her son should at least be babbling. But Curtis didn’t babble. He couldn’t repeat animal noises when his parents eagerly attempted to teach him. He was silent. Friends and family in the White’s lives would say it was the language difference or dismiss the issue, saying he would just be a late talker. “I just knew in my heart that that wasn’t it,” Cathy said. “I knew there was something bigger.” At 2½ years old, Curtis was still completely non-verbal. He began working with a speech language pathologist (SLP) and within a few months his therapist told Chris and Cathy she thought Curtis had apraxia. Cathy went into “mama bear research mode.” Chris and Cathy had never heard of apraxia, but through research discovered why—only .1 to 1 percent of children are affected by Curtis’ form of apraxia. There are different forms of apraxia: acquired apraxia, caused by stroke or brain trauma; global apraxia, affecting speech and limbs; and what Curtis was soon diagnosed with, Childhood Apraxia of Speech, a neurological motor speech disorder also referred to as CAS. Cathy says Curtis’ brain tries to tell his mouth’s muscles what to do in order to speak, but the message gets scrambled. He knows what he wants to say, but his brain does not send the correct instructions to move his jaw, tongue, lips, and palate the way they should move. Therefore, motor execution is affected and words may or may not come out, and if they do are often unintelligible. Children with CAS require years of frequent www.OwensboroParent.com

and intensive therapy in order to effectively communicate verbally. By the time Curtis was 3½ years old, after an entire year of intensive speech therapy, he could say only 10 words—words like bye, blue, moon, two. From the ages of 3 to 5, after hundreds of hours of therapy, Curtis gained a lot of single words, but still couldn’t put two words together. Starting school brought a lot of anxiety for the White family. When Curtis started at Settle Memorial Preschool, he was still non-verbal. “It was very scary to send our child to school without him being able to verbally communicate with others or tell us anything about his day,” said Cathy. But again reminded of God’s plan, Cathy discovered Curtis’ teacher had a family member with apraxia. Curtis’ willingness to learn coupled with a teacher who understood how to work with him helped his success. But apraxia proved most challenging socially. Cathy remembers the struggle Curtis faced when his preschool class had show and tell. He faced a similar situation during his preschool music programs. The entire preschool sang in front of an audience of loved ones. But Curtis couldn’t sing. “Some kids could have easily cried and run off the stage because they didn’t feel comfortable,” Cathy said. “But he was up there just being a brave boy. He couldn’t sing. It would break my heart because I wanted that for him so much, but at the same time I was so proud of him for showing everyone how brave he was.” Other significant moments like singing happy birthday at a friend’s party, telling his parents “I love you,” saying trick or treat during Halloween, telling his parents when he didn’t feel well and what hurt, were all affected by Curtis’ apraxia for several years. “I don’t want sympathy for him,” Cathy said. “I want empathy. I want people to try to understand what apraxia is and what Curtis and other children fighting CAS must overcome and March // April 2018 . OWENSBORO PARENT

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disability Cathy has made it her mission to bring awareness to CAS. “Curtis has fought so hard for his voice,” Cathy said. “Now he has to see his Momma use her’s.” She offered this advice to parents for children with apraxia, but we think it is good advice for parents of children with any kind of delay, medical diagnosis, or challenge.

Advice to parents: » Start intensive and frequent therapy as early as possible.

» Research, research, research. “I never knew that one of my roles as Mom was going to be a constant researcher,” Cathy said. She joked that she calls this “Mama Bear Research Mode.”

» Join an online community group. This will help educate you, but also provide support and understanding from families that are going through similar situations.

» Tell your family and friends how much you need them. “They’re not at home with you,” Cathy said. “They don’t understand.” Don’t be afraid to tell them that you need them.

» Educate your child’s teachers and be proactive. Inquire about your child’s learning in the classroom—don’t wait for a parent teacher conference.

» Take time for yourself. “You feel like as a mom and wife you have to do it all—be Wonder Woman,” Cathy said. “But you can’t go the distance if you don’t have the fuel.”

» Trust your parental instincts and advocate for your child. They need your voice.

» Most importantly, believe in your child’s capabilities.

Resources for Childhood Apraxia of Speech: » CASANA the largest non-profit US organization of CAS.

» Speaking of Apraxia by Leslie A Lindsey » The Kaufman Children’s Center » Mikey’s Wish, a Facebook page of a boy with CAS who is raising awareness

» Kristy Hampton, SLP at Wendell Foster (Please contact Kristy.Hampton@wendellfoster.org if you would like to join a local support group.)

that CAS affects so much more than just speech.” Children with CAS have to give up a lot of their time doing “kid stuff ” for therapy time, according to the Whites. For years Curtis has had four therapy sessions a week—two at Wendell Foster and two at school. The Whites say it is very frustrating for children with CAS to know what they want to say but not be able to vocalize it. “These children are very bright, resilient, hard working, and courageous,” said Cathy. “My hope as Curtis’ mom is that people will see how intelligent, creative, happy, and funny he is, and they will focus on his strengths not his struggles. I want others to see him shine the way we do.” Cathy remembers the day things began to change. It was a pretty spring day— March 29, 2015 to be exact, and Curtis was 4 years and two months old. Chris was outside playing with the boys (the Whites adopted a second son, Leo, from Korea when Curtis was 3½). Cathy was inside at the sink washing dishes with the window open. She would playfully yell the boys’ names as they ran past the window. After yelling, “Curtis!” to her sweet, oldest son, Curtis ran up to the window and yelled his name back. This was the first time he had ever said his own name. “That moment will forever be engraved on my heart,” Cathy said. “I prayed for that for so long. I cried the ugliest happy tears and thanked God right then and there for those two syllables. These little things that everyone else takes for granted are cherished by us.” When Curtis was 5½ years old, the Whites were accepted to a summer session at the Kaufman Children’s Center in Michigan, with Dr. Nancy R. Kaufman, a leading expert on Childhood Apraxia of Speech. The two-week intensive therapy program was a huge breakthrough for Curtis according to Cathy. Curtis entered the program putting two and three words

together and left being able to talk in broken sentences. So impressed by Curtis’ progress, the family returned for another week of intensive therapy a few months later.

Curtis, now 7 and in first grade at Sutton

Elementary, can talk in sentences, although his speech is still broken with some dysfluency (stopping himself mid-sentence to process how he wants to finish what he wants to say). Apraxia often goes hand in hand with other learning difficulties especially in the areas of reading, spelling, and math. And although, Curtis’ speech is now considered “resolving,” he is now left with the aftereffects of apraxia—social anxiety and literacy challenges.

“We still have a long journey ahead of

us full of challenges, but I know that he is up for it and will give it his all,” Cathy said. “Today we have a lot more happy tears than sad ones. More high-fives and praise for accomplishments than fear and anxiety over the day at hand and years ahead.”

One of those high-five moments came

just a few weeks ago when Curtis surpassed both of his goals for reading and math during his first grade testing. “I’m so incredibly proud of Curtis,” Cathy said. “As parents we like to think that we are inspiring our children, but this boy continually inspires me to be a better person—to give my all at all times, to fight for what is important, to never give up, to face even the toughest of challenges with a positive attitude, to laugh daily and to celebrate and be thankful for even the things that seem so trivial, because they’re really not.”

The Whites would like to thank all of Curtis’

SLPs who have worked along side of him on this journey and helped him find his voice. They have been instrumental in empowering the entire family.

how to talk to your kids about disability from Cathy White, mom of Curtis

Sometimes it is easier for people to empathize with someone if they have a physical disability. Cathy’s son suffers from apraxia, an invisible disability affecting his speech. “He wants to be everyone’s friend,” Cathy said. “But he needs people to engage with him. Everyone wants to know that people are interested in them. I think it’s so much harder for Curtis because people try to initiate conversation with him, but when he doesn’t respond they dismiss him. It’s OK to have a one-way conversation sometimes.” Cathy says if her son doesn’t respond, she would ideally like others to still talk to him. “You can still engage with him without needing a response back from him,” Cathy said. Remember: they’re kids. They all have amazing strengths and talents. 26 OWENSBORO PARENT

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disability

s a first-time expectant mom, Lacy Kennedy couldn’t wait to meet her son, Silas. She delivered by Cesarean section and doctors immediately saw that something very serious was wrong with

Silas. Silas was born without a majority of the skin on his legs. He was missing skin on his feet and hands as well and what skin he did have was blistered. Even his tongue and lips were blistered and bleeding at birth. Doctors didn’t know what was wrong. “I didn’t know if it was a birth mark,” Lacy said. “Is this serious? Will it go away? The doctors were trying to figure out themselves. I was terrified.” Within two hours Silas was transported to Kosair Children’s Hospital (now Norton Children’s Hospital). Lacy and Silas’ dad, Jason Bartley, arrived in Louisville the next day. Doctors performed a biopsy on Silas’ skin, which came back inconclusive. After 10 days of treatment and testing, the young family was transferred to Cincinnati Children’s Hospital. There a blood test and genetic testing diagnosed Silas with Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB), a rare disease that causes fragile, blistering skin. According to Lacy, Silas’ skin is missing a connecting protein that attaches the epidermis to the dermas. They were told that any trauma to his skin, even slight bumps, would cause their son’s skin to fall off or blister. “They determined our genetic makeup created the perfect storm for this to happen,” Lacy said. “Being my first child, I was nervous anyway. You just don’t want to hear that anything is wrong with your child.” The couple stayed in Cincinnati with their son another 10 days while doctors and nurses taught them to care for him. Extensive bandaging was required to help Silas’ fragile skin heal. Jason remembers being in a full medical gown, gloves and mask, bandaging his son for the first time. “I’ve got my son in front of me, and I’m looking at my hands and they’re just covered in blood,” Jason said. “I remember thinking to myself, if I can do this, then we’re OK. We are going to be fine when we get home. If I can do this, I can do anything.” Lacy agrees, “Day one was the worst, but it just got more manageable every day.” For the first 18 months of Silas’ life, Lacy and Jason adhered to a strict bandaging routine. Each finger and toe was bandaged along with his legs. A bandage change took two to three hours every day. The process was time consuming and tedious and if Silas leaked from his diaper or spit up (as every newborn does), bandages would have to be redone. After several months, Silas’ skin began to grow, and at 9 months he was able to move his fingers. Skin and tissue also began to grow on his feet and this miraculous boy skipped crawling altogether and started walking around this time too. “He had to adapt because he couldn’t put pressure or friction on skin,” Jason said, which would have occurred with crawling. Now that Silas was mobile, both parents admit they were nervous about their son injuring himself. Any simple tumble could lead to severe wounds. Jason said Silas’ knees were constantly scabbed. www.OwensboroParent.com

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disability “I couldn’t protect him from every little bump and bruise,” Lacy said. “Once you have seen so much blood from your own child, you kind of get tougher skin.” But EB wouldn’t be the end of the Silas’ tough journey. Silas’ local pediatrician diagnosed him with autism at 14 months. At this point, Silas, who is now 4, was non-verbal. “At first we thought it was maybe due to his isolation,” Jason said of his son’s delayed speech. “Because of EB, we had to protect him from germs because he was so prone to infection.” But Silas is still non-verbal and suffers from other side effects of his autism, like tugging his hair to the point of pulling it out. “With autism, he never really had interests until the last year or so,” Lacy said. “Kids with autism tend to line things up or organize by color or classify them that way. Once he found out that Thomas the Tank Engine existed, he was like, ‘I need all of these.’ So we just went with it. He likes this, he can have all of it!” Silas has recently been excelling at a new communication system. Lacy has index cards displayed on her wall with simple words on them like food, drink, etc. Silas can read what the card says and can take it to his parents when he wants to communicate. Children with autism tend to perform repetitive behaviors—for Silas

this is jumping. But jumping with EB can cause significant injury to his skin. “Our hearts would stop with every jump,” Lacy said. But Jason says he has built up callouses on his feet to allow him to jump, Silas’ doctors are always surprised that his jumping doesn’t cause damage.

Silas will continue to battle the blisters and wounds caused by

his EB, but larger issues will arise in the future. Children with EB experience difficulty swallowing and have digestive issues because the lining of the esophagus and stomach are prone to the same blisters as his skin. Doctors may have to dilate Silas’ throat, expanding it with a balloon because he often chokes on food.

Because of his autism, Silas has an intense reaction to anything

involving his mouth and due to his EB, a toothbrush feels like steel wool on his gums. For these reasons, brushing Silas’ teeth is nearly impossible and is causing dental issues that will have to be addressed by a specialist in Cincinnati.

“Despite all of his challenges, he is such a sweet boy,” Lacy said.

“With the way he looked when he was born, I thought he would have to eventually use a wheel chair or have prosthetic limbs. I never expected everything he has accomplished.”

how to talk to your kids about disability from Lacy Kennedy, mom of Silas

Silas has a rare skin disorder known as Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB). “I prefer children and adults in public who notice his skin or his bandages to come up and ask rather than speculate,” Lacy said. “Any questions they have about EB I would answer without hesitation or offense. We want people to understand it and know it’s not contagious and not to be afraid and create awareness any way we can.”

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here was no indication on the ultrasound that Tia Velotta and Coty Johnson’s daughter Aleigha would have a deformity. But when she was born, both parents could see that wasn’t the case. “Did I just see what I think I saw?” Tia remembers thinking. “You just can’t take that image away. It was a complete shock.” Aleigha, now 5 years old, was born without her ulna bone in her right arm. She was missing her elbow joint, and her wrist was fused where her elbow should have been. Her left arm wasn’t as deformed, but the elbow joint was fused together on this side as well. She only had a total of seven fingers. “I already had three kids,” Tia said. “I had the mother thing down. But I didn’t know how to be a parent at first to a disabled child.”

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Both Tia and Coty remember the tough questions during their hospital stay—questions you don’t want to hear after welcoming a newborn. Do you want to consider adoption? Do you want to amputate? “It’s like everyone saw a problem,” Coty said. “But I just saw my daughter.” After released from the hospital, Tia and Coty were immediately sent to Kosair Children’s Hospital (now Norton Children’s Hospital) in Lousiville. They also visited Shriners Hospitals for Children. The first few weeks of Aleigha’s life consisted of numerous doctors appointments. The first two specialists that saw Aleigha wanted to amputate. “I didn’t want someone cutting my child,” Tia said. “We wanted to give her the chance to adapt to what she has.”

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Setting an example

“Tucker Greer, Nathaniel Cox, Joe Lewis, and Zach Kasey not only escort Elizabeth Stickler to Honors Government each day, but because of the bond they have developed, this once nonverbal young lady now verbalizes her feelings, opinions, and reads aloud every class. She loves them and the rest of the class and they love and have learned from her. Typically honors and AP kids have little contact with young people so different from them, but this collaboration has been beneficial for all. Her improvement is due to nothing I have done, but instead to the genuine kindness, compassion, and empathy of her peers.” - Lori Thurman, Owensboro High School

Doctors determined Aleigha’s chromosomal and genetic testing were normal. Ultimately, there was no diagnosis of Aleigha’s deformity. “As she has gotten older, she has adapted to what she has,” Tia said. Tia and Coty take Aleigha to Shriners every two years to check bone growth. In her last visit, her doctor suggested hand therapy and no longer recommended surgery. Because she can’t hold much weight, Aleigha will need extra attention through therapy to help her learn to accommodate. Things like carrying a lunch tray or putting a book on a high shelf prove more difficult for Aleigha than other children. Aleigha is in kindergarten at Eastview Elementary. Like so many little girls her age, Aleigha loves the color pink and adores Princess Elsa. She enjoys reading and being outside at the park. Despite her deformities, she can write and color. But other things like buttoning her pants or zipping a jacket are more difficult. Tia has also invested in a sewing machine to hem long-sleeved shirts. “I noticed yesterday for the first time, she put her socks on by herself,” Coty said. “And she put them on correctly.” After seeing her conquer her socks, Coty challenged Aleigha to put her shoes on by herself too. And she did. “They didn’t have laces, but the milestone was reached,” Coty said with pride. And although Aleigha has overcome many obstacles in her five years, she does experience her share of bullying. Tia says many days her daughter gets off the bus crying. Aleigha hears people talking about her or sees them pointing at her. “It makes her sad and like no one wants

to be her friend,” Tia said. “But I teach her, ‘it’s OK to laugh, just not at others.’” Because of the bullying Aleigha has experienced, Coty says she often assumes any laughter is directed at her arms. “She instantly assumes she they are laughing about her,” Coty said. “I try to explain to her that not everybody out here is looking at you. Everywhere you go, people will have differences from one another.”

Tia and Coty recall a trip to visit family

in Tennessee when they stopped at a rest stop along the way. A Vietnam veteran who was missing both arms had stopped there at the same time. “It came to a real shock to her almost,” Coty said. “To see someone of difference for the first time and to see how well he operated on his own.” The veteran even showed Aleigha how he worked his prosthetics. “That encouraged her a lot,” Tia said.

Tia and Coty have always used their

faith to help Aleigha understand why she looks different than other kids. If Aleigha is crying from bullies on the bus or struggling to get dressed on her own, Tia and Coty explain to their daughter that her arms are a part of God’s plan.

“Those are her angel wings she has had

since birth,” Coty said. “God made her that way. Everybody is made differently. Being unique and different is what sets you apart. There are no two people exactly alike.”

Ashley Sorce is the staff writer for Tanner Publishing Co. and editor of Owensboro Parent. She enjoys everyday adventures with daughter Avery (6), and son, Reed (3).

how to talk to your kids about disability

from Tia Velotta, mom of Aleigha

“Treat my child the way you want to be treated,” Tia said. Tia also suggests that other parents show their children images of kids with disabilities online. Research ahead of time to find images of kids with disabilities interacting with non-disabled kids to help shape the lesson you want to teach. She recommends helping your child use language that would not make her daughter feel disabled. “A lot of kids look at her and walk away. They don’t even give her the time of day or try to get to know her. I think that’s whenever correct parenting needs to come into play,” Tia said.

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, the

hundred dresses

. { by: lora wimsatt }

ometimes we assume children will know and do the

school every day.

right thing. Sometimes we forget that if we don’t teach

The girls laugh at Wanda and tease the lonely, quiet

them what we believe is right, they may learn other lessons

child without mercy. Maddie knows it is wrong. She never

from the world around them.

joins in the torment and aches to stand up to the careless

It is a great disservice to our children that books and

cruelty demonstrated by her friends. But Maddie also

movies and television shows, and maybe even people in

wears hand-me-downs and fears the crowd would turn

“real life,” are less and less about lessons of kindness and

against her if she defended Wanda, so she remains silent.

compassion and love.

Their teacher announces a drawing contest, which

But if we try, we can still find a way to share those

everyone is sure Peggy will win. Peggy is the most popular

important stories with our children. One way I learned was

girl in the class, wears the most beautiful clothes, and

with the book, “The Hundred Dresses.”

is Maddie’s friend. She is also the main instigator of

This gentle narrative, written in 1944, tells the story of

meanness toward Wanda. On the day of the contest, the

a little girl named Maddie whose friends make fun of a

children are amazed to find the walls of their classroom

classmate who is very poor, has a funny name and lives in

covered with drawings of dresses, beautiful dresses…all

a rough part of town.

colors, all lined up.

One day, Wanda Petronski surprises everyone by

announcing that she has a hundred dresses at home. “All

learn that the Petronski family has moved away to escape

colors,” she says. “All lined up in my closet.” Nobody

the taunts of their classmates and neighbors.

believes her; Wanda wears the same faded blue dress to

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But Wanda is not at school that day, and the children

Now Maddie is overcome with anguish and regret. She www.OwensboroParent.com

wishes she had defended Wanda and promises herself she

the prayer that its message might speak to every child—

will never again stand by in silence when she sees someone

every Wanda, every Maddie, and yes, every Peggy.

being treated unfairly or unkindly. She longs to apologize to

As the years have gone by, I think of that story more

Wanda and is devastated to realize she will live forever with

and more often. I cannot go back in time to comfort little

the regret of cowardice.

Wanda. Instead, I have deliberately embraced her spirit. In

The story closes with an unexpected gesture of kindness

my imagination, I stand beside her with my arm around her

and forgiveness, which reminds us that nobility of spirit

shoulder, confronting the world with courage and strength

transcends all barriers.

as we face those who would attempt to diminish her—us—

in order to make themselves feel bigger and better.

Although a simple children’s story, the lessons from this

book have stayed with me from the time I first read it as a

little girl.

funny, has weird hair, crooked teeth, wears clothes that

are too big or too small—it is for all of them, and for all

Maybe it touched my heart because I talked funny and

It is on behalf of every child who looks different, talks

had a funny name and dressed funny.

of us, that I echo Maddie’s determination by saying, in my

own way, “She was never going to stand by and say nothing

Having moved from New York to Owensboro at age 8

when my parents divorced, I had an accent nobody could

again.”

understand and nobody could pronounce “Keohane.” We brought only the few clothes my mother could afford to have shipped, and we gratefully and humbly accepted donations of clothes our classmates had outgrown.

Lora Wimsatt is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday blessings and adventures of life, especially her family.

That was the only charity we ever took. Otherwise, my mother supported us by working, as few mothers did back then—just one more thing that made us “different.” Momma protected us from any awareness of how precarious our situation really was, but she could not shield us from the taunts of other children. We didn’t call it bullying back then. It was just kids being kids…and kids could be cruel. (Actually, so could some adults.) I love that book, and have given copies to all my grandchildren. I wish I could give one to every child, with

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, be aware . bullying:

{ by: elizabeth muster }

TATUM IS A 5TH GRADE STUDENT. SHE ENJOYS MOVIES LIKE MOANA AND BOSS BABY AND GOING TO CHURCH. TATUM’S VIBRANT PERSONALITY ALWAYS LIGHTS UP THE ROOM. BRYSON IS AN EIGHTH GRADE STUDENT. BRYSON IS LIKED AND RESPECTED BY ALL OF HIS TEACHERS AND PEERS. HE IS ALWAYS THE FIRST TO VOLUNTEER AND WILLING TO HELP. // PHOTO BY TAYLOR WEST

igned by Governor Bevin last April, Senate Bill 228 defines bullying as “any unwanted verbal, physical,

for about 10% overall according to stopbullying.gov even

or social behavior among students that involves a real

For these reasons, Chantay Taylor, the guidance

or perceived power imbalance and is repeated or has

counselor at Burns Middle School, started Sources

the potential to be repeated.” The website stopbullying.

of Strength: “a universal suicide prevention program

gov lists three types of bullying—verbal, social, and

designed to build socioecological protective influences

physical—and gives specific examples of each. It also

around youth.” The SOS team includes 60 peer leaders

explains that while “most reported bullying happens in

and four trusted adults. At monthly meetings, they

the school building,” a substantial amount also occurs

spread messages of hope, help and strength via social

on the playground or the bus, on the Internet, or around

media, sidewalk-chalk messages, hallway posters, locker

the neighborhood. State legislature in Kentucky and 48

magnets and skits for assemblies. In November, the group

other states requires all school boards to have bullying

organized a thankfulness campaign around the school.

policies in place, but the best defense is awareness for all.

Eighth-grader Bethany Corley says the program “helps

The highest percentage of bullying occurs at the

[adolescents] find their strengths rather than focus on

middle school level. Name calling and teasing happens

their weaknesses.”

most often, followed by spreading rumors, hitting,

isolating, threatening, stealing, and making lude gestures

than others, states stopbullying.org. These children

or comments. Surprisingly, cyberbullying only accounted

might seem different from their peers based on their

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though it seems to be a media buzzword.

Some adolescents are more at-risk for being bullied

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physical size, their mental ability, or even what they wear. Those seen as weak, having low self-esteem, or being less popular than others may also be easier targets. Or, maybe the student is new to a school. What these students need most is a support group. Another program of student empowerment in the Daviess County Public School system is Burns Elementary’s Everyone Counts Council led by speech language pathologist, Larkin Wetzel. She says this group is “designed to focus on advocating for students with special needs in our building and in our community.” Their core values are acceptance, diversity, and empathy. Last semester’s activities included an annual Buddy Walk in September and attending the Apollo High School special services Christmas play. This spring they will participate in Wendell Foster’s “Respect Starts Now” campaign. Angie Sorrells, a community educator for New Beginnings, travels to over 34 schools as well as summer camps, churches, businesses and other organizations throughout seven counties to provide anti-bullying programs. For elementary schools, she offers “Bullying Prevention” and for middle schools she shares “Be Brave,” a bystander prevention program. For high schools, she speaks about sexual harassment and the “Green Dot,” another bystander prevention program. An “Internet Safety” session which addresses cyberbullying is also available. If you are interested in learning more about any of these programs, you can contact Angie at 270-9267273. According to stopbullying.gov, at least 25% of students claim they have been bullied; unfortunately less than 1/3 of these children actually notified an adult. However, programs like Sources of Strength, Everyone Counts Council, and New Beginnings aim to decrease these numbers through awareness and a culture of respect. While the website also states that bullying prevention is difficult, the most successful programs involve parents, the school, and the community. OP

Elizabeth Muster is the library media specialist at Burns Middle School and the mother of Maddie Grace, who has quite the extensive collection of books herself despite not yet being two years old.

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seeing a book beyond its cover

advice from a peer tutor { by: brady ernest }

Have you ever looked at a person and immediately given them a label? Sometimes we take more than a glance and begin coming up with a background of what we think of this person and might even set a standard for what their limitations are. Not only do kids judge someone’s capabilities, but sometimes even the most mature adults are guilty of making assumptions about a person that their eyes may have just met. When meeting a new friend with different abilities, here are some ways to get past the cover and maybe even enjoy the book (person) a little bit more.

» TAKE MORE TIME TO GET TO KNOW A PERSON When you’re talking to anyone, or think about talking to anyone, with different abilities, just know that it’s okay to ask questions. Sometimes, depending on the person, it’s even encouraged. With others, you may want to wait a little bit and see how they do around other people before you jump right into a conversation or try to build a relationship.

» EACH CHILD IS AN INDIVIDUAL Different. A word that separates humans by their emotions and sometimes how they act around other people. Remembering that each child and each disability is different is a big factor when talking to somebody that is extraordinary. This is sometimes a hard lesson for people to grasp because they often use a generic label, like children with special needs, without realizing that each need is different. Kids who are sometimes hard to understand can be the sweetest kids you’ve ever laid eyes on once you get to know their likes and dislikes.

» NOT EVERYTHING IS FUNNY In order to make themselves feel more comfortable, people often find themselves in a situation where they crack a joke or use silly expressions. It is important to remember that children are literal thinkers and they may not get your joke. Other times these kids have had a long day or just aren’t in the mood and won’t find it funny. Then there are the days that a kid will laugh at potentially anything just to make you feel better about yourself, which totally brightens your day.

» GIVE THEM SPACE, GIVE THEM LOVE With some kids, it’s hard to know when to give them space, and when to love on them. Sometimes it’s hard to know that they haven’t had the best day. Even though all you want to do is show them love, sometimes you have to learn to be tough and respect their space. There are other times kids want to be hugged and loved on, and or just want a good pep talk. Just remember not to fake it, because they are some of the smartest kids and, the minute you fake it, they’ll know.

» NOT EVERY DAY IS THE SAME When a kid has had a great few days, just like that, it could change into the worst day they’ve ever had which isn’t always fun. Just wait and give them their space before you ask them to talk about but their problems. If you approach it correctly, their worst day could turn into their best just because of the things you said or did and that can be pretty special. OP

Brady Ernest is a freshman at Apollo High School who enjoys playing football and working as a peer tutor.

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disability awareness

“Respect Starts Now”

Campaign to Hit the Road in March W

endell Foster, a local agency serving people with disabilities, is starting a new campaign called “Respect Starts Now!” In 2014, over 4,200 students from seven school districts in western Kentucky participated in Wendell Foster’s “Spread the Word to End the R Word” educational campaign. “Respect Starts Now!” is a new campaign focused on showing respect to all. Wendell Foster invites schools in the surrounding counties to schedule their presentations for spring 2018. LeVon Cozart, a Guidance Counselor at Eastview Elementary School said, “This campaign will benefit its listeners and remind them that respect is essential. This message is timed perfectly with the events taking place in our world.”

The Campaign: • Challenges common thinking toward individuals with disabilities and differences. • Supports anti-bullying efforts to build a greater understanding and compassion for others. • Persuades the audience to eliminate all hurtful and insulting terminology from their vocabulary. The campaign will also offer a bulletin board, essay, and poster contests for students to compete in and win prizes.

Contests: BULLETIN BOARD CONTEST: Special edu-

cation teachers and their students design a “Respect Starts Now!” school bulletin

board advocating the message to show respect to all. Prizes will be awarded to the best elementary, middle, and high school. • 1st Place: $100 for a celebration lunch/ party. • 2nd Place: $50 for a celebration lunch/ party. • Deadline: March 23 ESSAY CONTEST: Students from 6th to

12th grade are invited to participate in an essay contest. Their chosen theme should reflect the respect campaign. There will be two grade groups: 6th-8th and 9th-12th. • 1st Place: $50 Visa gift card, “Respect Starts Now!” t-shirt, and published work in the Owensboro Messenger Inquirer. • 2nd Place: $25 restaurant gift card and “Respect Starts Now!” t-shirt. • 3rd Place: $15 restaurant gift card and “Respect Starts Now!” t-shirt. • Deadline: April 13 POSTER CONTEST: Students from K to 8th

grade are invited to participate in a poster contest with their chosen theme for the respect campaign. There will be three grade groups: K-2nd, 3rd-5th, and 6th-8th. • 1st Place: $50 Visa gift card, “Respect Starts Now!” t-shirt, and published work in the Owensboro Messenger Inquirer. • 2nd Place: $25 restaurant gift card and “Respect Starts Now!” t-shirt. • 3rd Place: $15 restaurant gift card and “Respect Starts Now!” t-shirt. • Deadline: April OP

To schedule a presentation or for more information, please contact John Gleason, Community Outreach Specialist, at 270-852-1486 or jgleason@wendellfoster.org.

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If your child is being bullied… from Angie Sorrells, New Beginnings

» Talk to your child and let him/her know that you support him/her. » Call the school if that is where it is happening. » If it’s on social media, report the bully and have your child block or unfriend him/her. If needed, set up new accounts. » If it’s threatening, call the police.

If your child is a bystander…

the 3D approach

from Angie Sorrells, New Beginnings

» Direct: Tell the bullies to stop or go to the victim and be a friend » Distract: Change the subject, cause a distraction, or say an adult is coming » Delegate: Explain the situation to a teacher, parent, guidance counselor, or the police

Could your child be a bully? from stopbullying.gov

» Is he/she aggressive or easily frustrated? » Are there issues at home? » Does he/she think badly of others? » Does he/she have trouble following rules? » Does he/she view violence in a positive way? » Does he/she have friends who bully others?

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5 tips to feeling better during

spring allergy season N

obody said spring allergies would be fun, but you never thought it would be this bad. What if you had some

simple ways to avoid the sneezing, wheezing, itchy eyes and runny nose that come in the spring?

“People think they’re doing everything they can to battle

spring allergies,” says allergist Lee S. Clore, Jr., MD at Allergy & Asthma Specialists. “But many still find themselves under siege from pollen and other allergens that appear once the weather starts to warm up. What they don’t realize is that by following a few simple rules they can make life a lot more pleasant, and their allergies more bearable.” 1 Spring cleaning can spruce up your nasal passages.

Sweeping up the cobwebs that gathered over the winter is good for more than just making your house look better. A deep house scrub can help eliminate existing allergens and clear the air. It’s especially important to get rid of mold, which builds up in bathrooms and basements and is a major allergen—especially in spring months when there’s lots of moisture. Because your pets have spent a lot of time indoors over the winter, fur, saliva and dander have probably collected. Vacuuming frequently and washing upholstery and pet beds can help. 2 The power of pollen.

3 Time to clear the air.

Despite what you may have heard, the best way to clean the air in your home is not with an ionic air filter. The ionization changes the charge on a particle of pollen or dust and the particle sticks to the next thing it comes into contact with, often a wall or surface. There is usually not enough air flow to effectively filter many particles, so ionic filters don’t provide much benefit for allergy sufferers. There is also a health risk which comes from the ozone they produce. The best way to clean the air is with a HEPA room air cleaner rated with a Clean Air Delivery Rate (CADR). For those with central air, change your air filters every three months and use filters with a MERV rating of 11 or 12. 4 Wait, don’t smell that “fresh” air.

Spring comes and you just want to open your windows and let in the fresh air. Don’t do it. Opening your windows allows pollen to drift inside, settle into your carpet, furniture and upholstery and continue to make you miserable. So keep your house and car windows shut during allergy season. Use your air conditioning with the new air filter you just put in. 5 Don’t trust “Dr. Google.”

Some people with allergies may not realize that symptoms they

You know you shouldn’t believe everything you read on

think are allergy-related, might actually be asthma. Studies

the internet, but it’s so tempting to look up cures for your

have shown that nearly two-thirds of those with asthma also

symptoms. Instead, consult an allergist. An allergist is trained

have an allergy, which can make the spring season particularly

in how to identify your allergens and treat your symptoms.

difficult. If you can’t get rid of a cough, or get winded easily,

They can suggest the most appropriate medications to treat

you might have asthma related to allergies and should see an

your allergies and asthma. You might even benefit from allergy

allergist. An allergist can identify the source of your asthma,

shots (immunotherapy) which can greatly alleviate allergic

and help you treat your allergies to improve symptoms.

suffering.

If you think you might be one of the more than 50 million Americans that suffer from allergy and asthma, call our office to schedule an appointment at 270-684-6144. Or, visit our website at www.owensboroallergy.com.

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When choosing a sport, consider your child’s

registrations in the community. You will find

unique temperament. Some kids are naturally

details on age limits, registration dates, fees and

inclined toward team sports, while others may

more.

feel more comfortable in activities where the focus is on individual efforts. There’s something

We also highlighted stories of four local kids

for everyone—from soccer and baseball for

who have found great success in their given

team-oriented kids, to tennis, karate, dancing,

sport. You will meet Kayson, a 5-year-old dirt

and swimming for kids who’d rather go solo.

bike champion who hopes to win an invite to the biggest motocross race in the nation this year;

Don’t be surprised if it takes a few tries—or a few

Ally, the only girl at her martial arts academy,

seasons—to find the sport that’s right for your

who is winning medals after only a few months

child. It often takes time for kids to figure out

of competing; Drew, a soap box derby racer, who

which activities they enjoy.

will race at the largest derby in the country this year; and Millie, an 8th grader who has already

The Owensboro Parent Playbook is meant to

verbally committed to play college softball at

serve as a handbook for youth sports and league

Auburn.

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fter only competing in jiu-jitsu for the last few months, 12-year-old Ally Newton is already bringing home

medals. In her very first tournament Ally placed first, which was followed up by two more first-place wins and a second-place finish in later tournaments.

It is unique being a girl in the martial arts world.

In fact, Ally is the only girl her age at her martial arts academy Hidden Samurai Martial Arts in Owensboro. And while out-of-town tournaments allow Ally to compete against some girls, she mostly spars with boys.

“It’s kind of fun thinking that I can beat a boy,” Ally

said.

When Ally was younger, she was involved in soccer.

And not long ago Ally was involved in cheering. Frustrated she couldn’t land a back handspring, Ally said, “It just wasn’t really my thing.” Since Ally’s older brother, Ashton, was already involved in jiu-jitsu, she decided to give it a try. Now Ashton and Ally often spar or “roll” with each other during practice. “It gets competitive,” said Dawn Powers, Ally and Ashton’s mom. But according to Dawn, jiu-jitsu has been a common ground the two siblings have to share.

Sparring, which is like wrestling on the mat, is the part

Ally likes best. Dawn says her daughter is not intimidated to stand up and practice or compete against a boy. “It’s a confidence builder,” Dawn said. “I know that if she ever gets into a situation, she is going to be able to take care of herself.”

Despite her daughter’s confidence and skill, Dawn

admits being a jiu-jitsu mom has its difficulties. “It’s hard to watch sometimes,” Dawn said. “There are certain moves where she could get hurt. But a lot of it is discipline and her mind. She will cry sometimes, and you have to sit back and let her get through that. That’s difficult.”

But despite any set back, Ally continues to stand back

up and face her competitor again. “It shows how strong of a person she is,” Dawn said. “It’s a very empowering thing to watch your child get those skills and the strength inside of her to do this.” PHOTO BY JAMIE ALEXANDER

A girl THING { by: ashley sorce }

And it’s those character-building moments and life

lessons that Dawn says makes this sport so important to her daughter. “It’s a maturity thing,” Mom said. “She takes pride in this. It’s very serious. And it’s more of a submission thing, knowing she can stop someone. It’s not to go out and hurt someone.”

Although Ally is only 12 years old, she is already

talking about opening her own martial arts academy when she grows up. Something tells us that we will see bright things in Ally’s future.

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SMALL BUT

Mighty { by: ashley sorce }

PHOTOS BY TAYLOR WEST

ayson McKay, a 5-year-old at Hager Preschool, is not

exaggerating when he says he has almost 100 trophies.

championship for his class of racers 4 to 8 years old—he

He has multiple first-place championship wins under

was 3. And this was just one of his nearly 100 trophies in

his belt. His sport? Motocross.

two years of racing.

Santa brought Kayson a dirt bike when he was just 2

His first year of indoor competition, Kayson won the

Kayson is fearless when it comes to his bike, even

years old. Kayson’s dad, Cole, grew up riding dirt bikes

though he crashes almost every weekend. Cole explains

and knew he wanted to teach his son to ride too. So

that this is because Kayson is actually still too short to

when Cole taught Kayson, still 2, to ride his regular bike

reach the ground when he is on his bike.

without training wheels, he taught Kayson to ride his

“He just gets right back up,” Cole said. “He is

dirt bike too.

jumping up and down to get back on his bike. He gets up

Once Kayson became comfortable on his dirt bike,

every time.” Cole explains that the older riders typically

Cole and Kayson’s mom, Karah Koger, began entering

cry and walk off the track because they know they lost

their son in motocross races. Then 3 years old, Kayson

the race. “The little 50 riders will flip end over end and

wore the number 263—26 because it is his dad’s favorite

all they want to do is get back on that bike,” Cole said.

number and 3 for his age.

“It’s crazy how much tougher these little kids are than

Kayson normally runs the 4-to-6-year division

these 12-year-old, 14-year-old kids.”

during competitions, but has recently began the 4-to-

Cole and Karah are both extremely supportive of

8-year class as well. He races a 50cc bike, the smallest

their son’s passion. “I have never once been scared,”

bike in both indoor and outdoor races. Kayson competes

said Karah, who grew up in a car racing family. “I think

year-round, often traveling every weekend, sometimes

ultimately, our main goal is for him to have fun.”

as far as Tennessee, Ohio and Illinois.

Kayson just started hitting his first double a few

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weeks ago, which means he is able to leave the ground on one ramp and land on another in a single jump rather than rolling over both ramps with wheels on the ground. “It wasn’t that hard,” Kayson said with confidence.

Kayson will finish the indoor season in March

and will then start the outdoor Kentuckiana series before moving on to qualifying races for the Rocky Mountain ATV/MC AMA Amateur National Motocross Championship at Loretta Lynn’s Ranch. This is the largest amateur race in the country. Riders must win both an area and regional qualifying race before receiving a ticket to Loretta Lynn’s. The top 42 riders in the country (by division) are the only ones that get that coveted ticket. And Kayson beat two of those riders last year at just 4 years old.

“We’re going to be able to watch him on TV

someday,” Cole said.

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THE rally

squirrel { by: ashley sorce }

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rew Meyer, 9, took his first ride down the soap box derby track at Ben Hawes Park when he was just 7. “I was really nervous,” Drew said. “Then I thought this is really fun. And when I got to the bottom I ran over a squirrel! I was like, is that supposed to happen every time?” Drew’s mom, Melissa Meyer, confirms he did in fact hit a squirrel, making him famous among the soap box derby community. “Any time people come for races, they know who he is and the fact that he is the squirrel kid,” Melissa said. “That’s why I have my lucky squirrel!” Drew said in reference to the squirrel on the side of his car. “They call me the Rally Squirrel!” Drew started slowly racing his soap box car in races at the Owensboro track. But this year year he branched out and raced in Bowling Green, bringing home second place. Not long after that second-place win, Drew took first place in the last rally race in Owensboro. He needs just two more points to make it to Derby Downs in Akron, Ohio, home of the FirstEnergy All American Soap Box Derby in July. This is a weeklong racing event, where kids come from around the world to race. Melissa says Drew will get those last two points, but they are all hoping he will win the local race and he will get to travel to Akron as the local champion too. “We have our finger crossed for that,” Melissa said. Although the competition is significant part of Drew’s love for the sport, it’s not all that keeps him racing. “He loves the fact that it is a competitive sport, but everyone is so supportive of each other,” Melissa said. “If you come to a race, you will hear kids really supporting one another. The race families are really tight and support each other. They were supportive when Drew took first place because they have watched him go from last place and keep building his way up. That sense of community is really awesome.” As a mom, Melissa says soap box racing has taught her son a lot of valuable life lessons he may not have learned as easily in other sports. “It has really taught Drew to communicate and also to listen to what someone is telling him,” Melissa said. “And not get upset. A lot of time kids get up set think that you are criticizing them, but he’s finally realizing that if he listens to the little advice that his dad or another racer gives him, it’s going to pay off.” Drew’s dad, Josh Meyer, says he enjoys spending time with his son, not only on race days, but also at home working on his car. “He and his dad have gotten very close during this,” Melissa said. “They are constantly working on his car.” Because the Owensboro track is so steep, each race is determined by thousandths of seconds. “You have to focus,” Drew said. “You can’t be distracted by anything on the track. I get back far enough and get down low. If you’re just sitting there the wind is going to push against you and it’s going to pull you back. But if you get down low it’s going to ease off your head.” Josh says that Owensboro Lion’s Club always wants more kids. A soap box car kit costs about $500 for car and $100 for the wheels. But Josh says the Lion’s Club has a number of spare cars available for kids to borrow. “We need more kids!” Drew said with excitement. OP

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NO REASON to wait { by: danny may }

ccording to CollegeSportsScholarships.com, each of the 286 Division 1 college softball teams in the US can give up to 12 scholarships a year. Of those 286 teams, five are considered “powerhouses” that are consistently good year after year. So naturally the coaches on those powerhouse teams are scrambling to recruit the top talent in the country, while every young softball player dreams of one day catching the eye of a D1 powerhouse. Since those powerhouses only have 12 scholarships to offer collectively each year, they must carefully and strategically decide which 12 players to award those

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scholarships. Which helps explain the magnitude of the phone call Daviess County Lady Panther catcher Millie Roberts received on New Year’s Eve inviting her to verbally commit to one of those coveted powerhouse softball programs at Auburn University—as an 8th grader! “It’s a really good feeling,” Millie told Owensboro Parent. “But really this just motivates me to be even better and to work even harder.” Only a handful of 8th grade players in the country verbally commit each year. Typically a player doesn’t commit to a college team until their sophomore year, and

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they don’t officially commit until they’re a junior. So what does it mean to “verbally” commit as an 8th grader? “It means Auburn will not look for anybody else in my position my graduating year. And it means I won’t look at any other colleges,” a very humble and gracious Millie explained with a slight too-good-to-be-true tone still in her voice. Millie’s road to Auburn began locally in the Owensboro Catholic league as a 4-year-old. She then played for local travel ball teams and eventually Daviess County Middle School under the leadership of Coach John Biggs. Roberts said she got serious about the sport when she started playing Class A travel ball. “My first year with the Tennessee Fury (12 and under travel league based in Chattanooga, TN) was the first time I was exposed to the idea of playing in college and being around girls who were trying to get to a higher level.” It was while she was playing with the Fury that she was recruited by the Beverly Bandits travel team in Chicago for her batting strength last August. The Bandits are an invite-only team that is well known by college coaches as a team that prepares players for the collegiate level of play.

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But even though things have gotten “serious,” Millie still has that youthful love for the game she found when she was four. “What I love about softball is I can escape from everything else. When I’m playing, I don’t have to think about anything, I just focus on the game. And I love that I get to travel and see new places. I’ve made a lot of really great friends all over the country.” Obviously that focus on the game has served her well. After attending winter camp on Auburn’s campus in December, where she slugged six balls over the fence on the Tigers’ home field, Roberts got the full attention of newly named assistant coach Eddy Ketelhut (who coincidentally formerly coached the 16U Beverly Bandits). For Roberts, it was the beauty of the campus that sealed the deal. “I fell in love with it. It was the prettiest campus I’ve ever seen. Plus it’s in the south, it’s always warm, and it’s in the SEC (southeastern conference).” Millie says she wants to be a physical therapist, although she clearly has a while until she has to make that decision. But for now, with the pressure of the recruiting process off her shoulders, it’s back to playing for the love of the game. OP

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This Playbook is meant to serve as a handbook for youth sports and league registration information spanning March ‘18 - February ‘19. Some leagues with February registrations have already passed for ‘18. Some leagues later in the year haven’t set dates yet. Dates and times subject to change. For revisions and additions please contact ashley@tannerpublishing.com.

Baseball OWENSBORO FAMILY YMCA T-BALL Location: All practices and games take place at Kentucky Wesleyan Contact: 270-926-9622 Ages: 3-6 Fees: Members - $45 / Non-Members - $90

league game night Thursdays; game times 5:45-6:45 p.m. or 6:50-7:50 p.m.

WESTERN CAL RIPKEN BASEBALL Location: Moreland Park Contact: President-Greg Wathen 270-929-3870 Ages: Boys and girls, ages 3 - 12 Fees: $65-75, $35 for each additional child

LIL’ SLUGGERS T-BALL Location: Pleasant Grove Baptist Church Contact: Registration opens June 4 at pgbchurch.com and closes when max capacity is reached Ages: 3-6 (by August 1) Fees: $45 per player Dates: Season spans from July 28 September 8 includes 6 games and 8

Dates: Registration Saturdays in February

EASTERN CAL RIPKEN BASEBALL Location: Chautauqua Park Contact: Amy Espinosa 270-314-3108 Ages: Boys and girls, ages 3 - 12 Fees: $100 Dates: Registration online through March 5

OWENSBORO DAVIESS COUNTY BABE RUTH BASEBALL Location: Panther Creek Park Contact: Register online at odcyouthsports.com Ages: ODC offers three Divisions of League play (middle school division for 12-14 yr; 13-17 yr high school division for those who play for high school teams; and 14-18 prep division for those who don’t play for high school teams). League Tournament, and National all-star competition in each age division. Fees: $80

OWENSBORO CATHOLIC YOUTH BASEBALL LEAGUE Contact: owensborocatholicleague.com Ages: Pee Wee, Rookie, Minor, Major Fee: $85 one child, $130 two children

practices.

OWENSBORO PARKS AND REC SPRING T-BALL LEAGUE

SOUTHERN LITTLE LEAGUE

same family, $165 three or more

Location: Southern Park

children from the same family.

Contact: Information and

Basketball

Location: Jack C. Fisher Park

online registration at

Contact: 270-687-8700

southernlittleleague.org

Ages: 3-6

Ages: Boys and girls, ages 4 - 12

UPWARD BASKETBALL

Fees: $56

Fees: $145 per child, $85 for second

Contact: Visit owensboro.cc/upward

Dates: 3-4 year old league game nights

child, $60 each additional child.

for location and age information.

Monday or Tuesday; 5-6 year old

Dates: Registration/tryouts in February

Fees: $75

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Dates: Registration opens in September. Practice starts first week of December.

cheerleading

on weekly class time Dates: Year round

UPWARD CHEERLEADING

Other info: Dance classes include

Locations: Games played at Bellevue &

creative 2’s, ballet, tap, jazz,

4-HIM BASKETBALL

Owensboro Christian

contemporary, hip hop, aerial silks and

Location: Lewis Lane Baptist Church

Contact: owensboro.cc/upward

cardio soul.

Contact: 270-684-4266

Ages: 1st – 6th grade

Ages: 5 years old-4th grade

Fees: $75

MUSICK STUDIOS

Fees: $25

Dates: Registration due in October.

Location: 411 East 2nd Street

Dates: Registration due in October.

Practice starts first week of December.

Contact: 270-688-8908

Games played on Saturdays in January

Games are January and February.

Ages: 2+

Games are January and February.

Dates: The dance season runs from

& February.

DAVIESS COUNTY YOUTH FOOTBALL CHEERLEADING

August to May, culminating in an all-

Contact: odcyouthsports.com/

Other info: Dance classes include

Location: 900 Kentucky Parkway

cheerleading

hip-hop, ballet and jazz/lyrical. Open

YMCA Gym

Ages: Rookie 5-7, Varsity 8-12

registration runs May through July.

Contact: 270-926-9622

Fees: Early registration is $30, after July

Registration forms are found on website

Ages: 3-6

1st $40

at musickstudios.com.

Dates: Season runs mid-January to

CHEER ZONE

TIPPI TOES

mid-February. Registration deadline is

Location: 3644 Edna Ct.

Contact: 270-883-1797

early January.

Contact: 270-683-0202 or

Ages: 2 years old – 3rd grade

Other info: Great for beginners.

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Dates: Enrolling NOW for summer

Children learn the rules, how to dribble,

Ages: Tumbling classes starting at age 3

camps and classes! Visit

shoot, pass, and play as a team.

for $40 per month. Cheer Zone All Stars

TippiToesDance.com/SoKY for

travel teams start at age 5.

schedule and locations.

OWENSBORO FAMILY YMCA YOUTH BASKETBALL

studio showcase in May.

Fees: $45 members/$90 non-members

bowling DIAMOND LANES YOUTH BOWLING LEAGUES Location: Diamond Lanes South and Diamond Lanes Midtown

Dates: Enroll in class at any time! CZAS Tryouts are in late April/early May for each season.

dance

figure skating THE EDGE ICE CENTER SKATING SCHOOL Location: 1400 Hickman Avenue

Contact: 270-685-2695

JOHNSON’S DANCE STUDIO

Contact: Register in person at Edge or

Ages: Youth leagues for boys & girls of

Location: 2705 Breckenridge Street

by calling 270-687-8720. Class levels,

all age divisions ranging from 3-20.

Contact: johnsonsdancestudio.com or

descriptions and cost available at

Dates: Leagues start in May and

call 270-684-9580

owensboroparks.org.

September at both locations.

Ages: 2 and up

Ages: 3+

Fees: $25 enrollment fee, tuition varies

Fees: $35

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EDGE ICE CENTER FREESTYLE ICE Location: 1400 Hickman Avenue Dates: Days and times may vary Fees: $7 per 1-hour session. (Pass cards available - 12 visits for the price of 10.) Other info: Need extra ice time to practice your crossovers, spins and jumps? Come out to Freestyle ice and perfect your skills.

golf OWENSBORO JUNIOR GOLF FOUNDATION Location: Ben Hawes Golf Course Contact: Charles Whelan, PGA, Program Director, 270-302-8402 Dates: Spring Session: May 7 - June 18; Summer Session: July 9 - August 2 Ages: 5-6, Mondays, 5 p.m.- 6 p.m.; 7-8, Mondays, 6 p.m.- 7 p.m.;

football OWENSBORO DAVIESS COUNTY YOUTH FOOTBALL LEAGUE

9-12, Tuesdays, 5 p.m.- 6 p.m.; 13-18, Tuesdays 6 p.m.- 7 p.m.; Saturdays open play on Par 3 Fees: Annual fee per family – $50; Session Fee – $60 (7 week classes) Tuition assistance available.

Location: Waymond Morris Park

Instructional league: 4 yrs old

OWENSBORO PARKS & REC JUNIOR GOLF CAMPS INTRO TO GOLF

Flag League: 5 & 6 yrs old

Location: Hillcrest Golf Course

Rookie League: 7, 8, light 9

Contact: 270-687-8700

JV League: 9, 10, light 11

Ages: 6 and up

Varsity: 11, 12, light 13

Fees: $55 per person, includes range

Fees/Dates: March 1 - July 1 $30;

balls, gifts and prizes

After July 1 $40.

Dates: Session 1: June 18-22;

Contact: odcyouthsports.com Ages: 4-12

Registration Deadline June 15

KIDS FOOTBALL LEAGUE (KFL) Contact: Todd Humphreys 270-929-1236 Dates: Online registration begins March 13 at kidsfootballleague.com. Live registrations will be July 7 & 8 at Academy Sports. KFL combine is July

gymnastics OWENSBORO GYMNAST Location: 3239 Alvey Park Dr. E Contact: 270-926-3491 Ages: Pre-School: age 2 (potty-trained) to 6 years; for beginners, learning structured gymnastics with lots of fun.

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Recreational Gymnastics: age 6 to

Ages/Fees: Flag football for ages 5-8

high school; for those looking to gain

is $30; Tackle for 3rd/4th & 5th/6th

experience in floor gymnastics, balance

grades is $45; Cheer for ages 5-12 is

beam, vault and bars. Tumbling: age 8

$40.

to high school; for those interested in

Dates: Opening weekend August 18 &

floor gymnastics.

19; games played at area high schools.

Fees: $50/month, $25 yearly sign up fee

ITUMBLE AND BOUNCE Contact: 270-240-4800 itumbleandbounce.biz Ages: 18 months-adult Fees: vary with class Other info: We are a Power Tumbling and Trampoline School that offers recreational class, competitive teams, an innovative special needs program, and Acro/Cheer Tumbling classes.

BEJOLI GYMNASTICS, INC. Location: 10743 Hwy 764, Whitesville, KY Contact: Jody Norris at 270-929-0799, bejoligymnastics.com Ages: Ages 3 and up Fees: Classes are $8 per class or twice a week for $12 Dates: Recreational classes throughout the school year: Mondays at 4 and 5 p.m. and Wednesdays at 5:30 and 6:30 p.m.; Summer classes: Mondays at 4 p.m. and Wednesdays at 5:30 p.m.

hockey THE EDGE ICE CENTER SUMMER HOCKEY LEAGUE Location: 1400 Hickman Avenue Contact: Register through owensborohockey.com Ages: 7-17 Dates: Season consists of 10 games. Mondays and Wednesdays, June & July from 6-9 p.m.

EDGE ICE CENTER STICK ‘N’ PUCK Location: 1400 Hickman Ave. Ages/Dates: Starts April 6; Fridays 4:455:45 p.m. for ages 4-12; 5:45-6:45 p.m. for ages 13-17; Sundays 6-7 p.m. for ages 14-21. Fees: $7/person Other Info: For those that need some extra time on ice. Full gear required.

High School Sponsored Summer Camps

Most high schools hold athletic camps during summer break. Contact high school athletics offices for details.

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OWENSBORO YOUTH HOCKEY ASSOCIATION

Contact: DaMarcus at 904-400-8096

Ages: 5-13

or check Facebook.

Fee: $40/player

Location: Edge Ice Center

Other info: Specializing in speed,

Dates: ECSL plays two seasons

Contact: owensborohockey.com

agility, quickness and more! Sport

(Spring and Fall) with approximately 8

specific training in football, basketball,

practices, 6 scrimmages, and 6 games

soccer. Group sessions & privates

per season.

Ages: The league is open to boys and girls ages 4 - 17. Dates: Practices begin in October, followed by games starting in November, and finish with in-house tournaments in March.

multi-sport training GREEN RIVER TRI CLUB Contact: Jan Ward 270-315-9898 or Karen Hobelmann 410-961-4432 or email greenrivertriclub@gmail.com Ages: 8 and up Other info: Green River Tri is a family triathlon team/club.

DYNASTY SPORTS PERFORMANCE

available.

EDGE ELITE PERFORMANCE TRAINING

DAVIESS COUNTY YOUTH SOCCER ASSOCIATION Location: Horse Fork Creek Park

Location: 4617 Sutherland Rd

Contact: dcysa.com

Contact: facebook.com/edgeelite

Ages: U4-U19

Other info: Edge Elite is a 6 week

Fees: U4-$45 / U6+ $65

sports performance program that

Dates: Spring season: April 14 - May

works with athletes to help them excel

27; Fall season: End of August through

in their sport or desired area of athletic

mid-October

performance.

SPORTSTUTOR & FUTSAL

soccer

Location: Thompson Berry Contact: Ty@sportstutor.net

EAST COUNTY SOCCER LEAGUE

Ages: birth year 2010-2007 for year

Location: Heritage Christian Field

2012-2000 for futsal

round STFA 360 Academy; birth year

Contact: To register, email

Dates: STFA Academy: June 2018

Location: Salvation Army gym located

eastcountysoccerleague@gmail.com

- May 2019; Futsal: November 2018 -

at 2nd Street & South Ewing Rd.

or call 270-314-4555 for more info.

March 2019

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Owensboro Parent Kids Triathlon

SPORTSTUTOR RECREATIONAL LEAGUE

PRESENTED BY INDEPENDENCE BANK

Dates: Practices and games April - May

Contact: connor@sportstutor.net Ages: 4-12 Fees: U4/U5 is $45; U6-U12 is $55

softball OWENSBORO CATHOLIC YOUTH SOFTBALL LEAGUE Contact: owensborocatholicleague.com Ages: Peewee, 8U Softball, 10U Softball, 13U Softball Fees: $85 one child, $130 two children same family, $165 three or more children from the same family.

swimming OWENSBORO PARKS & REC LEARN TO SWIM CLASSES Location: Combest pool Contact: 270-687-8700 Ages: 5 and above Fees: $56 (Includes 45 minutes of instruction, 15 minutes of free swim, 2 free Edge Ice Center passes and free swimming on Saturdays at either pool location.)

Location: Owensboro Family YMCA Ages: 4-6 Years Old; 7-10 Years Old; 11-14 Years Old Dates: Saturday July 21, 2018 Other info: What better way to be active than involving the entire family in training? Swimming, biking, and running are three activities we all grew up participating in, so let’s bring back the fun! Whether this is your child’s first triathlon or 20th triathlon, they will have a great experience!

Dates: 4 sessions through June/July, Monday-Friday Other info: Classes range in skill levels and follow the guidelines and procedures set by the American Red Cross.

OWENSBORO PARKS & REC PRESCHOOL AQUATICS Location: Cravens pool Contact: 270-687-8700 Ages: 3-4 Fees: $56 (Includes 30 minutes of instruction, 15 minutes of free swim, 2 free Edge Ice Center passes and free swimming on Saturdays at either pool location.)

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Dates: 4 sessions through June/July,

Fees: Members: $30 for the first child,

Location: 2965 Bittel Road

Monday-Friday

$15 for each additional child;

Contact: 270-240-4213

Other info: Children will learn basic

Non-Members: $50 for the first child,

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water skills and become comfortable

$30 for each additional child.

Ages: Individidual and group lessons

in water. Parents may join in water, but

Dates: February 27 - April 17

available for all ages. Youth league play

not required.

tae kwon do/martial arts

and junior tournaments.

OWENSBORO MARLINS

HIDDEN SAMURAI BRAZILIAN JIU-JITSU

Location: Owensboro Health

Location: 1741 Scherm Rd

Healthpark

Contact: 270-925-2688

Contact: pduke@gmail.com

Ages/Fees: 2-5 yr - $60/month for

Fees: $126 registration fee; $55-95/

two 30-min sessions: Mon/Thur

month based on skill group

5-5:30 p.m. p.m.; 6-9 yr -$70/month

Dates: Children are welcome to join at

for two 45-min sessions: Mon/Thur

Locations: 900 Kentucky Parkway

any time during the season, but please

5:30-6:15 p.m.

Contact: 270-926-9622

be aware that the other children will

10-13 yr - $70 for two 45-min

Ages: 4-11

have been practicing since September.

sessions: Mon/Thur 6:15-7 p.m.

Fees: Members $60 / Non-Members

Other info: Open year round with 6 indoor courts and 9 outdoor courts

wrestling OWENSBORO FAMILY YMCA YOUTH WRESTLING

- $120

Other info: Owensboro Marlins is a USA Swimming year round competitive

JONES ATA MARTIAL ARTS

Dates: Season runs February – March

swim team offering high quality

Location: 1020 Halifax Dr Ste 103

Tuesdays and Thursdays from 6-7 p.m.

professional coaching and technique

Contact: 270-691-0508 or

instruction for all ages and abilities.

www.owensboroblackbelt.com Ages: Tigers (3-6 year olds), Karate for

OWENSBORO FAMILY YMCA PROGRESSIVE GROUP SWIM LESSONS (AGES 3 AND UP)

Kids (6-14 year olds), and the Teen/

Location: 900 Kentucky Parkway

Location: 409 Salem Drive

Contact: 270-926-9622

Contact: 270-683-7674

Ages: 3+

Ages: 3 - adult

Fees: Members - $30 / Non-Members

Fees: $50-$85

Adult (15 and up)

CHAI’S MARTIAL ARTS

DAVIESS COUNTY HIGH SCHOOL YOUTH WRESTLING CAMP/LEAGUE Contact: Curtis Martinson, DCHS Head Coach 270-316-7670 Ages: For all ages Pre-K through 6th grade that attend one of the following schools: Meadow Lands, East View, Country Heights, Deer Park, Highland,

- $95

Whitesville and Daviess County

Dates: New sessions start monthly.

Middle and any 6th grader that goes

YMCA HOME SCHOOL GYM AND SWIM Contact: dustin@owensboroymca.org

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tennis CENTRE COURT, OWENSBORO TENNIS COMPLEX

to College View Middle who will be attending Daviess County High. Fees: $80 Dates: end of March through May

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onfession: I’m not a competitive person. That may sound strange coming from a lawyer, but I’m talking

more about sports. Growing up, I played soccer for about nine years, from the time I was 6. I also tried my hand at baseball, basketball and golf, and was even talked into joining the tennis team for a year in high school (there weren’t any tryouts). Through the years, teams, teammates and coaches changed, but the one common thread running through all my youth sports experiences was that I almost* always had fun (*Honestly, what 10-year old loves going to soccer practice every day when he’s got a perfectly good bike to ride with this friends?). But as much fun as I had, I just wasn’t a competitive kid. I think my lack of competitiveness can be attributed to a few factors: (1) it was just my personality; (2) I was never really great at any athletic endeavor; and (3) my parents never pressured me to do anything but go out and enjoy myself. I did spend the majority of my playing time in “recreational” leagues, after all. And isn’t that kinda the definition of “recreation”—having fun?

Now, as an adult, I still enjoy sports: exercise, golf,

and occasionally, basketball. But I also still do those things because I enjoy them. As a parent, I try to pass down that same mentality to my kids. My oldest, Jude, is 6, the age I began playing organized sports. So, far, he’s tried his hand at baseball, basketball, golf, tennis, and triathlons. Like his dad, he didn’t always love the idea of going to practice, but he always enjoyed it once he was there—and that’s the point—having fun!

PUTTING THE PLAY

back into sports { by: steven wilson }

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According to a poll from the National Alliance for

Youth Sports, around 70 percent of kids in the United States stop playing organized sports by the age of 13 because “it’s just not fun anymore.” Some of the kids surveyed cited an increased emphasis on competition as the problem. Others felt too much pressure from their parents to perform well. Either way, there’s definitely a problem when kids can’t have fun playing a sport.

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On the other hand, there’s nothing wrong with

participating in sports as a child laid a solid foundation

competition. In fact, I believe it’s important to reward

for me to enjoy sports as an adult. Even better, I now get

kids for their hard work. First-place trophies give them

to play those same sports with my son. Golf may not be

something to strive for, and I think that’s important, too.

Jude’s favorite activity, but when he gets to come out on the

Even early on in my parenthood journey, I recognize that

course with dad, he’s the happiest kid on earth.

witnessing your child succeed is an awesome feeling.

Watching them swell with pride when they hit a baseball or cross the finish line can, and should be, a source of pride for parents, too. What I’m getting at is the fact that, as long as your kid is having fun, parents should be just as proud and encouraging when their child is the last to cross the finish line.

I get it, sports are competitive by their very nature, and

instilling a healthy competitive spirit in your child can

And honestly, if playing sports doesn’t make your child

happy, the rest of the experience, despite its benefits, doesn’t really matter. In the grand scheme of things, even though time moves pretty slowly for kids, there’s only a small window of time where life is totally stress-free and unimpeded by a long list of responsibilities. Why would we want to ruin those precious moments for our kids by heaping on pressure to succeed at sports?

benefit them later in life, too. But sports also provide an

So encourage your child to compete as hard as they can,

excellent environment for kids to make friends, be active,

just don’t take the fun out of it.

and understand the value of teamwork. Those are the most important benefits I gleaned from my time playing youth sports. And those are also the benefits that translate best

Steven Wilson is a husband, father of three, attorney at Wilkey Wilson, and editor of Owensboro Living Magazine.

to adulthood. I was never the best player on any team, but

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stay safe during

spring break fun { by: dr. sarah osborne }

FROM LEFT TO RIGHT: JAMES, AGE 2; MARY, AGE 7; KATIE BETH, AGE 10; LUKE, AGE 6; AND TYLER, AGE 4

pring break is a great time of year to travel, spend time with family and have fun adventures. Whether you stay close to home or decide to take a trip, a little bit of prep work can go a long way to keeping you and your family safe and happy. Here are some fast tips that my husband and I use often with our five children: DON’T CATCH TOO MANY RAYS Whether you’re at the lake, the beach or some other outdoor destination, dressing appropriately and using plenty of sunscreen is a must. Skin damage adds up over time, so protecting against sunburns early can make a big difference in protecting you and your children from uncomfortable burns during your trip, or skin cancer later in life. • Babies under 6 months old should be completely protected from direct sunlight. • For children above 6 months, use a broad-spectrum, oxybenzone-free sunscreen with an SPF of at least 30 (you can go up to SPF 50, but any higher may not be more effective). • Avoid spray-on sunscreens due to the risk of children inhaling the spray. • Apply sunscreen 30 minutes before sun exposure to give the sunscreen time to absorb before you go out. PROTECT YOURSELF Whether you’re picking up helmets or pads for cycling or skating, or putting on life jackets when you’re on the water, protective gear can make all the difference. Make sure you and your children are wearing life jackets or other protective gear that fits correctly and is in good condition. These items can save your life! TELL BUGS TO BUZZ OFF Bug spray and repellant are great items to pack or pick up when you’re traveling. Different items work to repel different bugs. Some items are great for mosquitoes. Others work well on ticks and chiggers. Consumer Reports has some great information on their website about which bug repellent is right for you. Bug bites are irritating, but they can also carry diseases. Don’t let the

creepy-crawlies put you on the menu! HAVE A PLAN What would your children do if you were separated? Talking to your children beforehand and having a plan can help both of you keep your cool and find each other fast. • Make sure your children know their full name and yours. If they are old enough to memorize your cell phone number, help them to do so and designate a meeting place in case you do get separated. • Some theme parks and other locations can also give you wristbands where you can write your name and phone number so that you can be located if you and your child are separated. • If you’re going to a theme park, make sure your children know whom they can talk to safely. If you see a security officer or other official, make sure your child knows what their uniforms or IDs look like, and that your child can go to one for help. CHECK YOUR SEATS Getting ready for a big trip can be a perfect opportunity to check your children’s car or booster seats. Be sure your children haven’t outgrown their seats, or the seats may not protect them if an accident happens. If you’re flying, check with the airline ahead of time to make sure you know their policies for traveling with a car seat or stroller. TRY NOT TO STRESS I know that’s easier said than done, but give it your best shot! Do as much prep work and list-making as you can, but try not to sweat the small stuff. You’re there to have fun, enjoy the vacation and make memories that will last a lifetime. If you have any questions or are looking for other resources, the American Academy of Pediatrics has a great online resource at www.healthychildren.org. You can also reach out to your child’s pediatrician if you have questions related to your child’s health, existing medical conditions or other travel- or vacation-related concerns. Safe travels! OP

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spending

spring break

Spring Break for many Owensboro families means a week at the beach, but for a lot of us, that just isn’t possible. Whether it be the cost, work obligations, or simply the stress of a family vacation, a beach trip just isn’t in the near future. Don’t worry, there are plenty of activities for your family to do right here in Owensboro. Here are just some of our ideas.

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MONDAY

april 2 Drop in to Daviess County Public Library from 2 - 4 p.m. to celebrate International Children’s Book Day by visiting with Pete the Cat and enjoying crafts and activities for the whole family.

WEDNESDAY

april 4 Enjoy a day at one of Owensboro’s beautiful parks. Of course there is Owensboro’s downtown favorite, Smothers Park, but take this Spring Break to check out the others Owensboro and Daviess County have to offer. Consider the nature trails at Joe Ford Nature Park, have a picnic at James Lambert Pioneer Village at Yellow Creek Park or take your mountain bike to Rudy Mine Trails.

TUESDAY

april 3 Enjoy stories and songs with award-winning author and storyteller Mary Jo Huff from 1 - 3 p.m. with fun for the whole family at Daviess County Public Library. Registration will be required for all attendees on EventBrite beginning March 20th.

THURSDAY

april 5 Join the group 270 Rocks on Facebook and check out this fun movement that has spread across the country. People in the community hide hand-painted rocks around the city for other to find with the sole intent of spreading a little kindness. Your kids can even paint some of their own rocks to hide!

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FRIDAY

april 6 Make a day all about Owensboro—visit local restaurants like The Dipper or Wonder Whip, check out the Owensboro Museum of Science & History, ride on the downtown trolley. You could even do a “scavenger hunt” of all local Owensboro landmarks—be sure to take pictures along the way! www.OwensboroParent.com

Preschool Guide 2018

Audubon Area (Head Start)

Registration: All programs take applications at all times. Age: 6 weeks – pre-kindergarten Classes & Cost: Working parents pay according to a sliding scale based on income, otherwise programs are free. Head Start has two models: partnership programs with local school districts and stand-alone, full-year, full-day learning facilities. These curriculum-based programs serve low-income families and/or children with disabilities or state foster children. They include: •

Dar-Nek Family Development Center 4800 New Hartford Road | 270-683-6377

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Helen Sears Family Development Center at the Villa 2225 E. 18th Street | 270-691-8000

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Leola Hayden Family Development Center 1306 East 8th Street | 270-689-9387

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West End Family Development Center 800 W. 5th Street | 270-685-3231

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Killian Migrant Center 900 Walnut Street | 270-852-6534

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Brey’s Early Learning School

1945 Tamarack Rd. | 270-926-0202 or 270-314-4673 Registration: Open now! Age: 2 – 6 years old Classes & Cost: • Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday from 8 – 11 a.m. or 11:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m. for $230 per month • Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday from 8 a.m. – 2:30 p.m. for $460 per month • Toddler Session Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday from 8 – 11 a.m. for $23 per day • Early drop off and after care services also available Faith-Based Program? No

Cathedral Preschool

600 Locust Street | 270-926-1652 Registration: Open Now! Age: Age: 3 – 5 years old Must 3 or 4 or 5 by August 1, 2018 and must be potty trained. Classes & Cost: • 3-year-old class is held Monday/Wednesday or Tuesday/Thursday from 8 – 10:50 a.m. for $125 per month or Monday/Tuesday/Wednesday from 11:30

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8 TIPS FOR A

First-Time Preschooler Visit Daviess County Public Library during Storytime. This will let your child get used to hearing someone other than you and introduce them to group time. Check out our calendar for details.

» Establish a routine of “early to bed” and “school wake-up time” several weeks before school begins so your child has time to adjust to the new schedule.

» Find out about the potty procedures at your child’s school so you can review the situation with your child and make sure she is comfortable.

a.m. to 2:20 p.m. for $165 per month. •

4-year-old class is held Monday/Wednesday/Friday from 8 – 11 a.m. for $165 per month or Tuesday/Thursday from 8 – 11 a.m. for $125 per month or Monday through Thursday from 8 – 11 a.m. or 11:30 a.m. – 2:30 p.m. for $180 per month.

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5-year-old class is held Monday through Thursday from 8 a.m. – 12 p.m. for $185 per month.

Faith-Based Program? Yes, non-denominational.

Daviess County Public Schools Preschool Registration: Ongoing through the year. Ages: 3 – 4 years old Classes & Cost:

» If your child is expressing anxiety, call the school to arrange for a visit to the school and to meet your child’s teacher in the classroom setting.

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Public Schools system if he or she is 3 or 4 years old with a delay or disability; 4 years old and income eligible; or 3 or 4

» Read books about going to school and saying goodbye, such as: “The Kissing Hand” by Audrey Penn “David Goes to School” by David Shannon “Will I Have a Friend?” by Miriam Cohen “First Day of School” by Anne Rockwell “When I Miss You” by Cornelia Maude Spelman “Take a Kiss to School” by Angela McAllister “It’s Time for Preschool” by Esme Raj Codell “A Pocketful of Kisses” by Audrey Penn

A student is eligible for preschool in the Daviess County

years old and in the fee-based program, which costs $175 per month. •

Students are served in their home elementary school, with the exception of the fee-based program. Classes are Monday through Thursday from 8 – 11 a.m. or 11 a.m. – 2 p.m. Time can vary slightly on individual schools schedule. One meal is served and transportation is provided.

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Must be 3 or 4 by August 1.

» Better yet, make your own book at home about the new preschool experience your child is about to begin. You could even take photos of the school or of your child in front of the school and add text like: “This is Avery at school. This is her favorite t-shirt. This is Mommy picking up Avery up when school is over.”

» Tell stories about when you went to school and share how you felt about it. Find childhood pictures of yourself and other adults in your child’s life and talk about the photos.

» Most importantly, remember that separation is a process. Expect that your child (and you) will need time to feel comfortable with the new situation.

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Heritage Christian Preschool 3585 Thruston Dermont Rd. | 270-685-4002

Maximilian Montessori Academy Preschool

Registration: Open now!

1401 Spring Bank Drive, Suite 4 | 270-689-1402

Age: 3 – 4 years old

Registration: Open now!

Classes & Cost:

Age: 3 – 5 years old

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Classes & Cost:

3-year-old class held Tuesday/Thursday from 8:30 – 11:20 a.m. for $157 per month.

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$200 Registration and Material Fee

Faith-Based Program? Yes. Preschool is a ministry of Heritage Baptist Church, but 70% of students come from outside the church.

Heritage Park Preschool 3802 Legacy Run | 270-683-0611 Registration: Open year round Age: 6 weeks – 5 years Classes & Cost: •

month and full-day is $500 per month. Faith-Based Program? Yes, non-denominational.

Owensboro Church of Christ Preschool

3300 East U.S. Highway 60 | 270-684-3406 Registration: Open now! Age: 3 – 5 years old Classes & Cost: •

3-year-old class held Tuesday/Thursday from 8:15 – 11:15 a.m. for $95 per month.

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Full day, full year program for 6 weeks – 1 year old is $130

4-year-old and Pre-Kindergarten classes held Monday/ Wednesday/Friday from 8:15 – 11:15 a.m. for $115 per

per week. •

3 – 5-year-olds are in a blended class held in half-day or full-day programs Monday – Friday. Half-day is $385 per

4-year-old class held Monday/Wednesday/Friday from 8:30 – 11:20 a.m. for $183 per month.

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month.

Full day, full year program for 2 through 5 year olds is $130

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7:30 a.m. early drop off available.

per week.

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Must be 3, 4 or 5 by August 1. Must be potty trained.

Faith-Based Program? No.

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Faith-Based Program? Yes, non-denominational.

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Owensboro Public Schools Hager Preschool

1701 West 7th Street | 270-686-1125 Registration: Begins March 6. Age: 3 – 4 years old Classes & Cost: • This program is a blended partner with Head Start. There is no cost for attendance, but students must be income eligible or have a developmental delay. There is a sliding scale for working parents. If student does not qualify for either of these criteria, parents may elect to pay tuition of $175 per month. • Classes are 3-year-old and 4-year-old blended and are Monday through Thursday from 8:30 a.m. – 12 p.m. or 123:30 p.m. Owensboro Public School provides transportation for the east side of Frederica Street for the morning class and the west side of Frederica Street for the afternoon program. If parents choose to provide transportation, child can attend either class.

Peace Lutheran Preschool

2200 Carter Road | 270-685-2211 Registration: Open now! Age: 3 – 5 years old Classes & Cost: • 3-year-old class held Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday from 8 – 10:45 a.m. for $105 per month. • 4-year-old class held Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday from 8 – 11 a.m. for $105 per month or Monday/ Tuesday/ Wednesday/Thursday from 8 – 11 a.m. for $120 per month. • Must be 3 or 4 by August 1 and must be potty trained. Faith-Based Program? Yes, non-denominational.

Play Smart Preschool

Simply Therapy 3117 Alvey Park Drive W | 270-683-9992 Registration: Call for information. Age: Ages 3-5 Classes & Cost: Monday/Wednesday/Friday 8-11:30 a.m. $350 per month Tuesday/Thursday 8-11:30 a.m. $275 per month

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Early drop off 7:30 am at no additional charge. Faith-based Program? No.

Presbyterian Weekday School (formerly Children’s Day Out)

First Presbyterian Church 1328 Griffith Ave | 270-684-1467 Registration: Year round Age: 6 months-PreK Classes & Cost: We are open on Tuesdays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays from 10:30-1:30. $50 registration fee. Tuition for 1 day week is $65 month; 2 days week, $105 month; 3 days week, $140 month. Faith Based: Yes.

Settle Memorial Preschool

201 E. 4th Street | 270-684-7005 Registration: Open now! Age: 3 – 5 years old Classes & Cost: • Young 3-year-old class held Monday/Wednesday or Tuesday/Thursday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $110 per month. Must be 3 by December 1, 2018. • Older 3-year-old class held Monday/Wednesday/Friday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $130 per month or Tuesday/ Thursday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $110 per month. Must be 3 by April 1, 2018. • Young 4-year-old class held Monday/Wednesday/Friday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $130 per month or Tuesday/ Thursday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $110 per month. Must be 4 by September 1, 2018. • Pre-Kindergarten (older 4-year-old to young 5-year-old) class held Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $130 per month or Monday through Thursday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $150 per month or Monday through Friday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $165 per month. • After School program available from 11:30 a.m. until 5:30 p.m. for children enrolled in preschool and are 3 years old by April 1. 2 days per week is $120 per month; 3 days per week is $180 per month; 4 days per week is $240 per month; 5 days per week is $300 per month. OP

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watchdolearn extending PBS Kids programming to promote learning

{ by: katie albers }

If losing access to children’s programming is keeping you from cutting the cable or satellite cords, go ahead and lay that excuse aside. PBS Kids is free and offers amazing educational and entertaining programming for children of all ages. Every parent knows how productive you can be when your child is occupied with television for 30 minutes, but with all the reports of how screen time can be detrimental to a child’s development, that 30 minutes can bring with it some guilt. Tune into PBS kids and use the extension activities below to turn TV time into learning time.

Super Why Target audience: Ages 2 – 6 years Target Learning: Reading skills

Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood Target audience: Ages 2 – 5 years // Target Learning: Social skills Based on characters from the classic “Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood,” “Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood” is a charming cartoon cleverly teaching social skills through every day kid situations. It offers some great parenting tips too through the modeling provided by Daniel Tiger’s parents. Each episode features a short, catchy song to reinforce the topic of the story. More than once I’ve caught my husband singing, “Grown-ups come back” to our twoyear-old to reassure her when leaving her with a sitter. And “If you need to go potty, stop and go right away. Flush and wash and be on your way!” is coming in handy right now. EXTENSION: Learn the songs! You can download an app called “Daniel Tiger for Parents” that organizes all the songs according to common little kid situations. There are songs for bedtime, sharing, going to the doctor, bringing home a new sibling, self-control. And as silly as you might feel at first, kids really do respond to these positive tunes.

In “Super Why,” a cast of friendly characters solves a problem by using the powers of spelling, vocabulary, and reading. In the end, they always rewrite the story to solve the problem. “Super Why” brings together common little kid problems, traditional fairytales and nursery rhymes, and critical thinking skills through catchy songs and positive personalities. EXTENSION: Learning to change a story is an important skill for kids to learn. It promotes creativity, flexibility, and real-world problem solving. After reading with your kids, go back through the story and encourage them to change some aspect of the tale to get a new ending or solve the main conflict in a different way. Help them to get started with a simple, “What if…” question. If your child likes to read the same book every night, this little exercise might spice up the repetition a little bit. 66 OWENSBORO PARENT

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Pinkalicious and Peterrific Target Audience: Ages 2 – 7 // Target Learning: Creative Arts After years of enjoying the adventures in book form, “Pinkalicious and Peterrific” is now a cartoon on PBS! In this brand-new series, “Pinkalicious and Peterrifc” use dance, theater, and drawing to create a world beyond the impossible. And they promote the idea that art can bring joy to everyone everywhere. But my favorite part of this show is seeing a sister and a brother who get along so well. EXTENSION: Kids have lots of opportunities to make art at school, at church, at special events, but we don’t always take time to appreciate it or display this abundance. Be inspired by “Pinkalicious and Peterrific” to finally hang up the kid arts that is being stuffed into drawers or quietly tossed. Have your kids sign it and date it then hang it up perhaps somewhere unexpected like the ceiling over a bed or on the inner walls of a toy cubby cabinet. You might consider hanging just a piece of the art. A toddler’s scribbles could be a precious memento if you trace the artist’s hand and cut it out of the same paper. You might also share your child’s art by mailing pieces to friends and relatives. There are lots of ways to spread the joy that art brings.

Wild Kratts Target Audience: Ages 4 - 10 Target Learning: Animals and Ecology The Kratt brothers host this science cartoon that teaches kids about animals by featuring animal “super powers” in the brothers’ “creature power suits.” They use the powers of the animal to solve some sort of tricky situation. This show is great for animal lovers and those who enjoy superhero action! EXTENSION: Take a trip to the library and help your kids research their own favorite animal, identifying a few super powers like a gecko’s sticky feet or a crocodile’s clear eyelids or a cheetah’s speed. Then they can use items found around the house to build their own creature power suit.

Odd Squad Target Audience: Ages 5 - 12 // Target Learning: Math “Odd Squad” is a live action show about a kid-run government agency charged with solving “odd” problems. Full of clever humor and quirky characters, even adults will find this show entertaining. EXTENSION: “Odd Squad” is based on solving totally off the wall problems like toasters that turn off the lights or sub sandwiches that make you float or unlucky nickels that ruin people’s days. And often, the Odd Squad Agents have some sort of gadget to save the day like the “snowballinator” that makes snowballs from the air. Challenge your kids to come up with an odd situation and a gadget to solve it. They could write about it, draw it, or get out the craft supplies and make things odd around your house! www.OwensboroParent.com

Limiting screen time is still best for children, but when you do choose to watch TV, you can trust PBS Kids to promote kindness, silliness, and school readiness without the commercials, potty humor, and sarcasm of kids’ programming on other stations. Get creative with your kids to bring what they see and learn on TV to life and make amazing memories. OP

Katie Albers grew up in Owensboro and loved words so much that she became a school librarian and even alphabetized her family: Josh, Katie, Lance, Mallory, Noelle, Oaken, and Polly (the cat).

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here are few things more frustrating than an itchy rash. Eczema is an intensely itchy rash

that affects about one in 10 children. It is one of the most common skin conditions of childhood and typically starts prior to age 5. Thankfully, it is not a contagious rash, but it is hereditary so it often affects multiple family members.

Eczema has become known as “the itch that

rashes.” This is because the rash of eczema tends to worsen with scratching. As the condition progresses, patients will notice dry skin, inflammation (redness), and excoriations (scratch marks); however, these symptoms wax and wane over time. It is considered an allergic disorder and is sometimes found in conjunction with other allergic conditions like asthma or nasal allergies. In some patients, flare ups of eczema may occur with certain food exposures.

The location of eczema varies with age. In

infants, it is most often found on the face and scalp, but can also be on the torso, arms, and legs. In young children, eczema tends to be located in the folds of the knees and elbows. By adolescence, the hands and feet are most affected.

Now that we have some background on eczema,

let’s talk about how to treat it. As with many medical conditions, prevention is the first step so good skin care provides the foundation of eczema treatment. Fragrance-free and dye-free soaps are recommended for bathing. After a bath or shower, the patient should pat their skin dry, leaving it slightly damp. Over-drying can dehydrate the skin. A moisturizer with a high lipid content should be used immediately after bathing and re-applied as needed. An effective moisturizer should feel greasy when applied to the skin. Petroleum jelly is 100% lipid and is my

Eczema:

preference for its high lipid content and affordable price.

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MD, FAAP

}

Patients should avoid scratching their skin

since it can worsen the rash and also lead to infection. Parents should keep their child’s nails short and clean. Avoiding scratchy fabrics is also

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recommended. Clothing made from soft cotton is a good

not contain steroids and, therefore, do not cause skin

choice.

thinning. However, these medicines are not considered

Medications for eczema are utilized to achieve two

first line treatment. In addition, since they are a newer

goals: 1) decrease itching and 2) decrease inflammation.

group of medicines, there is less known about long term

Topical steroid creams or ointments achieve both of these

use.

objectives. Mild steroid creams or ointments are available

over the counter, but more potent ones are only available

eczema to recognize the signs of a skin infection. Yellow

with a prescription. It is important to remember that

crusting, drainage, or pus bumps are potential indicators

medicated creams and ointments are pharmaceuticals,

of a secondary skin infection. Call your doctor if you are

not lotions, and should only be used as directed. They

concerned about an infection.

are considered safe, but can have side effects such as

skin thinning or irritation. Topical medicines should be

many simple steps to take to get it under control. Maintain

applied prior to moisturizers.

skin hydration with moisturizers, stop the itch-scratch

Oral antihistamines help control the nagging itch

cycle with antihistamines, and manage inflammation

associated with eczema. In many patients, the itching

with medicated creams or ointments. Talk to your doctor

is severe and can lead to decreased sleep, infection, and

about whether a referral to an allergy or dermatology

worsening of the eczema itself.

specialist is appropriate for your child.

It is important for parents of children affected by

Although eczema is a chronic skin issue, there are

A third group of medicines used to treat eczema

are called topical immunomodulators, which decrease inflammation by altering the immune system. They do

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Dr. Shanna McGinnis board-certified pediatrician with Owensboro Health Pediatrics. She is also the mother of 3 children.

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the kids eat free list

Every Day O’Charley’s - Free kids meal for kids 10 and under with the purchase of adult entrée

Monday Catfish Willy’s - $1.99 kids meal with the purchase of adult meal Grandy’s - 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of regular adult meal TGI Fridays – Free kids meal with the purchase of adult entrée for kids 12 years and younger Moonlite Bar-B-Q Inn - Kids 10 and under eat free on Monday night at Moonlite from 4-9 pm (limit 2 free kids buffets per adult buffet purchase) Zaxby’s – Kids meals are 99¢ (up to 3 kids) with the purchase of adult meal from 5 – 8pm Huddle House – One free kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entree; only one free kids meal per adult entree. Culver’s – $2.99 kids meal and face

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painting and balloon artist EVERY Monday night!

Tuesday Beef ‘O’ Brady’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of adult entrée from 4 – 8pm for kids 12 years and younger Denny’s – 2 free kids meals per adult meal purchase Fazoli’s – 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of adult meal up to 3 meals with the purchase one entrée Pizza By the Guy – 1 free buffet for kids 10 and under with adult purchase with a drink on Tuesdays from 5 – 8 pm Pizza Hut – 1 free child buffet with the purchase of adult buffet from 4:30 – 7pm at the South Frederica location Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult entrée; dine in only Huddle House – One free kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entree; only one free kids meal per adult entree

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Wednesday

McDonald’s – Happy meals are $1.99 from 4 – 7pm, dine in only Firehouse Subs – Kids under 12 eat free all day with purchase of adult meal; up to 2 kids per adult Donatos – Free individual 1-topping pizza/ per child for up to 2 kids (ages 12 and under) with the purchase of a large pizza. Dine-in only on Wednesdays from 5-8 pm

Thursday Bee Bop’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of adult meal after 5 p.m. for kids 12 and younger Dairy Queen (Frederica Location) – $1.99 kids meals. Limit 2 kids per combo meal

Saturday Maloney’s – Free kids meals from 11am – 2pm Lure Seafood & Grille – Free kids meal with purchase of adult entrée Wheatgrass Juice Bar – Free kids

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smoothie with adult purchase Long John Silver’s – Kids meals are $1.99 all day.

Sunday Briarpatch – 1 free kids meal per adult entrée for kids 10 and younger Maloney’s – Free kids meals from 11am – 2pm Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult entrée; dine in only Texas Roadhouse – 1 free kids meal per adult entrée from 11am – 3pm

REPORT CARD INCENTIVES

Orange Leaf – Bring in your report card and receive $1 off yogurt; a report card with straight A’s will receive a small cup free. Ritzy’s (Both locations) – Ritzy’s has a “Scoops for Scholars” program. Students can bring in their report card each grading period to earn treats for each “A.” 1A = flavored soft drink (cherry, vanilla, or chocolate) 2 As = single scoop of ice cream 3 As = your choice of a hotdog, coney, hamburger, or cheeseburger 4 As = double scoop of ice cream McDonald’s – All five Owensboro McDonald’s decided this school year that they will award a free Happy Meal to any student who gets straight As on their report card.

Pizza By the Guy – 1 free buffet for kids 10 and under with adult purchase with a drink on Sundays from 11:30am – 2pm

Family Video (1212 JR Miller) – For a limited time during the summer, you can take your end of the year report card to Family Video. Your child will receive a voucher for a free movie/game rental for every A (or equivalent) they received in a core class for the year.

Firehouse Subs – Kids under 12 eat free all day with purchase of adult meal; up to 2 kids per adult

Chuck E. Cheese in Evansville – A child can receive 10 tokens with a purchase if they bring in their report card.

*The Kids Eat Free list is subject to change. Please contact restaurants to ensure their participation.

Sky Zone in Evansville – All A’s= 1/2 off any jump. A & B’s= $5 off any jump. Weekdays & Friday 2-7pm.

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march // april Informing parents about fun, local events is a priority for Owensboro Parent. Our magazine compiles events from across the city and county. So when your family is looking for something to do, check out the Owensboro Parent calendar, where you will find information on local events, including event descriptions, locations, dates, times and price. Want to include your event? Contact the editor at ashley@tannerpublishing.com.

THURSDAY, MARCH 1

SATURDAY, MARCH 3

MONDAY, MARCH 5

FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME

PRESERVATION STATION Preservation Station Market Days are held the first full weekend of every month. Sat. 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. and Sunday noon to 5 p.m. with over 100 vendors of antique, vintage, handcrafted, and boutique items, live music, and food. Preservation Station Market and Event Center, 9661 Hwy 56. Also open daily Tues-Sat 10 a.m. -5 p.m. and Sunday Noon – 5 p.m. Call 270993-7532, go to visitpreservationstation. com, or find us on Facebook.

FAMILY NIGHT AT ELITE AIR A family of 5 can jump for 2 hours for $25 (socks not included) and $12 for each additional jumper; 4-9 p.m.; Elite Air, 606 Salem Drive; 270-478-4770.

DCPL’s youngest guests (ages 0-2) and their caregivers are invited to join in stories, songs and movement to help them prepare for a life of learning. Stay to play and socialize with a craft or other activity; 9:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME

Young learners (ages 3-5) and their caregivers are invited to join us for stories, songs, and movement to help them prepare for school. Stay to play and socialize with a craft or other activity; 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org TODDLER TIME at Elite Air For jumpers 7 and under, $10 for the family for 2 hours (socks not included); 9 a.m. – 1 p.m.; Elite Air, 606 Salem Drive; 270-478-4770.

FRIDAY, MARCH 2

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR For jumpers 7 and under, $10 for the family for 2 hours (socks not included); 8 – 10 a.m.; Elite Air, 606 Salem Drive; 270-478-4770. FREE 1ST WEEKEND WONDERS VOLUNTEER

SESSION Join WKBG as they prep, plant and prune The Garden; 9 a.m. – noon; Western Kentucky Botanical Garden, 25 Carter Rd.

HOMESCHOOL HOP AT ELITE AIR For $15 per family, for 2 hours (socks not included); 2-4 p.m.; Elite Air, 606 Salem Drive; 270-478-4770.

FIRST SATURDAY AT WKBG “THE GIVING TREE” Fun related activities for ages 5-11; 10 a.m. – 12p.m.; Western Kentucky Botanical Garden, 25 Carter Rd.

MONSTER IN THE CLOSET A cast of young players performs this imaginative story of fantasy and growing up in this production by Theatre Workshop of Owensboro (TWO). The show opens Friday, March 2 at 7 p.m., and runs through Sunday, March 4 at 2 p.m.; Saturday, March 3 will have two performances: 2 and 7 p.m.; Presented at Trinity Centre, 407 W. Fifth St.

MONSTER IN THE CLOSET BY TWO See Friday, May 2 for details.

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SUNDAY, MARCH 4 PRESERVATION STATION See Saturday, March 3 for details. MONSTER IN THE CLOSET BY TWO See Friday, May 2 for details.

FREE REBEL GIRLS is

a program at Daviess County Public Library that encourages girls to pursue their dreams by learning about unique career paths for women from the book “Good Night Stories for Rebel Girls.” Come with ideas and readiness to participate in an activity each week. For ages 6-12; 6 – 7 p.m.

FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL

See

Thursday, March 1 for details.

TUESDAY, MARCH 6 FREE TINY DANCERS Put

on your dancing shoes and join Daviess County Public Library for an exciting dance party with songs, movement, rhymes, and just plain fun. Parents and caregivers are invited to join in and show off their dance moves. Ages 5 and younger; 10 – 11 a.m.

FREE WRITE ON! Daviess County Public Library’s creative writing club for teens in grades 6-12. Come practice your writing skills, have fun, and meet fellow writers! Everyone is welcome to share their work at meetings, but sharing your work is NOT required; 4 – 5 p.m.

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calendar FREE “A WRINKLE IN TIME” BOOK

DISCUSSION Pick up a copy of “A Wrinkle in Time” at the 2nd floor desk and join DCPL for a discussion before the movie’s release. (Registration on EventBrite is required; recommended for ages 8-12.) 5:30 – 6:30 p.m.

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 7 DATE NIGHT AT ELITE AIR Kids can jump while parents treat themselves to dinner; 2 hours for $25 for up to 4 kids (socks not included) and $12 for each additional jumper; 4-9 p.m.; Elite Air, 606 Salem Drive; 270-478-4770.

THURSDAY, MARCH 8 FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Thursday, March 1 for details. JERSEY BOYS The 2006 Tony Award® winning Best Musical about Rock and Roll Hall of Famers The Four Seasons: Frankie Valli, Bob Gaudio, Tommy DeVito and Nick Massi. This is the story of how four blue-collar kids became one of the greatest successes in pop music history, writing their own songs and creating their own sounds, and who sold over 175 million records before the age of 30! Tickets are now on sale online or by calling the RiverPark Center Box Office 270-687-2770.

FRIDAY, MARCH 9 FREE FAMILY STORYTIME Children of all ages and their caregivers are invited to join us for stories, songs, and other activities designed to keep families reading together; 11 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org

HOMESCHOOL HOP AT ELITE AIR See Friday, March 2 for details.

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SATURDAY, MARCH 10 SATURDAY LESSONS AT THE BLUEGRASS MUSEUM Lessons are open to all ages and all skill levels. Instruments are provided if needed; times vary based on class level. Classes run through June 30, where students get to perform on stage at ROMP; International Bluegrass Museum, 117 Daviess St.; 270-926-7891. OWENSBORO’S GOT TALENT One of Theatre Workshop of Owensboro’s most popular events, Owensboro’s Got Talent, returns for the first round Saturday, March 10. Performances follow every Saturday at 7 p.m. until the grand finale on March 31. Cash prizes will be awarded for first, second and third place! Contestants may register for the competition by logging onto theatreworkshop.org/talent. All types of acts are encouraged to participate. All performances will be at The Empress Theater, 418 Frederica. For further info and tickets call 270-683-5333. T.W.O. looks forward to another exciting show, with some fabulous local performers! Toddler Time at Elite Air See Saturday, March 3 for details.

MONDAY, MARCH 12 FAMILY NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Monday, March 5 for details. FREE ST. PATRICK’S DAY DROP-IN CRAFT

at DCPL Drop in to make a fun craft to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day (as supplies last); through Sunday, March 18.

Recommended for ages 5 and younger; 10 – 11 a.m.

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 14 FREE FAMILY STORYTIME Children

of all ages and their caregivers are invited to join us for stories, songs, and other activities designed to keep families reading together; 5:30 p.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org

FREE CRAFTEENS This month at Daviess County Public Library: make an emoji pillow! Open to grades 6-12; 4 – 5 p.m.

KENTUCKY THOROUGHBREDS VS. OHIO CARDINALS at Owensboro Sportscenter; 11 a.m. – 2 p.m. DATE NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Wednesday, March 7 for details.

THURSDAY, MARCH 15 FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FRIDAY, MARCH 16

TUESDAY, MARCH 13

PARTY AT THE CASTLE Come dressed for a Beauty and the Beast party featuring dancing, dinner, photo booth and games. Get your photo taken with props or with Beauty and the Beast characters, play in the obstacle course or join in on all the contests. For ages 2 to adults; 5:30-8:30 p.m.; RiverPark Center Lobby; For more information call 270-684-9580 or email odt1982@gmail.com

FREE LITTLE LEONARDOS Dress for a mess and join Daviess County Public Library as we create a fun art project.

HOMESCHOOL HOP AT ELITE AIR See Friday, March 2 for details.

FREE REBEL GIRLS

See Monday, March 5

for details. FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

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FRIDAY, MARCH 23

SATURDAY, MARCH 17 ST. PATRICK’S DAY v

IN CONCERT WITH ODT Owensboro Dance Theatre presents In Concert featuring Beauty and the Beast...Brought to Life, 7 p.m., RiverPark Center; For information contact odt1982@gmail.com; Tickets are on sale now online or by calling the RiverPark Center Box Office at 270-687-2770. TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Saturday, March 3 for details.

SUNDAY, MARCH 25

HOMESCHOOL HOP AT ELITE AIR See Friday, March 2 for details.

KENTUCKY THOROUGHBREDS VS. VANCOUVER KNIGHTS at Owensboro Sportscenter from 2 – 5 p.m.

SATURDAY, MARCH 24

MONDAY, MARCH 26

FREE FAMILY STORYTIME

Children of all ages and their caregivers are invited to join us for stories, songs, and other activities designed to keep families reading together; 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org

FREE EASTER EGG-STRAVAGANZA

OWENSBORO’S GOT TALENT See Saturday, March 10 for details.

MONDAY, MARCH 19 FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL

See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE REBEL GIRLS

See Monday, March 5 for

details. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL

See

Thursday, March 1 for details. FAMILY NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Monday, March 5 for details.

TUESDAY, MARCH 2O FREE EARLY EXPLORERS

Join Daviess County Public Library as we read stories and learn about people, cultures, and art from around the world. Recommended for ages 0-5; 10 – 11 a.m.

FREE ANIME CLUB

Do you love anime and manga? Join Daviess County Public Library and fellow fans each month to watch awesome anime, eat snacks, and make cool anime-themed crafts. Open to teens in grades 6-12; 6 – 7 p.m.

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 21 DATE NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Wednesday, March 7 for details.

THURSDAY, MARCH 22 FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

Hop your way into spring at our Easter Eggstravaganza at Trunnell’s Hwy 54 Market! Visit with the Easter Bunny - Every child will receive a prize egg from the Easter Bunny, Have your face painted, and meet with our baby bunnies, ducks and pigs! Parents can shop for their Easter gifts and receive 25% OFF all Easter gifts! The Easter Bunny will be on hand the entire day for photo opportunities (bring your camera!) 11 a.m. – 3 p.m. EGG-CEPTIONAL EASTER EGG HUNT & BUNNY FUN Head out to Trunnell’s Utica Farm Market and join the Easter Bunny, as he gets things hopping around the Farm. This event will feature non-stop egg hunts with prize packs for the kids, meet and greet with the Easter Bunny and his many friends, great photo opportunities, Storytime with the Easter Bunny, meet and feed the baby animals in the animal barnyard, jumping pillow, face painting, and 20+ Family Fun Acre Activities! Don’t forget to bring your Easter basket!; $8/child, children 12 months and under are free; 11 a.m. – 4 p.m. GIRL’S DAY OUT Enjoy a fun-filled day of fashion, free gifts, fabulous products, and some of the greatest vendors around! In addition to the shopping, we will have a DJ providing music all day with door prizes given away all day; 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. at Owensboro Convention Center.

FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

KENTUCKY THOROUGHBREDS VS. VANCOUVER KNIGHTS at Owensboro Sportscenter from 7 – 10 p.m.

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Thursday, March 1 for details.

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Saturday, March 3 for details.

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SATURDAY LESSONS AT THE BLUEGRASS MUSEUM See Saturday, March 10 for details.

PIGTAILS & COWLICKS SPRING 2018 CHILDREN’S CONSIGNMENT SALE offers area families the chance to shop from 350 families selling new or gently used items ALL for kids – from babies to teens! We will have over 35,000 items of clothing, toys, furniture, books, baby gear, shoes, and more. No Admission Fee to Shop! Open to the public! 8 a.m. – 6 p.m. on Firday; 8 a.m. – 1 p.m. on Saturday; Owensboro Convention Center.

OWENSBORO’S GOT TALENT See Saturday, March 10 for details. PIGTAILS & COWLICKS SPRING 2018 CHILDREN’S CONSIGNMENT SALE See Friday, March 23 for details.

FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE REBEL GIRLS

See Monday, March 5 for

details. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FAMILY NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Monday, March 5 for details. FREE MINI THINKERS Join

Daviess County Public Library for hands on STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Math) activities for preschoolers; 10 – 11 a.m.

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 28 DATE NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Wednesday, March 7 for details. FREE SPHERO ROBOT MAZE Challenge

Design your own maze and code your robot to find a way out! Come play with our newBB-8 robot at Daviess County Public Library! 6 – 7 p.m.

THURSDAY, MARCH 29 FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL

See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FRIDAY, MARCH 30 KENTUCKY THOROUGHBREDS VS. NEVADA DESERT DOGS at Owensboro Sportscenter from 7 – 10 p.m. HOMESCHOOL HOP AT ELITE AIR See Friday, March 2 for details.

SATURDAY, MARCH 31 EGG-CEPTIONAL EASTER EGG HUNT & Bunny Fun See Saturday march 24 for details.

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KENTUCKY THOROUGHBREDS VS. NEVADA DESERT DOGS at Owensboro Sportscenter from 4 - 7 p.m. TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Saturday, March 3 for details. OWENSBORO’S GOT TALENT See Saturday, March 10 for details.

SUNDAY, APRIL 1 EASTER v

MONDAY, APRIL 2

SPRING BREAK BEGINS FOR ALL SCHOOL DISTRICTS See page 60 for a fun list of things to do if you are staying in Owensboro! FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT

DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FAMILY NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Monday, March 5 for details.

– noon; Western Kentucky Botanical Garden, 25 Carter Rd.

TUESDAY, APRIL 3

FIRST SATURDAY AT WKBG “APRIL SHOWERS BRING MAY POWER” Fun related activities for ages 5-11; 10 a.m. – 12 p.m.; Western Kentucky Botanical Garden, 25 Carter Rd.

FREE TINY DANCERS See

Tuesday, March

6 for details.

WEDNESDAY, APRIL 4

DATE NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Wednesday, March 7 for details.

THURSDAY, APRIL 5

FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT

DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE LEGO FREE

Play Visit the library to build whatever your mind can dream up with the library’s large LEGO collection; 2 – 4 p.m.

FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL

See Thursday, March 1 for details. TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FRIDAY, APRIL 6

HOMESCHOOL HOP AT ELITE AIR See Friday, March 2 for details.

SATURDAY, APRIL 7

FREE 1ST WEEKEND WONDERS FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL

See Thursday, March 1 for details.

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VOLUNTEER SESSION Join WKBG as they prep, plant and prune The Garden; 9am

SATURDAY LESSONS AT THE BLUEGRASS MUSEUM See Saturday, March 10 for details. PRESERVATION STATION See Saturday, March 3 for details. TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Saturday, March 3 for details.

SUNDAY, APRIL 8 PRESERVATION STATION See Saturday, March 3 for details.

MONDAY, APRIL 9 FREE FAMILY STORYTIME Children

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See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FAMILY NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Monday, March 5 for details.

TUESDAY, APRIL 10

LITTLE LEONARDOS See Tuesday, March 13 for details.

THURSDAY, APRIL 19

WEDNESDAY, APRIL 11

DATE NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Wednesday, March 7 for details. FREE LITTLE SPROUTS AT WKBG Join Daviess County Public Library in the Educational Classroom Building of the Western Kentucky Botanical Garden for nature-themed stories, songs, and crafts, designed for preschool-aged children; 10 – 11 a.m.

THURSDAY, APRIL 12

FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL

See Thursday, March 1 for details. See

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FRIDAY, APRIL 13

HOMESCHOOL HOP AT ELITE AIR See Friday, March 2 for details.

SATURDAY, APRIL 14

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Saturday, March 3 for details. SUPER HERO SATURDAY AT EDGE ICE CENTER Kids will receive a super hero certificate and be sworn in as a super hero skater! $6/person; 2-4 p.m.

MONDAY, APRIL 16

FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL

See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE MINI MYSTERIES Do you like a good mystery? Join DCPL to search for clues and play detective as we solve a uniquely crafted mystery for ages 8-12. 4 – 5 p.m. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

THURSDAY, APRIL 26

TUESDAY, APRIL 17

FREE EARLY EXPLORERS See

FRIDAY, APRIL 20

FREE FAMILY STORYTIME Children of all ages and their caregivers are invited to join us for stories, songs, and other activities designed to keep families reading together; 11 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org

KENTUCKY THOROUGHBREDS VS. OHIO CARDINALS at Owensboro Sportscenter; 7 – 10 p.m. HOMESCHOOL HOP AT ELITE AIR See Friday, March 2 for details. TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Saturday, March 3 for details. EARTH DAY CELEBRATION & KIDS GARDENING CLASS Bring your child to Trunnell’s Utica Market this Earth Day to experience planting your own garden, Your Child will choose twelve different vegetable seeds to plant and take home to start your their own garden oasis. Children can decide from a variety of vegetable seeds for their garden planting experience and learn the importance of knowing where their food comes from this Earth Day! Spend the rest of the day enjoying the Earth with FREE ADMISSION to the Family Fun Acre with over 20+ Activities! Cost for Event $5 per child; 11 a.m. – 3 p.m.

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FRIDAY, APRIL 27 KENTUCKY THOROUGHBREDS VS. KANSAS CITY TORNADOS at Owensboro Sportscenter; 7 – 10 p.m. HOMESCHOOL HOP AT ELITE AIR See Friday, March 2 for details.

SATURDAY, APRIL 28 of all ages and their caregivers are invited to join us for stories, songs, and other activities designed to keep families reading together; 10:30 a.m.; Daviess County Public Library, 2020 Frederica St.; dcplibrary.org

KENTUCKY THOROUGHBREDS VS. OHIO CARDINALS at Owensboro Sportscenter; 4 - 7 p.m.

KENTUCKY THOROUGHBREDS VS. KANSAS CITY TORNADOS at Owensboro Sportscenter; 4 - 7 p.m.

MONDAY, APRIL 23

FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL

FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

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ARBOR DAY CELEBRATION AT TRUNNELL’S 54 MARKET Arbor Day Celebration is a holiday dedicated to celebrating and caring for trees. Bring your child out for a day of learning about trees. Each child will plant their own tree to take home to plant in their yard to watch grow for years to come! Snoopy will be present the entire day to help each child plant their tree, take pictures (bring your camera), and for enjoy a picnic lunch. After the tree learning and planting experience there will be a kid’s picnic on the patio serving mini sandwiches, fruit and a slushie; Cost per child only $5, includes picnic lunch; 11 a.m. – 2 p.m.

FAMILY NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Monday, March 5 for details.

DATE NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Wednesday, March 7 for details.

FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FREE FAMILY STORYTIME Children

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Tuesday,

LITTLE SPROUTS AT WKBG See Wednesday, April 11 for details.

Thursday, March 1 for details.

See Thursday, March 1 for details. FAMILY NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Monday, March 5 for details.

DATE NIGHT AT ELITE AIR See Wednesday, March 7 for details. FREE

SATURDAY, APRIL 21

Thursday, March 1 for details.

WEDNESDAY, APRIL 25

FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Thursday, March 1 for details.

FREE

FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL

LITTLE SPROUTS AT WKBG See Wednesday, April 11 for details.

FREE

FREE MINI THINKERS See

27 for details.

Tuesday, March

TODDLER TIME AT ELITE AIR See Saturday, March 3 for details.

MONDAY, APRIL 30 FREE BABY/TODDLER STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details. FREE PRESCHOOL STORYTIME AT DCPL See Thursday, March 1 for details.

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