Problems between couple and how to solve

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PROBLEMS BETWEEN COUPLE AND HOW TO SOLVE When two people decide to come together, they make a silent promise of accepting each other with all their flaws and all their goodness. Everything is like a mills and boons novel where you see the world through rose coloured glasses. All this and so much for what we call “love”. The honey moon period of a couple lasts for usually for the first few months or maybe years. But what when this cloud of new found love slowly starts vanishing? What when these two people, who claimed to be madly in love with each other, start noticing that they may not be comfortable with certain things about their partner anymore? If this keeps happening or if the problems grow worse, the couple will definitely be in need for couple therapy. Of course there is no relationship that is simple. Each relationship has its own set of problems and its own set of issues which the two people have to solve between their own. Things aren’t always going to be easy with the couple, but things need to be easy between the couple. Communicating with each other needs to be easy. Not just that, it should be comfortable to even be in each other’s physical space. But if the relationship fails to withstand the storm of time, a counselling psychologist may be consulted. A counsellor for the relationship will help the two people see a little clearly and understand each other’s point of view in an orderly manner. He or she will also provide them with some exercises that will help build trust in each other once again. Like every human is different, so is every relationship. Each relationship has its own set of problems which are unique to them. When we talk about a couple that are also parents to a kid, their responsibility towards their relationship also increases. A child grows up looking up to his or her parents and learns from what they do. It was found that children who have seen a disturbed relationship of their parents tend to have a terrible childhood, emotionally especially. They start considering themselves as the reason for problems between their parents. These kids grow up to have problems in their love life also. They may start viewing commitment as a threat to their mental peace. No doubt, each problem takes its own time to get solved. But sometimes these problems might also get out of hands. If something like this happens, we usually seek help from friends or family. But when situation gets out of hands, getting professional help becomes important. So, as a parent or a guardian, it is their responsibility to look out for any odd symptoms of depression or anxiety in their child. If so, it is of utmost importance to http://www.tanuchoksi.in/


go for a child therapy. A child therapist will help the child tap his or her emotions can stay in touch with them. It is important to be with your child in such difficult times and not make it harder for him by fighting.

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