Holding space - an I story

LET ME SET THE SCENE.

YOU’VE SWIPED RIGHT, MADE CONTACT AND ARE TRAVELLING TOWARDS A SIZZLING FUN TIME.

AT WHAT STAGE DO YOU LOOK THEM IN THE EYE AND HAVE THAT CHAT. WHAT DO YOU SAY. HOW DO YOU FRAME IT SO THEY DON’T RUN OFF SCREAMING TO THE NETHERS OR SCARILY LOOK AT YOU LIKE YOU’RE SOME SORT OF FETISH TO BE EXPLORED. I’M TALKING ABOUT INTERSEX VARIATIONS. HOW DO YOU COMMUNICATE IN A POSITIVE MANNER YOUR INTIMATE WORKINGS AS A PERSON.